One Minute Monologues 037

12/04/2016 – 01/28/2017

  1. 12/04/2016 — Mindfulness is integrity.
    Integrity is impact.
    When we live mindfully,
    we integrate action with awareness–
    the foundation of transcendence and transformation.
    No superhero can do more.
    We think impact is being smart, crafty, slick and sly–
    playing our cards right,
    and shinning brightly for all to see
    Impact is seeing what needs to be done
    down to the smallest details
    and doing it with the gifts that are ours to offer
    in each situation as it arises,
    day in and day out,
    through all the times and places,
    conditions and circumstances,
    of our life.
    Impact is cumulative,
    not episodic.
    It builds up over time.
    It is karmic,
    gathering around us,
    characteristic of us,
    as the overriding quality
    of our body of work,
    of who we are,
    of who we show ourselves to be,
    in rising to the occasion
    on every occasion,
    and offering there what is needed
    for the good of the whole.
  2. 12/04/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 17 Panorama—Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016
    Gratitude requires us to live in ways
    that deepen and expand the possibility
    and capacity of everyone to be grateful.
    It requires us to live in the service
    of giving people reasons to be grateful.
    Don’t think you’ve done anything
    when you tell someone to be grateful!
    Live to make others grateful
    to have you in their life!
    Live to be a reason for gratitude
    in the lives of others!
    Don’t tell people to be thankful!
    Live with them in ways that leave them no choice in the matter!
    That’s passing it on.
  3. 12/05/2016 — Goodale 2016 12/13 Panorama—Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    We live against a backdrop
    of uncertainty, insecurity, instability,
    and have to make our peace with it,
    trusting ourselves to rise to the occasion
    and make the fitting response
    no matter what manifestation of the Cyclops
    stands in our path.
    We have to be secure in ourselves,
    grounded on the truth of our identity,
    who we are, what our business is,
    and what qualities have highest value for us
    that we live to exhibit
    in every circumstance of life.
    Centered on that foundation,
    we have what it takes to face what faces us,
    and to find what we need to do what is needed
    in each situation as it arises.
    This is called being unshakeable in ourselves.
    It is the key to life upon the heaving waves
    of the wine-dark sea:
    ”And when the sea has shaken my raft to pieces,
    then I will swim!”
  4. 12/05/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 11 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    Without us, there are no sacred places.
    Human beings set places apart
    as being sacred and special to human beings.
    Birds poop all over them.
    As do elephants and grizzly bears.
    Toilets are everywhere to birds, elephants and grizzlies.
    Only a human being
    would think of never desecrating a place
    she, or he, had designated as a place holy unto her, unto him.
    We walk through the world setting places apart,
    yet, there are no unholy places for eyes that see.
    Eyes that see into the heart of things,
    sees holiness everywhere.
    But holiness is, like beauty, in the eyes of the beholder.
    And if we don’t see holiness, or beauty, anywhere,
    that, too, is an aspect of the seer, not the seen.
    We project onto the world
    what we are capable of perceiving about the world.
    The world reflects our projection back to us,
    and shows us our soul.
    When we look,
    we see the holiness, and the beauty, of our own soul,
    calling us to sit for a while
    and absorb the wonder of being alive
    in the time and place of our living.
    Or not.
  5. 12/06/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 12 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    We think it is about having our way
    and getting what we want.
    It is about coming to terms
    with what we have
    and living within the context and circumstances
    of our life
    in ways that are true
    to the truth of how things are
    and who we are,
    so that the life we live
    is an authentic expression
    of the best we have to offer
    in each situation as it arises
    with no denial or pretension
    anywhere to be found,
    but with grace and compassion
    for what is happening
    and what is to be done about it
    through all of the times and places
    of our living.
  6. 12/06/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 9/10 Panorama—Union County, South Carolina, November 18, 2016
    When the center of society and culture fails to hold
    it is left to individuals to devote themselves
    to the care and maintenance of their relationship
    with their own center of heart and soul.
    We have to be clear about our identity,
    about who we are and what our business is,
    about what is the grounding foundation
    of our life–
    what we believe to be of highest value,
    what we can trust ourselves to with unshakeable conviction,
    what we live to do,
    who we live to be,
    what matters most
    and has our highest loyalty,
    our deepest devotion.
    Mindful awareness,
    compassion
    and unwavering service to heart and soul
    compose my Holy Trinity,
    are the grounding foundation of my life.
    You best be finding your way
    to your own ground and foundation.
    You’ll need it
    when that other center fails to hold.
  7. 12/07/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 01 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 11, 2016
    When Jesus says, at the beginning of the Sermon on the Mount,
    “Do not think I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets,
    I have not come to abolish, but to fulfill,”
    he is not talking about the letter of the Law or the Prophets,
    but the spirit of both.
    He spends the rest of the Sermon on the Mount
    abolishing the letter of both Law and Prophets,
    and, hence, throwing out the Bible of his day
    (which is the thing to do with all Bibles of every day),
    with his “You have heard it said, but I say unto you.”
    However, his words, and his life, clearly express his vital interest
    in the spirit at the heart of all spiritual works,
    and so, he can say, “I tell you that heaven and earth may pass away,
    but not a jot, not one iota, will pass from the Law or Prophets until all is accomplished.”
    That is to say, the spirit and heart of Law and Prophets are the foundation of life,
    and will outlast everything.
    That spirit and heart were the very ground of Jesus’ life:
    “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
    “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.”
    “Love your enemies.”
    “In as much as you have done it, or not done it, to the least of my brothers and sisters,
    you have done it, or not done it, to me.”
    And my personal favorite:
    “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right—
    and be right about it?”
    That’s the essence of spirituality in every religion—
    being what the situation needs us to be
    with the gifts that are ours to give,
    regardless of what the Law or the Prophets
    would have us do,
    is exactly, precisely, what the Law and the Prophets
    would have us do!
  8. 12/07/2016 — November Orchard 2016 04 — Springs Farm, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016
    ”Sit quietly,” said the Buddha, “Wait it out.
    And when the time for acting comes upon you,

    Or words to that effect.
    When waiting,
    we tend to forget the acting part.
    And, when acting,
    we tend to forget the waiting part.
    More importantly,
    we forget the importance
    of knowing what time it is.
    It is time to wait,
    or is it time to act?
    It’s always time for something.
    Knowing what,
    and what not,
    is crucial knowing.
  9. 12/08/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 13/14/15 Panorama—Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    What are you most afraid of?
    The Buddha was afraid of suffering,
    and went to great lengths to avoid it,
    eventually declaring himself–
    or The Self–
    to be an illusion,
    and suffering along with it:
    No Self, No Suffering,
    it’s only apparent, not real.
    That’s one way to do it.
    Alcoholics do much the same thing.
    Nothing is real as long as you’re drunk.
    All they need is a drunk that never ends.
    What is your deepest fear?
    How do you deal with it?
    I recommend recognizing our fear
    as one of the many manifestations of the Cyclops
    blocking our path
    (Others are desire/greed, duty/responsibility, hatred/jealousy/envy).
    in a “That, too. That, too.” kind of way.
    And staying on the path.
    Whatever the distraction,
    come back to the path.
    Holding everything in awareness,
    we maintain our focus
    on remaining true to ourselves
    in every condition and circumstance of life,
    living with the moment,
    in the situation of the moment,
    as only we can do it,
    for the good of the whole.
    Nothing can take away our ability
    to respond to it
    mindfully, with grace and compassion,
    courage and imagination,
    curious as to how we might deal with this
    in ways that are good for all.
    What are you afraid of?
    Find your center and foundation,
    and stay on the path.
  10. 12/08/2016 — Congaree 2016 07 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Nothing can happen to us
    that we cannot deny–
    or hold in mindful awareness.
    Of the two,
    which do you choose?
  11. 12/08/2016 — Ginkos 2016 01 Panorama—Ballantyne Commons, Charlotte, NC, December 8, 2016
    The more we believe something
    the truer it becomes for us.
    Our beliefs have a self-validating aspect
    which bears them out in our life,
    and their reality becomes plainly evident to us over time.
    This is the foundation of all superstitions.
    We begin with the belief that
    wearing the sock with the hole in the heel
    brings good fortune our way,
    and things happen to prove we are right–
    and you couldn’t buy that sock for $20.
    This is the way belief works.
    That being the case,
    we would be smart to believe things
    that will have a valuable impact for good in our life.
    For instance,
    we might believe that what we do matters–
    that how we live is the most important thing.
    We might believe that how well we treat others
    creates lasting change for good in their life.
    We might believe that there are no throw-away moments,
    that every occasion is the swing point
    for every occasion that flows from it.
    You get the idea.
    We live like our life carries weight,
    has significance,
    impacts the lives of others for good,
    transforms the world.
    If you are going to believe anything,
    believe that–
    and live as though it is so!
    BOOM!
    Like that,
    nothing is what it would have been
    if you had not believed it
    and lived it out in the world.
  12. 12/09/2016 — Ginkgos 2016 03 Panorama—Ballantyne Commons, Charlotte, NC, December 8, 2016
    How long can you tread water?
    Hold your breath?
    Maintain your perspective, attitude, balance, direction?
    Live beyond the bounds of encouragement
    and sustaining evidence of the value
    of what you are doing?
    How well can you live,
    and go on living,
    when it doesn’t matter how you live?
    Your personal best in these things
    may be put to the test.
    Everything—every good thing—about you
    may be put to the test.
    The test is the strength of our connection–
    our relationship–
    with our heart and soul–
    with the ground, center and foundation of our life.
    We all have to be nurturing that connection–
    that relationship.
    It is only a matter of time
    until we will have to live solely from
    the still point
    at the heart of each of us.
    We have to go there often,
    and know the place well.
    When every foundation
    we thought we had in place dissolves
    like sand castles before the tide,
    only the core will hold.
    We have to know what that is
    and how to find it,
    in order to live out of it
    through the long emptiness
    between the last Good Time
    and the next one.
    Those who know what it means to say
    “Mindfulness leads the way”
    will have—and become–
    a light in the darkness,
    which will make all the difference.
  13. 12/09/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 11 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    We are surrounded by resources
    in the form of people, books, videos
    and an inner wealth of savvy
    tucked away in our unconscious–
    all waiting for us to help them help us.
    We have to give the signal.
    And we have to mean it.
    Help comes to us from places
    we would never expect,
    and there is always the danger
    that we will dismiss it
    because it is not the kind of help
    we are looking for.
    “Meaning it” means being open to
    and ready for,
    the help that comes our way,
    trusting ourselves to the invisible world,
    and doing the work that is required of us
    in bringing ourselves forth
    into the life we are living.
    Yes, here!
    Yes, now!
    But,
    that can mean waiting.
    When the time for waiting is upon us,
    we wait.
    When the time for acting is upon us,
    we act.
    Sensitivity to what is it time for, here and now,
    brings us to awareness
    of the peculiar urgency of the time that is at hand.
    It a felt sense of “This, Now!”
    Responding appropriately to it
    is one way we help the invisible forces help us.
    Believing that they are real is another.
  14. 12/10/2016 — Goodale 2016 02 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Jeremy Taylor said, “Dreams do not come to flatter and support
    the world-view of the dreamer.”
    but to startle and awaken–
    to call the dreamer to see, hear, understand,
    and to move from a life of self-deception
    to a life of authenticity and integrity
    in accord with her, with his, deepest values, truth and gifts.
    Every dream is on our side in this sense,
    and diametrically opposed to our propensity
    to settle for too little,
    to sell out for the appearance of soft and easy.
    Our place is to heed well the warnings
    and to take up the work of aligning ourselves
    with ourselves
    and living the life that was prepared for us
    before we were born.
    It starts with believing this is how it is.
    It can only be seen
    by those who believe it is so.
  15. 12/10/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 50 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    The sacred and the profane
    are not polarities,
    but perspectives.
    Our perception is enlarged, deepened, expanded
    by a perspective
    that takes everything into account,
    including itself.
    Sacred and profane
    are present in every moment,
    in each situation,
    as optical options–
    the facing silhouettes or the champagne glass,
    the old hag or the young girl–
    that are held in awareness
    but seen in turn,
    in a one way or the other,
    now you see it, now you don’t,
    fashion
    by eyes that are capable of perceiving
    both/and,
    not either/or.
    The sacred and the profane
    exist together before us in all times and places.
    What we see depends on how we look.
  16. 12/10/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 65 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015
    Getting our own feet under us
    and standing on them
    can be a hard thing to do.
    We all have to find our own way,
    which, of course, is true at every point.
    The “what” is easy, or relatively so,
    the “how” is another story.
    And so, we pick ourselves up again a lot,
    and get back on the path,
    for another round of what needs to be done.
    That’s the Hero’s Journey in a nutshell.
  17. 12/11/2016 — Lake Crandal 16/17 Panorama—Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    Racism comes from our own fear and insecurity,
    our own self-doubt,
    our own frailty and fragility.
    Racists are bullies who have to push someone around–
    who can only be Someone at someone’s expense,
    who need someone to be superior over
    to compensate for their own feelings of inferiority.
    When racists look in the mirror,
    they cannot see who is looking back.
    Racists are in complete denial about their own reality,
    and cannot perceive anyone else’s reality.
    Racists live in an unreal world,
    and buoy themselves up
    with talk of how evil everyone not like them is.
    Racists call themselves
    ”white supremacists” or “the Alt-Right”
    as yet another way
    of not seeing and not saying who they are.
    They carry guns because they are afraid.
    They kill people they are afraid of.
    They are afraid.
    And they hate what they fear.
    They hate what they are afraid of.
    In order to live beyond their racism,
    they have to grow up.
    Come to terms with the truth
    of their own self-deception,
    and take their chances
    with the people they have feared and hated.
  18. 12/11/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 16 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    ”The world is too much with us, late and soon…”
    Old and young,
    we need a place safe from the reach of the world.
    Sports provides that for a lot of people.
    ”We are safe between the lines,”
    applies to football, baseball, basketball, softball, soccer, tennis, badminton…
    and helps us survive by keeping the world at bay
    while we develop the skills to engage the world
    without being swept away.
    Nature is another refuge.
    Art, literature, poetry, music and standup comedy are others.
    We have to find our retreats and sanctuaries–
    our places of recovery and renewal–
    ”late and soon,”
    old and young.
  19. 12/12/2016 — Providence Cemetery 2016 04 Panorama—Providence Presbyterian Church (est. 1767), Matthews/Charlotte, North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    What we do is what we believe.
    Our creed is our life.
    All the talk is just for show.
    We are what we do.
    If you tell me what you believe,
    I’m going to ask you
    how that is reflected in the way you live your life,
    and how it is concealed.
    ”Facts are stubborn things” (Sen. John McCain).
    Ruthlessly examine your life
    for evidence of what you believe
    and then talk about that,
    and only that.
  20. 12/12/2016 — Providence Cemetery 2016 02 Panorama—Providence Presbyterian Church (est. 1767), Matthews/Charlotte, North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    Facts are actuality, A gun is a fact,
    And an explosive vest,
    carried or worn by someone who thinks
    his, or her, ideology/theology/creed/beliefs
    is/are grounded on facts
    as factual as his/her gun or vest is factual.
    But God and Allah are not facts.
    Not one of the multitude of Buddhist realms is factual.
    The Hindu gods and goddesses are not facts,
    and cannot even spit on a fact,
    much less cause it to ignite in an exiting burst of flame.
    Facts are always being confused with fantasy–
    and fancy–
    and step forth fully clothed
    and ready to be christened Undeniable Truth
    from inference, assumption, presumption, conjecture, speculation, rumor, supposition, hearsay, surmises, theories and opinions.
    And when a real fact comes along,
    no one cares to acknowledge its existence—
    and refers to it as a Liberal Conspiracy
    (as in global warming)
    and Atheistic Balderdash
    (as in evolution).
    It is a wonder we have made it this far as a species,
    considering that we cannot agree among ourselves
    about what a fact is,
    and is not.
  21. 12/13/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 29 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 18, 2016
    Compassionate mindfulness holds everything in awareness,
    and seeing everything–
    including the all-ness of each thing–
    transforms what is seen,
    and puts us in accord with it,
    and it with us,
    so that we live reconciled to our lot in life,
    and things go smoothly with us,
    regardless of the context, circumstances and conditions of our life,
    as long as things are held in awareness.
    Seeing partially is as bad as,
    and perhaps worse than,
    not seeing at all.
    If we are going to see at all,
    we have to see impartially and completely,
    wholly, fully, entirely,
    all that is to be seen,
    and see where that goes.
  22. 12/13/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 02 Panorama—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    How will we live our life from this point on?
    What will we do with the time given to us?
    I recommend that we do more of what we like to do,
    and less of what we don’t like to do–
    to the extent that we can get away with it.
    We need to recognize the need to strike a healthy balance,
    and work pleasing our deepest self into the equation.
    Our deepest self–
    our psyche/soul–
    seems to be content with simple pleasures.
    Why withhold them?
    Why deny ourselves a moon lit walk along the beach,
    or a stroll through rain-soaked woods?
    You have your own list–
    I know you do.
    Consult it frequently.
    Add to it often.
    And work it into your life,
    into what is left of the time you have been given.
    And do everything you do
    with compassionate mindfulness
    that holds each thing in its all-ness
    in the scope of your awareness,
    and is glad for the gifts of life.
  23. 12/13/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 24 Panorama—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    At any point in our life,
    what’s done is done.
    We can regret that it wasn’t done better, but.
    However shameful, regretful and bad it was,
    here we are.
    Now what?
    The root of tomorrow’s right
    is grounded in yesterday’s wrong.
    We stand between yesterday and tomorrow,
    and commit ourselves to the
    choices, decisions and actions
    that will redeem what can be redeemed
    and do what can be done
    to make things better than they would ever be without us.
    Each day, we stand between yesterday and tomorrow
    and make the same commitment–
    to live in ways that make things better than they would ever be without us.
    To live in ways that make each day better than the last one.
    To live to make ourselves a better person–
    more mindfully aware,
    more transparent to ourselves,
    more authentic and genuine,
    more at one with our deepest, best, self–
    better at what we do and at how we do it
    than we ever have been.
    Each day we live to be better at how we do a day
    than we have ever been.
    There is nothing wrong with this
    as a plan for the rest of your life.
    But, if you can do better, have at it!
  24. 12/14/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 04 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    We can ignore a fact,
    deny a fact,
    accuse a fact of being anything but a fact,
    have nothing to do with a fact–
    or any of its children and step-children and distant cousins–
    shun it to the back rooms,
    toss it in the burning barrel,
    ridicule it,
    hate it,
    berate it,
    condemn it,
    castigate it,
    humiliate it
    and all those who recognize and serve it,
    yet, the fact is still a fact,
    standing, still in our way,
    like some ancient, hungry, Cyclops,
    grinning,
  25. Used in Short Talks on Making America Great Again—12/15/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 15 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    We cannot see anything
    until we are able to look at everything.
    Our “blinders”
    (That would be our preferences, inferences, assumptions, false conclusions, opinions, biases, prejudices, leanings, penchants, dispositions and predispositions, etc.)
    keep us from seeing all there is to see
    about the things we think we see,
    and create a perspective that forms a perception
    and sets it firmly in place
    before we even look.
    We can gauge the degree of our “blindness”
    by exploring the questions
    we won’t allow ourselves to ask
    regarding the things we “know to be so”
    and are, therefore, beyond question, doubt, examination.
    ”Hell, Jim, this ain’t the way I SEE things!
    This is the way things ARE!”
    ”It’s people like you
    that make people like me
    hate people like you!”
    What we see depends entirely
    upon how we look–
    upon the lens
    (That would be all the things listed above as “blinders”)
    through which we look.
    We cannot hope to see
    until we see what governs our looking.
    Our vision is limited
    by what we can allow ourselves to see.
  26. 12/16/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 14 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 10, 2016
    Our role is that of witness.
    We are here to see, hear, understand, know.
    This leads spontaneously
    to doing what needs to be done
    and to being who we are.
    As those who witness–
    as one who witnesses–
    we are mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of everything,
    internally and externally,
    including the all-ness of each thing.
    Anything that interferes with our focus,
    that breaks our concentration,
    that prevents us from carrying out our role
    and performing our duties as witness,
    needs to be witnessed,
    and brought into our awareness.
    Nothing can happen
    that we cannot hold in our awareness,
    that we cannot see, hear, understand, know
    and respond to in ways
    that are appropriate to the occasion
    and express who we are
    in that moment of our being.
    We learn to see by looking.
    We learn to hear by listening.
    We learn to understand by asking, seeking, knocking.
    We learn to know by reflecting on our experience.
    We learn to respond appropriately by trusting ourselves to ourselves
    and getting out of the way.
    We learn to be who we are by trusting ourselves to ourselves
    and getting out of the way.
    It’s so simple even a child can do it.
    Why don’t we do it?
  27. 12/17/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 06 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    The Dalai Lama,
    the envoy and emissary of peace, compassion and non-violence par excellence,
    is protected by bodyguards who carry automatic weapons,
    and by a country with a large standing army
    and a nuclear arsenal–
    which he pays for with a regular remittance from the Buddhist treasury–
    which he reimburses from fees collected for speaking engagements
    and appearances emphasizing peace, compassion and non-violence.
    It is all wonderfully contradictory, antithetical and irreconcilable–
    just like the foundational principal of existence itself:
    Life Eats Life!
    Life Lives By Way Of Death!
    What sense does any of this make?
    If you are waiting for things to make sense,
    you are standing in the wrong line.
    This line doesn’t lead to sense,
    with everything all harmonized and reconciled,
    orchestrated and choreographed.
    It leads to the realization of mutually exclusive,
    diametrically opposed,
    polarities at every turn.
    Neti! Neti! (Not That! Not That!)
    Iti! Iti! (It Is Here! It Is Here!)
    This line leads to the realization
    that we walk two paths at the same time.
    We reconcile, integrate, amalgamate the opposites
    by holding them together
    in conscious, mindful, compassionate, awareness.
    We transcend either/or with both/and–
    and make it work
    in light of the true good of the whole.
    This is what we do.
    It is the essence of being human.
  28. 12/17/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 10 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016. An art dealer tell me once told me, “Jim, your photos will never sell—they have too much blue in them, and rooms don’t need blue accents.” This one is for you, Alice.
    It is possible to love your life
    and live with compassionate regard
    for all living things
    regardless of your circumstances.
    It would not hurt to remember that
    from time to time
    throughout each day,
    and to remind one another of it.
  29. 12/17/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 07 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    ”Loose the bonds of wickedness!
    Let the oppressed go free!”
    The old Biblical call to action
    Is about to be back in vogue again.
    Two things are true:
    Things change.
    And nothing changes.
    ”Right forever on the scaffold–
    Wrong forever on the throne!”
    And so, it has come back around,
    the time to hear once more:
    ”Let justice roll down like waters,
    and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.”
    ”What is required but to do justice,
    love kindness,
    and walk humbly with your God?”
    In the times that are upon us
    it is imperative that we ground ourselves
    in our deepest meaning and purpose–
    in what is truest and best about us–
    that we find our life and live it
    even in these times.
    And, that we help others toward these same ends.
    We cannot let the headlines take our hope, and heart, and soul away,
    or rob of us of our destiny,
    or keep us from being mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of the moment of our living,
    and what is being asked of us there.
    We have much to do yet
    in the service of the good of the whole.
    The work is still plentiful,
    the laborers are still few.
    Things change,
    and nothing changes.
  30. 12/18/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 17 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    We owe it to ourselves to be who we are
    in each situation as it arises.
    Self-deception is the ground
    of all that is wrong in the world.
    Self-transparency is the beginning
    of the Great Awakening.
    When we stop kidding ourselves,
    fooling ourselves,
    telling ourselves what we want to hear,
    letting ourselves off the hook,
    we stop shooting ourselves in the foot
    and being our own worst enemy.
    And something new comes to life in our life.
    That would be us,
    born at last after all these years
    to finally be who we are.
  31. 12/18/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 06 Panorama—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    We embrace our dichotomies,
    live our contradictions,
    and walk two paths at the same time–
    we live the life that is our life to live
    within the life we are living–
    we live out our destiny
    within the context and circumstances,
    the nature and conditions,
    that it is our fate to bear–
    by being mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of both paths at the same time on all levels of our existence.
    We walk this one, here and now,
    with the other one firmly in mind.
    In order to do that,
    we have to factor time for reflection and contemplation and realization
    into each day.
    We have to sit quietly,
    or drive quietly,
    or walk quietly,
    opening ourselves to the reality of our “setting in life,”
    of the all-ness of our “life situation”–
    and allowing our awareness to hold everything in solution,
    in suspension,
    as we wait for the way to appear before us
    and call us to action.
    Acting prematurely,
    because we cannot bear the tension,
    or stand the suspense,
    is to miss the calling
    and fail to do what is being asked of us,
    creating bad karma all around.
    Mindfulness leads the way.
    Trust your awareness to show you what needs to be done.
    Do not try to hurry things along,
    but allow yourself to see things as they are
    and be carried along with the flow–
    even when that means swimming against the current–
    into the string of moments unending
    and the unfolding of your life.
  32. 12/18/2016 — Providence Cemetery 2016 06 — Slave Cemetery, Providence Presbyterian Church, Charlotte (Matthews), North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    I should apologize for repeating myself so often,
    and would, if it weren’t for the fact that there is so little to say.
    The things I’m talking about hold true in all weather conditions
    (including those that climate change will throw at us),
    economic realities,
    political environments,
    physical states
    and geographical locations.
    They apply across all times and places,
    have always been so
    and will always be so. When I make the same point again,
    its because the point has been missed again and again
    by people who “have heard it before”
    and never grasped it,
    or put it into practice in their life.
    Mindfulness (which always implies compassion),
    Self-transparency,
    Reflection upon experience,
    Asking the questions that beg to be asked,
    Saying the things that cry out to be said,
    Attending the inner world,
    Seeking our destiny (the life that is our life to live),
    And living it out in the conditions fate has bestowed on us,
    Following our felt-sense of direction,
    Knowing what we know
    And trusting ourselves to it,
    Living with integrity (being who we are)
    In accord with the life that is our life to live (our destiny)…
    Getting these things down is having it made
    in the fullest sense of the term.
    And, I’ll say some version of this next time.
  33. 12/19/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 07 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    Our work is to be who we are
    in every situation and circumstance of life–
    to respond as needed
    to everything that comes our way–
    to rise to every occasion
    and be who, and do what, the moment is asking us to be and to do.
    Who we are does not depend upon what happens to us.
    We are the constant amid the swirling whirl of chaos.
    We are “the still point of the turning world”–
    the calming presence upon the heaving waves of the wine-dark sea.
    Our focus is on our own heart/soul/self–
    on living out of our own center/ground/foundation
    in the midst of whatever is going on around us.
    Whatever is happening, or going to happen, or might happen
    is just what is happening, going to happen or might happen.
    We are going to be who we are,
    finding what needs to be done
    and doing it
    the way only we can do it
    in every situation and circumstance of life.
    What can prevent us from being who we are, where we are?
    What can keep us from responding appropriately to any occasion?
    What can stop us from gifting ourselves to the time and place of our living?
  34. 12/19/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 19B—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 — This is a blended photograph, merging a closeup of the moon (which was full and in the picture) with the limbs, leaves and branches.
    How often are you “in character”?
    How often are you “out of character”?
    To what extent does the character/persona you display
    an accurate depiction of the Self you are at the deepest level?
    What do you know of the Self you are at the deepest level?
    How do you commune with that Self?
    How do you know when you are living in accord with that Self,
    and when you are “out of tune” with that Self?
    How do you got about getting back “in tune”?
    How often do you think about these things?
  35. 12/20/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 08 — Union County, North Carolina, October 18, 2016
    We live in different Americas,
    divided at the core
    by different views of right and wrong,
    good and evil,
    sane and insane,
    us and them.
    We look at the same things
    and see different things
    because we see things differently.
    We are separated
    at the level of the heart
    by what we love and what we hate,
    what we do and what we cannot imagine doing.
    Our differences are too extreme to be “settled.”
    ”Coming together” means recognizing
    we will never be together,
    as in eye-to-eye,
    heart-to-heart,
    about anything that matters. We can live “together”
    in ways that respect and honor our separateness,
    and move away from the extremes
    toward the center by
    making allowances for our different ways
    of ascribing value.
    Abortion remains legal
    and we work diligently to make it unnecessary.
    Religious freedom does not infringe
    upon Constitutional rights,
    and each person is responsible only
    for his-or-her own life
    without intruding into–
    or treading upon–
    the lives of others.
    We take up the practice of compassionate mindfulness,
    holding everything in our awareness
    and allowing seeing-how-we-see-things
    to transform what is seen,
    enabling us to transcend the-way-we-have-always-seen
    in the service of the true good of the whole.
    It could work that way,
    but.
    It won’t work without good-faith commitment
    to the work of making it work
    on the part of everyone involved.
    “If you are not here with us in good faith,
    you are doing terrible damage” (Rumi).
  36. 12/20/2016 — November Orchard 2016 15 — Springs Farm, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    No one can give us our attitude–
    that’s an inside job,
    and it is an expression of how well we meet the world.
    Noticing our attitude
    and holding it in our awareness
    is a good way to work the practice of compassionate mindfulness
    into our life every day.
    Just being aware of it
    will change it for the better.
    Mindfulness is magical that way.
  37. 12/21/2016 — The Hearth 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, December 20, 2016
    We lose our focus,
    wander off the path,
    forget the way,
    drift through our life
    thinking, “This isn’t it,
    Maybe this is.
    Or that over there.”
    If individual Christians
    would stop believing in Christ,
    and start BEING Christ–
    not as Jesus was,
    but as only they can be
    in the place fate has put them–
    they would be focusing
    on living out the way
    before us,
    and be of great help
    in keeping us mindful of it
    and centered on it.
    But they lost the way themselves,
    and sold themselves out
    for a bowl of porridge
    or 30 pieces of silver–
    either way, it amounts to the same thing.
    They turned away from BEING Christ
    and took up talking about Christ.
    BlahBlahBlahHallelujahBlahBlahBlah
    and how many Christianities are there now?
    Every denomination and many churches within denominations
    have a different idea of Christ
    that they are pushing on the people.
    When did Christ ever push himself on anyone?
    ”If you don’t love me, you’re going to burn in hell forever!”
    Jesus simply said, and more importantly, DID, “I love you,”
    and left the people to do what they would with that.
    Christians have covered up the path
    with conflicting doctrines and dogmas and creeds
    (and some like to pride themselves on not having creeds,
    but they have hymnbooks–
    clandestine creeds set to music,
    if you can call it music),
    and we are left on our own,
    which is where it all begins.
    But one thing remains.
    Okay, two. No, three.
    The real Holy Trinity: Silence.
    And the Christ within,
    waiting to be expressed in our life
    within the place fate has put us.
    Be still.
    Sit quietly.
    Listen within.
    ”There is,” said Carl Jung,
    ”within each of us,
    another whom we do not know.”
    Meet the Christ within.
    Be the Christ you are.
    The path opens before you.
    The way beckons.
    You are back on the road again!
  38. 12/21/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 07/08 Panorama—Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    Carl Jung said, near the end of his life, “Man himself is the source of all coming evil, and we know nothing of Man—we are woefully ignorant.”
    Jesus said, near the end of his life, “Father, forgive them—they don’t know what they are doing!”
    We don’t know who we are,
    and we don’t know what we are doing.
    You can’t get more ignorant than that.
    Ignorance has nothing to do with intelligence or education.
    Ignorance is the complete lack
    of mindful, compassionate, awareness.
    Ignorance is not knowing–
    who we are or what we are doing.
    We live all our life long,
    never knowing anything
    about the Christ
    (and, as Michael Gagliano would say
    the Buddha, the Krishna)
    within–
    or how to commune with and live to incarnate
    that living Other
    into our life in the place fate has put us.
    That is ignorance for you!
    We have what is left of our life
    to know the truth of who we are
    and express it
    in concretely compassionate ways.
  39. 12/22/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 19 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 18, 2016
    We cannot be free and safe.
    We can be free or we can be safe.
    The freer we are, the less safe we will be.
    The safer we are, the less free we will be.
    We have to work out the ratio
    to suit ourselves.
    We can build the wall
    to keep them out
    and keep ourselves safe, The wall we build becomes our prison
    keeping us in.
    Life is one trade-off after another.
    Life is also a bell-shaped,
    “normal distribution” curve.
    The extremes are reserved for those
    with no tolerance for ambiguity,
    uncertainty,
    complexity,
    contradiction,
    contrariety.
    The rest of us take our chances
    toward the center.
  40. 12/23/2016 — Flying South 2016 01 – This a blended photograph combining an image of the moon and an image of the geese silhouettes. December 23, 2016
    Jesus didn’t die for your sake or mine.
    Jesus died for the sake of his own integrity.
    His death on the cross was the ultimate refusal to sell out.
    He was true to himself–
    to his vision of the truth–
    all the way to the grave.
    His death was atoning and redemptive
    if we see it as the model for how to do it,
    and live to exhibit our own integrity
    in our life–
    in the place where fate has put us.
    We are to incarnate the truth
    of who we are at the core of our heart and soul,
    just as Jesus did.
    The result of that work
    is life at a level that cannot be reached
    any other way.
    It is life that our physical death cannot touch.
    When we live like that,
    we never die
    in the minds and hearts of those who know us,
    even though our bodies wear out
    and are “laid to rest.”
    The validity of this take on the “Gospel”
    is there for all of us to test out for ourselves.
    All it takes is the courage
    to find our life and live it.
    If you think I’m wrong,
    prove it.
    Live out of your own integrity
    and see what you think.
  41. 12/23/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 21 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    If you are going to believe in anything,
    believe in what you are doing.
    What you are doing has to flow forth
    from who you are.
    When we live well,
    our life is in sync
    with that which is deepest, truest and best about us.
    “The Father and I are one,”
    said Jesus.
    “When you look at me,
    you see the Father.”
    “The Father” has to be understood
    as the Numen at the center of ourselves–
    the numinous core of our life and being.
    When we are at one with the center, ground, and foundation
    of our life,
    we are one with ourselves,
    with our purpose,
    with our destiny,
    with that which means the most to us,
    and is who we are.
    The way we live our life–
    what we do–
    conceals or reveals,
    disguises or discloses–
    the truth we came to incarnate and express
    in the place fate has put us.
    Live the life you can believe in
    with all your heart.
    Live wholeheartedly in the service
    of that which is you–
    in a “Thy will, not mine, be done” kind of way.
    Everything falls into place around that.
  42. 12/24/2016 — Goodale 2016 14 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7,2016
    Our symptoms say there is something
    inauthentic about us–
    probably an assortment of somethings.
    We are doing things that are Not Us,
    or we are not doing things that Are Us,
    or we refuse to grow up about
    having to do things that are Not Us
    or being unable to do things that Are Us.
    Growing up is putting ourselves in accord
    with the way things are
    in a “This is how things are
    and this is what can be done about it
    and that’s that” kind of way.
    Growing up is also seeing what we can get by with.
    It’s knowing when to take No for an answer,
    and when to do what needs to be done
    anyway, never the less, even so, no matter what.
    It is never settling for “keeping the peace”
    or “not making waves”
    or “not rocking the boat.”
    It’s knowing the right kind of waves to make
    and making them.
    It’s giving somebody else symptoms.
    We have symptoms
    because we won’t give somebody else symptoms.
    Symptoms suggest
    that we are refusing to pay the price
    of being authentic.
    Symptoms are the price
    of being inauthentic.
    Which price are we going to pay?
  43. 12/24/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 13 Panorama — Access Trail from Walnut Creek, Indian Land, Lancaster County, South Carolina, November 19, 2016
    The Achilles heel of democracy
    is the maturity level of the people,
    and their degree of–
    and capacity for–
    self-discipline, self-sacrifice, wisdom, grace and compassion
    in the service of the good of the whole.
    When the people care more for their own good
    than for the good of the whole,
    democracy is a dream of a dream
    lost beyond recall
    amid the realities of the day’s demands
    for shelter and survival.
    The people who voted for Trump
    had no idea of the good of the whole in mind.
    They were venting their hatred and their rage
    at all those people not like they are:
    “To hell with the whole if it includes people
    like THEM!”
    Democracy is for people
    who are big enough–
    big-hearted enough–
    to set themselves aside
    for the sake of the whole.
    Who are mindfully mature and compassionate enough
    to see beyond their own provincial tendencies
    in respecting and honoring ways of life
    that are different, strange and foreign–
    and call them to grow in ways
    that welcome and make room for people
    who challenge and stretch their ideas of how people should be.
    Democracy languishes in the absence of people
    who can be who the Constitution expects them to be,
    calls them to be,
    requires them to be.
    Trump is proof that the people
    cannot be trusted with the good of the whole–
    or even the good of themselves.
    Democracy works only in the hands
    of the right kind of people.
  44. 12/24/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 51/52 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4 2015
    A Christmas Prayer
    May the season of Christmastime and a new year’s beginning,
    the Winter Solstice and the sun’s return,
    ground you in the realization that our history
    is older than we are—
    for we come from the ages,
    and through the ages,
    and carry in our genes the stuff of an ancestry
    that has seen it all.
    May you and those you love be anchored
    in what is deepest, best and truest about each of you—
    and live in light of that core identity
    in serving the destiny that is yours to realize
    in the time and place that fate has placed you.
    May you live mindfully aware of all that is before you,
    and be compassionately present with all that is present with you
    for the good of the whole of which you are a part.
    May it be well with you in all of your coming and going
    through all the days of your life.
    May It Be So Always And Forever!
  45. 12/25/2016 — Lake Francis 2016 02 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    We know when something “rings true”–
    and when it doesn’t.
    The rule is simple:
    Live toward what rings true,
    and away from from what doesn’t.
    We are seized by the things that speak to us,
    that call our name,
    that catch our eye,
    that attract us.
    The real Law Of Attraction
    has nothing to do
    with living so as to attract to yourself
    wealth, prosperity, success, good fortune, and high, happy times.
    It states simply:
    Move toward what attracts you,
    and away from what does not.
    And don’t kid yourself.
    You can create a life for yourself
    built around appetites and addiction.
    Sugar in all forms can be attractive.
    As can be sex, alcohol, tobacco and cocaine.
    Or, as Andy Capp would say,
    “Rye and little darlin’s.”
    In order to understand what I’m saying,
    you have to know what I mean.
    What things mean to us
    is entirely up to us.
    How we look
    determines what we see.
    And kidding ourselves is what we do best.
  46. 12/25/2016 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 04 Panorama– Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016, an iPhone photograph
    Practice taking the all-ness of the situation into account
    and seeing what needs to happen there
    in light of everything.
    The situation has its own rhythm,
    its own pace and timing,
    its own urgency.
    And it can speak to you
    out of its own need of you.
    To know this
    and practice it
    is to put yourself in accord
    with the Tao of the situation,
    and everything will fall into place
    around that.
  47. 12/26/2016 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 02 — Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016
    I can’t wait for America to be Great Again.
    How long is it going to take, I wonder.
    By when will it happen?
    When, exactly, will we be Great Again?
    I’ve never heard a time table mentioned.
    And, I’m a little concerned about how Great we can be
    if we don’t drain the swamp.
    But I’m sure Trump has all the angles figured.
    He’s certainly Great with figuring angles,
    and cutting corners,
    and doing what it takes to be Great in his own eyes.
    I’m confident he can apply that to running the country
    quickly back to Greatness.
    There is also a lack of precision to the term
    that bothers me.
    For whom, do you think, will it be Great?
    What’s Great for the lion
    is not-so-Great for the antelope.
    And what’s Great for the white supremacists
    and the Ku Klux Klan
    isn’t going to be great at all
    for black people,
    the LGBTQ population,
    immigrants,
    Latinos,
    the special needs population,
    women,
    the poor,
    homeless,
    and anybody who doesn’t measure up
    to the standards of those two groups.
    Could be it won’t be noticeably Great
    if you fall too much below the top 1%
    of the wealthiest people on earth.
    If you are at the 75% line or below
    it might not be so Great at all.
    Trump could have been clearer
    about making America Great Again for whom, by when.
    And his supporters could have asked more questions.
    Asking any question would have been Great.
    But, I hear they are going to hold his feet to the fire
    if he doesn’t come through for them.
    That would be Great.
    Though, it isn’t clear what that means either.
    What is going to be Great, for whom, by when?
    That’s what I want to know.
  48. 12/26/2016 — Ginkgos 2016 04–Ballantyne Commons, Charlotte, NC, December 8, 2016
    We have to live out of our own inner necessity–
    we have to do what we have to do,
    what is ours to do–
    in responding to the other, outer, necessity
    operating in each situation as it arises.
    What we have to do,
    what is ours to do,
    what we need to do
    what needs us to do it,
    meets a corresponding need
    arising in each situation that comes to meet us.
    The deepest need of the situation is met,
    you might say,
    by our deepest joy,
    although our deepest joy
    is not the euphoric joy of happy fans and players
    who just won the game of the year–
    it is the thing we are most glad to be able to do,
    the gift we best exemplify,
    what we do best,
    our soul’s “joy” that is ours to incarnate
    (though we might have an idea of something
    we wish we could do instead,
    and we are always having to get out of our own way
    to keep from imposing our wish for ourselves
    upon all of our situations).
    We live to perceive the situation as it is
    and respond to it as only we can,
    in serving the destiny that is ours to serve,
    within the situations that stand ready to be shaped
    by the meeting of their destiny and ours,
    with our shared destinies coming together
    to form a wonder beyond imagining,
    much less comprehending,
    perceiving,
    planning,
    imposing,
    producing
    and taking,
    or being given,
    credit for.
    Inner necessity grips us
    and compels us into the service
    of the good of the whole,
    and our role is simply to comply
    in a “Thy will, not mine, be done,” kind of way
    for the ages to wonder about and thrill over,
    and to emulate in their own way
    for the wonder and thrill of ages beyond them.
    May it be so for each one of us
    in the times and places of our living
    for as long as we are alive!
  49. 12/26/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 31 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    Pay attention here. Read through this until you become one with it. It is the bedrock of the spiritual understanding of reality–which Alan Watts described as an ink blot.
    Joseph Campbell, in talking about the I Ching (The Book of Changes) which he describes as “an encyclopedia of oracles,” said “The method of divining is to cast 49 yarrow sticks six times to construct a (hexagram), after which a reference to the encyclopedia yields the prognostication.
    “The seeker is supposed to look for some sort of correspondence between (the prognostication) and his/her own case. The method of thought throughout being that of a broadly flung association of ideas.
    “One has to feel, not think, one’s way into these secrets, letting each symbol grow into a cosmos of associated themes.”
    In other words, we listen for what we are saying to ourselves about our situation by reading our situation into–or projecting it onto–the oracle’s prognostication.
    This is how a horoscope “works,” or a fortune cookie, or dream interpretation. We “read” the oracle out of our own experience, and make associations that “tell us” what we need to hear.
    We are reading our own mind.
    Talking to ourselves.
    Communing with the ‘in here” by seeing it “out there.”
    Our life is an ink blot!
    Read the events and circumstances the way you would “read” a dream.
    Look at your life as though it were your dream from last night,
    And ask yourself, “If this were my dream, what would I make of it?”
    And, “What do I keep saying to myself that I am not hearing?”
    And, “What am I being shown, and/or asked to do, that I am ignoring?”
    Perception is a matter of taking up the practice of continually adjusting our perspective by way of reflection and contemplation.
  50. 12/26/2016 — Cotton in the Field 2016 01-C — Indian Land, Lancaster County, South Carolina, October 12, 2016
    If you are going to believe anything–
    and surely you are,
    we have absolutely no choice in the matter–
    believe the things that help you live your life!
    Believe that your life is worth living,
    and that you have an internal guidance mechanism
    that can be counted on to help you find the life
    that only you can live and live it.
    Believe what you believe consciously, mindfully.
    Believe that mindfulness is the single most important practice
    you can devote yourself to–
    and devote yourself to it with all your heart, and mind, and soul, and strength.
    Believe that trials and ordeals
    are an unavoidable aspect of life in the world,
    and will grow us up, and bring us forth,
    if we respond to them as things that are ours to deal with
    and do what needs to be done about them
    without allowing them to distract us
    from the life that is ours to live.
    Believe that you have a center, a ground, a foundation, a bedrock, a lodestar
    that is ever-present and always available
    as a comfort, guide, companion, friend and source of infinite capacities–
    everything we need to find what we need
    to be who we are, where we are, how we are,
    and do what is ours to do
    in the time and place of our living.
    Live as though all of this is true–
    and it will be!
  51. 12/27/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 19 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    What do you pay the bills in order to do?
    Live, right?
    What do you live to do?
    Pay the bills, right?
    If this is anywhere close to being your story,
    you are missing from your life.
    You could be replaced by an android and you wouldn’t be missed.
    And you wouldn’t miss anything.
    You have to wake up to the reality of your situation,
    and take up the work
    of bringing you to life in your life.
    You have to live so as to miss a long list of things
    when they are gone.
    You have to live so as to be missed
    when you are gone.
    You are not here to keep the economy going.
    You have a destiny to fulfill with the life that is yours to live.
    Your mission is to find your life–
    the life only you can live–
    and live it in the time left for living.
    You are at a good place to start.
    I pay the bills so that I can connect people with their life.
    Read back through my posts
    for some handy tips on fulfilling your destiny.
    There are about 6,000 for you to sift through
    to find those that click.
    That’s the first rule in finding your life and living it.
    If there is no click, move on.
  52. 12/27/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 01 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Carl Jung said, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
    There is an inner necessity about the unconscious
    that wills itself into existence in our life.
    Those of us who place ourselves in accord with it
    align ourselves with our destiny.
    Those of us who resist, oppose, refuse, obstruct its direction
    are carried against our will
    to the fate that awaits us.
    When the inner necessity calls you to action,
    give it your full attention,
    hold it in your awareness,
    and see what happens.
    Make the unconscious conscious
    and take your chances.
    That’s my best advice.
  53. 12/28/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 48 Panorama–Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016
    We find our own way.
    Or, better, our way finds us
    like “the wand chooses the wizard.”
    But no one is better suited than we are
    to detect the way that is standing before us,
    waving it hands,
    shouting, “Over here, Stupid! Over HERE!”
    Everybody who tells you how to live your life
    is telling you how to live their life.
    If you will only do it like they are doing it
    you will be happy forever.
    There are only three simple steps
    to living your own life–
    to finding your life and living it–
    LOOK!
    LISTEN!
    TRUST YOURSELF TO WHAT YOU SEE AND HEAR!
    What you see and hear
    will expand and clarify over time,
    and your life will take shape around that,
    settle out around that,
    and you will increasingly,
    incrementally,
    become more like who you are,
    and less like who you are not,
    over time.
  54. 12/28/2016 — At the center, ground, foundation, heart
    of my staunch and solid,
    eternal and everlasting opposition to
    Donald Trump,
    lies the meanness (as in small and as in hurtful)
    of the Republican Party.
    Congressional Republicans over the last eight years
    did absolutely nothing that would come close
    to being confused with, much less, called
    compassionate–
    and they did everything possible
    to oppose President Obama’s compassionate proposals
    and to obstruct and denounce
    his compassionate implementations.
    And you could go back much longer than eight years
    in your search for some evidence
    of a Republican heart and soul
    being evidenced in acts of compassion and kindness
    in the service of the common welfare.
    Republicans don’t care about anything
    but their personal fortune and glory,
    which is where Donald Trump comes in
    as the epitome of the Republican idea of success.
    What I am opposing in opposing Trump
    is the Republican Ideal of More for Me and Less for You.
    In refusing to make public his tax returns,
    Trump is saying
    “I don’t give to charity and I don’t pay taxes,
    and I’m proud of it.”
    And, in refusing to call him out,
    on this or any other matter,
    Republicans are saying,
    “He’s a genius! He’s absolutely brilliant!
    We want to be just like him!”
    And, they are.

12/28/2016 — (Used as a part of a longer post on 12/29/2016) To say Black Lives Matter!
does not mean, imply, or suggest
that any other lives do not matter.
It states simply and unequivocally
that Black Lives Matter!–
as a way of protesting
and calling attention to the fact
that is demonstrated too often
to be denied
that black lives do not matter,
and therefore need not be honored, respected, valued, nurtured, loved, cherished, adored, upheld, uplifted, and held in high regard
in a society, culture and world
where only white lives have the upper hand
and have no intention of allowing equality–
or even “equality”–
to level the playing field.
White people who don’t understand this
are the reason Black Lives Matter
is a movement made necessary
by the refusal to understand
the phrase, what it means,
and what it is like
to be forced to remind white people
that it is so.

  1. 12/28/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 11–Twelve Mile Creek from the CTT, Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    From my perspective,
    “good faith” is the same thing as “sincerity.”
    The two are one,
    and it flows from integrity–
    knowing, and being aligned with, and being who we are–
    so that the inner person and the outer person
    are the same person.
    No deception, no duplicity, no faking it, no pretending to be someone we are not…
    And all of this lends itself to–
    leads to–
    our ability to be vulnerable
    without being at risk.
    We can be vulnerable
    because we don’t mind risking
    exposing ourselves in all of our vulnerabilities.
    We have nothing to fear.
    We have nothing to lose.
    There is nothing that anyone can do to us.
    We can be vulnerable because we are invulnerable,
    in that we aren’t ashamed or afraid of being seen as we are.
    Let them take our name!
    Let them send us to the office!
    Let them give us a failing grade!
    Let them call our parents!
    Nothing they can do can keep us from being ourselves!
    We can be who we are in any situation, circumstance, or context
    that comes along!
    We are who we are!
    Our identity is ours alone!
    No one can take it from us,
    or prevent us from being who we are
    in all times and places!
    We can live with sincerity, good faith, integrity and peace of mind.
    And nothing can stop us!
    Such is the power of vulnerability grounded upon identity.
    Here I am. This is me. Take it or leave it. I have work to do.
  2. 12/29/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 16 — Suspension bridge connecting the Carolinas, Indian Land (Lancaster County), South Carolina to Waxhaw (Union County, North Carolina), November 19, 2016
    All Lives Matter is a diversion
    whose sole purpose
    is to direct attention
    away from the core issue
    raised by Black Lives Matter!
    The unstated logical extension
    implied and denied
    by those who use the phrase All Lives Matter is
    “All Other Lives Matter More Than Black Lives!”
    The phrase is not only a smoke screen,
    discarding, disregarding, dismissing and denying
    Black Lives Matter!,
    it also fails to comprehend, apprehend, appreciate,
    what is at stake in Black Lives Matter!
    To say Black Lives Matter!
    does not mean, imply, or suggest
    that any other lives do not matter.
    It states simply and unequivocally
    that Black Lives Matter!–
    as a way of protesting
    and calling attention to the fact
    (that is demonstrated too often
    in too many was,
    to be denied)
    that black lives do not matter,
    and therefore need not be honored, respected, valued, nurtured,
    loved, cherished, adored, uplifted, and held in high regard
    in a society, culture and world
    where only white lives have the upper hand
    and have no intention of allowing equality–
    or even “equality”–
    to level the playing field.
    White people who don’t understand this
    are the reason Black Lives Matter!
    is a movement made necessary
    by the refusal to see the truth
    inherent in the phrase,
    grasp what it means,
    and begin to imagine what it is like
    to be forced to remind white people
    that it is so.
  3. 12/30/2016 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 01 — Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016
    James Hollis said, “Death doesn’t end a relationship any more than divorce ends a marriage.”
    When those we love die, we sometimes allow ourselves to die along with them,
    as though life is not worth living without them,
    and how can we go on,
    so we just quit,
    and we may as well sit looking at the wall
    through the days and years that follow
    for all the good going about our business does us,
    or anyone.
    We refuse to live as a protest
    against having to live without those we love.
    What we don’t understand
    is that they haven’t gone anywhere,
    they have simply become invisible.
    They are still very much present with us–
    it only takes believing it is so to make it so.
    And why not believe it–and live as though it is true?
    Why not understand that those we love have become
    psychopomps–guides through the wilderness
    to life, and light, and peace?
    Ready to help us find the life that is ours yet to live,
    and to live it with all our heart, and mind, and soul, and strength?
    Why not understand that we now live not only for ourselves,
    but also for those who have died,
    and are yet able to assist us toward a life
    that we might never have lived without their dying
    and now helping us to live?
    Why not help them help us?
    Sit quietly and invite them/him/her to come to us
    and show us the way
    to the life that is ours to live for us and for them?
    Why not open ourselves to the inner necessity
    urging us to will and to do–
    to act in the field of action
    as those who have a purpose, a mission, a calling:
    To LIVE the life that is ours to live
    in the name of those who have loved us and have died
    only to be with us still
    to assist us in living the life that is blessed by their presence
    and our spirit and our gifts
    as long as the light lasts?

12/30/2016 — Jeremiah 4:3-11 (Googleit) is the foundation for what I’m saying here–just substitute “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus,” for “the Temple of the Lord,” and you will have it.
We seek deliverance and hold hands, bow our heads, and say, “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, deliver us! Intercede in our behalf and grant us happiness and peace everlasting!” And then we go our way, changing nothing about how we live our life.
Not doing Justice. Not loving Kindness. Not letting Justice roll down like waters and Righteousness like an ever flowing stream,” but treating the powerless, the immigrants, the poor, the marginalized, the LBGTQ population, Muslims, Latinos and Mexicans…etc as those who have no right to existence, and certainly no equal rights with us as human beings and as citizens of the United States.
Yet, we violate our own Constitution. We want to make America Great Again, but we are not Americans ourselves. We dishonor the bedrock of the country: One nation, under God, with liberty and justice for all!
We say what suits us and live anyway at all, asking “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus to bless us and protect us” so that we might hate in his name–and, of course, we say we don’t hate anyone, but those we say we don’t hate can’t tell the difference. We may as well hate them for all the good our not hating them does them.
And we think Jesus won’t catch it. We think Jesus will believe us when we say we “love” all people. We think Jesus will not notice that our life does not reflect who we say we are. We think we can pull one over on Jesus as easily as we pull one over on ourselves.

  1. 12/31/2016 — Goodale 2016 16 –Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Waking up is an inside job.
    No one can do it for us.
    Or, even tell us how to do it.
    We have to find the path alone,
    and know what we don’t know.
    It’s as simple as that.
  2. 12/31/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 47 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    We are the ones who say so!
    We say who we are–and who we are going to be–
    and who we are not.
    We choose for ourselves
    what we will honor,
    serve with liege loyalty,
    swear lifelong allegiance to,
    and what we will despise.
    We set the course for our life
    by deciding for ourselves
    what we will live toward
    and what we will live away from.
    We are psyche’s keeper.
    We mold our inner potentials
    in light of our idea of good and bad,
    right and wrong,
    Me and Not-Me.
    We live grounded in the bedrock
    of determined faithfulness
    to the best we are capable of producing
    in each situation as it arises,
    in every context and circumstance of our lives.
    Nothing in the external world
    can prevent us from being true
    to our inner vision of who we are
    and who we will be.
    Centered in our vital identity,
    we are ourselves in every time and place,
    and no power on earth can take that from us.
    Live so that it is so of you always!

12/31/2016 — Republicans got where they are today by diss’n (as in disrespecting, disregarding, discounting, dismissing) political correctness.

They got where they are today by ridiculing, mocking, deriding, lampooning and having complete contempt for political correctness.

Donald Trump takes political INcorrectness to levels not contemplated by lesser politicians, winning the admiration of his mass of grassroots supporters by “talking straight” and “saying anything.”

He never says anything that isn’t politically INcorrect.

Which is telling because “political correctness” is a jibing way of saying “compassion” and “compassionate.”

Republicans hate compassion more than they hate President Obama.

It could be that they hate President Obama because of the depth of his compassion.

The one, indisputable, constant thing is that Republicans hate compassion in all forms. They cannot tolerate compassion. To them it is a sign of weakness, and they fear that more than they fear the wrath of God.

The term “compassionate Republican” is an oxymoron.

Congressional Republicans haven’t done one compassionate thing over the past 8 years (and we could go back much farther than that)—much to the delight of rank-and-file Republicans across the country and around the world.

Congressional Republicans have obstructed every compassionate thing President Obama proposed and opposed every compassionate thing he implemented.

Being politically INcorrect is their way of being Right(wing) politicians.

Donald Trump is proof that you can’t be INcorrect enough for Republican tastes. “Bring it ON!” they say. “Give us MORE!”

The Russian main course may be more than they bargained for. That is INcorrectness gone over into UNpatriotic. If Republicans don’t draw the line at that, the world is truly off its traces.

12/31/2016 — Pick a Christian, any Christian, and ask him or her how he or she knows that the Bible knows what it is talking about, and isn’t just a collection of things people thought were so 2 – 4,000 years ago, and you will get, “I take it on faith.”

They will give you the same answer about any question you raise about the factual nature of “Biblical teachings.”

Now ask them why they take all that on faith and not something else instead. They may tell you they are afraid they will go to hell if they do–which is something else they “take on faith.”

They are scaring themselves with the things they believe for no reason beyond choosing to “take it on faith.”

That’s fine with me. It makes them happy. It gives them something to do with their lives, but.

IF YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE SOMETHING ON FAITH, WHY NOT SOMETHING THAT WILL HELP YOU WITH YOUR LIFE IN PRACTICAL, MEASURABLE, CONCRETE WAYS HERE AND NOW???

I say, if you are going to believe something, believe something that will uplift you and carry you into what stands before you with what it takes to do what needs to be done there.

For instance, believe you have a destiny to fulfill.

Believe you have a soul that is a psychic reality within your unconscious (We call it that because we are unconscious of it–we could call it anything, “The Psyche,” “Home,” “The Wellspring of Living Water,” but. We don’t have to take it on faith. We experience it in thousands of ways. We know there is more to us than meets the eye).

Believe that your soul/psyche has a unique interest in you–that it seeks you as a partner to collaborate with in living a particular life, a life that incarnates your soul/psyche and gives them actual tangible existence in the world of physical reality.

Believe that you have a wealth of inner resources for dealing with whatever you face in the practical matters of living your life.

Believe that your identity, your Me and your Not Me, is your ground, your bedrock, your foundation that will never abandon you. In every situation and circumstance, you can draw on your gifts, your values, the things YOU take on faith, to enable you to stand firm for the good in that situation, in those circumstances, and meet what needs to be met and do what needs to be done.

You get the idea here. Believe things that will enable you to be authentically who you are wherever you are. That bring you forth. That call out your creativity, your imagination, your loves and joys and put them to work in your life.

If you are going to take something on faith–and we all have to take something on faith–let it be something that makes you and the world around you a better place for your taking it on faith and putting it to work in your life!

12/31/2016 — After my previous post, I want to be clear that I am not suggesting that the Christian Church should be abandoned. I am suggesting that it should wake up.

The Church holds a central place in our society and culture, and could very easily be the source of the kind of grace and encouragement that we need to find our way through the murky days ahead.

The Church holds all the worthy symbols of “the faith,” even though the content of the faith needs to be completely overhauled and updated–made real and viable and vital in our life and in our experience of life.

This could be easily done But. It would take waking up and growing up and actually trusting itself to a future that is not planned out years in advance but unfolds in unpredictable ways before those who have to “walk on water” and “dance with what comes their way.” There aren’t seminary classes for that–yet, but there could be.

The Church could begin becoming real, authentic, genuine, honest, vulnerable and alive by creating a space for a new kind of congregation meeting in the building with the “regulars.” It would not meet to worship.

Worship, theology, creeds, hymns, prayers, doctrines, offerings, liturgies, etc. are out. Silence, music that is not “religious,” reflection, inquiry, seeking, dream work, meditation, contemplation, developing intuition, creativity and imagination, and things along these lines are in. An Mindfulness! The Church HAS to become a center for the teaching and practicing of Mindfulness (Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube Videos on Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction are not to be missed, but viewed over and over!)

The works of Carl Jung, Jungians, and Joseph Campbell (Campbell’s four volume masterpiece “The Masks of God” is a wonderful “history of religion” and needs to be taught in seminaries and in local congregations) might form the ground of educational inquiry, and Jungian Analysts might be consultants in developing the new group.

All this, of course, hinges on the maturity, wisdom, grace and confidence of ministers in place in congregations. But, if those who can make the adjustment do not begin to make it, the Church will drift further from the heart of life and light of the people with each passing year. And the people will find what they seek somewhere else.

12/31/2016 — When Jesus said, “Straight is the way and narrow is the gate that leads to life and those who find it are few,” we take “the straight and narrow” to be moral purity, sinless living, not a thought out of place, ever.

He’s talking about how easily we lose focus and are distracted and drift away in thoughts that have nothing to be with being mindful of the moment and aware of what is being offered to us and asked of us there.

He’s talking about how often we miss the moment of our living by failing to concentrate on this here and now, and being swept away by “the dust of the world,” by “the 10,000 things,” by duties and desires, greed, hatred, fear, remorse, etc., and are not open to what needs to be said, asked, seen, done, felt…

It is nothing to forget who we are, where we are, when we are, why we are, how we are–not know what’s happening or what needs to happen in response.

We are not mindfully, compassionately, aware of the time and place of our living. No one is where they are. Everyone is somewhere else, thinking of other things.

And we miss the life that needs us to live it in the moment of our living.

Surely, you see what this is asking of us–what it means for us.

  1. 01/01/2017 — Around Price Lake 2016 25 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    Sitting still,
    being quiet,
    seeing what there is to see–
    what is happening,
    what needs to happen,
    what we can do about it.
    Doing it.
    Sitting still,
    being quiet…
    That is as good a plan
    for 2017
    as you are likely
    to be offered.
    But, if you can find a better one,
    take it!
    And may the year’s blessings
    grace your way
    each day,
    and bring joy alive in your life,
    and the lives of those you love.
  2. 01/01/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 17 — Suspension bridge connecting the Carolinas, Indian Land (Lancaster County), South Carolina to Waxhaw (Union County, North Carolina), November 19, 2016
    The bedrock is with us always,
    to the close of the age,
    and is, in all situations and circumstances,
    “a very present help in time of trouble.”
    The bedrock is our ground and our foundation.
    It is who we are,
    our deepest values,
    our highest possibilities,
    our endless source
    of strength and courage,
    our sanctuary
    and our vantage point
    for taking stock,
    reflecting on our experience,
    sizing up a situation,
    observing what is happening,
    what needs to happen,
    and what we can do about it.
    Our bedrock is to us
    as “the mover to the moved,”
    and from its base
    we have what it takes
    to rise to any occasion,
    knowing that nothing
    can take our foundation away from us,
    or keep us from being who we are
    in all times and places.
    At one with the bedrock
    we are at peace
    with our limitations and vulnerabilities,
    and know that, possessing the power
    of infinite recovery,
    we have nothing to fear.
  3. 01/01/2017 — There is the saying it–
    I’m speaking of poetry here,
    but it has application to all of life,
    as poetry often does–
    and the saying of it.
    There is the knowing
    whether it needs to be said,
    and when it has been said.
    And there is the knowing
    that whether anyone reads it
    and hears it,
    or cares to,
    is of no concern to you.
    Your part is to know and to do–
    and to leave the rest of it
    in the hands of mystery and grace.

01/01/2017 — Live with integrity and authenticity,
inner aligned with outer
(which entails knowing
what is inner and what is outer),
in the service
of that which calls your name–
and everything else
will fall into place around that.

People who strive for morality
are after a certain look,
the Puritans
and the Christians
being good examples,
keeping the commandments
while drowning “witches,”
and burning heretics at the stake,
as though they were beyond
the truth at the heart of their own being.

No one gets beyond that.
Get into it, I say–
into the truth at the heart of your own being–
and bring that out into your life.
Living truthfully will
force transformation upon you
or keep people safe from you.
Either way,
the world will be a better place
because of your relentless commitment
to ruthless honesty.
01/02/2017 — Every single person worldwide should sit down, read and contemplate Robert Frost’s poem “The Road Not Taken,” at every transition point throughout her/his life. And choose carefully (that is, thoughtfully, mindfully) what cannot be unchosen.

  1. 01/02/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 18 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 19, 2016
    My mother didn’t have her Real Voice
    until my father died,
    and by then,
    as you can imagine,
    it was not well-developed,
    seasoned and mature,
    filled with wisdom and grace,
    patiently waiting its time
    to come forth and eloquently speak its lines
    with the stored-up beauty and truth of the ages.
    It was pissed and steaming.
    My mother,
    as so many people are,
    was separated from her soul at birth,
    and told who and how to be
    by an array of Those Who Knew Best And Had To Be Pleased Or Else.
    She said and did what was hers to say and do–
    and tried to escape (and did in a manner of speaking)
    by eloping to marry my father at too young an age,
    jumping, as they say in the deep south,
    “from the frying pan into the fire,”
    and living trapped with too many children
    and no marketable skills
    in a life dictated not chosen.
    Steel Magnolias create victims just like themselves:
    resolute,
    unflinching, Determined to do it as it is supposed to be done
    all their life long–
    burying their resentment
    and their resistance
    in order to meet their responsibilities
    and do their duty
    the way they should.
    Denial takes its toll.
    Truth will out.
    Soul robbed of its developmental stages
    comes forth any way it can,
    desperate to see the light of day,
    to breathe the air of freedom
    unchained and unbowed.
    It is the role of conscious awareness
    to civilize soul
    without negating soul,
    or rejecting its right to existence and expression.
    We collaborate in the evolution of the Self,
    integrating its leanings and tendencies
    with the legitimate limits of its context and circumstances.
    When the “archetypal expectations”
    of the soul are not met,
    the outcome will not be pretty and pleasing,
    but pissed and steaming.
  2. 01/02/2017 — Reelfoot Lake 20015 63 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015
    The bedrock which is with us always
    as protector and guide
    is “the face that was ours before we were born.”
    It is our essence,
    our essential identity,
    our essential integrity–
    the Me that is me,
    the Me that is not Not-me.
    When we ground ourselves in the truth of our own nature,
    in the fact of our own being–
    of our own “just so-ness,”
    of our own “self-so-ness”–
    we are immovable, unshakeable, invulnerable and safe
    even on the heaving waves of the wine-dark sea.

01/02/2017 — Each man must strive throughout his life to be the best woman he can be.

Each woman must strive throughout her life to be the best man she can be.

If we would only do that,

all things would fall into place,

the world would rejoice in gladness and thanksgiving

and nothing would be as it has been,

and is.
01/02/2017 — We never out live, or out grow, having been where we have been. When an occasion arises that triggers a complex of associations, feeling, memories and experiences, we sit with its reality, holding all of it in our awareness, weeping perhaps, and, when ready, rise and go to meet what needs us to do it. This is how it is with us, and how it will be.
01/02/2017 — I see,” only means, “I see what I am able to see at this point in my quest to see.”

Just so, “I hear,” and “I understand,” mean only “I hear and understand what I am able to hear and understand at this point in my quest to hear and understand.”

“Seeing, hearing and understanding,” imply that we see, hear, and understand that no one ever sees, hears, understands all that is to be seen, heard, and understood–

That all seeing, hearing and understanding is partial and incomplete, and we are never more than micro-fraction along the way to seeing, hearing and understanding.

There is always more to see than we have seen,

more to hear than we have heard,

more to understand than we have understood.

And the proper response to hearing this is not despair or cynicism, but laughter and the declaration, “I see! I hear! I understand!” followed by more laughter.
01/02/2017 — Buddha-mind is mind knowing itself knowing. Zen monks were stand-up comedians. Some stand-up comedians are Zen monks. Some try too hard to be funny.
01/02/2017 — It is crucial that we not run from the pain of knowing, but that we bear the pain knowingly. That we hold in mindful, compassionate awareness the truth–the terrible, painful, awful, truth–without running, hiding, denying, turning away. But bear it faithfully as witnesses, weeping as we must, but holding firm to the task of knowing and bearing the truth all the way to the bottom. In so doing, we touch the wonder of transcendence, and transform the truth by our ability to bear it, and in bearing it, we make it bearable–and in joining one another in bearing our own unbearable truth, we form community bound together at the heart, each knowing the unspeakable truth the others know, and redeeming what is redeemable–the courage, the resiliency, the constancy, etc. of those women who did what they did and gave their life to us–the Christ sacrifice borne out in our own life experience–and enabled us to have a life that was denied them, so that we now live our life and their unlived life in their memory, in their honor, and make them proud of themselves and their gift to us. We become their memorial, and their justification, their redemption, their hope…
01/02/2017 — Each one of us has to do the work of finding and doing what is ours to do. We have to find “the face that was ours before we were born” and be true to that “face” in doing our work and being who we are, wherever we are!
01/02/2017 — I had a friend who had sailed in his youth. He told me, “I became a sailor when I realized the sea was out to get me.” The closer we get to our dream, the more we realize the dream is out to get us. We have to MEAN IT to dream, and to sail.
01/02/2017 — Jesus said, “Don’t listen to me! Listen to you! Decide for yourselves what is right! I don’t know anything about your business! I’m not taking you to raise! You have to live your own life! You have to do your own work! You have to bear your own cross! You are the light of the world–don’t be hiding your talents, denying your gifts! Get in there and do your thing, and don’t be looking for rewards and payoffs! Do your work! Live your life! What more could you want?” Or words to that effect.
01/02/2017 — I have known absolutely brilliant people who were mindlessly neurotic and crazily out of touch with themselves and others.

We begin to get in touch with ourselves by sitting still–

mindlessly neurotic and crazily out of touch people have such a hard time with sitting still,

therefore, they remain neurotic and crazily out of touch.

Some people have to creep up on stillness by taking small steps.

Be quiet for a second.

Just one second.

When you get that down, try for two.

When you can work up to ten seconds,

try sitting quietly for ten seconds.

This is a start.

To help the time past quickly,

begin to scan your body,

looking for places of tension or tightness.

Our body is our guide.

You know the Uh-oh feeling?

How many times in your life have you blown right by it?

It is my place in your life to call you to pay attention

to the Uh-oh feeling.

To do that, you have to be listening to your body.

You have to be aware of your body.

You have to be mindful of your body.

Have you watched the Jon Kabat-Zinn videos on You Tube?

You can’t expect me to be of any help to you

if you won’t help yourself.

Everything waits on your becoming mindful of your body.

I’m wasting my time with you

until then.

Everybody wants the solution to their problems.

The end of their symptoms.

And they won’t listen to their body.

Because their body is trying to tell them things

they don’t want to hear.

Does that sound like anybody you know?
01/02/2017 — Some roads are better than others. We thrive in some situations and shrivel/die in others. Some environments are better for us than others. Some are right for us and others are wrong for us. Some jobs are right for us, others are wrong for us. Some decisions/choices are right for us, others are wrong for us. We live to learn right from wrong in terms of where we thrive and where we dry up and die. And roads fork in the woods all of the time. We are always being called on to read the signs, to know what we are doing. This kind of knowing isn’t a “thinking thing.” It is a “mindful thing.” We have to learn the art of living mindfully. Thinking has its place, but its place is figuring out the details of implementing what we have imagined and intuited as being what needs to happen.
01/02/2017 — A friend of mine did a good bit of sailing when he was young, and told me “I didn’t become a sailor until I realized the sea was out to get me.”

All of our dreams are out to get us. We don’t understand this and think in terms of fame and fortune, success and glory, issuing forth from the realization of our dreams. Our dreams will eat us alive.

Joseph Campbell should have tacked that on to his “Follow your bliss.” “Follow your bliss knowing that your dreams will eat you alive!”

Our dreams eating us alive is part of the trials and ordeals of dream realization. We sacrifice ourselves upon the altar of our dreams. Nobody tells us that.

A dream that doesn’t put us upon the sacrificial altar isn’t worth dreaming. A dream that cuts our heart out is a dream that dreams are all about.

That kind of dream gets us down to the question every dreamer has to answer: “Do you have what it takes?”

If we are in it for the money, or for the recognition, or for the attention, or to have something to talk about in the bars of the world; “That time when I…” we aren’t worth a real dream’s time and effort.

A real dream is looking for someone who will put everything on the line and not look back because the dream isn’t his, isn’t her, dream, it is her, it is his, life.

“This isn’t my dream, it’s my life! So cut out my heart! Eat me alive! I don’t care! I’m nothing without my dream! It is everything I have, or can imagine having!”

Now, we’re talking! That’s the spirit! That kind of dreamer is capable of living in the service of the dream–of doing whatever the dream requires–without qualm or hesitation.

A dream can come alive in the hands of a person like that. And that person will come alive in the service of the dream. And you can’t beat that with a Nobel Peace Prize and a Pulitzer Award.
01/02/2017 — Bingo. You’re on it. And you, and the rest of us, are quite alone with it, even though we are all together in the same room, or world. There is no way we can be together enough, or close enough to dispel the aloneness at the heart of Dark Reality. We have to sink down through the fear and despair to the bedrock truth of who we are and have always been, “the face that was ours before we were born.” And find our courage and our confidence in the heartfelt knowledge that we are one with the bedrock and it cannot be taken from us by anything that happens to us. We remain us through it all, at one with that which is deepest, best, and truest about us. So, we stroll up to the drooling Cyclops and spit in his ugly red eye and say, “You can save yourself a lot of trouble by stepping aside.” As we do that, we will find ourselves less alone than we thought, awash in the good company of those who know the secret at the core of life and being: We are all one at the level of the bedrock. It grounds and connects us all.

  1. 01/03/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 04 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2017
    Jesus reportedly said, “Father, forgive them, they know not what they do.”
    That doesn’t ring true.
    It sounds like something some disciple of a disciple made up and put in place.
    It’s sweet.
    When was Jesus ever sweet?
    “Go tell that fox Herod I’m on my way!”
    That has Jesus all over it.
    He cursed a fig tree for not bearing fruit out of season!
    How could not knowing what you’re doing be an acceptable excuse?
    And he told the guy working on the Sabbath,
    “If you know what you are doing, you are blessed–
    but if you don’t know, you are accursed and a transgressor of the Law!”
    To play the “I didn’t know” card
    is to be irresponsible and unaccountable.
    It is the easiest–and most often used–out
    in the entire Book of Outs.
    Just ask a traffic cop.
    “But Officer, I didn’t know what the speed limit was!”
    “Oh, well never mind then. We’ll have to post more signs.”
    A mass of Trump supporters think
    there is a difference between
    “Obamacare” and the “Affordable Health Care Act,”
    And that the Republicans can repeal Obamacare
    but the Affordable Health Care Act will remain in place.
    So, they voted for Trump and for Republicans.
    That’s not knowing what you’re doing.
    Forgive that? No way.
    There is a price to pay for being stupid.
    The problem is that we all pay it in this case. 01/03/2017 — One of the 10,000 things the Republicans don’t understand
    is that religious freedom is freedom FROM religion!
    The colonists were fleeing religious oppression and intolerance!
    Now the Republicans are creating the very thing
    the founders of the country came here to escape!
    Of course, they never got that in the version of American History
    taught in the schools they attended.
    Republicans had the teacher Billy Collins describes
    in his poem, “The History Teacher” (Googleit).
  2. 01/03/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 46 Panorama– Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    It’s like this:
    Two people are walking together along a sidewalk,
    both look at a flower growing by the curb,
    and one of them sees it and the other does not–
    and the one seeing it not only sees it,
    but sees it in its just-so-ness,
    in its such-as-it-is-ness,
    in its only-one-of-its-kind-ness,
    in its uniqueness and its individuality,
    and they walk on
    one having seen and the other having not seen.
    Or, it’s like this:
    two people go to the ocean
    and both look at it,
    one sees it and the other only looks at it,
    and the one seeing it not only sees it,
    but sees it in its just-so-ness,
    in its such-as-it-is-ness,
    and reads its mood,
    and knows its immediate past
    and its immediate future,
    and hears the music of its surf,
    and catches the sunlight dancing with the waves,
    and they walk along the beach,
    one seeing and the other not seeing.
    See?
    That’s how it is.
  3. 01/04/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    There is a saying in the south,
    “The quickest way to (or through)
    is the long way around.”
    Carl Jung would have agreed.
    He thought of “the process of individuation,”
    whereby we become One With The Self At The Center Of Ourselves,
    as one that requires us to, in his phrase, “circumambulate the Self,”
    because we cannot approach it directly,
    with logic, reason, cognition, thinking, pondering, deliberating, debating, figuring, and calculating,
    using the left hemisphere of our brains
    (You know, the way we do religion),
    but have to come at it indirectly,
    using peripheral vision,
    and instinct and intuition,
    feeling, sensing our way along–
    not with prose but with poetry,
    not with doctrine, dogma, theology and creed,
    but with song and dance and stand-up comedy,
    using the right hemisphere of our brain
    (You know, the way we would never do religion–
    because then, how would we ever get them together,
    and why would they pay the priests?).
    If you take Jung’s idea of the Self,
    and my idea of the Bedrock,
    and see that they are the same idea
    only using different words for the same reality,
    and approach the Bedrock
    singing and dancing and finding the humor in all of it,
    you will soon be One With Everything,
    with nothing to worry about
    and nothing to fear,
    and becoming more like who you are
    with every turn along the way.

01/04/2017 — What do you spend your time
worrying about,
struggling with,
stewing over,
trying to get into place
and keep there
so that things will be
finally
how you want them to be?
“If only” what?
Upon what does your peace depend?
Sit with these things.
Hold them in your awareness.
See what ALL occurs to you.
Reflection is the never-ending path
to always expanding realization.
The deeper we go, the wider it spreads–
in all directions.
Only those who take up the task laughing
have what it takes
to stay the course.
01/04/2017 — There is a fine line between
“the kind of help
that help is all about,
and the kind of help
we all could do without” (Shel Silverstein).

“What a slippery slope this is!” (Zen)

“It’s like a razor’s edge!” (Zen)

We help best
when we help one another
with each other’s life.
But.
When to step forward?
When to step back?
What is assistance?
What is interference?

When we get to
“You are the only one who can help me!”
we have gone too far.

Projection/transference,
projection/counter-transference,
dependency,
co-dependency
make for a nice dance of denial
around the fire
of True Love At Last Again.

Help hesitantly, resistantly,
is my best advice.
with mindful awareness–
not kidding yourself
about what is helpful
and what is not.

Help by being willing to be
unhelpful.
Care by not-caring.
Lead by getting out of the way.
Be the Self
you would help others become.

The disciples must become like the master
in following no master.
01/04/2017 — Know.
Do not understand.
Do not seek explanation.
Eat the apple!
Do not talk about it!
Understand?
01/04/2017 — For poets and such
the life is in the writing,
not the recognition.
Recognition is sweet, but.
It doesn’t last, and.
If it is IT
IT has to be replenished
around the clock.

Donald Trump is the consummate
Recognition Junkie.
It is an empty high, but.
A satisfying poem
is forever satisfying, even
if you’re the only one
who ever reads it.
01/04/2017 — About two years ago, I took up my version of The Way of the Hermit.
I adopted Carl Jung’s idea of a hermit as my own:
“A primitive man who trusts his unconscious.”
From early April to late September, 2016,
I spent 2 – 4 hours every day in my hammock,
and quit when the sun moved far enough south
to bathe my yard in harsh sunlight all day,
and there were no clouds for 6 weeks,
then it turned cold, but.
the silence and solitude were a wonderful gift to my soul, from my soul,
and I learned more from the silence,
by being aware of my thoughts
and reflecting on my experiences,
that anywhere else I could have been.
I talk only with family.
I don’t talk on the phone.
I don’t read newspapers, but follow the news on the internet.
I don’t watch TV.
I don’t go to movies.
I don’t meet friends for lunch or coffee.
I don’t make small talk with the neighbors.
I don’t go to sporting events.
I no longer fly.
I don’t preach or speak to groups of people.
I don’t extend or accept invitations.
I don’t host parties or overnight company.
I read, write, remember, reflect.
I walk around with a camera (and kept one in the hammock).
I work to be mindfully, compassionately, aware
of each situation as it arises.
I attend my body and my moods.
I listen to myself and my internal dialogues.
I clear the underbrush from the wooded land
near our house,
and plant ferns and wild azaleas.
I keep four bird feeders filled.
I follow “The Rule of Jim Dollar” each day.
I don’t eat from 7 PM until 11 AM (or so).
I don’t eat refined sugar.
I don’t drink alcohol.
I drink coffee and water.
I eat a normal lunch and have a bowl of cold cereal
and a spinach salad with olive oil and red wine vinegar for dinner.
I’m in bed by 11 PM.

Today I end my 72nd year.
Tomorrow I begin my 73rd year.
So far, so good.
01/04/2017 — Little kids–I’m thinking of myself here–come into the world expecting certain things.
Oxygen. Mother’s milk. Smiling faces.
Things like that.
One of the things little kids expect
is that adults will be who they say they are.
And that the world to be as they are told it is.
Lying to little kids is a bad thing.
It takes them years to get the truth figured out.
And then, they don’t know what to believe–
or how to know.
After a time of it,
what I settled on is this
You cannot trust people to be who they say they are,
or the world to be what you are told it is.
You have to trust yourself to be okay with that,
and when you are disappointed by one or the other, or both,
you have to trust yourself to deal with it
in ways that steady you,
ground you,
and establish you
upon the bedrock
of your own identity,
character,
values,
Self.
You can handle anything
from that foundation.
Why don’t they tell us THAT when we are little kids?
 

  1. 01/04/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 22 — Union County, North Carolina and Lancaster County South Carolina, looking from North to South, Twelve Mile Creek, November 19, 2016
    We collaborate with, and participate in,
    the descent to the Bedrock,
    the circumambulation of the Self,
    by taking up the practice of mindful awareness,
    and incorporating it into our lives
    in a regular way.
    We listen to our body and read its signals.
    We remember and work with our dreams.
    We notice what catches our eye,
    and look closer.
    We attend the a-ha’s, the that’s-it’s,
    the things that click with us,
    that wink at us,
    that call our name.
    White rabbits are forever crossing our path
    and looking back
    to see if we are coming.
    Go! Go! Go!
    You know,
    like that.
  2. 01/05/2017 — Goodale 2016 33 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Our vulnerability is our greatest strength.
    The chief cornerstone is the one the builders reject.
    “A man of sorrows and acquainted with grief,
    he was despised, and we esteemed him not.”
    Nothing good can come from Nazareth.
    Born in a manger, died on a cross.
    “I am the way, the truth and the life,
    no one gets to the Bedrock, to the Self, to the ‘Father’
    without doing it the way I am doing it.”
    “Like a lamb that is led to the slaughter…”
    And all we talk about is resurrection,
    victory over death,
    and the glories of heaven and life everlasting.
    Vulnerability is handed to us
    and we say, “INvulnerability!
    INvulnerability!
    Nothing less than complete and total
    INvulnerability will do!”
    We think we can get to
    “the face that was ours before we were born”
    by avoiding vulnerability
    and refusing all manifestations
    of discomfort and inconvenience.
    Dying, again and again,
    is absolutely out of the question. 01/05/2017 — Always go with luck. And, go knowing that we are NOT who we say we are! That’s the impetus back “to the face that was ours before we were born”! “We are who we always have been, and who we will be” (Carl Jung)–AND we are who we have no business being! And so, the cross is a living metaphor of who we are and what we are about–always dying, always coming to life, new life, poured over, spilling out. We aren’t playing church here–we are involved in the life long struggle to escape the chrysalis and fly.
    01/05/2017 — When we remove all
    theology, doctrine, dogma, creeds and ideology
    from religion,
    what remains is art,
    and music without lyrics
    (All hymnbooks are clandestine books of doctrine).

Art is religion without the trappings of religion.
We are artists, all,
at the level of the Bedrock, Self, within.
01/05/2017 — We have to bear the consequences
of choices made
and roads not taken.
It’s the weight of life,
I’m talking about.
01/05/2017 — Upon reflection
(Which is the way everything
comes about.
Look around you.
You cannot see anything
that was not the result of reflection,
sometimes profound and devoted reflection
over a long period of time–
grand pianos, for example,
did not just appear in finished form
out of the air,
and neither did the Bible.),

I can say I attended, and graduated from,
Seminary,
and lived out my 40.5 years as a parish minister,
in search of “the face that was mine before I was born.”

That face is the face of one gifted in the art of–
and called into the service of–
hermeneutics, from Hermes,
the Greek name for the messenger of the gods,
the God of Meaning, Interpretation, Translation,
the God whose task it was to make sense of what he heard
and to relay the sense of it to whom it was intended.

As an aside, I will say that it is to me interesting
that the Greek “Hermes” is “Mercury” in Latin.
Mercury is quicksilver, fluid, flowing, impossible to pin down,
to define, to nail in place, to make rigid, to take literally,
to freeze in motion–
unchanged, unchanging, unchangable
through all eternity–
so different from our understanding
and expectation
of the office
of Minister of Word and Sacrament,
which is to talk to the people about God,
and never tell them anything
they haven’t already heard.

Aside over, my work is to be who I have become,
which is who I have always been,
and you will probably discover the same thing
about your own work
and the nature of your own being.
Which I perceive to be a wonder of wonders,
and a miracle beyond imagining.

I never would have thought it
without reflecting on it–
without looking back over it
from the standpoint of having done it.
And now, am able to do it
with a renewed vigor and vitality.
It is who I AM!
It is what is MINE to DO!

Destiny fulfilled and unfolding!
May it be so of us all!
01/05/2017 — Rumi said,
“One glance at a true human being
and we’re in love.”
That’s because a true human being
is authentically, genuinely,
being who she, who he, is–
living out her, out his,
integrity of inward being
in full accord with outward circumstances,
exhibiting before us and all who glance
her, his way,
the face that was hers, was his,
before she, before he, was born.
Demonstrating for all to see
the Bedrock, the Self,
at the foundation of us all–
showing us who we are,
and who we might even yet become.
Falling in love with her, with him,
is evidence of our deep yearning
for ourselves.

01/05/2017 — Everything works together

to bring us forth

and make us who we are

in the time and place,

circumstances and conditions

of our living.
We either receive what is offered

and use it in the production of ourselves,

or we reject it

and abort the new life aborning.
We assist our life or obstruct it.

The events remain the same–

their impact depends upon

the quality of our response to them,

and how we fold them into,

and work to make them a part of,

the life we are living.
All of the things that can stop us,

can just as easily serve as transition points,

propelling us toward our destiny–

now with exactly what we need

to face what will meet us along the way.
-1/05/2017 — All of Jesus’ parables were first dreams.
Jesus dreamed up the parables.
If you will look at your own dreams
as parables about you and your life,
you will be doing what Jesus did.
If you want to know how I know that,
I just made it up.
If you say he didn’t dream up the parables,
I’ll want to know how you know that.
You’ll have to say you just made it up.
Everything we say about Jesus is made up.
Saying it isn’t made up is making that up.
If we are going to make up something,
why not make up something
that will help us with our life?
Treating our dreams like parables
and applying our understanding of them
to the way we live our life
will transform the way we live.
And I’m not making that up.

  1. 01/06/2017 — Congree 2016 09 — Congree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    We know when we are cold, hot, hungry, sleepy,
    and cannot explain what we know
    to anyone who asks
    beyond asking them , “Ya know?”
    What my wife means when she says she’s hot,
    and what I mean when I say I’m cold,
    are often the same thing:
    It is 65 degrees.
    “65 degrees” means different things
    to different people.
    One person’s “cold” is another person’s “hot.”
    Getting people to agree
    as to whether it is cold or hot
    is one of those “exercises in futility”
    that we step into from time to time.
    “Defining our terms so we are all know what we mean”
    is something we do
    in “community building”
    or “leadership development”
    or “mission statement creation”
    that takes playfulness out of the equation.
    Creativity, imagination, intuition, instinct, and play
    require a relaxation of the “define and explain” requirement.
    “Bang, bang, you’re dead!”
    doesn’t ask that we stop every time
    and say we know you really aren’t dead.
    Dead means you aren’t breathing
    and you are clearly breathing
    so we all agree that you aren’t dead.
    To do so would take all the fun
    out of playing Democrats and Republicans.

01/06/2017 — Practice, practice, practice
isn’t always the way to Carnegie Hall.
The art is in the work,
in doing the work well,
in performing the work
for the sake of the work,
to get it down
so that we are satisfied
with our performance
and know that we nailed it today,
and can allow nailing it today
be enough for today–
and be back at it again tomorrow.

There are moms and dads
who nail parenthood,
and get no parade,
no raises in salary,
no recognition,
no plaque in the Hall of Fame of Parenthood.
There is no Hall of Fame of Parenthood.

Yet, they get up every day
to practice and to perform
the role of mom and dad again today.
Everything depends on how well they do.
No one seems to notice or care.

Their life as mom or dad
is an art they perfect
over the full course of their life,
with no standing ovations
from the crowd at Carnegie Hall.

  1. 01/06/2017 — Lake Crandal 2016 09 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    Rumi’s poem, “The Guesthouse” (Googleit), waits to be realized
    in the life of each one of us,
    as we consciously, mindfully,
    welcome all the griefs, losses, and sorrows,
    all the regrets and disappointments,
    the betrayals, memories, feelings, moods, experiences
    of everything we have done and has been done to us,
    invite them in,
    for they all have a place with us,
    and our place is to accommodate ourselves to them–
    to square ourselves up with them,
    and let them be because they are,
    and have had a part in making us
    who we are, as we are.
    Reconciling ourselves to them–
    to the fact of them–
    and making our peace with the fact
    that they are a part of our life,
    a part of us,
    and living what remains to be lived
    of our life
    conscious of their place in our life,
    and how they might influence our life
    and take that influence into account
    as we determine what needs to be done
    and how we might best do it,
    is to live toward the best future we can imagine
    as “the best version of ourselves” we can be.
    Our gift to the new year.
  2. 01/07/2017 — Goodale 2016 26-C — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 7, 2016, I manufactured this reflection by flipping the original image in Photoshop and blending the flipped image with the original. I’ll post the original next to give you the before and after, or after and before.
    Put autism on the table along with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and sugar.
    What you have is cause and effect.
    Sugar is at the bottom of all our ills today.
    And the world runs on sugar.
    Sugar modifies our genetic makeup to crave more sugar.
    (I may be making all of this up–Googleit.)
    We can’t get enough sugar.
    We are all Will Ferrell in the movie “Elf”:
    “The four main food groups are:
    Candy, candy cane, candy corn and syrup.”
    Sugar is not only the new tobacco,
    it is also the new arsenic.
    It is the new nuclear waste water.
    It is toxic to the system.
    Every system.
    It multiplies its own ability to consume those who consume it.
    It is the glob that destroyed Pittsburg
    and every other burg, or berg,
    and all who live therein.
    Take yourself off all forms of refined sugar NOW–
    and those you love.
    Stevia seems to be the only acceptable substitute.
    But, don’t take my word for it. 01/07/2017 — My contradictions keep me balanced
    and sane.
    Without them in place,
    I would walk with a lilt in my stride,
    and go round and round,
    making nice circles,
    but never getting anywhere.
    The way to manage your contradictions
    is to keep an eye on them at all times–
    that would actually be to keep two eyes on them,
    because where one eye looks,
    the other looks as well.
    Holding your contradictions in your awareness
    allows you to walk two paths at the same time,
    being mindful of the other path
    while you are on the one you are on,
    and being careful to never think
    that there is only one path
    and you have found it.
    Every path has its other path.
    One path is the shadow of the other.
    To walk both paths at the same time
    is to walk upright and straght
    along the razor’s edge,
    at the top of the slopes as slippery as ice,
    dancing with our contradictions
    and laughing along the way. 01/07/2017 — I hate to be the one who tells you this, but.
    In the Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now,
    nothing falls on the minister.
    There is no minster.
    I just keep the doors open and the lights on,
    and point things out,
    like, “There is no minister.”
    That means everything falls on the people.
    And that means it is up to the people.
    The people have to be responsible for their own enlightenment.
    Which means “asking, seeking and knocking”–
    and going on “asking, seeking and knocking”
    until they wake up to their role:
    Finding their life and living it within the life they are living.
    The National Park Service has a motto:
    “You are responsible for your own safety.”
    Same thing applies here, with the addition,
    “And for finding your life and living it within the life you are living.”
    I’ll keep pointing out things like that,
    but you have to do the work. 01/07/2017 — Once we take sin off the table
    everything changes.
    Now the problem is not how to get to heaven
    and avoid hell
    when we die,
    but what to do with our life.
    And what to do with our life has nothing to do with
    getting God on our side,
    but getting ourselves on our side–
    or getting on our Self’s side.
    Integrity is the issue,
    and integrity is being true to ourselves,
    within the terms and conditions of our life–
    living aligned with ourselves within,
    and living in accord with the situation as it arises,
    offering there what is needed
    out of the gifts that our ours to give.
    So that we are one within,
    and one with the needs of the time and place of our living.
    And there is no sense of trying to force
    something to happen out of its time,
    but of smoothly assisting what needs to happen
    when and where and how it needs to happen,
    as those who are well equipped to provide
    what is needed.
    That is integrity.
    An arrow’s flight to the bulls-eye.
    We devote ourselves to living like an arrow.
    In each situation, we are the arrow,
    being true to ourselves,
    not kidding ourselves about who we are,
    grounded in our identity,
    at one with the face that was ours before we were born,
    on the way to the target of being
    who and what and how the situation needs us to be:
    aligned with ourselves,
    faithful to the situation’s need of us.
    That is all there is to it.
    But.
    If you think it’s a snap,
    take it for a spin,
    and then tell me what you think.

01/07/2017 — We know when we are in sync
and when we are out of sync–
when we are on the beam
and when we are off it.

The task is to stay on the beam!
To live at one with the Tao,
at one with the rhythm and flow of our life.

We don’t do that by thinking our way along,
looking for the advantages,
chasing profit at any price,
striving to win at all costs,
and come out ahead no matter what.

Five year plans and annual goals
cannot dance with the spirit
that is like the wind,
blowing where it will.

We have to come at our life
in a different way
than we would come at our career.
What we do to pay the bills is one thing.
What we pay the bills to do is quite another.
Having it made
in a way that kills our soul
isn’t having it made.

We cannot buy what the beam supplies
with all the pieces of silver we get
for the price of our soul.

How much do we need to live on the beam?
Find a job that pays that much,
and stay on the beam!

01/07/2017 — A short guide to mindfulness meditation:

Sit quietly in a comfortable position.
Pay attention to your breathing.
listen to your body.
Hold your breathing and your body in your awareness.
Notice when your mind moves away
from your breathing and your body,
and bring it back,
holding your breathing and your body in your awareness.
Do this for 20 minutes twice a day.
And watch the Jon Kabat-Zinn You Tube videos.

01/07/2017 — There is understanding,
and there is knowing.
The two are not the same.
We think we know something when we understand it,
and can define it and explain it,
dissect it and label all of its component parts,
then put it back together blindfolded.
We do not know it.
We only understand it.

Knowing is a different experience altogether.

Understanding and knowing live on different sides of the brain.
Understanding is a left hemisphere function,
and knowing is of the right hemisphere–
though the hemispheres are not neatly cordoned off,
and there is mutual interplay between them–
a borrowing and a lending, so to speak,
to smooth things off and make for harmony
between the spheres.

Knowing knows but it doesn’t know how it knows,
and it doesn’t care.
It can’t explain anything,
or reel off a memorized list of reasons for doing a thing,
or leaving it undone.

Knowing knows what time it is without looking at a clock
or a calendar–
or, better, perhaps, knowing knows what it is time for,
and what it is time not for.

Knowing is tuned to the rhythms of life
and of soul–
and to the movement of the tides and the stars–
and to the mood of the room,
and the need of the moment.

Understanding has its place and its work to do,
and knowing has its place and its work to do.
It is our place, and our work, to perceive when what is called for,
and put ourselves in the service of the one
whose time is at hand.

That is a knowing thing,
not an understanding one.

Understand?
01/07/2017 — I am encouraged that so many of you are comfortable
in a church that has set aside the “churchyness” of religion–
the pomp and ceremony and decorative circumstance–
for the essential practice of silence and mindfulness,
and the experience of shared community
with no hierarchy or external authority.

The ground is that which grounds us all.
The bedrock of identity, purpose and meaning
that is our center and foundation.

No one has to tell us what that is–or can–
or has any business trying!
No one can give us our business, our work, our life!
We each are equipped to know what that is,
and to do it “with all our heart, mind, soul and strength”
We know the “YES! That grips us in the presence
of what we must do.
We only have to know what we know,
and live in light of it.

The church as a “gathering of sojourners,”
comes together to remember
that we only have to know what we know
and live in light of it–
and to remind one another of it.

Life can distract us with its threats and promises,
and its bitter, crushing, experiences with grief, loss and sorrow.
We can forget who we are and what we are about,
and need the shelter of caring presence to keep the noise out,
and the darkness,
that the silence and the light might come in.

Community provides us with people who are able
to listen us to the truth of what we have to say
and need to hear.
We need to hear what we have to say!
In order to reflect on it and come to new realizations,
rearrange our response to our experience,
shift our perspective,
and change our life.

No one can tell us what we need to hear in this way
the way we can tell ourselves what needs to be heard.
Authenticity, genuineness and vulnerability
are the mix for transformation
made possible by a listening/hearing community
without a stereotype to champion and impose,
or a perspective to force on all comers.

Here, we don’t know what we are supposed to say or hear.
It is a different way of doing things.
We are free to say what needs to be said,
and to hear what needs to be heard–
in order to know what needs to be known,
and do what needs to be done.

Why is a place like this so hard to find?
01/07/2017 — My expectation is that with some time spent with
silence and mindful, compassionate awareness,
you will begin to form your own actual community
with a few friends you already know.
The virtual Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now
will become tangible in your life
as you create a community capable
of being what all of its members need
to find their life and live it
within the life they are living–
by being the one who takes this
and brings it to life in your life.
There will be an inner urgency about it
that makes it both necessary and possible.
01/07/2017 — I do so grieve the lost of standards of behavior
that has become so apparent
during this Presidential election–
and before that,
throughout the eight years
of Barack Obama’s Presidency.
Republicans have been shameless,
unblushing and indecent from the start.
Trump’s indignities and obscenities
have been but the cusp of the wave
based upon utter disregard
for the humanity of any they don’t like.
This is not a lapse of grace and decorum
that can be repaired.
With civility crumbling
before the Vandals and Huns,
I fear for civilization as we know it.

  1. 01/08/2017 — Goodale 2016 26-C — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 7, 2016, Straight up without the pseudo reflection.
    Live so as to make life a lot worse without you.
    That doesn’t mean honey-coating anything.
    It means seeing things as they are
    and not allowing that to stop you
    from being who you are,
    offering what you have to give
    to the time and place of your living.
    The spirit of the times is rude, ugly and cruel,
    and we live from one enclave
    of kindness and compassion
    to the next.
    Create your own enclave of frank safety
    for those who come your way:
    “This is how things are,
    this is what can be done about it,
    and that’s that.
    We cannot do what can be done
    if we are all-curled up in a fetal position
    waiting for Mamma to take care of us.
    We have to take our courage
    where we find it
    and live out of our own core
    in meeting what must be met.”
    When we wake up and step into a nightmare,
    we would do well to remember
    and explore our nighttime dreams.
    Our dreams compensate the life we are living,
    and call forth realization, recognition,
    strength, courage and grace.
    Dreams properly interpreted
    are nightly oracles calling us to take heart
    in a “This is what is happening in your life,
    and this is what you need to do about it”
    kind of way.
    We are never as helpless as it seems.
    Don’t let your resources lie about
    unseen, unused.
    We have a life eager to be lived
    in any circumstance,
    in every condition of life.
    We should give it a chance
    to show us what we can do.

01/08/2017 — A lot of people are uncomfortable looking within.
One of them told me,
“If you clear your mind,
you will make room for thoughts
you don’t want to think!”
I asked, “Can you give me an example?”
The person didn’t want to think about it.

Living ethical lives, never mind the morality part,
or living moral lives, never mind the ethical part,
is as close to religion as some people care to be.

They seem to know that the right kind of religion
will eat you alive.
“The sea is out to get you!”
And they are not about to be eaten alive.

Religion is wasted on those
who don’t have what it takes to be religious,
that is to say,
living mindfully and trusting their unconscious.

I don’t know how to take one of those people
and make him/her religious.
Jesus didn’t know either,
and walked away,
seeking an audience
with those who could hear
what he had to say.

My plan over the course of my life
was, and continues to be,
to be the kind of person
I would like to talk to,
and see who else might gather around
to hear what I have to say.

It has worked so well for me,
I recommend it to you.
Become what you seek.
Offer what you have to give.
See where it goes.
01/08/2017 — Trump would be lost
without those to blame,
bully,
sue…

Trump is above the law,
beyond the law,
lawless,
an outlaw.

A dispassionate demagogue
who gives people
permission to be as he is
on a smaller scale.

Those of us who see that
are like Yoda and Obi-wan
under the rule of the Empire
waiting out the times.

  1. 01/08/2017 — Providence Cemetery 2016 01 Panorama Black and White — Providence Presbyterian Church, Charlotte (Matthews), North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    A tree–and all plants and animals–becomes what it is capable of being within the context and circumstances of its life.
    Human beings rarely become what they are capable of being,
    and spend their time and energy,
    rearranging, improving, transforming
    the context and circumstances of their life,
    to their own joy and satisfaction,
    and personal gain.
    This is the moral of the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden.
    It is a story we each live out in the time an place of our living–
    refusing to become who we are capable of being,
    and wrestling with conditions and particulars
    to make things more like we think they ought to be,
    never minding who and how we think we ought to be.
    We would do well to learn from the trees
    how best to go about our life.

01/08/2017 — Old people sit around grousing,
remembering better times.
Young people are busy living their life.
But.
The life they are living
won’t be around in their old age.
Live the life that goes before you,
I say.
Not the life you will leave behind.
That is a task worth your time!

01/08/2017 — The following is taken from Volume 2, Oriental Mytholory of Joseph Campbell’s 4 Volume set The Masks of God.
Campbell says, “An American sociologist said to his friend, a Shinto priest, ‘I have been to a number of Shinto shrines, and watched a number of Shinto rites. I have read quite a bit, and thought at length about it, but I don’t get the ideology. I don’t get your theology.’
The Japanese gentleman, smiling, replied, ‘We do not have ideology. We do not have theology. We dance.’
“Which is,” says Campbell, “precisely the point. Shinto is a religion, not of sermons, but of awe—which is a sentiment that may, or may not produce words, but, in either case, goes beyond them. It is not ‘a grasp of the conception of spirit,’ but a sense of its ubiquity.”
Campbell adds, “The psychology of the Japanese tends to favor the emotional rather than the rational. The Japanese take pleasure in sensing the atmosphere, so they tend to be rather easily moved by environment. There is an ancient Japanese poem which, in very free translation, says,
‘Unknown to me what resideth here:
Tears flow from a sense of unworthiness and gratitude.’
“Living Shinto is not the following of some set-down moral code, but a living in gratitude and awe amid the mystery of things. So that,
‘Unknown to me what resideth here’—what resideth anywhere, in anything of our concern—‘Tears flow’—for I am actually moved—‘from a sense of unworthiness’—as one not perfectly pure of heart—‘and gratitude.’”
This is an attitude that I recognize as a properly religious attitude—a perspective that fosters a certain perception of, and a way of being in, the world, wherever we are.

01/08/2017 — Take up the practice of living
out of your own authority.
Jesus said, “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right?”
Jesus certainly decided for himself what was right.
Not even his mother could get by
with telling him what to do.
Decide for yourself what you will do and will not do.
When, where and how.
You are in charge of your life.
Be in charge of your life.
What decisions are you unable to make?
What’s at the bottom of that?
What is preventing you from
living out of your own authority?
From deciding for yourself what is right for you?

01/09/2017 — Practice living out of your own authority
by consciously, mindfully, deciding
what you are going to do and not do.

YOU decide what to wear and how to cut your hair–
in light of everything else.

YOU decide what you will eat and avoid eating–
in light of everything else.

YOU decide what you will do and refuse to do–
in light of everything else.

YOU become completely and totally responsible for YOU–
in light of everything else.

We do not live in a vacuum on an island in a world all our own.

We have to take everything into account,
aware of the implications one thing has for another,
and living in light of the true good of the whole.

This is to live with mindful, compassionate, awareness–
on our own authority.

It will slow you down.
Force deliberation and reflection on you,
and require you to care about what you are doing.

Require you to care.

We cannot live mindfully, compassionately, aware
of everything
and not care about anything.

We are in the habit of living our lives
not noticing much,
and caring about very little.

The ground and foundation of the right kind of religion
is seeing everything
and caring about it all–
and deciding what you will do in response to it
in light of the true good of the whole
out of your own authority.

You will quickly discover that there is a reason
we don’t know anything about nearly everything,
and don’t care to.

How can we possibly care about the lion AND the antelope
without taking sides?

Taking sides is what we do best.
No! Having an opinion is what we do best!
No! Serving our agenda is what we do best!
No! Hiding from the truth of the mutual exclusiveness of it all is what we do best!

Col. Nathan R. Jessup nails us:
We can’t handle the truth.

This is where you begin the work of being religious in the right way.
SEEING!
HEARING1
UNDERSTANDING!
KNOWING!
And taking the responsibility for DOING
what you decide what needs to be done in response to it all
in light of the true good of the whole
out of your own authority–
BEING at one with all things.

This is the religious problem.
Or, the cross that is ours to bear.

“What a slippery slope this is!”
“It is like the edge of a razor!”

To be religious is to live knowingly in all times and places,
in light of the true good of the whole.

Just seeing.
Just knowing.
Just doing.
Just being–at one with the whole.
Grounded on our own authority.
Not running.
Not hiding.
Not denying.
Not kidding ourselves.
Not looking away.

Let’s get this show on the road!

01/09/2017 — The more we know about what needs to be done,
the less we are able to do.

We take to the fetal position,
rendered immobile and helpless
by the reality
of unchooseable choices
on every side.

Suck it up!

“Get in there and do your thing!”
Decide what you are going to do
out of your own authority,
and do it.

Bear the full weight of the awful responsibility,
and stop whining like a baby.

01/09/2017 — I get all my news from the tabloids–
don’t you?
I saw just yesterday that new evidence
has been found
definitely confirming what we have always known:
President Obama was not born in the USA!
His entire presidency has been a fraud,
and is in the process of being invalidated
by the world court.
No kidding.
I saw that on the news stand
at the grocery store.
And I see that we are getting
the same quality of intensive journalism
delivered to the comfort of our recliners
right here on Facebook.
The wonders of technology
are scientifically proven
to be immune to any kind of untoward manipulation,
and I saw this morning
that Bill Clinton had been nabbed with another woman
in a night club,
and there were pictures to prove it.
God is good, and oh, so awesome,
to give us the truth like this
and guide our way to the everlasting light.
Tabloids and Facebook are tools of the Lord!
Pass the word!

01/09/2017 — We grow toward living out of our own authority
by calling to mind all of the things we complain about doing.

Stand before each one,
and consider it in its allness,
in its just-so-ness
in its such-as-it-is-ness.
Hold it, considered this way, in you awareness.
Decide whether you are going to do it or not do it.
Do that with each item on your list of things you hate to do.
Stop doing the things you decide to not do.
Do the things you decide to do–
not because you have to do them,
not because you are being forced or compelled to do them–
because you have DECIDED to do them.
You have embraced and affirmed them
as things that are yours to do.
When it comes time to do them,
get up and go do them
without fanfare and no pouting.
You have said they are yours to do,
like anything else that is yours to do–
tying your shoes,
brushing your teeth,
washing your hair…
And if this is too much for you,
if you cannot bring yourself to do them
without moaning and remonstrating and gnashing your teeth,
then do it with everything that is yours to do:
“Damn it all to hell! I have to sneeze! I HATE sneezing!”
Cleaning your glasses,
Blowing your nose.
Scratching your ear.
The whole entourage.

01/09/2017 — You cannot hope to be religious
without living out of your own authority–
without deciding for yourself
what it means for you to “be religious.”

You have to assume responsibility
for your own perspective
and for the perceptions
arising from your perspective–
to be accountable for how the way you see
determines and limits what you see.

You have to find your own life and live it
within the life you are living,
and you are the authority who knows
what is your life and what is not your life.

You have to discover the face that was yours
before you were born–
and you are the authority who knows when you have done so.

You have to speak and sing and write
with your own voice–
think, reason, imagine, and create
with your own mind–
and live in an increasingly close relationship
with your own Self.

You have to know when you are on the beam
and when you are off of it–
and you are the one who says so,
and says not-so,
about all of it.

Being your own authority,
is being grounded in your own identity,
living from the foundation of the bedrock
that is the unmoving and unmovable
truth of who you are–
the source of your character,
your values,
your gifts,
and all that is YOU upon the earth–
the YOU that no one but you can be.

You are the one who knows what that is,
who says what it is,
who lives what it is.

You are the origin and the expression
of your own authority.
Everything falls into place around that.

01/09/2017 — Learning to be religious
is learning to trust yourself,
to trust your Self,
to trust your unconscious–
so called because we are not conscious of it.

Carl Jung said,
“There is within each of us another,
whom we do not know.”
It is our task to come to know the “Other” within.

The encounter with the “Other” within
is a religious experience,
an experience with the Numen,
with the Self at the center of ourselves,
with more than words can say.

This Numen within is the source
of our engagement with the Numen without,
which is one way our unconscious attempts
to wake us up to its reality.
Numinous encounters are
encounters with the unconscious,
and are calls to be conscious
of the fact that there is more to us
than meets the eye–
than can be rationally perceived.

The conscious world of physical reality
is no the only world.
Ancient peoples have always understood
the physical, visible, world
to be grounded upon the spiritual, invisible, world.

We use the word “spiritual” to signify
that which is not “physical.”
It can be sensed and “felt,”
but not touched, seen, weighed, measured or counted.
And it is not to be denied.

As conscious beings,
we live in two worlds at the same time,
and it is our place to become conscious
of that which is unconscious,
and to bring the unconscious to life
in the world of actual, tangible, reality.

We give life to the unconscious,
we incarnate the unconscious,
in art and music,
and in lives that are a blend of both worlds,
with the unconscious, spiritual world
being a veritable reality in people who
are intentionally open to,
and to collaborate with,
the unconscious, spiritual, Self within.

Learning to be religious
is learning to be open to,
and to collaborate with,
the unconscious, spiritual, Self within.

This work constitutes the full scope
of the spiritual journey.

  1. 01/09/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 19 — Twelve Mile Creek, Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, Lancaster County, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 19, 2016
    There are no throw-a-way moments.
    Everything matters.
    Living mindfully brings it all into focus.
    The present moment is the pivot point
    to 10,000 possible futures.
    How we live here and now
    influences all that follows–
    and determines more than we imagine.
    We like to think nothing we do makes any difference,
    when, in truth, everything we do makes some difference.
    And we have the potential of making a much grater difference
    simply by mindfully attending what we do and how we do it.
    We impact the way life is lived around us
    by the way we live our life.
    We carry the power of the future
    with us every day,
    thinking that we are the most powerless person
    who ever lived.
    Start living like you are the most powerful.
    Carry yourself like you care
    about every person you meet–
    about every single thing
    in every day.
    Change your world.
  2. 01/10/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 45 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    Being religious requires us to
    work out our destiny
    within the time and place–
    and relationships–
    that fate has placed us.
    (As an aside, I’ll say that
    people are always saying,
    “God did this and God did that,”
    but it is fate they are talking about.
    Fate can be great and terrible,
    yet it is always the environment
    in which we seek and serve our destiny.
    If we turn our backs on our destiny,
    nothing remains of our life
    but the fate that carries us along
    like lemmings to the sea.)
    Serving our destiny is the most
    religious experience we can aspire to.
    The numinous experiences
    with time, place and people
    that are encountered throughout our life
    are doorways to the ineffable,
    white rabbits winking at us,
    calling our name–
    and will, if we respond appropriately,
    lead us to our destiny.
    If we walk past unseeing,
    we remain in the world ruled by fate,
    a cow following cows along the path
    from the barn to the pasture back to the barn.

01/10/2017 — Not one of us is expendable,
replaceable,
unnecessary.
Each of us is a part of the whole,
and “an ever-present help in time of trouble”
to others of us
who are engaged in the work of
seeking and serving our destiny.

Not one of us sees things clearly.
We all look through the fogged up window
of our own perspective
which clouds our perceptions
and limits us to our own way of seeing–
which is never expansive enough
to see all there is to see.

We help one another with the tasks of life:
Seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing, being.
We deepen, expand, enlarge one another,
uphold and encourage one another,
provide one another with good company,
good conversation, good humor, good food and drink,
and keep each other going
through good times and bad,
serving the destiny that is ours to serve
in the time and place that fate has put us.

01/10/201 —   I am not saying, or suggesting, that
“Trump is Hitler.”
I am saying that Trump is,
like Hitler was,
“the spokesman of his times.”
And, as the spokesmen of their times,
nothing gets in their way.

They are unstoppable in their ability
to bring the spirit of the times
forth in their life.
They are speaking to people
who hear what they say as though
they (the people) are hypnotized, mesmerized,
because the words they hear
mesh so well with the words they are desperate to hear.

They cannot tolerate being told to grow up,
to wake up,
to be responsible for their own life,
and to help others find what they need
to be responsible for their own life.

They want to be babied, cuddled, cared for.
They want a wall around them
to keep them safe.
They want a protector.
They crave protection and safety.
Their chant, “Build the Wall!”
is to be understood as a plea to “Make Me Safe!”

The spirit of the times is a spirit
of fear, rage, greed and hatred,
and it is gaining followers and momentum worldwide.
Trump is a ready pawn in the hands
of his fate.
A would-be Deliverer
proudly bearing the projections
of desperate masses.

He cannot deliver anyone
anymore than Hitler could.
The people cannot be delivered from
their fears, their rage, their greed, their hatred.
They have to grow up whether they want to or not,
wake up,
stand up and be responsible for their own life
within the time and place of their living.

Fate repeats the lesson it is fated to deliver
age after age
because of the failure of the people
to take up the task
of finding and living their life–
the life that is theirs to live,
that only they, individually, can life–
and so, serve their destiny,
within the time and place
that fate has put them.

Here we go again.
another round of the same old same old.
Because people won’t hear
what they don’t want to be told.

01/10/2017 — If we were going to meet together as an actual, not virtual, Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now,
my vision of that has us doing it in two ways.

There would be a large gathering once a month
with “all of us,” or, as many who could,
coming together to uphold, encourage, sustain,
remember and remind each other
“who we are and what we are about.”

This would be a gathering of music, reflection, sharing,
and whatever else it needed to be.

Between gatherings like this,
we would meet in small groups of 3 to 6
once a week, or twice a month,
to talk about our dreams,
that is, to work on our nighttime dreams together,
to talk about our relationship with our unconscious,
and our work to put ourselves in accord
with our Self and our life
in finding and living the life that is ours to live.
And to share what we have found to be helpful
in that work.

If you can put something like this together
in the place where you live,
let us know here
what you are doing and how it is coming along.

01/10/2017 — I fast 14 hours each day,
between 7 PM and 9 AM
(more or less),
and break the fast each day
with an egg scrambled
in olive oil
and flavored with Cayenne pepper.

I follow the same procedure each day,
with outcomes remarkably different
from day to day.

Maybe the skillet isn’t the same degree of hot.
Maybe there is inconsistency
in the amount of oil, or pepper.
Maybe it is all of that,
and something else besides.

I never have the same egg experience.

The extension that begs to be recognized
is that no experience can be duplicated.
No day is like any other day.
No nothing is any other nothing ever.

Yet, we talk of the “same old same old”
because we are not alert to the differences.
Because we are sleep-walking
through our life.

Each day is a miracle.
I don’t care how you scramble it,
it won’t come out like yesterday did.

01/10/2017 — Carl Jung said,
“Our life is not made by ourselves.
The main bulk of it is brought into existence
by forces that are hidden to us.”

This is the experience of all religious people everywhere.

Apart from this experience,
religion is statutes and ordinances,
doctrines, dogmas, decrees and creeds–
of the head,
with heart left uninvited to the party.

01/10/201 — The church I would create and establish
would be “of the people, by the people, for the people.”
No hierarchy.
No top-down,
outside-in,
inorganic, artificial, inauthentic
structure.
But, organic spirituality,
genuine, authentic, grounded
in the personal experience
of individuals with the numen
of their own existence.

You cannot manufacture that.
Or order it up,
command it into existence.
You cannot MAKE disciples
of all, or any, nations.

Even “disciples” is a misnomer.
The idea is for each “disciple”
to be in full accord with herself,
with himself,
and live in full accord
with the time and place of her,
of his,
living.

So, religion comes down to:
“Know Thyself!” and
“To Thine Own Self Be True!”
with conscious knowing unconscious,
and living to incarnate the soul
within each person
in to the life that each is living.

  1. 01/10/2017 — Backyard Sunset 2017 01 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, January 9, 2017
    We have everything we need
    to live our life–
    the life that is our life to live–
    that only we can live–
    within the life we are living.
    We have everything we need
    to serve our destiny–
    to answer the question
    our life is asking of us.
    What keeps us stuck in place?
    Grousing about the same old same old?
    Refusing all invitations to dance
    with our life?

01/11/2017 — The right kind of religion
is the heart of your life.

If you don’t care enough about your life
to go to hell for it,
we can’t help you.

If you do care enough about your life
to go to hell for it,
so that you are here to live your life
no matter what,
you have found
what you have been looking for–
a place dedicated
to supporting you in your work
to find your life and live it
as it needs to be lived
in the service of your destiny.

If that means going to hell,
we’ll be with you all the way!

01/11/2017 — What keeps you going?
It better not be results.
You know Jesus?
It is said he could raise the dead, but.
He couldn’t guarantee results.
What kept him going
was the love for what was his to do
whether it worked or not.

What can you do
for the love of what you’re doing
whether it works or not?

If you don’t know,
or don’t have anything like that to do,
you have the rest of your life
to find the life that is worthy of you–
worth life itself–
and do it.

It’s called The Hero’s Journey:
Living the life that is worth your life.

It is at the ground of religion at its best.

We are here to help you find it and live it, but.
You have to be willing to seek it
with all your heart–
and results, impact and outcome
cannot be more important
than the joy
of doing what is yours to do.

01/11/2017 — Instead of thinking and talking about God,

it would be accurate and honest

to talk about “The God-idea.”
The God-idea puts God in God’s place–

the projection of the human mind/imagination.

We worship our idea of God.

We make up everything we say about God.

God exists as an extension of ourselves–

as the way it would be if consciousness were in charge.
What we call “the experience of God”

is the experience of the Numen–

the numinous reality–

at the heart of our unconscious,

which is embedded in our DNA.
We are all “servants of God,”

in that consciousness evolved

to be a partner with the unconscious

in the work to incarnate unconscious reality

in the world of physical facts.
There is nothing factual about the unconscious.

It is an amalgam of potential

with the urge to realize, actualize, know itself.

The evolutionary urge of life becoming alive

to its own reality–

of life becoming conscious of itself living–

is behind everything that we call “life.”
Every living thing strives to be itself–

strives to become what it is capable of becoming.

Human beings are life experimenting with–

playing with–

the possibilities

of consciousness becoming conscious of itself–

of the unconscious becoming conscious of itself.
The problem is that as life becomes conscious of itself,

it is also becoming conscious of its possibilities.

It doesn’t have to become itself.

It can become anything it can imagine being.

A longleaf pine no longer has to be a longleaf pine.

An alligator can aspire to be more than an alligator.

Something new is introduced to life.
Duality.

Complexity.

Contradiction.

Denial.

Ambivalence.

Morality.

Ethics.

Did I say complexity?
Consciousness doesn’t have to be the servant

of the unconscious.

It can go its own way.

Do its own thing.

Create its own world

to its own liking.

Or, so it seems.
Self-deception is what consciousness does best.

Consciousness can’t tell the difference

between the real world of facts and ice cream,

and the world of fantasy of apparent facts

and ice cream with all the taste

and none of the fat and calories of the real thing.
Consciousness doesn’t know when, or where, to stop.

“To know no limits,

to let yourself run free”

is consciousness’ idea of Really Living.

Life Without Limits!

What could be better than that?

The ultimate fantasy

is being able to do anything we want

with no consequences ever being applied—

and we have sought the elixir or immortality,

or the fruit of the Tree of Eternal Life,

with the desperation of those

who cannot bear the prospect

of a limit they cannot transcend.
Our quest for life on our terms

(consciousness’ quest for life on its terms)

put the quest of the unconscious for life on its terms

on hold for all of time.

We are not interested

in sacrificing our idea of life

for the unconscious’ idea of life.

It’s a problem.

Spiritual masters over time

have always known the solution to be

“Thy will, not mine, be done!”—

with the “Thy” being the unconscious,

and the “mine” being consciousness.

Augustine said,

“Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.”

The unconscious is life,

and holds the key to life,

“pouring over, running all over.”

But, it is a hard sell.
Consciousness thinks it knows what it is doing,

and is not willing to hand itself over

to the care and keeping of the unconscious,

on the off chance

that it would be better off

in any measurable way.
Thus, consciousness has to get to the end of its rope

before it can change its mind about what is important,

and give the unconscious permission

to take the controls

and guide their join life

on its path through the sea.
Those “tender-minded” people

who have a sense of what I’m talking about

are in position to forestall requisite drop

to the end of the rope,

by instituting in mid-life

the process of turning things over

and letting the unconscious to have the reins—

maintaining just enough oversight

to assist the unconscious with practical matters

which are beyond its experience

(Filing income tax forms, for example).

Consciousness takes care of the details,

the unconscious takes care

of the direction, tone and character

of the life we live together.
The Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now

comes into play

at the point of assisting people

negotiate the fine points of

putting themselves in accord with the Numen,

the Self, at the center of the unconscious,

and living their life on two paths at the same time.
It isn’t the only way of helping that collaboration work,

and will happily point out the other sources

of help toward that end.

In this work, there is no competition.

All are truly one in the work to be whole.
Trump is not one of us.
He doesn’t do it the way
any of us would do it.
He doesn’t do it the way
anyone we know–
or know of, know about–
would do it.
The phrase,
“We don’t do it that way,”
applies to Trump.
Who is the “we” from whom
Trump gets his idea
of the it ought to be done?
Who is the “we” Trump
plays to?
Aims to please?
I don’t think he has one.
I don’t think they exist.
Trump is an accurate depiction
of a patient
(or an inmate)
in a psychiatric ward.
No one there would do it
like any “we” we ever heard of
would do it.
They all would be saying,
“I am Jesus Christ!”
And,
“NO! NOT YOU! “–
OR YOU–
OR YOU–
I AND I ALONE Am Jesus Christ!”
There is no community
on a psychiatric ward,
just a collection of stand-alone egos
striving to impose their way
on everyone else.

  1. 01/11/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 44 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    What are you willing to go to hell for?
    It better be the life that is your life to live–
    the one that only you can live–
    the one you were born to live
    in being who you are
    and serving your destiny
    no matter what.
    If you aren’t living a life
    you would go to hell for,
    you are living the wrong life,
    and need to find the one that is worth your time,
    and your life.
  2. 01/11/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 23 — Walnut Creek Access, Union County, North Caroling, November 19, 2016
    Sadness is part of it.
    You wouldn’t chase away joy and laughter.
    Let sadness have its turn,
    whether it be grounded in betrayal or remorse,
    or the angst of the children leaving home
    to live their own lives,
    or your aging and its impositions
    and the cumulative weight of the years.
    Welcome everything in its time!
    When sadness comes,
    be sad.
    When grief arrives, There are good reasons for it all.
    Don’t turn away the cold callers
    looking for the warmth of your attention.
    You don’t have to serve them cookies,
    but don’t bar them from access
    to the heart of your humanity.
    They will stay longer than you would like,
    but not nearly as long as you are afraid they will.
  3. 01/12/2017 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 05 — Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016, an iPhone photograph
    Denial can explain away all possible realities.
    Nothing can happen
    that denial cannot disappear.
    “Delta Dawn” should be the theme song
    of the Trump administration.
    “I didn’t do it!”
    “He didn’t do it!”
    “I never said it!”
    “He never said it!”
    “I didn’t mean it!”
    “He didn’t mean it!”
    “Stop picking on me!”
    “Stop picking on him!”
    “I’m going to Make America Great Again!”
    “Isn’t he GREAT?”
    Obama wasn’t born in the USA
    and Trump is GREAT.
    Denial can do anything.
    With anything.
    Truth has no impact on denial.
    Facts don’t stand a chance.
    We have been hurled down the Rabbit Hole.
    The world is upside down.
    “No it isn’t. Everything is perfectly fine.
    Or would be if you would just shut up
    and accept the way things are
    like we all have.”

01/12/2017 — “Truth forever on the scaffold,
Wrong forever on the throne”
(James Russell Lowell).
We need a faith to believe in,
a light to last us
through the long dark night.
The test of all religion
is how it holds up
through the shaking
of the foundations,
to the crumbling of all hope.
What are you going to turn to
when there is nothing left
of what you thought was
sound, solid and valid for all time?
What can you count on,
rely on,
look to,
trust,
believe in,
to see you through?
Ain’t but one thing left
and that’s you.
We always have ourselves–
our Self at the center
of our heart and soul.
We always have the Lodestar within,
grounding us,
centering us,
orienting us,
consoling us,
comforting us,
encouraging us,
reminding us,
“Come to me all who are weak and heavy laden,
and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you,
and learn from me,
for my yoke is easy,
and my burden is light.”
What we seek without is within,
but we think it is not within,
it can’t be,
we are empty, hopeless and alone,
we know we are.
And so comes to pass the saying,
“The stone the builders reject
is the chief cornerstone.”
We are the man sitting on his ox,
looking for his ox.
The woman with her glasses on her head,
looking for her glasses.

We are what we seek, but.
We have to believe it is so to know that it is.
We have to sit quietly past all doubt,
and open ourselves to the truth of our own soul,
our own Self,
saying to us: “Come, follow me.”
We have a soul that is as old as time.
A soul that has seen everything,
and been through it all.
A soul that knows.
It only takes trusting that it is so to know that it is.
Stop! Look! Listen!
Past your fear.
Past your terror.
Past your grief.
Past your sorrow.
Past your emptiness.
Past your aloneness.
Past the suffocating agony
of the complete loss of everything.
Until your eyes adjust to the darkness
and you perceive the faint glimmer
of the light within,
and hear the soft reassurance
of the “still, small voice,”
and know you are not alone,
never have been,
never will be.
Seek the ground of knowing
the truth of your own Self,
your own soul–
the bedrock of your own life and being–
the foundation of the “I” you call “me.”
That which remains of YOU
when all else has been taken from you.
YOU are inviolable, immovable, unshakeable.
Nothing can take YOU from you.
You together with YOU
are all you need
to deal with any contingency,
face any circumstance.
What is happening is not the first time
it has ever happened.
It won’t be the last.
Yet here you are–here we all are.
Take heart in the fact that,
having lost all heart
10,000 times before this present
manifestation of the Void in our life,
here we are.
We’re still here.
You can miss the significance of it,
but you cannot deny it.
Your pain is real.
Your agony is not to be denied.
You are very much here, now.
That’s a great sign for the future!
It means there has always been a future!
And there always will be!
You have YOU!
YOU together with you
are a Swiss Army Knife
of resiliency and responses,
well capable of dealing with
whatever comes your way.
After all, you found this web site, didn’t you?
You are reading this, aren’t you?
If YOU can bring you here,
you can trust YOU to guide you
to the next step,
and to the one after that.

And, in addition to that, we are all here with you!
There is a veritable country of YOUs at your side!
You are not alone on any level!
Take heart!
Be courageous!
It’s just another trial!
Only one more ordeal!
Trials and ordeals are what we do best!
We will be amazed (again) at what we can do!
It only takes believing it
to know it is so!
01/12/2017 — We don’t get to choose our choices.
And that means,
we don’t get such a great choice.
We can die by living with integrity.
Or, we can die by living without integrity.
That’s our choice.
And “integrity” means knowing who we are
and being true to ourselves
in all matters great and small.
01/12/2017 — What you are aware of being
in most need of
is what you need from yourself,
a gift from your Self to you,
from YOU to you.
What you seek is found within.
Joseph Campbell said,
“The treasure we seek most ardently,
is found deep in the cave
we most do not want to enter”
(Or words to that effect).
Hold what you are aware of needing the most
in your awareness,
and allow it to become, of its own accord,
an image or an object,
so that it is no longer defined by a word,
but expressed as a symbol
in the image or object.
Wait for it to appear as called for in your mind.
Now that you have a visible, tangible symbol
of what you most need,
hold that in your awareness,
and ask it what it needs of you, from you.
Wait for the response to occur to you–
not as something you think up,
but as a truth that simply is.
Commune with the image or object in this way
to air out,
or to get to the bottom,
of what you need of it,
and of what it needs of you.
The image, or object, is a symbol of the Self,
of which there are an infinite number.
It concretizes the Self in your experience,
and permits you to engage the Self
in meditative communion.
Or, you can follow this procedure to imagine
other images or objects
for particular needs or concerns,
and allow them to become symbols of the Self.
This is a practice of making real the inner world
of the unconscious psyche, soul, heart, Self,
and establishing a means of exploration and communion.
And will stand you in good stead over time
as a way of deepening and expanding
your understanding of the YOU you are.

  1. 01/13/2017— Around Bass Lake 2016 20 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Sinking into our Self
    is coming forth into the world.
    Introspection is not an end
    but a beginning.
    An opening into engagement and expression
    that carries us into
    the unfolding destiny
    of our far distant future.
    We–the conscious ego-self we see in the mirror–
    span two worlds,
    the invisible, unconscious
    (so-called because we are unconscious of it)
    world of spirit and truth at the core of life itself,
    and the visible, physical
    world of normal, apparent, reality.
    We bring forth the invisible world
    within the visible world
    by becoming our Self
    within the life we are living.
    It would be like Clark Kent
    becoming Superman
    if it weren’t for the vulnerability part.
    More often than not,
    it is like Clark Kent
    becoming Jesus on the cross.
    The world is not built to be receptive
    to spirit and truth.
    The Hero’s Journey does not often
    end with parades and parties
    celebrating the coming out of the hero.
    More often than not,
    no one notices,
    or cares.
    The true legacy of Jesus
    is being ignored–
    “despised and rejected,”
    is how the Biblical prophecy puts it.
    That’s the kind of reception the hero gets.
    Yet, the hero offers exactly what is needed most.
    We all come equipped to meet some need.
    Our gifts are perfectly suited
    for the good of the whole–
    and need us to collaborate with our Self
    in bringing them forth
    in the time and place of our living.
    We begin the Hero’s Journey by looking within,
    by listening for what is being said to us,
    and seeing where it goes.

01/13/2017 — It is not about dying with the most toys
and winning.
It is not about winning.
Or losing.
The world is not divided between
winners and losers.
I is divided between
those who dance
and those who do not dance.
It is about dancing.
Period.
Those who dance, dance.
They do not win.
Those who do not dance, do not dance
They do not lose.
Those who dance know that the dance is everything.
Those who do not dance do not know that the dance is everything.
That is all.
Dancing is about being one with the music,
with the rhythm and flow of the moment,
of life here and now,
of what is happening,
and what needs to happen,
and what is to be done in response,
and doing it spontaneously
at exactly the right time
in exactly the right way.
The basketball player with the ball
sees the game open before her, before him,
and passes, or shoots,
without thinking about winning or losing,
or even making the shot.
It is not about making the shot.
It is about the dance,
about being one with the game
about being in rhythm,
in flow,
here and now.
And living that way in every moment–
living with the moment
in the moment.
No striving, not trying, not forcing, not fearing,
simply being at one with the flow
and doing what needs to be done
the way it needs to be done
when it needs to be done.
Practice that.
Practice dancing.
It will be such a good thing
for all things.
01/13/2017 — There is no accountability
for the President
or for members of Congress.
They can do, or not do, as they please,
with no consequences ever.
We need the Elder Wand.
01/13/2017 — If I had the power,
I would put this into effect:

I decree that tomorrow,
all Republican members of Congress,
the President and Vice-President Elect,
will come down with Whooping Cough
and have to be hospitalized
until I decide to lift the curse.

That would be simple an effective, don’t you think?

Of course, I will have stipulations similar to my previous post
regarding responsibility and accountability
that have to be agreed to prior to lifting the curse.

I think it will be great.

Oh, and anyone who attempts to force consequences of any kind upon me
before or after the curse is lifted
will come down with Whooping Cough
and have to go to the hospital.

It’s really very beautifully conceived, I think.

  1. 01/14/2017 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 62 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015
    We have to know when our life is good enough.
    Good enough is good enough.
    We only have to be good enough parents.
    Good enough sons and daughters.
    Good enough cooks and housekeepers…
    Knowing when our life is good enough
    is knowing when to stop striving for more,
    or something different,
    or something better…
    and begin living OUR life
    where we are,
    with what we have available to us.
    Our work is to bring us forth in the life we are living.
    If we are constantly trying to improve
    the conditions and circumstances
    in which we live,
    we will never get to LIVING. LIVING is what we are here for.
    We are here to be fully alive
    in the time and place of our living.
    If we were living as those
    who are fully alive here and now,
    what would we be doing?
    Start doing those things.
    Here.
    Now.
    Let the rest of your life
    fall into place
    around that.
    Including “good enough.”
    Good enough will take care of itself
    once you begin doing the things
    that bring you fully to life
    within the life you are living.

01/14/2017 — There is that which is
out of our hands.
Over which we have no control.

Trying to control
what cannot be controlled
is the cause of stress,
neurosis,
and physical symptoms.

Refusing to embrace
legitimate suffering
is trying to control
what cannot be controlled.

We do not grieve when grief is upon us.
We do not even allow tears of sorrow
to flow unchecked.
We “suck it up.”
Act as though nothing happened.
Go on about our business.
Pretending nothing happened.

Our business is feeling what must be felt.
Knowing what must be known.
Grieving what must be grieved.

January 20 should be a day of National Mourning and Grief.
We should spend it in anguish and agony
for what has been lost,
for what has been done.

We should not
go gently into that dark night.

01/14/2017 — If it is true
that only 29% of registered voters
voted in the Presidential election–
and I have not found a way to verify that yet–
it means Trump only had to win
one vote more than 14.5%
of the voters registered to vote in this country
to be our next President.

He cannot boast that the Majority of Americans elected him
(and that nobody cares about his tax returns
or his Russian affiliation
because “they all voted for me”).

We have stepped into darkness of soul and spirit
unlike anything in the experience
of the nation, perhaps ever–
including Pearl Harbor and the Civil War.

01/14/2017 — In the south,
and maybe everywhere–
but I’ve never been there,
and I’ve spent a lot of time
in the south,
and there there is a saying:

“They would cut off their nose
to spite their face.”

It’s what Republicans are doing
when they defund Planned Parenthood
and repeal the Affordable Care Act–
except most rank-and-file Republicans
don’t know that’s the official name
of Obamacare.

They think their affordable health care insurance
will remain in place
and the “leeches and freeloaders”
will loose theirs.

Interesting, that term “freeloader.”
They just elected the King of Freeloaders
as President of the United States.
Has never paid a penny in taxes.
Has freeloaded his way to the White House,
and won’t live there,
He’s freeloaded his way to better digs.

Doesn’t matter.
They hate President Obama so much
they would gladly
cut off their noses
to spite their face,
canceling out everything he did
and stood for
at any price.

And, as Forrest Gump would say,
“Stupid is as stupid does.”

01/14/2017 — About every day or two,
some Trump supporter
asks me to ease off the
negativity, stop it with the
harsh reality, so that
everyone can catch their
breath, and come together.

“Coming together”
sounds like everybody is moving,
coming
to meet one another in the middle
in order to work things out
to the mutual satisfaction
of all concerned.

You know,
negotiation and compromise.
Like that.

Trump has no record
of ever moving to
meet anyone in the center.

Trump’s record clearly states
that lying, cheating, stealing, threatening, bullying, demeaning, abusing, tormenting, shaming, tweeting, coercing and retribution
are his ways of getting his way
at the expense of everyone else’s way.

“Coming together” means
everybody agreeing to be happy
with whatever Trump does,
no matter what he does.

You know, like the House of Representatives did
under President Obama.

  1. 01/15/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 18 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    We carry within us
    the seeds of our own becoming.
    We bear the new life
    of our own aborning–
    to be aborted
    or born
    by the choice
    of our own choosing
    who and how we will be
    in the time and place
    of our living.
    My best advice is this:
    Do not over-think it.
    Do not “try to be” who you are.
    “Do or do not. There is no try!”
    Getting ourselves past
    “trying not to try”
    is the work of a lifetime,
    and the only work
    worthy of us.
    It is the work of
    just seeing
    just hearing
    just understanding
    just knowing
    just doing
    just being.
    In every situation there is
    what is happening
    and what needs to happen in response.
    Our place in each situation
    is to see, hear, and understand
    what is happening
    and to hold that in our awareness
    waiting to know what’s what
    on all levels.
    From that knowing,
    doing arises spontaneously
    “on its own,”
    and we find ourselves
    responding in ways
    appropriate to the occasion
    and being who the situation
    needs us to be,
    offering the gifts that are ours to give
    without trying.
    It is all as magical
    as waves coming ashore,
    or butterflies among flowers.
    They do without thinking
    what is to be done.

01/15/2017 — Trump’s Second News Conference

“Mr. President. How will you address the matter of the conflicts of interest that impinge upon your Presidency?”

“I will address them the same way I address the matter of my tax returns. I will say, ‘These matters don’t matter.’ Nobody cares. I’m the President and they elected me. And they don’t care what I do
because what I’m going to do is make them safe, build the wall, deport immigrants, Muslims, and undocumented aliens, and bring their jobs back. And that’s all they care about.

“Only you media types care about anything else, and how many of you vote? See my point? YOU don’t matter.

“I’m going to nominate to the Supreme Court and all federal judgeships judges who will do what the people who elected me want done, and that’s all that my people are really interested in.

“All people want is to be safe and have jobs so they can go about their business. They don’t care about anybody else’s business. They just want to be able to take care of their own.

“And my business isn’t their business. And it isn’t any of your business. So, I’m going to take care of business and not answer any questions about my business. And you can’t make me.

“So, NAH-NAH-NAH-NAH-NAH! YOU CAN’T MAKE ME!

“That should wrap things up rather nicely. I don’t see any point to taking more questions, since this answers all possible questions, and is all any of you need to know. And, since I don’t see a need for any more news conferences, there won’t be any more.

“Thank you for your time.”

01/15/2017 — Trump is in charge.
He holds all of the cards.
The Democratic safeguard
of Three Houses of Government–
The Executive
The Legislative
The Judicial
are all, or soon will be, in Republican hands,
there is no one to call his hand
or bring any consequences to bear
that Trump has to take into account
in choosing a direction or a course of action.

Democracy has been replaced
by a totalitarian state
run by a demagogue
who aspires to be a demigod,
and would not mind
being taken for God.

Where does that leave the rest of us?
Smack where people of totalitarian states
have always been:
grousing, complaining, groaning
and wistfully dreaming
of a better life for themselves
and their children.

Like the immigrants
we are turning away,
or whose ranks
we will be joining–
raw from the lesson
to be learned here:

Take Democracy for granted at your own peril!

01/15/2017 — Trump is our only hope.
We have to count on Trump being Trump.
Trump being Trump
will overstep limits
and appall
even Republicans.

If Trump will only appall Republicans,
his reign will be short
and his fall will be celebrated
far into the dim and distant future.

O Donald, O Donald!
Please, Please, Please
Be. Who. You. Are.

01/15/2017 — I have been reading of late
Thomas Hoover’s two books
on Japanese history:
Zen Culture and
Zen Experience–
they are both free on Kindle,
or a Kindle app for your
Mac, PC, or tablet

(I keep about five books going
at a time,
and can never remember
where to find
something I’ve recently read).

Growing out of my developing interest
in things Japan,
I recalled my 1970’s
fascination with
the Japanese musician Kitaro
(now living in California, I think),
and have been listening
to his music for several days.

I have no idea
what a “bar of music” is,
but I think Kitaro repeats
six bars in every song,
the same six bars
with some additional
synthesized sounds, bells, drums, waves, wind
for five or six minutes.

Then, the next song
with different bars
arraigned in the same way,
for something approaching 25 or 30 albums/cd’s.
It’s amazing.

You can find that to be boring,
or meditative.
I opt for meditative.
Ocean waves coming to shore
offer the same option.
Kitaro does a wonderful job
of putting the idea
of ocean waves
to music.

I hope, like the ocean,
he never quits.

01/15/2017 — I call what I do here
“Making My Peace
With The Way Things Are.”

If what you read here
helps you make your peace
with the way things are,
I think you ought to keep reading it
and sharing it with those
you think might find it helpful
in making their peace
with the way things are.

If what you read here
doesn’t help you make your peace
with the way things are,
you shouldn’t read it.

01/15/2017 — To talk about what a joke
means
is to lose the whole point
of the joke.
The same thing applies
to your life.
And to all of life
Live it.
There is the meaning.
We live the meaning
we seek,
and to seek it
is to miss it.
Too make too much
of anything
is to miss the point
of it.
Live your life.
See where it goes.
That’s that.
Just so.

01/15/2017 —Right action arises from mindful awareness
of the moment as it arises
in the time and place of our living,
but.

All monasteries have a strict Rule of the Day
regarding all that must be done,
how and when to do it
from rising in the morning
to going to bed at night.

Spontaneity, no.
Regimentation, yes.

Monastic life
is not the life of the
hermit in the hills.

No pattern suits all.
We each have our own business,
and our own method of getting it done.
We each must find our own way–
the way that was ours
before we were born.

Disciples must become like the master
in following no master.

  1. 01/15/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 27 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    Where is your sanctuary?
    I turn to my writing and my photography
    to center me in and ground me upon
    the truth of ME at the center of my soul.
    Our sanctuary is where we go to be restored
    to ourselves–to our Self within.
    It is in that identity of us with our Self–
    with who we are at the core–
    that we find what we need
    to face any present
    and any future.
    Our sanctuary is inviolable,
    sacrosanct,
    and invulnerable.
    We are safe there,
    beyond the reach of the encroaching powers.
    They may well destroy us,
    but they cannot touch us.
    And it is my firm conviction,
    that though they may kill us,
    that only makes us invisible,
    and able to work against them
    from the other side.
    Find your sanctuary
    and go there often,
    establishing unbreakable connections
    with the Self at the center of yourself.
    And be well.
  2. 01/16/2017 — Goodale 2016 28 Panorama–Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Engagement is vulnerability.
    Disengagement is denial.
    Choose your poison.
    Choose your partner
    and dance mindfully aware
    of how you are dancing
    and who you are dancing with.
    Choose your cross
    and bear it well.

01/16/2017 — “The fullness of time”
is when
the peach tree blooms,
and again
when the peach ripens,
and again
when the pie is done…

Time is forever being right,
and wrong.

Any time can be the right time
for something,
but not every time.

One time is not as good as another
most of the time.

Waiting for the time to be right
is ideal waiting.
Waiting to be ready,
and for the time to be ready for you
is what waiting is all about.

Waiting for Godot
is just “killing time.”
Idle waiting.
Waiting with nothing in mind.
Waiting without anticipation,
without interest,
with no idea what you are waiting for.

That is not the way
a cat waits on a bird,
or stares at a mouse hole.
When you wait,
wait like a cat.
Or like a cook
with a pie in the oven.

01/16/2017 — To say, “God is in control,”
or “God knows what he (it is always “he” in these statements) is doing,”
is to say “Leave well-enough alone,”
“Stop asking questions,”
“Don’t rock the boat, make waves, shake the foundations.”
“Everything happens for a reason,
so keep the status quo unchallenged
and trust God to give you what is best for you.”
And, “Whatever you do,
DON’T CHANGE ANYTHING!”

God’s in control, but.
We aren’t going to change anything.
So, who is in control?
That would be us.
No one can change our minds about God,
not even God.

01/16/2017 — “God” and “God’s will”
need to be re-thought
in light of what we know
about projection
and self-deception,
and denial.

Remember how on the Winter Solstice
we would sacrifice our virgin daughters
and our first born sons
to appease the gods
and bring the sun back?
And remember how it always worked?
Self-deception is something else.
Yoke it to denial
and projection,
and nothing is safe.

“God” is always who we say “God” is.
Our idea of God IS God.
Always has been.
We need to recognize that,
assume responsibility for it,
and come up with a better idea.

Our virgin daughters
and first born sons
and their modern equivalents,
have suffered too much
for too long.

Or, to come at it another way,
people are always looking at
the universe and all there is therein,
and saying, “This couldn’t have just happened!
Things are too finely tuned!
There has to be a plan–
and a plan implies a planner,
so there must be a Divine Being
in charge of Planning Development!”

To which I ask,
“What is the greater miracle:
That everything is the result
of careful planning and execution–
or that nothing is?”

God Out There
(Or Up There–
there is no man,
there are no stairs)
has out-lived its time.

The God-of-our-experience
is as real as last night’s dream,
and as dependable as
summer lightening
and thunderstorms

The God-of-our-experience
is manifest and present in–
as it always has been and will be–
in art, music and nature.

We can no longer afford
to confuse the God-of-our-experience
with the God-of-theologies-doctrines-and-creeds.
The two have nothing in common
except those who say
they are identical.

01/16/2017 — We experience the God-of-our-experience
as the moved experiencing
the mover,
the known experiencing
the knower–
and need not,
must not,
go beyond that experience
in positing nature, motive and intent,
background, character, values, purpose and goal.

Anything beyond experiencing
the awe and wonder
of the Numen beyond words
is something we make up
in the effort to explain and understand
the experience.

Don’t go there.
Stay with the experience
without talking about it
beyond, “Wow!”

Tuck it away in your memory
under the category of
More Than Words Can Say
About More Than Meets The Eye,
and recall it as needed
to remind yourself
that you are not alone,
and are capable of
“apprehending more than
you are capable of
comprehending’ (Abraham Heschel).

Knowing that there is more to know
that can be known
puts us in the position
of being those who
ask and go on asking,
seek and go on seeking,
knock and go on knocking,
on a quest that
expands as it deepens
throughout forever,
opening us to the truth of
Heraclitus’ observation:
“Traveling on every path,
you will not find the boundaries of soul,
so deep is its measure.”

  1. 01/16/2017 — Red Maple and White Fence — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 20, 2016
    Solitude, silence, mindful awareness,
    compassion and a sense of humor
    are the ingredients
    for realization,
    revitalization
    and revolution.
    Your life
    will take on
    a life of its own.
    You will probably
    need a new set
    of friends.
    Probably,
    you should just watch TV
    and not worry about it.
  2. 01/17/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 28 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    You know how directors sometimes
    mark spots with colored chalk
    indicating where they want
    actors standing during the
    first few rehearsals
    of the Senior Play
    in high school?
    With, maybe, lines drawn on the stage
    to the next place they were to be
    when the action started? That’s how it is with your life,
    only without the chalk marks.
    We are all looking for our place.
    For the place we belong.
    Too many of us do not belong
    where we are.
    If you know what I mean.
    Too few of us have any idea
    of how to find our place–
    of how to find our life,
    and live it.

01/17/2017 — There is no fix for our complexes–
the collection of memories
that are unique to each of us,
and the associations they arouse
among emotions, images. odors, sounds, experiences, places, times and events–
transporting us back to childhood,
a previous marriage,
military service…

Then is now,
even though we know it is not
on one level,
on another level it is,
or may as well be,
for all the good the difference makes.

We never out-grow
having been where we have been–
having seen what we have seen.
Surviving what has been done to us
doesn’t mean we are done with it.
It means we are surviving it.
Still.

That will have to be good enough.
There is no making it any better.
Here’s to all of you
who are surviving it.
Still.

01/17/2017 — Our life is our work,
is our love,
is our church,
is our life–

when it is the life
that is Our life,
the one only we can live,
that is unique to us,
no matter how similar
it may appear
to 10,000 other lives.

Our life brings US forth
to meet the time and place of our living
in each situation as it arises,
as only we can meet it
with the gifts and grace that are ours
to bestow,
gifts and grace which gift and grace us
in return,
so that life begets life,
and we come alive
in the act of being alive.

The Christ births the Christ,
and Mary remains both virginal
and unnecessary
to the process of
mothering God.

01/17/2017 — Our life is our work
and brings God forth
in the time and place
of our living.
We incarnate a truth
that cannot be said,
told,
explained,
defined
by being who
the situation needs us to be,
doing what
the situation deeds done.

Raising the dead,
restoring sight to the blind,
walking on water,
are metaphors
for being what is needed
at a time,
in a place,
that are desperate
for what we have to offer.

01/17/2017 — The hardest thing to believe
and go on believing
is that our life matters
that our work has meaning
in the face of an abundance
of evidence to the contrary.

If you are ever going to believe anything,
believe that your life matters,
that your work has meaning–
and that it doesn’t matter
whether it does or not,
because you are going
to be who you are
and do what is yours to do
anyway,
never the less,
even so.

01/17/2017 — Bedrock faith
is faith
in the bedrock
of who we are
and the work that is ours to do.

Life–
true life,
spilling over,
pouring out–
leads to and flows from
being who we are,
doing what is ours to do.

Life is
integrity,
authenticity,
fidelity.
It is knowing,
being true to,
and living in ways that express,
who we are
and what we love.

Death is selling ourselves out,
not caring who we are
or what is ours to do,
being interested only in
accruing personal advantages
getting ahead,
amassing wealth,
and having it made.

Death is self-deception,
deceit
and denial
in the service
of ends unworthy of us.

We can be 98.6 and breathing
with all the vital signs in place
and no vitality to be found.

01/17/2017 — While there is nothing to disappear
our complexes
and enable us to live as though
the experiences that created them
never happened,
by being mindfully aware of them
we can sharply reduce
the impact of the past
on our present,
and limit its ability to mar our future.

Mindfulness leads the way.

If you haven’t watched the Jon Kabat-Zinn
YouTube videos
on Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction,
mindfulness is likely not yet leading your way.

Become aware of your resistance.
What is keeping it in place?
What all is there?

01/17/2017 — My hunch–correct me if I am wrong–
is that when we search it out,
we will discover that the resistance
we have to taking up the practice
of mindful awareness
is that we have put a lifetime of work
into Not Thinking About The Awful Things
that we wish had never happened
and that we hope we can disappear
by Not Thinking About them.

We have them locked in deep dungeons,
and do not want to risk
being mindful of them
and the influence they wield over us
even though we are rarely conscious of them.

Not being conscious of them is the point!
We don’t want to face them!
And we hate me for bringing them up–again!
And again!
And again!

If I’m right, you are wrong to think
you have locked anything away.
And, holding it in your awareness
is a lot safer way of dealing with it
than thinking you have sealed it off for good.

01/17/2017 — Alexis Carrel said:
“Man cannot remake himself without suffering,
for he is both the marble and the sculptor.”

And the chisel we use
in the work that is ours alone to do–
though we might not do it alone–
is mindfulness.

  1. 01/18/2017 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 05 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    Mindfulness has a downside.
    We cannot be aware of how things are
    and live the way we are living.
    Seeing things changes things.
    Things are the way they are
    for a reason.
    The reason is we like them that way.
    For all of our whining, moaning, complaining
    and moping about,
    we hold things firmly in place
    against all suggestions of change.
    We like refined sugar a lot
    and aren’t going to stop eating it
    by the 5-pound bags full.
    We hate to exercise
    and aren’t going to do it
    no matter how many physicians
    recommend it.
    And that doesn’t touch
    the alcohol, tobacco
    and the drawer full of meds
    we need to take to face
    this sorry, rotten life we’re living.
    If there is something about our life
    that we don’t like,
    there is something else about our life
    that is keeping in in place.
    This is called
    The Rule Of Diminishing Returns.
    The returns for changing anything
    quickly diminish in light
    of the losses that accrue
    for changing something else.
    Life is a system of trade-offs.
    We give up this to get that.
    And there are some things
    we aren’t giving up for anything.
    We like things the way they are
    no matter how much we say we don’t.

01/18/2017 — Good religion flows from
being reconnected
with the joy of life
at the heart of
doing what we love,
expressing who we are
playing
as children do.

01/18/2017 — Our life reflects
the price we pay
for living the way
we live.

How might we
change the way
we live
to better,
more accurately,
more authentically,
reflect who we are?

What are we doing
that we would not
be doing
if we were living in ways
that reflect who we are?

What are we not doing
that we would be doing
if we were living in ways
that reflect who we are?

What can we do
to reduce the dichotomy
between who we are
and what we do?

These questions,
and their answers,
are at the heart
of good religion.

We don’t learn the catechisms
and the creeds there,
or the books of the Bible
in order.

We find who we are
and what we need to do
to incarnate the core of our being
in the life we are living.

  1. 01/18/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 08 Panorama – Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Our religion is our life.
    No one can give us religion
    any more than they can give us our life.
    When we are one with our life
    we are one with God
    and all the manifestations of God
    there ever have been
    or will be.
    Finding our life and living it
    is the heart of all true religion.
    We do not find our life
    by looking for it,
    but by opening ourselves
    to that which is seeking us.
    Like the wand chooses the wizard,
    so our life chooses us.
    Our destiny needs us
    as much as we need our destiny.
    “Wait, watch,” comes the command.
    “Be still and know”
    Know what?
    Know what we know.
    “We are who we always have been,”
    said Carl Jung,
    “and who we will be.”
    It isn’t that we don’t know
    what our destiny is–
    it is that we don’t know what we know.
    We are like the woman carrying her keys
    looking for her keys.
    Like the man wearing his hat
    looking for his hat.
    In all likelihood,
    we have been doing what we are here to do
    all our life,
    wondering what we are here to do.
    It only takes a shift in focus
    to know what we know.
    Mindfulness leads the way.
    Take up the practice of mindfulness meditation
    (Google Jon Kabat-Zinn),
    and watch yourself
    watching yourself–
    looking for
    what you are failing to see.

01/18/2017 — We need to talk.
Or, I write, you read, and write back if you need to.
It’s time for The Disclaimer.

We have to find our own way.
That means deciding what is our way
and what is not.
We do that by sensing in our body
what clicks,
rings true,
strikes a cord,
stirs to life a mighty YES!
brings into being just like that in the wink of an eye
an inexplicable urge to action
even though you can make no sense of it
and would never be able to explain to anyone,
much less your mother or father,
what in the world you are thinking
and why on earth you would do anything as foolish
and as thoughtless
as that!
It is a good sign when you get that kind of response,
particularly from Mom and Dad.
It means you are on YOUR way for you
and not THEIR way for you.
Always a good idea.

Deciding what your way is not
is just like that only different.
Different in the way of turning you completely OFF
to the way that is being touted and bandied about.
Avoid it regardless of the price you are offered
for taking it,
and in spite of the threats solemnly pledged and guranteed
for not.
Do. Not. Go. That. Way.

I’m saying here Trust Your Body!
Your Body Knows!
Listen to it right now–
It’s giving you the Thumbs Up.
Whatever you are feeling in your body
will now forever be known as the
Thumbs Up Feeling.

I’m telling you to Trust Your Body
and not me.
But I know I am so right about this
that Your Body would never give you Thumbs Down
about it.

Sometimes I know when I’m right,
as in absolutely, unconditionally, indubitably and eternally.
But, not often.

And that’s my point.
You can’t trust me to know what I’m talking about.
I don’t trust myself to know what I’m talking about,
so I’m telling you:
Do Not Listen To Me!
Listen To You!
Which means, of course,
that you can’t listen to you without also listening to me,
and I don’t mind a bit if you do that,
but listen to you first.

And when you get a Thumbs Up for what you think,
and a Thumbs Down about what I’m saying,
go with you at all times and in all places.

This is critical because only you know the way that is your way,
and I cannot begin to tell you what your way is,
any more than your Mom and Dad can.
I can give you some tips,
but you have to take the ones you can use
and leave the rest behind.

My deal with you is that i will never say anything I think
I am supposed to say.
I will only say the things I think need to be said,
and I can be wrong about that.
I am saying what I see, and think, and know,
and you are taking what you find to be useful
in finding your way to the life that is yours to live
and living it as only you can
throughout the time left for living.

You decide for yourself what to keep and what to leave.
And you take up the work of putting yourself in accord
with the life that is right for you–
with the life that you are right for–
that you are a perfect fit for–
and you live that life as its liege servant,
and what you will get for your trouble
is the honor and privilege of having lived your life
as only you could live it
all your life long.
That is worth all the treasure at the bottom of the sea,
or above the ground.
Check your body again.
You’re getting another Thumbs UP here,
I just know it.

Now a word about why I’m doing this.
It’s my work.
It’s my life.
It’s what I do.
And nobody else can do it like I can do it.
I’m a Whizz at it.
And I delight in it.
And that’s what I get out of it.
So I will never bill you.
And will not accept gifts and donations.

I’m living on my pension
and my Social Security,
and I hope you will excuse a little aside here,
if the stupid Republicans
will just leave things alone
with Social Security and Medicare
I will be fine.
I can pay my bills,
and do this.
Why would they mess with peoples’ lives?
Why would they repeal The Affordable Care Act
(AKA Obamacare)
Why would they defund Plan?ned Parenthood?
Why would they unplug Social Security,
Medicare,
and Medicaid???
They are either completely stupid,
or totally heartless,
or both.
And you can tell them I said so.
I wish you would.
I wish you would call your Republican congressional leaders
and tell them not to do any of these things.
Then call them back and tell them again.
And again, and again…
until they get the message.
If you want to do some thing for me,
do that.

Thanks.
I appreciate your listening.
I’ll be back when I have something else
to say.

  1. 01/19/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 30 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    The Religious Problem is not about finding a God
    we can believe in,
    but about finding a life
    we can believe in.
    How many people
    are living a life
    they believe in?
    A life they have
    confidence in,
    trust in,
    hope for?
    How many believe in
    what they are doing
    with their life?
    How many look to their life
    as their abiding source
    of joy and delight?
    How many would trade their life
    for money
    without hesitation
    or regret?
    How many hope for money
    to give them a new life–
    a life finally worth living?
    How many are certain
    they can’t do anything
    with a life as sorry
    as the one they are living?
    How many live hoping one day
    for a life
    they can enjoy living,
    yet believing
    it is out of the question?
    What is to be done for people
    who have no faith
    in themselves
    and the life that is theirs to live?

01/19/2017 — When Jesus said,
“Straight is the way and narrow is the gate that leads to life,
and those who find it are few,”
He is echoing what all the spiritual gurus
have said through the ages:
Life, pouring over, spilling out,
is not automatic.

Selling our birthright for a bowl of porridge,
and our life for 30 pieces of silver
is the norm.

Isaiah’s, “Here I am, send me!”
Jesus’, “Thy will, not mine, be done!”
and the Buddha under the Bo Tree
are rare exceptions.

Everybody else seems to be thinking
in terms of entitlement and entertainment,
passing the time
by letting the good times roll.

It’s a hard sell
asking them to consider
“the straight and narrow”
as an alternative to
“smooth and easy.”

Being aware of the difference
between the life we are living
and the life that is ours to live
is too much.

We can’t possibly be asked
to pay attention to what we are doing
and to what needs us to do it.
We have 10,000 other things to consider.
And the dog has to go to the vet!
Maybe later. Or not at all.

01/19/2017 —Focus and awareness, Kid,
focus and awareness!

The ability to see the all-ness
of the situation as it unfolds
before us,
and the such-as-it-is-ness
of each individual aspect of it,
and to hold all of that
in our awareness
while we wait for the right action
to arise spontaneously
and effortlessly
in response to what is happening
and what needs to be done about it
is developed
through focus and awareness
consciously practiced
with intention and dedication
over the full course of our life.

Being in the flow today
does not carry over
into being in the flow tomorrow–
or from this moment
to the next one.

Every moment
is the first moment
we have ever attempted
to attend
with focus and awareness.

01/19/2017 — Finding a God to believe in
is just ridiculous.
God isn’t “out there” somewhere
waiting to be found,
hoping to standout from the other Gods,
going, “Here I am! Over here! Find ME!”

And we don’t go through a pile of Gods
saying, “Nope, not this one. Not this one.
Not this one…None here.
Let’s go have a look at those stacked
in the corner.”

“Believable Gods” all have qualities we
would admire in a God.
They are Made-up Gods.
Production line Gods.
Gods made to order.
With interchangeable parts
that can be put together
when the order comes in
with over-night delivery.

Any God worthy of the title
appears out of nowhere
and knocks us over.
No resume.
No list of references.
Just a full body slam
and a Tombstone Piledriver
with a Steamroller Crusher
for emphasis
and a reminder
that believability is no match
for unforgetability,
and that is the punch
The God Who Is packs.

The God Who Is
will eat our own life alive,
and hand us one fashioned
just for us,
saying, “Step into this
and let’s get going.
It’s late,
and we have things yet to do.”

The God Who Is
is the God
Carl Jung had in mind
in quoting the Oracle at Delphi:
“Invoked or not invoked,
the God is present.”
Believed or not believed
The God Who Is
is at the core of us all–
calling us to step into our life
and get going.

  1. 01/19/2017 — Around Bass Lake 2016 21 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Carl Jung said, “The more your actual life
    becomes routine and habit,
    the less it will be satisfactory.”
    The closer our actual life
    incarnates our destiny,
    exhibiting and expressing
    the life we are born to live,
    the more it will be satisfactory.
    It is easier for us to be
    convinced of the reality
    of Satan and the demons of hell
    than to be certain
    we are here to serve our destiny.
    But, we know when we
    are on the beam
    and when we are off of it.
    We know when we are in the groove,
    in the flow,
    and when we are out of it.
    We know what clicks with us
    strikes a cord,
    rings a bell,
    and what does not.
    We know what catches our eye,
    where we belong–
    and where we have no business being.
    We know when something is right for us,
    and when it is wrong.
    Our destiny weaves its way
    through our life every day,
    hoping today is the day
    we say Yes! with all our heart,
    and take up the work
    of becoming who we are.

01/20/2017 — This the way it works:

Find the flow and stay with it–
even when that means
going against the current
of the way it is being done around you,
or of the way it is “spozed” to be done.

Find your groove and stay there,
knowing how easily a groove
can become a rut,
and a rut a grave.

Hold all of this,
and everything else,
in your awareness,
and wait to see
what needs to be done about it.

Then do it with the gifts
you have been given to work with,
and see what happens.
Holding everything in your awareness
and waiting to see
what needs to be done about it.

And doing it with the gifts
you have been given to work with,
and see what happens…

This is the way it works.

01/20/2017 — I love the pall of reality.
No kidding.
It’s great.
It reminds us all
that there are things
that matter deeply to us–
and the way things are
is interfering
with the implementation
and operation
of things that matter deeply to us.

We CARE
about the things
that are important to us–
that are important!
I love that about us.

If you cannot feel
the weight
of the pall of reality,
you should look
at your list
of things you care about.

  1. 01/21/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 43 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 20, 2016
    The God of your experience
    is not
    the God of your theology.
    How you resolve the contradiction
    opens the way to everything that follows.
    Which one will you trust with your life?
    The choice you make tells the tale.

01/21/2017— The gurus of India were/are wrong
about duality being illusion.
The world of AAAUUUMMMM…
is the illusion.

Imagine three-year-old’s
with their fingers in their ears
and their eyes closed
saying, “I’m not listening, I’m not looking,
I’m not, I’m not, I’m not!”

When the world
becomes too much for you,
close your eyes and say,
“AAAUUUMMMMMMMM…”

Contradiction lies at the heart of reality.
Duality is how things are at the core.
The Tao, with its Yin/Yang symbol,
is on point
in recognizing the truth
of how it is with us–
and how it is to be resolved:
We walk two paths
at the same time!

The way to walk two paths
at the same time
is to be mindfully aware
of the other
while we are being
mindfully aware of the one we are on.

The truth is always
how things are
and how things also are.
Light is and Darkness is.
And that is how things are!

01/22/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 20 — Twelve-mile Creek bordering Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, Lancaster County, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 19, 2016
The way we see things
is who we are.
Nothing defines us
like our point of view.
Our perspective is
who we are,
restricting our perception
of available realities
and keeping our world
calm and stable,
smooth and easy
upon the heaving waves
of the wine dark sea–
by insisting that things
are the way we say they are,
and denying that anything
could ever be other
than we say it is.
Nothing threatens our stability
or imperils our sense of who we are
like calling into question
our sacred assumptions
and cherished beliefs
about what is real
and what is not.
There is growing up,
and there is chronic emotional dysfunction.
And the difference
is flexibility of perspective
in the face of the firmly undeniable.
01/22/2017 — The Buddha and I are talking.
He says, “Suffering is an illusion,
along with everything else.
The way to free ourselves from suffering
is to rid our mind of delusions.”

I say, “Suffering is not the problem.
The problem is the problem
we make of suffering–
going on about it,
the unfairness of it,
the why of it
(as though a really good reason
would make it just fine,
which is ridiculous.
It isn’t fine,
and it cannot be made to be fine).
Suffering is a fact.
The illusion is our idea
that suffering matters,
that it is awful
and should not exist.”

The Buddha says, “No.
Suffering and all facts are illusion.”

I say. “No. The idea
that suffering matters
is the illusion.”

Back and forth,
back and forth.

Endless argument,
talking of perception
and perspective,
going nowhere
doing nothing.

The story
of doctrinal debates
of spiritual matters,
where one person’s illusion
is another person’s fact–
and opinions
are Truth and Heresy.

  1. 01/23/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 05 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    We see and/or hear and/or feel
    Seeing/hearing/feeling produces knowing.
    Knowing happens first in our body,
    not in our heads.
    Knowing is not understanding.
    It is not being able to explain or define.
    Knowing is not articulation.
    The body knows more than it can articulate.
    The body knows more than can be said.
    We know what is happening
    and what needs to be done about it,
    though we cannot say what we know
    or how we know it.
    Knowing produces action.
    We pick up a hot skillet
    and we put it down.
    That is knowing producing action.
    The process works like this:
    seeing/hearing/feeling/knowing/acting
    Thinking can interfere or assist with the acting.
    Reflecting can transform response patterns.
    Contemplation/awareness can expand our field of view.
    Understanding can reevaluate and/or reinterpret experience
    and produce insight that leads to different ways
    of responding to our environment,
    of living in our environment.
    In the meantime,
    we are continuing to see/hear/feel/know/act,
    and creating experiences to consider
    and create new insight
    and change the way we live.
    Our body (or body/soul) is the organ of perception
    (Include soul with body because
    our body can perceive things
    beyond the range of our physical senses)
    Our mind is the organ of interpretation/evaluation/understanding.
    We know and think about what we know
    to transform the meaning of what we know.
    You can see why it takes sitting quietly
    on a regular basis
    to do the work that needs to be done
    in the field of action.
    We are processing a lot of information
    and are being asked
    to respond appropriately to all of it.
    Try that living at full throttle all day every day.

01/23/2017 — Oppression and discrimination
will be the hallmarks of the Trump era,
confirming or worst fears
and demolishing all hope
for human decency and compassion,
kindness and civility.
Trump has no capacity for the tender values.
Only the vicious, brutal and ruthless ones
count with him.

01/23/2017 — Trump is not being President.
Trump is playing President.
Trump is staging the Presidency.
Trump is acting the role
he wishes were his.

Trump cannot distinguish
Real from Not Real.
Trump doesn’t know Lie
because Trump doesn’t know Truth.
Trump only knows Make Believe.

Trump’s entire life is a fantasy trip.
We are being taken for a ride
through Trump World–
The World as Trump thinks it is,
and should be–
where every moment
is an “I can’t believe
that just happened”
moment.

01/23/2017 — The lesson being drummed home daily:
Not just anybody can be President of the United States.
01/23/2017 — We cannot lose
the face that was ours
before we were born–
the face that was ours
before our grandparents were born.

Our work in every situation
and circumstance
throughout our life
is to live so that face is our face
in each situation
and circumstance.

And to let everything else
fall into place around that.

  1. 01/24/2017 — Around Bass Lake 2016 21 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    It is amazing to me that we experience
    the same world in so many different ways.
    We look at the world
    but do not see the same world.
    We look at Donald Trump
    and at what Donald Trump is doing
    and has done,
    and we do not see the same things.
    Small children are great observers
    and terrible interpreters.
    Traits some of them never out-grow.
    Why are there so many different religions?
    No! Wait!
    Why are there so many different religions
    within Christianity?
    We call them “denominations,”
    but they are religions.
    The Pentecostal Religion
    is not the Southern Baptist Religion.
    And neither of those
    is the Roman Catholic Religion.
    Or the Mormon Religion.
    Or the Quaker Religion.
    The differences that divide us
    go on forever.
    It is astounding that we get along
    as well as we do.
    We created civilization
    to enlarge the umbrella
    beneath which larger numbers of us
    could live together in peace,
    if not in agreement
    than when it was tribe vs. tribe.
    But, there are revolutions
    and rebellions
    within civilization,
    not to mention what Europe
    did to the Americas and Africa.
    It has always been
    “Death to those who don’t see like we do!”
    Which is a crazy way to carry out
    the business of life.
    By dealing out death–
    or the threat of death,
    or the nearest thing to death–
    to those who don’t do it our way.
    Why can’t we do better than that
    after all these years?
    Given the fact that no one sees like “we” do!

01/24/2017 — White people writing/talking
about discrimination, oppression, persecution and abuse
is absurd.
White people should limit themselves
to what they know–
and listen to
LGBTQ people,
and Black people,
and Jewish people,
and Gypsy people,
and Muslim people,
and Latino people,
and Immigrant people,
and people who know
what they are talking about
talk about discrimination, oppression, persecution and abuse.
The only white people
who have a voice in the discussion
are white women–
and too many of them
belong to the ranks of the oppressors.

01/24/2017 — I have done a lot of work thinking about photography–
how to get my camera to do what I want it to do,
what filters to use,
how to get Photoshop and Lightroom to do what I want them to do
what time of day is best for which locations…
the list is long.
I have read my camera’s manual several times,
and refer to it repeatedly.
I watch instructional videos continually.
And I practice, practice, practice.
But.
No manual or video can tell me where to place my tripod.
What to do with the light available then and there.
Where to place the focus of the photograph.
What to leave in and leave out of the picture.
After you understand the mechanics of photography,
then you listen to the mystery.
And you know what is right in the moment of decision.
You don’t know how you know,
and you know that someone else
would do it differently,
but.
This is right for you, here and now.

I have an understanding with The One Who Knows
(or, maybe it’s a dozen, or a thousand, for all I know).
He/She/It/They get to show me the photo in the scene,
and I get the final say about whether or not
we take the picture.
I get to over-ride the Muse.

The Muse knows that in my 73rd year,
I’m not up for putting myself in harm’s way.
The Muse might see a barn flash by
at 8 miles an hour above the posted speed limit
on the side (either side, it doesn’t matter)
of an interstate highway,
but I’m not stopping.

And I know the Muse won’t go into a sulk
and fail to show up
when I get to a scene
with access and place to park.

I depend upon the Muse,
the Muse depends upon me.
We have our rules,
and each of us respects the rules
of the other of us.
I will do my best to serve the Muse,
will not neglect Him/Her/It/Them,
or take Him/Her/It/Them for granted.
And I won’t take undue risks
in getting a photo.

I’ll drive the car and carry the equipment
and understand how to use it,
and He/She/It/They
will show me the photographs
in the scene.

Technology and Mystery meet in me.

01/24/2017 — We are here to help those
who can be helped.
Period.
That’s it.
The catch is
that in order to be helpful,
we have to be capable
of being helpful.
One thing that means is
we have to be clear
about what is helpful and what is not.

Shel Silverstein has a poem about Helping
(Googleit)
that would be appropriate here.

Being clear about the
“kind of help that help is all about”
is being clear about a lapfull
of a lot of other things.

Being capable of being helpful
is a lifelong task.
And it has nothing to do
with telling people
how they ought to think
or what they ought to do with their life.

And as for as those who cannot be helped
are concerned,
we have to leave them
for someone else to help
if they can.
“Go on to the next town,”
said Jesus.
“Leave Those Who Know Best
to their own devises.”
Or, words to that effect.

01/24/2017 — My work is getting out of the way.
When I manage to step aside,
what needs to be done
arises of its own accord.

Thinking can serve the way,
and thinking can get in the way.
Knowing knows when
it is time to think
and when it is time to do.

We have to know what we know
in order to do
what needs to be done.

Knowing what we know
isn’t thinking
it is knowing.

We don’t think something
is too sweet
or too salty.
We know it.
Instantly.

Knowing knows instantly,
With no second-guessing,
what time it is–
what it is time for.
Thinking looks at its watch
or at its calendar.

Instead of thinking of what to do
practice knowing what to do.
If you don’t know what to do,
wait until you know.
if you have to know what to do NOW,
ask the Knower within to make the choice,
and get out of the way.
 

  1. 01/24/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 31 — Twelve Mile Creek, Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    Awareness is our only tool,
    our only weapon
    (think of it as the Elder Wand).
    Awareness is all we need
    to find what we need
    to do what needs to be done,
    to do what needs us to do it.
    Yet, we spend our time,
    our life,
    mindlessly not-seeing what we are looking at,
    not-hearing what we are listening to,
    not-being where we are,
    not-knowing what we know,
    wondering how we got here
    and what to do about it–
    never thinking the answer might be
    Be Aware Of It
    And Of Everything Else! Discounted.
    Disregarded.
    Dismissed.
    Not done.
  1. 01/25/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 24 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016
    In attempting to give us a picture of ourselves,
    two guys, Joe and Harry, came up
    with the Johari Wndow in 1955.
    They said there are things about us that are visible to us
    that are visible to everyone else,
    and things that are visible to everyone else
    that are invisible to us (spinach on our teeth),
    and things that are visible to us
    that are invisible to everyone else,
    and things that are invisible to us
    and to everyone else.
    They congratulated themselves
    and left the room.
    “But, wait!” I say.
    “What about the fictions?”
    There are things others think are so about us
    that are not so.
    There are things we think others think are so about us
    that are not so.
    There are things we think are so about ourselves
    that are not so.
    There are things we pretend are so about ourselves
    that others also pretend are so that are not so.
    There are things that others pretend are so about us
    that we also pretend are so that are not so.
    So let’s get to the bottom of us all.
    What exactly is so and not so about us?
    What is infinite, eternal and unchangeable about us?
    What is dependable, absolute, real and true?
    What can you count on from me?
    What can I count on from me?
    What can we count on from you?
    All kidding aside?
    Getting to the bottom of us all
    is the world of our life.
    Particularly the part of us
    that is invisible to us and to everyone.
    What lurks there,
    evading inspection and introspection?
    Here’s a tip for you:
    We won’t find it by thinking about it.
    The deep recesses of ourselves
    is the world of misty metaphor and symbol–
    the world of dreamtime images
    and daytime flights of fantasy–
    a world we approach tangentially
    and glimpse out of the corner of our eye.
    We are always who we are
    and who we also are.
    And we live to make conscious
    the connection between the two.

01/25/2017 — There is the face that was ours before we were born,
and the face we put on before getting out of bed–
the face we see when looking in the mirror–
and there is the face we put on before leaving the house–
the face everyone sees when looking at us.

Our life’s work is getting past all of the faces
we adopt to get by,
back to our original face,
and live to exhibit that in the times and places
of our living.

01/25/2017 — Unconditional love is a complete and lasting lie.
Love sets limits and draws lines,
and demands accountability.
It is conditional from the start.
People who talk about unconditional love
as being characteristic of Jesus and God
are throwing out the entire Book of Revelation,
and the lines about “outer darkness”
and “weeping and gnashing of teeth”
from the Gospels.
Heaven itself depends upon a big fat IF–
IF you believe
IF you repent
IF you mean it…

The fallacy of unconditional love
opens the way for Alternative Facts
where life is like you want it to be,
and it doesn’t matter what people
say or do
because “it’s what is in their hearts that counts
and no one knows that but God,
and who are we to judge?”

Clueless Christians make the world safe
for Donald Trump.

  1. 01/26/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 33 — Twelve Mile Creek Cascade, Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    There are people who think
    they can choreograph happiness.
    They all come with a formula in mind:
    Roses, rainbows, white picket fences…
    Two kids and a dog and a house on a hill…
    A six figure income with high annual increases…
    This NOT That!!!
    And they are all quite surprised
    when the formula fails to satisfy.
    The trick with happiness
    is to forget about happiness checks
    and do your work.
    Working to be happy is not your work.
    Happiness,
    contentment,
    peace
    and satisfaction
    are by-products
    of finding your work and doing it,
    of finding your life and living it.
    If you are waiting for Mr/Ms Right
    to do the trick
    you’re standing in the wrong line.
  2. 01/26/2017 — Cane River Creole National Historical Park 2016 03 Panorama, Oakland Plantation, Natchez, Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana, January 26, 2017
    Everything begins with silence.
    If we can be quiet enough,
    we can do anything.
    In the silence,
    with our eyes closed,
    we can see and hear
    the things crying out
    to be seen and heard,
    and know what needs to be done
    about it.
    Mindfulness meditation is the door
    few walk through
    because they are to busy
    searching for the door
    to sit quietly,
    looking, listening.

01/26/2017 — The people that did not vote
gave us Trump.
Democracy works only when
we can trust one another
to do what Democracy requires.
The People have to be trustworthy.
We have to live in good faith
with one another.
When the Whole is
listening,
looking,
seeing,
hearing,
voting,
the Whole is okay.
More than okay.
The Whole is well and strong,
healthy and alive.
When the parts fail the Whole
the Whole fails the parts,
and we get
what we have
with Trump.

01/26/2017 — The Tea Party understands
how Democracy works
and what keeps Democracy from working.
Tell the people what some of the people want to hear
Lie and keep on lying–
some of the people will believe anything
(“You can fool some of the people all of the time”).
You can discourage some of the rest of the people
by lying about your opponents
and disenchanting people about the voting process
(“There are no candidates worth voting for!”).
You can make it difficult for people to vote
by reducing access to voting in a number of ways.
You can inflame your own base
by demonizing your opposition
and promising whatever it takes
to get them to the voting booth.
Increasing your voter turnout
and decreasing voter turnout generally,
means you win with a smaller percentage of votes cast.
Means you win.

01/26/2017 — Democracy requires us to
look and listen,
see and hear,
know and understand.
But.
There is a catch.
We cannot stop too soon.
We cannot stop when we think we have seen.
When we think we have heard.
When we think we know.
When we think we understand.

There is always more to see than we have seen.
More to hear than we have heard.
More to know that we know.
More to understand than we understand.

Everything we think we see, hear, know and understand
is provisional, partial, limited, lacking.
We cannot wait to act
until we see the whole picture.
We have to act knowing
that we do not see the whole picture,
or even half of it.

Compassion and humility, Kid,
compassion and humility.

  1. 01/27/2017 — Melrose Plantaton 2017 04 — Natchitoches Parish, Melrose, Louisiana, January 27, 2017
    What is your drug of choice?
    What do you drink, pop, shoot up, snort, eat, do, turn to
    to hide from what is too hard
    to face about your life?
    What is too hard to face about your life?
    How do you hide?
    What do you hide from?
    What are you denying here/now–
    about how you are hiding,
    and what you are hiding from?
    The spiritual imperative
    is that we grow up.
    Growing up is squaring up
    to the bitter truth
    of everything about us
    and our life.
    If we are not seeing everything
    as it is about us,
    we are lying to ourselves.
    If we are dismissing anything
    about us
    as being unworthy of consideration,
    much less probing, exploring, inspecting
    and understanding,
    we are lying to ourselves.
    Where might you be lying
    to yourself?
  2. 01/28/2017 — Union Pacific Lift Trestle 2017 10 — Red River, Alexandria, Louisiana, January 26, 2017
    Growing up is a spiritual imperative.
    We cannot be spiritual if we are not growing up.
    Growing up means,
    among other things,
    doing what you don’t like to do
    in a way that no one knows
    you don’t like to do it.
    Growing up is doing what needs to be done
    when it needs to be done,
    the way it needs to be done,
    for as long as it needs to be done,
    because it needs to be done–
    not because someone is making you,
    and not because you will go to hell if you don’t.
    You do not have to do it
    and you choose to do it
    out of your own freedom to not do it,
    for no other reason than it needs to be done,
    and needs you to do it.
    Not doing something
    because you are grown up
    and don’t have to do it
    is not being grow up.
    Doing something
    because you are growing up
    and don’t have to do it
    is being growing up.
    Growing up is a life-long process
    without end.
    Another term for the spiritual journey
    is growing up.
    There will always be trials and ordeals
    that we want to avoid,
    refuse,
    reject,
    dismiss,
    discard,
    disregard Growing up is walking right into them,
    bearing the pain like a man or a woman,
    and doing the work required to grow up.
    Being spiritual
    is not about what you believe,
    but about what you do–
    whether you feel like it our not,
    whether you are in the mood for it or not,
    whether you want to or not–
    just because it needs to be done,
    because it needs you to do it.
    Every day
    for the rest of your life.
  3. 01/28/2017 — Melrose Plantation 2017 07 — Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana, January 26, 2017
    The spiritual,
    the moral,
    the categorical
    imperitive
    is caring.
    We have to care.
    This is non-negotiable.
    It is compulsory,
    mandatory, We can’t not do it.
    Of course, we do, all of the time,
    but we can’t get by with it,
    there is a price to be paid.
    The price is the loss
    of the quality
    of the life we are living.
    It will never be
    what it could have been
    if we had cared about it,
    taken care of it.
    “But,” we protest,
    “I couldn’t help it!
    No one could care
    about a life as rotten
    as my life is!”
    “Wait.” Say I.
    “You misunderstand.
    Caring is not about how we feel
    about our life, or anything–
    it is about how we treet
    our life, or anything.
    “We can’t help how we feel,
    nor should we try,
    but, we can help what we do
    and how we do it,
    and that we should definitely try–
    and keep on trying–
    until we get it down.
    “Live Like You Care!
    (Whether You Do Or Not!)
    Should be a bumper sticker.
    AA has a slogan:
    ‘Fake It Until You Make It.’
    “Live like you love your life,
    like it is the most important thing ever.
    Live it like you mean it.
    Give it your best effort all the time,
    like you are an actor
    going for an Academy Award
    in every scene.
    “Live so that no one would ever know,
    or guess,
    that you hate your life–
    that you are miserable in it–
    that all you think about
    is how much you wish it were over.
    Live so they all think you love it.
    Do it the way you would do it
    if you did love it.
    “Live in relation to you life
    so that you life would never know
    how you Really Feel–
    so that your life would think
    it was the best life that ever was.
    “Care About Your Live!
    Treat it caring-ly!
    Caring is not what you feel,
    it is what you do.
    Live as one who cares
    about every single person and thing.
    “It will make all the difference.”

One Minute Monologues 036

October 22, 2016 – December 3, 2016

  1. 10/22/2016 — If everything in your little world
    has to be Just So, or else,
    your little world is a hard place to live
    for everyone in it.
    Especially you.
    Latitude and pliability will accommodate
    a wide range of life experiences,
    and position us to make fitting responses
    to whatever the day brings–
    and are another fringe benefit
    of mindful, compassionate, awareness.
  2. 10/22/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 15 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, October 16, 2016 Here’s a novel solution for dealing with bad feelings:
    Feel them.
    All the way to the bottom.
    Do not deny them, mask them, numb them, run from them, or hide.
    Welcome them.
    And sit with them for as long as they need to be felt.
    Perhaps your son or daughter died
    and grief washes over you out of nowhere,
    or is triggered by 10,000 things
    and takes your breath away.
    It was your son or daughter who died.
    His or her loss cannot be denied its rightful place in your life.
    “But it’s been 15 years, or 50!” you say.
    There is no statute of limitations on mourning,
    and the feelings have to be felt when they come upon you.
    Or there is the weight of the Unchooseable Choice.
    Hopelessness and depression, panic and terror…
    Trapped with no way out.
    Sit with the agony
    and feel it in its fullness.
    Feel. Your. Feelings.
    Weep, wail, moan, sob…
    Wait for the feeling to begin to shift.
    All feelings pass.
    You can gauge their intensity,
    and time their duration.
    Watch as the feeling wells up inside.
    Notice how it impacts your body.
    Where does your body carry most of the emotion?
    Feel it in its depth,
    and notice as it begins to diminish,
    leaving you perhaps worn out, wrung out, exhausted.
    Acknowledge the experience with a ritual
    appropriate to the occasion
    and dedicated to life lived with the reason for the feelings.
    We will live,
    and we will feel the impact of life–
    our commitment to life and to each other,
    from this time forward.
  3. 10/22/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 13 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Jeremy Taylor says (In his book, “Where People Fly and Water Runs Uphill,” used hardbacks available from Amazon for 1 cent plus $3.99 shipping, just saying)
    that living wholeheartedly in the service of anything
    will transform your life
    and ground you in your own authenticity and identity
    much better than anything else we can name.
    People who live wholeheartedly to play bridge,
    or lower their golf score
    live better
    and are likely to be healthier
    than people who have nothing
    that commands their wholehearted allegiance and commitment.
    How wholeheartedly do you live?
    It doesn’t matter what you pursue with all your heart, mind, soul and strength,
    in spite of what the theologians might tell you.
    But it matters that you pursue something that way,
    all your life long.
  4. 10/23/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 12 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Our unconscious–so called because we are not conscious of
    that aspect of ourselves–
    seems to be interested in our being true to ourselves
    within the context and circumstances of our life,
    while our conscious egos–
    that would be the self we are conscious of–
    seems to be interested in doing whatever it takes
    to succeed in and triumph over
    the context and circumstances of our life,
    to the point of denying, betraying, ignoring, repressing and rejecting ourselves
    in the service of our agenda, plans, dreams
    and idea of how our life should be lived.
    Our unconscious is calling us to be
    who we have no desire to be.
    That’s the impasse that has to be made conscious
    and worked through
    if we are to have any chance at
    living the life that is waiting for us to live it
    in the time left for living.
  5. 10/23/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 01 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016, Our dreams call us back to the center–
    to the grounding truth of the life that is ours to live–
    and the life that we are living–
    by showing us nightly
    skits, spoofs, parodies, satires, dramas, and comedies
    with the same story line:
    This Is How It Is With You Now!
    Or: Wake Up And Get Back On The Path!
    We think they are about snakes in the attic,
    or monkeys in the basement,
    or cars that won’t stop,
    or exams we aren’t prepared to take.
    They are all about us and the life we are living,
    and the life we need to live.
    It would be smart of us to heed our dreams.
    If we ignore them,
    symptoms and walls and cliffs are waiting in the wings.
    We want to begin listening
    before we start running into walls and off cliffs.
  6. 10/24/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 5/6 Panorama — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Living wholeheartedly in allegiance to the things
    most important to us
    limits the amount of time and attention we give
    to other things.
    We cannot “do it all,”
    or even half of it all.
    We have to conserve our energy and resources,
    and “spend” ourselves in the service
    of that which reflects most clearlly
    where our heart lies.
    We don’t apologize for our heart!
    We can’t be anything less than
    committed and dedicated to what we love!
    And we have no one to keep happy
    other than our own soul!
    We sell ourselves out
    when we do anything asked of us
    and go wherever the crowd we run with goes.
    Who are we?
    What does it mean to be true to ourselves?
    Where does our soul find its joy?
    What makes our little heart sing?
    Go there!
    Do that!
  7. 10/24/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 18 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Being true to ourselves
    within the context and circumstances of our life
    puts us at odds
    with what is required, expected and assumed
    in each situation as it arises–
    and at odds with what we desire or fear
    in those situations.
    We grow into the mindset of the culture
    during our childhood and adolescence,
    and live to exploit the situation
    to our advantage, gain and profit.
    We readily forsake, betray, and/or abandon
    any concern for what is true to ourselves
    in favor of doing what we need to do
    to get what we want–
    wanting things that have no affinity
    with what would ring true to our heart and soul.
    You see the problem.
    We are divided within
    and incapable of living with our best interest at heart.
    We want what we want,
    and will have it or die trying to get it.
    We will do anything but the one thing necessary
    to put ourselves in accord with ourselves
    and live as one toward the good of each situation
    and the good of the whole.
    we will not change our mind about what is important to us.
    Our mind can change, of course,
    but not by effort of the will–
    ours or someone else’s.
    That puts us in the place
    of being mindfully, compassionately, aware of what’s what,
    and seeing how it goes.
  8. 10/24/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 08 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain, Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Readiness for realization is the requirement for realization.
    Asking, seeking and knocking—
    and to go on asking, seeking and knocking—
    have been long recognized
    as reflecting the needed disposition
    for seeing, hearing and understanding.
    We do not order up revelation, insight, enlightenment.
    We recognize our paucity in these things
    and wait in the darkness for the light—
    mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of our need and of the wholeness—
    the allness—
    of our life situation,
    and looking at everything as a vehicle
    of illumination and awakening,
    asking of each thing,
    “What does this have to say to me of truth and discernment?”
    Always bearing in mind two aphorisms of Joseph Campbell:
    “Where you stumble and fall, there lies the treasure.”
    “The cave you most don’t want to enter contains the treasure you seek.”
  9. 10/25/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 08 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Everything is a symbol of transcendence and transformation.
    It only takes seeing how the thing you are looking at
    is like you and/or your life.
    Thou Art That
    in terms of our identity with the divine and sublime–
    and in terms of our identity with the profane and mundane.
    The line between transcendent and imminent
    is so thin it is non-existent,
    and hinges entirely on how we see what we look at.
    How we see what we look at
    is the key that opens the door
    to the life we live.
  10. 10/25/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 04 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 There is no immunity. No impunity. No exemption, exception or exclusion.
    Only vulnerability and pathos,
    or denial
    for as the long as the sun rises in the east
    and sets in the west.
    One of my hunches is
    that we cannot sit quietly
    because in the stillness and silence
    pathos encroaches from all sides.
    In my case,
    I am transported to my maternal grandparent’s home
    in Itta Bena, Mississippi.
    It is winter,
    I only remember cloudy days in winter there.
    The gas stoves have no pilot light,
    and are not permitted to burn through the night.
    A Folger’s 1 lb. coffee can half-filled with water
    sits on the brown vented top to hydrate the air,
    and through the glass panes of the window
    in the front bedroom,
    I watch Coots swimming in Roebuck Lake.
    Watching me watch the Coots,
    I suffer the sadness of my generation,
    knowing what we had to deal with,
    and how poorly I think we managed our affairs.
    It would be wrong for me to run from this,
    so, I treat it as a dream,
    and enter into it to speak to my child-self
    and tell him to have courage,
    and to live in good faith with himself,
    and I promise to be with him
    all the way,
    even now and on into the future
    that lies before us—
    that lies before us all.
  11. 10/26/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 30 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 With no affinity for complexity and uncertainty,
    and no patience with complications and confusion,
    we leap for solutions that are more apparent than real,
    and a bad situation quickly becomes out of hand.
    I recommend adopting “Yes and no,” as a way of managing
    all of life’s problems and options.
    Everything–every choice, every decision–
    has its upside and its downside,
    its advantages and its disadvantages,
    its pluses and its minuses.
    “Yes and no,” puts it all in perspective,
    and keeps us from thinking there could ever be
    a Final Solution
    and this might be it.
    “Do you think we ought to (fill in the blank)
    sell our house here and buy one there?”
    “Yes and no.”
    And then, carefully examine all of the yes factors
    and all of the no factors,
    remembering to include the intangible
    “How thinking about it makes me feel inside” aspects.
    “Do you want cereal for breakfast?”
    “Yes and no.”
    It’s all yes and no!
    Anything that appears to be completely yes or no
    has another side we aren’t seeing.
    Life is a mixture of yes and no.
    Stir things up!
    Keep things in solution until you can see it for what it is–
    for ALL it is!
    Do not rush to the finished line!
    When we take the time necessary to take everything into account,
    the right action arises on its own.
    All we did was poke around, examining options, asking questions.
  12. 10/26/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 03 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 All the action/adventure and westerns movies,
    and many other genres as well,
    are about the Good Guys demolishing the Bad Guys.
    Good vs Evil is a common theme in the stories we tell and read.
    The Good sees Evil for what it is
    and puts it in its place,
    which generally means Good destroys and disappears Evil forever.
    We will never see the Avengers or the Jedi Knights
    working to right social wrongs,
    to bring justice to life in human relationships,
    to establish racial and sexual equality,
    and create a global culture that values
    the contribution of all people to the good of the whole.
    We will never find them working out their own
    personal conflicts and ambivalences,
    and coming to terms with the Shadow
    within themselves,
    or seeing themselves as the enemy
    they seek to destroy again and again
    in different external manifestations.
    As the song says,
    “There ain’t no good guy,
    There ain’t no bad guy–
    There’s just me and you
    And we just disagree.”
    And we see in each other
    whom we cannot see in ourselves.
  13. 10/26/2016 — Footbridge to Rough Ridge 2016 01 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The journey we all have to make–
    as individuals, as a nation, and as a world of nations–
    is the journey from the periphery to the center,
    from the extremes to the heart of life and being.
    We do this by seeing the enemy as a friend
    who is holding up a mirror
    reflecting us as we also are
    back to ourselves to recognize and reconcile ourselves to.
    We are also what we hate.
    The Bad Guys and the Good Guys share the same body.
    We have to do the work of seeing that it is so,
    and come to terms with the fact
    that the qualities we despise in others
    are quite at home in ourselves.
    We will never live at peace with one another
    until we are at peace with ourselves.
  14. 10/27/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 30 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 There is what we care about,
    and what we ought to care about,
    and what we ought not care about.
    We step into each situation that arises
    with the option of caring about
    what we ought to care about in that situation,
    or to care about
    what we have no business caring about.
    How we play the Caring Card
    makes all the difference.
  15. 10/27/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 24 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 When it comes to decisions,
    I recommend putting everything on the table–
    and by everything,
    I mean everything that it is possible
    to be aware of pertaining to the decision–
    and contemplating the table.
    Sit quietly before the table,
    looking it over,
    taking it in,
    becoming fully aware of the contents of the table.
    Simply sit with that awareness
    until you feel in your body that you know what is there,
    then get up and walk away.
    Don’t think about the table any more.
    Be free of the table.
    Allow the part of you that you are unconscious of
    have the table and its contents.
    Ask that part of you to speak to you
    when it has something to say,
    and turn your attention to part of you that you are conscious of
    tend to other matters.
    Don’t worry about the decision–
    don’t think about the decision.
    Trust the part of you that you are unconscious of
    to work with the table
    while you take care of business on the conscious level.
    And wait for the light to come on.
  16. 10/28/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 9/10 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Jesus and the Buddha agree on what is important:
    “You better know what you are doing!”
    But, since everybody thinks they know what they are doing
    We catch Jesus and the Buddha winking at each other and laughing
    when they say
    “You better know what you are doing!”
    They mean,
    “You better know that you don’t know what you are doing!”
    Adding,
    “And do it with your eyes open,
    knowing that we do everything
    not knowing what we are doing.
    Jesus advised,
    “Ask, seek, knock,”
    Because we know we don’t know what we are doing.
    The Buddha advised,
    “Sit in quiet contemplation and wait
    until the right action arises from within.”
    Knowing that we don’t know,
    and allowing that to modulate our behavior
    in the field of action,
    saves us from the smug assurance
    that discounts all signs and signals,
    rejects all hints and suggestions,
    and refuses all invitations to reconsider any decision
    in our rush to have our way,
    like we know what way to have.
  17. 10/28/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 11 Panorama — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Jesus said, “The love of money is the root of all evil.”
    I say that the Will to Profit
    destroys everything in its path.
    We live to exploit every relationship
    and every situation
    to our advantage.
    We think turning a profit is our life’s sole goal.
    It isn’t our soul’s life goal.
    Or, if it is, our soul understands “profit”
    in ways the culture would look upon
    as an absurd waste of time.
    Our soul is a poet,
    a dancer,
    a singer,
    a child.
    Our soul is at complete odds
    with what the culture thinks is important.
    Which puts us at cross-purposes with ourselves.
    Putting ourselves in accord with our soul
    is a death-and-resurrection experience.
    People think a cross is a piece of jewelry,
    or a wall decoration,
    or a bumper sticker.
    They all think the cross is something Jesus did for us–
    not comprehending that it is something
    each of us has to do for ourselves.
    Dying to the cultural idea of what we are about
    and living to our soul’s idea of what we are about
    is Gethsemane/Golgotha and Easter Morning.
    Which is repeated continually throughout our life.
    We live between what we think is important
    and what is important.
  18. 10/29/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 17 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 If you are going to see anything,
    see what’s what.
    See what’s happening,
    and what needs to be done about it,
    and do it.
    See how things are,
    and how things also are.
    See what you look at.
    See yourself seeing.
    See what matters,
    what is important,
    what is essential,
    in the situation as a whole.
    See what you’re not seeing.
    See what else there is to see.
    See into the heart of things,
    to the bottom of things.
    And don’t quit looking
    until you see.
  19. 10/29/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 37 (Hydrangea Gardens) — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 We serve ends that are not legitimate ends,
    purposes that are not our purposes.
    We make up a life for ourselves
    and strive to make it fit.
    We live inorganically,
    inauthentically,
    out of touch with
    heart and soul,
    willing our life into being–
    the life we have created
    around our idea of how our life ought to be.
    Our Other Life calls to us
    with dreams and symptoms,
    but we heed no other,
    and damning all notions of a different way to live,
    we damn ourselves to a life without life,
    hollow people with empty eyes,
    filling the wasteland with our garbage.
  20. 10/28/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 33 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2017
    We cannot hurry things along,
    speed things up,
    make things happen
    according to our agenda
    and timetable.
    We assist the unfolding/becoming
    of things in their own time,
    in their own way,
    by being mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of the moment of our living,
    open to what is happening then and there,
    and to what needs to happen in response,
    and doing what we can do about that
    with the gifts and genius that is ours to employ
    for the good of the whole,
    and letting that be that.
    So, why have agendas and timetables?
    Even the question sidetracks us
    from attending what is happening
    and what needs to happen in response
    in the time and place of our living.
  21. 10/30/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 05 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2017
    You have what you need
    to find what you need
    to do what needs you to do it
    and dance with your life.
    Well?
  22. 10/30/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 05 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2017
    The church cannot be the church
    because it has to pay the bills.
    Just like Christians cannot be Christians
    because they have to pay the bills.
    Jesus had no bills he couldn’t pay
    out of the pittance of contributions
    he received begging in the streets.
    Jesus had no children,
    no house mortgage,
    no car notes,
    none of the things we carry with us
    through our life.
    Having to pay the bills
    cants us toward the cultural belief
    in the central importance
    of wealth, privilege, and profit.
    Financial freedom is the only kind of freedom, It locks us into a life that is lived in bondage
    to the work to pay the bills,
    and “we owe our soul to the company store.”
    We have to keep the truth of our condition
    at the forefront of our mind.
    All the talk about “Sweet Jesus,”
    comes to grief upon the fact
    of having to pay the bills,
    and the mystery at the heart of mystery
    is that we walk two paths at the same time.
    The only way to pull that off
    is by walking the path we are walking
    fully aware of the other path we are walking.
    All our life long.
  23. 10/30/2016 — Red-breasted Nuthatch 2016 01 — The Red-breasted Nuthatch returns to its winter range, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 21, 2016 — This image is a composite of 10 photographs blended together.

    We talk about God
    as though we know what the word means.
    We get into arguments about God
    as though we know what we are talking about.
    We go to war over the ways and will of God
    as though we know precisely who God is and is not.
    When, in truth,
    everything we think we know about God
    and can state with unequivocal certainty and conviction
    was made up by someone
    who didn’t know any more than we do about God.
    Everything we can say about God,
    even, “There is no God,”
    comes right out of the depths of someone’s imagination,
    perhaps our own.
    All of the doctrines of God–
    all of the theology and creeds about God–
    are the products of someone’s efforts
    to make sense of their experience
    and to articulate what they believe to be so.
    But, why believe that to be so
    and not something else instead?
    Especially in light of the fact
    that someone believes something else instead
    with as much assurance
    as we believe what we believe.
    If we are going to “take something on faith,”
    and we have no choice in the matter,
    at least let us do so remembering clearly
    that it has no more foundation
    than what anyone ever has, or ever will,
    “take on faith.”
  24. 10/30/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 10/11 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Our work is the recovery of the sacred–
    the recovery of our sense of that which has supreme value,
    and which seizes us with a claim upon us
    which cannot be denied.
    The ocean does that for some people.
    What does it for you?
    What is the vehicle of the sacred–
    of supreme value–
    in your life?
    Begin to nurture your relationship with whatever it is.
    Place yourself ritually,
    religiously,
    in its presence,
    regularly, I cannot think of a national park that does not
    stand out as sacred for me,
    or a season of the year.
    The birds I feed and photograph,
    and the flowers,
    and waterfalls,
    and Cypress Trees…
    Make the sacred your quest.
    Find what is holy for you
    and allow it to restore your soul.
  25. 10/30/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 16 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 We never outgrow some disappointments
    and betrayals.
    We live forever in their shadow’s reach–
    to be swept away when memory is triggered,
    or anniversaries come around.
    We carry the scars of old wounds,
    and walk with a limp,
    reminders of how things also are,
    to be accepted along with the rest of the landscape
    of our life,
    to be lived with,
    and through.
  26. 11/01/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 14 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 What things mean to us is what we say they mean.
    It’s how we see them,
    what we make of them.
    Our interpretation of reality
    sets reality up to mean what it means to us.
    We filter things through our experience of things.
    Through the clusters of complexes–
    the collection of thoughts, images, feelings and memories–
    that constitute the meaning the things have for us.
    Things mean what they have come to mean over time.
    We generate meaning out of our experience with reality–
    responding to today’s experience
    out of that of days long gone.
    The presence of the past colors our present,
    and where we are is haunted by where we have been.
    Sitting quietly seeing
    is the path to living here and now
    mindfully aware of the impact of then and there–
    as close to freedom as we have ever been.
  27. 11/02/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 16 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The Hero’s Journey consists
    of walking two paths at the same time.
    We are always on one path or the other.
    We walk one intently aware of the other one.
    The overriding rule of the Hero’s Journey is:
    Do Not Kid Yourself!
    Living transparent to ourselves
    brings everything to light,
    puts it all on the table,
    and requires us to live
    without pretense or denial,
    taking the whole into account
    at all times–
    living in this world in ways
    that honor that world–
    bringing the life that is ours to live
    to life within the life we are living.
    What brings you to life?
    Do that to offset the things draining you of life–
    the things you do to pay the bills
    to make life possible.
    The two paths modify and moderate each other,
    and pull us forth as the champion of each,
    bearing in our body the tension of the polarity,
    and making the two one in the life we live.
  28. 11/02/2016 — Moonshine 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, October 15, 2016 Donald Trump’s true gift to his followers
    is permission to not care about people
    they already don’t care about.
    Donald Trump says, in word and deed,
    that it is okay to not care about:
    Anyone who has had, is having, or will have an abortion,
    Women (Even the women who follow Donald Trump
    don’t care about women!),
    Black People,
    The LGBTQ population and their families and supporters,
    Latinos,
    Muslims,
    Immigrants,
    The Special Needs population and their families and supporters,
    The Poor,
    The Homeless,
    Children
    Minimum Wage Earners
    Union Members
    And anyone else Trump wants to add to the list at any time.
    Donald Trump is not a man to admire on any level.
    He is not a man who is capable of being President of the United States.
    Vote for Donald Trump at your peril
    and that of tens of thousands of innocent people.
  29. 11/03/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 09/10/11 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 If Donald Trump wins the election,
    the French should ask for their statue back.
    At the very least,
    the tablet with Emma Lazarus’ sonnet declaring:
    “Give me your tired, your poor,
    Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
    The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
    Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
    I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”
    should be shrouded in black,
    and the idea of
    “Liberty Enlightening the World”
    should become the source of grief and mourning
    for all good people of every nation forever.
    There will be no golden door—
    high thick walls of odious hatred
    will line these shores,
    and all will know
    the hope of Democracy is no more.
  30. 11/03/2016 — Fall Leaves 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 2, 2016 If we live in the service of our will,
    seeking to exploit situations to our advantage,
    and parley “this” into “that,”
    we will have a certain life.
    If we live open to the flow of the moment,
    each moment,
    one thing will lead to another,
    much like “one book opens another,”
    and we will feel like we are being guided
    by some benevolent intelligence
    through our days.
    And, we will have a different kind of life.
    We can think of the flow
    as the Tao, Maat, Dharma, or the will of God.
    Which is it really?
    I like to think of it as being guided
    by our psychic compass
    toward one life and away from others
    as we direct our boat
    on its path through the sea.
    There is that which knows more than we do,
    and to live open to it,
    in collaboration with it,
    is to have a life
    that has more life about it
    than any other life I can think of.
  31. 11/04/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 16 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 It comes down to concentration and focus,
    to aim and attention,
    because we are easily corrupted,
    led astray,
    shanghaied by the 10,000 things–
    which, in reality, are only four things:
    Panic, Greed, Rage and Duty,
    to be offset,
    countered,
    turned aside by four things:
    Concentration, Focus, Aim, and Attention.
    No life lived aimlessly and accidentally
    is worth living.
    We become who we are
    by being who we are
    in each situation as it arises
    with deliberate allegiance
    to alignment and expression.
    We get there with practice–
    sitting quietly
    in stillness and silence
    grounded in,
    and centered upon
    the importance
    of being grounded and centered
    in who we are
    and what we are about.
  32. 11/05/2016 — Boone Fork Panorama 2016 18-B — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 It matters how we live.
    It matters that we live in ways that are true to
    our sense of the best we have to offer.
    It matters that we remain loyal to
    our vision of that which is best about us,
    and incarnate that vision
    in each situation as it arises.
    It matters that we rise above
    that which is base and low,
    detestable, despicable and deplorable,
    and live in the service of
    the highest values that have ever
    stirred to life in the hearts of human beings.
    It matters that we live our best life
    when it seems as though nothing matters at all.
    Anybody can not care how they are living,
    and offer less than they are capable of,
    and say it doesn’t mater.
    It takes no effort to live like that.
    The challenge is to live like it matters
    anyway, nevertheless, even so, no matter what, just because.
    Doing it that way makes all the difference.
  33. 11/06/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 05 — Grandfather Mountain and the Linville Cove Viaduct, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 The first working concept is:
    We Walk Two Paths At The Same Time.
    The second is:
    Our Life Is Filled With A Multiplicity Of Double Paths.
    There is what we do for a living,
    and what we live to do.
    There is what is life for us
    and what is life for our spouse/partner, children/parents, etc.
    There is what we want
    and what we also want.
    There is the center of our conscious ego
    and the center of our psyche Self,
    and there is the Shadow side of both ego and Self. This could quickly get out of hand.
    But, we keep it manageable
    by being aware of the double paths we walk
    and walking them intently aware of both.
    We do not kid ourselves about the other one,
    and we do not tell ourselves
    we must get rid of the other one
    and walk only one to glory.
    There is not only one anywhere, any time.
    To think there is is to be shrouded
    in denial, pretense, wishful thinking, illusion.
    That’s the other path to thinking there is one path.
    There are two paths everywhere.
    We have to walk them both.
    At the same time.
  34. 11/06/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 07 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 Nothing is worse than reality.
    Or better.
    Our place is to square up to it
    and trust ourselves to it
    just as it is–
    for better and for worse.
    No running, no hiding, no denying.
    No hanging on past letting go to some joyful experience.
    No being dragged against our will to do what must be done.
    Reality is a bitter pill to swallow.
    And the grandest adventure ever to ask us to take a ride.
    Don’t miss it for anything.
  35. 11/07/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 06 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 We have to know what we are doing
    and be right about it.
    We are the ones who decide,
    who choose,
    who do and leave not done,
    who say what’s what,
    what gives,
    and what’s up and down.
    We live with an ear tuned to the inner world
    with an eye on what goes on there,
    but the psyche is no internal director
    with megaphone in hand
    yelling minute-by-minute instructions
    regarding when to do what, how and why.
    We familiarize ourselves with the inner world,
    get the gist of its nature and mode of operation,
    put ourselves in accord
    with our understanding of flow and direction,
    and make up our own mind
    about what we need to do
    in each situation as it arises.
    We make the calls.
    We say yes.
    We say no.
    We live out of our own authority
    in light of what we declare to be
    the center, ground and foundation of our life.
    Nobody can tell us what that is
    or what it should be.
    We alone know what is a true expression
    of who we are.
  36. 11/07/2016 — Goodale 2016 03/04 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Our life is like a Rubik’s Cube,
    only it is more like a hexagon than a cube,
    and instead of colors,
    we have to line up our
    affinities,
    aspirations,
    aptitudes,
    attitudes,
    faculties,
    proclivities,
    interests,
    inclinations,
    tendencies,
    dispositions,
    propensities,
    proficiencies,
    penchants,
    tastes,
    talents,
    flairs,
    knacks,
    gifts
    and genius–
    and synch
    that up with
    the context
    and circumstances
    of our life.
    We have to align ourselves with ourselves,
    and fit ourselves into our life.
    Every day.
  37. 11/08/2016 — Goodale 2016 08/09 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 It doesn’t matter to our inner world what
    we do with our life—
    It matters profoundly how
    we do it.
    We are to lived aligned with who we are—
    outer with inner.
    We can do that any way
    the context and circumstances of our life permits/requires.
    We can be who we are anywhere, any when.
    Except that a poet has to poet,
    a dancer has to dance,
    a singer has to sing,
    a logician has to logic,
    a scientist has to science,
    a talker has to talk
    a listener has to listen,
    all the way down the line.
    We live to bring who we are forth
    within the nature and conditions of our life.
    When we refuse/fail to do that
    The inner world—the psyche/soul within—
    begins to rumble and make itself known,
    as if to say,
    “Hey! Wake up! Put yourself in accord with the ALL of you!
    Bring us to life in your life!”
    If we refuse,
    there is hell to pay.
  38. 11/08/2016 — Congaree 2016 05 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Who, okay, whom, do you trust
    to tell you what the truth is?
    Where do you get the information
    you use to form your opinions,
    establish your positions,
    shape your perceptions,
    form your biases and prejudices,
    feed your fears?
    What is the foundation of your convictions?
    Where do you get your ideas?
    What makes you think
    that what you think is so?
    Here’s what I think:
    We have to be responsible
    for gathering our own information
    from the source.
    No hearsay evidence is allowed.
    We don’t take what anyone says is the truth
    as the truth.
    We ask probing questions of all truth-sayers:
    “How do you know that what you say is so?”
    “What makes you think that your interpretation of the facts
    is reliable?”
    “What makes you think the facts you say are factual
    are the only facts pertinent to the conclusion you have drawn?”
    “What are you leaving out of the picture you have drawn?”
    “What else is so that you are not saying is so?”
    “How is it to your personal advantage
    that I believe what you are telling me
    and do what you want me to do?”
    If you want to know the truth about anything,
    or anyone,
    go to the source,
    and make inquiries.
  39. 11/08/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 10 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 Our soul lives to be expressed in the life we are living.
    Our soul doesn’t care if we get paid for it,
    or are rewarded in any material way.
    Our reward is doing what our soul enjoys–
    being who our soul relishes being.
    That’s it.
    That’s all we get out of it.
    We get to relish, to delight in, the life we live together with soul.
    With Psyche.
    Our place is to put soul first–
    To understand that we are here to serve soul,
    not to be served by soul,
    and to live in ways that are aligned with, in accord with,
    the heart that beats at the center of ourselves.
    Our work is to life like soul likes to live.
    What do you love to do?
    Where do you come alive?
    What are the things you do best?
    How do you fit all of that into the life you are living?
  40. 11/09/2016 — Goodale 2016 23 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 This is the best I can do:
    Standing before the unfathomable
    and obscene,
    Ground yourself upon the foundation stone
    of your own deep truth,
    upon what you know to be true about you,
    upon your identity,
    upon your heart and soul
    and their eternal core
    and their high human values,
    and live out of your knowledge
    of what makes you you
    and calls you to live and to do
    according to its good pleasure,
    and hold fast to your center, ground and foundation
    by sitting quietly and remembering
    what is best and truest about you
    every day.
    That’s the first thing. The second is this:
    Know what you can get by with
    and what you cannot get by with,
    and live to be sure you are correct
    without pushing your luck
    more than necessary
    to call attention to what is wrong
    and do what is right
    in each situation as it arises
    for as long as the blight shall last.
  41. 11/09/2016 — Congaree 2016 02 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 It’s all the same to soul/psyche.
    Landscape, environment, context, conditions, circumstances…
    It’s all the place soul/psyche is expressed and comes to life
    in the life we are living.
    The nature of the life we are living
    is of little concern to soul/psyche–
    it is just the matrix, the gestalt, the backdrop
    of soul/psyche’s coming forth and dancing
    its Snoopy’s joyous dance with life.
    We are the ones weighed down by our circumstances,
    by the reality of life in the material world.
    Soul/psyche waits for us to
    square ourselves up with how things are,
    and get with the program of bringing them into our life
    by the way we live it
    wherever, whenever, however we are.
  42. 11/09/2016 — Goodale 2016 15 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 When I was, let’s say, seven years old,
    my buddy David and I walked to downtown
    Itta Bena, Mississippi
    with a plan.
    We were going to pool our money
    and buy a rope,
    bring it home and tie it to a limb
    in my grandmother’s oak tree,
    and take turns swinging like Tarzan all afternoon.
    Each of us plopped down a quarter
    on the counter of the hardware store
    and got 10 feet of quarter inch manila rope
    at 5 cents a foot.
    We were in business,
    and talked all the way home
    of the delight and wonder we would bring ourselves
    being Tarzan and Cheetah all afternoon.
    We got to the tree
    and it dawned on David that his rope
    would hang on MY grandmother’s tree,
    and wanted his half then and there.
    I’d never been so shocked and dismayed,
    and rarely so since.
    Out came his pocket knife,
    fizz when the dream.
    That was an early lesson
    on how difficult it is to get all, or most of, the people
    on the same page
    and keep them there–
    and how easy it is to talk about good faith,
    and how hard it is to keep it with one another.
  43. 11/10/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 20 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 If it feels like oppression,
    it may as well be oppression.
    If it seems as though
    there will always be more Republicans
    who will do anything to avoid change
    and reject the rights of people who are not
    like they are,
    and for whom the center
    is more extreme than they can tolerate,
    it may as well be so,
    because that is my reality
    at this point in my shock and consternation,
    and I could do with a gathering place
    of Democrats
    for consolation and encouragement,
    and the enlargement of perspective,
    the nurturing of hope,
    the mutual care of bent reeds and flickering flames.
    There should be communities for the recovery
    of voting citizens
    suffering from lost dreams and broken hearts.
    Where do we go for anything approaching
    kindness, compassion and understanding
    when we are surrounded by Republicans?
    I’ve Googled It,
    and can find no evidence of the existence
    of a kind, compassionate, understanding Republican–
    which makes no sense at all.
    There has to be one somewhere.
    You would think.
  44. 11/10/2016 —   Goodale 2016 01 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 It is not OKAY.
    “Okay” means “That’s fine with me.”
    There are things that are not fine with me,
    and never will be.
    Things don’t have to be okay–
    particularly things that are not,
    and never will be, There is that which is not-okay,
    and always will be.
    The Hero’s Journey,
    the work of being human,
    growing up and facing our life just as it is,
    means confronting
    and dealing with
    all of the things that are not-okay,
    and never will be.
    And the way to do that
    is to not pretend that things are
    different than they are,
    but to see things as they are,
    bear the pain,
    and do what needs to be done about it.
  45. 11/11/2016 —   Lake Francis 2016 03 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 You cannot awaken those who are
    sleeping the sleep of the dead.
    Everyone thinks they are awake.
    Everyone thinks the way they see things is the way to see things.
    Everyone thinks they know what they are doing.
    Those who know know they don’t know,
    and are open to how things might be different
    from the way they think things are,
    or want them to be.
    No woman should be forced to be pregnant against her will.
    There are women who are pregnant at this moment
    who cannot carry their pregnancy to term.
    How safe are those women in your view of the world?
    Who has no place in your world view?
    Who does not belong?
    Who is not welcome?
    Who has to do it your way or die?
    Because you know best and must be pleased.
    We are entering a period in the country’s history
    where the common assumptions that held us together
    have disappeared.
    There is no longer any separation of powers.
    The executive, legislative and judicial branches
    have been taken over by Republican ideology.
    One Ring To Rule Them All.
    There is no longer any separation of church and state.
    Evangelical, right-wing, Christianity
    has sacked the state and runs the show.
    There is no safety from the rampant idiocy
    Of Those Who Know Best And Must Be Pleased.
  46. 11/11/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 14/15 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 10, 2016 I weep with grief for all that was lost
    with the election of Donald Trump.
    Let me explain.
    In controlling both the house and Senate
    and the Presidency,
    and the Supreme Court,
    the Republicans have an open door
    to reverse the gains that have been made
    in guarding rights and liberties of all people,
    and to see that none of the Favored Ones
    are inconvenienced in any way.
    Donald said, “I will drain the swamp!”
    and, “I will bring jobs back!”
    and, “I will build the wall!”
    and, “I will lower taxes (meaning on the wealthy)!”
    And the people cried, “Yea! Merrily May It Be So!”
    without inquiring, “How do you propose to do these things?”
    and, “What is your time table for doing them?”
    think, of course, that Donald has a magic stick
    and will do it all instantaneously upon inauguration.
    When you are fed up and desperate,
    you vote for the big talk
    and hope for the best,
    never minding all that hangs in the balance.
    Why care about anything
    but the chance of making life better
    for yourself?
  47. 11/11/2016 —   Congaree 2016 01 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Just as, according to the old saw,
    “The only way to get rid of temptation
    is to yield to it,”
    the only way to get rid of grief
    is by grieving.
    There is no hurrying grief along.
    It leaves in its own time.
    In its own sweet time.
    Any time we lose something that,
    or someone who,
    was like life itself,
    we have to let grief have its way with us.
    We have to feel what has been lost
    all the way, for as long as it takes.
    Even if it is inconvenient,
    and gets in the way.
    We have to consciously, mindfully, intentionally
    be with our grief,
    spending time with it, We think about the things that “make us cry.”
    We don’t change the subject in our minds,
    or “talk about happy things.”
    We assist our grief,
    encourage our grief.
    We don’t strive to be rid of it.
    We do not run from reality.
    We run to reality.
    Immerse ourselves in reality.
    Swim in it,
    become one with it,
    alive to it.
    Grieving and mourning all the while.
    As a testimony to the lasting value
    of the person, place, or thing,
    and the impact of his/her/its loss on our life.
  48. 11/12/2016 —   Goodale 2016 29 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 We are individuals
    and we are not independent.
    (Here we go again, get ready, it’s coming)–
    we walk two paths at the same time.
    Too often, we erase the individual path
    in favor of the dependent path,
    and live like the group, the community, the mass,
    but, occasionally, we erase the dependent path,
    and shun all communal responsibilities and connections
    in “doing our own thing,”
    “being true to ourselves,”
    “being who we are,” We have to be true to ourselves
    in relationship with one another (and all others).
    Some of us don’t go home for the holidays
    because we cannot be true to ourselves
    and be a part of our own family of origin.
    It’s a problem.
    It might be the only problem,
    being an individual and being a part of the wider community.
    We walk two paths at the same time
    (remember)
    by keeping both clearly in mind
    when walking either.
    It is a dialectic, a dynamic, a polarity,
    that keeps us working to be balanced,
    to be in harmony, in sync, connected and alive.
    Erasing the tension in favor of either path
    cuts us off from both paths
    and delivers us to the wasteland
    where we are neither a self, nor a community,
    just isolated and alone,
    aimless without foundation or direction.
    We have to be a self in relationship with other selves,
    even though it is the hardest thing in the world to do.
  49. 11/12/2016 —   Around Bass Lake 2016 06 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 I am always stunned and amazed
    that people can look at the same fact
    and draw such widely different conclusions.
    Two men, or two women, kissing.
    Black and white children attending the same public school.
    People of different religions,
    and of no religion,
    and races,
    and physical ability,
    and gender identification,
    and ethnic origin,
    living together with mutual respect and good will.
    Repugnant to some,
    beautiful to others.
    The right of all people to be free to make their own health care decisions.
    To equal pay for equal work.
    To affordable child care and health care.
    Essential to some.
    Unnecessary to others.
    And reprehensible and wrong-the-point-of-being-evil-to still others.
    How can we be this far apart in our apprehension and evaluation of reality?
    What is messing with our mind?
  50. 11/13/2016 —   Lake Crandal 2016 04 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Acces, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 When the people think they are doing good
    when they are doing abject evil,
    and call idiocy “brilliant,” “astute,” “gifted,” and “clever,”
    the world is off its foundation
    and the would be king is wearing no clothes,
    and the joke is on us all.
  51. 11/13/2016 —   Around Price Lake 2016 06-C —Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 —This is a manufactured reflection. You can check out the original by digging it out in an earlier post in October.
    We bear our own grief,
    and carry our own sorrow,
    and square up each day
    to life as it is that day.
    And it helps to do that in the company
    of those who are also doing it.
    We strengthen each other
    by being strong ourselves.
    We encourage each other
    by being courageous ourselves.
    Joseph Campbell said,
    “The influence of a vital person vitalizes.”
    Each of us is to be that person–
    vitally alive in the face of the awful truth of the day,
    anyway, never the less, even so,
    doing what can be done about what needs to be done
    every day.
    All the way.
    Freedom Road needs some determined travelers again,
    walking together on the long road to freedom
    for every man, woman and child
    of every race and variety of humankind.
    Start by seeing what you look at,
    and listening to whom you are talking–
    beyond their words to their heart and soul
    struggling to be heard and understood.
  52. 11/14/2016 —   A Walk in the Woods 01 Panorama — Fall Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 People are marching in protest against Trump.
    How many of them voted?
    I vote even though my vote doesn’t matter
    (The Electoral College cancels out
    my blue vote in a red state–
    SC voted for Barry Goldwater,
    and went blue only for fellow-southerner Jimmy Carter).
    The people who didn’t vote,
    or who threw their vote away on a 3rd party (as if) candidate,
    handed us what we have,
    thank-you very much.
    One vote added to all of the other ones
    creates the future.
    Forget the candidates as people to love or hate.
    The question is always
    “What kind of future do you want to live in?”
    Vote for the person who has the best chance
    of delivering that future–
    and do not fail, or refuse, to vote!
    We have a clear vision of Trump’s future for the U.S. and world,
    and it is very ugly.
    It is a wasteland that even hopelessness would avoid.
    How to deal with that reality
    on this side of the election
    will be a daily test of our resolve and commitment to the good.
    The Dark Side has won the day
    and turned it into the darkest night.
  53. 11/14/2016 —   Super Moonshine 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 If you aren’t aware of, or following, Dak Prescott and the Dallas Cowboys of the National Football League,
    you are missing the story of the age,
    and the symbol of the new age that is dawning before our eyes.
    Prescott is the hero the modern world had no idea it needed.
    He is focused on being who he is wherever he is, period.
    Nothing distracts him.
    He has been described by sports writers as having the presence and poise of a Zen monk.
    He doesn’t get knocked off center.
    He doesn’t lose sight of his purpose.
    He is remarkably, consistently, the same in every situation,
    regardless of the circumstances.
    Michael Lombardi, an ex-GM in the NFL, describes his leadership style as being “intolerant of everything but winning.”
    Says Lombardi, “He doesn’t allow anything to get in the way of that.”
    Now, change winning, or understand it, to be “living in the service of the good,”
    and you have exactly the prescription for what needs to happen
    in the life of each one of us.
    We need to be intolerant of everything but the service of the good in each situation as it arises.
    We cannot allow anything to get in the way of that.
    What is the greatest good you can think of?
    If it isn’t winning, what is it?
    Live possessed by, and focused on, that in every circumstance and condition of life.
    And get to know all you can about Dak Prescott.
    He is who we all need to be in our own way.
  54. 11/15/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 08 — Sumac, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Our life consists of facts and our response to them.
    We are responsible for forming our own perspective,
    for deciding for ourselves what the facts mean that bear upon our life,
    for interpreting what happens
    and determining what to do about it.
    When we don’t know what to make of our life
    and what is happening there,
    instead of sitting quietly and waiting for clarity,
    we rush to unwarranted conclusions,
    jump to embrace some dynamic personality brimming with conviction,
    and throw our lot in with the masses chanting slogans
    and offering direction–
    anything to avoid the anxiety of not-knowing
    what things mean and what action to take.
    We don’t think things through,
    sort things out,
    get to the bottom of anything,
    wait for the muddy water to settle,
    in order to see what’s what,
    and know what might be the best of all available options.
    If someone tells us
    he is going to make America Great Again,
    that sounds fine to us,
    never mind the price to be paid,
    or how Great can be not-so-great for some,
    and absolutely devastating for others.
    We will follow anyone
    to be free of the burden
    of seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing and doing
    what needs to be done–
    based on our reflection on our experience
    and our examination of the evidence available to us.
    Which, of course, creates a situation
    in which others have
    to wait for things to settle
    so that they might have enough clarity
    to see, hear, understand, know and do
    what needs to be done
    about our failure to be responsible
    for our own perspective
    and our own response to the facts impinging upon our life.
    When we refuse to do right by our responsibilities,
    someone has to take up our slack,
    and we increase the burden other people must carry.
    When we don’t bear our own pain,
    we increase the level of pain that others must bear.
  55. 11/15/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 28 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 When Jesus talked about new life
    everybody thought (and still think) he was talking
    about life after our physical death,
    about “bodily resurrection”
    with heaven on the other side.
    I hate to be the one to break the news, but.
    He was talking about a shift in perspective,
    a transition to a new way of seeing.
    It was/is as radical as the difference between
    old wine skins and new ones,
    as the difference between
    darkness and light,
    and life and death.
    “Those who seek their life will lose it,
    but those who give up their life
    for my sake and the gospel’s will find it.”
    “My sake and the gospel’s”
    is the perspective that sees things as they are.
    “I am the way, the truth and the life,
    and no one comes to the Father but by me.”
    The “I” and the “me” are both the perspective,
    the way of seeing,
    that Jesus had and was.
    Jesus was the way he understood things to be,
    the way he saw things.
    That is what fueled his life, his being, in the world.
    It was his perspective, his understanding, his knowing,
    that made him the Christ–
    and that is what makes us the Christ,
    as only we can be the Christ,
    after him.
    Believing in Jesus isn’t going to transport us
    from old wine skins to new.
    “Even the demons believe–and shudder.”
    “Lord, Lord, didn’t we believe in your name,
    and do mighty works in your name…?”
    Seeing things the way Jesus did–
    seeing what is important the way Jesus saw what was important–
    is going to make all things new
    on this side of the grave.
    The other side will take care of itself.
  56. 11/16/2016 —   Fall Woods 2016 33 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 16, 2016 It helps to be clear about what is important.
    Everything settles out around that.
    Trump says he will lower our taxes.
    Sounds great to a lot of people.
    He says he will get rid of Obamacare.
    Sounds great to a lot of people.
    He doesn’t say anything about how and what then.
    No one seems to care.
    Turns out he will lower taxes by
    also getting rid of Medicare and Medicaid
    (or cut spending to them which is equivalent to axing them).
    Turns out he has nothing to offer in the place
    of the Affordable Healthcare Act.
    That Trump is some kind of clown act
    with tricks up every sleeve.
    It helps to get all the information out in front of us
    before jumping on some bandwagon
    racing down the mountain to the cliff
    and jagged rocks below.
    Be clear about the important things.
    All good things start with what matters most.
  57. 11/16/2016 —   A Walk in the Woods 2016 38 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 “Don’t go in that hole!”
    Perfect advice for this time and place.
    We make the darkness darker by extolling the awfulness
    of every aspect of gloom and despair.
    This is the way things are,
    and this is what we can do in response.
    One of those things is to refuse to go in that hole.
    Another of those things is to sit quietly in the silence,
    holding everything in awareness
    without judgment or opinion–
    simply seeing what we look at
    and acknowledging its presence
    as a part of the allness,
    as a part of the just-so-ness,
    of this moment–
    and living in this moment
    out of our own center, ground and foundation.
    Our of our own identity and character.
    Out of what is true about us
    in this situation.
    The situation doesn’t dictate to us who we will be
    or how we will live.
    We bring ourselves forth to meet the moment
    every moment,
    no matter what the moment presents to us.
    That is our challenge in every moment
    all our life long.
    Nothing changes who we are
    or how we bring ourselves to bear upon
    the time and place of our living.
  58. 11/17/2016 —   Around Bass Lake 2016 18 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Our situation too much dictates who we are in that situation.
    We are to live so as to be who we are across all situations,
    so that who we are in one
    is who we are in all–
    responding in each situation
    as who we are
    in ways that situation needs us to be.
    The situation does not govern who we are,
    or make us into someone we are not–
    into someone we will be ashamed of being.
    The situation provides us with a framework
    in which we are pulled forth
    and challenged to be
    who we are in ways we will be proud of being.
    In order for that to be the case,
    we have to step into each situation
    centered and grounded in our identity,
    looking forward to seeing how the situation
    may grow us into who we also are capable of being,
    for the good of ourselves
    and the good of the whole.
  59. 11/17/2016 —   Lake Haigler 36 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 Bringing the best we have to offer
    to bear on the situation as it arises–
    engaging the situation
    with the truest expression of who we are–
    brings authenticity and integrity to life there,
    and stirs to life the hope of the world.
    We will wonder why we waited so long.
  60. 11/18/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 18 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 Sit with whatever is happening
    until you can see it for what it is.
    Seeing things as they are
    moves us from the center of consideration,
    and keeps us from seeing things
    solely in terms of their impact on our life.
    Things do impact our life,
    and we will have to make adjustments and alterations,
    and that will be facilitated
    by our ability to see things as they are
    and make an accurate determination
    about the best response we can make
    in terms of what needs to happen in response
    for the good of the whole
    after taking everything into account.
    Dismissing/ignoring the good of the whole
    skews everything in favor of our good alone,
    disrupts the flow,
    creates discordance in the ought-to-be-ness of things,
    produces resistance,
    and yields really bad karma
    all because we took the path
    of refusing to respond appropriately to the occasion.
  61. 11/18/2016 —   November Orchard 2016 10 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016 How can there be such dramatic disagreement among
    us as to what is Good and what is Evil?
    How can some of us–
    more than a small minority–
    think that white supremacy is the greatest good?
    That racism, sexism, misogyny, xenophobia and religious discrimination
    are not only acceptable,
    but are to be applauded and embraced?
    How can Good be perceived as Evil,
    and Evil as Good?
    And how can we talk to one another
    without common agreements
    about the basis of life together?
  62. 11/19/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 24 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 If I were going to establish a totalitarian regime in the U.S.,
    I would act quickly upon assuming the office of President.
    I would shut down the internet
    and the so-called “free press,”
    which hasn’t been free in how long?
    (Are there any independent news publications left?)
    And institute emergency measures–
    which would amount to a police state–
    to “keep America safe.”
    I would dispatch my enemies
    through a series of well-placed poisonings
    (the Russian way)
    and assassinations.
    And just like that,
    my way would then be The Way.
    Of course, to justify the whole show,
    I would have to stage an attack or two
    in cities harboring the highest number of anti-me fiends,
    but that would be easily done,
    and everything would then be in place
    for ID-ing everyone,
    and putting checkpoints and border guards
    in all states.
    The talk about the wall
    would have been my little joke
    concealing what I really had in mind.
    Everyone would be amazed
    at how easily it all came about.
    You would be a fool to vote
    for someone like me for President.
  63. 11/19/2016 —   November Orchard 2016 05 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016 It is the role of consciousness to be conscious.
    When consciousness refuses its role—
    because it is too painful
    and asks too much of us—
    escaping into diversion, distraction, and denial,
    that of which we are not conscious
    directs our life
    and we call it fate,
    or bad luck.
  64. 11/19/2016 —   Carolina Thread Trail 2016 15 Panorama — Spanning 12-mile Creek and the state line — This suspension bridge connects Lancaster County, South Carolina and Union County, North Carolina, November 19, 2016 See what you look at.
    Look at everything.
  65. 11/20/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 02 — Waxhaw, North Carolina, Union County, November 18, 2016 The Huns, Vandals and Goths have sacked Washington
    from the inside:
    How the South finally won the Civil War.
    Once Donald fills the empty federal judgeships,
    the take-over will be complete.
    The liberals will remonstrate, castigate, moan and bewail
    to no avail.
    Liberals are good at protesting and bad at voting,
    and by the time elections roll around in four years,
    voting rights will have been restricted and erased,
    radically reducing their chances at anything more
    than mere tokenism
    in all races nationwide.
    And there goes the 200+ year experiment with democracy–
    lost through a pronounced lack of passion
    for its continuation.
    If you can take it for granted,
    it’s already gone.
    And, just like that, the white supremacists, racists, bigots
    and evangelical Christians,
    k.a the Huns, Vandals and Goths,
    win the day.
    But winning the day and governing the country
    are to different horses.
    The Ignorant Ruling Class
    (and ignorance has nothing to do with intelligence or education,
    but everything to do with insight,
    awareness, perception and perspective)
    has to be more than crafty and guileful.
    We’ll see how their take-over
    plays out over time.
  66. 11/20/2016 —   Lake Crandal 2016 08 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 If anyone is to be registered,
    it is gun owners–
    not Muslims.
    Why is that so difficult for some to see?
    How can Republicans be slick, sly and crafty,
    but not perceptive, astute and aware?
    And there is still no evidence in support
    of the contention
    that a person can be Republican and compassionate.
    Evidence consists of eye-witness accounts
    of those who are not Republican.
  67. 11/20/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 25 — Union County, North Carolina, November 20, 2016 The ground rock of democracy is the promise of
    “life, liberty and the pursuit of
    what it takes to make your little heart sing.”
    All citizens in a democracy
    are free to find and live their own lives
    in ways that do not interfere others
    finding and living their own lives.
    Your religious beliefs have to do
    with you and your life,
    not me and mine.
    Your religious beliefs cannot be
    imposed on me as restrictions on my life.
    You have to respect my right to be different
    from what your religion allows you to be.
    The constitution trumps religion
    when it comes to what rights I am allowed.
    We cannot restrict Muslims from living free
    of the imposition of Christianity upon them.
    Christianity is not the religion of state.
    There is no religion of state.
    Politicians are sworn to uphold the constitution,
    not to champion anyone’s version of the Christian religion.
    Banning the expression of Islam by its adherents
    is a disgrace and is disallowed in a democracy.
    Christians don’t get to thump their chests
    and have their way.
    They have to honor ways that make others’ little hearts sing.
  68. 11/21/2016 —   Around Price Lake 2016 07 — Grandfather Mountain, Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Somebody’s good is somebody else’s bad.
    Someone’s right is someone else’s wrong.
    Good and bad (evil),
    right and wrong,
    are not absolutes.
    God is a monster.
    So is Mother Nature.
    So is life itself.
    So are you.
    So am I.
    So let’s be done with the illusion of Moral Perfection,
    and live alive to the moment
    and what it needs of us
    in terms of being in full accord
    with what is called for there, then.
    There is no ideology!
    No recipe!
    No formula!
    For right living!
    What is right here and now,
    may well be wrong then and there.
    Everything is preparation for the next thing,
    or the thing after that–
    for what is coming,
    for what will be,
    for what is being born even now
    as we act here with something else entirely in mind.
    Donald Trump was produced by the Civil Rights Movement.
    The seeds of tomorrow’s wrong
    are planted in today’s right.
    And vice-versa.
    It is the way of things,
    and cannot be avoided,
    but must be recognized, made conscious, lived mindfully,
    by those who know their role is to offer themselves
    to the service of what is called for
    in light of all things considered
    in each situation as it arises–
    to decide for themselves what is right,
    and what justice and compassion demand,
    here and now in the time and place of their living,
    and do that thing with all their heart, and mind, and soul, and strength,
    realizing that they may be doing something entirely different
    in the next situation that comes up in response to this one.
  69. 11/21/2016 —   Grandfather Mountain 12/13 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Everything that happens is preparation for what’s coming,
    and needs to be understood as such–
    reflected upon,
    explored, probed, mined
    for the gold,
    and understood as a gift from the gods
    to be used in preparing the way
    through the wilderness that lies ahead.
    It’s all a test
    of our ability to be present
    with what is present with us
    in seeing, hearing and understanding
    what is happening
    and what needs to happen in response
    in order to know what to do
    in being who we are
    in each situation that arises,
    that we might shine there
    as lights in the darkness
    and encouragement to one another
    along the way.
  70. 11/22/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 08 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 Trump has awakened a Great Evil,
    given it validity
    and handed it the powers of the Presidency.
    Racism, Bigotry, Hatred and Fear
    (The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse)
    now have permission from on high
    to destroy the pillars of Democracy
    and replace them with the laws of the jungle.
    The Rule of Law is now officially over–
    none of the laws in place to protect the people
    and the environment
    will remain in place or be honored–
    except as it pleases those in power.
    Separation of Powers has been
    laughed out of town,
    with Republicans in firm control
    of the legislative, executive and judicial branches of government.
    Separation of Church and State has been
    supplanted by the Religious Right’s version
    of Evangelical Christianity forming the core
    of Republican ideology.
    The takeover is complete.
    Implementation is underway.
    We all have awakened to a new world.
    The way we thought things were,
    and assumed things to be,
    is no longer how things are.
    The earth has dropped away,
    and we are in free fall as a nation,
    as a world.
    We regain our footing, our foundation,
    by developing an inner life
    and becoming reflective, introspective, mindful and aware.
    Mindfulness leads the way
    (Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube videos).
    We have to see what we look at
    and look at everything.
    We have to sit quietly and take stock every day.
    What remains in place remains in place within.
    Our heart/soul/self is untouched by context and circumstance.
    Our deepest/highest values may be invalidated without,
    but they are forever sacrosanct within.
    Our work is to recover our grounding foundation and center,
    and to live in light of what we know to be good and true–
    incarnating it in the way we go about our business
    in each situation as it arises
    throughout the dark days that lie ahead.
  71. 11/22/2016 —   Reelfoot Lake 51/52/53 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 We can be who we are in any situation,
    through all circumstances.
    We can face any event “in character,”
    respond to any condition of life exactly as we would do it.
    Nothing can happen to us
    that could rob us of our ability
    to live “out of ourselves”
    in responding to it.
    That being the case,
    you might think that we would practice the art
    of putting ourselves in accord with ourselves,
    grounding ourselves in our essential identity,
    and being true to ourselves in all times and places.
    It would certainly be time well spent.
  72. 11/22/2016 —   A Walk in the Woods 2016 40 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 I wish there were a law
    applicable to all people worldwide:
    The Individual’s Right To Self-Determination Shall Not Be Infringed.
    And that the world would assist us from birth
    in assuming the responsibility
    and growing into who we are, have been, and will be,
    all our life long.
    If I ever get three wishes,
    that’s going to be the first.
  73. 11/23/2016 —   Goodale 2016 10/11 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 We are swept along by events and circumstances
    well beyond our control.
    The forces shaping our life
    come out of nowhere
    to startle and dismay,
    surprise and delight,
    as we scurry around
    putting things in some semblance of order
    and predictability
    until the next wild wind blows up from the Void.
    We live with a mess or between messes.
    You would think we would be more comfortable
    with our role by now,
    with less in the way of shock and consternation
    at having to get up again
    and re-order our life.
  74. 11/23/2016 —   Congaree 2016 05 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 In order to be who you are–
    in season and out of season,
    when it is convenient and when it is inconvenient,
    in each situation as it arises
    all your life long–
    you have to be your own sounding board.
    You have to hear what you are saying to yourself
    in all times and places.
    What are your dreams saying to you about you?
    Your slips of the tongue?
    The way you spend your money?
    The way you spend your time?
    What you like and don’t like?
    What you do and refuse to do?
    What you must do and what you can’t make yourself do?
    What are you saying to yourself about who you are
    throughout your day,
    each day?
    You have to begin listening to yourself talking to you about you.
    Taking up the practice of mindful awareness
    won’t hurt a bit,
    on any level.
  75. 11/23/2016 —   Super Moonshine 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Do your work.
    Tend your business.
    It will carry you into perceiving the all-ness of the situation
    as it unfolds before you,
    and responding to it with your particular gifts and proclivities
    in protesting what must be protested,
    affirming what cries out to be affirmed,
    and standing with those who are vulnerable, marginalized,
    at risk and without enough advocates and friends.
    Doing our work means working to enable all people
    to do their work
    free of fear, oppression, humiliation, violence and intolerance–
    “one nation under God with liberty and justice for all.”
  76. 11/24/2016 — Footbridge to Rough Ridge 2016 02 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The first thing is this:
    We have to know who we are
    and be right about it.
    This is the foundation.
    The second thing is not far behind:
    We have to know what our work is–
    what our business is–
    and be right about it.
    The third thing follows naturally
    from the first two:
    We have to do our work,
    tend to our business–
    through all times and places,
    situations and circumstances,
    contexts and conditions.
    Everything else takes shape
    around these three things.
    Integrity is knowing who we are
    and being right about it–
    and living in ways that are aligned with,
    incarnate and express,
    the ground and center of our being.
    This is the foundation upon which we stand,
    unmoved and unmoving,
  77. 11/25/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 16/17 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 10, 2016 If people could grow up on command
    (“Grow up!” “Act your age!” “Get over it!” “Stop being such a baby!”)
    what a difference it would make.
    Growing up is not a “once and done” experience.
    There is no static state of being “grown up.”
    We are always “in process,”
    growing up all our life long
    94-year-olds have as much growing up to do
    as they had when they were 34, or 64.
    The farther we go, the more things spread out before us
    and the work expands exponentially,
    with both the rate of change required,
    and the amount of change required,
    increasing as we age.
    Simply sitting with,
    and being aware of the implications,
    of that fact alone will require us to grow up.
    Life is no place for slackers and lay-a-bouts.
  78. 11/25/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 22 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 It is all useless, pointless, hopeless, futile, absurd
    and coming to a very bad end–
    and how we live in the meantime makes all the difference.
    How we live in the meantime is the only thing that matters.
    It is what we do with sadness, sorrow, suffering, despondency, gloom and depression
    that transforms everything.
    Call it willful caring, compassionate, transcendence.
    We look the drooling Cyclops in his ugly red eye
    and say “Out of my way Pretty Boy–you are nothing to me!”
    We will ourselves to the expression, exhibition, incarnation
    of caring and compassion,
    transcending the facts of every situation,
    to live there as outlets of goodness and grace,
    anyway, never the less, even so.
    And the world is blessed by the way
    we choose to live in it.
    That’s doing it like it needs to be done.
  79. 11/25/2016 —   Reelfoot Lake 50 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 The power of the psyche
    is the power to be and to do–
    to be who we are
    and to do the things that express/incarnate who we are
    within any situation, context, circumstance, condition of life.
    We collaborate with the psyche’s coming forth in our life
    by becoming conscious of who we are
    and what is ours to do,
    which is often not at all who we want to be
    or what we wish we could be doing.
    This is the theme of the Garden of Eden
    being worked out in the day-to-day experience of our life–
    and the Garden of Gethsemane.
    Eden and Gethsemane are the same garden
    with different outcomes.
    Gethsemane is how Eden should have played out,
    in the old “Thy will not mine be done” kind of way.
    We are always in one garden or the other,
    standing before the questions
    “Who are we?”
    “What is ours to do?”
    in each time and place of our living.
    How we answer them each time, each place,
    tells the tale.
  80. 11/26/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 03 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Consciously care about what you care about.
    Know what you care about and serve it with your life,
    allowing what you care about to lead you to other things to care about.
    This is what Joseph Campbell meant with “Follow your bliss!”
    Our life is grounded in and flows from what we care about,
    from where our passion lies.
    Life IS passion for life, living, being alive.
    Passion IS life, living, being alive.
    When we allow our life to separate us from our passion for life,
    life destroys life.
    Our old life destroys our new life by refusing to allow us
    to live out of our passion for life–
    because it isn’t proper,
    it doesn’t fit,
    it won’t do.
    Our new life of passion for what we care about
    is a threat to our old life
    of following directions
    doing what we are told,
    refusing to think for ourselves
    and staying inside the lines.
    Our new life of passion for what we care about
    destroys our old life of keeping up appearances.
    We choose between lives.
    Which one will we live?
  81. 11/26/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 49 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 Neither awareness nor ignorance
    has anything to do with intelligence or education.
    They have everything to do with perception–
    what we see or think about
    and perspective–
    how we see or think about.
    How we see what we see
    and how we think about what we think about
    determines what we do in response
    to what is seen and thought.
    Everything depends on the degree of our awareness
    and the degree of our ignorance.
    We will be ignorant of everything of which we are not aware.
    Ignorance, not awareness, elected Donald Trump.
    Ignorance always puts us in a hole
    that only awareness can lead us out of.
    The practice of mindful awareness
    is as simple as sitting quietly
    and being aware of what we are aware.
    And it is the long-term cure for what ails us,
    individually and collectively.
    So, sit quietly.
    Be aware.
  82. 11/27/2016 — November Orchard 2016 08 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 We don’t know what we do not know,
    but we do not know that we do not know it,
    and proceed as though we know of which we speak
    regarding everything.
    The antecedents of Christianity,
    and of Judaism,
    are traceable to Mesopotamia
    and distant lands beyond ca. 3,500 BCE—
    but, it is as though everything Jews and Christians believe
    was dictated to those who wrote the Bible
    straight from the mind and mouth of God.
    Christians are certain that Jesus’ reported virgin birth
    was the only reported virgin birth ever—
    and certainly the most factual of those
    that may have ever been believed.
    They don’t know what they don’t know,
    and simply assume that what they think they know
    is as valid as anything they do know.
    We don’t think to get beyond what we think are facts
    to the facts that are facts.
    Confusing how we think things are
    with how things actually are
    is one of the things we do best,
    and most frequently.
    We walk about in such non-existent worlds
    that it is amazing we can find our way around at all
    in this world of normal, apparent, reality.
  83. 11/28/2016 — Goodale 2016 05 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 To will and to do, to do and to be—
    willing, doing and being are one thing.
    The three are one,
    flowing from an orientation to express,
    exhibit,
    incarnate t
    he best we have to offer
    in each situation as it arises
    for the good of the situation as a whole.
    We will to do and to be who we are
    here and now,
    then and there for the good of all.
    We will the good,
    do the good,
    are the good,
    that we seek to incarnate,
    to find,
    to share and enjoy.
    Without living intentionally
    with this purpose of willing, doing and being in mind,
    we respond reactively,
    out of the mood-of-the-moment,
    to whatever comes our way.
    Will to do and to be
    what is needed.
    It is the cure
    for a multitude of ills.
  84. 11/28/2016 — Lake Francis 2016 01 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016 A large number of people advise
    looking at the bright sunshine
    and away from the dark shadows behind you.
    I say look at everything.
    See your life as it is,
    and what is possible,
    and which possibilities are necessary and essential,
    and give yourself to the achievement of those things.
    See what is actual,
    and what needs to be done about it,
    and do it.
    Forget flighty philosophies
    and airy advice,
    and get up and do your thing
    in places it can have a positive impact
    for the good of the whole situation
    (Not just for your good,
    or the good of people like you)
    in every situation.
    Your entire life long.
  85. 11/27/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 09 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Oswald Spengler (in “The Decline of the West”) said, “What IS is something that HAS BECOME.”
    Spengler is right in that we ARE more than we have ever been, and not yet what we will be.
    And Carl Jung is right when he said, “Who we are is who we always have been, and who we will be.”
    The White Oak Tree is what every White Oak Tree is, and what only that specific White Oak Tree can be–and will become.
    There is stability and there is freedom of movement.
    We can change without losing our essential identity.
    We can be different and still be true to ourselves.
    The idea that we have to be rigid, static, immobile and inflexible
    or we are betraying ourselves and disobeying God
    is one of the thoughts that no one has any business thinking.
    Life is dynamic.
    We shift and sway, dance, fly, flip, dive and soar.
    It’s called being alive.
    Live to see how different you can be in the time left for living!
  86. 11/29/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Oswald Spengler said, “Soul (Psyche, the Unconscious) is possibility. The world is actuality. And life is the process by which what is possible is actualized.” Or, words to that effect.
    Our work is to incarnate Soul–
    to express, exhibit, make real
    the Unconscious potential
    that seeks to be actualized
    in the time and place,
    context and circumstances,
    of the life we are living.
    The incarnation/expression of Soul
    is not a mass production event.
    It is the imperceptible work of each individual
    over the course of her, of his, entire life.
    We do that work
    by consciously,
    conscientiously,
    bringing ourselves forth
    to meet our life
    in each situation as it arises–
    refusing to shy away,
    or hold back,
    from doing what needs us to do it
    with the gifts that are ours to offer
    in each here-and-now
    that unfolds before us.
    Ready-Set-GO!
    Here/Now!
  87. 11/30/2016 — Boone Fork 06 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The people you mingle with and walk, or drive, past
    everyday
    have their own agendas,
    their own aims
    and their own means of achieving them.
    They have their own ways of spending their money
    and their time.
    They are preoccupied with their own concerns.
    They have their business–
    and their life–
    and you have yours.
    We share this world,
    but we live in different worlds.
    You couldn’t go home with them
    any easier than they could go home with you.
    We all need a place to go
    where it is just us and our kind–
    like-minded people
    with whom we are safe to be ourselves.
    We all need people in our life
    who are happy to help us live our life
    without meddling in it–
    a Community of Innocence
    with nothing at stake in us
    beyond being glad to see us
    and willing to listen to us
    to the point of enabling us to say
    what we need to hear.
    We are all self-regulating
    and internally guided,
    with goals unique to us.
    We need only a small group of people
    with no interest in us
    beyond assisting us in knowing what we know
    and reflecting on what to do about it.
    Who are the people who listen you
    to knowing and reflection?
    Spend time with those people.
  88. 11/30/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 04 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 The old adage, “Reason can’t uproot what reason didn’t plant,”
    means we cannot talk to hatred in ways that transform it
    into grace and compassion, but.
    We can certainly denounce it to its face
    and call it out when it shows itself.
    We can put hatred in its place
    and give it no reason to think it is justified, validated, excused and encouraged.
    Hatred and bigotry cannot be encouraged!
    And silence is encouraging!
    We cannot be “nice” when hatred is stirring–
    and we must not be quiet!
    Justin Normand carrying his sign at the Texas Mosque
    is the symbol a right response to despicable wrong.
    Here’s the link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/texas-man-sign-muslims_us_583edc1ae4b04fcaa4d5d6eb
    and may his tribe increase exponentially!
  89. 12/01/2016 —   Around Price Lake 2016 11 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 “Yes, but…” is the polite equivalent of “NO!”
    “Nothing but…” reduces the point that was just made
    to the infinitesimal insignificant
    and dismisses it as utterly unworthy of consideration.
    The next time someone says, “Yes, but…” to you,
    smile sweetly and say, “That’s nothing but NO!,” sweetie.
    The next time someone says, “That’s nothing but…” to you,
    smile sweetly and say, “Yes, but…” sweetie.
    After trading a few
    “Yes, but’s” and “Nothing but’s,”
    we will have found someone we cannot talk to,
    and are free to excuse ourselves permanently
    from any future conversation,
    and go in search of someone we can talk to,
    feeling incredibly unburdened and free.
  90. 12/01/2016 —   Around Bass Lake 2016 14 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Poets cannot talk to accountants,
    and need accountants to help them with financial realities they cannot conceive.
    Accountants cannot talk to poets,
    and need poets to envision a truth they cannot imagine.
    We have to know our limits,
    and how we need one another
    to deepen and expand us,
    and to help us with affairs we cannot manage on our own.
    Poets cannot damn accountants to hell
    because they aren’t poets.
    Accountants cannot damn poets to hell
    because they aren’t accountants.
    Each of us needs the rest of us
    to be who we cannot be
    and to show us a deeper, truer, truth
    than we could ever envision on our own.
    The poet is eyes, ears and understanding
    to the accountant,
    and the accountant is the same to the poet.
    Putting ourselves in accord
    with this truth about truth
    will help us put ourselves in accord with our life,
    which is the work of poets, accountants, and everyone else worldwide.
  91. 12/01/2016 —   South Carolina Bison 2016 02 B&W — Kershaw County, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Creative life energy feeds and flows from
    the freedom of aim and purpose.
    Without aim and purpose and the freedom to realize them,
    we sit looking at the wall until we die.
    Native Americans sentenced to a reservation.
    Elephants chained to a post.
    Dogs in a cage.
    Your Aunt Susan in a nursing home.
    POW’s kept themselves vitally alive
    by planning their escape and digging tunnels.
    Without aim, purpose and freedom
    we are dead,
    or may as well be.
    To be alive,
    we have to intend something
    and serve it with our life.
    We have to will and to do in order to be.
    What are your aims and purposes?
    What is keeping you from being free
    to serve them with your life?
    What can you do to gain your freedom?
    To help others gain theirs?
  92. 12/02/2016 — Fall Leaves 2016 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, October 20, 2016 Maintaining our focus,
    living from the center of our integrity,
    remaining grounded on our foundation,
    secure in who we are
    and what we are about,
    requires regular retreats into stillness and silence
    in order to enhance mindful awareness,
    reconnect with the allness of time and place,
    and put ourselves in accord
    with reality on all levels.
    Stillness and silence
    enable fitting responses
    to events and circumstances
    in the field of action.
  93. 12/02/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 05 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016 Jesus wasn’t a Christian.
    But he was widely recognized as the Christ.
    If you’re going to be something,
    don’t settle for being a Christian.
    Be the Christ as only you can be.
    We become the Christ
    when we get out of the way
    with our ideas of how things ought to be
    (That was Adam’s mistake, and Eve’s, remember),
    and live in accord with the Self at the center of ourselves,
    who knows what’s what and what to do about it,
    who is the “Thy” in “Thy will, not mine, be done.”
    Jesus called the Self “the Father,”
    and said, “The Father and I are one.”
    That’s the spirit!
    When we live at one with the Father/Self
    at the heart of who we are,
    we are the Christ
    and can trust ourselves to do what we know to do
    in each situation as it arises
    like Jesus did,
    healing on the Sabbath
    and associating with those society considered to be Unclean.
    The church tries to steer us away
    from this kind of radical living
    with its ideology, doctrines, theology, and long list
    of behaviors approved and unapproved,
    but the Father/Self within knows what’s what and what to do about it,
    and that’s who we better throw in with and follow
    because integrity is everything when it comes to being the Christ,
    and we don’t want any outside authorities
    interfering with the signals and getting us off the path.
  94. 12/02/2016 — November Orchard 2016 02 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, November 17, 2016 Jeremy Taylor said “Dreams are the magical mirror of folklore, reflecting clearly who we are and how things are in our life.”
    Or words to that effect.
    Dreams come to us that we might see, hear, understand, know, acknowledge, act in appropriate response, and become who we are needed to be.
    When we refuse to receive our dreams well,
    we are rejecting a “dear and glorious communion” with Psyche
    regarding our life and how we are to live it,
    and have only ourselves to thank
    when things aren’t what they could be there.
    If we don’t remember our dreams,
    or think that we don’t dream,
    we might take stock
    and examine the possibility
    that we don’t trust ourselves,
    don’t believe in ourselves,
    don’t have faith in ourselves,
    and cannot imagine an inner authority
    that knows what it is doing
    residing in US of all people.
    Could it be that we need to revisit and revise long-held convictions
    regarding our worthiness,
    and begin treating ourselves with respect and kindness
    hitherto unknown?
    That’s the first time I have ever used “hitherto” in a sentence.
    I would bet, if I still did that kind of thing, $20
    that that’s one more time than you have ever used it.
  95. 12/03/2016 —   Reelfoot Lake 2015 64 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 It helps to be aware of the flow of our life,
    and to know when we are in the flow and out of it,
    and to do the work of finding
    and maintaining our place in the flow.
    Everything has flow, even agitation, disruption and heaving chaos.
    Our place is to be aware of it
    and participate in it
    in ways that serve our balance, harmony, peace, sanity,
    and ability to respond to the conditions and circumstances
    of our life
    in ways that are appropriate to the occasion
    in each situation as it arises.
    We start by noticing the flow of our day and its impact on us,
    and what we do to enhance flow,
    and what we do to disturb or interrupt the flow.
    For instance, getting dressed has it’s flow.
    Things go more smoothly when we put our pants on
    before we put on our shoes.
    We can do shoes first but
    that’s asking for trouble.
    How often do we ask for trouble throughout our day?
    How often do we cooperate with the requirements of flow?
    Mindful awareness is a flow-enhancing practice.
    We live better just by being aware of how we are living.

One Minute Monologues 035

August 22, 2016 – October 22, 2016

  1. 08/22/2016 — Ego gets a bad rap.
    Hinduism and, to some extent, Buddhism
    Plot Ego as the Bad Guy behind the mess.
    We suffer, it is said, because of Ego.
    Ego is the source of fear and desire,
    Which are the root of the problem,
    And the cause of all suffering.
    Get Ego out of the way
    And there is only bliss and harmony forever. Who desires bliss and harmony?
    Who fears suffering?
    Who wants Ego gone?
    Who is left when Ego goes?
    Every religion has it’s problems.
    And it’s said that Buddhism is not a religion,
    But. It has its prayer flags and votive offerings,
    And it has the idea of earning merit at its core.
    Who is hearing the prayers?
    Who is pleased with the offerings?
    Who is keeping score?
    Ego is not the problem.
    Ego is a full partner with Psyche
    In living the life that is ours to live–
    In getting off of the wrong track,
    And getting on the right one.
    Ego is the protector, defender, hero, friend of Psyche.
    And only needs to wake up,
    And be about the business it is to be about,
    For all to be well with our soul.
  2. 08/22/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 20 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 Why isn’t important.
    What is the only thing that matters.
    Why something happened to you is a distraction.
    What you are going to do about it is your proper focus.
    Why you should do what is right isn’t the issue.
    What you are going to do in response to what needs you to do it
    Is the only question.
    I don’t care what your motives are.
    When the baby needs to be fed,
    Feed the baby–
    And feed the baby in such a manner
    That the baby can’t tell if you want to or not.
    Your life needs you to live it.
    Don’t worry about why.
    Decide what.
    Can your life count on you or not?
    What you do in each moment
    Says yes or no to your life in that moment.
  3. 08/23/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 07 — A composite photo combining three images of two different Nuthatches. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 When we live faithfully trusting ourselves
    to what we take to be our life,
    our life becomes increasingly apparent
    in the life we are living.
    We don’t have to know what we are doing.
    We only have to have a good faith commitment
    to putting ourselves
    in accord with the life that is ours to live.
    It’s like this:
    Mountain Goats are suited to mountains,
    and Antelope are suited to grassy plains.
    Plop Mountain Goats and Antelope down
    in the piedmont between mountains and plain,
    and they will figure it out
    without knowing what they are doing.
    We will gravitate to where we belong
    and take the shape our life requires of us
    simply by giving ourselves to the search
    in a “Me? or Not Me?” kind of way.
  4. 08/23/2016 — Mourning Dove 12 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 21, 2016 We owe it to each other
    As a sacred trust
    To remain a steadfast source strength and encouragement
    All the way to the end of our natural life.
    I’ve watched a lot of children eating ice cream.
    I have never seen one get halfway to the end,
    Look at the cone, or bowl,
    Say, “What good is this doing?
    What’s the point in this–or anything?”
    Throw it down in disgust,
    And stalk away in a disgruntled, miserable, slouch.
    Adults need to live their life
    Like children eat ice cream.
    We all are helpmates for one another.
    Robin Williams’ suicide impacted me more
    Than he ever imagined.
    Every suicide leaves its mark.
    We owe each other better
    Than quitting because it is hard
    And makes no sense.
    Ice cream makes no sense,
    And no one asks it to.
    “Do you want some ice cream?”
    “Ice cream! What kind of sense does that make?”
    Demanding that our life make sense,
    Makes about the same kind of sense
    As demanding that ice cream make sense.
    Our place is to live well
    Whether that makes any sense or not.
    It will make all the difference,
    And that needs to be enough.
  5. 08/23/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 22 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 23, 2016
    Carl Jung said, “We are who we always were, and who we will be.”
    The seed, the core, the kernel has been there from the start,
    And will be there all the way, but.
    What Carl Jung did not say,
    But is equally true,
    Is that who we are is different from any way we have been,
    And is who we have yet to be.
    There is always more to us than meets the eye.
    We live our way into our own unfolding, emerging.
    We surprise ourselves.
    Live so as to be amazed
    At who you discover yourself to be.
  6. 08/24/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 24, 2016 We cannot grow up without
    Squaring up to,
    Coming to terms
    And dealing successfully with
    The things we don’t like about our life.
    You might think we would get more help
    With this along the way.
    Did someone say “Help with this”?
    That’s strange,
    I was just thinking about that.
    The Jon Kabat-Zinn videos on You Tube
    Will provide you with all the help you need.
    Watch them all.
    Then watch them all again.
    And put them into practice in your life.
    Nothing can happen to you that you won’t be able
    To face up to and deal with.
    He calls the practice he espouses
    “Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction.”
    A better title would be
    “How To Face Up To And Deal With
    All You Don’t Like About Your Life.”
  7. 08/25/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 20 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 Evolution doesn’t know what it’s doing.
    It doesn’t have a goal in mind.
    “Goals” are our gift to the matrix,
    Along with “beauty” and “justice,”
    And all the values that have been identified
    Over the course of human existence.
    We now find ourselves with 80 +/- years
    In which to explore the experience of being alive–
    “Doing our thing” in light of the best we can imagine,
    With self-transparency and compassion
    Guiding us along the way.
    Small rafts of awareness
    Upon the heaving surface
    Of the wine-dark sea.
    We each have the opportunity
    Of being something that has never been
    And will never be again,
    Of bringing to light what can be brought to light
    Within the time and place of our living.
    It was dark before we came along.
    Why not let our light shine while we can–
    As only we can?
    And not worry about “Why?”
    Or “Where it’s all going”?
  8. 08/25/2016 — Mushroom 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, August 23, 2016 All the instruction for life we need:
    Get in there every day and do your thing–
    The thing that brings you to life,
    The thing that you are most vibrantly alive
    And immersed in the moment as you do it–
    And don’t let anything knock you off doing it.
    See what you can stir to life
    Just by being alive.
  9. 08/26/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 07 Juvenile — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 The only plan
    Is for us to be who we are
    Within the context and circumstances of our life.
    Beyond that,
    It’s all up in the air,
    Falling out in unique and unpredictable configurations,
    With everything moving over to make room
    For something else.
    We have to take it all in,
    Figure it all out,
    Along with how to be who we are
    In the midst of it.
    Sounds like a Hero’s Journey to me.
    All we have to know is who we are
    And how to work that into the life we live
    In response to what is being asked of us
    By the nature and conditions of the way things are.
    What do we need
    To be who we are
    Here and now
    In each situation as it arises?
    That’s the question that is ours to answer.
  10. 08/27/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 25, 2016 Occasionally, we get a mirror shot of who we are
    that wakes us up to a side of us that is real and true,
    and never-before realized and appreciated,
    understood and embraced.
    Fifteen-or-so years ago,
    I was given a faded red board with white lettering
    picked up at a flea market
    by a member of the congregation I was serving
    who knew me well.
    It was a quote from “The Wizard of Oz”:
    “Nobody Gets In To See The Wizard–
    Not Nobody, Not Nohow!”
    A perfect fit.
    No one is more reserved, reticent, private and unavailable
    for public viewing
    than I am.
    It comes from having never been accorded
    a position of security and respect
    by the adults of my childhood,
    I’m sure, but.
    It is definitely who I am and always have been,
    and always will be.
    If you miss stability, security and respect
    in the early developmental phase
    where those things are essential,
    you miss them,
    and, “Nobody Gets In To See The Wizard–
    Not Nobody, Not Nohow!”
  11. 08/27/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 09 Juvenile — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 25, 2016 We want to be the wrong kind of hero.
    Invincible, Indomitable, invulnerable, unshakeable, unsinkable, indestructible, unflappable…
    You know, like that.
    Always on top of things,
    in charge of things,
    knowing what’s what and what to do about it,
    and doing it.
    Compare that to the Suffering Servant of Isaiah:
    “He was despised and we esteemed him not…
    A man of sorrows and acquainted with grief…
    like a root out of dry ground,
    there was nothing to commend him…”
    Other images crowd in–
    The stone the builders rejected,
    A candle flickering in the wind,
    A baby born in a manger,
    An immigrant without papers,
    A refugee with no advocate,
    A homeless mother with a child in her arms…
    You know, like that.
    Vulnerable,
    at risk,
    ambivalent,
    afraid,
    uncertain,
    ..
    Yet, willing to seek the way through the darkness,
    And to step into each situation as it arises,
    Looking and listening for her, for his, best sense
    Of what is happening
    And what needs to be done in response–
    Ready to put herself, himself,
    On the line in the service of a good
    Beyond her, beyond his, own good,
    And, perhaps, beyond her, his, ability
    To explain or understand.
  12. Used in “Fate and Dynasty,” 08/28/2016 —Black-and-white Warbler 2016 17 — And Black-and-white-stripped Caterpillars, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 25, 2016 People generally live out their lives
    with no idea of what they are doing.
    Following orders.
    Doing what they are told.
    At one with the crowd from the barn
    to the pasture,
    back to the barn.
    We do not live in the grip of a vision of mythic proportions.
    We do not know who we are,
    what we are to be about.
    And, we don’t care about knowing.
    We’re just looking for a little action—
    it doesn’t matter what kind of action.
    Just looking to pass a good time.
    Party? Did someone say “Party?”
    We’re always ready to party.
    We always find what we are looking for,
    Which is never what is looking for us.
    We forsake our destiny,
    and settle for our fate,
    and wonder why our life is empty,
    and our eyes are blank.
  13. 08/29/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 24, 2016 We are here to find our life and live it.
    The process includes time spent
    in quiet reflection and realization.
    How much time in your day
    is currently spent
    sitting quietly,
    reflecting on the life you are living
    and the life that is yours to live?
    Reflecting on last night’s dreams
    and what they say about the life you are living,
    and the life that is yours to live?
    Reflecting on what you are doing,
    and what you might be doing differently,
    in addition to,
    or instead of,
    what you are doing?
    Wondering what the life you are living
    has to do with the life that is yours to live?
    Wondering what you would be doing
    if you were doing exclusively what is yours to do?
    How often do you sit quietly,
    reflecting on the questions you need to be asking
    about the life you are living
    and the life that is yours to live?
    How often do you sit quietly?
  14. Used in “Short Talks on the Hero’s Journey” 08/23/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 28, 2016 Carl Jung said, “We are who we always have been,
    and who we will be.” Jim Dollar said, “I had to be who I was
    in order to be who I am,
    and I have to be who I am,
    in order to become who I will be.” Jung and Dollar are both correct. There is continuity through all of the phases and periods of our life.
    A theme runs through every scene, every developmental stage.
    And everything goes into the production of the person we are, and become. As an increasingly older person,
    I think back on the follies,
    mistakes,
    wrong turns
    and poor decisions
    of my youth, and sigh. Here. I. Am. I got me here
    by the only means available at the time: Me.
    I am confident that the same truth applies to you.
    It took being who we were to be who we are. Who we also were
    was working to moderate,
    rein in
    and grow up who we were,
    And kept us from becoming who we might have been.
    That which is constant within us
    Works with what is actual, potential and possible
    To create who we become. The degree to which we consciously cooperate
    With our own becoming
    By mindfully putting ourselves in accord
    With the center, ground, and foundation
    Of our life and being,
    Within the conditions and circumstances
    of the life we are living,
    Constitutes the range and reach
    of the Hero’s Journey.
  15. 08/30/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 29, 2016 We live absentmindedly.
    Distracted by “the 10,000 things.”
    Lost in “the dust of the world.” To be mindful of this
    Is to be ignorant of that.
    We can only see–
    Only hear–
    Only fully attend
    One thing at a time.
    We can never hope to be fully mindful–
    And mindfully keep ourselves grounded
    In what can, and cannot, be.
    To hold everything in our awareness,
    Just as it is,
    And as it is becoming,
    And as it is ceasing to be,
    Is ridiculous.
    There is more to be aware of
    Than can ever be perceived.
    So, we hold that in our awareness,
    And go on with our life.
    We have to live with our limitations in mind,
    Mindlessly living toward mindfulness
    Is the best we can manage.
    Being mindfully aware of how mindless we are,
    And letting it be because it is,
    Is mindfulness.
  16. 08/30/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 10 Silhouette–Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 To be alive is to have a live worth living.
    A life worth living comes from knowing
    what has life for us,
    and what does not,
    and going with the life bearers.
    The things that have life for us
    are the important things,
    the life or death things.
    With them, there is life,
    without them, there is death.
    A soul dies
    when it loses its connection
    with the things that are life for it.
    We kill our soul
    when we withhold from it
    the things that bear life for it.
    What has life for you,
    lights up your soul.
    Why not go where the life is?
  17. 08/31/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 In a perfect world,
    our job would be what we do to pay the bills,
    and our work would be our life–
    what we pay the bills to do.
    In the world as it is,
    our job is often called our work,
    and we do it to pay the bills,
    but the bills we pay buy
    distractions and diversions and addictions
    which we use to take our minds
    off the job/work we have to do
    to pay the bills.
    Life doesn’t fit into the picture.
    Our work is to get life into our life
    by finding what brings us to life
    and fitting our life in around it.
    What brings us to life
    has to be central,
    and we have forgotten what that is.
    We have to be mindfully attuned
    to the search for what is central
    to our life–to our being alive–
    And bring that to life in the life we are living.
    This is called putting ourselves in accord
    with the right order of things.
  18. 09/01/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 24 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 1, 2016 Finding our life and living it–
    Aligning ourselves with it,
    Placing ourselves in accord with it,
    And living in ways that express what is life for us–
    Is the opposite extreme
    From what the culture encourages us to do,
    Which is to know what we want
    And to devise a step-by-step plan,
    Along with a timetable
    And a check list,
    For achieving it.
    Living soulfully is as counter-cultural
    And revolutionary
    As it is possible to be.
    Which means we are as on our own
    As it is possible to be.
    Not only is the culture no help,
    But, it also is set up to oppose us
    Throughout the process.
    People who think for themselves
    And listen to their heart’s guidance
    Are a threat to the economic structure
    And the political framework
    So supportive of capitalistic aims and assumptions.
    Individuals are impossible to herd
    And are a threat to the status quo on every level.
    Our work is,
    As they say,
    Cut out for us.
    Begin by sitting quietly for 20 – 30 minutes
    Once or twice a day,
    And being mindfully aware of all
    That arises in the silence.
    Let this be your practice
    For six months.
    Your life will change.
  19. 09/02/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 Some things don’t need to be fixed.
    Some solutions are worse than the problem.
    Having to have everything “just so,”
    can be “the fly in the ointment.”
    We have to know when to stop,
    and when to go.
    No book can tell us the important things.
    Sitting quietly with the problem,
    waiting to see it in its allness,
    can open doors
    we didn’t know were there—
    and can mark the doors
    that need to remain closed.
  20. 09/02/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 26 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 1, 2016 Sitting quietly,
    contemplating the things that arise in the silence,
    welcoming everything
    and honoring it with our attention,
    positions us to perceive
    perception and interpretation,
    evaluation, judgment, opinion and reaction,
    as other things that arises in the silence–
    to be welcomed and honored
    along with,
    and equal to,
    everything else.
    So that it is just us seeing things as they are–
    and seeing what to do about them,
    in response to them,
    as something else
    that arises from the silence,
    and leads us to enter the field of action
    to do what needs to be done.
    Appropriate action is the result
    of appropriate inaction.
  21. 09/03/2016 — Waiting for Godot — Brown-headed Nuthatch and Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 — A composite photograph blending two images into one Everything enjoys the freedom to become exactly what it is,
    within the terms and conditions,
    context and circumstances,
    of its life.
    Can you think of anything
    that consistently becomes less than it can be
    other than human beings?
    Everything I know of
    lives to match its potential with its reality.
    Nothing I know of
    quits before it realizes itself as completely as it is able.
    Except human beings.
    Human beings sell their birthright
    for what appears to them to be
    smooth and easy,
    warm and dry.
    Everything else is struggling for its full expression.
    Human beings are neglecting their calling,
    ignoring their gifts,
    doing as they are told.
    “Dead fish float with the current,
    live ones swim against the stream.”
  22. 09/03/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 20 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 The only motivation for seeking our life and living it
    is hitting some wall
    and realizing “This isn’t it.”
    Our life as it is has to stop working.
    Signs that it has stopped working appear
    long before the realization.
    Signs come to us as symptoms.
    Addiction, depression, physical ailments, inappropriate behavior, etc.,
    stand before us as mirrors
    showing us ourselves wrapped in denial, distraction, diversion,
    with blinders on,
    refusing to see, hear and understand
    what’s what and what we are being asked to do about it.
    The path from this point is clear
    and painful.
    Carl Jung said, “There is no coming to consciousness without pain.”
    The most painful thing is facing ourselves,
    what we have done and failed to do,
    and living from this point on
    transparent to ourselves.
    No kidding ourselves without knowing we are kidding ourselves.
    This is what makes sitting quietly so difficult.
    Flashes of who we are keep emerging from the silence.
    We are forced to take stock,
    and make amends–
    to ourselves and to all the others.
    It would be easier to go back to the bottle,
    or wherever we were hiding.
    The path to finding our life and living it is a bear,
    eating us for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
    Our motivation waivers.
    We think “Maybe not. Maybe later. Maybe some other time.”
    This is the turning point.
    Everything rides on our summonsing our courage
    to “rise and grind.”
    To do so is to continue sitting quietly,
    doing our inner work (Robert Johnson has a book with this title),
    working with our dreams
    (Anthony Stevens has a book on dreams, Private Myths: Dreams and Dreaming.
    A Jungian analyst would be great if we can find one.
    As we start on the path,
    help will come from surprising sources,
    and we will be most surprised to discover
    that it has become fun
    and we have come back to life–
    our life, the one that has been waiting all this time
    for us to live it.
  23. 09/04/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 3, 2016—A composite photograph blending five images into one. The right thing to do in a situation
    is not always the thing we want to do,
    feel like doing,
    or even are sure of it being the thing
    that most needs to be done.
    There are 10,000 excuses for not doing it.
    The Cyclops stands before us
    in every situation, grinning.
    There must be at least 10,000 variations
    of the Cyclops,
    but the one thing they all have in common
    is that they represent something
    we most certainly do not want to do.
  24. 09/05/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 4, 2016 Greed, Fear, Wrath and Hatred
    are the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse,
    and the Four Chord Opera
    sung by everyone who
    wants what they cannot have,
    don’t want what they can have,
    and won’t square up to
    how things are,
    and look for a way to do
    what can be done
    with what they have to work with
    in the time and place
    of their living.
  25. 09/06/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 27 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 4, 2016 Look around you.
    Everything you see that was made by human beings
    originated in someone’s imagination.
    Our imagination comes alive–
    for better and for worse–
    in the stillness of utter silence.
    Never mind that “utter silence” is impossible to come by.
    Quiet enough is all it takes.
    And we have to be able to separate
    the better from the worse.
    We can imagine things that will sink the boat.
    Any boat.
    If we act on them as though they are real. There are other things.
    And if we don’t act on them as though they are real
    The boat sinks as well.
    The realest things are imaginary.
    And the frightfully deadly illusions
    are also imaginary.
    We have to know which is which.
    Turning our backs on the one,
    And living in light of the other.
    It’s the Hero’s Journey,
    remember.
  26. 09/07/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 We get to choose our pain.
    We don’t get to avoid it.
    The choice we make, tells the tale.
    Choosing our pain
    is at the heart of every turning point
    in our life.
    At each one,
    we decide again
    between doing what is hard,
    or doing it the hard way.
    What guides us in those moments?
    Do we rise to the occasion,
    or turn away–
    run away–
    from the burden of the moment,
    and spend our time
    between then and the next such moment
    hiding, denying, trying to forget,
    that one?
    The nature of the pain we bear
    is the determining factor
    in deciding the quality of our life.
    It says who we are
    more clearly
    than anything else we do.
    Never is it more crucial
    that we choose wisely
    and consciously
    the way that stands before us,
  27. 09/08/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 7, 2016 We are here to serve our gift
    without seeking to exploit it
    to our personal gain or advantage.
    We are not here for what we can get out of it,
    but for what we can bring to life within it.
    We are here to be alive
    by being who we are
    and bringing forth what we have to give
    in each situation as it arises.
    Who we are
    is what we have to offer
    the time and place of our living.
    Finding our life
    and living it,
    is finding our gift
    and giving it.
    And if there are no takers?
    We come alive in the giving,
    not in the reception of the gift.
  28. 09/08/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 21 — This is the chunkiest hummingbird I’ve ever seen. I thought it was a young sparrow doing a poor hummingbird imitation before it perched. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 7, 2016 San Francisco 49ers QB Colin Kaepernick doesn’t understand
    that the National Anthem and the Stars and Stripes,
    are not the Republic for which they stand.
    The Republic is an idea–
    the grandest idea of all time–
    an ideal,
    which is always, and forever will be,
    leagues out in front of its realization
    in time and space.
    It is an idea that is always being
    approximated and never achieved.
    The reality is always being
    improved and perfected
    in light of the ideas upon which it is based.
    Equality comes,
    over time,
    to apply to women as well as the men
    who are “created equal.”
    And it comes to mean the right of gay people to marry,
    and the right of Transgender people
    to the gender they seem to themselves to be.
    And it surely means as well,
    the right of black people to live out their lives
    free from the racist bigotry of white supremacists–
    whether they be police officers
    or fellow citizens.
    And it means that Muslims are to be free
    from the religious persecution
    that led our forebears to establish
    the separation of church and state,
    and to look upon “freedom of religion”
    as “freedom from religion,” as well as
    “freedom to practice religion,”
    as each feels led to do.
    And it means that immigrants
    and Naturalized Citizens
    enjoy the protections
    that are the right of all people
    who inhabit this land.
    There is much to be done
    to align the Republic with the ideals
    that are its potential,
    and the people have to hold
    those who would be their leaders accountable
    for implementing the democratic standard
    of Liberty And Justice For All
    in every age and epoch
    through all generations.
  29. 09/09/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 7, 2016 Throughout my 40.5 years in the ministry,
    I was paid to talk to people about God.
    And they didn’t want me to say
    anything they hadn’t already heard.
    Which is strange,
    given the fact that Jesus
    never said anything about God
    that had already been said.
    “You have heard it said,” he said,
    “but I say unto you…”
    Jesus ate with outcasts,
    touched the untouchables,
    hobnobbed with “sinners and tax-collectors,”
    told his disciples to follow him,
    and said, “When I’m gone,
    I want you to do it better than I ever did it”
    (Or words to that effect).
    That leaves us with pushing beyond
    where anyone has ever been
    with their thinking about God and godliness.
    One-upping Jesus
    Is no walk in the park.
  30. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, aka, Growing Up, 09/10/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 23 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 8, 2016 Neither the Universe
    Nor the Hero’s Journey
    Are anything to fear.
    We have all the necessary tools and gifts
    at our disposal,
    waiting for the situation to arise
    that calls them forth
    and actualizes them
    as sources of wonder and grace
    in the time and place of our living.
    We have no idea where life
    comes from,
    or where it goes,
    or if it goes anywhere.
    Not one of all the atoms
    which make us up
    is alive.
    Cosmic dust is just dust.
    How does life get into the mix?
    One. Knows.
    And it is readily apparent
    that every living thing
    comes into this world
    knowing its business
    and how to do it.
    Everything from Humpback Whales,
    to Garden Spiders,
    to Long Leaf Pine Trees,
    to Ruby-throated Hummingbirds
    comes with a psychic blueprint
    embedded in its cellular DNA
    lying latent and waiting to be realized
    at the right time and place
    to the astonishment of onlookers
    and the individual involved alike.
  31. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, 09/12/2016 — Birds on a Limb 2016 01 Silhouette — Mourning Doves, a composite image combining five poses of the same bird, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 11, 2016 Religion calls its theories “doctrines,”
    and presents them as factual truth,
    which have to be “taken on faith.”
    That should be enough to turn all thinking people away,
    but,
    religion also tells us
    that if we believe its theories
    (that is, take them on faith),
    we will be accorded heaven’s everlasting glories when we die
    (another theory),
    and if we don’t,
    we will be punished with hell’s eternal agonies
    (another theory).
    And, then there is the one about
    blessings and merit being bestowed on believers
    both in this life and in the life to come.
    It all adds up to
    “What do you have to lose?”
    But, “What do you have to lose?”
    is not the same thing as a vision of mythic proportions
    propelling us into the service and expression
    of the life that is ours to live.
    Theories/doctrines are not necessary–
    and are profound impediments–
    to the experience of being gripped
    by an encounter with the Numen
    and claimed by a will not our own.
    This is the out-breaking of the genetic imprint
    of who we are to be
    encoded in our DNA,
    and waiting for the right conjunction of time and circumstance
    to wake up and call us forth to embrace our destiny.
    If you are going to adopt a theory,
    adopt this one.
    And explore its possibilities for your life
    like Luke Skywalker finding his way
    to Jedi knighthood.
    No heaven, no hell, just your life
    needing you to live it.
  32. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, and in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 09/12/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 10, 2016 The Psyche is divided at the core.
    Ambivalence and contradiction reside
    at the level of our heart and soul.
    We want contrary things–
    what we want, and what we ought not want,
    and what we ought to want.
    Each of us is a split personality,
    with the mission of reconciling the opposites,
    integrating the polarities,
    and exhibiting oneness, wholeness and completion
    throughout our life.
    This is the work of the Hero’s Journey,
    undertaken with mindful, compassionate, awareness,
    and the capacity to simply be with whatever is–
    without being taken over by it,
    but waiting for the right action to arise
    “in the fullness of time,”
    out of “the middle way,”
    of transcendence and harmony.
    In the meantime,
    we bear consciously the agony–the agone–
    of being afraid when we have nothing to fear,
    of having to have when there is nothing we need,
    of wanting to hide when we only need to face what is before us…
    The psychic path encoded in our DNA
    calls for us to make conscious the irrational forces
    at work within,
    in the service of the inner evolution of the species.
  33. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, 09/13/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 8, 2016 There are Psychic expectations/assumptions
    encoded in our DNA
    that are commensurate with
    our idea of the developmental stages
    of the maturation process.
    The Hero’s Journey is about
    growing up.
    Growing up is about waking up,
    and getting up,
    and stepping into the midst of the things
    we most do not want to do
    and doing there what needs to be done
    in realizing/serving/expressing
    the Psychic expectations/assumptions
    that lie at the heart
    of every individual
    of the species.
    We live to actualize latent potential–
    to incarnate the Psychic possibilities
    we carry within–
    bringing them forth,
    making them real–
    within the concrete situations
    of everyday life.
    This is the Hero’s Journey
    that awaits us all.
  34. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, 09/03/2016 —White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 08, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 8, 2016 The Buddha said, “There is a lot that we cannot do anything about.”
    Or, words to that effect.
    We are inundated,
    besieged,
    hemmed in
    and battered by
    all of the things we cannot do anything about
    everyday from all sides. None of that can keep us from
    being who we are
    on the heaving waves
    of the wine dark sea
    of things we cannot do anything about.
    We can meet it head on as who we are.
    Jesus said, “Be who the situation needs you to be,
    and don’t worry about the outcome!”
    Or, words to that effect.
    If you can find better advice,
    take it!
  35. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 09/14/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 31, Juvenile — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 13, 2016 Everyone has a right to expect
    police and law enforcement personnel
    to be dedicated to the service
    of peace and justice on all levels,
    all the time.
    We only have to look no further
    than the oaths of office the officers take
    to be justified in our expectation.
    promising to “protect and defend the Constitution
    and laws of the United States”
    and the particular state in which they serve–
    which include protecting and defending
    “liberty and justice for all.”
    We have every right to expect
    the police to police themselves,
    and for law enforcement personnel
    to honor and abide by the laws they have sworn
    to uphold.
    What’s the problem with you
    expecting–and depending upon–me
    to do what I promise you I will do?
    Who enforces the enforcers?
    Why the breakdown?
    We only need to be who we say
    we are going to be.
    Why lie about that?
  36. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 09/14/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 17 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 13, 2016 Black Lives Matter exists as a movement
    because black lives don’t matter
    in the culture and society.
    Donald Trump’s ascendancy to this close to the throne
    has exposed the racist, bigoted, hate-filled hearts and spirits
    of much-too-large-of-a-percentage
    of the US population.
    All Lives Matter and Blue Lives Matter exist to detract
    attention from the truth
    of the need to emphasize
    that Black Lives Do Indeed Matter,
    so that business might go on as usual
    with racism ruling the day everyday.
    Trump’s unrelenting effort to normalize and legitimize
    racism and white supremacy
    is a blatant, arrogant, attack on the foundation of democracy,
    where all people are seen as equal,
    worthy of respect
    and treated with honor,
    by virtue of their citizenship in the Republic
    that is “of the people, by the people and for the people.”
    We stand together with all of our fellow citizens
    in a “one for all and all for one” kind of way.
    Black lives have to matter–
    and Hispanic lives,
    and Muslim lives–
    as much as any life matters.
    Until that is the case,
    the country fails to be who it says it is.
    And that lack of integrity
    is the ground of all our woes.
  37. 09/15/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 9, 2016 We have to do the work.
    We hate work.
    We love smooth and easy.
    We love talking,
    discussing,
    listening to lectures,
    making sure we understand,
    believing,
    Bible studies
    (How many Bible studies will it take
    before we can say, “Okay. I got it. Now what?”).
    The Bible talks about the absurdity
    of believing without doing anything about it,
    without doing the work.
    “Anybody can believe,” says the Bible,
    “But only those who hear these words
    and DO them
    have what it takes to make the journey.”
    That would be the Hero’s Journey.
    The one we are all called to take up
    and complete–
    facing down our demons,
    dealing with the dragons
    guarding the treasure,
    integrating our opposites,
    living transparent to ourselves,
    becoming who we are built to be… We stay too busy to be anything other than busy
    thinking and believing and understanding
    and getting it all down
    so we can past the test on Judgment Day.
    Studying for the test,
    we fail the test,
    which is how well we live our life–
    the life that is ours to live–
    and be who we are
    in each situation as it arises
    every day.
  38. 09/16/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 01 — Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 The psychological expectations
    embedded in our DNA
    have to compete with expectations
    on every level–
    personal, familial, social, cultural, etc.–
    for our time, attention
    and willful cooperation.
    We can be stuck in any
    state of development,
    lost forever to the path
    that bears our name.
    Our life is the haystack
    and we are the needle.
    It is our calling
    to find our calling–
    to discover who we are
    and do what is ours to do–
    in the time left for living.
    Hints and guides are everywhere.
    Help is near at hand.
    What we seek
    is well within our reach,
    yet it exceeds our grasp,
    because we don’t know
    what we are looking for,
    and think it must have to do
    with our dreams
    of fortune and glory,
    else what’s a destiny for?
  39. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, 09/17/2016 — House Finch 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 13, 2016 We give up this to get that.
    The art of the trade-off
    is the foundation of life.
    Everything comes down to,
    and revolves around,
    “Negotiation and compromise, Kid,
    negotiation and compromise.”
    We are raging opposites at the core,
    ambivalent and torn among attractive options
    at every turn.
    The degree to which we recognize,
    integrate, reconcile or transcend
    our conflicts and polarities–
    or simply bear consciously the tension
    of our contradictions–
    is the determining factor
    in the creation of our maturation, wisdom and grace.
    I have reached the place in my life
    of being generally contented with where I am.
    I don’t have to be somewhere else,
    doing something else.
    I am fine with being here, now, most of the time.
    The downside of contentment—
    or, the flip-side, we might say—
    is complacency and a pronounced lack of incentive. Inertia.
    Lethargy.
    Indolence.
    Sloth.
    Indifference.
    I am disinclined to do anything
    out of my preferred order of the day
    any day.
    It is in recognizing and wrestling with
    our opposites
    that we clarify our values,
    identify what is important,
    know who we are
    and where our foundation stone lies,
    and live centered and grounded
    in what truly matters.
    Knowing who we are
    is knowing who we also are—
    and what that means
    for how we live our life.
  40. 09/17/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 04 == Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 I get out ahead of myself
    from time to time. All the time.
    It is what I do best.
    Or among a clamoring hoard of things not to do
    that I do equally well.
    I’m here, now, wondering what to do
    about the photographs of fall.
    And then, there is the chronic anxiety
    about what’s going to happen
    and how will I ever handle it.
    You know what I mean.
    All the lines I could be standing in
    as I wait, wait, wait
    for the next shoe to fall.
    How many shoes are there?
    Always another,
    stacked up for eternities
    waiting there turn
    at me waiting.
    I wake up to that,
    and reel myself in,
    remembering the only real question:
    “What now?”
    “What needs to be done now?”
    “Nothing?”
    “Then do that.
    It is what you really do best.”
    And, I ease back into remembering my breath,
    and the moment of my breathing.
    Seeing it for what it is,
    and letting it be,
    glad that nothing is being asked of me
    here and now,
    and confident that I will rise to the occasion,
    then and there,
    when I have to do something
    that needs me to do it.
    But not rushing to imagine
    what that might be
    and prepare ahead of time
    for an event
    that isn’t actually coming my way.
  41. 09/18/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 17 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 15, 2017 We are limited,
    restricted,
    by our options
    and our choices.
    We don’t get to choose our choices,
    and that’s the bump
    that ruins the ride.
    We have to work
    with the options we have to work with.
    How many of them, really,
    will take us where we want to go?
    We don’t get to bail out
    of this life with these choices
    into some other,
    bigger, finer, better life
    with better choices.
    Coming to terms with our options,
    and making the best choices possible
    among those that are available to us,
    is the heart of the Hero’s Journey.
  42. 09/18/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 16 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 3, 2016 It’s easy to lose our focus–
    to forget who we are and what we are about–
    to think being who we are
    doing what we are about
    is natural,
    and we don’t have to think about,
    or even keep our eyes open.
    Or to think that who we are doesn’t matter,
    and what we are about isn’t important–
    and blow both off
    as absurd considerations
    that have no significance for our life.
    We have to believe in ourselves
    and our art, our gift, our genius, our specialty.
    We have to keep faith with ourselves–
    to live in good faith with ourselves–
    and do what is ours to do.
    Everything depends on it.
    That is our focus
    and our life.
    We cannot look away
    without drifting off track,
    and waking up in the Wasteland,
    wondering what happened
    and what to do about it.
    Remember the focus.
    Do the work.
    Matter. What.
  43. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 09/19/2016 — Bird on a Wire 2016 01 — Immature Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 12, 2016 Rumi said, “If you are not here with us in good faith,
    you are doing terrible damage.”
    When we live like we want to,
    not caring how our life impacts
    the lives of others,
    we do terrible damage.
    When we refuse to grow up,
    become transparent to ourselves,
    see what we are doing,
    and leaving undone–
    by refusing to do,
    failing to do,
    neglecting to do–
    we are doing terrible damage.
    We have to grow ourselves up.
    Take responsibility for ourselves–
    for our own becoming–
    for our own work to be who we
    are capable of being,
    who our life needs us to be.
    No one can do this for us.
    We have to do it for ourselves,
    on our own.
    When we fail to do it,
    we are doing terrible damage.
    The mess that is the country
    and the world
    is the direct result
    our refusal to grow up
    as individuals,
    as a nation,
    as a world.
    We are doing terrible damage.
    We begin righting the wrongs
    that are being done
    and have been done
    by living in good faith
    with ourselves
    and one another.
    The simple steps
    are the most difficult
    and the most essential.
  44. 09/19/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 12 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 12, 2016 We have to catch ourselves in the act
    of thinking in terms of Good and Evil (or Bad),
    and stop it.
    There is no Good
    that is not Evil from some perspective,
    and no Evil
    that is not Good from some perspective
    (Everything Hitler ever did
    was Good from Hitler’s point of view).
    Thinking Good and Evil (or Bad)
    keeps us from seeing things simply as they are:
    good and evil,
    good and bad,
    a mixture held in solution
    that will not settle out
    into beautiful, mutually exclusive, absolutes We expose the fact of the relative nature
    of Good and Evil (Bad)
    with statements like
    “You can’t make an omelet without breaking eggs.”
    “We had to destroy the village in order to save it.”
    “Collateral damage is the price we have to pay to win the war.”
    Yet, we continue to think, act, and live
    out of the deluded, and self-enhancing, perspective
    that We are Good and They are Evil.
    The alternative is living in good faith
    with ourselves and all others,
    mindfully, compassionately, aware of each situation
    as it arises,
    seeing what is happening and what needs to happen.
    Taking everything into account,
    and responding to the moment
    in ways that are appropriate and fitting to the occasion—
    striving neither to serve the Good
    nor to defeat/destroy the Evil (Bad),
    but to do what is right here and now in this time and place,
    regardless of its implications for us and our desires.
    To live like this
    is to be grounded in the beauty of the statement,
    “Thy will, not mine, be done”—
    with the “Thy” in that sentence
    being the good of the situation as a whole
    in every situation
    as long as there are situations.
  45. 09/20/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 03 — Nursery Photos, Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 What is the ground of your authority?
    Where do you look for direction, permission, assurance, foundation?
    Your life is centered on whose idea of how your life should be lived?
    Who sets your limits and defines your boundaries?
    Who prescribes for you who you are to be,
    and who you are to not be?
    Do you know what is good for you
    and what is bad?
    What is right for you
    and what is wrong?
    What is life for you
    and what is death to your soul?
    How do you know these things?
    Who tells you so?
    And not so?
    Whom do you consult
    to know if something is good for you or bad–
    right for you or wrong–
    life for you or death for your soul?
    What is the ground of your authority
    to determine how your life is to be lived,
    and not lived?
    Who says what is so
    and not so
    about you?
    What is to be so
    and not so
    about your life?
    Who says so?
    Not so?
  46. 09/20/2016 — Yellow-breasted Chat 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 9, 2016 If I don’t do anything more for you
    than convince you that you are not alone
    when you feel most alone
    and lost,
    without hope or purpose,
    direction or incentive,
    I will have done all you need to have done
    to give you all you need
    to find what you need
    to find your way out of the wasteland
    back to the path that is your life–
    the one that is yours yet to be lived.
    Carl Jung said, “There is within each of us
    another whom we do not know.”
    Several others actually,
    all with something to offer
    in the work to discover and express who we are.
    We have to know that,
    and know how to enter the deep communion
    with the wealth of resources we have within
    in order to orient ourselves
    and begin the adventure that waits to be lived.
  47. 09/20/2016 —
    Jesus was fond of saying, “Those with ears, let them hear!”
    This was like saying, “Listen to me!”
    Or, “Hear what I’m saying to you!”
    The Buddha “said” the same thing
    when he held up the Lotus flower
    and Mahakasyapa smiled, then laughed.
    In every group, there is the possibility
    that some will hear.
    When we speak,
    we are looking for those who can hear
    what we have to say.
    When we speak,
    we are, at that moment, a Lotus flower,
    and are looking for those who smile.
    If there are none who smile,
    we simply move on and keep talking,
    looking for those who can hear
    what we have to say.
  48. Used in Short Talks On Good And Bad Religion, 09/21/2016 — Veins 2016 04 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 We have to form our own religion
    in order to save ourselves from both
    religion and the culture–
    which would separate us from ourselves
    and our own authority for our life,
    strip us of our own life
    and make us subservient to their idea
    of our life for us.
    Good religion is the Psyche’s defense
    against the mindless fanaticism of bad religion.
    Rational reflection and moral exhortation
    can do nothing to save us,
    that is, restore us to ends worthy of us.
    Belief not grounded on the inner experience
    of the Numen
    disappears as soon as we begin reflecting on it.
    But, by reflecting on the symbols of bad religion,
    we redeem and reclaim them
    through the acquisition of new realizations and awareness.
    We always must know more than we can understand.
    When understanding supplants knowledge,
    as, for instance, in the creeds, doctrines and dogmas
    of bad religion,
    we are left with the appearance of religion
    without the substance.
    The path to the Land of Promise
    must be trod by individuals up to the task
    in each generation.
    No one can hand us an experience of the Numen.
    We open ourselves to that experience
    even as we place ourselves in its service,
    seeking what we do not know
    amid the ruins of mythological metaphors,
    in order to establish ourselves firmly
    upon the foundation of our life and being,
    and know what those who know have always known:
    More than can be asked or said, explained or understood.
  49. 09/21/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 02 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Growing up is doing what you don’t want to do
    when it needs to be done
    the way it needs to be done,
    so that no one knows you didn’t want to do it.
    Jesus called this not letting your right hand
    know what your left hand is doing.
    Jesus’ entire existence was about growing up.
    Gethsemane and Golgotha were about growing up.
    When Jesus said, “If you want to be my disciple
    don’t worry about believing any of the doctrines and creeds
    that will come along.
    Just pick up your cross every day and grow up.”
    Or, words to that effect.
    Growing up is carrying the cross we are asked to carry
    in each situation as it arises,
    as though it were the thing we most want to do.
    Never mind that it is like dying,
    that it would be easier to die.
    Growing up is about dying.
    The cross is about dying.
    The two things are one.
    There is no growing up without bearing our cross.
    There is no bearing our cross without growing up.
    Here’s the gold at the bottom of the septic tank:
    There is no life without growing up and bearing our crosses.
    No empty tomb without Golgotha.
    Growing up, bearing our crosses,
    are the threshold to life–
    to being fully alive.
    There is no living without dying
    to wanting to have life the way we want life to be.
    Growing up is saying yes to life as it is,
    and doing what needs to be done
    in each situation as it arises.
    And that opens the door to life on a different level
    than we have ever lived.
    Every situation presents us with what needs to be done
    about what is before us.
    Every situation is a mini Gethsemane, Golgotha.
    A cross waiting for us to pick it up,
    and grow up,
    by doing what is being asked of us
    the way it needs to be done.
    And we are the ones who decide what that is.
    And do it.
  50. 09/22/2016 — Waiting for Godot 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 12, 2016 Take the phrase, “Thy will be done,”
    and the phrase, “May God’s will be done,”
    and let them refer to the same entity,
    so that “Thy” and “God” are the same.
    Now, tell me who decides what God’s will is?
    Who decides what needs to be done?
    How do you know what to do?
    How do you determine what is to be done
    in any situation that may arise?
    What guides your actions?
    Your choices?
    Your decisions?
    Who decides what God’s will is?
    Whose will is being done?
    Who is the authority who says,
    “This, not that, is God’s will”?
    Are you going to tell me the Bible?
    Who decides what the Bible means by what it says?
    Who interprets the Bible?
    Are you going to tell me the traditional understanding
    of the Bible stands forever as the official
    determinant of God’s will?
    Remember when drinking alcohol was against God’s will?
    As was allowing women to speak in church
    (Never mind that women always taught Sunday School)?
    And treating black people as human beings?
    And recognizing gay people as equal to straight people
    in every way?
    Remember when drowning witches was God’s will?
    And locking away the handicapped and mentally ill?
    How is it that traditional understanding of God’s will
    could be so blatantly wrong
    through all the years it has held sway?
    Why continue to think that
    “What the Bible says is what the Bible has always said,”
    when that is so clearly not so?
    The Bible is obviously no reliable rule “to faith and practice”!
    What is?
    What tells us when the Bible is wrong and when it is right?
    How do we know?
    How do we decide?
    Who says what the Bible says is so and not so?
    What God’s will is and is not?
    How do you decide what needs to be done
    and what to do about it?
  51. 09/22/2016 — Bird on a Wire 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 19, 2016 Jesus said (Luke 12:57), “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right?”
    That’s putting the burden exactly where it belongs.
    We look to church, society, and culture to tell us what to do.
    We do not want the responsibility of deciding for ourselves.
    Deciding when to go to the toilet
    is the only decision we want to make on our own.
    Beyond that, we want somebody, anybody,
    who speaks with a tone of authority and certitude,
    to tell us what to do.
    We crave, in the words of Carl Jung,
    “That gentle and painless slipping back into the kingdom
    of childhood, into the paradise of parental care,
    into happy-go-luckiness, and irresponsibility,
    where all thinking and looking after are done from the top;
    to all questions there is an answer;
    and for all needs the necessary provision is made.”
    Deciding for ourselves what is right
    does not fit into our plans.
  52. 09/23/2016 — Northern Yellow-banded Flicker 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 17, 2016 How do you know what to do, when to do it, how to do it?
    What leads you to do what you do?
    What guides you in doing what you do?
    What do you take into account
    in determining what is to be done?
    What directs your boat
    on its path through the sea?
    Through “the heaving waves
    of the wine dark sea”?
    Carl Jung says, “We do not think of
    distrusting our motives
    or of asking ourselves
    how the inner man/woman feels
    about the things we do
    in the outside world.”
    We find our way through the morass of life
    in consultation and collaboration
    with the man, with the woman, within–
    by learning the language of the Psyche,
    and deepening, expanding, enlarging
    our awareness of our instinctive, intuitive, side.
    How long has it been
    since you sat quietly
    and listened
    to what the inner woman, the inner man,
    has to say?
  53. 09/24/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 04 — Nursery Photos, Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 The work to place ourselves
    in accord with the inner woman,
    the inner man,
    and live in ways
    that incarnate, express, exhibit and bring forth
    our center, ground, foundation, core
    within the life we are living,
    is more like play than work.
    We don’t have to try–
    to strive, to struggle, to force, to compel, to conquer, to defeat, to win…
    We only have to open ourselves
    to that about us which is waiting to be enjoyed,
    and enjoy ourselves.
    Our inner woman, man, is waiting
    to dance with us.
    To laugh with us.
    To relish being us with us.
    It is so easy
    a child could do it.
  54. 09/25/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 24 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 8, 2016 Money is for paying the bills
    that enable us to do what is ours to do,
    that allow us to live the life that is ours to live,
    that cover the cost of life in this world
    connected at the level of the heart
    with the other world–
    the inner world of Psychic assumptions and expectations.
    We are to bring forth,
    to make conscious,
    to birth into realization–
    both mentally and actually,
    concretely, physically, practically–
    the Psychic assumptions and expectations
    we carry with us encoded in the DNA
    of every cell of our being.
    Why doesn’t someone tell us this early-on?
    Why do we have to live into our fifties,
    or later,
    before we figure it out on our own–
    if we figure it out at all?
    Why don’t we know what we are doing
    after all these years
    of not getting it done?
  55. 09/25/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker Silhouette 2016 21 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 18, 2016 In order to do right by the moment,
    I have to be in the moment–
    I have to be attentive to the moment,
    alert to the moment,
    aware of the moment–
    I have to be living the moment.
    I cannot be with the moment
    and not with the moment at the same time.
    When I am not with the moment,
    I am with something that is taking me away from the moment,
    asking me to attend something that is not the moment.
    It could be anxiety, fear, anger,
    or the anticipation of another moment,
    or some fragment of a memory,
    or a conversation,
    or just another person’s presence,
    that inserts itself into the moment,
    requiring me to be with something besides the moment.
    It does not take much
    to take me away.
    I assume that’s one reason
    all those old oriental masters
    lived apart,
    or established monasteries
    with their strict Rules of the Day.
    Reducing disruption
    increases focus.
    But, even then,
    we have to be self-aware enough
    to know when our awareness
    has been shanghaied
    and enslaved by some stray thought
    that ransacks fledgling focus
    just for the fun of it–
    and remember to breathe
    our way back to where we are.
  56. 09/26/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 17, 2016 What’s your focus—
    the focus of your life—
    what you mean with your life,
    what you intend by the way you live?
    Or, are you just bumping along,
    looking for a break,
    hoping nothing bad happens?
    What comprises your core,
    your center,
    your ground,
    your foundation?
    What is the essential nature
    of your identity—
    the things about you—
    the things you do—
    that are indisputably, unmistakably, YOU?
    In what ways are you serving
    the central things—
    the things that are integral to who you are—
    with your life?
  57. 09/26/2016 — Two at the Feeder 2016 01 — Red-bellied Woodpecker and Summer Tanager, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 26, 2016 There are psychic assumptions, expectations, intentions
    embedded in the DNA of all living things.
    That is how all living things are guided
    to meet their destiny.
    Live Oaks and Dogwoods
    become Live Oaks and Dogwoods,
    with roots that go down into the soil,
    and limbs and leaves and blooms and branches
    that go up and out into the air.
    Their DNA expects it,
    and expects soil and air to be there in its behalf.
    We are here to serve
    our psychic assumptions, expectations, intentions–
    and to refuse to do so is to create a backlog
    of assumptions, expectations, intentions
    that are running out of time to be realized, expressed, brought forth.
    The developmental stages are set to flower, mature and disappear
    at specific intervals along life’s way,
    and if we stop cooperating at any point,
    it produces problems for all the other points.
    We see it with people who did not have good enough parenting.
    They have a hard time getting caught up.
    Catching up requires us to enter into conscious communion
    with our psyche
    in order to better align ourselves with it,
    and cooperate with its process of our own development.
    This is no more difficult
    than paying attention to our dreams each night.
    Carl Jung held that each night’s dreams
    are a snapshot of how it is with our life at any point.
    As if to say, “This is how it is with you and your life.
    What are you going to do about it?”
    Everything hangs on how we answer the question.
  58. 09/26/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 26, 2016 We cannot allow ourselves the privilege
    of NOT voting
    because one of the candidates
    is obviously unfit for the office of President of the United States
    and incapable of anything remotely approaching
    the vision, wisdom, compassion, values and mindful awareness
    required by the office,
    and “no one in their right mind could possibly vote for him,
    so I don’t have to bother with voting for her.”
    Being “in one’s right mind”
    Is not a prerequisite for voting,
    and the voters Trump speaks for
    and gives voice to,
    will stand in long lines,
    pouring rain,
    and driving snow
    to vote for the man
    who says the things
    that ignite their rage
    and encourage their hate.
    The rest of us have to be so dedicated and determined
    in turning out,
    showing up,
    and voting for the woman.
  59. Used in Short Talks On Contradictions, etc., 09/27/2016 — Cardinal 2016 28 — The molting is over and the colors are bright, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 When we become conscious,
    we become conscious of the allness of the whole,
    and how we might work out the contradictions
    and make peace.
    One of those contradictions
    is between the life we are living
    and the life that is our life to live–
    even now, even yet.
    And, we live to find ways
    to work our life into our life.
    Our dreams help with this.
    Each night, our dreams point
    to a place in our actual life
    where our real life needs to come forth.
    If we keep a written record
    of our dreams over time,
    we see threads and themes
    being played out in our sleep,
    calling us to consciously
    “Attend this!”
    “Attend this!”
    Of course, we have to remember
    that our dreams are metaphors,
    including puns and plays-on-words,
    not to be taken literally.
    Losing your pocketbook
    has nothing to do with your pocketbook,
    but with your identity,
    your values,
    the core and foundation of your life.
    If you dream of losing your pocketbook,
    work to find the your center and ground,
    and live out of it
    in living the life you are living.
  60. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 09/28/2016 — Mushrooms 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Anthony Stevens said that dreams heighten our awareness
    of the total situation–
    making us conscious of how things are
    and how things also are,
    and placing us at the crux,
    at the fulcrum,
    at the point of doing what is ours to do,
    what no one but us can do,
    reconciling the opposites,
    integrating the polarities,
    synthesizing the contradictions,
    harmonizing the discordances
    at work in our life,
    and making peace.
  61. 09/28/2016 — Sleeping Birds 2016 01 — Immature Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Carl Jung coined the word “complex” to refer to
    a cluster of thoughts, images, feelings and memories
    that form around our life experiences.
    Our experience of our mother or father
    form our “Mother Complex,”
    and our “Father Complex.”
    So it is with every life experience we have.
    A complex is the overall idea of the experience
    the cluster of thoughts, etc. create when they come together.
    I know my mother as I experienced her.
    If you had known her,
    you, perhaps, would have known an entirely different woman.
    It may be that I unconsciously project onto other women
    my idea of my mother,
    and, hence, my expectation that they will be like her–
    or, my hope that they might be the antithesis of her,
    and treat me like I wish my mother had treated me.
    My work is to make the cluster of thoughts, etc.,
    that form my idea of my my experience with my mother conscious,
    and to expand them to take into account who else–
    who all–
    my mother was.
    And, to reconcile myself consciously with the impact
    the woman had on me,
    and to be conscious of my tendency
    to carry that impact into my relationship with other women,
    expecting them to be,
    or hoping they will not be,
    who my mother was.
    And, then do that with all of the clusters of thoughts, etc.
    that form around all of the “emotionally hot” ideas
    my experience has generated over the course of my life.
    That should keep me busy, don’t you think?
    And you, too, if you want to get a handle
    on the complexes that run your life.
  62. 09/29/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 23 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Our experience impacts our experience,
    for good or for ill.
    Our past influences, or determines,
    our experience of our present,
    and our response to it.
    We carry with us expectations and anxieties
    fostered by encounters and incidents along life’s way.
    Our life sets us up to expect our life to be
    as it has been.
    The work of consciousness is that
    of being aware of the unconscious assumptions
    that precede us
    and shape the future we step into–
    locking us into the patterns we exhibit,
    and preventing different, perhaps, more appropriate,
    ways of dealing with what we find there.
    The watch words for the journey are:
    Consciousness, consciousness, consciousness!
    Awareness, awareness, awareness!
    Waking up is seeing where we have been
    and what residual effects continue to form our perceptions,
    and dictate our decisions.
    How much time, in a week, say, do you spend reflecting on your experience–
    both past and present–
    in order to form new realizations?
    What do you do specifically intended
    to increase your level of consciousness,
    your degree of awareness,
    the extent to which you are awake
    to what is happening
    and what its antecedents are,
    and what alternatives exist to consider
    in each situation as it arises?
    What program are you following?
    What plan are you implementing?
    You are not just drifting along,
    hoping for the best,
    are you?
  63. 09/29/2016 — Bird on a Wire 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 19, 2016 Our dreams are a selection of metaphors and symbols
    brought together in story form,
    disclosing how in is in our life at the time of the dream
    to those who take the time
    to mine the metaphors and symbols for their meaning.
    Use the methods of free association with each of them in a dream:
    “What comes to mind when you think of _____?”
    Be alert to puns and plays on words.
    Continue the dream upon awakening
    via Active Imagination to see where it might go
    and what else it might have to say.
    Bringing the metaphors and symbols to life
    is to come to life ourselves.
    Anthony Stevens says that by consciously formulating dream images,
    we step into the flow of unconscious images
    and are nourished by the meanings we find there,
    but, we have to dig our own well
    in order to tap into the well-spring of living water.
  64. 09/30/2016 — Face-off at the Feeder 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 28, 2016 We can understand the process
    and familiarize ourselves with all the concepts
    and terminology, but.
    We have to work the program
    and practice the art.
    We have to sit quietly and face what finds us
    in the silence
    on a consistent and regular basis.
    We have to reflect on past and present experience.
    We have to record and meditate on our dreams.
    We have to think about our thinking,
    see ourselves seeing,
    hear ourselves listening,
    observe ourselves in action,
    until we become transparent to ourselves,
    and catch ourselves in the act of kidding ourselves
    every time we do.
    We have to know who we are
    and who we also are,
    what is important,
    what drives us,
    what our ground, center, and foundation are.
    What we mean with our life,
    what guides our boat on its path through the sea.
    Knowledge Not Understanding!
    Should be a bumper sticker.
  65. 10/01/2016 — Cardinal 2016 30 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 28, 2016 Joseph Campbell said that there are two ways of thinking about
    all religions,
    and that each religion may be thought of in both ways at any time.
    There is that which represents “what is permanent and universal in human nature,”
    and that which is unique and peculiar to a particular folk, nation or civilization at a certain place and time in history.
    He said that when the orthodox priest and preachers who emphasize the historic foundations of their religion “talk and write of God, the nations go asunder,”
    but, “When the mystics talk (no matter what the historical ground of their religion is), their words in a profound sense meet–and the nations too.”
    He said further that the historic manifestations of the Numen must shed its historical skin
    so that the names Shiva, Yahweh, Alla, Buddha and Christ
    “lose their historical force and come together as adequate pointers of a way all must go in transcending their time-bound, earth-bound faculties and limitations.”
    (From The Masks of God, Vol. 1, Primitive Mythology)
    And I say, wouldn’t that be something?
  66. 10/01/2016 — A repeat from June 2013 — Carolina Wren 2016 23 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 23, 2016 There are three primary steps involved in finding your way to the life that is yours to live, the work that is yours to do:
    1) You have to be transparent to yourself.
    2) You have to bring out your contradictions and polarities, make them apparent, experience them fully and bear the pain of integration and synthesis.
    3) You have to get out of the way.
    Being transparent to yourself is not kidding yourself, not playing games with yourself, seeing how you are and how you also are, and not trying to be better or different than you are and also are. You have to see you with compassionate eyes. This will show you some contradictions and polarities.
    You have to be thoroughly aware of your contradictions and polarities, your paradoxes and ambivalence—without rushing to resolve them, disappear them, deny/ignore them and get them out of the way. You are here to make your contraries conscious—and to bear the pain of that transaction. This is the key to growing up, awareness, enlightenment, realization, nirvana… The right kind of pain is the path to peace.
    You don’t want to pay the price of peace. You want to save yourself. You have to save yourself by not trying to save yourself—by not saving yourself. You have to get out of the way with your incessant search for solutions, and answers, and recipes, and happiness ever after. You have to not know what to do and be awash in anguish while you wait on the shift in perspective that perceives the opening.
    When the door opens, walk through. Until it opens, wait in the darkness you are sure will never end for the light you are sure is never coming. And. Get. Out. Of. The. Way.
  67. 10/02/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 25, 2016 We live to get who we are
    together with the context and circumstances
    of our life.
    We live to thrive no matter what.
    We do that,
    not by imposing our will
    on the time and place of our living,
    but by seeing, hearing, and understanding
    how what we have to offer
    can be exactly what is needed here and now.
    We are the treasure we seek.
    We have to stop thinking about
    our own wealth and privilege
    and start thinking about
    the privilege of being who we are where we are
    and the value of enjoying the wonder
    of our soul’s resplendent beauty.
  68. 10/02/2016 — Sleeping Bird 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 29, 2016 How is life—
    how is your life—
    how are you
    like a game of solitaire?
    A wilted rose?
    A walk on the beach?
    A cobblestone?
    A hot air balloon?

    Aristotle said, “The best interpreter of dreams
    is the person who can best perceive similarities.”
    And the best maker of symbols.
    When we can see ourselves mirrored
    in the things that lie about us—
    particularly those that are emotionally charged,
    that “stand out” for us—
    we gather clues,
    gain insight,
    form new realizations,
    wake up,
    come to life…
    All for the one low price
    of playful reflection.
  69. 10/02/2016 — Cardinal 2016 33 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 30, 2016 There is resonance and there is dissonance,
    attraction and repulsion,
    positive energy and negative energy.
    And we know if something
    resonates with us,
    attracts us,
    creates a high level of positive energy within us–
    and if it does not.
    Why don’t we trust ourselves to what we know,
    instead of trying to think our way
    toward what has life for us?
  70. 10/03/2016 — Mushrooms 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Sit quietly, attending everything that comes up in the silence.
    Anyone can sit quietly, mindfully aware of the silence.
    Why doesn’t someone do it?
    Regularly, dependably, consistently, no matter what is going on in his/her life?
    Why don’t you do it?
    The silence is the source of imagery similar to our nighttime dreams.
    If we are swept away in a fantasy occurring in the silence,
    it is the same as a dream.
    Observe everything about it.
    See what happens.
    Meditate reflectively on it as though you would with a dream.
    See what you do in the silence in your mind.
    See what the silence does to you.
    What is your unconscious using the silence to say to you about you?
    About your life?
    About what is happening?
    About what needs to happen?
    Give your unconscious access to you frequently.
    Listen to what you have to say to you.
    Brave the silence,
    armed only with mindful, compassionate, awareness
    for what you find there.
    You will return, over time, to your center–
    to your ground and foundation–
    to yourself.
  71. 10/03/2016 — A repeat from October 2013, Molting Lasts Forever, Sigh 2016 01 — Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 2, 2016 Here’s my idea of 5 rules to live by:
    See what you look at.
    Know what you know.
    Throw away doctrine, theology, creeds and ideology,
    and embrace the truth of beauty in art, music, nature, good company and good food and drink.
    Wake up
    and show up
    for the life that needs you to live it with the gifts that are yours to give–
    whether you feel like it or not, whether you are in the mood for it or not, whether you want to or not, whether it is convenient or not—
    understanding that it is like this:
    You are playing the lead character in a movie about you,
    and the script calls for you to live your life
    by doing what is called for in each scene,
    in each situation that arises.
    If you were an actual actor playing the part of you,
    you wouldn’t get to say,
    “I don’t feel like it today. Maybe tomorrow. Come back in a week.
    Maybe I’ll be ready by then.”
    No, you would play your part,
    to the hilt,
    striving for an Oscar worthy performance.
    So?
    Live your life to the hilt!
    Offering what is called for in each scene,
    regardless of how you feel!
    That was a long one.
    Pick up where we left it with this:
    square up to the way things are and what needs to be done about it,
    and do it in each situation as it arises for as long as there are situations–
    without having to profit from it in any way.
    Bear consciously the pain of your contradictions
    (like the difference between the way things are
    and the way you want things to be)
    without trying to escape it
    (in diversions and distractions)
    or deny it,
    or disappear it by resolving things quickly
    with a solution that solves nothing.
    Suffer the lack of solutions
    and let the problem,
    the conflict,
    become an image for you.
    Work with the image.
    Paint it.
    Write it.
    Sculpt it.
    Draw it.
    Make it into music.
    Dance it.
    Interview it.
    Express it in ways that deepen,
    expand its reality
    and make it real.
    Then wait for the shift to happen.
    When the door opens, walk through.
    If you think that turns out to be more than five,
    think of the overage as lagniappe.
    I’m only charging you for five.
  72. 10/04/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 3, 2016 The life of the Dalai Lama would not be exciting,
    or even entertaining.
    If you followed him around for a week,
    or, heaven forbid, a month,
    you would likely be bored into numbing despair.
    Mother Teresa has been declared a saint.
    You wouldn’t want to live like she did.
    All the holy people you could name
    lived lives you wouldn’t have–
    lived lives that would stall the economy
    if a large portion of the population
    became holy as they were holy.
    Yet, Christians believe they are to
    convert the world
    and make everyone like Jesus.
    That would be the end of the world
    as we know it.
    We are selling a spirituality
    that has nothing to do with the life
    of a spiritually-attuned person.
    It’s all head-stuff that we are hawking.
    We talk theology and doctrines and creeds.
    Being faithful is believing what we are told to believe.
    It has nothing to do with trusting ourselves
    to the life we know is our life to live–
    because we know it and not because someone told us–
    and living it no matter what,
    following our own heart,
    finding our own way,
    and letting the outcome be the outcome.
  73. 10/05/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 11-C Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 When we take the whole situation into account,
    we perceive a different–
    and more fitting,
    more appropriate way of responding to it,
    than if we simply consider it
    from the standpoint of our own
    interests, desires and needs,
    and look at it as something to manipulate
    to our benefit and advantage.
    The wholeness–
    the allness–
    of the situation calls for a response from us
    that we are not normally attuned to.
    Siting, quietly reflecting on the situation
    presents options beyond our own
    narrow fears and desires,
    and points the way to that
    which obviously needs to be done–
    which we would never be aware of
    without opening ourselves
    to the wholeness of the whole.
  74. 10/05/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 54-55 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Listen to your life!
    Stop trying to pound how you want things to be
    into place,
    and simply listen to the allness of your life.
    Listen to the whole thing.
    Without interrupting.
    Listen to all your life is saying to you,
    on every level.
    Your life will tell you everything you need to know
    about living the life that needs to be lived
    in the time left for living.
    This is not about what you can do
    to make things go your way.
    It is about what you can do
    to align yourself with what your life needs from you
    in order to be what it yet may be.
    You are not striving to have things the way you like them.
    You are striving to be what your life needs you to be
    in order for your life to be what it is capable of being.
    That might not have anything to do with your idea for your life,
    but, it will be a fitting and wondrous completion
    to the life you have lived to this point–
    and it will likely delight and amaze you in surprising ways.
    It will definitely be worth your time and trouble,
    and you wouldn’t want to miss it.
    So, listen to your life!
  75. 10/05/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 60 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Our work, in part, is to discover our personal myth.
    Our life is lived in the service of that myth.
    It rules our life unconsciously
    until we make it conscious
    and transform it in ways that allow it
    to take all we are and are called to be into account.
    We have to consciously enlarge our personal myth
    to encompass the allness—
    the wholeness—
    of the life that is our life to live,
    and live that life in conscious service to the myth
    that is now worthy of it.
    So, what’s your myth?
    The hidden beliefs and assumptions
    that shape, that form, the life you are living?
    A written record of your dreams over time
    will provide a framework for identifying your myth.
    You may catch a glimpse of it
    by completing this sentence:
    “I am the type of person who…”
    Then, you might live conscious of that statement
    over the next week or so,
    looking for things you do to bear out the truth of it,
    and for things you do that refute it completely.
    Our personal myth has to be made conscious
    in order for us to incarnate the Self at the core of our being.
    The game is on!
  76. 10/06/2016 — Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., Rose-breasted Grosbeak, immature, 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 5, 2016 When we bear our conflicts,
    our contradictions,
    bravely and consciously,
    so that this is the way things are
    and that is the way things also are,
    and they do not cancel each other out,
    even though they are entirely contrary
    and mutually exclusive,
    and one cannot possibly be true
    if the other is true,
    because two people that far apart
    cannot possibly share the same body,
    and being this way
    by definition
    excludes everything even mildly connected with
    being that way,
    yet, here we are, together, like peas in a pod,
    perfectly exemplifying the greater truth
    that contradictory thoughts, feelings, positions, actions
    are complimentary in very essential ways,
    with one supporting the other,
    allowing for the other,
    making room for the other,
    permitting the other to co-exist
    as a separate and inviolable entity
    at-one with its mate,
    its polar-opposite,
    as long as we bear,
    bravely and consciously,
    the tension corresponding to their polar repulsion,
    and enabling one to recognize the other
    in its own heart and soul,
    thus softening itself,
    humanizing itself,
    and growing itself up into the other,
    in spite of the other,
    so that the two become one
    and contrariety and complexity
    become playfully simple
    as children grow up to be childlike
    but are no longer capable of being childish,
    and know out of their experience with themselves
    the wonder of maturity and grace,
    compassion and peace,
    and are able to extend to all
    what they know to be true, and also true, and absolute truth
    by having lived themselves into the apprehension
    of that which cannot be comprehended or explained or understood,
    but which can unmistakably be known
    and must never be denied,
    serving as it does
    as the crucible of our own soul-making,
    of our own becoming,
    and is the foundation and heart
    of our very own self.
  77. 10/07/2016 — Bird on a Wire 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 30, 2016 Symptoms are a sign of discord
    between who we are
    and the life we are living.
    Living out of sync with ourselves
    will manifest itself
    in ways ranging from subtle to dramatic.
    Either we will know
    when things are not right
    with us and our life,
    or everyone around us will know,
    and we will be oblivious
    to what is going on.
    The things that need to be addressed
    will show up in our dreams
    and in the silence
    when we sit quietly.
    Regularly stepping out of “the action,”
    to reflect on how things are
    with us and our life—
    and with us and our body—
    will bring out the red flags
    and reveal the places
    we need to make adjustments
    to put ourselves in accord
    with the life that needs us to live it—
    which is the work that is ours to do
    in the time left for living.
  78. 10/08/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 38 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 You know what brings you to life,
    or what once did,
    and you know what takes the life right out of you,
    leaving you empty, depleted, exhausted and soulless.
    Life restores your soul.
    Not-life leaves you soulless.
    We are here to serve our soul,
    and our soul
    “is here for its own joy,”
    said Rumi.
    When we refuse the things
    that bring joy to our soul,
    we are the worst kind of people,
    and our life begins to smell like it over time. There is still time.
    It is our place to devote ourselves
    to the service and care of our soul
    throughout the time left for living.
    This means doing what brings us to life
    and not doing what drains us of life.
    It means doing what is ours to do,
    and not doing what is not ours to do.
    It means doing our work,
    tending our business,
    and refusing to be consumed
    with other matters.
    We have to know where the line lies
    between Us and Not Us,
    and honor the line.
    Why is that so hard?
    Do we not understand what is at stake?
    Do we not care that we are killing our soul?
  79. 10/08/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 07 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, October 6, 2016 I play in the kitchen,
    creating recipes out of the air with what ingredients
    we have on hand.
    I play on the computer
    creating images that make me smile,
    and writing phrases and paragraphs
    that capture ideas that come to life
    as I read and reflect
    and endeavor to explore and express
    pathways between worlds.
    I play with my camera and hammock and hiking boots
    using nature as a springboard into awareness and life.
    I play with books
    and commune with authors inaccessible,
    delighting in avenues of wonder they open up for me
    and invite me to travel.
    In what ways do you play with your life?
    How often?
  80. 10/09/2016 — Rose-breasted Grosbeak 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 5, 2016 Everybody has the potential
    of being the Christ,
    and no one pulls it off
    quite like Jesus did.
    But, don’t let that dissuade you.
    No one will pull it off
    quite like you do, either.
    We all bring our own style to the role,
    and live out the character of the Christ
    the way only we can do it.
    When we are most completely the Christ,
    we are most decidedly ourselves,
    or, our Self,
    as Carl Jung would say.
    We are being whom only we can be
    in ways that also incarnate
    the grace, tenderness, compassion
    and rock-solid authenticity
    of a person grounded in her (his)
    own personal authority–
    who takes it all into account
    and responds to it in ways that
    astound and enlighten everyone,
    including herself (himself).
    Jesus was always surprising himself.
    There was no script.
    He made everything up
    in response to the conditions
    and circumstances of his life
    as they changed moment-to-moment The Christ is not a rigid set of principles,
    no ideological idol,
    no graven image,
    but a fluid, dynamic, matrix of being
    engaged in the continual process
    of bringing itself to life
    in the time and place of its living.
    Anybody can do that
    by taking who they are in one hand
    and where they are in the other,
    and get them together
    in ways that transcend and transform each
    in every moment.
  81. 10/09/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 22 — The 2-acre Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 9, 2016 The work to be conscious of the impact and influence
    of the emotional cluster of memories, images, thoughts and feelings
    attached to significant life experiences–
    usually referred to as “complexes.”
    The father we had
    leans us in a particular direction
    when it comes to dealing with men
    (or being one),
    as does the mother we had
    when it comes to dealing with women
    (or being one).
    We do not do the work
    of consciously placing ourselves in accord
    with the complexes that shape our life
    by thinking about it
    or rationally agreeing
    that our parents (and other meaningful relationships and events)
    continue to affect our life.
    We have to be conscious of the power of their presence
    and see the result that power exerts on our life even now–
    and feel the feelings associated with the realization of their
    continued presence in our life.
    And do it again the next time they insert themselves into our life,
    and the time after that,
    and the time after that…
    We never out-grow having had parents,
    and we place ourselves in accord with that fact
    slowly, over a long stretch of time.
    The Hero’s Journey is not quickly done.
    The hero has to be in it for the long haul.
  82. 10/10/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 42 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2016 We are old enough to think for ourselves,
    to live out of our own authority,
    to be grounded on the foundation
    of our own sense of right and wrong,
    good and bad
    appropriate and inappropriate
    called for and uncalled for
    in each situation as it arises–
    to be guided by our own feel
    for what resonates with us,
    rings true,
    strikes a cord,
    stands out
    over time
    after reflection and review.
    We are old enough to speak for ourselves,
    out of our own experience
    and to evaluate what we say
    in light of our on-going experience,
    making adjustments and corrections
    that take new information into account.
    We have what we need
    to know what we need
    to do what needs us to do it. We do not live as though it is so.
    And that is where our work begins.
  83. 10/10/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 10 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, October 6, 2016 Carl Jung, with an eye on fads, trends, rages and movements, said,
    “Nothing has happened at all unless the individual changes.”
    The newest most dynamic personal transformation guru may
    cast a wide spell, but.
    How different are the people who follow their every word,
    and how long has their differentness lasted?
    I’ve lost count of the latest things in spiritual development
    that have rolled through the times of my life
    like waves on the sea, but
    there have been many.
    Nothing has changed.
    Many of the individuals involved have hopped from one Teacher
    to another,
    “feeling the power,”
    each time,
    without changing ever.
    “Personal transformation movements”
    imply change at the very least–
    measurable change over the course of our life.
    Living in accord with our own inner sense
    of what our life needs us to do,
    and not out of someone else’s recipe
    for how our life ought to be lived
    is the kind of change I would look for.
    So that we become consciously responsible
    for the choices we make and the turns we take,
    instead of closing our eyes
    and hoping for the best.
    Who is guiding my boat on its path through the sea,
    if not me in consultation and collaboration with me?
  84. 10/11/2016 — Moonshine 2016 02 B&W — Indian Land, South Carolina, October 10, 2016 Living in accord with our life–
    with the life that is ours to live–
    with the life that only we can live–
    with the life that is our destiny
    and our soul’s one true joy
    is not automatic.
    We have to think about what we are doing–
    not as in thinking about it,
    but as in reflecting on it,
    being mindfully, compassionately, aware of it,
    seeing, hearing, and understanding
    what is happening
    and what we are being asked to do
    in response to it
    in each situation as it arises,
    in order to bring forth who we are
    then and there
    as the physical incarnation
    of the gifts, art, grace, wonder
    that come with us from the womb
    and lie fallow through all the years
    of waiting for us to wake up,
    tune in and turn on
    to the truth of who we are
    and live it out
    in the time and place of our living.
  85. 10/11/2016 — Northern Yellow-banded Flickr 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 11, 2016 Joseph Campbell said, “The influence of a vital person vitalizes.”
    Carl Jung said much the same with more words:
    “Anyone who has insight into his/her own actions–and has thus found access to the unconscious–involuntarily exercises an influence on his/her environment. The deepening and broadening of his/her consciousness produce the kind of effect which the primitives call ‘mana.’ It is an unintentional influence on the unconscious of others, and its effect lasts only so long as it is not disturbed by conscious intention.”
    We influence change in others by being changed ourselves.
    People are always trying to change other people without changing themselves.
    Parents command children to change without changing one bit in relation to the children.
    Spouses do the same with spouses.
    Bosses with employees.
    The list is long.
    The moral of this story is
    “We work on ourselves. And leave others to work on themselves as they will.”
    The deeper we go into the work,
    the more the work widens, or broadens,
    and it is always as though we have just begun.
    Keeps us from thinking how great we are,
    slacking off,
    and coasting
    while we look for someone to improve.
  86. Reelfoot Lake 2015 05-2 – Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Donald Trump says he will make America great again.
    He says he will bring jobs back.
    He says he will build walls to keep us safe.
    And then he says women can never be safe,
    but we dismiss that as “bad boy talk,”
    and wink, and laugh, and look forward to being great again.
    He says he will send out of the country everyone who is not like we are.
    He doesn’t say exactly who we are.
    He assumes we know he’s talking about us when he says we.
    We do.
    He says it’s fine to bully anyone, everyone, who is not like we are,
    and we know who we are.
    He says hating people who are our enemies–
    who don’t think like we do,
    or believe like we do,
    or dress like we do–
    is not only acceptable but is also essential and explicitly required.
    The right kind of insanity
    can interpose itself upon the masses
    simply by giving voice to their
    resentment, fear, rage, hatred and greed,
    and recasting the reprehensible and appalling
    as good business practice,
    regrettably necessary under the circumstances
    and a small price to pay in order to be great again.
  87. 10/13/2016 — Goldenrod 2016 01 — Lancaster County, South Carolina, October 12, 2016 My personal myth is contained in my personal creed:
    Wake up!
    Grow up!
    Stand up!
    And live your life!
    I began this process,
    which includes the realization of the process,
    and the conscious, mindful, embrace of
    and participation in,
    the process,
    in the Mississippi delta–
    Itta Bena, Inverness, Morehead, Greenwood, Leland…
    then moved lower by moving to Louisiana.
    The eastern and southern portions of Louisiana
    are mostly protected by levy systems
    to keep the water out,
    and are an apt metaphor for the provincialism
    of the entire Ark-La-Miss.
    Growing up is hard to do
    wherever we start,
    and we all have the same thing in common: We don’t get enough variety in our early years.
    Everybody is like we are.
    And, too many of us remain there until we die.
    We build our lives building levies and walls
    to keep the truth out.
    Truth grows us up.
    Or not.
    Too many of us grow older without growing up,
    thinking, “How ’bout Not?!”
    Nothing frustrates truth
    like ignorance and stupidity–
    which have nothing to do
    with the level of our education,
    but have everything to do
    with the quality of our courage,
    curiosity and imagination.
    Our life waits for us to make a pact with it,
    agreeing at long last to
    Wake up!
    Grow up!
    Stand up!
    And live our life!
  88. Used in Short Talks On Conflict, etc. 10/13/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 09 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, October 6, 2016 Add this to the long list of propositions I have submitted to you for your consideration:
    All of our dichotomies are false dichotomies.
    All of our polarities and contradictions are illusions.
    Dichotomies, polarities and contradictions
    do not stand in a posture of mutual exclusion or negation,
    but exist,
    like dance partners, tennis players, and sections in orchestras,
    to complement and compensate each other–
    to deepen, broaden, enlarge, expand and complete the other.
    We each are but parts of the whole,
    and need the others–
    all the others–
    to help us become all that we are capable of being.
    Thou Art That–
    not only in terms of transcendence and divinity,
    but also in terms of finding what is missing about us
    reflected in, and expressed by,
    all the others.
    We find ourselves in our contraries and opposites,
    and they find themselves in us.
    Walt Kelly’s observation that “We have met the enemy,
    and they are us”
    is as valid as any observation ever.
    Knowing how this is so,
    will transform how we think about,
    and treat,
    our opposition on every level.
    Our enemies are not to be hated and killed,
    but seen, heard, understood, known, honored, respected and perceived
    as mirroring for us
    aspects of ourselves
    that we reject, deny, repress and ignore–
    and we, them–
    so that we find in each other
    compensating and complimenting aspects of ourselves,
    and acknowledge the amazing
    oneness of the whole.
  89. 10/14/2016 — Cotton in the Field 2016 01 — Lancaster County, South Carolina, October 12, 2016 Carl Jung though that “Dreams are the guiding words of the soul.”
    In our dreams, we are talking to ourselves.
    The Self we are at the core is speaking
    to the self we are on the periphery.
    It is past time for the self we are on the periphery
    to attend the Self we are at the core–
    and to take up the work of integration,
    placing the life we are living on the periphery
    in accord with the life we are capable of living from the core,
    our self becoming one with our Self
    at last.
  90. 10/15/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 10 — The Two-acre Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 10, 2016 — The Two-acre Woods border our house to the west, the Zen Glen and the Three-acre Woods border it to the north, which is part of the Twenty-two-acre Woods that has recently sold for development and will soon become paved streets and houses, replete with box stores and fast food chains. The hawk and I can hardly wait. Silence and reflection are essential for mindful awareness–
    and everything depends upon that.
    We don’t get past Start
    without being mindfully aware
    of who we are,
    where we are,
    when we are,
    how we are,
    why we are,
    what’s happening,
    and what needs us to do it,
    in each situation as it arises,
    all our life long.
    How much time in a day
    do you allow yourself to spend
    in silent reflection
    in the service of mindful awareness?
    You cannot give yourself a better gift,
    or one with a greater impact for good
    in the lives of everyone else.
    Well?
  91. 10/16/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 09-2 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Joseph Campbell’s four volume series, “The Masks of God,”
    should be required reading in every seminary
    and church/synagogue/monastery membership class
    in the world.
    It is the history of religion from before there were religions.
    Campbell said there are two approaches
    to what has always been called God,
    based on whether a tribe/culture was plant and farming and, hence, matriarchally based
    or hunting/gathering, patriarchally based.
    The first approach is grounded in awe and wonder.
    The second approach is grounded in atonement and sacrifice.
    The second approach won out (in the west, at least)
    because men are bigger, stronger, and meaner than women.
    And the rest is, as they say, history.
    But, the way remains open,
    to those who are interested in pursuing it,
    to living in accord with the Numen via awe and wonder.
    It only takes sitting quietly and opening our eyes,
    and our souls,
    to the presence of more than can be told or said or understood,
    but is there to be known–
    even by the smallest child.
  92. 10/17/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 01 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 In addition to being the best man he is capable of being,
    each man must also strive to be the best woman he is capable of being.
    In addition to being the best woman she is capable of being,
    each woman must also strive to be the best man she is capable of being.
    We are androgynous,
    and have to embrace that,
    and live to exhibit it in our life.
    If you can understand this,
    and apply it,
    you will be amazed at the difference for good
    it will make in the world.
  93. 10/18/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 04 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 We cannot be who we want to be
    and be who we need to be.
    We cannot be who we ought to be
    by being who we think we ought to be.
    We carry with us a blueprint
    of who we think we are–
    which is who we think we ought to be–
    and of how we think the world ought to be,
    and live in the service of our idea
    of the who and the how,
    completely out of accord
    with the actual who
    and the actual how.
    We have to put the blueprint aside,
    and stand apart from our idea
    of how things ought to be
    in order to be who we are needed to be,
    and do what needs to be done
    in each situation as it arises.
    Listening/hearing
    looking/seeing
    knowing/being
    allows the right action
    to arise spontaneously–
    like going to the toilet,
    or yawning,
    or sneezing–
    when it is called for.
    We will live alive to the time and place of our living,
    allowing what ought to be done to be done
    without imposing our ideology, theology, will or way
    on the conditions and circumstances of our life.
  94. 10/18/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 02 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Living centered in and grounded upon
    who we are and what is important
    isn’t something we do on the side,
    like yoga or going to church.
    It is transformative and life-changing.
    Things are never what they were.
    New birth requires a completely new set
    of preferences, habits and behaviors.
    “The old has passed away,
    and, behold, the new has come.”
    Knowing what we are doing
    changes what we do.
    Mindful awareness—
    simply paying attention to the moment we are living—
    radically alters reality.
  95. 10/19/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 02 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 We have to work it out.
    Our work is to work it out–
    to make it work.
    To make sense of it.
    To find the meaning in it.
    To find what it means to us
    that this is the way things are,
    and not some other way.
    It is as though we wake up
    in a dream that we are dreaming–
    as though we are characters in our own dream–
    and have to figure it all out
    from the standpoint of what it means
    that this is the dream we are dreaming
    about ourselves,
    that this is the life we are living.
    Why this life, and not some other life?
    Why this story, and not some other story?
    We have the rest of our life
    to get to the bottom of it,
    of us.
    To get to the heart of the matter.
    To get to our heart–
    our core, center, ground and foundation,
    using the life we are living as our only clue.
  96. 10/19/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 03 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Awareness and reflection don’t take a day off.
    Seers see.
    Observers observe.
    Perceivers perceive.
    Of. The. Time.
    There is nothing to “get,” “understand,” “comprehend,”
    in order to get back to the business
    of amassing wealth,
    exploiting position,
    exercising power,
    and enjoying privilege.
    The life that needs us to live it
    needs us to be present
    with what is present with us,
    and to respond to what is needed
    with the gifts, genius, creativity, compassion and awareness
    that are ours to bestow upon each moment that arises.
    All. Of. The. Time.
    We can’t be looking for
    the benefits, boons, gains and advantages,
    AND see what is happening in the situation as a whole,
    or hear what is calling us to act
    in the service of the true good of all.
    We sacrifice self in our allegiance to Self.
  97. 10/20/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 02 – Grandfather Mountain, Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 I wonder why we cannot
    focus on living beautiful lives
    and celebrating our own dying
    the way we gather to rejoice
    in the deaths of so many leaves
    in the fall.
  98. 10/21/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 31 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Play with your life.
    Play with each moment,
    with each situation as it arises.
    Step playfully into the seriousness which surrounds you.
    See what you can do with it
    by treating it with less seriousness
    than it thinks it deserves.
    Know when to take No for an answer,
    and when not to.
    Be aware of the normal, typical, usual, traditional ways
    of responding to particular scenarios and situations,
    and don’t respond in any of those ways.
    Be irreverent.
    Be creative.
    Be unbound to the expectations, assumptions and suppositions
    that control life on the planet,
    and risk yourself to unconventional responses
    to what appears to be asked of you.
    Take nothing for granted.
    Live to see what happens if you do this or that. Play.
    With your life.
  99. 10/21/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 11 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Enlightenment comes with a price.
    They don’t mention that
    in all the talk about being enlightened.
    The Buddha gave up everything
    prior to sitting under the Bodhi Tree.
    Jesus was killed in the service of his understanding–
    as if to say, “See? This is how it is
    for those who would follow me.”
    His disciples put a different spin on it,
    saying, “Jesus died so you won’t have to!”
    Nothing could be farther from the truth.
    Dying is the way to the truth and the life.
    Enlightenment transforms the lives of the Enlightened Ones.
    Who wants to live like the Dalai Lama?
    Or Yoda?
    Enlightened living is a different kind of life.
    How different are you willing to be?
  100. 10/22/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 01 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 More people would be awake
    if it weren’t so much trouble.
    If it didn’t bring up so much pain.
    If it were easier and more convenient.
    If it didn’t require so much of them.
    If they were more awake.
    Waking up is growing up,
    Standing up,
    Seeing and doing what needs to be done.
    Being awake is hard.
    Being dead is easy.
    Jesus said, “Leave the dead to bury the dead,
    but you do the work that being awake and alive require–
    every day for the rest of your life!”
    Or, words to that effect.
    You could start with watching
    the Jon Kabat-Zinn videos
    on Mindfulness on You Tube.
    And take up the practice of sitting quietly regularly.
    How hard is that?

One Minute Monologues 034

June 30, 2016 – August 21, 2016

  1. 06/30/2016 — Everything in the world of normal, apparent reality
    is a portal/threshold/doorway
    to the Other World
    of invisible, intangible, ineffable reality.
    And we think the point is
    to leave here and go there.
    The point is realization.
    If everything in this world
    is an opening to that world,
    then WE are what we seek,
    and only need to be who we are
    in order to bring that world
    into this one.
    The pilgrims on their trek to the holy sites
    are holy themselves–
    holiness seeking holiness.
    They only have to wake up
    and stop trying to escape this world,
    But transform it
    by being themselves,
    bringing that world to life
    in this world
    by simply being who they are.
  2. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 06/30/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 All true religion begins
    with an experience with the ineffable,
    with an encounter with numinous reality.
    Like falling in love.
    I fell in love with a camera.
    No kidding.
    It was sitting on a poolside table
    in a made-for-TV-movie in 1966
    Staring Robert Wagner. And I did not have anyone in my life
    to help me interpret the experience.
    We are too often lost to the experience
    with none to help us make sense of it. A religious experience
    can be with anything,
    but it cannot be with everything.
    And we cannot plan it,
    schedule it,
    organize it,
    orchestrate it,
    choreograph it,
    produce it,
    box it,
    sell it,
    mass market it… We turn a corner,
    and a piano falls out of the sky
    on our head.
    And we don’t know what to do.
    And have on one to ask. I’ve been working with the experience
    of falling in love with a camera
    for over 50 years.
    It was the organizing experience of my life.
    I went to seminary to figure it out—
    to interpret it,
    understand it.
    Hermeneutics and exegesis are about
    interpreting and understanding experience
    before they are about
    interpreting and understanding scripture.
    The latter comes out of the former. I thought I would figure out my experience
    and help people understand their own.
    I discovered people who didn’t have experiences with the Numen,
    and weren’t interested in having any.
    “Just tell us what to believe Preacher,
    And make it quick.
    I tee-off at 1:30.” No one can give you religion.
    It hides around corners in the form of falling pianos.
    or made-for-TV-movies.
    When it shocks you awake with it’s arrival,
    sit with it for a while
    seeking to interpret it in ways that honor it
    and incorporate it into your life—
    finding ways to form your life around it.
    The dance will last forever.
  3. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 07/01/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 We have an experience with the ineffable—
    an encounter with numinous reality—
    and we spend the rest of our life
    working to understand it.
    That is the essence of true religion.
    We have devolved religion
    into an assortment of opinions—
    which we call “beliefs,” and “doctrines—
    about the Numen,
    and spend our time arguing
    among the sects
    about whose collection of opinions
    is right and whose are wrong.
    The experience of the Numen
    has been supplanted by
    theories about the Numen.
    Anyone with conviction is an authority,
    and religion is widely avoided
    by everyone who recognizes
    a sham when they see one.
  4. 07/02/2016 — Goodale 2015 65 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 We have to apply the principles of hermeneutics and exegesis
    to each situation as it arises—
    so that we see what is to be seen,
    hear what is to be heard,
    understand what is to be understood,
    and know what’s what there,
    and what to do in response to it.
    Then, we only need the courage to do it
    to be at one with the Tao
    and in accord with our life
    in the moment of our living.
    Right seeing,
    Right hearing,
    Right understanding/interpretation/evaluation
    Is right knowing
    Which becomes right doing
    And equals right being
    (In that doing is being,
    and being is doing).
    When we impose
    our desires, designs, purposes and plans
    on a situation
    things are wrong from the start.
    Our agenda has to be No Agenda—
    just seeing,
    just hearing,
    just understanding,
    just knowing,
    just doing,
    just being,
    at one with the moment
    and what needs to happen there,
    in light of the interests of all that is there,
    for the good of the whole,
    in every moment.
    That’s it.
  5. 07/02/2016 — Cardinal 2016 19 — Cardinal With Blackberry, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 We keep throwing things in the path,
    blocking the way,
    damming the flow,
    jamming the silence
    with noise from every side
    on every level,
    wondering where Nirvana is,
    and which way the Land of Promise.
    There will be no movement on the Journey
    until we do something with ourselves—
    something along the lines
    of realizing who we are,
    and who we are not,
    and what we are doing
    to keep from knowing what we know
    about the life we are living
    and the life that is ours to live.
  6. 07/01/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 The life we are living
    prevents us from living
    the life that waits to be lived.
    The Hero’s Journey
    is from one way of life
    to another.
    Salvation has nothing to do
    with believing or thinking.
    It has everything to do
    with how we live our life.
    It doesn’t matter what we believe
    as long as we live in accord
    with how things are,
    and in alignment with
    the life that is ours to live—
    that only we can live—
    in the service of
    the genius and gifts
    that are ours to share, exhibit, express, incarnate.
    All of our real problems
    stem from our refusal
    to find our life and live it.
    By refusing to do what is hard,
    we do things the hard way.
  7. 07/04/2016 — Sunflower on Black 2016 01 — Sunflower courtesy of Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, South Carolina, July 3, 2016 We have to be the authority
    in charge of our own life.
    We have the final word
    regarding what we do and do not.
    We decide for ourselves what is right and not right,
    what is important and unimportant.
    Where we will set our limits,
    place our boundaries,
    draw our lines.
    We have to know what constitutes
    the ground, center and foundation
    of our life,
    and live in light of it—
    in service to it—
    all our life long.
    If we cannot say “Yes, this is so with me”
    about all of these things,
    we know the work that is ours to do.
    beginning now.
  8. 07/04/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 04, 2016 Brexit is an excellent example
    of the center being unable to hold
    against the pull of extreme positions.
    We cannot count the number of marriages
    that have dissolved
    because those married moved
    away from the center
    toward opposite extremes.
    We have to take care of the center
    by refusing extreme reactions
    to extreme actions.
    Everyone cannot abandon the center
    at the same time.
    When someone rushes to the extreme
    everyone else has to remain cool—
    in light of the truth of the old saw,
    “It takes at least two people to have a fight,
    but one person can keep a really bad argument
    from escalating into a complete nuclear meltdown.”
  9. 07/05/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 05 — Red-bellied Woodpecker With Blackberry, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 Reality is our only hope!
    We would never grow up without it!
  10. 07/05/2016 — Black Snake 2016 12 — Out of the Trees, Back on the Ground, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 Reality’s place in our life
    is to wake us up,
    grow us up,
    against our will,
    all our life long.
    We rail against it,
    run from it,
    deny it,
    and pretend it away.
    But, it doesn’t go anywhere.
    It’s always right there, grinning.
    Reality loves its job,
    and does it with a flourish
    usually reserved for bull fighters.
    That would make us the bull.
    And you know the outcome from the start.
    It would behoove us
    to change our attitude about reality,
    and see it as our able assistant
    in the work to see how things are
    and do what needs to be done about them.
    Going over to reality’s side
    shoots us past all the resistance and whining,
    and puts us in the position
    of going to meet what is coming to meet us,
    dealing with it straight up,
    taking care of business,
    and looking for more of it,
    knowing that it won’t be long
    before we hear it calling our name.
  11. 07/06/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 5, 2016 In digging for the gold,
    start with your fear, anxiety, terror, dread…
    Start with the things you avoid,
    the things you won’t look at,
    the things you refuse to consider.
    Start with the things you find things
    to occupy your time and attention
    so you won’t think about them.
    Think about those things.
    That’s where the gold is hiding.
    Joseph Campbell said,
    “The treasure you seek
    is found in the far back corner
    of the cave you most do not want to enter.”
    Walk into your fear and look around.
    Sit down with your anxiety, terror, dread…
    And listen until you hear what they have to say.
    Look until you see past them
    through them,
    to the truth they are hiding.
    and the lie the represent.
    Our fear, etc., is based on the lie
    of our incapacity to deal with the thing feared.
    At the ground level,
    we are afraid we cannot meet the demands of our life.
    We are afraid we do not have what it takes
    to be who we are,
    to do what is ours to do.
    We owe it to ourselves to find out.
    What we will discover if we look
    is that there is way more to us than meets the eye,
    more than we ever imagine.
    We have depths and abilities past all expectation,
    beyond all reason.
    Ulysses faced the Cyclops,
    and we are afraid we can’t get a job.
    The gold we seek
    is the stuff we are made of—
    the stuff we think isn’t there.
    We are killing ourselves
    by being afraid to look
    for the stuff of life within.
  12. 07/06/2016 — Sunflower Collage 2016 — Sunflowers courtesy of Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, South Carolina, July 3, 2016 Living is the lesson,
    life is the teacher.
    Everything we need to know about living
    is available by reflecting on our experience with life—
    and reflecting on our conclusions regarding our experience.
    There are no sacred conclusions.
    Everything we think about our life
    is a theory waiting to be refuted or ratified
    by additional experience.
    When was the last time you changed your mind?
    If it has been more than a week,
    you aren’t doing enough reflecting.
    You are too comfortable with old insights and conclusions.
    And, if they were handed to you by someone else,
    it could be that you aren’t reflecting at all.
    What do you think about that?
  13. 07/07/2016 — Chameleon 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 4, 2016 I see no difference between
    meditation and reflection.
    The two are one.
    The skills necessary for the Hero’s Journey,
    the Spiritual Journey,
    awakening
    and growing up
    (All of which are metaphors for the same experience)
    are:
    Observation,
    Meditation/Reflection
    Realization,
    Implementation/Execution/Application,
    Observation,
    and the repetition
    of the remaining steps in the process
    for the remainder of our life.
    No one can do this for us.
    No one can tell us what our life is asking of us,
    or when and how to do it.
    We work it all out on our own.
    Our life is our responsibility—
    met, not by thinking it out
    in a rational/logical kind of way,
    but by observing, meditating/reflecting, realizing, implementing/executing/applying, observing…
    We should be told this at the start,
    and reminded of it often,
    all along the way.
  14. 07/07/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 7, 2016 Growing up means doing what you don’t want to do
    the way it ought to be done—
    the way you would do it
    if you wanted to do it with all your heart—
    because the situation needs you to do it.
    How well you do that
    in each situation as it arises
    is an indication of your degree of maturity,
    and is the only measure
    that is worth anything.
  15. 07/01/2016 — 07/08/2016 — Sunflowers 2016 03 — Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, South Carolina, July 3, 2016 Listen to your body!
    Your body will tell you everything you need to know.
    We resist, override, overrule, discount, dismiss, disregard, ignore
    the signals from our body
    to our peril every time.
    We cannot fight a winning fight with our body.
    Why would we want to even try?
    We can negotiate with our body
    to see what we can get by with, We must not kid ourselves
    about what we are getting by with.
    When our body says stop,
    we stop.
    When our body says rest,
    we rest.
    When our body says drink,
    we drink.
    Water.
    When our body says eat,
    we eat.
    Wisely.
    When our body says no,
    we don’t.
    One of the keys to a long,
    healthy and happy life
    is being able to take “No”
    for an answer—
    particularly from our body.
    What is your body saying
    that you aren’t listening to?
  16. 07/08/2016 — House Finch 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 8, 2016 The way you can be most helpful to me
    and everyone else
    is by giving us your full attention–
    Listening, looking, seeing, hearing.
    End of story.
    Well, not quite.
    By giving us your full attention,
    you enable us to pay attention to ourselves.
    You listen us into hearing what we have to say.
    You see us into seeing ourselves.
    You reflect us back to us
    better than a full length mirror,
    and there we are.
    Guess how often we see ourselves that way.
    Think how often you see yourself that way.
    The numbers are going to match.
  17. 07/09/2016 — Goodale 2015 61 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 15, 2015 It comes down to what we like
    and what we don’t like. There is a catch we generally ignore.
    Doing what we like
    requires us to do what we don’t like.
    A lot of us fail to make that connection,
    and therein lies the root
    of most of our problems.
    It is ridiculous to think
    we can only do what we like.
    This is the orientation
    of the Terrible Two’s.
    As the old saw goes,
    “We want to have our cake
    and eat it, too.”
    We can eat it,
    but then, it’s gone
    A healthy lifestyle
    means giving up
    the decadence and self-indulgence
    of sugar, saturated fat, alcohol and sedentary living.
    So, we compromise,
    eat only two pieces of bread per week
    and call that doing the best we can.
    Doing what we want kills us,
    when we refuse to comprehend
    how often that means
    doing what we don’t want
    in the service of what we do want.
  18. 07/09/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 08 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 9, 2016 Mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness
    takes the full situation into account
    and
    takes us taking the full situation into account into account,
    so that everything is taken into account
    that can be taken into account.
    This is called being transparent to ourselves
    within a situation that is transparent to us.
    It is also called seeing into the heart of every matter.
    When we see all that can be seen
    on the level of the heart of all things,
    what needs to be done is obvious.
    When we wait for the mud to clear—
    that is, to be clear about the confusion,
    the chaos, the conflict, opposition and polarities—
    what can be done is clear,
    and what needs to be done to do it is also clear.
    Then, there is only doing it.
    For instance,
    police have to stop killing black people
    whose only crime is being black.
    And Donald Trump and his fellow Republicans
    have to stop demonizing
    Black people, gay people, women, Muslims and Latinos.
    Now, there is only getting them to do it.
    It will be easier to vote them
    out of office.
  19. 07/10/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 9, 2016 Centered, grounded, in the core
    of what is important to us,
    we are at-one with our life,
    and in sync with what we need to do with it.
    In my case,
    I am clear about what I need to do,
    and what I do not need to do.
    Things that encourage/allow
    silence, stillness and looking out the window
    (And my hammock is a wonderful window
    looking out on the woods
    and on the world),
    are things I need to spend time with.
    Things that are noisy, shallow and mindless—
    like cocktail parties, family reunions, and sporting events—
    are things I need to avoid.
    All paths look equally attractive
    to those without roots to the core
  20. 07/10/2016 — Hummingbird Collage 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 10, 2016 — I put up a Hummingbird feeder today, about ten feet from the hammock. Business was good. When you go looking for your core,
    for the foundation stone,
    for the bedrock center of what matters to you,
    go sit quietly in a natural place—
    or, lie in a hammock—
    for an hour or more,
    and return often to repeat the experience.
    This is your practice,
    sitting in the stillness of a natural place, You’re waiting for a shift to occur,
    a perceptible click felt in your body
    when you move out of one world
    into another.
    You are waiting to look forward
    to the return to stillness.
    You are waiting to miss it when you move out of it—
    to yearn for it in a way that is surprising
    and beyond understanding.
    You are discovering that silence matters to you.
    and within the silence,
    realization.
    Silence is the path to
    seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing/being.
    In the silence things occur to you
    you could never think up trying.
    Be still and quiet.
    Listen, look.
    It has always been this simple,
    From the dawn of time.
    Doing it is the difficult part.
  21. 07/11/2016 — Blue Bird 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 21, 2016 Wealth is not going to protect you.
    there is no protection.
    You are at the mercy of forces quite beyond you.
    And you are on your own.
    This is the realization
    that marks the turning point in your life.
    Life takes off from here,
    or it stops here.
    Suicide and all of the addictions
    have their source in this realization.
    Denial, distraction, diversion and despair
    have their origin in this realization.
    It is the swing point between life and death.
    All of the rites of initiation
    are about forcing this realization
    upon the initiates—
    about weeding them out early on—
    to see who has what it takes
    to be of value to the tribe,
    and who does not.
    Without the rites,
    we meet our turning points individually,
    in the haphazard delivery
    of the blows,
    trials and ordeals of our life.
    In those places,
    we have to know we are facing the Cyclops
    in one of his many manifestations
    on the road to our own Odyssey,
    which is to say to our own maturation
    and self-realization.
    We have to know
    that we have what it takes to rise to the occasion
    to any occasion,
    and claim the treasure—
    which has noting to do with wealth,
    and everything to do with the knowledge
    that we are safe with ourselves,
    and have everything we need
    to find what we need
    to do what needs to be done—
    what needs us to do it—
    and continue on the way
    on the journey
    of self-realization
    and maturation
    and the salvation of the world.
  22. 07/10/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 24, 2016 Where are you suffering
    from the betrayal of your expectations?
    How consciously are you accepting
    and bearing the pain
    of that suffering?
    It is an old psychological saw
    to say that the refusal to bear
    the pain of legitimate suffering
    is the heart of all our problems.
    It is not that we suffer consciously,
    exorcising the demon
    by naming it
    and carrying its pain in our body
    until we have come to terms with it
    and made our peace with it—
    It is our refusal, our failure, to suffer at all
    that is the problem.
    Where are you NOT suffering
    from the betrayal of your expectations?
    From the failure of your life
    to be what you hoped it would be—
    to be what you wanted it to be?
    Face up to the places
    where your life has let you down.
    And bear consciously the pain.
  23. 07/12/2016 — Feeder Photos 2016 01, 02, 03, 04 — Pay Attention Little Hummingbird (01); Uh-Oh (02); Watch Out! (03); See? TOL-JA! (04} — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 12, 2016 Our dreams are Psyche’s rendition
    of how things currently are
    with us in our life.
    They are a daily snapshot
    of what’s what—
    of where we are kidding ourselves—
    of where we have to get to work,
    squaring up to reality,
    making our peace with how it is,
    and seeking to find and ground ourselves
    in the center of our heart/soul/self
    and align ourselves with it
    in the way we live our life,
    integrating inner with outer,
    and living a life of full integrity
    throughout the time left for living.
    Listen to your dreams.
    They are our soul’s way of pointing out what is so,
    and trusting us to take it from there.
  24. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 07/12/2016 — Sunflowers 2016 01 Panorama —Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, near Brattonsville, SC, July 3, 2016 We cannot live with integrity
    without living mindfully aware
    of our contradictions
    and polarities.
    We bear the pain
    by living consciously within the tension
    of our opposites:
    “This, too. This, too.”
    We cannot kid ourselves about who we are
    and also are,
    and how it is with us,
    and live with integrity.
    Thus, living with integrity
    is synonymous with
    living with humility,
    kindness,
    grace,
    civility,
    generosity,
    good will,
    good faith,
    compassion,
    peace
    and all of the other
    wonderful old values
    at the heart of life and being.
  25. 07/13/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee & Downy Woodpecker Panorama 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 We live in the service of archaic values—
    good faith,
    good will,
    grace,
    compassion,
    justice,
    peace,
    self-discipline
    respect for self and all others…
    The list is long
    which sets us against
    the upstart wannabe values
    of commerce and the economy:
    wealth,
    privilege,
    position,
    prestige,
    celebrity status,
    exploitation and profiteering,
    profit at any price,
    our personal good at the expense of everyone else’s
    and all other things’…
    How must Psyche feel,
    as the Mother of the Good
    of all of her children,
    with them living with only
    the good of themselves in mind?
  26. 07/13/2016 — Cypress Trees 2015 04 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 The prophets of every religion
    have a lot in common with Obi wan Kenobi and Yoda.
    They all were waiting
    for someone to hear what they had to say,
    to need what they had to offer.
    So don’t despair when it appears
    that your gifts, genius and talents
    are going to waste.
    Keep practicing your art.
    Trust your audience to appear.
    and, if it does not,
    you still have your art,
    and your life would have been paltry
    without it.
  27. 07/13/2016 — Three Sunbathing Babes 2016 01 —Mamma Cardinal and Her Two Daughters, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 8, 2016 We have to face up to our betrayed expectations,
    come to terms with them,
    make our peace with them,
    as they happen,
    otherwise, we will keep looking for our life
    to make it up to us,
    to off-set it
    in some unbelievably wondrous way—
    which becomes another betrayed expectation—
    and the downward spiral
    is a quick trip to the end of our rope.
    When our expectations are betrayed, we have to:
    Square up to it!
    Bear the pain!
    Mourn our losses!
    And let them be,
    because they are,
    and that’s that.
    We listen to our dreams,
    do our Inner Work,
    see what our life is asking of us,
    and what needs to be done
    here and now,
    do it and repeat the process
  28. 07/14/2016 — Feeder Photos 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 12, 2016 — I place about 1/2 cup of water in top of the Hummingbird feeder as a barrier to ants seeking the sweet stuff below. I let the Tufted Titmice think I do it for them.

    Your practice consists of two things:
    Do your work—
    the work that is yours to do,
    that no one but you can do
    the way you do it—
    Live to be increasingly transparent to yourself—
    attend your dreams,
    consciously transform all of your “mind-wandering” episodes
    into experiences with Active Imagination (Google the term)
    to see what they have to say about yourself
    (To say to you from your Self).
    Self-awareness is primal awareness—
    primary awareness—
    leading to every other variety of awareness there might be.
    Know your work and do it.
    Know your Self and be it.
    All there is to it.
  29. 07/14/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 14, 2016 — I don’t know how to distinguish male and female Brown Thrasher’s. I think of this one as “she.” She appears to be in a crisis, and the next photo will appear to be even more serious, but. she is, to the best of my ability to read a bird’s mind, enjoying the wonder of the morning sun after a long dark night. For several generations,
    we have been of the opinion
    that if it can’t be weighed,
    measured,
    fenced in
    or photographed,
    it isn’t real.
    The Real World is the one available to our senses.
    The invisible world is “just in our mind.”
    “It’s all in our imagination.”
    There have been times and places—
    and still are places even in these times—
    where the reverse was considered to be the way it is.
    I’m not here to argue who is right,
    so much, as to point out
    that the physical world
    can seem to be the only world,
    And the invisible/spiritual world
    can seem to be the only world. The two are one.
    There is one world,
    and aspects of it are visible
    and otherwise apparent to the senses.
    And aspects of it are invisible
    and immune to our experiments,
    but quite available to our ability
    to “apprehend more than we can comprehend”
    (Abraham Heschel).
    Every element in the physical universe
    is a threshold,
    a portal,
    a doorway,
    into the other universe,
    the invisible, intangible one.
    It only takes being open
    to all that is present in any moment,
    to know that there
    is more there than meets the eye.
    Or the ear.
    Practice making yourself accessible
    to what is accessible to you,
    to the invisible/spiritual world
    approachable through this world
    of physical reality.
    Find your holy places–
    “thin places” (Parker Palmer)–
    where the Numen winks at you
    and stirs your soul.
    Spend time in them often,
    lost in the wonder of more than words can say.
  30. 07/14/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 14, 2016 — It looks for all the world as though she had a seizure and keeled over dead. It would be more accurate to interpret this as Thrasher Ecstasy. After about twenty seconds, she moved to a more comfortable place, and loved the sun some more, as the next photo will show. You know by now
    that my highest hope for us is that we
    see what we look at.
    particularly what we look at in the mirror.
    The only strategy I’ve developed for doing that
    is to keep looking until you see.
    In other words, don’t stop too soon.
    don’t think you get it
    just to be done with it.
    Seeing is a lifelong task.
    We see with our experience,
    reflection,
    insight
    and realization–
    not with our eyes.
    Sometimes we have to get closer
    to something to see it,
    And sometimes,
    we have to get farther away.
    All of this takes time,
    so, don’t think you have
    to have it figured out
    and put away
    by a certain time,
    so that you can get on with your life.
    Seeing IS your life!
    And dancing.
    We live to dance with what we see.
  31. 07/15/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 14, 2016 — All appearances to the contrary, this bird is relishing her moment in the sun. She lay there for about a minute before gathering herself up to meet the day. I am saddened into grief and anguish
    over all the people in Trump’s camp.
    How can anyone think
    the way he thinks is the way to think?
    How can we find common ground
    among those who think like Trump
    and those who think like me?
    How are we going to come together?
    Live in harmony?
    All those people filled with such hatred and fear…
    How they must suffer their life each day!
    How they must live with
    such hopelessness,
    rage and despair!
    To think that they pin their hopes on a man like Trump!
    As empty and as shallow as any man ever has been!
    As immature, unwilling and unable to help anyone!
    Who has he ever helped?
    When has he ever offered so much as a cup of cold water
    To those parched for thirst?
    Shelter to those freezing in a winter downpour?
    To live in a hole so dark and deep
    That Donald Trump looks like a Savior and a Bringer of Light
    Is to be of all people most to be pitied.
    They can only hate and fear forever.
    How can they ever hope
    to feel compassion, kindness, mercy, goodwill, generosity, grace, sympathy, empathy, understanding, benevolence, charity, amity, kinship and good wishes
    To all those they despise, resent, reject?
    My heart breaks for the people
    who don’t have a heart
    that can break for anyone not like themselves.
  32. 07/15/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 05 — This is the same Goldfinch blended from four separate photographs. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 15, 2016 There is my work,
    and there is not my work.
    The older I get,
    the less patience I have
    with things that are not my work.
    I may as well be in jail,
    or changing oil at some automobile dealership.
    If I’m not going to be doing my work,
    it doesn’t matter what I’m doing.
    My work is the only thing that matters.
    And, by now, you know
    that my work consist of looking out the window
    to see what I might see.
    I know that everything is the Tao
    for those with eyes to see.
    Work, not my work,
    It’s all the same thing
    for those with eyes that see.
    When I see like that,
    all will be well.
    Until then,
    I see my work
    and not my work.
    And standing in some checkout line,
    or driving through rush hour traffic
    is not lying in my hammock
    looking into the woods.
  33. 07/16/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 15, 2016 Nothing makes sense.
    Nothing follows anything.
    Our life is a non sequitur
    from start to finish,
    Yet, we take all of the events and circumstances,
    and make a coherent story of it.
    It is madness,
    with things happening for no reason
    right out of the blue,
    like a lifetime of rogue asteroids
    crashing into our planet,
    knocking us into a different trajectory,
    spinning out of anything remotely resembling control,
    and all we want is “smooth and easy.”
    But we take it all in
    and put it together
    in a way that makes it appear to be orchestrated,
    choreographed,
    designed
    and planned.
    We make sense of it all.
    That’s what we do.
    We make things make sense.
    All mythology, all religion, all of civilization,
    is our way of making sense of life–
    of OUR life.
    We tell ourselves things that make sense of our life.
    We make it all meaningful.
    It is our gift to the cosmos to make it meaningful.
    We are all weaving, composing, countless, innumerable,
    stories about our experience with life
    that make meaning out of everything, anything.
    We are beautiful that way.
  34. 07/17/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 10 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Looking out the window is full time work.
    Think of two worlds–
    the world of normal, concrete, tangible, actual, factual, physical reality,
    and the world of invisible, intangible, unconscious, spiritual reality–
    and the window looks from one world into the other.
    When the world where the one looking looks
    imposes its will and ways upon the looker,
    it is as though someone shatters his, or her, reverie
    by announcing, “Let’s all turn in our workbook to page 24
    and read aloud the second paragraph from the bottom.”
    Or it as though you are making love
    and your mother-in-law enters the room.
    Or, better, it as though you are making love
    And your husband or your wife opens the front door
    and says, “Honey! I’m home!”
    That is a dichotomy that has to be experienced
    to know the wrenching shock
    of being yanked from one world
    into the other.
    This is to say,
    that when you are aware of those
    whose work is to look out the window,
    leave them to their task,
    and hope they will see something worth reporting.
    Do not diminish their work,
    or insist that they join you in board games,
    or Badminton on some lawn.
    Their work is their life,
    and if they don’t do it, who will?
    Trust them to it,
    and wish them well
    in the task of translating the experience of that world
    into the language of this world–
    that the gap between worlds might be reduced,
    and all might be blessed by harmonies unknown.
  35. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 07/17/2016 — Do You See The KING SNAKE??? — I was dialed in on the Brown Thrasher when I noticed the King Snake gliding along behind her. So I dashed from the hammock to get a closer view, scaring the poor bird into the next county. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 You know by now that these things are crucial
    to the development of your relationship with your Self:
    The practice of Mindfulness Meditation (Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube Videos).
    The practice of paying attention to,
    recording,
    interpreting
    exploring
    your nighttime dreams and your daily flights of fantasy.
    (Anthony Stevens work “Private Myths: Dreams and Dreaming,”
    is not to be ignored here.
    And Robert A. Johnson’s “Inner Work”
    will also be helpful in a number of ways
    beyond dream interpretation).
    The practice of sitting quietly
    in the stillness,
    open to the silence.
    The practice of reflecting
    on your experience
    in the quest for new realizations.
    The practice of seeing what you look at.
    The practice of becoming transparent to yourself.
    The practice of becoming aware
    of your contradictions,
    and working to reconcile
    the ones that can be reconciled,
    integrating the ones that can be integrated,
    bearing consciously the pain of those that cannot be–
    until something shifts and you transcend
    the two mutually exclusive options
    in the service of a new way of seeing
    that transforms the field of action.
    The practice of listening to your body,
    and listening for the things you are missing in the situation,
    in order to know what you know
    and what can be known,
    so that what needs to be done
    becomes obvious,
    and you do the thing for the good of all concerned.
    So–
    how are you coming along with it?
  36. 07/18/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 16, 2016 I don’t have a warrior’s heart,
    but, I have the strength of my convictions.
    I don’t have what it takes to stand toe-to-toe
    with someone in some boxing ring,
    trying to pummel him to death, submission, or a count of ten,
    whichever comes first.
    But I could stand to-to-toe with anyone
    over what’s right in a particular situation,
    without giving ground or surrendering my position.
    In this, I am more like Socrates or Jesus
    than Alexander the Great or Genghis Khan,
    and am willing to die in the service of what I call good,
    but am unwilling to kill anyone over what they call good.
  37. 07/18/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 18, 2016 — This is a composite photo of the same Goldfinch, blending six photographs into one image. There is only one trick in the repertory of all the Old Masters:
    Hold everything in awareness
    and wait for what needs to be done about it
    to become clear and urgent,
    and do it.
    Act out of what needs to happen
    in each situation as it arises,
    and not out of what you want to happen,
    or what would be to your advantage to happen.
    The trick is to know what it is time for
    here and now,
    and do everything as it needs to be done
    in the fullness of time,
    when the time is right.
    The trick to being able to pull off the trick
    lies in knowing how to hold everything in awareness,
    and waiting.
  38. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 07/19/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 When I am lying in my hammock
    alone with the birds in the woods,
    holding everything in awareness,
    I am at peace,
    awash in perfection,
    at one with the Tao
    aligned with my life,
    in complete accord
    with the moment of my being.
    And then,
    there is the Republican National Convention
    to shatter my peace,
    and threaten every good thing
  39. 07/19/2016 — The Window 2016 July 01 Panorama — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 19, 2016 — When I look out the window from the vantage point of my hammock, this is the scene that greets my eye. Note the dead tree just to the right of center. I’ll let you know when it falls if I escape. Action arises from contemplation/meditation/reflection.
    It is not that we think of what to do and then act.
    It is that we open ourselves to the full capability of our awareness
    in the moment of our living,
    and remain there, holding everything in awareness,
    waiting for what to do occur to us,
    arising spontaneously,
    of its own accord.
    It is magical,
    a gift from the unconscious
    into consciousness
    via contemplation/awareness.
    Anything that disrupts our contemplation
    has to be encompassed by our contemplation,
    so that we now hold it, the disrupting factor, in our awareness,
    and, in time, it will occur to us what to do about that.
    Out of silence comes the cosmos.
    The creative urge to act in the field of action,
    arises in the stillness of contemplation,
    from the heart of awareness.
  40. 07/20/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 When you are enlightened
    all you see
    is things as they are.
    You see what’s what
    in each situation as it arises.
    Seeing what’s what
    puts you at “the still point of the turning world,”
    at the center of what is important
    here and Now,
    in the moment-to-moment
    flow of life and being–
    at the fulcrum of the future,
    the place of leverage,
    for turning “the way it has always been”
    into the way things need to be.
    Right action arises from right reflection
    And right realization.
    Seeing is doing.
    That is enlightenment.
  41. 07/20/2016 — Cypress Trees 2015 03 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 I think Jesus was quoting a popular proverb of his day
    when he said, “Wisdom is known by her children.”
    Sometimes, it is by her grandchildren that she is known.
    The value of our acts may be concealed for years,
    if not generations. Do not be too quick to condemn your choices and decisions.
    What appears to be a wrong move,
    may contain hidden gifts
    that work in the darkness
    like yeast in the dough
    to bring forth in you
    who you have in you to be.
    Where we have been
    enables us to be
    where we are
  42. 07/21/2016 — Cardinal 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 13, 2016 There is the beauty of the moment,
    the goodness of things being exactly
    what they are capable of being,
    the truth of what is before us,
    in every natural setting around the world.
    Throw in culture, society, politics, money, power, position
    with personal gain on the line,
    and beauty, goodness and truth
    disappear like a dream greeting the day.
    If there is nothing in it for us,
    we aren’t interested—
    and we miss the gold,
    looking for the gold.
  43. 07/22/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 9, 2016 The search for our life
    is the search for what brings us to life,
    is the search for our heart’s true love.
    This has nothing to do with what we want.
    We want 10,000 things.
    What does wanting know?
    We are too soon bored with this and want that.
    And that, and that…
    We cannot get enough of the things
    that do not satisfy.
    We think that we love what we want,
    and want what we love.
    But we have put our heart and its love
    on the top shelf of some closet,
    or in the attic,
    or left it behind when we moved away in the seventh grade.
    And we have been living in the service
    of what we want ever since.
    It’s time for a reckoning.
    Reckonings take place,
    not by thinking about what our heart might love,
    but by sitting quietly and letting our heart speak.
    It may take a while.
    Our heart may not trust us by now,
    And will test our resolve
    to live in its service,
    so we have to stay with it—
    with the silence, waiting,
    for something to stir.
    For some whiff of an odor of a memory,
    for some flash of light to catch our eye,
    for some forgotten childhood dream, or love, or activity
    to come to mind,
    and invite us to play.
  44. 07/22/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 Republicans suffer from a personality disorder
    known as the Alfred E. Newman-like syndrome.
    In that, instead of asking, “What, ME worry?”
    They, to a person, declare, “What, ME be wrong?”
    Republicans cannot consider the possibility
    that they could be at fault, in error, mistaken, corrupt, dishonest, crooked, or blameworthy.
    They see themselves as they wish to be seen.
    everybody else is always wrong.
    Republicans are never wrong.
    But, don’t take my word for it.
    Peruse the archives.
    See if you can find even one occasion
    where a Republican assumed responsibility
    for things gone sour–
    where he, or she, said, “It’s my fault.
    There is no one to blame but myself.”
    And, while you are at it,
    see if anything unfavorable happened over the past eight years
    that wasn’t,
    in the eyes of all Republicans,
    President Obama’s fault.
  45. 07/23/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 20, 2016 Nothing is a greater threat
    to the stability of a relationship–
    particularly one’s relationship with oneself–
    than a perspective that refuses/fails
    to take itself into account–
    that refuses/fails
    to examine itself with the same ruthless insensitivity
    that it utilizes in brutalizing and eviscerating
    what it denounces, despises, opposes.
    Ann Coulter comes to mind.
    And the entire Republican world.
    and Evangelical Christianity,
    also known as “the religious Right,”
    where the entire Republican world
    gets its spiritual direction.
    Ideology is a blinding light,
    how can those who serve The Truth
    with hearts as pure as gold
    be wrong?
    We must do it as they would have it done!
    those who know best must be pleased–
    or they will be angry
    and vengeful,
    and make us look upon Hell
    as a sanctuary and refuge
    from their vicious, wrathful, ways.
  46. 07/23/2016 — Dragonfly 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 28, 2016 Those who see,
    see themselves staring back at them
    everywhere they look.
    For those who see,
    everything is a mirror,
    reflecting themselves to themselves,
    showing them who they are and also are,
    exposing them to the piercing gaze of themselves,
    and providing them
    with a level of self-transparency
    unavailable to those who are not
    conscious of what they are not conscious of,
    and, therefore, do not know what all they know.
    Thou Art That, and That, and That…
    infinitely and eternally,
    world without end, Amen.
  47. 07/20/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 08 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 — This photo is a composite of the same bird blended from three separate photographs. When Jesus said,
    love your enemies,
    love your neighbors,
    love yourself,
    love those who are considered to be
    the least of all
    and the most untouchable and unloveable
    in every culture throughout the world,
    in every age
    forever
    (Or words to that effect),
    he was saying
    don’t let your ideology,
    or your theology,
    or your politics,
    or your fear
    or your hatred
    or your anger
    stand between you
    and loving one another.
    He was saying,
    don’t let anything keep you
    from living together with one another
    in ways that are loving–
    in ways that enable the other
    to know without the slightest doubt
    that she, that he, is loved by you.
    He was saying,
    if you cannot do this in each situation as it arises
    all your life long,
    don’t call yourself a Christian.
    or a human being.
  48. 07/24/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 16 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 22, 2016 When Gov. Pat McCrory of North Carolina
    dismisses opposition to HB2,
    which removes LGBT protections
    and prevents new ones from being enacted,
    as “political correctness gone amok,”
    He trashes compassion,
    kindness,
    consideration,
    justice
    and equal rights for all people.
    In favor of his own bigoted,
    homophobic,
    white-straight-guys-are-the-best-kind-of-guys Compassion gone amok would be a good thing.
    We need more of that on every level of life.
    McCrory would do well to ride a horse named Compassion
    throughout his remaining term in office.
    North Carolina would burst into life,
    flowers would bloom through the fall and winter,
    and everyone would declare that
    they had not seen such a wonder in all their days.
    It isn’t likely to happen.
    but it is a signal to all of us
    to not allow the charge of “Political Correctness”
    to dissuade us from the practice of compassion
    in each situation that arises
    all our life long.
    Compassion is the highest of values,
    and the world is dying for an experience with compassion–
    for an on-going, unrelenting, experience with compassion.
    The world is dying for what we all have to offer
    in the time left for living.
    Bring compassion to life in your life
    and watch the world come alive.
  49. 07/25/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 11 — This is a composite of the same bird made by blending three photos into one — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 2, 2016 I think fear, hate, rage and greed
    lie deep within us all,
    perhaps our first instinctive response
    in the service of self-protection
    and self-interest and advancement–
    and the protection, interest and advancement
    of those we take to be Our People/Our Kind.
    We all have the innate capacity for all these things,
    waiting for the right environmental factors
    to call them forth in defense and aggression.
    Donald Trump strikes a cord
    with his rhetoric and his demeanor,
    speaking to that which resides in us all,
    sparking the reservoir of fuel for energy at the core,
    to incite, inflame and engulf–
    and carry him to victory at the polls
    in his self-proclaimed role
    as Our Only Savior–
    the Solitary One Who Understands And Can Deliver.
    It’s the only song he sings.
    every dictator wields the same power over their followers.
    Jesus and the Buddha, you will remember,
    refused all invitations to become king.
    those who savor the role are not fit to play the part.
    And it is the place of consciousness
    to recognize that
    and to hold everything in awareness–
    within and without–
    and to rise above unreflective reactivity
    in overriding the temptation to be saved and delivered,
    and do our own work
    in the service of the high values
    of compassion, kindness, grace, mercy, peace and justice
    for all people–not just our kind of people–
    in each situation as it arises
    all our life long.
  50. 07/25/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 01 — “Hmmm,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 Six things are one thing:
    Seeing, Hearing, Understanding, Knowing, Doing/Being =
    a True Human Being.
    We are six steps removed
    from True Human Being-hood,
    a Bodhisattva,
    a Buddha,
    a Christ.
    Seeing, hearing and understanding
    the present moment
    is to know what is happening
    and what needs to be done in response
    with the gifts and genius that are ours to offer.
    Action arises spontaneously to meet the need,
    resulting in being at one with the moment,
    fully alive in the time and place of our living.
    No agenda, no plans, no scheming, no exploitation, no making happen or making not happen,
    just seeing,
    hearing,
    understanding,
    knowing,
    doing/being.
    Practice the six things.
    Become the One the moment needs you to be.
  51. 07/26/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 01 — “Mind If I Join The Party?,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 This is a “Meditation on You”:
    Make an actual list of the people and things you love.
    Spend time making it,
    and add to it as needed over time.
    Consider each item,
    holding each one in your awareness
    and allowing yourself to see it as though for the first time.
    Make another actual list of the qualities/characteristics
    of each item that set it apart from all other things,
    that attract you to it,
    that give it a place in your life.
    Write these lists down.
    over the weeks or months
    That you engage in this meditation,
    you will be making conscious the values and qualities
    that are important to you.
    Your role now is to enlist yourself in the service
    of these values and qualities.
    Pledge yourself to their incarnation and expression
    in your life.
    Become their liege servant,
    swearing your allegiance
    and your life to their realization
    in ways appropriate to the occasion
    in each situation as it arises
    all your life long.
    These values and qualities guide your boat
    on its path through the sea.
    Their actualization is your reason for living,
    your purpose and your meaning.
    Living them out in your life
    is what your life is all about.
    Repeat the Meditation on You periodically
    to return to the center, ground and foundation
    of your life–
    to reorient yourself
    And to reestablish your relationship
    with the core of your life and being,
    in service to the values
    that are uniquely your own.
  52. 07/26/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 03– “This Is Awkward,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 I cannot be told what I don’t want to hear.
    That’s a problem.
    The world has to wait for me to be ready
    to hear what I need to hear
    about doing what needs to be done.
    The world has to wait for me to grow up.
    that’s the kink in the hose
    that is supposed to be watering
    the garden of life.
    We don’t have a problem
    that growing up won’t solve.
  53. 07/27/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 04– “Maybe If I Skooch Over A Bit,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 What are our choices?
    What are the risks and implications associated with each choice?
    What is the best of our available options,
    taking everything into account?
    We don’t always take everything into account.
    Remember your first marriage?
    And, maybe, your second?
    What did you dismiss that should have been factored in?
    We tend to discount
    important stuff
    in deference to something else we have in mind.
    Seeing is revealing. We cannot see if we don’t look.
    And we won’t look
    if there is something
    we won’t let ourselves see.
    To see all is to know all,
    but there is a lot we don’t want to know–
    even though we will wish we had known it.
    Growing up is such a hard thing to do
    no one volunteers for it,
    and it has to be thrust on us
    by our refusal to do it.
  54. 07/27/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 05– “Ahh. Out of sight, out of mind.” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 As we broaden our perspective,
    we deepen our foundation.
    We can never see more
    than we can allow ourselves to see.
    Growing up enables us to face all that can be seen
    and more than meets the eye.
    No growing,
    no seeing.
    The path of the Hero’s Journey
    carries us from the declaration
    of Col. Nathan R. Jessup
    in A Few Good Men
    “You can’t handle the truth!”
    To the place of being able to face, handle and serve
    “The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth”
    in each situation as it arises
    all our life long.
  55. 07/27/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 27, 2016 Our life prepares us for the life that remains to be lived,
    IF we meet it with receptivity
    and not resistance.
    We can refuse the developmental tasks,
    turn down the invitations to grow up,
    make excuse after excuse for walking away
    from the trials and ordeals
    that would call forth our gifts
    and ground us in the confidence
    of our own authority,
    our own values,
    our own mind.
    The door to the future is ours to open.
    Our past provides us either with exactly what we need,
    or nothing we can use
    depending on the value we place on our experiences,
    and the degree to which we reflect on them
    to form new realizations.
    The stone the builders reject
    is the chief cornerstone.
    The past we despise and reject
    is our ticket to a future of amazing worth.
    It all turns on how we see what we look at.
  56. 07/28/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 There is suffering,
    and there is transcending suffering,
    rising above suffering,
    living beyond suffering–
    into hope, compassion, meaning and purpose.
    This is the scope of the Hero’s Journey.
    “He was a man of sorrows,
    acquainted with grief,
    on him was the chastisement
    that makes us whole.”
    That man is Everyman/EveryWoman.
    His/her path is the path of Everyone.
    On us all is the chastisement
    That makes us all whole,
    by bearing the pain of existence,
    the weight of time and chance
    pressing down on life and being,
    and enter the way of making
    our peace with the conditions and circumstances
    of our life—
    and living there the life that is ours to live,
    anyway, nevertheless, even so.
    Because we understand
    our trials and ordeals
    to be the matrix required
    to pull us forth—
    against our will—
    birthing us again and again
    for the work of wholeness,
    the work of being True Human Beings.
  57. 07/29/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 17 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 If I were to stand before you,
    I would ask you what you see
    when you look at me.
    This is the quintessential exercise in awareness.
    In order to see,
    we have to see our seeing.
    In order to see our seeing
    we have to say what we are seeing.
    We do not see–
    we cannot see–
    until we say what we see.
    Saying is seeing.
    without saying what we see,
    we are stopping too soon,
    and failing to see beyond appearances.
    We are walking through the world,
    seeing nothing of the world,
    relating to the world
    out of our history with the world,
    “Seeing” what we infer and presume to be the case—
    thinking we have seen,
    then we have only “remembered,”
    without pausing to wonder what “that” has to do with this.
  58. 07/29/2016 — The Death Tree is Down — Two guys and a chain saw removed the threat to me and the Glen, and all is as it needs to be — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina July 29, 2016 I’m still interested in what you see
    when you look at me,
    only this time,
    look beyond my appearance
    into what it suggests about me.
    What do my eyes reveal about my inner nature—
    my choice of clothes?
    my facial expression?
    my body language?
    What values, qualities, characteristics are suggested
    by my manner and style?
    Use this exercise with
    people you meet on the street,
    people who ride with you on the elevator,
    who live in your neighborhood,
    who work in your building…
    This is a projective technique,
    like a Rorschach Inkblot test,
    that says more about you than the other people.
    They show you who you are.
    you see yourself reflected back to you in them.
    They are mirrors
    showing you to you in a particular point in time.
    They are doorways into a meditation,
    an introspection,
    of you.
    We see in others what we long for in ourselves,
    or what we fear might be in ourselves,
    or what we cannot face in ourselves.
    What holes are being filled by what we see in them?
    What buttons are being pushed?
    What resentments and hostilities are being loosed?
    What needs and longings are being stirred?
    How does what we say about them
    relate to what needs to be faced in ourselves?
    To what needs to be affirmed and celebrated in ourselves?
    To what needs to be embraced and exhibited in ourselves?
    In what ways do we need to become them?
    In what ways do we need to see that we are them?
    What can they show us about who we are?
  59. 07/30/2016 — Cypress Trees 2015 02 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We are back-and-forth between worlds,
    walking two paths at the same time.
    The Glen occasionally lies beneath the flight path
    of airliners on their landing approach
    to Charlotte International Airport.
    Nothing like that for disturbing the peace.
    This morning a Wren was chirping
    during and between flights.
    My attention was yanked from the Wren
    to the airliner, to the wren, to the next airliner…
    In this world, in that world, in this world…
    That is how it is between the worlds for all of us
    much–or most–of the time.
    Now we see it, now we don’t.
    Now we are with it, now we aren’t.
    Now we are in the flow, now we are out of flow.
    With the Wren, I was at one with the natural world,
    to be torn out of that world into the noisy reality
    of the other world.
    Parallel worlds in space and time.
    From at one with the way of things
    to dishevel, disruption, distraction…
    Yet,
    that, too, is the way of things.
    The rhythm of life.
    In and out,
    ebb and flow
    coming and going…
    There is no static, steady, way of being.
    Life is dynamic, in flux, transformative, always moving, ALIVE.
    The flow is always in place–
    chaos and disorder are different phases of order and harmony.
    We take it all in,
    make peace with it all,
    allow it all to be,
    allow ourselves to be at one with it all,
    holding everything in our awareness,
    we come back to the center in upheaval and calm.
  60. 07/31/2016 — The Vine Begins — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 28, 2016 The Psyche is, among other things,
    that which has always been called “God.”
    The experience of—the encounter with—
    Psyche breaking forth into our life,
    is to experience—encounter—a reality
    that can only be described as “numinous.”
    It has been thought of, and called,
    “An experience with God,”
    through the ages.
    To understand/interpret that experience/encounter
    as evidence of Psychic reality,
    is to lay aside all the theologies, dogmas, doctrines, rituals and religions,
    and to take up the life-long work
    of understanding/comprehending/applying
    the meaning of the term,
    “Thy will, not mine, be done.”
    Aligning ourselves with—living in accord with—
    the self-reflecting internal guidance system
    of the Psyche living through us
    to express, exhibit, incarnate, reveal, become
    itself in our life
    is to know the wonder of the realization
    that we cannot express Psyche
    without being ourselves.
    We bring Psyche forth in our life
    by being who we are:
    “Thou Art That.”
    “The Father And I Are One.”
    “All Is One.”
    “One is All.”
    Who would have thought it?
    Who can deny it?
    Only those to do not know the truth of
    their own experience.
  61. 07/31/2016 — Crane Fly Orchid 2016 01 Detail — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 30, 2016 If you have a problem
    and don’t know what to do,
    sit quietly with it,
    holding it—
    and your anxiety about it—
    in your awareness,
    without running from the pain
    by changing the subject
    or forcing a solution before its time.
    Simply sit quietly with the problem
    and all of its ramifications.
    And see what occurs to you.
    If, after 20 minutes or so,
    nothing has happened,
    make an appointment with the silence
    in order to return to it at a particular time and place—
    if something occurs to you
    in the meantime,
    receive it thankfully,
    and be glad.
  62. 08/01/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 14 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 28, 2016 — We have here an adult, probably the male, teaching this year’s juvenile, how to find food. The adult will fly to the young bird and feed it, as though it is in the nest, much like Anne Sullivan signed “water” in the palm of Helen Keller, until it makes the connection and can feed itself in the world it is about to enter on its own. We have to guard our own solitude,
    defend our own peace,
    be strong in the service of our own soul.
    We have to learn how to feed ourselves physically and spiritually.
    We are responsible for the life we are living–
    for living the life that is ours to live.
    “What life am I living?”
    “What future am I serving?”
    “How will I bring myself forth in the time that remains?”
  63. 08/02/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 2, 2016 Wisdom is
    seeing what you look at
    and looking at everything.
    Knowing what you know
    and knowing what you don’t know.
    Knowing what’s what
    and what needs to be done about it
    In each situation as it arises.
    And doing it.
    May we all be so wise
    all our life long!
  64. 08/03/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 1, 2016 Our place is to remember our place
    and not strive for more
    than is necessary
    to find our life
    and live it.
    In light of this
    I offer you what could be
    a daily blessing:
    May we live within our limits
    and not seek more than is appropriate
    an any situation as it arises,
    may we be content to let our life be our life,
    and allow our realizations to come upon us in their own time,
    holding everything in our awareness,
    doing what needs to be done about it,
    and letting that be that.
  65. 08/04/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 3, 2016 Irrationality has been around for millions of years
    longer than logic and reason.
    Guess what logic and reason
    don’t stand a chance against.
    In the conflict with irrationality
    logic and reason can only hold their ground
    against all logic and reason,
    bearing the pain of opposition,
    holding out in the service of transcendence–
    which itself is illogical and unreasonable–
    hoping against hope
    (Which also is illogical and unreasonable)
    for the unthinkable, unimaginable, impossible
    (Ditto)
    to happen–
    for a shift to occur beyond all expectation,
    transcending the polarities
    and making possible
    a new way of perceiving/understanding/interpreting
    the situation
    (Which is called in some circles “growing up”).
    We can only hope
    to grow beyond
    the ridiculous and absurd
    (And for the ridiculous and absurd
    To grow beyond themselves).
    We will never
    talk them into becoming
    logical, reasonable and sane.
  66. 08/04/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 4, 2016 We are responsible for knowing where our peace
    is to be found,
    and guarding it with diligence, devotion, dedication and determination.
    Where is your peace found?
    You have to know!
    No one is going to say,
    “Honey, don’t you worry.
    I’ll see to it that nothing robs you of your peace.”
    We are on our own.
    Our life is up to us.
    Our peace is ours to find, protect and serve.
  67. 08/05/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 4, 2016 Doing “the right thing”
    can, often enough, be the wrong thing to do.
    How do we know
    when to do what?
    We don’t know
    when to do what.
    Knowing what we don’t know
    is an aspect
    of knowing what we know.
    Knowing that we don’t know
    when doing “the right thing”
    may well be the wrong thing,
    slows us down
    and invites us to reflect,
    to consider the possibilities,
    to consult the Inner Guide,
    to see what our stomach,
    and other parts of our body,
    has/have to say in the matter,
    to look for the “Uh-oh Feeling.”
    To see what we know
    about what we don’t know,
    and allow what resonates with us
    to take the lead—
    Ready to back out of there
    at the first sign
    of a red flag.
    Do not automatically override
    your disinclination
    to do “the right thing.” Look.
    Listen.
    Attend.
  68. 08/05/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 Mother Nature is a monster.
    All that beauty,
    all those harmonies,
    are what remains of calamity, devastation, destruction and death.
    Out of death comes life
    and back into death it goes.
    The planets and solar systems in their orbits
    are the results of collisions, explosions and implosions
    unimaginable and unsurvivable.
    Wonderful Yellowstone National Park
    rests on the top crust of an active caldera
    that has blown a number of times
    and will blow again—
    perhaps bringing on a nuclear winter,
    and another “near extinction” of life on the planet.
    God makes masterpieces
    with a sickle and a scythe.
    And we have to make our peace with that.
    However, we choose, instead, to go with denial and distraction,
    and religion becomes an accessory to the lie
    instead of an agent of accommodation and acquiescence.
    We need to be able to live in the world as it is,
    in accord with the world as it is.
    Such is the essence of integration, transcendence and harmony.
    Anything less is a mask for the emptiness
    that comes with knowing
    what we cannot allow ourselves to acknowledge.
  69. 08/05/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 30, 2016 Elvis died empty and alone.
    Proving once again the old adage,
    money can’t buy you what you need.
    And drugs, alcohol and sex, sex, sex
    can’t give you what you need.
    What you need is waiting for you
    to live an authentic life
    in ways that align inner with outer,
    and exhibit true integrity of being with living.
    When we are who we are
    in life, word and deed,
    we have what we need,
    and no one can take it away from us,
    or give us anything more.
    We have it all,
    and it is apparent
    in the way we live
    day-to-day
    throughout our life.
  70. 08/06/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 We cannot grow up
    without being different
    in significant ways. How different can we be?
    we need to be different in some ways.
    We have no business being different in some ways.
    We are wasting our time trying to be different in some ways.
    Here’s the plan:
    Our task is simple.
    We have to sit with the problem
    (This applies to all problems)
    of what needs to be different about us,
    and hold in our awareness
    the matter of what needs to be different about us,
    and what can be different about us
    and what has no business being different about us—
    and see what changes arise
    out of that contemplation.
    The rest of our life is no more difficult than that.
    We see
    and we wait to see.
    We don’t DO anything.
    We SEE everything.
    The doing arises spontaneously from the seeing.
    See?
  71. 08/06/2016 — Crane Fly Orchid 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 2, 2016 The experience of the Buddha under the Bodhi Tree,
    the experience of Jesus in the wilderness,
    are easily replicated in our own experience,
    simply by sitting quietly,
    or lying in a hammock in the stillness of a natural setting.
    The silence is never silent,
    either externally or internally.
    Attend what arises in the silence,
    and what arises in response to what arises,
    and what arises in response to that…
    holding the entire train of associations in your awareness—
    seeing how this corresponds to that,
    and what that means in light of this…
    Simply attend the whole circus
    including all that arises in response to the circus in the circus,
    enlarging the circus to include everything.
    See what occurs to you as you take it all into account.
    See what insights and realizations come to mind.
    And if you feel like you are in the circus
    and not observing it,
    remember your breath.
    Inhale deeply through your nose,
    exhale slowly through your mouth,
    and bring yourself back
    to this here, this now,
    this space, this time.
    The Buddha grounded himself by touching the earth.
    Jesus grounded himself by eating and drinking.
    Carl Jung worked with stones and mortar.
    Physical reality grounds us in this world
    as we explore that world.
    Without a foundation here,
    there is only empty wandering there.
    And without exploring there,
    there is only empty wandering here.
  72. 08/07/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 16 – Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 We are each capable of all of the responses
    humans have ever made
    to situations humans have faced
    in the course of their lives.
    My wife’s peace of mind,
    and her freedom to work without anxiety
    in the flower beds,
    and that of the grandchildren
    playing croquet on the lawn
    mean more to me than
    any snake slithering through the yard.
    The snakes better take the long way around.
    Mother Nature is a monster,
    and we are her children.
    The Hero’s Journey pulls from us
    what needs to come forth
    to meet whatever situations arise.
    We cannot hold anything back
    that would be appropriate to the occasion,
    no matter how reprehensible it might be
    in other settings.
    Do not be ashamed to offer what is needed
    in the moment it is called for.
    The Dalai Lama’s bodyguards
    carry automatic weapons
    to dissuade all snakes considering
    slithering through the yard.
  73. 08/07/2016 — Cypress Trees 05 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 What we seek in our
    saviors,
    heroes,
    idols,
    and loves,
    is to be found only in ourselves.
    What is missing
    is what is ignored,
    dismissed,
    disregarded,
    discounted
    and despised The stone that the builders rejected.
    The pearl of great price in the costume jewelry counter.
    Like a root out of dry ground,
    he was loathed and abhorred.
    And he is also a she.
    Living within each of us,
    waiting to be recognized
    and invited to become a full partner with us
    in living the life
    that remains to be lived.
  74. 08/08/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 02, 2016 There is no substitute for
    having the right kind of people
    in our life,
    and no immunity against
    what having the wrong kind of people
    can do there.
    The right or wrong kind of people
    are like our genetic make-up,
    And more important.
    we stand helpless before
    the decree of Fate—
    and work out our destiny
    under the burden or grace
    of that initial given.
    And it is important to remember
    that we have nothing to do
    with the people who receive us
    from the womb
    and are charged with our care and tending,
    setting the trend for the karmic matrix
    of our life.
    Things would be better
    for us all
    with a better start,
    and better help,
    along the way, here we are.
    now what?
    We start with not blaming ourselves
    for what we have to work with,
    and then we get to work
    with the practice of developing
    mindful awareness
    and applying it throughout our life—
    looking until we see,
    listening until we hear,
    pondering, inquiring, reflecting,
    until we understand what’s what
    and what needs to be done about it
    in each situation as it arises.
    all our life long.
  75. 08/08/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 7, 2016 If you are not occasionally weighed down
    with sadness and remorse
    over various aspects
    of the way things are,
    you are in denial.
    We cannot discount, disregard, dismiss, gloss over and/or brush aside
    any part of the truth
    of the world we go to sleep in every night
    and the world we wake up to every morning
    “Because Jesus is coming soon
    And it will all be made up to us in heaven.”
    We cannot use the good to dispense with the bad.
    tragedy and elation,
    joy and sorrow,
    bliss and desolation
    do not cancel each other out.
    We bear the pain—
    we live in the tension—
    of the polarities of the experience
    of being human,
    and carry in our bodies
    the wounds of
    “All that is grave and constant” (James Joyce)
    in the lives of all people
    in every age.
    It is our birthright and our obligation
    to open ourselves fully
    to the impact of having lived—
    to know “the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth”
    of what it is to be human.
    And to say,
    as it has been said before us,
    “We have seen all there is to be seen,
    and it is good!
    and we love it so!” —
    because that, too, is true.
  76. 08/09/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 03 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 If we play our cards right,
    What???
    What’s the desired outcome
    of playing our cards right?
    We live to exploit and enhance
    our position, don’t we?
    We live with
    wealth, privilege, profit, benefit and advantage in mind,
    don’t we?
    Barring those things,
    what’s the point?
    What is a really good effort worth
    if it doesn’t win the gold?
    And what is winning the gold worth
    if it doesn’t produce
    wealth, privilege, benefit and advantage?
    Joseph Campbell said
    the central point of the Bhagavad Gita is
    “Get in there and do your thing,
    and don’t worry about the outcome!”
    Play your cards right
    for the sake of playing your cards right
    and let that be enough.
    That is the essence of every life
    lived with integrity.
    Jesus and the Buddha head the list
    of those who did it with
    all their heart
    for nothing beyond having done it
    that way.
  77. 08/09/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 9, 2016 — A composite photo combining 8 different images of the same Goldfinch.

    Donald Trump’s supporters are strongly in favor of
    sending Latino immigrants back to Mexico and beyond,
    and building a wall along the border between the US
    and the other Americas—
    and sending all Muslims,
    whether immigrants or natural-born US Citizens,
    back to their homeland
    (Never mind that this country IS THEIR HOMELAND
    by birth or adoption via naturalization).
    Let us then put the three groups together,
    Trump’s supporters, Latinos and Muslims,
    and ask, “Which group
    has no idea of what it means to be a United States Citizen?
    Which group has no understanding whatsoever
    of what it means to pledge allegiance to this Republic
    ‘with Liberty and Justice for All’?
    Which group has no grasp of the Constitution,
    of the liberties it guarantees
    and the responsibilities it requires us to accept?
    Which group has no conception of civility,
    much less of civil rights?”
    And “Why doesn’t that group pack up
    and hie out to some hinterland
    where they could hate everyone
    to their shriveled little heart’s content?”
  78. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 08/11/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 9, 2016 Start with your favorite religion
    and ask whomever gave it to you
    how they know that
    what they have been told about it is so.
    They will say something like
    “Everyone knows that it is so.”
    Or, “Everyone who knows knows that it is so—
    And this has always been so.”
    Everyone’s favorite religion
    goes back into the dim regions
    when The One Who Knew It First Knew It Is So.
    Everyone’s favorite religion—
    and all of the other ones as well—
    was/were made up long ago by someone who said,
    “I tell you, this is so!
    from that point,
    every religion is held to be the one true religion
    by those who have verified its validity for themselves
    In their own experience.
    Belief is self-validating.
    Try to talk a schizophrenic out of what they know to be so.
    “Reason cannot uproot what reason did not plant.”
    At some point, every religion has to be
    “Taken on faith.”
    It has to be believed to be so in order to be so
    in the experience of those who so believe.
    It is all made up.
    Like schizophrenia.
    The internal process of self-verification/validation
    takes over from there,
    and what we say is so is so
    because we say so.
    “Never mind what the facts are,
    We know what the TRUTH is!”
  79. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 08/11/2016 — First Leaves of Fall 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 11, 2016 — The Black Gum loves to beat the gun, and is known throughout the south as “The Show-off of the forest.” If we are going to make up something to believe,
    and we have no choice in the matter,
    if we believe there is nothing worth believing,
    we make that up.
    We make up whatever we believe.
    And since that is the case,
    I suggest believing with all our heart
    that what we do matters,
    that the life we live matters—
    and that we live as though it does
    in everything we do.
    We vote, for instance, like our vote matters.
    We respond to the other people in our life
    as though the way we respond
    makes all the difference in their life.
    We live in each moment
    as though there are no throw-away moments.
    We rise to each occasion
    as though each one is the most important occasion yet,
    and needs our full attention
    and complete participation.
    I write these notes to you
    as though they are the swing point
    from dark to light
    in your life.
    You can tell me they are not
    if you want to,
    but I’m not going to believe you.
  80. 08/12/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 11, 2016 How is your life style
    interfering with your life?
    Blocking your life?
    Preventing your life?
    Killing your life?
    If you are clueless about what I’m asking,
    here’s a different way of putting it:
    How are your symptoms
    interfering with your life?
    When our life style
    keeps us from living our life,
    our symptoms show up,
    move in,
    make themselves at home.
    And we spend our time
    dealing with our symptoms—
    time that would be spent
    living our life,
    if our life style weren’t in the way.
  81. 08/012/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 If you aren’t pursuing your life—
    what it means to live your life,
    to give yourself fully to the expression of who you are
    by the way you live your life—
    with complete devotion, loyalty, dedication and determination
    in the time left for living,
    you’re just passing the time,
    hoping to be entertained and comfortable,
    until you die.
    You are a spectator,
    not a participant,
    and nothing can be done for you
    in any substantive way.
    What you need can only be generated from within:
    Heart, soul, courage, spirit, the will to live…
    These things are an inside job.
    You are all up to you
    while life is yet possible
  82. 08/12/2016 — Goodale 2015 31 — Overflow, Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We are here to bring ourselves forth
    to meet our life.
    What happens to us
    will arrest our development,
    or grow us up.
    Will open us to the hidden possibilities within,
    or close us off from the gifts we carry.
    Will deepen us,
    or consign us forever to wade in the shallows.
    Will call us out,
    or lock us away.
    Will wake us up,
    or numb us out.
    You get the idea.
    We are here to live our life to the full truth
    of who we are,
    so that nothing remains unlived without
    or unknown within.
    We have the time left for living to be alive.
  83. 08/13/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 19 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 12, 2016 We seek in others
    what is to be found within.
    We see in others
    what is to be seen within.
    What repels us about others
    resides denied, ignored, within—
    to be acknowledged,
    worked with,
    in softening ourselves
    into compassionate,
    welcoming places to be.
    “Thou Art That.”
    “Become What You Seek.”
    “Recognize How You Harbor What You Despise.”
    We are all variations on a theme.
    We reflect each other to each other.
    We are here to see what we are doing
    and live so as to bring forth in the world
    the gifts and qualities that reside within
    for the good of the whole.
  84. 08/13/2016 — Cottontail 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 Elvis had it all and it wasn’t enough.
    He wanted to be as big as Jesus—
    and thought he was.
    He was waiting for it to become apparent
    when he died.
    Elvis is our model
    for how not to do it.
    “I’m not the King. Jesus is the King. I’m just a singer.”
    The words fall flat.
    “Just a singer with aspirations bigger than life,”
    would be more like it.
    How to contain our ambition is the question.
    How to live within ourselves—
    in accord with ourselves,
    is the other one.
    Jesus did it.
    Elvis didn’t.
    Where will we fall out on that continuum?
    The key is our degree of
    mindful awareness and self-transparency.
    Placing our attention in the service
    of those things
    would be fitting and proper
    in all times and places.
  85. 08/14/2016 — Spillway — Adams Mill Pond, Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 All the tools of the spiritual journey:
    journals, coloring books, labyrinths, singing bowls, etc.
    are for creating space for ourselves to connect with ourselves—
    a space in which to commune with ourselves.
    The focus of meditation, contemplation, reflection
    is listening within—
    listening to ourselves,
    past all of the clamoring din of
    memories, regrets, fears, anxieties, worries, plans, schemes, etc.
    to/for the central voice,
    the voice of The One Who Knows What’s What.
    We are building a relationship
    with the center, ground, core, foundation of our life—
    establishing our identity,
    finding our own authority—
    by distancing ourselves from the background noise in our life,
    and making a place for ourselves.
    Solitude and silence connect us with us,
    and form a partnership for life.
    It’s all we’ve been missing.
  86. 08/14/2016 — Reelfoot Lake HDR 15 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeak, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 — This is a repeat, just because I like it, and why not? If we fully attended our life,
    the way we live it would be transformed completely
    over the time left for living.
    It starts with watching all of the
    Jon Kabat-Zinn You Tube videos
    and taking up the practice of mindfulness meditation,
    which asks practically nothing of us.
    What, exactly, then, is the problem?
    If you would prefer to go to a little trouble and expense,
    You could look up NHO Hammocks on Amazon,
    order their $49.95 hammock with Special Promotion Straps,
    put it up in some natural setting
    and practice your mindfulness meditation there
    as often as you can manage.
    You won’t get a better prescription
    with a better outcome
    from any of the people
    offering personal development
    and life transformation coaching
    anywhere in the known universe.
    So, what’s the problem?
  87. 08/15/2016 — Northern Flicker-yellow-banded 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 14, 2016 Tomorrow will be the 39th anniversary of Elvis’ death.
    At one point, near tears, Elvis asked his “spiritual advisor,”
    “Do you realize I’ll never know if a woman loves me or Elvis Presley?”
    His question begged the unasked question:
    “Is it more important for you to be you or to be Elvis Presley?”
    It’s the question we all live to answer:
    Is it more important to be ourselves or our image, our persona?
    Who are we trying to be?
    Who do we wish we were?
    What is Life?
    What is Death?
    Elvis’ life and death challenge us
    to ask, and answer, the questions.
  88. 08/16/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 14 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 15, 2016 There is YOU,
    and there is NOT YOU.
    We have to do plenty that is NOT YOU
    in order to pay the bills.
    We pay the bills in order to be YOU,
    where, and when, and how we can be.
    If we pay the bills in the service of thing that are NOT YOU,
    we play Double Jeopardy with our life,
    and live lost to ourselves,
    without hope in the world.
    We have to get together with ourselves,
    and do the things that are YOU,
    and be the YOU we are,
    in the time left for living.
    If not now, when?
  89. 08/17/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 06 — Two photos blended, using the same Goldfinch twice, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 16, 2016 Elvis missed his mother.
    An Eternal Boy needs a Perennial Mother.
    It doesn’t work that way,”
    and Eternal Boys have a hard time making it on their own.
    I think Elvis’ theme song was “Teddy Bear.”
    “I don’t want to be your tiger,
    tigers play too rough.
    I don’t want to be your lion,
    lions aren’t the kind
    you’ll love enough.
    Just want to be
    your teddy bear,
    put your arms
    around my neck
    and drag me anywhere—
    just want to be
    your teddy bear.”
    Our life requires us to grow up
    against our will.
    To find within what we seek without:
    Self-assurance, self-direction, self-correction, self-determination, self-reliance…
    The Foundation Stone, the Center, the Core, the Ground
    of our life and being
    can never be Mamma—
    can never be someone saying,
    “Come here, Honey, let me take care of that for you.”
    We are responsible for our own life–
    and that is not just earning a living
    (Elvis did that well).
    It is living to do what we live to do.
    Eternal Boys living to be loved enough,
    missed something somewhere along the way.
  90. 08/17/2016 — Katydid 2016 01 —On the way to the Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 14, 2016 Can you say no when no needs to be said
    without having to
    explain,
    defend,
    justify,
    excuse
    your position
    by having a reason
    that would make things,
    at least,
    understandable?
    Does your “No” have to be understandable,
    even to you?
  91. 08/18/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 17, 2016, A composite photograph combining seven photographs of the same bird at the bird bath/watering station. I would like to help you with your life,
    help connect you with your life,
    help you be who you are within the time and place,
    conditions and circumstances,
    of your living. Remember potty training?
    Remember the terrible twos?
    Remember kindergarten?
    Standing in line?
    Waiting your turn?
    Doing as you were/are told?
    The degree to which we are free to be who we are
    is sharply restricted by the time and place,
    conditions and circumstances,
    of our living.
    It’s one compromise after another.
    This business of being in accord with our life,
    being who we are, when and where and how things are with us,
    is completely ridiculous.
    Who can do it with any chance of success?
    enter addiction/alcoholism, suicide, severe mental illness,
    and deviant behaviors in the extreme—
    all reflecting an I Give Up And Quit perspective/orientation.
    This is the truth as clearly as it has ever been stated,
    and we need someone standing at the exit of the womb,
    giving us last minute instructions to this end
    just before we are born:
    It is all hopeless, pointless, useless and absurd—
    and comes to an inevitable and very bad end—
    and how you deal with that
    makes all the difference.
    When we step into the world,
    we enter a “terrible, horrible, no good, very bad” situation,
    and have to do what we can with it “even in Australia.”
    How well we put ourselves in accord
    with this over-arching truth
    governing all of life on the planet
    and live the best life we can live,
    in good faith with complete self-transparency,
    anyway,
    nevertheless,
    even so,
    for no reason beyond
    that’s the way we are going to do it,
    tells the tale.
  92. 08/19/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 16 — The Breakfast Club, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 18, 2016, A composite photograph combining two images of two female Goldfinches. The last church I served before retirement
    offered space for “A Gathering of Sojourners”
    for people to explore ways of deepening/expanding
    their experience of the Numen
    as they sought to find their life and live it.
    If we all had the availability of that kind of space,
    and that kind of gathering,
    we would have what we need
    to find what we need
    to do what needs to be done.
    What more would we need?
  93. 08/19/2016 — Crane Fly Orchid 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 18, 2016 We all know how nice it would be to have help from on high (or anywhere)
    in dealing with the deep needs of life,
    like food, and water, and encroaching Bad Guys.
    We all need a sanctuary where we can express our fear and anguish,
    and invoke the benevolent powers to intervene in our behalf.
    Where do you go to find help with what you need?
    Carl Jung said whenever we encounter something mysterious
    we project our own assumptions onto it.
    We tell ourselves things about it that make sense to us—
    and have nothing whatsoever to do with what we experience.
    We create a religion and talk about “the man upstairs.”
    There is no man.
    There are no stairs.
    Jung also said, “In each of us there is another whom we do not know.”
    He is speaking of the Deep Self in the unconscious psyche.
    We project outward what is inward,
    and seek “out there” beyond the cosmos,
    the source of consolation and reassurance—
    that ever-present help in time of trouble—
    that dwells within.
    To access The One Who Knows within,
    we have to learn the language of soul,
    and become friends with silent reflection,
    holding in our awareness,
    the full truth of the present moment,
    and see what occurs to us,
    allowing that to draw
    us forth into the field of action.
  94. 08/20/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 18 — Just Out Of The Nest, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 19, 2016 If it isn’t a part of your field of focus,
    it is a part of your zone of distraction.
    It is about the work.
    not about the ambitions,
    the dreams,
    the plans,
    the agendas, the aspirations…
    There is the work
    and there is all that is keeping us from doing the work.
    The work is our life,
    our business,
    our reason for being.
    We can talk about “taking care of business,”
    but it has to be the right business
    we are taking care of.
    If anything is wrong about your life,
    if you are dealing with symptoms,
    worries,
    anxieties,
    the sense that things are not right,
    out of sync,
    unraveling,
    falling apart,
    disintegrating before your eyes, You are off the beam,
    chasing after that which is not IT.
    Sit quietly,
    Holding everything in your awareness,
    until something emerges
    that you know to be IT,
    and do what needs to be done about it.
    Stay focused on it.
    Live to serve it with your life,
    past all of the attractive wonders
    and beautiful possibilities
    that are not IT.
    Get IT down
    and you have it made,
    and the rest of the world
    along with you.
  95. 08/21/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 8, 2016 The two essential things
    that you don’t have enough of in your life
    are stillness and silence.
    It takes a lot of both
    to discover and live out of
    your center, ground, and foundation
    in all conditions, contexts, and circumstances,
    in each situation as it arises
    your whole life long.
    Stillness and silence
    are the two things we most decisively avoid.
    We take sleeping aids
    to help us sleep away the nights
    and avoid facing the stillness/silence
    with all that brings to our attention.
    We cannot deal with the monsters and madness waiting there.
    The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    Jesus in the wilderness,
    could tell us a thing or two about monsters and madness,
    and about the ministering angles,
    and the helpful spirits,
    that are also present to help us face what must be faced:
    The truth of how it is with us.
    We cannot be anything until we can be quiet
    on a regular basis,
    and come to terms with all that is to be found there.
  96. 08/21/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 7, 2016 Two of the monsters we meet in the silence,
    when we are still and quiet,
    are called:
    That Which We Have Done Or Failed To Do, and
    That Which Happened To Us Or Failed to Happen.
    We have to face squarely
    and come to terms with
    our disappointments and betrayals,
    self-induced and perpetuated by others,
    or brought on by circumstances beyond anyone’s control.
    “This is the way it has been in my life,
    and this is the way it has not been,
    and this is what I have done in response
    up to this point,
    and this is what I need to do about it now.”
    As a Phoenix rises from its own ashes,
    so do we all—
    in living toward where we are going,
    out of where we have been.
  97. 08/21/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 04 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 21, 2016 We have to make our peace with our past
    and with our present—
    in a “Here We Are, Now What?” kind of way.
    Regardless of what our past has been,
    and no matter what our present is,
    they have gotten us here, now.
    What now, is the question.
    Where we are going is more important
    than where we have been,
    or where we are.
    What we have learned to this point in our life
    will be invaluable in the next phase—
    the one beginning now.
    As we step into our future,
    three tools will provide us with
    all we need to find our life and live it:
    Mindfulness,
    Compassion,
    and Courage.
    Those three things will enable us
    to live transparent to ourselves
    and keep good faith with ourselves
    and all sentient beings.
    Everything will fall into place around this.

One Minute Monologues 033

May 15, 2016 – June 29, 2016

  1. 05/15/2016 — No one can tell you what your business is.
    No one can tell you what is meaningful to you.
    No one can tell you what is important to you.
    No one can tell you what makes your heart sing.
    No one can tell you what you love.
    No one can tell you where your life is to be found. Why do you listen to everyone on the planet
    Except yourself?
    Why do you allow just anyone
    To lead you away from what
    Is central,
    Foundational,
    Essential and primary
    To you?
    To give you boxes of smoke
    And bags of sawdust
    As substitutes
    For the grounding core of your life and being?
    Whose. Side. Are. You. On?
  2. 05/16/2016 —Great Solomon’s Seal 2016 02 Panorama — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 The test is always the same
    For the heroes of every generation:
    Do you have what it takes
    To do what is hard?
    It is never any more difficult
    Than doing what is hard.
    Odysseus leads the way:
    “I will endure through suffering hardship,
    And when the heaving sea
    Has shaken my raft to pieces,
    Then I will swim!”
    Suffering the hardship
    Of our trials and ordeals
    Is the nature of the Hero’s Journey,
    And the only thing required of those
    Who seek the treasure hard to find.
  3. 05/16/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 13 B&W — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You have to make some decisions
    When it comes to the Spiritual Quest,
    The Hero’s Journey.
    One is “Whose life is it?”
    If you are trying to get some invisible help
    With achieving your goals, aims, desires, purposes,
    That’s one thing.
    If you are trying to assist some invisible intention
    By aligning yourself with its goals, aims, desires, purposes,
    That’s another thing.
    You cannot blend the two things.
    What do you think
    “Thy will, not mine, be done”
    Means?
    But don’t get Christian (Or Jewish) theology and doctrine
    Mixed up in this.
    It’s just you and your life.
    That would be you and your relationship with your life.
    Think in terms of your life’s will for your life
    And your will for your life.
    How does your life want to be lived?
    How does your life want you to live it?
    How far is the life you are living
    From the life that wants to be lived?
    Sit quietly and contemplate these things
    And see what occurs to you.
    You aren’t trying to think something up.
    You are watching your mind
    To see what comes along.
    Take up the practice of watching your mind
    To see what occurs to you.
  4. 05/17/2016 —Goodale 2015 53 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Your routine has to allow enough quiet time
    For you to seek the solace of silence,
    Become mindfully aware
    Of your life and your place in it,
    And watch/listen for what occurs to you
    Spontaneously
    On its own,
    Out of the heaving sea
    Of your context and circumstances,
    Surprising you with its
    Simplicity and relevance,
    And suggesting possibilities
    You would never think up
    Using only the left side of your brain.
  5. 05/17/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 14 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You can’t just go sit down somewhere
    When the mood strikes you
    And be quiet for 10 minutes
    And think you have done something.
    You have to cultivate a culture of silence
    So that it forms the source and ground
    Of your life—
    So that your life depends on the quietness
    As much as on food and water.
    Soul food is silence.
    But it takes regular,
    Recurring,
    Returns to silence—
    It takes immersions in silence—
    To get past “being quiet”
    And enter into The Great Quietness From Which All Things Come.
    It takes the practice of silence
    To come alive in the silence
    And know it as the origin of life and being.
  6. 05/17/2016 —Blurred Leaves 2016 01 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 The Big Surprise about retirement and aging
    Is the ease with which things I am not interested in
    Deplete and exhaust me.
    My doctor asks me at each year’s physical exam,
    “How’s your energy level.”
    Each year, I tell him,
    “I have plenty for the things I like to do.”
    Walking around the block is a pain and a chore.
    Walking in search of an owl is a joy.
    I used to be able to kid myself.
    My body no longer plays the game.
  7. 05/18/2016 —Hatteras Sunrise 2003 — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, NC, October 2003 Every photograph is a dance with synchronicity.
    I get up to take a sunrise at the beach and meet this.
    I go to the restroom at McDowell and the owl flies by.
    Each photo is the intersection of me with time and place,
    And stands as a reminder
    Of the sacredness of all our times and places.
    Every one of them.
    The ones we miss on our way to somewhere else.
    The ones we don’t have time for
    Because we have to be in some other place.
    This sunrise would slow down even the most pressed traveler,
    But the closer we look everywhere
    The more there is to see.
    Time is sacred.
    Place is holy.
    It only takes looking
    To see it is so.
  8. 05/18/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 08 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 If you are going to know anything,
    Know where to draw the line.
    That is knowing that establishes your identity.
    It is your rock and your foundation,
    Your stabilizing force and your guiding light.
    When you know where to draw the line,
    You know all you need to know
    To know what you need to know.
    It grounds you in all your inquiring and exploring.
    Secures you in all your wondering and imagining.
    You can go anywhere when you know where to draw the line.
    Scale any heights.
    Span any chasm.
    Plumb any depth.
    You have it made when you know where to draw the line,
    And are never without the confidence
    Of your own sense of what is right for you,
    And what is wrong.
  9. 05/19/2016 — Four Daisies 2016 01 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 17, 2015 The people who decry “political correctness”
    Brandish hatred.
    I ask you:
    Is it better to display
    Respect, kindness, compassion, civility, courtesy, understanding and benevolent, positive, regard
    For one another,
    Or to deepen divides, instill fear, and spawn hatred and distrust?
    You tell me the kind of person
    You want to be your Governor
    And your President.
  10. 05/19/2016 —Christmas Fern 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You know what your life is,
    And what it is not.
    You may not think you know what it is,
    But you know that you know what it is not.
    You also know what it is—
    It just isn’t what you think it should be.
    You are looking for some bigger, finer life.
    Some life that will take you somewhere,
    Some life you could ride to fame and fortune and glory everlasting.
    My life is looking out the window,
    And getting to the bottom of things.
    Does that give you an idea of the kind of life you are looking for?
    My life is also seeing how things could work,
    Making connections
    Interpreting things properly.
    These are the things I’m good at,
    And things I enjoy doing.
    But they won’t pay the mortgage.
    The life that is our life to live won’t likely pay the bills.
    We will have to do something else for that.
    But, we always have to keep our eye on our real life,
    And give it our full attention on a regular basis.
    You know what I’m talking about.
    You just have to know what you know.
    Once you get you out of the way,
    There it is.
  11. 05/20/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 16 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 We size things up
    And do what needs to be done about them
    The way only we can do it.
    Lao Tzu finally said, “The hell with it,”
    And walked off to live alone in the forest.
    Yoda holed-up on Dagobah.
    Sometimes, you have to walk away and wait it out.
    There are no scripts to follow,
    No equations to compute to know when to do what.
    WE size things up
    And WE decide what needs to be done about them
    The way only WE can do it.
    It’s all on us.
    We have to live our life the way we think it needs to be lived
    In each situation as it arises.
    It begins with seeing what we look at.
    And looking at everything.
  12. 05/20/2016 —Pitcher Plants 2016 05 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 We are being who we are
    When we see what we look at,
    When we hear what we listen to,
    When we taste what we taste,
    When we smell what we smell,
    When we touch what we touch,
    When we think what we think,
    When we know what we know,
    When we feel what we feel,
    When we love what we love,
    When we honor what is important to us,
    When we live in accord
    With what is deepest, truest and best about us,
    When we are grounded on the foundation
    Of our own experience
    And trust ourselves to have what we need
    To find what we need
    To be who we are
    In the context and circumstances of our life.
  13. 05/20/2016 —Goodale 2016 03 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 In the silence—
    That would be,
    Not just any silence,
    But the right kind of silence—
    We become “the still point of the turning world.”
    And we see all that can be seen,
    And know the things that can be known
    Exactly as they are.
    And that seeing,
    That knowing,
    Becomes for us as a guiding light
    Directing us
    To what needs us to do it
    In each situation as it arises.
    This is the power of the still point.
    Our place is to carry the stillness
    With us when we leave the silence,
    As a blessing and a grace
    Upon the situations that,
    And the people who,
    Come our way.
    It is not for our merit or advantage
    That we serve the stillness.
    There is nothing to exploit,
    no gain to seek.
    It is enough to be still
    And to see, and know, and do
    As a blessing and a grace.
  14. 05/21/2016 —Goodale 2015 54 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Life is lived between what we can do
    And what we cannot do—
    Between what we will do
    And what we will not do.
    It is lived best
    When we do not kid ourselves
    About which is which.
  15. 05/21/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 17 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 A Vision Quest is a search for our essential identity—
    The shape is to assume—
    How we are to mold ourselves
    In accordance with the dictates of heart and soul.
    A Sumo wrestler requires a different regimen
    Than a harpist.
    How might we bring out the we we are built to be?
    Our interests, proclivities, gifts and abilities
    Lend themselves to a particular mode of expression.
    How do we give form to our content?
    The answer is not to be thought,
    But to be seen, heard, felt.
    We do not know we are in love
    By thinking about it.
    We do not get to our heart/soul through our head
    But through our body!
    Listen to your body!
    It will show you the way!
    Our Vision Quest
    Is to see what our body has to say.
  16. 05/22/2016 —Pamlico Sound Sunset — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, Outer Banks, NC, October, 2012 There is grief and mourning, joy and gladness, but.
    There is very little drama in the natural world.
    Things happen there for good and for ill,
    And no matter what, life finds a way.
    Grounded in our own life,
    In our own particular way of being in the world,
    We will find a way.
    We are as resilient and as resourceful
    As any life-form ever in the history of life-forms.
    Once we step aside from the drama—
    The OMG’s and the Why Me’s and the When Will It Be My Turn—
    And take a reckoning of what has happened
    And what needs to be done about it,
    We will find ourselves doing what it takes
    To deal with the deal
    And make the best of the situation
    Like the servants of life that we are.
  17. 05/22/2016 —Two Daisies 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 17, 2015 We have to live in the stillness
    Long enough and frequently enough
    To be able to live out of the stillness
    When we are not in it.
    The stillness has to become one with us,
    So that it defines us
    And we learn from it—
    And exhibit it in all of our interactions
    With the world of
    Normal, apparent, reality.
    We become the source of the world’s stillness
    By the way we live in the world. We also have to hold the world at a distance
    In order to keep the noise
    Of the 10,000 things from drowning the silent stillness
    At the core of our being.
    We have to begin noting the things and the people
    Who rob us of our stillness,
    Recognize them as being toxic to our soul,
    And find ways to limit our time in their presence—
    And compensate ourselves
    With double doses of silence
    Whenever we cannot avoid them.
    We have to live in the stillness
    To be able to live out of it,
    And living out of it transforms the world.
  18. 05/25/2016 —Four Seasons Creek 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 21, 2016 The work of becoming human
    Is the work of becoming the best individual
    We are capable of being.
    Best and worst are competing within
    For the control of our life.
    As conscious egos,
    We have to make the peace,
    Heal the breach,
    Reconcile the differences,
    Integrate the polarities
    Restore wholeness
    And live as One.
    The best individual we are capable of being
    Is a compromise and a collaboration
    Of the best and the worst of our innate potential.
    We work it out
    In each situation as it arises—
    Never being quite as good,
    Or as bad,
    As we could be,
    But always being who we are and also are.
  19. Used in Short Talks On Contradictions, etc., 05/23/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 34 — Shady Hollow Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 21, 2016 The work of becoming whole
    Is the work of consciousness,
    The work of mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness,
    The work of seeing (what we look at),
    Hearing (what is being said, verbally and non-verbally),
    And understanding (what’s what on all levels).
    It is the work of bearing the realization of our contradictions,
    Living within the tension of our conflicts,
    Transcending our polarities,
    And knowing what we know.
    It is the work of being transparent to ourselves,
    And accomplished in the art of integrity/integration.
    That’s wholeness for you.
  20. 05/23/2016 —Christmas Fern 2016 02 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 There is nothing new in the field of human experience.
    We’ve seen it all before.
    Bungee jumping may be a new way to be stupid,
    But being stupid has been around forever.
    There are new ways to work
    But working is nothing new.
    Free love and open marriage and gay marriage
    Are new, geologically speaking,
    But the problems of living together
    Are as old as sex itself.
    There are no new experiences.
    Why are we still walking into walls and off cliffs?
    Why haven’t we figured out war?
    Why do we keep responding
    To the same old experiences
    In the same old ways?
    Why is it so easy to be stupid,
    After all these years?
  21. 05/23/2016 —Honeysuckle 2016 02 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 5, 2016 There is no ideology.
    No theology.
    No doctrine.
    No creed.
    Nothing to deliver you
    Or save you
    From the struggle of squaring up to yourself
    And to the truth of your own experience.
    What we are seeking is “the treasure hard to find,”
    Namely, the inner confidence, assurance, certainty, foundation
    That we have what it takes
    To enter any situation,
    To face any circumstance or condition of life,
    And be who we are
    Without any chance of losing our connection
    With the core, the center, the ground, the foundation
    Of our own individual identity.
    We are seeking ourselves!
    We are seeking to know who we are
    With such clarity and conviction
    That it will never be taken from us
    By anything that comes our way.
    There is no ideology.
    No theology.
    No doctrine.
    No creed.
    That can hand you yourself.
    You have to find your way to you on your own.
    Here is a hint for you:
    Compassion is the way.
    Stillness and silence are the path.
    Sit quietly,
    See what comes up.
    Work with it.
    Dialogue with it.
    Write it out.
    Paint it out.
    Put it to music.
    Dance it out.
    Do not run away.
    You are seeking yourself
    And yourself is seeking you.
    So, what’s the problem?
  22. 05/24/2016 —Ebony Spleenwort Fern 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 7, 2016 We are seeking a Mythic Vision,
    Hoping to be swept up on a Mythic Journey,
    Where we lose all sense of caution
    And simply have to do the thing that needs us to do it.
    Falling in love is the closest thing in our experience
    To what we are after.
    Ever tried to fall in love?
    We are not in charge of the process, but.
    We can block it easily
    By not being attuned to the life we are living—
    By being distracted by the bright colors
    And Siren songs
    Of the lives that are not it.
    The Buddha waited under the Bo Tree
    Through all of the empty dreams.
    Jesus wandered through the deserted places,
    Past the glimmering promises of surrogate bliss.
    Stillness filters out the noise
    So that we might hear the whisper of truth
    Calling our name.
    Believe in the silence,
    And in the reality of that which knows your name.
  23. 05/24/2016 — I Should Apologize For The Soft Focus On The House Finch 2016 05 — Charlotte, NC, May 22, 2016 Stop being so rational, logical, left-brain driven!
    Lean toward those autonomous,
    Spontaneous,
    Urgent calls for action,
    Rising up from within.
    Naps are autonomous.
    Sleep is autonomous.
    Dreams are autonomous.
    You can’t order any of them up,
    Or schedule them in advance.
    Slips of the tongue.
    “Being in the mood” for a particular restaurant,
    Or menu item.
    Forgetting where you put the keys,
    Or remembering.
    Our right hemisphere
    Is well-suited for leading us along the path of its choosing.
    Trust yourself to its direction.
    Believe in its guidance.
    Don’t have to know what you are doing.
    Numinous seizures have been out of vogue for too long.
  24. 05/25/2016 —Goodale 2015 55 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 There are three things that keep us off the path,
    Three dragons that block the way
    To the treasure hard to find:
    Greed, Fear and Lethargy.
    Greed is wanting to exploit everything,
    Even the path, the way,
    In the service of our own ends.
    “What am I going to get out of it,
    What’s in it for me,
    And when will it start paying off?”
    Fear is the 10,000 What Ifs
    That have to be explained again and again
    And never can be satisfied.
    Lethargy is “Maybe I’ll get started tomorrow.”
    That’s a lot to overcome
    Just to be who you are.
    The alternative is oblivion.
    Which doesn’t sound all that bad
    With three very real dragons
    Standing in the path.
  25. 05/25/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 09 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We act as though our will
    Is the only one at work in a situation,
    Or, at least, the most important one.
    The truth is a bit different.
    Everything in the situation has a will for the situation,
    Has a stake in the situation.
    To work in the service of our will for the situation
    Is to miss the mark
    (To “sin” according to the Biblical understanding of the term).
    The higher calling is
    To seek the good of the situation as a whole—
    To ask not what the situation can do for us,
    But what we can do for the situation,
    Using the gifts that we have to give
    In the service of the good of the whole.
    We step into the situation
    Centered and grounded in our identity—
    Who we are and what we have to offer—
    And look for ways to bring ourselves forth
    In doing what needs to be done there.
    We know who we are and who we are not.
    What we can do and what we cannot do.
    Enter the situation with that knowledge in mind,
    And live to be who you are—
    Not to get what you want.
  26. 05/26/2016 —Broad-winged Hawk 2016 01 — I crack myself up sometimes. And, besides that, this may not actually be a Broad-winged Hawk. Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 What is your problem?
    You know the one I mean.
    I mean THE PROBLEM.
    The one that came immediately to mind.
    That problem.
    Well, that problem is not the problem.
    The problem is how you feel about that problem.
    That problem would not be the problem it is
    If you felt differently about it.
    Carl Jung said,
    “The greatest and most important problems of life are all fundamentally insoluble. They can never be solved but only outgrown.”
    When we outgrow something,
    We feel differently about it.
    Feeling differently about something
    Changes everything.
    If you can’t do anything about your problems,
    Do something about the way you feel about them.
  27. 05/27/2016 —I don’t know if this is a Broad-winged Hawk, but. I’ll bet someone knows. If you can ID it for me, you’ll get three wishes. Who knows, maybe one will come true. #2 Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 Where does your deepest loyalty lie?
    To whom, or what, do you owe your all?
    Who, or what, do you serve above all else?
    Who, or what, will you not forsake or neglect ever in the slightest way?
    What matters most to you?
    How would other people, looking at your life,
    Know that it is so,
    Without you saying a word?
    I look out the window a lot.
    And I don’t answer the phone. That puts me at the center of my life.
    I recommend that you find your way
    To the center of yours.
  28. 05/27/2016 —Broad-winged Hawk 06 Sequence — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 Every situation can be improved
    With grace and compassion.
    Consciousness without grace and compassion
    Is Hell.
    Those who are conscious without grace and compassion
    Are the incarnation of Satan
    In the world of space and time.
    Our work is to become who we are
    In the time and place of our living
    (That would be in each situation as it arises)
    As agents of grace and compassion.
    We are to do our work
    Graciously, with compassion.
    Mindfulness leads the way
    With grace and compassion.
    Get living with grace and compassion down,
    And the world will be a better place.
  29. 05/27/2016 —Barn and Shed 02 — Lancaster County, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 There is a price to be paid.
    We can do what is hard,
    Or we can do it the hard way.
    This is the message of all rites of initiation.
    There are no shortcuts.
    We have to complete the tasks
    Associated with each stage of development
    In order to advance on to the next stage.
    Carl Jung thought that the purpose of our life
    Is to “individuate,”
    That is to say, “grow up” into the unique individual we are.
    We cannot become the unique individual we are
    Without growing up.
    Anthony Stevens says we have to “earn the right”
    To individuate “by discharging our biological (sexual, bonding, child rearing)
    And socioeconomic (professional, property-holding, money-making) obligations.”
    Too many people think they can avoid adulthood
    And progress smoothly from one grand party to the next,
    Living forever as an Eternal Youth,
    With no obligations, commitments, duties and responsibilities
    They can’t escape.
    All they need is a surfboard and the next wave (or their equivalents). All must submit to the rites of passage.
    The Life Unlived is the Life Unlived
    However we choose to not live it.
    And the price we pay for not living it
    Is the Burden Of The Blown Opportunity
    To carry through all eternity.
  30. 05/28/2016 —Queen Anne’s Lace 2016 01 B&W Panorama — Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, May 26, 2016 We have to be the center of our life,
    Our life has to be central to us.
    We have to collaborate with our life,
    To put ourselves in accord with our life,
    To live the life that is ours to live,
    To dance with our life all the way to the grave.
    We live to be one with our life.
    Everything else has to fall into place
    Around this.
  31. 05/28/2016 —Scarab Beetle 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 The Dung Beetle was considered sacred in Ancient Egypt,
    And a metaphor for “the treasure hard to find.”
    Who would think of looking there, of all places?
    Yet, there we are.
    We cannot deny that the Dung Beetle
    Has found treasure
    Where we would never seek it,
    And it stands for us as a reminder
    To notice when we are dismissing something,
    And reconsider.
  32. 05/28/2016 — The Scarab Beetle Encounter: Holiness Is A Very Personal Designation The Scarab Beetle photo will be a series, and is for me a miracle of serendipitous grace and the surprising presence of the Numen at work in my life. I knew Dung Beetles well in my childhood and youth in the Deep South. They would be about, doing their work, in the dust of hot, humid, summer days. Children played outside then and made regular encounters with the denizens of the natural world. One of our regular pastimes was to rake the lake. Five, or maybe seven, of us would pack together and roam through each day. A ready source of entertainment was to take a garden rake and walk along the shoreline of Roebuck Lake (In Itta Bena, Mississippi), thrusting the rake as far into the lake as short arms could manage, letting it sink to the bottom, and then hauling it up onto the shore, as we walked backwards up the bank, with our catch. We were always astounded at what came up. Mussels and crawfish, minnows and sunfish, turtles and tadpoles, snakes and eels, leeches and catfish… We would dip into the aquarium and explore our find with wonder at the world beneath the surface. I’m still amazed at the world beneath the surface, and remain fascinated at all things I am unconscious of— still raking the lake, poking around in unknown depths. Depths which rise up from time to time and drop at my feet things like a Scarab Beetle. After I left the wilds of my early years and entered my civilized phase of development, Scarab Beetles became a museum piece in my distant memory. Then I began to read Joseph Campbell and Carl Jung, and discovered the sacred nature of the beetle and its ball of dung, which is pushes backward with its long rear legs on each side of the ball, rolling it along as haphazard as a butterfly on the wing, to wherever it is going. “I’ll be damned,” I thought, “You never know holiness when it rolls right by.” And I began to look for the things, to reward then with respect and attention appropriate to the occasion. I took up photography, hoping to photograph one as it went diligently about its business. Never saw another one, until this morning. I was in the back yard watering flowers and plants when I noticed a fine specimen of a mushroom glistening in my recently applied wetness, and thought what a fine photo it would make. I put down the hose and fetched my camera. As I moved in to get the mushroom’s portrait, I saw the Scarab Beetle doing its thing. There on the forest floor at the edge of my backyard. My jaw surely dropped. I don’t remember it, but dropping jaws always mark the advent of a serendipitous engagement with numinous reality breaking into our life. The very chance of it all! The mushroom and my response to it, getting the camera, for the very moment that the beetle’s path crossed my own! Grace upon Grace, Benevolence beyond measure! I watched the beetle at work, taking photos all along, for maybe ten minutes, until it reached the shade of the forest’s trees. I took my camera back into the house and returned to wish the beetle well. I was gone two minutes max. I’d watched the beetle make its way for ten. I knew about how far it would have gone in two. The beetle was nowhere to be found. I scoured the area carefully. No beetle. Where had it come from? Where was it going? How did it disappear? Now you see it, now you don’t. The Numen at work in our life.
  33. 05/29/2016 — Cardinal 2016 01 — Food for the Babies, Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 We think safety, security, stability and peace
    Depend upon a weapon, or weapons,
    Of indomitable, destructive, ability.
    “One ring to rule them all.”
    “The Elder Wand.”
    “The Bomb.”
    We think in terms of domination and dominion.
    We think power is the source of peace,
    And that it is conveyed to the one
    Who wields the magic sword.
    This is at the heart of all action-adventure stories/movies
    Ever written, told, or made,
    So, it must be true.
    It takes power, or leverage,
    To impose our will upon others
    Or to keep them from imposing their will upon us.
    Our way has to be forced,
    You know,
    Compelled, Coerced, Made.
    And thus, the difference
    Between Our Way and The Way
    Is the difference
    That makes
    All the difference
    In the world.
  34. 05/30/2016 — Scarab Beetle Poster 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 There is the “I” and there is the “We.”
    Though it isn’t that simple because every “I” is an amalgamation
    Of “we’s” beyond counting—
    Partial “I’s,” “I” wannabe’s.
    Each “I” is a bundle of multiple personalities
    Striving for “I-hood.”
    The “I’s” and the “We’s” have to find ways
    Of working it out on every level.
    The complexities and agonies involved here
    Do not get enough press,
    And certainly do not get enough R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
    “We” have to allow, and provide for,
    Living room for every “I.”
    And every “I” has to honor the needs and claims of each “We.”
    Among other things,
    This means “We” all have to slow down,
    And give the “I’s” that “We” are
    And that “They” are
    Some hallowed space of “Their” own.
    And the “I’s” have to put themselves in accord
    With the reality of each “We.”
    Doing this work
    Requires a place for silent reflection
    For all “I’s” and every “We.”
    There is much room-making to be done.
  35. 05/30/2016 —Last Light Revisited — Edisto Beach State Park, Edisto Island, South Carolina, November 18, 2013 There is the peace that comes with denial,
    And the peace that comes with Clarity.
    Clarity is synonymous with knowing—
    Not with knowing facts or fantasies mistaken for facts,
    But with knowing what’s what
    And what’s to be done about it.
    Sometimes, there is nothing to be done about it,
    And being clear about that,
    Knowing that,
    Still brings peace.
    Peace is the peace of settling into
    Who we are,
    Where we are,
    When we are,
    How we are,
    That we are,
    This is the way things are,
    And that’s that.
    Of course, you can know these things
    And still have no peace
    Because you hate it
    And are saying, “NO! NO! NO!”
    About it all.
    At that point,
    There is one more thing to be clear about:
    You will never have peace
    Because you cannot accept the truth
    Of the way things are.
    You have to opt for denial
    To be at peace with your life.
  36. 05/30/2016 — Cardinal 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 Mithrandir, also known as Gandalf, said to Lady Galadriel (in “The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey”):
    “Saruman believes that it is only great power
    That can hold evil in check, but that is not
    What I have found.
    “I have found that it is the small things…
    “Everyday deeds of ordinary folk
    That keeps the darkness at bay.
    “Simple acts of kindness and love.”
  37. 05/31/2016 —Carolina Wren 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 Believe in your genius— your YOU!
    Believe in the work that is yours to do!
    Believe in the path that has your name on it!
    Believe in what resonates with you!
    Live transparent to yourself!
    Live in good faith with yourself and with others!
    Trust yourself to your sense of what needs to be done—
    Of what the situation is calling for—
    And say the things that cry out to be said,
    Ask the questions that beg to be asked,
    Do the things that need to be done—
    That need you to do them!
    Do not try to figure things out,
    Or have to know what you are doing,
    Or think you must be able to defend, justify, explain, excuse
    What you are up to, or about!
    Do not try to exploit any situation to your advantage!
    No path can do more than wake us up
    And call us forth—
    Think of doing your work,
    Living mindfully, compassionately, non-judgmentally—
    In each situation as it arises—
    Not of finding the best path
    And trading up!
    Be content with being who you are
    Doing what is yours to do.
  38. 06/01/2016 —Female Black-and-white Warbler 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 31, 2016 We think independence means autonomy,
    Means Free Will,
    Means doing it our way,
    Means “Being Captain of our own ship,”
    “Master of our own destiny,”
    And like that.
    We have to re-think independence.
    On the one hand, I don’t want anyone telling me what to do.
    And, on the other hand, I don’t know what to do.
    SOMEBODY needs to be telling me what to do!
    This is the essential, unresolvable, conflict.
    We transcend, transform, it when we realize
    That we tell ourselves what to do
    And that “we” are both conscious and unconscious,
    Both left-brained and right-brained,
    And that in order to know what to do,
    I have to listen to all of ME.
    We can’t just go flying off in charge of our life.
    We have to sit quietly with what to do here and now,
    In each situation as it arises,
    And see how it unfolds,
    Without imposing demands and restrictions
    And working to effect our agenda no matter what.
    Our agenda is to figure out what OUR agenda needs to be
    For each of the times and places of our living.
    “Hello Silence, my old friend/I’ve come to talk to you again…”
  39. 06/01/2016 —Carolina Wren 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 1, 2016 Think of the people you love.
    Take your time with this.
    Make a list of all of the qualities, characteristics and character traits
    That you love about each person on the list.
    Make it your practice
    To consciously bring all the qualities, characteristics and character traits
    To life in your life.
    Live to incarnate each person you love—
    To BE each person you love—f
    The way only you can be—
    By bringing the qualities, etc., that you love to life in your life.
    This is SO the way to love someone!
    Be who you love.
    Should be a bumper sticker.
  40. 06/02/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 What are we about?
    What are we after?
    Where is IT for you?
    How often do you go there?
    How long do you stay?
    We have to know what we are striving for,
    And when we have it in hand.
    Then what?
    When do you stop
    And simply be at one with your life
    In the time and place of your living?
    It’s like this:
    There is the way things are,
    And there is the way things need to be.
    And there is what can be done about the discrepancy,
    And that’s that.
    What is keeping you from being at peace with this?
  41. 06/02/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 07 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 I told one of my Twitter buds today that I’ve never been able to argue anyone out of their perspective.
    And, no one has ever been able to argue me out of mine. We should all stop trying— not that this statement will sway anyone of the opposite perspective. But.
    Our perspectives are sacred territory, And the Old Testament law applies: “Thou shalt not remove thy neighbor’s landmark!” We have to honor the way other people see things, Even as we point out that the way they see things is not the way we see things. We have to be clear about the differences among us, and let them stand. And work to find common ground with people who are far removed from where we are. We have to work to make friends and stop working to make enemies. Hajib’s have their place! And gun control has its place! And all the things that divide us cannot make us enemies! And we are not here to change anyone’s perspective, but to work with everyone toward a future we all can live in together. Trump is doing his best to erect diving walls within this country, not just between this country and Mexico! We cannot allow him to polarize the world. We resist polarization by refusing to slam the door on anyone, but keep all doors open, as we look for things we can agree on, and honor one another with respect and compassion even as we disagree on important matters.
  42. 06/02/2016 —Black Snake Hiding 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 31, 2016 We know about silence by being silent;
    About stillness by being still;
    About mindfulness by being mindful;
    About compassion by being compassionate;
    About all of the values and qualities
    That humans have always esteemed
    By incarnating them in the life we are living.
    What’s with all the talking about the things
    We can only know by doing?
  43. 06/03/2016 —Cardinal 2016 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 Everything waits for us to recover our work
    And do it.
    Don’t know what your work is?
    Yes you do!
    You just don’t know what you know!
    Sit quietly until it dawns on you.
    Wait in stillness until it slips up on you.
    Look at all you are dismissing
    As “obviously NOT it.”
    Poke around in your reject pile.
    Stop wanting your work to pay off handsomely
    With some extravagant lifestyle
    Too much of which has the world exactly where it is,
    And the abandonment of which
    Is so essential to the reclamation of a planet
    That can feed our souls—
    And experience how doing your work
    Is all your soul will ever need.
    Oh, and pass the word!
  44. 06/03/2016 —Downy Woodpecker 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 3, 2016 People have too much of one or more of these three characteristics:
    They are greedy and/or fearful and/or lazy.
    The propensity for one or more of these traits
    Works against us all our life long
    Because
    The Way requires us to be
    Benevolent AND courageous AND willing to do the work
    That is called for
    In each situation as it arises.
    We just want to let Mamma or Daddy
    (Or Money, which is a surrogate of both)
    Take care of us,
    And make our way smooth
    And our path easy.
    Nothing can happen
    Until we forsake ourselves
    And pledge our allegiance and loyalty
    To our Self.
    But, why would we do that?
  45. 06/04/2016 —Carolina Wren 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 2, 2016 “We have to have guns because someone will kill us and our family if we don’t!”
    That’s the NRA’s only talking point.
    Guns will keep people from killing us.
    We have to protect ourselves and our families from those who would harm us.
    Those who would harm us could be anywhere, might be anyone.
    Anyone who isn’t like us could be out to get us.
    We have to get rid of everyone who is not like us.
    Build walls. Kick them out of the country. Send them back where they came from.
    Look around! THEY are everywhere!
    Extremes beget extremes and soon there is no center.
    When the center fails to hold, we are left with fragmentation, disintegration, and the loss of a grounding vision. What to do? What to do?
    How do we get THEM ALL to wake up to what THEY are doing and return to the center?
    WE have to return to the center ourselves!
    WE have to refuse the inclination to move to the extreme opposite of THEM.
    WE have to DO nothing.
    But.
    It has to be the right kind of nothing.
    It has to be the “nothing” of silent reflection and realization—
    Silent META-reflection.
    Silent META-realization.
    Sit quietly. Begin the practice. Today.
  46. 06/04/2016 —Can You Name This Bird? Someone? Anyone? — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 3, 2016 How can we make THEM as WE are?
    And, if we cannot make THEM as WE are,
    How can we shun them, expel them, ostracize them, deport them, disappear them
    So that they pose no threat to US and OUR way of life?
    This seems to be the way business has been done through the ages.
    Except that it was easier in earlier ages.
    Then, we burned them at the stake, strung them up, fed them to the lions, tarred and feathered them and ran them out of town on a rail.
    We could get by with it then,
    But now we are all civilized and supposed to be polite, except that we aren’t actually.
    Donald Trump exposes us for who we are,
    And through him we see how little has changed over time.
    We still hate THEM, though THEY might be Trump and his legions and not the THEM THEY want us to hate.
    We cannot get along with THOSE who are not as WE are.
    That’s where we have to get to work.
    We all have to live together on this planet.
    We cannot build walls or ship anyone off— there is no place to put THEM!
    WE have to live with THEM,
    And THEY with US!
    We have to make it work by making room for everyone.
    We might start by reading Rumi’s “The Guest House,”
    And beginning with ourselves.
  47. 06/05/2016 —Damselflies 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 4, 2016 Meta-perception is perception that takes itself into account,
    And, more than that, every other perception as well.
    Meta-perception is seeing that sees seeing,
    And knows what’s what,
    Around the table, across the board.
    That is the kind of seeing that puts things in their place,
    Restores harmony,
    Lives from the center
    And saves the world.
    When meta-perception is combined with
    Meta-reflection
    And meta-realization
    We have a situation in which
    What needs to happen happens
    In each situation that arises
    For as long as there are situations to arise.
    We cannot think that we see, hear, and understand
    Until we reach the place
    Of meta-perception, meta-reflection and meta-realization.
    Don’t stop too soon,
    Thinking you know something.
    Know everything.
    That’s knowing that knows!
  48. 06/05/2016 — Black Snake 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 5, 2016 — I estimated this snake to be in the 8-foot range, and while Black Snakes are not poisonous, no snake is harmless— in that their bites carry a strong possibility of infection which can lead to a number of undesirable outcomes. So I carry a garden hoe with me to the hammock to have something to put between me and the snakes that roam the woods. This one went its way and I went mine, but the next one may be in a bad mood. We have to spend time with ourselves,
    Seeing ourselves,
    Understanding ourselves,
    Knowing ourselves,
    Enjoying ourselves.
    I like my own company as well as I like anyone’s.
    And, if I cannot be good company with myself,
    I cannot be good company with anyone.
    The people who make the best company
    Are the people who like themselves a lot.
    That makes it easy for other people to like them as well.
    Liking ourselves comes from knowing ourselves,
    Which comes from spending time with ourselves.
    The next time you are alone for an extended period,
    Notice what is going on with in—
    Your thoughts, your moods, your memories, where your mind wanders…
    Simply observe yourself being alone with yourself,
    And see what occurs to you.
  49. 06/06/2016 —Goodale 2015 57 Panorama B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Your life will ask things of you.
    How you respond tells the tale.
    Not one of the heroes on any of the journey’s ever made
    Outlined the nature of their journey,
    Laid out the steps in sequential fashion,
    Rehearsed what would be required of them by each one,
    Put the plan in place,
    And carefully followed the map they had devised
    From start to finish.
    There is no formula for success on the Hero’s Journey.
    You start by doing what needs to be done
    The way it needs to be done,
    When it needs to be done,
    For no other reason that because it needs to be done–
    And needs you to do it–
    Like changing the baby’s diaper, say,
    Or washing the dishes,
    And, like that, one thing leads to another
    And you find yourself alone with you at the end,
    Preeminently proud of what you have done
    And who you have become
    By way of doing what you did the way you did it–
    The way only you could do it.
  50. 06/06/2016 —Cardinal 2016 11 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 5, 2016 We have witnessed the erosion of democracy in our lifetime.
    Wealth and power like ignoring reality,
    And do not care what their arrogance and greed
    Mean for those who provide the means of their wealth and power.
    “Give them bread and circuses,
    Or let them eat cake!”
    Is another way of saying, “To hell with them!”
    An economy that takes justice, equality, compassion and kindness to heart
    Is essential for the good of humankind, but.
    What is good for humankind
    Is anathema to wealth and power.
    If we could get everyone to the table,
    We might have a chance, but.
    The top 1% is not talking,
    And is not interested in what the rest of us say.
    That leaves us with having to make democracy work.
    We cannot give up on the greatest idea the world has ever had.
    Democracy is the hope of free people
    And free people are the hope of the world.
    What this means for me and you is that we have to vote.
    And we have to vote for the candidate
    Who stands as the best advocate for the true good of the entire commonwealth.
    Everything depends on it.
  51. 06/07/2016 —Downy Woodpecker 2016 06 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 7, 2016 We have to sit quietly on a regular basis
    To remember who we are and what we are about–
    To find the center and live out of it–
    To regain our perspective
    And put ourselves in accord with our life.
    This is called “making an adjustment.”
    I came home for lunch one day
    and found the carpenter my wife and I had hired
    (to replace a section fascia board behind our gutter)
    sitting atop his ladder.
    “What’s the trouble?” I asked.
    He replied, “I’m adjusting myself to what has to be done.”
    He had run into unexpected rotting,
    and the job had become more involved
    than he had anticipated.
    Ain’t that the way it is, though?
    We have to adjust ourselves
    to our lives from time to time.
    Sitting quietly helps
    with all the things
    that need to be done in a day.
  52. 06/08/2016 —Mushroom 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 Your life matters!
    How you live it makes all the difference!
    If you are going to believe anything, believe these two things!
    Self-gratification can carry you only so far.
    It is the first thing to go
    When things stop being fun,
    Toughen up,
    Become impossible.
    “Impossible” has infinite layers.
    We think this is impossible,
    But just wait for that,
    And that, and that, and that…
    Try telling yourself it’s all about the good times then.
    See how far that gets you.
    It comes down to this:
    Do you have what it takes to grind it out?
    To be tougher than the toughest situation?
    To tell the really impossible situations,
    “It’s impossible to make me quit,
    But don’t take my word for it–
    I want to show you what I’m made of”?
    If you are going to believe anything,
    Believe in your life–
    And live like you believe in what you are doing!
    Live like you mean it!
  53. 06/08/2016 —Chameleon 2016 02 — The Tree Dragon Dines, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 7, 2016 Listen to me when I say don’t listen to me–listen to YOU!
    I don’t know how you need to be you.
    Only you know how you need to be you.
    Sit quietly.
    Listen to you.
    Look at your life.
    How does it need to be changed
    to better express YOU?
    How are YOU being dismissed
    by the life you are living?
    What are the things that are YOU
    That you never do?
    How would YOU run things
    if you put YOU in charge of your life?
    What do YOU have to say to you?
    Explore these questions sitting quietly.
    See what stirs within.
    What occurs to you?
  54. 06/08/2016 —Downy Woodpecker 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 4, 2016 We only need enough money for the basics–
    And each of us is responsible
    for determining that list for ourselves.
    Beyond that, there is only being who we are,
    where we are,
    when we are,
    how we are
    and why we are–
    All of which we are also
    responsible for figuring out for ourselves.
    So, we have two areas of responsibility:
    Getting the money angle squared away,
    And getting the what we need money for–
    The what we pay the bills to do–
    Angle squared away.
    Once those two things are in place,
    It is only a matter of doing what is ours to do
    In each situation as it arises
    Throughout the time left for living.
  55. 06/09/2016 —Cardinal 2016 08 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 1, 2016 How much money does it take
    To be who we are?
    We can be who we are with none whatsoever.
    Money just allows us to increase
    Our means of self-expression,
    Furthers our avenues for self-realization,
    Enlarges our field of experience,
    Expands our possibilities for reflection and realization, If we are not interested
    in discovering and being who we are,
    Money is of no use at all
    In the work of self-development,
    And is only used then
    To distract and entertain us until we die.
    We are only asked to find our life and live it,
    And be who we are,
    Offering what is ours to give,
    In the service of what needs to be done–
    What needs us to do it as only we can do it–
    In each situation as it arises.
    Why does this receive such little press?
  56. 06/10/2016 —Cottontail 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 8, 2016 Call it “The Social Contract”–one of many.
    We have to provide ourselves with the means of living our life.
    We have to be able to pay for the life we are living.
    This is not easy
    And it is not often fun.
    “Wining or losing, it’s still a grind.”
    We make it harder by wanting what we cannot afford.
    There are people who want to live in New York, for instance,
    Who cannot afford to live in New York,
    Who move to New York,
    Believing in magic.
    There are millions of people
    without the means of supporting themselves
    in the life they are living.
    And millions more rushing to join them.
    Sea levels are rising.
    That means inhabitable areas
    along all cost lines
    are going to disappear.
    People are still moving to Miami and New Orleans.
    Global warming is making life
    less livable in large portions of the planet.
    War and poverty are making refugees
    beyond counting or tracking
    Who will never be able
    to support themselves.
    Catastrophe looms
    While we move to New York, Miami, New Orleans…
    Looking for the life we want to live.
    It’s going to be difficult enough
    finding a life we can afford to live,
    And that’s the life we better be seeking–
    Along with how to live it,
    At one with who we are,
    Serving the genius that is ours to serve,
    Offering the gifts that are ours to give.
  57. 06/10/2016 — Tufted Titmouse 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 7, 2016 Return to the center.
    That would be your center.
    The center of you.
    The center of what is most important to/about you.
    That would be your identity.
    The unshifting ground that makes you you.
    The unchanging and unchangeable essence
    That everyone knows to be Y-O-U.
    What is that?
    I look out the window a lot–
    Trying to see what is to be seen.
    Trying to see what it is
    and what it means
    and what’s at the bottom of it
    and how it all fits together.
    Trying to make sense of it,
    interpret it,
    say what it means
    and what the implications are f
    or every single thing.
    That is who I am and what I do.
    Hermes/Mercury.
    The Messenger of the Gods.
    Hermeneutics is so what I am about.
    When I return to the center,
    I look out the window,
    And am grounded in the essence of me.
    Find your center.
    Return there often.
    Know what it means to be you.
    Live out of your center.
    Do what you do.
    And you will be just fine.
    No matter what.
  58. 06/11/2016 — Guard Toad 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 10, 2016 — Every Glen has a Guard Toad or two to keep the interlopers away.

    Reality is an assortment of facts
    that make things what they are
    And keep things
    from being what they are not. Each fact comes bundled
    with its own field of additional facts–
    A fact that keeps reality
    from being all cut and dried.
    Reality is a very dynamic,
    fluid,
    living,
    moving,
    changing experience.
    A fact cannot be divorced
    from its meaning,
    Its impact,
    Its implications.
    A fact is meaningless
    apart from the experience of said fact,
    And, a meaningless fact
    is the same as no fact at all.
    So, reality consists of four elements:
    The What (What is happening?)
    The So What? (What does it mean for me personally
    and for life generally?)
    The Now What? (What am I to do about it?)
    And the What Next? (What implications does the fact and my response to it
    have for my personal future,
    and the future of life on the planet?)
    In order to be grounded in reality,
    We have to be aware of reality’s impact
    in each of these areas in our life.
    Or, we could deny all of this,
    Live oblivious to all facts at odds
    with the way we want things to be,
    And let the good times roll.
  59. 06/11/2016 — Goodale 2015 58 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015
    Jesus was who he was.
    The Buddha was who he was.
    Jesus was the Buddha.
    The Buddha was Jesus.
    Elizabeth Warren is who she is.
    Elizabeth Warren is Jesus and the Buddha.
    When you are being who you are,
    And when I am being who I am,
    We are Elizabeth Warren, Jesus and the Buddha.
    When you understand this
    And apply it in your life
    In each situation that arises,
    That’s it.
    There is nothing more to understand or to do.
    Integrity is at the heart of life and being.
    But it has to be who you ARE,
    And not who you wish you were,
    Or who you think you ought to be.
    We have to live from the center
    In doing the work of integration,
    Which is the work of integrity,
    Inner with outer
    For all to see.
  60. 06/11/2016 — Black Snake 2016 08 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 11, 2016 There is no reward.
    There is no punishment.
    There is no merit to be earned,
    No damnation to be avoided.
    There is only this life that is asking us to live it
    In ways that are commensurate with its urge
    For mindfulness, self-realization and self-expression.
    To the extent that we do that,
    There is peace and joy aplenty.
    To the extent that we do not do that,
    There is hostility, animosity and opposition on every side.
    Good karma is being at one with our life,
    Bad karma is being at odds with our life.
    Anyone who tells you something else
    Is selling something.
  61. 06/11/2016 — Lake Crawford 2015 14 — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 15, 2015 What hunger drives your boat on its path through the sea?
    What, or who, are you seeking to appease
    (Or escape)
    With the way you live your life?
    What ghosts will not give you any rest?
    Don’t think up an answer.
    Simply sit quietly with the questions,
    Reflecting, wondering, curious,
    And see what occurs to you.
    Let seeing what occurs to you
    Become your way of finding your way.
    Don’t have to know what you are doing,
    Or be able to defend, excuse, justify or explain
    The logic and reasons behind your choices.
    Live from a deeper place than your left hemisphere.
    Call your right hemisphere to life–
    Or the older reptilian brain,
    With its bent for instinct.
    Ponder your questions or your choices
    And see what occurs to you.
  62. 06/12/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 10 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 9, 2016 – Used in Short Talks On Good Religion and Bad Religion The massacre at the Orlando Gay bar
    Is yet another mindless agony
    Perpetrated by the mindless,
    Hypnotic, trance-inducing, repetition
    Of who is evil and who is not,
    And what must be done to those who are.
    Mindlessness kills mindlessly–
    Making the foundation of all good religion
    The mantra:
    “Wake Up! Wake Up! Wake Up!”
    And the reminder:
    “If you think you are awake, you are not!”
  63. 06/12/2016 — Box Turtle 2016 01 — The Tortoise of the Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 When we find ourselves resisting our life,
    And not wanting to go where it is taking us,
    That is a sign that we are about to miss a turn.
    We cannot will our life along its natural course
    To its chosen destination.
    All the problems of humanity
    Can be traced to forcing our way upon The Way,
    Wresting command and control away from the internal guides,
    And refusing to align ourselves—and live in accord—with
    The life that wants us to live it—
    The life that is our life to live,
    That no one but us can live.
    All of the rites of initiation
    Are about forcing the initiates to do
    What they do not want to do.
    Now, there are none to force us to do
    What we do not want to do.
    We alone say what we do and do not.
    No one ever grew up doing what he, what she,
    Wanted to do.
  64. 06/13/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2015 The work of a true human being
    Is the work of being true to ourselves,
    The work of becoming who only we can be—
    Of being the individual we are (and also are).
    It is the work of being conscious of who we are (and also are),
    It is the work of living so as to align our life
    With the identity we know to be our own.
    We live to incarnate the truth
    Of our own character, nature and being—
    To express who we are (and also are)
    Within the context and circumstances of our life.
    This requires us to know
    What we are doing,
    What we are thinking,
    What we are feeling,
    What we are fearing,
    What we are desiring,
    What we are seeing,
    Hearing,
    Tasting,
    Smelling,
    Touching,
    Sensing, As well as what is happening,
    And what needs to happen in response or instead,
    And what we might do about it
    With the genius and gifts that are ours to give
    In each situation as it arises,
    All our life long.
    The work of a true human being
    requires us to be transparent to ourselves,
    And to take up the task of the full integration
    Of inner with outer,
    And of being with doing,
    Which is integrity
    In the deepest sense of the word.
    We are to live so that our life
    Is integral with the truth
    Of our heart and our soul,
    For the good of all sentient beings everywhere.
    May it be forever so!
  65. 06/13/2016 — Tufted Titmouse 2016 08 — Pecking Order, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 Terrorism triumphs when it can ignite fear into rage and hatred.
    Hatred begets hatred. Extremes beget extremes.
    Possessed by rage and hatred, we lose all sense of The Good.
    We don’t care about anything but the destruction of what we despise.
    There is no cure for rage and hatred,
    And its viciousness consumes all things.
    However, it can be circumvented
    By mindful awareness
    That perceives and holds all things in non-judgmental compassion,
    And waits to see what needs to be done.
    When we contain something in mindful awareness,
    We prevent it from contaminating and infecting everything else.
  66. 06/13/2016 — Tufted Titmouse 2016 07 — Opening a Sunflower Seed, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 What persona do you identify with?
    Military personnel have a persona
    (Or way of “being in the world”).
    Lawyers do, MD’s do, Ministers do…
    What business, professional, or social group
    Do you identify with?
    Who are “your kind of people”?
    Be clear about who you belong with.
    Now, be clear about this:
    What positions, opinions, views, beliefs, values and behaviors
    Do you hold/do that are at a variance from
    Those of your primary persona?
    Where do you stand apart from “your people”?
    Where are you YOU and not THEM?
  67. 06/14/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 11 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 — Don’t miss any turns!
    The Path is always twisting and turning,
    And asking things of us
    That we don’t want to do.
    We have to complete the tasks appropriate
    To each stage of development.
    We cannot freeze time
    And remain as we were at 27, or 17, forever.
    If we miss a turn,
    we cannot go back and pick it up,
    And will always walk with a limp
    Because of it.
    The skills and lessons commensurate with each age
    Are age specific, and, when missed,
    Create problems for us in each succeeding age.
    Commit yourself to the tasks of each stage of development,
    No matter how distasteful they are,
    Or how easily you could avoid them.
    DON’T MISS ANY TURNS!
    The work of growing up
    Requires discipline and surrender
    In a “Thy will, not mine, be done” kind of way.
  68. 06/14/2016 — Cardinal 2016 19 Detail — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 14, 2016 We have to dig for the gold!
    Digging is the work of reflection and inquiry.
    The gold is realization.
    For example,
    When we catch ourselves in the act of being defensive,
    It is because an insecurity has been aroused.
    We have to dig around
    And see what we can uncover–
    And what occurs to us.
    If you take up the practice of looking,
    You will be amazed at what you see.
    In any situation,
    There is what you see,
    And what you don’t see about what you see,
    And what you don’t see.
    Look at everything
    Until you see what all there is to see.
    That is digging for the gold!
  69. 06/15/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 13 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 14, 2016 Our life is uniquely designed to grow us up
    Because life depends upon our being grown up.
    We are life’s great hope.
    We are the carriers of consciousness,
    And are the culmination of millions of years
    Of evolutionary development
    With life working out its plan
    For making the world safe for life.
    Are. It.
    The joke appears to be on life.
    We are not cooperating with the plan.
    We deal in death, not life.
    We kill all that we hate,
    And we hate all that is not like we are.
    Growing up means making room
    For all that is not like we are.
    Growing up means having compassion
    For all living things.
    The most mature people you have ever known
    Were the most loving and kind.
    The most immature were the most malicious, vicious, ruthless and evil.
    Life has a lot riding on our realizing what we are doing,
    Waking up, growing up, standing up to ourselves
    And being what life needs us to be.
    Never has the question been more important:
    Whose side are we on?
  70. 06/15/2016 — Black Snake 2016 07 Detail — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 11, 2016 We are always growing up.
    That is the only kind of growth there is.
    Personal growth?
    Spiritual growth?
    They are nothing if they aren’t euphemisms for growing up.
    The Hero’s Journey and the Spiritual Journey
    Follow the same path–
    The path to maturity, wisdom (which is actually knowing) and grace.
    Maturity, Knowing and Grace are all that is worth our time and effort.
    (And, Knowing is not to be confused with knowledge.
    You can answer all of the Jeopardy questions
    And still not know anything worth knowing.)
    Some of us are more mature than others in some areas,
    And less mature than others in other areas.
    Our life is always asking us to grow up
    In areas where we are behaving like we’re still in The Terrible Two’s.
  71. 06/16/2016 — Goodale 2015 59 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 I wish I could impose my will on each situation as it arises—
    And prevent others from imposing their will on me.
    Don’t you?
    This is the real value of weapons and money.
    They aid us in imposing our will
    And keeping the will of others from being imposed upon us.
    If money and weapons didn’t do that,
    They would be useless,
    And we would never wish we had The Elder Wand,
    Or that we would win the lottery.
    Discovering the proper place of our will in our life
    And willing it there
    Is the foundation of the Hero’s Journey.
    Too much will.
    And we are the Dumb Bad Guys With Power
    In every generation since the beginning.
    Too little will,
    And we are the people with no life,
    No motivation,
    No ambition,
    No prospects,
    And no future
    Since the same point in time.
    The right mix of will with acquiescence
    And we take our place
    With those who found the secret of living well
    In every age.
  72. 06/16/2016 — Canopy 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 Every situation can be transformed by seeing things for what they are.
    “Seeing” is short for seeing, hearing and understanding.
    I say “seeing,”
    But I mean “seeing, hearing and understanding.”
    We cannot see a situation without hearing and understanding.
    Seeing, hearing and understanding are the tools of transformation,
    Changing everything they apprehend by the power of realization.
    The practice of looking until we see,
    Listening until we hear,
    And inquiring–by asking the questions that beg to be asked–
    Until we understand,
    Will shake the foundations
    And restructure reality
  73. 06/17/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 4, 2016 The solution to every one of your problems
    Is to hold each one in your awareness,
    And see what occurs to you.
    Then, hold that in your awareness
    And see what occurs to you.
    As you carry out this process
    Of mindful awareness with each of your problems,
    What needs to happen in each case
    Will become apparent
    And you will know what you need to do.
    Having the courage to do it
    Is another problem.
    And, you know what to do with problems.
  74. 06/17/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 Our vulnerability keeps us awake nights,
    Or wakes us up with nightmares about snakes
    And monsters
    We cannot escape or destroy.
    That’s vulnerability for you.
    It’s as though our dreamer is throwing it in our face,
    Laughing,
    Taunting us,
    Asking, “What are you going to do about your vulnerability?”
    It is a question we do not otherwise consider.
    We deny our vulnerability,
    Run from it,
    Hide in the ten thousand diversions/distractions,
    And pretend it is not so.
    It is so.
    We have to confess it,
    Face it,
    Square ourselves up with it,
    Come to terms with it,
    Make our peace with it,
    And live our life out in its shadow.
    It is never going away.
    Our place is to let that be so,
    Because it is.
    And to go on about our business
    Anyway, nevertheless, even so.
    We have to be as vulnerable as we are.
    Embracing our vulnerability
    Puts us in possession of the weapons/tools of survival
    In every circumstance in every age:
    Seeing, hearing and understanding.
    That would be,
    Right seeing, right hearing and right understanding.
    In possession of those,
    We are not merely vulnerable and at the mercy of forces beyond us,
    We are also in charge of our ability to make the right response
    To whatever comes knocking on our door,
    Inviting us to dance.
    So, the Cyclops better mean it
    If he wants us to step with him onto the floor—
    Because we are going to the mat with him!
  75. 06/18/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 14 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 Realization comes to those
    Who wait in the right way.
    Looking, listening, seeing, hearing,
    Asking, searching, seeking,
    Grasping, understanding, knowing.
    We want The Answer Now!
    We should be looking for
    The Way,
    The Process,
    The Manner Of Responding
    At The Opportune Moment
    When The Time Is Right.
    We want to get rid of our problems
    So that we might get on with our life.
    Our life is asking us
    To become proficient
    In seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing, being.
    We think it is about getting things lined up
    Like we like them.
    It is about getting ourselves in accord with our life,
    Aligned with what needs to happen
    In each situation as it arises
    For the good of the moment.
    Who do we need to be NOW?
    Not in order to get our way,
    But in order to be who we need to be!
    When we are who our life needs us to be,
    Everything falls into place around that.
  76. 06/18/2016 — Cottontail 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 15, 2016 Putting ourselves in accord with our life
    Is an on-going task of life.
    There is no “once-and-done” here.
    Each stage of development–
    And each turn in the path within the stages–
    Require us to adjust ourselves
    To what has to be done
    With the situation as it is,
    Here and now.
    And so the necessity
    Of starting each day with silence,
    And working places for silence within each day,
    As a way of making room for recovery, reflection and realization.
    We get through the trials and ordeals of the path
    By seeing, hearing and understanding
    What is being asked of us,
    How that impacts us,
    And how we need to respond.
    The right kind of stillness
    Provides us with what we need
    To step forward and face the moment,
    And, like Power Milk Biscuits, “gives shy persons the strength
    To get up and do what needs to be done.”
  77. 06/19/2016 — Lake Crawford 2015 15 — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 12, 2015 We want what we do not have
    And anything goes to get it,
    All our life long,
    Because there is always something else
    Calling us on.
    Or, we despair of ever having it
    And turn to one of the 10,000 addictions
    To take our mind off all
    That exceeds our grasp,
    Becoming mired in resentment, hopelessness,
    Helplessness and rage–
    Sometimes turned inward,
    Sometimes outward–
    With nowhere to turn
    And no consolation for the life we did not get to live.
    Either way, we miss the path
    To the treasure hard to find,
    Because we know what we want
    And live in its service,
    Unable to wake up
    And lay it aside.
  78. 06/19/2016 — Hummingbird 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 Two months ago, lightening struck a 125 foot tall White Oak tree standing about 70 feet from our house, on the north side. All its heavy branches are on the south side of the tree. My hammock runs north and south directly between the tree and the house. It took the tree about two weeks to completely die. The lightening bolt hit about 1/3rd the way down from the top and stripped bark in a zig-zag strip to the ground. Everything along that track died instantly. It took the crown a while to follow. I don’t have any idea how long a dead tree can stand before it falls, but I think about it every day, lying in the hammock, rehearsing my escape route should today be the day. The tree has become for me as a slave riding in the back of a Roman Emperor’s chariot, whispering, “You, too, will die.” The dead tree is a reminder that “I, too, will die,” and it poses a threat to the Zen Glen and our house even if I am nowhere around when it comes down. That would be “like dying,” in that it would significantly interfere with my enjoyment of the portion of my life that the Glen and the house represent.
    The tree is Death. And I get it. And I work to make my peace with it, and prepare for it, by opening myself to the reality, and mentally “letting go” before anything is gone. Every day I look at the tree looming above me (it’s about 20 feet from my hammock), and nod in its direction, acknowledging the truth of what it stands for. And rehearse my escape route should today be the day.
  79. 06/20/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 16 — Soaking Up Some Rays 1, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 — I’ve watched Barred Owls stretch out in the sun and lie there for a while. Here it is with a Wren. Humans have no corner on “sun bathing.” Weird, erratic, off-the-wall behavior
    Stems from frustration or panic
    At the end of our rope.
    Mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness
    Holds all of that in awareness
    And waits
    To see.
    Seeing the path
    To what needs to be done
    In the present moment
    Opens the way
    To doing what needs to be done–
    Which is rarely weird, erratic, off-the-wall behavior.
    We begin to live better
    The instant we begin to see.
  80. 06/20/2016 — Bluebird 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 03, 2016 Seeing things changes things.
    Or, the corollary,
    Nothing changes things like seeing things.
    Leading to the conclusion:
    Seeing is discouraged to prevent change.
    Seeing is certainly discouraged.
    Nothing about any culture that has ever been,
    Or will be,
    Encourages seeing throughout the culture.
    “Shut up, sit down, stay in your place, do what you are told,
    Don’t think for yourselves,
    And don’t ask any questions!”
    Is the instruction the people are always given from on high.
    Or, as George Bush so nicely summarized it following 9/11,
    “Go shopping!”
    The intentional practice of mindful meditation
    In the service of developing and deepening
    Mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness
    Of our life as it is lived
    Moment to moment,
    Is as counter-cultural,
    And as revolutionary,
    As it gets.
    Join the revolution!
    Teach yourself to see what’s what
    In each situation as it arises!
  81. 06/21/2016 — Chameleon 2016 03 — Calling All Babes, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 Life cannot sustain itself indefinitely,
    And so there is death.
    Our contract with life calls us to realize this
    As basic, fundamental, foundational to the nature of things,
    And live all-out until it becomes impossible to go on–
    To not quit before our time.
    Life is a mess across the board.
    Every living thing has to bear the pain
    Of the compromises required to be alive.
    Every living thing not human
    Seems to take that in stride
    And get on with the game.
    Humans have invented denial,
    Which itself is a compromise. The refusal to live without dying
    Makes a travesty of both life and death,
    And we die without having lived.
  82. 06/21/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 18, 2016 “Own it, and don’t let it show,”
    Could be a motto for emergency room personnel.
    Everything comes through the doors.
    You can’t respond the way you feel to any of it.
    You have to respond in ways appropriate to the occasion.
    Every occasion.
    The time and place of our living determine/limit
    The expression of our response
    To the events and circumstances of our life.
    If we don’t understand and practice this simple rule,
    We are clueless about compassion and grace,
    And give the world who we are in the raw
    All the time,
    Requiring the world to receive us with compassion and grace.
  83. 06/22/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 The life we opt for
    Is the life the culture hands us
    And tells us is just right for us.
    The culture hands us our life
    In a number of ways:
    Movies, TV shows, Advertisements, Newspapers, Popular Opinion, and Availability.
    We grow up learning what is good and what is not good
    Based on what we see and hear around us.
    Looking within
    And listening to the silence
    Never comes to our attention.
    Native Americans went on Vision Quests.
    We go to college.
    It could be the same thing.
    It isn’t.
    We wake up if we are lucky in mid-life
    Realizing that no one knows what they are doing,
    Especially us,
    And take up the work–
    That should have been handed to us from the start–
    Of discovering who we are
    And what we are about,
    In order to find our life and live it
    In the time left for living.
    Hoping it isn’t too late.
  84. 06/22/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 14, 2016 What do you do that makes you smile:
    While you are doing it?
    After you have done it?
    Looking at the results of doing it?
    How many of those things are in your life?
    What can you do to increase their number—
    And the amount of time you spend doing them?
  85. 06/22/2016 — June Bug and Blackberry 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 The Numinous reality that has always been called “God,”
    Is experienced everywhere people are being themselves
    (Which includes making art and music)
    And where nature is being itself.
    The experience of God is right there,
    That close,
    All of the time.
    If the Numen is not experienced,
    It is because we are closed off
    From the experience of our experience,
    Sleepwalking through life,
    Dead to the world
    Though we be 98.6 and ambulatory.
    The God isn’t dead–
    WE are.
    The answer to the question of when life begins
    Isn’t at conception,
    Or at birth,
    But when we wake up,
    At whatever age,
    And experience our experience,
    And know what we know,
    And be who we are.
    Eyes that see,
    See Numinous reality
    Through June Bugs and Blackberries,
    And everywhere else they look.
  86. 06/23/2016 —Bluebird with Blackberry 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 When we see, hear and understand
    The situation as it unfolds before us,
    We lay aside our interests and agenda
    In order to see what the situation means
    Beyond what it means for us.
    What is going on here?
    What is happening?
    What is at the bottom of how things are?
    What is motivating the situation to be what it is?
    What is at the heart of the matter?
    To look until we see,
    To listen until we hear,
    To reflect until we realize the essence of what is before us,
    Is to exegete the situation
    And interpret it correctly.
    Nothing transforms a scene
    Like right interpretation.
    Once we correctly interpret ourselves to ourselves,
    We become transparent to ourselves,
    And everything changes instantly.
    Once we interpret another person to himself, to herself,
    He, she, becomes transparent to himself, to herself,
    And that entirely alters the drift of his, of her, life in that moment,
    And makes all the difference.
  87. 06/23/2016 — Black Snake 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 — I watched, and photographed, this 8-ft (My guess) Black Snake slithering through the treetops above the hammock in search of lizards, birds, bird nests with baby birds or bird eggs, or anything smaller than it is for about 15 minutes, until it climbed out of sight in the canopy. I went into the house for another cup of coffee, and coming back, found it out of the trees and crossing the woods road just to the north of my hammock. I live in a zoo.

    Reality will correct our interpretation of reality—
    IF we remain open to the possibility of being wrong!
    Here’s the thing:
    Explanations of the facts
    Are generally as close
    as we get to interpretation of the facts.
    Interpretation of the facts is what science does.
    Explanation of the facts is what politics and religion do.
    Once a fact is interpreted by science,
    Science looks for ways
    to deepen, enlarge, expand the interpretation,
    Or revise the interpretation,
    Or rule it out as a valid way of looking at the fact.
    Once a fact is explained by politics and/or religion,
    No more thinking about the fact is allowed.
    The explanation becomes dogma.
    Is enshrined, worshiped, revered and adored
    As eternal and unchangeable forever and ever, Amen.
    And people are excommunicated,
    shunned,
    chastised,
    persecuted,
    discriminated against
    and killed
    Because they fail to honor
    the Hallowed Explanation of the fact.
    And no contrary fact
    can alter the explanation of the fact so explained.
    The rule is simple and to the point:
    All explanations of the facts
    can be embellished to take contradictory facts into account.
    So the fossil record and continental drift do not negate
    The explanation known as Intelligent Design
    Offered as the political/religious counter to
    The explanation know as evolution,
    But are declared to be “tests of the faith of the faithful,”
    And not proof of the error of their ways.
    Reality cannot correct those whose explanation of reality
    Cannot be questioned.
    But it can certainly correct everyone else.
  88. 06/24/2016 — Brown Thrush 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 22, 2016 The deepest and most horrific divide
    Through all existence
    Is between those who see that they do not see,
    And those who do not see that they do not see;
    Between those who can hear that they do not hear,
    And those who cannot hear that they do not hear;
    Between those who understand that they do not understand,
    And those who do not understand that they do not understand;
    Between those who know that they do not know,
    And those who do not know that they do not know.
    We can only be as awake as we can be
    In the time and place of our living,
    And live to be increasingly awake
    In the times and places yet to be lived–
    By asking the questions that beg to be asked,
    And saying the things that cry out to be said,
    And doing the things that need to be done
    In each situation as it arises.
  89. 06/24/2016 — Cardinal 2016 22 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 22, 2016 Silence is with us always,
    To the end of time.
    Receiving the situation as it arises
    In our awareness,
    And reflecting on it
    In the silence,
    Is the path to action
    In the field of action.
    Is the way of knowing what to do
    With the resources available to us
    In the service of what needs to be done.
    At the end of our rope,
    With our backs to the wall
    And nowhere to turn,
    Hold everything in awareness
    And listen in the silence
    For what stirs there,
    Hoping for a chance to save the day.
  90. 06/25/2016 — Goodale 2015 63 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2-15
    Everybody is dying to be heard.
    Dying because being heard is the key to life.
    We are able to overhear ourselves being heard,
    And know ourselves for the first time.
    This is the gift of psychotherapy.
    We are listened to on a level that reveals us to us.
    Being heard is being interpreted is being understood.
    In the process of talking,
    We clarify what we are saying
    To those who listen to us beyond the words
    To the essence of what is being said.
    It is the clarification that enables us to say what we need to hear.
    Who listens to you deeply enough
    To ground you in who you are?
    To uncover what is of primary importance to you?
    To show you yourself?
    If you don’t have anyone like that in your life,
    You better meet some new people,
    Or find a therapist
    Who can hear what you have to say.
  91. 06/25/2016 — Squirrel with Blackberry 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 21, 2016 The woods are just so.
    That’s what I like best about them.
    No pretense.
    No ambition.
    No games or agendas.
    Every single denizen of the forest is just what it is.
    Everything there is going about its business
    Exactly as it is built to go about its business.
    It is being who it is.
    Straight up.
    Even when its game is deception,
    As with Chameleons and certain insects,
    They don’t attempt to hide the fact that they are hiding.
    It’s who they are,
    And all the rest know it,
    And fold them into the family,
    Like the best families do,
    Without shaming them,
    Humiliating them,
    Or trying to convert them.
    I like that.
    Everything in the woods has a place,
    And is pleased to take its place
    Without trying to occupy some other better finer place.
    I wish more places in my experience were just so like that.
    We begin the work to make that happen
    By being just so ourselves wherever we are,
    Whatever the consequences.
    That’s asking too much in some places,
    But not every place.
  92. 06/26/2016 —Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 20, 2016 When you can allow things to take their course,
    Allow things to take their course.
    You have to interfere with the course of things
    When they are out of the range
    Of tolerable and acceptable.
    I water our plants and lawn as necessary
    Because letting things take their course
    Would result in dead plants and grass.
    Farmers irrigate their crops,
    Police disrupt bank robberies and home invasions.
    We have to say “NO!” to some things,
    And each of us has our own list
    Of things in that category.
    The idea is to shorten our list
    Of things we say “NO!” to,
    And lengthen our list
    Of things we say “YES!” to.
    Upon examination and reflection,
    We will discover that we
    Have been saying “NO!”
    To the wrong things
    All our life–
    And “YES!” to the wrong things
    As well.
    Once we get our YES and NO in place,
    Our world will rock.
  93. 06/26/2016 — Pink Cone Flower 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 26, 2016 What is being offered to me?
    What is being asked of me?
    What am I realizing?
    What am I ignoring?
    What am I receiving?
    What am I rejecting?
    We need to know these things
    In each situation as it arises.
  94. 06/27/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 20 — Airing Out, What birds do when it’s 95 degrees F, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 26, 2016 Let hope use its legs!
    And its arms,
    And its eyes,
    And its ears,
    And its …
    We cannot just sit back and hope.
    Though we may sit in the silence
    And wait for something to occur to us,
    Or wait for the propitious time
    To act in the service of hope
    In the field of action.
    People who say they have hope,
    Or tell us to,
    Without acting in the service of hope
    Are being ridiculous.
  95. 06/27/2016 — Cardinal 2016 23 — Airing Out, What birds do when it’s 95 degrees F. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 26, 2016 Our unconscious is setting things up
    In our 20’s, 30’s, 40’s and 50’s
    For life in our 60’s, 70’s, 80’s and 90’s.
    It takes the experience of the first half of life
    To serve as the foundation for the second half.
    It takes reflection on the life we have lived
    To generate the realizations
    Necessary to transform the life we are living.
    In the second half of life,
    We throw out all of the things we have heard that are not so,
    And ground ourselves in the things we know to be so
    In living toward the things we know nothing about
    As explorers of worlds unknown and unknowable
    Except through the experience of personal encounter
    With That Which Cannot Be Said.
  96. 06/27/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 13, 2016 Our unconscious
    Is always at work
    In every situation
    To grow us up
    Against our will.
  97. 06/28/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 3016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 When Jesus said of the people of Jerusalem,
    “How often I would have gathered you
    as a hen gathers her chicks,
    but you would not,”
    That is the Unconscious speaking to consciousness.
    Consciousness hides itself in a fog of not getting it,
    While the Unconscious does
    everything possible to break through
    And wake up those walking in their sleep
    But they would not.
    We prefer the dream we make up about our life
    To the reality that waits for us to live it.
    Everything real waits for us
    to open ourselves to the reality of the Unconscious
    And collaborate with it
    in living the life that is ours to live,
    So that the two become as one,
    And the world is transformed
    By the presence of True Human Beings
    Making their way through it.
  98. 06/28/2016 — Black Snake 2016 11 — At Home In The Branches Or On The Ground, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 Who do you say God is?
    And don’t repeat what
    someone else told you, even Jesus.
    That’s hearsay,
    and you don’t know it to be so—
    You only know
    that someone told you it was so.
    Who do you say God is
    out of your own personal experience with God?
    Who do you KNOW God to be
    because you have experienced it for yourself?
    And no one can talk you out of it,
    Or shame you out of it,
    Or take it away from you in any way ever?
    Let’s get back to Jesus.
    Jesus said, “Who do YOU say that I am?”
    And, “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right?”
    That’s what I’m saying.
    Who do you say God is?
    Why don’t you decide for yourself what is right?
  99. 06/29/2016 — Whitetail Doe 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 28, 2016 Our life is designed to grow us up.
    We cannot wake up without growing up.
    Growing up is the purpose and goal
    Of the Hero’s Journey,
    Of the Spiritual Journey,
    Of all our journeys,
    Of all our life.
    We cannot be the same person at the end of our life
    That we were at the beginning,
    Or in our 30’s, or 40’s, or 50’s, or 60’s…
    Growing up is becoming who Jesus was–
    As only we can be Jesus.
    Growing up is becoming who the Buddha was–
    As only we can be the Buddha.
    Growing up is becoming who all of the True Human Beings have been–
    As only we can be the True Human Being.
    We are on a path to maturity,
    wisdom (And another term for wisdom is knowing–
    knowing what’s what
    and what to do about it,
    and doing it),
    and grace.
    So stop thinking it’s about getting your way
    And having what you want.
    Thinking that way is to be stuck in the Terrible Two’s forever.
  100. 06/20/2016 — Snakeskin 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 Carl Jung thought
    there were three levels to the Unconscious/Psyche/Soul:
    The level of the Personal Unconscious,
    the reservoir of personal histories of experiences
    and encounters,
    circumstances,
    responses, etc.
    The level of the Collective Unconscious,
    the library of the impact of cultural,
    social,
    religious,
    and political events and experiences
    of humanity upon humanity.
    And, what he called “The Self,”
    the ideal image each of us
    is called to strive for
    and approximate,
    reflect
    and express,
    through our life.
    “The Self” is what we call “Buddha mind,”
    or “The mind of Christ.”
    It is who the Buddha and the Christ
    lived out in their own life.
    I think of Jung’s “Self” as Lao Tzu’s “Tao.”
    I see the Tao at the center of ourselves,
    unconscious to us because we are not conscious of it,
    yet always accessible to those
    with eyes to see,
    ears to hear,
    and hearts to understand
    what’s what and what to do about it.
    Aligned with the Tao,
    we are at one with ourselves
    and in harmony with each other—
    and do naturally,
    spontaneously,
    what truly ought to be done,
    what needs to be done,
    in each situation as it arises.
    When the Tao is honored
    with mindful awareness,
    things fall into place,
    and people are at peace
    with themselves and one another.
    And all are Buddha,
    all are Christ.

One Minute Monologues 032

March 26, 2016 – May 15, 2016

  1. 03/26/2016 — Why should I care?
    Why should I do the right thing?
    Why should I help, you or anyone?
    Why should I work in the service
    Of the good of the situation as a whole?
    Particularly when it is an inconvenience to me—
    Or, worse, puts me in a bind, personally,
    Or creates a hardship for me to deal with?
    Tell me why I should!
    It doesn’t matter why!
    “Why?” is another manifestation of the Cyclops
    Standing in the way,
    Another distraction.
    Another excuse.
    We deal with it,
    Not by being clear about the advantages,
    The gains,
    The benefits,
    The profit,
    And what is in it for us,
    But by standing up ourselves,
    Striding forward,
    And doing the thing that needs us to do it—
    Without bothering with “Why?”
  2. 03/26/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 10 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 The right to self-determination shall not be infringed.
    The responsibility for self-determination shall not be avoided.
    The help needed for self-determination shall always be at hand.
    If I had three wishes, they would be these.
    The world would fly completely to pieces.
  3. 03/27/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 01 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Lao Tzu said, “Do your work and let nature take its course.”
    He’s saying, “No pushing, no pulling,
    No making happen, no keeping from happening,
    No forcing, no controlling,
    No manipulating, no conning,
    No scheming, no conniving,
    No blocking, no discriminating,
    No lying, no cheating,
    No subterfuge, no extortion,
    No gerrymandering, no jury rigging,
    No nepotism, no favoritism,
    Just do your work.”
    It’s that simple.
  4. 03/27/2016 — Dogwood 2016 04 —
    Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 27, 2016 Rainer Maria Rilke, in “Letters to a Young Poet,”
    Says, “A good marriage
    is one in which
    each partner appoints the other
    to be the guardian of his, of her, solitude.”
    Solitude is the fertile soil of life,
    “The wellspring of living water,”
    The matrix of all things holy.
    We have to guard our own solitude
    Against the unwarranted intrusions
    Of those who would crash our life.
    Predators abound,
    Circling ’round and ’round
    To feed upon our time and attention,
    Viewing us as little more than entertaining relief
    From a “world that is too much with (them) late and soon.”
    The solution to their situation
    Is to bear the pain of their own solitude,
    And wait for it to open into
    Reflection,
    realization,
    insight,
    understanding,
    compassion,
    grace,
    justice
    and peace.
    All things flow from listening to the sound of silence
    Until we hear the music,
    And dance with our life
    Through the time left for living.
  5. 03/28/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 01 Detail 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We swim in unimaginable depths.
    We splash around on the surface of our life
    And make light conversation
    About celebrities and weather and the price of gasoline,
    While the deep regions groan and ache for recognition
    And acknowledgement,
    Waiting to show us a thing or two
    About Mystery
    And Wonder
    And the boundless capabilities of our Soul.
  6. 03/28/2016 — Cherry Blossom Panorama 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 25, 2016 Self-determination
    Self-direction
    Self-examination
    Self-reflection
    Self-correction
    Are all ongoing requirements for
    Self-realization,
    Or self-actualization.
    We cannot put our life on autopilot or cruise control
    And live without a thought as to how we are living.
    We have to take stock on a regular basis.
    Who are we?
    What are we about?
    What do we intend with our life?
    What are we living toward?
    What does our life say about what is important?
    Is that what we say is important?
    How important is what we think is important?
    How is what we think is important reflected in our life?
    How is what we think is important denied by our life?
    What is directing our boat on its path through the sea?
  7. 03/29/2016 — McDowell Poster 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Jesus said, “Who do YOU say that I am?”
    And, “Why don’t YOU decide for yourselves what is right?”
    You could look it up.
    The first thing Christians do
    is abdicate all responsibility in the matter.
    Any matter.
    They hide behind “the Bible says.”
    If you ask them, “How do you know that what the Bible says is so?”
    They will say, “I take it on faith.”
    If you ask them what makes them think they should take it on faith,
    They will say they will go to hell if they don’t.
    If you ask them how they know they will go to hell if they don’t,
    They will tell you they take it on faith.
    They have no responsibility beyond
    believing what they are told to believe (“on faith”),
    And doing what they are told to do (“on faith”).
    Asking them to decide for themselves what is right
    Gets you nowhere.
    But, that is exactly what the rest of us are stuck with having to do.
    Decide for ourselves what is right.
    And evaluate our decisions in light of what happens next.
    And then decide for ourselves what is right
    in response to whatever happens.
    And so on, ad infinitum.
    We take it on faith
    That we have what it takes
    To know what needs to be done and do it,
    Or to figure it out
    Over time.
    THAT is called “Living on faith”!
  8. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 03/30/2016 — McDowell Poster 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 All religion is true religion
    To its adherents,
    And nonsense to everyone else.
    All religion speaks, or spoke, to someone,
    And has nothing to say to everyone else.
    The ground, core, foundation, source, meaning and hope
    Of every religion—
    Of ALL religion—
    Is the search for the ground,
    core,
    foundation,
    source,
    meaning
    and hope
    Of ourselves and our life.
    We all,
    From the very beginning,
    Wake up (more or less),
    And discover that here we are,
    And immediately wonder
    “What does it mean that we are here?”
    “Now what?”
    Where would we be without religion
    And the culture
    (And where do those two things begin and end,
    Merge and part company?)
    To nurture and guide us?
    Our quest is the common quest of our species.
    We have to make sense of being here, now.
    What shall we make of it?
    What do we make of it?
    There is your religion for you.
    And your culture.
    Wherever you turn for help with the
    “What does it mean that we are here now what?”
    Questions
    Is your way of seeking the
    Ground, core, foundation, source, meaning and hope
    Of your life.
  9. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 03/30/2016 — Bloodroot 2016 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We have to find our own religion
    And respect everyone else’s.
    Religion is that collection
    Of symbols, rites and rituals
    That constellates for us
    The ground, center, foundation and source
    Of meaning,
    purpose,
    direction,
    vitality,
    zeal,
    enthusiasm,
    hope,
    resilience,
    loyalty,
    allegiance,
    faithfulness,
    dedication,
    determination,
    resolve,
    courage,
    character
    and all the high values —
    And serves for us as an avenue of lifelong
    Reflection and realization.
    It is not a compendium of beliefs.
    It is the heart of life and being
    Beating in rhythm with our heart,
    Connecting us with all hearts
    In the service of life and being.
    No one can hand anyone
    The religion at the heart of life and being.
    We all have to find it for ourselves.
    What are the symbols, rites and rituals
    That connect you with the ground of meaning?
  10. 03/31/2016 — McDowell Poster 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Each age must find its own meanings,
    Against the resistance and opposition of the previous age.
    There is a saying, “God doesn’t have any grandchildren.”
    The God of the Fathers and Mothers
    cannot be passed on to the children.
    None of the meanings of the Fathers and Mothers
    can be passed on to the children.
    The children must find their own.
    Because the context will have changed.
    “It’s a new world Goldie.”
    The theology and doctrines of the Fathers and Mothers
    Must be replaced,
    Or renounced altogether,
    By the children,
    Who find new meanings to the old questions—
    New ways of living in light of the perennial questions—
    And answer new questions raised
    by new contexts and new situations.
    The answers of the parents are of no help to the children.
    But the tools of the parents are the same eternally:
    Imagination,
    curiosity,
    creativity,
    courage,
    good faith with oneself and with others,
    being transparent to oneself,
    mindfulness,
    compassion,
    awareness The parents must teach the children
    to use the tools of survival in any age
    In every age.
    And woe be to the age
    When the parents don’t know
    how to use the tools themselves!
  11. 03/31/2016 — Goodale 2015 43 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 There is a life beyond the life we are living
    Waiting for us to live it—
    To align ourselves with it,
    To place ourselves in accord with it,
    To plight our troth to it,
    To pledge our loyalty to it,
    To honor it above all other claims
    And serve it with all our heart.
    When we place ourselves in our life’s service,
    There will be tests of will and spirit.
    Trials and ordeals pull us forth and show us who we are
    And the mettle of which we are made.
    And, said Joseph Campbell,
    Doors will open where we think there are no doors,
    And helping hands will come to our aid
    Where we think there is no one to offer a hand.
    Our destiny is waiting.
    And everything waits along with it
    To see whether we will do what is ours to do
    Or wile away the hours running errands,
    Doing chores,
    And watching old movies.
  12. 04/01/2016 — Wisteria 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 26, 2016 Begin to ask people,
    “What do you pay the bills to do?”
    If they say,
    “To live,”
    Ask them,
    “What do you live to do?”
    If they say, “Pay the bills,”
    You are talking to someone
    Who pays the bills to pay the bills,
    And wanders aimlessly
    In a wasteland of the soul,
    Between obligations and escapes,
    Looking forward to nothing
    Beyond the next entertaining pastime.
    Is it life,
    Or an escape from life?
    How can we tell the difference?
  13. 04/02/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 02 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 Propitious coincidence has always been seen
    As evidence of the favor of the gods.
    How else could it be understood?
    Nothing like THIS could “just happen”!
    What are the chances?
    It is impossible to think that THIS is
    Nothing but coincidence!
    It is too much exactly what we needed to happen
    Exactly when we needed it to happen!
    The universe, the angels, the gods, The God…
    All theology is derived from an astounding encounter
    With chance.
    “Grace” and “luck” are interchangeable terms.
    Lao Tzu discovered eons ago
    That if you want to improve your chances
    Of being graced by an astounding encounter with chance,
    Throw in with the Tao,
    That is, step into the flow of your life,
    And place yourself in accord
    With the way things are and need to be
    In each situation as it arises.
    Living like that will sensitize you to the abiding presence
    Of reality beneath, behind, beyond apparent reality.
    You will live “transparent to transcendence,”
    And embody,
    As you experience,
    The Numinous Mystery at the heart of life.
    See if you can simply live it
    Without trying to master it—
    Or, worse by far,
    Explain it.
  14. 04/02/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 04 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 It’s all perspective.
    All the way down.
    Or up.
    Depending on how you look at it.
    Everything is sacred from one standpoint.
    Nothing is from another.
    Comedians make fun of,
    Have fun with,
    Everything
    Except the things they take seriously.
    Robin Williams made jokes about it all
    But depression.
    You don’t laugh about,
    Or at, That’s some serious stuff.
    The people who make fun of the Prophet
    And, trough him, all Muslims everywhere,
    Don’t make fun of their own religion
    (Which is making fun of everyone else’s).
    What is sacred
    Is what we take,
    And treat,
    Seriously.
    But, not everyone treats it seriously.
    So.
    What is SERIOUS!!! ?
  15. 04/02/2016 — McDowell Cascade 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 31, 2016 If you are going to start anywhere, start here:
    “Reasonable minds can look at the same facts
    and make different interpretations,
    draw different conclusions,
    and come to different decisions
    about what to do in response to the fact-set.” Now—
    Stop it with the who is right and who is wrong,
    Who is good and who is bad.
    Who is going to heaven and who is going to hell.
    And put your complete focus
    On living your life,
    Working your work,
    And doing what you think needs to be done
    About the fact-set
    As you see it—
    And trust other people to do the same things
    Out of their own perspective and point of view.
  16. 04/03/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 04 Detail 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 EB White said, “I revise a great deal.
    I know when something is right
    because bells begin ringing and lights flash.” The ringing bells and flashing lights
    Are what Native Americans were looking for on their Vision Quests.
    We know when something is right for us,
    and when it is wrong—
    IF
    We take the time to know what we know. The path that is right for us can feel wrong.
    The path that is wrong for us can feel right.
    We have to take our time with our paths
    To know what we know
    Past what we feel and think, fear, and desire. The Buddha said, “You aren’t seeking to be on the path.
    You are seeking to BE the path.”
    Or words to that effect.
    We have to take the time required
    To know who we are,
    And who we are not,
    And who we need to be.
    That’s our Vision Quest.
  17. 04/04/2016 — Banded Watersnake — Glencaren Garden, Rock Hill, South Carolina, April 3, 2016 It is always a matter
    Of sitting down with the situation
    And coming to terms with how things are there,
    And what can be done about it
    And doing it
    With the gifts that are at our disposal
    In the service of the good of the situation as a whole. Like Jesus,
    We all come “not to be served,
    But to serve,”
    And give our life
    For the true good of the whole.
    For this purpose we were born,
    And to this end
    We are to live all our days long. We bring forth our destiny
    By living in service to the situation
    One situation at a time.
    What is your present situation?
    Sit down with it.
    Get to the bottom of it.
    Do what needs to be done about it
    With the gifts that are yours to use
    In blessing the situation with your presence.
    It is never any more difficult than that.
  18. 04/04/2016 — Yellow Flame Azalea 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 3, 2016 We are here to serve our destiny.
    Forget about our destiny
    being something we dream up for ourselves,
    Or that we might love to do,
    Like some Hollywood script writer might imagine it
    With a “rags to riches” kind of plot line. We don’t get to choose our destiny,
    And we wouldn’t likely pick it out of a Destiny Bin,
    All cute and cuddly and begging to have us for its owner.
    Our destiny is our destiny, but
    We belong to it.
    We serve it
    As liege servants
    Serve their master,
    While it drags us all over the place
    And keeps finding the weirdest things
    For us to do.
    Our place is to sense what is being asked of us
    And comply—
    Trusting ourselves to the unfolding of things,
    as those who are just along for the ride.
  19. 04/05/2016 — Dogwood 2016 05 Panorama — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 31, 2016 Men are uniquely, psychically, configured
    to show women who they are capable of being,
    And likewise with women and men.
    We bring out the best and the worst in each other,
    And the more intimate the relationship,
    The more we impact the other for better, or worse. The magic works whether we are aware of it or not, but.
    For us to get it,
    We have to see/know what is going on
    And participate as full partners in the joint production of each other. As it is, we generally only have eyes for our agenda,
    And try to position the other to get what we want
    Without understanding that it is the place of the other
    In our life
    To show us who we are, and also are. We say to the other,
    “YOU make me so _____ !”
    Without seeing that the _____ ! is what we produce
    Out of our own makeup
    In response to the other’s behavior.
    The _____! is who we are capable of being
    In certain circumstances.
    That is important information
    to those who are intent on
    becoming themselves in relation to the other,
    thanks to the other. Put another man, or woman,
    In our place
    And their reaction would likely be different.
    It is not automatic that X results in Y.
    We are being shown who we are, and also are.
    What we do with that information
    Has everything to do with who we become. What we do with who we are, and also are,
    Is who we ARE.
    Wake up.
    Open your eyes.
    Get to work.
    In the service of your own becoming.
    Becoming who we ARE is our only valid agenda.
  20. 04/05/2016 — Goodale 2015 44 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We grow each other up—
    To the extent that we can grow up—
    All along the way.
    No hermit ever matured one fraction
    Beyond entering the woods or the cave.
    There are no solitary spiritual masters.
    Yet the capacity for solitude is
    A quality of all masters.
    We seek it out in order
    To reflect on the impact of the others.
    Yet, without their impact
    Reflection quickly becomes a circle
    Winding itself ever closer
    Until our thoughts become a rut
    Becoming a grave.
    New experiences feed new reflections
    And produce new realizations.
    Of course, we have to be worth talking to.
    Entire congregations have been known
    To repeat the old thoughts
    Down the rut
    To the grave.
  21. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 04/06/2016 — McDowell Great Blue Herron 01 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 06, 2016 I don’t know what to do about
    the idiocy of certain state governments.
    I do know that idiocy
    can take over if the electorate sleeps.
    I do know the electorate has been asleep,
    Or worse—absent without leave—
    For sometime now.
    Complacency set in.
    Or boredom.
    Or resignation.
    Less than 45% of registered voters
    vote in any given election.
    A majority is one vote more than half of 45%.
    I could win an election with 22% of the vote.
    The Tea Party Republicans rarely carry more than a 35%
    Approval rating anywhere.
    That leads me to believe that nationwide
    Tea Party Republicans weigh in
    at no more than 35% of those eligible to vote.
    But they would need only 22% of the vote to win.
    And they, by God, show up on election day—
    EVERY election day.
    Now let’s wonder why idiocy has taken over.
    Where is the missing 55% of the electorate?
    We can lay the responsibility for idiocy at their door.
    Let them wade through it on their way to work every day.
    Oh, and let’s thank them with a
    Big Juicy Wet One Right On The Kisser.
    And tell them “Thanks a lot,
    Chump, for not showing up.”
  22. 04/06/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 08 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 Lemme ‘splane…
    Our life is fluid, dynamic, alive.
    Our life has a life of its own.
    Our life isn’t an extension of our will, our wants, our wishes.
    Our life is a thing apart from us,
    Beyond us,
    Out there,
    Calling us to catch up
    And live it while there is still time left for living.
    Our life is not ours to decide what to do with.
    Our life is ours to listen to,
    To sense,
    To intuit,
    To imagine,
    To align ourselves with
    Get out of the way
    And allow it to live itself through us.
    It is,
    To borrow a Biblical image,
    The potter, we are the clay.
    The worse thing, therefore,
    After ignoring the right order of things
    And thinking we are the boss of our life,
    Is to think that we are to live one
    Frozen, rigid, standardized, unchanging, unchangeable,
    Always the same life forever.
    Who we have been
    Is not who we will be.
    We are always and forever
    Becoming who we are.
    I don’t care how old we are,
    We have only just begun.
    So, put your dancing shoes on, Baby,
    And step onto the floor.
    Your life has a step or two to show you,
    With more outlandish ones on the way!
  23. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 04/07/2016 — Rue Anemone 2016 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 26, 2016 Democracy hinges on two things:
    The electorate must vote
    The citizens must obey the laws.
    When members of congress
    And state governors and legislatures
    Refuse to be law-abiding,
    Dismiss, discount, disregard, flaunt or ignore
    Laws guarding the constitutional rights of all citizens,
    They place themselves outside the law,
    And become outlaws.
    Thugs, gangs, hoodlums, goons and villains.
    Each one took an oath of office,
    Promising, among other things,
    To uphold and obey the Constitution of the United States.
    At the very least,
    They deserve to be dispelled from office.
    I would prefer to see them arrested and jailed
    For treason and sedition.
    Until that happens,
    The electorate has to rise to the occasion
    And vote them out of office—
    And vote into office those
    Who will keep the law they swear to uphold.
    When neither those who govern
    Nor the electorate do their jobs
    Democracy becomes a sham and a shame.
  24. 04/08/2016 — Banded Watersnake 02 Detail — Glencaren Garden, Rock Hill, South Carolina, April 3, 2016 A “Philosophy of Life” is what we tell ourselves to keep going.
    The three most popular philosophies of life
    Are some variation, or combination, of
    Resignation, Hopelessness and Denial.
    “There is a reason for everything
    And it will all be made up to us one day.”
    “Don’t ask any questions,
    Just keep your nose to the grindstone
    And do what you’re told—
    And it will all work out in the end.”
    “Eat, drink and be merry,
    For death is on the way.
    In the meantime,
    Let’s pass a good time!”
    “Just take it one day, or one step, at a time,
    And hope for the best!”
    “Money! Wealth! Privilege! Fame! Renown!
    The more we have,
    The happier we will be!”
    Most of the people we know,
    Or might have known,
    Are stumbling around
    In a culturally, or religiously, or self-imposed fog,
    With no sense of purpose or direction,
    Living aimless, meaningless, lives,
    Hanging out and going through the motions of being alive
    Until they die.
    What about you?
    Why are you here?
    What keeps you going?
  25. 04/08/2016 — Bleeding Heart 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 7, 2016 The truth is that things are not the way they ought to be,
    And they are certainly not the way we wish they were,
    Or want them to be.
    Squaring ourselves up with that truth
    And embracing it, in an “Okay, I got it, now what?” kind of way
    Is the truth that sets us free to respond to any calamity,
    Catastrophe,
    Context
    In the confidence that we have what it takes
    To face it and deal with it, again and again forever—
    In the manner of Odysseus who said,
    “I will stay with it and endure suffering hardship/
    And once the heaving sea has shaken my raft to pieces,
    Then I will swim.”
    That is the Foundation Stone.
    Grounded upon that
    We are safe knowing that we do not have to be safe
    To be safe.
    The freedom of being free from fear and desire,
    And thus able to be who we are,
    Where we are,
    When we are,
    Why we are,
    How we are
    “At the still point of the turning world.”
  26. 04/09/2016 — Trumpet Vine Panorama 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 It is important that we know who our heroes are,
    And consciously live to incarnate
    the qualities we admire in them,
    Bringing them forth,
    Making them real,
    As only we can,
    In the life we are living.
    Our heroes are who we are yet-to-be,
    Inspiring us toward the “I” within
    That needs to be intentionally birthed
    Within the situations that call for her,
    For his,
    Qualities and characteristics.
    And we are both male and female,
    Living to be the best woman,
    And the best man,
    We are capable of being.
    Dolly Parton is the woman I would love to be,
    And George Clooney is the man.
    On a fictional level,
    Hester Prynne and Mary Poppins are the women,
    And Atticus Finch and Tevya are the men.
    I can’t imagine being a better woman than those women,
    Or a better man that those men.
    And they all help me toward
    The best woman, and the best man,
    I am capable of being
    In each situation as it arises.
  27. 04/09/2016 — Atamasco Lily B&W — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 We build a life out of our experience
    And our interpretation, understanding, of our experience.
    If no new experiences come along
    Our interpretation of our experience will work for us
    Over long stretches of time.
    Things will be as we say they are,
    And our experience will validate it.
    The sacrifice of our first born sons
    Will cause the sun to come back to us
    Every winter solstice,
    And we will keep sacrificing our first born sons
    Until some invading army
    Lays waste to our land
    And tells us we are stupid to think
    Our god was in charge of the sun,
    When their god is clearly the superior god.
    New experience
    And new ways of understanding experience
    Change our world.
    They are the only things that do.
    Our world is the way it is
    Because of the way we experience it
    And understand it.
    How do we see things differently?
    What have you changed your mind about lately?
    When was your most recent realization?
    How are we avoiding new experiences
    And refusing to interpret old experiences in new ways?
    What are the things we say about the way things are
    That we won’t stop saying?
  28. 04/10/2016 — There’s An Eagle In There I Swear — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 We structure reality
    (The facts that define and limit our existence)
    To conform to our interpretation of our experience of reality.
    Something happens,
    Or fails to happen,
    And we have to explain it,
    Understand it,
    In order to keep it happening
    Or keep it from happening
    Or make it happen
    Or not happen
    And have things work in our favor.
    “Learning from our experience”
    Is taking what happens
    And figuring out what we can do
    To keep it happening,
    Or to make it not happen.
    Superstition and religion—
    And where does that line lie?—
    Work to help us get things like we want them to be.
    How we live in relation to the facts that govern our life
    Governs our life.
    We are always doing this
    And never doing that
    So that this or that will happen or not happen.
    How would we live
    If we weren’t positioning, posturing, maneuvering ourselves
    To enjoy some favorable advantage?
    How would we live
    If we were only concerned with living our life,
    And not with getting something out of it?
  29. 04/10/2016 — Goodale 2015 45 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 It takes too much to make us happy.
    We are saturated with bliss.
    Most of us can have a hot shower any time we want one.
    None of the kings and queens of antiquity could dream
    Of the things we take so for granted we never notice
    In our bathroom.
    Then, there is the kitchen.
    And we have the gall to be discontent.
    We cast about waiting for the next new piece of technological plastic WOW
    On its way to the landfill by way of us,
    Because we are so bored with our life
    And need something to entertain us
    To take our minds off how bored we are.
    Poor us.
    I recommend we sit down with our life
    And listen to it.
    Ask it what it needs from us in order to come forth
    In us and through us.
    I’m serious.
    We have a destiny that is dying in the delivery room
    Because we are all about what is going to make us happy now.
    No, now.
    No, now…
    And won’t cooperate with our own birthing
    In the time left for living.
    Go stand in a hot shower and ask your life what it needs of you
    In order to come to life in you.
    And do it.
  30. 04/11/2016 — White Fence, Red Barn — Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 We are formed, shaped, by our innate tendencies
    In concert with our context
    And how we interpret it.
    We cannot change our tendencies
    Or our context,
    Though we can influence both
    By the way we interpret, understand, explain, make sense of,
    What is happening and how we are responding to it.
    We have to perceive our perceptions.
    We cannot allow ourselves to get by with “just reacting.”
    We have to see how we are reacting—
    How “that” in our environment
    Means “this” in our response to our environment,
    And what we are saying/thinking/feeling about “that”
    To make “this” what it is.
    Nothing is automatic.
    A father’s anger
    Can have a different impact
    All his children.
    Poverty can mean one thing to one person
    And another thing to someone else.
    What does “that” mean to us?
    Why does “that” mean what it does and not something else?
    We have to work with our meanings
    To change the impact of our context
    And transform our life.
  31. 04/12/2016 — Catesby’s Trillium 2016 01 — Chestnut trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 Finding
    And living out of—
    Aligned with—
    The center of what is central
    To you
    Puts you on
    The path that is YOUR path
    That no one can give you
    Or take away from you.
    Consider your life.
    How much of what goes on there
    Is geared to helping you
    Find
    And live out of—
    Aligned with—
    The center of what is central
    To you?
    How much of what goes on there
    Is geared to distracting you
    From that work
    And replacing it
    With what someone else thinks
    Should be central to you?
    Whose side are you on?
  32. 04/12/2016 — Bloodroot 2016 05 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 28, 2016 If all of our symbols have to be explained to us,
    We don’t have a living symbol to our name.
    Symbols cannot be told to anyone,
    Handed to anyone,
    Defined, spelled out, made plain…
    The value of a symbol is that
    There is more to it than words can say,
    And we have to do the work of imagining,
    Intuiting,
    Articulating
    What it is about the symbol(s) in question
    That sets it, set them, apart
    And make them alive for us.
    What are the objects and images
    That have the power of attraction
    For you?
    A campfire, perhaps, or even gas logs in a fire place?
    The ocean?
    Storm clouds?
    Pay attention to the things that stand apart for you.
    Reflect on them.
    See what comes to mind.
    We are surrounded by
    “Symbols of Transformation” (Carl Jung)
    Calling us to see what they have to show us,
    Hear what they have to say to us.
    Their meaning is with us,
    Waiting to be discovered.
    The treasure hard to find.
  33. 04/13/2016 — Japanese Maple in the Sun — Glencairn Garden, Rock Hill, South Carolina, April 10, 2016 We are the meaning we seek.
    We think it is out there, over there,
    Beyond the mountains, across the sea.
    We carry the treasure with us
    Looking for the treasure.
    We are the man on his ox
    Looking for his ox,
    The woman holding her car keys
    Looking for her car keys.
    We live searching for meaning
    Without knowing who wants to know.
    Who are you?
    What is yours to do?
    What lies at the core,
    At the center,
    At the foundation
    Of YOU?
    Get to the bottom
    Of YOU,
    And there it is.
    The treasure hard to find.
    Wondering what took so long.
  34. 04/13/2016 — Wood Sorrel 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 People have been doing rain dances
    for as long as there have been people.
    And when we become civilized
    to the point of being self-conscious dancing for rain,
    we pray for it instead.
    The primary focus of the species
    is controlling the natural world.
    Never mind the rhythms of nature.
    Ignore the Biblical observation
    “To everything there is a season,
    and a time for everything under heaven.”
    We want it to rain NOW!
    Our crops and our lives depend on it!
    When you depend on things you can’t control,
    you trick yourself into believing
    you can control it if you find the magic dance,
    or the magic prayer,
    or the magic whatever.
    We influence the heavens, the gods, the God.
    That is the foundational doctrine
    in every book of doctrines.
    What we do determines
    what the heavens,
    the gods,
    the God
    does to us, or for us.
    That is the belief behind all of the beliefs.
    If we believe correctly,
    the heavens, the gods, the God
    are/is ours to command,
    And will rush to do our bidding
    With rain for a bountiful harvest,
    Pearly gates,
    And streets of resplendent gold.
    Not a bad story line
    For those helpless and at the mercy
    Of the 10,000 things.
  35. 04/14/2016 — Blue Star 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 It starts with this:
    If you were to live your life
    without pursuing the advantage—
    Any advantage—
    How would you live it? Actually, it starts before there.
    It starts with your vulnerability—
    With your impotence.
    With your Helplessness,
    Hopelessness,
    Desperate for the advantage—
    Any advantage.
    It starts with your agony,
    With your pain.
    With the recognition of your aloneness,
    And your loneliness.
    With your realization
    That you are responsible for you
    With too few resources
    And no prospects of ever having enough.
    It starts with your back to the wall
    Standing on the brink.
    It starts with your fear
    And your grief—
    Your loss of all hope,
    And your sorrow.
    It starts with your feeling the ache
    Of your lostness
    In the pit of your stomach
    And in the marrow of your bones.
    It starts with the truth
    Of who and how you are.
    If you can face that truth,
    It is in the strength—
    The crazy, ludicrous, absurd strength—
    Of another truth,
    That even so,
    It is up to you,
    And you are enough,
    Just as you are,
    Because you are more than you appear to be.
    There is more to you than meets the eye.
    You have all you need—
    In spite of what you think, or feel—
    And it only takes trusting that it is so
    To know that it is so.
    At that point,
    You are ready to begin.
  36. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 04/14/2016 — Watersnake Love — Glencairn Garden, Rock Hill, SC, April 3, 2016 Begin with your contradictions,
    Your polarities,
    Your ambivalence,
    Your conflicts.
    It is said that “truth is found between the hands.”
    On the one hand, what?
    On the other hand, what?
    Where are you strung out between mutually exclusive
    And equally compelling
    Options?
    Where does your Doctor Jekyll stumble over your Mr. Hyde?
    Sit down with them
    And don’t get up
    Until you have explored each
    To the very bottom of his/your little heart.
    You have to get to the bottom of you
    As exhibited in your contradictions.
    You keep canceling yourself out.
    Shooting yourself in the foot.
    Blocking yourself at every turn.
    Stop! Look! Listen!
    Listen! Listen! Listen!
    The time you spend in self-exploration
    And self-reflection
    Is an investment in your future.
    You are trying to tell you
    What you need to hear.
    Listen! Listen! Listen!
  37. 04/15/2016 — Spring Beauty 2016 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester, South Carolina, April 9, 2016 We have become a culture of diversion and distraction.
    We live to be entertained.
    We have nothing compelling to do.
    We fill up our time
    With anything available
    To take our minds off the emptiness of our lives.
    We seek the comforts and advantages,
    But why?
    What purpose does it serve?
    What purpose do WE serve?
    What is OUR purpose?
    What do we MEAN by our life?
    What do we MEAN to say, to do, with our life?
    What do we INTEND with the life we are living?
    Everybody is on the way to somewhere else.
    Everybody wants to be someone else.
    Actors want to be singers.
    Singers want to be actors.
    Who is at peace with who, and where, they are?
    Who can stand being alone with themselves
    In a culture of rampant discontent?
  38. 04/15/2016 — May Apple 01 Panorama — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 What would it take to wake up Johnny Manziel and turn his life around?
    Somebody? Anybody?
    If you could answer that question
    with a sure-fire, never-fail, answer, solution, recipe
    You could name your price.
    Parents and siblings,
    Spouses and partners,
    Bosses, co-workers and friends
    Would stand in line to buy your book and hear you lecture.
    Rehab programs don’t come
    with absolute, rock-solid-sure, guaranteed formulas
    for doing what needs to be done
    For Johnny Manziel and a teeming multitude of others like him—
    All with people who love them
    shaking their heads wondering how it can happen.
    Yet, it happens all the time.
    And sometimes it unhappens.
    Sometimes, people wake up and turn their life around.
    12-step programs are filled with people who are working the program.
    And with people who are not.
    What’s the difference?
    Ask them and they will tell you it comes down to one thing.
    Call it grace, or good luck.
    It comes down to the same thing.
    We are lucky that grace is at work in the world,
    And graced by good luck every time we stumble into it.
    We strive to keep people like Johnny Manziel alive long enough
    To be lucky to be blessed with the grace of resurrection and new life
    While there is still time left to be lived.
    It happens often enough to keep us hoping it will happen this time every time.
    It’s that hard-headed hope that keeps us going
    In the work that has to be done
    In the lives of so many:
    “The work of our hands, establish Thou it!”
    Indeed, by all means, “Establish Thou it!”
  39. 04/16/2016 — Buttercup 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 We live to discover and express who we are.
    We are here to develop and convey our individuality.
    Integrity, identity, definition, distinction characterize the nature of our work.
    The cost of doing business
    Is the price we pay for being who we are.
    There is a catch.
    We also have to stay in touch.
    We have to be who we are
    In relationship with those who are being who they are.
    We cannot be who we are alone,
    In a cave,
    In a hut in the woods.
    We have to be who we are in community—
    In a diverse community of people
    Who may, or may not, be supportive of our work
    To discover and express who we are.
    We have to develop our social skills
    While we are developing our sense of direction
    And our feel for what our life is asking of us.
    This is called walking two paths at the same time.
    We do that by being aware of “the other path” at all times.
    “The other path” keeps us alert
    To the nuances and subtleties of the path we are currently negotiating.
    We cannot ignore “that path,”
    For the sake of this one. “What a slippery slope this is!”
    “Like the edge of a razor!”
    Anyone can define herself, himself, on a deserted island.
    It doesn’t count until you can be yourself at home
    Around a Thanksgiving table,
    Without anyone withdrawing, sulking, or slamming doors.
  40. 04/16/2016 — Wisteria 2016 02 — Glencairn Garden, Rock Hill, SC, April 3, 2016 It comes down to this:
    See what is happening in each situation as it arises.
    Know what it means
    And what needs to be done about it.
    Do what can be done about it
    With the gifts that are yours to serve
    And the resources available to you.
    And let that be that.
    It is never more complicated, complex or difficult than this.
  41. 04/17/2016 — Goodale 2015 46 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 At the bottom,
    We all are crazy.
    We want what we cannot have,
    What we have no business having,
    And are driven by mad desires
    For things we cannot use
    And have no interest in.
    Make sense of that
    If you can. Don’t waste your time
    Trying to make sense of it.
    Laugh,
    And say to yourself,
    “Ain’t that just the way it is though!”
    And turn your attention
    To the other path—
    The path we also walk,
    The path with our name on it,
    The path that is pulling us forth
    Against our will,
    Bringing us out
    Like a bird from an egg
    To fly of all things.
    And we want to remain egg bound forever.
    Crazy to the core.
    Wanting to live
    And to remain dead.
    Walking two paths at the same time.
    Not knowing which is life,
    And which is death.
    Thinking death is life,
    And life is death.
    Stupid crazy
    All the way to the bottom.
    Laugh and walk two paths,
    Knowingly,
    Mindfully.
    Holy laughter rights the boat,
    As much as it can be righted,
    And sails us on
    To the land of promise,
    On the far side
    Of the heaving seas
    Tossing about in our own soul.
  42. 04/18/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 05 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Making our peace with our circumstances
    Could mean resigning ourselves to the way things are
    And allowing them to remain so,
    Unchallenged and undisturbed.
    And it could mean taking up the causes
    That need to be taken up
    No matter how absurd, ridiculous, foolish and hopeless it is—
    Because that is what our circumstances require.
    Making our peace with our circumstances
    Could mean taking no for an answer every time.
    And it could mean seeing no as someone else’s idea
    That things should remain as they are,
    And saying no to no in the service of your own
    Interpretation of what needs to happen in response to the way things are,
    Understanding that saying yes to no,
    And saying no to no,
    Constitute the dynamics of life on every level,
    And knowing when to say yes to no,
    And when to say no to no,
    Is the essence of wisdom
    And the nature of the circumstances
    With which we must make our peace.
    If you would like to help in the work of saying no to no
    Look up Rancho Feliz Charitable Foundation on the internet
    And send them some cash encouragement
    In their efforts in behalf of the Mexican poor
    On both sides of the border.
    It is a cause that calls us beyond
    How things are
    To how things ought to be—
    As a way of making our peace
    With the circumstances that need us.
  43. 04/18/2016 — Flame Azalea 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 5, 2016 The Tao is the way of life,
    The current of life,
    The flow of life.
    It is how life works.
    To place ourselves in accord with the Tao
    Is to place ourselves in accord with the way life works.
    It is to acquiesce to the way things are, to how things are. This is not a culturally imposed order.
    “The way things are”
    Has been used to justify and keep in place
    Every injustice and discriminatory practice through out the ages.
    When Jesus said,
    “In as much as you have done injustice
    to the least of my brothers and sisters,
    you have done it unto me—
    And in as much as you have not done justice
    to the least of my brothers and sisters,
    you have not done it unto me,”
    He was talking about the poor and outcast in Israel,
    And about the Samaritans and Syrians and Phoneticians,
    And all those who would have been unwelcome
    In the Temple and synagogues of his day.
    Who would you think “the least of my brothers and sisters”
    Might be today?
    Who is more least than the LGBT community?
    To deny them basic human rights
    Because “that’s the way things are,”
    Is to ignore the fact that the way things actually are
    Is for a certain percentage of the population
    To be LGBT in every country in every age.
    LGBT is a fact that everybody else
    Needs to be putting themselves in accord with.
    To be out of accord with that fact
    Is to be out of accord with Tao,
    And you do not want to be out of accord with Tao.
    Tao does not like it when people are out of accord with Tao.
    And when Tao is not happy, nobody is happy.
    Just ask Lao Tzu.
  44. 04/19/2016 — Dwarf Crested Iris 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 13,, 2016 Being on our own side
    Means doing what is hard,
    Straight up
    And bearing the pain
    Because it is important
    That the thing be done,
    And it is important
    For you to do it,
    And you know it
    Without knowing why
    Or being able to explain it
    To anyone’s satisfaction.
    It means living your life
    The way you know it needs to be lived
    In spite of what anyone else thinks—
    In spite of what everyone else thinks.
    It means knowing that YOU
    Are the Foundation Stone
    Of your own life.
    What you say goes
    Where you are concerned.
    You say what your business is
    And what it is not.
    You say what you need to do
    And what you do not need to do.
    You consult with yourself
    Before making any decision,
    Taking any action,
    And decide for yourself what you will do.
    It means you are sovereign over your own life.
    It means you seek no one’s permission or approval
    For thinking what you think,
    Feeling what you feel,
    Knowing what you know,
    And doing what you do.
    If someone else has the keys to your life,
    Take them back.
    Be you.
  45. 04/19/2016 — Creekside Trail 2016 01 Panorama — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 Our authority is grounded in our identity.
    When we KNOW who we are
    And what we will do,
    And not do,
    Because our doing,
    And not doing,
    Express, exhibit, reflect
    Who we are,
    We are the authority
    Who is solely responsible for
    Determining the direction and flow
    Of the life we live.
    WE are the ones who say so
    About all matters pertaining to us and our life.
    Our yes is YES!
    Our no is NO!
    Because WE say so!
    There can be no ambivalence or equivocation
    About what we LOVE.
    The hammock and I are one—
    I don’t care what you or anyone thinks about hammocks.
    I know what I think,
    And cannot be moved.
    That is the way it is with us
    Across the board
    When we know what is true for us.
    When we know who we are
    And who we are not.
  46. 04/19/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 09 – Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 There are Christians–
    Not just a few–
    Who take it on faith that God is a fact
    And that the Bible is the literal Word of God,
    And that all of Christian doctrine and theology are also facts,
    And who deride and denounce evolution
    Because it is just “a theory,”
    Unproven and unproveable. Why take it on faith that God, the Bible, the Doctrines and the theology are all facts,
    And not something else instead?
    If you are going to take it on faith that God, etc., are facts,
    Why not take it on faith that evolution is a fact?
    Why take one set of facts on faith and reject the others?
    And how, exactly, is taking something on faith–
    Anything–
    Different from making up something about the thing
    And saying we are taking it on faith
    That what we just made up
    Is a fact?
    How is taking something on faith different
    From pretending that we are not pretending?
    How is it different from kidding ourselves
    About kidding ourselves?
  47. 04/20/2016 — Perfoliate Bellwort 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 What we need
    Is a place where we can hear ourselves think.
    Silence or a sounding board—
    Both work equally well,
    And work best in concert with the other.
    A good therapist is a sounding board,
    And the work we do in the silence between sessions
    Makes all the difference.
    Silence is for reflecting and forming new realizations.
    A sounding board is for articulating our finds
    And making necessary adjustments
    In our procedures and conclusions.
    We develop our spiritual side
    (That would be our apprehension of
    The unconscious reality
    That is the ground and source
    Of life and being)
    Only with the proper mix of
    Silence and sounding boards.
    How much of either do you have in your life?
  48. 04/20/2016 — House Finch 2016 01 — Male House Finch, Charlotte, NC, April 20, 2016 The religions of the world
    Are killing the world.
    Religious wars (And what war is not religious on some level?)
    Have no goal in mind
    Beyond the eradication
    Of all those not like us,
    Which is, of course, ridiculous,
    But when has religion ever been rational?
    So here we are.
    Now what?
  49. 04/20/2016 — Goodale 2015 45/46 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Be driven by your interests,
    Not by your fears or desires.
    Give yourself to what your love,
    Regardless of the price.
    Live to serve what is meaningful and important to you.
    Let what calls your name
    Direct your path
    And led you into the company
    Of what else calls your name.
    You will not regret it.
  50. 04/20/2016 — House Finch 02 — Female, Charlotte, North Carolina, April 20, 2016 There is an intelligence at work in our life,
    And our role is to place ourselves in accord with it,
    And dance together throughout our days.
    Two things prevent this from happening. 1) Calling the intelligence “God.”
    As soon as the word “God” is even thought,
    In comes instantly,
    “The Father Almighty Creator of Heaven and Earth
    And Jesus Christ His (sic) only Son Our Lord
    Who Was Conceived by the Holy Spirit,
    Born of the Virgin Mary,
    Was Crucified, Dead and Buried…
    And, like that, the intelligence is crowded out
    by the doctrines and dogmas,
    the confessions and creeds,
    the decrees and encyclicals
    and the entire weight of Christendom.
    The intelligence is lost amid all the brouhaha and that’s that.
    “Doing God’s will” replaces
    “Placing ourselves in accord
    with the intelligence at work in our life.”
    And all is lost. 2) Thinking we can
    put the intelligence to work in our behalf.
    The instant we form the concept
    “intelligence at work in our life,”
    We leap to how to enlist it in our service,
    And work it to our advantage.
    “Give to Gain” is a popular idea.
    “The Prayer of Jabez,”
    and “The Power of Attraction” were others. We can milk an oyster shell.
    We kill every good thing
    by trying to get it to plow our fields
    and pave our way.
    If we cannot exploit something,
    it is of no use to us,
    and we have no interest in it. With these two “Do Not Go There’s” guarding our thoughts,
    Let’s start over:
    ,
    There is an intelligence at work in our life
    And our role is to place ourselves in accord with it,
    And dance together throughout our days. The intelligence at work in our life
    Is with us to bring us forth in our life
    So that we might know what we are capable of
    And assist the intelligence
    In its work to bring life forth all around us
    For the good of all living things. We are here to live our life—
    the life that is truly our life to live—
    and what we get out of it
    is living our life.
  51. 04/22/2016 — McDowell Woods 01 — Four Season Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 Putting ourselves in accord
    With the intelligence at work in our life
    Is a matter of seeing,
    hearing,
    understanding,
    knowing,
    doing/being. It is a matter of getting ourselves out of the way
    And being mindfully, compassionately, non-judgmentally
    Aware of each situation as it arises—
    Knowing all that can be known about it
    And what is going on
    Within us and around us. The practice of mindfulness
    (Check out Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube Videos)
    Is the foundation
    Of seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing/being,
    And the doorway to
    A future worth having
    For all living things.
  52. 04/22/2016 — Catesby’s Trillium 2016 02 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 There are our options and our choices.
    That is all we have to work with.
    Our life is the result of the interplay of options and choices.
    That being the case, you might think we would be more conscious
    Of each—
    That we would take the time to wake up,
    realize,
    reflect on,
    explore,
    examine,
    imagine,
    intuit,
    inspect,
    consider
    What is happening and what needs to be done about it
    In each situation as it arises,
    Rather than react without thinking
    To the things that come our way. The intelligence at work in our life
    Needs some intelligence to work with
    For things to be as good as they can be.
    Our life is waiting for us to live mindfully,
    And we are acting like that is asking too much.
  53. 04/22/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 13 — Charlotte, NC, March 3, 2016 The intelligence at work in our life
    Goes by different names, among them:
    Grace,
    Synchronicity,
    Chance,
    Luck,
    Magic,
    Mystery,
    Tao,
    Way,
    .. The intelligence at work in our life
    Is the thread leading from the beginning to here, now, and beyond.
    The wonder is the way all the disparate parts—
    The wrong turns,
    False starts,
    Dead ends,
    Wins and losses,
    Triumphs and defeats,
    Glory and shame,
    All came together
    As though some
    Invisible hand were writing the script,
    Directing the performance,
    Producing us,
    Often against our will,
    And generally without our cooperation.
  54. 04/23/2016 — Azalea Blossoms 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 1, 2016 Our art is our life.
    We are all learning to be artists.
    Our particular mode, or modality, or way of doing art
    Lies dormant and innate within,
    Waiting to be discovered and expressed.
    Our art will lead us to it
    If we wait,
    Playfully, respectfully, confidently, securely
    In the silence,
    Wondering what we are doing there
    And why it’s taking so long.
    The waiting is one of the tests. There are tests all along the way.
    Do we have what it takes is always the question.
    We need to gather in small groups
    As seekers seeking
    To be encouraged and sustained
    By the presence of those who are like us
    With more questions than answers,
    And more need of faith than faith. Faith in ourselves.
    Faith in the journey, in the quest, in the search, the seeking.
    Faith in the art—OUR art.
    Faith in the silence.
    The silence is awful,
    And filled with the grace and wonder of being.
    We meet the monsters in the silence. Dread.
    Anxiety.
    Guilt.
    Shame.
    Depression…
    The minute we are quiet,
    There IT is.
    Paranoia.
    Delusions,
    obsessions,
    compulsions,
    impulses…
    And desire.
    Fantasies,
    and a different variety of
    Delusions,
    obsessions,
    compulsions,
    impulses… It’s no wonder we avoid silence,
    And turn up the volume on our life
    In order to stay sane.
    But it isn’t sanity, it’s denial.
    Silence is truth in waiting.
    It all settles out in the silence,
    And there is clarity,
    Enlightenment.
    Realization.
    Life. Ask the Buddha.
    He waited past the monsters
    And found the treasure.
    As with the Buddha,
    So with us all.
    Silence is the threshold, the doorway,
    To our art.
    We are led all the way,
    Waiting, listening, looking,
    Alive at last.
    If we live that long.
  55. 04/23/2016 — Squaw Root 2016 01 — Canal Trail, Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 I would like it if we could talk things over,
    Being mindfully present with one another.
    All others.
    Understanding with compassion how things are
    From the other’s point of view.
    And caring about the other’s well-being
    As much as we care about our own.
    If some genie ever gives me three wishes,
    That’s the first one.
  56. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/24/2016 — Yellow Wood Sorrel 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 Any time we make an approach to truth—
    the truth of our experience, of the way things are—
    THE way to truth,
    we block the way to truth.
    There is no sacrosanct formula,
    doctrine, There is only seeing how things are now
    and what needs to be done about them,
    in response to them. Any path that becomes THE path
    becomes a worn path,
    becomes a rut,
    becomes a narrow way of thinking,
    perceiving,
    experiencing,
    and cuts us off from the fullness of our experience,
    and keeps us from seeing
    how things are and also are
    in the moment-to-moment encounter
    with each situation as it arises. The work is always to see—
    and respond appropriately to—
    how things are now,
    no now,
    no now…
    No religion can help us with that work.
    We are on our own there.
    Mindfulness is our responsibility
    In every instant of our life.
    We are always getting to the bottom of things
    And deciding how to respond
    in ways that are fitting to the occasion
    in every occasion.
    The work of a true human being
    is spontaneously being
    what the situation calls for
    out of the gifts that are ours
    to give in each situation as it arises.
  57. 04/24/2016 — Jack In The Pulpit 2016 01 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 23, 2016 One of the leading causes of depression
    Is living an inauthentic life.
    That is a life that is not you.
    That doesn’t have enough room in it for you.
    That doesn’t have enough places
    for your soul to breathe. If there is space in your life
    for your soul to come to life,
    Depression will not likely be
    one of your chief problems. How much soul-space is there in your life?
    How much of Y-O-U shines through
    each day in the life you live?
    If you were to give your soul
    what it needs tomorrow,
    What would it be? What are the chances of you doing that,
    If not tomorrow, one day this week?
    This month?
    Too many of us are owned
    by too many things
    That are not things our soul enjoys.
    We have to work our soul
    back into our life.
    We have to give our soul
    room to breathe.
    We have to bring ourselves to life in our life. That is your mission—
    Bringing your soul, yourself,
    to life in your life.
    How can you begin to do that
    in what is left of today?
    Tomorrow? The rest of your life will be lighter,
    and brighter, and more fun
    When you devote some time
    to playing with your soul,
    And doing what your soul loves.
    Live to close the gap between
    you and authenticity.
    Your soul told me to say that.
  58. 04/25/2016 — Bluet 2016 02 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 Two leading causes of depression
    are hopelessness and futility,
    The realization that nothing we do matters.
    Rational minds can look at the same set of facts
    And make different interpretations,
    Draw different conclusions. Here’s the deal with hopelessness and futility:
    We look at them and say “Nothing we do matters!”
    As though it matters that nothing we do matters.
    But if that matters, then it is possible
    that something else matters,
    Like getting the dog to the Vet
    And changing the baby’s diapers, Here is the grounding realization:
    “It is all hopeless, pointless, useless, futile, absurd,
    And coming to a very bad, inevitable, end—
    AND how we live in the meantime makes all the difference!”
    A cup of cool water to a dying person
    Is not absurd.
    It is the essence of kindness and compassion. To spit on the dying person and turn away,
    Refusing to offer the cup of cool water,
    And ourselves as a caring, consoling presence
    At the time of death,
    Would the the height of obscenity, cruelty and inhumanity. The humane thing—
    The human thing—
    Is to live in the worst life can do
    As lights in the darkness,
    As agents of love,
    kindness,
    gentleness,
    graciousness,
    generosity,
    beauty,
    decency,
    benevolence,
    mercy,
    warmth
    and oneness-of-being
    With those who suffer too much
    the absence of those things,
    And sets us apart from the inhumane and the inhuman. So it comes down to this:
    How will we live in this present situation?
    Will we be a source of light and life,
    Or a source of darkness and death?
    It is our call to make in every situation,
    And our choice makes all the difference.

04/25/2016 — Canal Trail 2016 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016

Here is my poem, “The Jailer,” from my book, “I Call This Poetry”:

Saying “YES!” to the way things are,
And working with them
To see what we can do with them
In the time left for living,
Transforms everything,
And opens us to possibilities
We never knew existed.

This is the “transcendent function” (Carl Jung)
Of imagination coming to life in our life,
And the power of Perspective Shifts
To move mountains
And to create doorways
In the walls
Boxing us in.

We all are magicians in this way.
We all are the magic wand we wish we had.

Waiting for the jailer to let us out,
We become the jailer keeping us in,
Holding the key,
Wishing we had a key.

  1. 04/25/2016 — Hammock Selfie — The point not to be missed here is that my feet are above the level of my heart. As we age, it is a good idea to give our heart a break,
    and use gravity to help with circulation.
    Poor circulation can result in swelling in ankles and knees,
    painful joints and difficulties with balance and walking.
    Hammocks to the rescue! There is not a more comfortable and relaxing way
    to keep one’s feet higher than the level of one’s heart—
    and it remains one of the unsold features of hammock life. Plop down,
    lean back,
    and let gravity do the work
    of reducing swelling and easing pain.
    And if you don’t have a problem
    with swelling and pain,
    a preventive program of hammock lying
    will keep you happy for long years
    into the far distant future. Nobody is paying me to say these things.
  2. 04/25/2016 — Goodale 2015 47 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 The only thing wrong with us
    Is that we lack the courage of our convictions.
    What ARE our convictions?
    We have opinions.
    A few preferences.
    We believe in the importance
    of having the advantages,
    But we will surrender
    just about everything
    in order to have them. We want to be where we are better off,
    And that could be anywhere,
    So we have to keep our options open
    And be ready to change course with the wind,
    The tide,
    The current,
    The flow… We have to go sit down somewhere
    And wait for clarity about what is important.
    We have to know where we stand
    And stand there,
    Grounded on the Foundation Stone
    Of our own identity:
    Who we are and what matters to us.
    And live out of that “still point of the turning world”
    For the rest of time
    And on through all eternity.
  3. 04/26/2016 — Atamasco Lily 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 Silence is wasted on people
    who lack the capacity for self-reflection.
    Who never question anything.
    Examine anything.
    Work to get to the bottom of anything.
    Leave everything exactly as it is.
    Think what they assume is so is so.
    Do what they are told.
    Think what has always been thought.
    Repeat what has always been said.
    Keep things exactly as they have always been.
    Never making waves,
    Or rocking boats,
    Or turning over any apple carts.
    Or taking full responsibility for their own life,
    And living it.
  4. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/26/2016 — Bloodroot 2016 04 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 28, 2016 There is an intelligence at work in our life,
    Which we sense by realizing that we
    Know more than we know we know,
    And then it’s gone in trying to know more than we can know. We flirt with the limits along the edge of consciousness,
    Intuition and instinct feel but do not say,
    And we are left with knowing there is more than we know. The test is whether we will put ourselves in its service,
    In the service of that which we do not know. Good religion says the service itself is life.
    Bad religion sees the service as a way of bartering
    For a better life—
    Either in this world or the world to come,
    Or both.
    Give to get or to gain is the essence of bad religion. Good religion says
    Live to give yourself in the service of what, you do not know,
    And let that be that.
    There is an intelligence at work in our life.
    How we choose to live in relationship with it
    Tells the tale.
  5. 04/27/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 05 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 When we know that we don’t know
    Even a slight percentage
    Of all there is to know,
    And open ourselves to possibilities
    Beyond imagining—
    Not to exploit the unknown,
    But to serve it—
    Strange things happen. Sheldon Kopp said,
    “Some things can be experienced,
    But not understood.
    And some things can be understood,
    But not explained.” We live in a swirling universe
    Of psychic reality
    Waiting to be experienced, but not understood,
    Understood, but not explained—
    Needing our collaboration
    To transform the universe of physical reality. But we don’t have any use
    For anything we can’t use
    To our perceived advantage.
    And that is the kink in the hose.
  6. 04/27/2016 — The Outing — An old fave from the Bog Garden Collection, Greensboro, NC, March 17, 2014 I am amazed at how easily I am knocked off center. Distractions abound,
    From within and without,
    And I am looping through countless scenarios
    Before I catch myself in the act of wandering
    Through another wilderness of my own making,
    And bring myself back to the center. I assume that as it is with me,
    So it is with you,
    And I find this propensity of ours
    For aimlessly wandering far from the Foundation Stone
    To be the primary purpose for meditation. Meditation seats us at the center
    (Or, if your Zazen cushion is a hammock,
    Lays us at the center),
    And reminds us where we come from
    And where we belong. My hammock is my anchor,
    My touchstone
    Connecting me to the source, the heart, the ground of me.
    I am at one with me in the hammock.
    There is nothing there to take me away from me.
    There, even when my thoughts stray,
    They always have something to say to me about me.
    Noting that, I remember it
    When I am not hammock sitting/lying,
    And see what the wandering mind
    Has to say to me about me
    In my present here and now,
    And am grounded there
    In the moment of my drifting away. A meditative practice is the path to the center and ground
    Of our being,
    And makes the way back
    An enlightening journey with our companion Self.
  7. 04/28/2016 — Fleabane Daisy 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 17, 2016 Jesus in the wilderness,
    The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    Carl Jung at Bollingen,
    Me in my hammock,
    You wherever you are
    when you are quiet and alone and aware… We have to knowingly, mindfully, with non-judgmental compassion
    Face the truth of our life,
    The truth of who we are and how it is, and also is, with us. We have to know who we are
    Past all the diversions and distractions
    and titillating,
    interesting,
    tempting,
    attractive,
    fearsome We have to know what is important to us,
    What matters most to us,
    What is central to us—
    Not because we like it,
    or desire it,
    But because it is central to us. We have to know what grounds us,
    Supports us, establishes us,
    And is our Bedrock.
    What is it that is immovable and unchangeable about us?
    What is the eternal and everlasting truth of who we are? I look out the window a lot.
    What am I doing when I look out the window?
    I am being who I am.
    Living with integrity is living in ways which honor who I am—
    Which express, exhibit and serve who I am. Jesus in the wilderness,
    The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    Carl Jung at Bollingen,
    Me in my hammock,
    You wherever you are when you are quiet and alone and aware. Finding ourselves,
    Knowing ourselves,
    Being ourselves.
    Nobody can do it for us.
    It is ours to do alone.
    Know what your hammock is.
    Go there often.
  8. 04/28/2016 — Phlox 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 I hold it to be entirely likely
    that the intelligence at work in our life
    Is the full component of knowledge we don’t know we know—
    and the knowledge we do not know,
    and will never know.
    We call the body of knowledge we are unconscious of
    “The Unconscious.”
    Another term for it is “Psyche,” or “Soul.”
    We live in at least two worlds—two different realities—simultaneously,
    Aware, to some extent, of one,
    Oblivious to the presence of the other. The other will not be ignored,
    And keeps breaking into our conscious life
    With insights,
    revelation,
    enlightenment,
    “holy nudges,”
    brainstorms…
    All credited to the gods and the muses,
    All belonging to the psychic world of unconscious reality. Our work is to know what we know.
    But.
    We want to get ahead,
    Sock it away,
    Retire early
    And enjoy our accumulated wealth and boundless privilege
    Until we die. We live at crosspurposes with ourselves.
    And pay the price.
  9. 04/29/2016 — Solomon’s Seal 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 How long can you sit quietly—
    Not reading,
    not listening to music,
    not watching TV,
    not doing anything but sitting quietly? Work to extend the duration
    and increase the frequency.
    And devote yourself to the task
    Of becoming mindfully,
    non-judgmentally,
    compassionately aware
    Of what goes on in the silence—
    Of thoughts and feelings, moods and memories… Become interested in what happens in the silence,
    Letting things come and go as they will,
    Observing it all without judgment or opinion,
    Watching patterns develop,
    Seeing themes being played out,
    Curious and interested about it all.
  10. 04/29/2016 — Cedar Tree 2016 01 Panorama — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 Silence is the source of all things.
    Reflection on our life experience
    leads to new realizations.
    We cannot just experience silence—
    We have to reflect on our experience of silence.
    In silence. Out of that reflection,
    Introspection,
    Examination,
    Imagination,
    Contemplation,
    Exploration
    Comes all we need to meet our life straight up,
    And gather more experience
    To take with us
    Back into the silence.
  11. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/29/2016 — Goodale 2015 49 — Goodale Sate Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Good religion is absolutely essential
    in the work to be who we are.
    Good religion speaks
    the language of Psyche, of Soul,
    And is a treasure trove of “symbols of transformation”
    (Carl Jung). Good religion grows us up
    Through all of the stages of development,
    Helping us to recognize the signs along the way,
    And reminding us that the primary requirement
    Of the Hero’s Journey
    Is to see it through,
    To not quit too soon,
    To press on,
    To persevere,
    Whispering to us the words of the Greek poet Homer
    Spoken from the lips of Odysseus:
    “I will stay with it and endure through suffering hardship
    And once the heaving sea has shaken my raft to pieces,
    Then I will swim.” Good religion is the servant of Psyche/Soul,
    And is, to us, “a very present help in time of trouble.”
    The trouble is
    Good religion is hard to find.
  12. 04/30/2016 — Great Solomon’s Seal 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 We are born into a family and into a culture
    That tells us who we are,
    And who we are to be,
    And how we are to live our life. Growing up means growing up into
    Our own idea of who we are,
    And who we are to be,
    And how we are to live our life. We cannot do it—
    Grow up—
    Without mindful awareness
    (Which implies compassion
    And non-judgmental acceptance)
    Of ourselves,
    Our context and circumstances. It starts with seeing how things are
    On all levels—
    And we cannot see what we cannot accept
    As being the way it is.
    “This is the way things are,
    And this is what needs to be done about it,
    And this is what I can do
    With the gifts and resources at my disposal.” Then it is only a matter
    Of doing our work
    And letting things fall into place,
    However they will,
    Around that.
  13. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/30/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 06 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Good religion is religion without theology and doctrine. Good religion is Zen without the Buddhist or Taoist trappings. Good religion is our experience of this here, this now,
    And our sense of what is happening,
    And what needs to happen,
    And what needs to be done about it
    With the gifts and resources at our disposal,
    And our ability to know what we know
    On all levels,
    Which implies living transparent to ourselves
    And open to possibilities we cannot imagine,
    Trusting ourselves to ourselves,
    And allowing the path to open before us
    As we start walking. Good religion helps us interpret our experience
    In light of the shared experiences
    Of the species
    Through the symbols, parables and metaphors
    That have been doorways to transcendence
    Through the ages
    And connect us with truth
    At the core of who we are,
    Enabling us to live out of—
    And grounded upon—
    The Foundation Stone
    Of our essential identity,
    And be at-one with ourselves
    In each situation as it arises
    Throughout our life.
  14. 05/01/2016 — Pitcher Plants 2016 01 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, April 30, 2016 The price of being alive
    Is the work of articulation. Saying is seeing.
    We cannot see what we do not say. Our world expands
    As our vocabulary increases.
    Unless we say the same old same old forever,
    but who needs a larger vocabulary
    to say the same old things? The struggle to say what we see,
    And what it means
    Is the work of being human.
    And the work is never done. We want to be finished with it,
    And sit by the sea
    Drinking beer.
    So, we nail down our meanings
    And refuse to let them evolve,
    Shift,
    Change…
    And, like that,
    We die,
    by the sea,
    with a beer in hand. We hate it when our meanings become obsolete
    And new meanings try to replace them.
    WE WANT TO KEEP THINGS AS THEY ARE FOREVER!!!
    No gay marriages!
    No transgender rights!
    No nothing that isn’t like it was in the Good Old Days
    When everything was exactly what it was supposed to be! We haven’t allowed a new idea about God
    Into the Book of Christian Doctrine
    In 2,000 years.
    The wind that blows where it will
    Becomes “infinite, eternal, and unchangeable,”
    And that’s all we need to say about that. In the work to say better what has been said,
    We see more than has been seen
    And begin to say things that have never been said.
    New realizations lead to new reflections
    lead to new experiences lead to new realizations…
    And nothing is as it was,
    And who knows where it will go. That is the Hero’s Journey—
    The great adventure of being alive!
    If we are up for it,
  15. 05/02/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 06 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We live out of the silence. We know what to do when we do nothing
    But sit with what is before us
    And wait for the action to happen through us
    In response to what needs us to do it. We don’t think anything up.
    We consider all that is to be considered—
    We see the full context of our present situation—
    And wait quietly
    To see what we will do. This is trusting ourselves to
    More than we know we know. You will likely never hear anything about it
    Other than here,
    So maybe you should read this again.
  16. 05/02/2016 — Foam Flower 2016 02 — Creekside Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 No one can tell us what is right for us.
    We have to figure that out for ourselves.
    We have to know what is good for us,
    Important to us,
    Meaningful to us—
    And live in ways which serve
    What is right,
    What is good,
    What is important,
    What is meaningful,
    To us
    All our life long. Sounds easy enough, Fooling ourselves is what we do best.
    No! Tricking ourselves is what we do best.
    No! Kidding ourselves is what we do best.
    No! Telling ourselves what we want to hear is what we do best.
    No! Shooting ourselves in the foot is what we do best.
    No! Being our own worst enemy is what we do best.
    And so,
    We have to take up the life-long work
    Of being transparent to ourselves,
    So that we know what we know
    And live with both eyes on us at all times.
    Because conning ourselves is what we do best.
  17. 05/04/2016 — Wild Parsnip 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 If you cannot be vulnerable
    You will never be safe. Safety is the untouchable place of refuge
    Amid the din of ravenous threats
    And dreadful possibilities. It is the confidence of one who knows
    That she, that he, stands grounded in the center
    Of who she, of who he, is
    And cannot be moved by the worst that can happen. “I am fine and will be fine no matter what.”
    The worst that I can imagine
    Would be Auschwitz,
    Knowing full well what’s what
    And what your chances are.
    Live that out in your mind,
    Your last ten days or two weeks,
    Walking in the line to the ovens
    Or packed into the truck that will take you to the ovens. Direct that scene as though it were a movie.
    How would you have you walk that final 3/4 mile?
    What would you exude by your demeanor?
    How would play your role?
    I would have me do it with the attitude of, “You can kill me in the most horrendous possible way,
    But you can’t touch a hair on my head.”
    My role is to live my life from this vantage point
    Throughout what remains of it to be lived.
  18. 05/03/2016 — Goodale 2015 50 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 The Hero’s Journey
    Consists of squaring up with the divisions within,
    Reconciling our opposites,
    Integrating our polarities
    Making peace
    Becoming whole. We are at war with ourselves,
    And want nothing to do with the life that is ours to live,
    Preferring instead
    Any of the lives we wish we were living. Begin there
    With the work to reconcile,
    Integrate,
    Make peace,
    Become whole.
  19. 05/03/2016 — One of my faves from my Roan Mountain Flickr Album: “Golden Ragwort Panorama” We like to think we are the Captains of Our Ship
    And the Masters of our Destiny,
    And love to say,
    “It’s MY life and I can do what I want to with it!” The unrelenting truth is that
    We have to get out of the way
    And let our life live us. Living well
    Is mastering the art
    Of allowing our life
    To direct our living. Sound like something a bull would leave behind?
    Keep living.
    It will make more sense in 10 years,
    And, you will be a firm believer in 25.
  20. 05/04/2016 — Catesby’s Trillium 2016 03 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 My hammock hangs on the edge of the Deep Woods
    (“Deep” is metaphorical, not actual, literal,
    And is as true as any fact has ever been),
    And, in my hammock, I realize that in the Deep Woods
    Yesterday is the same as tomorrow. The Deep Woods is/are as timeless as all eternity.
    It is never anything other than Now in the Deep Woods
    Now it is sunny, Now it is dark, Now it is raining…
    No plans exist in the Deep Woods
    No disappointment, fear, depression, excitement, anticipation, etc.
    Ever come to life there. Life just IS there,
    And then, it IS NOT.
    The Deep Woods know(s),
    But it (they) does (do) not know
    That it (etc.) knows.
    Yet, it (etc.) responds appropriately to what it (etc.) knows,
    And lives in full accord with what needs to happen
    In each situation that arises,
    Without interfering with that,
    Or imposing its (etc.) on it,
    Or wrestling with the way things are in the moment. Consciousness imposes a complexity upon things
    That did not exist before consciousness.
    Consciousness implies the possibility
    Of bringing into effect our ideas for the world upon the world. Wisdom knows when to step in and when to step back.
    Consciousness without wisdom
    Is not an improvement on the way of things in the Deep Woods.
  21. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 05/04/2016 — Chestnut Trail 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Everybody’s religion is so because they say it is so.
    Everybody’s religion is grounded upon what they say is so.
    It is so because we say it is. Taking something, anything, “on faith” is saying
    It is so because we say it is so,
    We believe it to be so,
    We are sure it is so.
    We either affirm what someone else tells us is so,
    Saying it is so for us, too,
    Or we make it up for ourselves.
    Either way, it is so ultimately because we say so.
    We are the authority behind our own faith.
    We believe what we believe
    Because we believe it is true,
    And therefore worth believing. The validity of all religion is self-evident to its adherents.
    They believe it because they think it is so.
    Because they KNOW it is so.
    Because their experience has confirmed them in their beliefs.
    Religion is true because we say it is true.
    False religion is always someone else’s religion.
    Religious wars are differences of opinion
    About things that cannot be verified by independent observers.
  22. 05/05/2016 — Eastern Sweetshrub 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 13, 2016 When we “marry” ourselves
    And devote ourselves to the life-long task
    Of becoming who we are—
    Of being one with our soul(mate)—
    We “forsake all others,”
    And “plight Thee our troth”
    to our Self.
    We do not keep company
    With who, and what, we are not. The Dalai Lama does not go to movies
    NASCAR events or football games,
    And he doesn’t eat pizza, hamburgers or hotdogs,
    Attend cocktail parties or hangout in bars.
    He is NOT, and does NOT, a lot of things.
    He is completely who he is.
    Jesus was that way. They were not in any sense “Renaissance men.”
    They did not pretend to do all things well.
    They did what mattered to them,
    Was important and meaningful to them,
    And let the rest go. Letting things go can be as difficult
    As devoting ourselves to the things that are essential to us,
    And as important.
    We are known by what we do
    And by what we do not. How much of what you do today
    Will be YOU
    And how much will be NOT YOU?
    How much of the NOT YOU can you get by with not doing?
  23. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 05/06/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 07 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 The path is actually two, or more, paths.
    The way is two, or more, ways.
    We are always walking two paths at the same time,
    Taking two ways at once.
    Contradiction is characteristic of every path, each way.
    This is true AND the opposite is also true.
    I want to be the best father in all the world
    AND
    I don’t want to be a father at all. Compassion is the way, the path
    AND
    The Dalai Lama, the voice of compassion world-wide,
    Has bodyguards who carry automatic weapons.
    This is walking two paths at the same time. What we say and do is incompatible
    With what we also say and do.
    We cannot say YES to some aspect of ourselves
    Without saying NO to other aspects of ourselves
    And we cannot say YES to one aspect of ourselves
    Without saying NO to other aspects of ourselves
    Who would compassion have us ignore, dismiss, disregard?
    Who is served well by the good we call good?
    Who suffers from the good we call good?
    All of those fine advantages we seek for ourselves and others
    Are detrimental to a large number of living things.
    Pluses are counter-balanced by minuses.
    This cancels out that.
    What do we do? Walk two paths, follow two ways, at once.
    We walk this path with that one always in mind—
    Aware of the contradictions
    Transparent to ourselves,
    Bearing the pain of our excesses and deficiencies,
    And the realization of the implications our actions
    Have for all sentient beings.
    As we do what needs us to do it
    In each situation as it arises
    Anyway, nevertheless, even so.
  24. 05/07/2016 — Shagbark Hickory 2016 01 Panorama — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 When your life frustrates your ideas for your life,
    How do you respond?
    All suffering has its origin
    In the discrepancy between how things are
    And how we want them to be. Our “NO!” meets life’s “YES!”
    And we suffer the impact of that collision.
    No “NO!” no suffering.
    Saying “YES!” to life
    Is the end of suffering
    And the beginning of LIFE. What do you think
    “Thy will, not mine, be done” means?
    It means that we place ourselves in accord
    With the facts, the givens, the context and circumstances
    Of the way things are,
    And see what is being asked of us
    In terms of what needs to happen here and now
    In light of the truth of our situation. Our life is always asking things of us.
    Each situation as it arises needs a particular response from us
    In order for things to be as good as they can be
    In that situation.
    Our response determines the quality of life then and there.
    Why hold anything back?
    Pouting, whining, moaning, moping, remonstrating, floundering…? Why not give ourselves wholeheartedly
    To the situation
    And do all that can be done there
    With the gifts and resources that are ours to share
    For the good of the situation?
    We can make every situation that arises
    Better or worse
    By the quality of our response to it.
    Why go for worse?
  25. 05/07/2016 — Stream Still Life 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 I recommend living one situation at a time.
    What is needed here, now?
    What is happening?
    What is called for?
    What is being asked of me?
    Offered to me?
    How am I being asked
    to accommodate myself to the situation?
    How am I being challenged
    to place myself in accord with what is going on?
    How am I uniquely suited to rise to this occasion?
    How might I step forth to meet what I find here? Stepping mindfully, compassionately and non-judgmentally
    Into each situation as it arises,
    Curious about what will happen
    And how we will respond
    Keeps us alert and responsive to what is needed,
    And to what gifts and resources we have
    That might match up with the need. This approach transforms the humdrum same old same old every day
    Into the field of action and adventure,
    Where we are pulled forth to become who we are.
    We will look forward to tomorrow
    Each time we go to bed.
  26. 05/08/2016 — Goodale 2015 51 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We have all we need
    To do what needs us to do it
    In each situation as it arises. So, what’s with the whining,
    moaning,
    complaining
    and casting ourselves about?
    What’s with the protesting and the remonstration? Stand yourself up and go do the thing!
    We spend a good portion of our life—
    The only life we have to live—
    In a posture of “Not No Way! Not No How!”
    Before a world of things
    That clearly need to be done,
    And clearly need us to do them. We will reduce the corporate level of pain in the world
    Caused by the spillover of our own pain
    Into the lives of others,
    Simply by shouldering our own personal pain.
    Stand up and do the thing!
    And do it well—exactly as it needs to be done! We size up the situation
    And do what needs to be done in response to it.
    And if that is hard,
    That is all it is.
    It is only hard,
    And we have done what is hard before,
    And will do it again. It’s called “Growing Up.”
    Refusing to do it keeps things as they are forever.
    Doing it changes everything.
    It all depends upon our growing up
    In each situation as it arises.
    Starting with the next one.
  27. 05/08/2016 — Wild Geranium 2015 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 Everything we do shows us
    who we are at that point in our life,
    and asks us:
    “Is this who you intend to be?
    Is this what you have in mind?
    Is this the you you want to bring forth in your life?” We form and shape our identity over the course of our life
    By reflecting on our actions
    And modifying them,
    transforming them,
    adjusting
    and altering them
    To better express the “Me”
    That is the “Me”
    We would be proud to be. We grow into who we are
    By being mindfully (compassionately, non-judgmentally) aware
    Of what our actions say about us,
    And making the changes necessary
    To align and integrate our life
    With the deepest, truest, values
    Of the person living it.
  28. 05/08/2016 — Cross Vine 2016 03 Panorama — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 We have to know what our business is
    And what it isn’t.
    Knowing what our business is (and isn’t)
    Is central to our identity.
    Our business is who we are,
    And we are what it is,
    So that we cannot separate who we are
    From what we do (and don’t do).
    Our business and our identity are one,
    And together they form the ground,
    The foundation,
    Of our life. I have my business,
    And you have yours,
    And when we are offering each other
    “The kind of help that help is all about” (Shel Silverstein),
    We are helping each other
    Tend our respective business.
    And when we are offering each other
    “The kind of help that we all could do without” (Shel Silverstein),
    We are interfering with each other’s business
    And not minding our own.
  29. 05/09/2016 — Deer’s Tongue 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 The Great Knowing is the origin of everything.
    Nothing exists apart from it,
    But everything that is distant from it
    Thinks there is nothing to it,
    Yet, it is the source of all that is
    And will be. The Great Knowing is called many things,
    But it is no sooner called “God”
    Than those who call it that
    Begin to put a human face on it
    And think of it in human terms,
    And distance themselves
    from the source that is the Great Knowing. David, the shepherd,
    at one with the Great Knowing,
    Killed Goliath.
    David, the king, distanced from the Great Knowing,
    Was taken with Bathsheba. Jesus, at one with the Great Knowing,
    Led people to encounters with it.
    His disciples, distanced from the Great Knowing,
    Led people astray. Everything depends upon
    its being in accord with the Great Knowing.
    But, as luck would have it,
    We are, more often than not,
    estranged from the Great Knowing
    And it is to us as the Great Unknown.
    Moving from Unknown to Knowing
    Is the task of life.
    How is it coming along?
  30. 05/09/2016 — Four Seasons Trail Panorama 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 31, 2016 The Great Knowing knows
    What it is time for when.
    Our place is to know what the Great Knowing knows
    By placing ourselves in accord with it
    And waiting, watching, looking, listening
    Until we see, hear and understand. All of the ancient peoples knew this
    And lived aligned with the fullness of time,
    doing what was called for
    when it was called for. What is it time for in each situation as it arises?
    What is being called for?
    What is crying out to be seen, acknowledged, said, asked, done?
    Those who live in accord with the Great Knowing
    Do things without knowing why,
    And the things that are done
    are exactly what needs to be done. How do they know?
    They are at one with the Great Knowing.
    How do we achieve oneness with the Great Knowing?
    Cultivate humility and compassion.
    Know that you don’t know 1% of all there is to know.
    Sit quietly regularly,
    Waiting, watching, looking, listening. When you are not sitting,
    Develop your ability to be mindfully aware
    of the time and place of your living.
    Recognize urgencies arising on their own,
    Calling you to comply,
    Inspiring you to action.
    Live looking forward
    To what you will find yourself doing.
  31. 05/10/2016 — Chickweed 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We spend too much time
    Seeking consolation and compensation,
    And too little time
    Seeking what is being asked of us,
    And doing what needs us to do it. Recovery is preparation.
    Nothing is going to be made up to us.
    Our losses are our losses.
    We have to grieve what is to be grieved,
    Mourn what is to be mourned,
    And get ready for the next round. Life isn’t waiting for us to feel like doing it.
    Isn’t standing around until we give it the signal.
    We have to pick ourselves up
    And put ourselves in accord with the here and now
    Of each situation as it arises.
    Shake it off.
    Stand tall.
    It is already now
  32. 05/10/2016 — Zen Glen 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 10, 2016 Why be anywhere else?
    The sin of hubris is living beyond ourselves,
    Over-reaching ourselves,
    Not knowing when or where to stop.
    This is my stopping place:
    No public appearances.
    No speaking engagements.
    No social activities.
    No civic responsibilities.
    No business transactions.
    No TV. Get the idea?
    Retirement is a hammock for Zazen
    And reflection,
    A camera for exercise as I look for a photograph,
    And a computer to connect with the world. I’ve created my own monastic order
    With my own Rules of the Day.
    It’s easier to pull off when you are retired,
    But anyone could carve out a space for themselves
    In a week, or in a month.
    It all starts with making room for yourself in your life.
  33. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 05/11/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 07 Detail B — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 At the heart level,
    Practitioners of Zen,
    Buddhism and Taoism
    know the same thing:
    What’s what.
    The further we get away from what’s what
    Into the why, and how, and when, and where, and who—
    That is to say,
    The further we get away from the raw experience
    Of the situation as it arises,
    And what is happening there,
    And what needs to happen in response,
    In light of the true good of the situation as a whole,
    Out of the gifts and resources available to us individually,
    Regardless of the implications for us personally—
    And the further we get into doctrine, theology and ideology—
    The further we get from the level of our heart and bones and stomach,
    The further we get into head stuff, mental stuff, rational, logical stuff,
    And the more we become automatons,
    robots,
    androids,
    a face in the crowd,
    a member of the masses,
    lost to our Self,
    with no idea of who we are
    and what matters most
    in any situation as it arises. Bad religion alienates us from ourselves
    And makes us a digital reproduction of everyone else
    Standing as one,
    Reciting the creeds of the bad religion.
  34. 05/11/2016 — Foam Flower 2016 03 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 What is truest for you?
    Not in terms of what your head knows,
    Or thinks it knows,
    But in terms of what your heart
    And hands
    And body
    Know? What are you built for?
    Where do you belong?
    What is the nature of the drift of your soul.
    What are you inclined toward?
    Away from?
    Where do you have no business being?
    What do you know that you don’t know that you know?
    What do you know that you know you know and dismiss,
    Discount,
    Ignore,
    Reject?
    The work of resurrection,
    Of salvation,
    Of deliverance,
    Is the work of knowing these things. The work of the Hero’s Journey,
    The Spiritual Path,
    The way back to Eden,
    Is the work of healing the division within,
    Recognizing our alienation from ourselves—
    From our Self—
    And living to close the breach,
    And live aligned with heart/soul/Self,
    In collaboration with,
    In full accord with,
    The foundational truth
    At the ground of our being:
    Who we are and are to be
    In the time left for living.
  35. 05/11/2016 — Zen Glen 2016 02 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 10, 2016 In my hammock in the glen
    Comes true the word
    Wendell Berry speaks
    In “The Peace of Wild Things”: “If your heart is fearful,
    Or your spirit crushed,
    And your hope is at a low ebb,
    Seek out some natural corner
    And sit there
    Until the stillness
    Drowns out the depressing
    din of civilization,
    And you rest there,
    Finally,
    In the gift freely given
    To those who come seeking,
    Desperately needing solace,
    Revitalization,
    And the courage to go on.”
  36. 05/12/2016 — Goodale 2015 52 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We need to step back more often.
    From the things that drive us,
    Like fear and desire. Fear and desire are problems
    Only when they consume us. At a safe working distance,
    They inform us—
    Warn us of our ever-present tendency
    To “leave the way, get off the path”
    And wander amid the things
    That pretend to matter,
    But only lead us further away
    From the things that do. Fear and desire remind us
    To recommit ourselves
    In the service of what matters most,
    And remain faithful to the cause
    Of being grounded and centered
    In the work of living aligned with that
    Which is integral to us—
    No matter what version of the Cyclops or Sirens
    Stands before us at the moment.
  37. 05/12/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 11 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You can’t give yourself to the 10,000 things
    And have anything left for the important things
    When they come along. How do you know what is important?
    Spend large amounts of time
    Paying attention to yourself. You know what is meaningful and important.
    You only have to know what you know—
    And refuse to be swept along in the crowd
    That is going everywhere,
    Doing everything. Say “No.”
    Even to yourself.
    So that you can say “Yes,” to yourself
    When “Yes” needs to be said.
  38. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 05/13/2016 — Pitcher Plants 2016 04 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, April 30, 2016 Bigotry is unacceptable.
    Discrimination/oppression has no place among us.
    Inequality,
    favoritism,
    injustice,
    cruelty,
    brutality,
    ..
    No, No, No, NO! Political INcorrectness has become acceptable
    To a growing percentage of high ranking public officials,
    Encouraging the unranked masses
    To flaunt their contempt of laws protecting the rights of all people
    And declare,
    “If a law threatens my religious liberty, I don’t have to obey it.” This is anarchy,
    And beyond appalling. The declaration,
    “Your religious liberty ends where my constitutional rights begin,”
    Needs to be affirmed and reaffirmed by every elected official
    In every state in the United States. Every official taking office
    takes an oath promising to uphold
    and obey the laws of the land.
    And too many of them
    are making laws which void laws
    They hold to be distasteful—
    Because the laws in question protect the rights of people
    The legislators do not like. The trend will continue and grow stronger
    As long as people who could vote
    for office seekers of a different mind-set refuse to vote.
    The people elect the people who abuse the people—
    Often by failing to vote at all. By not voting, we contribute to the creation
    Of an environment of incivility and inhumanity. If you don’t vote, I’m talking to you.
  39. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 05/14/2016 — Southern Wood Fern 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 05, 2016 Hatred and fear feed off each other
    And consume the world. Traveling the blue highways seeking photographs,
    I drive past a number of rural homes
    With Confederate flags flying
    And Trump for President signs standing
    In their front yards. The combination is not surprising,
    But it is chilling. Trump can stir hatred and fear
    To milk them for votes,
    But he cannot contain them,
    Or even channel them. No reliable,
    responsible,
    stable
    and sane person
    Can act in any way
    to encourage hatred and fear.
    “Just making a suggestion,”
    “Just thinking out loud,”
    “Just saying what people are thinking,”
    “Just kidding”
    Are just providing
    the spark for the conflagration.
    A leader’s primary responsibility,
    In politics and in business,
    Is to create a climate of safety
    and respect for all people.
    Demonizing “them,”
    Or just making “them”
    bear the brunt of our jokes and disdain,
    Puts “them” at risk
    And encourages distrust,
    And incites violence.
    We cannot do it,
    Or allow it to be done
    Without calling it out
    And demanding that it stop at once
    And never be repeated.
  40. 05/14/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 12 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.”
    A man asked, “But who exactly is my neighbor?”
    Jesus told those gathered the Parable of the Good Samaritan,
    And asked “Who, of all those who walked by, was the neighbor
    To the man in the ditch?”
    They said, “The one who showed mercy to him.”
    Jesus said, “That’s it. YOU are the neighbor!
    You go be neighbors to everyone who needs a neighbor.” So what is this national trend toward
    Treating those who need a neighbor—
    The LGBT population,
    Minorities,
    Immigrants,
    Latinos,
    Muslims,

    As though they don’t need a neighbor?
    The people in position to help them
    Certainly aren’t going to be one! What’s with all this spitting on Jesus?
    By people who say they love Jesus?
  41. 05/15/2016 — Pitcher Plants 2016 07 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 If you can be quiet enough,
    You can hear everything
    You need to hear
    To know what needs to be done
    In each situation
    As it arises. Silence is the solution
    To every problem
    You have
    Or will have. There is a catch.
    It must be the right kind of silence.
    Spending our life
    Seeking the silence
    In the right kind of way
    Is not a waste of time.
    It is the way time
    Is meant to be spent.
    A lot of listening,
    A little doing.
    The less we do
    In the right kind of way,
    The more we get done. Over the course of a life
    Lived this way,
    We transform the world.

One Minute Monologues 030

12/17/2015 – 01/27/2016

  1. 12/17/2015 — Lao Tzu called it “the Tao.”
    Carl Jung called it “Synchronicity.”
    I call it “Grace.”
    Call it what you will,
    It is an experience of an encounter
    With more than words can say.
    That means more than can be explained:
    ”The Tao that can be told
    is not the eternal Tao”—
    and reflects a Reality
    directing,
    influencing,
    upholding,
    grounding,
    guiding,
    supporting,
    encouraging,
    enabling
    our life,
    and all of life,
    inviting us to trust ourselves to it
    relax ourselves in it,
    and allow it to carry us into an unfolding wonder
    beyond belief and denial. What is beyond belief and denial?
  2. 12/17/2015
    We know too easily, too quickly,
    What is good and what is bad,
    What is right and what is wrong,
    What is preferred and what is disdained.
    Who is the Devil,
    and who is the Christ.
    We draw our lines
    and peer out at them,
    as though they are the enemy,
    the infidel,
    And we are the Chosen People Of God. Lao Tzu said, “All others are clear and bright,
    I alone am cloudy and confused.”
    Something is to be said for seeing
    the validity of all sides,
    of understanding the value of opposites,
    and being able to stand
    in the tension between extremes,
    integrate polarities,
    reconcile divisions,
    and befriend both meaning and meaninglessness,
    sense and nonsense,
    laughing and dancing with all of life. To live at the center
    is to join the extremes
    so that all become one in our heart.
  3. 12/18/2015
    Rumi said, “One glimpse of a true human being,
    and we are in love.”
    We carry within a sense of the ideal we are to be—
    The ideal everything—
    woman,
    man,
    husband,
    wife,
    mother,
    ..
    everything.
    And, when we see it in someone else,
    we are in love.
    We are powerfully attracted to the ideal,
    to that which we are yet to be,
    in all those who reflect it. Even though, we are projecting it onto them
    we cannot project it onto just anyone.
    Only certain people are capable of reflecting
    our projections back to us,
    enabling us to see in them,
    who we are asked to be,
    so that they become carriers of the ideal us. When we fail to understand
    what is happening,
    we think they are ideal,
    when they are only carrying/reflecting
    the ideal we are capable of being.
    When we think it is about them,
    and not about us,
    we confuse the roles
    and try to possess them
    instead of allowing them to serve as the model
    of our own becoming. We worship them,
    idolize them,
    adore them,
    love them
    all the while misinterpreting the symbol
    they represent,
    and fail to develop in ourselves
    the qualities lying latent within us
    that call to us from the other.
  4. 12/18/2015
    The work of being a True Human Being
    is the work of authenticity,
    integrity,
    genuineness,
    wholeness,
    oneness
    and completion. It is the work of being who we are,
    which is who we ought to be—
    not in some moral sense,
    but in the practical sense
    of being exactly who we are capable of being
    in responding appropriately to each situation as it arises. It is the work of being exactly
    what the situation calls for
    and exactly who we are,
    by bringing ourselves
    and our gifts
    forth to meet our life,
    regardless of the implications
    for us personally. We do not exploit our gifts for our own good.
    We are burdened by the gifts we carry
    for the good of the situation—
    for the good of the whole—
    the whole world.
    ”We come not to be served, but to serve,
    And to give our life in the service of freeing others
    to live in the service of their own gifts.” One True Human Being
    sparks the ignition of others,
    starting fires of True Human Being-hood
    throughout the species,
    transforming the world.
  5. 12/18/2015
    A meaningful life is a life lived
    with integrity and authenticity.
    Integrity is living in ways that are integral
    with the center—the core—of what is important to us.
    When we live aligned with that center,
    our life is meaningful. When our life is meaningless, aimless and empty,
    it is because we have lost connection
    with the center of what is important to us,
    and are living out of accord
    with the life that is truly our life to live.
    We are living inauthentically,
    cut off from what is deepest, best and truest about us.
    We have forgotten who we are,
    and what our business is. When we do not know what we mean with our life,
    our life is meaningless.
    To live with meaning and purpose,
    we have to find our way back to our heart,
    remember what is of central importance to us,
    and live in ways that reflect our connection
    with what means the most to us.
  6. 12/19/2015
    The art of letting things happen
    requires us to be open at all times
    to what needs to happen—
    to what is trying to happen—
    and to allow that to take precedent over
    what we want to happen. It is the art of stepping back,
    of standing aside,
    of acquiescing to,
    and living in the service of,
    the shape of things to come,
    regardless of the implications
    that might have for us personally. It is living in a
    “Thy will, not mine, be done”
    kind of way—
    as a servant of grace
    at work in our life.
  7. 12/19/2015
    Grace is a gift of perception
    that allows us to see the good in all things.
    The source of anger and frustration in our life
    can also be the source of compassion, forgiveness, acceptance and love—
    can also be the source of creativity, good humor, patience and resiliency—
    can also be the source of our growing up, awakening, enlightenment and peace—
    can be what is needed to deepen, expand and enlarge us. No one ever became a True Human Being
    with everything going his, or her, way.
    Grace may go our way,
    or transcend our way,
    transform our way,
    enabling us to see the good
    in a multitude of ways.
  8. 12/20/2015
    We do it for the love of the game.
    If you don’t love the game,
    you are playing the wrong game.
    You have to get in THE game!
    Not knowing what game we are playing
    is the easiest thing—
    thinking we are playing one game,
    when we are actually playing another,
    is not knowing what game we are playing. What game are you playing?
    That’s the question all the gurus and masters ask us.
    Jesus came asking it.
    The Buddha asked it.
    Rumi asked it.
    The Prophet asked it.
    Gandhi asked it. All of them were into playing the right game.
    Too many play a different game.
    Call it “the getting ahead game.”
    buying, spending, amassing, consuming,
    in the service of wealth and privilege,
    fortune and glory.
    Others play “the survival game.”
    just getting by
    desperate and consumed, themselves, by desperation
    in an “eat or be eaten” world,
    to be hated,
    or borne with resignation and hopelessness
    until death takes them away. The gurus and masters rejected wealth
    and were poor without hating it.
    They played a different game—
    and they did it for the love of the game,
    whether or not things went their way
    (And they never go anyone’s way for long). Call it, Being Alive.
    Be Alive in the time and place of your living
    regardless of your context and circumstances.
    Do it for the love of that game.
  9. 12/20/2015
    Our work generally consists of two things: 1) Putting ourselves in accord with
    (Coming to terms with,
    Making our peace with,
    Being in right relationship with):
    The context, nature and circumstances
    Of the “here and now”
    (The Umwelt)
    Of our living conditions. 2) Aligning ourselves with who we are
    so that the life we live reflects
    our own nature and qualities,
    gifts, passions and interests,
    and is a transparent expression
    of the truth of the person who is living it—
    in each situation as it arises. That’s it.
    What do you need to do The Two Things?
    Answering that question
    Is The Third Thing. Your mission is to spend the rest of your life
    in the service of these three things.
  10. 12/20/2015
    We are responsible for the response
    we make to the experience of being alive.
    We can talk about the poor quality
    of our parenting and upbringing,
    and wail about the lack
    of opportunities and possibilities,
    and write ourselves excuse after excuse
    for being unable to do anything
    with this sorry old life,
    and shirk all responsibility for doing anything
    with the miserable hand
    we were dealt
    and the shoddy lot that befell us, We are responsible for that response.
    Other people have done more with less.
    Where does that leave us?
    With squaring ourselves up with ourselves,
    looking our life in the eye,
    living transparent to ourselves
    from this point on,
    and doing what can yet be done
    with the life that waits for us
    to get out of bed in the morning,
    just as it is,
    every day that we get out of bed.
  11. 12/21/2015
    If you are going to judge people,
    extend to them the grace
    of looking at them with the unbiased eye
    of an actual judge,
    and not an audience. Too many people look without seeing,
    listen without hearing,
    and talk without saying anything. Too many people live as unconscious
    extensions of the culture,
    with an opinion about everything
    and knowledge of nothing. See what you look at.
    hear what you listen to
    and what you are saying.
    know whereof you speak
    before you say anything.
  12. 12/21/2015
    Become what you seek.
    Be what you need.
    This is all there is to it.
  13. 12/22/2015
    We have everything we need
    to live transparent to ourselves,
    aligned with ourselves,
    at one with ourselves,
    integrated with ourselves,
    true to ourselves,
    and so be True Human Beings
    within the context and circumstances of our life,
    in each situation as it arises,
    all our life long. All it takes is getting out of the way,
    knowing what we know,
    and understanding that we are
    just along for the ride.
  14. 12/22/2015
    We cannot be true to ourselves
    without contradicting ourselves.
    Being true to ourselves
    requires us to “live a lie.”
    The lie is a necessary aspect of the truth. For example (You’ve heard it before):
    the Dalai Lama’s bodyguards carry automatic weapons.
    You can’t be more contradictory than that.
    We all have to be at least that contradictory.
    There has to be more to each of us than meets the eye—
    even our own eye!
    We cannot hide that from ourselves,
    lie to ourselves,
    pretend to ourselves that we are
    only who we say we are. Living transparent to ourselves
    allows us to be necessarily antithetical
    in the one life we have to live
    and always open to the possibility
    of surprising ourselves
    with something we never saw coming.
  15. 12/22/2015
    The way things are is not the way
    we have been told that they would be.
    This is the primary realization
    leading the way to all the ones that follow.
    How we follow it is crucial to our development.
    The way things are is not the way
    we have been told that they would be—
    ..
    What? Where do we go from here?
    Everything hangs on our answer to:
    “Now what?”
    Here, we are at the swing point
    to a number of possible futures.
    How we answer the question
    leads us further away from, or ever closer to,
    the Self at the center of the “I.”
    Everything hangs on what we say. ”What a slippery slope this is!”
  16. 12/22/2015
    You can’t pare it down.
    There are no shortcuts.
    Our whole life is our practice.
    We live to be transparent to ourselves,
    reading our nighttime dreams,
    and our daytime flights of fantasy,
    reflecting on our drifts of mood and mind,
    for insight into the ways
    and workings of our inner world,
    in order to relate that world to our life
    In the outer world of normal, apparent, reality. We bridge the worlds!
    Connect the worlds!
    Harmonize the worlds!
    So that inner and outer are one world—
    forming,
    expressing,
    shaping,
    impacting,
    bringing forth,
    making real
    our life
    and who we are,
    that we might be fully,
    consciously,
    alive in the life we are living. We cannot do that on the side,
    in our spare time,
    while we tend the important matters
    with the full focus of our complete attention.
    Our life is the only thing that matters.
    We live to bring ourselves to life
    in the time left for living.
  17.  12/22/2015
    Good religion doesn’t kill anyone.
    Doesn’t hate anyone.
    Doesn’t condemn anyone.
    Doesn’t focus on converting anyone.
    Doesn’t spend its time talking about anyone.
    Doesn’t care who is saved and who isn’t.
    Isn’t obsessed with sin and sinners.
    Isn’t interested in proving it is the only religion.
    Has no time for debates or discussions about theology, doctrine and dogma.
    Thinks it is enough to know what your own business is and mind it, tend it, do it, and let that be enough.
  18. 12/23/2015
    Our inner world has a stake
    in the life we are living in the outer world—
    seeking expression,
    realization,
    actualization,
    in the life we are living. Soul isn’t interested in spectating,
    and strives to make itself real—
    vital, not virtual—
    in the way we go about living
    in the world of normal, apparent, reality. How soulfully do we live?
    How much playing time do we grant Soul each day?
    How seriously to we take Soul’s need for self-expression?
    When is the last time we listened to Soul?
    Invited Soul’s guidance through the daily maze? Soul is sometimes called Psyche,
    and sometimes called the Unconscious
    because we are unconscious of Soul’s, Psyche’s,
    reality, nature, aims and ways. Yet, Soul speaks to us in our nighttime dreams,
    and our daytime flights of fantasy—
    through our symptoms,
    intuition,
    instincts
    and sensations. We are all psychic,
    as Psyche’s children should be,
    and have only to learn the language of Soul,
    and align ourselves with Soul’s leanings,
    to enter the partnership that seeks our participation,
    transforming and revitalizing what’s left to be lived.
  19. 12/25/2015
    Listen to your body.
    Your body will tell you how it is with you.
    Move away from people who make you uncomfortable.
    This is Fortune Cookie wisdom. You wouldn’t eat a rancid Fortune Cookie.
    Why do you stay in the company of a rancid personality?
    Your body tells you, “Don’t eat this cookie!”
    ”Don’t stay in the proximity of this person!”
    Why would you override your body’s instruction?
    Why would you allow social convention to overrule
    your body’s wisdom?
    You have to be the champion of your own cause!
    The hero of your own princess-held-hostage!
    To The Rescue! On Guard! To Arms! To Arms!
    Do not eat the rancid cookie!
  20. 12/25/2015
    We are in charge of our own salvation.
    Salvation is restoration.
    We are responsible for restoring ourselves
    to ends worthy of us—
    to a life that is worthy of us.
    We are responsible for finding our way
    to the life that is our life to live—
    that only WE can live. We cannot be satisfied with a life anyone could live.
    Our life cannot be like that of one cow following another
    from the barn to the pasture back to the barn.
    Our life has to be uniquely our own,
    reflecting and expressing who we are
    and what means the most to us. We are charged with bringing ourselves forth,
    and gifting US to the world.
    We save ourselves by restoring ourselves to our life
    and living at-one with who we are
    in the deepest sense of the word
    in the time left for living. We start by listening to our dreams and fantasies,
    our symptoms,
    interests,
    instinct
    and intuition.
    We already know what we need to know.
    We only need to know what we know,
    and have the courage to live it into being.
  21. 12/26/2015
    We ground ourselves,
    express ourselves,
    define ourselves,
    give shape and form to ourselves,
    through the work of our hands and body
    in the outer world of normal, apparent, reality. If we are lost,
    blown about,
    confused,
    uncertain,
    fear dissolution
    and disintegration—
    dis-integration—
    on the inside,
    it is important that we work with stones,
    or dig in the earth (the ground),
    or rearrange the furniture in our house
    with a specific design in mind,
    in order to settle the unsettled nature of our inner world. We bring ourselves into focus—
    integrate the disparate aspects of our Psyche—
    calm ourselves
    and restore our souls,
    by physically moving things into place
    In the outer world. We live ourselves into place
    by consciously applying the metaphor,
    Thou Art That,
    to our life in specific ways,
    so that Inner reflects Outer,
    and we become still by being busy
    with the work of our hands and body,
    arranging things “in here”
    by arranging things “out there.”
  22. 12/26/2015
    We participate as full partners
    in our own reclamation,
    restoration, And hell is not something
    that happens when we die,
    but what happens in our life
    when we refuse the invitation
    to collaborate in the work
    of becoming who we are. We cooperate with ourselves—
    with our Self at the center of the “I” —
    when we seek the Self at the center of the “I,”
    and move from the known to the unknown,
    from what we are conscious of about ourselves
    to what we are unconscious of about ourselves. We enter a new world—
    the world of inner reality—
    and find there amazing resources—
    not to use as we will in the service of the “I”—
    but to equip
    and enable our work,
    our life,
    in the service of the Self
    at the center of the “I.” We have to give up our idea of our life
    in order to find and live our LIFE.
    And that’s the catch that keeps things as they are.
    We cannot live without dying to all we think of as life.
    You see the problem.
    This is what it means to bear our own cross.
    Crucifixion and resurrection in real time everyday.
  23. 12/26/2015
    We are afraid of pain.
    The pain of loneliness,
    lostness,
    aimlessness,
    emptiness,
    isolation,
    .. Our life consists of denying the pain,
    running from the pain,
    hiding from the pain,
    escaping the pain.
    We have to bear the pain.
    We have to face it,
    feel it,
    acknowledge it,
    honor it,
    and wait it out. Waiting the pain out
    is the key to reconciling
    ourselves to it,
    transcending it,
    and putting it in its place. It will always be with us, but.
    In waiting it out,
    we know it isn’t the final word.
    Something shifts,
    stirs,
    comes to life—
    or will if we are waiting out the pain
    and not nurturing, nourishing it forever,
    refusing to let it go. If that’s our story, we cannot be helped, but
    if we are waiting it out,
    a shift will occur,
    a light flickers,
    something catches our eye,
    hope and courage ignite,
    and before you know it,
    we are coming back to life. Amazing.
    Grace in the darkness,
    birthing us again.
    And again.
  24. 12/27/2015
    We are a lazy lot,
    and have a lot of inertia to overcome
    in taking up the work
    of the spiritual journey. My friend Ogi was talking about his friends in AA
    when he said, “All we ever wanted was smooth and easy,”
    but he could have been talking about all of us,
    and all of our ancestors and progeny. “Smooth and easy” about raps it up.
    We like the idea of the spiritual journey,
    but the word “practice” puts us off.
    We don’t what to have to actually DO anything to be spiritual.
    Taking up the practice of mindful meditation
    is asking too much. We hear about “tools for the Journey,”
    and we have an immediate affinity
    with the guy who said,
    ”Just tell us what to believe, Preacher,
    and don’t meddle with our lives!” Smooth and Easy
    Are the Scylla and Charybdis of the Journey,
    and keep us from ever making the trip.
  25. 12/27/2015
    What needs to happen, here, now, next?
    That is our question to answer in each here, now, of our life. We answer it in light of our present situation,
    and in light of all that has happened up to this point,
    and in light of what needs to happen from this point on. We answer it in light of what has been done to us,
    and in light of what we have done in response.
    In light of what we have done,
    and in light of what has been done in response.
    In light of our values,
    and the character we live to express in,
    even as it is shaped by,
    the circumstances in which we live. Taking all of this,
    and the context and circumstances
    into account,
    what needs to happen, here, now, next? It helps me to be still
    and quiet for a while,
    and see what occurs to me.
    I recommend that procedure
    to all who have the luxury
    of time and silence.
  26. 12/28/2015
    What would have helped me
    Would have been some early, middle, and late
    Lessons in mindfulness. Or, just living with mindful people. Being with people who were
    seeing,
    hearing,
    understanding,
    asking,
    seeking,
    probing,
    .. Who weren’t afraid to ask questions.
    Who were reading, and writing, poetry.
    Who were creative and imaginative.
    Who were self-reflective,
    and capable of examining everything they saw,
    and heard,
    and felt,
    and thought—
    In light of everything else they saw,
    and heard,
    and felt,
    and thought. Who believed more in the value of hypotheses
    than in the value of rules.
    Who knew the importance of music beyond hymns.
    Who danced and laughed,
    and indulged regularly in joy for no reason. I would have been a lot better off
    with a different set of people in my life,
    Maybe, you know what I mean.
  27. 12/28/2015
    The problem is time. We don’t realize how precious it is early enough.
    Whave to be intensely aware of each moment,
    And how we might use it
    to bring forth the life that is ours to bring forth—
    giving birth to new ideas,
    new realizations,
    new thoughts,
    concepts,
    kindnesses,
    generosities,
    .. How to make the most of each day
    includes being quiet,
    still,
    and mindful
    in order to see
    what needs us to do it each day—
    and to take our time with doing it,
    so that we do it
    the way it needs to be done. There is no time to lose.
    What needs to be done
    cannot be hurried.
    It is like yeast in the dough,
    and seeds in the earth,
    and six eggs hatching under a sitting hen.
  28. 12/29/2015
    We spend our life
    trying to get together
    with ourselves.
    It would help to know
    that from the start.
    And be given tips and suggestions
    for how we might go about it. We are told nothing about the things that matter.
    They leave it up to us
    to figure it out on our own
    over time.
    Over long stretches of time. It starts out with our not knowing
    what’s wrong with us.
    It’s like we are never quite satisfied,
    no matter how much we have.
    It’s like we are looking for something,
    we don’t know what.
    But we think it might be
    found in the eyes of strangers,
    0r on the other side of the sea.
    Somewhere far away
    and difficult to get to.
    All we know is we are dissatisfied
    and troubled by a nagging sense
    that there is something more.
    Something we are unconscious of
    is trying to become conscious. Our Self is seeking us!
    Whispering our name.
    Winking at us in a multitude of ways.
    Appearing as a mirage in the desert,
    a ghost in the night.
    Flirting with us, What we seek is as near as our next breath,
    But it may as well be in a deep cave
    in a high mountain
    on the backside of Tibet,
    for all the good being close does. We were separated at birth
    from our antenatal best friend,
    and almost remember what we lost—
    almost know how good life would be
    with him, with her, to collaborate with,
    enjoying the wonder of Two being One
    for the rest of our life.
  29. 12/29/2015
    Our Other Self is always
    trying to get our attention.
    Dreams,
    fantasies,
    walk-a-bouts,
    symptoms,
    moods,
    urges,
    instinctive feelings,
    intuitive inclinations,
    strange occurrences,
    memories
    inexplicable coincidences,
    things that occur to us out of nowhere,
    things we find ourselves doing without intending to,
    saying without meaning to… All are visitations from our invisible Other—
    Invitations to sit down,
    open up,
    and be fully available
    to that which is always present with us,
    yet unknown to us. How can this be?
    How can we not know our Other Self?
    How can we be as old as we are
    and know as little as we do
    about the world within? We were enlisted to bring that world
    with us when we came forth from the womb,
    and to bring it to life
    in the world of space and time. But there were none to help us
    remember our mission
    reconnect with our purpose,
    and live the life that was prepared for us
    before we were born—
    the life that only we can live—
    and can still live yet,
    if we only realize the irrepressible truth
    of the Inner Other
    as one who is full available
    to that which has been
    forever present with us,
    and say something on the order of,
    “Help me help you
    become as real as I am
    in the time we have left to live.” And mean it.
  30. 12/30/2015
    Kobe Brant, in talking about his team,
    the Los Angeles Lakers, said,
    “You aren’t going to make a cat bark.
    And yelling at it isn’t going to help.
    At some point, you just have to sit back
    and enjoy what can be enjoyed about the ride”
    (Or words to that effect). We think our Other Self can be taught to bark,
    and agree to sign on with it
    with the understanding—
    all on our part—
    that our Other Self will do things our way. Thinking this way gives us “The Prayer of Jabez”
    and “The Law of Attraction,”
    wherein if we do things a certain way,
    we’ll get a barking cat,
    and everything will be just rosy. Jesus put it this way:
    “Those who seek to save their life
    will lose it, and those who lose their life
    in the service of that which is greater than they are
    will gain it” (Or words to that effect). Our Other Side will eat our old life—
    and the life of our happy fantasies—alive.
    When we sign on with our Other Side,
    we get the life that only we can live,
    packed down,
    spilling over,
    pouring out, We have to give up our idea of life
    in order to come to life
    and be fully, wholly, alive. Always.
    Always.
    The trade off.
    If you can square up with that,
    you have it made.
    And can sit back and enjoy
    all that is to be enjoyed
    about the ride.
    And, it will be quite a ride. But the cat won’t be barking.
  31. 12/30/2015
    Our Other Self possesses
    full working knowledge
    of the blueprint that is ours
    to bring forth in our life. We each have a life that is as unique to us
    as our fingerprints or the patterns of our irises.
    There is no one like us,
    present,
    past
    or future.
    What do we mean,
    trying to fit in,
    belong,
    by looking like them
    and doing it like they would do it?
    The idea is to be who we are,
    living the life that is our life to live,
    serving the good of ourselves
    and the good of humankind.
    By being true to ourselves,
    we bring forth what is most needed
    in service to the whole.
    The individual realizing herself,
    realizing himself,
    as a true human being
    is the hope of the world.
    And our Other Self has in hand
    the template that is ours
    to effect and implement.
    It is our place to get together
    with our Other Self,
    enter into full collaboration with our Other Self,
    and live the life that is
    our joint life to live
    in the time left for living. You might say our sole responsibility
    is to our soul throughout what remains of our life.
  32. 12/30/2015
    Inside and outside compliment each other,
    dance with one another,
    become one with the other. We take this as confirmation
    of being on the beam,
    in the zone,
    at one with the flow of our life. If an opportunity arises
    without sparking our
    interest and enthusiasm,
    let it go. If what we are interested in
    and enthusiastic about
    finds nothing but
    locked doors and dead ends,
    don’t keep insisting on being a rock star,
    or the next Michael Jordan. Read the outer signs and the inner signals.
    Seek resonance and ratification.
    Just because something invites you
    doesn’t make it inviting.
    Just because you want something
    doesn’t mean it’s right for you. But when outer clicks with inner,
    Smile to yourself,
    And see where it goes.
  33. 12/30/2015
    To live in conscious relationship
    with the present moment
    is to be aware of whatever is happening now.
    Our awareness contains everything
    we are capable of being aware of.
    It is all here, now.
    Thoughts,
    sights,
    sounds,
    sensations,
    memories,
    moods,
    ..
    It is all contained in awareness.
    Receive it well,
    without evaluation
    or opinion.
    See how long you can be aware
    of being aware of the moment
    that is eternally now.
  34. 12/31/2015
    We cannot rest in the full awareness of the moment
    and be embroiled in the moment.
    We cannot be alive to the moment
    and be directed by the moment,
    controlled by the moment.
    We are not the moment.
    We live in the moment,
    choosing in the moment of our living
    how best that is to be done. Some ways of living are better than others.
    Some ways of living are much worse than others.
    Living as those who are owned by the moment
    forfeits the option of seeing what is happening,
    knowing what is needed,
    and responding in ways
    that take the allness of the moment
    into account. Seeing things as they are
    eschews shortcuts,
    avoids rote responses,
    examines assumptions,
    rushes neither to judgment
    nor to solution,
    listens carefully to what
    is being said
    and not being said,
    recognizes that what is on the line
    in any situation
    may not be what appears
    to be on the line—
    and responds to what is on the line.
  35. 12/31/2015
    Everything relating to our growth and development
    as individuals and True Human Beings
    is grounded upon,
    and flows from,
    our living out of,
    our own personal authority. We have to live the life
    we say is worth living.
    We have to live in the service
    of what we declare to be of value.
    We have to express,
    exhibit,
    incarnate who we know ourselves to be.
    We have to make our own calls
    regarding what we say yes to
    and no to. All of this hinges
    upon our achieving
    the right kind of compassionate
    working distance
    with the other people in our life.
    It’s important that they matter to us,
    but not so much that they stand in our way.
    A life worthy of us
    comes down to our ability
    to work out the ratios,
    and know where to draw the lines
    separating who we are
    from who others would have us be.
  36. 12/31/2015
    If we could live
    without ignoring
    any aspect of our experience,
    so that each situation
    were transparent to us,
    and we were transparent to ourselves,
    we would be able
    to live there with superhuman powers
    of comprehension and integrity,
    seeing and doing what needed to be done
    in the service of the highest/deepest values
    and the good of the entire world. Mindfulness leads the way.
    If you are going to practice anything,
    be anything,
    practice mindfulness,
    be mindful—
    compassionately present,
    attentive to and aware of,
    without evaluation or opinion,
    what is present with you
    in each situation as it arises—
    doing so will transform your life and the world.
  37. 12/31/2015
    We cannot live with integrity without living mindfully.
    We cannot live mindfully without living with integrity.
    Integrity is the alignment of inner with outer,
    so that we are who we are.
    Integrity is the essential characteristic of God:
    ”Tell them ‘I Am Who I Am’ sent you!”
    When we are mindful enough to know who we are,
    we have no excuse for failing to be who we are.
    How can we face ourselves in living contrary to ourselves,
    against ourselves?
    Our fundamental responsibility is to be who we are
    in each situation as it arises
    for the good of the situation—
    in an “I came not to be served, but to serve”
    kind of way.
  38. 12/31/2015
    It is our place—
    the place of individuals
    becoming/being themselves—
    to raise the level of authenticity,
    genuineness
    and integrity in the world. We live these things into being.
    We raise the level of authenticity by being authentic.
    We raise the level of genuineness by being genuine.
    We raise the level of integrity by being integrated—
    by living in ways that are integral with that which
    is deepest, best and truest about us,
    in ways that are at one with our Best Self,
    which would be our Other Self,
    the Inner Self we also are. We raise the level of authenticity,
    genuineness
    and integrity
    by being mindfully,
    compassionately,
    aware
    of how things are with us and about us,
    and how they also are—
    without evaluation or opinion. Just knowing how things are (and also are),
    changes how things are (and also are).
    Knowing what we are dismissing,
    discounting,
    overlooking,
    ignoring,
    changes our relationship with those things,
    and enables us to know better what we are doing.
    Knowing better what we are doing
    is all that is necessary
    to change what we are doing
    in ways that are beneficial
    to ourselves and others,
    and the world will be better off for it.
  39. 01/01/2016
    There is no plan.
    Life unfolds according to its own purpose,
    in its own time.
    Your life,
    my life,
    are not yours and mine
    to do with as we please
    at a time
    in a manner
    that is pleasing to us. We wait for the propitious time,
    the fullness of time,
    when the time is right,
    and our life unfolds before us
    and the way opens to us
    and it is as though
    this is the moment we have been waiting for,
    all that time we were
    wondering what we were doing
    and what we are here for. We are all caterpillars
    waiting to fly.
    Do you think when caterpillars
    have their conventions,
    seminars,
    and weekend retreats,
    anybody ever talks of flying?
    We are all caterpillars
    waiting to fly.
  40. 01/01/2016
    I see my place in your life
    as being that of putting you
    in touch with your life—
    in touch with the idea
    that you have a life—
    not the one you are living,
    the one that is yours to live. I’m here to goad you into considering
    what you are doing
    and how you feel about
    what you are doing.
    How do you feel about the life you are living?
    How well does it fit you?
    Is there any sense of being out of place somehow,
    of this being not quite it, somehow? I’m here to nag you into squaring up with
    how it is with you,
    and into wondering how it
    might be even yet.
    I’m here to throw questions at you
    until one strikes a cord, hits home,
    and you look at what you are doing,
    and what you might do in addition,
    or instead. I’m here to deepen,
    expand,
    enlarge
    your awareness of you
    and your possibilities for life—
    your awareness of what is struggling
    to come to life in your life,
    and how you might be alive
    in the life you are living. I trust you’re getting your money’s worth.
  41. 01/01/2016
    In each situation,
    there exist possibilities f
    or the unique,
    the creative,
    the novel,
    the unimagined,
    the unheard of,
    the outlandish,
    the surreal,
    the new,
    the heretical,
    the blasphemous… All available for consideration and implementation
    for those with eyes that see,
    ears that hear, and hearts that are courageous
    and capable of doing what cries out to be done. Jesus said, “Those of you with eyes,
    dare to open them!
    And see what is before you!
    Those of you with ears, dare to unstop them!
    And hear what is begging for your attention!”
    (Or, words to that effect.) What needs to be seen is waiting to be seen.
    What needs to be heard is waiting to be heard.
    What is keeping the seeing from happening?
    The hearing from being done?
  42. 01/02/2015
    We can’t say, “Give God the Glory!” when things go our way
    Without understanding the importance of saying,
    “Give God the Glory” when things do not go our way.
    What does having our way have to do with praising
    What is sometimes called “God”? God,
    the Tao,
    Grace,
    is the source of all things great and small,
    good and bad.
    It is all Grace to eyes that see.
    Everything is a step on the way to being who we are.
    What do we need to be who we are?
    We already have it!
    It came with us from the womb!
    Under what conditions
    would it be impossible to be who we are? All theology is bad theology.
    All theologians are bad theologians.
    We cannot talk about what we know
    in terms of what we don’t know.
    All theology is hearsay. All theology is heresy—
    and the rock solid truth—
    in that it exposes the absurdity
    Of saying, “This is absolute and final truth!”
    about what we don’t know. Darkness is necessary for seeing the light.
    Too much light is as bad for seeing
    As too little light.
    Too much light is as darkness. Darkness and light are one thing, not two.
    Move to the center.
    Avoid the extremes.
    Live from the heart and let things take their course.
  43. 01/02/2016
    The hardest things are remembering who we are
    and what we are about—
    staying on track,
    living aligned with our life,
    in sync with our Other Self,
    at one with who we are and also are
    in each situation as it arises,
    keeping our balance,
    maintaining our focus,
    remaining grounded in what is important,
    centered in the heart of what matters most. The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    the Christ in the Garden of Gethsemane,
    stayed true to themselves
    and are models for all regarding how to do it.
    But the way is straight and the gate is narrow,
    and what a slippery slope it traverses!
    Thus the necessity of the practice,
    and the helping community,
    and the connection with our Other Self,
    all along The Way.
  44. 01/03/2016We change our relationship with our experience
    by being mindfully, compassionately, aware of it,
    without evaluation or opinion. When we change our relationship with our experience,
    we change its impact on us.
    when we change the impact our experience has on us,
    we reshape our life. Being compassionately mindful of our experience,
    transcends evaluation, opinion,
    and the emotional reaction that accompanies them,
    softens the impact of our experience,
    and enables us to be emotionally balanced in our relationship to it. Jon Kabat-Zinn says,
    “Mindfulness is moment-to-moment
    non-judgmental awareness,
    cultivated by paying attention
    to what is happening now.” Mindfulness simply requires us to see what is happening,
    internally and externally,
    as it is happening,
    without evaluation or opinion. As we take up the practice of mindfulness,
    we transform our life
    and our Umwelt (Our lived environment as we experience it),
    and restructure the world—
    merely by being aware of it. Nothing alters things like being mindful of them
    moment-to-moment. Give it a spin.
    Simply sit,
    paying attention to the moment.
    Bring everything
    into your awareness,
    and let your experience
    be your experience.
    Remain there for as long
    as you are able.
    And return as often
    as you can.
  45. 01/03/2016
    Lets say you are a woman and I am a man,
    and we fall in love with each other.
    Or one of us falls in love with the other. The experience of falling in love
    is not far from the experience of idolization,
    wherein we idolize the other as The Perfect One,
    all imperfections being unrecognized,
    overlooked,
    discounted,
    dismissed,
    disregarded,
    denied, This does not mean we
    are well-suited for each other,
    and should marry,
    have many children
    and live happily ever after. And it does not matter
    if you actually possess the qualities
    and characteristics
    I ascribe to you
    (or you to me).
    You may not be courageous and kind at all,
    but the meanest coward who ever cut and ran.
    It is how I see you that causes me
    to fall in love with you
    (And it is who you turn out to be
    that causes me to divorce you, sometime later).
    Being in love is not related to reality in any way.
    The experience of being in love
    is no predictor of the viability
    of the relationship.
    Maybe, maybe not. The experience of being in love
    is an indicator that the other
    has stirred within us our unrealized
    unrecognized,
    overlooked,
    discounted,
    dismissed,
    disregarded,
    denied,
    ignored
    potential for being The Perfect One
    we see exemplified in the other. We project what we do not recognize
    as needing to be developed within ourselves
    onto the other.
    The other stands before us as a mirror,
    reflecting back to us our own projections
    onto him, onto her,
    and we see in the other what is missing,
    but available to be realized,
    exhibited,
    expressed,
    incarnated,
    within us. You are the woman I need to become.
    I am the man you need to be.
    I need to become like you in ways
    I see you being you,
    and you need to become like me
    in ways you see me being me.
    My work is to become the woman
    I see you as being,
    exemplifying.
    Your work is to become the man
    you see me as being,
    exemplifying.
    My woman needs to be like you.
    Your man needs to be like me.
    I must spend my life working
    to bring you to life in me.
    You must spend your life working
    to bring me to life in you. In this way,
    we “marry” the other,
    plight “thee” our troth
    through sickness and health,
    wealth and poverty,
    good times and bad,
    ’til death do us part if then. Developing my feminine side,
    developing your masculine side,
    is the androgynous work of soul
    wherein the two
    sides of our personality,
    male and female,
    become one
    whole,
    complete,
    integrated,
    balanced
    symmetrical,
    human being. It has nothing to do
    with merging two individuals
    into the same person
    (As if!).
    The merger is not an outer,
    actual,
    physical fact,
    but an inner,
    vital,
    spiritual
    reality—
    which we pursue as a conscious work of soul
    over the full course of our life,
    whether we marry
    each other in real time,
    or not.
  46. 01/04/2016
    We live in a culture that places
    a high premium on being happy.
    “I just want to be happy”
    is the mantra of the day, every day.
    We generally think of being happy as an add on.
    It is something that comes
    with having something we don’t have,
    or doing something we aren’t doing. I propose that we think
    of being happy as a take away.
    Getting rid of all the things
    that are standing between us and being happy. Asking, “What would it take to make you happy?”
    Generally gets a response
    on the order of,
    “More money and time to travel and do the things I enjoy.” Asking, “What can you do right now
    to begin doing things you enjoy?”
    Generally gets a response
    on the order of, “I would have to get away.”
    We are living lives we have to escape
    in order to be happy.
    This is weird.
    Why would we do that? Instead of asking, “What would it take to make me happy?”
    Ask, “What is standing between me and happiness?”
    It will come down to duties,
    obligations,
    responsibilities,
    drains on your time
    and attention. Start shucking them.
    Pare them down to the absolute minimum.
    Say “No” throughout your life.
    It will be like going on a holiday
    without leaving home.
    And if you can’t do that,
    if you can’t reduce your current level of duties, etc.,
    Look at what is standing in your way,
    keeping you from doing it.
    And work with that.
  47. 01/04/2016
    Much of what is wrong with us
    can be transformed or transcended
    By living with mindfulness
    (which implies compassion
    and complete absence of evaluation)
    in a collaborative relationship with our Other Self
    throughout what remains of our life. That being the case,
    One would think
    we would be quick to become proficient
    In living mindfully in that kind of relationship. Nothing is more important
    For our own personal future,
    Or that of the world.
  48. 05/17/2018
    If there is nothing
    you would go to hell for,
    you aren’t invested in this life.
    You’re just hanging out,
    waiting to go to heaven when you die.You don’t have anything
    worth living for,
    worth doing with your life.
    Your life is just in your way,
    delaying heaven and all the glories
    of forever everlasting. You are wasting this life
    waiting for that one.
    The person who buried
    his talent
    missed the point
    and lost everything. Heaven is for people
    who are right
    about what is worth
    going to hell for.
  49. 01/05/2016 —
    In a 2007 talk at Google,
    Jon Kabat-Zinn likened formal mindfulness meditation practice
    (The Body Scan, for instance, or 45 minutes of Breath Counting)
    to training wheels on a bicycle.
    We practice formally to get our body
    trained to do the work without
    our having to think about it. The idea is to ride the bicycle without thinking about it.
    Mindfulness meditation is
    how we live our life,
    not what we stop living for 20 or 45 minutes to do.
    It is being mindfully
    (Paying attention on purpose to the present moment),
    compassionately,
    aware,
    without evaluation
    or opinion,
    throughout our day
    (And paying attention to our dreams at night). Then, he takes the bicycle analogy a step further.
    Bicycles can be ridden in races,
    on pavement,
    off pavement through potholes
    and over tree roots in the woods,
    fast or slow,
    by small children
    and octogenarians,
    commuting to work and school,
    around the block,
    in the park,
    for daily exercise,
    or the simple pleasure of taking a ride. There are as many reasons and ways
    to ride a bicycle as there are bicycle riders.
    And, so it is with mindfulness meditation.
    There is no right way to do it.
    We ride our own bike.
    We live our own life.
    We meditate the way we meditate.
    If it is right for us, it is right.
    We all find our own path,
    and walk it.
    Find our own work,
    and do it. Alan Watts once asked Joseph Campbell,
    “Joe, what form does your yoga take?”
    Campbell replied,
    “I underline passages.”
    There you are.
    What form does your meditation take? It doesn’t matter.
    What matters is that you do it.
  50. 01/05/2016
    Our personal authority is grounded
    in our ability to say, “NO!
    To ourselves. We cannot say, “NO!” to anyone else
    until we can say, “NO!” to ourselves.
    Where do you rein yourself in?
    Where do you draw the line?
    Impose restrictions, set limits?
    What do you refuse to permit,
    disallow? Self-discipline and self-restraint
    are the heart of self-directed living.
    Where are we violating our own curfews?
    Ignoring our own boundaries? When are we going
    to start taking “No”
    from ourselves
    for an answer?
  51. 01/05/2016
    Let other people strive to have more,
    and to be somewhere else.
    Live to be where you are,
    enjoying what you have.
    Relish your life,
    and the experience of being alive. No matter where we are
    or what we have,
    it could be better in 10,000 ways—
    and worse.
    But, here we are,
    with a moment inviting us to be who we are—
    which is all we can ever be, Why not here, now?
  52. 01/06/2016
    “Thy will, not mine, be done,”
    sets us on a very unpredictable course. Do we mean it, is the question.
    Do we trust ourselves to this extent
    to our Other Self,
    To The Invisible Other—
    unknown but intuited and experienced
    as numinous and real? Are we willing to put ourselves in the hands
    of another whom we do not know? Who guides our boat on its path through the sea?
    It is one thing to hand over control
    at the end of our rope,
    when our backs are too the wall,
    and our front is to the Void,
    when we have run out of options,
    and have no choice but to throw ourselves
    upon the good graces of the unknown
    and hope for the best, but. To hand ourselves over in the thick
    of The Pretty Good Life,
    when things are going relatively well,
    and we have hopes of better things to come,
    right around the corner,
    any day now,
    and we are still awash in the glow of life as we like it—
    why would we do that? Why would we hand over
    something that is working well,
    or almost working well,
    for what could easily turn out to be
    the complete loss of everything
    we value and dream of? Who would say, “Thy will, not mine, be done”
    when things are going well enough,
    and nothing much is too bad wrong?
  53. 01/06/2016
    Jesus walked through crowds
    of those who were sound asleep,
    dreaming they were awake,
    and said, “Wake up!
    Come to your senses!
    See what you are doing!” And they replied,
    “Wake up, yourself, Sonny Boy!
    You’re headed down a rough road
    toward an end you won’t like!” That’s the way it always is
    in the confrontation between
    those who are awake
    and those who are asleep,
    dreaming they are awake. No one can wake anyone up.
    We live ourselves awake,
    if we wake up at all.
    Reality eventually wakes up
    those who can be awakened.
    Yet, reality can always be interpreted
    In ways that take the alarm clock into account,
    and allow the dream to continue.
    Dreaming we are awake, while sound asleep. Jesus left the dead to bury the dead.
    It’s the only option.
    The catch is, they killed him.
    Being awake is no sanctuary.
    Nothing trumps stupidity.
  54. 01/07/2016
    Happiness is getting out of the way. We think happiness is getting our way.
    Happiness is getting out of our way.
    Once we get out of our way,
    the Way opens before us,
    and things are right with us,
    until we come up with a better idea,
    and leave The Way
    in order to pursue our way.
  55. 01/08/2016
    Where do you go for comfort and solace—
    To calm yourself and restore your connection with soul? Drugs, sex and alcohol are popular attempts
    at the comfort and solace part of the equation, but.
    the backlash WHAM-O! impact takes them off the table
    and exposes them as the fraud they are. Exercise, though, is good.
    A long walk is about all the exercise I’m good for these days.
    And the right kind of music.
    I have a friend who says he can’t quiet down and be calm
    unless he’s playing his electric guitar.
    Another friend feels the same way about her drumming. Time immersed in nature does it for a lot of people.
    I like to sit by a lake and watch the ducks flying in and out.
    Or drive through the mountains.
    Sunrises and sunsets,
    Storms and clouds… It’s important to know what works for you,
    and go there, do that, as often as necessary,
    as a way of offsetting the draining effect
    of “the world (that) is too much with us, late and soon.” Where do you go for comfort and solace—
    To calm yourself and restore your connection with soul?
  56. 01/08/2016
    Our seeing is influenced by our emotions.
    So is our thinking.
    What we fear, want, don’t want, love, hate, desire, despise, etc.
    determines how we see
    and what we think about it.
    Feeling dictates seeing and thinking. We don’t know what we are looking at
    if it is so novel we have no feelings about it.
    We don’t know what to think about it
    if we don’t know how we feel about it. Feelings instruct our living,
    guide our behavior.
    If we are going to see and think,
    we have to learn to see what we are feeling,
    and think about it. We have to see how strongly we are influenced
    by how we feel about things,
    and think about it.
    We have to reflect on the place of feeling
    that we are unconscious of,
    and work to become conscious of it. Otherwise, we will be at the mercy of those
    who inflame our fears
    and teach us to hate all that is novel and strange.
  57. 01/08/2016
    When Alabama Chief Justice Roy Moore says, in effect,
    “If we don’t like a law,
    we shouldn’t have to obey it
    or enforce it,
    or have it forced on us,”
    And when Texas Governor Greg Abbott says, in effect,
    “If we don’t like a law,
    we shouldn’t have to obey it
    or enforce it,
    or have it forced on us,”
    And when a mob of Oregon ranchers
    takes over the office building
    of a national wildlife refuge
    and says, in effect, “if we don’t like a law,
    we shouldn’t have to obey it
    or enforce it, or
    have it forced on us,”
    They are committing treason,
    and pushing the country toward anarchy. If you vote for a Republican,
    you are voting for someone
    who would have no problem
    committing treason
    and joining in the push toward anarchy. The hope of the world
    is for every US citizen
    to register to vote,
    and vote in every election,
    no matter how small,
    and never vote for a Republican. That is our only hedge
    against treason and anarchy.
    Surely, you can see that.
  58.  01/09/2016 —
    Reality is contradiction. No one ever says “Welcome to the Real World”
    when things are running smoothly
    and going our way. The Real World is a world of conflict,
    opposition,
    negation,
    limits,
    boundaries,
    barriers,
    polarities,
    wars,
    walls
    and edges. Carl Jung said,
    “There is no coming to consciousness without pain.”
    We don’t wake up
    until required to do so
    by circumstances that won’t take
    our “NO!” for an answer,
    and impose their own “NO!” on us. Contradiction is a reality that requires recognition,
    that calls for reflection.
    Reflection enables realization.
    Realization is revelation,
    enlightenment,
    understanding,
    comprehension,
    transcendence,
    transformation, Rites of passage are
    encounters with contradiction,
    and serve as points of reflection
    and realization
    through all stages of development,
    leading to a new way
    of being in the world—
    the Real World—
    where other contradictions await
    along the path of the eternal process
    of becoming conscious,
    and growing up
    some more,
    again.
  59. 01/09/2016
    We are responsible for the world
    we create by our response to it.
    I’m not saying you are responsible
    for your husband’s abuse (Or, your wife’s).
    I’m saying you are responsible
    for the world you create
    by the way you respond to your husband’s (wife’s) abuse. There is the abuse,
    and there is the response to the abuse.
    And the response creates the world
    that opens up
    in response to the response. The response is the fulcrum,
    the turning point,
    the change element. If you want to change things,
    change the way you respond to things. You know your typical response pattern.
    When “this” happens,
    “that” always happens in response. Imagine ways you might change your response pattern.
    What keeps you locked in the same behavior?
    What would it take for you to be able to respond differently?
    You have to work all of this out in you mind
    before you effect it in your life. Imagine and rehearse, Kid, Imagine and rehearse.
    Play out scenarios in your imagination.
    Learn by imagining,
    by pretending.
    Put things in place there
    before trying it out in real time. If you can be different in your mind—
    and live with compassion
    and acceptance for yourself there—
    the transition from imagination
    to actual will be a natural flow. And working with a good therapist will help.
    All a part of being responsible for—
    and conscious of—
    the world we are creating
    by our response to it.
  60. 01/10/2016 —
    Being fully alive means living in ways
    that allow you to know
    what no one can tell you. Always doing what “Momma says,”
    or following the black footprints laid out
    by some self-help book,
    or doing what Oprah tells you to do,
    is going to put you in the thick of those
    who do not know their own mind,
    or trust themselves ever to do anything right. Those who know things worth knowing
    listen to themselves,
    follow their own heart,
    live out of their own authority,
    see with their own eyes,
    hear with their own ears,
    work out for themselves what it all means,
    decide for themselves what matters most,
    live in light of what is life for them,
    know how to raise the level
    of their own esprit de la vie,
    and do what they love doing. But, don’t listen to me tell you what to do.
    Listen to you.
  61. 01/10/2016
    Everything is a vehicle of revelation,
    recognized and received,
    or ignored,
    overlooked,
    discounted, It’s like this, she said,
    bending down,
    pointing to a daffodil
    growing from a crack
    in the pavement.
    “You can look at this flower
    and see it,
    Or not.” Eyes that see, see—
    the flower,
    the white rabbit,
    the universe in a grain of sand… Eyes that don’t see miss everything.
    Seeing what we look at,
    and looking at all of it,
    is the primary practice.
  62. 01/10/2016
    Blair Walsh missed a chip shot field goal
    in the waning moments
    of the Minnesota Vikings’
    wild-card play-off game
    with the Seattle Seahawks,
    and the Seahawks won the game 10 – 9. It was a resounding failure
    with everything on the line,
    viewed by football fans across the nation.
    He will never outlive the shame
    of his inability to do his job and win the game. He has only one remaining alternative.
    He has to forgive himself.
    Simple as that.
    He missed the field goal from point blank range.
    He can’t miss the follow up: FORGIVENESS!
    Surely, he won’t miss that!
    They won’t allow him to miss that, will they? We are all always missing it.
    The obvious choice goes unchosen
    by those who prefer a life of remorse,
    shame and sorrow.
    You know who I’m talking about now, don’t you?
    You look at him, you at look her,
    in the mirror every day, don’t you?
    You have to forgive yourself! Don’t delay it one minute more!
    “You Are Forgiven!”
    Say it!
    Mean it!
    And let it go.
    It. Go. I don’t care how big it was.
    It’s gone.
    It’s over.
    It’s kaput.
    So.
    Let.
    It.
    Be.
    Gone.
    Because. It. Is. You will never get better advice.
    Why not take it?
    Bigger screw-ups are possible
    for all of us in the future.
    Self-forgiveness now,
    for the ones in the past,
    is practice.
  63. 01/11/2016
    Members of the Christian Church
    are always wanting everybody
    to “Put Jesus first!”
    and to “Make Jesus the center of your life!”
    and to “Do What Jesus Would do!”
    Conveniently refusing to ask,
    “Who would Jesus kill because they were black?”
    Or, “Who would Jesus turn away because they were immigrants?”
    Or, “Who would Jesus chastise,
    ostracize,
    rebuke,
    humiliate,
    shame
    and hate
    because they were LGBTQ?” And, conveniently ignoring the blatant,
    impossible to overlook,
    fact that Jesus lived out of accord
    with every social convention
    and Book of Order of his day. To ask Jesus how he would do anything
    would be to beg the reply,
    “Not the way they say it ought to be done, Kid.
    Not the way they say it ought to be done!” Leaving us exactly where Jesus was,
    and would have us be in each situation
    that comes along—
    deciding what needs to be done
    and doing it because it needs to be done,
    then and there,
    without regard for any other consideration. Jesus raised the dead sometimes,
    and other times,
    he left the dead to bury the dead.
    Jesus forgave a guilty woman
    and cursed an innocent fig tree.
    Jesus fulfilled the law commanding,
    “Be perfect as God is perfect,”
    by breaking every law defining
    what that would be. To do it the way Jesus would do it,
    we have to do it the way
    WE would do it without worrying
    about what anybody,
    even Jesus,
    might think. With Jesus like that at the center of our life,
    even the Buddha
    and the Prophet
    are Jesus,
    not to mention Moses
    and Abraham. And the “Us vs THEM” craze
    is carried away as nothing more
    than dust in the wind
    of the Spirit that blows where it will—
    because we are all one
    with Jesus and each other
    in the situation that is unfolding
    before us right now,
    presenting us with an opportunity
    to do there
    what needs to be done
    as only we can do it.
  64. 01/11/2016
    Our life is our practice.
    We cannot live in ways
    that are at odds with our life
    and be alive on any level
    more vital and vibrant
    than being 98.6 and breathing. Vital signs have nothing to do with vitality.
    We can be alive on a level that has nothing to do with LIFE. Our LIFE is that which experiences
    and expresses
    vitality,
    meaning,
    joy,
    enthusiasm
    and connection
    with the heart of Life and Being. Our LIFE requires us
    to take up the practice of being alive—
    of finding our LIFE and living it—
    Throughout each day. We have consciously seek out
    what has life for us,
    live in ways that connect us
    with the things that have life for us,
    and work things
    that have life for us
    into the life we are living. The aim and goal is for
    the life that we are living
    to revolve around,
    flow to and from,
    the things that have life for us. Our life is our practice,
    And our practice
    is being alive in the life we are living. Where would you place yourself
    on a Vitality Scale,
    With 1 being mostly dead
    and 10 being vibrantly,
    fully,
    alive? What can you do
    in the next 24 hours
    to begin moving up the scale?
  65. 01/12/2016
    If Mozart could have lectured about,
    and demonstrated,
    his art so that anybody
    with the proper amount
    of determination
    and time spent at the task
    could have composed as Mozart composed… Would it have been right for Mozart
    to duplicate himself a thousand times over? Would it have been right for the Duplicates
    to forego their own particular gifts and life
    for the sake of being another Mozart? What have all those Elvis impersonators given up,
    in their lifelong longing to be The King? All this, of course, is about Jesus,
    and how wrong it is to forsake ourselves
    for the sake of doing it like Jesus would do it. Jesus did it like Jesus would do it.
    It’s been done.
    Duplicates of Jesus are not Jesus.
    Anymore than Elvis impersonators are Elvis. If we are going to do it like Jesus did it,
    we are going to have to do it like we would do it.
    Exactly like we would do it,
    down to the most minute detail. We have to be who we are
    whether we want to be or not.
    It would not be right to be anyone else.
  66. 01/12/2016
    The word at the center of all practice is: Compromise is the path to the Land of Promise.
    Compromise is the nature of the journey.
    We all walk two—or many more—paths at the same time.
    How well we do that tells the tale. The Dalai Lama preaches non-violence and compassion
    and has armed body guards.
    Compromise is the path between conflicts, polarities.
    We have to make our compromises conscious,
    or live a lie. When we live fully,
    authentically,
    honestly,
    we live transparent to ourselves,
    and consciously maintain the tension
    of the opposing contradictions,
    bearing in our body
    the pain of the “cross” of opposites. The easy way to do it is to renounce
    our ties with the world
    and the world’s claim upon us,
    and move into a monastery,
    or, better, into a cave in the Himalayas,
    and tell people how to structure a life of holiness
    in the world we left behind. If it can be done,
    we should stay there and do it:
    spouse,
    kids,
    pets,
    mortgages,
    car payments,
    jobs,
    income tax,
    “the full catastrophe!” Give me a Bodhisattva who has done it that way,
    And stop talking
    of those who drift down from their retreat
    to deliver a Sutra when they feel like it
    as though holiness can exist apart from
    the hell of continual compromise! Tevya remains a master apart from “the masters”!
    and, he is fictional—
    yet, the model of how to do it.
  67. 01/12/2016
    We have to have the freedom
    to find our own life and live it.
    Our spirit demands it.
    Our circumstances disfavor it.
    There you are.
    The stage is set.
    We step onto it and play our part—
    The one assigned to us by our circumstances,
    and the one required of us by our spirit. The Army has a term for it:
    “Defect in place!”
    We don’t have to go AWOL,
    or mount armed resistance,
    to have an active life in the underground movement
    of soul coming forth in our life. We only have to bear the pain
    of the conflict consciously,
    as we pay lip service to the one
    while living in unwavering allegiance to the other— Making sure we put the right one in its proper place in our life.
  68. 01/12/2016
    I hate disturbances in the flow of life. Intrusion.
    Inconsideration.
    Insensitivity.
    Refusal to cooperate.
    Sabotage.
    Destruction.
    Mayhem.
    The Abomination of Desolation… And I have no idea of how to guarantee
    the good faith participation of everyone in life
    for the mutual benefit of all living things.
    And, therein lies my problem. We have to do our work,
    and trust our neighbors to do theirs.
    We all need better neighbors.
    I wonder where that neighborhood
    is to be found.
  69. 01/13/2016
    We spend a lot of time getting things in place.
    If someone asks us what we are doing with our life,
    we can say simply, “I’m getting things in place.”
    If they say, “Well, it doesn’t seem like much is happening,”
    we can say, “That’s the way it is when you’re getting things in place.” It is important, though,
    that we are actually getting things in place.
    We can’t just be waiting for things to fall into place.
    For magic to happen,
    for some Prince Charming to drive up,
    or some Sleeping Beauty to plop down in our path. In order to be getting things in place,
    we have to believe in what we are doing.
    If someone asks us what we believe in,
    we have to say we believe in what we are doing.
    And if they ask us what we are doing,
    we say, “I’m getting things in place,”
    and mean it.
  70. 01/13/2016
    Give your hands what they want to do—
    what they love to do—
    and get out of the way. Your body knows what to do.
    Listen to your body
    and get out of the way. We are always dismissing our hands,
    and not giving them what they want to do.
    We are always dismissing our feet,
    and not going where they want to go. Our hands know.
    Our feet know.
    Our place is to get out of the way
    and know what our hands and feet know. We think our heads know it all.
    We think our intellect is the center of knowing.
    Our intellect is for putting the pieces together.
    It has no idea what the pieces are.
    We have to listen to know.
    We have to feel to know.
    We have to sense to know.
    And trust what our senses tell us. To do that we have to get out of the way.
    When we get out of the way,
    there is The Way,
    with our name on it,
    wondering what took so long.
  71. 01/13/2016
    The place of our intellect
    (the predominant function of our left hemisphere)
    Would be that of discernment,
    discretion,
    observation,
    reflection,
    realization,
    judgment,
    evaluation,
    processing,
    and deciding. The place of instinct and intuition—
    Of feeling and sensing
    (the predominant functions of our right hemisphere)
    is to grasp the allness of the situation,
    and tell the left hemisphere what needs doing
    so the left hemisphere
    can figure out the best way to do it. Neither commands
    or directs the other,
    and neither can
    ignore or dismiss the other.
    Both work together
    for the good of the whole. We have to know what all we know
    and what to do about it, with it,
    so as to serve the common good—
    and live in the best interests
    of all living things.
  72. 01/13/2016
    We could take medication—
    Illegal, prescription
    or over the counter—
    and/or, drink alcohol straight from the bottle,
    to enable us to live our life,
    (or bear it), We could change our life.
    The great difficulty involved
    in making the choice to change
    suggests to me
    that we don’t think change is possible,
    or that we like the idea of change,
    but don’t have what it takes
    to see change through. The burden of change is great,
    and the life that change
    would result in is not attractive.
    Thus, we don’t opt for change. We need a different way of thinking about life,
    assessing life,
    understanding life.
    Life is not automatic.
    When does life begin?
    Not at conception.
    Not at birth.
    Not at a six figure income.
    Not, Not, Not… Life begins when we wake up to life beyond—
    and quite other than—
    our idea of life.
    We have to change our idea of life
    and, open ourselves to the experience
    of life in a way
    that would make any sacrifice
    in order to live it.
  73. 01/14/2016
    Our Program for our Life
    quickly becomes a Pogrom
    when one hemisphere (usually the left)
    overrides the other hemisphere (usually the right). When we have a reason for everything we do,
    and a schedule for doing it,
    and we can’t fit in a minute
    of unstructured,
    unscheduled, time—
    or bear the idea of being off schedule,
    or having nothing to do—
    we are saying
    “Damn the shoreline!
    FULL SPEED AHEAD!” Who is bearing the pain
    of our refusal
    to feel the pain
    of our life?
    Who is the symptom carrier in our family? Who is the sickly one,
    the one who is forcing us off schedule,
    into waiting rooms
    without end?
    It could be the dog. What are we saying to ourselves—
    what is being said to us—
    that we aren’t heeding? We have to notice.
    Every time we dismiss,
    discount,
    overlook,
    ignore
    anything in our life.
    And bear the pain
    of knowing.
  74. 01/14/2016
    The Hero’s Journey
    to the Land of Promise,
    Resurrection,
    New Life,
    Enlightenment
    and Peace,
    Or wherever it is
    you think we’re going
    to be when we get there—
    winds through the heart of Gethsemane
    and across the face of Golgotha,
    For each one of us,
    time after time,
    across all times and places,
    throughout our life.
    It only takes living
    to know it is so.
  75. 01/14/2016
    We get to what has always been called God
    through our symptoms and our dreams. Both symptoms and dreams
    are means the invisible world uses
    to get our attention
    and connect us with our life.
    Our life flows from,
    and leads to,
    the Numen that has always been called God. If we want to know God,
    we have to live our way there—
    by aligning ourselves with the life that is ours to live,
    that only we can live—
    and bringing it to life within the life we are living. No theology,
    no doctrine,
    no dogma,
    no talk, talk, talk… Just finding our life and living it.
    And, like that, there’s God,
    laughing because it’s taken us so long to get it.
  76. 01/15/2016If you are going to worship anything,
    worship your life. Worship the invisible, intangible, connections
    between your heart—
    the heart of who you are,
    the center of your life and being—
    and the visible,
    tangible,
    actual,
    real,
    physical
    expressions,
    or ways of incarnating
    you in the world of time and space. You are a poem.
    You live your life
    and write the poem for all to see. You bring you forth
    in the way you live.
    Your life is a work of art
    through which you become
    realized in the medium
    of material reality
    by the way you consciously
    align yourself inner with outer. You bring the Numen—
    the unspeakable,
    unsayable truth
    of you at the core of you—
    to life in your life,
    and create the miracle
    of you in time and place. You worship life
    by being/doing/exhibiting
    the life you are.
  77. 01/15/2016If you are as vulnerable
    as the rest of us are,
    you will do anything
    to be able to exercise control
    over something.
    And we all need
    to recognize
    how much we need
    to be in charge,
    because we are not
    over any of the things
    that matter. We have to come to terms with—
    make our peace with—
    our vulnerability. We have to be as vulnerable as we are.
    which is totally,
    absolutely,
    unconditionally,
    eternally No power.
    No control.
    Over any of the important things. We are always as though
    we just stepped out of the womb.
    We have to make our peace with that,
    be at home with it,
    work with it. Because that is where we are.
    However, we fight against
    the very idea of Terminal Vulnerability
    all the way to the grave. We live out our life in denial,
    At war with the very idea
    that we should be vulnerable. Being fully alive begins
    with our being as vulnerable as we are—
    and working with it
    to be who we are,
    where we are,
    how we are, How we do that is
    the full scope
    of the Hero’s Journey. Coming to terms with our vulnerability
    is the essence
    of that trip. Mindfulness leads the way.
  78. 01/15/2016
    We cannot be as vulnerable as we are
    without living out of a collaborative relationship
    with the force emanating
    from the center of ourselves. Inner alignment is the key
    to handling all outer threats
    to our peace and well-being. The Buddha, seated under the Bo Tree,
    was grounded within,
    at one with himself,
    unmoved by all that would unseat him—
    and that remained so throughout his life. Finding our center is the same thing
    as finding our life.
    Our life flows from our center,
    our center expresses itself in our life. Our vulnerability requires us to seek our center,
    which enables us to live our life
    in the face of all that would engulf us. Find the bedrock,
    the foundation stone.
    Live from there.
  79. 01/16/2016
    A National Parks Service motto says,
    “Your safety is your responsibility.” We create the world we live in
    by the way we live in it.
    The key is to live in it consciously—
    mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of who we are
    and what we are doing
    and what its implications are. We have to live transparent to ourselves
    in an opaque and shape-shifting world. People will not be who they say they are.
    We will be blindsided in 10,000 ways.
    We have to live so as to not blindside ourselves.
    It’s hard enough with the lack of cooperation
    from our circumstances.
    We cannot refuse,
    or fail,
    to cooperate with ourselves. We have to be able to count on ourselves
    by living in a good faith relationship with ourselves.
    The closer we are truthfully,
    knowingly,
    aligned within,
    the better goes our life
    on the heaving waves
    of the wine dark sea.
  80. 01/16/2016
    Do things that are unheard of!
    Live in ways no one would expect!
    Be YOU in exceptionally creative,
    unique
    and beautiful ways! Invent yourself anew in each situation
    that cries out for what you have to offer! Why disappear into the usual fare?
    Why hold anything back? Spend yourself completely each day,
    And fall into bed
    dreaming of ways
    to do it again tomorrow.
  81. 01/17/2016
    Rise!
    Shine!
    Live to bring forth in each day—
    in each moment of the day—
    in each situation as it arises—
    the wonder, amazement and joy
    that babies and toddlers,
    puppies, kittens and colts
    bring forth simply by being who they are. We don’t have to TRY to be something special!
    we only have to get out of the way
    and be who we are,
    without being underly or overly concerned
    about what anyone is thinking,
    or what it might look like
    on our cumulative record,
    or how something else
    might spot us more of an advantage,
    or enable us to better exploit the circumstances
    for our immediate good and lasting benefit. Just live your life as only you can!
    Find what is to be enjoyed and enjoy it!
    Find what is to be loved and love it!
    Find what is to be mourned and mourn it!
    Find what is to be suffered and suffer it!
    Be what is needed in each here and now of your living!
    And let the outcome be the outcome!
  82. 01/17/2016 —
    It takes stillness,
    silence
    and solitude
    to achieve the level
    of awareness
    required to reflect
    on our experience
    to the point of acquiring
    new realizations. We have to see what we look at
    from all sides,
    and enter the dance
    of holding all things
    in our awareness
    without evaluation
    or opinion. We cannot do that amid
    distractions
    and interruptions. People have their best ideas in the shower.
    There is a reason for that.
    Showers are generally
    the quietest,
    stillest
    and most solitary
    time of the day. We also have revelations in our sleep
    for the same reason. We increase our chances
    for reflection
    and realization
    by working time
    for quiet,
    focused,
    attention
    into our day. If you don’t think you
    have anything to reflect on,
    just be quiet
    and still
    for twenty minutes,
    here and there. Watch what happens
    without disruption
    or interference.
    Follow the thread of associations
    and see where it goes. If it helps to write it out,
    write it out.
  83. 01/18/2016
    We can have too many responsibilities
    to be responsible for anything.
    To have fewer responsibilities
    is to be more responsible. Taking refuge in many responsibilities
    is to avoid the work,
    pain
    and suffering
    that characterize our service
    to our primary responsibility: We are to bring
    our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    to life in our life. Our life revolves around
    incarnating our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    within the circumstances
    and context of our life. We live in allegiance to—
    in honor of—
    our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    in all that we do. We live devoted
    to the experience of
    the Numen within
    and to its expression in our life. This is our work,
    our practice.
    Everything else falls
    into place around this
    core responsibility,
    R\revolves around it,
    flows from it. In order to carry out our responsibility
    to our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    we have to arrange
    our life to take it into account. We have to attend Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    throughout each day.
    We have to dance with
    Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    play with Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    discern Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    be Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self—
    in our coming out
    and our going in
    from this day forward

01/19/2016 —

Theology and doctrine
have taken us as far as they can.

Explaining things that defy explanation,
making things literal
that can only remain forever metaphorical,
giving answers
without allowing them
to raise more questions,
saying again and again
what cannot be said at all,
telling us to “have faith”
through all of its internal contradictions
(Never mind the external ones
it doesn’t begin to address!)
past all of its impasses
beyond all of its obstructions

(“Faith in what?” we say
“Faith in what we tell you
Even though it makes no sense.
That’s what faith is, you know,
Believing things that make no sense!”)

bringing true the old prophesy:
“They have healed
the wound of my people lightly,
Saying, ‘Peace, peace,’
where there is no peace,”
making all things shallow,
insipid,
inane,
killing the souls they pretend to save.

Their only talking point is this:

“Without us,
there is only the empty wasteland
and the Void!”

And this:

“You will be sorry if you do not
heed our warning,
and believe what we tell you—
especially that part about the 10%!!!”

It is well past time
that we lay them to rest,
And take our chances
on the truth of our own experience.

We will discover—
If we seek the way
seekers have sought
through the ages—
the empty wasteland
is filled with the presence
of what has always been called God,
and the Void is nothing more
than the absence
of what we have been told was
lasting truth of greatest value.

And we will find there
wonderful silence
were we can hear at last
the beating of our own heart,
and see the light
that shines in the darkness,
and know the birthplace
of life and peace.

  1. 01/19/2016 —
    Retirement invites
    reflection,
    rumination,
    realization,
    sitting quietly,
    working things out,
    Making connections,
    seeing how things fit,
    being amazed. We all find our own way
    to wherever we will be
    when we get there. No one can hand us a map,
    a tour guide,
    an itinerary with check points
    and time and distance calculations
    for us to gauge how well we are doing. The first half of life is spent
    figuring out what to do to pay the bills.
    The second half of life is spent
    figuring out what we pay the bills to do. We sit quietly,
    and reflect on what we
    have done with our life,
    and imagine what we might yet
    do in the time left for living.
  2. 01/20/2016
    We all are numinous at the core.
    We all carry the Mystery—
    the Numen— There is more to us than meets the eye,
    any eye,
    even our own.
    There is more to us,
    each of us,
    than can be said. Not one of us has ever had a motive
    that we fully understood.
    We don’t know why we like what we like,
    and don’t like what we don’t like,
    or want what we want,
    or do what we do. We are lost to ourselves.
    cast away from ourselves,
    exclude ourselves from our company,
    ban ourselves,
    shun ourselves,
    ostracize ourselves,
    because nothing good can come from us,
    or be found anywhere near us,
    we have to get away from ourselves
    to have a chance. And we know it.
    Healing begins
    when we recognize our place
    in our own displacement,
    and turn to ourselves
    to be reconciled
    and take up the work
    of becoming whole.
  3. 01/20/2016
    Black people have always recognized,
    faced,
    and lived with the fact
    of domestic terrorism
    in the shape of white supremacy
    that is now crossing racial lines
    to take a more political form—
    supported by the deafening silence
    of Republican Party candidates
    for the presidency,
    and by elected Republican Party
    members of congress
    and state legislatures nationwide. The torching of the Lamborghini
    owned by the Baton Rouge contractor
    hired to remove 4 Confederate statues
    from New Orleans
    (who has since backed out of the contract)
    cries out to be denounced and redressed. Republican leaders across the country
    have to be unequivocal and relentless
    in their opposition
    to the kind of atmosphere
    that cultivates the expression
    of hatred,
    racism,
    extremism
    and white supremacy. Their failure to do that
    exemplifies who they are
    at the level of their hearts—
    and who they will be. Therefore, right-thinking people
    of voting age in the United States
    must register to vote,
    vote in every election,
    small and large,
    and NOT vote for a Republican
    or a member of the Tea Party
    running as an independent
    in any of those elections. Voting is our only tool
    in creating a future
    characterized by civility
    and its concern for the common good
    of all people—
    which is how a democracy founded
    “of the people, by the people, for the people”
    should be. Register to vote. And don’t vote for a Republican.
    In all elections,
    great and small.
  4.  01/21/2016
    We live to make the connections between worlds.
    We live in this world as envoys, as incarnations,
    of the Numen at the center—
    at the heart—
    of us all. We live in this world
    as though we are a world a part—
    as though we are from another world,—
    as “strangers in a strange land.” And carry the cross
    of contradiction, separation,
    estrangement. Uniting worlds
    by exposing incompatibilities
    and dichotomies—
    bringing, not peace,
    but a sword. Creating divisions.
    bearing the pain.
    healing wounds
    that make us whole,
    and unite us
    with the source of all
    at the center of ourselves.
  5.  01/21/2016
    The spiritual path is not the way to what we want.
    There is no deal:
    We give to God, God gives to us.
    Thinking there is such a deal
    is the fundamental problem
    at the foundation of all bad religion. Give to Get.
    The basis of every bad religion ever.
    What can we do to make God happy
    so God will give us
    that land flowing with milk and honey,
    where everyone lives out their life
    and lives in good faith with everyone else? Baruch held out his hand
    and asked for favors for being faithful,
    and got his life as war booty. That’s as much as any of us get.
    We have to square up with that
    before stepping onto the spiritual path.
    It is not the way to our idea
    of having it made. The way that is the way
    is the way of being who we are needed to be
    by the context and circumstances of our life—
    in each situation as it arises—
    with nothing in it for us
    beyond the satisfaction of a job well done. Why do it?
    We get our life as a prize of war.
    If that doesn’t interest you,
    you don’t understand what it means to be alive. There is only one way to find out.
    Be who you are needed to be
    in the here and now of your living,
    and step onto the path.
  6. 01/22/2016
    Where do you go to be vulnerable and safe? We cannot be transparent to ourselves
    without being vulnerable and safe.
    The proper ratio
    of vulnerability and safety
    is essential to wholeness, health and life. We can be too much on guard
    for our own good.
    We have to be able to relax,
    be known
    and be safe,
    in order to experience
    and explore our life. All knowing flows from,
    and leads to,
    free and open inquiry
    in an atmosphere of safety and vulnerability. Where do you go to be vulnerable and safe?
    To experience both safety and vulnerability?
    To be free?
  7. 01/22/2016
    It is about getting—
    and keeping—
    our ratios right.
    We live on a continuum,
    between poles,
    in every aspect of life. There is too close
    and too distant,
    Caring too much
    and not caring enough,
    Too many calories,
    not enough.
    Too much exercise,
    not enough. Like that.
    Around the clock.
    Throughout our life.
    All our life long. We live to live from the center,
    away from the extremes—
    Except when an extreme
    is necessary to counteract,
    counterbalance,
    the opposite extreme. We are thermostats, of sorts,
    keeping all facets of our life
    within a normal distribution curve. It helps, I think,
    check me out on this
    in your own experience,
    (Balancing me with you)
    To take up this work—
    the fundamental work of being human—
    of maintaining right ratios across our life
    consciously. To do it with awareness.
    With compassionate mindfulness.
    To know what we are doing.
    And do it without hesitation
    or loss of balance,
    because that is what humans do.
    We live from the center,
    between extremes,
    grounded in the heart of all matters,
    for the good of the whole.
  8. 01/23/2016
    Living in accord with the Tao
    is putting ourselves
    in the service
    of the Self
    at the center of ourselves
    and all things. It is being clear about who
    we are
    and who we need to be,
    and what is happening,
    and what needs to be done about it,
    in each situation as it arises— getting out of the way with our
    wishes,
    hopes,
    fears
    and desires,
    and assisting what needs to happen
    as a blessing and a grace
    (which may, or may not,
    be seen and recognized as such
    by anyone there,
    including ourselves). Jesus was crucified.
    Lao Tzu lived in exile.
    Don’t be looking
    for peeled grapes
    on satin pillows
    as a reward
    for living in accord with the Tao. Let your alignment with the Center
    be reward enough,
    be all the reward you need.
  9. 01/24/2016
    The Bundy Gang
    is the latest in a long line
    of outlaws in the Old West,
    and their ilk is not limited
    to a geographical location. Terrorists and thugs
    hide out under white sheets
    in the Deep South,
    and call themselves War Lords
    and the Islamic State
    in the Middle East,
    Boko Haram in Nigeria,
    Are referred to as the Cosa Nostra
    in Italy and beyond,
    and the Drug Cartel in Central America. It’s the same Do It My Way Or Die theme
    everywhere you go.
    The backwash of civilization.
    Thugism in the form of the Goths,
    Vandals
    Huns
    and Genghis Kann
    is always at the gates,
    and behind the scenes,
    working to tear up what is being laid down
    and destroy what is being achieved and created. Maybe we could talk to them.
    Ask them to reconsider.
    Reform their ways.
    Be nice.
    Or give everybody a gun. We never get far enough away from
    the Shootout at the OK Corral,
    and sow seeds of discord and discontent
    with every advancement
    and improvement imagined
    and implemented. There is always something to not like,
    and someone to not like it
    and devise ways to blow it up.
    The dance dances on
    all through the eons of time
    to music we can’t hear or resist.
  10. 01/24/2016
    After the physical needs
    of food, clothing and shelter are met,
    comes along the spiritual (because it is “of the spirit,”
    “of the heart”)
    need for meaning. Here’s one for you:
    Money is not meaningful. Here’s another one for you:
    More money is not more meaningful. “What is money for?”
    is the question.
    “How is money to be spent
    in the service of meaning?” Where are you going to find meaning? Here’s a hint for you:
    What have been the most
    meaningful experiences of your life?
    The Top 10 meaningful experiences? That should provide you
    with all the direction
    you need in your search for meaning. But, in case, you are still wallowing in confusion,
    here’s another hint for you:
    Where are you most creative in your life?
    Where does your imagination come most into play?
    When is the last time you did something creative, imaginative? If you want to find meaning in your life,
    you have to live in ways that are meaningful,
    you have to do things that are meaningful—
    the things that make your heart sing
    and your little feet dance. Often.
  11. 01/25/2016 —
    No one can tell us what is meaningful,
    or where meaning is to be found. Meaning is personal to the core.
    Something is meaningful if it is meaningful to US. We can appreciate the fact that it is meaningful to others,
    but our relationship to it will never be what it is for them—
    unless and until it becomes for us as it is for them. The search meaning is the search
    for what is meaningful for, to, us.
    A meaningful life is one lived in close association
    with what has meaning in life for us. It is our place to be aware
    of where meaning is found
    and to be devoted
    to what has meaning for us. We cannot allow ourselves
    to be stripped of life’s meaning
    by the ridicule of those
    who are not moved by what moves us. We have to guard
    what is meaningful when we find it,
    and develop our relationship with it,
    whether or not anyone shares our interest. Alan Watts once asked Joseph Campbell,
    “Joe, what form does your yoga take?”
    Campbell replied, “I underline passages.”
    Remain loyal to what has meaning for you.
    It will take you to interesting places,
    and you will live an interesting life.
    Of interest, that is, to you,
    and you are the one that counts the most
    when it comes to living your life.
  12.  01/25/2016
    We have to rethink everything
    we have been told and led to assume.
    The cultural orientations toward
    wealth,
    privilege,
    exploitation,
    profiteering,
    entertainment,
    consumption,
    and an ever-increasing standard of living
    are fictions that cannot sustain life. Religion’s affiliation with,
    and support of,
    the cultural fictions disqualifies it
    as “the voice of God,”
    and leaves us in the position
    of finding our own way
    through all that is false
    to the treasure hard to find—
    which is the trustworthy
    foundation,
    source,
    and legitimate goal of our life. Our search is the quest for life,
    for that which is worth our life,
    and provides life to all who find,
    and align themselves with,
    the Way of Life. To find our way there,
    we have to rethink everything
    we have been told
    and led to assume. Our problem is knowing
    what to make of our experience.
    Things are not always what they seem to be.
    How do we know what to think? Our understanding depends
    upon the quality of our interpretation,
    which is influenced by 10,000 things.
    We must understand that our understanding is
    hypothetical,
    conditional,
    incomplete,
    awaiting further clarity. Wait and see.
    Time will tell.
    Do not rush to judgment. Listen.
    Act
    and evaluate the outcome.
    Test your hypotheses.
    Adjust your interpretation
    to take the evidence into account.
    Allow reflection upon experience
    to create new realizations.
    Allow reality to adjust your
    interpretation/understanding of reality.
    Live your way to the truth
    of how things are and also are.
    One step at a time.
  13. 01/26/2016
    We have to rethink everything,
    And we don’t want to rethink anything.
    We want to be told what to think, and do.
    And, therein lies the problem. Each of us has to do the work of growing up
    And becoming who we are.
    None of us is interested in the task.
    The Way of Life winds through
    Eden,
    Gethsemane
    and Golgotha
    before arriving at the Empty Tomb—
    and none of those way-stops is literal,
    but all of them are real,
    and waiting. We want a shortcut to Glory Land,
    and seek out leaders who will take us there,
    ignoring the fact that it is a life-long journey,
    and we find our own way—
    taking cues from the ones who have gone before,
    understanding what they mean when they say,
    “There is nothing to know
    that has not always been known!
    There is only doing
    what has always been done!”
  14.  01/26/2016
    We live to be transparent to ourselves—
    To know who we are,
    and who we also are,
    and how it is with us on every level. Being transparent
    to our contradictions and polarities
    could immobilize us, but.
    Being transparent to our paralysis
    enables us to transcend our impotence,
    see what needs to be done,
    and do it. Being transparent to transcendence—
    To that which transcends us
    and to our ability to transcend ourselves,
    our context,
    our circumstances,
    our chances,
    and all that would inhibit us,
    and render us incapable of acting—
    allows us to live in accord with,
    aligned with,
    the Self at the center of ourselves,
    and to assist in the production
    of unimaginable wonders. All because we took up the work
    of knowing who we are,
    and who we also are,
    and how it is with us, on every level.
  15. 01/26/2016
    We stumble our way along all along the way,
    bumping into strange guides,
    tripping over false assumptions,
    falling into deep pits
    of squirming inferences,
    crashing into one dead end after another,
    taking wrong turns
    that take us exactly where we need to be,
    ignoring all warning signs,
    yet heeding bad advice,
    losing our way
    to be saved again and again
    by grace and good luck
    (And where does that line lie?),
    wishing there were a
    more expedient and cost-effective way—
    like maybe a pill to swallow,
    or a short book to read,
    wondering why it takes
    not knowing what we are doing
    to know what we are doing
    when we say we don’t know what we are doing,
    and be fine with that,
    with just listening,
    just looking,
    just waiting to see,
    not knowing what
    we are looking for,
    waiting on.
  16. 01/27/2016
    There is a difference between wanting to be a photographer
    and having to be one,
    between wishing you could take pretty pictures,
    and being unable to leave one untaken. The dance dances us,
    the song sings us,
    the music won’t leave us alone.
    A lot of people have cameras
    and don’t know how to use them
    in order to make the most of them.
    They have no idea what
    the buttons,
    knobs
    and settings are for,
    and have never read the manual,
    and don’t intend to. They have a camera,
    but they are not a photographer. A lot of people drive through scenes,
    past photographs,
    every day,
    without seeing what they are missing. They think photographs
    reside somewhere else,
    like the Grand Canyon,
    and hope to go there one day,
    and maybe they do. They drive up to the view points and take a picture,
    and post them online,
    but they never saw the scene,
    and they don’t see the picture. A lot of people want to be a cowboy,
    And buy the hat,
    and the jeans,
    and maybe the boots,
    and the spurs,
    but they don’t have even one cow,
    and have never been bucked off of a horse,
    and never will be. Anybody can be a photographer,
    just like anybody can be a cowboy.
    Or a stand-up bass player.

One Minute Monologues 031

January 28, 2016 – March 25, 2016

  1. 01/28/2016 — How bored can you be?
    The Boredom Test is the tipping point
    of the spiritual journey
    Boredom is another manifestation
    of the Cyclops standing in the path.
    If we run at the first sight of boredom,
    We don’t have a prayer. A high boredom threshold
    is a prerequisite for the journey.
    Boredom is an opportunity
    for reflection, rumination, walk-a-bouts,
    A chance to examine our assumptions,
    Explore our inferences,
    Contemplate our experience,
    Rethink our thinking.
    We cannot rush through boredom
    In the panic-driven obsession with
    Taking our mind off our life.
    Whatever we don’t want to face and consider
    Is where we have to go:
    “The treasure you seek lies in the depths
    Of the cave you most don’t want to enter.” We call it boredom,
    But it is fear.
  2. 01/29/2016
    Living with conscious,
    mindful,
    compassionate awareness
    Is all that is required for living well. We will live toward the good
    when we live transparent to ourselves,
    Within circumstances that are transparent to us. To see things as they are on all levels
    Is to know what needs to be done about them—
    And to know is to do. Who among us knowingly would withhold the good?
    Who among us would
    associate with anyone
    who would knowingly withhold the good?
    How could any of us face ourselves
    (Transparent to ourselves, remember)
    Knowingly withholding the good?
    How could we bear the truth of the sham of our lives,
    Talking righteousness and goodness
    And knowingly withholding the good? The fabric of society is based
    on “liberty and justice for all.”
    Are we who we say we are, or not?
    If not, why lie about it?
    Why not say, “We don’t give a wet damn about _____!”
    And fill in the blank
    with all types of people
    we don’t give a wet damn about?
    What’s with posturing,
    posing,
    pretending,
    shamming?
    Why live a sham life?
    If we aren’t going to be who we say we are,
    We are left with a world of masks,
    facades,
    veneers
    Held together with empty promises
    and hollow alibis. Who, knowingly, can live like that?
  3. 01/30/2016
    We live in the field of incongruity,
    incompatibility,
    impossibility, In order for things to be
    what they need to be,
    Something cannot be what it is. Things have to be what they are not
    in order for things to work.
    The Tea Party cannot accept gay people
    and black people
    and women
    and immigrants…
    The list is long. And say,
    “People can’t be gay,
    and black,
    and women,
    and immigrants…” Something has to give.
    Something has to go so that something else—
    Say peace and justice
    and compassion
    and good faith relationships among all people everywhere—
    Might come. The chances of that happening
    are about the same
    As those of the sun rising
    and setting at the same time.
    And, here we are.
    Something has to go
    So that something else might come. And, in the meantime,
    we are stuck with having to make things work
    As well as they can work,
    Here and now, just as it is. Here’s how we do it:
    No illusions.
    Awareness, awareness, awareness.
    Laughing and playing at/with
    the very idea that anything can happen,
    Here and now, with things as they are. It’s impossible, of course,
    But so was everything else f
    rom the viewpoint of the cave dwellers.
    And now we have grand pianos and jumbo jets. Live with peace,
    justice,
    compassion
    and good faith relationships,
    And see where it goes.
    Laughing and playing
    with the incongruities,
    impossibilities
    and absurdities.
    I especially like the absurdities.
    If life weren’t absurd,
    it would be no fun at all!
  4. 01/31/2016
    Recipes are guidelines.
    Human beings love a Rule.
    Love to be Ruled.
    Love to Live By The Rules.
    Because, I think, it gets us off the hook.
    If we Live By The Rules,
    No one can find fault with us,
    And we don’t have to go
    to the trouble of being responsible
    for our own life.
    We just do what we are told
    without having to think for ourselves—
    With all the risks that entails.
    Recipes are guidelines
    offering suggestions regarding what works.
    Recipes are handy that way.
    They shorten the time
    between feeling like a pancake
    and eating a pancake.
    Rules keep us from
    having to figure out from the start
    what’s best in certain situations.
    We remember what worked last time
    and apply it this time.
    Rules and recipes outlive their usefulness
    when they stop working
    To make things work
    and start working to get in the way.
    We have to have the freedom
    of our own authority
    To decide whether a rule or a recipe
    is working or not working
    In a particular situation,
    And do what needs to be done
    to make things work.
    We set rules aside in order for things to work.
    Jesus was out of accord
    with every book of order of his day.
    He healed on the Sabbath.
    What’s the modern equivalent
    of healing on the Sabbath in your case?
    Swing for the fences.
  5. 02/01/2016
    Think of your most important relationships,
    and add your soul to the list.
    Your relationship with your soul
    is on a par with your relationships
    with all the people who are most important to you.
    You are the guardian of all of these relationships,
    And your place is to see to it
    that all of them get equal attention
    and equal place in your life.
    You cannot take your soul for granted.
    Your role for what remains of your life
    is to learn to tend the needs
    and interests of your soul
    As though it were one of your
    most important relationships.
    Where will you start?
    When will you begin?
  6. 02/01/2016
    Theology is mythology
    that has been baptized
    and declared to be literal,
    actual,
    absolute
    and unchangeable
    by those who said the earth was flat,
    the center of the universe
    and created at 6 PM on Saturday, October 23, 4004 BC. It’s past time we put all of that to rest,
    and give ourselves to the task of finding,
    and living in alignment with,
    the Numen at the center of ourselves. Anticipating this turn, G.K. Chesterton said,
    “When Jones follows his Inner Light, Jones follows Jones.”
    Yet, when Jones follows
    those who say they have the light,
    Jones follows those who say they have the light.
    What’s Jones to do?
    Trust his own sense of what is right for Jones,
    or do as he is told?
    Jones has to decide
    if he is going to live out of his own personal authority
    and let the outcome be the outcome,
    or let someone else tell him how to live.
    Either way, it is all up to Jones.
    What Jones says goes.
  7. 02/02/2016
    Any excuse will do,
    And excuses abound,
    For not doing the things that need to be done,
    For not living the life that needs us to live it,
    For not finding the Numen at the center of ourselves,
    For not living out of a conscious,
    living,
    relationship with it,
    all our life long. “The Tao that can be said
    Is not the Eternal Tao,”
    But that doesn’t mean anything we say
    Is the Eternal Tao.
    We have to know what we are talking about.
    We have to have an actual relationship
    With the Numen within.
    Substitutes abound.
    Any excuse will do.
  8. 02/02/2016
    Individuation, in the Jungian sense of the word,
    means Becoming who you are built to be—
    who only you can be—
    growing up into who you are,”
    And implies eccentricity
    Cutting your own path,”
    Being your own authority,
    Finding your own way,
    Marching to your own drummer,
    Singing your own song,
    Dancing your own dance,
    And allowing your life to unfold,
    To take shape,
    Around you,
    As it will. We do not will our life into a particular shape.
    We sense how it needs to be lived,
    And allow it to find its own form.
    This is the purest magic there is,
    Our life falling into place
    As we live it.
  9. 02/02/2016
    In any situation, “reasonable minds” can examine all the facts,
    And interpret them differently,
    Draw different conclusions,
    Pursue different courses of action,
    Based on the same facts.
    The way we interpret what happens
    Makes all the difference.
    The way we see
    Is not the only way to see.
    Whether it is the best way to see
    Depends on our interpretation of what “best” means.
    “Best” in terms of what?
    Everything about us is based on
    our interpretation/evaluation/exegesis of everything about us.
    We may live in a world of concrete facts,
    But, how we live there is based
    on the abstract and the ephemeral.
    Our life is dependent upon the way our imagination
    Interacts with our experience.
    The facts are the playthings of ideas,
    Which generate ideas,
    Which transform the facts,
    So that no fact exists in a vacuum,
    Separate from some way of seeing,
    perspective, understanding.
    A meaningless fact means that it has no meaning.
    A truly meaningless fact is inconceivable,
    invisible, non-existent.
    Our life is a disparate collection of interpretations.
    And we take it seriously.
    What are we thinking?
  10. 02/02/2016 — Bryce Canyon 2006—Bryce Canyon National Park, Utah, September 2006Your life is a horse you are riding home, but.
    You don’t know where home is,
    but the horse does.
    Your job is to keep the horse
    from stopping to eat grass,
    And the horse will take you home. “Stopping to eat grass” is
    losing your focus amid the 10,000 things.
    We are not here to lose our focus.
    We are here to pass through
    space and time on our way home.
    When we are focused,
    We still have experiences that are a part of the journey.
    Even stopping to eat grass is part of the journey,
    But we cannot forget the journey.
    We cannot lose sight of the journey in great fields of grass. Everything is a part of the journey
    When we live with the journey in mind.
    When we forget the journey,
    Nothing is part of the journey. Our life will take us home
    If we live with the journey in mind.
    We are passing through this place on our way home,
    Picking up experiences that will be a part
    Of the stories we will tell
    when we arrive back where we belong.
  11. 02/03/2016 — Mesquite Dunes 2006 03 — Death Valley National Park, California, April 2006It’s important what’s important—
    What we recognize as important,
    What we treat as important,
    What is important. Nothing is more important
    than knowing what is important,
    And living as though it is.
    How we treat one another is important.
    More important than any ideology,
    Or set of beliefs,
    Or collection of customs and social codes. It is important that we treat one another lovingly
    No matter how we feel.
    “We don’t hate gay people,
    or black people,
    or immigrants,
    or women,
    or refugees!” say those who do.
    Well, treat them lovingly, then. As it is, they can’t tell your not hating them
    from your hating them
    By the way you treat them.
    So treat them lovingly.
    If you don’t hate them,
    Treat them so they will have
    no reason to think that you may hate them. And, so it goes for all people,
    Around the world,
    Across the seas,
    On the other side of town,
    And just down the street.
  12. 02/03/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 31 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015What is the nature of your productivity?
    What do you produce that you are most pleased with?
    That you most enjoy producing?
    I produce ideas, thoughts, realizations, connections.
    These generally take the form of
    Poems, paragraphs, photographs or recipes.
    In order to clear a space for this kind of production,
    I also produce naps.
    These are the things I most enjoy producing.
    I also produce lists for errands and groceries,
    Which I then tend to and procure.
    I am convinced that productivity that pleases us
    Is an essential component of a life well-lived,
    a central aspect of health and wholeness.
    And I wholeheartedly recommend
    that you become aware of
    The things you enjoy producing,
    And produce them consciously and often,
    Enjoying yourself immensely
    In the work of your body, mind and soul.
  13. 02/04/2016 — Goodale 2015 37 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015Ulysses could have shortened his
    Hero’s Journey considerably
    By being mindfully,
    compassionately,
    aware of his circumstances. Ulysses was stupid every time
    he had the opportunity to be stupid.
    The Journey is about overcoming our stupidity. Put Lao Tzu, Jesus, or the Buddha in Ulysses’ place,
    And you have a different Journey.
    You have a Journey no one would care to read about,
    Or go watch at the movies. We like to read about and watch
    people being stupider than we would be.
    It gives us that superior feeling that we crave.
    All of our cultures have been based on superiority.
    We love a Lord, and would love to be one,
    And in striving to be one, at least on some level,
    We throw in with Ulysses on a Journey we despise. Lao Tzu, Jesus and the Buddha
    Were superior to being superior.
    And were content to be themselves.
    Mindfully, compassionately, aware of their circumstances.
    Offering what was needed to the moment of their living. And, then, there is Ulysses.
    What kind of hero would you like to be?
  14. 02/04/2016 — Cadillac Mountain 2009 — Acadia National Park, Bar Harbor, Maine, October 2009Experience is the catalyst
    uniting our conscious ego
    with our unconscious self,
    Enabling the transformation
    by which unconscious becomes conscious,
    Incarnation is realized,
    And the virgin birth,
    Or the coniunctio,
    Is made real in our own life, In order for the miracle to happen,
    We have to experience our experience,
    Be present with it
    And receive it with right interpretation.
    If you think that’s easy,
    Hop in the saddle
    And tell them to open the chute.
  15. 02/04/2016 — Edisto Beach Sunrise 09 — Edisto Beach State Park, Edisto Island, SC, January 29, 2015We are afraid there is nothing to us.
    We are afraid we are nothing.
    We are afraid of being nothing, of nothingness.
    We have looked and can’t find anything there.
    We have thought about it, and cannot think of anything
    That we are, or might be, or could be
    If we put our mind to it.
    We have tried putting our mind to it,
    And nothing happens.
    Just as we thought. So, we live to take our mind off of it,
    Off of who we are and what is to become of us.
    We live too fast to think,
    Too distracted to think,
    Too drunk or stoned to think.
    We buy into the action.
    We don’t care what kind of action.
    Diversion. Anything.
    To escape nothing. Nothing is the Cyclops we dread the most.
    We have nightmares of the Void.
    Utter emptiness.
    Falling, falling…
    Flailing about forever.
    We have to do the terrible thing:
    Face it.
    Our fear.
    Nothing.
    And step into it.
    And see if we fly. On the other side of nothing is the self at the center
    With a life waiting for us to live.
    Faith is trusting this to be so,
    All evidence to the contrary notwithstanding.
    We owe it to ourselves to find out
    If we are as hopeless as we believe we are.
  16. 02/04/2016 — Scott Creek Sunset 04 — Edisto Beach State Park, Edisto Island, South Carolina, January 29, 2015We have to believe in our destiny
    In the life that is ours yet to live,
    That only we can live. We have to believe that there is more to us than meets the eye
    Any eye, even our own. Because what is left to us if we do not?
    If we do not believe in ourselves,
    And what we are capable of,
    And what we might do with the gifts that are ours,
    The gifts we don’t even know we have,
    Because we have not dared to hope we might have a gift,
    And have not have had the courage to trust that we do
    Beyond all reason and doubt,
    What is left of us? Believe that there is you
    The you you know yourself to be
    With your history, your past, your prospects and resources.
    And believe that there is Also You
    The you you have it in you to be,
    Even now, even so. Give you to Also You,
    And say, “I have nothing to lose so,
    I am handing myself over to you,
    In complete faith that you can do more with me than I can,
    And I will trust that to be so, no matter what happens,
    From this day forward.
    Beginning now it is this way between us:
    Thy will, not mine, be done.
    This is my liege oath to you!” Mean it.
    Do it.
    It has always come down to this through the ages.
  17. 02/05/2016 — Kings Mountain Farm 21 B&W — Sorghum Press, Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015Our experience with our life has to impact our life,
    Or it is wasted.
    Experience is for reflection,
    For realization,
    For making connections,
    For seeing what fits and what does not fit,
    For evaluating what we have been told,
    And determining what can be used,
    And what is to be thrown away. Yet, we too often gauge our experience
    In light of what we are told it is supposed to be.
    If something is “not the way we experience it,”
    Our experience is discounted
    And we are encouraged to toe the “company line”
    To see things like they are supposed to be seen. We are disconnected from
    the validity of our experience early on,
    And the light goes out of our eyes
    Long before we are laid to rest.
  18. 02/05/2016 — Spring Willow 2004 — Country Park, Greensboro, NC, April 2004Magic happens when we wake up
    and begin to see things as they are.
    Connections are everywhere.
    Signs and wonders whirl around us.
    Meaningful coincidences are common occurrences.
    Doors open,
    Paths appear,
    Benevolent guides point the way,
    And we are at peace with the universe,
    And at home in the world. You would think we would be more interested in
    Waking up and seeing things as they are.
  19. 02/06/2016 — Walnut Tree 2002 — Cades Cove, Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Townsend, Tennessee, September 2002Johnny Manziel cannot cooperate
    with his own best interest.
    This is the essence of mental illness:
    Being unable to live with your own best interest at heart.
    Being incapable of living in good faith with yourself.
    Being compelled to shoot yourself in the foot
    again and again until you bleed to death.
    Or shooting yourself in the head to speed up the process. Addicted to self-destruction.
    Johnny Manziel is every addict we know,
    or read about in the papers.
    Drugs and alcohol get all the press,
    But food addiction in all its forms is right in there with them,
    And sex addiction,
    And physical/verbal/emotional abuse addiction… I once thought I wanted to be a psychotherapist,
    But I realized early on in my apprenticeship
    That the people who needed the most help
    Were unable to help themselves.
    They willed to not help themselves.
    Try to fix that without their cooperation! And they cannot cooperate in their own recovery, reclamation.
    They cannot.
    That’s mental illness for you.
    And don’t hold those with that condition at fault.
    You can’t wake yourself up any more than
    they can wake themselves up.
    And all any of us ever need is waking up.
    And some of us do wake up. It is the hope for us all.
    That one day, we will wake up.
    So we buy the mentally ill as much time as we can
    Against their will
    Hoping they will wake up.
    Some do.
  20. 02/07/2016 — Wild Goose Island B&W — Saint Mary Lake, Glacier National Park, Montana, September 2004Allow me to whine and complain. The ground rule of photography is this:
    “You Pays Your Money, And You Takes Your Chances.” You invest in the equipment and in the travel expenses,
    And spend the time it takes getting there,
    And maybe the photo is there, and maybe it isn’t. Five things are required for a worthy photograph:
    Subject,
    Lighting,
    Focus,
    Exposure,
    and Composition.
    A landscape photographer is in control of three of them. If the subject is a mountain or a waterfall,
    Conditions determine its availability.
    If it is a moose or a grizzly bear,
    You may have to wait past your departing flight time.
    The moon rise or set, like the sun rise or set,
    May be clouded in for a week,
    Or two.
    The light can be terrible forever.
    So you go, knowing that you may have to go back,
    With no guarantees even then. Speaking of “then,”
    Then you grow old,
    And with the advent of your 72nd year,
    You notice the presence of what I like to call “creeping disinclination,”
    And you sense “rampant disinclination” gathering itself
    Just around the bend.
    What are you going to do with another moon rise at the beach,
    Anyway? How long will you be interested in continuing to
    Pay Your Money And Take Your Chances?
    What with arthritic knees
    And the comfort of coffee when you like it,
    The way you like it?
  21. 02/07/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 32 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015All healing is miraculous. We create conditions favorable to the healing process,
    And turn things over to the body’s innate healing capacities
    Which includes the body’s environment,
    Both physical, emotional and spiritual
    (And by “spiritual” I mean “unconscious,”
    That is, “All of that which we are not conscious of.”
    I do not mean any
    of the supposed religious hierarchies of the “other world”). The body’s environments
    Inner and outer
    Are either healing environments,
    Or they are toxic environments.
    Or some combination of both.
    Needless to say, we fare better in healing environments,
    And owe it to ourselves and all sentient beings
    To create, and live in, environments
    That are conducive to our health on all levels. That we do not do that is curious,
    And exemplifies the fact that we do not much care about
    Living in ways that serve our best interest.
    We will not devote ourselves to the care of body and soul.
    We prefer to live “any old way at all,”
    And take our chances.
    To “follow the course of least resistance,”
    And hope for the best. We could do better and don’t.
    We prefer to take pills
    And have surgeries,
    Rather than change our diet
    And our life style.
    We blame the cruel fates,
    Instead of assisting the benevolent powers,
    And never ask ourselves whose side we are on.
  22. 02/08/2016 — Hatteras Sunset — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, Outer Banks, North Carolina, October 2004We are at war with life,
    And can’t make up out minds
    Whether we want to live it
    as it could be lived or not.
    We settle too easily for less than life could be,
    Which is just above death,
    Just enough alive to not be declared dead,
    And buried,
    But fighting life—the life that could be lived—all the way. We don’t exercise,
    We don’t follow a healthy diet,
    We smoke,
    Drink too much alcohol,
    Do drugs—
    prescription, over the counter, illegal.
    And we fall into some easy enough routine
    That allows us to pay the bills and get by.
    What? We don’t pursue the gift.
    Why not?
    Why do we not live in the service of the gift?
    Dead things float with the current,
    Go with the flow.
    It doesn’t matter to them where they end up.
    Why do we forsake the gift?
    We are burning daylight.
    There is less time each day.
    Why renounce and abandon the gift?
  23. 02/08/2016 — Bass Harbor Lighthouse — Bass Harbor, Maine, September 2004My wife and I live “cornered into” a small section of woods,
    16 to 20 acres perhaps
    With a strip to the north and a larger portion to the west.
    It is a short time until the rampant development
    That is sweeping all the woods away
    Devours “ours” as well. Until then, I relish the sound of the wind through the trees,
    Which are pines and a good selection of hardwoods,
    And am “at one” with my—all of our—ancestors
    Who lived with the sound of the wind through the trees,
    And did what was theirs to do. And, when it is no more,
    I will adjust,
    and remember.
  24. 02/08/2016 — Camden Harbor — Camden, Maine, September 2004We have to have the freedom of our own mind,
    And have to be free to change our mind
    As the result of our on-going reflection on our experience. Changing our mind is an inside job,
    And cannot be forced upon us from without.
    We have to know when we are being “talked into” something,
    And stop it “in its tracks.” “I appreciate your viewpoint, and will take your suggestion
    under advisement,” is all we need say
    In defining our boundaries and drawing our own line. We are perfectly capable of experiencing our experience,
    And deciding for ourselves what is valid and what is not,
    What is working and what is not, but.
    We have to experience all of our experience,
    And catch ourselves in the act of being selective
    In favor of old conclusions and tacit assumptions. We must live transparent to ourselves,
    Open to the full range of our experience,
    If we hope to be able to change our mind
    In light of evidence to the contrary
    Of our preconceived notions
    and comfortable prejudices.
  25. 02/09/2016 — Scott Creek Sunset 06 — Edisto Beach State Park, Edisto Island, South Carolina, January 29, 2015We have to be our own heroes.
    We are the only ones who can save us.
    We do it by waking up,
    Coming to our senses,
    Seeing, hearing and understanding,
    And changing our mind about what is important. We don’t do it to avoid hell and get to heaven.
    We do it to be who we are,
    Fully alive in the time and place of our living,
    Doing the work that makes our heart sing. The monsters that have to be bested,
    Again and again are
    Fear and Lethargy,
    Which is the idea that it is too late,
    That it won’t do any good,
    That it is no use
    And too much trouble,
    And maybe we will start tomorrow. No one can talk us into doing what must be done.
    We have to stand ourselves up,
    And walk into our life,
    Living it to the hilt in the time left for living,
    No matter what.
  26. 02/10/2016 — Black Bayou 15 HDR — Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Management Refuge, Monroe, Louisiana, November 2, 2015Consciousness carries with it
    the possibility of reflection and examination,
    Of imagining potential scenarios
    and considering different responses,
    rehearsing an event before it happens
    in order to guide it toward an outcome
    that we rank as being better than others we foresee. With consciousness comes
    the designations good, better, best,
    And bad, worse, worst. Which opens the door to ethics and morality,
    culture,
    norms,
    codes,
    standards,
    laws
    and civilization. With the arrival of consciousness,
    We break with the natural world,
    And begin to walk two paths at the same time. There is the path of nature,
    Where might makes right
    and the law of the jungle prevails,
    And the path of civilized humanity,
    Where the end does not justify the means,
    And justice and kindness
    call us beyond brutality and ruthlessness. The way of nature still courses through our veins,
    But, knowing, we know the call
    of a different way, and guilt is born.
    And forgiveness, and accountability,
    and the necessity of putting things right. We live bearing the cross of two competing natures,
    And must bear it consciously,
    with mindful compassionate awareness,
    If the weight of our distant past
    Is not to destroy the hope of our future,
    And that of the world.
  27. 02/10/2016 — Cane River Pier at Sunset — Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana, July 2004The more we can be mindfully,
    compassionately,
    non-judgmentally
    aware of,
    and present with,
    a moment,
    a situation,
    the more we can hold the moment
    in our awareness,
    without judging
    or willing
    or resisting
    or influencing
    or directing
    or compelling,
    but just being with the moment,
    aware of all that is there with us—
    the colors,
    the lighting,
    the objects,
    the people,
    the emotional tone,
    the atmosphere,
    the “feel” —
    what is foreground
    and what is background,
    and how, with a shift of focus,
    background becomes foreground,
    and foreground background,
    and how our observing the moment
    takes us out of the moment,
    yet influences the moment
    by removing ourselves from it,
    so that the moment
    gets its direction from sources
    other than ourselves
    and the impact we might otherwise have. The more we so this,
    the more we are open to,
    and aware of,
    the presence of “More Than Meets The Eye”
    in each moment,
    and can see,
    and feel,
    how this moment,
    is an extension of the last moment,
    and a precursor of the next one,
    and how all of life is in movement,
    flowing from one moment to the next,
    like a symphony on a cosmic scale,
    being played by an orchestra
    we cannot hear.
  28. 02/11/2016 — Goodale 2015 38 B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015Our imagination is a powerful tool
    in the service of good or evil,
    life or death.
    Everything of human origin
    is the creation of someone’s imagination.
    Arrowheads,
    pottery shards,
    grand pianos,
    atomic bombs…
    It all came from “nothing but” our imagination.
    We can imagine ourselves sick,
    and well.
    Imagine ourselves bound and free.
    Imagine ourselves dead and alive.
    Imagination used mindfully
    is a boon to existence.
    Used mindlessly,
    it is the end of all things.
    Observe how you use your imagination
    and how it arranges your outcomes,
    and impacts your life.
    Observe how your awareness of things,
    changes things.
  29. 02/12/2016 — Kings Mountain Farm 13 HDR Panorama — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015Self-discipline does it.
    It is key ingredient to the Hero’s Journey,
    We can’t take the first step without it. Fear and Lethargy
    (Sometimes experienced as Disinclination
    maybe tomorrow,
    maybe later,
    maybe one day,
    maybe soon)
    are the dragons,
    the monsters,
    the manifestations of the Cyclops
    standing in our way
    (James Hollis).
    Mindful,
    compassionate,
    non-judgmental awareness
    can point the way, but
    after we know clearly what needs to be done,
    we still have to do it.
    And stay with it.
    Over time.
    For the long haul. Ben Howland says,
    “Winning or losing, it’s still a grind.”
    Nothing makes it easy,
    doing what is to be done.
    We stand ourselves up and step into it each day
    throughout the day,
    everyday,
    swimming up stream against
    our natural tendency
    to go with the flow
    and let nature take its course. We are working against nature,
    against our own nature!
    It is not the natural thing
    being a True Human Being,
    being the Hero on her, on his, own journey!
    We have to overcome all obstacles to do it,
    especially the self-imposed ones.
    Always the question:
    “Whose side are we on?”
  30. 02/12/2016 — Mountain Fall 2004 — Blue Ridge Parkway, North Carolina, October 2004Jesus said on two different occasions:
    “If you aren’t with me, you are against me!”
    And,
    “If you aren’t against me, you are with me!” Apparently, there is no possibility of neutrality in the matter.
    My take on everything Jesus is said to have said
    is that he is the mouthpiece of the Numen—the Self—the Truth
    at the center of us all. When Jesus speaks, WE are talking
    to ourselves,
    about ourselves,
    calling ourselves to come
    to our senses
    and join together with ourselves. It is the same with everyone of us
    who has approached True Human Being-hood:
    The Buddha,
    Lao Tzu,
    Tevya,
    Yogi Berra,
    Hester Prynne,
    Betty White… The call is clear:
    “Off the fence with you!
    Out of the recliner!
    Into the fray!
    Into the action!
    Make a choice!
    Move it NOW!” No hiding our talent,
    our gift,
    our Self in a sealed Mason Jar,
    buried in a deep hole,
    under a large rock,
    taking no chances
    on getting something wrong!
    Every day we live
    on our side,
    or against ourselves.
    Every day.
  31. 02/12/2016 — Pines 2004 — Down East North Carolina, March 2004Jesus was fond of saying, “Those with ears, let them hear!”
    It’s the same as saying, “You have to know what I mean
    before you can understand what I’m saying.”
    Or, “You have to have thought about this,
    wrestled with it,
    before you can grasp what I have to say about it.”
    Or, “You can only hear
    what I am articulating
    if you have cultivated
    and nurtured
    and watered it to the point
    of bursting into bloom
    when the light strikes it.
    Otherwise, all will be dark,
    no matter how brightly the sun shines.” In every generation there are those
    who say what needs to be said,
    and those who can hear what is being said.
    And there are those who say
    only what has been said,
    And those who can hear
    only what has been said.
    And there we are.
  32. 02/13/2016 — Price Lake Blues — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway near Blowing Rock, North Carolina, April 2004Jesus came healing on the Sabbath,
    keeping company with the “unclean”
    (People with leprosy
    or some chronic illness
    or injury,
    or those simply too poor
    to pay the Temple tax,
    and obviously afflicted by God
    for some unpardonable sin,
    hence not to be acknowledged
    for fear of becoming guilty by association),
    with women and tax-collectors. Jesus was out of accord with every book of order of his day,
    yet, in the Sermon on the Mount, said,
    “Do not think I have come to abolish the Law.
    I have come to fulfill it.”
    And then, he proceeds through the rest of the Sermon
    to lay aside the Law with things like:
    “You have heard it said…
    But I say unto you…” Jesus very deliberately lived
    so as to abolish the letter of the Law,
    the written Law,
    so as to fulfill the spirit of the Law,
    doing what needed to be done in each situation as it arose,
    without regard to what was supposed to be done
    according to Jewish Law or social code. But that didn’t mean people were free to do
    whatever they felt like doing.
    “If you know what you are doing,” he said
    to a man he found working on the Sabbath,
    “You are blessed.
    But if you don’t know what you are doing,
    you are accursed and a transgressor of the Law.” And he prayed for the people at his crucifixion saying,
    “Father forgive them, they know not what they do.”
    Everything revolves around knowing what we are doing—
    around living a considered life—
    around living consciously,
    mindfully,
    compassionately,
    non-judgmentally,
    aware of the time
    and place of our living,
    and what is being called for there,
    what is being asked of us there,
    and complying in the moment
    out of a heart that
    sees,
    hears
    and understands what is being asked of it. As Jesus might have said,
    “You all have a heart!
    Go live in its service!”
    It is never more difficult than that.
  33. 02/13/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 33 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015There are two of us living one life.
    The one we are conscious of,
    And the one we are not conscious of.
    The conscious one is here to become conscious
    Of the one we are unconscious of—
    to bring to life in the life we are living
    the life we are capable of living
    in collaboration with the one we are
    to become conscious of. The question, then, is always pertinent,
    and difficult to answer with clarity and certainty:
    Whose side are we on?
    How do we know?
    How can we be sure?
    Who is piloting our boat on its path through the sea? We have to read the signs,
    interpret our dreams
    and our wanderings of mind and body,
    consult the Inner Other,
    practice mindful,
    compassionate,
    non-judgmental
    awareness
    of our interior and external worlds,
    and work to put ourselves in accord
    with that which is seeking to be in accord with us. All that should keep us occupied
    for the rest of time.
  34. 02/13/2016 — Price Lake Blues Two — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway near Blowing Rock, North Carolina, April 2004The work of finding our life and living it
    is carried out on two different fronts at the same time. There is the matter of establishing connection,
    and putting ourselves in accord,
    with the Invisible Other at the core,
    heart,
    ground,
    foundation
    of our life and being. Robert A. Johnson’s book “Inner Work”
    will be a helpful guide
    for this part of what is ours to do. The other matter is that
    of developing
    and deepening our ability
    to be mindfully,
    compassionately,
    non-judgmentally
    aware
    of the time and place
    of our living,
    both internally and externally. The work of Jon Kabat-Zinn
    with Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, or MBSR,
    will be a very helpful resource here.
    You Tube videos are readily available,
    and Jon has several books out on the subject. Our life has a depth and breadth
    that we cannot imagine,
    which it waits for us to experience and explore.
  35. 02/14/2016 — Lake Crawford 11 HDR — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015Self-reflection leads to self-exploration,
    And self-examination,
    And self-realization,
    And self-discovery,
    And self-correction,
    And self-development,
    And personal growth.
    Seeing things as they are
    Non-judgmentally and compassionately
    Transforms things.
    If you want to change the world,
    See everything there exactly as it is,
    With eyes of compassion
    and without judgment,
    Starting with yourself.
  36. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 02/14/2016 — Smoky Moon — Clingman’s Dome Parking Lot, Great Smoky Mountains National Park, October 2004Several things rank as essential life tasks: Mindfulness, which implies compassion
    and detachment to the degree that is non-judgmental.
    Self-transparency and keeping good faith with oneself.
    Integrity in the sense of living in ways
    that are aligned with,
    and integral to,
    what is deepest, truest and best about us.
    The self-discipline necessary
    to do what is ours to do in each situation as it arises.
    Making the trade-offs
    that are required of us throughout our life,
    which implies saying no to ourselves
    and no to others when that is appropriate
    and called for by our circumstances.
    Living toward the center and away from the extremes—
    balancing,
    reconciling,
    integrating, the opposites,
    contradictions
    and polarities
    of our life,
    and bearing consciously the pain
    of maintaining the tension
    between/among dichotomies
    that can only be recognized, not reconciled.
    Making our peace with the way things are,
    which includes making our peace
    with the lack of peace in important areas of our life. I’m sure I’ll think of something more to add to the list,
    but if we cover these items,
    we’ll be just fine.
  37. 02/15/2016 — Black Bayou 16 HDR — Black Bayou National Lake Wildlife Refuge, Monroe, Louisiana, November 2, 2015President Obama lives in the service
    of what he considers to be the right thing to do.
    The Affordable Health Care Act,
    providing health care to millions of people is one example.
    His support of Gay Marriage is another.
    Republican members of Congress
    have attempted to repeal the Health Care Act over 50 times,
    and attempted to defund it many times as well. Republicans in congress,
    Republican governors,
    at least one Republican Chief Justice,
    and other Republican elected officials
    have opposed,
    and attempted to undermine
    and prevent gay marriages on a number of occasions. What is clearly the right thing to do on one level
    is clearly the wrong thing to do on another level.
    A photographic rule applies:
    The brighter the light,
    the darker the shadows.
    Bright sunshine casts deep shadows. Reasonable minds can look at any fact
    and interpret it in radically different ways.
    Is it the right thing to do,
    or the wrong thing to do?
    Who is to say?
    Whatever you think is right,
    someone is going to think is wrong.
    Who decides what is right, what is wrong? Jesus broke the Law
    and justified it on the grounds
    of knowing what he was doing.
    That meant at least two things: A) He felt that the human need and right
    to be helped superseded any law
    that might interfere with,
    or prevent, that help from being offered, and
    B) He was quite ready to pay the price
    of his civil,
    non-violent, Jesus was a conscientious objector
    willing to serve his conscience
    to death on the cross.
    Was he right, or was he wrong? There is never going to be 100%
    world-wide agreement
    on questions of right and wrong.
    Hitler thought he was right,
    and had followers who agreed with him,
    to the death.
    What does conscience know?
    Where does conscience come from?
    What is the origin of scruples,
    qualms,
    values,
    compunction
    and the moral sense?
    What is right?
    What is wrong?
    How do we know?
    Who is to say? Mindfulness leads the way.
    We have to be transparent to ourselves
    and aware of the origin
    and ground of our values.
    Who says that what we say is so?
    Where do we get our ideas of right and wrong?
    What makes us think we are right?
    That we know what we are doing?
    That we are being like Jesus,
    and not like Hitler?
  38. 02/16/2016 — Goodale 2015 39 B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015Knowing what we are doing
    Means knowing when we are kidding ourselves
    About knowing what we are doing. It means knowing that we don’t know what we are doing
    A good portion of the time. It means knowing what we don’t want to know,
    Facing what we don’t want to face:
    The truth about the aloneness and vulnerability
    Of ourselves before the responsibility of our life. We need help with what is to be done.
    Two things make this a problem.
    We aren’t taught how
    to access the help that is “right there”
    “A very present help in time of trouble.”
    2. It isn’t the kind of help we want.
    We want what we have no business having.
    And want to know how to have it.
    We want help in having what we want. The joke is on us.
    Help with knowing what to do
    Is not the same help
    as help with having what we want.
    We can have the first, not the second.
    The question we have to answer is this:
    Do we have what it takes to know what to do
    When it means doing what we don’t want?
    How far do we live from
    “Thy will, not mine, be done”?
  39. 02/17/2016 — April Cascade — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, Tennessee, April 2004Your life has meaning
    When you do the things that make your heart sing. How long has it been?
    Has it been so long that you laugh at the idea of a singing heart? Start with what once made your heart sing.
    How far back do you have to go to find yourself lost
    In what you were doing?
    Begin there.
    Do what once was filled with meaning and see where it leads. The old Alchemical formula was
    “One book opens another.”
    Just so, one engaging activity
    leads to another.
    Your heart is dying to sing.
    Take it to the music.
  40. 02/17/2016 — Boulder Beach — Otter Point, Acadia National Park, Bar Harbor, Maine, September 2004We have to dig our own gold.
    Or pan for it.
    It is our place to search out
    The treasure hard to find.
    No one can hand it to us,
    Much less tell us about it,
    Explaining it to us,
    Even in great detail,
    Outlining it for us,
    Defining it,
    Describing it,
    Quoting the saints,
    And the sacred texts,
    And the wise, old, masters
    Telling us to take their word for it,
    Perhaps threatening us with the Everlasting Fires of Hell
    If we don’t. No one knows the nature
    of the treasure
    we alone seek,
    and will know it
    when we find it. There are no shortcuts,
    Or easy routes,
    Or fast tracks to glory land.
    Joseph Campbell said it:
    “The treasure you seek
    Is in the depths of the cave you most don’t want to enter.”
    And we have to go there,
    against our will.
    Enter,
    and descend into the depths.
  41. 02/19/2016 — Sunset Reflection — Price Lake and Grandfather Mountain, Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, June 2006The Christian Church calls it “salvation.”
    But it is coercion. Always has been. The threat of hell and eternal agony.
    The promise of heaven and infinite glory.
    Taxing the flock
    With “free will offerings”
    And talk of “merit.”
    Making disciples of all nations.
    Dragging people where they are not ready to go.
    The end justifying the means.
    Concealing in the name of revealing.
    No questions allowed.
    Take it all on faith.
    Believe what you’re told.
    Do what they say.
    Betray your own soul
    by betting everything on it,
    And trust yourself to it,
    To show you the way.
  42. 02/20/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 34 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015Our life is our responsibility.
    We keep looking for divine intervention to make it easy,
    Or even possible,
    But we have the tools and have to learn to use them.
    The primary tool is mindfulness.
    Mindfulness initiates, implements, utilizes, the other tools:
    Awareness,
    intuition,
    instinct,
    compassion,
    understanding,
    imagination,
    creativity,
    resiliency,
    courage,
    self-discipline,
    ..
    All of the traits,
    characteristics,
    temperaments
    and values
    That make us human
    And make life livable. We come packed with all we need.
    We are a Swiss Army Knife of responses.
    And it is up to us to square up to the fact
    That it is up to us,
    And find the response
    appropriate to the occasion,
    On every occasion.
  43. Kings Mountain Farm 16 HDR Panorama — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015Joseph Campbell said, “Follow your bliss
    and don’t be afraid,
    and doors will open
    where you didn’t know
    there would be doors.” We hear that and think
    there is some kind of magic
    at work in the universe
    to assist us in the work
    to get what we want.
    We even say
    “The Universe will help you,”
    like the settlers who moved into the Dakotas
    were told by the church of their day,
    and told themselves,
    “Rain will follow the plow.”
    It didn’t.
    The Universe is completely uninvested in us. We hear “Follow your bliss,”
    and think that means, “Do what you want.” Campbell also said, talking about Abraham Maslow,
    “Maslow says that people live for five things:
    Survival,
    Security,
    Personal Relationships,
    Prestige,
    and Self Development.
    Yet, these are precisely not the values
    that a mythically inspired person lives for. A person who is really gripped by a dedication,
    by a zeal,
    will sacrifice all these things
    for the sake of his or her own passion.
    These five values are the values
    people live for who have nothing to live for.
    Nothing has seized,
    caught,
    or driven these people ‘spiritually mad.’
    These people aren’t worth talking to.
    These people are bores.” Your “bliss” will break your heart
    and eat your life alive.
    We “die to ourselves”
    and live in the service of our heart’s true passion,
    of our bliss,
    in a “Thy will, not mine, be done” kind of way. That’s when the magic happens
    but, it is not that our way is served
    and we get what we want.
    The magic happens when we surrender
    our way and serve our heart’s true purpose.
    Then, we put ourselves in accord with our life,
    and we see things that were meaningless to us before. Then, there are doors where before there were no doors,
    and people to help us who were nowhere around
    because we could not see them,
    focused as we were on our wants,
    our fear,
    our lethargy. In the service of our own goals and dreams,
    desire, fear and lethargy
    jam the signals coming to us
    from all around us,
    and we cannot see
    or hear
    or understand
    what is available to us
    in all times and places. Once we step away
    from our idea for our life,
    die to ourselves,
    and live aligned with our heart’s true purpose,
    there it all is,
    open doors
    and helping hands.
    But,
    it comes with a price. Golgotha and the empty tomb
    are metaphors that are realities
    in the lives of all of those
    who know what I’m talking about.
    We all die to what we thought was life
    in order to live the life
    at the center of our heart.
    Death and resurrection,
    does not mean everyone
    at the end of time,
    but one person at a time.
  44. 02/21/2016 — Lake Katherine Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Dairy Barn Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, December 12, 2015We aren’t here to “make something happen,”
    So much as to “do what needs us to do it.”
    To bring ourselves forth to meet the situation as it arises. We have to pay the bills, of course,
    But our place here is to meet the moment
    As it needs to be met
    As only we can meet it. This means we have to get to know ourselves. Compassionately.
    Non-judgmentally. This is who we are,
    and who we also are.
    These are our interests and our gifts.
    These are not.
    This is what is happening.
    This is what needs to happen.
    This is what needs to be done about it.
    This is where we fit in. How would we do it?
    We are to live in ways
    Appropriate to the occasion
    As only we can.
  45. 02/21/2016 — Green River Horseshoe 2007— Dead Horse Point State Park, Moab, Utah, September 2007The Bible is a treasure trove of myth and metaphor,
    Speaking from,
    and to,
    the heart of “the human condition.” If it could be understood and received as such,
    The world would be enriched overnight.
    The Servant Songs collected in the book bearing the name of Isaiah,
    Speak to us, of ourselves:
    “He was despised and rejected by others,
    A man of sorrows and acquainted with grief…
    Surely, he has borne our grief and carried our sorrows,
    Upon him was the chastisement we all deserved…
    By his wounds we are healed.” We know him, her, well.
    He, she, lives within us all,
    And enables us to put on our public face
    And stride into each day.
    But he, she, knows what we dare not remember,
    And carries in our behalf the woundedness
    Of the blows we have had to put behind. Our Suffering Servant serves us well,
    And by his, by her, leave,
    We live. Perhaps, if you give yourself time alone, and reflect,
    You will know of whom I speak,
    And show him, show her,
    the kindness of your gratitude
    And devotion.
  46. 02/22/2016 — Mirror Mirror 04 — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 11, 2015Our life has been compared to a slippery slope and a razor’s edge.
    We are always one wrong move away from catastrophe,

And one right move away from having it made for now.
What’s it going to be?

There is a basketball adage, “One bad shot leads to more bad shots.”
And another, “Take care of the ball!”
And one more, “Let the game come to you,”
Which means “Wait for the door to open and walk through.”
Or, “Look for the opening and take the good shot.”

We try to create something that isn’t there,
Try to make something happen out of season,
Try to force our way into being,
Will our way along.
And all the while,
We are always one slight shift of attitude or perspective
From the best life has to offer,
in the time and place of our living.

  1. 02/23/2016 — Lake Crawford 12 HDR Panorama — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 13, 2015The hardest thing is settling
    for the life that is our life to live—
    The one with our name on it,
    The one that only we can live—
    And living it the way it needs to be lived.
    The hardest thing is settling ourselves into it,
    And doing right by it.
    We have other bigger,
    better,
    finer,
    faster
    lives in mind.
    This is the struggle that tells the tale.
  2. 02/23/2016 — Yosemite Falls 01 2006 — Yosemite National Park, California, April 2006We can always imagine a better place to be,
    than this place,
    A better life to live
    than this life. Thoreau said, “Shall we always study
    to obtain more,
    and not sometimes be content with less?”
    What is the nature of our discontent? I submit for your consideration
    That it may be rooted in the absence of roots.
    We belong to nothing,
    Are owned by nothing,
    Nothing serves as the overriding
    claim upon our service. We are adrift upon an empty sea
    And wander aimlessly about.
    One port is as good as another,
    And a better one is only an island or two away. We live endlessly looking for somewhere to be,
    Hoping to be claimed by some reckless passion
    Before we die.
    Yet, we withhold ourselves from would-be passions,
    Wanting to be certain that this is the One,
    And that there isn’t a better one waiting at the next port-of-call
    As though we won’t always imagine a better place to be,
    A better life to live.
  3. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 02/24/2016 — December Orchard 06 — Springs Farms, Lake Haigler Access, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, South Carolina, December 12, 2015There were two living generations before me,
    My grandparents’ generation and my parents’ generation,
    And their best advice to me was along the lines of,
    “Keep your nose clean and to the grindstone.
    Believe what you are told and do what we say.
    Don’t ask any questions we can’t answer,
    And for God’s sake, Jimmy, stop looking out the window!” Nothing from any of them
    About the importance of mindfulness.
    They never said
    “Be aware of everything.
    Your awareness will teach you all you need to know.
    Always ask the questions that beg to be asked,
    And say the things that cry out to be said.
    Develop a love for contradictions,
    And struggle to reconcile what can be reconciled,
    And to bear consciously and graciously the pain
    Of opposites that must remain poles apart.
    Be open to your experience
    And let it lead you to the things you love,
    And away from the things you do not love.
    Trust your judgment in all cases great and small,
    And when it becomes apparent that you made a bad call,
    Let that judgment lead you to make amends
    And to do better next time.
    Don’t look for answers,
    But for experiences that force reflection,
    And lead to new realizations.
    You are on your own with your life,
    But you have all you need
    To find your way into the company of those
    Who are also figuring out who they are and what to do,
    And can help by sharing with you what they know.
    A large number of that company will be dead,
    But their books will illumine their path,
    And encourage you in your own path.
    When your courage falters,
    And your hope fades,
    Be still and listen to your heart and your stomach.
    They will always lead the way.” It would have helped if they had been a little bit awake.
    They didn’t know what to do with me,
    But that is ridiculous!
    I came from them!
    They couldn’t help me
    Because they had turned their backs on themselves.
  4. 02/24/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 35 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015Be mindful of your inner dialogues.
    Everything good is already stirring around in there.
    You don’t have to think anything up.
    Where do you think ideas come from?
    We don’t think them up.
    They seize us!
    Grab us by the neck!
    Toss us into the air!
    Hurl us into action!
    We have to put ourselves in the place of being seized more often.
    By paying attention to what is stirring within. Our inner dialogues are the source of creativity and life.
    Vitality, meaning, purpose, hope, guidance, direction…
    It’s all there
    Whispers and inklings of wonder
    Welling up from our soul.
    Our place is to wait, and watch,
    And notice when a word, a phrase, a train of thought,
    Catches our eye in a special kind of way
    Sparks a little energy in us
    Flips our “Yes!” switch—
    And look closer,
    Seeing where it leads.
    Pay attention to your internal dialogue,
    Listening for something that says, “Follow me!”
    And tag along.
  5. 02/25/2016 — Dry Falls — Nantahala National Forest, Highlands, North Carolina, April 2005The “Archetypal Intention” (Stevens) is for the future to be the past
    For how it has been done to be how it is to be done.
    What worked in the past
    (The way to be a man or a woman, for instance,
    Or a father or a mother, etc.)
    Has been stored in our genes
    Via natural selection,
    In that those who did it “right”
    Were more likely to pass along their characteristics,
    Their way of doing “it,”
    Than those who did it wrong,
    So that, by now, “the way to be human beings”
    Is as much apart of us
    As the way to be a Robin or a Lion or a Humpback Whale
    Is a part of those particular manifestations of life. Except, but, only.
    We have reached a point in our evolutionary development
    Where the future must be like no past ever lived.
    “Fight Or Flight” has to give way to negotiated,
    And mutually agreeable,
    Peaceful solutions to armed conflict and refugee resettlement.
    ad infinitum. We don’t have an archetype for that.
    WE are the archetype for that.
    We have to find our way into a future that is a break from the past,
    Using our inherited capacity
    For imagination, creativity, transcendence and transformation.
    Call it the Archetype for A Brave New World.
  6. 02/25/2016 — Kings Mountain Farm 18 B&W — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015The Law of Compensation is realized in each generation
    We live to be who our parents were not.
    Whatever the excesses and deficiencies were in the parents,
    They are likely to be the opposite in their children.
    This doesn’t mean Sally cannot be an introvert like her mother was.
    It means Sally will not be her mother in other ways. The ways in which we are not our parents’ children
    Are the ways in which our parents most needed to be themselves,
    And weren’t,
    Because the way wasn’t clear for some reason,
    Perhaps because they wouldn’t allow themselves the privilege
    And they resented it (or applauded) when it bubbled up in their offspring. At any rate, it is an interesting reflection
    Of unconscious processes at work
    In the development of family systems,
    And one of the things revealing
    That there is more to all of us than meets the eye.
  7. 02/26/2016 — Glade Creek Mill — Babcock State Park, Clifftop, West Virginia, October 2007Consciousness is the most unnatural thing nature ever has done.
    Consciousness can imagine a world of justice and peace—
    Unlike anything the natural world is capable of producing.
    Yet, consciousness’ shortcoming
    Is that it cannot be conscious of what it is not conscious of—
    And there is more of everything than meets the eye. The Unconscious and the genome, and their relationship—
    Mind and consciousness, and their relationship—
    The numen, instinct and intuition, and their relationship… All beyond the purview of thinking, reasoning, beings.
    What we can’t make out, we make up. May we, at least, be mindful of that,
    And hold it in our awareness,
    And have the courage to know that we don’t know,
    And cannot know what we don’t know,
    And make our peace with that,
    Enjoying what is to be enjoyed,
    Grieving what is to be grieved,
    And seeking out good company as we are able,
    With whom to share the wonder of being human.
  8. 02/27/2016 — Mirror Mirror 03 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015One idea leads to another.
    If you are never curious,
    Never playful,
    Never imaginative,
    Never wondering,
    Never inquisitive,
    Never adventurous,
    Never exploring,
    Never inventive,
    Never looking,
    Never examining,
    Never reflecting,
    Always afraid to question anything,
    Guess how many ideas you will have.
  9. 02/28/2016 — Lake Crawford 13 HDR — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 13, 2015Fascism,
    Racism,
    Anti-Semitism,
    Islamophobia,
    Sexism,
    Homophobia,
    Bigotry,
    ..
    The list is long
    Lay inert in German hearts waiting to be ignited
    By the rhetoric of Hitler and the ruthlessness,
    Willful, prideful, ignorance of the Nazis
    Waiting to be encouraged, permitted, given excuse and reason to be. And Lie even yet in the hearts of good people everywhere,
    Waiting to be inflamed by the inciting oratory of those
    Living in the far extreme of hatred and fear. In every age comes the question to be answered by the age:
    Will you live mindfully or mindlessly?
    Each age answers by what it condones and what it condemns.
  10. 02/29/2016 — Beaver Pond — Bass Lake, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, NC, June 2009There is our life and what to do with it,
    In all of the times and places of our living,
    Through all of the stages of our development.
    I recommend listening to
    what it has to say
    In order to determine how it needs to be lived,
    And aligning ourselves with it. Our life is alive in its own right,
    With a life of its own.
    We are here to assist it
    In its own becoming
    As chance and circumstance allow. What is our life asking of us?
    How might we go about
    Placing ourselves in accord
    with what it has in mind
    for us today?
    Given the givens that are ours to work with?
    Here we are.
    Now what?
  11. 02/29/2016 — Bethany Church 02 Panorama — Bethany ARPC, Clover, South Carolina, December 13, 2015Our work is to live truthfully.
    This doesn’t mean “telling the truth.”
    It means living in ways that incarnate the truth of who we are.
    It means living in ways that are aligned with the central drift of heart and soul.
    It means living in ways that express, exhibit, reveal and make plain
    The gifts, character, values at the core of the center of ourselves.
    It means doing things that are “in character,”
    And not doing things that are “out of character.”
    It means living in accord with the life that is our life to live
    The life that only we can live
    The life that needs us to live it. We were born to be who we are.
    That is our purpose and our ultimate good.
    And it doesn’t matter if it does no good.
    Our Good Work is to be who we are.
    It doesn’t have to do big things,
    Achieve great ends,
    Save the world,
    Transform the cosmos. The privilege of being who we are
    Is the highest good.
    If we live our whole life long being who we are,
    And nobody notices or cares,
    Nothing changes,
    And we make no difference at all in the way life is lived about us,
    We still got to be who we are!
    We still got to live our life!
    We did not let anything stop us from completing the Good Work!
    May that be said of us all!
  12. 03/01/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 36 HDR— Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015Heavy smokers dying of emphysema are shocked
    At the unfairness of being unable to smoke with impunity,
    “Why can’t we be flip and casual with life,
    And do with it as we please,
    Without implication, consequence or outcome?” Society mavens know the rules of the game they have mastered,
    And spend their lives looking for a party to bless
    Or a festive occasion in which to shine with resplendent glory,
    And collect clippings to remind them of that time
    When everyone knew their name.
    Power brokers ride high on the backs of their workers
    And the money of their investors,
    Enjoy the gratification of owning people
    And being somebody. The unwashed masses and huddled poor
    Trudge through their days
    Looking for crumbs and coins and other lucky breaks,
    Without prospects or hope
    Beyond another day without prospects or hope. They all stand at the end of their days
    Undone by the quickness of its arrival
    Shocked that it has come down to this,
    Thinking there would be more to it.
    How did they miss the joyful wisdom of knowing
    “It’s a good day to die”?
  13. 03/01/2016 — Lenten Rose 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, February 28, 2016What is your present source of deepest joy?
    How much time, in a week, say,
    do you spend present with the source of your deepest joy?
    If you do not currently have a source of deep joy in your life,
    It is a concern, but not a problem.
    What as been a source of deep joy in your life?
    How much time did you spend with it? What is your present source of greatest conflict?
    What are the different sides pulling against each other and against you?
    Where do you find relief from the conflict? What is your present source of peace, comfort and consolation? Where in your life do you find meaning, purpose, hope and satisfaction? Reflect on these things. Then, reflect on your reflections.
  14. 03/02/2016 — Kings Mountain Farm 23 HDR B&W — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015The search for the life that is our life to live
    The life that needs us to live it
    The life that no one but us can live
    Is the search for what we love about our life. Too many of us love the wrong things too much
    To be able to love anything about our life.
    Our life isn’t about any of those things.
    Wealth, fame, attention, glory…
    We want a life we can show off,
    Not a life we can love. With no one to see us,
    Admire us,
    Applaud us,
    Adore us,
    Worship us,
    Envy us,
    We would have no reason to live.
    We live looking for a life someone else can love. We’ll never find our life
    Until we look for one we can love,
    Even if no one else ever does.
    How would you live your life
    If there were no one else
    To see, or know, or care?
  15. 03/02/2016 — Green River Canyon 2007 01 — Canyonlands National Park, Moab, Utah, September 2007We have to make room for one another.
    It is easy enough to find something
    we don’t like about every one of us.
    Probably, most of us can find as much
    about ourselves that we don’t like.
    Who are we to be excluding anybody?
    Telling anyone they aren’t welcome?
    Demanding that anyone
    “go back where they came from”? It isn’t like we have been here forever.
    Every one of us came from somewhere else.
    How is it that we get to tell someone else to leave
    When someone else could be asking us to leave?
    What’s with this, “I don’t like you,
    so you’ll have to leave” business?
    Particularly when there is as much
    about us and our kind that we don’t like
    As there is about you and your kind.
    We have to commit ourselves to the work
    of making room for one another,
    And give ourselves to it every day for the rest of our life.
    Negotiation and compromise, Kid.
    Negotiation and compromise.
    The future of civilization depends on it.
  16. 03/03/2016 — Peto Lake Rainbow — Banff National Park, Canadian Rockies, Alberta, September 2005Your future is more important than your past.
    Your capacity for good is more important
    than your propensity for stupid.
    You are either on your side,
    Or you are not.
    Whose side are you on?
    That’s the question we have to get right. We have to believe in ourselves
    In spite of the lack of corroborating evidence
    And regardless of the abundance
    of grounds to condemn
    and abandon. All of the hero’s journeys
    Are about the long quest
    past good reasons to quit
    To the gold at the heart of the hero. Jesus believed in Jesus when no one else did.
    That’s what set Jesus apart.
    The alchemists believed they could make gold
    Out of base metal.
    That’s the work we are all engaged in.
    The gold is there,
    Waiting for those who believe it is so,
    And take up the work of proving themselves right.
  17. 03/04/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 03 — Campbell’s Greenhouse and Nursery, Charlotte, NC, March 3, 2016If you are going to be in love
    with anything,
    be in love with your life.
    Too many of us are walking around
    in lives we do not love.
    If our life were a person,
    It would have divorced us years ago.
    It’s an escort accompanying us through our days
    To give us the appearance of being alive,
    But we both know it’s a sham,
    And are waiting out the end
    For the lack of anything better to do. It never occurs to us to find a life we love,
    Or, if it does, we dismiss the idea as wild and radical,
    And too much trouble at this point in the process.
    But the truth is everything depends on our finding a life we love
    And living it. Yet, we are afraid there is no life for us,
    That we missed our chance way back when,
    Or never had one,
    And we have given up all hope in the matter,
    Resigning ourselves to a regimen that feeds our bodies
    But not our souls
    All the way to the end of the line. While our life lives out its days locked away
    Behind a door we refuse to open
    For fear there won’t be anything there.
  18. 03/04/2016 — Pike’s Nursery 01 — The Koi Pond, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016We are united across ages and cultures
    By the experience of being alive.
    The experience of war creates a family with members in all centuries.
    As does the experience of child birth,
    Of parenthood,
    Of old age, decrepitude and death.
    Of grief, loss, sadness and sorrow,
    Of joy, celebration, awe and wonder. At the level of life experience we are one with all humanity.
    Division enters the picture with ideology.
    With the quest for power and domination.
    Ideology fosters military conquest
    Which expands the reach of ideology,
    And the two form a partnership of division and destruction.
    We need to stop talking about what we believe,
    And start talking about what we know
    Because we have experienced its truth in our life.
    Stop killing people because they are evil and wrong,
    And start honoring people because they are as we are
    At the level of life experience.
  19. 03/05/2016 — Pike’s Nursery 02— Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016Stop being locked in place by fear and desire.
    You are your most reliable resource
    For getting you out of situations you get yourself into. Mindfulness leads the way.
    Stop insisting on certain futures,
    And open yourself to the full reality of what is happening
    And what needs to happen in response. Be mindfully, compassionately, non-judgmentally aware
    Of your internal response to the full reality of your situation.
    Hold yourself gently, tenderly, kindly, in your awareness.
    Be fully aware of you.
    What are you refusing to take into account?
    Failing to consider?
    Be fully aware of you
    Being fully aware of the reality of your situation. Practice holding yourself in your awareness.
    Allow mindful, compassionate, non-judgmental awareness
    To bring you to the point of on-going self-transparency
    (Self-consciousness without the judgmental component).
    You will be ready for anything.
  20. 03/06/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 01— Charlotte, NC, March 3, 2016You can’t fake spontaneity.
    Spontaneity is completely truthful.
    A hiccup is an act whose time has come.
    So is a sneeze.
    The trick is to be spontaneously appropriate to the occasion.
    A bit of Mary Poppins wisdom applies here:
    “Anything can happen if you let it.” We are to live so as to be
    Spontaneously appropriate to every occasion
    To each situation
    As it arises.
    This means being so mindfully
    (compassionately, non-judgmentally)
    attuned to each occasion/situation
    So completely aware of what is happening
    And what needs to happen
    That we see what needs to be done and do it
    Without thinking about it. No planning,
    plotting,
    scheming,
    conniving,
    calculating,
    manipulating,
    designing,
    crafting,
    exploiting,
    capitalizing
    or cashing in. Only living in the moment
    by being true to ourselves and the moment.
    Being who we are
    and what the moment needs of us
    in every moment.
    We cannot fake spontaneity, We can practice it.
    Until it becomes spontaneous. We are to live to be spontaneously and appropriately
    Responsive to each occasion/situation as it arises.
    Just like Mary Poppins.
    And Jesus of Nazareth.
  21. 03/07/2016 — Through the Trees 02 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 3, 2015We are responsible for finding our own life and living it
    And we cannot do it alone.
    It takes a good enough environment all the way along the way.
    Everything depends upon the context and circumstances of our life.
    The world has to receive us well.
    Or, well enough.
    For us to have a chance.
    Too many of us plop out of the womb
    With no loving arms to welcome us
    And no one to nurture and nourish us,
    Soften the impact of the transition,
    And help us find what we need to do what is ours to do.
    We are on our own from the start,
    Too concerned with surviving
    To have a chance at thriving. Those who can, must.
    Jesus did,
    And the Buddha.
    The list is long of those who took what they had
    And made it work.
    Who found their life and lived it,
    With what help there was at hand.
    We all have the opportunity
    To do what can be done
    With the resources available to us.
    Life reaching for life.
  22. 03/07/2016 — Indian Land Sunrise 01— Indian Land, South Carolina, March 7, 2016You can set the time for going to bed,
    But not for going to sleep.
    You can decide what you will do to pay the bills,
    But not what it will take to feed your soul. The important things are out of our hands.
    In whose hands are WE is the question?
    Whom do we trust with the deep matters of life and being?
    There is much that we are unconscious of
    And must rely on
    To find our way to meaning, purpose and value. The Inner World is the source of vitality and direction.
    Why we dismiss it and grant it no place in our life
    Can only be explained in terms of abject,
    prideful,
    arrogant,
    willful,
  23. 03/08/2016 — Pike Nursery 07 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016The way to make really good soup
    Is to make a lot of bad soup mindfully.
    Mistakes are the price of competence.
    No one ever gained competence by watching the master do it.
    Competence comes from doing it
    Mindfully aware of what we are doing,
    And unafraid of making mistakes.
    The way the master does it is just the way the master does it,
    And to do it exactly that way
    Is to lose the grace, beauty and wonder
    Of all the ways innovation,
    creativity,
    imagination,
    invention
    and playfulness
    could open before us. The disciples must be like the master
    In following no master,
    And laughing their way to enlightenment.
    Living to do everything by the book
    And precisely right
    All the way
    Takes the life out of living
    And the joy out of being alive.
  24. 03/08/2016 — Goodale 2015 40 B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015″One thing I can tell you is you got to be free!”
    John Lennon was right about a lot of things.
    This is at the top of that list. But freedom is betrayed and wasted
    If it is not spent entirely in the service of self-determination.
    We are free to be who we are. If we aren’t interested in pursuing the life that is ours to live
    And living it,
    We may as well be enslaved to some ruler’s dictates,
    Or shackled in some dark dungeon
    For all the good our “freedom” is doing us. The freedom to do as we please
    Is just another form of bondage
    To our own fears and desires
    And offers no hope or meaning
    In our frenzied quest for entertaining pleasures.
  25. 03/09/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 07 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016We are responsible for separating ourselves
    enough from the noise of life
    To engage the silence necessary
    for awareness and reflection to occur
    In order to find the center—
    Eliot’s “still point of the turning world”—
    And live out of that foundation,
    Letting our life fall into place around it. Knowing what is central to us, for us,
    Is the knowing that only we can know.
    No one can tell us what that is.
    We find it, know it, for ourselves.
    We keep waiting for someone to tell us
    What is ours to do.
  26. 03/09/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 05 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016The Christian church talks about worship
    as though worship can be scripted, planned.
    Nothing could be further from the truth. Worship is the spontaneous response of the worshiper
    To an encounter with the Numen within or without.
    You can have prayers of intercession,
    confession,
    praise,
    thanksgiving
    and petition,
    three hymns,
    a sermon,
    an anthem
    children’s handbells,
    and an offering but.
    All of it together doesn’t
    equal the impact of a lone goose
    or a flock,
    winging their way through a cold morning fog
    to an undisclosed destination,
    as they have done for ages past counting,
    and we stand bowed by tears of wonder
    for no apparent reason.
    You can’t package that,
    or design it,
    or turn it over to some team to produce,
    once on Wednesday and three times on Sunday,
    every week of the year.
  27. 03/10/2016 — Pike’s Nursery 05 — The Koi Pond, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016Everything goes on the table.
    All of the facts that make up our life
    And how we feel about them—which is another set of facts.
    Then we consider the table. This is the way things are
    and this is the way we feel about it.
    Now, what needs to be done about it?
    What needs to happen in light of every other thing? It may take a while, but.
    There is no more important task on the entire list of tasks
    (Which is, by the way, also on the table).
    In light of everything, what needs to happen? What we want to happen is just another fact on the table,
    And, “Just ’cause we want it doesn’t mean it (needs to be) so.” Start looking at your life as a collection of facts
    That needs to be prioritized
    From the standpoint of a perspective
    That takes all the facts into account,
    Even itself.
  28. And get to work.
  29. Used in Short Talks on Contradiction, etc., 03/11/2016 — Trout Lily 2016 01— Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 10, 2016Before consciousness, there were no dichotomies.
    No contradictions.
    No polarities.
    No opposites.
    There was only the way things were. Planets crashed into planets.
    Volcanoes erupted,
    Mountain ranges appeared and disappeared,
    Species’ appeared and disappeared…
    No one cried, rejoiced, lamented, celebrated.
    There was neither bad nor good,
    Right nor wrong.
    Then consciousness appeared
    With its obvious evolutionary advantages,
    And categories were created,
    Changing everything. But they weren’t there before we were.
    We made it all up,
    Distinctions,
    Preferences,
    Ideals,
    Ideologies,
    And said God did it. The arbitrary became absolute just like that.
  30. 03/11/2016 — Indian Land Sunrise 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 7, 2016Mindfulness is a full-time practice. Paying attention to the moment,
    Compassionately and non-judgmentally,
    Means being aware of what is happening within
    And how we are reacting to it,
    While being aware of what is happening
    in our external environment
    And how we are reacting to that.
    While being aware of what needs to happen,
    And what gifts we have that may be able to meet that need. This is far removed from having an agenda
    That we are seeking to impose upon our world.
    Or from seeing situations as things to exploit to our advantage.
    Or from being afraid of everything
    and how it might work to our disadvantage. Mindfulness engaged in with
    non-judgmental compassion
    Is far removed from how we live our life,
    And from how life is lived around us.
    Take up the practice and transform your world.
  31. 03/12/2016 — Crocus 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 11, 2016Think of Karma as momentum. We live a certain way over a period of time,
    And build up momentum,
    Creating an environment that supports that momentum,
    That way of living,
    And producing a complex of interrelated
    Props, presumptions and expectations
    Which fuels the process that sustains our way with life,
    And keeps alternative possibilities from being entertained or explored. Momentum is the tendency of a body in motion to remain in motion,
    And of a body at rest to remain at rest.
    That’s karma for you.
    Think of the Tea Party and Donald Trump.
    Bad Karma.
    Think of the Buddha, Jesus and Lao Tzu.
    Good Karma.
    Think of you.
    While I think of me.
  32. 03/13/2016 — Pike Nursery 04 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016When something comes, something has to go.
    When something goes, something has to come.
    This is the Law of Compensation at work in our life. The challenge for us is to be conscious of the coming and going,
    And to accommodate ourselves to the rearrangement of our life
    To let come what’s coming
    And to let go what’s going.
    This is called putting ourselves in accord with our life. This is the Task of Life
    Through all of the stages of life.
    Other people will tell you it is something else,
    But, it is this.
    Adjustment and accommodation, Kid.
    Adjustment and accommodation.
  33. 03/14/2016 — Trout Lily 2016 05 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 12, 2016We have to call time out from time to time
    To reflect, recollect, regroup, recover and reorient ourselves. Too many people crashing my life with their agendas
    And timetables does me in.
    I have to escape, breathe, and remember who I am, what I’m about,
    And find my way back to the path with my name on it. We ebb and flow on the path like the tides on the sea.
    It is not one constant “Hallelujah, Now We Have It!” victory march.
    There is a lot of breathing, remembering and finding the thread
    (That would be Ariadne’s Thread)
    Again, along the way.
  34. 03/14/2016 — Practice 01 — Playing with Crocuses Using layer masking in Photoshop to create a montage of crocuses, Indian Land, SC, March 14, 2016Our life is our responsibility.
    No one can live it for us,
    Or tell us how to live it.
    And we pay a price to live it as it needs to be lived. Fathers and mothers pay a price to be the right kind of father and mother.
    The same thing holds true for all the roles we play.
    It isn’t easy often,
    Or fun often,
    But it is always necessary that we live it the way it needs to be lived
    That we do it (our life) the way it needs to be done. We have to monitor our frustration level,
    And our dejection level,
    And our fatigue level,
    And all the other levels,
    And keep an eye on our fluctuating state of being
    To avoid “flying off the handle,”
    And knee-jerk-reacting our way through whatever
    Has pushed our buttons one time too many. There is a life that needs us to live it
    Past all that would keep us from living it.
    Our commitment to the life that is ours to live
    Brings us back to the center of what is important,
    And grounds us in the work that is ours to do,
    Again and again.
  35. 03/15/2016 — Goodale 2015 41 B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015We each have to live our own life,
    Work our side of the street,
    Do it the way we determine it needs to be done.
    And the rest of us have to grant each of us
    The freedom to find our life and live it.
    We have to be accountable to the rest of us,
    And to ourselves
    We have to live in good faith with one another,
    And with ourselves.
    We have to be responsible for doing the work that needs us to do it. And if we are not?
    Everyone suffers.
    Our obligation to each other is to find our life and live it
    And to assist each other in that endeavor.
    To refuse to do it is anathema, an obscenity, a disgrace
    Beyond measure.
    When we abandon our destiny,
    We give up all hope,
    And drift alone through a Void of our own making So.
    When we feel like our life isn’t worth it,
    That our work isn’t working,
    That it is too hard,
    Or too unimportant,
    Or too useless to continue,
    We have to see that as another manifestation of the Cyclops
    Standing in our path,
    And get up and do the thing that needs us to do it.
    This is the heroic part of the Hero’s Journey,
    And is a recurring experience along the way.
  36. 03/15/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 04 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016We are the Cyclops standing in our path
    Whom we have to slay,
    Again and again,
    On our way to the treasure. And, we are the Phoenix,
    Rising from our own ashes,
    Again and again,
    On the journey to the treasure. And, we are the treasure
    Hidden among a myriad
    Of dreams,
    agendas,
    goals,
    hopes,
    plans,
    aspirations,
    ambitions,
    desires,
    fears,
    fantasies,
    opportunities,
    possibilities,
    ideas,
    objectives,
    aims,
    intentions,
    purposes,
    .. We are,
    At once,
    Our best hope,
    And our worst enemy.
    How we work things out
    Tells the tale.
  37. 03/16/2016 — Woodlands Spring Panorama 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 15, 2016We are, at once, the Sovereign Lord of our life
    And its Liege Servant,
    Sworn to loyalty and devotion everlasting. We say what our life is and what it is not.
    And we are not free to say just anything
    To be flip and casual,
    Irreverent or unfaithful. Our relationship with our life
    Is to be the Holiest of Holies,
    Unrivaled and without parallel
    In the sphere of human experience.
    It is up to us
    To see that it is so.
  38. 03/17/2016 — Trout Lily 2016 06 C — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, SC, March 12, 2016Perspective shifts are the way to the truth and the life.
    We see things one way
    And then, something happens,
    And we see things another way.
    “I once was lost/But now am Found/Was blind/But now I see.” Nothing changes but the way we see things,
    And that changes everything. If you want to do something about the way things are,
    See your seeing. Nothing has the raw power of a perspective
    That takes itself into account.
  39. 03/17/2016 — Gethsemane Gardens & Nursery Poster — Greensboro, NC, March 17, 2016We have to mine our experience
    For the gold
    For the “treasure hard to find”
    Aware of the ease with which we
    Discount, discard, dismiss
    Our experiences, our gifts, our life
    Thinking nothing good can come of any of it. That’s what they said of Nazareth,
    And what the Nazarene warned against
    With his words about the stone the builders reject,
    And the pearl of great price. Our experiences, our gifts, and our life
    Are where the treasure is to be found.
    Joseph Campbell said
    It is our reflection on our experience
    That leads to new realizations.
    We find the gold by sifting through our experience,
    By experiencing our experience in light of ALL of our experience. We have to do the work of looking
    If we hope to be able to see.
  40. 03/18/2016 — Carolina Jasmine 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 17, 2016Really good advice abounds,
    But,
    The value of any advice lies in the meaning
    It’s hearers ascribe to it. Interpretation and application are everything.
    The current best advice I have ever heard
    Comes from the Old Testament prophet Micah:
    “Do justice. Love kindness. Walk humbly with your God.” I think we all have different Gods
    That our highest value
    and the way in which we devote ourselves to it
    Are different for each of us.
    The idea that God could be
    homogenized,
    pasteurized,
    distilled,
    and refined
    into some Book of Doctrine’s definition
    is the height of blasphemy and sacrilege. “The Spirit is like the wind that blows where it will.”
    “The Tao that can be told is not the eternal Tao.” We are all responsible for walking humbly with our God
    and being eternally faithful to the God that is God
    by doing justice and loving kindness.
    because that is as close to God
    as even God can be.
  41. 03/19/2016 — Lake Crawford 13 HDR — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 13, 2015The cumulative weight of the life we have lived
    Is readily apparent in the life we are living. Ben Howland, men’s basketball head coach at Mississippi State, said,
    “One bad shot leads to more bad shots.”
    That’s karma for you.
    Our karma is good or bad,
    with us or against us,
    to the exact degree
    that we are on the side of our destiny,
    or working the other side of the street. Our karma shifts from bad to good
    as we take up the practice
    of aligning ourselves with our destiny
    by putting ourselves
    in accord with the life that is our life to live. We do that by applying ourselves to the process of:
    Introspection
    Reflection
    Connection
    Realization
    Implementation
    Repeated ad infinitum throughout the time left for living. The alternative is to keep taking bad shots.
  42. 03/19/2016 — Robert Frost’s line
    “Good fences make good neighbors,”
    Is an appropriation of the Old Testament commandment
    (One that didn’t make the Top Ten,
    But should have been Number One):
    “Thou Shalt Not Remove Thy Neighbor’s Landmark!”
    Which applies to all varieties of boundaries
    And to all varieties of people. It is another of the ideas that we have discarded,
    dismissed, The concept of a “good fence” is wasted on us.
    We don’t have any fences,
    and don’t know how to begin constructing them. We don’t know where we stop and our neighbor starts,
    and allow everyone to know our business,
    or let them tell us what our business should and shouldn’t be.
    It’s easier to go with the flow,
    Never mind that dead fish float with the current,
    and live fish swim against it. We have to find our boundaries,
    recover our landmarks,
    erect our fences,
    and build them solid and strong.
    We have to know what is good for us and what is not,
    what is right for us and what is not,
    what our work is and what it is not,
    what our side of the street is and what it is not,
    what our business is and what it is not,
    where we belong and where we do not,
    who we are and who we are not,
    and honor our boundaries
    and demand that they be honored
    by those who call themselves our neighbors,
    or friends and family.
  43. 03/19/2016 — Rural Route — York County, South Carolina, March 7, 2016Mine is the Hermeneutic Task,
    Seeing and saying and being Truth.
    The word comes from Hermes (Mercury),
    The Messenger of the Gods,
    the God of Interpretation,
    Meaning,
    Understanding,
    Right Seeing,
    Right Saying,
    Right Being. It all begins with,
    And hinges upon,
    Being transparent to oneself.
    It is not easy.
    I’ve never had a motive I fully understood,
    and the more you know about anything,
    the more you realize you don’t begin to know
    all there is to know about it. So knowing means that you know you don’t know,
    and will never get to the bottom of any of it,
    but must press on
    to discover what can be discovered
    in the time left for living. Now, that’s a job worth having!
    Knowing that you will never run out of work to do!
    I’m set for life!
    Beyond life!
    Forever!
    And there is not a moment to be wasted
    in the work to see, say and be Truth,
    the Whole Truth,
    and Nothing But The Truth—
    the work of being consciously human.
  44. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion 03/20/2016 — Goodale 2016 42 B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2016Tell me now—
    Is the moon a white marble floating
    On a black velvet sea,
    Or not?
    What is the truth, here?
    Is it or isn’t it?
    Yes or no?
    Right or wrong? A culture that values
    “The facts, just the facts, ma’am,”
    Is hard pressed to find a place
    For feelings and metaphors. If it isn’t factual,
    It can’t be true.
    Even where religion reigns,
    Everything is “taken on faith”
    To be factual no matter how far removed
    From the laws of physics, logic and reason. To suggest that the ground of religion
    is metaphor and imagination
    is to commit the heresy of heresies,
    and to keep company with Satan himself,
    who is, of course, quite factual,
    actual,
    tangible and, hence, Well.
    Is the moon a white marble
    Floating on a black velvet sea,
    Or not?
  45. 03/21/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 06 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016What would you suffer any hardship to do? That.
  46. 03/18/2016 — Peach Orchard Spring 02 — Panorama Springs Farms Orchards, Fort Mill, South Carolina, March 21, 2016We have to come to terms again and again
    with what we have done
    and what has been done to us. It has to be done again and again
    because it keeps coming around.
    Something reminds us and we remember
    because “the past is never past,”
    nor ever completely forgotten. Corporate prayers of confession
    and declarations of pardon do not suffice,
    for the ritual is the one we must carry out on our own
    each time the time comes around,
    saying to ourselves,
    “This is what I have done,
    and what has been done to me.
    I forgive us all!” The last line is the clincher. All the talk about God forgiving
    and Christ forgiving,
    misses the mark.
    I cannot be forgiven until I forgive me.
    And I cannot live with what has been done to me
    until I forgive those who did it. I cannot begin to come to terms with any of it
    until I carry out the requisite action from the heart—
    And I have to do it again and again,
    Because its time comes around again and again. The anguish,
    the agony,
    require repeated recognition,
    acknowledgement,
    and the words of forgiveness and grace.
    For as many times as there are times. And there are many.
  47. 03/22/2016 — Carolina Jasmine 08 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 17, 2016We can do what is hard,
    Or we can do it the hard way.
    We seek smooth and easy,
    Soft and easy,
    Quick and easy. All leading to the hard way. The important things are all difficult.
    It is the difficulty that brings us forth. Joseph Campbell reminds us:
    “It took the Cyclops to bring out the hero in Ulysses.”
    Trials and ordeals, Kid. Trials and ordeals. The path to the Land of Promise,
    and the Treasure Hard to Find,
    winds through the heart of Gethsemane
    and across the face of Golgotha. “What a slippery slope this is!”
    “Like the Razor’s Edge!”
    Yet, opt for smooth and easy
    At your peril.
  48. 03/22/2016 — Lagoon’s End B&W — Hunting Island State Park, Hunting Island, South Carolina, December 6, 2014
    Basketball players have to know
    the spot on the floor that is their spot—
    the place where they have
    the most confidence in putting up their shot. The entire court belongs to Steph Curry.
    He got range!
    Some people are that way.
    The rest of us have to be mindful
    of where our place on the floor is—
    of where we belong,
    And where we have no business being
    anywhere else. We have to know what is ours to do,
    And what is ours to leave for someone else.
    When and where would we say “Gimme the BALL!”
    And be right about it?
    What is our spot, our shot? Mexican cornbread is my spot.
    My shot.
    And pimento cheese.
    Steph Curry has nothing on me there.
    Where do you shine?
  49. 03/23/2016 — Indian Land Sunrise 03 Panorama Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 7, 2016Our life is a dialogue,
    a collaboration,
    between our brain’s left and right hemispheres.
    Right is feeling.
    Left is thinking.
    It takes the unique partnership of both
    to make it through the maze
    Of choices,
    possibilities,
    opportunities,
    responsibilities,
    values,
    limitations,
    aspirations, etc.
    that make up our life each day. We have to call meetings of the minds throughout the day.
    Our feeling mind must commune with our thinking mind,
    And vice versa.
    Look at the world.
    It’s a mess because our minds aren’t talking.
    They are at war. The Middle East and Africa feel it and do it.
    The US, Russia and parts of Europe think it and make it happen.
    It’s a crazy way to run a world.
    Or a life. Get your thinking and your feeling talking to each other.
    Throughout each day.
    Form the partnership.
    Change the game.
  50. 03/23/2016 — Pike’s Nursery 10 — The Koi Pond, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 4, 2016Do not measure yourself by your outcomes.
    Let your standard of success be
    the degree to which you incarnate
    your inner self
    your inner woman, or man
    in your life. Live to be who you are, and also are.
    To do what you love.
    To exhibit what you value.
    To bring forth your heart and soul
    and make them plain in what you do. To live like this
    requires the spiritual practices of
    mindfulness,
    silence,
    reflection,
    realization,
    self-transparency
    and good faith with ourselves and others—
    and asks us to be who all of the old masters were,
    in living at one with the core of our being.
  51. 03/23/2016 — Pine Cones — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 13, 2016Everything comes up from the core,
    from the bottomless well of life
    at the center of ourselves
    from what we refer to,
    dismissively and disparagingly,
    as our imagination. WE are the origin of all that is
    of all that is meaningful,
    at any rate.
    We credit God with all the good ideas,
    and ourselves with the bad ones,
    because it seems as though we are asking for it
    to say that we are the source of all that has meaning. We are the source of all that has meaning.
    We ascribe meaning, find order, make sense, declare value.
    And, if you say something is meaningful
    that doesn’t resonate with me,
    I’m likely to ignore it.
    And if it doesn’t resonate with any of us,
    we are likely to call you crazy,
    and give you a wide berth. Meaning isn’t private, though it is highly personal,
    and value is recognized across a broad bandwidth.
    We get it,
    because we are connected at the core.
    There are common bonds among us.
    We belong to one another,
    and find meaning in the communities we create. We are a wonder to behold.
    You would think we would
    spend more time being spellbound.
  52. 03/24/2016 — Blurred Barred Owl — McDowell Nature Center and Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks and Recreation, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 24, 2016We think with a magic stick
    and a crystal ball
    we could create a very good life.
    You could look it up.
    All of the fairy tales
    and folks tales
    and myths of lore
    have people tromping around
    in search of magic wands and spells,
    wizards and witches,
    genies and leprechauns
    to give them a magical boost
    into “the land of gentle breezes
    where the peaceful waters flow.” Anything to take our minds off
    the dreadful reality of life as it is! All of the old masters,
    male and female,
    knew that we change our circumstances
    by changing our perspective,
    and aligning ourselves
    with the Self at the center of ourselves.
    The Buddha did that,
    the Christ did that,
    Joan of Arc did that… “We are all we have.
    We are all we need.”
    The football rallying chant
    needs to be interpreted on a personal level.
    The “We” is the individual and his/her Deep Self.
    When we establish the connection
    with our Deep Self,
    and live out of it,
    magic happens.
    That’s the only way it does.
  53. 03/25/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 01 — McDowell Nature Center and Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks and Recreation, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 24, 2016When you get the What in place,
    the Why
    and the How
    will take care of themselves
    (Along with the When and Where).
    We think we have to get the Why
    and the How (When and Where) in place first.
    We want to know
    Why we would do
    everything before we do it.
    And How
    (When and Where).
    Once we know Why and How (When and Where),
    then we will consider What.
    So we cast about,
    lost and depressed,
    miserable and forlorn,
    because we are looking
    ceaselessly for Why and How
    (When and Where) —
    and constantly tossing What aside.
    Always asking What to prove itself.
    Demanding that What justify its existence,
    Demonstrate its worth and value. “Why should I do THAT?”
    “How am I supposed to do THAT?”
    (“When do I have time in my life for THAT?”)
    (Where am I going to do THAT?”)
    Are the wrong questions. We are looking for What you need to do
    That is so compelling
    You will ignore every Why and How
    (When and Where)
    In order to do it. It doesn’t matter Why.
    However it takes
    (Whenever you can)
    (Wherever you are).
  54. 03/25/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 01 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016Know what your work is and do it.
    Your work is ongoing, unending.
    You don’t get it done,
    and you don’t retire.
    Your work is your life.
    Your life is your work.
    As you live your life,
    you do your work.
    Your work is who you are,
    what you are about.
    It expresses you
    And pulls you forth.
    Your work
    Is to find your work
    and do it.
  55. 03/25/2016 — Bloodroot 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016The way you approach the natural world
    determines whether it will reveal itself
    or conceal itself. When I’m taking wildflower photos,
    I have to point them out to many of the people
    who walk the trails
    and ask me what I’m doing “down on the ground.” “Being in nature”
    is not “being with nature”
    And not seeing a thing. Mindfulness leads the way
    Everywhere we go.
    The work is always to see what we look at,
    And to look at every single thing. Not that I’m Mr. Never Miss Anything Ever.
    A group of bird watchers
    showed me the first Barred Owl I’d ever seen,
    perched on a branch at eye level
    15 feet off the path I walked. It was an epiphany,
    and stays with me as a reminder
    to see what I am seeing
    and what I am not seeing.
    We all need to be reminded.
    And we all need to do it.
    Every day.

One Minute Monologues 029

10/27/2015 — 12/16/2015

  1. 10/27/2015 — Receive it all with compassionate awareness—
    including our automatic reaction to it all
    (We hate it, we are terrified by it, we are panic stricken,
    we are overjoyed, enraptured, etc.).

    Receive our reaction to it along with it.
    Receive IT ALL
    With compassionate awareness:
    ”This too, this too…”

    That’s it.

    Just hold it all in compassionate awareness,
    And wait for the shift to happen.
    The shift will always happen.

    That’s the way compassionate awareness works.
    We hold it all in compassionate awareness,
    and a shift will happen.
    A perspective shift.

    We will feel it in our body.

    That’s the feeling of being put in accord with reality.
    The only healthy way to be in relation to reality
    is to be in accord with it.

    Our body knows when you are in accord with reality,
    and when we are out of accord with it.

    Our body keeps score.
    And will thank us
    when we take up the practice
    of receiving it all with compassionate awareness.

    And we will feel it.
    Every time.
  2. 10/28/2015

    It’s amazing
    the way being aware of one’s thinking/feeling
    shifts, deepens, expands, enlarges, transforms
    one’s thinking/feeling,
    and alters one’s reality—
    providing options and choices,
    and creating futures,
    that did not exist prior
    to the advent
    of compassionate awareness.

    How it works
    is beyond understanding
    or explanation,
    making it magical,
    or, if you prefer, miraculous,
    and an ever-present example
    of Sheldon Kopp’s observation:
    ”Some things can be experienced, but not understood,
    and some things can be understood, but not explained.”
  3. 10/26/2015

    Sit with yourself.
    Listen to yourself.

    Not to the narratives that you spin without pause—
    the ones about being not good enough,
    not going fast enough,
    not getting enough done,
    not being happy enough,
    or wealthy enough.

    Listen past all of that
    to what your Self is saying to you.

    Sit with your Self
    until you can separate your Self
    from the things you always hear when you are quiet.

    Listen past what you normally hear
    until you can hear your Self who has never been heard.

    Know you can be with your Self anywhere, any time.

    That is a radical realization,
    with radical implications for the rest of your life.

    Live to see what you and your Self can create together
    in the time left for living.
  4. 10/28/2015

    It has taken everywhere we have been
    to get us where we are.
    So, stop your moaning and complaining and regretting
    this place or that one.

    They were all exactly what you needed
    to be here, now.

    It would be wrong to waste all that has gone into
    getting you where you are
    by not being here, now,
    choosing instead to ruminate
    and rummage around in your griefs and sorrows,
    in your could-have-been’s
    and your except-but-only’s.

    If your could-have-been’s had been,
    if your except-but-only’s had not been,
    you still have the exact same problem you have right now:
    Being. Here. Now.

    So. Be. Here. Now.
    Listen. Look. Attend. Hear. See. Be. Here. Now.

    Receive well the moment
    And all that is in the moment with you.
    Bless the moment with your kind attention,
    with your compassion
    and your grace.

    Befriend the moment.
    It has been waiting all your life for you.
    Celebrate with joy and wonder,
    the time and place of your being,
    of your life.

    Of your being alive,
    here and now.
  5. 10/29/2015 — Lake Chicot HDR 06 — Lake Chicot State Park, Ville Platte, Louisiana, October 27, 2015

    Carl Jung was of the opinion that it is all about “individuation”—
    his term for becoming who we are,
    for being “one with our Self.”

    The Old Testament said it is about “becoming who God is,”
    or words to that effect.

    It’s what Jesus had in mind when he said, “The Father and I are one.”
    And, “Thy will, not mine, be done.”

    It’s what Paul had in mind when he said,
    “It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me.”

    Individuation is growing up into the Self we are.
    It is becoming full partners with the Self within,
    and living in ways that express, exhibit, make manifest—
    the Biblical term is “incarnate”—
    the Self within in all that we do in, and with, our life.

    It is about getting out of the way—
    with our will, our desires, our idea of what we want our life to do for us—
    and allowing our Self to live through us,
    no matter what that might mean for us
    and our idea of success,
    or our idea of “what life is all about.”

    Life is all about becoming who we are—
    living aligned, at-one, with the Self within.

    Integrity means oneness with our Self within.
    We are here to live with integrity of being with our Self,
    so that “The Father, The Self within, and I are one.”

    It is time we started figuring out how to do that,
    don’t you think?
  6. 10/29/2015 — Lake Chicot HDR 01 Panorama—Canoe Launch, East Trailhead, Lake Chicot State Park, Ville Platte, Louisiana, October 27, 2015

    There’s nothing to it.
    Really.
    Nothing. To. It.

    We do nothing.
    Okay, we sit.

    That’s doing something.
    Quietly.
    That’s doing something else.
    Enfolding all the thoughts and moods
    that come with compassionate awareness.
    When will it end!

    Here. Now.

    We sit quietly
    and meet everything that comes
    with compassionate awareness.

    Work up to twice a day for twenty minutes each time.
    You can do it walking.
    Walk quietly
    and meet everything that comes
    with compassionate awareness.

    Or, you can do it running.
    Swimming.
    Bicycle riding.
    Horseback riding.
    Eating.
    Taking a shower.

    You have no excuse for not doing nothing.
    You can do it anywhere, any time.

    There’s nothing to it.
  7. 10/30/15 —  Lake Chicot HDR 11 — Lake Chicot State Park, Ville Platte, Louisiana, October 27, 2015

    Nothing is too big to be contained in our compassionate awareness.
    Not our depression.
    Not our fear and anxiety.
    Not our anger.
    Not our hatred, jealously, envy, inferiority, insecurity…

    Not our greed, dissatisfaction,
    hunger and thirst for more of everything—
    for something, we don’t know what—
    anything to take our mind off of our reality.
    Not our reality.

    All of it fits nicely within our compassionate awareness,
    and we don’t have to do anything
    about any of it
    beyond welcoming it into our attentive presence,
    assuring it that it has a home with us,
    and is safe with us,
    and asking it to tell us all that it has to say.
    xxx
  8. 10/30/15 —  Cajun Cadillac Panorama B&W—Bayou des Glaises, Avoyelles Parish, Louisiana, October 29, 2015

    Seeing things as they are

    Means seeing that our interpretation of things is what we are seeing

    The things we see reflect the seer seeing

    Inviting us to see ourselves,

    And wonder why we see the way we see

    And not some other way instead.

    The way things are appears to be different

    To all those who view them—

    They appear differently to us in different moods,

    And at different times of the day.

    The way things ARE is contingent upon the 10,000 things!

    And, we see THAT when we see them as they “are.”

    And, seeing THAT enables us to make inquiries

    Regarding the why and wherefore of our seeing.

    Why see it the way we see it now?

    What is impacting our seeing?

    Where did we learn to see as we do?

    What does seeing things the way we see them

    Enable us to get by with?

    Prevent us from doing?

    How are we inhibited, limited, stuck in place

    By the way we see things?

    How else might we see things?

    How might our life work better if we saw things differently?

    We cannot hope to see anything “as it is”

    Until we can see our seeing,

    And see what holds our seeing in place,

    Keeping us from seeing anything other than the way we see things

    All our life long.
  9. 10/30/15 —  St. Augustine Catholic Church Panorama—Isle Brevelle, Louisiana, October 30, 2015

    Nobody has any business pursuing a spiritual practice until after retirement.

    We should look forward to retirement as the time for being spiritual,

    And I don’t mean as in doctrine, dogma, ideology and theology.

    I mean as in direct experience with That Which Can Be Known But Not Told or Said.

    Before retirement the stress of life—

    Job, house and car payments, bills, spouse/partner, kids, education (yours and your children’s), etc—

    Bears too heavily upon us,

    Creates too much distraction for us.

    It will be hard enough for us to walk two paths at the same time in retirement,

    Juggling those responsibilities and duties which, like goodness and mercy, shall follow us all the days of our life—

    AND maintaining and deepening our practice.

    It’s ridiculous to think that we could do a creditable job doing the Two Paths thing in our working life.

    Look at all the gurus you know.

    Do they have a full time job in addition to being a full time guru?

    The Dalai Lama takes care of his own business,

    And his people manage his affairs.

    That’s the way to do it.

    Anybody could be the Dalai Lama with someone to manage her, or his, affairs!

    So don’t be hard on yourself for not being “more spiritual.”

    Tune in as you are able,

    And look forward to retirement as the time for awakening to the Holy AAAUUUUMMMMMmmmmmm……

  10. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 10/31/15 —  Lake Chicot HDR 08 — Lake Chicot State Park, Ville Platte, Louisiana, October 27, 2015

    Physical reality puts us in touch with spiritual reality.

    The threshold to awareness, realization, enlightenment and perception

    Is our encounter with the limitations and restrictions of life as we live it.

    Each moment in this world is a doorway, a portal, into the other world.

    Religion doesn’t always see it that way.

    Religion as we know it spends too much time denouncing,

    Dismissing, discounting and denying the world of physical reality.

    This world, according to that religion,

    Is a “vale of tears,”

    Filled with “pain and suffering,”

    And is only something to be made up to us

    In the world to come after we die.

    That religion misses all this world has to offer

    By focusing on the glories of the other world.

    This world is all we need to clue into the other world

    And open ourselves to it,

    Bringing it into this world here and now.

    We live here, now, as extensions of that world into this world.

    We make the connection between worlds real,

    And transform this reality with infusions of that reality,

    By living here and now as though that reality is the Real Reality,

    With grace, mercy, compassion and peace

    Where greed, anger, hatred, fear, envy, revenge and vindictiveness would normally be.

    We get to the other world through this one

    By allowing physical limitations and restrictions

    Show us everything we need to know about spiritual reality

    And it’s experience and expression in the world of here and now.

    Simply sit with this world as it is,

    Receiving it with compassionate awareness,

    And that world will open itself to you.
  11. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 11/01/15 —  Lake Chicot HDR 12 — Cabins—Lake Chicot State Park, Ville Platte, Louisiana, October 12, 2015

    There are three statements that form the ground of all good religion world-wide across time:

    1) The Bread of Affliction is the Bread of Life.

    2) The Cup of Suffering is the Cup of Salvation.

    3) The full scope of the Spiritual Journey is the distance from The Garden of Eden to the Garden of Gethsemane.

    When we understand how these statements apply to us and our life,

    And accommodate ourselves to their truth,

    We will be the Buddha and the Christ, Abraham, Mohamed. Lao Tzu, Black Elk and all others of their ilk.
  12. 11/02/15 —  Lake Chicot HDR 10 — Cabins—Lake Chicot State Park, Ville Platte, Louisiana, October 27, 2015

    We know when we are in the flow, and when we are out of it—

    When we are in harmony with the Way of Things, and when we are out of harmony.

    Nothing gets us out of the flow, out of the Way, faster than:

    A) Trying to use it for our personal benefit, gain, advantage, profit, or,

    B) Trying to willfully, force it into being and into compliance with our desires.

    Waking up is like going to sleep.

    We cannot make it happen.

    We cannot control it, will it, force it, direct it, manage it, own it, possess it.

    It posses us.

    The way of alliance with the Way, the Flow, is

    ”Thy will, not mine, be done.”

    This is anathema to the culture of the world,

    Where winning, forcing, commanding, commandeering, triumphing, owning, possessing, controlling

    Are the only point and purpose of life.

    Football, baseball, basketball, soccer, chess, and NASCAR,

    And everything else

    Is grounded on willing our way to victory, wealth, and glory everlasting.

    And then comes along the Flow and the Way with their

    ”Not YOUR will, but MINE, be done,”

    And we are left in the pitch darkness of the deepest night,

    Trying to force ourselves to go to sleep.

    The Way is not the way for this time and place.

    And it is the only hope for this time and place.

    There you are.
  13. 11/02/15 —  Lake Chicot HDR 07 — Lake Chicot State Park, Ville Platte, Louisiana, October 27, 2015 — The yellow flowers along the shoreline are Nodding Beggartick.

    Jon Kabat-Zinn is fond of saying, “In all of the languages of the East, the word for ‘mind’ and the work for ‘heart’ is the same word.”

    Sometimes, he puts it this way, “All of the religions of the East have one word for ‘mind’ and ‘heart.’”

    It point is that mindfulness is not possible without compassion.

    We cannot ‘know’ without knowing with compassion—

    Without lovingly knowing.

    Seeing, hearing and understanding is possible only

    By seeing, hearing, and understanding with compassion.

    The quality of the What (we do)

    Is contingent upon the quality of the

    How (we do it)

    And the

    Why (we do it).

    Compassion shapes, forms, limits and determines

    The What, the How and the Why.

    Those who live well

    Live compassionately.

    Those who live without compassion

    Live poorly.

    If you are going to be anything,

    Be compassionate

    Without being a patsy,

    And your life will be a beautiful work of art.
  14. 11/03/15 —  Black Bayou 05 — Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Refuge, Monroe, Louisiana, November 02, 2015

    Let your “Yes” be yes,

    And let your “No” be know.

    Mean what you say,

    Do what you say you will do.

    Live in good faith with yourself,

    And with all others.

    No duplicity.

    No hidden agendas.

    No posturing.

    No pretending.

    Being at one with yourself,

    And transparent to yourself,

    So that you are who you are

    In each situation as it arises,

    And “what they see is what they get.”

    It doesn’t get more basic than that.

  15. 11/03/15 —  Cotton in the Field 01 Panorama—Hwy 61 through the Mississippi Delta, November 3, 2015

    Heaven is a perspective,

    Not a place.

    A point of view,

    A way of seeing—

    With grace and compassion,

    Kindness and peace,

    Generosity and good will.

    No one can expect to “get to heaven,”

    Without bringing heaven forth

    In their relationships

    With all people

    Every day.

    We create heaven

    By the way we see those

    Who share the moment with us.

    We may not be God, but.

    We are as close to God

    As some have ever been
  16. 11/04/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake HDR 01 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeak, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    Driving 10.5 hours from South Carolina to Tennessee-almost-Kentucky to photograph Cypress Trees sounds crazy.

    It is actually therapy.

    A lot of things that are therapeutic are crazy.

    What is really crazy is trying to be totally sane,

    And never doing anything that sounds the least bit crazy.

    Find the things that are therapeutic for you,

    That help you “recover from the past and store up for the future.”

    That serve you as an oasis in the desert,

    And reconnect you with your heart and soul.

    And, do them often,

    No matter how crazy it might sound.
  17. 11/05/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 07 HDR—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    Honor the natural rhythms!

    That’s the First Law of Harmony and Accord.

    The tide comes in and the tide goes out.

    Don’t mess with the tide.

    Global warming is the result of profit making having a higher priority than the First Law of Harmony and Accord.

    When “Profit At Any Price” becomes the operating principle governing existence,

    Existence will hang by a thread.

    Our place is to recognize the rhythms at work in our life,

    And let our life fall into place around our rhythms.

    If you are a morning person,

    Don’t work the midnight to eight a.m. shift.

    If you like rocking chairs,

    Sit in rocking chairs.

    Honor the rhythms!

    Respect the consequences—

    The consequences of honoring,

    And of dishonoring,

    The rhythms.

    Paying the price of honoring the rhythms,

    Results in a greater profit

    Than paying the price of dishonoring them,

    Though it won’t likely be a monetary gain.
  18. 11/05/2015 —  Morton’s Overlook 01 HDR—Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, Tennessee, November 5, 2015

    What’s in there?

    All the old stories about seeking hidden treasure

    Are about discovering what’s in there.

    YOU are the treasure hidden in the field!

    The pearl of great price gathering dust in some pawn shop’s

    Display case of costume jewelry.

    YOU are the Philosopher’s Stone,

    Capable of turning “nothing” into “finest gold,”

    By discovering what’s in there

    And allowing it to come to life

    In you,

    And through you into the world!

    What’s in there?
  19. 11/06/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 04 HDR—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    We care about what we care about,

    Whether we ought to care about it or not.

    If we could just care about what we ought to care about,

    And not care about what we have no business caring about,

    The world would be a different world.

    Racism and white supremacy have no place in any world.

    The Confederate flag still flies in the State of Mississippi,

    Tucked safely away in the corner of the “state flag.”

    But, for too many Mississippians,

    The state flag wouldn’t be worth flying without that symbol

    Of racism and white supremacy—

    Leaving the rest of us at a loss

    About what to do when evil is seen as good,

    And good as evil.

    How do you wake people up to the discretancy

    Between what they care about

    And what they ought to care about?

    How do you wake people up to the importance

    Of caring about what they ought to care about,

    And ought not care about what they ought not care about?

    It keeps me awake,

    Pondering it.
  20. Used in Short Talks On Contradictions, etc., 11/07/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 05 HDR—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    Living at one with ourselves—

    Transparent to ourselves

    And aware of our ambivalence and contradictions—

    Is the single most important way

    Of having an impact for the good

    On the conditions and circumstances of our life.

    Changing the world—

    To the extent that it can be changed—

    Is as simple as being who we are

    In each situation as it arises,

    And letting the outcome be the outcome.
  21. 11/07/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 06 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 (The white dots are White Pelicans)

    We have to live firmly grounded in a defining ethic,

    With clear boundaries,

    And an unflinching, unshakable grasp

    Of what is right and what is wrong.

    We have to KNOW what is good and what is not good,

    And live in ways that serve the good and oppose the not-good.

    We have to KNOW what the rules are,

    And abide by them.

    The trick is that we impose them on ourselves.

    Second-hand rules—

    Those handed to us by external authorities—

    Are worthless when it comes to providing

    Eternal stability and foundation

    Amid the heaving waves of the wine-dark sea.

    We have to be grounded in our own sense of value,

    And live out of it—be guided by it—in all that we do.

    We are who we are

    Because we say so,

    Because WE KNOW who we are

    And who we are not.

    And you can see it in our life.
  22. 11/08/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 03 HDR—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    Joseph Campbell said “We know when we are on the beam, and when we are off it.”

    We resonate with what is right for us, and are repelled by what is wrong.

    How often do we override our sense of what is right, and ignore our sense of what is wrong!

    Adam and Eve before the Forbidden Fruit, Jesus searching for his best future in the wilderness and in Gethsemane faced the choice of what to override and what to ignore.

    So do we all, more often that we care to know.

    At the core of each of us is the rock solid truth of who we are, and who we are not—of who we are to be, and of who we are to be not.

    The foundation stone is a guide stone, a polestar, directing us to the life we are built to live, and away from the lives that drain us of life, and lead to the wasteland and the void.

    We are born with an internal guidance system that knows with firm conviction when we are on the beam and when we are off it.

    Why the lack of attention? Of consultation? Of awareness and alignment?

    Why do we not spend time throughout the day, every day, in meditative openness to what we know?

    Seeking to place ourselves in harmony with our Inner Guide?

    Listening, searching, sensing what here, what now?

    Why live not knowing? Not caring? Out of sync with the direction of our life’s true flow?
  23. 11/08/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 02 HDR—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    We have to know when to rein in our impulses and enthusiasms

    And when to give them a hearty endorsement.

    We have to know when to say Yes! and when to say No!

    There are legitimate limits that must be recognized, respected, honored and observed.

    We are not free to live any way we choose,

    Any time we like.

    We serve values and ends that are not ours to establish and remove,

    But to acknowledge and serve.

    There is a Good greater than our good—

    Greater than our idea of good—

    A Justice greater than our sense of justice

    And our quick tendency to feel betrayed, neglected and denied.

    We are part of a cause greater than we are.

    Our life is to be an experience and an expression of more than words can say—

    Of more than can be told, or said, or explained, or understood.

    At the heart of each of us

    Is the knowledge of a truth that is greater than we are.

    As Captain Jack Sparrow would say,

    “I have no say in the matter, Gibbs—It’s the pirate’s life for me. Savvy?”
  24. 11/09/2015 —  Black Bayou 01 — Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Refuge, Monroe, Louisiana, November 2, 2015

    We have to work to be who we are,

    Living our life the way our life needs us to live it.

    We swim against the strong currents

    Of home, church, society and culture to do that.

    Everything about our life is arrainged

    To make us be who we are not,

    And to keep us from being who we are.

    ”You do what I tell you to do—

    When I tell you to do it—

    The way I tell you to do it!”

    We hear it from the beginning,

    And it replays throughout our life

    To the very end.

    It takes conscious, mindful, awareness,

    Determination, and courage,

    To step beyond the ways we are told to do it,

    And do it the way we would do it—

    The way we say it needs to be done—

    In each situation as it arises,

    All our life long.

    Who do YOU say you are?

    How do YOU say you are to go about being you?

    Get behind the wheel of that baby,

    Take it for a spin.

    See who is the first to ask you

    Who you think you are,

    And to tell you to get back in line.
  25. 11/09/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 08 HDR—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    We look for it out there…

    The land of promise,

    The treasure hard to find,

    Meaning, purpose, value,

    Success, fortune and glory,

    The Fountain of Youth,

    The City of Gold,

    The Northwest Passage,

    The Holy Grail…

    We carry with us what we seek,

    Searching for what we have never lost but cannot find.

    ”The Tao is like a man riding his ox,

    Looking for his ox.”

    We seek “the face that was ours before we were born.”

    The Inner Other who is our Invisible Twin.

    The Self we are but a shadow of,

    And once knew, but have forgotten.

    We seek ourselves—our Self—

    Who seeks us.

    This story should have a happy ending.

    Why won’t we allow that to happen?

    What do we fear

    That keeps us from opening ourselves

    To what resides within?
  26. 11/10/2015 —  Black Bayou 02 HDR—Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Refuge, Monroe, Louisiana, November 2, 2015

    There is the life we dream of living,

    The life we settle for,

    And the life that is our life to live.

    We get all dour and depressed,

    Mopey and moaning,

    Because the life we settle for

    Is a far cry from the life we dream of living,

    In a “Poor me, poor me!” kind of way,

    While the life that is our life to live—

    The life that can be lived in any situation,

    In every context and circumstance,

    From penthouses to prisoner of war camps,

    Stands waiting at the gate

    For us to climb in the saddle

    And do what can yet be done with it,

    While the light still lasts,

    In a “Let’s see what we can do with this day,” kind of way.
  27. 11/10/2015 —  Bud Ogle Cabin 03 — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, TN, November 5, 2015

    In a perfect world, we each would have exactly what we need from our environment to grow into who we are best equipped and suited to be.

    We would have everything we need to be who we are.

    We come into the world expecting certain things to be in place:

    Parents, extended family, a social structure that is secure and dependable, with trustworthy and just rules to live by, nurturing, nourishing, relationships, resources and experiences for honing our skills and developing our ability to find our way in the world.

    The less of this we find when we get here, the harder time we will have in putting together a life for ourselves, and helping others put one together for themselves.

    Most of us need more help than we get.

    We accommodate ourselves to the world we live in by taking stock, compensating for what is lacking in our life where that is possible, recognizing our handicaps and limitations, and doing what can be done with what we have to work with.

    Seeing clearly how things are and accepting the fact they are how they are, and the implications that has for us and our life, squares us up with our circumstances, and gives us the best chance of finding the openings and making the most of our opportunities for growth and development.

    In every life, there is a sense in which liabilities can have advantages and advantages can have liabilities. So, are we better off to have won at birth, or to have lost? Only time will tell, but having the heart for the task at hand will make all the difference.
  28. 11/11/2015 —  Goodale 2015 01 — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 11, 2015

    We give up too easily, we quit too soon.

    Instead of giving up and quitting,

    We need to simply hand it over,

    And let our heart take the lead.

    If we gave our heart the controls to our life,

    And willingly, in good faith, aligned ourselves

    With our heart’s drift and direction,

    No matter what that might mean

    For our wishes, wants, desires, aims and ideas,

    Resurrection would be instantaneous and everlasting,

    As long as we didn’t say,

    ”Oh wow! I feel better now,” and take our life back.

    Our role is to collaborate with our heart,

    And make no unilateral decisions

    About any matter, great or small.

    Take a Heart Reading several times a day!

    Checking-in with the Inner Consultant

    Keeps things in harmony and balanced,

    All along The Way.
  29. 11/12/2015 —  Goodale 2015 07 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    We have to live with our feet under us,

    Grounded on the Foundation Stone,

    Which is, of course, our “Heart of hearts.”

    I use the term, “Heart,”

    As a metaphor for that which is central to us,

    Deepest, best and truest about us,

    As in “The heart of the matter,”

    Or “Getting to the heart of things.”

    Our Heart is who we are,

    Which includes who we also are.

    Our Heart is ALL that we are,

    Where we are One and at-one with ourselves.

    When we live and act out of our Heart,

    We are “Grounded on the Foundation Stone,”

    And nothing can move us,

    Because “We know whereof we speak.”

    Finding our way to the Ground and Foundation of Our Life

    Is the essential task—

    The one to which we owe our full allegiance

    and complete devotion.

    If you think you have something more important to do,

    You are wrong.
  30. 11/12/2015 —  Chimney Tops—Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, Tennessee, November 5, 2015

    The trip to the Holy Grail, the Holy Land, the Land of Promise, Nirvana, Enlightenment, the Peace of God, Paradise, or wherever it is we think we are going works like this:

    See, Hear, Do!

    We put all the emphasis on seeing and hearing, on understanding, on getting it all figured out, on knowing what the answers are.

    We memorize the Bible, and the Book of Confessions, and the Book of Doctrine, and the Catechisms Large and Small, and constantly talk about what we know,

    Conveniently ignoring forever what we also know.

    It is what we also know that matters.

    What we also know is what we know unconsciously, just beyond the boundaries of our conscious awareness.

    That is the real Holy Land.

    If you want to live in the lap of God, open yourself to what you know but don’t know that you know.

    We have to DO what we KNOW needs doing, but we are so busy talking, talking, talking about what we do know—all the doctrines and ideology positions that we are sure are the Gospel Truth—that we ignore, discount, dismiss, deny what we also know.

    For instance, if, while reading this, you get a sense that you need to call your mother, or apologize to your child, stop reading this and call your mother, or apologize to your child.

    Forget what you are doing and DO what you KNOW needs to be done!

    This is the Law and the Gospel, and it is the only thing keeping you from the Elysian Fields and the Lap of God.
  31. 11/12/2015 —  Oconoluftee 2015 02 — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Cherokee, NC, November 5, 2015

    Don’t take my injunction to “DO!” as an invitation to live impulsively.

    You are your own guide here.

    You have to sense the source of your directions.

    You have to trust your own judgment.

    ”Does this need to be done?”

    ”Who am I trying to please with this action?”

    ”Who would be most pleased with me for doing this?”

    ”Who is guiding my boat on its path through the sea?

    ”Who is calling the shots?”

    ”Does this come from my deep sense of what needs doing—

    Or from some external source that I have internalized?”

    We have to live out of our own judgment.

    We have to be our own authority for what we do and leave undone.

    We have to live our own life.

    We have to take care of our own business.

    Impulsive, unreflective, living

    Is dancing to someone else’s tune.

    We have to sing our own song—

    The song of our own heart.

    Knowing where the line between Them and Us lies

    Is essential knowing.
  32. 11/13/2015 —  Goodale 2015 10 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    What is important?

    Your answer to that question,

    Through each stage of life,

    Is the Teller that tells the tale.

    We are who we are

    Because of what is important to us.

    How important is what we declare to be important

    Is the question.

    Our life is a quest for true value—

    For ideas, people, symbols, and things ert and inert

    That are truly valuable.

    We are looking for the treasure

    Worthy of our allegiance and loyalty over time,

    And settle, too often, for glass beads and silver mirrors.

    Thus, the importance of knowing what is important.

    How can we tell?

    How do we know?

    There is no substitute tool in the whole bag of tools

    For attentive, compassionate, mindfulness—

    For seeing what we look at,

    For knowing what we know.

    Eyes to see,

    Ears to hear,

    And hearts to understand,

    See, hear and understand beneath the surface

    And beyond the visible

    Into the depths

    And into the invisible.

    Make sure your Seer, Hearer, Understander

    Is operating on all levels

    By becoming mindful of what you take to be

    The whole thing.

    Mistaking the sheen for the gold

    Is a rookie mistake.

    Our life needs more from us than that.
  33. 11/13/2015 —  Black Bayou 06 — Black Bayou Lake Wildlife Refuge, Monroe, Louisiana, November 2, 2015

    Just as “one book opens another,”

    So one moment lived well opens into the next moment,

    Carrying us, moment-to-moment, into all of our life.

    We don’t have to think our life out,

    We only have to open ourselves to what our life is asking of us,

    And wait for the door to open in “this” moment,

    With the Way leading to all moments flowing from this one.

    It’s all very magical,

    Leading us to think in terms of synchronicity,

    Or the Grace of God.

    All three terms—magic, synchronicity, and God’s Grace—

    Mean the same thing: Unexpected gifts and direction.

    We do not think our way into these gifts and directions.

    They visit themselves upon us,

    Unfold before us,

    And bless us with wonder at the mystery of life—

    An experience common to those

    Who step into each moment

    Looking for what needs what they have to offer,

    And allow one moment to open to the next.
  34. 11/14/2015 —  Goodale 2015 20 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    Our life—both of them—

    The one we are living,

    And the one that is ours to live within the one we are living—

    Demands a response from us.

    We respond best to each life

    From a perspective of quiet, mindful, compassion.

    Ariadne’s Thread winds through both lives,

    And we follow it—

    Not by thinking our way forward

    With reason and logic,

    Plans, schemes, strategies and tactics,

    And not by being cagey and clever—

    By being present with what is happening

    With compassion and awareness,

    And waiting for the shift to happen,

    The door to open,

    The path to appear—

    And acting when the time is right

    To claim the prize,

    Which is doing the right thing,

    In the right way,

    At the right time.

    In each situation as it arises.

    To live this way

    Is to be one with the Tao,

    And live the life that is ours to live

    Within the life we are living.

    May it be said so of us all!
  35. 11/14/2015 —  Goodale 2015 06 Panorama—Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    We are divided within.

    It’s a left bran/right brain split,

    With the left brain being the seat of conscious, willful, logic and reason—

    Ego driven and goal oriented,

    And the right brain being the home of all that is unconscious,

    Including, heart, soul, and Self.

    Ego and Self.

    Two minds, one body, one life.

    The way of the culture of the East

    Has been to disappear the Ego.

    Starve it out.

    Ignore it.

    Denounce it.

    Renounce it.

    Send it packing.

    Chase it away with the sound of AAAAAUUUUUMMMMMM…

    The culture of the West has taken a different tack:

    Repress,

    Or suppress,

    All that is unconscious—

    Give it no place to call home.

    The result with both East and West

    Has been war within throughout the eons.

    How different would things be

    If Ego and Self had been working together

    All this time

    To heal the breach,

    Honor each others strengths

    Strengthen each others weaknesses,

    And live in the wonder of each others company

    As one?

    We should live to find out,

    Starting now.
  36. 11/15/2015 —  Goodale 2015 16 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    The Quest is for wholeness,

    And for meaning.

    We cannot live on entertaining apps and gadgets.

    There has to be an underlying ground and purpose to our life,

    And sex isn’t it.

    How many times can we fall in love

    Before we wake up to the realization

    That falling in love has nothing to do with the other person,

    But everything to do with us?

    It is ourselves we are seeking in the other!

    Ourselves we see in the other!

    Our Self seeking us in the other!

    Those love letters you pen?

    Those poems you write?

    Notes from you to YOU!

    YOU are there,

    In the other!

    All those qualities that attract you to the other?

    Even the eyes—

    What is it about those eyes?

    Get to the bottom of it!

    What the eyes represent to you

    Are what you seek in YOU!

    What the other person represents to you

    Is what you seek in YOU!

    Is what YOU seek to BE in your life.

    If the other person can be of help to you in living your life,

    And if you can be of help to the other person,

    The two of you may want to enter a partnership

    For LIFE—

    For the LIFE that is trying to come forth in each one of YOU.

    That way, you both could intentionally make the other conscious

    Of the YOU trying to come forth in each of you

    Throughout your life together.

    That would be what marriage is all about.
  37. 11/16/2015 —  Goodale 2015 20 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    There are right ways to be a Mom or a Dad,

    And wrong ways to be either.

    Right ways to be their child,

    And wrong ways.

    All of the roles of our life have a right and wrong side to them.

    The idea is to stay on the right side of all of them.

    There is a problem with that, of course,

    Being right all the time.

    If you think that’s easy,

    Or could be if you just tried hard enough,

    I say, “Go ahead! Climb onto the back of that beast,

    And tell them to open the chute!”

    My bet is you won’t last the eight required seconds

    Of Rodeo Time.

    And that isn’t even the hardest part.

    The hardest part is when the Right Side

    Of one role,

    Clashes head-on with the Right Side

    Of another.

    Once you are older, with children,

    You have the role of the Right Mom, Right Dad,

    With your children,

    And the role of the Right Child

    With your Mom and/or Dad.

    All of our roles have the tendency to clash like that.

    Makes it impossible to be on the right side of all of them.

    The nature of the game forces us

    To play some of our positions wrong.

    Something else to be aware of,

    And square up to,

    And bear the pain of,

    Consciously.

    Living mindfully,

    With compassion,

    Trumps everything else,

    When it comes to doing it right.

    Getting that down

    Will help you through a lot of tight spots.
  38. 11/16/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 10 HDR—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    It’s a mess, and I don’t have the solution.

    My best advice is,

    ”Don’t let the fact that it is a mess stop you,

    Or even slow you down.

    Get in there and do your thing—

    Live your own life,

    Aligned—to the best of your ability to intuit and implement—

    With your life’s idea for itself.

    Your role is to be YOU—

    To be true to your Self

    (The Self at the heart and center of who YOU are)—

    In every context, situation and circumstance.

    Zone into YOU

    And bring YOU forth to meet the day

    Everyday.

    Don’t worry about fixing the world.

    Bring YOU forth to meet the world.

    That’s the blessing the world needs most.”

    If you can find better advice,

    Take it.
  39. 11/17/2015 —  Goodale 2015 03 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    There is nothing to be

    Beyond being who we are.

    There is nothing to do

    Beyond doing what we are uniquely suited to do.

    All the planning, plotting, scheming, organizing, arranging, designing…

    Could be replaced with seeing, hearing, and understanding.

    But, we don’t trust the Inner Guides,

    Or even know of their existence,

    And think we are all alone with what to do about us.

    So, we devise a life for ourselves

    That doesn’t fit,

    And wonder what is wrong

    Without a clue.
  40. 11/17/2015 —  Bud Ogle Cabin 05 — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, Tennessee, November 5, 2015

    Loneliness is knowing there is no one but you.

    If you get the flu, you make your own chicken soup.

    If you throw up, you clean it up.

    No one has your back.

    Everything is up to you,

    Depends on you,

    Weighs heavily upon you.

    Loneliness is the bane of the old and the young alike.

    There is no agony or anguish like loneliness borne alone.

    Alcohol and drugs numb the pain

    But do nothing to relieve the reality,

    Or change the fact

    Of aloneness.

    Yet, there is consolation.

    Our Psyche does not leave us bereft.

    There is a Gang of Invisible Friends in there—

    A two-million-year-old-Self with a stake in our life;

    Ancestors, who themselves faced loneliness, from ancient times;

    The Wise Old Man or Woman;

    The Hero, the Artist, the Creator, the Wild One, the Guide…

    Walk among them, invite them along,

    Take advantage of all they have to offer.

    Relieve The Mood the next time it strikes

    With an inner communion of those

    Who are with you always

    To comfort and to bless.
  41. 11/18/2015 —  Goodale 2015 08 Panorama—Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    When we bring ourselves forth

    To meet the moment

    The way the moment needs to be met,

    We transform the moment,

    And influence the way life is lived

    Around us

    Far more than we ever know,

    Or can imagine,

    Or believe.
  42. 11/19/2015 —  Goodale 2015 05 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    Whenever I get out of the way,

    The Voice is there, waiting to talk.

    The Voice knows exactly what I need to hear.

    I gather, that is also exactly what The Voice needs to say.

    I can only assume that something similar goes on with everyone.

    I would like to work the experiment with each of you,

    Getting you out of the way,

    And seeing what happens then.

    I’m going to have to trust you to conduct it on your own.

    Get out of the way.

    See what happens.

    How would you go about doing that?

    Getting out of the way, I mean.
  43. 11/19/2015 —  Middle Prong of the Little Pigeon River 06 — Chimney’s Picnic Area, Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, TN, November 5, 2015

    I’m here to help you with your life,

    But, there’s a catch.

    You actually have to HAVE a life.

    You can’t just be wishing you had a life,

    Or dreaming of having a life,

    Or trying to think up a life.

    You can’t make up just any life,

    Or pick one off the rack, and say, “This’ll do.”

    You have to have a life that has you back—

    That grabs you by the neck,

    And throws you against the way,

    And says, “I’m yours and you are mine!

    And there is no getting away from me,

    Or trying to hide!”

    Of course, that doesn’t stop us from getting away,

    And trying to hide.

    But THAT’S the life I’m talking about.

    The one that wants you but you don’t want—

    For 10,000 reasons.

    So, lets start with your discard pile.

    What lives have you thrown away?

    Dismissed, discounted, denied?

    Which one, or ones, keep coming back,

    Wondering if it’s time yet,

    If it’s finally their turn now?

    If I am going to be able to help you with your life,

    You have to believe you have a life,

    And if you aren’t gripped by one,

    You have to believe that you could be gripped by one.

    You have to be willing to give your life at least that much of a chance.

    You have to be willing to bet the rest of your life

    On a life you are not even sure you believe in.

    That’s where it starts—

    With you being willing to bet your life

    On actually having a life,

    And letting it have a chance at you.
  44. 11/19/2015 —  Ginkgos 02 Panorama—Charlotte, NC, November 18, 2015

    One of the spiritual laws discovered by Alchemy is

    ”The heart and the mind must be in harmony with the work.”

    This applies across time and space as a bedrock requirement

    For spiritual realization.

    We must be one with what we do.

    It isn’t our work if we are not one with it.

    Heart and mind have to be in harmony with each other,

    And with The Work,

    Or there is no spiritual development.

    We cannot become spiritual by talking and thinking and believing.

    Our heart has to be in what we say, think and believe,

    And it must take shape, be given form, in our work.

    Heart and mind come to life in our work.

    Who we are and what we do have to be in harmony.

    One.

    If our heart isn’t in it,

    And our mind doesn’t buy it,

    It isn’t our work,

    And we are wasting our time—kidding ourselves—doing it.
  45. 11/20/2015 —  Goodale 2015 12 Panorama—Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2025

    I’m here to help you with your life, but.

    You have to help me help you.

    You do that by being open

    To the possibilities of life

    In every situation of life,

    In every context and circumstance of life,

    And receiving everything

    With mindful, compassionate awareness

    (Without judgment, will, or opinion),

    Seeing what needs to happen there,

    And what you can do to assist its happening,

    With the gifts that are yours to give.

    That’s your role.

    My role is to remind you of your role.

    If you refuse to have anything to do with it,

    That’s your business,

    And I have no business

    Meddling in your business.
  46. 11/20/2015 —  Oktibbeha County 02 HDR Panorama—Oktibbeha County, Mississippi, November 20, 2015

    Here is a book recommendation:

    ”Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less,” by Greg McKeown.

    You’ve heard me say,

    ”You have to know what is important,

    And live as though it is.”

    McKeown helps us determine what is important.

    Living as though it is is still up to us.

    Our life isn’t ours

    As long as someone else is telling us what is important—

    Which, of course, would be pleasing them.

    McKeown’s book is about reclaiming our life,

    And living it.

    Which makes his book important

    In my book.

    And so, the recommendation.
  47. 11/2012015 —  Reelfoot Lake 11 HDR Panorama—Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    We are the final authority over our own life.

    What WE say goes with us.

    What’s with this looking around to see if we are approved?

    Acceptable?

    Young children—before kindergarten—are completely free to be who they are.

    Jesus said, “Unless you turn and become like children,

    You will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven.”

    He knew what he was talking about.

    Living out of our own heart and soul,

    Grounded in our own center,

    Our own core of being,

    On our own authority,

    Is the foundational requirement

    For life that is spilling over, pouring out.

    Do it the way YOU would do it,

    All your life long!
  48. 11/21/2015 —  Goodale 2015 17 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    It isn’t so difficult, finding our life and living it.

    1) Understand that to be the most important thing.

    2) Step away from the noise in your life and be quiet enough to listen to yourself think and feel yourself feel.

    3) Reflect on: What is the one thing you wish you were doing that you are not doing?

    4) Reflect on: Where do you find your deepest joy in your life?

    5) Reflect on: What skills, gifts and abilities do you enjoy using the most?

    6) What are your dreams, waking and sleeping, saying about your life as you are currently living it?

    7) What choices do you need to make that you are putting off making?

    8) What choices are you allowing someone else to make for you?

    9) In light of the above, what do you need to do?

    10) Do it!
  49. 11/23/2015 —  Cypress Trees 01 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    Anthony Stevens said, “In counting our blessings, we invariably overlook the shadow that they cast.”

    Every asset is a liability, and every liability is an asset.

    We think of blessings as nullifying negative aspects of our life.

    Blessings trump, x-out, negate, disappear, etc. all things unwanted.

    Grief, loss, sorrow, tragedy, heartbreak, devastation, agony, despair, and all things similar

    Are dismissed and erased by “counting our blessings.”

    “When I think of my son’s death, I look around and see all those people who have it so much worse than I do, and remember how blessed I truly am.”

    The blessings do not cancel out the ache of the absence of those who were life itself for us.

    Life is ONE:

    Grief AND Delight.

    Joy AND Sorrow.

    Blessings AND Afflictions.

    In living well, we have to take EVERYTHING into account,

    And live in light of conflicting, oppositional, mutually exclusive and excluding realities.

    The fact that “this” is true,

    Does not discount or deny the fact that “that” is also true.

    We live in the tension of the polarity between “this” and “that.”

    We allow all of it to be so, because it is so.

    And we live with one in light of the other,

    Allowing “the other side” to deepen, enlarge, expand and mature us,

    And enable us to live out of the wisdom created

    Through the consideration of counter-balancing realities.

    Life is the art of managing the tension between opposing poles,

    And bearing consciously the pain of their contradictory nature.

    Every time we say “Yes” to something,

    We say “No” to something else.

    And vice-versa.

    We have to see what ALL we are doing,

    And not-doing.

    And then decide what to do.
  50. 11/23/2015 —  Leaves of Fall 05 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 18, 2015

    Carl Jung felt that we must each, in our own way, learn the art of letting things happen, in their own way.

    This is the Taoist principle of Wu-Wei, doing what needs to be done by doing nothing at all in an intentional, willful, forceful way, or “doing by not-doing.”

    Letting things happen.

    Seeing what path opens before us, and walking it to wherever it may lead.

    Jung said, “Letting go of oneself becomes the key to opening the door to the way.”

    We have to turn ourselves over to the psyche.

    The left hemisphere has to recognize the central place of the right hemisphere, and place itself in accord with it.

    The left hemisphere honors the right,

    And collaborates with it—listens to it—aligns itself with it—

    In the joint creation of a life worthy of us, a life worth living.

    Jung said, “Consciousness is forever interfering, helping, correcting, negating, and never leaving the simple growth of the psychic process in peace.”

    The left hemisphere no sooner says, “Okay. I’ll listen to my counterpart on the right side of our brain,” than it begins to edit, amend and put right, or dismiss, what comes forth.

    The left hemisphere is the consummate One Who Knows Best And Must Be Pleased.

    The right hemisphere is never more than the ragamuffin child who must always be overseen and put straight.

    We have long since identified with the left hemisphere, so that as conscious egos, the way of the left hemisphere is the way of the culture, and the way of each of us.

    It is asking a lot of us to “learn the art of letting things happen,”

    To “Step back, stand aside, and see what opens before us,”

    And, “Follow it out, wherever it leads.”

    Perhaps, it is asking too much.

    But, nothing less will do.

    Our work is cut out for us, waiting on us to take it up.

    We demur, and wait, ourselves, for something more like what we have in mind.
  51. 11/24/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 12 HDR – Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    We are responsible for our own happiness, mood, state of mind and being.

    We have to make our own peace with the way things are.

    We don’t have to like any of it to live in accord with it.

    From 1942 to 1944 Victor Frankl accommodated himself to Nazi Concentration Camps–one of which was Auschwitz.

    He said, “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

    And, “Those who have a ‘why’ to live, can bear with almost any ‘how’.”

    Our “why” is “what we are here for,” “what is ours to do,” “what we do that centers us, focuses us, grounds us, and makes our heart sing–even though it be breaking.”

    I’ve recommended Simon Sinek’s Ted Talk before. Here’s the link again:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sioZd3AxmnE

    Find your why! It will connect you immediately with your what!

    With your why and your what in hand, you can handle any how and where!

    If we spend all our time and energy trying to arrange our where and how to our liking,

    We will be awash in despondency and lost in remorse and sorrow.

    Do not allow your where and how to disconnect you from your why and what!

    We have to find our life and live it, regardless of the context and circumstances of our life!
  52. 11/24/2015 —  Goodale 2015 09 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    Libido is only marginally concerned with sex.

    Beyond sex, there is life.

    Libido is Life Energy—the Fuel of Life.

    Our level of libido is a measure of our interest and investment in our life.

    It is an indicator of the degree to which we love the life we are living.

    If sex is the only thing about our life that turns us on—

    If sex is all we live for—

    We have no life.

    We don’t know why we are here,

    Or what do do with the time that is our on the earth.

    We are lost, aimless, without direction, meaning or purpose.

    Here we are. Now what?

    First, there must be hunger and thirst.

    Libido has to come to our rescue—

    And will, once we wake up enough to know

    We have to seek the life that is ours to live,

    With heart for the journey,

    And an unshakable resolve

    To serve the life that calls us,

    With loyalty and allegiance forever.

    This is the Knight’s quest for his adventure,

    The Lady’s quest for her heart’s true desire.

    It is our quest for our life.

    It is the Hero’s Journey.

    Libido’s true reason for being.

    The Fuel for Life.
  53. 11/25/2015 —  Black Bayou 11 HDR —  Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Refuge, Monroe, Louisiana, November 2, 2015

    Knowing what’s what is all we need to know.

    Knowing what’s what knows what’s what on every level at once.

    When we know what’s what, we remember to breathe.

    We remember to breathe consciously,

    Slowly,

    Deeply.

    That changes everything.

    It gives us time, clears space, provides perspective,

    Enables us to know what we know,

    Like how much of what we know is being filtered

    Through our left hemisphere,

    And how little is coming to us through our right hemisphere.

    That, alone, transforms our response to the here and now

    Of our living.

    More Right!

    Less Left!

    Applying that mantra physiologically and not politically

    Would put us in the middle of where we need to be.

    Which is in the middle of all polarities and extremes.

    The fulcrum.

    The balance point.

    The place of greatest influence.

    “The still point of the turning world.”

    Living there changes the world.

    All worlds.
  54. 11/25/2015 —  Through the Trees 01 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 01, 2015

    Our biggest problem is knowing who we are—

    Knowing what is important to us on a level

    Beyond what we think is important.

    We think what we think is all there is to us.

    We are, we think, who we say we are.

    We have no idea who we also are.

    This is our problem.

    Knowing who we think we are is shallow water.

    We contain unfathomable depths,

    Of which we know nothing.

    We are a mystery unto ourselves,

    An adventure story waiting to be lived.

    We look forward to Star Wars,

    And ignore the world within waiting to be explored.

    Our task is to open ourselves to the inner world,

    And experience the truth of who we also are,

    Of the unlived life waiting to be lived.

    Starting is as easy as remembering tonight’s dreams,

    And understanding what they have to say.
  55. 11/25/2015 —  Goodale 2015 11 — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 11, 2015

    Listen to your life!

    Your life will tell you all you need to know about living.

    Living is the lesson.

    Life is the teacher.

    The key is interpretation.

    We have to “get it.”

    Observation is not the problem.

    We can see what is happening with the best of them.

    Understanding what is happening is the problem.

    Perceiving what is happening is the problem.

    Comprehending what is happening is the problem.

    Our life swings from bad to good

    On the pivot point of Right Interpretation.

    Things are going poorly,

    And we push, push, push to make them better.

    Things are going well,

    And we push, push, push to make them better.

    Adam and Eve walked through Paradise

    And had an idea for making it better.

    Our life isn’t what we want it to be

    And we focus on rearranging our life.

    How about rearranging ourselves?

    Why do we never think of that?

    Sitting down with our idea of how our life should be,

    And changing the way we think.

    Why is it always bending our life to serve our will,

    And never bending our will to serve our life?

    What is our life asking of us?

    What does our life want from us? With us?

    We have to listen to our life to know,

    With a heart devoted to understanding what we hear.
  56. 11/27/2015 —  Ginkgos 2015 08 Panorama — Charlotte, NC, November 26, 2015

    If we don’t grow up with the confidence

    That we are grounded in loving presence,

    Knowing that we are secure, valued and wanted,

    We have to establish that for ourselves—

    Consciously, deliberately, intentionally—

    In order to provide ourselves with the foundation

    Our parents failed to furnish.

    This is not easy,

    But.

    It is essential.

    We have to know what we hunger for—

    We are driven to fit-in, belong, be loved, have a place

    That is secure, certain and guaranteed—

    And bear consciously the pain of its absence,

    While we seek it’s confirmation.

    Here’s the secret:

    We will find what we seek

    By knowing that we seek it,

    And willing ourselves to live as though we have it

    Before its reality is conferred upon us

    By those who matter most to us.

    We have to fake it ’till we make it.

    We have to act the part.

    We have to courageously pretend to be more whole than we are.

    We have to dance with our fear.

    We have to do it the way we would do it

    If we knew we were secure, valued and wanted.

    We have to become what we need.

    We have to be what we seek.

    Living transparent to ourselves,

    And bearing consciously, compassionately, the pain of our parents’ negligence (or abuse).
  57. 11/27/2015 —  Ginkgos 2015 13 B&W — Charlotte, NC, November 26, 2015

    We have to step into our fear

    And dance with our insecurity.

    Joseph Campbell said, “The treasure we seek,

    Lies in the cave we are most afraid to enter.”

    The Land of Promise

    Lies on the other side of our fear.

    We can easily talk ourselves out of doing what needs us to do it.

    We can come up with 10,000 excuses “like that,”

    For not doing the thing that waits for us.

    We do what is ours to do

    By doing it.

    It takes living with heart to find our heart.

    Courage comes,

    As the Lion in the Wizard of Oz discovered,

    From acting courageously.

    We don’t have to be courageous

    To act courageously.

    We only have to act courageously,

    As though we are in a movie about our life,

    And have to play the part that calls for courage.

    Play the part the situation calls us to play,

    As though we are in a movie

    And it’s our role.

    We act our way all the way to the Land of Promise,

    To the Journey’s End.
  58. 11/28/2015 —  Ginkgos 2015 14 B&W Panorama — Charlotte, NC, November 26, 2015

    To be loved

    Means to be listened to with understanding.

    Anything else is posturing.
  59. 11/28/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic 04 Panorama — Charlotte, NC, November 28, 2015

    If you are going to aim for anything,

    Aim to be a

    Loving presence in the lives of others—

    Dependably, reliably, consistently conveying

    A constant source

    Of stability, safety and security—

    So as to reassure, console, comfort and encourage

    All who come your way,

    Amid the heaving waves

    Of the wine-dark sea.
  60. 11/29/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 13 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 04, 2015

    It takes time to square ourselves up with how things are

    When the discrepancy is great between how they are

    And how we wish they were.

    Coming to terms with that discrepancy

    Is life’s hardest task.

    We don’t hurry through it,

    Or breeze right past it

    On our way to happier times.

    We have to bear our own grief,

    Carry our own sorrow,

    And live with the weight of our own agony and anguish,

    Through long days and nights

    Of letting go what’s going,

    And letting come what’s coming,

    And allowing things to be as they are.

    Denial is the only shortcut,

    And saves us nothing in the long run,

    Postponing the inevitable,

    And preventing the accommodation

    That puts us in right relationship with our life,

    And allows us to reconcile ourselves to the disparity

    Of contrary truths—

    The truth of how things are and of how we want things to be—

    And do what needs us to do it

    Even yet, even now, even so.
  61. 11/29/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic Panorama 01 — Charlotte, North Carolina, November 28, 2015

    What would you be willing to go to hell for?

    Knowing what you would go to hell for

    Is the best way I know of assessing what is important.

    If it is important enough to you to go to hell for it,

    It’s important.

    If you wouldn’t go to hell for anything

    Because avoiding hell is the most important thing,

    You have no foundation,

    No ground,

    No integrity.

    You have sold out.

    You have sold your soul for the price of getting to heaven

    No. Matter. What.

    You are only doing what someone else tells you to do,

    And, you have missed the point.

    The point is to live your life at one with your Self and your Life.

    You, your Self and your Life have to be One.

    Making for: Wholeness. Completion. Integrity.

    That’s the point.

    Where this kind of oneness of being exists,

    THERE is heaven!

    And only there.

    Thus, the question:

    What would be willing to go to hell for?

    We have to be willing to go to hell

    In order to get to heaven.
  62. 11/30/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 11 Panorama B — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    You cannot do what needs to be done,

    And do what is supposed to be done,

    In any situation that arises.

    Who determines what needs to be done?

    You do,

    Out of your own personal authority,

    In response to your read of the situation.

    Who determines what is supposed to be done?

    Those Who Know Best And Must Be Pleased

    Out of their knowledge of policies and procedures

    And the way it has always been done

    In similar situations,

    From the beginning of time.

    Jesus said, “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right?”

    But we don’t have the personal authority to determine what is right

    In each situation as it arises,

    So, we fall back on Ecclesiastical Authority,

    And do it the way it is supposed to be done.

    If Jesus had done it that way,

    He would have never been crucified,

    And we would have never heard of him.

    To do it Jesus’ way

    Is to do it OUR way.

    If we dare.
  63. 11/30/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic 06 Panorama — Charlotte, NC, November 28, 2015

    We work it out with our innate capacities and interests,

    Our enthusiasms and desires,

    Our possibilities and our limitations

    (You wouldn’t want me playing the piano at your wedding,

    And that’s just one item on a very long list).

    We take what comes with us into the world in one hand,

    And we take what we find waiting on us—

    The context and circumstances,

    Terms and conditions,

    Of life in the world—in the other hand,

    And work to get the two hands together

    Over the course of our life,

    Seeing what we can do with all of it,

    What we can make of it,

    What it can make of us.

    Our life is our art.

    We are its gift to us.

    We bring each other forth,

    Delighting in the wonder of our creation.

    May it be so said of us all!
  64. 11/30/2015 —  OktibbIteha County 02 HDR Panorama — Starkville, Mississippi, November 20, 2015

    Our role is to put ourselves in accord

    With the context and circumstances of our life,

    And align ourselves with the life

    That is trying to come to life within us,

    And through us—

    Even now, even yet—

    In a “Thy will, not mine be done,” kind of way.

    It takes the right sort of listening

    In the right sort of silence

    To know what I’m talking about,

    But, any sort of listening

    In any sort of silence,

    Is enough to know

    This isn’t it.

    The way to it

    Is through the knowing

    That comes from listening intently, intensely,

    In the silence

    For that which is on the other side of our awareness

    Intently, and intensely hoping to commune with us

    Along the pathway of instinct and intuition,

    Dreams and fantasy,

    And guide us to the life

    That waits for us to live it,

    Even now, even yet.

    Make dates with the silence,

    And listen as though your life depends on it.
  65. 12/01/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 14 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    I would like to do it all over again,

    And do it like it ought to be done.

    I got way too much in my way the first time.

    I was all about what I liked and didn’t like,

    What I wanted and didn’t want.

    As if I knew what to like and not like,

    Want and not want.

    What did I know?

    I only had the mood of the moment to guide me.

    I have better guides at this point in my life.

    I wish I had had them from the first.

    It takes a lot of living

    To know when you are getting in your own way,

    And step aside,

    Listening for the guidance of the Guides,

    Taking everything into account,

    And allowing All Things Considered

    To wake us up

    As to what needs to be said and done,

    And what needs to be left unsaid, undone.

    I would like to do it all over again,

    Taking everything into account.

    I hope I can do a better job

    With that from this point forward.

    May it be certainly so!
  66. 12/01/2015 —  Ginkgos 2015 24 — Charlotte, NC, December 1, 2015

    The life that waits for us to live it

    Is a gentler, kinder life than the one

    We are living and seek to live.

    The life we need to seek to live

    Needs far less than the life we live to live.

    The life that needs us to live it

    Seeks to bring us forth and make us known—

    To ourselves and the world.

    The life we seek to live is concerned only

    With buying, spending, amassing and consuming—

    And cares nothing

    For self-reflection, examination and expression.

    We live to not-know ourselves,

    But to hide from ourselves in the 10,000 things and ways.

    The difference between the two lives

    Is considerable,

    And worth considering.

    Even if we choose not to live it,

    At least, we would know what we were rejecting,

    And be responsible for saying, “No!”
  67. 12/01/2015  —  Leaves of Fall 08  —  Andrew Jackson State Park, November 9, 2015

    Carl Jung, from an early age,
    was aware of having
    an outer and inner personality
    which he dubbed, #1 and #2.

    #1 took care of managing the details of the day—
    his conscious ego, rational, logical, reasonable, consistent, dependable—
    choosing what clothes to wear and what to have for lunch, etc.

    #2 was the two million year old man within,
    the Deeper Self of his unconscious,
    who oversaw,
    and weaved together,
    the threads of Jung’s larger life,
    directing him toward nature,
    philosophy,
    reflection
    and inquiry.

    Jung realized that #1
    had to put himself in accord
    with #2, so that,
    rather than “kick against the goads,”
     #1 would consult #2 regarding
    the general direction
    and drift of the times,
    and find ways of organizing
    the details of life as it was being lived
    to reflect and express the larger
    meaning and purpose
    that #2 would have Jung serve.

    There may be a gift here
    for each of us to decide
    if it is something
    we would do well
    to open and explore.
  68. 12/02/2015  —  Goodale 2015 15  —  Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 11, 2015

    We live in the most neurotic (i.e., crazy, mixed-up, spinning its wheels going nowhere, but not irrational) culture in the entire history of cultures, like a dog chasing its tail, getting more neurotic with each generation, and each year of each present generation

    Because we will not stop, see what we are doing, bear consciously the pain of that realization, and do the work of waking up, coming to our senses, making our peace with how things are and how things also are, and doing what needs to be done—doing what is being asked of us—in each situation as it arises, with the gifts, interests, values and enthusiasms that lie latent and unacknowledged, unexpressed, within us,

    Listening to, and serving, our instinct and intuition, in conjunction with our reason and logic—trusting ourselves to that marriage of opposites as we step into and engage all the other opposites at play in our lives, to reconcile, integrate, harmonize and make whole—

    Trusting ourselves to, and allowing, this wonderful old process to bring us home to ourselves, each other and all others, in peace that passes all understanding, restores us to our soul, and all of us to our collective soul, and makes all things good.

    We make life hell for ourselves and others, while being one slight perspective shift away from the glories of heaven and life everlasting, because we won’t do the work of waking up, growing up, and living as though we are—but keep waiting for someone else to go first, to create a mass movement that goes viral and makes it easy because everyone is doing it, and it is so much fun that we would be crazy not to.

    Here’s a news flash for you: We would be crazy not to now.
  69. 12/02/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic 02 — Charlotte, NC, November 28, 2015

    There is nothing to equal

    Establishing a relationship

    With a Jungian analyst

    And getting to work.

    You can delay it,

    Deny it,

    Spend time with substitutes

    Facsimiles,

    Replacements,

    And stand-ins,

    But.

    There is nothing to equal

    Establishing a relationship

    With a Jungian analyst

    And getting to work
  70. 12/02/2015 —  Bud Ogle Cabin 04 — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, Tennessee, November 5, 2015

    There is a level to our lives that is beyond the apparent, routine and ordinary—

    A level waiting to be discovered, explored, experienced, lived.

    There is a side to us—a deeper “I”—waiting to come to life in our life,

    Transforming our life—the one we are living—

    And infusing us with life, libido, vitality, amazement and wonder,

    That This could have been hiding in us all the while,

    Waiting for us to discover “the treasure hard to find,”

    And become who we have always been.

    We make the discovery by becoming conscious—

    Mindfully, compassionately, aware—

    Of all that we know of us,

    But don’t know that we know

    Until we pay attention,

    And understand that everything

    Is just what it is,

    And more than it is.

    More than we could ever imagine.

    And, it has been so all along.
  71. 12/03/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 15 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    We are at once bound and free,

    And live out our lives within that tension,

    Doing what we can to move from bondage to freedom,

    Without allowing the insurmountably of our task

    To dissuade us from its completion.

    This is “the human predicament” in short form.

    We cannot do what must be done,

    And we can’t let that stop us.

    No quitting! No giving up! No surrender! No lagging behind!

    We live to alter our genetic makeup for the better

    By being conscious of what we are up against

    And of what is ours to do, nevertheless, even so,

    And living to see what mindfulness can do

    With where we have come from

    And where we—as individuals and as a species—need to be going.

    This is our work,

    And the work needs workers.

    Are you in or not?
  72. 12/03/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic 03 Panorama — Charlotte, NC, November 28, 2015

    It is the place of consciousness

    To harmonize

    The thinking brain and the feeling brain:

    No dominance!

    Collaboration!

    We have to consciously think about what we are feeling,

    And notice how it feels to think what we are thinking.

    If we spend most of our time thinking,

    We have to consciously ask ourselves,

    Throughout the day,

    “How do you feel about this?”

    If we spend most of our time feeling,

    We have to consciously ask ourselves,

    “What do you think about this?”

    Our dominant function

    Has to consciously give way to our subordinate function,

    Inviting input, guidance and direction

    From “the other side,”

    In order to approach our life choices and decisions

    As One.
  73. 12/04/2015 —  Goodale 2015 18 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    There is one practice,

    Which applied worldwide

    Would produce immediate transformation,

    Bring on Nirvana, peace, and goodness everlasting:

    Knowing when to step back and stand aside,

    And doing it.

    When the situation calls for us

    To step back and stand aside

    We have to know it and do it.

    Too many of us are Caspar Milquetoast—

    Never knowing when to but always doing it.

    And too many of us are Bluto the Terrible,

    Never knowing when not to and never doing it.

    And that’s why we have the world we have today.
  74. 12/04/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic 05 Panorama — Charlotte, NC, November 28, 2015

    The emotional value we ascribe to the facts that shape our life

    Has everything to do with the meaning the fact has for us,

    And nothing to do with the fact.

    Some of us are stymied by facts

    That others of us brush off in our pursuit of other facts

    That others of us view with disdain.

    The same fact creates different responses across a broad sampling of us.

    We blame facts, hate facts, love facts, worship facts,

    But the facts, themselves, depend on something

    Beyond themselves to create their value in the lives of the people

    Who blame them, hate them, love them, worship them.

    Meaning is not lodged in any fact.

    Freedom is a shift in perspective.
  75. 12/05/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 16 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    We are here for the blessing.

    We are here to be blessed,

    And to be a blessing.

    The blessing is the encounter with grace—

    With the grace of mercy

    And the mercy of grace—

    Experienced as “unmerited benevolence,”

    As kindness, unexpected and undeserved.

    Lagniappe, generosity.

    The gift of time and caring presence.

    With nature,

    A sunrise counts,

    Or an hour of stillness among the cypress trees.

    It’s amazing what a calm presence

    Can do for a troubled soul.

    It is a blessing to be given,

    And received.

    Welcomed, relished, appreciated.

    Look for the blessings

    To give and receive.

    We are here for the blessing.

    Don’t leave a day unblessed.
  76. 12/05/2015 —  Oktibbeha County 03 — Starkville, Mississippi, November 20, 2015

    We are here to live our life—

    The life we are capable of living,

    The life that is ours to live,

    The life that only we can live—

    Amid the facts that define our living.

    We live in the midst of things as they are

    As those who know that things are more than they appear to be.

    We live in the midst of things as they are

    As those who know how things also are.

    This is called walking two paths at the same time.

    We can never take this world

    Of ordinary, apparent, reality,

    For the only world.

    The other world exists just beyond

    The visible facts of space and time,

    Straining to break forth into this world

    Through the lives of those

    Who are open to more than words can say—

    To more than logic and reason

    Are capable of imagining and intuiting—

    Who are “transparent to transcendence”

    (To borrow a phrase from Karlfried Durckheim)

    Incarnating the world beyond time

    Into this here and this now

    Simply by being who they are,

    And also are.

12/06/2015 —  Goodale 2015 19 — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 11, 2015

The right mix of vulnerability and courage

Sends us on our way,

Aware of our possibilities and chances

Enough to neither be foolhardy nor cowardly

And able to do what needs to be done

In each situation as it arises

All along the way.

The right mix of all of our opposites and contraries

Is crucial for the journey.

Live from the center,

Visit the extremes only to offset the extremes,

And come back to the center:

“The still point of the turning world,”

And the fulcrum of the universe,

Levering all things into their proper relationship with each other

In the dynamic flow of time and place,

The dance of life.

  • 12/06/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic 07 — Charlotte, NC, November 28, 2015

    The world can be too much for us to manage

    From time to time.

    The Holidays are anything but happy for a lot of us.

    All the old griefs and sorrows come calling,

    Sadness wells up, spills over, pours out.

    We lose our way

    And wander through the days in a daze,

    At the mercy of forces quite beyond us.

    Whenever, however, the world is too much for us to manage,

    We have to find the center, the ground of our being,

    And remind ourselves of who we are,

    Where we live,

    When we were born,

    What year it is,

    What odors are on the air we are breathing,

    And what sounds surround us,

    Connecting us to this here, this now.

    Past all the sadness of the past,

    We are here, now, breathing, hearing.

    The center has need of us,

    The ground of our being is calling our name.

    There is a life beyond the life we have lived,

    And are living—

    A life that would make its home with us,

    And call forth the gifts that are still ours to give.

    We are being called through the sadness

    To life beyond sadness

    In this here, this now.

    Why would I lie?
  • 12/07/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 20 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    There is that which struggles for expression,

    Strives to be known,

    Endeavors to be incarnated

    In the physical world

    Of normal, apparent, reality.

    Human beings stand on the threshold

    Between worlds,

    Alive to both worlds,

    Citizens of each

    Capable of communing with visible and invisible alike,

    It is our unique and irreplaceable place

    To bridge the worlds,

    Bringing that world forth in this world

    To the everlasting benefit of both.

    We begin by recognizing the truth of our position,

    And listening for what is trying to get our attention,

    And enter this world through us

    To make this world more like that one

    By serving the old values like

    Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness,

    Generosity, beauty, mercy…

    And tending whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right,

    Whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable,

    Whatever is excellent, whatever is worthy of praise…

    And bringing these things forth

    In the life that is ours to live

    Within the life we are living,

    Using the gifts that are ours to give

    For the true good of all.

    This is not too difficult for any of us,

    And it is essential for all of us,

    To wake up and be who we are.
  • 12/07/2015 —  Leaves of Fall 10 — Indian Land, South Carolina, December 4, 2015

    It starts with our family

    (Because we know where we stand with them,

    And we have to know where we stand

    With those we would help,

    I mean really help,

    And not just offer a hand-out,

    Or a bowl of soup in some soup kitchen)

    When it comes to helping someone avoid desperation.

    Desperation is the worst thing.

    When you’re desperate,

    You have lost all options,

    Your back is to the wall,

    Or the brink,

    And you will do anything—

    ANYTHING—

    For something to eat,

    Or a place to spend the night,

    This night—

    You’ll worry about tomorrow night tomorrow.

    So, we help our family first,

    If they can be helped.

    That’s the thing.

    People have to help us help them.

    They have to be able,

    And willing,

    To help themselves.

    They can’t just “really mean it this time”

    When they say they will.

    If your brother

    Is an indolent drunk,

    Or terminally into crack,

    You have to be steadfast with the triage,

    And look for someone else to help,

    Someone who can help you help them.
  • Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 12/08/2015 —  Goodale 2015 05 Panorama 02 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    The longer our list

    Of deal-breakers and non-negotiables—

    The things we must have or won’t do—

    The more our life has to go Our Way—

    The less able we will be

    To reconcile opposites,

    Make peace with contradictions,

    Integrate polarities,

    Live in harmony with dichotomy and discord,

    Stay married with kids,

    And go home for the holidays.

    And the more miserable will be our life,

    And the lives of those who have to deal with us.

    The shorter our list,

    The more centered and grounded

    Will be our life,

    And the better it will be for everyone,

    Worldwide.
  • 12/08/2015 —  Ginkgo Magic 01 Panorama Detail — Charlotte, NC, November 28, 2015

    In order to live out of our own authority

    We have to be grounded in what is central to us.

    When we are centered in what is important to us,

    We live out of the center of what is central to us—

    Of central importance to us.

    No one can give us that,

    Or tell us what that is to be.

    Only we know what is of central importance to us.

    That is the foundation stone,

    “The still point of the turning world,”

    The point around which our life revolves,

    The source of our life and being,

    And no one can take that from us.

    Centered on what is of central importance to us,

    We are stable, secure, and immovable.

    We are at one with who we are,

    And live our life as one who is in charge of what we are doing,

    Tending our business as one who knows what our business is,

    Living out of our own authority.

    Integrity is living in ways that are integral

    With the center and ground of our being.
  • 12/09/2015 —  Reelfoot 17 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    Mindfulness leads the way

    To the center of ourselves,

    To what is of central importance to us,

    Through all of the conflicts and contradictions,

    Opposition, polarities and incompatibilities

    That create the raging storms

    Within and without,

    Producing the heaving waves

    Of the wine dark sea

    We must traverse

    On our way to “the still point of the turning world,”

    Find “the face that was ours before we were born,”

    Know the full truth of who we are and also are

    (Which is who we ARE)

    And become who we have always been.

    Mindfulness leads the way

    To recognizing and harmonizing

    The strengths and influences

    Of the two hemispheres of our brain

    And becoming whole at last.
  • 12/09/2015 —  Bud Ogle Cabin 01 — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Gatlinburg, Tennessee, November 5, 2015

    Our life is the art of “letting it happen.”

    To do that, we have to be mindful—

    That word again—

    Of what is happening,

    Of what is working,

    Of what is vibrant and vital

    About us and what we are doing,

    And consciously cultivate it,

    Nurture it,

    Nourish it,

    Believe in it,

    Trust it,

    Follow where it leads,

    And see where it goes.

    We must (MUST) notice

    When we are posed to dismiss something

    That has life about it,

    Something we are doing,

    Because it doesn’t measure up to external standards

    Of good and worthy.

    It has life about it!

    That is all it needs to infuse us with life,

    Purpose, direction, meaning, wonder, spirit, zeal

    And all of the rest of the spiritual pantheon

    Of qualities, characteristics, gifts and experiences

    That constitute the full scope of the spiritual journey.

    To dismiss it would be like rejecting the services of our guide.

    You wouldn’t want to do that,

    Would you?
  • 12/09/2015 —  Ginkgos 2015 11 — Charlotte, NC, November 24, 2015

    The spiritual journey is an inner path

    To the Self at the center of us all.

    We progress through interior encounters

    With opposites, contradictions, incompatible differences,

    Conflicts of interest and of values, polarities,

    And mutually exclusive beliefs, viewpoints, positions, perspectives and outlooks.

    We are what we hate.

    The spiritual journey requires us

    To come to terms with all this,

    Make our peace with it,

    And work it out—

    Reconciling, integrating, honoring, recognizing, listening, seeing, understanding, accepting, forgiving, cooperating, collaborating, welcoming, befriending,

    And growing up.

    Mindfulness (that term again) leads the way.

    Compassionate, non-judgmental awareness

    Of all that is going on within us

    Transforms how we respond

    To all that is going on in the world external to us

    And we live there as agents of

    Grace, compassion and peace,

    Exhibiting outwardly what is true inwardly,

    And blessing all who come our way

    With a sense of divine presence

    As the Self in them recognizes the Self in us,

    And all is well.
  • 12/10/2015 —  Goodale 2015 32 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 4, 2015

    Carl Jung formulated his Shadow hypothesis as a way of interpreting his observation of a “counter,” or “contrary,” unconscious personality at work within each of us.

    Our Shadow is the polar opposite of our Persona, or our “public face”—who we think we are and show ourselves to be, the “ideal” us.

    My Ideal Me is Lao Tzu—Mr. Laid Back, let things take their course, let things happen according to their own rhythm and timing, no pushing, no forcing, live from the center, mind your own business, and all will be well.

    That makes my Shadow any member of the Tea Party, particularly Donald Trump and the Republican candidates running for President, trashing boundaries, sending anyone who is not like they are to internment camps or deserted islands so that they won’t have to deal with them. The consummate hustlers, con-artists, evangelical-convert-the-world-to-their-ideology-NOW-disciples-of-their-ideal-of-Christ…

    And the meaning for me is that I have to become my Shadow in dealing with my Shadow. I have to be rude, nasty, ugly and mean—drawing hard lines and saying “NO! ISAIDNO!” I cannot allow my Shadow to “take its course”! I have to block its path!

    And, therein, lies the goodness and the power of our Shadow.

    It brings forth the Also-I, rounds out our personality, and makes us whole.

    There are times and places where drawing hard lines and shouting “NO!” are quite appropriate and called for—times when Mr. Laid Back Lao Tzu has to stand aside in favor of telling the Tea Party, and Donald Trump, Et al., where to stop, turn around, and hie out to their deserted island of choice for as long as time shall last starting NOW!
  • 12/10/2015 —  Hay in the Field 01 Panorama— Rapides Parish, Louisiana, October 29, 2010

    We find our life and live it

    By living consciously—

    By being mindfully (that word again) aware

    Of what is happening on all levels of our experience,

    To the full extent that we can be aware of what is happening.

    That’s it.

    The more aware we are,

    The more we know of what we know,

    Of what can be known.

    The more we know,

    The better we can evaluate our options, choices and decisions,

    And the more likely our choices and decisions

    Will direct us toward ends that are legitimately ours to serve,

    And less toward ends that are none of our business.

    Living well is a matter of knowing what’s what,

    And doing what needs to be done about it.

    If we aren’t living mindfully,

    We aren’t living as well as we could be living,

    And may be just going through the motions of life,

    Pretending to be alive.
  • 12/11/2015 —  Goodale 2015 30 Panorama B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    Sit with your life spread out before you, around you.

    Where lie your inhibitions?

    Your compulsions?

    Your obsessions?

    Your Dark Matter—

    Things that would be obvious to others,

    But are invisible to you?

    How would you know a Dark Matter

    When you see one?

    By the effects it generates,

    The strange disturbances it creates.

    Where do things become strange in your life?

    Where do you spend your time and energy (and money)?

    What do you think about most often?

    What do you do most frequently?

    What does thinking about the things you think about

    Keep you from thinking about?

    What does doing the things you do

    Keep you from doing?

    What are the social things—and the job related things—

    That other people do with ease,

    That you cannot do at all?

    What is being asked of you

    That you cannot do?

    What excuses do you make for not doing

    The things you cannot do?

    How do you dismiss, discount, deny, ignore

    The things you need to do

    That you cannot do?

    Sit with those things.

    Become curious about them.

    Explore them.

    Get to the bottom of them.

    Notice when, were, resistance becomes overwhelming.

    What are you resisting?

    What is the source of the resistance,

    The reluctance,

    To see what is there?

    In what ways do you hide

    From what is to overpowering to consider?

    Our life is the source of Life

    To those with eyes to see,

    And the courage and the will to keep looking,

    And of Death,

    To those who do not.
  • 12/11/2015 —  Ginkgos 2015 17 Panorama — Charlotte, NC, December 1, 2015

    It comes down to, depends upon, revolves around, flows from,

    Six things:

    1) Seeing

    2) Seeing things as they are AND as they also are, which is how they ARE

    3) Seeing what things mean

    4) Seeing the implications that has for us

    5) Seeing what needs to be done about it in light of all things considered

    6) Doing it

    Get those six things down, and you have it made.

    As much as you can have it made.

    I’m still working on the first one.
  • 12/12/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 18 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    Our capabilities far exceed our expressions.

    And, therein, lies the problem.

    Our potential is always frustrated

    By our degree of satisfaction

    With our actualization.

    We think we are grown up enough

    When we can drive

    And buy beer.
  • 12/12/2015 —  Hay Under Cover 02 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Dairy Barn Access, Fort Mill, SC, December 11, 2015

    It can seem too hard.

    “You mean I have to show up for work on time every day?”

    It’s too much for some of us.

    Being responsible for ourselves, for our life, for our care and feeding,

    Is too much.

    We pass.

    Being conscious—mindfully aware (that term again)—

    Of what we are doing

    Is often too much for those of us

    Who are making a game effort

    At the showing up for work and being responsible part.

    We pass.

    On our life.

    And settle for going through the motions.

    Aimlessly, listlessly, meaninglessly.

    What’s it going to take?

    We have to throw ourselves into it wholeheartedly.

    We have to give our entire being to the work of living our life—

    Of being responsible and mindfully aware,

    And making the adjustments necessary

    To put ourselves in accord with our life,

    With the life that needs us to live it,

    Responsibly and consciously,

    Every day for the rest of the time left for living.

    Everything depends on it.

    Everything.

    If you are going to believe anything,

    Believe that,

    And act as though you do.
  • 12/13/2015 —  Goodale 2015 20 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    The key to letting things happen

    Is being cool with paradox and contradiction.

    Is being cool.

    Rigidity and inflexibility are antithetical to life.

    Suppleness and resiliency are essential to life.

    There will be a time when suppleness

    Has to give way to rigidity,

    And resiliency must become inflexible.

    We dance with our life

    As the music changes

    And the beat goes on.
  • 12/13/2015 —  December Orchard 03 Panorama — Springs Farms Peach Orchard, Fort Mill, SC, December 11, 2013

    Nothing can matter more than

    Being who we are at the center,

    At the vital core,

    Of our Self—

    The Tao,

    The Christ,

    The Buddha,

    The God,

    Within.

    The Heart of Value,

    Meaning,

    and Life

    Is ours to realize,

    Serve,

    And bring forth

    In our life—

    In the life we live

    In the time left for living.

    We cannot think it is about making money,

    And living out our time

    Enjoying the splendors of wealth and privilege.
  • 12/13/2015 —  Country Sunrise 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, December 13, 2015

    Greg McKeown, in his book, “Essentialsm: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less,” uses the acronym WIN as the short form of “What’s Important Now?”

    Shortstops can be so consumed with their error on the last play that they continue the trend on the coming play.

    What’s Important Now focuses us on the only time we have to work with: N.O.W.

    Now is the focal point.

    The fulcrum.

    The pivot point.

    Levering ourselves into position

    To live our life as only we can—

    By deciding What’s Important NOW?

    And giving it our full, here comes that word again,

    Mindful, compassionate, attention.

    No matter what has gone on before,

    Or what we are afraid will happen in the future,

    HERE we are NOW!

    NOW what?

    What’s important NOW?

    Answering the question

    The way it begs to be answered

    Is the key to all that follows.
  • 12/14/2015 —  Reelfoot Lake 19 HDR — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeck, Tennessee, November 4, 2015

    The bedrock rule governing all knowledge is:

    You Have To Know What I Mean

    Before You Can Understand What I’m Saying.

    It’s corollary is:

    Truth Has To Be Experienced—

    It Cannot Be Explained.

    All knowledge hinges

    On our willingness,

    And our ability,

    To reflect on our experience

    In order to form new realizations.

    A five-year-old child

    Is only capable of knowing so much—

    No matter how much we explain things.

    When they are inhibited

    From reflecting on their experience,

    They never know more than what they are told.

    They grow up to be members of the Tea Party,

    And fundamentalist religion.

    The more powerful they become,

    The more their numbers grow

    Through the simple practice

    Of banning reflection on experience.
  • 12/14/2015 —  Bethany Church Cemetery 07 B&W — Bethany ARPC, Clover, South Carolina, December 13, 2015

    When our life stops working

    (And we know when it is working

    And when it is not working.
    .
    Putting your jeans on before your shoes works.

    Putting your shoes on before your jeans does not work)

    The solution is not to try harder,

    Forcing, pushing, shoving, kicking, screaming, yelling…

    The solution is to listen deeply,

    Look closely at what we are doing that isn’t working.

    The problem will suggest its own remedy.

    We have to step back

    And reflect on what is happening

    To see what needs to happen.

    Then, it’s a matter

    Of having the courage to do it.

    And, courage comes

    From acting courageously—

    Whether you feel courageous or not.

    The AA slogan applies:

    “Fake it until you make it.”

    That’s something that works every time.
  • 12/15/2015 —  Goodale 2015 23 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015

    We all have a story to tell with the way we live our life.

    Tevya had his story to tell,

    Hester Prynne had her story to tell,

    Zorba the Greek had has story…

    You have yours, I have mine.

    The worst thing is to die with our story untold.

    We live to tell our story.

    We live in the service of our story.

    Or we live in the service of someone’s idea of our story,

    Maybe our own.

    Maybe we have our own idea for our story,

    Which we like better than the story that is ours to tell.

    Maybe we live to tell OUR story the way WE think it ought to go.

    All of the tragedies, fictional and real, are about co-opting our story,

    And forcing it down paths that are not our path to walk.

    Thinking that we know what we are doing,

    Or thinking it doesn’t matter what we do,

    Sidetracks us into some story other than the one that is ours to tell.

    Staying on track—

    Staying on the beam—

    Is staying true to our story—

    True to ourselves,

    Authentically aligned with the truth of our own being,

    Grounded in the center of what is central to us,

    Being who we are

    Regardless of the nature and circumstances of our life.

    And letting our story be told the way it needs to be told

    By living our life the way it needs us to live it,

    No matter what.
  • 12/15/2015 —  Ginkgos 2015 20 Panorama — Charlotte, NC, December 1, 2015

    We have to come to terms with our life

    Over the full course of our life.

    We don’t ever get it down.

    The work is on-going, unending.

    We get the first grade down

    And think we’re something.

    It’s like that the entire way.

    When we wake up to the eternal nature of The Deal.

    We’re bummed out for decades.

    “Why try, if we are never going to get it figured out?”

    “What’s the point if it keeps getting harder?”

    It isn’t that we have to come to terms with our life,

    But that we have to come to terms with the process

    Of coming to terms with our life again and again forever.

    The idea saps us.

    It wears us down.

    The perennial dripping of one more damn thing.

    We have to keep growing up

    Whether we like it or not.

    This is really what we need religion

    And something like the church

    (But completely unlike the church of our experience!)

    For:

    Growing up.

    We need the right kind of help with that

    All our life long.
  • 12/16/2015 —  Silhouettes 01 Panorama — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015

    I know a woman who cannot say “No.”

    That isn’t quite right.

    She says “No” twice a month

    To prove she isn’t addicted to “Yes.”

    You can imagine what a mess her life is in.

    Actually, it isn’t.

    She gets up early and works hard all day,

    And takes little pink pills to keep going,

    To keep it all going,

    To keep it from becoming a mess.

    The strain is undeniable.

    How many holes can you plug in the dike

    Before the flood comes?

    The pre-flood strain

    Is her life’s way of begging her

    To say “No” in all of the important places,

    So that she might say “Yes” to her Soul/Self

    And nurture her relationship with the core of life and being,

    And nourish her life in the source of life—

    The ground of silence and solitude—

    Relax, and breathe again,

    In the presence of what is essential,

    And too easily lost

    Amid the clamor of all that claims to matter.
  • 12/16/2015 —  Lake Crawford 01 HDR — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 14, 2015

    It takes an inordinate amount of courage

    To say “No,” initially.

    It becomes easier with practice and time,

    And, it helps to remember how many times

    We say “No,” in a day.

    It also helps to rehearse different ways to say “No.”

    “If I had more time and fewer children,

    I would be happy to help you, but I’ll have to decline your offer.”

    “If I were more like I ought to be than I am…”

    “If I were a better person…”

    “If I were more like the person my mother wants (wanted)

    Me to be…”

    “If it weren’t Monday (Or whatever day it is)…”

    (And when the other person says, “What does it being Monday

    Have to do with it?

    Say, “Nothing. The important thing

    Is that I can’t help you with that, but I wish you well.”)

    In time, you will look forward to opportunities

    To try out new ways of saying “No.”
  • 12/16/2015 —  Bethany Church Cemetery 01 B&W — Bethany ARPC, Clover, South Carolina, December 13, 2015

    You have to believe in Grace

    As the foundational operating principle in your life,

    And in the universe.

    Nothing has to be the way it is.

    Everything is here by Grace.

    This photograph is evidence of Grace at work in my life.

    I’m there with a camera with the light and gravestones.

    No way I could have planned that.

    No way we can think up a life worth living.

    Yet, one remains a possibility for us—

    If we open ourselves to it

    And wait, watching, for it to open itself to us.

    There is a catch, of course.

    We have to bear consciously the pain of our life as we live it.

    The pain of our life not being what we need it to be.

    The pain of being unable to arrange what we need our life to be

    Because the way it is won’t allow us to do what we need to do

    To have what we need our life to be.

    We have to bear consciously, with compassion,

    The pain of the way our life is—

    Bearing in our body the cross

    Of not having what we need,

    With compassion for it all.

    And wait for something to stir to life,

    For Grace to appear

    In some form, from some place, we can’t begin to imagine.

    Bear the pain consciously

    With compassion,

    And wait for Grace to come bearing possibilities

    You never could have thought up or created on your own.

    Bear the pain consciously,

    With compassion,

    And believe in Grace

    To grace you in ways you won’t believe.

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08/20/2015 — 10/26/2015

  1. 08/20/2015 — Tidal Pool 01 — Sunrise, Huntington Beach State Park, Murrell’s Inlet, SC, August 20, 2015

    Can you be mindfully aware of each situation as it arises,

    Without judgment, will or opinion–

    Seeing what is happening,

    And what needs to be done in response,

    And offering what you have to give

    For the good of the situation,

    And doing it again in the next one that arises?

    See the good,

    Do it.

    In order to see the good,

    We have to look with open eyes–

    That is with eyes not clouded

    By judgment, will or opinion.

    If you are going to practice something,

    Practice seeing with open eyes.
  2. 08/21/2015 —Sunrise 03 — Tidal pool runoff, Huntington Beach State Park, Murrell’s Inlet, South Carolina, August 21, 2015

    There are places that prevent you from being anywhere else.

    Algebra was not one of those places for me.

    School was not one of those places.

    I cannot remember being engaged at school

    The way I was engaged by the woods I walked through

    On my way home from school.

    The natural world nourishes my soul

    In a way that formal education

    (And formal religion, for that matter)

    Could not—and cannot—do.

    We take our peace where we find it.

    No one can hand it to us,

    Or tell us where it is to be found.

    Our heart/soul knows what it is, where it is.

    We only have to walk around

    With our eyes open

    Waiting for our heart to light up

    When we wander into the presence

    Of our soul’s true joy.

    It is our place to find all the places,

    And to return to them often.

    This is the way of life, and being alive.

    Some people light up with the slightest whiff

    Of algebra.

    There are many ways to life and peace.

    Find yours.

    Walk them
  3. 08/22/2015 — Sunrise 02 — Huntington Beach State Park, Murrell’s Inlet, SC, August 21, 2015

    We find our life and live it.

    Every day.

    Our life changes with the tides,

    Is different with the circumstances.

    We do not wake up in exactly the same world

    We went to sleep in.

    Sometimes, our world is radically, unrecognizably, transformed.

    We have to find our life, there, and live it.

    Our life is a reflection, and extension, of our circumstances.

    Our circumstances give us our life.

    Life without circumstances, would be exactly what?

    Our circumstances give our life shape and form and character.

    Step into your circumstances!

    Find your life again!

    Live it!

    How do we fit what we know of our life

    Into THESE DAMN CIRCUMSTANCES???

    That’s the test.

    It’s called The Cyclops Exam.

    It calls forth imagination, courage and creativity.

    And, shapes and forms our life,

    And produces character

    Like you would never believe.

    But.

    We have to participate willingly–

    We have to engage our circumstances

    With the right spirit–

    For the magic to happen,

    And we birth ourselves

    Again,

    And again,

    Forever.

    Endlessly becoming who we are

    Always.
  4. 08/23/2015 —Sunrise 04 — Huntington Beach State Park, Murrell’s Inlet, SC, August 21, 2015

    The enemies are:

    Laziness and Lethargy,

    Arrogance and Greed,

    Inflation and Deflation.

    The allies are:

    Imagination, Inventiveness and Creativity,

    Reflection, Realization and Insight,

    Patience, Resiliency and Courage.

    Seeing how things are

    Is knowing what needs to be done.

    Then, there is only waiting for the time to be right

    To act.

    Nature spends very little time acting,

    And a lot of time resting, playing, waiting, watching,

    And is always doing what needs to be done.
  5. 08/23/2015 —Tidal Pool 02 — Huntington Beach State Park, Murrell’s Inlet, SC, August 20, 2015

    There are people who are constitutionally prohibited from squaring up to the way things are,

    And constitutionally compelled to live in a fantasy world where things are what they are supposed to be, to their way of thinking.

    ”Delta Dawn, what’s that flower you have on? Could it be a faded rose from days gone by? And did I hear you say, he was meeting you today, to take you to his mansion in the sky?”

    Mark Twain observed that “people seldom fight a winning fight against themselves.”

    But.

    It helps to know what we are up against.

    The First Spiritual Law states: We have to live transparent to ourselves.

    Everything flows from there that can flow from there.

    The Second Spiritual Law states: In order to live transparent to ourselves, we have to perceive and receive ourselves without judgment, will, or opinion, and allow compassionate, mindful, awareness to work its slow magic over the full course of our life.

    The people who want to know what the rest of the spiritual laws are don’t fully appreciate what is required by the first two.
  6. 08/24/2015 — Sheldon Church Ruins, HDR 05 Panorama – Yemassee, SC, August 24, 2015

    James Hollis said, “Divorce doesn’t end a marriage, and death doesn’t end a relationship.”

    My father is as alive and influential in my life as he ever was.

    So is yours.

    The story of this old church “ended” years ago, but the beat goes on.

    Nothing ends.

    Books and movies run on and on–not just in terms of their impact on us,

    But also, in terms of what remains to be said of their characters

    And what they did with their lives–

    Or what influence they continued to wield

    In the lives of those who knew them–

    After the author quit writing, or the credits rolled.

    We speak of endings, happy or sad,

    And of moving on,

    Thinking we can leave home without carrying it with us.

    Part of me will be eight years old forever,

    And the other parts of me have to realize that

    And make allowances,

    Giving the eternally-eight-year-old room to work out his stuff

    In the safe company of the rest of us,

    Who think he is just great,

    And know we couldn’t have done our part without him.

    The past plays out in the present and future.

    We have to make it conscious,

    And play along like a good jazz ensemble

    Picking up on what the sax man is doing,

    Making him sound so sweet.
  7. 08/25/2015 — Harbor River Mooring HDR—St. Helena Island, SC, August 24, 2015

    All it takes is growing up.

    You can’t have a problem that growing up can’t handle.

    Refusing to grow up is the problem.

    THE problem.

    And YOU are the solution,

    Thinking, as you do, that you are grown up enough,

    And you don’t deserve any more problems,

    Trying to make whiskey your Mamma,

    Taking care of you one more day,

    Because those mean old problems won’t go away.

    Or, is it ice cream?

    Whatever it is that you are pretending is Mamma,

    Isn’t your Mamma,

    And you have to grow up.

    Again.

    The good news is that’s all there is to it.

    Get that down and you have it made.
  8. 08/25/2015 —Land’s End HDR 01 Panorama—St. Helena Island, SC, August 24, 2015

    I make my best decisions when I’m not trying to make a good decision,

    When I’m not even thinking that a decision needs to be made,

    Or, that I am making one.

    It’s like I walk into a good choice without choosing.

    All I’m conscious of is not choosing, not trying,

    Just seeing what I do, as an interested observer of my own life.

    It’s a strategy as old as Taoism,

    Which merged with Buddhism,

    To form Zen.

    Wu-wei,

    Doing by not-doing.

    It has been a life-long strategy
  9. That I didn’t contrive, but “fell into”

    By virtue of being unable to come up with anything better.

    I often say of my 40 years in the ministry

    That I don’t know any one who accomplished as much

    By doing as little.

    I get out of bed and see what happens,

    And spend much of my time

    Being dumbfounded and amazed by it all.
  10. 08/26/2015 — Garden City Beach 05 — Garden City, SC, August 21, 2015

    When we put ourselves in the service of our life,

    As a vassal in homage to a king,

    With an oath of fealty and liege,

    Things change.

    You are no longer in charge.

    You are responsible for listening,

    For sensing direction,

    But not for directing.

    Your life unfolds through you

    Within the circumstances that limit and define you.

    It is your place to align yourself with the life

    That is trying to live itself through you.

    It is a collaboration, a composition, a work of art–

    As much as a painting, or a symphony, or a ballet

    Is a work of art.

    Your life produces you,

    As much as you produce your life.

    You are the poem

    And the poet.

    The dancer

    And the dance.

    Stop working to make something happen,

    And start listening to what is trying to happen.

    Allow yourself to be led.

    Let yourself learn how to follow

    The guidance of an invisible guide.
  11. 08/27/2015 — In the Marsh 02 — Beaufort, SC, August 26, 2015

    If you have symptoms, you’re not listening.

    If you don’t have symptoms,

    Those around you are covered up in them,

    Because you are not listening,

    And they are not listening.

    If neither you nor those around you have symptoms,

    You and they are the next incarnation of the Buddha,

    Of the Christ,

    And live among us as Bodhisattvas,

    And are the hope of humankind.

    The symbol of the age

    Is the three not-so-wise monkeys,

    See-No-Evil, Hear-No-Evil, Speak-No-Evil,

    With “evil” understood as

    ”That which I do not want to acknowledge, much less confront!”

    We don’t want to see what we don’t want to see.

    We don’t what to hear what we don’t want to hear.

    We don’t want to say what we don’t want to see or hear.

    And, we have symptoms that know no end,

    And cannot be fixed.

    It comes back to the refusal to grow up.

    Growing up is seeing what needs to be seen,

    Hearing what needs to be heard,

    Saying what needs to be said,

    And doing what needs to be done about it.

    That is all that is standing between you

    And Bodhisattvahood.
  12. 08/28/2015 — The Ole Swimming Hole Panorama—Edisto River, Colleton State Park, Walterboro, SC, August 26, 2015

    When someone asks you, “What do you want to be when you grow up?”

    Tell them you want to be awake,

    Because being awake is the whole point of growing up

    And everything falls into place around that.

    And if they say, “I mean, what do you want to DO?”

    Tell them you want to see how things are,

    Which is Yin,

    And how things also are,

    Which is Yang,

    And both together is how things REALLY are,

    Which is Tao,

    And at-one with Tao,

    We DO, naturally, easily and spontaneously,

    What needs to be done

    About how things are

    In each situation as it arises,

    And no one can DO more than that.
  13. 08/28/2015 — Jenny Adams HDR Panorama—Harbor River, St. Helena Island, SC, August 25, 2015

    Living in the service of a heart

    That yearns to sing and dance

    Is the point and purpose of being alive.

    But.

    We have to pay the bills it takes to live.

    And, therein lies the problem.

    How much for singing and dancing,

    And how much for eating and sleeping?

    Negotiation and Compromise, Kid!

    Negotiation and Compromise!

    It helps if we incur the right bills.

    How do we know which are the right bills?

    I was hoping someone would ask that question!

    Observation and Reflection, Kid!

    Observation and Reflection!
  14. 08/29/2015 — Storm Clouds at Sunrise 06 — Huntington Beach State Park, Murrell’s Inlet, SC, August 20, 2015

    We live to make our little heart sing.

    That is our primary loyalty,
    ,
    Our chief concern,

    Our overriding allegiance,

    After survival.

    We live to make our heart sing, but.

    We have to be living for the singing to happen.

    We have to eat and drink.

    You know the routine:

    Food, clothing, shelter, education, health insurance,

    Dental care, tri-focals, and a retirement plan.

    We have to take care of business.

    Taking care of business,

    On one hand,

    Can mean neglecting what we take care of business to do,

    On the other.

    We are here to be sure it doesn’t.

    To balance things out.

    To remember why we are here.

    And do the things that make our little heart sing.

    How long has it been, by the way?
  15. 08/30/2015 — Hunting Island Panorama HDR 09 — Beach Erosion, Hunting Island State Park, Hunting Island, SC, August 25, 2015

    On my best days,

    I’m the Buddha,

    And the Christ.

    So are you.

    We all are the Buddha, and the Christ, and Lao Tzu, and all the rest of the Holy Ones,

    On our best day.

    The Zen masters could say,

    ”If you meet the Buddha on the road,

    Kill him!”

    As a way of reminding their disciples

    That THEY are the Buddha,

    And THEY aren’t being the Buddha

    If they concede that honor to someone else.

    The key to being the Buddha, the Christ, etc.,

    Is having a singing heart.

    On our best days,

    We are doing what makes our heart sing,

    And bringing life to life all around us.

    Joseph Campbell said,

    ”The influence of a vital person is vitalizing.”

    The Buddha brings out the Buddha in everyone.

    The Christ brings out the Christ.

    They couldn’t keep it to themselves,

    Even if they tried.

    Especially, if they tried!
  16. 08/31/2015 — Sunrise 01 — Harbor River, Port Royal, SC, August 25, 2015

    It is enough to see ourselves as we are,

    And, as we also are–

    Without judgment, will or opinion–

    But with preference and direction,

    Imagination, creativity, patience, resiliency, perseverance and courage.

    It’s more than enough,

    And all we will ever need.
  17. 08/31/2015 — Live Oak Lane—St. Helena Island, SC, August 25, 2015

    We have to do our own work.

    We are on our own when it comes to listening, seeing, understanding, waking up.

    We are on our own when it comes to knowing what is important,

    And giving ourselves to its service.

    When I was in theological school,

    They told me that Greek and Hebrew were important.

    I knew Greek and Hebrew were not important,

    But had to bow to Those Who Knew Best And Had To Be Pleased.

    Jungian psychology was—and is—important,

    And would have been a great help to me in the ministry,

    But I had to get it on my own

    Because Those Who Knew Best

    Didn’t know what they were talking about.

    We cannot trust others to know what is important.

    We have to know what is important for ourselves

    And live in its service.

    And, if it turns out that we don’t know what we are talking about,

    We have to change our mind about what is important,

    And live in the service of what is important then.

    No one can do the important things for us.

    We have to do that work ourselves.

    And we are fearful,

    And somewhat lazy.

    We have to do the work of working through that as well.
  18. 09/01/2015 — “Growing up will break your heart.

    And there is no rational immunity against the experience–

    No intellectual shortcuts through the agony.

    Insight is no help.

    We can’t realize our way through it.

    The realizations come after we’ve popped out on the other side.

    But, on this side of that realization, it’s hell–

    Which we repeat throughout the lifelong process

    Of growing up.”

    I don’t remember who said that,

    But she knew what she was talking about.

    If it wasn’t MC Richards,

    It could have been.
  19. 09/01/2015 — Tropical Forest—Hunting Island State Park, Hunting Island, SC, August 24, 2015

    Our symptoms,

    Our dreams,

    Our problems and our response to them,

    Other people and our response to them,

    And their response to us,

    Our job,

    What we do in our spare time,

    Our spouse or partner,

    Our children,

    Our pets…

    All of our life

    Is a mirror,

    A message to us,

    About us

    And the distance between how we are living

    And how we need to be living

    To exhibit and express who we are,

    And the gifts that are ours to share,

    And the life that is ours to live.

    The life we are living

    Is indicative of the distance between it

    And the life that is ours to live.

    May those with eyes to see, see!

    May those with ears to hear, hear!

    That’s all there is to it.
  20. 09/02/2015 — Johnson Creek Mooring 02 Panorama HDR—St. Helena Island, SC, August 24, 2013

    It will help if you take up the practice of having purpose, preference and direction

    Without judgment, willfulness, or opinion.

    Live your life like you are a kayaker in whitewater.

    Kayakers don’t have time to form an opinion

    About what the stream presents to them

    In each Now of their journey.

    They respond without willful insistence

    To whatever the moment requires of them,

    And then forget that moment

    In order to deal with the next one that is already

    Requiring their full attention.

    People who live poorly

    Have an opinion about every little thing.

    Generally, a negative opinion,

    Elaborately formed and loudly proclaimed.

    ”You won’t BELIEVE what just happened!”

    They have no life,

    They only have opinions,

    And “feelings” that are always being “hurt.”

    You don’t find them in kayaks on whitewater.

    But they are in kayaks on whitewater,

    And don’t know it.
  21. 09/02/2015 — Hunting Island Panorama 02 — Beach Erosion, Hunting Island State Park, Hunting Island, SC, August 24, 2015

    Here’s what I like about the Buddha:

    It is said that he died from eating bad pork.

    How enlightened is that?

    If you can’t tell bad pork when you see it, smell it, taste it,

    How can you claim to be “the awakened one”?

    Not even the Buddha is the Buddha.

    And the Christ is not the Christ.

    The Messiah is not the Messiah.

    And, they all ARE who they are precisely because they are not!

    It’s wonderful,

    Because I’m not enlightened either.

    I fit right in.

    So do you.

    We don’t have to be who we are not.

    We only have to relax, and be who we are.
  22. 09/03/2015 — Bitter Weeds HDR—Fairfield County, SC, September 3, 2015

    We live between our potential

    And the possibilities for its realization.

    We can too easily concede to impossibility,

    And despair of ever finding a way

    Of being who we have it within us to be.

    We can push too hard,

    In the service of grandiosity and inflation,

    Where possibility does not exist.

    We have to find the Middle Way,

    Serving our Gift

    Within the limits governing its expression.

    We live to see what we can get by with,

    Without taking it personally,

    If it is less than we hoped for.
  23. 09/04/2015 — St. Simon’s Church—Peak, SC, September 3, 2015

    We have to work it out.

    We have to make it work.

    We stand between our gifts—our potential–

    And the context and circumstances of our life,

    And have to get the two together.

    We have to bring our gifts forth within our circumstances.

    We have to realize our potential within our possibilities.

    It is easier to go through the motions of living–

    To follow the cow in front of us

    From the barn to the pasture,

    And back to the barn.

    All our life long.

    We have to do what is hard.

    Every day for as long as we are alive.

    Whether we want to or not.

    Are in the mood for it or not.

    Feel like it or not.

    If we don’t do it, it won’t get done.

    We are here to serve our gifts

    And bring ourselves forth,

    Birthing ourselves.

    We are the Virgin and the Christ.

    Bethlehem is everyday.

    Golgotha is everyday.

    And there is no one to do our work but us.
  24. 09/05/2015 — The Old Brick Church Cemetery 07 B&W—Fairfield County, SC

    You have to marry your LIFE,

    The LIFE which calls forth your GIFTS,

    Makes your HEART sing,

    Makes YOU whole,

    And is THE WAY for you

    Among the 10,000 ways.

    The first task of life

    Is to find your LIFE,

    Fall in love with it,

    And marry it,

    Plighting your troth to it,

    Pledging your allegiance,

    Loyalty and fidelity to it,

    And promising to do right by it

    Through all the situations and circumstances of living

    ’Til death do you part.

    Amen.

    Get that down,

    And you have it made.

    Miss that step when it would have been “easy,”

    And you will have to go back for it,

    Encumbered by duties and responsibilities

    That will have to be taken into account

    Worked through,

    And lived around.

    But, that’s just how it is.

    It will give you purpose, focus and direction,

    And bring joy to your heart,

    Which finally gets to sing.

    It is never too late

    To marry your LIFE.

    Just a little awkward in places.
  25. 09/06/2015 — The Old Brick Church HDR Panorama 06 — Fairfield County, SC, September 4, 2015

    We cannot buy vitality,

    But we think money is more important,

    And sell ourselves in the service

    Of That Which Is Not Life

    In the name of Really Living,

    But the last time we lived

    Was in the sixth grade

    Playing hide-and-seek

    With our brother.
  26. 09/07/2015 — Cypress Knees 02 — Cypress Swamp, Colleton State Park, Walterboro, SC, August 26, 2015

    Carl Jung said he lived to ask, and answer to the extent that was possible, the “unasked questions of my ancestors.”

    That is the case with each of us.

    We are handed, at our birth, the unasked questions of our ancestors–

    The experiences unreflected,

    The assumptions unexamined,

    The facts grossly misinterpreted and arrogantly, ignorantly, declared to be explained,

    The lives unlived–

    And the ghosts of all who have passed before us

    Gather in the deliver room

    Hoping that we will be the one

    To deliver them

    From the burden of having failed themselves

    To summon the courage

    To see things as they are.

    May we live to relieve them of their shame

    By looking until we see,

    Listening until we hear,

    Inquiring until we understand,

    Taking nothing at face value,

    But examining everything

    And reflecting on every experience,

    Until we have mined the gold

    And become the Philosopher’s Stone.

    Shining the light of consciousness

    Into the deep darkness of being!
  27. 09/07/2015 — Hunting Island HDR 03 Panorama—Beach Erosion, Hunting Island State Park, Hunting Island, SC, August 24, 2015

    Start with what you don’t want to hear.

    Or, with what you don’t want to see.

    Start with what you don’t what to know.

    With what you don’t want to be the way it is.

    When the way things are

    Are not the way we want things to be,

    We will find a million ways

    To discount, dismiss, deny and ignore

    The way things are

    In favor of the way we want things to be.

    When we look at our life,

    We have to understand

    That we have done it,

    And are doing it,

    To ourselves,

    With what we allow,

    And don’t allow,

    Ourselves to know.
  28. 09/08/2015 — St. Simon’s Church 01– Peak, SC, September 3, 2015

    Too often, we don’t know what to do

    Because we don’t want to do what we know to do.

    We are afraid.

    We are comfortable amid a myriad of discomforts.

    When the door opens, we demur, delay, abstain.

    When the way appears before us,

    We turn aside, make excuse,

    Busy ourselves with what is not the way.

    We don’t want what we pretend to want,

    What we wish we wanted.

    We lack the courage of our convictions,

    And talk about “spiritual growth,”

    But read another book

    By our favorite guru, or the latest one,

    Instead of doing what needs us to do it.

    Maybe tomorrow.

    Maybe later.

    Or never.

    But definitely not now.
  29. 09/08/2015 — Harbor River Mooring 04 HDR Panorama—Port Royal, SC, August 24, 2015

    We can have purpose, preference and direction,

    But we cannot have power and control.

    Wherever, whenever, power and control are wielded,

    Problems arise.

    Try forcing your spouse, child, parent, etc.

    To exercise, lose weight, read books or play the piano.

    Tell me how well it works.

    Forcing anything leads to resistance and resentment,

    And sometimes, war.

    The more controlling, the less everything vital and valuable.

    Control your day, force your agenda, command your life

    And pay the price.

    Or, live with purpose, preference and direction,

    And allow the day to follow its own course,

    Negotiating, compromising, and taking no for an answer

    As the situation requires.

    Live in the service of what needs to happen

    When everything is taken into account,

    And with no kidding yourself about what needs to happen.

    Kidding ourselves leads to all manner of complication

    And grave difficulty.
  30. 09/09/2015 — Garden City Beach Panorama 01 — Garden City, SC, August 21, 2015

    Carl Jung said, “Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment, and especially on their children, than the unlived lives of the parents.”

    And, “The greatest tragedy of the family is the unlived lives of the parents.”

    I would add, the second strongest influence and second greatest tragedy on family and children is the lived lives of the parents.

    Children live as compensation for the lived and unlived lives of their parents,

    And/or as the continuation of the lived lives.

    We live to be who our parents were not, and/or to be who they were.

    There is not a child in the world, past, present, or future, who escapes that burden.

    None of us are free to live “our own life.”

    We have the lives of our parents to shadow, haunt, direct and guide the life that we like to think “is our own.”

    My mother’s recent death has put me to probing all the ways I live to compensate for, and continue, her life.

    The ways, they are legion.

    And when we pull my father into the picture,

    There is hardly room enough for me anywhere.

    I am my parents’ child

    No matter how I might object and deny.

    So, I bring them to life with me in my life,

    Live consciously—so far as that is possible–

    Of their on-going influence on me and my choices,

    Values, purpose and direction.

    And let it be with compassion and good humor,

    Because it is so,

    And I am living proof that it is.

    So see me is to see my reaction to my experience

    Of James and Katheryne,

    Even now, after all these years.

    We walk arm-in-arm into each day,

    And make of it what we can.

    Peace be with you, James,

    And with you, Katheryne.

    It is good to be with you both,

    And to make of you what I can!
  31. 09/09/2015 — Huntington Beach Sunrise 10 — Huntington Beach State Park, Murrell’s Inlet, SC, August 21, 2015

    The day has its own rhythm, its own flow.

    It has its own agenda,

    Its own terms of service.

    The day will let us know what it has in mind for us,

    What its need of us is.

    In its own time.

    In its own way.

    We can make our plans,

    Draw up our schedules of events,

    Sharpen our focus,

    Decide what is going to happen.

    But.

    The day has the last word.

    It is enough that we come to the day

    With purpose, preference and direction–

    And allow the day to amend,

    Or transform,

    Those as the day deems necessary.

    We live in service to the day.

    The day the day does not live in service to us.

    We don’t make the terms.

    We abide by them.

    Or not.

    There is no peace for those

    Who cannot make their peace

    With the day.
  32. 09/10/2015 — Lake Shamokin 02 — Camden, SC, August 19, 2015

    When we work out the right ratios

    Among Reason and Logic,

    Instinct and Intuition

    In each situation as it arises,

    And mix in the courage

    To do what we know needs to be done,

    And do it,

    We have it made.

    As much as you can have it made.
  33. 09/11/2015 — Past Prime 02 — Rountree Plantation Nursery, August 15, 2015

    The Buddha was not a Buddhist,

    The Christ was not a Christian,

    The Prophet was not a Muslim.

    Our work is to BE the Buddha, not a Buddhist,

    To BE the Christ, not a Christian,

    To BE the Prophet, not a Muslim.

    The work is simple:

    Grow up,

    Live transparent to yourself,

    See what you look at,

    Do what needs to be done

    In each situation as it arises

    With the gifts that are yours to give.

    Throw out Doctrine,

    Theology,

    Ideology—

    Live in ways that are true to your Deep Self

    And aligned with the life that only you can live,

    With nothing to gain

    And nothing to lose,

    Completely free to do what needs to be done

    In each situation as it arises,

    As you determine that to be

    After taking everything into account

    That can be taken into account.

    This is the work of a True Human Being—

    Which we are all called to be.

    Spitting image

    Of the Buddha, the Christ, the Prophet.

  34. 09/10/2015 — Past Prime 03 — Rountree Plantation Nursery, Charlotte, NC, August 15, 2015

    Each of us comes packed with gifts

    To bring forth in their time

    And meet the challenges,

    The trials and ordeals,

    Of our life,

    In each moment of our living.

    We are equipped to deal with

    Whatever comes our way,

    In becoming who we are called to be

    All along the way.

    The stories of the species

    Are about finding the very gift

    That is needed in all of the tight places

    To slay the giant,

    Or the dragon,

    Answer the riddle,

    Find the treasure,

    Win the day.

    The stories remind us

    Of what is so:

    We have the gifts needed for the journey,

    So, start walking!
  35. 09/10/2015 — Cypress Knees 01 — Cypress Swamp Trail, Colleton State Park, Walterboro, SC, August 26, 2015

    When NASA sends satellites beyond the solar system, it plots their course near planets and moons with enough gravitational pull to draw them close, and boost their forward momentum to propel them on their journey into the great beyond.

    Our life uses the right kind of people, places and experiences to do the same with us.

    We, like the disciples with Jesus, are always ready to move in, set up house, and stay for the remainder of our days in the company of those who are such good places to be.

    Our life needs us to move on, farther, deeper, into our own life and its journey into the great beyond.

    The right kind of people draw us close, so that we gain momentum, find what we need, and speed off on our way.

    There is no settling down on the spiritual journey.

    We are all satellites with our own, personal, individual mission,

    Helping one another gain momentum, find direction, and live their life.

    Marriage is like the merger of solar systems.

    If you have watched Cosmos, with Neil DeGrasse Tyson (And why would you not, if you haven’t???),

    You know that in just a few more cosmic calendar years the Milky Way is going to merge with Andromeda for one fine dance in the heavens, and a light show that will last earth years beyond counting—boosting each other’s momentum, stirring things up, and sending one another on our way.

    A marriage truly made in the heavens.

    And, how marriage out to play out on earth,

    With each partner helping the other with her, with his, own personal life throughout the time they are together in their joint life.

    How many marriages do you know of where that is happening?

    Where the partners even have an idea of their own personal life,

    Much less, are actively involved in living their life?

    You know how Paul the Apostle looked around and said,

    ”None are righteous, no, not one!”?

    We can look around and say, “None are living their life! No! Not one!”

    We begin to turn things around,

    And build momentum toward the good,

    By living our life, and helping others live theirs.

    Just like the planets, the satellites, and the solar systems.
  36. 09/13/2015 — Light Show—Sunrise at Sand Beach, Port Royal, SC, August 25, 2015

    It’s hard.

    It’s hard in every developmental stage of life.

    Leaning to talk, to walk, to pee and poop in the right place…

    All the way to walkers, wheelchairs and feeding tubes.

    It is all hard.

    Life is hard.

    Start there.

    Don’t expect easy anywhere.

    Look for what helps

    To deal with the facts of each stage,

    Without denying, escaping, or hiding

    From any of it, ever.

    We have what it takes

    To meet life straight on.

    We are uniquely equipped to come to terms with it all.

    We only have to lay aside

    Our wants, wishes, and desires

    And see what is being asked of us,

    And how creative we can be in adjusting ourselves

    To new realities

    All along the way.

    Our inner resources are incredible.

    Nothing can happen to us

    That we haven’t met as a species

    10,000 times before.

    Relax into the archives

    Of the cumulative experience of the species!

    For everything that comes up in our life,

    There is a gene for that!

    We only have to trust ourselves

    To life’s experience of life

    To find what we need to deal with life.

    Open yourself to ALL the possibilities!

    See what comes to you

    As an aid in handling what’s hard.
  37. Used in Short Talks on Contradiction, etc., 09/14/2015 — Schweinitz’s Sunflower 01 — Latta Plantation Nature Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks and Recreation, Huntersville, NC, September 13, 2015

    Your demons are your contradictions.

    You want everything to be smooth and easy,

    And nothing is smooth and easy.

    In order to make everything smooth and easy,

    You have to deny that nothing is,

    And live in a world of make believe

    Where you can have what you want

    Even if you have no business having it.

    You spend your life wrestling to get things in place,

    When it is not the nature of things to be in place.

    You are swimming upstream or crosscurrent,

    Against your very own self

    And your very own life,

    Willing everything into being,

    Or caving in and capitulating

    In depression and despair

    To your demons

    That you refuse to recognize

    As the contradictory nature of things as they are,

    And do the work of recognition and reconciliation,

    Integrating your opposites

    And squaring yourself with the oppositional nature of reality,

    In becoming one with all things,

    Laughing at the very idea of smooth and easy.
  38. 09/15/2015 — The Watchman and the Virgin—Zion National Park, Springdale, Utah, May 2010, near Zion Pizza and Noodle Co.

    Any activity that absorbs you, centers and grounds you, focuses you and brings you back to the path, to the work that is yours to do.

    Practitioners of Zen sit zazen, in meditation, rake sand, paint with sand, conduct tea ceremonies.

    Children have coloring books, adults have Sudoku, cross word puzzles and pianos.

    If you haven’t done a coloring book in a while, a mandala coloring book can be engrossing.

    You are looking for a focal point of extreme concentration.

    Something to pull you in and absorb you fully.

    It’s a meditative practice.

    And will shut out the world of mindless activity and anxiety,

    Bring peace,

    And restore the connection with your soul.

    Once a day is not too often.

    Intentional focus on one thing over time cures many ills.
  39. 09/16/2015 — Schweinitz’s Sunflower 03 — Latta Plantation Nature Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks and Recreation, Huntersville, NC, September 13, 2015

    Safety is the first thing.

    We can’t be anything until we can be safe.

    We have to trust ourselves to our environment,

    To our life,

    And to ourselves,

    In order to risk ourselves in the service of our life.

    We have to trust ourselves to risk ourselves.

    Trust comes from knowing

    We are safe with ourselves.

    How safe are we with ourselves?

    How kind are we to ourselves?

    How nurturing and nourishing?

    How gentle and tender?

    If we don’t get that from within,

    Where do we go to find it?

    If it does not reside within,

    How can we ever trust ourselves to it from external sources?

    Who can make us safe

    If we are not safe with ourselves?

    What is a conscious ego good for

    If not creating consciously a safe place

    For a developing psyche to be?

    Yet, we come down hard on ourselves

    For having an ego at all!

    To much so-called “spiritual literature”

    Calls for the eradication of the ego,

    As though without an ego, all our troubles disappear.

    Who is it that eradicates the ego?

    When we set ourselves against ego,

    We set ourselves against us!

    Safety is the goal,

    Not internal witch hunts and juntas!

    Befriend yourself.

    Make Rumi’s “The Guest House”

    Your foundational orientation.

    Live to be safe with yourself on every level.

    Safety first, you know.
  40. 09/16/2015 — National Cemetery Panorama—Beaufort, SC, August 27, 2015

    Forgiveness is the only thing that can restore relationships that have been decimated unintentionally, accidentally, or with reasoned deliberation.

    Those that have been destroyed with malicious intent are beyond the pale of forgiveness, because restoration of relationship is likely to be of no concern to the perpetrator of its demise.

    At stake in the experience of forgiveness are the matters of guilt, accountability, repentance, penitence, and dedication to the care of relationship throughout the future.

    Forgiveness does not occur in a vacuum, but within the bounds of a relationship that matters to those involved in its rupture and demise.

    To speak of “forgiving Hitler,” for example, does nothing to restore relationship with Hitler, because Hitler is dead, and because he would care nothing for relationship with those who are doing the “forgiving” if he were alive.

    We can talk of “consciously bearing the pain of Hitler’s guilt, and refusing to allow his guilt to consume us with hatred and desire for his eternal damnation,” as a way of freeing us from bondage to his “abomination of desolation,” but “forgiving Hitler” cannot be done apart from Hitler’s participation in the “sacramental restoration of relationship.”

    ”The sacramental restoration of relationship” honors the elements of guilt, repentance, penitence, forgiveness and dedication to the care of relationship throughout the future, and is grounded on all parties involved in the relationship consciously bearing the pain of guilt’s burden, and declaring their intent and determination to refuse to let that burden interfere with their relationship from this point on.

    Just as marriage consecrates two people and sets them on a path sacred to each other, forgiveness consecrates all those involved in the rupture of relationship, and sets them on a path sacred to each other.

    And, if someone doesn’t care enough about the relationship to forgive, or to be forgiven, forgiveness can’t do a thing to heal it, and it remains to those wounded to resolve to bear the burden of the pain of guilt alone for the sake of their future free from the grief of betrayal and treachery.
  41. 09/17/2015 — Hunting Island Beach Panorama 10 — Beach Erosion, Hunting Island State Park, Hunting Island, SC

    The pilgrimage to Mecca is a sacrament to Muslim’s worldwide.

    Those who are able, make their way annually to “the holiest of holy places,” year after year.

    Muslim’s have no corner on holy places.

    Make your list.

    Make your pilgrimages.

    Take up the practice of living sacramentally,

    That is, living consciously in touch with the holiness

    Of the places that are holy unto you–

    Living consciously in touch with the holiness of life.

    Life is sacramental–

    ”An outward, visible, sign of an inward, spiritual grace.”

    We are graced by unspeakable holiness

    In the births of our children,

    In the new birth of spring,

    In the colors of fall,

    Mountain vistas,

    Ocean rhythms

    The wonder of love,

    The wonder of life…

    When we wake up,

    We wake up to the wonder of life, living, being alive,

    And live sacramentally–

    Consciously aware of the holiness of life

    Through our communion with holy places

    All our life long.
  42. 09/18/2015 — Johnson Creek Mooring 02 — St. Helena Island, SC, August 24, 2015

    We carry the emotional luggage of our ancestors.

    It is difficult for us to be more awake, aware, alive and grown up

    Than they were.

    And I’m talking about ALL of our ancestors here,

    All the way back to the paramecium.

    It takes a long time for consciousness to develop,

    And then it takes a long time for consciousness to mature.

    Take Donald Trump and put him beside the Dalai Lama

    For an example of the disparity of the maturity level

    Of modern adults,

    Then put the entire human population of the world on the scales

    And they tip radically toward Donald Trump,

    Which explains his following.

    Maturity is sadly lacking in the species.

    And we each suffer the immaturity of our ancestors,

    Struggling to move beyond the legacy we have inherited in our genes

    To respond appropriately to our environment

    As emotionally mature human beings.

    It is a struggle worthy of the best we can bring forth.

    Make it a goal

    To be more conscious—more transparent to yourself–

    Than your parents were,

    And more emotionally mature in dealing with what comes your way–

    As a gift to generations yet unborn.
  43. 09/19/2015 — St. Simon’s Church HDR Panorama 04 — Peak, SC, September 3, 2015

    Life as we live it is an endless series of diversions and distractions.

    We live to be entertained.

    The way we live keeps us from thinking about our life.

    Thinking about our life depresses us

    Because we don’t know what to do with ourselves,

    So we lose ourselves in diversions

    To make life bearable.

    All this changes with courage and trust.

    We have to trust that we actually have a life,

    And have the courage to risk ourselves to it

    In stepping out in complete darkness

    As a way of seeing what is there.

    Our life is an adventure waiting to be lived.

    Waiting for us to make ourselves available to it–

    To swear our allegiance and loyalty to it–

    ”Forsaking all others,

    And being faithful to it,”

    For as long as we shall live.

    We have to live as though it is so

    To know that it is.

    Start with that commitment,

    And wait,

    Watching,

    Listening,

    Sensing,

    Feeling.

    Pay particular attention

    To your dreams and symptoms,

    And to the things that catch your eye,

    That resonate with you,

    That call your name.

    Live to find your life,

    And live it.

    Make the search for your life

    The center, ground and focus of your life,

    And the entertaining pastimes

    Will become a waste of time.
  44. 09/20/2015 — Harbor River Mooring 05 — Port Royal, SC, August 24, 2015

    Bear consciously

    The pain

    Of the discrepancy

    Between how things are

    And how you want them to be.

    It will make all the difference.
  45. 09/21/2015 — Watkins Glen 2015 01 — Watkins Glen State Park, Watkins Glen, NY, September 20, 2015

    When our focus is on finding our life and living it,

    All other considerations fall into place around that–

    And some fall out of consideration altogether.

    When our focus is on finding our life and living it,

    Our values are reshuffled,

    What is important is made apparent,

    And what is not important

    Is shown to be the empty pretender to High Value it is.

    We cannot live the life worthy of us

    And waste our time on trivial pursuits,

    No matter how acclaimed and flashy.

    Whether she loves me,

    Or loves me not,

    Will become clear in time.

    What my life is asking of me here and now

    Is my ultimate concern in each moment of my living.
  46. 09/22/2015 — Watkins Glen 02 Panorama—Rainbow Falls, Watkins Glen State Park, Watkins Glen, NY, September 20, 2015

    We turn it around by giving it a different meaning,

    By seeing it with a different perspective.

    Abandonment can be understood

    As an invitation to rely on our inner resources,

    Develop self-reliance,

    Independence,

    Confidence,

    And learn to trust the guides within–

    Resonance, Intuition, Instinct and Wisdom.

    Ascribing meaning is our superpower.

    The way we see things is our magic wand.

    We are never as lost and alone

    As we are afraid we are,

    Or will be.

    The power of perspective

    Is the gift of the gods.

    Failing to use it is stupid.
  47. 09/23/2015 — Watkins Glen 2015 04 Panorama—Watkins Glen State Park, Watkins Glen, NY, September 20, 2015

    Too often, all of us are subservient to compulsion, obsession and inhibition.

    Too rarely, any of us are free to see what needs to be done

    In the situation as it arises,

    And do it.

    The path to enlightenment

    Is the path of reflection and realization–

    The path from bondage

    To freedom:

    The freedom to see and to do.
  48. 09/23/2015 — Tupper Lake 2015 Sunset 01 Panorama—Tupper Lake, NY, September 22, 2015

    We are on our own,

    And we cannot do it alone.

    We need each other

    To be who we need each other to be,

    In each stage of our development,

    Throughout our life.

    We need each other to be the right kind of company,

    Offering the right kind of help,

    In the right kind of way.

    There are no rules to keep

    In becoming and being the right kind of company,

    Only general principals to observe and apply.

    Offer what you need!

    Become what you love!

    See what you look at–

    Without judgment, willfulness, or opinion.

    We all need encouragement.

    Learn how to be encouraging.

    We all need to be balanced, grounded, centered, honored, respected, accepted, treated lovingly

    (This is the important thing:

    You don’t have to love me to treat me lovingly.

    Treat me so lovingly that I can’t tell the difference

    Between being loved and being treated lovingly).

    We all need a quiet, safe, place

    That helps us reflect on our experience

    And form new realizations.

    We can create a therapeutic space

    Without being therapists or “doing therapy.”

    Live therapeutically!

    Should be a bumper sticker.

    Inspire it!
  49. 09/25/2015 — Eagle Cliff Falls Panorama 02 — See the eagle in the cliff? Havana Glen, Montour Falls, NY, September 20, 2015

    We have to seek out the counter-balancing perspectives and listen to them.

    This is tricky because counter-balancing perspectives

    Are much more than just opposing positions.

    The Tea Party has an opposite position to practically all of mine,

    But.

    They are not counter-balancing.

    And they are not true perspectives.

    They are contrary and oppositional positions.

    They espouse an ideological position,

    Not a clear and well-considered perspective.

    The Tea Party is against abortion,

    It is not for children.

    It is not for feeding children, sheltering children, educating children, keeping children healthy, and providing children with jobs and careers as they age.

    The Tea Party has no ideas about those things.

    It doesn’t care about them, or about children.

    It has a position on abortion,

    Not a perspective that takes the welfare of children into account.

    Counter-balancing perspectives are wonderfully refreshing

    When they come along,

    Because they air-out issues,

    And are not afraid to look at all sides,

    Or, hesitant to admit they don’t know when they don’t know.

    They are quick to ask questions they cannot answer,

    And can tell you what they think,

    Without trying to convince you they are right.

    And they are good for enabling you to fill out your own perspective,

    By listening to you without trying to prove that you are wrong.

    What a world it would be,

    If we could expand each other’s point of view,

    Without championing one at the expense and exclusion of all others.

    May we live so long as to see the day!
  50. 09/20/2015 — Bog River Falls 2015 05 Panorama—Tupper Lake, NY, September 24, 2015

    Love Unreturned is our Body’s, our Life’s, way of getting our attention,

    And showing us what it is like

    To be spurned, ignored, rejected

    By the one who holds the key

    To your life everlasting.

    We think it is the end of the world

    For our love to be unreturned,

    And contemplate suicide,

    Because who could live out a miserable existence,

    Cutoff for one’s True Love?

    That’s what our Body/Life feels like

    When we go off with eyes for something

    Other than the Destiny/Life that is ours to live.

    We are our Life’s Great Hope,

    And we squander our chance at being alive,

    Chasing after mirages and

    Building castles in the air.

    We do to ourselves

    What our Unreturned Loves do to us.

    If we were living our life,

    We would be looking for someone

    To partner with

    In bringing forth the Life in each of us,

    Instead of looking for Gods and Goddesses

    To sweep us away.
  51. 09/20/2015 — Moss Glen Falls 02 — Stowe, VT, September 25, 2015

    Our life is constantly speaking to us,

    Trying to get our attention,

    Hoping we will listen

    And align ourselves with its need of us

    In a “Thy will, not mine, be done,” kind of way.

    Everything is a message to us

    About the life we are living,

    And the one we need to live.

    Our body is our life’s trusted messenger,

    Sensing, intuiting, instinctively knowing,

    What needs to be done.

    Our symptoms and our dreams

    Declare without end

    How things are in our life

    And how they need to be.

    White rabbits wink at us

    In the events and circumstances of our life,

    Whisk away,

    But pause, looking back, to see if we are following.

    Each day is a letter to us from our life,

    Written again in hopes that we will read it

    And begin living the life that is ours to live

    In the time left for living.
  52. 09/20/2015 — Tupper Lake Sunset 04 — Tupper Lake, NY, September 22, 2015

    Everything falls into place

    Around finding our life and living it.

    The quest for our life

    Is the spiritual journey.

    It is the distance from our head

    To our heart.

    We do not find our life by thinking about it.

    We feel our way there.

    We dance our way there.

    When our heart begins to sing,

    And our feet begin to dance,

    We’ve found it.

    Keep the rhythm going

    And we have it made:

    Enlightenment, Nirvana, Heaven, the Elysian Fields, the Promised Land, and Glory Land.

    All for the low, low price of doing what we are here for

    In the time left for living.
  53. 09/28/2015 — Eclipse Sequence—This is a series of photos I took of the full Luna eclipse in 2008, or was it 2006? But. I cannot imagine how one full Luna eclipse could be distinguished from another. Throw pictures of them all in a pile, and ask me to sort them out, and I wouldn’t know where to begin.

    If our heart isn’t singing,

    It is breaking.

    We break our heart

    When we refuse to do what it loves to do,

    When we ignore it,

    When we take it for granted,

    When we treat it as though it is only a pump,

    And fail to understand that our hear is the source of life,

    And not just what sustains life.

    Our heart sings when we find our work and do it.

    Our heart leads the way to our work,

    Waiting on us to follow it.

    But, we have other ideas,

    And put heart off

    Until we have sown wild oats,

    And chased wild geese,

    And lived in pursuit of illusions of grandeur,

    And fantasies of happy ever after.

    And our heart is breaking,

    Dying to sing.

    Dying for us to wake up,

    Turn our life over to our heart,

    Find the life, the destiny, that is ours to live,

    And live it.

    With all our heart.
  54. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 09/28/2015 — Blackeyed Susans—New Hampshire roadside, September 27, 2015

    Our work is to dance to the song our heart is singing,

    AND pay the bills!

    We walk two paths at the same time.

    This is the nature of the spiritual journey.

    We do what it takes to support ourselves and our family

    While we are doing what it takes to serve our heart’s true joy.

    This is heroic stuff.

    The stuff of legend and fable.

    Ulysses and the Cyclops.

    David and Goliath.

    Doing what cannot be done,

    By reconciling contradictions,

    Integrating polarities,

    Making peace,

    Creating wholeness,

    Amazing ourselves.

    If you are bored with your life,

    Depressed and hopeless

    Because of the lack of resources,

    And the absence of meaning, purpose and direction,

    Hand yourself over to your life.

    Let it direct your living.

    On two paths at the same time.

    And be amazed.
  55. 09/29/2015 — Bartlett Falls Panorama 01 — Bristol, VT, September 27, 2015

    What would be most helpful to you?

    What kind of help do you need?

    Being clear about what would be helpful

    Enables us to be clear about what we are seeking,

    And puts us on track to find what we need

    To do what needs to be done.

    We are responsible for seeking what we need,

    And for finding what we seek.

    We cannot sit back, prop up our feet,

    And wait to be rescued.

    We go in search for what would be helpful to us.

    If we don’t ask for the Tabasco Sauce,

    We can’t complain about the bland nature of the shrimp cocktail.
  56. 09/29/2015 — Watkins Glen 2015 09 Panorama—Watkins Glen State Park, Watkins Glen, NY, September 20, 2015

    We can start anywhere.

    We can start with:

    ”What needs to be done?”

    ”What needs us to do it?”

    ”What do I need to do?”

    The questions are not to be answered,

    But to be wondered about.

    We are really asking:

    ”What ALL needs to be done?”

    ”What ALL needs me to do it?”

    ”What ALL do I need to do?”

    We have to put it ALL on the table,

    And walk around the table,

    Considering the table.

    Of all that is on the table:

    ”What all needs to be done NOW?”

    ”What all needs me to do it NOW?”

    ”What all do I need to do NOW?”

    ”NOW is the time to do what?”

    Sit with the questions,

    With what needs to be done,

    And see what you rise up to do–

    Spontaneously, effortlessly, without willing yourself to do it.

    Simply watch and see what you do.
  57. 09/30/2015 — Chemung County Barn HDR 01 — Watkins Glen, NY, September 23, 2015

    We can’t hear anything we aren’t ready to listen to.

    We have to live our way

    To the life that is waiting for us to live it.

    No one can hand it to us before its time.

    All those mistakes, bad choices and wrong turns

    Are preparation.

    We find what is right for us

    By winding our way through a lot that is not right.

    Reflection and Realization, Kid.

    Reflection and Realization.

    Death and Resurrection, Kid.

    Death and Resurrection.

    We pay a hefty price for eyes that see,

    Ears that hear,

    And a heart that understands.

    But.

    Once we begin to see,

    Sign posts pointing the way are everywhere.

    There is hope in all the emptiness, anguish and angst.

    It’s grist for the mill, Kid.

    Grist for the mill.

    We are milling maturity and wisdom,

    Compassion and grace.

    We live our way to those things.

    There are no shortcuts on the road to life.
  58. 10/01/2015 — Jenne Farm HDR 01 — Reading, VT, September 28, 2015

    There is what we want to happen.

    There is what we don’t want to happen.

    There is what needs to happen.

    And, there is what can happen.

    The spiritual journey is learning to work out the ratios.

    We spend too much time and energy

    Wanting what we have no business having,

    Willing what cannot be willed,

    Forcing what cannot be forced,

    Refusing to make our peace with the way things are,

    Failing to put ourselves in accord with our life,

    Rejecting obvious paths because they are contrary

    To our desires,

    Oblivious to what is being asked of us,

    Living in denial,

    Wondering what is wrong.
  59. 10/01/2015 — Iconic New England 01

    Our work is a Good Work,

    And we have to embrace it as such–

    Marrying our work and plighting it our troth,

    In sickness and in health,

    As long as we shall life.

    This is the missing element in all of human life.

    We have no sense of Our Work.

    We think we are here to enjoy ourselves

    With entertaining pastimes,

    And take the smooth and easy path through life.

    We have no sense of belonging

    To something greater than we are–

    That needs us and our gifts

    In its service for the true good of all.

    We all are Adam and Eve,

    Trading Paradise for a passing pleasure,

    Or Esau,

    Trading his birthright for a bowl of oatmeal.

    We sell ourselves out for a brightly wrapped box of smoke,

    And never understand that it is about Our Work.

    Not what we do to pay the bills,

    But what we pay the bills to do.

    What are you doing with your life?

    We have to be able to answer the question.

    We have to spend our life

    Finding the work that is ours to do with our life.

    All the attractive options

    Are manifestations of the Forbidden Fruit

    Inviting us to leave the path,

    Turn aside from the search,

    Forget Our Work

    And enjoy their ephemeral delights.

    Their promise of splendor beyond compare

    Conceals the one-eyed reality of the Cyclops

    Luring another victim from life to empty wandering

    In the wasteland of our discontent.

    Only Our Work can save us.

    Our life consists of finding Our Work and doing it.

    Find it.

    Do it.

    With all your heart,

    And complete devotion.

    Your life depends on it.
  60. 10/02/2015 — Watkins Glen 2015 07 – Watkins Glen State Park, Watkins Glen, NY, September 20, 2015

    We have to complete the developmental tasks of each stage of life.

    We cannot move to the next stage until we have completed the developmental tasks of the present age.

    Want to guess how many of us are still hung up in jr. high? High school?

    Pay attention to your conversations through a day.

    Somebody did somebody wrong.

    Somebody is going to win another world series or super bowl.

    Somebody is being politically stupid.

    News. Weather. Sports. And woe is me, poor, poor me.

    Look around you at all the things we have devised to keep us where we are, unthinking, unreflective, unaware:

    Schedules, appointment calendars, computer games, TV shows…

    No quiet times for listening, looking, seeing, hearing, wondering, imagining…

    It is as though the culture—the world culture—has declared,

    ”To hell with developmental tasks!

    They are too hard!

    They hurt too much!

    I’m not moving past where I am!”

    Facing up to how things are and what needs to be done about them

    Is too much for us.

    Escape! Denial! Diversion! Distraction!

    Dismiss, disregard, ignore everything that makes you uncomfortable.

    God forbid that we should be uncomfortable.

    Understand this:

    The path to enlightenment, realization, awareness, maturity, wisdom, grace, compassion, peace and life pouring over, spilling out, blessing everyone

    Winds through the heart of Gethsemane

    And across the face of Golgotha.

    Let me translate that for you:

    We have to complete the developmental tasks of each stage of life.
  61. 10/02/2015 — Chemung County Barn HDR Panorama 01 B&W—Elmira, NY, September 23, 2015

    No one can give us our work,

    Any more than someone else can tell us what will make our heart sing.

    We find our own way to the heart that sings,

    And to the work that is ours to do.

    The two are one.

    Find one, and you find the other.

    But do not think your work has to stay the same, unaltered, forever.

    Just as “one book opens another,”

    So what makes your heart sing

    Will lead to what else makes your heart sing,

    And your work expands, enlarges, deepens

    Beyond anything you might imagine.

    And, do not think your work is your ticket to fame and fortune,

    Or even to a living wage.

    You are not here to profit from your work

    Beyond singing along with your heart.

    Pay the bills with a good day job–

    One that compliments your work, perhaps,

    But certainly does not contradict, or deny, it.

    Your gifts are uniquely suited to your work,

    And are not to be exploited for your own pleasure.

    You belong to your work.

    It is enough that you believe in it,

    And do it with all your heart,

    The way it needs you to do it.

    Let doing your work be your reward,

    And be glad to be able to do it–

    That is the key to fulfillment,

    And life everlasting.
  62. 10/02/2015 — Fall Fern 01 — Tupper Lake, NY, September 22, 2015

    An old truism asserts “Truth is reality.”

    And, because reality is subject to perception and interpretation,

    Truth is multifaceted, contradictory and ever changing.

    The fluid nature of truth

    Is reflected in several of the sayings of Jesus.

    ”I am the way, the truth and the life, and no one comes to the Father but by me”

    Is the one we always hear quoted.

    He also said, a few verses earlier, “No one comes to me unless the Father draws him (sic).”

    Jesus also said, “If you are not with me, you are against me,”

    And, “If you are not against me, you are with me.”

    Which way is it?

    Both ways.

    All ways.

    At the same time.

    Our rational, logical, brain flips out over this,

    But our intuitive, instinctive, creative, imaginative brain

    Says, “Of course,” or, better, “Duh!”

    The point here is that when we are confronted by

    ”The truth of reality,”

    We have to step back and remember the power of

    Perception and interpretation,

    And see what else we can see about what stands before us

    By walking around it,

    Making inquiries,

    Looking from all sides and angles.

    Asking, “What ELSE is true about reality?”

    Gives us a bit of leverage,

    And shifts things into a more manageable position,

    Opening doors, and providing options and choices

    We didn’t notice on first glance.

    Taking all things into consideration

    Enables us to work with reality,

    And transform the facts–

    To the astonishment of those

    Who only think they see “what’s there.”
  63. 10/03/2015 — Moss Glen Falls 03 — Stowe, VT, September 25, 2015

    The concept that “Your religious liberty ends where my constitutional rights begin” is foundational for life together.

    ”Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”

    ”Liberty and justice for all.”

    ”All men (people) are created equal.”

    The constitution is a compilation of common agreements which bind us together in a republic governed (after Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address) “of the people, by the people, for the people.”

    We are free to live our life in any way that does not restrict the freedom of others to live their life.

    I work my side of the street, and you work yours.

    I stay out of your business, and you stay out of mine.

    We cooperate with each other in ways that honor our common interest—that serve the common good—and help each other define, and live, our own life.

    I live my life, and help you live your life—to the extent you are interested in being helped, and find what I offer to be helpful.

    And, the same goes for you, with me.

    All of this is grounded upon the necessity of a good faith commitment on the part of each of us to find our life and live it, to find our work and do it.

    Where that is lacking, nothing can be done for any of us.
  64. 10/03/2015 — Tupper Lake Sunset 03 — Tupper Lake, NY, September 22, 2015

    We have to live with intensity,

    With devotion, dedication, and determination.

    We have to live with our heart in what we do.

    We have to care about what we are doing with our life.

    We have to live like we mean it.

    What would it take for you to live like you mean it?

    Instead of just getting by?

    Just meeting the minimum daily requirements of being alive?

    Just being upright, intact, 98.6 and breathing?

    Just going though the motions?

    What would it take for you to live believing in what you are doing?

    For you to be owned by your life?

    To belong to your life?

    To love your life?

    With all your heart, and soul, and mind, and body?

    What would it take?
  65. 10/03/2015 — Iconic New England 03 — United Presbyterian Church, South Ryegate, VT, September 27, 2015

    Start with what you love.

    You don’t have to think about what you love,

    And you will never find your way to your ground,

    Your center,

    Your foundation,

    Your work,

    Your LIFE,

    By thinking about it.

    Start with what you love.

    With what engages you,

    Enthralls you,

    Captivates you,

    Moves you,

    Makes your heart sing,

    And takes you out of time.

    Work what you love into your life

    On a regular basis.

    Treat what you love as your best friend–

    As your secret lover.

    Make dates with it.

    A rendezvous.

    Bring it flowers and chocolates.

    Let it fill your heart with joy and anticipation.

    Follow it–

    As your love for things expands–

    With devoted allegiance–

    Into all of life,

    Transformed,

    And transforming all the world.
  66. 10/04/2015 — NO—Swiftwater, NH, September 25, 2015

    Things have a certain order about them.

    We put on our socks and pants before we put on our shoes.

    We hate the restraints order places on us.

    We take shortcuts.

    We run stop signs and lights.

    We have it OUR way.

    ”Damn the shoreline! Full speed ahead!”

    One of the developmental tasks in the early stages of life

    Is understanding the fundamental importance of the order of things,

    And submitting to the necessity of aligning ourselves

    With the proper sequence required by the situation as it arises.

    More often than not, where there are problems,

    Someone is not happy with the queue,

    Or the procedure,

    And is looking for a quick trip to happy and content.

    When we skip the developmental tasks

    It’s hard on everyone.

    Each of us has to bear the pain of the inconvenience

    And agony of existence.

    When personal pain is not properly borne,

    Corporate pain is increased across the board, around the table.

    The source of anguish, chaos, disruption and dismay

    Is generally someone who is not grown up enough to honor

    The necessary order of things and acquiesce to life as it is.

    Pain unborne spills over onto others every time.
  67. 10/04/2015 — Tupper Lake Sunset 2015 01, Day 3 — Tupper Lake, NY, September 24, 2015

    I’m amazed at how quiet I have to be to hear anything worth saying.

    The connection is fragile and easily lost amid the noise of life.

    Those who know, know the importance of maintaining the connection.

    What is the quietest place in your life?

    How often do you go there?

    How long do you remain?

    People want to know the answers to their questions,

    But they are the answer to questions being asked of them,

    Yet, they live too loudly to listen.

    What can you say to those who cannot hear?

    Who cannot turn off the noise in their life

    To tune into their soul?

    Some things we have to do for ourselves.
  68. 10/05/2015 — Iconic New England Collage—September 2015

    Looking for our life is like looking for our shadow.

    All we need is a little light of consciousness, shining on ourselves,

    And there it is.

    Notice the things that stir your soul,

    That move your heart,

    That catch your eye.

    You have been living your life, off and on, all this time—

    Or, almost living it.

    It has always been “right there,”

    Trying to get your attention.

    But you’ve had your eye on other things

    And didn’t see the things you weren’t seeing.

    Now, it’s a matter of seeing what you are not seeing.

    Once you develop that knack,

    ”Boom!” — as John Madden would say—

    There you are!
  69. 10/05/2015 — Woodlawn Cemetery Panorama 08 — Elmira, NY, September 21, 2015 — Woodlawn Cemetery is the burial site of Mark Twain and his family (not pictured here), and is an amazing place from an aesthetic and historical standpoint. The stories that lie buried here…

    If you aren’t having fun with your life,

    At least some of the time,

    In some of the scenes and situations you are in,

    Your heart isn’t singing nearly enough.

    If your heart isn’t singing,

    It isn’t YOUR life that you are living.

    Only YOU can do something about that!

    Beginning right now, determine to find ways to have fun with your life,

    Determine right now to find ways to let your heart sing.

    This is the crucial, critical, determining factor

    Regarding the quality and liveability

    Of your life from this time forth.

    Your have to reintroduce play into your life.

    You have to play with your life.

    Laugh, sing, and dance.

    Your life isn’t going to change until you do.

    It’s waiting on you to give it the go ahead.

    You can’t be waiting on it to turn some corner and become fun.

    Look. It’s like this.

    You can look for what there is to not like about anything.

    And you can look for what there is to like,

    You have the power of perspective and interpretation going for you.

    Swing for the fences!

    Laugh all the way around the bases!

    Then run them backwards, backwards!

    And do a couple of somersaults between first base and home.
  70. 10/06/2015 — Bog River Falls 2015 Panorama 01 — Tupper Lake, NY, September 24, 2015

    It’s such a strange, and undeniable, thing

    That living our life–

    The life that makes our heart sing–

    Requires such courage.

    Perhaps it is because no one else is doing it,

    And the rest of them don’t understand its importance,

    And think we are being uppity,

    Thinking of ourselves like that,

    When, of course, we should be thinking exclusively of them.

    Whenever anyone accuses us of being selfish,

    It is because we are doing something we want to do,

    And not something they want us to do.

    But we are being selfish.

    Weird, but real.

    Anyway, it takes courage to be who we are,

    Doing what brings us to life

    On one level,

    While doing what it takes to pay the bills

    One another.

    It doesn’t leave much time for those

    Who want us to do what they want us to do.
  71. 10/06/2015 — Covered Bridge Collage—Vermont and New Hampshire, September, 2015

    ”Invoked, or not invoked,

    The God will be present.”

    The Delphic Oracle spells it out for us.

    We will confront the truth of our life,

    Align ourselves with it,

    And live in its service to the end

    Or not.

    Either way, the God will be present.

    Will we be present with the God,

    Who is present with us,

    Is the question.
  72. 10/06/2015 — A Man and His Dog—Fish Creek Pond, Lake Clear, NY, September 24, 2015

    Our work engages us in the recovery of the sacred.

    What is sacred for you?

    What is holy?

    Sacrosanct?

    To be revered, honored, cherished and held in high esteem?

    My bet is that we have a very short list,

    If we have one at all.

    The culture is without a sense of the sacred.

    It’s all fair game for the one-liners of SNL and late night comedy routines.

    What will we not laugh at?

    Not deride?

    Ridicule?

    Defame?

    Denounce?

    Where does that leave us?

    When there is no holy ground to stand on,

    We are in freefall,

    Where even the laughter is empty.

    Only our work can save us–

    But.

    Our work must become holy unto us

    In order to connect us with all that is holy.

    In seeking our work,

    We are searching for a portal

    To sacred ground of existence,

    And must approach our task

    As pilgrims—disciples—on the path

    To a holy land of the heart,

    Uniting all of us in the realization of the sacred incarnate in each one.
  73. 10/07/2015 — Chemung County Barn HDR 04 — Elmira, NY, September 23, 2015

    We can’t agree about what is important.

    That’s because what is important is different for each of us.

    We perceive things differently,

    Give weight to things differently.

    We are different.

    At the core.

    Yet, we throw ourselves together in groups

    And clusters,

    And population centers

    And act as though we are one.

    And hate, expel, ostracize, castigate, despise and kill

    Those who are not like we are.

    Not even we are like we are.

    To deny that and pretend we are one

    Is to deny ourselves.

    We are one in the sense that we are many.

    We are one in that we are all different from the others.

    We have differentness in common.

    It goes down from there.

    We have to stop pretending,

    And start granting latitude.

    Making allowances.

    Blurring the lines,

    Or erasing them.

    You are not like they are.

    Stop acting like it.

    They are not like you are.

    Stop thinking they should be.

    Let differences stand,

    Without standing in the way.

    Understand “community”

    And “like-minded-ness”

    As being grounded upon the agreement

    Of mutual respect for each other,

    And a common commitment

    To help the other find, and be, who they are,

    In a “What is good for one is good for all” kind of way.
  74. 10/08/2015 — Falls Park Falls HDR 02 — Reedy River, Falls Park, Greenville, SC, October 8, 2015

    The three traditional contact points

    with the holy, sacred, numinous reality

    that is often called “god” are

    art (fine and practical), music and nature.

    To these three, I would add good conversation.

    Good conversation is hard to come by these days

    because we don’t go in much for reflection.

    All we have are opinions.

    No reflection.

    No examination.

    No inquiry.

    No thinking.

    Certainly no creative, imaginative, thinking.

    Only reactivity.

    We know what we like,

    and what we don’t like,

    and that’s as far as it goes with us.

    What more do you need?

    That’s opinion for you.

    Open and shut case for no thinking required.

    The way of the world in the 21st century.

    We all have opinions.

    And zero insight.

    And some are of the opinion

    that everyone should have guns.

    That’s a recipe for shootouts on every corner.

    That’s what not thinking will do for you.

    We have to start thinking,

    reflecting,

    creatively,

    imaginatively,

    seeking new realizations,

    cultivating insight,

    courting enlightenment,

    waking up.
  75. 10/09/2015 — Old Stone Bridge HDR 02 — Falls Park, Greenville, SC, October 8, 2015

    Our life is there before us,

    waiting for us to realize

    what has always been so,

    and become who we already are,

    making that evident–

    real-izing the inherent makeup of our being–

    by the way we live.

    We grow into ourselves,

    and exhibit the wonder we are

    by doing the things that are ours to do

    the way only we can do them,

    all our life long.

    If you missed out on this basic structure

    due to poor mentoring

    and bad preaching,

    you have a lot of living left to do,

    getting you together with your life!

    That’s the Hero’s Journey, you know.

    Our life always needs us

    to be its hero!
  76. 10/09/2015 — Early Morning Mist B&W—Tupper Lake, NY, September 23, 2015

    We can look at anything

    and see what to not like about it.

    We can look at anything

    and see what to like about it.

    The difference between these ways of looking

    is the difference that makes the difference.
  77. 10/10/2015 — Falls Park Spillway 01 — A retaining dam on the Reedy River running through downtown Greenville, SC, October 8, 2015

    I posted this a year ago, and thanks to Annie Oakley for reminding me, here it comes again:

    This is a paraphrase (because I don’t have permission to quote directly) of Carl Jung in a 1931 interview with Whit Burnett in the New York Sun, and found in “The Earth Has A Soul: C.G. Jung on Nature, Technology and Modern Life,” edited by Meredith Sabini and published by North Atlantic Books:

    The people of the United States must find the wherewith all to say NO! to the abounding temptations of the culture: The quest for things, for uniformity, for multitasking, for being like everyone in the neighborhood, etc., and to sit still in quiet contemplation until the realization dawns that contentment, peace, satisfaction, fulfillment and happiness are not to be found in the things the culture would have them pursue, and that trying to be like everyone else in the service of success and an increasingly higher standard of living is to be out of accord with the deeper dictates of heart and soul, and to be increasingly far removed from the personality and type of life that the individual possesses but ignores in seeking what she, what he, thoughtlessly buys into as being the solid ground and goal of their lives. The conflict between how they are living and how they need to live to satisfy their inner self will, sooner or later, result in some form of emotional disturbance, if not physical sickness and death.
    He goes on to say, again paraphrased:

    No matter how we deny it and pretend it is not so, we all, at different times and places in our life, have a sense of things being not right somehow. We yearn to be rid of the hustle, noise, conflict and confusion of our life, and to simply live. This realization is expressed in countless ways in our dreams, which warn of the outcome of living out of synch with ourselves. Our dreams are our body’s way of revealing to us what is going on in our psyche/soul/mind—the body’s best effort in saying in symbolic ways that something is wrong, or more to the point, what specifically is wrong in the life of each individual person. The dream is our body’s way of calling our attention to its instinctive awareness of what is out of accord and what must be integrated, reconciled and realigned. If we do not heed these warnings, we pay the price in one way or another.
  78. 10/10/2015 — Spider Web 01 B&W—Tupper Lake, NY, September 22, 2015

    Think of the number of stories

    across all ages, nations and religions

    about our getting in our way,

    and then think about the number of stories

    about our cooperating–

    our living in accord–

    with our way.

    Which list is longer?

    What is your story?

    How will you write what remains to be written?
  79. 10/11/2015 — Price Lake 2015 01 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, near Blowing Rock, NC, October 11, 2015

    We can make any situation better, or worse,

    by the quality of our perception of it,

    the quality of our participation in it,

    and the quality of our response to it.

    When we take everything into account,

    the path opens before us,

    and it only requires a willing (not willful) heart

    to do what needs us to do it

    in each situation as it arises.

    Seeing, hearing, understanding

    is knowing, doing, being.
  80. 10/10/2015 — Upper Falls Panorama 03 — Linville Falls, Blue Ridge Parkway, NC

    Listening is the work of the conscious mind/Ego,

    reflecting on its experience

    and forming new realizations,

    which deepen its connection,

    its alignment,

    with the soul’s drift and joy.

    The work of the conscious mind/Ego

    is to place itself in accord

    with the soul’s song

    and to live in ways

    that bring the song to life in our life,

    so that we move to the rhythms of soul,

    and exhibit the values of soul

    and are the incarnation of soul

    in each situation as it arises,

    our whole life long.

    We dance to the music of soul,

    And our heart sings soul’s song.
  81. 10/11/2015 — Mallards Landing—Reedy River, Falls Park, Greenville, SC, October 8, 2015

    “What are you doing that you believe in?”

    “Why are you doing anything you don’t believe in?”

    The two best questions!

    # 3 is “What do you believe in?”

    Ask someone what they believe in,

    And they will get theological on you.

    They don’t know what they believe in.

    They know what they have been told to believe.

    If you don’t believe in your work,

    You have a job.

    If your work doesn’t inspire you, consume you,

    You have a job.

    If you don’t live into each day

    To better contribute to your body of work,

    You don’t have a body of work.

    You may as well be shopping each day,

    Or lolling on the beach.

    What are you doing that you believe in?

    Why are you doing anything you don’t believe in?

    Because it pays well?

    If you are not using your paycheck

    At least in part,

    In the service of what you believe in,

    You have sold out.

    Money cannot buy you anything to substitute for

    What you believe in.

    And you can have that for nothing.

    If you will wake up to what it is

    And serve it with all your heart.

    That’s your mission,

    If you choose to accept it,

    And, why would you not?
  82. 10/13/2015 — Still Green in the Foothills HDR Panorama—Blue Ridge Parkway near Grandfather Mountain, NC, October 11, 2015

    It’s all about the work.

    The key to life spilling over,

    Pouring out,

    Everlasting

    Is finding our work and doing it–

    Finding the things that make our heart sing and doing them.

    Living in ways that call forth and make manifest

    Who we are and what we are about.

    Doing what we believe in,

    What we know to be worth our time.

    Doing what we are here to do, what is ours to do,

    In the time left for living.

    Everything hinges on finding our work and doing it.

    So, why aren’t we looking?

    What’s with killing another day

    Doing things that are Not Us?

    Spend the day in search of the things that are Indubitably You!
  83. 10/14/2015 — Blue Ridge 2015 HDR 02 — Blue Ridge Parkway near Grandfather Mountain, NC, October 11, 2015

    We are what we need,

    We need only to be who we are.

    But. We can do that best

    In a community of those

    Who are being who they are.

    Nothing is more important

    Than keeping the right company.

    There is a direct relationship

    Between the people we run with

    And the quality of our life.

    How different can we be

    From those who form our In Group?

    We need a group/community

    That encourages individuality,

    Not one that inhibits and restricts it.

    If you have to be like WE are,

    WE aren’t a good place for you to be!
  84. 10/15/2015 — Middle Saluda River 01 — Jones Gap State Park, Cleveland, SC, October 15, 2015

    What do you know of God that you didn’t get from someone else–

    Including the Bible?

    The Bible gets all the credit

    For delivering God-As-God-Is

    Straight from God to us.

    That’s only what someone made up and spread around.

    Where did the people who wrote the Bible come up with what they came up with?

    Divine Revelation, right?

    Which ceased to exist 2,000 years ago,

    Conveniently timed to coincide with the rise of Ecclesiastical Authority.

    God doesn’t have to go to the trouble of talking directly to us any more.

    We have the Priests and Preachers to tell us what’s what.

    And where do they get it?

    The Bible, of course.

    And why can’t we all get it there?

    We might get it wrong and go to hell.

    THEY know how to read Greek and Hebrew.

    I’m here to tell you that everyone has equal access

    To what has always been called God.

    Intermediaries are not required.

    The Reformed version of Christianity

    Even had a doctrine called “The Priesthood of All Believers”

    Until the implications dawned upon the Authorities

    Who swept it into the dim regions,

    And never spoke of it again.

    Which leaves the question remaining to be answered–

    By you:

    What do you know of God that you didn’t get from some source other than yourself?
  85. 10/16/2015 — Footbridge Panorama—Jones Gap State Park, Cleveland, SC, October 15, 2015

    When it comes to what you know about what has always been called God,

    Don’t give me your opinions.

    Opinion is always being displayed as knowledge.

    Opinion is a cheap, cowardly, lazy surrogate for knowledge.

    Opinion is easy, loud, and theatrical.

    Opinion is ignorant, unthinking and incapable of reflection–

    Particularly self-reflection.

    Knowledge is lived experience.

    People who know crab cakes

    Grow up on the coast of Maryland.

    If someone starts talking about “good crab cakes,”

    Ask them where they grew up.

    If someone starts talking about God,

    Ask them what they lived through

    That revealed that to them.

    If they can only talk to you about “the Bible,”

    It’s like the crab cake person talking to you about a recipe book.

    We don’t know God by what we read or hear,

    Only by what we live through,

    By what we experience.

    Anything else is opinion.

    Or, worse, propaganda.

    Evangelism is the propagandalism of the world.
  86. 10/16/2015 — Bog River Falls Abstract 01 — Tupper Lake, NY, September 2015

    Make a pact with yourself to care more about the things you care about.

    Spend more time doing the things you care about,

    And less time doing the things you don’t care about.

    Care about the things you care about

    Consciously,

    Deliberately,

    Conscientiously.

    Live with—and toward—the things you care about

    In ways that everyone knows you care about them.

    Let the things you care about

    Become as important to you as they deserve to be.

    Nothing will reshape your life for the good

    Like caring about the things you care about.

    And not caring about the things you don’t care about.

    Square yourself up with the things you care about,

    And don’t care about.

    Your life will fall nicely into place around the things you care about.

    Which is how it should be.
  87. 10/17/2015 — Middle Saluda River Cascade 02 — Jones Gap State Park, Cleveland, SC, October 15, 2015

    We give our time and attention to our outer reality,

    Our appearance,

    Our pose,

    Our image,

    Our sex appeal,

    Our popularity,

    Our place in the lives of others,

    Especially in His Life,

    Or Her Life

    (You know who I mean).

    We’re all Out There,

    Trying to fit in,

    To belong.

    If we tend to our inner reality,

    Our outer reality will fall into place

    Around our center, core, ground, and foundation

    And all will be right with the world.

    Our inner reality is the key:

    Who we are,

    What we are about,

    What matters most,

    What is of highest value,

    What is ours to do in the time left for living

    Our talisman, guide, North Star, and friend.

    Our Self.

    Where we belong.

    What we belong to.

    The governing source and goal of our life.

    Why would we ignore that world

    In favor of mirages and happy fantasies?
  88. 10/18/2015 — Middle Saluda River 02 — Jones Gap State Park, Cleveland, SC, October 15, 2015

    Your life is your responsibility.

    Which means you decide how well it’s going,

    And whether you are “on the beam,” or off of it.

    And, if you are off of it, you decide what to do to get back on it,

    And stay there–

    Which includes who to listen to

    And when to stop listening to them.

    You know that by listening to you.

    If you were to listen to me,

    The first thing I would tell you is:

    Learn to listen to YOU.

    Learn to distinguish among the you’s vying for your attention

    And compliance.

    We all have a lot of voices within.

    Impulsive, compulsive, lazy, fearful, arrogant, prideful, willful, etc. voices.

    We have to listen past all the voices claiming to know what they are doing,

    To The Voice That Knows,

    And listen to it.

    All the others are pretenders to the title.

    The first step is to listen past all of them

    To The One Who Knows.

    Nothing happens for the good

    Until you can recognize the voice within of The One Who Knows

    And listen to it.
  89. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 10/18/2015 — Old Stone Bridge HDR 01 — Falls Park, Greenville, SC, October 8, 2015

    We don’t need theology or doctrine,

    Or some second-hand religion

    Passed along to us by Those Who Know Best And Must Be Pleased.

    We need only the truth of our own experience

    To validate for us

    The importance of compassion and kindness

    In a “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you,

    Whether or not they return the favor and do unto you

    As you have done unto them” kind of way.

    The truth of our own experience,

    Reflected upon,

    And interpreted in light of the experience of the species,

    And the values at the heart of being human,

    Is all we need to square us up

    To how things are and what needs to be done about it

    In each situation as it arises.

    No religion that has ever been could do more for us,

    Or as much.

    Theology and doctrine are divisive.

    Good religion is unifying

    Like the encounter with awe, wonder, grace and beauty

    In art, music and nature–

    Like a cup of cold water on a hot day.

    Who could argue about any of those things?
  90. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion –10/19/2015 — Early Morning Mist 02 B&W—Tupper Lake, NY, September 22, 2015

    No one needs to be told what to believe

    In terms of doctrine and theology.

    Everyone needs to be told what needs to be done

    And given the freedom to figure out what works for themselves.

    All approaches to the experience with spiritual reality

    Are composed of the same elements.

    The basics are:

    Seeing (What you look at),

    Hearing (What you listen to),

    Understanding (How things are and how things also are),

    Knowing (What is happening in each situation as it arises),

    Doing (What needs to be done about it),

    Being (In accord with your life and with the way of life–

    Which includes bearing the pain of your experience).

    The tools are:

    Mindfulness Meditation (Jon Kabat-Zinn’s work is a great source for training),

    Silence,

    Living as an outlet of compassion and grace,

    Reflection and Realization,

    Practice (Discipline, Rituals, Routines),

    Participation in the right kind of company (Communities of Innocence, I call them),

    Diet and exercise.

    We cannot read a book,

    Attend a lecture,

    Go on a retreat

    And “be spiritual.”

    “Being spiritual” is a practice, a regimen, a way of life.

    Not a vocabulary or a set of beliefs.
  91. 10/20/2015 — Bog River Falls 2015 Panorama 02 — Tupper Lake, NY, September 23, 2015

    You have to find your voice

    And listen to it.

    You have to find your heart’s song

    And sing it.

    You have to find your life

    And live it.

    The disciple has to become like the Master

    In following no Master.

    Only you know what is yours to do.

    Only you know what catches your eye.

    Only you know what does it for you.

    The only guru worth following

    Is the one who won’t have you

    Chasing after her, or him–

    Who tells you:

    ”Listen to me when I tell you:

    ’DON’T LISTEN TO ME!

    LISTEN TO YOU!’”

    Listen to you.

    And, if it leads to a dead end,

    Keep listening to you

    To get you out of there

    Having gotten what you need from there,

    Which is learning that you have to listen to you,

    No matter what.
  92. 10/20/2015 — Fish Creek Pond HDR—Near Clear Lake, NY, September 25, 2015

    My mother died early in September, and her memorial service is slated to be held in a week. I am appropriately sad these days, as much over the life that was not as over the life that was.

    I would love to know how her life would have been if my mother had had what she needed.

    Of course, we can say that about ourselves, Terry Malloy, and everyone we know, but. This is my mother who has died, and I can excuse myself for deeply regretting what she missed because of all those in her life who, themselves, were operating with only deficits and deficiencies to work with.

    We come into the world set and primed for certain environmental conditions, much like an acorn drops from the oak expecting sunlight, soil and water. The world that greets us is not always what we need. And, we walk with a limp, or worse, because of it.

    Many, if not most, of us spend our life compensating for what did not meet us when we slipped from the womb. It helps if we know, consciously, that is what we are doing, and consciously search ways to work around what is missing in our life.

    Lacking that much awareness, we live, like my mother, against the odds, and do what chance and timing provide us in creating the life we live.

    I celebrate Katheryne’s resolve, courage, creativity and her heard-headed refusal to quit—and her life, which gave me and my siblings more of a life than we would have had if she had folded early-on, and left us as much to chance and timing as she was handed.

    Here, then, is to Nancy Katheryne Hamilton Dollar—for all she did with what she had to work with, and who she became in spite of finding little more than deficit and deficiency in the environment that received her slip-sliding from the womb into its welcoming arms.
  93. 10/21/2015 — Gaffney Icon—Gaffney, SC, October 8, 2015

    We can let our thoughts run away with us.

    That isn’t the thing to do with thoughts.

    We have them.

    They can’t have us.

    Hold us hostage,

    R-u-n-n-o-f-t with us,

    Over some cliff

    Into some abyss

    To torture us forever.

    We can create entire scenarios of despair

    All coming to the hopeless conclusion

    That we will never have a chance

    And it is pointless and futile to go on.

    This is where compassionate awareness

    Comes to our rescue.

    Compassionate awareness receives what we are doing to ourselves

    Without going along with us to the brink and over it.

    As we become aware of what we are doing

    We can wake up

    And say, “Wait a minute.

    ”I’ve been here before.

    ”I know where this is going.

    ”And I’m not going along again.”

    We stop our thoughts from running away with us

    By being compassionately aware of them:

    ”I’m scaring myself again.

    ”It’s what I do best.

    ”I’m going to stop now, and count my breaths.”

    Then we take a deep breath,

    And count the next 20

    Counting to five between one exhale and the next inhale.

    That will put our thoughts in their place as fast as anything will.
  94. 10/22/2015 — Spanning the River—Middle Saluda River, Jones Gap State Park, Cleveland, SC, October 15, 2015

    We are always having to pause and take stock

    to see where our enthusiasm lies.

    Enthusiasm for the task drifts away, over time,

    to some other task.

    We have to notice when it leaves,

    and pick up the trail before it grows cold,

    and we are left with a life

    we have to pretend to be living,

    but no longer have the heart for.

    Where do your enthusiasms lie these days?

    What are you doing to deepen their attachments,

    and follow their lead?

    Enthusiasm for life IS life!

    When it goes,

    we have to allow it to take us with it,

    or wander the back roads forever wondering

    whatever became of passion and bliss

    after the fire burned out.
  95. 10/22/2015 — Linville Cove Viaduct Panorama 01 — Blue Ridge Parkway near Grandfather Mountain, NC, October 12, 2015

    The optimal distance between people in relationship with each other is the point at which the “I’s” are supporting each other with their life and work, and no one has gone over into a “We,” where the boundaries separating individuals have dissolved and everyone is intent on being like everyone else—or, like they are “supposed to be” for the sake of the relationship.

    This is true for couples, congregations and political parties.

    ”We” exist for the good of the “I’s” composing the “we.”

    When the “I’s” exist for the good of the “We,” the optimum distance for relationship has been transgressed, and individuals are disappearing into the myth of the “We.”

    The myth of the “We,” in its most outlandish and ridiculous form is in the idea that corporations are individuals.

    Corporations are where individuals go to disappear.

    Where individuals are eaten alive.

    Where no one is responsible for anything because everything is done by the nebulous, and ostensibly non-existent, “We.”

    Two or more healthy, well-defined, consciously, compassionately aware “I’s” are essential for every “We.”

    No “We” can be healthier than the health of the least healthy “I” composing it.

    A healthy “We” is an intentional collection of healthy “I’s” who come together for the mutual support of each others life and work, and for the good of the larger community beyond the “We” so established.

    Healthy “I’s” are essential for the development of healthy “I’s.”

    Whatever contributes to the health of an “I,” contributes to the health of more than one “I.”

    The right kind of “We’s” produce the right kind of “I’s,” and vice versa.

    And that’s how we “I’s” save the world.
  96. 10/23/2015 — Freedom Bridge at Falls Park Falls—Greenville, SC, October 8, 2015

    We all are stupid in our own way.

    It helps the whole when we are the only one impacted by our stupidity.

    Some of us—too many of us—are stupid in ways that keep the world flame burning much lower than is good for any of us.

    We each do our part in serving the good of ourselves and the whole

    By taking up the practice of mindfulness meditation,

    And practicing daily.

    Simply being compassionately aware of everything happening and not happening

    In the present moment

    Without judgment, willfulness or opinion

    Shifts the moment toward the good of all.

    Compassionately seeing, hearing, knowing

    What is happening and not happening

    In each situation as it arises

    Without judgment, willfulness or opinion

    Changes everything.

    But.

    It takes doing it religiously over time

    To know

    That I know what I’m talking about.

    It would be stupid

    To be handed the solution to the mess we all are in

    And not practice it.

    Particularly when it asked no more of us

    Than sitting with the moment

    Once a day

    And being fully, compassionately, aware

    Of what is happening and not happening there

    Without judgment, willfulness or opinion.

    Wouldn’t it?
  97. 10/24/2015 — Fall Woods Road 01 — Indian Land, SC, October 23, 2015

    We cannot wake up before the time for awakening is upon us.

    Seeds sprout at sprouting time.

    The grain is harvested at harvesting time.

    It is the way of things.

    ”For everything there is a season,

    And a time for every unfolding and coming forth under heaven.”

    Nothing can be made to happen before its time.

    But.

    It’s time can be missed.

    The opportune time can come by,

    Looking for us,

    And we can be busy tending other matters.

    ”I cannot come to the banquet,

    Don’t trouble me now,

    I have married a wife,

    I have bought me a cow.

    I have fields and commitments,

    That cost a pretty sum,

    Pray hold me excused.

    I cannot come.” (Lyrics by the Medical Mission Sisters, “I Cannot Come To The Banquet”)

    We can be so preoccupied with having Our Way

    That we are never available to The Way,

    No matter how many times it returns,

    Calling our name.

    Our Yossarian is never available

    To the invitation of our life’s Orr.

    And the dead are left to bury the dead,

    While Life goes on without them.

    And so, the need to take up the practice

    Of looking and listening–

    Of being mindfully attentive to the moment of our living–

    So that we might see and hear

    When the time for seeing and hearing comes upon us.
  98. 10/25/2015 — Fall Woods Panorama 01 — Indian Land, SC, October 23, 2015

    The situation as it unfolds before us

    Will bring us forth to meet it,

    And if we refuse to come forth,

    Our situations will increase in intensity and insistence,

    Until we finally have no recourse but to come forth and meet them,

    Or fold up and “die” in one of the 10,000 ways to “die”

    Without officially, and finally, being dead.

    Our life is the place of our coming forth,

    And we WILL come forth,

    Or not.

    That being the case,

    Why not learn all we can about coming forth,

    About meeting our life,

    About assisting what is bringing us forth,

    And discovering how to be our life’s able assistant,

    Its ready partner in collaboration with it

    In the development and presentation of who we are

    In all of our glory,

    For our good,

    And the good of the whole?

    Why do it the hard way,

    Or worse, fail to do it at all?
  99. 10/25/2015 — Leaves of Fall 01 — Indian Land, SC, October 22, 2015

    Where do we go to find our peace,

    Restore our balance,

    Regain our equilibrium,

    Recover our sense of direction,

    Reconnect with heart and soul,

    Remember our center,

    Reestablish our foundation,

    Revive our connection with the source and ground

    Of life and being?

    You might try sitting still,

    And breathing,

    Intentionally attending the moment

    Of sitting and breathing,

    With compassion for all that is there with you,

    And without judgment, willfulness or opinion

    For any of it.

    Just sitting,

    Just breathing,

    With compassionate awareness

    Of and for the moment.

    What do you have to lose?
  100. 10/26/2015 — Price Lake 2015 02 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, near Blowing Rock, NC, October 12, 2015

    What is your relationship with reality?

    Contentious?

    Oppositional?

    Compassionate?

    Are you integrated with reality?

    At one with reality?

    At peace with reality?

    At odds with reality?

    In denial about reality?

    How harmonious is your relationship with reality?

    Upon what does your harmony with reality depend?

    Things going your way, perhaps?

    To what extent is reality an extension of you?

    To what extent are you an extension of reality?

    Where do you stop and reality start?

    Upon what does the quality of your relationship with reality depend?

    What can you do to improve the quality of your relationship with reality?

    What keeps you from doing that?

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