One Minute Monologues 039—B

June 3, 2017 – July 22, 2017

  1. 06/03/2017— Liberty, Justice, Compassion, Equality.
    What’s so hard about that?
    Greed doesn’t want to go,
    and Hatred, Racism, Sexism, Homophobia and Xenophobia
    refuse to leave.
    There has to be a reckoning.
    A reckoning would require us
    to face ourselves down.
    To grow ourselves up.
    To become who the situation
    needs us to be.
    Tasks that are well within our reach,
    yet exceed our grasp–
    because our heart isn’t in the work
    that has to be done.
    We don’t want
    to do what it takes
    to become
    who we are asked to be
    by the situation that has arisen.
    And, nothing is going to happen
    to improve things
    until that does.
    Given the choice between
    growing up and self/other-destruction,
    too many of us opt for the latter
    too often.
  2. 06/04/2017— When Carl Jung said,
    “In each of us
    there is another
    whom we do not know.”
    And when Jesus said,
    “The Father and I are one.”
    And Paul said,
    “It is no longer I who live,
    but Christ who lives within me,”
    And,
    “I can do all things
    through him
    who strengthens me.”
    They were talking
    about the same thing.
    We are the source
    of that which has
    always been called “God.”
    That which has
    always been called “God”
    is the source of us.
    “God” is as genetic
    as blue eyes and red hair.
    Those who seek “God”
    need to look no farther
    than their DNA.
    “God” is the ground
    of our being–
    the origin of all
    that is us,
    and not-us,
    about us.
    The not-us part
    of our experience,
    we call “Satan,”
    to keep ourselves sane,
    but it is all “God.”
    “God/Christ is all
    and in all,”
    as the Good Book says.
    That being the case,
    you might think
    that we would be
    more curious about,
    and attentive to,
    all that goes on within–
    students of our own
    life-experience–
    living to be at-one
    with who we are,
    and also are.
    Perhaps, that is
    just too much for us,
    so we settle
    for old movies
    and stamp collecting.

06/04/2017 — Our life has taught us
that we can deal with our life.
Here we are!
Still dealing!
What more proof do you need?
So quit with the fear, anguish, panic and depression!
You have what it takes
to take on the worst
life can offer!
The only thing that can throw you
is your thinking anything can!
Think “Nothing can!”
and you will be right.
And you will have it made!

05/04/2017 — Trump’s great shame–greatest shame–
is his incapacity to recognize
all that he has to be ashamed of.

05/04/2017 — Ortega y Gasset, in “Meditations on Quixote,” said:

“There are (those who) decide not to be satisfied with reality. Such (people) aim at altering the course of things; they refuse to repeat gestures that custom, tradition, or biological instincts force them to make. These (people) we call heroes, because to be a hero means to be one out of many, to be oneself. If we refuse to have our actions determined by heredity or environment, it is because we seek to base the origin of our actions on ourselves and only ourselves. The hero’s will is not that of (his or her) ancestors or society, but (his or her) own. This will to be oneself is heroism.”

This is the difference between life and death–
between being alive to your choices and possibilities,
and being mostly dead.
If you are going to be anything,
be you.

05/04/2017 — We find our way,
however halt
and stumbling
we go,
to those who have
exactly what we need
exactly when we need it.
Our life is a miracle–
is one miracle after another–
of water in the desert
pouring out of a rock
that looks like every other rock
but is a wellspring
of living water
to a parched
and desperate soul.

05/04/2017 — Our work
(not what we are paid to do)
requires a regimen
that supports our work,
including silence
and mindfulness meditation
(you could call it prayer–
communion with the center,
with the core,
with more than words can say).
We don’t get a vacation
from the routine
that is a lifeline
to the heart of life and being–
our connection with the will
at work within us
to do what needs to be done
through us
every day of our life.

  1. 06/05/2017— Water Lily 2017 12 — Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, NC, June 4, 2017, an iPhone Photo I’ve lost track of the number of times
    Jesus said, “Do not sit in judgment!”
    (or words to that effect),
    but his words are wasted
    on his followers.
    Judgment is what Christians do best.
    Everybody not like them
    is going to hell in their book.
    Heresy trials,
    witch hunts,
    torture,
    drowning’s
    and burnings at the stake
    were common practice
    during the years
    of Christian domination,
    with shaming,
    shunning,
    ostracizing,
    and humiliating
    continuing to the present hour.
    Muslim bans are just another example
    of Xenophobia at work
    among those Jesus told,
    “Love your enemies!”
    Terrorism against Muslims
    is not called terrorism,
    and Christian extremism
    is not called extremism,
    and no one calls for
    “rounding up” or “banning”
    white supremacists.
    The rhetoric of hatred
    inflames hatred.
    Jesus clearly did not know
    how to motivate his people,
    or what it takes to be safe
    and happy at last.

05/05/2017 — Donald Trump is beyond
remorse, regret, guilt and
heart-felt apology.
That puts him in the company
of world-class predators
in every age–
always in the hunt
for those he can
humiliate, crush, defeat, destroy, disgrace, debase
and toss aside.
It’s always a contest with Trump
to triumph over all
and reign supreme–
at least in his own mind.

  1. 06/06/2017— Coleus 2017 01 — Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, NC, June 4, 2017 Good religion puts us in accord
    with the Actual Facts
    in the Real World
    of Tangible
    Concrete
    Objective Bad religion sews discord
    with its Alternative Facts
    and its Imaginary Universe
    packed with Angels
    and Demons,
    and its Superstitions
    (which it calls True Beliefs)
    about what to do on Sunday
    and how to keep God on your side.
    You can separate good religion
    from bad
    based on what it asks you to affirm,
    and what it asks you to deny–
    on what it asks you to understand/experience,
    and what it asks you to “take on faith.”
    If you are going to “take something on faith,”
    take evolution and continental drift on faith,
    not Satan and the lava lakes of Hell.

05/06/2017 — Here are a couple of books, manuals, really, to help you along your way…

“Wherever You Go, There You Are,” by Jon Kabat-Zinn

“The Power of Focusing,” by Ann Weiser Cornell

These aren’t books to speed through, but are sources for meditation and practice.

You can have the best collection of recipe books in the world,

but if you never cook, what’s the point?

05/06/2017 — Carl Jung said,
“I answer for my ancestors
the questions their lives
left behind.”
And I would add,
and ask for them the questions
their lives did not allow
them to consider.
We live to uncover and to answer
the questions of existence–
the questions life forces upon the living–
to face those questions straight up
and to not quit the struggle
until it is done.
It is not ours to know
what happens to us when/after we die.
Perhaps we wink out of existence entirely.
Perhaps we fade away.
Perhaps we fold into the next incarnation
of the long line of ancestors
encoded in our DNA.
I do believe that I am the current manifestation
of all of those who have gone before me–
that I am a unique and unrepeatable
blend of the genes I have inherited,
and that I work the work of the species
and of my particular line within the species,
presenting “who I am”
in all of the situations and occasions
which call me forth
and ask me to render
what is mine to give.
Apart from those situations and occasions,
I am not much of anything,
protoplasm awaiting some unimagined trigger mechanism
to spark some unknown element within
that I am capable of shaping
to meet the demands/the opening of the moment.
I am who I find myself to be within the NOW of my life.
So are you.
We live ourselves into being,
into reality,
into existence.
Life does not begin until we say “YES!”
to what is being asked of us,
and work to answer questions
our ancestors left behind.

05/06/2017 — It starts with bearing the pain.
The pain of life.
The pain of living THIS life
and not some other, better, finer, more fun
life instead.
The pain is the pain of the discrepancies between
how things are and how we want them to be.
Physical pain,
emotional pain,
the pain of what we have done
and of what has been done to us,
the of what we have failed to do,
and of what has failed to be done to us,
the pain of our ancestors
seeking an outlet and expression in us–
psychic pain built up through unimaginable
encounters with grief, loss and sorrow through time…
That pain.
It starts with our bearing it all.
Where do we go to learn how to bear the pain
of being alive?
Who talks to us about the art of bearing the pain of life?
All we know is denial.
Deflection.
Escape.
Addiction.
But.
Life cannot begin
until we square ourselves up with the pain
that is ours to bear,
and attend it with
compassionate, mindful, awareness
all along the way.

05/06/2017 — No one can bear the pain of our life for us.
The work is ours to do alone.
No one can live our life for us,
or tell us what life is ours to live.
The right kind of company
is essential
for the work that is ours to do,
and the right kind of company
knows the difference between
“the help that help is all about,”
and “the help we all could do without”
(Shel Silverstein).

05/06/2017 — No matter how we feel,
we still have to live
in the present moment.
We still have to meet the moment
on its terms,
and do there what needs to be done.
How we feel
may interfere with that,
or assist with it,
but the moment itself
calls us beyond feeling,
past feeling,
into seeing,
hearing,
knowing,
doing,
and being.
Being present with the moment
in awareness of the moment,
including whatever feelings
we may have regarding the moment,
allows us to hold all of it in awareness,
watching,
listening,
seeing,
hearing,
waiting for the right action
to arise of itself
at the right time
to do what needs us to do it
the way it needs to be done.
And step into the next moment,
the one that is already flowing
from this one.

05/06/2017 —   I have never known anyone
who “got it” less than,
or even, equal to,
Donald Trump.
I do so wish Trump could
not get it
the way Chauncey Gardiner
didn’t get it.
Or,
that Trump could get
that he doesn’t get it.
About anything.
Can he actually keep score in golf?
Can he find his way through a course
on his own?

  1. 06/07/2017— Veins 2017 01 — Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, June 4, 2017 Meaning isn’t found,
    it is lived,
    cultivated,
    created,
    produced
    and maintained
    in the service
    of that which is
    deepest, truest and best
    about us–
    of that which is integral
    to our identity,
    being
    and well-being.
    It is getting the ratios right.
    It is being at one with ourselves.
    Living from the center
    of who we are.
    Walking the path
    with our name on it–
    the path that is our path to walk
    through the times and places–
    the best of them
    and the worst of them–
    of our life.
    “We know when we are on the beam,
    and when we are off of it”
    (Joseph Campbell).
    Live to be on the beam.
    Live in ways that
    make your little heart sing.
    What’s stopping you?
  2. 06/08/2017— Boone Fork 2016 11 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Not one of us has enough time.
    That means we have to pay
    close attention
    to the time we have.
    There are no throw-away moments!
    There is no time during any day
    that is not worthy of our
    being fully present
    and fully attentive.
    We cannot spend a second
    lost in some mood,
    unavailable to what
    is present with us
    hoping to be seen,
    heard,
    felt,
    acknowledged,
    honored with our recognition
    and held in our awareness. Not.
    Let.
    A.
    Moment.
    Go.
    Without.
    Your.
    Full.
    Participation!
    Die having lived–
    knowingly!

06/08/2017 — The jungle is savage
in its own way,
and civilization is savage
in its own way.
We have to be awake,
attentive,
alert,
and aware
wherever we are.
What are you doing
to wake yourself up
today?

06/08/2017 —

Republicans tell people
what they want to hear
and do nothing for them.
And, the people do not get
the disconnect
because they are told
what they want to hear
and want to believe it is so–
and the alternative to false hope
is hopelessness,
and they cannot bear the truth
of that reality.
Voting Republican
is kidding themselves
about the value of a lie,
because they don’t have
what it takes to face the truth
and grow up.
The truth is that black people,
and LGBTQ’s,
and immigrants,
and Muslims,
and all the people they hate
need the same kind of help
they need,
and a coalition among them all
is their only real hope.
But.
They had rather go to hell
than go to heaven with Those People.
And Republicans know that,
and laugh all the way to re-election.
Racism (and all the other “isms”)
is the Republican ticket
to victory on voting day.
That’s what got Trump
where he is today.
It’s the only thing Republicans
have going for them.

06/08/2017 —

We have to be lucky, but.
We can put ourselves
in position to be lucky,
and let happen
what happens
without making too much
of whatever that is.

06/08/2017 — Nothing is more basic to our identity
than what we care about,
and what we do not care about.
What we care about is who we are.
Not what we say we care about.
We can clearly care about the right things,
and we can clearly care about the wrong things.
We can care about things
we have no business caring about–
and not care about things
that are essential to our good
and to the good of those about us.
The task of maturation
is to grow into those
who care deeply
about the right things–
about the things that
must be cared for.
We are to spend our life
learning what those things are
and learning how to care for them.
What is worth our time and attention?
How do we serve it with our life?
How do we decide what is worth caring about?
How do we get ourselves to care about it?
How do we know what is worth our life?
How do we place ourselves in its service,
and honor it with our devotion,
allegiance
and loyalty
all our life long?
If you can find better questions to answer,
answer them,
too!

06/08/2017 — My wife and I can agree
that it is 74 degrees in the house,
and disagree about
whether that is comfortable or hot.
You would never convince me
that it is hot
or convince her
that it is comfortable.
Things are for each of us
what they appear to be to us.
I have my ideas about
Republicans,
Jesus,
and refined sugar.
What I have to say
about those
(and other) things
is my considered position.
It is where I stand.
Other people stand somewhere else.
Betsy DeVos and I
stand poles apart
on the issue of the equal rights of all children
to quality education devoid of discrimination
on any level regarding anything–
and of the federal government’s place
in guaranteeing those rights.
My wife and I can work out
our disagreement over the temperature setting.
Betsy needs to understand
that discrimination is unconstitutional,
that it is the role of government
to enforce the Constitution,
and that we do not get to pick
which laws we can ignore.
Things are for each of us
what they appear to be to us,
but.
We both have to abide by the law,
no matter how we see things
or think they should be.

06/08/2017 — We can decide–
indeed, must–
what is right for us,
where we stand
and how we are going
to live our life,
WITHIN THE FRAMEWORK OF THE CONSTITUTION!
The Constitution is non-negotiable.
Even though some Republican-controlled
state legislatures think
they are beyond the jurisdiction
of the Constitution,
and the federal government
in its role as arbitrator and enforcer
of the Constitution,
and require the constant
supervision of the courts
to keep them within the bounds,
not only of the Constitution,
but also of human decency
and civil order,
the Rule of Law–
and that would be Constitutional Law–
keeps us solvent as a United States of America.
We all live and work and have our being
WITHIN THE FRAMEWORK OF THE CONSTITUTION!
The point is too easily lost,
set aside,
dismissed,
disregarded,
discounted,
ignored–
and that is how we got
where we are today.

06/08/2017 — We belong in different places,
and to different groups of people,
in each stage of development
throughout our life.
Life changes us.
And, if it doesn’t,
we are “arrested”
in one of the early stages
of development,
and sit,
saying the same things,
to the same people,
forever–
always missing the point
of being alive,
which is allowing ourselves
to be pulled forth,
against our will,
to our own surprise and consternation,
by the forces come to meet
and challenge us
in the conditions and circumstances
of each stage of life.
We are built to be different
over time–
by realizing who we are,
again and again,
in the grip of inspiration
and revelation
born of our emerging self
through its encounters
with the physical universe.
The places we belong,
and the people we belong to,
and the ideas that belong to us,
will change,
as we change
though the eternal rounds
of recognizing
“the face that was ours
before we were born.”

06/09/2017 — Life changes us.
If we aren’t changing,
we might as well be dead,
and are dead
for all the good being alive
does us,
or anyone around us.
We are changing our minds
about what is important
all of the time.
The things we refuse
to change our minds about
are the things that choke out
the life that is trying
to be lived.
When we pride ourselves
on being firm and solid
in our convictions,
we are saying
we are perfect just as we are.
Our life has a mind of its own,
and will gladly demonstrate for us
just how imperfect we are
by allowing us to “age out”
of perfection into ruin and wreckage,
crazy old people railing
about the world that has
left us behind.

  1. 06/09/2017— Day Lilies 2017 03 – Indian Land, South Carolina, June 4, 2016 It doesn’t matter what you believe.
    It matters what you do
    and how you do it.
    You will not be tested on your theology.
    If there is a test at all
    it will consist of two questions:
    What was important to you?
    How did you make manifest
    what was important to you
    in the way you lived your life?
    Theology is not important.
    The way you live is important.
    Believe anything you want to believe–
    anything it takes to believe–
    in order to do the thing that needs to be done–
    the right thing,
    the good and decent thing,
    the proper and fitting thing,
    the thing that needs you to do it,
    that needs somebody to do it,
    in each situation as it arises,
    all your life long.
    Knowing what that thing is
    takes living with your eyes open,
    with the eyes of your heart open,
    to the time and place of your living.
    It will not be the same thing
    in all of the times and places of your living.
    It will always be the thing that is called for,
    but it may never be called for again.
    Jesus raised the dead,
    and left the dead to bury the dead.
    Jesus forgave a guilty woman,
    and cursed an innocent fig tree.
    Jesus healed on the Sabbath,
    and cried out,
    “No sign will be given to you
    except the sign of Jonah!”
    You never knew with Jesus.
    You never know with you,
    what you will do next
    in response to where you are.
    Be like the wind
    that blows where it will,
    free to do what you determine
    needs to be done
    wherever you are.

06/09/2017— We are the ground
under our own feet,
the light for our
own path,
the stone our builder-self
rejects,
the pearl of great price
picked over again and again
by the self-who-knows-best within.
We wait for the courage
to trust ourselves
to know what we know,
and to believe in who we are
and what we have to give.
If not now, when?
If not here, where?

06/09/2017 — There is a sense
in which our lot in life
is our cross to bear,
but beyond that,
there is another cross
with our name on it–
the cross of being who we are
where we are;
the cross of bringing ourselves forth
within the lot
that is ours to bear.
The heroic deed
is to be more than
we think we can manage–
to over-achieve
in a place where nothing can be done–
to refuse to settle
for the course of least resistance,
for less than we are capable of being/doing.
Over the course of our life,
we are always coming up against
some form of internal opposition
that blocks our path
like a Cyclops of our own making:
Inertia.
Lethargy.
Disinclination.
Maybe tomorrow.
Maybe next time.
Maybe never.
What?
What is the first step?
Take it!
Pick up those crosses!
Start walking!

05/09/2017 — There is never anything more to it than this:
See what you look at.
Hear what you listen to.
Feel what you feel.
Touch what you touch.
Smell what you smell.
Taste what you taste.
Experience what you experience.
Think what you think.
Know what you know.
Be who you are,
and who you also are,
in ways that are fitting, proper and appropriate
in each situation as it arises.
Do what needs to be done–
what needs you to do it–
with the gifts that are yours to give.
Without having to have
a particular outcome.
For the rest of your life.

  1. 06/10/2017— Grandfather Mountain 2016 15 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Being okay in a situation that is not okay
    positions us to swing the situation toward
    being more okay than it would be without us.
    It is the turning point,
    the pivot point,
    the fulcrum,
    “the still point of the turning world”
    (T.S. Eliot).
    From there, things are possible
    that would not be possible
    from any other place.
    The key to being there
    is having no investment in any outcome;
    is not having to have anything happen;
    is to be able to not-strive for
    an idea of how things ought to be–
    to not-serve an ideology–
    to not push/shove/force our way–
    to not have a way
    in a “Thy will, not mine be done” kind of way,
    with “Thy” being the will–
    the good–
    of the moment,
    of the situation,
    of the time that is at hand.
    It is to be of service to the moment,
    to the need of the moment,
    to what needs to happen in the moment,
    without thought of gain,
    or profit,
    or benefit,
    or advantage.
    What is being called for?
    What is missing?
    What is crying out to be seen,
    heard,
    done,
    said?
    Listen!
    Look!
    See!
    Hear!
    With the eyes and ears of your heart.
    And trust yourself to the urgency
    arising from knowing what you know.

06/10/2017 — We live in perilous times,
with all the high values under attack–
liberty, justice, equality, compassion, kindness, grace,
tenderness, affection, good will, good faith, civility…
Hatred is on the rise,
emboldened by the appalling shamelessness of Donald Trump.
Children bully and shame other children
following Trump’s example,
using Trump’s words.
Our work is to remember
and to live out of
the core of what is essential to life
as human beings–
all of the old values above
and the others that belong with them,
non-violence, brave hearts, loyalty, allegiance, devotion,
goodness, beauty, truth…
Walk through the world each day,
unbowed and unbroken,
refusing to be pulled off the path
by the madness on every side.
Be a light in the dark wood.
An oasis in the barren wasteland.
A cup of cold water in presence of parching hatred.
A place where people can find shelter for their souls,
and “recover from the past,
and store up for the future.”
We have lived through perilous times before,
and carry the DNA of the species.
We are not alone,
but are surrounded by “a great cloud of witnesses,”
who have seen it all before,
and are present with us
to uphold and enable,
and urge us on,
whispering to us:
“You are the hope of the world.”

  1. 05/11/2017— Water Lily 2017 05 — Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, June 4, 2017 People world-wide fall out
    along a continuum
    of Mindfulness/Wakefulness/Maturation,
    and tend to gather in groups
    that reflect the degree
    of Mindfulness/Wakefulness/Maturation
    of each person in the group.
    We are comfortable with people
    who talk/think/act like we do–
    and are uncomfortable with people
    who are too much ahead of us,
    or behind us,
    on the Mindfulness/Wakefulness/Maturation scale.
    Rural, small town, USA
    has its place on the scale,
    and urban, up town, USA
    has its pace on the scale–
    and they are not the same place.
    I would be interested to see
    how people fall out
    in terms of their interests,
    hobbies,
    sports loves,
    education level,
    religious preference, etc.
    And, I would be interested to know
    how we might increase the level
    of Mindfulness/Wakefulness/Maturation
    on national and international levels.
    Watching Jon Kabat-Zinn videos
    and practicing Mindfulness Meditation
    wouldn’t hurt.

06/11/2017 — We all are–
each one of us is–
The Anointed One,
called to be who we are,
set apart before we were born
to be the gift we are
given to the world.
How well we are received
is not relevant to the question:
Will we honor the gift?
Will we serve the gift?
Will we incarnate the gift?
Regardless of the effort
and the outcome?
Will we despise the gift?
Dishonor the gift?
Reject the gift?
Deny,
Discount,
Disregard,
Ignore
the gift?
We are–
our life is–
the answer to the question
asked at our birth,
by our birth.

  1. 06/12/2017— Reelfoot Lake 2015 58 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 The price we are willing to pay
    restricts what we are able to do.

06/12/2017 — Our myth is what we tell ourselves
about the way things are
that enables us to live
with the way things are.
The myths by which we live
must support us through
our personal crises in life.
They have to sustain us
and enable us to go forward
with our lives.
When we find what sustains us
through those crises,
we find our myth.
What is it that supports us
in the face of total disaster?
To know that, is to know your myth.
A personal crisis
will strip us of all
we thought to be life-sustaining,
and force us to do the work
of creating a truly life-sustaining myth
out of the ruins of false claims
and empty promises.
The lesson of those ruins is:
How we have been told things are
is not how things are.
Now, what say we about
how things are,
and what to do about it?
Our answer has to come
out of the truth of our reflection
of own experience
in conjunction
with our own creative imagination
and the bedrock
of our own authority
that leads to new realizations
and new ways of living,
of responding to what happens.
It is like this:
the sun rises, or sets,
and we do not stand before
the sunrise or the sunset asking,
“How am I supposed to see this?”
“How am I supposed to feel about it?”
‘What am I supposed to think?”
“What is it supposed to mean to me?”
“What is my response supposed to be?”
We stand before a sunrise or a sunset,
and our response is our response.
Our perception arises
out of our own perspective,
and our reflection on the allness
of our experience
transforms our outlook and attitude
and graces us with new ways of seeing
based on the interaction of our “noble heart”
with the reality of our life experience.

06/12/2017 — On the final page of his four volume masterwork on the history of religion/mythology, “The Masks of God,” Joseph Campbell says:

“The free association of men and women of like spirit…(is) in the modern world, the only honest (possibility): each the creative center of authority for (himself/herself)… The individual (must) anticipate and activate in (himself/herself) the centers of (his/her) own creative imagination, out of which (his/her) own myth and life-building “Yes because” may then unfold…In the end…the guide within will be (his/her) own noble heart alone, and the guide without, the image of beauty, the radiance of divinity, that wakes in (his/her) heart amor: the deepest, inmost seed of (his/her) nature, consubstantial with the process of the All, “thus come.” And in this life-creative adventure the criterion of achievement will be, as in every one of the tales herein reviewed, the courage to let go of the past, with its truths, its goals, its dogmas of “meaning,” and its gifts: to die to the world and to come to birth from within.”

06/12/2017 — Attaining enlightenment,
and achieving full/true human-being-hood
will surpass all of the
categories of superlative
I’m sure, but.
It won’t do anything for us.
There is still the garbage to take out,
the mopping and the dusting,
the other chores,
the bills to pay–
and the way of escape
from the monotony and drudgery
will be removed
and replaced by the
compassionate receptivity
of the present moment
just as it is,
regardless of what it is.
Is that a trade-off we really
want to make?
Apparently not,
for a large number of us.

06/12/2017 — We are drawn to,
resonate with,
certain people.
Are strengthened
and enlivened by
certain people.
Enjoy the company of,
and are comforted by,
certain people.

Why some and not all?
Why anyone and not everyone?
These are mystical experiences.
Encounters with the spiritual aspect of life.
Evidence of more than meets the eye,
of more than words can say.
Proof that the physical dimension
is not the only dimension,
and that logic and reason
are not the only guides
through the Dark Wood.

  1. 06/13/2017— Carolina Thread Trail 2016 43/44 Panorama — York County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016 There are no shortcuts
    on the road to life,
    on the road of life.
    No one can do our work for us,
    can do the work for us,
    can tell us what to do
    and how to do it–
    except in the most general,
    vague,
    imprecise
    and useless
    kind of way.
    The way to God
    is the way of God.
    We have to be God
    to know God.
    And we do not get there
    by thinking
    or by believing.
    Godliness is not mental.
    It is “of the heart,”
    and heart and life are one.
    When we live without heart
    it shows.
    The spiritual journey
    is the distance
    from the head
    to the heart.
    Heart leads to
    and flows from
    the life we live.
    The way to the heart
    is the way of the heart.
    Heart is in how we live.
    Heart is in what we do.
    Heart is in how we do it.
    Until heart and life are one,
    we are wearing our hat
    looking for our hat.
    We are living
    to get to the place
    of being who we are
    and being right about
    who that is–
    with compassion
    for ourselves
    and all living things.
  2. 06/14/2017— Yellowstone Falls 2005 — Yellowstone National Park, Canyon Village, Wyoming, September, 2005 You can call it luck,
    or you can call it grace,
    or providence.
    It is the same thing:
    The ground of existence.
    The fundamental fact of life.
    We are all “just lucky to be here.”
    Some people are forever of the opinion
    that “Luck has noting to do with it!
    We are all here by the providence
    and grace of God!”
    My quick retort is,
    “Aren’t we lucky
    that God is so gracious
    and providential?”
    Luck comes in two forms,
    good and bad
    (Three if you count
    “None at all”).
    The interesting thing here
    is that luck is like quicksilver,
    or an optical illusion,
    or the fastest shape shifter
    of all time.
    Good luck becomes bad luck
    in a wink.
    And bad luck becomes good luck
    in a similar fashion.
    You can’t pin luck down.
    Now, you are lucky,
    now you are not,
    now you are…
    Nothing is as it was,
    or will be,
    or everything is,
    depending on your point of view,
    and the time of day
    (Or, of your life)
    you take the photo.
    So, if you think you
    are in the middle
    of the worst things can be,
    keep living.
    Everything changes in time.
    Sometimes,
    in a way that will make this
    seem like the best of times.

06/14/2017 — What I am about to write
applies to me, but.
My deep hunch is
that you could, right now,
be writing the same thing
about you.
I am confident it reflects
the truth about all of you
who are reading this.
Those whom it would not
describe would probably
have never visited this site,
and would be long since gone
if they had.

My life could be easier
than it is,
and a lot more fun,
with less to do
that I don’t like/want to do,
and more to do that I
do like/want to do.
It is often a grind
to get up again
and go meet what is waiting.
And I am usually not in the mood
to do it.
So, I feel worse about my life
than I have any right to feel.
Over the years,
I have amassed a hell of a fine record
of meeting challenges.
I’ve done some things
as well as Jesus, the Buddha,
or the Dalai Lama
could have done them–
and some things better
(Let’s see the Dalai Lama
change a diaper, for example,
a rank, ripe, godawful one).
I have met challenges in the past,
and will meet them in the future.
I am confident in my ability
to do that.
No matter how I feel about
how I’m doing,
I’m doing very well.
And.
So.
Are.
You.

  1. 06/15/2017— Coleus 2017 02 — Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, June 5, 2017 We have to work together
    to serve the good of the whole.
    When the good of a part
    asserts itself over the good of the whole,
    it’s a problem.
    Whose good is served
    by the good we call good?
    Whose good is discounted,
    dismissed,
    disregarded,
    denied,
    despised,
    ignored?
    Partisan politics,
    partisan religion,
    partisan practices of any kind,
    where by the good of the many
    is subservient to the good of the few,
    and what is right
    is defined as what is right
    in the eyes of the few
    at the expense of what is right
    in the eyes of the many,
    is not the ground of democracy,
    and cannot sustain an environment
    in which people are free
    to find their own way
    and express their own truth
    while honoring and serving
    the good of the whole.
    How much for the individual
    and how much for the group
    is the dynamic dialectic
    that limits the individual
    and restricts the group–
    “the slippery slope,”
    “the dangerous path,”
    “the razor’s edge,”
    that defines,
    shapes,
    and governs
    our life together.
    Without good faith
    and self-transparency,
    we have no hope
    of pulling it off–
    and everything rides
    on our pulling it off!

06/15/2017 —   The slippery slope,”
“the dangerous path,”
“the razor’s edge”
is being the authority
for our own life
and being right
about what we do.
It is knowing what we are doing
in one situation after another
in which
“Who can be so wise?”
Everything rides on
our knowing what we are doing
and we cannot possibly
know what we are doing.
So.
We start with knowing
that we do not know
what we are doing,
and proceed from there
along “the slippery slope,”
“the dangerous path,”
“the razor’s edge.”
Looking,
listening,
inquiring,
in order to
see,
hear,
and understand.
Slowly grasping
over the course of our life
what is happening,
what is being asked of us
and what needs to be done in response.
We get better at living mindfully
by practicing the art of mindfulness
to the best of our ability
at each stage along the way.
The key principles of mindfulness are:
Seeing what we look at.
Being where we are.
Fully present with this moment right now,
without judgment or opinion,
with compassion, kindness and awareness.
Knowing what we know,
and waiting to see
what that knowledge
asks of us
and where things go from there.
Where we repeat
the same process
endlessly forever
along “the slippery slope,”
“the dangerous path,”
“the razor’s edge.”

06/15/2017 — People have to be heard!
Nothing is more empowering
than being listened to with understanding.
Carl Jung said,
“The reason for evil in the world
is that people are not able
to tell their stories.”
And, they are not able
to tell their stories
because there is no one to listen.
Listening with understanding
is the foundation
to all livable futures.
Listening with understanding
is as simple
as being mindfully aware
of what all is being said.
Listening is mindful awareness
extended to another person–
it is being mindfully aware
of the other person,
in a way that enables
the other person
to be mindfully aware
of herself/himself.
The gift of mindful awareness
is that proverbial gift
“that goes on giving.”
If you are going to be anything,
be mindfully aware of everything.

06/15/2017 — The path for Christianity
is to ditch its theology
and reclaim its symbols
by updating its myth.
For example:
It could talk about Christianity
as the way between
the two gardens,
Eden and Gethsemane–
metaphors for doing it our way,
living out of our idea
of how our life ought to be lived,
discovering the emptiness
and lostness
of that wasteland,
dying to that orientation
and coming to life
by living in collaboration
with our psyche/self within
in a “thy will not mine be done” kind of way.
We live away from thinking our way
into our life
to living mindfully, compassionately, aware
of our life’s need of the gifts we bear,
and look for ways to incarnate them
in each situation that arises,
for the good of the whole.
The church then becomes a way-station
on the spiritual journey,
offering hope and direction
through good times and bad.
This is a paradigm waiting to be initiated.
What’s the holdup?

  1. 06/16/2017— Grandfather Mountain 2016 18 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Let’s say you hate black people,
    and women,
    and immigrants,
    and Muslims,
    and LGBTQ’s,
    and Latinos,
    and poor people,
    and people with disabilities–
    and even if you say
    you don’t hate anyone,
    but they can’t tell the difference
    by the way you treat them,
    or, you vote for someone
    who does hate them,
    you may as well hate them,
    and you are only kidding yourself
    in saying that you don’t.
    Or if you hate the people
    who hate all these people…
    Where are you going to go
    to exorcise your hatred?
    How are you going
    to cure your hatred?
    How are you going
    to be free of hatred?
    What are you going to do
    about your hatred?
    No one can do
    anything about your hatred
    but you.
    If you are waiting
    for all the people you hate
    to disappear,
    you will die hating
    all of the people
    who haven’t disappeared.
    Your hatred is up to you.
    What are you going to do
    about it?

06/16/2017 — We have to guard
our own solitude,
mine the silence
for the gold,
and be present
in each moment
with compassionate
non-judgment–
in order to meet
the moment
as it needs to be met,
and let things
take their course.
There is nothing
difficult about this,
it is merely distasteful,
going, as it does,
against the current
of the popular idea
regarding how things
are to be done:
With a resolute will
an irresistible force,
and unrelenting determination.

06/16/2017 — Alexis Carrel said,
“We are both the marble and the sculptor.”
The chisel and the compelling vision.
The conscious ego and the unconscious psyche.
Come together to incarnate ourselves
in the world of time and space.
We make no progress
because we devote no
attention and effort
to the project—
and die without living
the life that was our potential
at birth.
It’s time to get to work
on ourselves.

  1. 06/17/2017— Jasper Wetlands 2009 01 — Jasper National Park, Alberta, September, 2009 We don’t choose
    what we care about.
    We don’t care about
    what we care about
    because we ought to,
    because someone told us to,
    because it would be smart to,
    because it will look good on our record.
    All of that results in posturing,
    not caring.
    We can pretend to care about
    anything, We can say we care about it all.
    But.
    We have no control at all
    over the things we actually
    care about.
    What are the things
    you actually care about?
    How do you
    exhibit,
    express,
    incarnate,
    manifest
    the depth and degree
    of your caring.
    How do you make apparent
    what you care about?
    How would anyone know
    you care about what you care about?
    We are here to care about
    what we care about
    in visible,
    tangible,
    concrete ways.
    Caring about the things we care about
    will lead us into
    living the life that is our life to live.
    Climb aboard that beast–
    if you dare–
    and tell them
    to open the chute,
    you are going
    for the ride of your life.

06/17/2017 —

In the Bible, the Preacher (Ecclesiastes),
says, “There is a time
for every purpose
under heaven.”
This is the Tao.
This is Karma.
When things are happening
in accord with their purpose
and their time,
things are happening
in accord with the Tao,
and things are aligned with,
and producing,
good Karma.
Then the shoe maker
is making shoes,
the taxi driver
is driving a cab,
the poet is writing poetry,
the civil engineer is
building bridges…
When things are out of sync
with their purpose and their time,
the shoe maker
is writing poetry,
the poet is building bridges,
the taxi driver is making shoes,
the civil engineer is driving a cab…
We begin to turn things
back to their natural flow
when we sit quietly
and reflect on
what is ours to do,
and when, and how,
best to do it.
Putting ourselves in accord
with our own time and purpose,
creates momentum
that shifts the world
toward balance and peace.
One person in sync with herself
influences harmony
wherever she goes.

  1. 06/18/2017— Day Lilies 2017 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 3, 2017 Joseph Campbell said,
    “Where you stumble and fall,
    there lies the gold!”
    (or words to that effect).
    All those mistakes
    and snafu’s,
    the false starts
    and wrong turns,
    the failures,
    flops,
    faux pas’s…
    All the things we
    we have done
    and not done
    we remember
    so vividly
    with such shame
    and remorse…
    All that we wish
    we had done differently…
    plays a part
    in who we have become,
    and who we might yet be.
    The things we learn
    are not all easy things to learn.
    The things we know
    do not all come to us
    in smooth and gentle ways.
    Aeschylus, writing some years
    before Campbell, said,
    “He who learns must suffer.
    And even in our sleep pain
    that cannot forget
    falls drop by drop
    upon the heart,
    and in our own despair,
    against our will,
    comes wisdom to us
    by the awful grace of God.”
    It is a terrible path
    to our own humanity,
    made more terrible–
    unforgivably so–
    by refusing to walk it
    and claim, thereby, the gold.

06/18/2017 — There is no getting everything in place
so that we can relax
and enjoy our life.
There is only meeting
the challenges presented
by each present moment
for as long as there are moments.
Do not think this is about
getting somewhere.
We are not going anywhere.
There is no progress
in terms of getting everyone
to agree to live with justice and kindness
in relationship with each other.
Progress is measured
in our willingness and ability
to get up and do what needs
us to do it
in each situation as it arises
no matter what.
We will never run out of moments
that need what we have to offer.
Take heart!
We will never run out of
what we have to give!

  1. 06/19/2017— Castle Mountain 2009 01 — Banff National Park, Alberta, Canadian Rockies, September, 2009 There is nothing wrong with us–
    as individuals,
    as a nation,
    as a world–
    that growing up
    wouldn’t make better.
    Growing up
    is always
    the unacknowledged option.
    The one we never consider,
    and always ignore
    in favor of finding ways
    to impose our way
    on everything
    standing in our way.
    We will do anything
    to avoid growing up.

06/20/2017 — This is Karen Handel’s
(the Republican running
for election to Georgia’s
sixth district) core message:
“We are going to rock
Nancy Pelosi’s world!”
No word about any of the social issues
facing the people on the list
of the marginalized and maligned,
ignored, disregarded and discarded
throughout the country.
Just show Nancy Pelosi who is boss!
It is a sick message,
and a telling exposure
of “the Republican Mind.”

06/20/2017 — My bias,
my prejudice,
my bigotry,
my political profiling
tells me that
the people who will
vote for Karen Handel
in Georgia’s 6th District today
will not have anything to worry about
regarding losing their health care,
will not be Muslim
or have anything at stake
in the disdain and disregard
for Muslims nationwide,
will not care anything at all
about the future of LGBTQ rights,
or about women’s rights,
or about the rights of people
to a livable wage,
or about the rights of disabled people,
or the rights of children,
or about the future of public education,
or about helping students,
with the costs of a college education…
They will be concerned about
their own safety and security,
their personal comfort and peace of mind.
And they will think,
all evidence to the contrary tossed aside,
that Republicans will keep them safer
than Democrats will.
Tossing evidence to the contrary aside
is what Republicans really do best.

  1. 06/20/2017— Jasper Wetlands 2009 04 — Jasper National Park, Alberta, Canadian Rockies, September, 2009 Here’s a creed for the Non-Subscribing Church
    of What’s Happening Now: I believe in mindful,
    compassionate,
    non-judgmental,
    awareness
    of the just-as-it-is-ness
    and the all-ness
    of each present moment.
    I believe in liberty, justice and equality;
    in beauty, creativity and imagination;
    in kindness, good faith, and goodwill;
    in goodness, mercy, and grace;
    in tenderness, intimacy, and vulnerability;
    in noble hearts and unquenchable spirits;
    in empathetic understanding of self and others;
    in self-reflection and self-transparency;
    in seeing what we look at and knowing what we know;
    in experiencing our experience and loving what we love;
    in caring about what we care about,
    and living in ways that make our little heart sing–
    while honoring the right of all people
    to a life that expresses and incarnates
    the best they are capable of being
    in the time and place of their living. To be edited, expanded and enlarged
    in order to say what needs to be said
    as it occurs to us
    over the course of our life.
    This reflects my idea of religion at its best.

06/20/2017 — I am intensely,
and perhaps eternally,
interested in the process
by which we change our mind.
I have changed my mind
more times than I can remember,
and typically am aware of changing it
several times a week–
but.
I have never forced my mind
to change against its will.
I cannot talk myself into thinking
contrary to the way I think.
My thinking–my mind–changes
on its own,
without my making it happen.
It as though my mind
has a mind of its own.
My mind changes me.
I do not change my mind.
I “wake up,” so to speak,
and discover that
my mind has changed.
Upon reflection,
it seems to me that
experience changes my mind–
that my mind experiences
reality in a way
that shifts something
internal to it,
and it changes,
changing me (my behavior) along with it.
My place in the process (I think),
is allowing my mind the freedom/right
to its own experience of reality.
I do not sit in judgment/control
of my mind’s perception of reality,
of its perspective of reality.
It sees what it sees (what it looks at),
and not what it is supposed to see.
My maternal grandfather–
who was person most locked into
seeing only what he allowed himself to see,
exactly as he had always seen it,
that I have ever known–
did not have the freedom of his own experience.
He experienced everything exactly
as he had always experienced it.
If anything new came along,
he treated it as he always treated
anything new that came along,
throwing it on the trash pile
of things never to think about again.
His mind never changed.
His way of life never changed.
I am here, in part,
to redeem his life.
I don’t try to control my mind.
I try to keep up with my mind,
and let it show me
what I need to know/think/do
here/now.
And, I wonder how other people
experience the process
of their mind changing.
It is a curiosity that keeps me going.

06/20/2017 — In addition to being
intently and eternally
interested in how our mind changes,
I am also taken
with how our strongly held beliefs
all are self-validating–
they are true
because we know they are true
based on our own experience.
This is the ground of all superstitions,
and all religious belief.
If you “take anything on faith,”
it will be validated in your own experience
over time.
Take the statements…
“All women are ____”
“All men are ____”
“All black people,
LGBTQ people,
Latinos
Muslims
Etc.
are ___”
Believe them fervently,
and they will be validated in your own experience.
It is because, of course,
we become biased,
prejudiced,
bigoted,
in the service of our own beliefs,
and “look” for the ways our experience
confirms them,
while “overlooking” the ways
our experience refutes them.
It is a trick we play on ourselves–
a trick that becomes
a determining factor
in how we live our life.
Once we believe something,
we are not free to disbelieve it,
and interfere with/deny
our mind’s experience of its experience,
refusing to allow
evidence to the contrary
to enter our field of view
and change our mind about what we believe.
We become “sot in our ways.”
And beyond all hope of awakening,
transformation,
and redemption.

06/20/2017 — Jesus’ injunction to
“Judge not,”
can be understood
as a plea
to be open to our experience.
Judging an experience
cuts us off from the experience,
prevents us
from experiencing the experience,
keeps us
from knowing more than we know,
by settling for knowing
what the experience is
as we render our judgment upon it.
“Judge not,”
means “Keep an open mind,”
“Wait and see,”
“Let life be your teacher,”
“Don’t think you know enough
to stop thinking
about anything!”

  1. 06/21/2017— Bearded Iris 2017 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 17, 2017 We do what we do
    in season and out of season,
    around the clock,
    in all weather conditions,
    whether we feel up to it or not,
    whether we are in the mood for it or not,
    whether it’s working or not,
    whether it makes any sense or not,
    whether it does any good or not,
    whether it makes a difference or not
    because it is who we are,
    and it needs us to do it,
    and nothing matters more
    than being true to our own core
    and standing fast
    on the bedrock of our own identity
    in being who we are
    in the time and place of our living.
    If we are not going to believe in
    what we believe in
    and exhibit our loyalty, allegiance and devotion
    to the work that is our work
    and the values that are out values,
    we make a travesty
    of believing,
    working
    and valuing,
    and show ourselves to be hollow people
    drifting aimlessly,
    mindlessly,
    through the wasteland
    of greed and hopelessness.
    Ain’t no damn Cyclops
    going to throw us off the path,
    no matter how many there are
    or how often they block the way!

06/21/2017 — Carl Jung said,
“Protection and security
are only valuable
if they do not cramp life excessively.”
Safety is not the highest value.
Being fully alive
and open to life
is the highest value.
Living with all that is within us
for as long as life is possible
is the highest value.
Holding nothing back
and giving all that is ours to give
in every time and place,
condition and circumstance,
of our living
is the highest value.
Dancing with our fear
and stepping into the unknown
in the company of all
that comes with us
into the wonder
of every moment
is the highest value.
We don’t know what
is going to happen,
or what we are going
to do about it,
but we are going
to find out,
and can’t wait to see!

06/21/2017 — No matter how bad it gets,
we still have to deal with it–
and how we deal with it
makes all the difference.
Hope is not what we have,
it is what we do–
it is how we live.
We live hopefully,
defiantly,
courageously,
determinedly,
in the service
of the best we can imagine,
in allegiance
to the highest values
we can envision,
in each situation
as it arises,
all our life long.
That does not change.
Conditions change.
Circumstances change.
The environment and atmosphere
in which we live
fluctuate with the times,
but we remain grounded
in our vision of the good,
in our sense of what is right,
just, beautiful,
and worthy of what we have to give.
When in doubt,
stick with who you are
and what you are about.
Our identity is our foundation.
Our values are our guide.
No matter how hard it gets,
it is never more difficult
than being who we are,
doing what is ours to do,
in every situation as it arises,
all our life long.

06/21/2017 — It is easier for us to believe
what we believe
if we associate
with people who
share our beliefs.
Ratification, verification,
validation, confirmation
repeated over time
normalizes our beliefs,
makes them familiar,
comfortable,
right and true.
White supremacists
hang out with white supremacists
listen to white supremacists
and read what white supremacists write.
Same goes for evangelical Christians
and liberal Democrats.
What we believe is a function of,
an extension of,
the company we keep–
and the company we keep
is a reflection of what we believe.
Mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness
changes things–
across the board,
around the circle
(and around the world).
Introspection,
self-reflection,
self-examination
in conjunction
with “other” and “outer”
inspection,
reflection,
examination
produces realization
formed in and by awareness,
and that transforms perspective
and enlarges perception,
grows us toward maturation,
and alters reality
by clarifying and deepening
our comprehension/understanding
of what is happening
and needs to happen.
If you want to change something,
become intently,
intensely,
aware of it
and of everything associated with it.

06/21/2017 — The magic lies in how
we respond, relate, react
to what happens–
to what is happening–
and how what is happening
impacts us,
and how we impact it.
The magic resides
at the interface
between ourselves
and our life–
between our ego consciousness
and our psychic unconsciousness–
and enables
the dance,
the flow,
of life.
We assist the magic,
or resist it,
and that is the turn
that tells the tale.

06/21/2017 —

All religions require
their adherents to
“take it on faith”
that the creeds, doctrines, premise’s
of the religion are true/actual/factual/real.
Taking something “on faith”
comes down to
taking someone’s word for it
that it is so.
It is believing that someone
knows what they are talking about
regarding what to believe,
and believing it
because they say so.
They say,
“Believing it is so
is the way to
knowing that it is.”
Of course.
That’s the way horoscopes work.
Believing that it is not so
is the way to
knowing that it isn’t.
Belief in anything is groundless.
Faith in anything is without evidence.
We always believe as much
in spite of something as
because of something.
We know prayer works
because someone prayed
and was healed.
Never mind that cemeteries
are filled with people
who had a different outcome.
So, how do we know what to believe?
Knowing and believing
operate on different frequencies.
The kind of knowing that
stems from believing
is the kind that makes no inquires,
and runs no experiments,
and tests no hypotheses.
It’s the kind that says,
“It doesn’t matter what the facts are,
we know what the truth is.”
All belief is self-validating,
and arguing over which set of beliefs
is True Belief
is like arguing over the meaning
of an ink blot.

06/21/2017— If Christianity would dump its theology
and reclaim/reinterpret
its symbols,
what a difference that would make
in the world!
But.
That won’t happen from the top down.
The flow goes from the bottom up.
But.
Even that is such a difficult struggle,
people opt for simply walking away.
That’s such a shame,
because “the symbols of transformation”
(Carl Jung)
are all “right there.”
Communion and Baptism are two good ones.
Throw out the theology surrounding both,
and you are left with
bread, wine, and water.
We couldn’t ask for three better ones.
Bread:
“The bread of affliction is the bread of life.”
Wine:
“The cup of suffering is the cup of salvation.”
Water:
“Everyone is born of water (embryonic fluid)
and of spirit (the mysterious source of life and being).”
You could build a life
around the exploration
of those symbols
and the implications
they have for the life
we live–
no theology needed.

06/21/2017 — Understanding something
doesn’t mean we will be able
to explain it.
Sheldon Kopp said,
“Some things can be experienced,
but not understood–
and some things can be understood,
but not explained.”
We have to relax ourselves
into some things,
and allow them to carry us
wherever they are going.
Probably,
most things are that way.

  1. 06/22/2017 — Athabaska Valley 2009 01 — Jasper National Park, Canadian Rockies, Alberta, September, 2009 I weep for the complexity of our lives.
    For our work of balancing the contradictions,
    managing the offsetting opposites,
    reconciling the irreconcilable,
    bearing the pain of polarities,
    getting up each day
    to face the mutually exclusive
    incompatibilities that form and shape,
    bend and contort
    who we are–
    and who we also are.
    We are the best working agreement
    we can manage.
    It is no wonder we are depressed,
    alcoholic,
    drug repositories,
    religious fanatics,
    symptomatic,
    strung out between
    our wits end
    and the end of our rope.
    Where would we be
    without our addictions
    and our denial?
    And yet, and yet…
    In the darkest night of that denial,
    with all the threatening light
    shut tightly out
    so that no one–
    especially not us–
    knows how it is with us,
    divided as we are
    through the heart of our being,
    something–
    someone– We know.
    And cannot abide our knowing.
    But.
    It isn’t like we are the only one.
    The entire history of humanity
    (and of our literature, music and art)
    is the story of the secrets we keep
    about our Other Sides.
    What to do with the truth of us all?
    I recommend weeping–
    and opening ourselves thereby
    to the truth of our Other Sides,
    bearing mindfully that truth
    through the days,
    holding in our awareness all that we are,
    without denying or excommunicating
    or demonizing or shaming,
    simply receiving the truth
    and all of its contraries,
    and working out
    as well as we are able
    the compromises and concessions
    required to keep
    the whole together
    and functioning as a unit
    in the world
    of normal,
    apparent,
    reality.

06/22/2017 — The Republicans’ one-trick pony
is demonizing the Democrats.
Remove all references to Democrats
from their vocabulary,
and they have nothing to say.
They demonize the Democrats
for being closet Socialists
(And “everybody knows,” they say,
“that Socialism is Satanic to the core!”).
They demonize both Clintons.
They demonize Barack Obama.
They demonize Nancy Pelosi.
They demonize gun control
(which they posit as a Democrat conspiracy).
They demonize all social programs
(see above re. socialism).
They demonize abortion.
They demonize homosexuality.
They demonize poverty
as evidencing a lack of self-discipline
and a will to succeed.
Republicans offer themselves
as the only fitting alternative
to the Demonic Democrats.
After a generation of repeating the mantra,
all they have to do is stand before
their constituents
and shout,
“At least, I won’t take your guns away!”
And walk off with an automatic 40% of the vote.
Democrats can claim another 40%,
which leaves 10% for Third Party candidates
and 10% who control the outcome.
Democrats have to stop being defensive
and make their case
for Democracy,
civil and human rights
to the uncommitted 10%
who carry the future of the country
with them into the voting booth.

06/22/2017 — Democrats are serving/selling
Liberty, Justice, Equality,
and all the values implied by
and contingent upon The Big Three
(Compassion, grace, kindness, truth,
transparency, forthrightness, good faith, etc.).
Democrats serve/sell civil and human rights.
Democrats serve/sell the fundamental basics
of Democracy:
The Rule of Law; The Separation of Powers;
The Authority of the Constitution;
Liberty and Justice for All;
Of The People, By The People, For The People…
And if the majority of the American people
won’t vote for Democrats
representing the principles
of American Democracy,
then God help us all.

  1. 06/23/2017 — Moraine Lake 2009 04 — Banff National Park, Alberta, Canadian Rockies, September, 2009 We do not do what we do to achieve some goal.
    We do what we do to serve our purpose,
    our values,
    our principles,
    our character.
    We do what we do to be who we are
    whether it does “any good” or not.
    We do not care what our outcomes are,
    or may be.
    We care who we are
    and how that is to be best incarnated
    in the time and place of our living–
    in each situation as it arises–
    all our life long.
    We live to be who we are
    here and now!
    That is our motivation and our goal.
    We are the purpose of our living.
    We live to be ourselves,
    to express ourselves,
    and become ourselves
    in the effort we make
    to identify, understand, and be who only we can be
    in the life we are living,
    in the times in which we live.
    In order to pull this off,
    we require the right blend,
    the right balance,
    the right mix
    of solitude and socialization,
    of engagement and disengagement,
    of experience and reflection on experience,
    of silence and conversation.
    My bet is that most of us
    are under-nourished
    on the quiet side of the equation,
    and just want someone
    to turn up the music
    most of the time
    to make our mind
    quit making us crazy.
    To give us some goal,
    so that we don’t have to know
    who we are,
    or hear ourselves think.

06/23/2017 — Watching the United States government
work against the people of the U.S.
and of the entire globe,
is like watching the glaciers melt
and the polar ice pack
cave into the sea.
It is inevitable, unstoppable, heartbreaking–
and we did it to ourselves.
For money,
and the pleasures
money can buy.
Profit at any price
eventually runs down,
plays out,
stops working.

06/23/2017 — Nothing is wrong with me
that better advice and guidance
wouldn’t have prevented.
My advisors and guides
would have said the same thing.
How come Obi wan’s and Yodas
are in such short supply?
Where are those who know
hiding out?

  1. 06/24/2017 — Goodale 2016 34 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Everything happens for a reason:
    Because something else happened,
    or failed to happen.
    There is no starting point
    and no end point.
    There is only one thing leading to another
    for as far as the eye can see.
    We all are where we are
    because of how we responded
    to the people, places and things
    that nudged us off our track
    and onto another
    all along the way.
    The trick is that the entire web
    of influence and impact–
    reaction-action-reaction–
    turns on how we respond to it.
    How we deal with what happens
    effects what happens next.
    Everything is related to everything else.
    We do not live in a vacuum–
    and cannot live as though we do.
    Everything we do matters
    in terms of the waves of influence
    it creates–
    the furrows of karma it plows–
    for our personal future
    and the future of all things.
    Every moment is a swing moment.
    Every now is the fulcrum shifting
    all those that follow.
    The present is the turning point
    for the rest of time.
    Nothing is isolated and/or irrelevant.
    Everything is a player
    in the field of time and action.
    We all have a place
    and carry weight.
    It only takes realization
    to know that it is so.
    Then, all that remains,
    is living as though it is so–
    by being mindfully
    (compassionately/non-judgmentally)
    aware of what is happening
    and what needs to happen
    regardless of what we want to happen,
    putting ourselves in accord
    with the just-so-ness–
    with the way-it-is-ness–
    of the way things are,
    and doing what seems best to us
    in light of the true good of the whole.

06/24/2017 — Here is how we all can marry each other
and live happily ever after:
You make a list of all the things
you find attractive
that you imagine about me,
and I will make a list of all the things
I find attractive
that I imagine about you–
and like this all around the circle–
then you spend the rest of your life
working to bring forth in yourself
the things on your list,
and I spend the rest of my life
working to bring forth in myself
the things on my list,
with you working to incarnate me in your life,
and me working to incarnate you in my life.
I become you as only I can be you,
and you become me as only you can be me.
In this way, the two of us become one.
And we don’t have to deal with the in-laws.
It is the perfect union.

06/24/2017 — With focus on the way–
on the path that is The Path–
being paramount,
distractions and diversions are everywhere.
Everything is distraction!
Everything is diversion!
So, let it be
because it is.
Hold everything in your awareness,
and return to your breathing.
Grounded in your breath,
standing/seated/lying/walking/running/driving/etc.
in the present moment
remember the way
and the path that is The Path.
Repeat as often as necessary,
and be well.

06/24/2017 — Of course, everything is one.
We belong,
along with everyone
and everything else
to the great web of life and being
(and non-being).
Without sunlight, where would we be?
Sunlight presupposes sun,
sun presupposes the basic elements
of the universe–
the same elements that comprise the atoms
that make up everything
from crying babes in arms
to grand pianos
and baseball bats
that hit grand slams.
Nothing exists that is not a part
of the whole.
We all are one whole smooch
on the cheek of the source of life and being
(and non-being)–
as Thank-you and celebration!

  1. 06/25/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 18-B — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Of course, we are two.
    We are as different as daylight and dark.
    Two-ness is no more of an illusion
    than one-ness is.
    Everybody can see that,
    while we are one,
    “we are not the same one”
    (Johnny Cash and 10,000 others).
    Just as daylight and dark
    are different aspects
    of the same day,
    so you and I
    are different aspects
    of the same species–
    we are even different aspects
    of ourselves over time.
    All trees are the same
    and no two trees are alike.
    A rock is not an egg.
    We can break an egg
    and eat its contents,
    but if we break a rock
    we still have a rock–
    and rock dust
    (commonly called “sand”)
    is still not an egg.
    We all have fingerprints,
    but none of us have the same fingerprints.
    Oneness is not uniformity.
    It is in our distinguishing features
    that we become the wonder we are.
    Our gifts display our uniqueness,
    reveal our identity,
    set us apart–
    yet, not too far apart,
    but far enough apart
    to recognize the beauty
    of the other,
    delight in the variety
    of the whole,
    and appreciate the magic
    we all bring to life in the world.

06/25/2017 — When the leader
is incapable of leading,
and “the center
fails to hold”
(W.B. Yeats),
the people have to find
the ground under
their own feet,
and return to the source
of their own identity.
What is good?
Whose good is served
by the good we call good?
What was the face
that was ours
before we were born–
before we were taken
from ourselves
by a culture
needing us
to buy, spend, amass and consume
and keep the culture going?
Failed by the culture,
we have to find our way back
to the bedrock of our being,
and live out of who we are
and what is ours to do.
Led by our intuitive sense,
our instinctive knowledge,
of what is “us” and “not us,”
and good for all of those
seeking to serve
the core of life and being,
we often walk two paths
at the same time,
along a slippery slope,
a dangerous path,
like the razor’s edge,
until we “arrive where we started,
and know it for the first time”
(T.S. Eliot).

  1. 06/26/2017 — Cotton in the Field 2015 02 Panorama — Mississippi Delta, November 3, 2015 Aging is the art
    of letting go what’s going
    and letting come what’s coming.
    It’s all going.
    Even what’s coming.
    The art of aging
    is squaring yourself up
    with how it is now.
    Forget how much you liked how it was.
    Forget how much you don’t like how it is.
    Remember, it’s going, too.
    So, what the hell?
    Mindfulness is the art
    of knowing what’s happening now
    and responding to it
    in ways appropriate
    to the occasion.
    The art of aging well
    hinges on managing
    the art of mindfulness well.
    When your mind goes
    it’s all gone,
    but until then,
    your mind is your best friend,
    and how you live in relation to it
    determines everything.
    It’s all mental!
    Not in terms of logic and reason,
    but in terms of awareness and knowing.
    Mental is not thinking.
    Mental is seeing, hearing, understanding
    and living as though we do.
    Our mind is how we put
    it all together,
    heart, soul, instinct, intuition,
    logic, reasoning, intellect,
    perceiving, assuming, inferring…
    Mind is the sphere of perspective and perception,
    receiving and responding.
    Mind takes the whole show into account,
    works out the ratios,
    and comes up with a plan of action,
    which may be doing nothing at all
    but waiting.
    There is so much we just have to wait out.
    And then,
    there is letting go,
    and letting come.
    Not much action there, either.
    Doing nothing at the right time,
    in the right spirit,
    in the right frame of mind,
    is always the best thing to do.
  2. 06/27/2017 — Rountree Nursery 2016 02 — Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, October, 2016 All of the superheros have powers
    they they apply as needed
    to any situation
    everywhere
    no matter what.
    Mindful awareness
    is a superpower
    that doesn’t work
    that way.
    Mindful awareness
    positions us
    to offer what we have to give
    to every situation
    as it arises,
    but a lot of situations
    have no need
    of what we have to offer,
    and most situations
    take no notice.
    Mindful awareness
    is swept away
    in situations
    controlled by
    mindless ruthlessness,
    or simply by
    mindless arrogance,
    or mindless greed,
    or mindless stupidity.
    Mindful awareness
    positions us to see doors
    where we would otherwise
    see no doors,
    but, the prevailing winds
    may not favor
    propitious outcomes.
    The ability to rise
    to every occasion
    does not guarantee
    successful results.
    There is no immunity.
    There are no exemptions or exclusions.
    Mindful awareness
    gives us our best chance
    of seeing what is happening
    and what needs to happen in response
    and doing the same thing
    with what happens after that, But.
    It’s nip and tuck all the way.

06/27/2017 — The work of resistance
is the work of mindful awareness,
the ground of which
is the formation
of an individual perspective
which creates individual perceptions,
which is to say individual points of view.
Oneness with ourselves
is primary oneness,
and is the necessary component
in “To Thine Own Self Be True.”
And where shall we incarnate
our truthfulness to our own self–
if not in the field
of the Social,
the Cultural,
and the Political?
We bring ourselves to life in our life
by living in ways that are true to ourselves–
to our individual perspective,
our individual perceptions,
our individual points of view.
No Group Think Allowed.
Republicans who march
in lockstep cadence
to the tune of their Keepers
who bought them their office
cannot tolerate
or dominate
individuals who are
listening to themselves.
Such individuals
are the hope of democracy,
and of the world.

  1. 06/28/2017 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 61 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Squaring ourselves up with
    what needs to happen.
    in light of everything else
    that needs to happen,
    and holding it all
    in our awareness
    while we negotiate our way
    through the contradictions
    and implications
    to clarity
    and decision
    regarding the best
    of available,
    if only provisional,
    alternatives
    is the work of being alive.
    Forget having a trouble-free existence
    with everything going your way
    and nothing but peace and contentment
    to contemplate,
    and joys and delights
    to look forward to!
    We compromise,
    reconcile,
    and struggle to find
    a way of satisfying
    mutually exclusive demands
    throughout our life.
    If you don’t know
    what I’m talking about
    you are oblivious
    to the realities of your own existence,
    and in denial about matters
    of grave magnitude.
    What passes for “getting by”
    is actually “setting ourselves up”
    for the “wake-up call”
    we hope not to answer.

06/28/2017 — Trump has no foundation,
no direction,
no vision,
no core,
no identity,
no self,
no soul.
He is all show.
All pose.
All posturing.
All impression.
All “Look at me! Look at me! Look at me!”
All “How do you like me now? And now? And now?”
All “Tell me I’m great again! And again! and again!”
He shifts like the wind
toward what he thinks
will make him look good now, and now, and now…
And, like the wind,
there is nothing there.

06/28/2017 — There aren’t many long,
rewarding, pauses
on the path of incarnating
our deepest self
and living the life
that is our joint life to live.
There is one Cyclops encounter
after another–
a string of challenges,
trials and ordeals–
with very little time to relax
and enjoy the view.
Our life,
even when we are living
in sync and aligned
with the highest values,
is a lot like those action/adventure films,
with crises, monsters, disasters, calamities, plights and predicaments
(though much more routine, monotonous, mundane and boring)
coming up all of the time,
one after another,
requiring us to get up
and do what must be done again.
We want to save the world
and we get to change another diaper
(or it’s equivalent).
What we get out of it:
We get to live our life
the way it needs us to live it
in incarnating who we are
in each situation as it arises
all our life long.
Our life is the canvas.
We are the artist
and the image.
How we do it
is IT.

06/28/2017— The church was before the Bible–
by about 300 years.
The church created the Bible,
and then said,
“Look what God gave us!
The Verbally Inspired Word
of the Living God!
You better believe it
as written,
or you will go straight to Hell!”
Now, that’s leverage, Folks–
which the church used
to it’s advantage,
with heresy trials,
persecutions,
and burnings at the stake,
removing its competition,
and strengthening its position
as the Dispenser of the Sacraments
and the Only Way to Heaven.
Clever,
verrrrry clever.

06/28/2017 — The more Republicans repeat the lie,
any lie,
every lie,
all lies,
the more palatable they become,
the more acceptable they are,
until they become
replacement truth
in the minds of those
hypnotized by the repetition.
It takes conscious resistance–
calling each lie the lie that it is
with unrelenting devotion
to the task.
They are lying.
They are liars.
Do not make excuses for them.
Do not gloss over their lies,
their lying.
Do not let it become okay.
Do not let it go unnoticed,
undenounced.
Not even once.

06/28/2017 — Trump has changed–
and is changing–everything.
We have to be sure
that one of the things
most certainly and completely changes
is ourselves.
We have to change
in response to the changes
Trump is hurling at us.
We have to become informed.
Subscribe to the NY Times
and the Washington Post–
and read them!
We have to pay attention intently,
intensely,
deliberately–
to words and how they are used:
terrorism,
extremism,
safety,
protection,
patriotism,
liberty–
and we have to stop using words
mindlessly,
words that we pick up from TV
or opinion-ball at the office
or wherever people gather.
Words cannot be fire-starters.
They have to have referents,
meaning,
boundaries,
limits.
We have to know what we are saying,
what is being said,
without being inflamed and enraged
by catch-phrases
and trigger-mechanisms.
We have to call lies out.
We have to refuse to accept anything
as “the new normal.”
We have to know who we are
and what values and principles
constitute our bedrock.
We have to live grounded
in our own identity–
in our own sense of right and wrong,
good and bad,
sick and evil.
And we have to be stirred to action
in response to all that is wrong
in our country and its politics.
Change for the worse
has to stir us
to change for the better.

  1. 06/29/2017 — A Walk In The Woods — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 We all have to choose
    where we stand.
    I choose to stand
    with Jesus and the Buddha,
    the Dalai Lama and Gandhi,
    Martin Luther King, Jr
    and Rosa Parks–
    not because they are who they are,
    but because of where they stand:
    With the gays and the women,
    the blacks and the Latinos,
    the poor and the disabled,
    the old and the lame,
    the young and the vulnerable,
    the Muslims and the victims
    of violence and hatred,
    and all who are marginalized,
    stigmatized,
    disenfranchised,
    despised
    and ignored.
    We all have to stand somewhere–
    and do what we can
    to help those
    who need our help
    the most.
    Why stand with those
    who don’t need our help
    at all?

02/29/2017 — Know where you stand,
decide where you stand,
choose where you stand,
and stand there.
When you change your mind
about where you stand,
stand there.
And stand there
because that’s where YOU stand,
and not because
that’s where somebody else stands
or where somebody tells you to stand.
Even if Jesus stands there,
don’t stand there because Jesus does.
Stand there because YOU do.
Even if your Mamma tells you to stand there,
or your Daddy,
don’t stand there unless it is where you belong.
Nobody knows where you belong
better than you.
You have to know what you know.
Know what is right for you.
Know where you belong.
Know where you stand.
Be true to yourself
and stand there–
all by yourself if need be.
If no one stands with you, fine.
If Jesus,
and your Mamma,
and your Daddy
stand with you, fine.
By you stand where you stand
until you change your mind,
and then stand there.
And if you don’t know where you stand,
stand there.
And if you can’t decide where you stand,
stand there.
Until you change your mind.

06/29/2017 — Throughout my career as a minister
in the Presbyterian Church U.S.A.,
I dealt with entirely too many parishioners
who thought Christianity was about believing
certain things,
which had very little to do
with how they lived their lives.
Christians live like everyone else,
and argue over what is to be believed.
What shall we believe?
Is answered by knowing
what we shall do–
then we believe whatever it takes
to do what needs us to do it.
But, people do not want
to think about how to live their life.
They want to live any way that suits them
and go to heaven when they die.
They do not understand
that heaven and hell
are what we make of things
while we are alive
by the nature and quality
of the life we are living.
How we live
makes it as good as it can be
or as bad as it can get.
It is up to us.
Members of Alcoholics Anonymous
and other 12-Step programs
are the only people I have met
who understand
that it is up to us.
Everyone else wants to believe
there is something magical
about believing the right beliefs,
or reading the right books,
or praying the right way,
that will spin things into
what we want them to be.
When there is only getting up each day
and doing that day
what needs to be done
with what meets us on the path–
the way it needs to be done,
and to repeat the process
through all the coming tomorrows.
How we live our life
each day of our life
creates the karma,
the momentum,
that turns things toward heaven
or toward hell.
Believe whatever it takes
to live as a source of blessing
and grace
in the life of everyone
who comes our way.
That is all the world needs,
and everyone is capable of doing it.

06/29/2017 — We do not want
to get up each day
and go meet whatever
comes to meet us on the path.
We do not want to live our life
the way it needs us to live it.
We want smooth and easy and FUN!
We want the good times to roll on and on.
And when they don’t,
we want to stay drunk or high,
or drunk and high,
until they do.
Or we escape into some other
form of entertainment/addiction.
That list is very long.
If we cannot have what we want,
we will sulk and pout,
snarl and growl,
buck and snort
until death carries us away.
No one can make us grow up!
That is an inside job.
One that requires us to put
ourselves in accord with what
has need of us–
and do what is asked of us–
no matter how rough,
difficult,
and not a bit FUN
it is.
Why do some people do that,
while some never do?
That’s the separator
that parts the crowd
in every generation.

  1. 06/30/2017 — Day Lilies 2017 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 3, 2017 The Buddhists say,
    “If you meet the Buddha on the road,
    kill him!”
    The Christians ought to be saying
    the same thing about Jesus.
    Don’t let Jesus keep you
    from knowing what you know,
    from thinking what you think,
    from standing where you stand,
    from being where you belong,
    from doing what is yours to do,
    from being who you are,
    from living spontaneously
    and automatically,
    straight from your heart,
    without bothering to wonder,
    “What would Jesus do?”
    Do what YOU would do!
    Jesus said,
    “Why don’t you judge for yourselves what is right?”
    (Look it up!)
    Answer the question!
    With the way you live your life!
    Live your life
    in ways that declare:
    “This is right because I–I!–say so!”

06/30/2017— The spiritual journey
and the hero’s journey
are the same journey,
and they aren’t about
getting somewhere.
We aren’t going anywhere.
We are waking up,
and being here,
exactly where we are,
for the first time,
with our eyes open.
The “journey” is the distance
from our head to our heart.
It is the realization
that our “mind”
is the perspective/perception center
of our being.
“Mind” holds everything in awareness
at all times–
past, present, and perhaps even, future–
in a timeless “now” of knowing.
As conscious egos,
we move in and out of that,
as we are able to receive it,
and it comes to us as an epiphany,
a visitation of the gods.
We are capable of a larger view,
a grander vision,
than we generally have time for,
thus the disciplines
for stilling and quieting
our interaction with “the dust of the world.”
All of which we can undertake
in the comfort of our recliner.
opening “the doorways of perception”
without ever leaving home.

  1. 07/01/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 19 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Our practice–
    whether we think of it as The Way,
    the Tao,
    God’s will for our life,
    creating good karma,
    being grounded in the bedrock
    of our own identity and values,
    or any other formulation
    that is “it” for us–
    comes down to
    doing the ordinary things
    the way they need to be done,
    spontaneously,
    from the heart,
    without thinking anything of it.
    We “eat when hungry,
    rest when tired,”
    and go about the business of the day,
    in ways that are suited
    to incarnating our gifts
    and assisting what needs our help
    each day.
    We rock the world
    by being a steady source
    of goodness and vitality
    and letting that be that.

07/01/2017 — Life can be very difficult–
and we make it harder
by expecting more of it
than it has to offer.
If we can serve our gifts
and pay the bills
in a spirit of grace and kindness,
compassion and good will,
that is as much
as we have any right
to hope or wish for.

07/01/2017 —   Kellyanne Conway,
and most Republicans along with her,
believe that anybody
who really wants a job
can get one
and earn enough
to pay her or his way.
Not only that,
but she (and they) also believe
that to not have a job and earn your way
is to be a “freeloader,”
a “slacker and a lay-a-bout,”
and to deserve the poverty
that is the natural result of–
in their mind–
“refusing to work.”
This is a problem.
Donald Trump,
and a host of Republicans along with him,
believes that he got where he is–
a billionaire and President of the United States of America–
by the strength of his own brilliance and effort.
He’s earned it and he deserves it
(And those other Republicans feel
the same way about their successful lives).
This is another problem.
As they see it,
poor people deserve being poor,
and rich people deserve being rich.
Thinking that way makes them Republican.
If they thought differently,
they would be Democrat.
Democrats think if they
can be reasonable and logical
and throw enough facts at Republicans,
they can make Democrats of them.
This is a problem.
If you can solve these three problems,
you can transform the world.

  1. 07/02/2017 — Congaree 2016 08 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November, 2016 The foundation of all good religion,
    world-wide
    (Universal, should there prove
    to be religions in other parts
    of the universe)
    is expressed in the four primary symbols
    of Christianity–
    devoid of the theology surrounding them:
    Bread, Wine, Water, Cross.
    The Water is the amniotic fluid of birth.
    Every birth is birth by “water (and blood) and spirit,”
    with the “spirit” being the spirit of life and being.
    We are all united by the water of birth
    and the spirit of life.
    We are all alive,
    but we have no idea what that means,
    where life comes from
    and where it goes.
    We are awash in mystery from the first.
    The Bread reminds us that the bread of affliction
    is the bread of life.
    The Wine declares that the cup of suffering
    is the cup of salvation.
    And the Cross does not represent
    a vehicle of execution,
    but the burden of growing up
    and bearing the opposites,
    the contradictions
    and polarities of our life–
    and encompasses all of the initiation rites,
    and rites of passage,
    of the species,
    as well as evidencing
    the primary place
    trials and ordeals
    hold in the life of all people,
    serving everyone as the
    impetus for growth and maturity,
    and enabling us to discover
    the hero who resides unknown within us.
    These symbols unite us all.
    Everyone knows out of
    our own experience
    the validity of each one
    and their place in our life.
    They are the ground on which we stand,
    the source from which we proceed
    to form,
    shape,
    and define the life we are living.
    And we need no theology
    to tell us something we already know
    by having lived it.

07/01/2017 — My work is looking
until I see something
of how things are,
and then saying
what I see,
then looking some more.
This is the work of Hermes
(Mercury)
“the messenger of the gods.”
It is the work of hermeneutics,
the work of interpretation.
It is good work,
interesting work,
enthralling work,
and I am glad to have it
as my work.
I am glad to know what it is,
and what all it is not.
You can spin yourself
in circles not knowing
what your work is,
or wishing your work was something
it isn’t.
There is no greater personal good
than knowing what your work is
and doing it–
and not allowing anyone
or anything
to take your work away
from you
or shame, ridicule, mock or laugh
you out of doing it.
And asking you
what good it is doing
is their favorite way
of taking away your work.
It doesn’t have to DO any good.
It IS good.
If they don’t understand that
they have no idea
of the work that is theirs to do–
and that is theirs
to work out for themselves.

07/01/2017 — There is something about
being at the mercy
of our circumstances
that brings out the best
and the worst in us.
Sometimes we rise to meet
every occasion,
and sometimes we cave
at the mere idea of catastrophe.
And, through it all,
the truth remains:
We are at the mercy
of our circumstances–
and making our peace
with that may well be
our greatest work.

07/01/2017 — Victor Frankl, in “Man’s Search for Meaning,”
writes about his experience
in a German death camp during World War II.
He and his fellow prisoners
lived every day
not knowing if they
would see tomorrow.
Everyday might be their turn
to be loaded in the trucks
and taken out to be shot.
The stress of the possibility
was too much for many,
and they died at the idea
of their death–
though they remained 98.6 and breathing,
no one lived behind
their unseeing eyes.
Theirs were merciless circumstances,
severely testing the spirits
of all behind the barbed wire.
But some did not surrender their spirit.
Some let their present be their present,
and did what they could
to relieve the plight of their fellows,
sharing a crumb of bread,
a sip of water–
practicing their humanity
in the worst that inhumanity could do,
in a “We may be dying,
but we aren’t dead yet,”
kind of way–
living as a ray of hope
in a land where hope was not,
except for them
and the kindness they exhibited
for no reason beyond the joy
of being kind for no reason.
An experience their captors
never had.

07/02/2017 — Do not hinder the spirit
that is like the wind,
blowing where it will!
You can call it “Holy Spirit,”
or you can call it “our spirit,”
or you can call it “the spirit of life,”
or you can call it “the Great Spirit”

It doesn’t matter what you call the spirit
that is like the wind,
blowing where it will.
Do. Not. Hinder. The. Spirit.
Serve it.
Assist it.
Tag along with it.
It will carry you to amazing wonders
and adventures beyond imagining.
It is never too late
to catch the Spirit Train
for the ride of your life!
Sit quietly,
and say, “Okay. Let’s go.”
The catch is
you have to mean it.

  1. 07/03/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 23 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 The turning points in our life
    are places we have shown ourselves
    who we are
    and what is important to us.
    We are brought forth
    by our circumstances.
    Without the crossroads,
    our life would be a straight line–
    in the heart beat sense of the term–
    and we would be at the end
    as we were at the beginning,
    like so many people are
    who live to avoid the crossroads,
    ignoring their options,
    pretending they have no choices,
    refusing to think anything
    they have not already thought,
    or have aspirations
    their family wouldn’t like.
    Being safe that way
    is as good as dead.
    There are 10,000 ways
    to refuse to grow up.
    They all involve
    shunning crossroads
    in one way or another.

07/03/2017 — The Garden of Eden
is a wonderful metaphor
for the human condition.
We can find something wrong
with Paradise!
We can imagine improvements
even there!
There is nothing we cannot
endlessly tweak
in the quest for perfection.
A magic wand would be
a matrix of madness
with us forever locked into
trying to get things right!
Politics is the next best thing
for messing with our innate
capacity for messing with things.
The Buddhist remedy
is the final solution:
Sit quietly!
Be still!

07/03/2017 — We have to know what we love,
and be clear about it,
and do what we love.
What keeps that from happening?
Be clear about it.
Is there any way
you can smuggle what you love
into your life?
If so, do it!
If not, imagine doing what you love.
Imagine it regularly.
With clarity.
Doing what you love
is the path for incarnating you
in the world,
in the field of action.
If you can only imagine that,
then rehearse incarnating you
in your mind.
And, when the door opens
for bringing you forth into the world,
step through!

07/03/2017 — We cannot help anyone
be grounded
if we are not grounded.
We vitalize
by being vitalized–
by believing
in what we are doing.
By working what we love
into the life we are living.
By being transparent
to ourselves.
By knowing what’s what
and how things are,
and squaring ourselves
up with that
in a way that enables us
to go forth and meet the day
every day
with “true grit,”
and good faith.
Who we are
counts more than
what we say.
Integrity–
in the sense of living
aligned with our heart’s
true bent–
is enlivening.

  1. 07/04/2017 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 37–Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 All of our quandaries are conflicts of values.
    Are we better off here or there?
    Is it better to stand firm or stand aside?
    Is it better to die here or live to fight another day?
    What is the good that is truly good
    in every situation,
    in all circumstances?
    The answer is very situational
    and circumstantial.
    Which is to say,
    there is no answer
    except the one worked out
    in the time and place of our living
    by wringing our hands,
    crying on our pillow,
    and being in a quandary.
    Only we can balance the competing
    claims upon us.
    Only we can decide what compromise
    is called for,
    what trade-off is required,
    what concessions are required.
    In order to have this,
    we have to give up that.
    In order to avoid that,
    we have to embrace this.
    Divorce is sometimes the answer,
    and sometimes not the answer.
    And so it is with all of our answers
    to the what to do here and now questions
    that pop up all of the time
    and invite us again
    to partake of the trials and ordeals
    of being human.

07/04/2017 — It is unthinkable
what the Republicans are thinking
of doing–
what the Republicans are planning
to do.
People mean nothing to Republicans.
23 million without insurance–
without access to health care–
are nothing to them.
I cannot imagine a course of appeal
that would have an impact.
They do not care.
And caring is the fundamental requirement
of life as a human being.
Squid do not care.
Starfish do not care.
A lion on the hung does not care.
Number Republicans among their lot.
Heartless men and women on the hunt.
In the hunt for a tax-cut of $765 billion.
$765 billion will buy a lot of hearts.
However you spin it,
it amounts to 30 pieces of silver–
and a life without heart or soul
for those who vote for it.
They will never be able to un-do
what they are about to do.

  1. 07/05/2017 — Coleus 2017 03 — A Nursery Photo, An iPhone Photo, Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, June 4, 2017 I have a theory:
    All of us have an aspect–
    or aspects–
    of our life that
    isn’t working.
    No one’s life is working
    on all levels
    at the same time.
    It may be physical,
    or financial,
    or familial,
    or social,
    or emotional/psychological,
    or religious,
    or sexual,
    or, well, the list of possibilities
    is endless,
    with combinations
    that can produce
    some interesting
    behavioral outcomes.
    And here’s my point:
    How we compensate
    for the area(s) that aren’t working
    makes all the difference.
    We had better be consciously,
    mindfully,
    compassionately,
    acceptably,
    aware
    of what isn’t working
    and of what we are doing
    in response.
    It is easy to make things worse
    trying to make them better.
    It is best to hold all things in awareness,
    seeing what the antecedents
    and implications are,
    what the impact has been,
    and what options exist
    for dealing with the situation–
    with growing up
    some more
    again
    being one of my all time faves.

07/05/2017 —   People need help with their life,
but what they are interested in
and open to
has nothing to do
with finding–
or receiving–
what they need.
You see the problem.
We could call this
The Trump Problem.
Put Trump in a room
with Help With His Life,
and he will leave the room.
You cannot give people
what they do not want.
Logic,
reason,
and lectures
will not work.
Crying,
yelling,
and turning over furniture
will not work.
Prayer,
medication
and jail time
will not work.
Walking off,
moving away,
and leaving them
to their own outcomes
will not work either,
but it will restore your balance,
lower your blood pressure,
and improve your digestion.

07/05/2017 — See what you can do with it
is my best advice.
With your circumstances.
With your life.
With your options and choices.
Even now.
Even yet.
Give it all–
give yourself–
the benefit of the doubt.
Trust it all–
trust yourself–
to be more than meets the eye;
to hold possibilities
and potentials
you have yet to consider,
and give your circumstances,
your life,
you
a chance to surprise you
with what might yet happen,
even now.
Start with sitting quietly
and observing everything
that swirls up for review
in the silence–
without becoming
emotionally stirred by
and involved with
any of it.
Or, when you find yourself
becoming so stirred
and involved,
simply hold that in awareness
along with all the rest,
and continue to observe
the things that come into
consciousness–
not doing anything
about any of it.
Just seeing.
Just observing.
Just noting what’s there.
When you have had enough,
get up and do whatever is next,
but return to sitting quietly,
observing your thoughts
and the patterns they form–
without opinion,
judgment
or conclusion.
Continue this practice
over time.
See what all occurs to you,
what spontaneously arises,
presenting itself for reflection,
realization.
And what that is inviting
you to do.
It isn’t as cut and dried,
over and done,
as we like to think.
See what might yet be done,
even now.

07/05/2017 — George Lakoff says that Republicans
and Democrats
have different brains.
Different values.
Different views of what is good
and what is evil.
Republicans, for the most part,
will be quick to tell you
that Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton
are Evil Personified,
and that Nothing–
not even Donald Trump–
could be worse than they are.
Democrats would have a different take
on the matter,
reversing names and places.
You will never convince either
that the other is right.
Where do we go from here?
It would be great for all concerned
if Republicans could have their President
and Democrats could have theirs–
if Republicans could have their country,
and Democrats could have theirs.
Barring that,
we are going to have to work things out
among ourselves–
an option that becomes less likely
by the day.
To “move toward the center”
is to realize that what one side
considers extreme,
the other side considers central.
Is abortion a woman’s
personal business
or a matter to be decided
by majority vote?
Are gay rights restricted
by religious persuasion?
Can bigotry, racism and discrimination
be allowed to operate freely
in a society governed
by justice and truth?
Does money get to determine
what is good and right?
Who says so?
How is agreement to be reached
and enforced?
Sending everyone into Time Out
until they reach a state
of calmness and civility
would be almost as good
as giving each side
its own country.
And about as workable.
Leaving us where we were
when this started,
wondering where do we go
from here.

07/05/2017 — Republicans refuse to say what they are doing:
Trading health coverage for 22 Million people
for a tax refund of $765 Billion (+/-)
for those making over $200,000 a year.
They think we don’t know.

  1. 07/06/2017 — An update on “God” in “An Old Preacher’s Manifesto”:
    Anything goes with God.
    God can get by with all of it at any time.
    God has complete freedom of movement,
    and is unlimited by past actions,
    or future possibilities–
    standing armies,
    or high mountain ranges.
    You never know what’s what with God,
    or what to expect from God.
    God is the ultimate Trickster God.
    Where God is concerned it is
    Now you see it,
    now you don’t.
    You can’t count on anything with God.
    It’s all a Great Mystery with God,
    an Unfathomable Mystery
    that can be best described with words like:
    Outlandish!
    Unheard of!
    Unspeakable!
    Sacrilege!
    Anathema!
    Abhorrent!
    Abomination!
    Atrocity!
    Outrage!
    Disgrace!
    Obscenity!
    Wonderful!
    Beautiful!
    Sublime!
    Majestic!
    Just!
    Merciful!
    Indescribable!
    Perfection!
    Love!
    Goodness!
    Magnificent!
    Marvelous!
    Splendid!
    Glorious!
    That’s God for you.
    You never know with God.
    Things are not as they appear to be—
    are not what we think they are—
    with God.
    Death is life.
    And life is death.
    God is like the wind that blows where it will—
    coming and going as it pleases.
    With God, the rain falls on the just and unjust alike.
    God raises the dead and leaves the dead to bury the dead.
    God loves his-her-our-their enemies and kills his-her-our-their own son—
    after setting aside human sacrifice for all time,
    from Abraham on,
    and saying “Thou Shalt Not Kill!”
    to Moses and the Children of Israel.
    God dies for a world that cares not for God,
    and forsakes those who love him most.
    You never know what’s what with God—
    or how it will be.
    That’s how it is with God.
    “Invoked or not invoked, the God will be present!”
    But, for what purpose?
    To serve what end?
    No one knows.
    Not even God.
    God surprises himself-herself-ourselves-themselves.
    With God, all dichotomies are false dichotomies,
    all categories are inclusive categories–
    convenient and inaccurate concessions
    to the sphere of space and time.
    God is he-she-we-they,
    and is completely free to do what needs to be done
    in each situation as it arises,
    in the moment as it unfolds before him-her-we-them
    Without reference to anything that may have happened before,
    or concern for anything that may happen afterward, in response,
    as an outcome, as a consequence,
    however many generations removed from the event in question.
    There is no figuring out a God like God—
    no calculating the percentages,
    computing the odds,
    and coming up with what to do to best protect ourselves,
    and insure a rosy future
    filled with what we like
    And devoid of what we don’t like.
    Not even God knows what to expect from God–
    beyond being appropriate to the time and place
    of his-her-our-their acting.
    God dwells in deep darkness—
    God arises from the depths of unconsciousness—
    to astound and amaze,
    confound and befuddle,
    disturb and dumbfound,
    even God.
    God stuns God with God’s brilliance and lunacy,
    and unprecedented unpredictability.
    There is no pleasing a God like God—
    Who plants where he-she-we-they does/do not plow,
    and reaps what he-she-we-they does/do not sow—
    who blesses and curses
    the righteous and unrighteous alike,
    without regard
    for race, religion, gender, age, sexual orientation, prospects, references or point of origin.
    we cannot hope to appease or placate a God like God.
    Not even God knows beforehand
    what it would take to make God happy
    (Only after the fact, whether that was it or not).
    The only way to “go with God”
    is to BE God—to BE as God is—
    and, of course, we can because we are!
    Living out of our own sense of what is happening
    and what needs to be done about it
    in each situation as it arises,
    in each moment as it unfolds,
    and doing it without regard
    for God and what God may, or may not, think or prefer—
    or for human standards, traditions, customs, codes, laws and mores.
    We can only live with our finger on the pulse of what is called for!
    Learn to know it when we see it,
    and do it when and where it occurs to us!
    We can only strive to take care of business
    the way business needs to be taken care of,
    and let God like it or not.
    So, go and do according to what resonates
    with your own heart and soul,
    and let that be the determining factor
    guiding your choices,
    informing your actions,
    and directing your steps along the path
    you deem to be your path.
    Our place is to live our life
    the way we conclude our life needs to be lived,
    and let all of our outcomes
    instruct us in the art
    of knowing what needs to be done,
    here and now,
    and doing it,
    all our life long–
    and letting that be that. 07/06/2017 — Water Lily 2017 09 — A Nursery Photo, An iPhone Photo, Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, June 4, 2017 This is an excerpt from “God” in my book “An Old Preacher’s Manifesto”: With God, all dichotomies are false dichotomies,
    all categories are inclusive categories–
    convenient and inaccurate concessions
    to the sphere of space and time.
    God is he-she-we-they,
    and is completely free to do what needs to be done
    in each situation as it arises,
    in the moment as it unfolds before him-her-we-them
    Without reference to anything that may have happened before,
    or concern for anything that may happen afterward, in response,
    as an outcome, as a consequence,
    however many generations removed from the event in question.
    There is no figuring out a God like God—
    no calculating the percentages,
    computing the odds,
    and coming up with what to do to best protect ourselves,
    and insure a rosy future
    filled with what we like
    And devoid of what we don’t like.
    Not even God knows what to expect from God–
    beyond being appropriate to the time and place
    of his-her-our-their acting.
    God dwells in deep darkness—
    God arises from the depths of unconsciousness—
    to astound and amaze,
    confound and befuddle,
    disturb and dumbfound,
    even God.
    God stuns God with God’s brilliance and lunacy,
    and unprecedented unpredictability.

07/06/2017 — Republicans are kidding themselves,
shrouding themselves in denial,
refusing to face up to
the full implications and impact
of what they are doing
and failing to live transparent
to themselves.
Their current favorite line
is to say,
“No one will lose health care
under our new plan.
They may choose not to take it,
but no one will snatch it away.
Freedom of choice is what
we are all want.
It is the American Way!”
This is a trick with terminology
that they are playing on themselves.
Everyone else sees through
the charade.
Mike Pence is a devout Evangelical Christian
and is unshakably certain
that we are in the last days,
with the Rapture being imminent,
when those who are destined for heaven
will be swept up in an instant
and those who remain
will deserve the punishment
that is theirs to bear–
so it doesn’t really matter
what the government does.
Give the wealthy deserving ones
a nice tax-break
as a prelude of the glories to come,
and party until Jesus returns.
Truth is always apparent
to those with eyes to see.
And everyone thinks
their eyes see truth best.
That is the kink in the hose.

  1. 07/07/2017 — King Snakes 2017 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 20, 2017 Symptoms can be caused by facts
    over which we have no control.
    We do not give ourselves peanut allergies.
    Or malaria.
    Or 10,000 other things.
    Yet, all of our symptoms are warning us
    to listen to our symptoms
    and take action
    to get the pathogen/toxin
    out of our life.
    They are all saying,
    “Something is wrong here!”
    This is where we come in.
    We can tell ourselves things
    about our symptoms
    that keep our symptoms
    in place.
    “Maybe it will go away.”
    “Maybe it isn’t what I think it is.”
    “Maybe the doctor is wrong.”
    And keep doing the things
    that keep our symptoms in place.
    How many of our symptoms
    are there
    because we refuse to do
    what is necessary
    to remove them?
    Because we do not want to believe
    what they are saying?
    Because they are enemies
    of the life we want to live?
    We refuse to listen to our symptoms
    and wonder what is wrong.
    But we don’t want to know
    what is wrong.
    It would ask too much of us.
    It would require us
    to change the way we live.
    And that would be the end
    of life as we know it.
    Life as we know it
    is killing us,
    but changing would be like death
    as well.
    This is where good religion
    could be a real help,
    with it’s central message:
    “There is no life without death!
    In order to live,
    we have to die–
    again and again–
    in the service of LIFE!”
    We have to be sure we are dying
    the right kind of death,
    and do the thing that “kills” us
    in order to live the life
    that is calling us to live it.

07/07/2017 — We are left with
protesting, objecting, resisting,
opposing, denouncing, rejecting,
demanding, insisting, declaring,
challenging, dissenting, exposing,
condemning, criticizing, reviling,
decrying, bemoaning, castigating,
lambasting, chastising, berating
and making known the truth
of the wrongs
that are being done
by the People Of The Lie
every time they
do what they do.
Every.
Time.

07/07/2017 — I would love to know
what gives Donald Trump
his direction,
where he derives his sense
of right and wrong,
good and evil,
yes and no.
Why would anyone refuse
to recognize and support
Gay Pride Month?
Or reject the opportunity
to visit a Holocaust Memorial?
Or ridicule the physically disabled?
Or slam/shame people
for being Muslims?
Or belittle people for being poor?
Or encourage violence, bullying,
and the complete disregard
for civil/human rights?
What is good about
any of the things Donald Trump
calls good?

07/07/2017 — I would never meet the requirements
for admission to the Sacred Order of Shamans.
Or to the Venerable Ranks of Taoist Priests.
Or, even to the Raucous Company of Zen Monks.
I don’t have the proper attitude and deportment;
am too much the Iconoclast,
the Joker,
the Renegade,
the Reprobate,
the Unwashed and Unrepentant.
And I don’t care enough
that I don’t have what it takes
to belong to the above mentioned associations
to do what it takes to fit in.
If I wanted to join them badly enough,
I might try to make the effort.
But then,
I’m sure the truth would will out,
and I would be out,
in practically no time at all.

  1. 07/08/2017 — Bloodroot 2017 09 — McDowell Nature Center and Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks and Recreation Department, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 17, 2017 Letting things be as they are–
    because they are what they are–
    even as we protest what they are,
    and work to change what they are,
    is the ground of mental health
    and responsible response
    to our environment
    in a :
    “This is the way things are,
    and this is the way they should be,
    and this is what I am doing
    to make things more like they should be
    than they are”
    kind of way.
    Don’t spend your life
    bummed out by the way things are!
    Live “under protest”!
    Live in solid opposition–
    in solidarity with the resistance!
    Live at one with all of those
    who know things could be better
    than they are,
    keeping the coals of opposition alive
    so that the faint light
    informs everyone who comes our way
    of the truth
    of what needs to be done
    to transform the way things are done
    into the way things
    ought to be done.
    Live symbolically in the way
    of the Ought To Be!
    Know the truth of the Ought To Be
    that it might keep you
    from succumbing
    to the truth of How Things Are!
    Resist! Oppose! Denounce! Decry!
    “Acceptance” means
    accepting that this is the way things are
    and this is what needs to be done about it
    and doing it
    for as long as it takes
    to generate the momentum
    that results in the shift
    that produces the transformation.
    Do not submit!
    Resist!

07/08/2017 — Think of all the people you know
in nursing homes.
Think of how many of those people
receive Medicaid assistance
each month.
Think of what will become of those people
when the Republicans end Medicaid
(to pay for a $765 billion tax-cut to the wealthy).
Think of what will become of the nursing homes.
Think of what will become of the people
who work in the nursing homes.
Who work manufacturing beds for nursing homes.
Etc. throughout the nursing home/health care niche.
Write your senator(s).
Call your senator(s).
Daily.
Jam the phone lines.
Do not rest
and give them no rest
until they come to their senses
and do the things that need to be done
and do not do the things that do not need to be done–
and maintain the vigil
of helping them know which is which.

07/08/2017 — Health and Human Services Secretary,
Thomas Price, MD, said,
“No one will lose Medicaid benefits”
under the Senate’s health plan.
Sounds good.
Sounds reassuring.
Sounds as though there is nothing to worry about.
Until you realize
that he is speaking Republican.
What he doesn’t say is that
“A lot of people will choose
to not pay for the benefits
they aren’t losing
but won’t have
if they do not pay for them.”
You cannot trust Republicans
to tell you the Whole Truth.
They speak in partial truths,
which is another form of lying.
When Republicans speak,
they are lying.
Adopt that as a rule of thumb,
and you will not be often wrong.

07/08/2017 — Listening within,
being aware of our own
pushes and pulls,
drift and flow,
leanings and interests,
sets the tone
for the life we live,
and enables us
to assume responsibility
for the times and places
when and where
we choose to override ourselves
or choose to assert ourselves.
Those are the places
we want to be careful
to live through mindfully,
knowingly,
responsibly.

07/08/2017 — Consciousness-that-is-also-mindfulness,
is the human gift to the cosmos,
in that it implies self-transparency,
compassion
and a non-judgmental,
non-opinionated,
orientation toward
the time and place,
the conditions and circumstances,
of our life.
This does not mean
we are without preferences.
It means we take everything into account,
and determine
on the basis of knowing all that we know
what action is in the best interest
of all concerned.
It means we live as non-partisans in the world.
We need all members of congress
to be conscious and mindful.
That would not be asking too much.

07/08/2017— Who is Trump trying to please?
Bannon and the white supremacists?
The racists and the climate change deniers?
Homophobes and Xenophobes?
Who is the audience
he thinks he is appeasing?
How can a minority rule?
This is Alice in Far From Wonder Land.

  1. 07/09/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 16 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2015. Here we are.
    Now what?
    Negative forces
    detrimental
    to the human spirit,
    and to the life of the world,
    have been let loose,
    and there is no undoing
    what has been done.
    We are left with
    resisting,
    opposing,
    confronting,
    countering,
    balancing
    and off-setting
    the manifestation of evil
    in all forms
    at every opportunity.
    We cannot be slack
    in our vigilance
    and in our response–
    exhibiting kindness
    and compassion
    but firmly refusing
    to allow incivility,
    racism,
    sexism,
    homophobia,
    bigotry,
    discrimination,
    cruelty
    and viciousness
    to go unchecked.
    We will not assist
    the work to dismantle
    the values of democracy:
    Justice,
    Equality,
    Liberty
    and Truth
    by refusing/failing
    to oppose it–
    for as long as it takes
    the tide to turn.

07/09/2017 — If we take Paul’s directive in Philippians:
“Whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things”

and apply it to Donald Trump,
his cabinet and advisors,
and the Republicans in the House and Senate,
we won’t have much
to think about.

07/09/2017 — Choosing between unworkable options
is no choice.
Taking away Medicaid
and offering credits and vouchers
for health care we still can’t afford
does not qualify for a choice.
Choosing between health care
and food/clothing/shelter
is not a choice.
It is a lie
and an obscenity
to contend otherwise.

  1. 07/10/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 14 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 Putin is ruthlessly effective
    in his service of his idea of The Good.
    We all serve our idea of The Good,
    more or less.
    Most of us serve our idea of The Pretty Good.
    Our idea of The Good Enough.
    Few of us serve our idea of The Good
    with as much single-minded devotion
    and 24/7/12/Forever commitment to the vision
    as Putin displays.
    Putin kills anyone standing in his way.
    Nothing stands in his way for long.
    I expect Trump could be as vicious–
    he at least admires others who are–
    but Trump (and those others he admires)
    lack Putin’s love for what money and power can do.
    Trump (et al.) think money and power
    are enough in themselves,
    and simply enjoy the thrill
    of being able to order people around.
    Putin seems to be serving his idea of Russian Good,
    even though that is highly detrimental
    to the Russian people in general
    and to individual Russians in particular.
    What is the Russia Putin has in mind?
    Who would want to live there?
    Who would Putin want living there?
    Workers and servants to keep things going,
    to be sure, but.
    What would keep the workers and servants going?
    I think Putin hasn’t thought this out.
    His idea of The Good he serves
    is limited to his idea of The People he likes.
    To hell with the rest of them.
    Strong men and women are always saying
    “To hell with the rest of them”
    (“Give them bread and circuses,”
    “Let them eat cake”).
    We need to serve an idea of The Good
    that takes everyone’s Good into account,
    and serve it with the same zeal
    that Putin serves his idea of The Good.
    You know, like Jesus and Gandhi (et al.) did.
    People like Putin
    are always putting people like Jesus and Gandhi (et al.)
    in their place.
    That’s the advantage of ruthlessness.
    The disadvantage of ruthlessness
    is that it can only serve an idea of The Good
    that isn’t so Good.

07/10/2017 — If we could only
fold ourselves into our life
and live it the way
it needs to be lived,
serving the things
that need to be served,
doing the things
that need to be done–
instead of pursuing
distracting pastimes
and entertaining diversions!
What is central?
What is peripheral?
What is a pointless waste
of our time and energy?
it takes time, silence and reflection
to get to the bottom of things.
Solitude is a great source of clarification.
Muddy water settles while we wait, watching,
looking, attending, seeing, hearing, knowing…
We are in a hurry, though.
Things to do.
Things to achieve.
Things to acquire.
No time to wonder
what matters most,
and what matters not at all.

07/10/2017 — When I look back over my life,
one of the things that stands out
is how everything works together
to enable me to meet the present moment.
At some point,
we collect enough experiences
with enough moments
to be ready for any moment.
I look at that as the turning point–
“the still point of the turning world,”
the fulcrum levering us into all possible futures,
the power point
providing us with the foundation
for facing whatever is next
in the confidence that we have what it takes
to find what it takes
to deal with anything.
If we have done it up to now,
and we all have,
we can do it all the way
from now on.
We are living proof
that we have what it takes.

07/10/2017 — “The task of life,”
says John Kaag,
writing in
American Philosophy: A Love Story,
“is to transcend the past,
to never remain where one starts,
to find a place of one’s own.”
His book is well worth reading
for a number of other reasons,
but this should be enough
to send you out for it,
and to urge you to be intentional
about your search
for a place of your own.

07/10/2017 — Some of us spend our life
learning to live in sync
with ourselves–
coming to be who we are
over the time we have
to work with.
Others of us spend our life
running with horror
from the one within,
refusing to acknowledge
even distant association.
Still others of us
have no idea
of what I am talking about.
We are strung out
like this
along every continuum
you can think of,
or think up.
It’s hard to settle down
with how different we are
considering that we
have so much in common.

  1. 07/11/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 30 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 Our life has a certain
    tone, quality, direction about it
    apart from what we do
    to pay the bills,
    which expresses
    vitality, heart, soul and spirit–
    reflecting the core,
    essence,
    truth
    of how we have responded
    to what has happened,
    or failed to happen,
    to us along the way.
    We can live
    without believing in our life,
    without having
    hope, faith or trust in our life.
    Without wanting to be alive.
    This is called
    losing the spark,
    having no fire.
    We have to tend the flame!
    With the right kind of attention,
    the flame can burn brightly
    in the deepest darkness–
    but, we cannot be attentive to the flame
    AND attentive to the darkness.
    We cannot keep the flame alive
    consumed by the fear of the darkness.
    Where is our ground?
    Our bedrock?
    Our truth and identity?
    Sink into that!
    Live out of that!
    Whatever the nature
    of our context and circumstances!
    Bring YOU to bear
    on your life!
    On you!
    Be YOU–
    wherever, whenever, however
    you are!
    Believe in YOU!
    Be one with YOU!
    Live to be YOU!
    Matter. What.

07/11/2017 — Being does not come
from trying to be.
Being just is.
Jesus did not
try to be Jesus,
did not wonder
“What would Jesus do?”
Jesus just did
what was appropriate
to the occasion–
spontaneously, automatically–
being who he was
in response
to what was needed.
Sitting quietly,
we find our heart,
our center,
our foundation,
our bedrock,
our self.
Rising,
we live out of
the core of who we are.
We are who we are.
What we do is who we are.
That is Being.
Being is being who we are.
Who WE are.
In all times and places,
conditions and circumstances–
in ways appropriate to the occasion.

07/11/2017 — Silence is the best place
I know of for sorting things out.
I sit, or lie, quietly
and begin sifting through
whatever comes to mind,
turning things over
as with a compost pile–
memories, experiences,
fears, dreads, regrets, joys, delights, miseries, sorrows…
I rummage around in all of it,
sometimes making new connections,
conjuring up a realization or two,
mostly reflecting on it all,
keeping it suspended in my awareness
and honoring it with my attention
as a way of declaring,
“Out of you, I am!”
in a “Where would I be without you?”
kind of way.
Touching the substance
of my soul’s treasure-trove
in this way
grounds me in the truth
of what I have been through
and of what has happened,
and failed to happen,
because of it,
and steadies me
for what lies ahead.
I’m here, now,
and I will be there, then.
That’s as much encouragement
as I need
to be able to stand
and step into whatever
needs to be done
in the field of action,
to be added to the larder
supplying the next round
of exploring the silence
and panning for its gold.

  1. 07/12/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 22 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 “Detached engagement” is the kind
    of dialectic/paradox
    that forms the ground
    of our way in the world.
    We “step back”
    in order to see
    with “disinterested eyes”–
    non-judgmental eyes,
    unbiased eyes,
    dispassionate eyes,
    objective eyes,
    eyes unconcerned
    with what is in it for us
    or where our advantage lies–
    what is happening
    and what needs to be done about it,
    in order to “step forward”
    into the field of action
    and engage the forces
    at work there
    in light of the true good of all concerned.
    Judges and politicians
    need to be of this bent,
    as do those who elect
    politicians who appoint judges.
    It all hangs on individual citizens
    doing their part
    in being who they need to be.
    When individual citizens
    embrace detachment
    in order to escape their life
    and deny their role
    in finding, forming and shaping
    a life worth living,
    with no idea of engaging anything
    beyond their own good/advantage/profit/benefit
    in the field of action,
    the system crumbles
    and “there is none who does right,
    no, not one.”
    Entertaining pastimes–
    “Bread and circuses”–
    cannot comprise our life!
    We have to live seeking and serving
    what has life for us,
    in the sense of what brings us forth,
    utilizes our gifts and our genius,
    and enables us to be who we are
    in the field of action,
    in the midst of all that is
    “grave and constant in human joy and suffering”
    (James Joyce/Joseph Campbell).
    We cannot run from our duty
    to life our life as it needs us to live it
    in each situation as it arises
    all our life long.
  2. 07/13/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 25 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 We interpret the facts
    to suit our fancies.
    We shape the truth
    to fit our needs.
    We bend reality
    to conform to our expectations
    and desires.
    You can’t show us,
    tell us,
    confront us
    with anything
    we can’t explain away.
    We can disappear everything
    just by saying,
    “That is false!”
    “That is a lie!”
    “That is ‘Fake News!’”
    “That never happened,
    and if it did,
    it doesn’t matter!”
    Kidding ourselves
    is what we do best.
    No!
    Telling ourselves
    what we want to hear
    is what we do best!
    No!
    Pretending we
    are not pretending
    is what we do best!
    No!
    Shooting ourselves
    in the foot
    is what we do best!
    And,
    in order to stop,
    we have to sit quietly
    long enough
    for insight and realization
    to begin to dawn.
    And then,
    when we have to jump up
    and begin making noise
    to shut out
    the truth of silence,
    we have to sit back down,
    and look at
    what caused the panic reaction,
    hearing and seeing
    what we have repressed,
    suppressed
    and denied–
    and taking up the work
    of self-transparency,
    integration
    and integrity
    for as long
    as we have yet to live.

07/13/2017 —   Encased in denial,
Republicans are immune
to all truth contrary
to their idea of truth.
Invincible!
Invulnerable!
Indomitable!
Unassailable!
They know they are right–
they have never been righter.
The fact that they were elected
is proof the country loves them
just as they are.
And with enough gerrymandering
and voter suppression,
the country will keep electing them
until the bitter end.
At this rate,
about two four-year terms away.

07/13/2017 — If there is something
that needs to be done
and it is yours to do
(and, if there is no one
to do it but you,
it is yours to do),
do not waste time and effort
delaying, dreading,
moaning, mourning,
whining, complaining,
obsessing over it,
depressing about it,
dragging it out,
and around
in a “woe is me
ain’t it awful
poor me
poor me”
kind of way.
Get up and do the thing
with not even an opinion
about it.
It needs doing,
it is yours to do,
do it,
exactly as it needs
to be done,
thinking nothing of it,
and go on to the next thing.
Same approach,
second time around.

07/14/2017 —   Republicans are about to vote
to destroy the lives
of 22 million people.
Republicans think they can do so
with impunity–
that they can destroy 22 million lives
with everything else staying
neatly in place
and being exactly the same
after the vote
as it was before the vote.
This is called stupidity.
The destruction of 22 million lives
with have a ripple effect
like, say, 22 million tsunamis,
destroying the lives of those
their lives impacted,
and that level of destruction
will, tsunami-like, wreak its on havoc
on other lives,
and, in no time at all,
well within the lifetimes of those voting,
entire systems supporting life
will topple,
and the end of life as we all know it
will be near to everyone worldwide.
The air will be thick with hopelessness,
chaos will be a word
faintly resembling the outcome
of the Republicans’ flip, casual,
who-woulda-thought-it-
replace-Obamacare-with-anything-
even-nothing-would-be-better-vote.
Destroying 22 million lives
isn’t nothing.
Isn’t close to nothing.
You might call your Republican senators
and tell them that–
while the phone lines still work.

  1. 07/14/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 24 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 It is essential–
    and incumbent upon each of us–
    that we understand and embrace
    the truth
    that benevolence, grace and kindness
    are the hope of the world,
    and, further,
    that these
    (and all of the other)
    high values hang by the thinnest of threads:
    our willingness and ability
    to bear the pain
    of being benevolent, gracious and kind–
    and go on being benevolent, gracious and kind–
    in the stark absence
    of encouraging outcomes and results.
    We have to ground ourselves
    in the value of the high values,
    and live to exhibit, express, incarnate them
    in our life
    in season and out of season,
    through all times,
    and places,
    and circumstances,
    whether we feel like it or not,
    whether we want to or not,
    whether we are in the mood for it or not,
    whether anything comes of it or not,
    for no other reason
    than because we believe
    in the foolishness
    of living in the service
    of the high values–
    because that is what we do
    in a “what I do is me,
    for that I came”
    (Gerard Manley Hopkins)
    kind of way.

07/14/2017 —   It is crucial
that we all live in ways
which help someone else
carry on.
In this way,
we all carry on.
And everything depends upon,
and flows from,
that.

07/14/2017 — Part of our work
is to carry on
in ways
that enable others
to carry on–
to be good
for one another–
to be sources
of hope and encouragement,
vitality, confidence and resolve–
all of the high values
at the heart of being human.
We are to live in ways
that bring out the best
in ourselves and others,
and enable us all
to carry on.
This is a “categorical imperative”
(Immanuel Kant)
incumbent upon every one of us.

07/14/2017 — We look at the truth
and see different things.
If we accept that
as the foundational given
defining and limiting
our life together,
we can,
respecting one another
and honoring the variations
that exist among us
regarding the way
we apprehend
and respond to
reality,
talk civilly among ourselves
about the ways
we see what we look at
and why we see–
what hidden but compelling
filters influence our seeing–
the way we do.
That would at least
have the potential
of enabling each of us
to expand our field of vision
to take into account
more than we would
ever notice on our own.

07/14/2017 — What’s wrong with this for an idea:
Why don’t we help
the old,
the poor,
the injured,
the ill and chronically ill,
without anyone
other than
the old,
the poor,
the injured,
the ill and chronically ill
getting anything out of it?

07/14/2017 — Jesus said,
“Why don’t you decide
for yourselves what is right?”
I would add,
“And DO it!”
Listen to what your heart,
your stomach,
your body–
NOT your head!–
tells you is right,
and do it.
And, if it turns out badly,
a) that doesn’t mean it was wrong–
it means it was the first step
in a series of connected results,
and you have to wait until
the entire scenario plays out
before you issue a verdict, and
b) keep listening to your heart,
your stomach,
your body–
NOT your head!–
tells you is right,
and do it.
The rule is,
if your heart/stomach/body
leads you into a mess,
look to their guidance
to lead you out of the mess.
Your heart/stomach/body
is your most reliable guide
in all forms of life choices.
If trusting them brings you to a dead end,
trust them to get you backed out of there.
And if they are telling you
Don’t listen to me,
don’t listen to me

  1. 07/15/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 20 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 The Right and the Left live in different words,
    have different world-views,
    different ideas about what is good
    and what is not.
    It’s AM talking to FM–
    VHS talking to VCR–
    8-track to DVD…
    One side’s idea of the center
    is the other side’s idea of the far extreme.
    How are we going to
    work out what it means
    to exhibit, express and exude
    “Liberty and Justice for All”?
    To understand that
    “Equal is Equal”?
    That the right to
    “Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness”
    belongs to–
    and must be honored and defended by–
    everyone without restriction exception,
    exemption or exclusion?
    Jesus would have more compassion
    for white supremacists
    than white supremacists
    would have for Jesus,
    being the swarthy, freak-loving
    Jew that he is.
    And I don’t know what
    to do about that.

07/25/2017 — Dissidents are locked away in China,
and assassinated in Russia–
and the extreme Right in the USA
applauds
and adores Trump
for his admiration of Strongman feats
of ruthlessness, cruelty and vindictiveness.
Trump has no interest
in recognizing, defending, championing
human/civil rights.
Liberty, Justice, Equality
are concepts/values wasted on him.
Brutality, Viciousness, Atrocity
are more to his taste.
And his base trends in that direction.
There is a saying:
“When Wrong rises up to be Wrong,
Right must rise up to be Right.”
Meet Wrong With Right
is the guiding slogan–
and that implies non-violence
and civil resistance
in letting no Wrong go unnamed
and unopposed.
It takes vigilance,
dedication,
and determination
in unrelenting service
to the high values,
but that’s our role
and our calling.
To do less
is to give way to Wrong,
and that would be
the really wrong thing to do!

07/15/2017 — Play your heart out!
Don’t keep score!
Those are the rules of the game.
If you abide by the rules,
you will transform the world.

  1. 07/16/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 31 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 Grace is indiscriminate.
    Mercy is indiscriminate.
    Justice is indiscriminate.
    Goodwill is indiscriminate.
    Empathy is indiscriminate.
    Kindness is indiscriminate.
    Goodness is indiscriminate.
    Generosity is indiscriminate.
    Helpfulness is indiscriminate.
    Faithfulness is indiscriminate.
    Compassion is indiscriminate.
    Benevolence is indiscriminate.
    (And so on…)
    Once discrimination enters the picture
    it all goes to hell.
    Once we begin to withhold
    the essential elements–
    the vital signs–
    of relationship
    because of something
    about another
    that we don’t like,
    find distasteful,
    goes against our religion
    or our idea of how things ought to be,
    the foundations give way,
    and society becomes
    an association
    of the fearful and untrustworthy–
    a conglomeration
    of factions
    competing for the upper hand.
    How are you going to live
    is the question.
    Who can trust you
    to be their friend?
    To guard their best interest?
    To tend their basic needs?
    To be a safe place
    to relax and restore their soul?
    Who has to be vigilant
    in your presence?
    To give you wide berth
    and hide from your wrathful glare?
    How are you living
    in ways that are welcoming?
    How are you living
    in ways that are not?
    We hold the key
    to making things
    more like they could be
    than they are.
    It all begins with me
    and you,
    and you,
    and you…

07/16/2017 — How fully does your
body of work
exhibit what you
have to offer?
Disclose your gifts?
Incarnate who you are?
Bring you forth in the world?
Are you revealed or concealed
by the way you
have lived your life?
What adjustments
can you imagine/make
that will deepen,
expand,
enlarge
the ways you go about
exploring,
experiencing,
expressing,
being you
in the time left for living?

07/16/2017 — We are a fearful,
lazy,
lot.
We hate uncertainty,
unpredictability.
We crave absolutes,
boundaries,
limits,
restrictions.
We are forever
structuring
our life,
building walls
to keep out
the unwanted,
the unknown,
the unknowable.
Structure
is predictability,
is dependability,
is reassurance,
is peace,
is life,
is death.
We prefer life
in a prison cell
with all the amenities
to life in the jungle
scrounging for food
struggling to keep
from becoming food.
But.
Even in the jungle,
you can bet
we would surround
ourselves with rituals
and taboos,
superstitions
and traditions,
do’s and don’t’s
to order our life
and keep us safe
from the encroaching
unknown.

07/16/2017 — We believe in right answers
to the questions no one can answer.
Does God (as an external, objective reality) exist?
Is there a Heaven?
Is here a Hell?
Is Satan (as an external, objective reality) real?
Is life worth living?
Why are we here?

We take someone else’s answers
“on faith,”
as though they know what
they are talking about,
and go on with our life.
Why not just make up
our own answers?
Or stop asking the questions?
Why pretend to know
what cannot be known?
Why go to war,
make enemies
and kill them,
over things that cannot be known?
Why can’t we simply live our life
based on what our experience
tells us is good–
always evaluating,
reviewing,
revising,
adjusting that
in light of continuing experience?

07/16/2017 — The three magic words
that constitute the
foundation of Physical Therapy
and the ground
of convalescence
and recovery
are: “Don’t push it!”
They apply on every level
of health and life.
How do we know when
we are pushing it?
Listen to your body.
Be attentive to your experience.
Live mindfully aware
of each present moment.
The secret of elixir of life.

07/16/2017 — We will never know
what thinking what we think about
keeps us from thinking about
until we stop thinking
what we think about.
The best way I can think of
of doing that
is to change what we are doing
that we have to think about.
Stop texting and talking on the phone,
for instance.
Stop watching TV.
Reduce the amount of time
we spend in conversation.
Sit quietly.
Walk without headphones/music.
Drive without music.
Practice mindful awareness.
See how long it takes
to begin thinking about things
you never thought about.

07/16/2017 — God doesn’t play favorites.
There is no recognition of merit,
no reward for doing it
the way it ought to be done.
There is nothing in it for us
beyond the satisfaction
of having done
what was ours to do
the way it needed
us to do it.
How well we meet life’s challenges
is our glory
or our shame.

07/16/2017 — Our moral authority
is grounded in our integrity–
our oneness
with what is most important to us.
It is the identity of saying and doing–
the sameness of being
who we say we are.
We do not think our way
to this place.
We live our way there
through long years
fits and starts,
wrong turns
and dead ends–
learning through it all
what matters most,
as though our life is teaching us
who we are
and waiting on us
to realize
what has been so all along.

07/16/2017 — When we vote for one person
because we hate someone else,
we are likely to find ourselves
in the worst of all possible worlds.
All action that springs from hatred
it toxic to all concerned.
The directive,
“Strive to do no harm,”
requires compassion
for implementation.
Without compassion,
the world is an uninhabitable wasteland
and will remain so
until the people learn to live
with charity and benevolence
for one another
and all sentient beings.

  1. 07/17/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 39 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 All we have to work with is our life.
    How we live is the gift we give to the world.
    Who we show ourselves to be
    through the process of living our life
    is the wake we cut,
    the legacy we leave behind.
    Forget believing in some preacher’s spiel
    as the way to make up
    for not having lived–
    live to be alive
    in the time and place
    of your living!
    Believe whatever it takes
    to be alive here, now!
    When you do the chores
    do them in ways
    that bring you to life!
    When you run your errands,
    do them in ways
    that announce your presence
    and evidence your vitality!
    Birth yourself into every moment!
    Live so as bless every scene
    with the annunciation of your arrival!
    Make them all glad
    to share your company
    and delight in your life!
    We are only here for a short time–
    why not make it worthwhile?

07/17/2017 — “Fake News!” doesn’t
necessarily mean the news is wrong,
just that the news is bad,
and therefore, the implication:
“Death to the Messenger!”
“Fake News” equals “Lying Damn Media,”
equals “Attack the Damn Reporters!”
Trump leads the cheers
of those who have
had nothing but bad news
all their lives.
He appears to them
to be one of them,
if you can believe that.
He is their kind.
He understands them.
He sings their song.
Calling him “Deplorable,”
calls them “Deplorables,”
which is the way they have felt
all their lives.
Gives them instant community,
instant camaraderie,
instant family,
something to embrace
and be proud of,
something they have never had.
Now they have it,
along with a mission,
a purpose,
a calling,
a goal:
Love and serve the Lord
through all of his strange
and mysterious ways!
Attacks on their Lord
are attacks on his base,
deepening their bond
and assuring their faithfulness.
We have all been
painted into a corner.
It is best to realize it is so
and consider it for what it is:
The inevitable outcome
of hopelessness
and “quiet desperation”
(Thoreau)
with no one to give voice
to their anguish
or articulate their plight.
The irony is they pin their hopes
on a savior who offers them
nothing but sound bites
and shadow promises,
and who can only escape
the eventual realization
of his deception
by blaming his fall
on his enemies in the press
and the Liberal Establishment.
Those of us who have been pressed
into the corner with them
have to take all of this into account,
and recognize the need for compassion,
benevolence and grace
in healing the wounds of the people
(ourselves included)
and finding the way forward together.
We who would not build The Wall,
have to do the work of tearing down the wall
that exists between us and “them.”
It is all US in the corner!
We have to listen to the cacophony
of songs, stories and voices
until we can all get to the WE
coursing through us all,
and see the one in the many
and the many in the one
in a “Thou Art That” kind of way.

07/17/2017 — We are living our life
the way it needs us to live it.
The question is not,
“What do you want
to do with your life?”
but, “What does your life
want you to do?”
“What is your life asking of you?”
“What does your life need from you?”
“What are you and your life
teaming up to do?”
Sitting with our life
and working out together
“Here we are–now what?”
is the task of a lifetime:
Our lifetime.

  1. 07/18/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 32 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 I’m interested in our Inner Circle.
    I assume we all either have one or wish we did.
    I wonder:
    How many people are in our Inner Circle?
    Do they know they belong to our Inner Circle?
    Do they ever get together as Our Inner Circle–
    and if so, how often?
    Do they like one another?
    Would they be in each other’s Inner Circle?
    Do we “call on” our Inner Circle as individuals,
    or as a group?
    Do people move in and out of our Inner Circle?
    On what Basis–
    How do we determine who is in our Inner Circle,
    and who is not?
    Can people who are deceased be in our Inner Circle?
    Can people who are fictional characters be in our Inner Circle?
    In what ways does our Inner Circle assist us with our life?
    In what ways might our Inner Circle fail us?
    In what ways might we fail them?
    Can people we never thought of as being in our Inner Circle
    come through for us in ways that put them there?
    What does it mean to “come through for us”?
    How about: To reliably be what we need,
    when and where we need it?
    How many people can we count on
    to be what we need, when and how we need it?
    Are women better at “Inner Circling” than men?
    It seems to me that a capacity for “Inner Circling”
    would entail a capacity for intimacy and vulnerability
    (we can’t be intimate if we won’t be vulnerable)
    and I wonder if I am correct about that.
    As we age, do we make more use of our Inner Circle?
    Less use?
    Does it disappear as we outlive our friends/relatives?
    Are we ever so alone that we cannot conjure up
    our Inner Circle
    and be comforted by their presence,
    and guided by their wisdom?
    (And, as an aside, I wonder how often, if at all,
    you engage in imaginary conversations/dialogue–
    and are you deepened, expanded, enlarged, directed,
    comforted in so doing?)

07/18/2017 — Jesus was a polarizing element
in the Jewish society of his day.
You loved him or you hated him.
You resonated with him
or were turned off by him.
You understood him
or you didn’t get a thing he said.
He said, “If you aren’t with me,
you are against me.”
And another time he said,
“If you aren’t against me,
you are with me.”
He was saying,
“One way or another,
you are going to have
a reaction to me.
You are going to have
to deal with me.”
It wasn’t something people
had to think about.
It wasn’t that they
couldn’t make up
their mind about Jesus.
There was instant,
spontaneous,
recognition or rejection.
Jesus turned you on,
or turned you off.
“I’ve come to divide families
and destroy close friendships,”
he said (Or words to that effect).
That’s the way it is with truth.
We hear it and we react to it.
“Black lives matter”
stirs something in all of us.
“LGBTQ rights,”
“Muslim rights,”
“Voter rights,”
“Women’s rights,”
“Human rights,”
“Civil rights,”
strikes a cord with this one,
and makes that one fighting mad.
Truth is divisive.
It forces decision on us.
It shows us who we are.
It frees us and binds us
at the same time.
We don’t get to choose.
The choice is made for us
by come compelling force
within us.
“Yes!”
“No!”
Are automatic responses
to the encounter with truth.

07/18/2017 — Tell me I must love
changing flat tires,
and threaten me
with severe penalties
and woeful humiliations
until I do–
and I will tell you
that you must love me
for not loving
to change flat tires,
and that you will have
as easy a time loving me
as I will have loving that.
We can love what we love
and we may come to love
what we do not love,
but not on command,
and not by striving mightily.

  1. 07/19/2017 — Lake Crandal 2016 14 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016 I’m interested in the objective reality of the Psyche–
    the “Unconscious” part of ourselves
    (“unconscious” because we are not conscious of it)–
    and in the psychic connections that exist
    within each of us (between conscious and unconscious)
    and among all of us,
    and in the psychic disruptions that exist
    within us and among us.
    The experience and exploration of the Psyche
    and its relationship with the Conscious–
    between the Unconscious Mind
    and the Conscious Mind–
    is the valid ground of all good religion
    and the sole (soul) justification
    of the church-as-it-might-yet-be.
    The experience of falling in love
    is a psychic phenomenon.
    The experience of resonance
    is a psychic phenomenon.
    The experience of meaning,
    of peace,
    of belonging,
    of despair,
    loss
    and sorrow…
    are psychic phenomenons.
    We–WE–are psychic phenomenons,
    solid evidence of psychic reality,
    yet, we like to think
    we are all logic and rationality,
    while illogical and irrational behavior
    rules our lives!
    You are where you are,
    I am where I am,
    because of choices and decisions
    we cannot begin to explain
    or understand.
    We could do a better job
    of “getting to the bottom” of it–
    of consciously participating in “it,”
    of belonging to “it,”
    of cooperating/collaborating with “it,”
    of being the living expression of “it”
    that we are!

07/19/2017 — I cannot empathetically or compassionately
put myself in the place
of Senate Republicans,
and imagine destroying
the lives of 22-33 MILLION people
in the service of the idea of smaller government
and a tax cut of nearly a trillion dollars
for people making in excess of $200,000 a year.
How can they be flip and casual about that?
How can they ridicule and shame
fellow Republican Senators
for not joining them
in that appalling, ruthless act?
Who are these people?
How did they rise to this level of power and control?
What is so valuable about the ideal
of smaller government–
particularly when the idea can be
conveniently shoved aside
in the area of women’s rights,
LGBTQ rights,
Transgender rights,
Voter rights, etc.?
They are for smaller government
when it comes to social programs
and huge government
when it comes to military expenditures
and imposing the religious ideas
of the Religious Right
upon the nation as a whole.
And they see nothing wrong
with anything they do.
That is completely beyond
the sphere
of empathy and compassion.

07/19/2017 — The unacknowledged–yet undeniably apparent–ground
of Trump’s and Tea Party Republican’s
rabid-beyond-reason opposition to Obamacare
is their racially-fueled hatred of Barack Obama,
and their manic-obsession with erasing
all memory of him from their minds
and the annals of time.
Their hatred of Obama
flows from their hatred of black people generally,
and from their hatred of people who are different
(immigrants, Muslims, LGBTQ’s, etc.)–
hence their affinity with
white supremacists,
(white) nationalism,
and the Far Right
(the By Far White).
Racism,
Xenophobia,
Islamophobia,
Homophobia,
Misogyny
are at the root cause
of the insanity
of current political policy.
Insanity breeds insanity.
We deal with it best
by seeing it for what it is
and knowing it cannot be appeased,
only opposed at every turn.

  1. 07/20/2017 — Lake Crandal 2016 18 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016 Carl Jung thought the Psyche–
    which he termed “Anima”–
    appeared as the “inner woman”
    in dreams of men,
    and as the “inner man”–
    which he termed “Animus”–
    in dreams of women,
    the two core archetypes
    of the unconscious mind.
    It may help our conscious mind
    apprehend our unconscious mind
    if we think in symbols–
    and genetics.
    Everything about living things
    comes packed in our DNA.
    And evolutionary genetics
    can be thought of
    as the science of spirituality,
    or the method by which
    “inside” appears to be “outside,”
    and the “man” moves from within
    to “upstairs.”
    It doesn’t do away with religion,
    but reframes religion as the means
    by which conscious relates to unconscious,
    and we grow in our ability
    to “know what we know”
    and align ourselves with ourselves
    for the good of the whole–
    the whole person
    and the whole world.

07/20/2017 — I have a dreadful hunch
that Republicans will continue
to be re-elected
no matter how much damage
they do to the country–
because of gerrymandering
and voter suppression,
and because they have buried
an irrational fear
in their constituency
of how much worse Democrats
would be:
“At least we have our GUNS!”
“At least our children aren’t
being taught EVOLUTION!”
“At least THE BIBLE isn’t being burned!”
“At least GLOBAL WARMING has been dismissed!”
Welcome to the new dark ages.

07/20/2017 — Ignorance has nothing to do
with education.
Ignorance cannot be educated
out of existence.
Ignorance is a refusal to see
what is looked at,
an inability to assess
a fact as factual.
It sees what it wants to see,
it believes what it
is comfortable believing,
and facts are whatever
it says facts are.
People enjoy being ignorant
because it doesn’t ask
anything of them,
or require them
to grow up in any way.

07/20/2017 — I’ve never known reason
to win an argument
with irrationality born
of ignorance,
fear,
loathing,
greed
or anger-
a description which characterizes
Tea Party Republicans
and the Religious Right
who are running the Party
that runs the country.
Which leaves us
with talking to everybody else
in seeking enough votes
to turn things toward a future
holding out life and hope,
liberty and justice,
for all.

07/20/2017 — We have 50 Republicans in the Senate,
and 240 in the House
who are doing everything possible
to end health-care coverage
for 33 million Americans–
which would effectively
destroy life as they know it,
and indirectly devastate the lives
of those responsible for their care
and the lives of others in supportive services.
I have quite literally
never heard of anything
as despicable, detestable, ruthless and wrong.
These 290 Republicans
look for all the world
like regular, normal, decent, loving and caring
human beings.
No one would ever guess
they are monsters and ghouls
without hearts and souls.
But they cannot deny that,
no matter how much
they might like to pretend
it isn’t so.

07/21/2017 — I cannot remember a time
when so much hangs in the balance
and is on the line.
Russia has at least two fronts:
1) The election interference
and all its paths of entanglements.
2) The loans, investments and financial ties
with Trump and his “Organization.”
There is the Health-care fiasco
made way more complicated
than it needs to be
to provide affordable health care
to all people
by Republican ideology
and special interests.
And then, there is the Budget Process
with it’s hidden tax cuts
and its reduction/eradication
of necessary services,
also complicated by
Republican ideology
and special interests.
And these three areas of concern
conceal Trump’s closing down
the support system for the ACA,
his flooding federal courts
with extreme Right judges,
his crippling the government
by shuttering agencies
and firing or transferring
federal employees…
The strategy seems to be
Destroy As Much As Possible
As Fast as Possible
And Overwhelm
The Resistance
With Too Much To Resist.
We who would resist
cannot allow ourselves
to become numb and unresponsive!
Our place is to see, know,
and make known!
The appalling and obscene
cannot become normal and acceptable
by being profuse and abounding!
Object!
Protest!
Denounce!
Defy!

  1. 07/21/2017 — Lake Crandal 2016 19/20 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016 We have to make the time
    to process the experience
    of each day’s episodes–
    to recall, review, reflect, realize
    what happened,
    and what its impact on us
    was and continues to be.
    We have to slow life down
    by opening ourselves to it,
    becoming aware of it,
    and letting it be
    because it is.
    Our reaction to the events
    of the day
    carries weight unnoticed
    until we consider that aspect
    of those events.
    It is the opinion we have
    about what happens
    that creates the stress
    that takes its toll.
    Sitting with it all,
    holding the events of the day
    and our opinion of them
    in our awareness–
    without embellishment,
    simply allowing them
    to be part of the day–
    provides a perspective
    that takes everything into account
    without being undone
    by any of it,
    and assists us
    in being ready for tomorrow.
  2. 07/22/2017 — Lake Francis 2016 04 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016 We have to be clear
    about what matters most to us
    and be conscious of that
    as the grounding truth of our life,
    upon which we stand
    and around which we coalesce,
    in all the times and places
    of our living.
    We live in the service of what?
    We live to express, exhibit, incarnate what?
    We live to make plain
    our loyalty, devotion, allegiance to what?
    What is the core value–
    the core values–
    that constitute(s) the essential nature
    of who we are in the world?
    In what ways is that value–
    are those values–
    reflected in the way we live?
    How would people know,
    in looking at our life,
    what is important to us?
    How is that value–
    are those values–
    borne out in our life?
    We must be steadily aware
    of that–
    and of how the impact
    of our life experience
    alters the value/values
    at the core of who we are,
    and how that is then
    made evident in how we live.
    Our life is our values,
    our values are our life.
    We live to make known
    what matters most to us–
    in all times and places,
    conditions and circumstances,
    of our living.
    Nothing else matters
    beyond the service
    of what matters most.

07/22/2017 — Every year, my Doctor asks,
“How’s your energy level?”
Every year, I answer,
“It’s beneath rock bottom
for the things I don’t like to do,
and as high as up goes
for the things I love to do.”
“Go where your energy takes you!”
he says.
“I’ll do my best!” I say.
I don’t get better advice anywhere.

One Minute Monologues 039-A

April 11, 2017 — June 2, 2017

  1. 04/11/2017— God is hiding in our life
    and we are looking in the Bible.
    There aren’t enough Bible studies
    to lead us to the God
    that is hiding in our life.
    To find God,
    we have to look where God is hiding.
    Start by looking in the mirror.
    Start by studying who looks back
    when you look in the mirror.
    That person–
    the one reflected in the mirror–
    is concealing God from you.
    Throw all your Bibles away
    and buy more mirrors.
    What we seek is found
    in the life of the person
    looking back at us
    from the mirror.
    And where does that person stop
    and her, and his, life begin?
    We ARE our life–
    the life we have lived,
    and the life we have not lived.
    Both lives are reflected back to us
    from the mirror.
    The impact of both lives
    are there for those who have eyes to see.
    Everything is there to be seen
    by those who look with compassion and grace.
    Why would we look at ourselves
    with anything less?
    We have to look at ourselves looking
    to see all there is to see,
    to know all there is to know
    about the one who knows what we know.
    We look for God somewhere else
    because we cannot bear to know
    what we have to know
    to know God hiding
    in the one place we will never look.
  2. 04/12/2017— Mesquite Flat Sand Dunes 2006 11 — Death Valley National Park, California, April, 2006 We live seeking
    the adamantine bedrock
    of our soul’s deep joy–
    thinking we are here
    to pass a good time.
    A perspective shift away
    from having it made.

04/13/2017 — The people in Kansas think things are fine

just as they are.

We will soon find out what the people

in Georgia think.

It is amazing,

bordering on astounding,

to me that as a country

we can be so divided over what

is right and wrong,

good and bad.

How can anyone think

that gay people have no right

to be married

(Or, if the truth be known, to be gay)?

That’s like thinking it is okay

if the air isn’t pure,

or the water isn’t clean.

How can anyone think

the way Republicans think?

I think it is because

most of the people who vote Republican

aren’t thinking at all.

They are voting their fear and resentment.

They are not voting their compassion

or their courage.

Arthur Schopenhauer said

compassion is only possible

for those who can override their will to live

in order to will their death

in the service of another’s life–

who can will their own bad

in the service of someone else’s good.

It takes a certain degree of maturity and grace

to be compassionate.

Republicans aren’t there yet.
 

  1. 04/10/2017— Black Birch Silhouette 2009 09 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Rocky Knob, Virginia, April 23, 2009 We all have to have a place and a time
    where and when we can do what we do
    the way we would do it
    with no one but ourselves to please
    with our effort and outcome.
    Too many of us live to please someone else–
    even after they are long dead or gone.
    We cannot free ourselves from their influence,
    or find ourselves because of their interference.
    We need to write our own Emancipation Proclamation,
    and live to make it so
    in our lifetime.
    We have to have a place and a time
    in which we are free to be who we are,
    pursuing the things that are important to us,
    for their own sake,
    whether they matter to anyone else or not.
    Our life depends on it.
    What could life possibly be without it?

04/13/2017 — The complete absence of compassion,
kindness, graciousness,
generosity, gentleness,
warmth, good faith
and all values similar
in intent and expression
from the Republican Party
and its representatives
is the only thing
worthy of our attention,
scrutiny, investigation
and exploration.
Why are Republicans
so heartless,
uncaring,
merciless
and cruel?
04/13/2017 — Trump has effectively ended Planned Parenthood in states with Republican controlled legislatures.

Republicans have done not one good thing–not one thing for the good of the people they were elected to serve.

They have added immensely to the burdens the people carry.

And they do not care.

Yet, in their own eyes, they are wonderful beyond measure.

If they cannot see any better than that, why see at all?
 

  1. 04/14/2017— Twenty Mule Team Canyon 2006 01 — Death Valley National Park, Death Valley, California, April, 2006 We have to find our path and walk it,
    find our work and do it,
    find our face and wear it,
    find our voice and speak it,
    find our foundation and stand on it,
    find our identity and exhibit it,
    find our art and express it,
    find our joy and relish it,
    find our life and live it,
    find our heart and let it dance and sing.

04/14/2017 — The role of government is whatever
Republicans say it is
in any moment,
but, basically it comes down to this:
“The role of government
is to NOT TELL ME WHAT TO DO!”
However, if Republicans don’t like
what YOU are doing,
the role of government then becomes
“to tell YOU what to do.”

Republicans have no grasp of
“the work of government.”
They want government to disappear
when it is in their way,
and to reappear when they need it
to force their way on everyone else.

Republicans think reducing the size of government
will diminish the government’s ability
to interfere with their life,
and will open the way to profiteering
and financial gain
at the expense of all other considerations.
Having more money today
than they had yesterday
is the central motive of the Republicans
who drive the Party.
“Profit at any price”
is the core motto of Republicans.
“Why should I pay for someone else’s
(fill in the blank)
healthcare,
education,
food,
shelter,
etc.?”
Is the question Republicans ask of government’s role
in health and human services,
and is the mainstay of Republican opposition to taxes,
and to Republican resistance
to the place of government in their life.

Republicans are certain
that everyone could be as independent
and as self-reliant as they are
if everyone were “disciplined” and “really tried.”
And that those who are dependent
and/or disadvantaged in any way
are only getting what they deserve
for refusing to be self-disciplined
and for not “trying.”

Republicans live in their own self-validating world,
and are incapable of grasping the concept
of another world at a variance with their own,
in a “let them eat cake (if they have no bread)”
kind of way.

  1. 04/14/2017— Reelfoot Lake 2015 57 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 It doesn’t matter why we dream,
    where dreams come from,
    or what dreams mean.
    What matters is how we work with them,
    what we do with them,
    how we understand them,
    how we honor them,
    how we listen to them.
    Approach dreams as though
    they are messages to you from you,
    whether they are,
    or not.
    Just pretend that they are,
    and set about the task of deciphering
    the metaphor,
    the parable,
    that comes to us as we sleep.
    Pretend each dream is saying,
    “This is how it is in your life at this point.
    What are you going to do about it?”
    What is the dream saying about our life situation?
    What is the dream calling us to do?
    Pretend that dreams are a Rorchach ink blot,
    and that it is our place to interpret them
    out of our present life experience,
    saying what they mean to us,
    and what they are asking of us.
    Keep a dream journal,
    writing the dream down
    each morning
    before it disappears
    in the rush of life.
    Think about it through the day.
    See what occurs to you.
    See where it goes.
  2. 04/15/2017— Carolina Jasmine 2017 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, February, 2017 Live until you die,
    that’s my best advice.
    Start by making a Life/Death Assessment
    twice a week.
    Sit quietly
    and decide if you are mostly alive,
    or mostly dead.
    Then ask yourself
    what you could do to be more alive
    and less dead.
    And do it.
    We live best
    when we live in the service of life.
    When we mean it.
    Intend it.
    Devote ourselves to it.
    Every day.
    Life is not what happens to us.
    Life is what we do
    with what happens to us.
    In spite of what happens to us.
    All our life long.

04/15/2017 — Being conscious
is knowing what we know.
Knowing what we know
is being self-transparent.
Being self-transparent
is not kidding ourselves.
Not kidding ourselves
is squaring up to
our contradictions,
dichotomies,
discrepancies,
and incompatibilities–
reconciling what can be reconciled,
and bearing the pain
of mutually exclusive polarities–
while being responsible
and holding ourselves accountable
for what we do
about being who we are,
where we are,
when we are,
how we are,
in each situation as it arises
all our life long.
You can see why we might want
to live unconscious
of most of what we know.
04/15/2017 — Republicans do not see it coming.
They actually believe the bad stuff on all levels isn’t real.
They are lost in denial
and live in service to the ideal of unlimited profits–
that is profits unrestricted by the regulations/protections
that increase costs and decrease profits.
Republicans are profit driven–
profit at any price driven–
and blind to the reality of that price,
which is to be paid by us all.
Republicans bear fully the weight
of their refusal to see, hear, or understand–
as much as did those about whom Jesus said,
“Father, forgive them, they don’t know what they are doing.”
They don’t know
and don’t know
that they don’t know,
because knowing
would require too much of them.
Let them wake up,
and let us see
if they can forgive themselves.
04/15/2017 — We spend a lot of our time
waiting it out.
Waiting for the door to open,
a door,
any door.
Waiting for the regime to change.
Waiting for something to shift,
to stir to life,
to call our name…
We wait sometimes
not knowing that we are waiting.
Luke Skywalker was waiting,
not knowing.
Obi-wan Kenobi was waiting,
knowng he was waiting.
When it is our time to wait,
it helps to know that we are waiting,
even if we don’t know what
we are waiting for.
It keeps us alert,
knowing that,
but not what.
“Are you the one who is to come?”
asked John the Baptist’s disciples.
“Or, shall we look for another?”
Would that we knew whom to ask.
Not knowing, we wait,
hoping to know what
when we see it.
In the meantime,
it is enough to know that
we are waiting,
and wait.
04/16/2017— Big Creek 2004 01 — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, Haywood County, North Carolina, November, 2004

Here’s my take on Easter Morning:

Your new life–the life that is yours to live–
will eat your old life alive–
the life you are living
AND the life you dream of living.
In order to live the life that is your life to live,
you have to sacrifice the life you are living
AND the life you dream of living.
Resurrection means death.
You don’t live without dying.
You can’t “put your hand to the plow
and look back.”
You can’t step through the door
and keep following the cows
from the barn to the pasture
and back to the barn.
You have to live the life that is YOURS to live
and stop living the life
you were handed and told to live.
It is like dying to be born anew.
What’s it going to be?
Death?
Or resurrection?
The catch is that we die
by refusing to die,
and that is death
with no resurrection attached:
“Leave the dead to bury the dead.”

Easter has nothing whatsoever to do
with what happened to Jesus
2,000+ years ago.
It is solely about you and me
and whether we have what it takes
to die the death we have to die
in order to live the life that is ours to live.
Simply put:
We die when we live transparent to ourselves.
Living transparent to ourselves
means knowing what we know.
It means bearing the agony of our contradictions
and polarities.
It means No Denial.
It means living straight up face to face
with how it is really with us–
in the strength and confidence
of our belief in the validity and truth
of how it is also with us.
If you are going to believe in someone,
believe in YOU.

Believe you have all you need
to face all that is yours to face
and to find your way
by “entering the woods where it is the thickest,
where there is no path,”
wearing only “the face that was yours
before your grandparents were born.”
If you are going to believe anything,
believe that.
And take your place as the irreplaceable
individual you are
in the great company of those
who can receive you
as one of them
by being who only you can be.

04/16/2017— Donald Trump and Republicans
are clueless.
They look, but they do not see.
They see their projection of their assumptions
about how things are.
They see the world as they understand it to be.
They do not see what they are seeing
or how they are seeing it.
They think that with enough power
they can make things as they want them to be.
They think they can adjust the world to their liking.
They think it is “Only a matter of buying or bullying
their agenda, plan, ideology,
preferred way for things to be,
in place.”
They do not listen, see, understand.
Trump is amazed to learn
that health care is complicated,
or that the Chinese relationship
with North Korea is complicated,
or that there are aspects
to everything he thinks
that he hasn’t taken into consideration.
As with Trump so with Scott Pruitt
and Betsy DeVos
and every cabinet member
and Republican office holder
on national, state, and local levels.
You cannot screw with this
without impacting that.
It isn’t about increasing corporate profits.
It is about improving the quality of life–
the civil and human rights–
of everyone.
It’s a tragedy that I cannot say that
in a way that Trump and Republicans
can understand.
04/16/2017 — To what extent are we
presenting ourselves
to ourselves and to others
in ways that conceal
who we are?

What are we denying about ourselves
to ourselves and/or to others?

All movement in our life
depends upon our moving
from self-deception
to self-realization
and self-transparency.

We cannot see anything
until we can see ourselves–
and hold everything
in compassionate,
non-judgmental,
awareness.
04/16/2017 — There are alcoholics
who deny they are alcoholics.
There are racists
who deny they are racists.
And so it goes
along the long line
of people who say they are not
who they are.
Our only task in life
is to know who we are
and to decide who we will be.
 

  1. 04/10/2017— Bass Harbor Lighthouse 2004 — Acadia National Park, Bass Harbor, Maine, September, 2004 There is a reason people have affairs,
    and the reason is not sexual.
    The reason is their need
    for vulnerability, authenticity, and intimacy.
    Vulnerability, authenticity and intimacy
    easily lend themselves to sexual expression,
    but affairs need not be sexual. Everything we do is a mirror.
    We are all desperately seeking ourselves–
    and doing everything we can do
    to call ourselves to attend ourselves,
    seeing, hearing, knowing, caring, loving,
    accepting, looking, listening, inquiring…
    In a word, being the kind of safe,
    non-judgmental,
    place for ourselves
    that we seek in the arms of our lover. My bet is
    that the occupations/practices
    with the highest incidence
    of affairs
    are those with the lowest regard/tolerance
    for vulnerability, authenticity and intimacy.
    We will have what we need,
    and we need to be
    vulnerable, authentic and intimate.
    These things are the path,
    the way,
    to knowing who we are
    and being at one with ourselves.
    Integrity is at the heart of every affair. My bet is
    that the occupations/practices
    with the lowest incidence of affairs
    are those with the highest regard/tolerance
    for vulnerability, authenticity and intimacy–
    the ones that encourage/enable us
    to know ourselves
    and to be who we are.
    Integrity is at the heart
    of everything we do. Everything we do is a mirror,
    asking us to see who we are–
    with loving,
    accepting,
    compassionate,
    comprehending eyes:
    “Oh, Peter!
    There you are!”

04/18/2017— Every mirror “of the soul,”
“of the self,”
is a two-way mirror,
revealing and concealing,
concealing and revealing.
The catch determining
what we see
is the matter
of how we look,
of whether we look at all.
04/18/2017— What we see hinges on how we look.

We have to look at our looking

to see what’s what.

04/18/2017— Jesus did not come
to make Christians of everybody.
Jesus did not come
to make Christians of anybody.
Jesus, by his own words
(placed in his mouth
by the Gospel of John,
so whose words they are
is an open question),
“came that they might have life,
and have it abundantly.”

Christians, of course,
equate “having life”
with “being saved”
as they declare “salvation” to be,
and the is by being Christian–
and you can only be Christian
by adopting the doctrines
of the Christian religion as your own.
What that has to do with life,
much less “abundant life,”
is shifted to “heaven,”
where everyone will “really live”
after they really die,
which is how Christians base their case
for making everybody Christians.

It is ridiculous to suppose
that Jesus came to start a church
with doctrines and theology,
creeds and catechisms and ideology
as the way to life.
Jesus didn’t tell anybody what to think.
He told people what to do:
Be a neighbor!
Love one another as you love yourself!
Love your enemies!
Help those who need to be helped!
Be generous, kind, compassionate
and true to yourself!

He said in 10,000 ways,
“It doesn’t matter what you believe!
It matters what you do and how you do it!”
And,
“Believe whatever it takes
to do what needs you to do it
the way it needs to be done!”
That’s the way to having life,
and having it abundantly–
doing what needs us to do it,
the way it needs to be done:
with all our heart, and soul, and mind and strength–
in each situation as it arises,
all our life long.
04/18/2017 — It is too much to ask, or to expect,
of the church of our experience
that it transform itself
into the church as it ought to be,
but it might be replaced
by an organization
of psychological/spiritual
(And were does that line lie?)
gatherings for the purpose
of enhancing, enabling, encouraging
the self-development of persons
on all levels.

This would include life-long learning
in at least three areas:
Mindfulness Meditation and Practice
A Montessori-like approach
to life experience for children.
A Jungian-like approach
to life experience for youth/adults.
There would be a core element
of universally recognized truths
reflected in all three areas,
but no doctrine,
no theology,
no creed,
no ideology
beyond the emphasis
upon the individual’s experience
and expression of herself, of himself,
through all of the stages
of human development.
It is well past time
to begin implementing
this approach to life experience
for all people world wide.

04/10/2017— We need communities of innocence–
innocent in the sense of having
nothing at stake in us,
and no interest in using us
to its advantage,
or enhancing itself
at our expense–
to help us live grounded
in the truth of who we are,
trusting the truth of our own
life experience,
the strength, wisdom and intelligence
of our creative imagination,
and the sustaining, guiding, presence
of the Invisible Other within.
Those communities are composed
of people like us,
seeking to find their life and live it
within the conditions and circumstances
of their life,
in accord with themselves
and their life,
and in service to the gifts that are theirs
to share as a boon for all.
We live together
in a “One for all, all for one”
kind of way–
individuals served by the collective
for the good of the whole.
It is simple enough
that a child can grasp it,
and difficult enough
to bring grown people to tears.

  1. 04/19/2017— After Sunset 2004 — Price Lake and Grandfather Mountain, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, June, 2004 Our circumstances grow us up,
    if we can grow up.
    They are the only thing that can.
    When we run from our circumstances,
    deny our circumstances,
    hate our circumstances,
    blame our circumstances
    for all that is wrong about us and our life,
    we refuse the gauntlet
    that stands between us
    and all that we are capable
    of being and becoming,
    and settle into the slow rot
    of discontent
    and terminal resentment
    over the sorry lot we were given–
    never getting beyond
    the poor-me-why-me stage
    of development,
    which is to say that
    we never develop at all. 04/19/2017— What makes Trump great
    in Republican eyes
    is that things would be
    soooooo much worse
    if Democrats were in control.
    Trump could do anything
    (and will)–
    it won’t matter.
    Democrats would be worse by far.
    That’s the reasoning
    that keeps the terrible mess in place.
    It isn’t as bad as it could be.
    We are dealing with people
    who are irrational,
    illogical
    and beyond reason.
    Yet, they make perfectly good sense
    once we realize they are crazy.

04/19/2017 — “Growing up” means
placing ourselves in accord
with our life
and placing ourselves in accord
with ourselves.
“Growing up” is being in accord
with our life and with ourselves.
“That we might grow up”
is the sole meaning of life,
and the whole purpose
of our existence.
It is why we are here.

  1. 04/20/2017— Black Birch 2007 08 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Rocky Knob, Virginia, April 2007 Our life experience provides us with all we need
    for the reflection required
    to form new realizations
    and transform our life,
    creating different life experience
    resulting in additional reflection,
    generating further realization
    producing an increasing variation of life experience.
    We change our world,
    and impact THE world
    by the quality
    of our relationship
    with our life experience.
    Our life experience is the matrix of creation
    unfolding,
    ongoing, We have all the tools we need
    to be the agent of change
    and transformation
    our life needs us to be.
    We only have to practice
    the mindful art
    of sitting quietly,
    holding everything in awareness,
    and watching for the shifts to happen.
    So simple a child could do it.
    And so the saying,
    “Unless you turn and become as children,
    you will never enter the kingdom of heaven
    (which is the realization and service of life
    here and now
    upon the earth
    of our days and nights).”

04/20/2017 — The Aristocracy has no business
tending the affairs of the people,
yet, the people, enamored
by the Aristocracy,
and vicariously lifted
to imaginary heights
through their identification
with the Aristocracy
as “MY President,”
are glad to hand the responsibility
for their own good
over to someone who
cares nothing for it–
and blame their loss of freedom
upon the enemies of the Aristocracy,
which the Aristocracy encourages,
by blaming its enemies
for every abuse of power
and failure to govern
in ways that serve the good of the people,
but increase its own fortune,
and guard its own interests.
An awake,
informed,
and politically involved population
is the only champion
democracy ever has.
04/20/2017 — Republicans think Trump is not
poisoning their water,
or pumping toxins
into their air.
Removing EPA protections
has nothing to do with their health
or that of their children.
Trump would not harm them,
and anyone else doesn’t matter.
Building detention centers
for undocumented immigrants
is no concern of theirs.
Restricting freedom for some
will have no impact
on the freedom of others–
particularly others like them.
Republicans are so innocent,
so trusting,
so complicit,
at fault,
and to blame.
04/20/2017 — Republicans in congress and in state legislatures
do not do a thing in the service
of the best interest of their constituents.
Republican politicians everywhere
live to serve,
not the people,
but their ideology–
no government large enough to interfere with
unrestricted profits for corporations and industry.
And in every election,
no Republican office-seeker
can point to the goods and services
he or she helped, or pledges, to effect
during his or her term of office,
because that is clearly not the case,
but can only promise
to not raise taxes.
Not raising taxes is the only thing
Republicans do.
They do it by reducing the goods and services
that are helpful to the people
(which they call “reducing the size of government”).
The declare themselves to be
the champions of the people,
when, in fact, they are the Liege Lords of the people,
profiting mightily from the vote of the people,
while the people trudge through their life
beneath the weight of their neglect and abuse,
thankful for their deliverance
from the hands of those who would
most certainly, absolutely, without question or doubt,
raise their taxes.

04/20/2017 — Donald Trump has failed
the American people
at every opportunity,
lost in the world
of making government
profitable to corporations–
to their owners and stockholders.
The people are an inconvenience.
He knows he has to make it appear
that he is trying to make them happy,
but, they do not make the top 100
in his list of priorities.

This is what Joseph Campbell said
about the funerals of those noble
in life and death during the Middle Ages:
There were recounted “the virtues
of loyalty and courage,
pride in the performance of duty,
and, for a king, his selfless,
fatherly care for his people’s good.”
Trump may aspire to nobility,
but he does not bring
one noble quality to the chase.

Trump spends millions on his
golf vacations at his own property,
which should cost nothing.
His joke of a wall will be a billion
(and counting) more,
and he has take away
rights, freedoms and protections
past counting.

The only thing Republicans can say
in his support is
“At least he isn’t Democrat,”
as though being a Democrat
is being Satan’s personal servant.
Ask them what they don’ like
about Democrats,
and they will say,
“Abortion, Gun Control, and Gay Marriage!”
And, if they were honest,
they would add
“Rights to women, blacks, LGBTQs, Muslims,
Latinos and immigrants.”
These are the causes and groups
Republicans hate most,
and hate Democrats for supporting.
And that will change not over time.

So, we don’t talk to Republicans.
We talk to those near-Republicans
who can hear what we have to say
about the value of human rights,
and the importance for governmental support
for people who need help
with finding their life and living it–
including education and worker-rights–
and the crucial necessity
environmental and financial protections
for all people,
in all times and places.

Ours is the task of keeping the focus
where the focus belongs
by remembering and being those
who live strong in the service of
the essential values at the heart
of being human,
“with liberty and justice for all.”

  1. 04/21/2017— Lake Haigler 36 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November, 2016 Sin is the refusal/failure to be who we
    It has nothing to do with morality.
    It has everything to do with courage
    and identity,
    and faithfulness to our Self–
    the invisible Other whom Jung was talking about:
    “There is in each of us,
    another,
    whom we do not know.”
    Sin is knowing better than the Other knows
    who and what and how
    we are to be.
    Arrogance and cowardliness
    are the primary guises of sin,
    but denial and rejection have their place as well.
    And no one can save us
    from the impact
    of our failure/refusal
    to be true to ourselves,
    our Self at the center of ourselves.
    What could possibly stand as recompense to our Self?
    What could “make it up to” our Self
    that we did not have what it takes
    to live the life that is/was our joint venture?
    A life unlived is a life forever unlived.
    For. Ever. Un. Lived.
    Who can make that right?
    There is no forgiveness for our failure/refusal
    to be who we are.
    There is only BEING WHO WE ARE
    now,
    and in all the moments following this one.
    Forever.
    We have waited long enough.
    And it is the role of both the church
    and the government
    to help us assume our role
    and take up our task.
    Helping the people find what they need
    to be who they are
    is the task of church and state.
    We are not alone with the work of being human.
    We need all of the help we can get.
    Where are they?
    Where have they been?
    In becoming ourselves,
    we have to insist on the help we have to have
    from both church and state,
    and refuse to take “No” for an answer.
    This is the “three cord opera,”
    the Holy Trinity,
    the Triune Dialogue,
    that comprises the rest of our life.
    We have a part to play.
    The church has a part to play.
    The state has a part to play.
    There can be no play without the players.
    Open the curtains–
    its Showtime!

04/21/2017 — When the world tilts on its axis,
and roles become not what they need to be–
when the cab drivers begin selling tacos,
and the dentists begin playing harps,
and the dancers begin building high rises,
and the president’s daughter begins acting
like a stand-in for her dad,
it becomes an essential requirement
for each of us to find
“the face that was ours before we were born,”
and be who we are.
04/21/2017 — All the fairy tales,
fables
and stories about
the hero’s journey
are filled with unpretentious
helpers and guides.
So is your life and mine.
We did not get here alone.
And we will not
progress beyond here alone.

The Psychopomp is a mythological guide
for souls to the place of the dead
past the trials and ordeals of the Underworld–
and can be understood
as any helper or guide who comes to our aid
on our journey to our Self
and the life that is our joint life to live
on this side of the grave.
There is a Psychopomp (or more)
for every developmental stage of life,
unrecognizable and unpredictable,
yet exactly what we need
at the time and place we need it.

Take the time
from time to time
to remember your Psychopomps,
and to recall the times
you have served others as a Psychopomp.
And celebrate the wonder
of how things work
in ways beyond imagining,
explaining,
or understanding

  1. 04/22/2017— Lake Haigler 2016 15 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 We live in the service of our identity–
    we live to serve our identity–
    we live to be who we are,
    to express who we are,
    exhibit who we are,
    make known who we are.
    If we don’t know who we are,
    or don’t care who we are,
    or never think about who we are–
    engrossed as we are
    in buying, spending, amassing, consuming
    and immersing ourselves
    in entertaining pastimes,
    we live haunted by the sense
    of something missing,
    with no idea of what
    it might be.

04/22/2017 — Our highest allegiance
belongs to our Self–
the one about whom Jung said,
“There lives in each of us,
another whom we do not know.”
It is our work to know
“whom we do not know,”
and to live a joint life
in collaboration with
the Other within–
being who we are
and who we also are.
Being true to ourselves–
both of them:
our conscious ego-self,
and the psyche-self
of whom we are unconscious–
bringing ourselves forth
in a manner appropriate to the occasion
in each situation as it arises,
for the good of each individual
and for the good of the whole.
It is a noble task
worthy of a god,
or those godlike enough
to be taken for a god.
That being the case,
why would we devote ourselves
to anything else?

  1. 04/23/2017— Black Birch 2011 06 Silhouette — Blue Ridge Parkway, Rocky Knob, Virginia, April, 2011 Focus and concentration, Kid.
    Focus and concentration.
    Distractions abound.
    If it doesn’t help us
    realize,
    reveal,
    express,
    exhibit,
    manifest,
    know and make known
    who we are,
    it is concealing,
    obscuring,
    denying,
    suppressing,
    repressing
    who we are.
    How clearly are you
    coming forth in your life?
    How are you helping
    others come forth in their life?
    If it isn’t revealing,
    it is concealing.
    Focus and concentration, Kid.
    Focus and concentration. (A note on the photograph—comparing this image with the one posted immediately prior to it gives you a “picture” of the difference two years makes. Ice storms and the weight of time and gravity took their toll with the loss of limbs and branches. My last visit, in 2013, shocked me with the degree of destruction since this photo was made, and I doubt that much of it remains by now.)

04/23/2017 — Hillary Clinton will always be
a ready diversion,
excuse,
and subject-shifter
Trump’s supporters use
to ignore his blatant obscenities.
“Hillary would be worse by far!”
“Hillary would have done the same!”
“At least he isn’t Hillary!”
Hillary is history.
Trump is present and unaccounted for.
And the future hangs
by a raveling thread.
If you are not against Trump,
you are with him.
And that is an indictment
without defense.

  1. 04/24/2017— Red-bellied Woodpecker 2017 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, April 13, 2017 Alt-truth is a lie It is preferred
    by those who
    wish it were true.
    Too many people
    live in an Alt-universe,
    one of their own making,
    as though it is the real thing,
    where climate change doesn’t happen,
    and choices don’t have untoward consequences,
    and we can make all the money we want
    without paying any price,
    or creating any resistance,
    or worrying about Karma at all.
    Alt-truth is a lie
    and.
    The truth will out.
  2. 04/25/2017— Pelican Silhouette 2007 01 — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, Silver Lake, October 2007 We make up whatever we “take on faith.”
    That being the case,
    you might think
    we would make up something
    helpful to ourselves and others,
    and not something harmful
    to anyone.
    But no.
    We “take it on faith”
    that God hates homosexuals,
    for example (but the list is long),
    and will send them all to hell,
    and us with them
    if we don’t hate them, too,
    and make their life a living hell
    on earth before they die.
    We “take it on faith”
    that if you don’t do it like we do,
    we should punish you
    to wake you up,
    enlighten you as to
    the error of your ways,
    so that you might repent,
    and become as we are.
    We take the damnedest things “on faith.”
    It used to be that we
    “took it on faith”
    that we were to sacrifice
    our virgin daughters
    and first born sons
    to keep God on our side.
    Why would we want to be
    on the side of a God like that?
    It’s time we stopped
    taking just anything “on faith,”
    and started being responsible
    for the things we “take on faith,”
    making sure they are good for everybody.
    (That’s EVERYBODY!)
    Things like science, for instance,
    and mindfulness,
    and art,
    and music…

04/25/2017 — It comes down to

knowing who you are

and doing what is

yours to do.

Having something

to show for it

doesn’t enter into it.

Refusing,

or hiding from,

the responsibility

to know and to do

leaves us

with a lot of

time on our hands.
04/25/2017 —

The truth is the bed
you will sleep in tonight,
and the world
you will wake up to
in the morning.
The truth is who you are
and what you do–
and who you refuse,
or fail,
to be,
and what you refuse,
or fail,
to do.
We don’t define truth.
We live it.
We are the truth we seek.
We cannot help but live
truthful lives.
Whether we can face it
or not,
is another matter.
 

04/25/2017 — We are not old enough

to understand some things.

If you can’t make sense

of something,

stop trying.

Put it in a bin

called “Things To Think About Later,”

and they will come to mind

in their own time.
04/25/2017 — It is the mindful experience

of lived-experience

that wakes us up

over time.

We have to be aware

of what is happening,

and then what happens–

within ourselves

and within the situation.

And we have to hold

all of this in our awareness

in order to make connections,

which may call into questions

previous convictions

and favorite assumptions.

We don’t grow up

apart from the pain

of realization

at every stage

of the journey.
 

04/26/2017— Dogwood Stream 2005 01 — Great Smoky Mountains National Park, near Tremont, Tennessee, April, 2005

Who are we when nobody is watching?
How different is our Public Face
from our Private Face?
What are we hiding?
Why?
04/26/2017 — We are made up of
the I,
the Not I,
and the Also I.
It is the role of the I
(our conscious ego)
to get the I together
with the Also I
and to reduce the influence
of the Not I.
How much of our
Not I
is actually our
Also I?
How much of our I
is actually our Not I?
Where do those lines lie?
Finding them
and drawing them
and honoring/enforcing them
is our role
for the rest of our life.
04/26/2017 — I talked with a MRI technologist once who told me, “Jim, all the organs in our body, all the blood and muscles, are sending out different signals. We are a range of frequencies held together by a range of frequencies.”

Which led me to wonder in several directions at once.

Could we invent a weapon to jam or scramble a person’s frequencies, and kill people more efficiently than with bullets and bombs?

Could we invent a redemptive device to realign a person’s frequencies, and heal people of diseases? Cure people of emotional trauma? Turn our enemies into friends?

Could we learn to read, decipher, discern a person’s frequencies and know whether that person would be a good employer, employee, spouse/partner/friend?

Could it be that we already do something along these lines when we “resonate” with a particular person, place, or thing?

Does that which has always been called “God” have a certain frequency range? And could that be what we sense when we talk of “being in the center of God’s will,” or “being in the flow,” or “being with the Force,” or “being in the groove,” of “being at one with the Tao,” of “having Buddha mind.” of things “being harmonious,” of things “humming right along”?

Perhaps we should develop the field of Octave Medicine in addition to Nuclear Medicine, or Octave Therapy alongside Psychotherapy, transforming frequencies, changing lives.

The entire universe is a range of frequencies held together by a range of frequencies.

Is a frequency physical or spiritual? A wave or a particle?

Do ideas and dreams have frequencies separate from the frequencies of the person who “has” them?

When we “tune out” and “tune in,” are we changing frequencies?

That was a conversation worth the price of a cup of coffee.

  1. 04/27/2017— If we don’t have time to sit quietly
    and be still,
    we are doing too much.
    All of our doing
    must flow from,
    and lead to,
    our not-doing.
    It is how much,
    and how often,
    we do nothing
    that produces
    the quality
    and depth
    of what we do.
    We cannot do
    until we are able
    to do not
    frequently
    and well.
  2. 04/27/2017 — Drifting back to the idea that
    we are a collection of frequencies
    in search of a tuning fork,
    I will point out that
    Joseph Campbell said
    (on the last page of the final chapter
    of “The Power of Myth,”
    the Bill Moyers’ interview on PBS
    made into a book): “When you realize the sound ‘AUM’
    is the sound of the mystery
    of the world everywhere,
    you don’t have to go looking for it
    because it is right here all around.
    Just sit still and it,
    and experience it,
    and know it (or words to that effect).” He follows that with:
    “‘AUM’ is a word
    that represents to our ears
    the sound of the energy
    of the universe
    of which all things
    are manifestations…
    If you listen to Tibetan monks
    chanting ‘AUM,’ you begin
    to sense what that word means,
    and perhaps resonate with the frequency
    that vibrates eternally
    through all things
    (or words to that effect).” We are never far
    from that which we seek–
    only a perception shift away
    from making The Find,
    and knowing
    what we have always known. 04/28/2017— Wood Sorrel 2017 01 — 22 Acre Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, April 16, 2017 Too many people think that
    doing what they love to do
    means doing what they like to do,
    and they don’t do anything
    they don’t like to do,
    which means they don’t
    do what they love.
    Doing what we love to do
    will grow us up
    by requiring us to
    do what we don’t like to do.
    We will have to sacrifice everything
    in the service of what we love.
    Doing what we love
    makes liege servants of us all.
    We swear our allegiance,
    fidelity
    and loyalty
    to the service of our love,
    forsaking all other interests
    and enthusiasms
    for the sake of our heart’s
    true devotion,
    as long as life shall last.
    We rise early,
    and drive long distances,
    and fight through large clouds of mosquitoes
    to take a photograph of a sunrise
    or something equally difficult
    to justify.
    It’s the Hero’s Journey,
    lived gallantly for love.
    If you don’t know
    what I’m talking about,
    I can’t explain it to you.

04/28/2017 — Alexis Carrel said “We cannot remake ourselves without suffering because we are the marble and the sculptor.”
We are the chisel and the stone.
The treasure and the dragon–
and the hero come to claim the boon.
We are the princess and the frog.
Beauty and the Beast.
Jekyll and Hyde.
The light and the shadow…
It’s time we realized
the truth of the matter
and called a parley.
We have to talk.
We all have to talk.
All of us have to talk.
It out.
It through.
It over.
How can we all work together
for the good of the whole?
How can we take the interests
of all sides
into consideration?
Use the assets of all sides
in the work that needs us (all)
to do it?
How might we each
sacrifice ourselves
in the service of the ALL?
How might we each
honor the others
in gratitude and appreciation
for the gifts and strengths
they bring to life
that is ours to fashion,
the work that is ours to do?
As an individual,
we are a collective,
and listening
with understanding
and compassion
is required
for the integration
and integrity
of our disparate parts.

  1. 04/29/2017— Carolina Thread Trail 2016 50 — Union County, North Carolina and Lancaster County, South Carolina, 12 Mile Creek, November 18, 2016 Look in the mirror!
    That’s my best advice.
    Mirrors are everywhere.
    Everything about us is a mirror
    reflecting us back to us
    (and to anyone else
    with eyes to see):
    Our loves and our lovers,
    our hates and our fears,
    our likes and our dislikes,
    our actions and our in-actions,
    our dreams and our day-dreams,
    our life and our other life
    (the one we are living
    and the one we are refusing to live)…
    It is all “right there” before our eyes
    at all times.
    Are we looking,
    is the question.
    Are we mindfully aware
    of what we look at,
    is the more important question.
    We are the answer to both questions.
    Our life is trying
    to get us together
    with our other life–
    showing us how things are,
    calling us to realize
    how things need to be,
    wondering what it will take
    to wake us up
    and turn us around
    so that we might
    live at last
    at one with ourselves.

04/29/2017 — Nothing is more important
than taking seriously
the fact
of the Other within us
“whom (said Carl Jung) we do not know.”
The Invisible Other,
of whom we are unconscious,
is the psychic core
of our existence,
the foundation
of our life and being–
who we are built to be–
“the face that was ours
before we were born.”
And it is our place
to learn the language
of the unconscious,
and to collaborate
with in living the life
that is ours together to live.
04/30/2017 — The Republican Party

is the political arm

of Business,

an extension

of the Chamber of Commerce,

only needing the people

to elect its

corporate clones,

and ignoring them,

their interest

and their needs

between elections.

  1. 04/20/2017— Dwarf Crested Iris 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, April 16, 2017
  2. All things come—
    in their own time—
    to those who
    are quiet enough
    long enough
    often enough
    mindfully enough.
    We cannot
    hope to be anything
    until we can be quiet.

04/30/2017 — Climate change is not happening
because it would be
bad for business.
If we treat something
as though it is not happening
it will go away.
Except that Miami
will be under six feet of water.
And New York.
And by the time it goes away
everything else will be gone
as well.
04/30/2017 — What needs to happen
in a situation
takes precedent
over every other matter
in that situation.
To ignore the things
that cry out to be done
in the service of things
that enhance our own personal good,
or our idea of the good,
or the good of those we revere
or admire,
is to do grave
and irreparable
damage
to the essence
of life and being,
and creates
really bad karma.
04/302017 — I think it could be clinically established
that Trump is delusional
and lives in denial.
This has to be a mental gestalt
that is a threat
to our national security.
Who is responsible
for making that determination
and acting to protect the country
and the world?
What is the protocol here?
This is as non-partisan a problem
as we hope we will ever live to see.
04/30/2017 — There is some radical Christian extremism
inside of what would be The Wall.
They have bombed day care centers
and abortion clinics,
burned churches,
killed innocents…
How are we going to get them
outside The Wall
that is going to protect us all?
Who is “us”?
Nobody has ever said
who “us” is.
Everybody acts like it’s obvious.
It isn’t clear at all to me.
If we are going to build a wall,
we ought to at least
know who belongs inside.
What are the standards
for determining who is “us”?
How are we going to agree
as to what constitutes
an “us marker”?
And, once we know who “us” are,
how are we going to get
“them” to leave?

  1. 05/01/2017— Lake Haigler 2016 16 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 “What a slippery slope this is!”
    “It is like a razor’s edge!”
    We walk two paths at the same time.
    One path is The Good Of Ourselves–
    The Self of our conscious ego,
    and The Self of our inner psyche
    (of which we are mostly unconscious)–
    and the other path is The Good Of The Whole.
    We owe it to ourselves
    to be the individual we are
    in each situation as it arises.
    AND we owe it to the whole–
    the others in the situation,
    and beyond the situation
    to the all-ness of all
    that is to be considered–
    to be what the situation
    needs us to be for its good
    as well as for our own.
    But, our good is often
    in direct opposition
    to the good of the situation,
    and the good of the situation
    is often in direct opposition
    to the good of all
    that is beyond the situation.
    So, whose good do we serve
    in any situation?
    How much for me?
    How much for you?
    How much for the rest of them?
    Whose good is served
    by the good we call good
    in each situation as it arises?
    And how good is that good
    when it is served at the expense
    of the others’ bad?
    And how good is refusing
    to serve someone’s good
    because “it wouldn’t be fair”
    to the others?
    “To do or to do not,
    when, where, why and how?”
    is the question.
    And answering the question
    is the sheerest agony
    in the experience of being human,
    and the one that must be paid,
    again and again,
    in being human.
    “Working it out,”
    how much for me,
    how much for you,
    how much for them,
    in each situation,
    is the work of being human.
    The Hero’s Journey–
    which no hero manages
    in a spirit of triumph and glory.
    Jesus on the cross
    is the image
    of every hero
    at the end of the Journey.
    If you don’t understand that,
    you have no business
    wearing a cross
    or talking about
    “what Jesus did for us.”
    What Jesus did
    has to be done
    by each of us
    in each situation as it arises,
    all our life long.

05/01/2017 — We need two countries with open borders
so that those who can’t
make up their minds
can move back and forth.
Or better, we need to issue
Red and Blue Cards
and create two governing bodies.
They could share the White House,
each working every other week.
Actually, the one that is “working” now,
could just work every four years,
maybe longer.
No one on their side
would notice if they never worked at all.

  1. 05/02/2017— A Walk in the Woods 2016 12 — 22 Acre Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 14, 2016 We are defined
    by our options and choices.
    We would be different
    with different options,
    or different choices.
    We would certainly be different
    with better options
    and better choices. We don’t get to choose our choices.
    The options we get
    to choose from
    are determined,
    in part,
    by the choices we have made.
    The choices we will make
    will tell the tale
    that remains to be told.
    What guides our boat
    on its path through the sea?
    What leads us to make
    the choices we make?
    What part do fear and desire
    play in shaping our life?
    How free are we
    to choose the choice
    that needs to be chosen?
    How aware are we of
    “the needs to be”?
    How much are we controlled by
    “the want to be” or
    “the has to be”?
    How strong is our sense of
    what needs to be done,
    or or what needs us to do it?
    What is the difference
    in terms of its impact
    on our body
    between what has to be done
    and what needs us to do it?
    How free are we to choose
    the choices we make?
    In light of what do we choose?
    In light of what do we live?
    How we answer the questions
    will tell the tale
    that remains to be told.

05/02/2017 — Your relationship with yourself
and your life
is your primary relationship.
Everything else falls into place
around that.
The quality of your life
is a reflection of the quality
of your relationship
with yourself and your life.
Self and Life are one thing.
The better the alignment,
so that Life reflects,
expresses,
exhibits,
displays,
IS
Self–
In Gerad Manley Hopkins’:
“What I do is me,
for that I came”–
the greater the blessing
for ourselves
and the world around us.

  1. 05/03/2017— Boone Fork 2016 23 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 We all have our own burdens.
    Bear the pain, I say.
    There is no greater honor,
    no greater necessity,
    than bearing the pain
    of our own burdens.
    There is no greater joy.
    “For the joy of what was sat before him…”
    Goes the old text,
    “…he endured the cross…”
    Christians through the centuries
    have missed the meaning
    of the words.
    “…scorning its shame,
    and is seated at the
    right hand of God.”
    As though the “joy of the cross”
    was “heaven on the other side,
    seated at the right hand of God.”
    Nothing could be further from the truth.
    The joy of our pain,
    of our burdens,
    is the experience of our pain,
    of our burdens.
    Is. One. Thing.
    Bittersweet.
    Life is pain.
    Is joy.
    All at once.
    Oxymoron all the way.
    Truth is an oxymoron.
    The truth that sets us free
    is an oxymoron.
    Darkness/light is one thing.
    Understanding
    is understanding
    that we do not understand.
    Seeing is seeing
    that we do not see.
    The Gateless Gate
    stands open/shut
    before us all
    at every turn,
    particularly at the point
    of the joy of our burdens/
    the burden of our joy.
    The burdens of life
    is the joy of life, living, being alive.
    There is no life removed
    from the burdens of living.
    Bearing the pain
    with understanding,
    realization,
    compassion,
    acceptance,
    and joy
    does not remove the pain.
    It bears the pain well.
    Bear your pain well.
    Carry lightly the burdens
    of your life.
    And laugh at every opportunity
    along the way.
  2. 05/04/2017 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 09 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Money requires a place to put it
    and something to buy with it.
    Money isn’t everything.
    Everything hangs by a thin thread.
    Everything depends on
    such a few things–
    Mutual Respect,
    Honesty,
    Self-transparency,
    Compassion,
    Mindfulness,
    ..
    Integrity is living in ways
    that are integral
    with who we are,
    with what is
    deepest,
    best,
    and truest
    about us.
    Money cannot buy integrity,
    but it does,
    just about every time.

05/04/2017 — I am dumbfounded
by Republicans
who want a job
they don’t want to do.
 

05/04/2017 — The people who vote
for Republicans
have never been helped
by Republicans.
They have been helped
by Democrats
who Republicans say
are Evil incarnate.
They hate Democrats
who help them,
and love Republicans
who have never helped them.
And you won’t live long enough
to see them change their mind.
05/05/2017 — What people who like Donald Trump
like about Donald Trump
is that he doesn’t give a damn.
They don’t get
that he doesn’t give a damn
about them.
They think he only
doesn’t give a damn
about the people
they don’t give a damn about.
As the realization slowly dawns,
it comes as shock, betrayal, disbelief and rage.
He. Doesn’t. Give. A. Damn.
He. Is. Incapable. Of. Compassion.
It. Is. All. About. Getting. What. He. Wants.
Publicity. Money. Fame. Glory. Attention. Attention. Attention.
Donald Trump tells his people
what they want to hear
and treats them like
they are dust in the wind,
and they love it
because they believe he is
who they believe he is.
Co-dependency gone to the extreme.
They have to have a Savior.
He has to be The Savior Of Saviors.
It is a marriage made for hell–
which is how the rest of us experience it.
05/05/2017 — Democrats and Republicans
speak nonsense to each other.
AM talking to FM.
Words conveying values and perspectives
beyond the others’ experience
and ability to understand.
Heads banging into walls,
together the way ice cubes
are together
in the same refrigerator.
We are two countries
pretending to be
“the United States of America,”
with nothing united about us.
05/05/2017 — Here’s my take on abortion.
1) Everybody, back up!
2) This isn’t like setting a speed limit.
3) There are women right now who are pregnant and cannot carry their pregnancy to term.
4) Nobody—not even God—has the right to force a woman to be pregnant!
5) Even God asked Mary’s permission to bring Bebe Jesus into the world.
6) Everybody, mind your own business!
7) Everybody, support an environment supportive of everybody’s right to conduct their own affairs in a way that they determine needs to be done!
8) Do not make laws that are burdensome to some people because of the religious scruples of other people!
9) Make sure your business is not tending other people’s business!

05/05/2017 — People who have scruples against abortion don’t want any of their taxes paying for abortions, even of pregnancies caused by incest or rape, or those which threaten the mother’s life.
I have scruples against a border wall and a nuclear arsenal a thousand times larger than necessary to obliterate the world, and don’t want my taxes going toward paying for them.
How do anti-abortion scruples get a platform and politicians rallying around them, and anti-wall and anti-nuclear arsenal beyond all reason scruples get dismissed as ridiculous and absurd?

  1. 05/05/2017— Leaving Swan Quarter — Pamlico Sound, Swan Quarter, North Carolina, October, 2005 It has taken all these years
    to understand that life is about
    growing up,
    paying attention,
    being mindful,
    seeing what we look at,
    hearing what we listen to,
    perceiving what is before us,
    receiving what is given to us,
    responding to life-in-the-moment-of-our-living
    out of our integrity-of-being
    by being what the moment needs us to be
    in ways that express
    and exhibit
    who we are and what is ours to give.
    We rise to every occasion
    in this way,
    forcing nothing,
    imposing nothing,
    demanding nothing,
    insisting on nothing,
    simply seeing/being/doing/living
    in ways that are appropriate
    to the occasion
    in every occasion–
    realizing depths about ourselves
    we have no idea are there,
    and would never know
    without being pulled beyond ourselves
    in each moment
    by the circumstances of our life
    which have come to us
    to show us who we are
    and grow us up
    into who we are capable of becoming.
  2. 05/06/2017— Around Price Lake 2016 09 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 In the beginning we had no personal identity at all. Each one of us was an extension of the whole lot of us.
    We were identified with,
    and by,
    the tribe of our origin. For over 10,000 years, Native American tribesmen
    made arrowheads that were exact duplicates
    because no variation was allowed.
    The way to make arrowheads
    was prescribed by the Ancestors
    from the beginning.
    And as with arrowheads,
    so with every other aspect of tribal life.
    No one though for himself, for herself.
    Everyone did it like it was supposed to be done.
    No improvements were permitted.
    None were even imagined.
    The slightest deviation
    was proven to unleash
    the punishment of the gods. Even now, in some places of the world,
    people are told to rid themselves
    of their egos
    and let The Way of the Ancestors (or Gurus)
    lead them through their life. The story of human evolution
    is the story of coming to consciousness,
    the story of waking up the individual within
    so that we each stand apart
    from the Tribal Whole of our origin,
    and say, “NO! MY do it!”
    The story of human evolution
    is the long tale
    of our individuality,
    our individuation,
    coming forth,
    taking hold. The Hero’s Journey is the trek to ME,
    to I AM!
    It is made tricky by having to take the needs
    of everyone else into account.
    The society,
    the State,
    has a claim upon the individuals
    making up the society,
    the State.
    And our life is lived on two paths
    at the same time.
    We have to be true to ourselves
    and we have to submit
    to the requirements of life in the culture
    of our origin.
    This is the gauntlet
    we must pass through
    on our way to being fully human.
    This is the Hero’s Journey,
    working it out between
    the ME and the WE.

05/06/2017 — My Take On Abortion, Part 2
If I have a stroke that leaves me with zero brain wave activity, most of the thinking, reasoning, rational, logical population of the world would not think that I am alive.
The Catholic Church can say that I am alive, and all of the Evangelical Christian churches can chime in on the chorus, “That Jim is alive! Oh, he is so alive! He will order off the menu any minute now!” but the rest of us know I am not alive, and will be fed by a feeding tube unless some good soul unhooks me from all life-sustaining devices, an act for which no person described so astutely in the first paragraph upon doing would be called a “Murderer!” or “Killer!”
Flash back in time to my mother’s womb with me attached to all of those life-sustaining devices through one umbilical tube. Up until about the 23rd week of her pregnancy I have no brain wave activity. I am no more alive then than I am hooked up to some mechanical mother in some emergency room somewhere.

23 weeks is a bit over 5 months.
The only difference between Jim then and Jim with a stroke now is that then Jim had more potential for life than Jim with a stroke now has. But. Potential for life is not life as we understand being alive. And. If someone is going to make a case for me being alive based on my potential for life, then we all have to go Full Catholic Monty and say that to interfere with Jim’s conception is murder because preventing an egg’s chances of getting together with a sperm cell is sharply reducing Jim’s chances of being alive and is murder In Utero as surely as an abortion would be fifteen minutes or two days later.
And no person described so astutely in the first paragraph would be guilty of thinking that.
 

05/06/2017 — Follow the symptoms!
They will lead you to the truth!
To the perpetrators!
The predators!
The abusers!
The bullies!
The self-righteous sources
of the pain their family bears.
The controlling manipulators
and white-gloved curators
of hell-on-earth,
disguised as angels of light
and oblivious to the damage
they do.
Symptoms read well
tell stories
grown men and women
cannot hear told.
All of the ills that plague humanity
can be traced
to the untold stories
of symptoms dismissed and denied.
 

05/06/2017 — The most heroic decision/act/deed
ever made or done
is getting up
and doing the thing
that needs to be done–
that needs us to do it–
the thing that we most do not
want to do.
That is the deed
that transforms the world
and saves the day
for countless days to come.
 

05/06/2017 — The next time you have nothing to do,
with no pressing urgencies to attend,
and no guiding passions to follow,
simply sit quietly
and be mindful of the moment
on all levels.
Consciousness evolves by being conscious.
We grow from one realization to another
through reflecting on our experience,
and holding all things together
in our awareness.
Shifts in perspective happen that way.
And nothing is the same ever after.

05/06/2017 — Being aware of things as they are
changes our relationship with them,
which changes things as they are,
but not necessarily in the way
we would like for them to change.
Being aware of how we would like
things to be
changes how we would like
things to be.
Awareness changes things,
but not according to our plans
and agenda.
Our plans and agenda
are among the things changed.
When we realize how much
we want changed about our life
requires us to change,
we change our minds
about wanting things
to be different.
We want things to be different
with everything else
staying the same.
05/06/2017 — How can Chechnya’s treatment of gays go
without being denounced?
Without sanctions being imposed?
Without outcry and opposition?
Will witch hunts,
drowning’s,
and burnings at the stake
be next?
How does inhumanity
take over
and flaunt its insanity?
 

  1. 05/07/2017— Grandfather Mountain 2016 02 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 The heart of the matter
    is how we treat the people
    we don’t like–
    how we treat the people
    who are not like us.
    Brutality and ruthlessness
    have no place at the table.
    Enjoyment in inflicting
    pain, suffering and death
    is inhumanity at its worst–
    and shines through
    the shiniest facades,
    tarnishing the legacy
    of the time and place
    of its expression
    over all time forever.
    Incivility calls out the pretense
    of “civilization,”
    and reveals the truth
    of barbaric evil
    at the gates
    of every age.
    It comes down to
    each person doing the work
    of being human–
    living to serve and express
    the best we are capable of
    through all of the conditions
    and circumstances
    of our life.
    The obligation
    to Be Human First
    falls upon us all,
    particularly upon those in power,
    with the authority and means
    to lead toward the good
    and away from evil
    in each generation.
    How well do we treat the people
    we don’t like?
    How well do we treat the people
    who are not like us?
    Civilization stands or falls
    on our answers to these questions.

05/07/2017 — Perspective determines perception.
How we see determines what we see.
We will see what we have always seen
until we change the way we look at it.
If we are unwilling to see things differently
everything will be what it has been
forever.
Gays.
Blacks.
Hispanics.
Muslims.
Women.
Immigrants.
The Poor.
The Disabled.

A new world begins with new ways of seeing the old one.
 

05/07/2017 — Hillary Clinton and Joe Biden have slammed Trump in the past couple of weeks for being silent on Chechnya’s brutalization of gays. That’s two Democrat voices. And there have been others as well. Where are the Republican voices?

Who on the Republican side of the isle speaks for the disenfranchised, the marginalized, the fringe dwellers, the voiceless, the powerless, the ones of every nation who are like “a root out of dry ground” to the privileged and wealthy beyond imagining.
05/07/2017 — Our life is always waiting
for us to live it.
The good news about that
is that we don’t have to
think up what to do.
It is not on us.
The burden is not ours
to conceive and to do.
Our place is simply
that of listening.
We listen with our body.
It is like falling in love.
What knows first?
Not our head!
Our body knows.
When we tune into our body,
so that we know what it knows,
we know all we need to know
to do the thing that needs
us to do it now.
We don’t have to know why.
We only have to know what.
And do it.
Without knowing were it will lead,
or what will happen next,
or how we can explain
what we are doing
in order to justify/excuse/defend it
in someone else’s eyes,
or even our own.
Our life unfolds one choice at a time.
Listening for
and knowing what
needs us to do it now
in each now that comes along
adds up to a life well-lived
over time.
It is in looking back
and following the thread to here
that we get a sense
of movement and flow,
and direction, purpose and meaning.
We find our life in living it.
Head figuring out what body knows.
 

05/07/2017 — I operate out of a number
of mindsets,
of mental/emotional
(And were does that line lie?)
states of being.
I spend most of my driving time
on back roads and residential streets
with speed limits between 35 and 45.
The back roads occasionally merge
with interstate highways
with speed limits at 70
and real time traffic speed at 80 or so.
It helps to be ready to make the shift.
Back road mentality
will get you killed on the interstate.
Our mental state has to match
our physical circumstances.
Mindful awareness enables
smooth transitions.
Knowing what I am doing
and what that calls for
in terms of presence and attention
makes all the difference
in my being able
to plug into the situation
and be what it is needed.
When I’m cooking,
it matters if I am fully there,
present,
cooking.
I cannot grocery shop
and chat with anybody.
When I’m reading,
I have to read.
When I’m writing,
I have to write.
My mindset has to be
engaged with whatever
I’m doing.
There is no multitasking
on the freeways of life.
 

05/07/2017 — Free will is a joke
calling up peals of regaling laughter
from those smitten by True Love.
There is nothing free about being in love.
“Doing whatever I want to do”
is out of the question.
We are not free to choose our wants.
Our wants are thrust upon us
by forces beyond our control.
That is the motivation
that moves us to action!
It comes from somewhere
other than us.
We don’t do it.
We couldn’t conjure it up
any more than we could
decide what we will dream tonight.
We are not free to will
any of the important things.
Or we can will them
without effect.
The best we can hope for
is to surrender to the smite
when smitten,
and follow willingly
(not willfully)
along the way.
This is the relationship
of moved with mover,
experienced in the arms of a lover,
but also in the devotion,
loyalty, allegiance and duty
to our life’s calling
and our heart’s true work.
The urgency of an urge unbidden
stirs us to life
and leads us through life
as those who belong to another
“whom we do not know.”

  1. 05/08/2017— Lake Haigler 2016 42 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 We are the shepherd and the sheep.
    How we relate to ourselves
    makes all the difference.
    We waste our time
    looking for in others
    what is found within.
    All the time,
    we are what
    we are looking for.
    We reject,
    ignore,
    dismiss,
    discount,
    despise
    the treasure we seek.
    The stone the builders reject,
    is the pearl of great price,
    overlooked again and again
    by those who are like sheep
    without a shepherd,
    spending their days
    waiting for Godot.

05/08/2016 — There is a percentage of gay people in every population over time.
And a percentage of transgender people.
And a percentage of Down syndrome people.
And a percentage of people over 6 feet tall.
And a percentage of people under 4 feet tall.
And a percentage of people who are left-handed.
And a percentage of people with green eyes.
And a percentage of people with red hair.
And a percentage of people with green eyes and red hair.
And on it goes…
There is even a percentage of people in every population
who think they are normal.
And a percentage of people who think that being “normal”
makes them somehow “better”
and “more like you ought to be”
than anyone else.
And a percentage of people who treat everyone
not like they are
as though they don’t belong
and have no business being alive.
There is a bell-shaped curve
(That would be a “normal distribution” curve–
the ONLY normal thing about the species
is the WIDE DISTRIBUTION
of characteristics,
traits,
tics,
and proclivities
that reside in every population
in every generation
in every age)
for every possible condition of life.
So what?
We all have to do the best we can
with what we have to work with,
and we all need all the help we can get.
So what’s with not being helpful,
across the board, around the table
and around the world?
 

05/08/2017 — How can every Republican office holder–and by extension everyone who voted for them–have no interest in, or concern for, the well-being of all people (And nothing but disdain and contempt for those who need help the most)?

And if they say, “Oh, we care!” where is the evidence? If people cannot see any difference between being cared for and being despised, they may as well be despised–as they, in fact, are.
 

05/08/2017 — A church that offers scriptural proofs
of the validity of its doctrine
and scriptural support
for the value of its political ideology
(And to say, “God isn’t a Democrat or a Republican,”
begs the question,
“Who would God have you vote for?”
And God would always have us vote for
the politician who best espouses
our political ideology
which we support with
scriptural references),
is a church that is behind the times,
preaching a sermon
with no referents in a world
that knows more than the Bible knows
about all of the things–
social, cultural, medical, scientific and religious–
the Bible is said to have the last word on.
For the church to have
foundational place in this world,
and a salvific impact upon it,
it must focus its efforts
on creating an environment
that fosters individual reflection,
examination,
exploration,
realization,
expression
and maturation–
providing the ground
for an experience of God
that serves the individual
as a guiding impulse
and a supporting presence
in the work of finding
and living
the life that is best suited
to bring forth the unique gifts
and qualities
that are her, or his,
physical manifestations
of her, or his,
spiritual essence.
That would be a church
worthy of our time
and commitment.
 

05/08/2017 — If I were to help you
connect with yourself,
I would ask you
to become mindfully aware
(Google Jon Kabat-Zinn
and watch all of his YouTube videos)
of all that works
to disconnect you from yourself,
and then I would leave the room.
You could take it from there.

  1. 05/04/2017— Emerald Lake 2005 01 — Yoho National Park, British Columbia, Canada, September 2005 See how long you can sit quietly.
    No music.
    No TV.
    No conversation.
    No writing.
    No reading.
    Just you and the silence.
    Just you paying attention
    to the silence.
    Just you watching and listening
    to what happens
    in the silence.
    What do you think?
    Where do your thoughts go?
    What do you feel?
    Where do your feelings come from?
    What are you aware of?
    What is your level of comfort
    with what you are doing?
    What causes you to break it off?
    How long did you last?
    Repeat the experiment
    once a day
    for a month.

05/09/2017 — We don’t know how bad things will get
but.
The Silence is the source
of all that we need
to find what we need,
If.
We approach it
with a Noble Heart.
A Noble Heart is
a Kind Heart,
a Brave Heart,
a Faithful Heart,
a Loyal Heart,
a Compassionate Heart,
a Patient Heart,
a Generous Heart,
a Tender Heart,
a Courageous Heart,
a Perceptive Heart,
a Gallant Heart,
a Heart that is Transparent to itself,
a Heart that Knows itself,
a Heart that Keeps Faith with itself,
a Heart that Keeps Company with itself,
a Heart that is at home with the Silence.
The eyes and ears of a Noble Heart
see and hear what is happening
and what the Silence has to say
about what is happening.
A Noble Heart takes its direction,
not from what is happening,
but from what the Silence has to say
about what is happening.
From the perspective of a Noble Heart
we have the right frame of mind
to deal with all that comes our way.
As we wait to see how things
will fall out,
we can do no better than spend the time
developing a Noble Heart,
and learning to listen to the Silence
and to see what we find there
with the ears and eyes of that Heart.
And all will be truly well
no matter how bad it gets.

  1. 05/04/2017— Grandfather Mountain 2016 11 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 What exciting times we live in.
    Everything is on the line.
    Everybody has to declare who they are
    and what is important to them.
    Everybody has to be known
    for what they stand for.
    No one gets a choice in the matter
    of having to choose.
    Everybody has to make a choice
    among those offered:
    For Democracy or against Democracy?
    For Justice or against Justice?
    For Transparency or against Transparency?
    For Equal Rights or against Equal Rights?
    For the Constitution or against the Constitution?
    For the Truth The Whole Truth And NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH
    or against everything that has the odor of TRUTH about it?

05/10/2017 — There is only one sin.
Not knowing what we are doing.
Which is the same
as thinking we know what we are doing.
Hubris,
Pride,
Arrogance
thinks it knows,
but doesn’t know what it knows,
and doesn’t know what
it doesn’t know.
Not knowing what we are doing
is the same thing
as not knowing who we are.
If we know what we are doing,
we know who we are.
We are the person who does _____.
We are what we do.
And what we do not.
There is no being
apart from doing.
We are brought forth in,
made apparent in,
given shape and form in
realized in,
expressed in,
exhibited in,
acted out in,
what we do with our life.
Our shame is our failure
to live up to what we are capable
of doing–
who we are capable of being.
Of not knowing what we are doing
or of what all we might be able to do.
We box ourselves into a life
that doesn’t fit us.
And think it is the best we can do.
We owe it to ourselves
to find out
if what we think is so.

  1. 05/11/2017 — Goodale 2013 17 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 2013 There are two kinds of religion:
    good and bad.
    Good religion speaks to our heart,
    bad religion speaks to our head.
    Good religion springs from what we know,
    bad religion springs from what we think.
    Good religion connects us with all people everywhere.
    bad religion creates division, alienation, estrangement.
    Good religion resonates with us,
    bad religion has to convert us.
    Good religion elicits an immediate “Yes!”
    bad religion has to overcome automatic “No!”
    Good religion is content with how things are,
    bad religion concentrates on how things ought to be.
    Good religion talks about what is good,
    bad religion talks about what is bad.
    Good religion just walks away from bad religion,
    bad religion has to persecute and destroy good religion.
    How good is the religion we call good?
    How bad is the religion we call bad?
    How bad is the religion we call good?
    How good is the religion we call bad?
    Questions never asked in Sunday School.
    Or in Seminary.

05/11/2017 — Remember those poignant recommendations:
“Get over it!
Let it go!
Give Trump a chance!”?
Well.
What say they now?
Hmm?

  1. 05/12/2017— Two Rocks 2004 01 — Jordan Pond, Acadia National Park, Bar Harbor, Maine, September, 2004 We are the source
    of our own stability.
    We have to be able
    to center,
    ground,
    establish
    ourselves
    on the bedrock
    of our core identity,
    and stand on the values
    principles,
    ideals
    and character
    which exhibit the heart/soul
    of our deepest,
    best,
    truest, What is unmoving
    and unmovable
    about us?
    Solidly,
    dependably,
    reliably
    US?
    Go there!
    Be that!
    In season
    and out of season,
    in every situation,
    in all circumstances
    throughout the time
    that is left to us.
    And if you don’t have
    any idea of what
    I am talking about,
    begin taking a
    Me/Not Me inventory.
    Ask of every choice,
    option,
    decision
    that comes your way:
    “Is this ME or NOT ME?”
    And listen in the silence
    of not-knowing,
    of being unsure
    about the answer,
    for “the still small voice”
    of YOU
    to guide the way.
  2. 05/13/2017— Appalachian Pond 2011 01 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Virginia, April, 2011 If you vote Republican,
    you are saying
    you like the way Republicans
    treat women,
    and gay people,
    and transgender people,
    and black people,
    and poor people,
    and people with special needs,
    and Muslims,
    and Latinos,
    and immigrants,
    and you are cheering them on,
    never minding that Jesus said,
    “In as much as you have done it,
    or not done it,
    to the very least
    of my brothers and sisters,
    you have done it,
    or not done it,
    unto me.”
    Stop spitting on Jesus!
    Stop voting for
    and supporting Republicans!
    Demand that they take up the cause
    of those they are spitting on!
    And become yourself
    the advocate
    of those who have no voice–
    speaking for those
    who are ignored,
    dismissed
    and abandoned
    when they cry out
    and there is no one who cares
    what happens to them!
    How you live every day
    has an impact upon
    how life is lived around you
    and around the world.
    Start living for the good
    of people you don’t know!
    And vote for people
    who will do the same!
  3. 05/14/2017 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 12 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Awareness is our only weapon.
    Awareness is the Elder Wand.
    Seeing/hearing,
    knowing/understanding,
    are the ground and foundation
    of doing/being.
    Mindfulness leads the way. Joseph Campbell said
    the idea is to live to be in,
    and live out of,
    “a zone to which tracks do not lead,
    only a spiritual leap” will suffice
    (or words to that effect). The “leap of faith,”
    is not as we have been told,
    a “leap” from a rational,
    logical,
    factual orientation
    to a belief in what we are told
    to believe
    in spite of its incomprehensibility
    from the standpoint
    of all we know about
    the difference between
    sense and nonsense
    (The Fall, Sacrifice, Redemption
    and Salvation
    as proclaimed by The Church),
    but the “leap” from
    “head-knowing” to
    “heart-knowing.” Carl Jung said,
    “Most of our difficulties
    come from losing contact
    with our instincts,
    with the age-old forgotten wisdom
    stored up in us.”
    Knowing what we know
    on all levels
    is knowing at its best,
    and leads the way
    through the deepest darkness
    for those willing
    to risk everything
    in trusting what we know
    to the exclusion of what we think. “What a dangerous path this is!
    It is a slippery slope!
    Like the edge of a razor!”
    The Hero’s Journey.

05/14/2017 — We want someone
to make it all better.
We can make it instantly
all better
just by changing
the way we look at it.
We are never more
than a perspective shift away
from better.
See how many different
ways you can see
what you look at.
See which way
works the best
for you
and the situation
as a whole.
Choose that one.

  1. 05/15/2017— Goodale 2013 06 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November, 2013 The only reality that matters right now
    is the moment of our being–
    our being in the moment of our living–
    which includes our being open
    to our needs of the moment
    along with the needs of all the others
    in the moment with us.
    Then,
    what to do about it?

05/15/2017 — We have to experiment with our life–
play with our life–
in order to discover
what is Me and Not Me.
We do not find our way
to the life
that is our life to live
by thinking about it.
We live our way there
by making wrong turns
and mindless choices
and waking ourselves up
and paying attention
to where we belong
and where we have
no business being,
and what we do
that is life,
and what we do
that is death,
and die to live
rather than
living to die.

  1. 05/16/2017— Black Birch 2011 05 — Rocky Knob, Blue Ridge Parkway, Rocky Knob, Virginia, April, 2011 Integrity is the highest value.
    The primary goal.
    The whole point.
    The only reason we do it.
    Integrity has nothing to do
    with being aligned
    with someone else’s idea–
    some cultural or religious
    standard, say–
    of how it is to be done.
    It has only to do with
    being aligned with–
    being at one with–
    the unconscious
    (because we are not conscious of it)
    truth of who we are
    at the bedrock level
    of our own heart and soul.
    It is what Jesus meant
    when he said,
    “The Father and I are one.”
    Our experience
    of our Bedrock Self
    is what has always
    been said to be “of God.”
    “God” is who we are
    capable of being–
    who we ARE being–
    when we are living
    in ways that are integral
    with who we
    at the level
    of our Bedrock Self.
    It is what Rumi had in mind
    when he said,
    “One glimpse of a true human being
    and we are in love.”
    Because a true human being,
    at one with “the Father,”
    shows us who we
    are capable of being,
    and we see in her,
    in him,
    who we are,
    and know it at the deepest level,
    and fall in love–
    not with her or him–
    but with the idea of ourselves
    that has yet to be realized
    in the world of normal,
    apparent,
    reality–
    but exists as a potential
    for us all
    throughout the time
    left for living.
    Mindfulness leads the way.
    Integrity is the goal.
    The Hero’s Journey.
    To the heart of who we are.
    Waiting for us even now.

05/16/2017 — Our life consists of distractions.
Everything there is there
to take our mind off
what we are there to do:
To bring ourselves forth,
utilizing the gifts,
the art,
that is ours to use
in the service of self expression,
as we tend the developmental tasks,
and incarnate or inner self
in ways appropriate to the occasion.
The condition and circumstances
of our life
constitute the matrix
with which,
and within which,
we work to produce ourselves.
We become who we are
by coming up against
the contemporary manifestations
of the Cyclops (and all of his friends)
as we go about the business
of body AND soul–
working out the ratios
between the two
that are one.
But then come the distractions
(the Cyclops’ favorite form)–
entertaining pastimes,
duties and obligations,
responsibilities and commitments–
and we lose the way,
wander off the path,
become untracked
and settle for
just getting through the day.
We have to transcend
the distractions,
holding them in our awareness
as part of the conditions and circumstances
within which we become who we are
by remembering what we are here to do
and doing it.
 

  1. 05/17/2017— Boone Fork 2016 10 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 We have to give ourselves
    to the developmental tasks–
    to the tasks of life–
    appropriate to
    each stage of development
    from birth to death.
    “There is a time
    for every purpose under heaven,”
    and we are servants
    of the time
    that is upon us
    at any period in our life.
    The requirements
    and obligations of life
    are different at 75
    than at 6 months.
    We cannot live as though
    we are 15
    or 18
    or 25 Yet, we are forever
    ignoring,
    denying,
    dismissing,
    disregarding,
    discarding,
    declining
    eschewing,
    renouncing,
    shunning,
    evading,
    ostracizing,
    and refusing
    the things that are incumbent
    upon us in the
    time and place of our living.
    Star Wars was written
    and produced
    with 12-year-olds in mind.
    If we miss the path
    when we are 12,
    we do not outlive
    its attraction when we are 70,
    but we have to know
    what we are missing
    and how to incorporate it
    into our life here and now.
    We cannot just watch a movie.
    And watching a movie
    keeps us from thinking about
    what we need to be thinking about
    as 70-year-olds.
    Getting behind
    in the developmental tasks
    means we miss
    something crucial
    either then or now.

05/17/2017 — Truth requires justice.
Justice demands truth.
Some lies beg to be exposed.
Some lies serve a truth beyond the question.
All lies lead to truth and justice.
The point cannot be explained,
only experienced.
Seeing is a matter of looking
to the point of transcendence.
“Aha!” awaits further reflection.
Truth is willing out
all of the time.

05/17/2017— The Voice of Authority
would be exactly whose voice?
Who guides your boat
on its path through the sea?
Who decides what you will do?
Where you will go?
How you will spend your time?
What is the source
of your motivation and direction?
How do you know
that what you are doing
is the right thing to do–
is the right thing for YOU to do?
Is right for YOU?
The Dangerous Path,
the Slippery Slope,
the Razor’s Edge
is the boundary line
between our Conscious Ego
and our Unconscious Impulses,
Instincts, Intuition and
all that is involved in that mystical term
“Resonance.”
Something “resonates” with us,
or does not at all.
And we read that with our
Conscious Ego,
or not,
and decide what to do about it,
or not.
But.
It is essential that the Conscious Ego
“wear the pants”
in its relationship with the Unconscious components.
WE are the Authority over our life!
WE guide our boat on its path through the sea–
in collaboration with the Unconscious
and all it has to offer.
And WE have to play our part well–
attending the Unconscious
and bearing consciously
the responsibility
for seeing, hearing, and understanding–
for being mindfully aware of–
all that is presenting itself to us
in the external situation
and in our internal response to it,
and deciding in partnership
with the Unconscious
what to do about it
in each situation as it arises.
How equipped do you feel
to broker the deal?
Are you open
to searching out the equivalents
of Obi-wan Kenobi and Yoda,
and getting to work?

05/17/2017 — Looking at the Trump health care and budget proposals
makes it easy to conclude
that Trump wants to kill poor Americans,
prevent poor Americans from voting,
dry up sources of education for poor Americans,
and keep poor Americans poor
by maintaining an unlivable minimum wage
and offering nothing in the way of job training and placement.
Going to Make America Great Again
for those have no need of that kind of assistance in their lives.
And not even pity for those who do.

  1. 05/18/2017— Lake Haigler 2016 17 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 Everything depends upon our Conscious Ego
    entering into a right relationship
    with our Unconscious Mind/Self/Soul/Psyche.
    Our Conscious Ego
    is a full, responsible, essential partner
    with the Unconscious,
    and has the final word
    on what is, and is not, done.
    The first move–
    and all that follow–
    hinge upon what we
    as Conscious Egos
    do in relation to,
    in relationship with,
    our Unconscious.
    The Unconscious cannot force
    cooperation,
    or veto choices.
    Our Conscious Ego
    has the final word.
    Our life can be as fully,
    or as faintly,
    lived in conjunction
    with the wisdom
    of the Unconscious
    as our Conscious Ego
    is interested in,
    and willing for,
    that to happen.

05/19/2017— The Republicans are taking health care in the form of Planned Parenthood and the Affordable Care Act away from millions of people.

The Republicans who are casually flipping those switches from On to Off have never lived on the edge, do not know the gripping agony of having nowhere to turn, cannot imagine the aloneness and aching grief of being unable to meet their own basic needs and the needs of their family.

They don’t know what they are doing, or what the implications of their actions are for the people they have never met and do not care to meet. They have other concerns and issues that only the wealthy and privileged can fret over.

Republican is a class of having it made, and a lower class of wanting to have it made, which are far removed from the much, much lower class of trying to survive one day, one week, one month at a time.

Republicans are taking health care away from that class on the edge of not surviving. Republicans do not care if they don’t survive.

Republicans are a class of humanity with nothing humane about them. Making laws that destroy hope for millions of people they feel nothing for. Padding their own futures while leaving others with no future at all.

05/19/2017— Carolina Thread Trail 2016 49 — Twelve Mile Creek, Union County, North Carolina, Lancaster County, South Carolina, November 19, 2016

When we wake up, we wake up to our responsibility
for aligning ourselves with our Self–
the Self that is our
bedrock-
foundation-
ground-
center-
core-
essence-
self.
Knowing that,
and doing that,
puts us in the company
of those who
have known that,
who have done that,
throughout the ages–
and have blessed the world
with the grace and goodness
that flow from that
since the beginning of time.

05/19/2017 — It’s interesting, to me,
the moods that come upon us.
I am certain they have an element
of unknown and mysterious composition
about them,
as though Something
we are not conscious of
is feeling its feelings through us…
I wonder if it may be ancestral,
genetic,
a part of our DNA–
and I wonder how much of “us”
is unknown to us,
out of the “frequency range” of consciousness,
yet, “there” in the background,
a part of the matrix,
the gestalt,
that comprises our “all-ness.”
And, how we might learn
to share ourselves
with What We Do Not Know,
trusting it to its business,
and asking it to not take more
than its fair share of the time
left to us on this “hither shore.”
There is more to us than meets the eye,
and some of it comes with its own interests,
needs and priorities.
We are not in charge of—
or responsible for—
a good bit that “goes on” within us!

05/19/2017 — What something means is found
in how we respond to it—
in how someone responds to it.
In how it shapes and forms our life,
or someone’s life.
In what we do with it,
about it,
or someone does.
In what impact it has upon us,
or upon someone.
If it doesn’t have any impact on anyone,
or anything,
it means nothing.
To talk about meaning
apart from impact and response
is to make meaningless noise.
Why do that?

05/19/2017— If I have nothing to hide,
I will fully cooperate with the investigation.
If I have something to hide,
I will hide it any way I can.
I expect I’m rather much like Donald Trump
in that regard.

  1. 05/20/2017— Grandfather Mountain 2016 14 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Our contradictions,
    our ambivalence,
    our dichotomies
    are all doorways
    to integrity,
    oneness
    and wholeness.
    We come together
    in sharp focus
    through the contemplation
    of our opposites,
    of our polarities.
    Instead of engaging in
    self-condemnation
    and recrimination,
    we extend olive branches
    to ourselves
    in a “This, too! This, too!”
    kind of way.
    Compassion and grace
    heal the divisions within
    (and without),
    and open the way
    to peace and goodwill.
    The ground of our solidarity
    is the acceptance–
    the celebration–
    of our different-ness.
    As we accept ourselves
    as we are,
    and as we also are,
    lay the foundation
    for treating others
    with the same benevolent regard–
    and the shift is felt world-wide.
  2. 05/21/2017— King Snakes Courting — Backyard in Indian Land, South Carolina, May 19, 2017 Reading our body’s signals,
    trusting our body’s wisdom,
    and following our body’s inclinations
    allow us to “stay close to home”
    in picking our way
    through the decisions and choices
    that comprise our days.
    When we begin
    to allow our head
    to take the lead,
    with its agendas,
    plans
    and schemes,
    we complicate matters
    well beyond
    the usual and customary.
    Our head is good
    for thinking.
    Our body is good
    for knowing.

05/21/2017— Under Trump’s Administration,
the phrase “War on Poverty”
means “War on the Poor.”

  1. 05/22/2017— Big Creek Spring 2004 01 — Big Creek Campground (entrance at Newport, North Carolina) Great Smoky Mountains National Park, April, 20004 If we live long enough,
    we run out of options.
    If you can make your peace
    with that,
    you have it made,
    if you call that
    having it made.
    What I’m saying is
    eventually,
    sooner or later,
    our life is going
    to require us to grow up.
    Why put it off?
    All we gain
    is more time
    in which to kid ourselves.
    Stand up right now!
    Is what I’m saying.
    We are going to have to do
    what we don’t want to do.
    Why wait?
    Why don’t we start dong the thing
    that needs to be done
    exactly as we would do it
    if it were the thing
    we most wanted to do
    in all the world?
    We’re going to have to do it anyway.
    May as well be grown up about it.
    The world would be a better place
    with more people in it
    who are grown up.
    If you want to do something
    that would make the greatest difference,
    grow up!
    Or act like you’re grown up,
    whether you are or not.
    It’s all the same to everybody else.
  2. 05/23/2017— Grandfather Mountain 2016 06 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 When things are out of sync we know it.
    Getting the sync back means
    seeking the silence,
    attending the Unconscious
    minding–and mining–our business
    for clues regarding where
    we got off track
    and what we need to do
    to get back on.
    Distraction will be the culprit.
    Too much attention in one area
    means not enough in others.
    Contradiction running unchecked,
    living unnoticed,
    unnoted,
    keeps us from walking two paths
    at the same time–
    a sine qua non for
    balance and sanity,
    centering and peace.
    Knowing what we know
    is the sure track to sync.
    Failing to be mindful of everything
    keeps something unknown.
    Find that–
    name the thing–
    and it all falls into place
    until the next time forgetting
    reminds us to be attentive
    to the one forgotten thing.

05/23/2017 — Mick Mulvaney and his Republican pals are going to “help” people off of programs they need to survive by defunding the programs. Not only has Mulvaney redefined “compassion,” he has also redefined “help.” Talking to him and the Republican Bubble Heads nodding in full agreement with him is an exercise in futility and absurdity.

Republicans are redistricting voting precincts so that only Bubble Heads get to vote. Heaven for Republicans is a Bubble Head world.

05/24/2017 — Trump is the master of the overstatement.
The Grandstander par excellence.
Mr. Hey-Look-At-Me without peer.
The way he talks,
you would think
there would be something there.
It is only talk.
The worst kind of talk.
From the worst kind of person.
Trump is by far
the worst person
to hold the office of President of the United States
in my lifetime.
Money cannot buy class.
And it is no substitute for class.
Trump is the wrong way
to “the classless society.”

05/24/2017 — Trump is the Champion of Inequity.
The Destroyer of Human Rights.
The Grand Architect of the Wasteland.
The Great Enemy of the People Worldwide.
The Wrecking Ball of Civilization.
If you are on Trump’s side,
please note for the record
that he is not on yours.

05/24/2017— Boone Fork 2016 09 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016

Carl Jung said, “I have frequently seen people become neurotic
when they content themselves
with inadequate answers to the questions of life.”
Narcissistic Personality Disorder qualifies as a neurosis.
The things we make too little of,
and the things we make too much of,
limit the quality of life we live.
What do the things we think about
keep us from thinking about?
What makes us think they are not
worth thinking about?
How exclusively do we think about
the things we think about?
What makes us think they are
worth thinking about?
What are the questions of life
we have not answered,
or have answered inadequately?
What are the questions of life
that we persistently ignore
or put aside?
What makes us good company?
What makes us worth talking to?
How do you like to spend your money?
How do you like to spend your time?

  1. 05/25/2017— Around Price Lake 2016 28 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Grace is a two-way street.
    Or better:
    Grace-and-kindness is a two-way street.
    You can’t have one without the other.
    Grace is kindness.
    Kindness is grace.
    “Unmerited benevolence,”
    said the old theologian,
    which is the only kind of benevolence.
    What is benevolence that is earned,
    deserved?
    “Hey! Where’s my benevolence here?”
    It isn’t benevolence if it is earned, That’s payment.
    There is no grace or kindness
    in being given what we’ve earned.
    That’s just good business.
    It takes more than good business
    to make the world run.
    It takes grace-and-kindness.
    We are saved by grace-and-kindness.
    So is the savior.
    “Grace-and-kindness, kid,
    grace-and-kindness.”
    Moved and mover save/serve each other
    with grace-and-kindness.
    They bless each other
    with grace-and-kindness
    for no reason.
    Moved becomes mover,
    mover becomes moved,
    through grace-and-kindness.
    There is no “unmoved mover.”
    We are all moved.
    To be incapable of being moved
    is to be dead.
    Beyond the reach of grace-and-kindness.
    The parent graces the child with kindness.
    The child graces the parent with kindness.
    Nobody escapes the wonder of grace-and-kindness.
    Except those who are dead.
    To be alive is to be alive to–
    and moved by–
    the wonder of
    grace-and-kindness.
    As we extend it and receive it.
    To be incapable of extending
    grace-and-kindness
    is to be incapable of receiving it.
    That is to be dead
    in the worst sense of the term.
    Dead beyond hope of resurrection.
    Alive without the hope of life.
    Where does grace-and-kindness end
    and love begin?
    You cannot find that line,
    though you search for it
    with microscope and tweezers.
    People who say, “I love you,”
    without being gracious and kind
    are people who want the words
    to produce the magic
    they are incapable of giving
    or receiving.
    Being loved and being loving
    are the same thing,
    brought to life by grace-and-kindness–
    a miracle of life and being.
    If you are going to be anything
    be gracious and kind.
    Even to those who cannot return the favor.
    And will hate you for it.
    Some people are beyond
    being helped.
    We can extend grace-and-kindness to them
    but we cannot receive it for them.
    They have to do some things
    for themselves.
    We separate ourselves
    by our capacity for,
    and response to,
    grace-and-kindness.
    It is what makes us human,
    or not.

05/25/2017— I had arthroscopic surgery on both knees a week ago today. Things are going fine. “Fine” means different things at different points in our life. “Fine” at 72 is not worth a damn at 25. At both points it is “within the normal range.” “In the center of the bell-shaped curve.” “About what one can expect.” But, the expectations are different for each point. With age come different expectations, and different requirements for “fine.” Taking that shift into account, things are fine. I am doing well. Exactly as one might expect.

Everything has to be readjusted to fit our circumstances, to put us in accord with the time and place of our living. This is the constant adjustment to the nature and conditions of our life that is required by continuing maturation. As we age, our expectations change to fit our life. We make allowances. We grant concessions. We accept conditions that would not have made the cut twenty years before. We put up with things that would have been intolerable fifty years before. We draw our lines differently. And some lines not at all.

It all becomes acceptable at some point. “That’s just the way it is.” You can howl about it if you want to, and squall. But, when you get done, you are still going to have to get up and do the thing that needs to be done, protests not withstanding. May as well do it with an attitude and demeanor fitting to the occasion. Why growl at the surgeon, or snarl at the physical therapist? Or take it out on the nurses and the receptionists? The husband or the wife? Here we are! This is the way it is! We have no right to expect things to be any different than they are! Stand up insofar as you are able! Meet the day on its terms! Do what is asked of you! Without rancor, resentment or rage! Grace and kindness, Kid, grace and kindness. It is the solution to all of your problems today, every day.

“There are two rules for writing,” she said. “Write what wants to be written without knowing or caring where it is going.” “That’s crazy,” he said. “If that’s all there is to it, any fool could be a writer.” She said, “Fools can’t keep the rules.”

05/25/2017— “Now look what you made me do!”
is becoming Republicans’ go to defense.
It is right up there with
“It’s people like you
who make people like me
hate people like you!”
Members of Congress
and Congressional wanna-be’s
are channeling
elementary school playgrounds
at recess.
Voters have to demand
maturity and accountability.
Smooth talking double talk
has to be replaced
with people who
tell you what they are going to do
and do what they say.
It isn’t health care
when it removes 23 million people
from the insured rolls.
But, ask them about it
and they throw you to the ground
and tell you they are sick
of hearing about it.
They may be sick,
but they have insurance
provided by the government,
but you can’t have it
because they say so.
The moral is clear:
Vote for the Democrat
every chance you get

  1. 05/26/2017— Blue Ridge Fall 2016 07 Panorama — Sim’s Pond, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Power is useless if it doesn’t make things better.
    Better for whom, is the question.
    A lot of people–
    suicide bombers, for instance–
    are willing to make things worse
    for themselves
    if it will make thing worse for others.
    They take the tack of,
    “It will make things better for me
    if it makes things worse for you,
    even if it makes things worse for me.”
    Worse is better for them.
    They use whatever power
    is available to them
    to make things worse for others,
    and they think that is better.
    In this way Republicans
    are similar to suicide bombers.
    They sacrifice themselves
    to prevent other classes of people
    whom they do not like,
    despise,
    can’t stand,
    would see in hell
    before they would share paradise with,
    from having advantages,
    pleasures,
    joys,
    or anything resembling a good life.
    Abortionists,
    Muslims,
    Blacks,
    LGBTQ’s,
    Women,
    Immigrants,
    Latinos,
    Jews,
    The Poor,
    Disabled,
    Disadvantaged,
    The list is long…
    Are people they would
    make things worse for
    even if it meant making things
    worse for themselves.
    This is raw hatred at work in the world.
    They will vote for fewer benefits
    for themselves
    if it means fewer benefits
    for THEM.
    Suffering to make others suffer
    is their idea of better.
    Those of us who are appalled
    at the very idea
    that there could be those
    of that persuasion
    in large enough numbers
    to elect people
    who will gladly make things worse
    for them and the people they hate
    have to wake up to the truth
    of how things are.
    Hatred works well as a political lever.
    Dilute the vote with a Libertarian candidate.
    Restrict voting rights.
    Vote on weekdays, not weekends,
    and have few polling places to reduce turnout.
    And you have a recipe for winning
    with Hatred as your base.
    Those of us who are horrified
    by this reality
    have to realize what we are up against
    and prepare for the task at hand:
    Calling out Hatred for what it is,
    and making people conscious
    of their role as suicide-like-bombers
    in the destruction of the values
    at the heart of democracy,
    and force them to be accountable
    for who they are–
    to see themselves as they are–
    and work to out-vote them
    in every election great and small
    for the rest of time,
    working to make things better
    for the whole,
    even if there are those
    who cannot enjoy the good
    if they have to share it with
    those they hate.

05/26/2017 — Changing minds is not the issue.
Confirming minds is the issue.
Encouraging minds to be resolute is the issue.
Helping minds toward clarity and conviction is the issue.
I’m not here to have you think like I think.
I am here to have you think like you think–
to have you think about your thinking
and think what you think deliberately,
with awareness, determination and dedication–
to think what you think out loud
and put what you think into action,
into how you live
and what you do
and how you vote.
If all people were consciously, intentionally,
thinking what they are thinking
and living in light of what they determine for themselves
to be good, and lovely, and decent, and worthy to be done,
I would say, “Well. That’s as much as we can ask of ourselves.”
And would be square with what the day brings.
Too many people are thinking what they think they are supposed to think,
without thinking about what they are thinking–
without being aware of the contradictions among their thoughts–
without thinking through what needs to be thought through
in order to live the life that is as good as they can make it be.
They settle for someone else telling them
they are doing what they are supposed to be doing,
shirking the responsibility of determining for themselves
what that is.
Shameful.
Bad.
Terrible.
Think for yourself.
Be responsible for your own thoughts and actions.
Live from your own heart–
not from what someone else tells you should be your heart.
Be willing to go to hell
for what YOU say is good.

  1. 05/27/2017— Around Bass Lake 2016 33 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Here’s a mantra for you:
    “Nevertheless, It is well,”
    which may also be phrased,
    “Nevertheless, all is well.”
    Here’s how it works:
    “We are all (fill in the blank)
    a missed step,
    a phone call,
    a tornado,
    a heart attack,
    a terrorist attack,
    a car crash,

    away from the complete loss of everything.
    Nevertheless, it is well.”
    This goes hand-in-hand
    with the foundational realization,
    “It is all useless, pointless, hopeless, absurd
    and coming to a very bad end
    (we are all going to die)–
    and how we live in the meantime
    makes all the difference!–
    and nevertheless, it is well!”
    The key to being able to say this
    and mean it
    lies with our being in right relationship
    with our soul,
    with our psyche,
    with the part of ourselves
    that is unconscious to us.
    We have to be aligned with our soul.
    Everything flows from there.
    Everything falls into place around that.
    Our work
    is learning to live aligned with our soul.
    All is truly, absolutely, fundamentally, well
    when we are at-one with our soul.
    And this has nothing to do with theology.
    It doesn’t matter what we believe
    or do not believe.
    It has solely to do with living soulfully,
    as our soul would have us live,
    as our soul needs us to live
    in order to express itself and come forth
    in our life.
    Our soul is the living aspect of our life.
    We are more alive the closer to our soul we live.
    We are less alive the farther from soul we live.
    Live to be alive!
    Let your sense of vitality, passion, enthusiasm–
    being at one with what is right for you,
    in sync with what IS you,
    in the service of what, who, and how
    you are to be–
    be your guide to your soul,
    to your soul’s need of you
    and the life it needs you to live.
    Do what resonates with you.
    Do not do what causes you to recoil,
    gives you the hives,
    or the dry heaves,
    or the cold sweats…
    Live to be the champion of your soul,
    your soul’s best friend,
    your soul’s true mate.
    And it will be well.
    No matter what.

05/27/2017— To live at-one with our soul
is to see every “hour”
as our finest hour–
the place where
our light shines brightest and best.
Every moment is
the moment we have lived for,
the moment we are built for,
the reason we have come.
We are here to be alive, now!
To do what needs us to do it, now!
Let there be no shrinking back!
Standing on the ground
that is who we are–
that is our bedrock identity–
our purest value,
our truest loyalty,
our deepest love,
we step forth to meet
the day,
the hour,
the moment
of our living,
and do there what is ours to do,
and be there who we are!
And so, when the dog
throws up on the carpet,
we clean up the mess.
And when our children are distressed,
we comfort them.
And when we are sick,
we do what a return to health requires.
We allow things to be as they are,
and do what needs to be done about them,
out of the ground of our being,
the heart of what is truest and best
about us–
to our soul’s vibrant joy and delight.

05/27/2017— Grocery shopping can be a meditative exercise.
Walking through a grocery store
is as meditative as walking the labyrinth.
The aisles invite us to experience the world,
and all of life,
and the wonder of food production–
planting, growing, harvesting, marketing, transportation, presentation…
A grocery trip is a trek to a holy place,
a pilgrimage made by all people of every age
in one way or another.

05/27/2017 — The fix for isolation and alienation
is solitude.
No kidding.
Solitude is the practice
of the art
of being with ourselves.
Until we can be with ourselves,
we are not fit company for anyone.
The world will never be
a softer,
kinder,
gentler,
more gracious place
until we can treat ourselves
like we want others to treat us.
In the silence of solitude,
we meet ourselves.
Everything that comes up
in the silence,
comes up from within,
comes up from us.
We practice receiving
with mindful,
compassionate,
awareness
all that meets us in the silence–
in a “This, too. This, too,” kind of way.
Once we get that down with ourselves,
we are ready to extend it to everyone–
holding all in our awareness,
letting all things be
as they are,
surrounded by our grace and compassion,
blessed by our presence,
transformed,
or not,
by our acceptance
and our love.
Poof!
No more isolation.
No more alienation.
Because of solitude!

05/27/2017 — The Will to Life that propels the Dandelion through the asphalt,
is at work with us all
to bring forth “the face that was ours before we were born”
into the time and place,
conditions and circumstances,
of our life in the world.
If the Conscious Ego is cooperative
with the Unconscious Urge to Be at our core,
our life will exhibit a vitality and a grace
incapable of being impersonated.
And if our Unconscious Ego has a better idea
for a life of its own,
and no time for the beckonings within,
we will never escape the nagging sense
that things are not right somehow,
that something is missing,
that this isn’t it,
no matter how glossy, gleaming
and picture perfect it all appears to be.
To say “No!” to the voice of our soul,
is to “sin against the Holy Ghost,”
and forever seek redemption
for opportunities lost
and chances too long gone.

05/27/2017 — Ah, but it is such a “slippery slope,”
“a dangerous path,”
“like a razor’s edge,”
that we cross with each choice,
every decision.
Do we stay or go?
Act or wait?
Take the right turn or the left?
Buy the house?
Move to town?
Sell the farm?
Settle for what we have
or strive for unequaled wealth?
Marry this one or that one?
Take this job or the other one?
Go to that school or a different one?
Pursue this major or another one?
Everything hangs in the balance each time,
and we have no idea where we will be better off,
and have no way of knowing.
“Look before you leap,”
is no help because
“Whoever hesitates is lost!”
We are given a life
with no User’s Manual,
and are here, now
by Fortune and Grace.
Yet, in looking back,
it often seems as though
an invisible hand was guiding our way.
We see a purpose at work
where we stumbled and fell,
meaning where we were bereft and hopeless,
and here we are
as though by design.
May we take comfort
in the appearance of those
invisible means of support–
without theology or explanation,
doctrine or dogma,
just the comfort of knowing
we are not alone,
that “Within each of us is another whom we do not know” (Carl Jung),
and step into the darkness
confident that the darkness
is home to our soul.

05/27/2017 — Don’t have to know why!
Don’t have to explain experience!
Don’t have to make sense of things!
Live with wonder!
Play like a child in a marvelous universe
without needing to know
what makes it work,
or how to get it to work
in our behalf,
to your advantage,
benefit,
profit
and good.
Free yourself from
theology,
doctrine,
dogma,
and all Rube Goldberg constructions
that take the fun out of mystery,
and rob awe of its soul!

05/27/2017 — We can’t be chasing wealth and glory!
We have to do the work!
We only have so much life energy,
only so much time!
We have to be deliberate and decisive,
conscious and mindfully aware!
We have to separate the shiny beads and silver mirrors
from the ground of heart and soul,
and let our fond wishes for life go
in the service of our life’s wishes for its own secret pleasure.
We have to say no to what looks inviting,
and yes to what calls our name.

  1. 05/28/2017— Around Price Lake 2016 14 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Falling in love requires us to do the work of love.
    The work of love is walking two paths at the same time.
    Along the slippery slope,
    the dangerous path,
    the razor’s edge.
    We go slip-sliding away
    when we lose sight of the other
    as a metaphor of the heart
    for ourselves,
    sent to us by the heart
    to open our eyes
    to the truth
    of what needs to come forth in–
    to be brought forth by–
    ourselves,
    working on ourselves
    with the other in mind.
    What attracts us to the other
    lies latent in ourselves,
    and shows itself to us
    in the form and substance
    of the other,
    winks at us,
    and says, “How about me, Sweetie?”
    We get to ourselves through the other,
    by way of the other.
    WE are our soul’s mate!
    And find our soul reaching for us
    in the arms of the other.
    The work of love
    is knowing what’s what
    and who’s who.
    Carl Jung’s thoughts on the Anima/Animus
    is about the Me in Thee,
    and the Thee in Me,
    with each of us being the threshold of life eternal
    for the other.
    We see in the other
    what is to be found within ourselves,
    and must not forget
    that the mirror
    is reflecting
    our projection
    of where we need to look
    and what we need to do:
    bring ourselves forth
    as the other’s gift to us!
    Our lover is an ever present
    subject of meditation,
    revealing us to ourselves,
    calling us to depths perceived only
    through the eyes of our heart.

05/28/2017 — What keeps Trump from doing the right thing?
With him money is the Bottom Line.
Profit At Any Price is his operating principle.
If he can make more money doing the wrong thing
that, for him, IS the right thing to do!
Trump has sold his soul–
again and again–
to the highest bidder,
blind to the true value
of all the values
higher than fame and fortune.

05/28/2017 — Trump’s absence of forethought, insight, realization and compassion points to a complete lack of humanity. He would not score on a scale rating the positive qualities that make us human. But he would rank high on negative qualities. Whales, dolphins, porpoises, and elephants are more human-like than Trump is.

05/28/2017 — Our life takes shape around
what we care about,
what we love,
what we value with our deepest affection,
our highest passion.
What we care about
is the heart, ground, foundation, bedrock
of our existence.
People who are adrift, isolated, cutoff, alienated
from one another and from themselves
do not have a central, core, concern
around which they coalesce
as a viable, well-defined and self-directed
human being.
We have to have something in our life
more important than our own ease and comfort
that we serve with loyalty and allegiance
all our life long.
Jesus said it best:
“Those who would save their life will lose it,
but those who lose their life in the service
of that which is greater than they are
will find it” (or words to that effect).

05/28/2017 — I think “making disciples” ranks among

the dumbest of all ideas ever.

Taking someone as they are

and turning them into YOU

is wrong.

Taking someone as they are

and showing them how to

become aware of themselves,

responsible for,

and accountable to themselves,

and telling them,

“Now, get out there and do your thing–

and don’t worry about the outcome!”

is my idea of what we are all

called to do.

Here is a link that will help you with the

awareness part…

https://www.mindfulnesscds.com/pages/videos-of-jon-teaching

05/28/2017 —   Putin certainly knew what he was doing–but, he could not have known how easy it would be.
The complete collapse of American Democracy, morals and values in 5 months, without a shot being fired.
The Republican Party willingly, even eagerly, serving as an extension of the Communist Party, gleefully dancing on the tombs of the Founders of the Republic. Laughing, applauding one another, smug, arrogant, ruthless, cruel, and without regret in their role as the Destroyers of Liberty and Justice For All.
The Star-Spangled Banner waves no more o’re the land of the free and the home of the brave.

05/28/2017 — If the Russians had come with guns, bombs and missiles they wouldn’t have had a chance. But they came with loans and investments, and carried the day.

The first rule of war is Know Your Enemy. The Russians knew exactly who they were dealing with, and how to close the deal.

Trump thinks the free press is his Enemy. He has no idea of what he is up against, or to what extent he has been taken in. He is so good at declaring victory, and so bad at winning.

If the British had landed with some investment bankers and a couple of boat loads of money, do you think the Continental Congress would have said, “Well, Okay! Now we’re DEALING!” And called the whole thing off?

  1. 05/29/2017— King Snakes Courting Panorama 2017 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 19, 2017 All of this started 241 years ago
    with two groups of people
    with radically different ideas
    of how America should be.
    Freedom, Justice, Truth and Equality
    have not had an easy time of it
    over the years.
    The Patriotic Dream has prevailed
    due to the spirit of those
    who refuse to give it up to
    appearance, impression, facade, pretense–
    knowing that it depends upon
    who we ARE,
    not who we say we are.
    Republicans pay lip service
    to Freedom, Justice, Truth and Equality
    but they are reticent
    about serving them with their life–
    and refuse to see that they apply
    fully and completely
    to all people everywhere.
    Patriotism requires
    life in the service of the true good of all.

05/29/2017 — Individual, personal, authority–
grounded upon and living out of
our own experience,
standards,
values
and ideals–
is strictly dependent upon
silence and solitude.
No one can tell us who we are,
or what is important to us,
or how we need to live
in each situation,
in each moment,
as it arises,
to bring ourselves forth,
exhibit/express/incarnate/reveal
the truth we have come to serve
in ways that are appropriate
to the occasion.
All of that comes to us from within
as an urge to life
shaped and formed by our unique vision
of what is Me and Not Me
and how that needs to be presented
in the time and place of our living.
And THAT is dependent upon our
devotion to and practice of
mindful, compassionate, awareness
in regular returns to silence and solitude.
Silence and solitude
are the sine qua non
of imagination and creativity,
the source of life and being.
Without them,
we can only be mock-ups,
cut-outs,
standees,
and standups,
with no mind or life of our own.

05/29/2017 — When the forces at work in a situation
have the momentum
and control the play of possibilities,
the situation will remain in their hands
until a shift happens.
The shift is at the direction
of the fullness of time.
“The fullness of time”
is a phrase that is equivalent to
“the movement of the Tao.”
Nobody knows what they mean,
but everyone knows the reality
of a tomato going from not quite ready
to ready,
or of a banana going from ripe
to over-ripe.
Our place is to put ourselves in accord
with the drift of time
and the movement of the Tao,
remain clear about what is happening,
and wait.
And when the door opens,
walk through.

05/30/2017 — Theology is what is wrong with religion.
Strip religion of its theology
and you are left with the wonder
of experience.
Put theology in religion
and you do not need experience.
Theology is a substitute for experience.
Theology evaluates/judges/dismisses/disregards/rejects/denies
experience.
Religion grounded in theology
is worse than no religion at all.
Good religion is grounded upon experience
without/beyond the need of explanation.
Explanations of experience become theology.
Experience without explanation
forms the religious core
of a life well-lived.
Live for the experience of being alive.
Eschew explanations,
doctrines,
dogma,
beliefs,
theology.
Experience is self-validating
and is beyond debate.
Theology is infinitely debatable–
and exists only in the head.
Religion is a matter of the heart.

  1. 05/30/2017— Around Bass Lake 2016 04 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Take Paul’s statement in Philippians,
    “It is God who works in you
    to will and to do
    for his good purpose,”
    and place it in any holy book
    outside of the Bible,
    and you have a completely different feel
    for what is being said.
    Or take the statement,
    “God is working his purpose out,
    as year succeeds to year,”
    from the Christian hymn
    by Arthur Campbell Aigner,
    and place it in a book
    of Taoist poems,
    and you transform the possibilities
    for understanding what is being said.
    Theology screws with truth,
    and a statement becomes only true
    from the standpoint of the theology
    surrounding the statement.
    “God” can only mean
    “the triune father God
    of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob,”
    or (and a lot of people would say “and”),
    “the Father Almighty,
    Creator of heaven and earth”
    and “the Father of Jesus Christ His
    only Son, Our Lord…”
    And nothing can be said
    that hasn’t been said,
    and everything has to be understood
    in light of the way everything has been understood,
    and religion is divorced from life,
    and life is lived devoid of an experiential connection
    with the heart of life,
    and everyone sits around waiting to die
    so they can then enjoy life
    “on the yonder shore,”
    missing the wonder and joy all about them
    on this, “the hither shore.”
    It is completely absurd,
    and undeniable.
    Assumptions form expectations
    and discount experience to the contrary.
    And we have to find our way back
    to “the uncarved block,”
    to “the face that was ours before we were born,”
    by refusing to take anything “on faith,”
    and knowing only what we know
    in light of our on-going reflection
    on experience
    in order to form new realizations
    and have new experiences
    all our life long.

05/30/2017 — We remember:
Emmett Till,
James Chaney,
Michael Schwerner,
Andrew Goodman,
Medgar Evers,
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Viola Gregg Liuzzo,
Jimmie Lee Jackson
George Lee,
Lamar Smith,
John Earl Reese,
Willie Edwards, Jr.
Mack Charles Parker,
Herbert Lee,
Louis Allen,
Roman Ducksworth, Jr.
Paul Guihard
William Lewis Moore,
Addie Mae Collins,
Denise McNair,
Carole Robertson,
Cynthia Wesley
Virgil Lamar Ware,
Bruce Klunder,
Henry Hezekiah Dee,
Charles Eddie Moore,
Lemuel Penn,
Jimmie Lee Jackson,
James Reeb,
Oneal Moore,
Willie Brewster,
Jonathan Myrick Daniels,
Samuel Leamon Younge, Jr.
Vernon Ferdinand Dahmer,
Ben Chester White,
Clarence Triggs,
Warlest Jackson,
Benjamin Brown,
Samuel Ephesians Hammond Jr.,
Delano Herman Middleton,
Henry Ezekial Smith,
and all the others who have lost their life
at the hands of racism expressing itself
in the form of White Supremacy.
And all those who have lost their life
at the hands of homophobia and/or White Supremacy.
And here we are, still waiting for all people
to be free to be who they are,
honored, respected and recognized as persons of worth and value,
around the table,
across the board
regardless of race,
religion,
gender,
sexual orientation,
age,
physical or mental ability
or any other basis for discrimination and bigotry.
Republican voters cannot begin to realize
what they have unleashed
by failing to see what they were looking at,
by failing to hear what they were listening to,
by refusing to be aware of what they were doing–
giving us all a leader who is a clandestine White Supremacist,

and Republican members of the House and Senate who have
mastered the art of standing for nothing and doing less.
We cannot cease to be vigilant and passionate
in the service of voting/civil/equal/human rights!
Those who would relax laws governing discrimination and bigotry
have to be opposed swiftly and ardently
at every turn.
We owe it to ourselves and to each other
to be strong in the service of
Liberty, Justice, Compassion, Equality
for as long as life shall last.

  1. 05/31/2017— Around Price Lake 2016 17 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 There is knowing what is happening
    and what needs to happen
    and what needs to be done about it
    and what we can do about it
    with the gifts that are ours to give
    for the good of the situation as a whole.
    And there is knowing what keeps
    us from doing any of this.
    And there is knowing what enables
    us to do all of it.
    And that is all of the knowing
    we need to know.

05/31/2017 —

Carl Jung said, “Most people confuse ‘self-knowledge’
with knowledge of their conscious ego personalities.”
There is more to us than meets the eye.
The place of our “conscious ego personality”
is to exercise its authority
for knowing where to draw the line
between the polarities/opposites/dichotomies
that separate conscious from unconscious.
The unconscious doesn’t know anything
about drawing lines.
It’s all one big swirling mess in there.
The unconscious invented consciousness
to help it sort things out,
organize and order
the whirl of blurring truth.
The unconscious knows way more
than consciousness, but,
consciousness is responsible
for drawing the lines
required to make things work.
Never mind if they are proper or improper.
Just draw them
and then redraw them
when it becomes obvious
that they need to be adjusted.
The unconscious can’t do that.
The unconscious depends upon consciousness
to enable it to be mindfully aware
of itself in relation to itself.
Consciousness has to assume its role
as Structural Engineer
in setting limits
and deciding who, what, when, where, why and how.
The catch is
that consciousness can carry out its duties
only in steady,
deliberate,
conscious
consultation with the unconscious.
Consciousness must commune with the unconscious
for things to hum like a choir in tune with itself.
That’s where things begin to fall apart.
We have lost the art of communion with our soul.
Recovery and restoration
are all that stand between us
and harmony, peace, wellness and well-being.
You would think we would make that a priority.
Wouldn’t you?

05/31/2017 — We cannot talk to Donald Trump
or to racist, bigoted, hate-filled white supremacists
he has emboldened.
There is nothing to say to stem their rage.
We can only work to out-vote them
and enforce laws that reduce their impact
on civility,
good will
and well-being
word-wide.
They will be with us always
to the end of the age.
A Native American anecdote applies:
When young people from the tribe
left to seek their fortune in the world,
they were told
“As you go on your way throughout your life,
the birds of the air will shit on you.
Do not even pause to wipe it off.”

05/31/2017 — We have a clandestine White Supremacist
in the White House,
and others on the Cabinet,
and Republican enablers
in the House and Senate
supporting racism, bigotry, discrimination
and White Supremacy
with their deafening silence on these matters.
The people who voted for them cannot be silent as well.
If you voted for Donald Trump
and Republican members of the House and Senate,
you must stand strong against them now!
Make at least weekly phone calls to their offices
registering your disgust at their failure
to come out strong against the racist bigots
of our times,
and demand enforcement of laws protecting
citizens from being victimized by hatred.
Write them all at least one post card a week
stressing the same things.
Do. Not. Let. This. Go.
Do. Not. Let. Opposing. Racism. Rest.
YOU put these people in their place of leadership.
YOU must assume responsibility
for calling their hand
and insisting upon them standing
against hatred and for justice and equal rights
for all people.
Do not be slow to respond!
And to those of you who did not vote for Trump
or for a Republican member of Congress,
your responsibility is clear as well.
Make your phone calls,
write your post cards,
insist upon an atmosphere/environment
in which people are safe,
respected,
honored,
and treated well
regardless of their religion,
race,
physical or mental ability,
sexual orientation,
gender or gender preference.
Be a strong voice for compassion,
equality
and justice for all.
Beginning tonight.

  1. 6/01/2017— Around Price Lake 2016 26 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 “The Situation is Hopeless,
    but Not Serious”
    Is the title of one of Paul Watzlawick’s books.
    It is true with every situation.
    We take every thing too seriously.
    We have to live at the fulcrum
    between Serious and Without Consequence.
    Of course, there are consequences,
    but they are Not Serious.
    Of course, they cannot be ignored
    or treated lightly
    as though they are trivial
    or insignificant.
    Nor can they be allowed to distract
    us from the counter-truth:
    All is well!
    Matter. What.
    We are never without the guiding presence
    of who Carl Jung was talking about
    when he said,
    “Within each of us there is another,
    whom we do not know.”
    Nothing can happen to destroy
    that relationship,
    or to keep us from being grounded upon
    the bedrock of our own identity
    and purpose.
    We can be who we are,
    and do what is ours to do
    in every situation that comes along.
    Victor Frankl came out of
    Hitler’s death camps
    having witnessed the fact
    that meaning lives anywhere, everywhere.
    It only takes those with eyes to see
    to find it, live it.
    The only reason to despair
    is when we lose sight of the truth
    that there is no reason to despair,
    only more work to be done.
    We hand over our idea
    of how things ought to be,
    and step into doing what
    needs to be done
    about how things are–
    in a “Here we are, now what?”
    kind of way.
    When you don’t know what to do,
    do the thing that needs to be done
    here and now.
    And then, the thing after that.
    The way it needs to be done.
    The way only you can do it.
    Out of the bedrock of who you are.
    Doing what is good
    whether it does any good or not.
    Being truly, eternally, continually,
    good for nothing!
    And see where it goes.

06/01/2017 — Confirmation,
affirmation,
validation,
authentication,
verification
are all forms
of authorization
that ground us
in the truth
of our own truth,
and encourage us
in the work
of living out
of our own sense
of what needs to be done
in the strength
of our own conviction,
and our own sense
of how to do it.
It takes a community
to produce individuals–
but it has to be the
right kind of community:
A “we” who know they
are in the service of the “I.”
“We” help each other
find the ground under
our own feet,
stand up,
and be who we are,
in facing what must be faced,
and doing what must be done
as only we can do that
as the individual we are.

  1. 06/02/2017— Around Price Lake 2016 27 Panorama– Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2017 Clarity and focus are the foundational elements
    of a life worth living.
    We can lose the way
    in 10,000 ways.
    There is a different manifestation
    of the Cyclops
    at every turn–
    new reasons to
    leave the path
    and abandon
    the life that calls us to live it
    saunter up to us each day
    asking, “Who cares?
    Why try?
    What difference does it make
    what you do?”
    To be answered each time with,
    “Who cares if nobody cares?
    Why NOT try?
    What difference does it make
    if nothing makes any difference?
    I’m going to do right
    by my life
    whether you like it or not!”
    Clarity and focus, Kid.
    Clarity and focus.
    In the early days of my photography apprenticeship,
    I would wake up in the early hours
    and wrestle with whether to get up
    and drive into the mountains
    to wait in the cold for a sunrise
    that might not appear
    because of fog or clouds,
    and from within would come the question
    “Are you a photographer or not?”
    And,
    “Are you going to be who you are or not?”
    We have to be clear about who we are–
    and who we are not–
    and focused on doing what is required
    to bring that forth
    in the time and place
    of our living,
    no matter what.

06/02/2017 — We have to be able to transcend
a situation
in order to be able to act there
for the good of the situation
as a whole–
in order to be able to offer there
what the situation needs
out of the gifts
we have to offer.
To be able to rise to meet
any occasion
means to be able
to rise above it.

06/02/2017 — Carl Jung said,
“If I want to understand
an individual human being,
I must . . . adopt a completely new
and unprejudiced attitude.”
This applies also
to situations and circumstances.
We cannot have an emotional stake
in the relationship,
or the situation,
or the circumstance
and hope to understand it
and respond appropriately to it.
We have to be able
to not care about it
in order to deal with it
in caring, loving, ways.
This is how emergency room personnel
have to respond to every
person and situation
that comes in the door.
In order to see/understand
the person/situation
and respond in ways
appropriate to the occasion,
they have to achieve
and maintain
“working distance”
between themselves and the situation.
If they are too close
or too distant
they are no help.
We have to find the “sweet spot”
between ourselves and our life,
and live out of that position
in relation to everything
that comes our way.

06/02/2017 — How do we wake people up?

How do we get them to care about

what they don’t care about?

How do we change their mind?

Facts won’t do it.

We cannot give them a fact

they cannot dismiss, discount, disregard, deny and ignore.

Any theory or belief can be expanded

to take all facts to the contrary into account,

so that the fossil record

and continental drift

become tests of the faith of the faithful

in the Eternal Truth of the Holy Scriptures

in order to validate their merit on the Day of Judgment.

“Alternative facts” exist for every actual fact,

and facts are wasted on True Believers

of every age.

So, what to do with the Fact Deniers of any age?

The first thing is to

separate the die-hards from the downcast.

Every movement is composed of people

who are there,

not because they are true believers,

but because they have no real convictions

of any sort.

They have little foundation,

are easily swayed,

have nothing to live for,

and do what they are told

without thinking about the outcome.

Our work is to wake them up

to the consequences of their actions,

and to give them something to live for—

a cause they can believe in—

beyond the one they have been handed

and told to follow.

We have to know who we are talking to—

who we can talk to,

and who we have no hope of ever reaching.

And talk to those

who can hear what we have to say.

The second thing is to tell them a story,

or better,

a series of stories.

Jesus talked in parables.

Nathan nailed David with an allegory

about a man stealing a sheep.

Scientists are used to letting the facts

do all of the work.

The facts are just the starting point.

We have to drape the facts with meaning,

and purpose,

and hope,

and drama.

We have to become storytellers of truth.

The future of time depends upon it.

The third thing is like unto the second:

We have to sing them a song.

Where are the songs of protest?

Where are the poets of this age?

Is everybody trying to figure out

how to get rich and buy an island?

Where are the singers and songwriters

with a stake in life here-and-now?

With a heart for life-as-it-is-and-yet-can-be?

The fourth thing is we have to do the work,

day in and day out,

around the clock,

in all weather conditions,

whether we feel like it or not,

whether we want to or not,

whether we are in the mood for it or not,

for the rest of our life.

We cannot say the truth

and say, “Well, we said it.

We tried.

We did our bit.

And that’s it for us!”

There is no quitting when everything

hangs in the balance!

Any moment might be the one

that matters the most.

One Minute Monologues 038

January 28, 2017—April 10, 2017

4201. 01/28/2017 — We treat our life with contempt
and complete disregard
if it disappoints us
and fails to be
what we wish it were.
We never forgive our life
for not being
what we want it to be.
Our life needs us to care for it,
to tend it,
nurture it,
nourish it
as we would a baby.
We are here to bless our life–
our life is not here to bless us.
WE are the blessing,
and we withhold it
because, we say,
our life does not deserve
the best we have to offer.

“Why should we care about our life?”
we say.
“Our life sure doesn’t care about us!”
Our life produced us
to be its caretaker–
to move it beyond where it was
to where it might–even yet–be.

We refuse the work that is ours to do,
thinking that we deserve smooth and easy.
“Where is smooth and easy?” we say.
“Whatever happened to smooth and easy?”
Thinking life is a bargain
that can be struck,
or an outcome that can be negotiated.

Life is what we do with the time that is ours–
how we respond to the conditions
and circumstances of our living–
how well we do what is ours to do.
What we make of the opportunity
we are still being offered.

01/29/2017 — Trump doesn’t understand “the other side” of his choices, decisions and policies–
the impact and repercussions worldwide.
Our role is to introduce him to the consequences.
Poor Donald doesn’t have much experience with consequences,
except from the standpoint of those he deals out.
He is a novice at being dealt a consequence.
It is time he learned about the world
the rest of us live in.
Actions have consequences.
We are to make that clear.
Do what you can in that regard.
Support protests, rallies, marches, etc.
as you are able.
Provide financial support
to causes and organizations
that are involved in the resistance movement,
as you are able.
Do not be quiet!
Turn over the tables of the “deal makers”!
Make the right kind of waves!
Deny in an undeniable way
the King of Denial’s denial
of the truth of consequences!
Make him see who he is
and what he is doing
against his will!
Bang the drums slowly
without ceasing
in the cause of what’s right
against what’s wrong.

01/29/17 — What becomes of the Rule of Law
when the Border Patrol
is in contempt of Federal Court,
and will be pardoned
even if arrested, tried and convicted?

What becomes of Democracy
when the Federal Government
erases the Constitutional line
separating church and state
and oppresses Muslims
because of their religion?

4202.  01/30/2017 — Fort Buhlow Spanish Moss 2017 13 B&W — Alexandria, Louisiana, January 25, 2017

When the US Border Patrol,
sworn to uphold the Constitution
and the laws of the land–
and to serve, protect and defend the people,
ignore the mandate of the Federal Court,
and brutalize, intimidate and harass the people,
who exactly are they
serving, protecting and defending?

01/30/2017 — To all Trump supporters:

How much more of a chance
do we have to give him?

How can you not have seen
this coming?

What were you really thinking?

Don’t tell me.

Let me guess.

You’re still convinced

Hillary would have been much, much, worse.

You’re breaking my heart.

Again.

Still.

01/30/2017 — We have to understand that we are sanctuaries
for each other
and for all those
who aren’t Republicans,
and especially those
who are,
or appear to be,
foreign,
different,
suspicious,
potentially suspicious–
or who fit
the white supremacist profile
of “not our kind.”

In the story of the Good Samaritan,
the lawyer asked Jesus,
“And, just who is my neighbor?”
Jesus replied,
“You–YOU–are the neighbor!
Go be one to everyone you meet!”
Or words to that effect.

The command to
Love your neighbor
requires us to recognize
that we–WE–are the neighbor,
and are to be a sanctuary
for all those in need of one
however we can imagine
to make that happen.

01/30/2017 — Who are these Tea Party Republicans
with no heart,
no soul,
no compassion
or kindness about them–
who are consumed
by their greed, hatred, fear and desire
for safety and security
above every other value?
They are children
in adult bodies,
wrecking the world
in their flight
from the Boogeyman.

Who is the Boogeyman?
The side of themselves
they don’t see
when they look
in a mirror.

01/30/2017 — The path opens before us
when we start walking.
We can’t wait until we have it
all figured out,
understood,
and know what we are doing.
We have to know that we don’t know
what we are doing,
and step into the unknown
following our own sense
of when to say yes
and when to say know.
Of what now?
Of now what?

All we have to know
is what we do know
that we don’t know we know.
It takes being quiet
and listening within
to know the inner urgency
when it arises,
and to follow where it leads.

How quiet can you be?
How long can you be that way?
What is your personal best
for sitting quietly–
no reading,
no watching TV
no listening to music–
just sitting.
Quietly.
How long?
Live to increase the time.
Sitting.
Listening.
Observing.
Watching.
Waiting.

01/30/2017 — We have to do the work
of growing up.
That’s the most spiritual
activity there is.
Not praying.
Not memorizing the doctrines.
Or the books of the Bible in order.
Not doing good deeds.
Not not-doing any of those sin things.
Growing up.
That’s it.

Growing up is facing what we don’t want to face,
doing what we don’t want to do.

If you’ve been with me for a while,
you know the Joseph Campbell quote:
“The treasure we seek
lies in the very back
of the cave
we most don’t want
to enter.”

That’s growing up.

We have to start doing
the things we most don’t want to do
that truly need to be done,
and need us to do them.
All of them.

And, there is a catch.
We have to do them
as though we want to do them
as we would do them
if we loved them
with all our heart.
We have to do them
so that no one knows
how much we don’t want to do them.

This is not being hypocritical.
This is “faking it until we make it.”
It is training ourselves
to see and do what needs us to do it
without thinking about it–
without deciding if we want to or not.

What does wanting know?
Wanting doesn’t have any idea
about what needs to be done,
about what needs us to do it.
Wanting doesn’t care about anything
but what it wants.

Growing up doesn’t care about
what we want or don’t want.
It cares only about doing what
needs us to do it.

Practice that
until you get it down.

01/30/2017 — Trump’s firing of Sally Yates, our Acting Attorney General,
comes under the category
of “Surprise, surprise, surprise.”
Checks and balances?
What checks and balances?
Poor Donald is in for such a rough ride.
It is all his fault,
and he thinks everyone is out to get him.
That’s crazy for you.

4203.  01/31/2017 — Birds on a Wire 2017 18 B&W — Fort Randolph National Historical Park, Alexandria, Louisiana, January 26, 2017

Through it all–
including all of the Trump Era,
however long it might last–
our task is the same task:
to find the face that was ours
before we were born
and live so that it becomes
the face we see
when we look into a mirror,
and the face everyone sees
when they look at us.
And, to find the life that is our to live
and live it–
through all situations and circumstances,
regardless of the impact and outcome
(including no apparent impact or outcome
at all).

The two are one.
The face that was ours before we were born
and the life that is ours to live.
Find them.
Be them.
Do them.

It is the most important thing.

You have to believe it,
and live as though it is so,
to know that it is so.

Become a believer,
and a doer,
and a liver.
Starting now.

01/31/2017 — The church as we know it
(that would be the “Christian Church”)
failed
because it failed
to get us together
with our life.

It told us we were sinners
and didn’t know anything,
and had to do what it told us to do,
because we had no idea
of what was right
and good
(Even though Jesus said,
“Why don’t you decide for yourselves
what is right?”).

The church separated us from ourselves,
which it said was “of the devil,”
and cut us off from the destiny
that is our birthright,
and told us to wait
for life after death,
because that’s when
it all begins.

The church may as well have
killed us in the womb,
or strangled us aborning.
It robbed us of our life,
of our chance at living,
telling us what a favor
it was doing for us,
and how thankful
we would be
to never have lived.

01/31/2017 — What are the sacred things?
The things you don’t mess with?
The things you honor with your time
and attention?

Silence is one of those things for me.
And solitude.
And the Constitution.
And my life–
that is, my responsibility for my life,
my obligation to find it and live it.
Which means integrity–
living at one with my life,
with the face that was mine before I was born,
within the context and circumstances
of my living.
And all that implies.

01/31/2017 — Trump operates according to the principle,
“It isn’t wrong if you get by with it.”
And:
“It is amazing what you can get by with
is you have a lot of money.”
Or the corollary:
“If you are powerful enough,
you can get by with anything.”
Putting it all together:
“Being wrong is something
people without money and power
have to worry about.”
That’s Donald’s Law.

02/01/2017 — As we seek out how best
to make a fitting response
to the insanity erupting
in Washington
with every stroke of Trump’s pen,
I’ll offer this as a way
of grounding and directing
us through the darkness
of these days:

Pause at several points
during each day
to remember and restore
your connection to
the Holy Trinity
sustaining us
and enabling our survival
in all times and places—
Mindfulness,
Compassion,
Integrity.

Each of these three values of soul and spirit
imply the others.
Mindfulness is Compassion and Integrity.
Compassion is Integrity and Mindfulness.
Integrity is Mindfulness and Compassion.
We cannot have one without the others.

Integrity is living in accord with
the face that was ours before we were born,
the work that is ours to do,
and the life that is ours to live.

Mindfulness is holding all things in awareness
just as they are,
such as they are,
without judgment,
prejudice,
or discrimination.

Compassion is taking all of this into account,
and seeking the good of the parts
and the good of the whole,
in walking two paths at the same time
by remembering the whole
when it acts with the good of the parts in mind,
and by remembering the parts
when it acts with the good of the whole in mind—
and bearing the pain of the realization
that the good of one is evil and suffering
for the other,
and letting that be the way it is
because that is the way it is.

4204. 01/31/2017 — Oakland Plantation 2017 08 B&W — The Back Porch, Cane River Creole National Historical Park, Natchez, Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana, January 26, 2017

My ideal world is one where
people are working together
in good faith
for the true good of the whole–
AND the true good of each individual–
bearing the pain of the contradiction
and working out
mutually exclusive interests
in ways that take the good of all
into account.
It would mean reining in our
rampant obsession for
profit at any price,
and force us to settle
for a good-enough life
at the expense
of the best life imaginable,
and is, of course,
out of the question.
Greed and fear seem to rule our lives–
the only remedy,
or antidote,
being regular immersions in the practice
of mindfulness, compassion and integrity,
with nothing to be gained from it
beyond the grace and peace
of a good-enough life
in a good-enough world.

A deal the conquistadors of every age
would never consent to making.

4205.  02/02/2017 — Augustine Church Cemetery 2017 07 — Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana, January 26, 2017

In the silence things stir to life
that are beyond the reach of logic and reason.
Consciousness has no claim to creativity.
No one ever thought a Mona Lisa
into being,
or devised a plan for writing poetry
by selecting words randomly
from a dictionary–
even a rhyming dictionary.
To produce soul
we have to be available to soul.
We have to be quiet,
and listen for what stirs to life
on the periphery of awareness–
access to which is easily lost
in the busy-ness and noise of our life.

02/02/2017 — Some things never die.
Maybe, nothing ever dies.
I know for sure that some things don’t.

The Whigs and the Tories fought it out
in Merry Old England
and carried their fight into the New World,
going at it to the death
in the Revolutionary war
over the fundamental disagreement
about what it means to be a human being,
over the questions of
to whom and to what
is owed our absolute allegiance–
to whom and to what
does our soul belong?

The modern incarnations are still going at it
in the guise of Democrats and Republicans.
Republicans say, “Money And Power!”
Democrats say, “Human Rights And Soulful Privileges!”
Republicans are willing to kill anything–
everything–for profit and power.
Democrats are willing to die
in the service of human rights and the service of soul.

It is a religious war over what is worth
our life and our death.
Over what is worth dying for and killing for.
And it is a way of declaring to whom and to what we belong.

The lines are clearly drawn.
Republicans care not for anything
that does not make them wealthier and more powerful.
Republicans will sell public lands
and destroy the environment digging for coal and for oil.
Republicans exhibit fascist tendencies,
extolling the virtues of right-wing nationalism
totalitarian authority and the absolute supremacy
of their ideology–
hating all who oppose them
and seeking ways to oppress, suppress, discredit and destroy
those who stand in their way.

Democrats honor the soul of the natural world
and of each person in the world–
regardless of race, religion, physical ability, gender or transgender, sexual orientation,
or any other apparent difference setting one person off from another.
Democrats recognize that we are one and have to work it out
in ways that honor the god at the center of the other,
recognizing this can be done only
in the good faith commitment of the parts
to each other and to the whole–
which cannot be forced,
but can only be allowed to come forth
in the service of the true good of all,
which includes honoring the right of individuals
to find their own path
and honor their own heart
in the service of the true good of themselves.

Democrats walk two paths at the same time.
Republicans say theirs is the only path for all of time.
And there you are.
Whose side are you on?

02/02/2017 — Republicans think the best days lie behind them
and try to bring back the glory days of the past,
promising to “Make America Great Again!”

Democrats look ahead,
thinking the best has yet to be,
imagining a better world than has ever been
calling all to come together
to “Make The World A Better Place For All To Be!”

02/02/2017 — The Religious Impulse in all people,
and perhaps of all of life,
is the inner realization of truth–
of a reality–
that is experienced
and is incapable of being said,
explained, defined, told, understood…

The experience,
and the truth, the reality,
at the heart of the experience,
are expressed
through symbol and metaphor
through art, music and poetry,
and reflect the person who had the experience
as much as–
or more than–
the experience/truth/reality itself.

The experience/truth/reality
is of the Numen beyond words
at the center of the Self within.

Carl Jung said, “There is within each of us
another whom we do not know.”
He thought of this Other
as the Self we live to exhibit, express, incarnate
within the life we are living,
making known what is unknown–
unconscious (so called because
we are not conscious of it)–
within.

Instead of sitting quietly in the presence
of this Self
in order to know Her/Him
and collaborate with Him/Her
in producing the life we are capable
of producing together,
we attempt to define, explain, understand
what cannot be defined, explained, understood,
and come forth with doctrines
creeds, theologies and ideologies
that have nothing to do
with the life that is ours to live.

The Religious Impulse is expressed in our life,
not in our beliefs.
It is how we live that declares who we are
and what is at the center of us–
what is central to us–
not what we believe.

We cannot help being religious,
but our religion can separate us
from our center
and hand us a life that is an inauthentic
and shallow substitute
for the life that is ours to live.

02/02/2017 — We walk two paths at the same time.
The visible path
with its roles, duties, obligations, joys, sorrows…
The invisible path
with its expectations, intentions, needs, purposes…
We have to pay the bills,
remember birthdays
and tend the affairs of visible reality,
while opening ourselves to the reality
of the invisible,
unconscious (because we are not conscious of it) world.

We call the Other World “spiritual”
because it has no “physical” features,
and we cannot explore it using
the instruments of This World,
but “transcendent”
or “numinous”
apply equally well.

The primary block preventing access
to that world

is the motive of those seeking it.
We cannot use our connection
with that world
to serve our advantage in this world.

The watchword is
“Thy will, not mine, be done,”
and, “He came not to be served, but to serve.”
It is the same with all of us.
There is nothing in it for us
beyond the experience of life–
of vitality and wonder everlasting.

If we can agree to those terms
in good faith,
the door is open
to all who would say,
“Here I am. Send me.”
And mean it.

4206.  02/03/2017 — Curtis-Coleman Memorial Bridge 2017 09 — Union Pacific Lift Trestle, Red River, Alexandria, Louisiana, January 25, 2017

Attention Deficit and Hyper-activity rules the land.
Trump certainly suffers from a profusion of both disorders,
and the culture as a whole fosters their creation and cultivation.
Where are we encouraged,
or even allowed,
to sit still,
be quiet,
and reflect?
Try being quiet
and see how long it takes
to get a “What’s wrong with you?”
Commercial television depends on
giving us more information/stimulation
than we can process.

The revolution is as simple
and as transformative
as silence.

Work silence into your life.
Increase your tolerance for silence
on a daily basis.
Be still and know
all that the noise and activity
keep you from attending
and being aware of.

Become mindful of the all-ness
of the life you are living.
It will change things dramatically.

02/03/201 — Remember when…
Trump announced that he had
sent his own personal investigative team
to Hawaii
at his own expense,
and that they had uncovered information
regarding President Obama’s birth certificate
which he would release
at the appropriate time?
Which he never released?
Remember that?
Even the most rabid Trump Supporters
have forgotten it,
yet the emotional, unconscious, impact remains
alive among them.
They are all sure Obama was an illegitimate president
and a liar.
But it is Trump who is the illegitimate president
and the liar.
Trump fosters unfounded suspicion
and creates impressions
without letup or end
to bolster and cement his position
in the minds of his constituents.
Trump is a box of smoke
pretending to be a god.

02/03/201 — This is how Trump’s mind works:

He cannot distinguish fact from fantasy or fancy,
and opinions are all he has to work with,
so if something could have happened,
It might have happened,
and if it might have happened,
it probably happened,
and if it probably happened,
it may as well have happened,
if it may as well have happened,
it most surely happened,
if it most surely happened,
it absolutely happened,
if it absolutely happened,
it happened.
In his opinion.
That’s the best he can do.

02/03/201 — It’s been a tough two weeks,
and I’m encouraged to see
that the courts are responding
to the travel ban,
and hope this forces
Trump and Bannon
(Though those who know
know its all Bannon)
to take the Constitution seriously.
It is absurd
to have to hope
that the United States Government
will take the Constitution seriously.
Oh, if the Founders could only
stand before a joint session of Congress
and address those seated
one speaker at a time!

4207.  02/04/2017 — Augustine Catholic Church Cemetery Panorama 2017 06 — Melrose, Louisiana, January 26, 2017

It is all
useless,
pointless,
hopeless,
futile,
absurd
and coming to a very bad end
(we all will die)–
and how we live in the meantime
makes all the difference.
How we live in the meantime
is how we make known
who we are–
how we express
the truth we were born
to bring to bear
upon the context and circumstances
of our life.
Everything hinges–
swings upon–
how closely we are aligned
with the deeper truth of our being.
Our life’s work
(our Practice)
is to recognize,
and live in accord with,
the Other who lives within,
the One Who Knows
who we are and who we are to be.

Our Practice consists of
the conscious exploration
of what is unconscious to us
about us–
of what we do not know
about ourselves,
and incarnate it
in actual, tangible, ways,
living the life that is ours to live
within the life we are living.

We consciously bring ourselves forth
in the here and now of every day.
This is our second birth
that is repeated daily
throughout our lives–
in accord with the truth of
our inner reality
and the truth of
our outer reality,
made possible by
our commitment to
the three primary elements
of being in the world:
Mindfulness,
Compassion,
Integrity.

In this way, we transform
whatever circumstances
may be operative
in the world of
outer reality
by the quality of our presence
with it.

The work is always plentiful,
the laborers are always few,
the call goes out each day:
Wake up! Do what is yours to do!
While the light lasts!

02/04/2017 — It will end in a way,
perhaps predictable,
perhaps shocking,
perhaps surprising-unexpected-and amazing.
The question only we–as individuals–
can answer is:
How will we deal with it,
respond to it,
do about it–
now and after it ends?
Our response to a situation
is always the most important aspect
of the situation. And our response arises
out of the silence that we place around us,
and out of the silent depths of ourselves,
out of who we are,
out of the soul/face that was ours
before we were born,
out of “the still point of the turning world.”
a relationship with that side of ourselves,
to collaborate with it
and take up the practice
of placing ourselves
in accord with it,
so that our response
to every situation comes
from the depths
and not from the rational, thinking side of our brain.

02/04/2017 — The church of our experience
was/is always talking to us
about God’s Will,
as though there were a god
somewhere with a specific plan
of action for everything in the universe.

The only “plan” at work in all things
is simply that the thing be what it is.

Everything exists to fulfill itself,
to complete itself,
to realize itself,
to incarnate itself
in the time and place,
context and circumstances,
of its existence.

The “plan” for a long-leaf pine tree
is to be the long-leaf pine tree
it is capable of being
within the constraints of time and place.

The “plan” for your life and mine
encounters an additional layer
of complexity compared to that
of other life forms,
in that we can interfere
with the process of our own becoming

and insert our idea of who we are to be,
serving it at the exclusion and expense
of the form built into our genetic makeup.

This complexity is reflected
in the Biblical story of the Garden of Eden,
and it is played out as needs be
in the Biblical story of the Garden of Gethsemane.

To say, “Thy will, not mine, be done,”
is to realize that our desire for ourselves
is at a variance with our Self’s desire for us–
that the built in “best self we can be”
can be replaced by “the self we want to be.”
And, our place, as conscious beings
is to stand between two worlds of possibility,
and align ourselves with the Self within,
with “the face that was ours before we were born.”

This is the work of being human.
The work of being a True Human Being.
We are seeking to be who we are,
like the man sitting on his ox,
looking for his ox.
Like the woman with her keys in her hand,
looking for her keys.
It is never any more difficult
than knowing what we know
and trusting ourselves to it.

02/04/2017 — Our place, role, calling, purpose
is to help one another
toward the best future possible
for ourselves individually and collectively,
throughout our life,
to the point of sacrificing ourselves
for the good of the other
and the good of the whole–
never sacrificing the good of the other,
or the good of the whole,
for our own good.

This appears to me to be the ethic
recognized by Jesus and the prophets before him,
and by countless other mystics and seers
through the course of time.
It is not the ethic of conquest and domination,
but the ethic of cooperation and compassion,
and I choose to think of it
as the Feminine Principle,
in opposition to the Masculine Principle–
Yin and yang–
ways of being in eternal conflict,
ways of seeing at opposite ends of the spectrum.

Asking us to choose
whose side are we on.

02/04/2017 — My wife and I moved to South Carolina
a few years ago
to be closer to our three daughters
and their families,
and I took an oath of solitude about that time,
limiting my “exposure”
to conversations,
relationships,
engagements,
appearances, etc.
that would decrease my ability
to attend what silence and solitude
have to offer.
I spend time with family
as often as possible
and write my thoughts
to Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr
and my WordPress Blog,
and travel–
mainly day trips–
in the service of my photography,
but neither extend nor accept invitations
for other forms of association with people.
I see it as a shift toward hermitude–
embracing the attitude of a hermit
(Jung’s definition: “A primitive man or woman
who trust his/her unconscious”),
if not the actual life-style.
I think it becomes me so,
and compensates me for all those years
of pretending to be an extrovert!

02/04/2017 — “The enemy of my enemy is my friend,”
may well have been the motivation
behind a lot of Trump’s support.
If so, it is an assumption–a presumption–
that is not likely to be borne out
in actual reality.
A dimension that is often
foreign territory
to Trump and his constituency,
where the Federal Court
is thought to serve the
will and wiles of the President.

02/04/2017 — The so-called President
cannot grasp the concept
of checks and balances,
or understand the importance
of having three branches of government,
and a Constitution.
He thought being elected
was a free ticket
to pointing and having.

02/04/2017 — An Open Letter To The So-Called President,
His So-Called Cabinet,
And the So-Called Congress:

Dear Sirs and Madams:

After two weeks, it is apparent
that your priorities are miss-placed.
You are worried about the wrong things.
The Executive Orders
and proposed legislation
all are geared to befriending your friends.
Removing the regulations in place
to protect home-owners
benefits lenders,
as though bankers and Wall Street Execs
aren’t doing fine as they are.
The people that aren’t doing fine
do not make it to your list of priorities.
The people in Flint, Michigan are not doing fine.
Where is the Executive Order
granting them clean water?
Immigrants and refugees are not doing fine.
You burden them with weight too much to bear
and pride yourself for
protecting people from shadows
only you see.
And you Congressmen and Congresswomen
are more worried about your position
and your future elect-ability
than about your duty to do right by
all the people in this country.
“Insure domestic tranquility,”
and “Promote the general welfare,”
fall under your jurisdiction.
You care more for yourselves
than for the people under your care.
You all should be ashamed.
You all should wake up,
see who looks back at you
in the mirror,
and live to see how much good you can do
in the service of those who need your help–
not those who will be just fine without it–
for the entire time you are in office,
and not worry about
what might happen to you after that.

4208.  02/05/2017 — Pierson Lake 2017 08 — Fort Randolph and Fort Buhlow State Historic Site, Alexandria, Louisiana, January 25, 2017

Nothing is more convincing
than a liar who is convinced
he/she is not lying.
Trump believes Trump.
Worships Trump.
Adores Trump.
All demagogues believe themselves
to be beyond suspicion or doubt.
The only protection
from being consumed
by the liar
consumed by his/her lying
is to simply stop listening
to what the person says,
and attend only
what the person does.
And do not ask him/her
to square deeds with words–
you will only get more words.
Ignore words.
Focus on deeds.
Whom has Trump
ever treated with compassion?
Where is the evidence?
Stop talking about what Trump says.
Talk only about what Trump does.
He will immediately shift
the conversation
to what Hillary or Obama did or would do,
which, of course, neither did or would do.
Trump is at home with fantasy and fancy.
He has no tolerance for facts.
He wouldn’t recognize a fact
if it impeached him with cause.
He would deny the causes
and say he had been setup.
He set himself up.
He’s the setup man.
A so-called President
incapable of being President.

02/05/2017 — Has Trump released his tax returns?
Has he released documentation confirming
a reliable psychological assessment
of his emotional stability
and his mental capacity
to be President?

I thought maybe I missed it
amid the flurry of all the
recent evidence
to the contrary.

02/05/2017 — You know silence is complicent.
Silence in the presence of abuse and negligence
permits abuse and negligence to continue,
unchecked,
unidentified,
unnamed,
unwitnessed.
unknown.
Call the dog out!
Say what’s what!
Too many people look the other way.
We could talk about the Super Bowl,
or about the weather.
The only tool we have is the truth.
To not say what is so is to betray
ourselves and future generations,
and to teach our children to be quiet
and hope for better times ahead.
I will be saying what is so
about the so-called President for as long as
the idiot is in the White House.

02/05/2017 — One of the things hermitude has given me–
that’s adopting the attitude of a hermit
(Defined by Carl Jung as “a primitive man or woman
who trusts his/her unconscious”)
without bothering too much with the lifestyle–
is that when people suggest
that I ought to be doing it differently,
“it” being my life,
I can say, “When I’m ready
to stop doing it my way,
and start doing it your way,
I’ll let you know.”
Retirement gives me the freedom
to do it more like I think it ought to be done
and less like someone else thinks it ought to be done.
That’s worth working for.

02/05/2017 — The Doctrine of the Two Ways
(That being the Right Way
and the Wrong Way)
is a false doctrine.
There are as many ways as there are people.
The Right Way and the Wrong Way
are different ways for different people.
What is Right for the lion
is Wrong for the antelope.
You will never get them to compromise,
even with years of negotiation.

What do you need for your way to work for you
in ways that do not harm other people?
What do they need for their way to work for them
in ways that do not harm you?
How can we take the needs and interests
of the parts into account
without doing damage to the needs and interests
of the whole?
And vice versa?

How do we come to the point of trusting one another
to set reasonable limits on ourselves?
How do we live in good faith with each other?
How do we get there
from here?

02/05/2017 — Remember when…

Trump complained about Obama playing golf,
saying, “If I were President,
I would spend all of my time
at the White House,
working for the American people”?

Two weeks in office before hitting the links.
That’s a so-called President for you.

4209.  02/05/2017 — Oakland Plantation 2017 06 B&W — The Company Store, Cane River Creole Historical Park, Natchitoches Parish, Natchez, Louisiana, January 26, 2017

An explanation for the photograph:
It was not unusual for plantations
in the south (into the 1960’s) to have a store
which sold food and dry goods
to the people,
generally black people,
who worked the plantation,
and who could buy what they needed on credit,
which amounted to a back-door form of slavery,
in that the people could never pay their way out of debt,
and had to work there for life,
and so the phrase,
“I owe my soul to the Company Store.”

There is a reason
that we see the way we do.
Our perspective
is not formed in a vacuum.
It comes to us
as a response
to our environment.
We see in ways
that allow us to see
what is safe to see–
and to not-see
what is not safe
for us to see.
Experience forms perspective,
shapes perspective,
limits perspective,
permits perspective,
blocks perception.

Perspective forms perception,
shapes perception,
limits perception,
permits perception,
blocks perception.

Ten people look at a scene.
Some do not see the whiskey bottle.
Some do not see anything but the whiskey bottle.
Whiskey has shaped the perspective,
and the perspective has shaped the perception,
of those people.

Get them to tell you their story,
you will see why they see what they see,
and do not see what they do not see.

Our seeing,
our not-seeing,
get us to our story.
We do not go anywhere
that our story doesn’t get to first.
Our story goes before us,
enabling us to see what we see,
preventing us from seeing what we do not see,
shaping how we see
and how we live.

If you are not telling your story,
remembering your story,
reflecting on your story,
examining your story,
contemplating your story,
seeing your story,
you aren’t seeing all
that is to be seen
about your life.

You are blind.
Talking about what is true,
as though you see it.
What you think you see
keeps you from seeing
what you are not seeing.

It takes a lot of looking
to be able to see.

02/06/2017 — The things I dislike most about Republicans–
you have to bear with me in this–
are their complete lack of compassion
(And those of you who are Republican
are saying right now,
“What do you mean? I don’t lack compassion!),
and their complete inability/refusal/failure
(And were do those lines lie?)
to see themselves as they are–
to hold their contradictions firmly in mind
(And those of you who are Republican
are saying right now, “What contradictions?”)

The two things are one thing.
If Republicans were compassionate,
they would be able
to acknowledge their contradictions.

Kellyanne Conway has to talk about
“Alternative facts”
because she cannot accept the fact
that she is lying,
or that she is capable of lying,
or that Donald Trump–
or any Republican–is.

We will never be able to “come together”
(as Republicans are wont to plea)
until we all are able
to face the truth of who we are,
and also are.

The thing keeping us apart in this country
and in the world
is that we are apart within ourselves.

Now, we flash back to my opening line above
with this psychological truism:
“We hate in others what we cannot face in ourselves.”

Republicans bring out the truth in me.
Republicans show me who I am.
I hate them for that.
I love them for that.
What are we going to do about that?

We get together with one another
by getting together with ourselves.
Can we trust one another
to be doing that work?
Until we each are doing our own work
in this regard,
we are lying to ourselves and one another
about our willingness to “come together,”
and will continue to live in ways
that make coming together impossible.

We have to square up to our own contradictions,
dichotomies,
polarities,
opposition,
conflicts,
inconsistencies
antipathy,
obstructions…

And we can do that only by
extending to ourselves
the same degree of compassion
that we seek in others.
We cannot come together
without compassion for one another
and for ourselves.

Where does this leave us?
Face to face with the Four Things.
There are four things necessary
for our coming together,
and each of those who would come together
must undertake them all,
on a regular and recurring basis,
individually and collectively
throughout the rest of our life.

The Four Things are:
Silence
Mindfulness
Compassion
Integrity

We listen in the Silence
for all that is to be found there,
and face it with
Mindfulness,
Compassion,
Integrity.

Mindfulness is being aware
of all that is in the moment with us–
of all that is in the silence–
of all that is.
We can be so mindful
only with
Compassion,
Integrity.

Compassion is the suspension
of judgment,
condemnation,
assessment,
evaluation,
appraisal,
analysis,
criticism,
critique,
etc.,
and the extension
of the benefit of the doubt
to all things just as they are.
We can be so Compassionate
only with
Integrity,
Mindfulness.

Integrity is being who we are
and who we also are.
Integrity is walking two paths at the same time.
We can do that only by being
mindfully, compassionately, aware
of the other path
while we are walking this one.
Integrity holds our contradictions
in compassionate, mindful, awareness,
so that we seek
the face that was ours before we were born
even as we wear the face
that looks back at us from the mirror.
Integrity is bearing consciously
the pain of our inner opposition
and being One
in our ambivalence and equivocation.
We can be so integrated
only with
Mindfulness,
Compassion.

This is the way to oneness with ourselves
and with others
as clearly as I can make it out.
Whether we walk it or not
is up to us.
02/06/2017 — I would like for Republicans
to explain to me
why they don’t care about
people who are immigrants,
people who are Muslim,
people who are women,
people who are poor,
people who are LGBTQ,
people who are black,
people who have special needs,
people who are old,
people who are not like them.

And when they say,
“Oh, we care about them all,”
I would like for them to
show me how any of them
would be able to tell
they were cared about,
apart from having to take
the Republicans’ word for it.

02/06/2017 — We are the One reconciling the Two,
holding in our bodies
the tension/pain of division,
of denial,
by being conscious of it
and thus making it visible and undeniable.
The work of integration,
reconciliation,
and bearing consciously the pain
of the irreconcilable
is the work of mindfulness/awareness.
By being conscious,
we compel consciousness,
foster consciousness,
cultivate consciousness
through what we say
and how we live,
integrating,
reconciling,
and bearing the pain of the irreconcilable…

4210.  02/06/2017 — Trestle Composite 2017 01 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Norfolk Southern, Fort Mill, South Carolina

This is a composite photograph, blending together two photos in order to get the train on the trestle at that time of day, in that light. The train was on the trestle on a different day, at a different time, in a different light. Now they are together in a way that makes my little heart sing. Thanks Photoshop!

It comes down to each of us
doing our own work,
working our own path,
our own life,
working out the wrinkles,
the conflicts,
the obstructions
and oppositions,
and making it work
as it was “meant” to work,
as it needs to work,
for us to be whole,
complete,
integrated within and without,
at peace with the life we are living
and the life that is ours to live.
We have to do the work
of knowing which is the life that is ours to live
from among all the possibilities–
of knowing which is the face
that was ours before we were born–
and of living that life,
of wearing that face,
within the life we are living,
within the context and circumstances
of this here,
of this now.

No one can do this for us.
It is up to each of us to do it for ourselves.
Every day
for as long as we are alive.
If we don’t have a clue
about what to do,
or how to begin,
we better start asking around.

4211.  02/07/2017 — Black-eyed Junco 2017 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 6, 2016

I brought out the hammock yesterday and spent two hours among the birds in my corner of the 22-Acre Woods, and initiated the 2017 version of “Scenes From My Hammock.” I look forward to a wonderful year with you all!

The thing I dislike most about Republicans
is their abject, willful, mindlessness.
You have to flash back to yesterday’s early
installment to find my understanding
of the high place of hatred
in the great scheme of things:
bringing us to what I love most:
mindful awareness of all that is just as it is.

Only in mindful awareness–
which includes compassion and integrity–
do all things come together
in the great unity of being
that is life in its fullness, wholeness and completion.

When all things are held together in awareness,
all is One,
and all is well,
and that is as good as it gets.

The thing I dislike most about Republicans
is the same thing
that I dislike most about you and about me.

Mindlessness is the source of all of our problems,
and mindfulness is the solution to
all of our problems.

If you want to get rid of a problem,
become mindful of it.
Hold it in your awareness
in its all-ness
until every aspect of it
becomes crystal clear,
and it becomes transparent,
and disappears.

This is the trick of seeing things
out of their duality
and into oneness, unity and perfection.

The problem is that we cannot live
without problems.
If we never got hungry,
we would never eat,
and would starve to death.
Unity is not all it is said to be.
Life is duality.
The place of mindfulness
is to enable us to live knowingly–
knowing what we are doing
and knowing that we don’t know what we are doing.

This is to walk two paths at the same time,
to live consciously,
mindfully,
joyfully,
between polarities,
dichotomies,
contradictions,
dualities
on every side,
so that we are free to do what needs to be done–
to do what is necessary, proper, fitting and appropriate–
in each situation as it arises,
and to be alive–
consciously, mindfully, fully, completely–
in the time and place of our living.

02/07/2017 — Check in with yourself from time to time
throughout the day.
Note your mood,
your outlook,
your focus,
your orientation,
your state of being.

Are you more pleased or displeased?
More awake or asleep?
More mindful or mindless?
More at peace or disturbed?
More here or there?
More you or not-you?
More joyful or joyless?
More hopeful or hopeless?

No judgment.
No opinion.
No disgust or despair.
No stake in how you are
either way.

Just seeing.
Just knowing.
How it is with you.
Here and now.

Throughout the day.

02/07/2017 — What makes your little heart sing?
How long has it been
since you went there?
Did that?

02/07/2017 — Our first order of business
upon exiting the womb
is to develop immunities
protecting us
from the toxic environment
we are born into–
the most deadly aspect of which
is the opinions of other people,
particularly, of those who know best
and must be pleased.
Become proficient
in being off limits
to their intrusions,
and you have it made.
As much as you can have it made.
You will, at least, have your own life.
That’s having it made
in my book.

02/07/2017 — It’s going to take more than two
Republican Senators crossing over
to stop the onslaught–
and resistance cannot draw its strength
from the success of its efforts,
but from the value
and validity
of its positions.

Republicans have embraced a shameful
and reprehensible future–
one that deliberately puts
the health and well-being
of the planet and its populations
in harm’s way–

In a “What? Me Care?” flourish
of stupid decisions and choices.
And we call them out,
and name their evils,
without pause or hesitation.

We cannot let them think
that nobody cares.

02/07/2017 — Good and evil are judgment calls.
Republican ideology is good
in the eyes of Republicans,
whose eyes do not take into account
the widespread harm
caused by the good
they call good.

Doing away with abortion,
or with the funding for Planned Parenthood
(Which they take to be the same thing,
but it is not,
and no amount of evidence
showing it is not
is acceptable to Republicans
who “know what the truth is,
never mind what the facts are”)
will create a tidal wave
of human suffering world-wide,
which Republicans are oblivious to
and will deny responsibility for.

Allowing coal waste to be dumped into rivers
and industrial waste to be burned into the air
creates no problems for Republicans–
and it is not unimaginable that they
will allow leaded gasoline to be produced
if that provides a hefty profit
for their oil and gas industry supporters.

There are no limits to Republican greed,
and no end to their quest for more wealth
than is healthy for anybody on earth,
themselves included.

Good is evil where Republicans are concerned,
and we all pay the price of their failure to see it.

02/07/2017 — Tea Party Republicans
are the end of the
principle that government
is for the people.

“To insure domestic tranquility,”
“To promote the general welfare,”
“Of the people, by the people, for the people.”

Gone with the industrial waste borne in the wind.

With Tea Party Republicans,
government is for the ever-increasing profits
of business and industry–
at the expense of the people.

Good-bye EPA.
Hello air we can’t breathe,
water we can’t drink.

02/07/2017 — I don’t know how many other states
would fall into this category,
but, I know Kansas, North Carolina, and Louisiana
are suffering from the irresponsible and negligent
handling of their affairs
by Republican legislatures and governors–
and the same thing is set to occur
on a national level with this President
and this Congress.
The absolute stupidity and gullibility of voters
who will believe anything they are told
is amazing, shocking and appalling.

02/07/2017 — Granting them the full benefit of the doubt,
the best case I can make
for Republican voters
is to say they want to be taken care of
by some Big Daddy in the Governor’s Mansion,
or a Bigger Daddy in the White House,
and do not want any responsibility
for thinking for themselves,
examining the evidence,
making careful inquiries
and evaluating what they
are seeing in and hearing from
the candidates who run for office.

It is no wonder to me that both
Republican voters and office holders
hate science
and will do their best to bring an end to it
as we know it,
with all that critical thinking
and that never having truth nailed down
but always having to revise and rethink and reformulate
everything in light of new evidence
and better questions.
The only good questions
are those whose answers
have stood the test of time,
like “White people know best!”
Make that “White male people.”

4212.  02/08/2017 — Curtis-Coleman Memorial Bridge 2017 14 — Fort Randolph and Fort Buhlow State Historic Sites, Alexandria, Louisiana, January 25, 2017

We don’t have a problem
that growing up wouldn’t handle.
Carl Jung said,
“The greatest and most important problems of life
are all fundamentally insoluble.
They can never be solved but only outgrown.”
You know all those problems
that keep us awake nights,
ruin our life,
send us flying into the arms
of surrogate Mamas
like alcohol and cocaine?

Growing up will take care of them all.

If you have a problem you can’t solve,
instead of spending your time
and attention
focused on the problem,
take that time and that attention
and focus it on growing up.

You will be amazed at the
difference it will make

02/08/2017 — If it paid to be a progressive Republican,
Republicans would be progressive.

Republicans like to think of themselves as Christians.
You hardly hear of a Republican
who is proud to be a Muslim,
or a Hindu,
or a Buddhist.

The Christians have a long tradition
about 30 pieces of silver,
and the love of money
being the root of all evil.

Funny how Republicans aren’t so up
on that tradition,
being such Christians.
You might think they would
be more into
“In as much as you have done it,
or not done it,
to the least of my brothers and sisters,
you have done it,
or not done it,
to me.”

Republicans aren’t too hip
on helping anyone
who can’t help them back.

4213.  02/08/2017 — Crocus 2017 01 — First Crocus of Spring, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 8, 2017

Spring comes when it is ready every year.
I was taking the first crocus of spring
a month later last year.
Nature has its own mind.
The natural rhythms come and go
in sync with an order
mysterious and eternal–
which we also belong to,
and would be wise to attend
and honor,
eating when hungry,
you know,
and resting when tired.
And going where our heart
loves to be,
and doing the things
that bring joy to our soul.
Spring looks at us each year,
and wonders
what’s up with us.

4214.  02/09/2017 — Spanish Moss 2017 12 — Forts Randolph and Buhlow State Historic Park, Pineville, Louisiana, December 25, 2017

Some of you know my favorite quip about the church:
“Every church I served during
my 40.5 years in the ministry
paid me to talk to them about God,
but they didn’t want me to tell them
anything they hadn’t already heard.”
So, I gave them all good reason to fire me.
What becomes of “The Old has passed away,
Behold! The New has come!”
in that kind of atmosphere?
What sense does it make to talk about
“New wine needing new wineskins’?
About God doing “new things”?
Or about the spirit of God
being “like the wind that blow where it will”?

What good is a god we know so well
he can’t possibly be androgynous,
and be a she as easily as a he?
That kind of god is completely unnecessary
and might as well retreat
to some far-off corner
of the universe,
because we know all there is to know,
so what’s to be gained
from hanging around?

And what good are doctrines, dogmas,
creeds, ideologies, and theologies
in the service of a god
“who dwells in deep darkness,”
about whom
all those in the Bible who knew said,
“We cannot begin to know or say
or comprehend what we sense
lies beyond our knowledge”?

And were does that leave us if not
sitting quietly,
mindfully present to all that is present with us,
seeking to know what is unknown,
knowing we won’t be able to say
what that is?

02/09/2017 — The worst form of ignorance
is a quality of arrogance
that doesn’t know what it is doing,
and doesn’t know that it doesn’t know,
and doesn’t care.
Sound like anybody you know?
The most arrogantly ignorant person
to ever parade around the White House
with the air of a so-called President,
maybe?

02/09/2017 — Mindful, compassionate, awareness
is the non-judgmental reception
of the present moment
just as it is/such as it is,
and of all that is present
in it with us.

Every present is colored by the past.
We may be alone in the present,
but we carry with us
all that has ever happened to us,
or through us–
all that we have done
and has been done to us.

And it is likely that,
on the level of instinct and intuition,
we bring with us into every
present moment
remnants of dim memories
of distant ancestors.

Every moment is packed
with a raucous crowd of unsettled agonies
crying out to be seen, heard, known and tended.
That’s a lot to be aware of.
No wonder we stay busy,
and don’t allow ourselves to think
things that make us uncomfortable.

The longer we delay the work,
the more necessary it becomes
that we do it.

4215.  02/10/2017 — Alexandria National Cemetery 2017 04 Panorama– Pineville, Louisiana, January 25, 2017

In each moment,
we stand before an open doorway
looking out upon worlds upon words,
worlds beyond worlds,
worlds within worlds…There is no way we are looking
at the same world.
And no way for us to see
what the other is seeing–
even though we stand together,
We live in different worlds,
and see the world
we think we share
in different ways.
We have to start there
in talking about
what we see
and what we think.
We are aliens to each other,
from different worlds,
living in different worlds,
looking at different worlds.
Pretending to speak
the same language.

02/10/2017 — Trump will never get over
having lost the popular vote
to Hillary Clinton.
He will create fictions,
elaborate fictions,
fictions that take all the facts
into account
and explain them away,
to comfort himself
with the illusion
that he really, really won
by a landslide
larger than any President
ever has won,
or ever will win.
And lets don’t tell him
of all the candidates for the office
who lost with more votes
than he numbered in his so-called victory.

In Trump, we are dealing with
someone who cannot grow up.
Which is also evident
in his complete lack of an agenda
beyond getting everyone to like him.
Making America Great Again,
Building The Wall,
and Bringing Jobs Back
were all slogans
that struck a cord
and brought forth the cheers
and the votes,
but he has no idea
of what the implications
and requirements
of any of them are.
He only wants to be loved
more than anyone has ever been loved
and allowed to do what he feels like doing
every moment.
The same as any two-year-old ever.

02/10/2017 — Portents and oracles
have always received much attention,
to no avail.
We are still here,
and there are still those of us
obsessed with portents and oracles,
as though this time
it will be different.
As though this time
is the last of time–
finally.
It is what they all have thought
and said:
“This time is the last of time!”
Thinking about the End of Time
keeps us from thinking about
what we might have to think about
if we didn’t think about it,
and saves us the trouble
of having to do what we might have to do
if we thought about what we might think about,
if we didn’t think about the End of Time.
It is better to face the End of Time,
for sure this time,
than to have to face ourselves,
not knowing what to think,
or what to do
about who we are and might yet be.
That is much too much for us.
Let the End be Near!
Let it come Now!
Tonight!
And save us from another damn tomorrow!

4216.  02/10/2017 — Lenten Rose 2017 02 — A blended photograph, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 9, 2017

We have to learn to heed the voice
of the unconscious
(so called because we are not conscious
of all that resides within)
calling us to wake up
and live mindfully aware
of all that is with us
in the moment of our living.
For instance,
when we fall in love with someone,
anyone,
everyone,
we are falling in love
with some aspect,
or aspects,
of ourselves
being carried in the other person,
reflected by the other person,
showing us who we need
to become,
or to become more fully.
All of our loves
are calling us to be
who we think they are.
And we think we are
supposed to marry them.
That isn’t nearly close enough.

4217.  02/11/2017 — Carolina Wren 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 9, 2017

The political is not the spiritual
and we cannot impose spiritual stratagems
upon the willfully unconscious masses
in the misguided attempt
to create heaven/Nirvana/Paradise on earth.

The Dalai Lama’s bodyguards
carry automatic weapons.
Not even the Dalai Lama
has the formula for imposing
peace and happiness worldwide.
The more people, the more political.

Politics is the art
of doing it like we want it done.
A quick scan of the gurus through history
reveals the same jealousies, infighting, coups, rebellions,
and revolutions
that are found in the political world
of royal palaces and standing armies.

Spirituality is the art of walking two paths
consciously, mindfully,
at the same time.
Politics imposes the way somebody
says it is supposed to be done
on everybody at the same time.

Jesus did not have a political platform,
or a political bone in his body.
His, “Why don’t you decide for yourselves
what is right?”
Is the only way to the face that was ours
before we were born,
but it is no way to run
a household, a business, or a city.
Two paths
at the same time.

02/11/2017 — The path is individual and personal.
“God has no grandchildren.”
“They each entered the wood at a place
that seemed good to each one,
where no one else had trod.”
We find the way that is our way,
the work that is our work,
the face that is our face.
Or not.

02/11/2017 — It is a sobering thing
to consider how wrong we have been
through time–
how many wrong choices we have made
(individually and collectively,
over the course of our lifetime
and of the lifetime of the species),
how many wrong thoughts we have thought,
how many wrong turns we have made,
how many wrong roads we have taken–
and yet,
here we are,
still.
We have, somehow,
managed to make enough good
out of the mess we have made
to still be in business,
still in the business
of making good out of the mess we make.
I can’t help but see it as
evidence of grace at work in our life,
in our lives,
in the life of the species.

The catch phrase,
“This too shall pass,”
as a way of dismissing
the present morass of hopelessness
and despair,
doesn’t grasp or capture the wonder
of the birth process
that is going on in each
rendition of the mess
that comes our way.
It is not that it will pass away,
but that we are being born anew
again, and again,
by a power quite beyond our ability
to comprehend.

Grace is in the mess and beyond the mess.
and we are being borne up by it
even as we are being born again and again into it.
If we have learned anything through the years
to this point in our life,
surely it is that
we do not know what we are doing,
especially when we are sure that we do,
and that we can, and must,
trust ourselves to the grace at work
in every moment,
especially when it seems that there is nothing
even grace could do with THIS stinking moment.

4218.  02/12/2017 — A Pine Tree’s Triumph 2017 06 –Fort Randolph State Historic Site, Pineville, Louisiana, January 25, 2017
As soil erosion removed dirt from its root system, this pine tree covered the exposed roots with bark, and extended them farther into the earth. So far, so good. 

Eliot said, in Burnt Norton, “The end precedes the beginning,”

and, in East Coker, “In my beginning is my end.”

And, in Little Gidding, “The end is where we start from.”

And, “We shall not cease from exploration,
and the end of all our exploring
will be to arrive where we started
and know the place for the first time.

“Carl Jung said, “We are who we always have been,
and who we will be.”

Zen koans urge us to “Seek the face that was yours
before you were born.”

From all sides comes the call: “Be who you ARE!”

There is only participating knowingly
in the incarnation
of the divine, ineffable, Self
at the center of ourselves,
and living the life only that Self can live
through us
within the life we are living.

Everything else is dust in the wind.

Who are you living to be?

02/12/2017 — The present is where
past and future come together
to create now,
and is either wasted on us,
or redeemed by us,
to the degree and extent
that we seize the moment
and incarnate there
who we have always been
and will forever be–
if only given the chance
to come forth
into the light of day
or the dark of night.
02/12/2017 — Trump’s plan is to bring Shock and Awe to life again,
this time in his administration,
following one outlandish, appalling, distressing and despicable
thing with one even more so,
until we are all stunned into commas,
unable to mouth objection
much less initiate protest,
as he carries the last of the good into
the dark lair of the Master Liar,
laughing, dancing and toasting the greatness
of one Trump Card to rule them all.

Our response must be to be unmoved
at his unquenchable thirst for attention
and to be ready to name it
as yet another pitiful expression
of infinite deficiency
in all matters relating to self-worth
and validation–
while showing no sympathy
and never retiring from the Field of Action,
or allowing the One Who Never Knows
What He Will Say Or Do Next
to have the last word.

4219.  02/12/2017 — Mourning Dove 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 12, 2017

Most of you know of my self-imposed hermitude
(the attitude of a hermit without the rigidity
of the lifestyle)
beginning about two years ago.
This was due not only to my over-riding exhaustion
from my career as a parish minister for 40.5 years,
but also from the degree of focus and concentration
that it requires for me
to listen to the things that need to be heard.

Walking two paths at the same time
is facilitated by narrowing the distance
between the paths,
and by spending more time on the interior path
than on the exterior path,
as we are able to put that into play.

My life now affords me the opportunity
to spend a good bit of time
reading, writing, reflecting
and exploring questions that pique my interest.

As you probably have heard me say,
Carl Jung thought of a hermit
“As a primitive man or woman
who trusts him/herself to the unconscious.”

I’ve made that my goal these past couple of years,
and look forward to getting better at it
with time and practice–
and I appreciate being able
to share the results of my ruminations
with you along the way.

4220.  02/13/2017 — Mourning Dove 2017 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 12, 2017

The silence will tell you everything
you need to hear–
IF you can be quiet enough
long enough
often enough
deep enough
to hear what else is there–
what you haven’t heard–
beyond all the stuff
you always hear–
the how often you have blown it,
how badly you have missed it,
how terribly you have played
the hand that was dealt you,
how wrong you were
to do it the way you did it,
how shamefully you handled
every moment,
every relationship…
you know the routine:
bad, bad, bad, and terrible.That part of the silence
will take your breath away.
You’ve heard it enough.
You think that is all there is to hear.
You are sure that wraps it up
about you,
and you can’t stand to be quiet
because you cannot bear the truth
of you and your life–
your failures and mistakes and snafus…
You hate yourself for not knowing
what you didn’t know,
what you couldn’t have known,
what you had to discover
by tripping over it
and falling on your face
time after time,
because that’s what it took
to wake you up to how things are
and to show you
what you are ashamed of yourself
for not knowing
apart from the grief it took
to discover it.
And now,
you have to be what you needed then:
a compassionate presence,
understanding, knowing, loving, accepting you
exactly as you were and are.
That is why it keeps coming up
every time you are too quiet for too long–
not because you are what you think you are,
a useless, terrible, no good, very bad person
of little value and practically no worth,
but because you still seek
what you have always sought,
a compassionate,
kind,
understanding,
knowing,
loving,
accepting place to be.

You are what you seek.
Make yourself welcome.
And listen for what else is there
that needs you to hear it,
heed it,
do it
in the time left for living,
that only you can do,
the way only you can do it
even now,
even yet,
even you.

4221.  02/13/2017 — Crocus 2017 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, February 10, 2017

We have to find a life we can believe in
and live it.
Too many of us are living a life
we settled for,
a life we were handed,
or fell into,
a life that pays the bills
most of the time,
and gets us by
but doesn’t feed our soul,
or make our little heart sing,
or spring us into each day
eager to see what this one brings
and what we can do with it.

We do not believe in the life we are living.
It is a “one size fits all” kind of life
that has nothing of US about it.
It could be anybody’s life.
Anybody could step into our life
and live it as well as we can.
We could tag out at any point
and our life wouldn’t miss us.

Where is the life we wouldn’t think
of tagging out of?
Where is the life that needs US
to live it?
The life that we can believe in
because it fits us “to a tee”?
That’s the life we are looking for.
Let your heart lead the way.

02/13/2017 — Is it more helpful
to see something
for what it is,
or to see it
for what it is not?

Trump is a wasteland,
devoid of humor and vitality,
joy and compassion,
kindness and humility,
and is incapable
of keeping faith
with anyone.

We can see Trump for what he is:
a lump of Kryptonite,
drawing life from all
within his sphere of influence.

Or, we can see Trump for what he is not:
He is not “the still point of the turning world.”
He is not “the face that was ours before we were born.”
He is not the bedrock of our life,
the foundation stone of our identity.
He is not the ground of our value
or of our values.
He has nothing to do with us
on any of the deeper levels
of our character, spirit and being.
Our heart and soul are out of his reach,
beyond his grasp.
We are safe and secure
at one with our essence and core,
where all is well,
and will be well,
and is beyond being anything but well.

Living from that center
we can do anything
that needs us to do it,
be anything that needs us to be it.
And live in a parched and dry land
as springs of living water,
as trees giving shade and solace
to all who live there in.
It only takes believing it
to know that it is so.
02/13/2017 — There is one thing about the world of Harry Potter that needs to be said:
Magic can’t do anything about the things that matter.
It cannot open eyes that do not see.
It cannot conjure up a spell
to create compassion and kindness
where they need to be but aren’t.
It’s tricks are all meaningless,
limited to entertainment
and vindictiveness.
Harry was a Master Wizard
and spent his entire life
wearing glasses.
And Ron was as dense
as heavy fog
all his life long.
And Voldemort thought
living forever without a soul
(or a heart)
would be just fine.

That world has nothing on this one.
Just sayin’.

I don’t know where that came from
but it was begging to be said.
It may be that we are always
looking at this world,
this here and now,
as though it’s lacking in some fundamental way.
Depression, despair, dismay
work their way with us,
and we see no reason to go one.
Suffering and woe,
The old Buddhist thing you know.
Eternal rounds of misery and grief.
A vale of tears.

But.
Here we are.
And it is all up to us.
Trump is a wonderful example
of the kind of savior we can expect
to make the world great again.
It is always up to us.
We live our life just as it is
in the time and place of our living
as well as we possibly can
or we don’t.
Why sit looking at the wall?
There is LIFE to be lived.
Why pass up an opportunity
to do what we can
with the time that has been given to us?
So the Cyclops is staring us down?
Stare HIM down!
Every day for the rest of your life!

We think it would be easier
with the Elder Wand.
It would not be easier.

4222.  02/14/2017 — Red-breasted Nuthatch 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 6, 2017

We are known by what we love–
and by what we do not love.
These things show through.
The catch is
that we can love
and not love
the wrong things.
That’s the web
that webs the spider.

02/14/2017 — What does
“I do solemnly swear
to the best of my ability
to preserve, protect and defend
the Constitution of the United States”
mean to you?

The Constitution is not some relic from the past
to which we are asked to offer sham homage–
“a mere formality”–
in the service of personal gain
and advancement,
and the implementation of agendas
that are unconstitutional to the core.

The foundation and heart of Democracy
is the good faith of the people
who would
“preserve, protect and defend the Constitution.”
And, where that good faith is absent,
it must be called out and denounced
by those who understand and affirm
the central place of Constitutional Democracy
in the evolution of the species,
and know that apart from the atmosphere
created the Rule of Law
and the basic agreements
honoring the rights, privileges and responsibilities
of the people,
we are left with only the Law of the Jungle
to rule our affairs,
serve our good,
and protect our interests.
And we have been there,
and didn’t like it.
So, why would we return to it?

4223.  02/15/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 36 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016

The LGBTQ community includes us all
when we understand the “Q”
to be “Questioning”
or “Questing,”
and when we understand
the questions and the quest
to be in search
of our true identity,
and not just our sexual or gender identity.
We are all on the way
to becoming who we are.
And the people who are not,
who know who they are,
and have no doubts
about their identity
are the ones who
really don’t have a clue.
The Quest for Our True Identity–
for the Bedrock of Our Soul,
the Foundation Stone of Our Heart,
the Face that Was Ours Before We Were Born,
is the grounding path of the Hero’s Journey,
and the goal of Growing Up.

We all Grow Up to Be Who We Are.

Some of us get there sooner than others,
or, at least, are farther along the way,
but none of us can hurry the process,
though we can delay it indefinitely,
meaning forever.

02/15/2017 — Maybe we all should join
the Republican Party.
It is the only way moderately
sane and civil candidates
will have a chance to be elected.
It currently doesn’t matter
how many are arrested
or forced to resign,
they just pick another clone
from the bin
and business goes on
as usual.

02/15/2017 — Remember Howard Baker
and Lowell Weicker?
They were Watergate heroes,
and among the last
of the Real Republicans.
They had heart and soul
and loved the country
and the Constitution
more than their Party
(More than they loved their Party,
and more than their Party
loved the country
and the Constitution).
And there isn’t a Republican
in Congress
or in the country
who could look either of them
in the eye.
Class and integrity cannot be replaced
with self-serving robots
espousing ideology
and toeing the Party line.

02/15/2017 — What would it take
for Congressional Republicans
(or any Republicans)
to stare Trump down?
To call him out?
To say,
“Hell No, Sir!
Not On MY Watch!”?
I would bet you $20
if I still did that kind of thing,
that it doesn’t exist.
Trump will not be reined in.
He can act out all over town.
All over the country.
He has a base
that likes him to be outrageous.
And his base
gets to vote again in two years
for all of Trump’s friends in the House.

Which begs the question:
What’s wrong with the Republicans
in the Senate?
They have a six year gig!

Can you imagine not being able to breathe
a breath of freedom, dignity and integrity
your entire life as an elected Republican?
“Leave your soul at the door,
Ye who enter here!”

02/15/2015 — I’m wondering what we are
going to do
to restore integrity and good faith
to elections
in this Democracy.
Trump has demonstrated
for us all
that a large segment
of the population doesn’t care
what he does–
or what his income tax records disclose–
or how much money
he is going to make
with his Russian connections
(Which leads to an additional wonder:
What exactly are they getting–
or what do they hope to get–
from Donnie
that they couldn’t get
from someone who actually
cared about them,
the country,
and the Constitution?)
Wait.
I see what’s wrong.
I’m trying to make sense of this,
aren’t I?
I mustn’t do that, mustn’t I?

4224.  02/15/2017 — Chemung County Barn 05 B&W — Chemung County, New York, October, 2015

The outer world gets all the attention
but if things are properly aligned in the inner world,
the outer world will simply be
the place we live the life
that is ours to live,
and all will be well.
Inner work is the real work.
The inner world is the real world.
They should tell us that at the start.
But, it is not too late.
There is life yet to be lived,
and work to be done.

4225.  02/16/2017 — Old Sheldon Church Ruins 2015 06 Panorama — Yemassee, South Carolina, December 2015

We have to live truthful lives.
We have to see the truth,
hear the truth,
feel the truth,
smell the truth,
taste the truth
speak the truth,
know the truth,
do the truth,
be the truth.

Jacob Bronowski said,
“In order to know the truth,
we have to live in certain ways.”
We have to live truthfully.
He said Nazi Germany
didn’t know anything
at the end of the Hitler era
that it did not know at the beginning
because it lived a lie–
its own lie.

Nazis don’t know more to this day
than they knew when Hitler was in power
because they are still living a lie.

Jesus said, “You shall know the truth
and the truth will set you free.”
And the truth is evolving, becoming, maturing.
It is not fixed, frozen, locked in place
in some Book of Doctrine–
it is living, breathing, moving, changing, transforming
everything it touches.

The truth is not a thing, like an umbrella stand.
It is way of perceiving all things,
a way of dancing with existence,
a way of experiencing experience,
a way of being in the world
in relationship with the world.

What was true yesterday,
may not be true today,
and certainly not tomorrow.
Does this sound like science to you?
Science is the truthful experience of reality.
So is good religion.
The heart of science is religious.
The heart of good religion is scientific.

The truth will set you free to know the truth
as it unfolds constantly before you

02/16/2017 — Donald Trump has no conflicts,
inconsistencies or contradictions.
He operates like a fine-tuned machine.
He perfect in every way.
There has never been a better human being.
Everybody loves him.
He has more fans than Elvis, the Beatles, AND Jesus.
There is nothing wrong with him
that a truthful press wouldn’t fix,
telling everyone how great he is
so that he wouldn’t have to.
The guy is out there.
As far out of touch with reality
as it is possible to be
and still breathe the air in this world.
That and gravity are his only connections
with the place the rest of us call home.

4226.  02/16/2017 — Beach Erosion 2015 12 — Hunting Island State Park, Hunting Island, South Carolina, December, 2015

We are to say the truth,
do the truth,
be the truth–
to say the things that need to be said,
to ask the things that need to be asked,
to do the things that need to be done,
to be who we need to be–
in each situation as it arises
all our life long.
We are to bring the truth forth,
and let the truth take it from there.
This is hard on those
who want to see results NOW.
The seed that is planted
does not bear quick fruit.
Our place is to believe in the truth
and trust the truth to bear fruit
in its own time,
in its own way.
Our place is to live truthful lives
and let things take their course.

4227.  02/17/2017 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 12/13 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 2, 2015

We can do the work of being who we are
anywhere, anytime, any what, anyhow.
It can be more comfortable, convenient and enjoyable
if certain conditions are met,We can do it under any conditions
provided that we remember
to focus on our work
and not on the conditions.Our work is the same
no matter what our working conditions are.

But.
Heart is the easiest thing to lose,
and the next is losing sight
of the importance of the work that is ours to do
Once we no longer know
or care about what matters most,
chaos reigns
and we are at the mercy of the wasteland–
which has no mercy.

So.
It behooves us to remember,
and to remind ourselves of,
who we are and what is ours to do
in all times and places,
contexts and circumstances.

We do not live well
apart from the regular practice
of mindfulness meditation
as a way of maintaining our connection
with the life that is ours to live
and the work that is ours to do,
grounded on the bedrock
of the values that define us,
and the foundation stone
of the face that was ours before we were born–
expressing/incarnating who we are
in what we do
wherever, whenever, however
we find ourselves,
here and now
everyday
for the rest of our life.

02/17/2017 — Thich Nhat Hanh says (In “At Home in the World”),
“Mindfulness must be engaged.
Once we see that something needs to be done,
we must take action.
Seeing and action go together.
Otherwise, what is the point in seeing?”

It starts with seeing.
Seeing leads to doing.
Seeing and doing is being.
We are what we do.
When we see rightly,
mindfully,
compassionately
(Mindfulness always means “Compassionate Mindfulness”),
we act spontaneously
in ways that are fitting to the situation
we are mindful of.
Taking up the practice of being mindful
of the moment in which we are living
transforms the world,
one moment at a time.
4228.  02/18/2017 — Lenten Rose 2017 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, February 7, 2017

We shape, form, create our future
by the way we think, speak, believe, act and live
in the present.
It is well past the time
for us to begin doing that
with mindful, intentional, deliberate, compassionate
attention to detail.
We cannot slap a life together
any way it suits us
and have a future worth living.
A well-lived life is not accidental,
and it is not unconscious.
It starts with taking up the practice
of mindful meditation–
of mindful awareness–
of each moment of our life–
each here and now of each day–
beginning now.

Begin with your breathing–
the rhythm, the depth, the sound
and how your body breathes.
Do you breathe from your chest
or from your belly?

Here is a 4-7-8 breathing exercise:
1. Place the tip of your tongue against the ridge of tissue just behind your upper front teeth, and keep it there through the entire exercise.
2. Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound.
3. Close your mouth and inhale quietly through your nose into your belly for a mental count of four.
4. Hold your breath for a count of seven.
5. Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound to a count of eight.
6. This is one breath. Now inhale again and repeat three more times for a total of four cycles.

After four cycles, move your attention to your body.
scan your body from head to toe
noticing everything there is to notice,
every sensation or feeling,
and back from toe to head.

End the exercise with four more cycles
of the breathing exercise.

Watch your breathing throughout the day
letting your breath bring you
into the present moment,
and being aware of all that is with you in
that moment
without judgment or opinion,
only acceptance and awareness
of the way things are.

Keep this routine up for the
rest of your life.
02/18/2017 — Republicans have a convenient shift in their thinking
at about the place where poor
goes over into wealthy.
Where does that line lie?
It is quite invisible,
and exists only in the minds
of those who are not wealthy.
The wealthy don’t spend much time
trying to not be poor.
They spend their time
trying to be wealthier.
The poor are trying not to be poor
as much as they are trying to be wealthy.
They know they are poor, not wealthy.
The line between poor and wealthy
resides in the poor.

And the poor form the Republican base.
Because they identify with the Republican ideology
that says “The way out of poverty
is to work hard and do what we say.”
The poor believe Republican officials
are wealthy because God has blessed them
(And certainly NOT because
they are lying, cheating, thieving, crooks!),
and that if they, the poor, do what they (the officials)
tell them (the poor) to do,
they (the poor) will eventually be blessed
with prosperity themselves.
It is, perhaps, the cruelest lie,
but it is the only hope the poor possess,
and they are not capable of seeing it
for what it is,
because that would be to be
hopelessly destitute forever.

And there is that divide to consider,
between poor and wealthy–
it is the place of self-interest in their life.
The poor must set self-interest aside
and serve the Party,
voting against themselves in every election,
in the hope that, eventually,
God will bless them for their faithfulness
as God has blessed the Republican officials–
a hope that is rekindled each election
by those who tell them
God depends on their vote
to keep the Evil, Demonic, Satanic Democrats
from destroying all that is good and godly.

The wealthy, on the other hand, are all
encouraged by each other to live full throttle
in the service of rampant and reckless
self-interest on all levels, in all forms.
God has blessed them with wealth and privilege,
and they have a moral obligation to grab as much
for themselves as possible
to show God how faithfully they enjoy and relish
the bounties of God!

Republicans are a sickness and a blight upon the land.
They live beyond redemption,
which bothers them not at all,
laughing as they do
at what can be done about them,
and looking as they do
for ways of increasing their profits
and enlarging their advantage.
02/18/2017 — George Lakoff says,
“the private depends on the public,”
and then lists the obvious:
“An electric grid,
public universities,
an interstate highway system…
and a government–
a system of governing–
for managing
and guaranteeing
the functioning of all these public resources.”

Then he repeats the point for emphasis:
“The private depends on the public.
Public resources make private life possible.”

He says, “Progressives take it for granted, as part of their moral and practical assumptions…(But) for conservatives, the very idea that the private depends on the public is anathema–immoral. Conservatives have a different view of responsibility. Whereas progressives believe centrally in empathy (caring about their fellow citizens), both personal and social responsibility, and a commitment toward doing their best toward those ends, conservatives believe only in personal responsibility.

“This yields a completely different view of democracy, that democracy provides what they call ‘liberty’–the ability to seek one’s own interests without the responsibility to help their fellow citizens, and without interference from the government.”

I’ll close the section with this quote from Lakoff, “It is a fact that the private depends on the public–perhaps the most central fact of American democracy–and yet strict conservatives either cannot see it or see it as a form of immorality so fundamental that it must be defeated at all costs.”

Even, he says, to the point of shutting down the government, or incapacitating it by reducing taxes and the funds available to run the government.

Republicans don’t care if they run the country into the ground. Republicans don’t care anything about anyone other than themselves. That is the central, the core, tenet of Republican ideology–which they will not admit to in public.

(The Lakoff quotes are from his book, which you must promise me you will read by the end of this coming week, “Don’t Think Of An Elephant”)
02/19/2017 — Republicans don’t care!

We can’t say this often enough.
It is their Achilles’ heel.
You can’t name one example
of Republican compassion
for someone other than themselves.
Republicans are against every social good,
and have been forever.
Republicans are against raising the minimum wage–
are against minimum wages entirely,
if the truth be known.
The undeserving masses should have to work
for nothing.

Republicans can talk about their caring
and their compassion
only in terms of saving their poor voting base
from the horrors of the rule of Democrats–
protecting them from terrorist attacks
so they can vote for Republicans
in every election great and small.

That’s the Republican idea
of taking care of their constituents.

Republicans Don’t Care!

Pass the word.
02/19/2017 —   You know how dams are crumbling
and 56,000 bridges across the US
are in need of repair or replacement?

Republicans don’t care!

(Should be a bumper sticker)

Republicans have set things in place
so that the infrastructure collapses,
so they can blame the Democrats,
so they can take full command and control
of the country
from towns and cities,
to counties/parishes and states,
to all levels,
national and international.

It’s bigger than anything James Bond faced.

You know how all Republicans sound alike?
Sound like robots?
They are.
Republican Think Tanks
and consulting firms
have been teaching Republicans
how to talk
and what to do
for two generations.
And are close to pulling it off.

All they need is a terrorist attack,
or, perhaps, a demonstration turned violent,
to emphasize their repeated line
that only they can Keep America Safe,
so be sure to elect Republican candidates
to the House of Representatives in 2 years.

They need one (or two) so badly
they will stage them
if they have to.

Anything goes in the service of the good
Republicans call good.
No one has ever been
more morally right than Republicans–
who don’t care about anyone
other than themselves.
02/19/2017 — Here is the fundamental Republican principle
at work in their takeover
of the world:

You can give anything the meaning you want it to have
through the persistent practice
of simple repetition.

Facts become what we say they are.

The world becomes as we say it is.

Reality is bent and twisted to conform
to our view of reality.

Truth is subject to interpretation and understanding.

“Rational minds can look at the same fact
and draw different conclusions about it.”

And every statement or explanation
can be enlarged or expanded
to take contrary data into account
(For instance, the fossil record and
continental drift are part of the
creationists view of the world,
put there to “test the faith” of believers).

Republicans create a conservative worldview
in the minds of those subjected
to their continual conservative framing
of the truth of their daily experience.

You can talk about taxes as a burden
from which we need relief,
or as an investment in our future
and that of our children,
or as dues we pay for the privilege of
using the resources and services of the place
in which we live.

The same can be said for every fact
Republicans despise, reject and repudiate:
Planned Parenthood,
Affordable Healthcare,
Public Education,
Public Lands and National Parks,
Global Warming and the EPA,
Unions,
and on, and on…

Facts alone are meaningless.
For a fact to be meaningful,
it has to be framed–interpreted–according
to its moral significance.

“What does this fact mean to me,
to us, to anyone?” is the question
that is far from being self-evident.
All facts have to be
explained and understood
in light of their ability to sustain,
enable, deepen, expand, develop
our freedom and/or our life.

How we talk about a fact
reflects our perspective
(progressive or conservative)
regarding that fact,
and determines how that fact
will be perceived
by those who hear us speak.

Their history with the fact
biases them to perceive the fact
as they always have perceived it,
so we cannot use the words
they already associate with it
and hope to change their mind about it.

A new vocabulary enables them
to see the fact in a different light,
but.
Repetition is the key.
We have to reframe the fact
constantly and persistently over time,
using its new meaning again and again
every time we speak
in order to move them from where they are
to where we think they need to be.

(The concepts in this post originate
with George Lakoff in his book
“Don’t Think Of An Elephant!”)

4229.  02/19/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 37 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016

We have to be clear
about our identity–
who we are and who we are not–
and our values–
what we say is right,
and what we say is wrong,
and what constitutes
the good we call good
(For whom is it good?
For whom is it bad?)We have to know these things
about ourselves,
and how they are incarnated,
reflected,
expressed,
exhibited,
served
and made real
in our life.Everything falls into place
around these things.

4230.  02/20/2017 — Tufted Titmouse 2017 04 Detail — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 16, 2017

Jacob Bronowski said,
“In order to know the truth,
you have to live in certain ways.”
He meant we have to live truthfully.
We have to live truthful lives.
We have to live mindfully aware
of our interests and agendas,
and the over-riding motives
that direct our lives.
He meant we cannot kid ourselves.
We cannot lie to ourselves
about what is important,
about what we are doing,
how we are living,
about the dichotomies
and inconsistencies,
the contradictions
and incompatibilities
that crop up now and then
between what we say
and what we do.Carl Jung said,
“It isn’t who you say you are,
but what you do,
that tells me who you are.”Jacob Bronowski and Carl Jung
were saying the same thing.

02/20/2017 — Republican inconsistencies,
incongruities,
contradictions,
incompatibilities,
and incredibilities,
can all be understood and explained
in light of their over-riding commitment
to saying and doing whatever it takes
to achieve their goal
of political, social and cultural
dominion and domination.
Republicans are ISIS in suits and ties,
waving Bibles instead of the Koran.
02/20/2017 — Some Christians think
the idea is to avoid going to Hell.
They make their spiel
to non-Christians
based on the idea
that is they (the Christians)
can convince them (the non-Christians)
that they (the non-Christians)
are going to Hell,
they (the non-Christians)
will leap for the Good News
that they (the Christians)
are bursting to tell them (the non-Christians)
about Jesus dying for everyone
who believes in him (Jesus),
repents of their (everyone) sins,
and embraces wholeheartedly
the steps and hoops
they (the Christians) lay out before them (the non-Christians)
for the rest of their (the non-Christians) natural life.

They (these Christians) miss Jesus’ entire point.
It is not what will you do to keep from going to Hell,
but what is so important to you–
what, who, do you love so much–
that you would gladly go to Hell in its service?

What, who, would you go to Hell for?

Immigrants?

Muslims?

Your enemy (be they Democrats or Republicans)?

Your neighbor?

The least of those at the bottom
of the social/cultural ladder?

LGBTQ’s?

People of Color?

Women?

Who do you care about so much
you would go to Hell to care about them?
What is so important for you to do
that you would go to Hell in its service?
If we don’t have that who or what in our life,
our life is sadly lacking
the essential element required
to be fully, joyously, wholly alive.
02/20/2017 — Joseph Campbell said,
“We know when we are on the beam,
and when we are off it.”

This is essential knowing.

We have to know what we know.

We have to work mindfulness meditation
into each day, throughout the day.

The Biblical injunction to “Pray always,”
is about being constantly mindful
of what is happening within and without–
about holding everything in awareness–
prayerful, mindful, awareness–
without judgment or opinion,
and allowing right action to arise spontaneously
in response to the time and place
(the here and now)
of our living.

Being aware of when we are on the beam
and when we are off it
is crucial to staying on the beam.
It is the only place to be.

I would easily go to Hell,
if that is what it took,
to remain on the beam–
but it is a false dichotomy
to ask “Hell? Or the beam?”
Being on the beam
can be hell,
but it is also as far from Hell
as we can be.
If you understand how that is so,
you know all you have to worry about
is knowing when you are off the beam,
and get back on it!
02/20/2017 — When Jesus said,
“Love God with all your heart, and mind, and soul, and strength–
that is the first and greatest Commandment.
And the second is like unto it:
Love your neighbor as you love yourself.”
A lawyer in the crowd,
you could say “a legalist,”
the kind of person who
wants to know exactly where the lines are,
asked, “And just who is my neighbor?’
Whereupon, Jesus told the story
of the Good Samaritan,
and when he finished,
he asked the lawyer,
“Who would you say was
the neighbor of the man who had been beaten?”
And the lawyer replied,
“Why the one who showed mercy to him.”
Jesus said, “Go and do likewise.”

Jesus was saying,
“YOU are the neighbor! Go BE one!
To ALL who are in the need of mercy!”

And, in that one scene,
Jesus cut the heart (as if)
out of every Republican official
and office holder–
and out of the Republican Party Platform–
and out of Republican ideology.
And out of every so-called Christian doctrinal position
that draws a line beteen
the Haves and the Havenots,
and says,
“We don’t have to care about those
who don’t deserve it.”

All the men who walked by
the man beaten and left to die,
would have said,
“He obviously doesn’t deserve our help.”

There is nothing neighborly
about an attitude that does not show mercy
to those who need mercy shown to them,
whether they deserve it or not.
02/20/2017 — An idea is just an idea
until it connects with something
we think is important, right, good, helpful and necessary.
Voting, for instance,
is an idea a lot, if not all, people
are familiar with,
but aren’t moved by.
If the country knew before the election
what the country knows now
about who Donald Trump is,
a significant number of non-voters
would be voters.
Voting as an idea
would connect at the level of the heart
with people who would act
in the service of the idea.

The work of making connections
between ideas–
global warming, for instance,
or public education,
or the importance of public environmental protections–
and the public’s sense
of what is right, good, helpful and necessary
is the work of “framing” the idea
so that the public understands
what it has to do with them.

In order to do that work,
we have to do the work
of reading, studying and developing
our understanding of the ideas
that are important to the future
of life in this country and in the world,
and how best to present those ideas
to the voting public.

We have two years to change minds
and change votes
from conservative thinking and voting
to progressive thinking and voting.

In the mid-term elections in 2018,
23 Democrat Senate seats
2 Independent Senate seats
9 Republican Senate seats
and all 435 seats in the House
will be up for election.

We have to get busy.
Start with George Lakoff’s blog
and Facebook page.
Google George Lakoff
and go from there.

4231.  02/21/2017 — Wood Thrush 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 6, 2017

If we want to get our country back,
we have to start talking about what is important to us,
in ways that clearly express the values
at the heart of the Declaration of Independence
and the US Constitution–
without hesitation or letup,
at every opportunity,
until the Republican dream
is exposed for the nightmare it is.All Republican “talking points”
conceal the motive of their agenda:
Private Wealth At The Expense Of Public Good.Every move Republicans make
is designed to reduce the interference
and restrictions
the government places on corporations
and increase the ease with which
profits are made
by those who have more money
than they can spend already.

Spending money isn’t the point.
Having and making money is the point.
It is a game with Republicans
to see how much money they can make
before they die.

And the Constitution is in their way.
With the Constitution out of their way,
there is no end to the amount of profit
corporations can make
before global warming
destroys the world.

Republicans think Armageddon is real
and rising sea levels is fake.

The 2018 Mid-Term Elections
will be our next chance to turn things around.
It may be our last chance.
Join the verbal resistance movement
by soaking up everything at com
and start talking.

02/21/2017 — Republicans need to understand
it isn’t whether they believe in Jesus
(“Even the demons believe,” says the Bible),
but how seriously they take him–
how diligently they work/live
to become like him,
so that looking at Republicans,
we wouldn’t be able to tell them
from Jesus.
Republicans need to understand that.
02/21/2017 — Truth isn’t true because somebody says so!
Truth isn’t true because a simple, or even 2/3’s, majority says so!
We don’t say,
“Show of hands, hold them high,
we want to be sure to count them all,
so we will know if this is true or not!”
Truth doesn’t wait for someone’s stamp of approval!
It doesn’t matter what your opinion of, say, global warming is–
when Miami is under 12 feet of water, that’s TRUTH!
Truth is like that.
You can not like it.
You can deny it.
And you are still swimming in truth,
unseen, unnamed, unknown,
but THERE, nonetheless.

4232.  02/22/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 39 — Union County, Waxhaw, South Carolina, November 20, 2016

Our worldview is how we see the world.George Lakoff thinks our worldview
is depicted in how we answer the question:
“If your baby is crying during the night,
do you pick her, or him, up?”How do you deal with your crying baby?
That tells you everything you need to know
about yourself,
and how you see the world.

And, how we shake out along the continuum of options
tells you everything you need to know
about the rest of us,
and what to expect of us.

No matter how we “spin” ourselves
in our own eyes
and in the eyes of others,
it all comes down to
the way we treat our crying baby.

02/22/2017 — Republicans cannot be upfront
about their agenda
because their agenda
discounts the welfare
of most of the people in the world.
It is an elitist agenda,
serving the interests
of those interested in
profit at any price.

Republicans will easily,
carelessly,
without a thought,
sacrifice the air we breathe,
the water we drink,
the infrastructure,
the social programs
and services
that provide us with the wherewithal
to realize and enjoy
the “unalienable rights”
of “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”—
including national parks
and public lands—
in order to increase the wealth
of the wealthiest people in the country.

If it inhibits the growth of measurable wealth,
it is bad, bad, bad
and has to go.
The Republican strategy for
disappearing all that stands in the way
of fortune and glory
is to reduce taxes to the point
of drying up funding,
so that “government” shrivels
from within,
and there is nothing left
but the military and police
to keep things in line.

Republicans need only the working poor
who form their base
to keep voting them into office
for as long as there are things
their money can buy—
which won’t be nearly as long
as they think.

02/22/2017 — What does it mean
that we say what we say
and do what we do?
How does that incarnate,
express, exhibit, bring forth, make real,
who we are?
How does it conceal,
deny, reject, desert, shun, spurn, ignore,
who we are?
Where are we to be found
in the things we say,
and do?

02/22/2017 — Asking what something means
begs the question,
“In terms of who and/or what?”

I walk into a scene with a camera.
What does it mean?
I cannot exhaust the possibilities.
For one thing,
there is the matter
of how many tripod positions are there?
How many ways of framing the scene?
Try counting them up some time
in one of your favorite scenes.
You will have to quit before you finish.
Then, there is the matter
of “Black and white, or color?”
And all of this applies only
to the light that is present here and now,
and the light is changing
while I flip through the options,
meaning additional options,
more flipping.
I’ll never get it done.

Meaning is never pinned down,
nailed in place,
locked up,
frozen still and solid…

Meaning is a dynamic life force,
always changing,
becoming,
coming into,
and out of,
focus
with shifts in perspective and perception.

Stop thinking about explanations
and definitions,
and think about holding
all of the possibilities
in mindful awareness,
as you watch the play
of light and shadow,
and thrill
at the wonder of being.

02/22/2017 — Our on-going task—
the task that remains our task
throughout our life—
is to get up each morning
and live our life just as it is,
such as it is,
all day long.

“Just as it is” means
without waiting for it to be better,
or even different.
“Such as it is” means
it could be better
in 10,000 ways—
means it isn’t perfect
by a long shot—
means we could wish for more
on every level.

Here it is,
just as it is,
such as it is,
and it is our task to live it
like our heart is in what we are doing,
so that no one could tell
that we weren’t fully invested in,
and engaged with,
our life,
just as it is,
such as it is.

And, more than that,
we are to live it in ways
that are true to ourselves—
true to our nature,
character,
and values—
true to our core identity,
true to our bedrock,
unmovable,
Self,
in ways that bring forth
the gifts that are uniquely
ours to give,
and treating everyone—
ourselves included—
with grace,
kindness,
caring,
and compassion,
so that “Well done!”
would be a fitting epitaph
for each day’s work.

02/22/2017 — HOW TO SPEAK REPUBLICAN 01

(These posts are inspired by, and grounded in, George Lakoff’s book, “Don’t Think Of An Elephant.”)

We have translate everything
Republicans say
from their frame of reference
(that would be their idea
of how things ought to be),
and away from what
they want us to think
they are saying
into what they are actually saying.

It is exhausting work,
and cannot be done
by those of us who are
novices at the task
in the heat of the moment
of a face-to-face confrontation.

We will be able to hold our own
in time,
but for now,
we have work to do.
We have to identify their frame of reference,
understand their idea of how things ought to be,
and we have to know
what they want us to think they are saying,
and what they are actually saying.

The Republicans make it easy for us
by saying the same things all the time.
They have a lexicon of probably
no more than ten words and phrases
which are what they want us to think they are saying.

“Right to Work Laws,”
is one such phrase.
It sounds great.
Who could be opposed to that?
There is a catch, though.
It means laws that do away
with unions.
So Right To Work Laws
really mean
Enslavement To Corporations Laws.
Those Republicans are slick dudes.

We have to do this with their entire vocabulary.
Which is very limited, but.
We have to learn their language
if we want to speak the truth
to the people they are speaking to

4230.  02/23/2017 — Red on Blue 2016 02 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 22, 2016

HOW TO SPEAK REPUBLICAN 02
(These posts are inspired by, and grounded in, George Lakoff’s book, “Don’t Think Of An Elephant.”)

Learning to speak Republican
means learning more about Republicans
than you ever wanted to know.
To speak Republican,
we have to understand Republicans–
how they see the world,
what motivates them
(They have been laying the groundwork
for their takeover of the U.S.
since Barry Goldwater ran for President.
That’s a serious commitment.
They are seriously committed.
We have to be as serious
and as committed.)

What is the Republican Quest?
After they takeover the country, what?
WHAT DO THEY WANT???

Yesterday, the Huffington Post reported
that Virginia Representative Dave Brat
said, “in a contentious town hall
in Backstone, Virginia, ‘Do want to be poor
or do you want to be rich?’”

In talking about his support for clean air and water,
he said “Guess what the No. 1 thing you can do
to have clean air and clean water iis–
Increase your economic growth.”

And there you have it.
Republicans are in it for the money
They want to be rich
They want infinite economic growth
and they will destroy everything worth having
in their quest to have it all.

It is sick,
and crazy,
and real.
And that’s who we are dealing with.

George Lakoff’s book “Don’t Think Of An Elephant”
is a manual for getting the country back
from Republicans
who are “crazy like a fox.”
If you don’t want to spring for the price of the book,
I think there is a PDF of it on line.
Read it
and let’s get to work.

02/22/2017 — We have to settle in,
be where we are,
do what we can.

Our task is to
make our peace
with each situation as it arises,
in each here-and-now moment
of every day–
in a “This is the way it is,
and this is what can be done about it,
and that’s that,”
kind of way.

No hopelessness.
No despair.
No depression.
No angst–
Just realization,
awareness,
dedication,
determination
and
persistence,
persistence,
persistence,
for as long as it takes.

02/22/2017 — The term Steve Bannon used in
speaking to CPAC today was,
Trump’s “economic nationalist agenda.”
Read “economic” as “infinite economic growth,”
that is, “Profits, Profits, and More Profits”
for corporate America.
Read “nationalist” as “White Nationalist,”
as “People Like Us,”
as “Our Kind Of People”–
as “White, Wealthy, Male, Straight, American.”
There is no room in the Republican value system
for anybody not like them.
That leaves a lot of people
on the outside looking in.
All those people in this country vote.
Mid-Term elections come up in 2018.
Those of us who are on the outside looking in,
will live and work toward the election every 2 years,
as long as the Constitution the Rule of Law
remain intact.
It is all that is left to us,
and we have to rise to the occasion
and vote them out of office–
or enough of them to give control
back to the Democrats.

02/23/2017 — Of course, in a sane world,
the Supreme Court
would be a counter balance
to the extreme fanaticism
of federal and stage legislatures,
and we could shake our heads
without losing sleep
or wondering what is going
to happen next,
and when,
and to whom.

The Republican idea
of making America great
is raw sewage
thinking it is the finest wine.
Delusional is not
a strong enough word.

02/23/2017 — Congressional Republicans are beyond the law.
The Rule of Law
and the central place of the Constitution
in governing our affairs is no more.
Yet, Trump still has his base,
and can count on about 30%
of the vote in any election
from now until he plays the nuclear card,
or is un-elected,
whichever comes first.

It is our place to see that his side
is out-voted every time an election of any sort,
local, state and national levels,
is held.

It is our solemn duty.

4234.  02/23/2017 — Limbs and Branches 2017 01 B&W — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 22, 2017

Human beings, and perhaps other species as well,
settle out along a continuum
between the Hard-hearted
and the Tender-hearted.Life is lived along that line.
We take our direction,
our motivation,
our purpose,
our intention
our way
and our means of achieving our way,
from our inner orientation
toward Hard-heartedness
or Tender-heartedness.It is a genetic disposition
like the color of our eyes,
or the shape of our nose.
And it impacts everything we do,
and much of what is done to us.
Our place is to make conscious
what is unconscious,
and govern its expression
toward the good of the situation–
with as much awareness
as we are capable of mustering,
striving always to live with benevolence
and not malevolence.

May it be so with us all,
and all we encounter,
directly or indirectly,
throughout our life.

4235.  02/23/2017 — Black-eyed Junco 2017 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 7, 2017

HOW TO SPEAK REPUBLICAN 03
(These posts are inspired by, and grounded in, George Lakoff’s book, “Don’t Think Of An Elephant.” A PDF version is available to be read for free online. Googleit.)

When a Republican asks you,
“Do you want to be poor,
or do you want to be rich,”
they are fully expecting you to say “Rich,”
of course,
because More Money
is all Republicans live for,
hope for,
believe in,
and understand.
Their base assumption
is that everybody wants to be rich
just like they do.
So when they ask you the question
that is at the heart
of all they think and do,
smile at them and say,
“What I want is to be free of greed,
and free from its impact,
for myself and all of my people.”
Then wink at him, or her.
And if they ask you
who your people are,
tell them,
“Everyone who is not like you.”
If they want to push you
on the subject of being rich
beyond imagining
(Which is THE Republican dream)
quote Jesus to them:
“The love of money is the root
of evil.”
If they come back with anything
on the order of “Yeah, but…”
Tell them,
“You can spit on Jesus if you want to, but.
I wouldn’t do that if I were you.”
And thank them for their time
and walk away.

George Lakoff presents a number
of Republican positions and statements,
and offers alternative responses
that reflect the frame of the values
of freedom and life
in his book “Don’t Think of An Elephant.”
The quicker we start reading the book,
the better for us all.

02/24/2017 — What Republicans don’t understand
would dwarf the information
stored in the Library of Congress.

One of those things is that you cannot
make money in a toxic atmosphere.
Even the money Putin is making
depends upon markets
that are freer than his own are.

Another is that when you
take away peoples’ freedom
and their rights to their own life,
you destroy their spirit
and rob them of the ability
to follow and express
their soul’s own joy
in the world.

Another is that when soulless people
have power over all people,
all people become soulless,
and the world becomes a wasteland.

Another is that money
is no substitute for soul–
that you cannot have enough money
to compensate yourself
for all you do not have.

Republicans do not comprehend soul.
Republicans have no grasp of integrity.
Republicans know nothing of the way
of true human beings–
and think they can offset
their inner destitution
with outer wealth.

Republicans are the newest manifestation
of Lost, Adrift And Alone.
They are the Walking Dead
destroying the world.
02/24/2017 — If you want to know the truth,
sit quietly and know what you know.
Know what you know to be right,
and what you know to be wrong.
What you know to be good,
and what you know to be bad.
If we all did that,
we would not know the same things.
We would have different lists.
Different perceptions of good and bad,
right and wrong.
We would have different moral values.
Our moral values form our worldview:
This is how things are,
and this is how things ought to be,
and this is how things ought not be.

George Lakoff thinks we would all shake out
on a continuum between what he calls
Strict Father Morality and Nurturing Parent Morality.
Some of us would find ourselves
in the far extremes,
and the rest of us would scatter out,
or clump up,
along the bell shaped curve between the two.

It turns out that our worldview is our worldview.
We don’t choose it,
and we can’t change it.
How we see things is how we see things.
What we know is right and wrong
is what we know is right and wrong.
The idea of free will is not in play here
(Or very many places–
we may be able to freely choose from the buffet line,
but we can’t choose to eat or not eat without dying).

So progressives are progressives
and conservatives are conservatives,
and those in between
are what Lakoff calls “biconceptuals,”
who use both moral worldviews,
each in different situations,
and they are who they are.

And we all have to get along.
It helps to know that none of us
can help being who we are.
We can all be stupid from the others’
point of view.
And we have to work together
to keep things from going to hell.

One thing that this means
is that that the people in power,
in whatever setting,
have to be of good faith,
and not abuse their power–
and there have to be checks and balances
in place to prevent the abuse of power
during the times when good faith fails.

Honoring the importance of the Rule of Law
that everyone must obey,
and of the crucial place of checks and balances
in moderating the damage that can be done
by the group in power,
are the two sacred principles of governance
upon which the good of the whole rests.
When those principles are desecrated
it is the Abomination of Desolation,
and chaos reins.

4236.  02/24/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 33 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016

Our best interest is tied to the best interest of the whole.
We serve our base good when we serve the good of the whole.
We are one at the base—
at the level of the heart—
at the level of compassion and grace.
George Lakoff suggests that liberals and conservatives
may settle out over the question:
“If your baby cries at night, do you pick him or her up?”If my baby cries at night, I find her pacifier.
If that doesn’t work I check her diaper.
Then I pick her up—
and walk her, rock her, sing to her,
try to comfort her
and figure out what is wrong.

Something isn’t working like it should.
What needs to be done about it?
My wife and I confer.
It this has happened before,
if it happens often,
we’ll try what we have done in the past.
If not, we’ll go through our choices.
We may have to call in the experts,
grandparents,
physicians,
Web MD…
but we will find what works to calm the baby.
We do not approach the baby with a,
“I see what’s wrong with you—
all you need is a good _____.”
I don’t know if that makes us liberals or conservatives, but.
That’s how we would do it.
We would get to the bottom of what’s wrong.

The baby is telling us something is wrong,
and we are there to figure out what
and what to do about it.

This is a model for life in general.
If something isn’t working as it should,
there is a problem.
What is it?
What’s to be done about it?

Time spent mindfully with a baby
will tell you a good bit about
what the baby is saying when she/he cries.
Babies cry differently with different situations.
We learn to read the baby’s crying tone,
volume,
space between breaths, etc.
We see, hear, understand the baby
and know what’s what, maybe.

We learn to read life situations—
to be mindfully aware of the moment of our living—
to see what’s happening
and what needs to happen in response.
We bring empathy and compassion to bear on the situation,
sit with it,
listen to it,
see what occurs to us
and act in response to that.
It is the approach we take to all of life.

4237.  02/24/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 40 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016

HOW TO SPEAK REPUBLICAN 04
(These posts are inspired by, and grounded in, George Lakoff’s book, “Don’t Think Of An Elephant.”  A PDF version is available to be read for free online. Googleit.)

We have to learn to speak Republican,
not to speak to Republicans–
who are insulated in their own
view of reality,
and beyond the reach
of rational discourse–
but to explain what Republicans are saying
to Democrats–
so they might respond better
to conservatives–

and to those who transcend both groups,
and comprise the pivot point,
swinging every election
by the strength of their vote,
or by their failure/refusal to vote at all.

This is the group we have to talk to.
They are the “biconceptuals”–
George Lakoff’s term
for those who use both models,
conservative and progressive
(his “strict father” and “nurturing parent” models),
in different areas of their life.

As we talk with them,
we find where they are nurturing
aspects of their life,
and help them link those interests
with political issues–
and show them how Republican policies and positions
erode their ability to nurture those areas.

In doing so, we provide them with a foundation
for voting with awareness and understanding,
and living the kind of life
it is important to them to live.

And we all win–
even Republicans,
though it will take a while
for them to recognize it.

4238.  02/25/2017 — Red-breasted Nuthatch 2017 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 24, 2017
Republicans think money is the solution
to all of their problems ever.
Never mind the problems it creates
for everyone else.Republicans think money is IT.
And that if they disappear
the restrictions the government
has placed on profit-making
and profiteering
and unethical business practices
and the requirements placed on industry
regarding industrial waste,
clean air and water,
endangered species,
and so on and so forth and etc. etc. etc…
the way would be clear
for boundless economic growth
and Profit At Any Price forever.
It’s the Republican dream.
“Fortune and Glory, kid. Fortune and Glory.”The entire Republican House of Cards
is based upon the assumption
of unlimited natural resources forever.
Of course, there will always be air to breathe
and water to drink.
If we run out, we will just buy more.

Republicans are like coal mine owners,
who hear that the canaries are dying,
and respond with,
“With all the money we’re making,
we can afford to buy all the canaries we want!
Keep up the good work, fellows!”

Who cares if this world becomes
a toxic wasteland?
We will soon have enough money
to buy all the worlds we want!

02/25/2017 — Republicans think if they run out of clean air to breathe,
they will make more air.
If they run out of clean water to drink
they will make more water.

They don’t know we cannot make air or water.
We have to take care of it.
Taking care of anything is beyond
Republicans’ conception.
Caring is something Republicans
cannot do.

02/25/2017 — Of course, Republicans care about
the things that matter to them:
home, family, security, success, wealth…
It is a long list.
Take them out of the picture,
and the list of things they care about
shrinks to the microscopic level.
Congressional Republicans do not
sponsor or support bills
serving, or protecting, the poor.
Or protecting and establishing
public lands.
Or reducing the interest on college loans.
Or…the list is long.
Helping someone else
is not the Republican way.
Compassion is not a Republican value.
And their emphasis on “family values”
doesn’t mean what you think it means.
“Family values” means
“We value the way families are supposed to be:
The man provides,
the woman appreciates,
the children obey.”
Gay families are not valued,
and do not count.
Start asking Republicans
how they exhibit their caring, compassion and concern
for people not like them–
how would people not like
the Republican idea of how people ought to be
know that Republicans cared for them.
See how long the list is.

02/25/2017 — How’s it coming with the
Mindfulness Meditation?
With the practice
of mindful awareness?

It is the most important thing.

Mindful, compassionate awareness
of all that is in the moment with you–
without judgment or opinion–
simply being aware of it
and holding everything
in your awareness,
is the foundation for right action.

We cannot think our way
to making the right response
to our situation.
The right response arises
spontaneously out of our mindful awareness
of the situation
in its just as it is-ness,
in its such as it is-ness.

Mindful awareness grounds us
in our identity,
in our values,
and in the moment of our living,
enabling us to be who we are
here and now,
and to do what needs to be done
out of the gifts that are ours
to bring forth
as a blessing and a grace
upon all of life.

How’s it coming with the practice
of mindful awareness?

4239.  02/25/2017 — Yellow-rumped Warbler 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 25, 2017 — These birds live in the Pacific Northwest and northwestern Canada during our spring and summer, and spend winter over most of the U.S. They are on their way back home, and stopped by the Glen to refuel for the journey. I had never seen them, and was glad to play host for a while.

We think our life,
and the time we have been given,
are ours to do with as we please.
“It’s MY life!
And I will do what I want to with it!”
If we haven’t said that, or thought it,
we have probably heard it said.
It is a common misconception.We have a life
that only we can live–
that is sized to fit us perfectly,
but it is the rarely the one
we have in mind.
And we go down a lot of roads
thinking maybe this is it,
when what is needed
is to sit quietly
and see what occurs to us.

Of course, we will discount it.
No problem.
It keeps coming back.
And when we finally take it up,
we discover that what is ours to do
is what we have been doing all along,
only “on the side,”
“as a pastime,”
“just to keep ourselves entertained,”
while busying ourselves
with the life we thought up for ourselves.
The one we may not like at all.

The task comes to us all
in the big fat middle of the life we are living,
to come to our senses
and find the life that is just right for us,
even now,
even yet,
even so.

We do it by sitting quietly
and seeing what Holy Nudge
comes to us out of the dim regions
of consciousness,
flirting with us,
winking at us,
wondering if we will
come out to play.

I hope we do–
don’t you?

4240.  02/26/2017 — Tufted Titmouse 2017 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 15, 2017

Let’s start with Jesus’ Parable of the Prodigal Son (Googleit),
and use it as the unshakeable foundation
for grilling Republicans and Right-wing Christians
(including white supremacists)
about their claim to be Christians while being uncaring.Can you imagine the prodigal doing anything
that would cause the father to say,
“You are no son of mine!
Get far away from me–and stay there!
I don’t want to ever see you,
or hear from you again!”?What if the son had told his father,
“While I was gone I married a Muslim”?
Would that do it, do you think?
“What if he had added,
“And he’s a man”?
Would that have pushed the father over the edge?
What if he had said,
“I converted to Islam”?
Or,
“I became a Democrat Activist”?
Or,
“I got a girl pregnant and she had an abortion”?
And,
“I want to bring her here and marry her”?
Or,
“I want to use your farm here as a refuge for immigrants”?
You get the idea.
What would be the father’s tipping point?
Where would the son go that the father wouldn’t follow him?

The point of the parable
is that nowhere is a place too far
for the father’s love to go.
Republicans do not understand that.
If children are disobedient
they have to be punished.
Love has to be “tough,”
for it to count with Republicans.
They justify their refusal to fund
social programs
and to help those who need assistance,
by telling themselves
if the people who need help
had been working hard and doing right
they would be self-reliant
and on their way to being wealthy.
Jesus stands in their way,
and they spit on Jesus
like the Romans did
before crucifying him.

You cannot be a Christian
without caring for all people
like the father cared for his son.
“Who do you care for that isn’t like you?”
Ask them that.
It’s the true test of one’s Christianity.

02/26/2017 — Republican family values
are as far from the way of Jesus
as it is possible to be.
They are a complete repudiation
of everything Jesus stood for, said and did.

“The father provides,
the mother appreciates,
the children obey.”
And when that is done
the family prospers and thrives.
When it is not done,
the family withers and shrivels.
The Haves are separated from the Havenots
by virtue of their adherence
to the family ideal of the Party.
Where there is variance from the ideal,
there is ruin,
as can be seen on every hand
throughout society.

Jesus was not one to separate
the Haves from the Havenots.
The early church was a place
where those who had
shared with those who did not,
and all were one
in their compassion for each other.

Jesus was revered as one
who “tore down the dividing walls,”
so that there were no divisions,
no “Us” and “Them,”
no slaves and free,
no male and female,
no rich and poor,
no Greeks and non-Greeks…
It was “all for one and one for all”
everywhere you looked.

“In as much as you have done it,
or not done it,
to the least of my brothers and sisters,
you have done it,
or not done it,
to me.”

There is nothing in Republican family values
about loving our neighbor as we love ourselves,
or loving our enemies,
or being kind and compassionate to all people,
or doing unto others as we would have them
do unto us.

Not. One. Word.

02/26/2017 — Every Republican policy position is wrong.
Take that as your starting point,
and inquire into everything they proclaim to be good:
Good For Whom?
Who says so?
What are the full implications
of the good you proclaim to be good?
Let’s look at what ALL your “good” means for ALL people!

The more you dig into Republican policies and principles
the less good they become.

Right To Work laws sound good, but.
They are anti-Union laws,
and amount to
Enslavement to Corporations laws.

Tort reform,
which would limit lawsuits and cap amounts to be awarded
sounds good–
no one likes the idea of “frivolous lawsuits, but.
Tort reform does away with trial by jury,
and judges decide suits behind closed doors,
and corporations win even if they lose
because the awards are capped far below
what corporations can easily pay
(less than they would have to pay their lawyers
in a trial by jury case).

Reducing taxes always sounds like a good idea,
except it is generally about
taxes on the wealthy,
who wonder “Why should WE pay
for someone else’s goods and services?”
and even when everyone is given
a tax reduction (which rarely happens)
the protections, goods and services
which taxes pay for dry up.

Republicans say, “Let the government give you
a larger refund, and YOU decide how to spend it!” but.
The cost of expanding and maintaining infrastructure,
bridges, roads, tunnels, public parks and lands, etc.,
is far beyond the capacity of individual citizens to pay for,
and suffers from the reduction of tax-supported funds.

As government fails to provide
protections, goods and services
(including the internet)
our freedom is reduced
and our ability to enjoy life is diminished.
Republican wins are everyone else’s losses.
02/26/2017 — There is a Republican fallacy
for every Republican belief.
The core Republican belief
is that the higher your standard of living is,
the greater your quality of life is.
Or, as they like to say,
“There is nothing wrong with you
that having more money won’t fix!”
Quick now,
can anyone make a case
for Donald Trump being a happy man?
Show of hands?
Somebody?
Anybody?
There you are.
We have to look no farther
than the King
to see the paucity of wealth.
Yet, Republicans tout wealth
as the great cure-all
for every ailment.
It’s a lie.
Thinking about wealth
keeps Republicans from thinking about
the changes they need to make
to have a life worth living.
Change???
Did someone say “Change”???
Anathema!
Blasphemy!
Sacrilege!
Abomination!
Abhorrent!
Detestable!
Begone, thou shameless truth-sayer–
into the distant wilderness,
never to return!

02/26/2017 — We have to get our feet under us,
and we have to stand on them.
That’s basic self-care.
Nobody can do this for us.
It’s called standing alone.
When we refuse to stand alone,
it crumbles–
“it” being the structure
that holds things together.
Our part is standing on our own two feet,
and directing our steps
toward a life that pays the bills
and contributes to the good of the whole.
We depend on each other
to do that.
And we depend on the government
to provide a safety net
for those who cannot do that,
for whatever reason.
Call it, say, Social Services.
Pay for it from the tax pool
that pays for the protections, goods and services
which “promote the general welfare
and provides for the common defense”
of We the People
who help one another
through the taxes that can either be seen
as dues that go to support–
or as an investment in–
the quality of life in this country now and in the future.
This is basic Civics 101.
Anybody who opposes it on any grounds
is evil, mean, or crazy,
or a combination of the three.
02/26/2017 — Trump’s going to build a wall
to make the country safe.
How’s that going to make
Muslims safe?
Hows that going to make
Jews safe?
How is Trump’s Wall
going to protect us
from the hate groups
Trump encourages?
How is Trump’s Wall
going to protect us
from Trump?
Who is the Wall going to make safe?
Who is the Wall going to protect against?
Radical Islamic terrorists?
What will protect us from the NRA?
The NRA is responsible for more deaths
inside U.S. borders
than Radical Islamic terrorists.
Why not build a Wall
around the NRA?
What makes Trump think
we will be safer with a wall
that without one?
He just made it up, didn’t he?
Trump makes up worlds
that he expects us to live in
and doesn’t understand
why we are not impressed.

4241.  02/27/2017 — Broad-winged Hawk 2017 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, February 25, 2017 — Through the glass, through the screen.I watched this hawk catch, kill and eat a snake between 1 and 2 feet long, then fly up to this perch to watch for another one. If you are not being eaten, you are likely looking to eat. Nature’s way.

States are likely to be allowed to determine
Transgender bathroom rights,
but states were prevented from determining
the bathroom rights of black people,
and they are likely to be refused to determine
the right of anyone to smoke marijuana.Republicans are weird on this government interference
into our life position.

They hate restrictions,
no, they love restrictions,
no, they hate restrictions…
All they seem to be sure of
is wanting the power of God
over our lives–
which means wanting us
to obey them at all times,
no matter what,
and no questions ever asked.

4242.  02/27/2017 — Round-lobed Hepatica 2017 01 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, February 27, 2017

When we live from the core–
from the bedrock values and identity
that define us and set us apart
from every other person ever–
we are secure in ourselves
regardless of how vulnerable we are.Nothing can separate us
from the foundation stone.
We are one with who we are
and what matters most to us.
They can do everything to us
but they cannot touch us.
We are grounded in the truth
of our own soul,
and have nothing to fear.In this, we are Jesus in Gethsemane
and the Buddha under the Bodi Tree.
Ulysses on his raft,
and Rosa Parks in the front of the bus.
Let them come.

4243.  02/28/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 42 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016

(These posts are inspired by, and grounded in, George Lakoff’s book, “Don’t Think Of An Elephant.” A PDF version is available to be read for free online. Googleit)

Republicans think children are immoral
for not having good-enough parents.
It is absurd, I know, but.
They hold children accountable,
when they do not hold themselves accountable–
or those who promise
to “protect, preserve and defend
the Constitution of the United States.”
It clearly falls upon We The People
to hold Republicans accountable
when they will not do so themselves.Here is their reasoning for holding
children to be immoral
for not having good-enough parents:

George Lakoff says, talking about
the Moral Strength metaphor
which is the foundation
of Republican ideology/philosophy/mentality,
“We all start out morally weak,
that is, with an overwhelming tendency
to do immoral things.
Unless our parents intervene
to discipline us,
we will naturally become immoral.”

“(This is) a view of children,” says Lakoff,
“not as naturally good but as naturally
tending toward evil unless some strong
corrective action is taken.”
They must have the right kind of parents,
or they will become immoral.

Children without the right kind of parents–
particularly the right kind of father–
will not develop the self-discipline
required to be their own authority,
and to have the moral strength
to have, in Larkoff’s words,
“the moral fiber or backbone to resist evil.”

Larkoff says, “A morally weak person
is likely to fall, to give in to evil,
to preform immoral acts,
and thus to become part
of the forces of evil.
Moral weakness is thus nascent immorality,
immorality waiting to happen.”

All because we do not have
the right kind of parents–
particularly the right kind of father.

Immorality is evil, and, as Larkoff says,
“You do not empathize with evil,
nor do you accord evil some truth of its own.
You just fight it.”

Larkoff continues:
“Anything that promotes moral weakness is immoral.
If welfare is seen as taking away
the incentive to work and thus promoting sloth,
then according to the metaphor of Moral Strength,
welfare is immoral.”

And, as with welfare, so with all social programs.
Helping students with college loans is immoral
because it encourages a lack
of self-discipline and self-reliance.

If your parents are not upright
and upstanding Republicans,
Republicans will have nothing
to do with you.
You will be shunned,
ostracized, ignored, despised, avoided.
You will be Unclean
and completely disregarded.

02/28/2017 — We need to stop thinking
of Republicans as a political party,
and start thinking of them
as a religious cult.

Their ideology is more properly
theology,
their beliefs are creeds,
their lives are devoted to their cause
their wealth is proof
that they are right.

Their zeal is certainly religious,
and the manner in which they oppose Islam
is religious persecution.
They have their High Priests
and their loyal followers,
and their mutual commitment
to the Way of Truth Everlasting.

In Republicans,
church and state have become indistinguishable.

4241.  02/28/2017 — Trout Lily 2017 02 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, February 27, 2017

On one hand,
there is the Buddha,
born to a life of luxury and privilege,
unable to bear the pain of the idea of pain
and suffering,
and spent his life figuring out an elaborate
escape system
that taught converts and believers
to disengage themselves
from “the world of illusion”
in seeking the bliss of contemplating bliss.
On another hand,
there is “the crippled Roman slave Epictetus
who said, “I have nothing–
but earth and sky and one poor cloak,
yet, what do I lack?
I am untouched by sorrow and fear.
Am I not free?”On another hand,
there is Seneca,
saying, “Not what you bear,
but how you bear it,
is what counts.”

We all must find our own way
of squaring ourselves up
with the reality of how things are
and what we can do about it.
We have to place ourselves
in some relationship
with the facts that limit us
and the crosses that must be borne.

Which gets us to Jesus,
“Let today’s trouble be enough for today.
Tomorrow will have troubles of its own.”
And Epictetus’ reply,
“There are no troubles that aren’t made
better or worse by the way we respond
to them” (Or words to that effect).

4245.  03/01/2017 — Goodale 2016 07 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016

Read my last post
about the Buddha
and suffering
from the standpoint of seeking
the bliss of safety and security
instead of seeking to escape suffering.
It’s the two sides of the same coin
Suffering exists because safety and security do not.
Trump building his wall
Is the Buddha seeking and end to suffering.
They are working on the same problem
from different sides.
Epictetus calls them both out,
as does Jesus,
with their chorus of “Pick UP Your Cross,
Stop Whining About How Hard Life Is,
And Get Busy Doing What Needs You To Do It!”The only bomb proof place,
where even hydrogen bombs are nothing,
is Eliot’s “still point of the turning world.”
Is the Taoist/Zen understanding
of “the face that was yours before you were born.”
Is the bedrock,
the foundation stone,
of our own personal,
individual,
unique,
AND universally common and the same,
values and identity–
the qualities of heart and soul
that make us US,
make us one with humanity,
one with all things.We cannot be one
if we are not one with ourselves.
Integrity is the price
of integration and wholeness,
oneness and unity.
When we are at that place,
we touch everything/everybody,
and everything/everybody touches us–
and we are untouchable
to all that fear of suffering
and that neurotic attachment
to safety and security.

The only people who are safe and secure,
are the people who don’t need it
to be who they are.

4246.  03/01/2017 — Goldfinch 2017 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 27, 2017

What the Republicans, CEOs, and Business Czars
don’t understand
with their Profit At Any Price fixation,
is that when the Standard of Living
(Read: Stock Market)
goes UP,
the Quality of Life
(Read: Health and Peace of Mind)
goes DOWN.It’s a rule.
It ought to have a name.
If it doesn’t, we could call it
Dollar’s Law.
After a certain point in level of income,
Wealth and Happiness vary
in inverse proportion to each other.
That point is not fixed,
and depends upon a number of factors–
“intangibles,” such as pain threshold
and personal values.
More money is not the solution
to all of our problems today or any day.
If money would do it,
goes the old saying,
you don’t have problems,
you have expenses.A shift in orientation and attitude
is that solution.
“Anything can happen if you let it,”
is Mary Poppins wisdom,
but it means,
“You can be as peaceful and content
(happy) as you allow yourself to be.”

4247.  03/02/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 43 — Twelve Mile Creek, Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016

A place that is inclusive, open-minded
and home for our soul
will ask hard things of us.
This is not an easy place to be.
It will require us to bear the pain
of the realization of our opposites–
of our contradictions–
of our ambivalence,
and the conflicts that run
through the center of our Self.We are divided at the core,
and must bear consciously the pain
of our inner divisions.
There is the way we are
and the way we also are–
and that is the way we ARE!
The truth is a two-edged sword.
We have to walk two paths
at the same time–
consciously, with full awareness,
mindful of the other path
while we are on the one we are on.
Both paths are truly who we ARE!We are capable of being
exactly what the situation needs us to be.
We can rise to any occasion.
We can do what needs us to do it
like this, and like that,
doing it one way here/now,
and another way then/there.
We can be gentle as a lamb,
and hard as a rock.
We can be the best woman
we are capable of being,
and the best man
we are capable of being.
And we must be mindfully aware
of when our woman is being called forth,
and when our man has to answer the bell.

The situation determines
who and how we will be
in each situation as it arises,
as we offer what is appropriate
to that situation,
from among the roles
we are capable of playing
for the good of the moment,
for the good of the whole.

And we do not THINK any of this out!
We see, hear, understand and KNOW
what is called for–
and present that as our votive offering
to the here and now, when and where we are.

It cost Jesus his life.
Isn’t that the way it is though!
Being true to ourselves
and the time and place of our living
means self-surrender
and self-sacrifice
every time.
We are all Jesus in Gethsemane
all of the time.
And have to know it–
and bear consciously the pain of knowing it,
in doing what needs to be done
and needs us to do it–
whether we want to or not,
whether we feel like it or not,
whether we are in the mood for it or not,
regardless of the implications for us,
because we are here to serve
the good of the whole,
the good of the moment,
with all our heart, and soul, and mind, and body–
with the divisions and contradictions
that make it all possible.
That make life possible.
In each moment,
we die the death
that makes life possible
in that moment.
And, oh, look–
here comes the next one.

03/02/2017 — The Trump administration’s characteristic ploy
is to deny, deny, deny–
to dismiss, disregard, discount, ignore–
and to discredit reliable evidence
of all the administration
does not want to be acknowledged
because such acknowledgement
would prevent the implementation
of ways and means
to ends the administration
deems to be desirable.
Those ends clearly justify
any and all means necessary
to their realization.
Trump’s clear position is,
as it has always been,
“Damn the Constitution!
Full speed ahead!”
03/02/2017 — Mindfulness is a matter
of knowing what is so–
and what is also so.
Of knowing ALL that is so.
Mindfulness knows truth
in all of its contradictory manifestations.
The culture,
perhaps all cultures,
would have us deny, suppress, ignore
all that contradicts
the way things are “supposed to be”
in the culture.
We ignore Daddy’s drinking
because daddies are not supposed to be drunks.
Daddy doesn’t drink.
Daddy takes medicine for his back.
Etc. across the board,
around the circle.
Things are not the way they are
because nothing can be
what it is not supposed to be.
But.
Mindfulness sees all.
So, we refuse to be mindful.
Because “we can’t handle the truth.”
If the truth were known,
things would change.
Dramatically.
And we prefer the pretense
to unknown possibilities.
What if saying Daddy is a drunk
makes things worse than they are?
The fear of things becoming worse
keeps things at a barely tolerable level
of pain and misery
that we call being alive.
It is pretending to be alive,
but it is being mostly dead,
while we wait for the real thing
to relieve us of our burden.
Or,
we could take our chances
with mindful awareness
and see where it goes.

4248.  03/03/2017 — Trout Lily 2017 09 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, February 27, 2017No one can stop drinking for you.
Not even AA.
You are the one who is drinking.
You are the one who has to stop.
You are the one.
Your life is your responsibility.
If your life sucks,
You are the one to do something about that.
“What can I do?”
Stop asking, “What can I do?”
as though it gives you an excuse
for doing nothing.
Stop doing the things you are doing
that contribute to and sustain
the suckiness of your life.
And start doing the things
that will lead you out of
the land of suckiness
to freedom and responsibility.
Your life sucks
because you aren’t assuming
any responsibility
for the state of your life.
“What can I do?”
has you where you are.
What you do about it
is up to you.
“But what can I do?”
Stop asking the question
and start doing the things
that need to be done.
The first thing is stop drinking.
AA can help with that.
And if you are not drinking
but are smoking pot,
popping pills
or shooting up,
these are other forms of drinking.
“But my life is so hard!”
You’re making it harder
by the way you are responding
to it being hard.
Stop it.
Now

03/03/2017 — The fundamental spiritual law is this:
You have to get your feet under you,
and stand on them.
Standing on our own two feet
is the first step
in developing our own spirituality.
We don’t have to believe any doctrines,
or dogma,
or creeds,
or theology.
We only have to believe in ourselves.
Anybody who tries to separate
us from ourselves,
telling us to destroy our ego,
for example,
which means allowing them
to tell us what to do,
which means not trusting
our own sense
of what is right and wrong for us,
which means becoming
someone else’s automaton,
someone else’s disciple,
someone else’s slave,
is leading you away from yourself.
Where does thinking for yourself come in?
They will tell you
that you got where you are
by thinking for yourself.
I will tell you
you got where you are by NOT
thinking for yourself–
by not being mindfully aware of yourself thinking.

The people who tell you
to get rid of your ego
are talking to whom exactly?
There is only our conscious self,
which we call “ego,”
and our unconscious self,
which some call “psyche,”
and some call “soul.”
“Fred” and “Maybelle” work, too.
Our conscious ego is all there is
to get us through the world,
dressed, employed, and ordering lunch.
Who gets rid of ego except ego?
When we say,
“I have to get rid of my ego,”
who is the “I” who is talking?
Who is the “I” who is exterminating your ego?
We have a conscious “I”
and an unconscious “I.”
Your unconscious “I” can’t begin
to fill out your income tax forms.
Your ego can become a better partner
with your unconscious self,
but you can’t get rid of your ego.
We need our ego for lots of important stuff.

Back to standing on our own two feet
and being mindfully aware of what is happening
on all levels that we can apprehend
and what needs to be done in response.
That’s our role
as conscious egos–
seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing and being.
Our spirituality comes to life
as we take up the work
of being who we are,
where we are,
when we are,
how we are,
no matter what.
That is our spiritual work.
We cannot be spiritual apart
from doing the work that is ours to do.
It is doing the work
of being who we are, etc.
that makes us spiritual–
not believing somebody’s idea
of the right set of right beliefs.

Listen to me when I say
Don’t Listen To Me!
Listen to yourself–
be mindfully aware of yourself–
trust yourself to yourself.
All your “mistakes”
will lead you to a better idea
of how to live your life
if you keep listening to yourself.

4249.  03/03/2017 — Oconee Bells 2017 01 — Undisclosed Location, North Carolina, March 03, 2017

Getting our feet under us
means squaring ourselves up
with how it is with us
in the time and place of our living.
It is taking stock,
in a mindfully aware manner–
seeing, hearing, understanding and knowing
how things are,
within and without,
internally and externally.
It is assessing the Gestalt accurately
and non-judgmentally,
in a “This is the way it is,
now what?” kind of way
that sizes the situation up,
sees what is happening
and what needs to happen in response,
determines what we can do about it,
and does it.
If we are depressed,
angry,
frustrated,
sad,
joyful,
glad,
happy,
we take that into account,
and hold it in our awareness
along with everything else,
and decide what action
would be appropriate to the occasion,
and act.
In each situation as it arises.
All our life long.

4250.  02/04/2017 — Trout Lily 2017 07 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, February 27, 2017

The Adamant is a legendary substance
impervious and invulnerable.
It is used in describing both truth
and the hardheartedness of those
resisting and denying truth–
a quality of the Unmoved
before the Mover,
of the Mover
moving and protecting the Moved.It is the lightening bolt of the Mover
penetrating everything,
and the impenetrable denseness
of the Unmoved,
withstanding everything.Truth meets its match in the denial of truth.
Nothing can be done for those
who deny all evidence contrary
to their preferred narrative–
who reject everything real, actual, tangible, factual, certain
and undeniably so.

Jesus advised,
“Leave the dead to bury the dead,”
and,
“If they ask you to leave, go.”

When it becomes apparent
that we are saying things
that cannot be heard,
we have to look for those
who can hear what we have to say.
Time is short,
we can’t be throwing it away.

4251.  03/05/2017 — Bloodroot 2017 01 — UNCC Botanical Gardens, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2017

Our work is to be who we are
in ways appropriate to the occasion
on every occasion.
Single. Occasion.
To be who we are
in ways appropriate to the moment
in every moment.
Every. Single. Moment.
To never be “out of character.”
To live in ways that are true
to our essential/core self
all of the time.In order to do this,
we have to be clear about
who we are
and who we are not.
In order to be clear about
who we are,We have to pay attention.
We have to be mindfully aware
of our internal reaction
to every life experience,
and of where that comes from.
We can live out of the center
of ourselves,
from the core of who we are–
and we can live out of
the complex of the moment–
the matrix of memories,
experiences,
emotional wounds,
bruises,
and trauma
clustered around
trigger events, people, animals or objects
here with us in this moment.

Our work involves separating our response
to the moment
from our complexes
and living out of the central Gestalt
of our identity–
out of what is deepest, truest and best
about us.
We have to reclaim ourselves,
restore our connection with our soul,
live with our heart in what we are doing
and how we do it,
BE who we are,
offering the gifts that are ours to give
in ways appropriate to the occasion,
on every occasion.

4252.  03/05/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 46 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016

The adamantean truth of who we are–
or our central/core identity,
of the values and qualities
at the ground of our being,
that cannot be impacted,
changed,
or disappeared
by any circumstance
or situation of life–
is what we are here
to recognize about/within ourselves
and bring forth
in the way we live our life
within the life we are living.You will recall from my post on The Adamant
that we can be immovable
and unassailable
from the standpoint of our
affinity/oneness with the truth
at the core of who we are,
OR from the standpoint
of our affinity/oneness
with a false/pseudo truth
that we embrace,
rejecting all entreaties
to wake up,
turn around,
open our eyes
and know the truth
of what we call “the truth.””Is it real or is it Memorex?”
Will the Real Truth stand up and wave?
How true is the truth we call truth?
Everything hinges on our being right
in our assessment of truth and falsehood.
How can we be sure?
Jesus puts it all on us with his,
“Why don’t you judge for yourselves what is right?”
And his declaration to the man working on the Sabbath:
“You are blessed if you know what you are doing,
but if you do not know,
you are accursed and a transgressor of the Law!”

How do we know what we are doing?
There is no formula.
No certainty.
No guarantees.
“It is a slippery slope we are on!”
We have to walk it
knowing that we do not know for sure
what we are doing,
but having the courage to trust ourselves
to our best sense of what is so and not so,
believing in our ability to intuit
good from bad, right from wrong, yes from no
in each situation as it arises,
following our instinct and intuition–
and let nature take its course.

03/05/2017 — Trump is the Grand Master
of wild geese,
Red Herrings,
and smokescreens.
When the heat gets too high,
Trump deflects unwanted attention
regarding things like his Russian connections,
to the tried-and-true
(read: tired and trite)
covers, hoaxes, and subterfuges
of his past.

“Obama planted wiretaps everywhere!”
“Obama is undermining everything I do!”
“Obama is bad, terrible, rotten to the core!”
“Obama is up to no good!”
“Save me from Obama! Somebody! Anybody!”
“Obama is a space alien and I have video evidence to prove it!”
And on, and on, like that…

And after making a charge and a claim,
he announces,
“There will be no further discussion of the matter,
but we know what is going on.”

And gets by with it
because the Senate is not going to
designate a special prosecutor
to get to the bottom
of any Trump-related matter.
But, they may investigate Hillary’s emails again,
just for good measure.
Anything to take the heat off
Don-O.

03/05/2017 — Live like you work in an emergency room.

Who comes in the door
gets the same treatment
anyone gets who comes in the door.
YOU don’t matter in an emergency room.
Your situation gets top billing.
The people who work there
work there to treat needs
with the utmost professionalism,
concern, competence, and expertise.
They live to have no opinion of you
beyond what they can do to help you.

Live like that.
Make it a practice.
Live like you work in an emergency room.

Do not think of people as a group–
a racial group, an economic group,
a sex or gender,
or a sex preference or gender identity group.
a religious group, a drug or alcohol group.
a tattoo group, a social group, a national group…
No Group Thinking!

When you catch yourself lobbing someone
into a group,
recognize what you are doing,
and stop it.
Do not identify people
by a group.
And, when you do,
don’t.

4253.  03/06/2017 — Virginia Bluebells 2017 01 — UNCC Botanical Gardens, Charlotte, NC, February 27, 2017Each one of us,
everyone of us,
is a conscious ego-self
and an unconscious psyche/soul-self.
The ego-self
properly lives to serve
the psyche/soul-self
in a “thy will, not mine, be done” kind of way–
but has veto power
over some inner interests
in light of the limits and restrictions
imposed by physical reality.I will not stop on the side of an interstate highway
to photograph the most strikingly photogenic barn
in all the world,
for example.Our ego-self ideally
gives physical reality
to our psyche/soul-self–
expressing, exhibiting, incarnating, making visible
the invisible side of ourselves.
We each have a gift of light,
so to speak,
to bring forth in the world of darkness–
“a gift of the spirit for the common good.”

I’m good for words
that need to be heard, read, understood,
and images
that need to be seen, felt, moved by.
You don’t want me
singing at your next wedding.

We are all good for something.
There is something about us all,
which, when engaged with it,
makes our little heart sing.

The gift is not for parlaying into profit.
We are not here to ride the gift to glory.
We are here to serve the gift
with our life–
to enjoy the gift and the giving–
and to let that be that.

03/06/2017 — Trump creates reality for nearly 40% of the U.S. registered voters. That many of us are incapable of thinking for ourselves (or refuse to do it), and will blindly and blithely where they are led by The One Who Knows All And Knows What Is Best For All.
This is significantly sickening and sobering, and is how it really is. Trump is a liar and his followers are true believers. This is the world we live in–we cannot say this often enough or protest it loudly enough. Say it aloud to someone throughout the day every day. Do not allow it to go unacknowledged, unwitnessed, uncondemned.
03/06/2017 — The Republicans are creating an atmosphere
conducive to creating more Republicans.
Republicans depend upon fear and hate
to keep them in office.
It is completely counter-intuitive
(Which means it makes no sense)
to say that keeping people poor
and incapable of helping themselves
will keep them voting for Republicans,
but it is real.

People will vote against their own self-interest
if they believe an opposite vote
would elect wickedness and evil.
They vote for people who
diminish their rights and freedom,
thinking they are voting against people who
would diminish their rights and freedoms.

Republicans do a number on their base.
They do it with right-wing talk shows
and scare-tactics of conservative “journalism,”
like Breibart News.

The people who compose the Republican base
are on the point of desperation,
and would be helped immensely
with a livable minimum wage,
and affordable health care.
But, if they were so helped,
they would not be as susceptible
to the urgency of Republican propaganda.
They would have a bit of freedom from economic fear,
and be able to reflect on something more
than how to pay the bills.

That would not be good for Republicans.
They want the poor and desperate
to stay poor and desperate.
And vote Republican.

4254.  03/07/2017 — Mourning Doves 2017 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 3, 2017

Republicans don’t care if they bankrupt the government,
impoverish citizens,
destroy the environment,
immobilize the world.
They do not comprehend the negative impact
of their actions.
All they can see
is the infinitely deep and wide
pool of profit resulting
from lifting sanctions and removing restrictions
from corporations and industry.
The dream of wealth beyond imagining
drives them–
and all of us with them–
off the cliff they don’t believe is there.We are left with protesting, striking,
intermittently shutting things down,
and voting them out of office in two years
and then in two more years.
In the meantime, we keep calling their lies, lies–
their idiocy, idiocy–
and calling them in their cushy government jobs
to tell them to stop the insanity,
and keeping our courage, resolve
and defiant opposition in place
for the duration.Mindful awareness
(You have watched Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube videos,
haven’t you?
And you are putting his process into practice,
aren’t you?)
centers and grounds us in the bedrock
of our own identity and values,
and provides the foundation
for responding to the moment
with what the moment needs from us.
It is the adamantean tool/weapon of choice
in the service of resistance through the ages,
waiting for us to take up the practice
and become masters in the art.

4255.  03/07/2017 — Round-lobed Hepatica 2017 01 — McDowell Nature Preserve, Mecklenburg Parks & Recreation, Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, March 6, 2017

Giving Republicans what they want
will kill the country,
and the world.
No taxes on the rich
(Trump already doesn’t pay any).
No restrictions or regulations on business, industry or corporations.
No law suits settled with trials by jury,
and a cap on what plaintiffs can seek.
No unions.
No public schools.
No affordable access to health care.
No freedom of speech.
No right to assembly.
No freedom of, or from, religion,
But the freedom to seek unlimited wealth by any means imaginable
will be protected on all levels of the law.
Greed has a new set of champions,
and nothing will be unscarred.

03/07/2017 — Breitbart “News” exists
because people love it,
believe in it,
and follow its lead with pure devotion.
The followers influence the leaders
by their response to being “led”–
much like the Republican members
of the Senate and House,
and the Party officials,
say what their base wants to hear.
40% of the country
is taking the remaining 60%
where they do not want to go.
Only, as they say, in America.
Go, as they say, figure.
And this is going to be the storylne
until the 60% commits to,
and carries through on,
being/staying informed
and voting in accord with
their deepest values
in every election,
great and small,
for as long as they are able
to mark a ballot.
Beginning with the next one.

4256.  03/08/2017 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2017 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, March 6, 2017

I expect that most of us could use
a refuge,
a retreat,
a sanctuary,
a safe house,
secure and off-limits
to all things Trump
and the chaos of his reign.It isn’t very far away.
“It isn’t up in heaven,
nor is it beyond the sea.
It is very near.”
In our own heart and soul.
It is the solace and succor
of our psyche/soul/self
that we seek,
where we find the lodestone,
the bedrock,
of our own identity and values
that steadies us,
grounds us,
centers us,
and provides us
with the wherewithal
to stand adamant
and unmoving
in the knowledge
of who we are
and what we are about.Nothing can separate us
from the truth of our own convictions,
or threaten us
with alternative realities
and upside down worlds
where nothing is what it was
or what it ought to be.
“We are who we always have been,
and who we will be.”
That is all we need to know,
remember
and be.
Nothing can happen
to separate us from
who we always have been
and who we will be–
“though the earth give way
and the mountains fall
into the heart of the sea.”

And so the need to sit
with ourselves
and know who we are
at the core–
what we know to be
good and bad,
right and wrong,
true and false,
beautiful and abhorrent.
The ancient Greeks advised,
“Know thyself,”
and Shakespeare counseled
“To thine own self be true.”
Everything falls into place
around this.

4257.  03/08/2017 — Trout Lily 2017 10 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 7, 2017

We have to know what we know–
ALL that we know.
What we feel about what we know
is a part of what we know.
How our body is carrying the impact of what we know
is part of what we know.
How we are managing, or failing to manage,
the stress of what we know
is part of what we know.
We have to know what we know
in its Gestalt–
in the full scope of its actuality.We cannot allow what we know
to cancel out what else we know.
We cannot emphasize one aspect of our knowing
at the expense of other aspects.
We cannot allow “this”
to lead us to discount, disregard, dismiss, deny “that.”
“This” and “that” are both true,
and help us find our balance
on the “slippery slope” that is our life.The trick is to know all that we know,
without allowing anything we know
to lead us into repressing something else we know,
but to hold everything in mindful awareness
including the situation that calls for action,
and see what urgency impels us to act,
all things considered.
And do that–
using this experience
to inform our response
to the next situation that arises.
Not worrying about “being” a particular way
in every situation,
but focused only on doing what needs to be done
in all situations.

4258.  03/08/2017 — Round-lobed Hepatica 2017 08 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, North Carolina, March 7, 2017

Republicans think money–
the idea of money, of wealth and fortune–
is the highest value.
Republicans live to accrue wealth,
and want to establish a culture
in which the increase of wealth
is an infinite and everlasting possibility.
Unending wealth is the ultimate end
for Republicans.
They cannot hear a word I say.
If they could,
I would talk to them about
freedom being the end toward which
we are to live.
To be free to be who we are,
in relation to all people
who are freely pursuing being who they are–
each bound together by the mutual commitment
to the good of the whole,
restricted by the requirements of freedom
to limit our individual freedom
in service to the freedom of each individual
to express/exhibit/incarnate
their psyche/soul-self within
that is the responsibility of each
to bring forth in the life she/he is living.
No Republican has a clue
about what I just said.
Freedom for Republicans
is the freedom to make money.
That is all freedom is for.
What good is anything
that cannot make you rich?
And, it does no good to ask them,
“What does rich make you?”
They would reply, “Richer.”
There is nothing beyond being rich and richer
to desire, or seek, or be.
I have nothing to say to Republicans.

4259.  03/09/2017 — Bloodroot 2017 03 — And Arrow-leaf Ginger, UNCC Botanical Garden, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2017

What ideas are central to your heart/soul/psyche/Self?
Carry the question with you
as you go though your day
over time.This is the value ground of your life
you are exploring,The ideas at the level of your core
form “the still point of the turning world,”
and connect you as a conscious ego
to your Invisible Self at the center of your being.
We are one in the veneration
of the ideas that make us who we are.

What are the ideas that form your base?
That declare your essence?
That mold, shape and form you,
and are “the face that was yours
before you were born’?

What are the ideas that your life
revolves around?
That your life is founded upon?
That you exist to serve
as a liege-servant to his, to her, Lord?

As you identify your core-creating ideas,
you are defining your lodestone,
your bedrock,
your adamantean foundation
that is unchanging and unchangeable
through all times and circumstances.

You are unveiling YOU
for you to see, know, BE–
consciously and unreservedly–
in the time left for living.

4260.  03/09/2017 — Turkey Buzzard 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, March 04, 2017

Our life consists of working,
eating, sleeping,
and engaging in entertaining pastimes and pleasures.
We live to pay the bills
and to look for something
to take our mind off our life.
Ours is a culture of diversion, distraction and denial–
anything to keep us from thinking about
what we think about
when we have nothing to think about.Here’s an exercise for you.
Sit still and quiet,
no music, no TV, no reading,
just sitting quietly,
and notice how long it takes
for you to begin to think
of something that you don’t want to think about,
that springs you up
to get busy with anything
to take your mind off
whatever it was.
What was it?
Think about what you don’t want
to think about.
Investigate it, explore it,
make inquiries,
get to the bottom of what’s there
and what it stirs to life in you–
note your emotional reaction.
Become intently curious about the experience.
What is it saying to you about you?
About your life?
About the life you are living
and about the life you are not living.The life we are living
is generally the life it takes to pay the bills.
But, what are we paying the bills to do?
We pay the bills to keep us alive
to do the work to pay the bills.
We are living to pay the bills,
and we think about what we would do
if we had enough money
to not have to work to pay the bills.
But then what would we do?
Entertaining pass times,
better diversions, distractions, denials–
more expensive bills,
but nothing more than we already have
in terms of a compelling reason to be alive.

We wouldn’t live to do anything
more than spend our money
in passing a good time.
We would still be missing
a ruling, consuming, over-riding, overruling passion–
a divine compulsion,
a holy obligation,
a reason to live.
We have what remains
of the time left for living
to find something worth
every second we have to give it.

What did you do as a child
that so absorbed your attention
that you didn’t know where you were
or how long you had been there?
How might you translate that
into an adult pursuit?
What would do to lose yourself
in what you were doing?
How often do you do that?
Everything vital and valuable
flows from a life worth living.
You have from now to the end of it
to find it
and live it.

Finding it and living it
is the essence of good religion.
Bad religion is a poor substitute
for not having looked for it,
or having failed to risk ourselves to it.
Our place is to live while the light lasts–
not letting what we haven’t done
keep us from doing what is yet to be done,
while the light lasts.

02/09/2017 — Trials and ordeals, Kid,
trials and ordeals.
That’s the category in which Trump
is to be classified.
Trials and ordeals.

There is nothing to make this better.
Nothing to take the anguish and agony away.
Nothing to do but protest, remonstrate,
demonstrate, resist, denounce, repudiate,
malign and condemn.

And there are people who think
we will grow tired of the task
and shift into
complacency, apathy, lethargy and depression.

I say we are up for it,
and aren’t going away.
We’ll return the Trumpster
trial for trial,
ordeal for ordeal.
We will be to him as he is to us.
Nightmare,
meet
Nightmare.

4261.  03/10/2017 — Yellow-rumped Warbler 2017 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, February 26, 2017

What I need from you
is the truth–
about you.
Where are you afraid to go?
What are you afraid to see?
To hear?
To know?
What are you hiding from?
Denying?
Dismissing?
Disregarding?
Ignoring?
Sit with all of that.
See what it has to show you.
Hear what it has to say.
Bear the pain.
When you come through,
knowing the full truth
of you,
you will be exactly
who we all need you to be,
and be better equipped
to do our own knowing
of ourselves.
Everything depends
on our being
completely transparent
to ourselves.
Until then,
we need each other
to hide from ourselves,
and it is all
a clandestine conspiracy
of mutual self-deception.

4262.  03/10/2017 — Peach Blossoms 2017 02 — Spring’s Farm Orchard, Fort Mill, South Carolina, March 6, 2017

All theology, doctrine, creeds and ideology are
wrong, wrong, wrong–
bad, very bad,
terrible,And they get in our way.
They posit a Right Thing To Do It
Always, Every Time, Eternally,
No Question Allowed Ever.
The Republicans
have their ideology,
and so do the Christians,
and the Muslims,
and the Jews,
and the Atheists…etc.
Everybody with an ideology,
including me,
has The Right Way To Do It
firmly in mind,
and live to impose it upon
every situation that comes along.
That is wrong, wrong, wrong, (see above).
And I will readily admit it,
offering My Ideology as the best of the bad.
The Really Right Way To Do It
is to live in the service of what works
in every situation–
and what works in one situation
may be the opposite of what works
in another situation.
What is does doesn’t matter
if it works
in light of the good of the situation
as a whole.
In light of the good of the people
impacted by the situation.
The Really Right Way To Do It
is to understand
there is no one way to do everything,
and every situation requires
a mindfully aware appraisal
of the situation,
with all things considered.
We approach each situation
asking, “What is happening here?
What needs to happen?
What would be most helpful
in the service of what needs to happen?
How can I/we put that in play
in this situation?”
If everybody would only do it MY way
it would be a better world overnight.

03/10/2017 — In the Non-Subscribing Church Of What’s Happening Now,
the good of the parts takes precedent
over the good of the whole,
and vice versa–
so that in every situation,
the parts are consciously,
mindfully, aware
of the importance
of the good of the whole,
and the whole is consciously,
mindfully aware
of the importance
of the good of the parts,
and neither the parts.
nor the whole,
insists upon the priority
of it’s place in the circle,
and all together seek
the still point of the turning world,
holding in mindful awareness
the situation,
taking all things into account
and waiting to see
what arises
as That Which Needs To Be Done
in the here and now
of our life,
and doing that thing,
with no precedent implied
for any future situation,
and none sought from
similar situations in the past
to be imposed upon this one,
never losing sight of the good
that was not done,
but carrying the pain of its loss
as the price to be paid
for the other’s gain.

4263.  03/11/2017 — Oconee Bells 2017 03 — Undisclosed Location, North Carolina, March 3, 2017

Money is for buying the tools,
and creating the environment
necessary for doing the work
that is ours to do
within the life we are living.We don’t work to get money
so that we can amass enough
to stop working.
We work to get money
to do the work
that needs us to do it.Our life is about our work.
Our work IS our life
(Not the work we get paid to do,
the work we pay the bills to do).

We are a nation
and a world
that doesn’t know what its work is–
that doesn’t know it has work to do
that doesn’t have anything to do
with the work it is doing.

We think not having to work to pay the bills
is the living end.
Not having to work to pay the bills
simply frees us to do
the work that is ours to do
until we die.

Apart from the work that is ours to do,
we are as good as dead–
just hanging out
until the undertaker makes official.

4264.  3/11/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 32 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016

Think of spiritual development as
the process of maturation.
Think of spiritual maturity as maturity.
Think of the most mature person you know.
That person is also the most spiritual person you know,
though perhaps not religious.
Maturity IS spirituality.
Spirituality IS maturity.
The two are one,
and cannot be separated.
And neither have to do with thinking.
We do not think our way to maturity.
We do not think our way to spirituality.
We LIVE our way there.This is the process whereby we mature:
Experience-Reflection-Realization.
Everyone grows up against her/his will.
Trials and ordeals, Kid. Trials and ordeals.
But trials and ordeals alone
will not do it.
“Reflection on experience leads to new realizations”
(Joseph Campbell).
Reflection and realization are certainly mental processes,
but they aren’t “just thinking.”
They are “thinking about thinking.”
They represent a level of awareness (mindfulness)
that sees things as they are
and as they also are.
They are a class of perception that alters perspective
and changes our life.

Imagine the process of maturation
as existing along an infinite line into the future
beyond our death,
so that we do not “arrive” before we die
(And whether it continues after we die
is open to speculation).
Think of that line consisting of “stages of development,”
way-points along the way
over which we must pass,
and cannot progress until we “catch up”
by realizing what we missed
when the time of realization was upon us.
My hunch,
which may well be substantiated by psychological tests,
is that someone probably two, though maybe three, stages
ahead of us
makes no sense to us at all.
We are on different wave lengths.
In different worlds.
We can only talk about innocuous things
and disagree on what the important things are.

This is another reason liberals cannot talk to conservatives.
We live in different worlds,
and are on different levels of maturation.
We can argue which is lower and which is higher, but.
War, Hatred, Guns and Walls feel to me as though
they are on a lower level than
Conversation, Understanding, Compassion and Aid.
They are certainly on a different level.
And how we work out our differences
will be the dance that determines
what becomes of life as we know it.

03/11/2017 — Lies work to make us doubt
our own sense of what is true and real.
Abusive father’s say “I love you,
and only want what is best for you,”
while beating you past bleeding.
Do not believe what they say!
Believe what they do!
Even if they are the President of the United States!!!
And all the Republicans in Congress!!!

And vote against them and their kind
in every election great and small
forever!

03/11/2017 — Our daily, determined, unrelenting,
persistent, consistent, defiant
resistance and opposition
is essential–
not from the standpoint
of stopping the Republican demolition
of democracy, its norms and institutions,
but from the standpoint
of reminding ourselves
and one another
of the obscenity and horror
of what is being done–
to keep the fire of resolve burning bright,
so that when we get to vote in 2018
we all vote.

03/11/2017 — Those who are engaged
in the process of their own maturation,
reflecting on their experience
and forming new realization,
are impacting life around them for good,
in ways they cannot realize or imagine.
The work of maturity is enlivening.
“The influence of a vital person vitalizes”
(Joseph Campbell).
The most important thing we can do
for the world at large
is grow up.

3265.  3/12/2017 — Wood Thrush 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, March 6, 2017

People are always saying,
“There is a reason for everything,” but.
They never say what the reason is.
They believe in invisible, magical, reasons
that will make everything wonderfully well
in some far-off milk and honey
without lactose intolerance
or high blood sugar.
Let’s fix that.The reason for everything is
to wake us up to the paucity
of our explanatory devices,
and to force us to confront
the emptiness of glib platitudes
and stock phrases
that are too shallow to splash.The reason for everything is
to grow us up
by forcing us to reflect, inspect, explore, inquire
wonder, imagine, confront, investigate, consider,
contemplate, probe, evaluate, question, review,
revise, appraise, abandon, reject, denounce,
form new realizations,
and draw bold conclusions.

We are not here to follow
the cow ahead of us
from the barn
to the pasture
and back to the barn.
The people who say
“There is a reason for everything”
without saying what the reason is
are cows following
a long line of cows.
Give them a “MOOOO”
and walk on.

4266.  03/13/2017 — Lenten Rose 2017 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 10, 2017

White supremacy is the underlying cause
of our problems as a nation and as a world.
The Four Pillars of White Supremacy are
Fear
Hatred
Greed
Power
(Greed is sometimes referred to
as Money, Wealth, Prosperity, Capital and Fortune).
They start out with,
“Wouldn’t you want to be rich?”
And move to,
“What’s keeping you from being rich?”
And smoothly conclude,
“THEY are.”
With THEM being everyone not like they are,
more specifically,
Black People
Latinos
Jews
Orientals
Gypsies
LGBTQ’s
The Special Needs Population
The Poor, who even though they may be white,
are not “White like they are!”
and, of course, Liberals, who are not like they are at all.White supremacy is a perspective
that provides comfort and solace to its proponents,
who stoke the fires of greed, hatred, power and fear
with conspiracy theories
and Apocalyptic visions of the End of Time
and The Last Days,
which sounds biblical with the Angels of the Lord
doing battle with Satan’s Demons
and themselves being on the side of God,
doing God’s will even now
by opposing the Evil Ones who are not like they are,
How can they be biblically based
when they hate Jews,
which means they hate Jesus,
so where does that leave them
if not drifting in the Void
without ground or foundation,
certain that what they tell themselves
is the solid truth?

We will never convince them it is not.
That leaves us with identifying them
and opposing them
at every point.
They are wrong.
And their way is a blight upon humanity
and the world.

03/13/2017 — Standing on the bedrock
of our own identity/values
is to be unmovable
and invulnerable–
like the Buddha under the Bo Tree,
Jesus in Gethsemane,
and Rosa Parks in the front of the bus.
03/13/2017— You have heard the saying,
“There are many paths
up the mountain.”
What you haven’t heard
is that the mountain is YOU.
YOU are the mountain–
and all your paths lead to
YOU,
to the heart of YOU.
You are seeking YOU
in all of your searching.
Your quest is for YOU.
All of your false starts
and wrong turns
have had YOU
as their goal,
and every path
you have ever taken
has been essential
in creating a wealth of experience
regarding what is and is not YOU.
You are becoming an expert
on the subject of YOU.
No one is better than you are
at recognizing YOU when you see YOU,
or at knowing what YOU are likely to do
and not do.
You are getting to know YOU better
as you go along,
and better able to be YOU
in each situation as it arises.
When you become YOU
in all times and places,
you will be one with the mountain.
YOU will be YOU,
for all to see, know, love and enjoy
forever.

4267.  03/14/2017 — Koi Fish 2017 01 — Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 11, 2017

When “the center cannot hold”
and “the falcon cannot hear the falconer,”
(W.B. Yeats, The Second Coming),
and the God-fearing are no better off
on any level
than the godless,
you had better find
“the still point of the turning world”
(T.S. Eliot, “Burnt Norton”).
You had better BE
“the still point of the turning world”!
The Church in all its glory
cannot shake the shame
of its failure
to teach us to BE the Christ,
wasting,
as it did,
all of our time
telling us to BELIEVE,
and neglecting all instruction
regarding the importance
of BECOMING
those who are as integrated
as whole,
and as in accord
with their essence
as Jesus was.
And we are left
as alone as Jesus was
with the task
of finding our way
to ourselves
by ourselves.
Mindfulness leads the way,
as it always has,
and will–We have to do the work,
and bear the pain
in being what we seek
and doing what needs us to do it,
what must be done,
in order to be who we are
which is all Jesus did.
It only takes
Seeing,
Hearing,
Knowing,
Doing,
Being.
In each situation as it arises,
all our life long.

03/14/2017 — Republicans love money
and think it is
evidence of God’s grace and love–
and of God’s approval
of the way they live their lives.

Jesus thought the love of money
was the root of all evil.

Who do you suppose is right?
03/14/2017 — All of the good things are found
by living into them–
not by thinking them,
willing them,
into existence.
The trouble with us is
we want all of the good things
Right Now!
We don’t want to have to
live our way into them.
Wanting cannot give us
what we want.
We can have it,
but not on our timetable–
not when and how
we want it delivered.
It comes and goes
as dependable as the tides,
but not as regular.
We keep trying
to will what cannot be willed.
Pretty well sums it up,
don’t you think?

03/14/2017 — The life we are living
is exactly what we need
to live the life
that is our life to live–
the life that only we can live.
We think we need some other,
finer life to afford us
the luxury of living the life
that is our life to live,
as though that is something
that can be done only
when we are free
of all other concerns.
It is a concern as high
as any other concern,
and requires us to negotiate
time and resources
amid all our concerns
in order to meet the needs
of the moment
as those needs ought to be met.
We have to work that out
in every moment,
in every situation.
We hate that part of the deal,
and long for
“a land of gentle breezes,
where the peaceful waters flow”
(Anne Murray–Snowbird).

03/14/2017 — Paul Ryan says the Republican Health Care Plan
reflects their core belief in individual freedom–
that individuals should be free to choose
whether they want health care,
and if they decide the benefit to them
is not worth the cost to them in terms of premiums,
then they are free to choose not to be covered,
and if that price should result in sickness or death,
well, that’s the cost of being free.

That’s the way Republicans think.

Ryan and his Republican buds could easily
lower the cost of premiums
and raise the health care benefits offered,
thus giving people the freedom to chose a better choice.

That is not the way Republicans think.

Because that course would not
give insurance companies and CEO’s
the the freedom to realize the breaks
and the profits that would result
from the higher premiums
they put in place in the Plan they are selling
to the rest of Congress t
o impose upon the country
as a replacement for the Affordable Care Act/Obamacare.

Replacing Affordable with Unaffordable
is good only for those who are wealthy
and bad for all who are not.

Way to go Republicans! You know whose side you are on–and so do we!

03/14/2017 — Ayn Rand’s contention,
“No man can have a right to impose an unchosen obligation,
an unrewarded duty
or an involuntary servitude on another man,”
(from The Virtue of Selfishness)
is taken by Republicans as the foundation
of their Doctrine of Individual Freedom.

It’s ridiculous both as a contention
and as a Doctrine.
Sex falls into all three categories
in the lives of many of us
from time to time,
or for all of time for some of us.
Let’s see Republicans outlawing that!

4268.  03/14/2017 — Lake Crandal 2016 13 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016

My work is hermeneutics—
seeing and saying how things are,
and what might be done in response.
In seminary, hermeneutics has to do
with the translation/interpretation of the Bible.
I was taught to read Greek and Hebrew
and to render the original text into English.
We would check Biblical concordances
to see where all in the Bible the primary words
were used and what meaning they had there.
We would apply our understanding
of the historical period in which the text was written,
putting the words in their context,
and think of what they might have meant then.
From there, we would consult a bevy
of Bible commentaries
to see how the text had been interpreted over time.
Then we would imagine how the text
might be applied to our contemporary situation,
and work it all together in a sermon.
And do it again next week.Over time, I came to the conclusion
that it is more important to read the signs of the times
than the texts of ancient times.
Interpret the times in light of the texts
that were interpreting times long past.
You get the same story coming back around,
and back around,
again and again
through the ages.For instance, Jesus called the scribes and Pharisees
“Blind guides, straining at gnats and swallowing camels.”
Every age has its blind guides.
Those Who Know Best
know nothing at all.
“When will they ever learn?
When will they ever learn?”
Never, it seems.
Every generation spawns its own
stampeding herd
“full of passionate intensity,”
with a complete lack of awareness.

What to do?
Become as mindfully aware
of yourself and your context
as you can be.
Then your response to your situation
will be as fitting as it can possibly be
in each situation that arises.
Neither Jesus nor the Buddha
could do more.

4269.  03/15/2017 — Yellow-rumped Warbler 2017 08 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, March 10, 2017

Some people wake up,
and some people never do.
Not that anyone is ever fully, completely, totally AWAKE.
No more than anyone is ever fully, completely, totally GROWN UP.
We are all strung out along a continuum
from sound asleep to wide awake.
How far along we get
in the time we have been given,
is the mark that matters most–
and we are only competing
with ourselves.
We strive to be more awake today
than yesterday.
Or not.
Yesterday’s level–
which really goes back
through a long string
of yesterdays–
is good enough
for too many people,
who never bother to ask,
“What am I seeing?
What am I not seeing?
Is there a theme here?
If so, what is it saying?”

03/15/2017 — Saying what is happening
is the best way of changing
what is happening.
If it is not said,
it is not seen.
If it is not seen,
it cannot be changed.
Saying what we see
is the only way to see
what we are talking about.
It all starts with saying.
What do you have to say?
Say it.
See where it goes from there.
Saying and seeing all the way.

03/15/2017 — We have no idea of what
is going to happen.
Our place is to be ready for it
regardless of what it is.
We do that by having our feet under us
and standing on them,
grounded in who we are
and what is important to us–
in what we know to be so
and how mindfulness
leads the way.
Seeing what is happening
is seeing what is being asked of us.
Then there is only
deciding what to do
in response.

03/15/2017 — I like my chances,
whatever they are,
whatever it means.
I am confident
in my ability
to see what is happening,
and to do
what I am capable of doing
about it.
And letting that be that.
I am the pivot point
between my past
and my future.
So are you
between your past
and your future.
We take our past
and use it
to shape our future.
Everyone has to do that.
How well we do it
tells the tale.

03/15/2017 — Here’s a breathing exercise
you can work into your day
throughout your day,
disconnecting you from all the upheaval,
chaos, turmoil, uncertainty and intensity,
and reconnecting you with your body
and its inherent peace and wisdom…

Take a deep breath into your belly,
so that your navel
reaches its maximum
distance from your spine,
and release it in one quick blow.
Before inhaling, listen/feel for your heartbeat.
Count seven heartbeats
and inhale normally,
being sure to send it to your navel–
exhale normally,
and pause before inhaling for a count of seven heartbeats.
Repeat for a total of six-ten breaths.

See how many breathing breaks
you can work into a day.

03/15/2017 — Trump said he was wiretapped by Obama.
He was not wiretapped by anybody.
Trump has not retracted his statement
and apologized.
If you voted for him,
are you saying,
“Let’s give him another chance”?
What’s it going to take
for you to see what you have done,
and apologize?

4270.  03/16/2017 — Lenten Rose 2017 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 10, 2017

Carl Jung said
“Nothing impacts the life of the child
more than the unlived life of the parents”
(Or words to that effect).
Jung didn’t go far enough.Nothing impacts the life of the parents
more than the unlived life of the parents.Nothing impacts the life of the world
more than the unlived life of all of the parents
in the world.

If you want to do something–
if you want to “make a difference”–
in your own life,
in the lives of your children,
in the life of everyone in the world,
live the life that is yours to live.

If we were talking,
I would ask you to tell me about
the life you aren’t living.
If you asked what I meant,
I would say
tell me about the life that needs you to live it,
that only you can live,
the one you are not living,
and tell me why you are not living it.

Pretend we are talking,
and answer me that.

03/16/2017 — Here are headlines
to stories running
this morning
on Huffington Post…

Trump’s Budget Prioritizes Military Might Over Americans’ Well-Being

White House Takes Hatchet To EPA And Foreign Aid

Eliminates Funding For The Arts, Libraries, Public Television

Cuts International Food Aid Program And Funding For Clean Water

And there are people
to this day
who say
Trump is their man,
and is making
America Great Again
and just wait until
he really get rolling.

They are the same people
who think
a day-old scrambled egg
left out on the counter
uncovered
is great.

03/16/2017 — Trump says that
just because there is no evidence
to support his declaration
that Obama wiretapped his residence
that doesn’t mean he didn’t do it.
“Wiretapping covers a lot of things,”
said Trump.

There are no such things as
“Evidence” and
“Facts”
In Trump World.
And the rides are better
than the one at Disney.

Trump is taking us all
for the ride of our life.

03/16/2017 — Trump is an enemy of integrity on all levels.
Trump despises integrity
and has no respect for it in any form.
Integrity gets in the way of closing The Deal
and making Profits.
Integrity is bad,
very bad,
terrible,
nasty,
sick.

There is no reason ever
to take Trump at his word,
to believe anything he says.
Whenever he speaks,
he is a tottering alcoholic
saying, “I swear
I will never drink again.”

03/16/2017 — If you voted for Trump,
you owe it to yourself
and to all of the rest of us
to explore what saying,
“YES!!! TRUMP!!!”
was saying no to.

What were you rejecting
about your life in America
by electing Trump?
Equal rights for all people?
LGBTQ people?
Black people?
Poor people?
Foreign people?
Muslims?
Latinos?
Soft-hearted people?

In loving Trump,
who/what are you hating,
despising,
deploring,
denouncing,
rejecting,
disappearing?

Who/what are you
getting rid of
in order to
Make America Great Again?

Or, maybe, you just wanted
jobs back.
Do you not understand
that in order for something to come back,
something else has to go?
Trump is creating jobs
by destroying the environment.
Is that a price you are willing to pay?
Trump is removing
the protections
(he calls them “regulations”)
that guard the quality
of our air and water
in order to make it easier
for industry and corporations
to make more profit,
and (he hopes) create
more jobs in increasing production.
Is that your idea of getting jobs back?

What did you mean
by electing Trump?
Do you still mean it?

03/16/2017 — Profit at any price is ridiculous.
Jobs at any price is absurd.

Jobs left this country
and went to another country
because wages were lower there
and protections governing production
were non-existent there.
The people in this country
who want their jobs back
don’t want them back
at lower wages
and at a sharp reduction
in the overall quality of life.
They want them back,
all other things remaining unchanged.
Jobs at any price isn’t the idea.

Profit at any price works the same way.
When profit means
the destruction of the environment,
you are shooting yourself in the head
to make that deal,
and killing everyone else as well.

Republicans are staunch believers
in self-discipline in the service
of unrestrained and unrestricted and unlimited profit.
It’s a contradiction in terms.
It makes no sense.
Self-discipline is living within limits
for the sake of one’s own good
and the good of the whole.
It understands that profit at any price
is toxic to life
and cannot be sustained
because it destroys the balance
required to keep biology
from disappearing into the Void
from which it came.

03/16/2017 — Balance is the way things are
at the still point of the turning world.
We navigate the slippery slope
by being balanced and savvy.
We walk two paths at the same time
in the same way.
Carl Jung said,
“The psyche is a self-regulating system
just like the body is,”
(or words to that effect).
When we go too far in one direction,
we create a counter-balancing,
compensating,
symptom calling us back
in the opposite direction.
Life demands balance.
It is another of the requirements for living
that cannot be ignored.

03/16/2017 — Step into a room filled with the despots of history…
Idi Amin, Pol Pot, Attila the Hun, Genghis Khan, Stalin, Hitler…
you know, like that.
What are you going to say to them
to wake them up
and change their mind
about what they think is good
and what they think is not good?
What will it take to change their mind?
How long would it take
to see the light come on
in their eyes?
Longer than eternity, I’m afraid.
Which gets us to the good news:
Midterm elections will be
in November of 2018.
That’s only 20 months away.
MUCH sooner than eternity!
Keep that in mind,
and work to make 11/2018
be the turn-around
the world needs it to be!

4271.  03/17/2017 — Trout Lily 2017 11 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 7, 2017

There is no magic.
There is only the daily grind
of making happen what needs to happen
in light of all things considered
in each situation as it arises
all our life long.The Republicans in the magic of money.
Wealth is the solution to all of their problems today,
and every day.
They do not take into account
all of the problems
their solution creates
in their own personal life,
in the life of the nation,
the culture and the world.
Republicans will never be confused
with those who
take all things into account.
Their vision stops with their ideology.
“If we do this, this, and this, that will happen–
and that will be all that happens–
and it will be wonderful
with unfolding layers of resplendent glory
“The majority of the rest of U.S. citizens
believe in magic of a different variety–
“We’ve seen bad times before.
The darkness is always followed by the light.
We’ll just keep our heads down
and everything will be fine.”

There.
Is.
No.
Magic.

There is only seeing things as they are
in each situation as it arises,
including seeing what needs to be done about it,
and doing it
in light of all things considered,
in every situation that comes up
all our life long
forever.

We step into our day
and do there what needs us to do it.
We step into our life–
the one we are living
and the one that we are here to live–
and do there what needs us to do it.
With no time out
and no day off.
One day,
and one situation within each day,
at a time.

We are the magic we seek in the world.
Wands are a prop.
It’s all about the heart and soul
of the witches and wizards.
If you conjure up heart and soul,
magic will happen
in each situation as it arises
all your life long
forever.

03/17/2017 — I will write my postcards,
and make my phone calls,
and do my thing daily here
and there
and everywhere,
registering my protest
whether it does any “good”
or not.
It is good,
no matter what the outcome.
Good calls out evil,
makes evil known,
refuses to collude with evil
by being quiet about it.
Good makes noise.
Good says NO!
to all things Not Good.
Good does not hang its head
and succumb to the hopelessness
of any situation.
What does hopelessness know?
When has hopelessness ever helped
anyone, anything, any situation?
If you are going to be hopeless
about something,
be hopeless about the uselessness
of being hopeless,
and have nothing to do with it.
It goes nowhere.
It does nothing.
Whether we stick our head in the sand
or cover it up with a blanket
in a dark room,
it’s all the same to the situations
that need our presence
and our compassion
and the good we are capable of doing
when “nothing will do any good.”
Write your postcards.
Make your phone calls.
Do your thing every day,
no matter what,
just because
that is what the situation calls for,
and will
for some time to come.

03/17/2017 — Show up.
Be mindfully, compassionately aware of the moment, each moment.
Be transparent to yourself.
Be engaged without having anything at stake in each situation as it arises.
Be grounded in who you are and what matters to you–
be your identity and your values,
be true to yourself,
be the face that was yours before you were born,
be the still point of the turning world–
in each situation as it arises.
Live in ways that make your little heart sing,
AND do what needs you to do it,
in ways that are appropriate to the occasion–
seeing,
hearing,
knowing,
what is happening
and what needs to happen,
doing what you can do in response
by being who you are
in serving the gifts that are yours to give,
all your life long.
Neither Jesus,
nor the Buddha,
could do it any better.

03/17/2017 — Among the things I am proudest of
are the tales that will never be told.
They form the secret ground of my life,
mirror me to me,
declare who I am
and what I am capable of,
and define me–
identify me–
to myself
in ways that the affirmations
and endorsements
of others
could never do.
I KNOW who I am–
and what I know
cannot be said or shared,
and will forever remain
a quiet reservoir
of soulful waters
into which I look
to see both my reflection
and my depths,
who I am
and who I also am,
which is who I am.
Freeing me to be
who I am needed to be
in each situation as it arises
out of my awareness
of the Me,
the Also Me,
and the Not Me.
Essential knowing
that cannot be known
from books,
or lectures,
or the sage advice
of Those Who Know Best
And Must Be Pleased,
but is readily available
to anyone open
to the experience of her/his experience
with mindful, compassionate,
non-judgmental awareness
of what is to be found there.

4272.  03/17/2017 — Koi Fish 2017 02 — Pike’s Nursery, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 11, 2017

Think of being For The People
as being For ALL Of The People.
Not just the right people,
or the right kind of people,
but for every person
in the entire world of people.
What we need is a list of corporations
and businesses
who are For The People.Hobby Lobby and LLBean would not be on the list.Target would be.

We need to know if a business
is For The People
and support that business,
“voting with our wallet,”
and Standing With The People.

If a corporation/business supports
Planned Parenthood
The American Civil Liberties Union
The Southern Poverty Law Center
The Sierra Club
Greenpeace
Amnesty International
Black Lives Matter
The National Black Justice Coalition
and other human rights organizations,
it is For The People.

And we need to know who they are.

03/18/2017 — Republicans lack grace, kindness, compassion, generosity, gentleness, consideration, sensitivity, heart and soul.

If you think this statement is too sweeping, broad and at odds with the reality of the situation,

Name one bill generated by Republicans in the House or Senate
over the last 8 years and 100 days
that exhibits any of the qualities/values listed therein.

One.

03/18/2017 — Jesus was talking to all of us,
and that includes Republicans,
when he said,
“Don’t love only the people
who can love you back!
Who are your kind of people!
Who do it your way–
the way you think it ought to be done!
Don’t love just your
family and friends,
and “birds of a feather!
Love those who are not like you at all!
Who don’t do a thing you say!
Who do all the things you say don’t do!
Love your enemies!
Love the least of those in every society and culture!
Love those who have been marginalized,
and disenfranchised,
ostracized,
shunned,
condemned
and declared to be untouchable!
Love them all the way you love yourself,
and do unto them all
the way you would have them do unto you.
Then you will be doing it
the way I would do it in your place,
and when you are in me,
I am in you,
and together we will be a source
of goodness and life and life,
the like of which the world has rarely seen.”
Jesus makes it plain,
so that those who run can hear it,
and those who are in a hurry can understand.
So, what’s the problem?

4273.  03/19/2017 — Round-lobed Hepatica 2017 10 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, North Carolina, March 7, 2017

You have to look no further
than the mirror
to see demonstrable proof
of the validity of karma.
Our bodies reveal how we live
and what is important to us.
We are the cumulative buildup
of karma over time.
What we do impacts how things are.
We have an impact
on our own life
and the lives of those around us
by the choices we make.
Our present life is the ripple effect
of choices we made in the past.
What goes around comes around.
The cost of living is the price
of flippant choices we make
before we know anything about choosing.
Everything has antecedents
and descendants.
Nothing is without cause or consequence.
We are the past and the future–
the pivot point from one to the other,
the place of transition,
the fulcrum,
the threshold.
How we act here and now
turns the tide
or not.

03/19/2017 — Our response determines everything
that follows.
Not really, but close enough.
Our response strongly influences everything
that follows.
Our response makes all the difference.
Our response is the doorway
into the future,
and to a large degree
makes that future what it is.
We are the fulcrum,
the pivot point,
the tipping point,
making the situation
what it is capable of becoming.
We cannot just slough it off
as though nothing we do matters.
We shape the world we live in
by the way we live in it.
We cannot throw away
any moment.
Every situation is the crux
of the next.
The next one is different
without this one.
Trump’s carelessness
with his tweets
and his comments,
his lies,
and his contempt for everyone,
creates an environment
that would be quite different
with more compassion and care
for what he is doing
and the people with whom he works.
What is true with Trump
is true with each one of us.
We wield power beyond imagining
by the way we treat
each moment.

03/19/2017 — A poet doesn’t tell you
what she is going to say,
and why.
She says it.
She doesn’t quote 10,000
authorities or sources
to validate what she says.
She says it.
Poetry says
what the poet has to say
and leaves it there
for the reader to pick up
or walk past,
satisfied that she has done her part.

4274.  03/20/2017 — Allegheny Spurge 2017 01 — UNCC Biotanical Gardens, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 18, 2017

What we do with “the time we are given,”
is up to us.
We are in charge of knowing what to do
and doing it.
How we spend our time
governs how we will spend our time.
What is guiding our boat
on its path through the sea?
In light of what do we live?
What is our lodestar,
our foundation stone?
What does our life to this point
suggest in the way of answers
to these questions?
What does our life to this point
suggest about our need
to be more cognizant of
regarding what we are doing,
and who we are?
Our past is a collection
of experiences ready
for reflection in the service
of new realizations.
If our future is to be different
from our past,
it will be because we did
the work of crafting realization
out of reflection
and living in good faith
with the time left to us.
How much of that time
will you spend
in reflection
today?

03/20/2017 — I trust that you are staying informed.
The Washington Post,
New York Times
Huffington Post
MSNBC
CNN
and ABC
are my way of tuning in.
This is the most important
four year term for a President
in my lifetime.
Everything is on the line.
We all have a stake
in what is being said and done.
We cannot hope to know
what our role is,
and will become,
without knowing what’s what
on all levels.
Mindfulness leads the way,
by knowing how things are
ALL things considered.

4275.  03/21/2017 — Peach Blossoms 2017 01 — Springs Farm Orchard, Fort Mill, South Carolina, March 10, 2017

We have to know and be
who we are–
not who we are supposed to be,
not who we want to be,
not who we wish we were,
not who we settled for,
but who we ARE.We have to live in light of
what is important to US
if there were no one around
telling us what is important.
Would what is important to us
be important
if no one was there to make sure
we did the important thing?
Who is in charge of our life?
Whose life are we living?
How different would we be
with no one to please?How different would we be
with no one to displease?
If we are trying to show our father
that he isn’t the boss of us,
he is still directing our life.
How do you get far enough away
from your father–
and all overly-influential people–
to find your own life and live it?

The same goes for Jesus.
Jesus lived following the will
of his inner self
(“The father and I are one”).
That’s the way we all are to do it–
doing what we know needs us to do it
and being willing to go to hell for it,
or to Golgotha,

And who says what that will is?
WE do.
Which means we have to know who we are
and align ourselves
with the will that was ours before we were born,
never mind what anyone else tells us
it should be.

Even Jesus.

We have to be right about it.
Who among us trusts herself,
or himself,
that much?
We all have to live to be
that person.

03/21/2017 — There is nothing wrong
with helping those who need help.
Which is a concept
Republicans cannot grasp.
The Republican position is:
If you need help,
you clear do not deserve to be helped–
because you haven’t been doing the things
that would prevent you from falling into
the plight you are in.
Self-discipline, self-reliance and self-determination
are all a person needs,
according to the Republican Doctrine
the be self-sustaining and independent,
which is the happy state of all those
who deserved to be helped beyond their means,
with, say, income tax benefits to the wealthy.

Of course, at this point in my discourse,
Jesus comes to mind.
Jesus did not vet anyone
who needed his help.
He said, “Inasmuch as you have done it,
or not done it,
to the least of my brothers and sisters
(that is, the marginalized, disenfranchised,
shunned, ostracized,
and declared to be Unclean)
you have done it, or not done it,
unto me.”
To not help those who need help
for any reason
is to spit on Jesus.

When the Good Samaritan helped
the Jewish man in the ditch,
he did not first check his references,
inquire about his character,
and ask for evidence
of his value to society,
or explore how his investment
would pay off over time.
He simply helped him.

The Prodigal’s father did not probe
his son’s past for damning evidence,
or ask about his future intentions,
in order to determine if it would be
“of value” to kill the fatted calf
and welcome his son back home.

Republicans are on the outs with Jesus,
and Jesus would welcome them in,
but Republicans wouldn’t associate
with the company that would include them.

How to wake them up to the importance
of helping those who need help
is beyond me and Jesus.
Someone else is going
to have to figure that one out.

4276.  03/22/2017 — Goodale Mirror 2015 04 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 2015

Republicans take as their fundamental truth
that Big Government is a Bad Thing.
I take as my fundamental truth
that Big Enough Government is a Necessary Thing.
Government is “of the people, by the people, for the people,”
and has to be big enough
to carry out its responsibilities to the people:
“To form a more perfect union,
To establish justice,
To insure domestic tranquility,
To provide for the common defense,
To promote the general welfare,
And to secure the blessings of liberty
to ourselves and our posterity…”
We established a Constitution
to govern our government.
To reduce the government
past the point of carrying out its
duties to the people
is to violate the Constitution
and reject its guarantees.
When Republicans refuse all protections and services
except “provide for the common defense,”
they are failing the people
and the Constitution
which they swore
“to preserve, protect and defend.”
When they say they are
“passing on to the States
the role of establishing justice,
insuring domestic tranquility,
promoting the general welfare”
and taking care of providing
an infrastructure that serves these things,
Republicans are refusing
responsibilities incumbent upon them,
are guilty of treason and sedition,
and are a threat to both democracy
and national security.

03/22/2017 — “Let it go!”
“Give it a rest!”
“Back off!”
“Get over it!”
“Give Trump a chance!”
Said his supporters
after the election,
after the inauguration,
after the first week…
We looked at the same reality
and saw different worlds.
What’s the fix for that?
Facts looked at
but not seen,
glossed over,
denied,
ignored…
give us a world
of our own imagining–
a world we wish were real,
where things are
as we want them to be.
We filter everything seen
through our wishes,
wants and desires,
seeing and hearing
what we yearn to believe is so,
and declaring it to be so,
mindlessly going about our life
with a complete lack
of self-transparency,
always shocked and dismayed
that things turn out to be
what they always were,
with only ourselves to blame
for our oversight,
blaming everyone else,
while spinning the truth again
into some expanded lie,
never standing
(God forbid!)
naked and exposed
before the facts of life,
to deal with them
as they need to be dealt with
in each situation as it arises
all our life long.

03/22/2017 — Republicans in Congress
care more about Party loyalty
than the welfare of the people
they represent.
The Republican Agenda
is more important
than the People’s Needs.
The idea of Congress
helping people
is anathema to Republicans.
They have an ideology to serve,
a Platform to effect,
they can’t be bothered
with the people.
Why the people
put up with it
is beyond me.

03/22/2017 — I’m holding everyone I have ever known
responsible for my ignorance
about the importance
of mindfulness
in being centered,
grounded
and growing up.

Why do we have to
stumble into
the power of mindfulness?
Why isn’t that taught
from birth forward?

You ARE watching
the Jon Kabat-Zinn
YouTube videos,
aren’t you?

4277.  03/23/2017 — Bloodroot 2017 10 — NCCC Botanical Gardens, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 18, 2017Two people look at the same thing
and see different things–
because of the stake they have
in the determination.
There is a reason
we see things as we do.
We have a stake
in seeing the way we see.
We are not free,
any of us,
none of us,
to see any old way at all.
We don’t wake up,
in any sense of the phrase,
and say,
“I think I will see like this today.”
We see how we see
when we went to bed.
And we see how we see
when we wake up.
And that is how we see.
The tragic mistake
is to mistake how we see things
for how things are.
How things are
is all the ways they can be seen–
including the ways we cannot see them
because they are invisible to us.
To see things as they are
is to see things as they also are,
and might yet be.
What do we have riding on
how we see things?
What do we have at stake
in the way we see?
How is it paying off for us
to see as we do?
What do we gain by it?
What do we have invested in it?
Being curious about how we see–
being mindful of how we see–
enlarges how we see,
and enables us to see more
than we though was there.
Being chained to the way we see forever
is death,
no matter how we see.
Seeing is expansive, enlarging, transforming, transcending…
dragging us along with it,
growing us up as it wakes us up,
forcing us to see whether we want to
or not.
Seeing is like dying.
Failing/refusing to see is like being dead.
Have seeing at stake in how you see.
It will change everything.In a life and death, life and death, life and death…
kind of way.

03/23/2017 — A man found a fledgling Golden Eagle,
and took it into his care,
raising it into young adulthood,
and teaching it to hunt.
He would take the eagle out
every day to forage and hunt.
He would wait for the eagle to return,
or whistle for the eagle to return,
and take it home to the enclosure he had built.
He told me he was waiting
for the day the eagle did not return.
That was yesterday.

The man and the eagle had a life together.
And they each had a life apart.
The eagle was growing into his Other Life,
and it was the man’s place to let it go.
It is that way with our children,
and with ourselves.
We are the man and the eagle.
We cannot forsake our Other Life
in order to stay forever
in the enclosure the man builds for us.
If our man-side doesn’t know
what he is doing,
he can obstruct and prevent
the development of our eagle-side.
He can do that in a viscous,
cruel and heartless way,
or in a loving, gentle well-meaning way.
Either way, it is death
to the Other Life of the eagle–which is death to the eagle.

How are you tending the eagle that is in your care?

03/23/2017 — Jesus didn’t change a thing!
The idea that he died on the cross
and secured our forgiveness
and ever-lasting salvation
misses two key points:
1). It doesn’t work if we don’t believe that he did,
2). AND mind our P’s and Q’s,
Walk the straight and narrow,
Toe the line,
Keep the Commandments,
Live a Godly, Righteous and Sober Life,
So that God is happy with us
All the way to the end
in order to get into heaven when we die.
In other words, nothing changes.

Before Jesus died on the cross,
we had to do all these things
in order to make God happy with us
and get into heaven when we die.
And after Jesus died on the cross,
we still have to do the same things,
only now we have to have faith in Jesus
on top of everything else.

It was all on us before he died.
It is all on us after he died.
Jesus didn’t change a thing!
They don’t tell you that in Sunday School,
but it is all right there
in what they do tell you.
Ask them to clear it up for you,
next chance you get.

03/23/2017 — “Russian state terrorism”
is a term for Russian assassins
murdering enemies of Putin throughout Europe—
a man Trump admires because
“he has strong control over his country.”
Isn’t that enough said?
Why can’t people look at that
and know who Trump is?

03/23/2017 — What Jesus did
was to live transparent to himself.
Jesus displayed the face that was his
before he was born.
Jesus said “The Father and I are one,”
talking about the soul-self within–
within all of us–
the one who knows,
the ground, the foundation,
the lodestar,
the bedrock,
“the still point of the turning world,”
the seat,
the source,
of our identity and values…
Jesus was one with that.
And when he said
“I am the way, the truth, and the life
and no one comes to the Father
but by me,”
(which was, by the way, after he had said
twice before,
“No one can come to me
unless the Father draws them”),
he meant
no one can get to the core of who they are
without being who Jesus was:
self-transparent
and aligned with the foundation stone
of their own identity.
The theologies,
doctrines,
creeds,
and ideologies
are red herrings
keeping us from displaying
the face that was ours before we were born–
from finding and living the life
that is our life to live
within the life we are living.
Jesus lived with complete integrity.
He was who he was.
And he died in service to the truth
of his own being.
Christians are “little Christs,”
who live in the service to the truth
of their own being,
doing it they way only they can,
with the gifts and perspective
that are theirs alone.
No clones,
no robots,
individuals every one,
true to themselves
and the bedrock
that is “the Father” within.

4278.  03/24/2017 — Limbs and Branches 2017 02 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 13, 2017

Our life is a vehicle of self-revelation.
Even when we use it
to hide from ourselves,
we expose ourselves
as those who cannot bear
to know themselves.
Everything we do says,
“Look! Here I am! This is ME!”
And, we are speaking,
of course,
to ourselves.
We live trying to get ourselves
to know ourselves–
with understanding, compassion,
joy and gladness–
to enjoy the experience
of being alive together
with ourselves.
How far people are
from being able to know,
love,
and enjoy themselves,
is staggering,
and sad beyond measure.
Why would we live
to have nothing to do
with who we are?

03/25/2017 — If Republicans had a good faith interest
in improving health care
for people in the United States,
there would be nothing to it.
You and I could do that
in six months,
with time to spare.
Republicans come at “health care”
with an agenda:
Erase the memory (and mention) of Obama
from the annals of time.
Whether or not they improve health care
for anyone is immaterial.
What matters is repealing Obama.
Republicans carry a burden
no one can remove for them,
and the country suffers immeasurably
because of their failure/refusal
to face up to that
and grow beyond it.

4279.  03/25/2017 — Toad Trillium 2017 01 — NCCU Botanical Gardens, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 18, 2017

“Why” isn’t so much “caused” by something,
as it is “required,” or “needed,” by something.
An acorn “breaks out” of its shell,
much like a chick does,
sending a root into the earth
and a sprout out of the earth,
and the acorn “knows”
which to send where,
because it needs to know
only that much,
then and there.
As things happen with the acorn’s development,
other things that it “knows” will
be brought forth in their time,
and an oak tree will become itself–
not just any oak tree,
but the oak tree that
was its acorn’s potential
as it was produced by the tree
that gave it “birth.”
The roots, the trunk, the limbs, branches and leaves
happen because the tree-ness of the tree
needs them to happen.
They all serve the “idea” of “the particular tree”
that was “the face that was theirs before they were born.”
An oak tree will become the oak tree
it is capable of becoming
if the requirements for light, water and fertile soil
are met through every stage
of the tree’s life.
A human being can interfere
with the process of its own development
by wanting what it has no business having,
or avoiding the very things
that are required by its present
stage of development.The “idea” of the “human-ness”
of each particular human being
will strive to assert itself
over against the efforts
of the particular human being
to avoid its destiny.
Our symptoms can be “caused”
by our repressed, suppressed, denied, ignored
need to be who we are.
They can also be caused
by the failure of our environment
to provide the conditions required
for our development.
Either way,
we have to consciously cooperate
with the developmental requirements
specific to our individual expression
of the potentialities of the species.
We do that by the way we live our life.
Mindful, compassionate, non-judgmental awareness
is our path to knowing what needs to be known
in becoming who we need to be
in each situation as it arises
for our own good
and the good of the situation as a whole.
It is spiritual nourishment for our soul.

03/25/2017 — Remember those dreary old prayers of confession
every week in the liturgy
of the church of our experience?
“We have followed too much the devices and desires
of our own heart (or have not listened to our heart at all)…”
Well, they have a place in the life of the Penitent
in every age and land,
when spoken to the Soul-Self within us all.
“We have gone our own way,
doing the things we ought not to have done,
and not doing the things we ought to have done,
and we have nothing to offer in our defense!
We can only acknowledge how things have been,
and declare our intentional, deliberate, willfulness
in remaining ever vigilant, ever mindful, ever aware,
in turning from our past
and embracing our future–
endeavoring in each situation as it arises
to live aligned with the inner drift of our Soul,
to display the face that was ours before we were born,
and to be who we are needed to be–
who only we can be–
in the here and now of our living,
all our life long.”

4280.  03/26/2017 — Cardinal 2017 03 Detail — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, March 15, 2017

I have never had a motive I fully understood.
All of them are mixed,
and murky,
as though my behavior
arises on its own
from the depths of unknowing.
Even when I “know,”
I don’t know what I am doing.
I am certainly not the product
of my own design.
I do not direct my own development.
Nothing about me is intentional
and deliberate
personal design.
Yet, everything about me
has the distinctive stamp of “me”
about it.
I look at it all,
from my earliest memory
to this present moment,
and can say only,
“Yes, that is just like me,”
to everything.
I shine through in all of it.
What is going on?
My life is me,
and I had nothing to do with it,
in terms of working it out beforehand
as an engineer or contractor
might draw up a blueprint
and then build a bridge or a building.
I had no blueprint,
yet, my life bespeaks of me
throughout it.
I am a complete mystery
to myself,
and wonder what I will find myself doing

03/26/2017 — I have a voice for every situation,
a personality for every condition of life.
Somebody within me
is capable of rising to every occasion.
I trust him, and her, to do that–
to be, say, and do what is needed.
My place is to step back,
stand aside,
listen,
look,
and let whomever says,
“Give ME the BALL!”
have the ball.
I recommend that you
share the stage
with your entire repertoire–
without thinking you deserve the credit.
Share it
with all your people.
Know you are not IT–
you ALL are–
and you will be just fine.

4281.  03/27/2017 — Rue Anemone 2017 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks and Recreation, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 6, 2017

We are accountable for the way we see things.
It is no accident that we see the way we do.
It is a moral choice,
to see as we see.
The way we see is the way we like to see,
the way we think things should be see,
the way everybody should see things–
a moral position if ever there were one!The way we see things is simply the way we see things,
yet we are convinced it is a morally solid,
defensible and binding way of seeing things–
it is THE way to see things.Everyone thinks the way they see things
is THE way to see things.
Everyone thinks their way of seeing
is morally superior to everybody else’s
way of seeing.

WE ARE MORALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE WAY WE SEE THINGS!
WE ARE MORALLY ACCOUNTABLE FOR HOW WE BELIEVE
THINGS ARE!

Yet, we make our decisions about how we see/think/feel
completely unconsciously,
without awareness.
We don’t know why we see/think/feel the way we do.

We are sure it is the Right Way to see/think/feel.

People are always teaching us about Right and Wrong,
often without saying anything.
We grow up knowing how our parents see/think/feel,
without ever talking about the whys and wherefores,
about the foundations and the implications,
about the matrix, the Gestalt,
from which their views are generated.
Nobody thinks about their thinking.
Nobody knows why they think the way they think
and not some other way instead.
The way we think is the most moral thing about us
and we never give it a thought.

We have to assume responsibility
for what we hold to be good,
and ruthlessly examine
how good the good is we call good.
Good for whom?
Bad for whom?
Based on what?
What makes us think
that the way we think
is the way we ought to think?
The way everyone ought to think?
What supports us in our contention?
How do we know we know what we are talking about?
What is the evidence?
What is the evidence to the contrary?
Who says so?
Who says not so?
What do we say?
Based on what?

We see things the way we do
because we have a stake
in things being the way
we say they are.
We say our way of seeing reality
IS reality,
when, in fact, our way of seeing reality
says more about us
than it says about reality.
It reveals who we are,
by showing us how we want things to be–
how we think things ought to be.
To say, “Things are the way
I see them,”
is to say, “I want, I need, things to be
the way I see them.”
How we see things
expresses our identity.
How we see
declares who we are.

We don’t give a damn about the people
we don’t give a damn about–
and the way we see them
gives us all the reason we need
to not give a damn about them.
The way we see justifies our actions,
condones our immoral treatment
of those who do not see as we do,
and positions us to live exactly as we do.

I would say we have quite a stake
in seeing as we do.
I would also say we have the responsibility
for seeing our seeing
and being accountable for how we see,
and for how our seeing
fuels our actions
and directs our living.
How we see is a moral choice
we have to consciously make
based on the outcomes it creates
in the life we live.

03/27/2017— We cannot use
“the way we see things,”
or
“the way things are,”
to justify our actions
as right and beyond refute
or criticism.
What is right about the way we see things?
What is right about the way things are?
What is right about the Bible’s way of seeing things?
What, I like to ask, made slavery wrong?
IT WASN’T THE BIBLE!
What made witch hunts and drowning’s wrong?
IT WASN’T THE BIBLE!
What made all forms of discrimination,
and persecution,
and humiliation,
and degradation,
and harassment,
and intimidation,
and bigotry,
and misogyny,
and homophobia,
and etc.
wrong???
IT WASN’T THE BIBLE!
The Bible has been used to support, condone and require
all of the inequities and mistreatment
that have been piled upon people
through the ages.
What is right about thinking this is right?
What is right about thinking all,
or any,
forms of sexual, racial, religious, etc. injustice and maltreatment
is right?
“Treat those you hate lovingly,” said Jesus.
“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
“Be a good neighbor to all who come your way.”
“As you do it, or do it not, to anyone, no matter how insignificant,
you do it, or do it not, unto me.”
Everyone knows what is right and what is wrong
as it applies to them, personally.
You would never think it is right
for you to be bullied, belittled and made to wish
you were dead.
Never.
So don’t catch yourself saying it is right
to treat someone else that way.
And change the way you see things
to take this little rule into account.

03/27/2017 — We are morally responsible
for the way we see things–
for the good we say is good.
We owe it to ourselves
and to one another
to be right about what we say is right,
and wrong.
We have to know what we are doing.
It is our moral obligation.

4282.  03/28/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 27 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 11, 2016

What are you proud of doing,
of having done?
What are the things
that feel most right
about the life you are living?
What are your sources
of satisfaction?
Peace?
Confidence?
Joy?
In what way
is the importance
of all these things
reflected
in how you spend your time?

03/78/2017 — I think the Bannon Strategy is to overwhelm
his opposition (that would be us and those like us)
with one outlandish desecration
of human rights, sensibilities, and values
after another.
His Sacred is our Profane,
and vice versa.
And he is the leader of the Alt-Right
in and out of Congress,
the spokesman and architect
of the Tea Party Takeover of Government
and life in the United States.
Our response is clear:
Oppose,
Protest,
Resist,
Denounce
and stay focused on the goal:
11/2018 Midterm Elections!

4283.  03/29/2017 — Carolina Jasmine 2017 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, February 27, 2017

We are morally responsible for the way we see things.
All ways are not equal.
One way is not “just as good as another.”
Each way has its own blind spots,
its own contradictions.
No way is The Way all to itself.
We are deepened, enlarged, expanded
through our engagement with
all other ways of seeing.Carl Jung makes two complimentary observations:
“One is always in the dark about one’s own personality.
One needs others to get to know oneself.”
And, “It is the individual’s task to differentiate himself/herself
from all the others and stand on his/her own feet.”

We cannot see well alone,
and we are responsible for how we see all things.
We evaluate the different ways of evaluating reality,
and choose for ourselves how we will see things.
Seeing things as they are
is possible only for those
who see how they see things
and hold all things
in their awareness,
knowing completely
what they are saying yes to,
and what they are saying no to,
in each situation as it rises–
glossing over nothing,
dismissing nothing out of hand,
discounting, disregarding, denying nothing
unconsciously, unexamined, unknown.

We cannot hope to see without looking.
We have to look with awareness
at every little thing,
aware of ourselves being aware,
and choose for ourselves
what it means for us,
and what we will do about it,
in response to it,
in each situation as it arises.

Seeing is exhausting,
time-consuming,
values-laden,
and essential.
We are morally responsible for seeing,
and for how we see.
To reject that responsibility
is to not see at all.

03/29/2017 — During the Late Middle Ages,
with heresies abundant and abounding,
the Church had a rule
known only to the core
Keepers of the Faith:
“A promise made to heretics is not binding.”
Republicans seem to be operating
from a similar position today.
“Tell them anything to put them off your back
and calm them down,
and don’t change what you are doing!”

03/29/2017 — I’m near the end
of the third volume
of Joseph Campbell’s
masterpiece of the history
of mythology/religion
(And where does that line lie?
Campbell said, “A myth is someone else’s religion,”
and the line is drawn by those
who are sure there is nothing mythological
about their religion),
The Masks of God.

It is clear at this point in the series
that there is bad religion
and there is good religion.
If religion serves the advantages of its adherents,
confirms their biases,
unleashes their bigotry,
justifies their desire and their greed,
fuels their hatred,
condemns and abases their enemies,
never calls them into question,
restrains their ambition
or restricts the exercise of their power
or their quest for power,
but allows them to treat those
with less power than they have
any way they wish,
it is bad religion.

4284.  03/30/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 12 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016We have been separated from ourselves
by the 10,000 things,
and have to find our way back
to the face that was ours
before we were born–
we have to find our way back
to Eden and the life that
would have been ours
before we thought
we could think one up
that would be just as good
and most likely better.
We come from the womb
into the world of ideas
about how life should be lived.
We are overwhelmed by the possibilities,
with only fear and desire as guides,
and no way of knowing
how to know what is truly best
for anyone.
Ambition is no substitute
for instinct, intuition and insight–
but “This isn’t it” clouds every path.
Knowing what we know
is the switch that turns on the light.
The catch is that we cannot stand
knowing what we know.
It’s too painful,
too frightening,
too much like dying.
No one gets back to Eden
without facing the angel
with the flaming sword.
Death is the price of life.
Knowing what we know
is knowing the truth
that frees us from fear and desire
and allows us to respond
to each situation as it arises
with what we have to give
from the treasure we are.
We receive ourselves
in giving ourselves away.

4285.  03/30/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 46 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016There are two rules
for establishing and maintaining
your wellbeing
and serving your life:
See what you look at.
Know what you know.
The two rules need to be understood
in this way:
See everything about everything you look at.
Know ALL you know on every level.
The two rules can be elaborated
in this way:
See what you look at
in its allness,
in its just-so-ness,
in its just-as-it-is-ness–
which also includes
how you react to it,
what it stirs to life and brings forth in you,
what it means to you,
and what all is attached to it
in a great train of associations
stemming from what it means to you,
and from what it stirs to life and brings forth in you.
Know what you know
in its allness,
in its just-so-ness,
in its just-as-it-is-ness–
which also includes
how you react to it,
what it stirs to life and brings forth in you,
what it means to you,
and what all is attached to it
in a great train of associations
stemming from what it means to you,
and from what it stirs to life and brings forth in you.
Seeing and knowing in this way
will transform your life
and radically alter the world.

03/30/2017 — Republicans’ motto is
“We Don’t Care!”
But that isn’t true.
They care about destroying democracy.
They care about Profit At Any Price.
They care about increasing the plight of–
and the burden borne by–
women
Muslims
the middle class
the poor
LGBTQ’s
Blacks
immigrants
Latinos
let’s just say everybody
other than themselves.
They care a lot about themselves.

4286.  03/31/2017 — Falling 2017 02 — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 30, 2017We are always defining ourselves,
identifying ourselves,
bringing ourselves forth in our life,
being who we are–
mindfully or mindlessly,
intentionally or unintentionally,
consciously or unconsciously–
with every choice,
action,We are always exactly who we are.
Who is fooling whom,
is the question.
If we are not living mindfully,
we are presenting ourselves
for everyone to see
but us.
Donald Trump is mindlessly
on display for all the world to see.
He is the only one
with no idea of who he is.
All the Republicans fall in line behind him.
They think they are being one way,
all purist and ideological,
but they are fooling themselves.
They cannot see
what is plainly the case
for everyone else.
Self-transparency is the hardest thing.
When we think we have it down,
we don’t.
But it only takes seeing
to see.

4287.  04/01/2017 — Chemung County Barn 05 B, Elmira, New York, September 23, 2015At some point, we have settle into our life
just as it is,
here and now,
in a “this is it,
what am I going to do with it?”
kind of way.
Or not.
That is the swing point
between a life well-lived,
and a life not lived at all.
Heart is the easiest thing to lose,
giving up on our life
is the easiest thing to do.
Drive by any crack house,
or any meth lab,
or any bar–
gathering places
for the hopelessly helpless,
where everyone is reciting the mantra,
“‘I coulda had class.
I coulda been a contender.
I coulda been somebody’–
if only things had gone my way
instead of the way they went…
Poor me, poor me.
I never had a chance.
The deck was stacked against me
from the start.”
What are we going to do
with a deck stacked against us?
That’s the question
that separates us
at the swing point.
Ulysses looking up at the Cyclops,
could have said,
“Poor me, poor me…”
But he said,
“And when the heaving sea
has shaken my raft to pieces,
then I will swim!”
What say we?

04/01/2017 — Ideology, theology and agendas
are death to our ability
to live in the moment,
aware of the moment,
open to the needs of the moment–
with eyes to see,
ears to hear,
and a heart capable of understanding
what’s what
and what needs to be done
in response to it.
We cannot be alive
and live as robots
serving a program
that too easily becomes a pogrom
carried out against
all who oppose
the ideology, theology and agenda
of Those Who Know Best
And Must Be Pleased.

4288.  04/01/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 34 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016

Consciousness is built to transcend–
span, bridge, connect, commune with,
understand, know–
the two worlds,
visible and invisible,
psychic and physical,
tangible and intangible,
real and real…
We are the hope of the psychic world,
the hope of the psyche,
the daughters and sons of god,
born to incarnate,
reveal,
bring forth,
make known,
solid,
actual,
enfleshed
and apparent
in the world of space and time,
the truth that comprises
the essence of heart and soul.
We are failing our purpose.
All that depends upon us
languishes for want of cooperation
and allegiance.
Jesus could say,
“Thy will, not mine, be done,”There were few before and after him.
Yet, we all have what it takes,
if we but take the time
to learn the language of soul and heart–
the language of metaphor,
symbol,
poetry,
instinct,
intuition,
imagination
and creativity–
the language of silence
and the realization of connection,
bridging the gap
between that world and this one.

04/01/2017 — You know how hard it is
to live with a bully/abuser,
if you have ever lived with one
you know how hard it is.
There is nothing like being
verbally attacked
and belittled,
ridiculed
and humiliated,
for having thoughts,
ideas,
inclinations,
interests,
perspectives,
values,
and ways of being
that are unacceptable
to the wielder of power
over your life.
Robbed of our own voice,
our own views,
is to be robbed of our own
heart, mind and soul,
and to be rendered lifeless
though we remain
98.6 and breathing
through long years
of being dead.

4289.  04/02/2017 — Periwinkle 2017 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 12, 2017It takes time
to take our time
with the moment,
to be aware
of the situation as it arises
every time it arises.
We think we have
more important
things to do.

4290.  04/03/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 23 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016We are responsible
for the way we see things.
How we see
determines what we see.
Perspective dictates perception.
We all would benefit
from a perspective
that takes itself into account.
Seeing our seeing,
holding everything in awareness,
just looking, just seeing, just being aware
shifts the rush to judgment
by making the tendency
to rush to judgment
one more aspect of our awareness.
Our interpretation of reality
begins to match reality
as we become aware
of the difference
between reality and interpretation–
between what is happening
and what we are telling ourselves
about what is happening.
The meaning something has for us
is the meaning we say it has for us.
The meaning we decide it has.
The same event/fact
means something else
to someone else.
What it means to us
depends on
“what we bring to the table.”
Awareness moderates,
modifies,
the meanings that rule our life.
Holding everything in awareness
changes everything.

04/03/2017 — What keeps us from saying, “NO!”
to Stupid?
What keeps us saying,
“Let’s give Stupid a chance!”?
What leads us to fall in line
behind Stupid?
To rally around Stupid?
To curry up to Stupid?
What keeps us from
seeing what we look at,
and saying, “NO!” to Stupid?
04/03/2017 — In a healthy family,
everyone bears her/his own pain–
consciously, intentionally, voluntarily–
and no one tries to rescue
anyone from the legitimate suffering
that comes with being alive.
They recognize it,
accept it,
talk about it,
and work through it
together.
In a dysfunctional family
there is a scapegoat,
sometimes a black sheep,
who bears the unacknowledged pain
everyone else is too preoccupied
to recognize and admit.
How we bear our pain
is the primary indicator
of the quality of our life.
I don’t want to know
how happy you are.
I want to know how
you bear your pain.
Thinking about it
shifts our relationship
with it
and invites us to be conscious
of how we do it,
and of how we might do it instead.
A step taken.
A corner turned.
A life changed.

4291.  04/04/2017 — Dogwood 2017 01 Panorama — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 29, 2017Do not strive to make a difference!
There is no greater burden than
trying to will what cannot be willed.
The difference the teacher
who made the most difference in your life
made wasn’t made by trying
to be the best teacher in your life.
It was made by her, by him, being
who she, who he, was.
It was made by her, by him,
embracing her, his,
ineffectual reality
and plugging away,
doing what she, what he, loved
anyway, nevertheless, even so.
Be ineffectual–
and do what makes your
little heart sing!
And do what makes you shine brightly
(As in “Do not keep your lamp
under a basket!”)!
Do what makes you shine
even though it doesn’t make a difference–
and trust it to make all the difference
in your life
and in the lives of other people!

4292.  04/04/2017 — Chemung County Barn 2015 03 — Elmira, New York, September 23, 2015This is how important theology, doctrine, creeds and ideology are:
You can believe anything you want to believe
as long as it helps sustain you
in the work of doing what needs you to do it
in each situation as it arises
with the gifts that are ours to give,
and provides you with the courage
and wherewithal
(like Powermilk Biscuits)
“to get up and do what needs to be done,”
exactly when, and where, and how
it needs to be done,
all your life long.
Or, you could say it like this:
It doesn’t matter what you believe–
it matters what you do,
and how you do it.
Believe whatever it takes to
be the Christ as only you can be the Christ
(The Anointed One of God–
Anointed to be YOU)–
for the good of the situation as a whole
in every situation that comes along
throughout your life.
Belief means nothing
apart from the life it enlivens
to do the work
that waits for us to do it.
If you are going to believe anything,
believe that.

04/04/2017 — I cannot explain
what you cannot understand.
No one can.
Rapport, for instance,
or its absence,
cannot be explained.
It can only be experienced,
or not.
There is nothing we can do
to guarantee its happening,
or to prevent it from happening.
Talking about it
won’t produce it,
or chase it away.
“Clicks” happen of their own accord.
It is no one’s fault if they don’t.

4293.  04/05/2017 — Dogwoods 2017 03 Panorama — Union County, North Carolina, April 4, 2017

We have to be quiet enough
to hear what needs to be heard.
And, we have to develop our critical faculties
to the point
of being able to distinguish
what needs to be heard and heeded
from what needs to be ignored.
When we are quiet,
all the voices clamor for our attention.
As conscious egos,
our role is to listen to them all
and discern the voice of wisdom
from the voice of folly,
and the voice of vindictiveness,
and the voice of fear,
and the voice of hatred,
and every other voice there is.
Mindfulness leads theh way.
As conscious egos,
we hold all the voices in our awareness
and wait to see which voice
is the right voice for the present occasion.
What is being asked of us here and now?
What is happening and what needs to be done about it?
When to act
and when to delay acting
in the service of more reflection/observation
is our call to make.
We can act too soon
and we can wait too long.
What no one can teach us is
when is the time for action
and when is the time to refrain from acting.
We have to know the appointed time
when it comes upon us.
“The fullness of time”
is not just any time.
What to do,
when and how
are our calls to make.
“Why” is one we may never understand,
and do not have to know.
Waiting for “Why?”
keeps the status safely quo.

4294.  04/06/2017 — Allegheny Spurge 2017 03 — UNCC Botanical Gardens, Charlotte, North Carolina, March 18, 2017

Carl Jung said, “Follow that will
and that way which experience
confirms to be your own.”

What, in your experience, has proven, over time,
to be YOU?
What has proven to be NOT YOU?
Go, consciously, with that.

For instance, the people I establish rapport with
are more feminine than masculine,
serving the “soft values” and not the “hard values,”
“feeling” their way along
instead of “thinking” their way there,
relying on instinct, intuition, insight and body language
(the language of their own body
as well as the body language of others)
to guide and direct.

I’m going to consciously serve that trend,
and others like it,
becoming myself more feminine than masculine,
being the woman I am capable of being,
which has nothing to do with sexuality,
and everything to do with sensitivity and awareness.

4295.  04/07/2017 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2017 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, March 6, 2017

Our Inner Work directs and sustains our Outer Work.Outer gets all of our attention,
while Inner languishes
for lack of time and attention.
Finding our voice
and our values,
our bedrock
and our creative fire,
our identity
and our individuality
is the stuff of heart and soul–
which we are here to serve
with our life.
We think our life is here
to serve us
with the modern equivalent
of shiny beads and silver mirrors,
and have only symptoms
to show for relentlessly seeking satisfaction
in things that cannot satisfy.

4296.  04/08/2017 — Black Birch Silhouette 2009 05 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Rocky Knob, Virginia, April 23, 2009

Keep an eye on your discrepancies.
There is the discrepancy between
who you say you are
and who you are.
And there is the discrepancy between
how you want things to be–
how you wish they were–
and how things are.
And there is the discrepancy between
who other people want you to be
and who you are.
And there is the discrepancy between
who you want other people to be
and who they are.
Your particular discrepancies change
throughout your life,

They never disappear.
Unrecognized, unacknowledged, unknown,
they make our life hell.
Recognized, acknowledged, known,
they make our life difficult but manageable.
Jesus said,
“We live under the weight of our own cross,
and that’s the way it is,”
or words to that effect.
Our cross is the discrepancies
we bear to the grave.
We bear them consciously or unconsciously.
We square up to them or pretend them away
(and they never go anywhere
beyond out of sight, out of mind).
Denied, they rule our life.
Owned, they grow us up,
assist us in developing our character
and becoming who we are capable of being,
even now, even yet.
Working with our discrepancies
brings us forth,
makes us known,
gives us shape and form,
substance and solidity,
and reveals the face that was ours
before we were born.

04/08/2017 — Donald Trump is a self-proclaimed
“smart man,”
who can make things up as he goes along
because he is “intuitive”
and knows what’s what.
Donald Trump should have been talking
about Syria
and what we–that is the civilized world
I’m talking about when I say “we”–
are going to do when lines are crossed.
But.
He offends our allies
and plays golf.
Being President is like being
owner and CEO of a large corporation.
Speak and it is done.
Sign executive orders
and the world falls into place.
NOT!
Now what?
Hmmm…
No one knew
that being President
could be so complicated.

04/08/2017 — Trump is unrelenting evidence
of what being flip, casual and uncaring
with our vote will do.
There are people,
look around you,
who are still flip, casual and uncaring
about the first 100 days.
The rest of us have to
take up their slack
and keep up the demand
for accountability,
consciousness
and responsibility
from the person
who would be President.
Keep the fire burning.
It is going to be a long night.
Flipping Georgia
would be just fine with me!

4297.  04/09/2017 — Katahdin Range 2010 Panorama — Sandy Stream Pond, Baxter State Park, Millinocket, Maine, October, 2010

Our work is to know ourselves.
We do not think our way there.
We watch, listen, notice, observe,
reflect, experience our way there.
Knowing ourselves is a life-long
exercise in paying attention.

Solitude, silence, self-reflective awareness,
compassionate, non-judgmental, acceptance,
and keeping faith with ourselves
are tools of the trade.

Integrity is self-transparency,
and living aligned with
the face that was ours before we were born
and the bedrock of character and values
which form the foundation
of our essential identity.

No one can tell us who we are
and who we are not.
We work out for ourselves
what is ME and NOT ME over time–
on the way to being
true to ourselves
as whole, full, complete, true
human beings
living the life that is ours to live
within the life we are living–
the result
of bringing consciousness to bear
upon both of those lives
in walking two paths at the same time
throughout the process of living them
into existence
against all odds.

04/09/2017 — Identity is integrity is individuality.
We are the only one there is–
unique, irreplaceable, and responsible
for bringing ourselves forth
in being who we are,
doing what is ours alone to do.
We don’t do that as someone else,
as a clone,
an android,
a robot,
a puppet,
an extension,
of those
who live around us,
doing what they are
supposed to do,
assembly line workers
producing more workers
to replace themselves
throughout eternity.
Freedom is freedom
from oppression,
freedom to be who we are,
freedom for self-reflection,
self-expression,
self-exploration,
self-development,
self-realization…
Freedom is wasted on those
who will not claim for themselves
the right to know and be who they are.
We make our own declaration of emancipation
by the way we live our life–
the life that is waiting for us to lie it,
wondering what we are waiting for.

4298.  04/10/2017 — Around Bass Lake 36 Panorama — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2015

Carl Jung said, “Anyone who attempts to do both,
to adjust to his group
and at the same time
pursue his/her individual goal,
becomes neurotic.”
We cannot “fit in” and “be true to ourselves.”
Identity is individuality.
We walk two paths at the same time
and know where our ultimate loyalty lies.
We will NOT be a group clone!
We will see what we see,
think what we think,
hear what we hear,
feel what we feel,
know what we know,
experience what we experience,
love what we love,
be who we are–
in secret and underground, perhaps,
if they are burning heretics at the stake,
but we will be self-transparent
to the core,
and know what is true to us,
and serve it in every way we can,
as we look without ceasing
for places and people where
we are free to “come out”
and exhibit “the face that was ours
before we were born.”

One Minute Monologues 037

12/04/2016 – 01/28/2017

  1. 12/04/2016 — Mindfulness is integrity.
    Integrity is impact.
    When we live mindfully,
    we integrate action with awareness–
    the foundation of transcendence and transformation.
    No superhero can do more.
    We think impact is being smart, crafty, slick and sly–
    playing our cards right,
    and shinning brightly for all to see
    Impact is seeing what needs to be done
    down to the smallest details
    and doing it with the gifts that are ours to offer
    in each situation as it arises,
    day in and day out,
    through all the times and places,
    conditions and circumstances,
    of our life.
    Impact is cumulative,
    not episodic.
    It builds up over time.
    It is karmic,
    gathering around us,
    characteristic of us,
    as the overriding quality
    of our body of work,
    of who we are,
    of who we show ourselves to be,
    in rising to the occasion
    on every occasion,
    and offering there what is needed
    for the good of the whole.
  2. 12/04/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 17 Panorama—Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016
    Gratitude requires us to live in ways
    that deepen and expand the possibility
    and capacity of everyone to be grateful.
    It requires us to live in the service
    of giving people reasons to be grateful.
    Don’t think you’ve done anything
    when you tell someone to be grateful!
    Live to make others grateful
    to have you in their life!
    Live to be a reason for gratitude
    in the lives of others!
    Don’t tell people to be thankful!
    Live with them in ways that leave them no choice in the matter!
    That’s passing it on.
  3. 12/05/2016 — Goodale 2016 12/13 Panorama—Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    We live against a backdrop
    of uncertainty, insecurity, instability,
    and have to make our peace with it,
    trusting ourselves to rise to the occasion
    and make the fitting response
    no matter what manifestation of the Cyclops
    stands in our path.
    We have to be secure in ourselves,
    grounded on the truth of our identity,
    who we are, what our business is,
    and what qualities have highest value for us
    that we live to exhibit
    in every circumstance of life.
    Centered on that foundation,
    we have what it takes to face what faces us,
    and to find what we need to do what is needed
    in each situation as it arises.
    This is called being unshakeable in ourselves.
    It is the key to life upon the heaving waves
    of the wine-dark sea:
    ”And when the sea has shaken my raft to pieces,
    then I will swim!”
  4. 12/05/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 11 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    Without us, there are no sacred places.
    Human beings set places apart
    as being sacred and special to human beings.
    Birds poop all over them.
    As do elephants and grizzly bears.
    Toilets are everywhere to birds, elephants and grizzlies.
    Only a human being
    would think of never desecrating a place
    she, or he, had designated as a place holy unto her, unto him.
    We walk through the world setting places apart,
    yet, there are no unholy places for eyes that see.
    Eyes that see into the heart of things,
    sees holiness everywhere.
    But holiness is, like beauty, in the eyes of the beholder.
    And if we don’t see holiness, or beauty, anywhere,
    that, too, is an aspect of the seer, not the seen.
    We project onto the world
    what we are capable of perceiving about the world.
    The world reflects our projection back to us,
    and shows us our soul.
    When we look,
    we see the holiness, and the beauty, of our own soul,
    calling us to sit for a while
    and absorb the wonder of being alive
    in the time and place of our living.
    Or not.
  5. 12/06/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 12 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    We think it is about having our way
    and getting what we want.
    It is about coming to terms
    with what we have
    and living within the context and circumstances
    of our life
    in ways that are true
    to the truth of how things are
    and who we are,
    so that the life we live
    is an authentic expression
    of the best we have to offer
    in each situation as it arises
    with no denial or pretension
    anywhere to be found,
    but with grace and compassion
    for what is happening
    and what is to be done about it
    through all of the times and places
    of our living.
  6. 12/06/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 9/10 Panorama—Union County, South Carolina, November 18, 2016
    When the center of society and culture fails to hold
    it is left to individuals to devote themselves
    to the care and maintenance of their relationship
    with their own center of heart and soul.
    We have to be clear about our identity,
    about who we are and what our business is,
    about what is the grounding foundation
    of our life–
    what we believe to be of highest value,
    what we can trust ourselves to with unshakeable conviction,
    what we live to do,
    who we live to be,
    what matters most
    and has our highest loyalty,
    our deepest devotion.
    Mindful awareness,
    compassion
    and unwavering service to heart and soul
    compose my Holy Trinity,
    are the grounding foundation of my life.
    You best be finding your way
    to your own ground and foundation.
    You’ll need it
    when that other center fails to hold.
  7. 12/07/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 01 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 11, 2016
    When Jesus says, at the beginning of the Sermon on the Mount,
    “Do not think I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets,
    I have not come to abolish, but to fulfill,”
    he is not talking about the letter of the Law or the Prophets,
    but the spirit of both.
    He spends the rest of the Sermon on the Mount
    abolishing the letter of both Law and Prophets,
    and, hence, throwing out the Bible of his day
    (which is the thing to do with all Bibles of every day),
    with his “You have heard it said, but I say unto you.”
    However, his words, and his life, clearly express his vital interest
    in the spirit at the heart of all spiritual works,
    and so, he can say, “I tell you that heaven and earth may pass away,
    but not a jot, not one iota, will pass from the Law or Prophets until all is accomplished.”
    That is to say, the spirit and heart of Law and Prophets are the foundation of life,
    and will outlast everything.
    That spirit and heart were the very ground of Jesus’ life:
    “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
    “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.”
    “Love your enemies.”
    “In as much as you have done it, or not done it, to the least of my brothers and sisters,
    you have done it, or not done it, to me.”
    And my personal favorite:
    “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right—
    and be right about it?”
    That’s the essence of spirituality in every religion—
    being what the situation needs us to be
    with the gifts that are ours to give,
    regardless of what the Law or the Prophets
    would have us do,
    is exactly, precisely, what the Law and the Prophets
    would have us do!
  8. 12/07/2016 — November Orchard 2016 04 — Springs Farm, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016
    ”Sit quietly,” said the Buddha, “Wait it out.
    And when the time for acting comes upon you,

    Or words to that effect.
    When waiting,
    we tend to forget the acting part.
    And, when acting,
    we tend to forget the waiting part.
    More importantly,
    we forget the importance
    of knowing what time it is.
    It is time to wait,
    or is it time to act?
    It’s always time for something.
    Knowing what,
    and what not,
    is crucial knowing.
  9. 12/08/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 13/14/15 Panorama—Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    What are you most afraid of?
    The Buddha was afraid of suffering,
    and went to great lengths to avoid it,
    eventually declaring himself–
    or The Self–
    to be an illusion,
    and suffering along with it:
    No Self, No Suffering,
    it’s only apparent, not real.
    That’s one way to do it.
    Alcoholics do much the same thing.
    Nothing is real as long as you’re drunk.
    All they need is a drunk that never ends.
    What is your deepest fear?
    How do you deal with it?
    I recommend recognizing our fear
    as one of the many manifestations of the Cyclops
    blocking our path
    (Others are desire/greed, duty/responsibility, hatred/jealousy/envy).
    in a “That, too. That, too.” kind of way.
    And staying on the path.
    Whatever the distraction,
    come back to the path.
    Holding everything in awareness,
    we maintain our focus
    on remaining true to ourselves
    in every condition and circumstance of life,
    living with the moment,
    in the situation of the moment,
    as only we can do it,
    for the good of the whole.
    Nothing can take away our ability
    to respond to it
    mindfully, with grace and compassion,
    courage and imagination,
    curious as to how we might deal with this
    in ways that are good for all.
    What are you afraid of?
    Find your center and foundation,
    and stay on the path.
  10. 12/08/2016 — Congaree 2016 07 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Nothing can happen to us
    that we cannot deny–
    or hold in mindful awareness.
    Of the two,
    which do you choose?
  11. 12/08/2016 — Ginkos 2016 01 Panorama—Ballantyne Commons, Charlotte, NC, December 8, 2016
    The more we believe something
    the truer it becomes for us.
    Our beliefs have a self-validating aspect
    which bears them out in our life,
    and their reality becomes plainly evident to us over time.
    This is the foundation of all superstitions.
    We begin with the belief that
    wearing the sock with the hole in the heel
    brings good fortune our way,
    and things happen to prove we are right–
    and you couldn’t buy that sock for $20.
    This is the way belief works.
    That being the case,
    we would be smart to believe things
    that will have a valuable impact for good in our life.
    For instance,
    we might believe that what we do matters–
    that how we live is the most important thing.
    We might believe that how well we treat others
    creates lasting change for good in their life.
    We might believe that there are no throw-away moments,
    that every occasion is the swing point
    for every occasion that flows from it.
    You get the idea.
    We live like our life carries weight,
    has significance,
    impacts the lives of others for good,
    transforms the world.
    If you are going to believe anything,
    believe that–
    and live as though it is so!
    BOOM!
    Like that,
    nothing is what it would have been
    if you had not believed it
    and lived it out in the world.
  12. 12/09/2016 — Ginkgos 2016 03 Panorama—Ballantyne Commons, Charlotte, NC, December 8, 2016
    How long can you tread water?
    Hold your breath?
    Maintain your perspective, attitude, balance, direction?
    Live beyond the bounds of encouragement
    and sustaining evidence of the value
    of what you are doing?
    How well can you live,
    and go on living,
    when it doesn’t matter how you live?
    Your personal best in these things
    may be put to the test.
    Everything—every good thing—about you
    may be put to the test.
    The test is the strength of our connection–
    our relationship–
    with our heart and soul–
    with the ground, center and foundation of our life.
    We all have to be nurturing that connection–
    that relationship.
    It is only a matter of time
    until we will have to live solely from
    the still point
    at the heart of each of us.
    We have to go there often,
    and know the place well.
    When every foundation
    we thought we had in place dissolves
    like sand castles before the tide,
    only the core will hold.
    We have to know what that is
    and how to find it,
    in order to live out of it
    through the long emptiness
    between the last Good Time
    and the next one.
    Those who know what it means to say
    “Mindfulness leads the way”
    will have—and become–
    a light in the darkness,
    which will make all the difference.
  13. 12/09/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 11 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    We are surrounded by resources
    in the form of people, books, videos
    and an inner wealth of savvy
    tucked away in our unconscious–
    all waiting for us to help them help us.
    We have to give the signal.
    And we have to mean it.
    Help comes to us from places
    we would never expect,
    and there is always the danger
    that we will dismiss it
    because it is not the kind of help
    we are looking for.
    “Meaning it” means being open to
    and ready for,
    the help that comes our way,
    trusting ourselves to the invisible world,
    and doing the work that is required of us
    in bringing ourselves forth
    into the life we are living.
    Yes, here!
    Yes, now!
    But,
    that can mean waiting.
    When the time for waiting is upon us,
    we wait.
    When the time for acting is upon us,
    we act.
    Sensitivity to what is it time for, here and now,
    brings us to awareness
    of the peculiar urgency of the time that is at hand.
    It a felt sense of “This, Now!”
    Responding appropriately to it
    is one way we help the invisible forces help us.
    Believing that they are real is another.
  14. 12/10/2016 — Goodale 2016 02 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Jeremy Taylor said, “Dreams do not come to flatter and support
    the world-view of the dreamer.”
    but to startle and awaken–
    to call the dreamer to see, hear, understand,
    and to move from a life of self-deception
    to a life of authenticity and integrity
    in accord with her, with his, deepest values, truth and gifts.
    Every dream is on our side in this sense,
    and diametrically opposed to our propensity
    to settle for too little,
    to sell out for the appearance of soft and easy.
    Our place is to heed well the warnings
    and to take up the work of aligning ourselves
    with ourselves
    and living the life that was prepared for us
    before we were born.
    It starts with believing this is how it is.
    It can only be seen
    by those who believe it is so.
  15. 12/10/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 50 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    The sacred and the profane
    are not polarities,
    but perspectives.
    Our perception is enlarged, deepened, expanded
    by a perspective
    that takes everything into account,
    including itself.
    Sacred and profane
    are present in every moment,
    in each situation,
    as optical options–
    the facing silhouettes or the champagne glass,
    the old hag or the young girl–
    that are held in awareness
    but seen in turn,
    in a one way or the other,
    now you see it, now you don’t,
    fashion
    by eyes that are capable of perceiving
    both/and,
    not either/or.
    The sacred and the profane
    exist together before us in all times and places.
    What we see depends on how we look.
  16. 12/10/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 65 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015
    Getting our own feet under us
    and standing on them
    can be a hard thing to do.
    We all have to find our own way,
    which, of course, is true at every point.
    The “what” is easy, or relatively so,
    the “how” is another story.
    And so, we pick ourselves up again a lot,
    and get back on the path,
    for another round of what needs to be done.
    That’s the Hero’s Journey in a nutshell.
  17. 12/11/2016 — Lake Crandal 16/17 Panorama—Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    Racism comes from our own fear and insecurity,
    our own self-doubt,
    our own frailty and fragility.
    Racists are bullies who have to push someone around–
    who can only be Someone at someone’s expense,
    who need someone to be superior over
    to compensate for their own feelings of inferiority.
    When racists look in the mirror,
    they cannot see who is looking back.
    Racists are in complete denial about their own reality,
    and cannot perceive anyone else’s reality.
    Racists live in an unreal world,
    and buoy themselves up
    with talk of how evil everyone not like them is.
    Racists call themselves
    ”white supremacists” or “the Alt-Right”
    as yet another way
    of not seeing and not saying who they are.
    They carry guns because they are afraid.
    They kill people they are afraid of.
    They are afraid.
    And they hate what they fear.
    They hate what they are afraid of.
    In order to live beyond their racism,
    they have to grow up.
    Come to terms with the truth
    of their own self-deception,
    and take their chances
    with the people they have feared and hated.
  18. 12/11/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 16 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    ”The world is too much with us, late and soon…”
    Old and young,
    we need a place safe from the reach of the world.
    Sports provides that for a lot of people.
    ”We are safe between the lines,”
    applies to football, baseball, basketball, softball, soccer, tennis, badminton…
    and helps us survive by keeping the world at bay
    while we develop the skills to engage the world
    without being swept away.
    Nature is another refuge.
    Art, literature, poetry, music and standup comedy are others.
    We have to find our retreats and sanctuaries–
    our places of recovery and renewal–
    ”late and soon,”
    old and young.
  19. 12/12/2016 — Providence Cemetery 2016 04 Panorama—Providence Presbyterian Church (est. 1767), Matthews/Charlotte, North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    What we do is what we believe.
    Our creed is our life.
    All the talk is just for show.
    We are what we do.
    If you tell me what you believe,
    I’m going to ask you
    how that is reflected in the way you live your life,
    and how it is concealed.
    ”Facts are stubborn things” (Sen. John McCain).
    Ruthlessly examine your life
    for evidence of what you believe
    and then talk about that,
    and only that.
  20. 12/12/2016 — Providence Cemetery 2016 02 Panorama—Providence Presbyterian Church (est. 1767), Matthews/Charlotte, North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    Facts are actuality, A gun is a fact,
    And an explosive vest,
    carried or worn by someone who thinks
    his, or her, ideology/theology/creed/beliefs
    is/are grounded on facts
    as factual as his/her gun or vest is factual.
    But God and Allah are not facts.
    Not one of the multitude of Buddhist realms is factual.
    The Hindu gods and goddesses are not facts,
    and cannot even spit on a fact,
    much less cause it to ignite in an exiting burst of flame.
    Facts are always being confused with fantasy–
    and fancy–
    and step forth fully clothed
    and ready to be christened Undeniable Truth
    from inference, assumption, presumption, conjecture, speculation, rumor, supposition, hearsay, surmises, theories and opinions.
    And when a real fact comes along,
    no one cares to acknowledge its existence—
    and refers to it as a Liberal Conspiracy
    (as in global warming)
    and Atheistic Balderdash
    (as in evolution).
    It is a wonder we have made it this far as a species,
    considering that we cannot agree among ourselves
    about what a fact is,
    and is not.
  21. 12/13/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 29 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 18, 2016
    Compassionate mindfulness holds everything in awareness,
    and seeing everything–
    including the all-ness of each thing–
    transforms what is seen,
    and puts us in accord with it,
    and it with us,
    so that we live reconciled to our lot in life,
    and things go smoothly with us,
    regardless of the context, circumstances and conditions of our life,
    as long as things are held in awareness.
    Seeing partially is as bad as,
    and perhaps worse than,
    not seeing at all.
    If we are going to see at all,
    we have to see impartially and completely,
    wholly, fully, entirely,
    all that is to be seen,
    and see where that goes.
  22. 12/13/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 02 Panorama—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    How will we live our life from this point on?
    What will we do with the time given to us?
    I recommend that we do more of what we like to do,
    and less of what we don’t like to do–
    to the extent that we can get away with it.
    We need to recognize the need to strike a healthy balance,
    and work pleasing our deepest self into the equation.
    Our deepest self–
    our psyche/soul–
    seems to be content with simple pleasures.
    Why withhold them?
    Why deny ourselves a moon lit walk along the beach,
    or a stroll through rain-soaked woods?
    You have your own list–
    I know you do.
    Consult it frequently.
    Add to it often.
    And work it into your life,
    into what is left of the time you have been given.
    And do everything you do
    with compassionate mindfulness
    that holds each thing in its all-ness
    in the scope of your awareness,
    and is glad for the gifts of life.
  23. 12/13/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 24 Panorama—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    At any point in our life,
    what’s done is done.
    We can regret that it wasn’t done better, but.
    However shameful, regretful and bad it was,
    here we are.
    Now what?
    The root of tomorrow’s right
    is grounded in yesterday’s wrong.
    We stand between yesterday and tomorrow,
    and commit ourselves to the
    choices, decisions and actions
    that will redeem what can be redeemed
    and do what can be done
    to make things better than they would ever be without us.
    Each day, we stand between yesterday and tomorrow
    and make the same commitment–
    to live in ways that make things better than they would ever be without us.
    To live in ways that make each day better than the last one.
    To live to make ourselves a better person–
    more mindfully aware,
    more transparent to ourselves,
    more authentic and genuine,
    more at one with our deepest, best, self–
    better at what we do and at how we do it
    than we ever have been.
    Each day we live to be better at how we do a day
    than we have ever been.
    There is nothing wrong with this
    as a plan for the rest of your life.
    But, if you can do better, have at it!
  24. 12/14/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 04 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    We can ignore a fact,
    deny a fact,
    accuse a fact of being anything but a fact,
    have nothing to do with a fact–
    or any of its children and step-children and distant cousins–
    shun it to the back rooms,
    toss it in the burning barrel,
    ridicule it,
    hate it,
    berate it,
    condemn it,
    castigate it,
    humiliate it
    and all those who recognize and serve it,
    yet, the fact is still a fact,
    standing, still in our way,
    like some ancient, hungry, Cyclops,
    grinning,
  25. Used in Short Talks on Making America Great Again—12/15/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 15 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    We cannot see anything
    until we are able to look at everything.
    Our “blinders”
    (That would be our preferences, inferences, assumptions, false conclusions, opinions, biases, prejudices, leanings, penchants, dispositions and predispositions, etc.)
    keep us from seeing all there is to see
    about the things we think we see,
    and create a perspective that forms a perception
    and sets it firmly in place
    before we even look.
    We can gauge the degree of our “blindness”
    by exploring the questions
    we won’t allow ourselves to ask
    regarding the things we “know to be so”
    and are, therefore, beyond question, doubt, examination.
    ”Hell, Jim, this ain’t the way I SEE things!
    This is the way things ARE!”
    ”It’s people like you
    that make people like me
    hate people like you!”
    What we see depends entirely
    upon how we look–
    upon the lens
    (That would be all the things listed above as “blinders”)
    through which we look.
    We cannot hope to see
    until we see what governs our looking.
    Our vision is limited
    by what we can allow ourselves to see.
  26. 12/16/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 14 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 10, 2016
    Our role is that of witness.
    We are here to see, hear, understand, know.
    This leads spontaneously
    to doing what needs to be done
    and to being who we are.
    As those who witness–
    as one who witnesses–
    we are mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of everything,
    internally and externally,
    including the all-ness of each thing.
    Anything that interferes with our focus,
    that breaks our concentration,
    that prevents us from carrying out our role
    and performing our duties as witness,
    needs to be witnessed,
    and brought into our awareness.
    Nothing can happen
    that we cannot hold in our awareness,
    that we cannot see, hear, understand, know
    and respond to in ways
    that are appropriate to the occasion
    and express who we are
    in that moment of our being.
    We learn to see by looking.
    We learn to hear by listening.
    We learn to understand by asking, seeking, knocking.
    We learn to know by reflecting on our experience.
    We learn to respond appropriately by trusting ourselves to ourselves
    and getting out of the way.
    We learn to be who we are by trusting ourselves to ourselves
    and getting out of the way.
    It’s so simple even a child can do it.
    Why don’t we do it?
  27. 12/17/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 06 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    The Dalai Lama,
    the envoy and emissary of peace, compassion and non-violence par excellence,
    is protected by bodyguards who carry automatic weapons,
    and by a country with a large standing army
    and a nuclear arsenal–
    which he pays for with a regular remittance from the Buddhist treasury–
    which he reimburses from fees collected for speaking engagements
    and appearances emphasizing peace, compassion and non-violence.
    It is all wonderfully contradictory, antithetical and irreconcilable–
    just like the foundational principal of existence itself:
    Life Eats Life!
    Life Lives By Way Of Death!
    What sense does any of this make?
    If you are waiting for things to make sense,
    you are standing in the wrong line.
    This line doesn’t lead to sense,
    with everything all harmonized and reconciled,
    orchestrated and choreographed.
    It leads to the realization of mutually exclusive,
    diametrically opposed,
    polarities at every turn.
    Neti! Neti! (Not That! Not That!)
    Iti! Iti! (It Is Here! It Is Here!)
    This line leads to the realization
    that we walk two paths at the same time.
    We reconcile, integrate, amalgamate the opposites
    by holding them together
    in conscious, mindful, compassionate, awareness.
    We transcend either/or with both/and–
    and make it work
    in light of the true good of the whole.
    This is what we do.
    It is the essence of being human.
  28. 12/17/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 10 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016. An art dealer tell me once told me, “Jim, your photos will never sell—they have too much blue in them, and rooms don’t need blue accents.” This one is for you, Alice.
    It is possible to love your life
    and live with compassionate regard
    for all living things
    regardless of your circumstances.
    It would not hurt to remember that
    from time to time
    throughout each day,
    and to remind one another of it.
  29. 12/17/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 07 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    ”Loose the bonds of wickedness!
    Let the oppressed go free!”
    The old Biblical call to action
    Is about to be back in vogue again.
    Two things are true:
    Things change.
    And nothing changes.
    ”Right forever on the scaffold–
    Wrong forever on the throne!”
    And so, it has come back around,
    the time to hear once more:
    ”Let justice roll down like waters,
    and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.”
    ”What is required but to do justice,
    love kindness,
    and walk humbly with your God?”
    In the times that are upon us
    it is imperative that we ground ourselves
    in our deepest meaning and purpose–
    in what is truest and best about us–
    that we find our life and live it
    even in these times.
    And, that we help others toward these same ends.
    We cannot let the headlines take our hope, and heart, and soul away,
    or rob of us of our destiny,
    or keep us from being mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of the moment of our living,
    and what is being asked of us there.
    We have much to do yet
    in the service of the good of the whole.
    The work is still plentiful,
    the laborers are still few.
    Things change,
    and nothing changes.
  30. 12/18/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 17 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    We owe it to ourselves to be who we are
    in each situation as it arises.
    Self-deception is the ground
    of all that is wrong in the world.
    Self-transparency is the beginning
    of the Great Awakening.
    When we stop kidding ourselves,
    fooling ourselves,
    telling ourselves what we want to hear,
    letting ourselves off the hook,
    we stop shooting ourselves in the foot
    and being our own worst enemy.
    And something new comes to life in our life.
    That would be us,
    born at last after all these years
    to finally be who we are.
  31. 12/18/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 06 Panorama—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    We embrace our dichotomies,
    live our contradictions,
    and walk two paths at the same time–
    we live the life that is our life to live
    within the life we are living–
    we live out our destiny
    within the context and circumstances,
    the nature and conditions,
    that it is our fate to bear–
    by being mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of both paths at the same time on all levels of our existence.
    We walk this one, here and now,
    with the other one firmly in mind.
    In order to do that,
    we have to factor time for reflection and contemplation and realization
    into each day.
    We have to sit quietly,
    or drive quietly,
    or walk quietly,
    opening ourselves to the reality of our “setting in life,”
    of the all-ness of our “life situation”–
    and allowing our awareness to hold everything in solution,
    in suspension,
    as we wait for the way to appear before us
    and call us to action.
    Acting prematurely,
    because we cannot bear the tension,
    or stand the suspense,
    is to miss the calling
    and fail to do what is being asked of us,
    creating bad karma all around.
    Mindfulness leads the way.
    Trust your awareness to show you what needs to be done.
    Do not try to hurry things along,
    but allow yourself to see things as they are
    and be carried along with the flow–
    even when that means swimming against the current–
    into the string of moments unending
    and the unfolding of your life.
  32. 12/18/2016 — Providence Cemetery 2016 06 — Slave Cemetery, Providence Presbyterian Church, Charlotte (Matthews), North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    I should apologize for repeating myself so often,
    and would, if it weren’t for the fact that there is so little to say.
    The things I’m talking about hold true in all weather conditions
    (including those that climate change will throw at us),
    economic realities,
    political environments,
    physical states
    and geographical locations.
    They apply across all times and places,
    have always been so
    and will always be so. When I make the same point again,
    its because the point has been missed again and again
    by people who “have heard it before”
    and never grasped it,
    or put it into practice in their life.
    Mindfulness (which always implies compassion),
    Self-transparency,
    Reflection upon experience,
    Asking the questions that beg to be asked,
    Saying the things that cry out to be said,
    Attending the inner world,
    Seeking our destiny (the life that is our life to live),
    And living it out in the conditions fate has bestowed on us,
    Following our felt-sense of direction,
    Knowing what we know
    And trusting ourselves to it,
    Living with integrity (being who we are)
    In accord with the life that is our life to live (our destiny)…
    Getting these things down is having it made
    in the fullest sense of the term.
    And, I’ll say some version of this next time.
  33. 12/19/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 07 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    Our work is to be who we are
    in every situation and circumstance of life–
    to respond as needed
    to everything that comes our way–
    to rise to every occasion
    and be who, and do what, the moment is asking us to be and to do.
    Who we are does not depend upon what happens to us.
    We are the constant amid the swirling whirl of chaos.
    We are “the still point of the turning world”–
    the calming presence upon the heaving waves of the wine-dark sea.
    Our focus is on our own heart/soul/self–
    on living out of our own center/ground/foundation
    in the midst of whatever is going on around us.
    Whatever is happening, or going to happen, or might happen
    is just what is happening, going to happen or might happen.
    We are going to be who we are,
    finding what needs to be done
    and doing it
    the way only we can do it
    in every situation and circumstance of life.
    What can prevent us from being who we are, where we are?
    What can keep us from responding appropriately to any occasion?
    What can stop us from gifting ourselves to the time and place of our living?
  34. 12/19/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 19B—Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 — This is a blended photograph, merging a closeup of the moon (which was full and in the picture) with the limbs, leaves and branches.
    How often are you “in character”?
    How often are you “out of character”?
    To what extent does the character/persona you display
    an accurate depiction of the Self you are at the deepest level?
    What do you know of the Self you are at the deepest level?
    How do you commune with that Self?
    How do you know when you are living in accord with that Self,
    and when you are “out of tune” with that Self?
    How do you got about getting back “in tune”?
    How often do you think about these things?
  35. 12/20/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 08 — Union County, North Carolina, October 18, 2016
    We live in different Americas,
    divided at the core
    by different views of right and wrong,
    good and evil,
    sane and insane,
    us and them.
    We look at the same things
    and see different things
    because we see things differently.
    We are separated
    at the level of the heart
    by what we love and what we hate,
    what we do and what we cannot imagine doing.
    Our differences are too extreme to be “settled.”
    ”Coming together” means recognizing
    we will never be together,
    as in eye-to-eye,
    heart-to-heart,
    about anything that matters. We can live “together”
    in ways that respect and honor our separateness,
    and move away from the extremes
    toward the center by
    making allowances for our different ways
    of ascribing value.
    Abortion remains legal
    and we work diligently to make it unnecessary.
    Religious freedom does not infringe
    upon Constitutional rights,
    and each person is responsible only
    for his-or-her own life
    without intruding into–
    or treading upon–
    the lives of others.
    We take up the practice of compassionate mindfulness,
    holding everything in our awareness
    and allowing seeing-how-we-see-things
    to transform what is seen,
    enabling us to transcend the-way-we-have-always-seen
    in the service of the true good of the whole.
    It could work that way,
    but.
    It won’t work without good-faith commitment
    to the work of making it work
    on the part of everyone involved.
    “If you are not here with us in good faith,
    you are doing terrible damage” (Rumi).
  36. 12/20/2016 — November Orchard 2016 15 — Springs Farm, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    No one can give us our attitude–
    that’s an inside job,
    and it is an expression of how well we meet the world.
    Noticing our attitude
    and holding it in our awareness
    is a good way to work the practice of compassionate mindfulness
    into our life every day.
    Just being aware of it
    will change it for the better.
    Mindfulness is magical that way.
  37. 12/21/2016 — The Hearth 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, December 20, 2016
    We lose our focus,
    wander off the path,
    forget the way,
    drift through our life
    thinking, “This isn’t it,
    Maybe this is.
    Or that over there.”
    If individual Christians
    would stop believing in Christ,
    and start BEING Christ–
    not as Jesus was,
    but as only they can be
    in the place fate has put them–
    they would be focusing
    on living out the way
    before us,
    and be of great help
    in keeping us mindful of it
    and centered on it.
    But they lost the way themselves,
    and sold themselves out
    for a bowl of porridge
    or 30 pieces of silver–
    either way, it amounts to the same thing.
    They turned away from BEING Christ
    and took up talking about Christ.
    BlahBlahBlahHallelujahBlahBlahBlah
    and how many Christianities are there now?
    Every denomination and many churches within denominations
    have a different idea of Christ
    that they are pushing on the people.
    When did Christ ever push himself on anyone?
    ”If you don’t love me, you’re going to burn in hell forever!”
    Jesus simply said, and more importantly, DID, “I love you,”
    and left the people to do what they would with that.
    Christians have covered up the path
    with conflicting doctrines and dogmas and creeds
    (and some like to pride themselves on not having creeds,
    but they have hymnbooks–
    clandestine creeds set to music,
    if you can call it music),
    and we are left on our own,
    which is where it all begins.
    But one thing remains.
    Okay, two. No, three.
    The real Holy Trinity: Silence.
    And the Christ within,
    waiting to be expressed in our life
    within the place fate has put us.
    Be still.
    Sit quietly.
    Listen within.
    ”There is,” said Carl Jung,
    ”within each of us,
    another whom we do not know.”
    Meet the Christ within.
    Be the Christ you are.
    The path opens before you.
    The way beckons.
    You are back on the road again!
  38. 12/21/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 07/08 Panorama—Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    Carl Jung said, near the end of his life, “Man himself is the source of all coming evil, and we know nothing of Man—we are woefully ignorant.”
    Jesus said, near the end of his life, “Father, forgive them—they don’t know what they are doing!”
    We don’t know who we are,
    and we don’t know what we are doing.
    You can’t get more ignorant than that.
    Ignorance has nothing to do with intelligence or education.
    Ignorance is the complete lack
    of mindful, compassionate, awareness.
    Ignorance is not knowing–
    who we are or what we are doing.
    We live all our life long,
    never knowing anything
    about the Christ
    (and, as Michael Gagliano would say
    the Buddha, the Krishna)
    within–
    or how to commune with and live to incarnate
    that living Other
    into our life in the place fate has put us.
    That is ignorance for you!
    We have what is left of our life
    to know the truth of who we are
    and express it
    in concretely compassionate ways.
  39. 12/22/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 19 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 18, 2016
    We cannot be free and safe.
    We can be free or we can be safe.
    The freer we are, the less safe we will be.
    The safer we are, the less free we will be.
    We have to work out the ratio
    to suit ourselves.
    We can build the wall
    to keep them out
    and keep ourselves safe, The wall we build becomes our prison
    keeping us in.
    Life is one trade-off after another.
    Life is also a bell-shaped,
    “normal distribution” curve.
    The extremes are reserved for those
    with no tolerance for ambiguity,
    uncertainty,
    complexity,
    contradiction,
    contrariety.
    The rest of us take our chances
    toward the center.
  40. 12/23/2016 — Flying South 2016 01 – This a blended photograph combining an image of the moon and an image of the geese silhouettes. December 23, 2016
    Jesus didn’t die for your sake or mine.
    Jesus died for the sake of his own integrity.
    His death on the cross was the ultimate refusal to sell out.
    He was true to himself–
    to his vision of the truth–
    all the way to the grave.
    His death was atoning and redemptive
    if we see it as the model for how to do it,
    and live to exhibit our own integrity
    in our life–
    in the place where fate has put us.
    We are to incarnate the truth
    of who we are at the core of our heart and soul,
    just as Jesus did.
    The result of that work
    is life at a level that cannot be reached
    any other way.
    It is life that our physical death cannot touch.
    When we live like that,
    we never die
    in the minds and hearts of those who know us,
    even though our bodies wear out
    and are “laid to rest.”
    The validity of this take on the “Gospel”
    is there for all of us to test out for ourselves.
    All it takes is the courage
    to find our life and live it.
    If you think I’m wrong,
    prove it.
    Live out of your own integrity
    and see what you think.
  41. 12/23/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 21 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    If you are going to believe in anything,
    believe in what you are doing.
    What you are doing has to flow forth
    from who you are.
    When we live well,
    our life is in sync
    with that which is deepest, truest and best about us.
    “The Father and I are one,”
    said Jesus.
    “When you look at me,
    you see the Father.”
    “The Father” has to be understood
    as the Numen at the center of ourselves–
    the numinous core of our life and being.
    When we are at one with the center, ground, and foundation
    of our life,
    we are one with ourselves,
    with our purpose,
    with our destiny,
    with that which means the most to us,
    and is who we are.
    The way we live our life–
    what we do–
    conceals or reveals,
    disguises or discloses–
    the truth we came to incarnate and express
    in the place fate has put us.
    Live the life you can believe in
    with all your heart.
    Live wholeheartedly in the service
    of that which is you–
    in a “Thy will, not mine, be done” kind of way.
    Everything falls into place around that.
  42. 12/24/2016 — Goodale 2016 14 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7,2016
    Our symptoms say there is something
    inauthentic about us–
    probably an assortment of somethings.
    We are doing things that are Not Us,
    or we are not doing things that Are Us,
    or we refuse to grow up about
    having to do things that are Not Us
    or being unable to do things that Are Us.
    Growing up is putting ourselves in accord
    with the way things are
    in a “This is how things are
    and this is what can be done about it
    and that’s that” kind of way.
    Growing up is also seeing what we can get by with.
    It’s knowing when to take No for an answer,
    and when to do what needs to be done
    anyway, never the less, even so, no matter what.
    It is never settling for “keeping the peace”
    or “not making waves”
    or “not rocking the boat.”
    It’s knowing the right kind of waves to make
    and making them.
    It’s giving somebody else symptoms.
    We have symptoms
    because we won’t give somebody else symptoms.
    Symptoms suggest
    that we are refusing to pay the price
    of being authentic.
    Symptoms are the price
    of being inauthentic.
    Which price are we going to pay?
  43. 12/24/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 13 Panorama — Access Trail from Walnut Creek, Indian Land, Lancaster County, South Carolina, November 19, 2016
    The Achilles heel of democracy
    is the maturity level of the people,
    and their degree of–
    and capacity for–
    self-discipline, self-sacrifice, wisdom, grace and compassion
    in the service of the good of the whole.
    When the people care more for their own good
    than for the good of the whole,
    democracy is a dream of a dream
    lost beyond recall
    amid the realities of the day’s demands
    for shelter and survival.
    The people who voted for Trump
    had no idea of the good of the whole in mind.
    They were venting their hatred and their rage
    at all those people not like they are:
    “To hell with the whole if it includes people
    like THEM!”
    Democracy is for people
    who are big enough–
    big-hearted enough–
    to set themselves aside
    for the sake of the whole.
    Who are mindfully mature and compassionate enough
    to see beyond their own provincial tendencies
    in respecting and honoring ways of life
    that are different, strange and foreign–
    and call them to grow in ways
    that welcome and make room for people
    who challenge and stretch their ideas of how people should be.
    Democracy languishes in the absence of people
    who can be who the Constitution expects them to be,
    calls them to be,
    requires them to be.
    Trump is proof that the people
    cannot be trusted with the good of the whole–
    or even the good of themselves.
    Democracy works only in the hands
    of the right kind of people.
  44. 12/24/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 51/52 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4 2015
    A Christmas Prayer
    May the season of Christmastime and a new year’s beginning,
    the Winter Solstice and the sun’s return,
    ground you in the realization that our history
    is older than we are—
    for we come from the ages,
    and through the ages,
    and carry in our genes the stuff of an ancestry
    that has seen it all.
    May you and those you love be anchored
    in what is deepest, best and truest about each of you—
    and live in light of that core identity
    in serving the destiny that is yours to realize
    in the time and place that fate has placed you.
    May you live mindfully aware of all that is before you,
    and be compassionately present with all that is present with you
    for the good of the whole of which you are a part.
    May it be well with you in all of your coming and going
    through all the days of your life.
    May It Be So Always And Forever!
  45. 12/25/2016 — Lake Francis 2016 02 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    We know when something “rings true”–
    and when it doesn’t.
    The rule is simple:
    Live toward what rings true,
    and away from from what doesn’t.
    We are seized by the things that speak to us,
    that call our name,
    that catch our eye,
    that attract us.
    The real Law Of Attraction
    has nothing to do
    with living so as to attract to yourself
    wealth, prosperity, success, good fortune, and high, happy times.
    It states simply:
    Move toward what attracts you,
    and away from what does not.
    And don’t kid yourself.
    You can create a life for yourself
    built around appetites and addiction.
    Sugar in all forms can be attractive.
    As can be sex, alcohol, tobacco and cocaine.
    Or, as Andy Capp would say,
    “Rye and little darlin’s.”
    In order to understand what I’m saying,
    you have to know what I mean.
    What things mean to us
    is entirely up to us.
    How we look
    determines what we see.
    And kidding ourselves is what we do best.
  46. 12/25/2016 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 04 Panorama– Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016, an iPhone photograph
    Practice taking the all-ness of the situation into account
    and seeing what needs to happen there
    in light of everything.
    The situation has its own rhythm,
    its own pace and timing,
    its own urgency.
    And it can speak to you
    out of its own need of you.
    To know this
    and practice it
    is to put yourself in accord
    with the Tao of the situation,
    and everything will fall into place
    around that.
  47. 12/26/2016 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 02 — Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016
    I can’t wait for America to be Great Again.
    How long is it going to take, I wonder.
    By when will it happen?
    When, exactly, will we be Great Again?
    I’ve never heard a time table mentioned.
    And, I’m a little concerned about how Great we can be
    if we don’t drain the swamp.
    But I’m sure Trump has all the angles figured.
    He’s certainly Great with figuring angles,
    and cutting corners,
    and doing what it takes to be Great in his own eyes.
    I’m confident he can apply that to running the country
    quickly back to Greatness.
    There is also a lack of precision to the term
    that bothers me.
    For whom, do you think, will it be Great?
    What’s Great for the lion
    is not-so-Great for the antelope.
    And what’s Great for the white supremacists
    and the Ku Klux Klan
    isn’t going to be great at all
    for black people,
    the LGBTQ population,
    immigrants,
    Latinos,
    the special needs population,
    women,
    the poor,
    homeless,
    and anybody who doesn’t measure up
    to the standards of those two groups.
    Could be it won’t be noticeably Great
    if you fall too much below the top 1%
    of the wealthiest people on earth.
    If you are at the 75% line or below
    it might not be so Great at all.
    Trump could have been clearer
    about making America Great Again for whom, by when.
    And his supporters could have asked more questions.
    Asking any question would have been Great.
    But, I hear they are going to hold his feet to the fire
    if he doesn’t come through for them.
    That would be Great.
    Though, it isn’t clear what that means either.
    What is going to be Great, for whom, by when?
    That’s what I want to know.
  48. 12/26/2016 — Ginkgos 2016 04–Ballantyne Commons, Charlotte, NC, December 8, 2016
    We have to live out of our own inner necessity–
    we have to do what we have to do,
    what is ours to do–
    in responding to the other, outer, necessity
    operating in each situation as it arises.
    What we have to do,
    what is ours to do,
    what we need to do
    what needs us to do it,
    meets a corresponding need
    arising in each situation that comes to meet us.
    The deepest need of the situation is met,
    you might say,
    by our deepest joy,
    although our deepest joy
    is not the euphoric joy of happy fans and players
    who just won the game of the year–
    it is the thing we are most glad to be able to do,
    the gift we best exemplify,
    what we do best,
    our soul’s “joy” that is ours to incarnate
    (though we might have an idea of something
    we wish we could do instead,
    and we are always having to get out of our own way
    to keep from imposing our wish for ourselves
    upon all of our situations).
    We live to perceive the situation as it is
    and respond to it as only we can,
    in serving the destiny that is ours to serve,
    within the situations that stand ready to be shaped
    by the meeting of their destiny and ours,
    with our shared destinies coming together
    to form a wonder beyond imagining,
    much less comprehending,
    perceiving,
    planning,
    imposing,
    producing
    and taking,
    or being given,
    credit for.
    Inner necessity grips us
    and compels us into the service
    of the good of the whole,
    and our role is simply to comply
    in a “Thy will, not mine, be done,” kind of way
    for the ages to wonder about and thrill over,
    and to emulate in their own way
    for the wonder and thrill of ages beyond them.
    May it be so for each one of us
    in the times and places of our living
    for as long as we are alive!
  49. 12/26/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 31 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    Pay attention here. Read through this until you become one with it. It is the bedrock of the spiritual understanding of reality–which Alan Watts described as an ink blot.
    Joseph Campbell, in talking about the I Ching (The Book of Changes) which he describes as “an encyclopedia of oracles,” said “The method of divining is to cast 49 yarrow sticks six times to construct a (hexagram), after which a reference to the encyclopedia yields the prognostication.
    “The seeker is supposed to look for some sort of correspondence between (the prognostication) and his/her own case. The method of thought throughout being that of a broadly flung association of ideas.
    “One has to feel, not think, one’s way into these secrets, letting each symbol grow into a cosmos of associated themes.”
    In other words, we listen for what we are saying to ourselves about our situation by reading our situation into–or projecting it onto–the oracle’s prognostication.
    This is how a horoscope “works,” or a fortune cookie, or dream interpretation. We “read” the oracle out of our own experience, and make associations that “tell us” what we need to hear.
    We are reading our own mind.
    Talking to ourselves.
    Communing with the ‘in here” by seeing it “out there.”
    Our life is an ink blot!
    Read the events and circumstances the way you would “read” a dream.
    Look at your life as though it were your dream from last night,
    And ask yourself, “If this were my dream, what would I make of it?”
    And, “What do I keep saying to myself that I am not hearing?”
    And, “What am I being shown, and/or asked to do, that I am ignoring?”
    Perception is a matter of taking up the practice of continually adjusting our perspective by way of reflection and contemplation.
  50. 12/26/2016 — Cotton in the Field 2016 01-C — Indian Land, Lancaster County, South Carolina, October 12, 2016
    If you are going to believe anything–
    and surely you are,
    we have absolutely no choice in the matter–
    believe the things that help you live your life!
    Believe that your life is worth living,
    and that you have an internal guidance mechanism
    that can be counted on to help you find the life
    that only you can live and live it.
    Believe what you believe consciously, mindfully.
    Believe that mindfulness is the single most important practice
    you can devote yourself to–
    and devote yourself to it with all your heart, and mind, and soul, and strength.
    Believe that trials and ordeals
    are an unavoidable aspect of life in the world,
    and will grow us up, and bring us forth,
    if we respond to them as things that are ours to deal with
    and do what needs to be done about them
    without allowing them to distract us
    from the life that is ours to live.
    Believe that you have a center, a ground, a foundation, a bedrock, a lodestar
    that is ever-present and always available
    as a comfort, guide, companion, friend and source of infinite capacities–
    everything we need to find what we need
    to be who we are, where we are, how we are,
    and do what is ours to do
    in the time and place of our living.
    Live as though all of this is true–
    and it will be!
  51. 12/27/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 19 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    What do you pay the bills in order to do?
    Live, right?
    What do you live to do?
    Pay the bills, right?
    If this is anywhere close to being your story,
    you are missing from your life.
    You could be replaced by an android and you wouldn’t be missed.
    And you wouldn’t miss anything.
    You have to wake up to the reality of your situation,
    and take up the work
    of bringing you to life in your life.
    You have to live so as to miss a long list of things
    when they are gone.
    You have to live so as to be missed
    when you are gone.
    You are not here to keep the economy going.
    You have a destiny to fulfill with the life that is yours to live.
    Your mission is to find your life–
    the life only you can live–
    and live it in the time left for living.
    You are at a good place to start.
    I pay the bills so that I can connect people with their life.
    Read back through my posts
    for some handy tips on fulfilling your destiny.
    There are about 6,000 for you to sift through
    to find those that click.
    That’s the first rule in finding your life and living it.
    If there is no click, move on.
  52. 12/27/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 01 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Carl Jung said, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
    There is an inner necessity about the unconscious
    that wills itself into existence in our life.
    Those of us who place ourselves in accord with it
    align ourselves with our destiny.
    Those of us who resist, oppose, refuse, obstruct its direction
    are carried against our will
    to the fate that awaits us.
    When the inner necessity calls you to action,
    give it your full attention,
    hold it in your awareness,
    and see what happens.
    Make the unconscious conscious
    and take your chances.
    That’s my best advice.
  53. 12/28/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 48 Panorama–Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016
    We find our own way.
    Or, better, our way finds us
    like “the wand chooses the wizard.”
    But no one is better suited than we are
    to detect the way that is standing before us,
    waving it hands,
    shouting, “Over here, Stupid! Over HERE!”
    Everybody who tells you how to live your life
    is telling you how to live their life.
    If you will only do it like they are doing it
    you will be happy forever.
    There are only three simple steps
    to living your own life–
    to finding your life and living it–
    LOOK!
    LISTEN!
    TRUST YOURSELF TO WHAT YOU SEE AND HEAR!
    What you see and hear
    will expand and clarify over time,
    and your life will take shape around that,
    settle out around that,
    and you will increasingly,
    incrementally,
    become more like who you are,
    and less like who you are not,
    over time.
  54. 12/28/2016 — At the center, ground, foundation, heart
    of my staunch and solid,
    eternal and everlasting opposition to
    Donald Trump,
    lies the meanness (as in small and as in hurtful)
    of the Republican Party.
    Congressional Republicans over the last eight years
    did absolutely nothing that would come close
    to being confused with, much less, called
    compassionate–
    and they did everything possible
    to oppose President Obama’s compassionate proposals
    and to obstruct and denounce
    his compassionate implementations.
    And you could go back much longer than eight years
    in your search for some evidence
    of a Republican heart and soul
    being evidenced in acts of compassion and kindness
    in the service of the common welfare.
    Republicans don’t care about anything
    but their personal fortune and glory,
    which is where Donald Trump comes in
    as the epitome of the Republican idea of success.
    What I am opposing in opposing Trump
    is the Republican Ideal of More for Me and Less for You.
    In refusing to make public his tax returns,
    Trump is saying
    “I don’t give to charity and I don’t pay taxes,
    and I’m proud of it.”
    And, in refusing to call him out,
    on this or any other matter,
    Republicans are saying,
    “He’s a genius! He’s absolutely brilliant!
    We want to be just like him!”
    And, they are.

12/28/2016 — (Used as a part of a longer post on 12/29/2016) To say Black Lives Matter!
does not mean, imply, or suggest
that any other lives do not matter.
It states simply and unequivocally
that Black Lives Matter!–
as a way of protesting
and calling attention to the fact
that is demonstrated too often
to be denied
that black lives do not matter,
and therefore need not be honored, respected, valued, nurtured, loved, cherished, adored, upheld, uplifted, and held in high regard
in a society, culture and world
where only white lives have the upper hand
and have no intention of allowing equality–
or even “equality”–
to level the playing field.
White people who don’t understand this
are the reason Black Lives Matter
is a movement made necessary
by the refusal to understand
the phrase, what it means,
and what it is like
to be forced to remind white people
that it is so.

  1. 12/28/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 11–Twelve Mile Creek from the CTT, Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016
    From my perspective,
    “good faith” is the same thing as “sincerity.”
    The two are one,
    and it flows from integrity–
    knowing, and being aligned with, and being who we are–
    so that the inner person and the outer person
    are the same person.
    No deception, no duplicity, no faking it, no pretending to be someone we are not…
    And all of this lends itself to–
    leads to–
    our ability to be vulnerable
    without being at risk.
    We can be vulnerable
    because we don’t mind risking
    exposing ourselves in all of our vulnerabilities.
    We have nothing to fear.
    We have nothing to lose.
    There is nothing that anyone can do to us.
    We can be vulnerable because we are invulnerable,
    in that we aren’t ashamed or afraid of being seen as we are.
    Let them take our name!
    Let them send us to the office!
    Let them give us a failing grade!
    Let them call our parents!
    Nothing they can do can keep us from being ourselves!
    We can be who we are in any situation, circumstance, or context
    that comes along!
    We are who we are!
    Our identity is ours alone!
    No one can take it from us,
    or prevent us from being who we are
    in all times and places!
    We can live with sincerity, good faith, integrity and peace of mind.
    And nothing can stop us!
    Such is the power of vulnerability grounded upon identity.
    Here I am. This is me. Take it or leave it. I have work to do.
  2. 12/29/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 16 — Suspension bridge connecting the Carolinas, Indian Land (Lancaster County), South Carolina to Waxhaw (Union County, North Carolina), November 19, 2016
    All Lives Matter is a diversion
    whose sole purpose
    is to direct attention
    away from the core issue
    raised by Black Lives Matter!
    The unstated logical extension
    implied and denied
    by those who use the phrase All Lives Matter is
    “All Other Lives Matter More Than Black Lives!”
    The phrase is not only a smoke screen,
    discarding, disregarding, dismissing and denying
    Black Lives Matter!,
    it also fails to comprehend, apprehend, appreciate,
    what is at stake in Black Lives Matter!
    To say Black Lives Matter!
    does not mean, imply, or suggest
    that any other lives do not matter.
    It states simply and unequivocally
    that Black Lives Matter!–
    as a way of protesting
    and calling attention to the fact
    (that is demonstrated too often
    in too many was,
    to be denied)
    that black lives do not matter,
    and therefore need not be honored, respected, valued, nurtured,
    loved, cherished, adored, uplifted, and held in high regard
    in a society, culture and world
    where only white lives have the upper hand
    and have no intention of allowing equality–
    or even “equality”–
    to level the playing field.
    White people who don’t understand this
    are the reason Black Lives Matter!
    is a movement made necessary
    by the refusal to see the truth
    inherent in the phrase,
    grasp what it means,
    and begin to imagine what it is like
    to be forced to remind white people
    that it is so.
  3. 12/30/2016 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 01 — Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016
    James Hollis said, “Death doesn’t end a relationship any more than divorce ends a marriage.”
    When those we love die, we sometimes allow ourselves to die along with them,
    as though life is not worth living without them,
    and how can we go on,
    so we just quit,
    and we may as well sit looking at the wall
    through the days and years that follow
    for all the good going about our business does us,
    or anyone.
    We refuse to live as a protest
    against having to live without those we love.
    What we don’t understand
    is that they haven’t gone anywhere,
    they have simply become invisible.
    They are still very much present with us–
    it only takes believing it is so to make it so.
    And why not believe it–and live as though it is true?
    Why not understand that those we love have become
    psychopomps–guides through the wilderness
    to life, and light, and peace?
    Ready to help us find the life that is ours yet to live,
    and to live it with all our heart, and mind, and soul, and strength?
    Why not understand that we now live not only for ourselves,
    but also for those who have died,
    and are yet able to assist us toward a life
    that we might never have lived without their dying
    and now helping us to live?
    Why not help them help us?
    Sit quietly and invite them/him/her to come to us
    and show us the way
    to the life that is ours to live for us and for them?
    Why not open ourselves to the inner necessity
    urging us to will and to do–
    to act in the field of action
    as those who have a purpose, a mission, a calling:
    To LIVE the life that is ours to live
    in the name of those who have loved us and have died
    only to be with us still
    to assist us in living the life that is blessed by their presence
    and our spirit and our gifts
    as long as the light lasts?

12/30/2016 — Jeremiah 4:3-11 (Googleit) is the foundation for what I’m saying here–just substitute “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus,” for “the Temple of the Lord,” and you will have it.
We seek deliverance and hold hands, bow our heads, and say, “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, deliver us! Intercede in our behalf and grant us happiness and peace everlasting!” And then we go our way, changing nothing about how we live our life.
Not doing Justice. Not loving Kindness. Not letting Justice roll down like waters and Righteousness like an ever flowing stream,” but treating the powerless, the immigrants, the poor, the marginalized, the LBGTQ population, Muslims, Latinos and Mexicans…etc as those who have no right to existence, and certainly no equal rights with us as human beings and as citizens of the United States.
Yet, we violate our own Constitution. We want to make America Great Again, but we are not Americans ourselves. We dishonor the bedrock of the country: One nation, under God, with liberty and justice for all!
We say what suits us and live anyway at all, asking “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus to bless us and protect us” so that we might hate in his name–and, of course, we say we don’t hate anyone, but those we say we don’t hate can’t tell the difference. We may as well hate them for all the good our not hating them does them.
And we think Jesus won’t catch it. We think Jesus will believe us when we say we “love” all people. We think Jesus will not notice that our life does not reflect who we say we are. We think we can pull one over on Jesus as easily as we pull one over on ourselves.

  1. 12/31/2016 — Goodale 2016 16 –Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Waking up is an inside job.
    No one can do it for us.
    Or, even tell us how to do it.
    We have to find the path alone,
    and know what we don’t know.
    It’s as simple as that.
  2. 12/31/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 47 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    We are the ones who say so!
    We say who we are–and who we are going to be–
    and who we are not.
    We choose for ourselves
    what we will honor,
    serve with liege loyalty,
    swear lifelong allegiance to,
    and what we will despise.
    We set the course for our life
    by deciding for ourselves
    what we will live toward
    and what we will live away from.
    We are psyche’s keeper.
    We mold our inner potentials
    in light of our idea of good and bad,
    right and wrong,
    Me and Not-Me.
    We live grounded in the bedrock
    of determined faithfulness
    to the best we are capable of producing
    in each situation as it arises,
    in every context and circumstance of our lives.
    Nothing in the external world
    can prevent us from being true
    to our inner vision of who we are
    and who we will be.
    Centered in our vital identity,
    we are ourselves in every time and place,
    and no power on earth can take that from us.
    Live so that it is so of you always!

12/31/2016 — Republicans got where they are today by diss’n (as in disrespecting, disregarding, discounting, dismissing) political correctness.

They got where they are today by ridiculing, mocking, deriding, lampooning and having complete contempt for political correctness.

Donald Trump takes political INcorrectness to levels not contemplated by lesser politicians, winning the admiration of his mass of grassroots supporters by “talking straight” and “saying anything.”

He never says anything that isn’t politically INcorrect.

Which is telling because “political correctness” is a jibing way of saying “compassion” and “compassionate.”

Republicans hate compassion more than they hate President Obama.

It could be that they hate President Obama because of the depth of his compassion.

The one, indisputable, constant thing is that Republicans hate compassion in all forms. They cannot tolerate compassion. To them it is a sign of weakness, and they fear that more than they fear the wrath of God.

The term “compassionate Republican” is an oxymoron.

Congressional Republicans haven’t done one compassionate thing over the past 8 years (and we could go back much farther than that)—much to the delight of rank-and-file Republicans across the country and around the world.

Congressional Republicans have obstructed every compassionate thing President Obama proposed and opposed every compassionate thing he implemented.

Being politically INcorrect is their way of being Right(wing) politicians.

Donald Trump is proof that you can’t be INcorrect enough for Republican tastes. “Bring it ON!” they say. “Give us MORE!”

The Russian main course may be more than they bargained for. That is INcorrectness gone over into UNpatriotic. If Republicans don’t draw the line at that, the world is truly off its traces.

12/31/2016 — Pick a Christian, any Christian, and ask him or her how he or she knows that the Bible knows what it is talking about, and isn’t just a collection of things people thought were so 2 – 4,000 years ago, and you will get, “I take it on faith.”

They will give you the same answer about any question you raise about the factual nature of “Biblical teachings.”

Now ask them why they take all that on faith and not something else instead. They may tell you they are afraid they will go to hell if they do–which is something else they “take on faith.”

They are scaring themselves with the things they believe for no reason beyond choosing to “take it on faith.”

That’s fine with me. It makes them happy. It gives them something to do with their lives, but.

IF YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE SOMETHING ON FAITH, WHY NOT SOMETHING THAT WILL HELP YOU WITH YOUR LIFE IN PRACTICAL, MEASURABLE, CONCRETE WAYS HERE AND NOW???

I say, if you are going to believe something, believe something that will uplift you and carry you into what stands before you with what it takes to do what needs to be done there.

For instance, believe you have a destiny to fulfill.

Believe you have a soul that is a psychic reality within your unconscious (We call it that because we are unconscious of it–we could call it anything, “The Psyche,” “Home,” “The Wellspring of Living Water,” but. We don’t have to take it on faith. We experience it in thousands of ways. We know there is more to us than meets the eye).

Believe that your soul/psyche has a unique interest in you–that it seeks you as a partner to collaborate with in living a particular life, a life that incarnates your soul/psyche and gives them actual tangible existence in the world of physical reality.

Believe that you have a wealth of inner resources for dealing with whatever you face in the practical matters of living your life.

Believe that your identity, your Me and your Not Me, is your ground, your bedrock, your foundation that will never abandon you. In every situation and circumstance, you can draw on your gifts, your values, the things YOU take on faith, to enable you to stand firm for the good in that situation, in those circumstances, and meet what needs to be met and do what needs to be done.

You get the idea here. Believe things that will enable you to be authentically who you are wherever you are. That bring you forth. That call out your creativity, your imagination, your loves and joys and put them to work in your life.

If you are going to take something on faith–and we all have to take something on faith–let it be something that makes you and the world around you a better place for your taking it on faith and putting it to work in your life!

12/31/2016 — After my previous post, I want to be clear that I am not suggesting that the Christian Church should be abandoned. I am suggesting that it should wake up.

The Church holds a central place in our society and culture, and could very easily be the source of the kind of grace and encouragement that we need to find our way through the murky days ahead.

The Church holds all the worthy symbols of “the faith,” even though the content of the faith needs to be completely overhauled and updated–made real and viable and vital in our life and in our experience of life.

This could be easily done But. It would take waking up and growing up and actually trusting itself to a future that is not planned out years in advance but unfolds in unpredictable ways before those who have to “walk on water” and “dance with what comes their way.” There aren’t seminary classes for that–yet, but there could be.

The Church could begin becoming real, authentic, genuine, honest, vulnerable and alive by creating a space for a new kind of congregation meeting in the building with the “regulars.” It would not meet to worship.

Worship, theology, creeds, hymns, prayers, doctrines, offerings, liturgies, etc. are out. Silence, music that is not “religious,” reflection, inquiry, seeking, dream work, meditation, contemplation, developing intuition, creativity and imagination, and things along these lines are in. An Mindfulness! The Church HAS to become a center for the teaching and practicing of Mindfulness (Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube Videos on Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction are not to be missed, but viewed over and over!)

The works of Carl Jung, Jungians, and Joseph Campbell (Campbell’s four volume masterpiece “The Masks of God” is a wonderful “history of religion” and needs to be taught in seminaries and in local congregations) might form the ground of educational inquiry, and Jungian Analysts might be consultants in developing the new group.

All this, of course, hinges on the maturity, wisdom, grace and confidence of ministers in place in congregations. But, if those who can make the adjustment do not begin to make it, the Church will drift further from the heart of life and light of the people with each passing year. And the people will find what they seek somewhere else.

12/31/2016 — When Jesus said, “Straight is the way and narrow is the gate that leads to life and those who find it are few,” we take “the straight and narrow” to be moral purity, sinless living, not a thought out of place, ever.

He’s talking about how easily we lose focus and are distracted and drift away in thoughts that have nothing to be with being mindful of the moment and aware of what is being offered to us and asked of us there.

He’s talking about how often we miss the moment of our living by failing to concentrate on this here and now, and being swept away by “the dust of the world,” by “the 10,000 things,” by duties and desires, greed, hatred, fear, remorse, etc., and are not open to what needs to be said, asked, seen, done, felt…

It is nothing to forget who we are, where we are, when we are, why we are, how we are–not know what’s happening or what needs to happen in response.

We are not mindfully, compassionately, aware of the time and place of our living. No one is where they are. Everyone is somewhere else, thinking of other things.

And we miss the life that needs us to live it in the moment of our living.

Surely, you see what this is asking of us–what it means for us.

  1. 01/01/2017 — Around Price Lake 2016 25 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    Sitting still,
    being quiet,
    seeing what there is to see–
    what is happening,
    what needs to happen,
    what we can do about it.
    Doing it.
    Sitting still,
    being quiet…
    That is as good a plan
    for 2017
    as you are likely
    to be offered.
    But, if you can find a better one,
    take it!
    And may the year’s blessings
    grace your way
    each day,
    and bring joy alive in your life,
    and the lives of those you love.
  2. 01/01/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 17 — Suspension bridge connecting the Carolinas, Indian Land (Lancaster County), South Carolina to Waxhaw (Union County, North Carolina), November 19, 2016
    The bedrock is with us always,
    to the close of the age,
    and is, in all situations and circumstances,
    “a very present help in time of trouble.”
    The bedrock is our ground and our foundation.
    It is who we are,
    our deepest values,
    our highest possibilities,
    our endless source
    of strength and courage,
    our sanctuary
    and our vantage point
    for taking stock,
    reflecting on our experience,
    sizing up a situation,
    observing what is happening,
    what needs to happen,
    and what we can do about it.
    Our bedrock is to us
    as “the mover to the moved,”
    and from its base
    we have what it takes
    to rise to any occasion,
    knowing that nothing
    can take our foundation away from us,
    or keep us from being who we are
    in all times and places.
    At one with the bedrock
    we are at peace
    with our limitations and vulnerabilities,
    and know that, possessing the power
    of infinite recovery,
    we have nothing to fear.
  3. 01/01/2017 — There is the saying it–
    I’m speaking of poetry here,
    but it has application to all of life,
    as poetry often does–
    and the saying of it.
    There is the knowing
    whether it needs to be said,
    and when it has been said.
    And there is the knowing
    that whether anyone reads it
    and hears it,
    or cares to,
    is of no concern to you.
    Your part is to know and to do–
    and to leave the rest of it
    in the hands of mystery and grace.

01/01/2017 — Live with integrity and authenticity,
inner aligned with outer
(which entails knowing
what is inner and what is outer),
in the service
of that which calls your name–
and everything else
will fall into place around that.

People who strive for morality
are after a certain look,
the Puritans
and the Christians
being good examples,
keeping the commandments
while drowning “witches,”
and burning heretics at the stake,
as though they were beyond
the truth at the heart of their own being.

No one gets beyond that.
Get into it, I say–
into the truth at the heart of your own being–
and bring that out into your life.
Living truthfully will
force transformation upon you
or keep people safe from you.
Either way,
the world will be a better place
because of your relentless commitment
to ruthless honesty.
01/02/2017 — Every single person worldwide should sit down, read and contemplate Robert Frost’s poem “The Road Not Taken,” at every transition point throughout her/his life. And choose carefully (that is, thoughtfully, mindfully) what cannot be unchosen.

  1. 01/02/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 18 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 19, 2016
    My mother didn’t have her Real Voice
    until my father died,
    and by then,
    as you can imagine,
    it was not well-developed,
    seasoned and mature,
    filled with wisdom and grace,
    patiently waiting its time
    to come forth and eloquently speak its lines
    with the stored-up beauty and truth of the ages.
    It was pissed and steaming.
    My mother,
    as so many people are,
    was separated from her soul at birth,
    and told who and how to be
    by an array of Those Who Knew Best And Had To Be Pleased Or Else.
    She said and did what was hers to say and do–
    and tried to escape (and did in a manner of speaking)
    by eloping to marry my father at too young an age,
    jumping, as they say in the deep south,
    “from the frying pan into the fire,”
    and living trapped with too many children
    and no marketable skills
    in a life dictated not chosen.
    Steel Magnolias create victims just like themselves:
    resolute,
    unflinching, Determined to do it as it is supposed to be done
    all their life long–
    burying their resentment
    and their resistance
    in order to meet their responsibilities
    and do their duty
    the way they should.
    Denial takes its toll.
    Truth will out.
    Soul robbed of its developmental stages
    comes forth any way it can,
    desperate to see the light of day,
    to breathe the air of freedom
    unchained and unbowed.
    It is the role of conscious awareness
    to civilize soul
    without negating soul,
    or rejecting its right to existence and expression.
    We collaborate in the evolution of the Self,
    integrating its leanings and tendencies
    with the legitimate limits of its context and circumstances.
    When the “archetypal expectations”
    of the soul are not met,
    the outcome will not be pretty and pleasing,
    but pissed and steaming.
  2. 01/02/2017 — Reelfoot Lake 20015 63 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015
    The bedrock which is with us always
    as protector and guide
    is “the face that was ours before we were born.”
    It is our essence,
    our essential identity,
    our essential integrity–
    the Me that is me,
    the Me that is not Not-me.
    When we ground ourselves in the truth of our own nature,
    in the fact of our own being–
    of our own “just so-ness,”
    of our own “self-so-ness”–
    we are immovable, unshakeable, invulnerable and safe
    even on the heaving waves of the wine-dark sea.

01/02/2017 — Each man must strive throughout his life to be the best woman he can be.

Each woman must strive throughout her life to be the best man she can be.

If we would only do that,

all things would fall into place,

the world would rejoice in gladness and thanksgiving

and nothing would be as it has been,

and is.
01/02/2017 — We never out live, or out grow, having been where we have been. When an occasion arises that triggers a complex of associations, feeling, memories and experiences, we sit with its reality, holding all of it in our awareness, weeping perhaps, and, when ready, rise and go to meet what needs us to do it. This is how it is with us, and how it will be.
01/02/2017 — I see,” only means, “I see what I am able to see at this point in my quest to see.”

Just so, “I hear,” and “I understand,” mean only “I hear and understand what I am able to hear and understand at this point in my quest to hear and understand.”

“Seeing, hearing and understanding,” imply that we see, hear, and understand that no one ever sees, hears, understands all that is to be seen, heard, and understood–

That all seeing, hearing and understanding is partial and incomplete, and we are never more than micro-fraction along the way to seeing, hearing and understanding.

There is always more to see than we have seen,

more to hear than we have heard,

more to understand than we have understood.

And the proper response to hearing this is not despair or cynicism, but laughter and the declaration, “I see! I hear! I understand!” followed by more laughter.
01/02/2017 — Buddha-mind is mind knowing itself knowing. Zen monks were stand-up comedians. Some stand-up comedians are Zen monks. Some try too hard to be funny.
01/02/2017 — It is crucial that we not run from the pain of knowing, but that we bear the pain knowingly. That we hold in mindful, compassionate awareness the truth–the terrible, painful, awful, truth–without running, hiding, denying, turning away. But bear it faithfully as witnesses, weeping as we must, but holding firm to the task of knowing and bearing the truth all the way to the bottom. In so doing, we touch the wonder of transcendence, and transform the truth by our ability to bear it, and in bearing it, we make it bearable–and in joining one another in bearing our own unbearable truth, we form community bound together at the heart, each knowing the unspeakable truth the others know, and redeeming what is redeemable–the courage, the resiliency, the constancy, etc. of those women who did what they did and gave their life to us–the Christ sacrifice borne out in our own life experience–and enabled us to have a life that was denied them, so that we now live our life and their unlived life in their memory, in their honor, and make them proud of themselves and their gift to us. We become their memorial, and their justification, their redemption, their hope…
01/02/2017 — Each one of us has to do the work of finding and doing what is ours to do. We have to find “the face that was ours before we were born” and be true to that “face” in doing our work and being who we are, wherever we are!
01/02/2017 — I had a friend who had sailed in his youth. He told me, “I became a sailor when I realized the sea was out to get me.” The closer we get to our dream, the more we realize the dream is out to get us. We have to MEAN IT to dream, and to sail.
01/02/2017 — Jesus said, “Don’t listen to me! Listen to you! Decide for yourselves what is right! I don’t know anything about your business! I’m not taking you to raise! You have to live your own life! You have to do your own work! You have to bear your own cross! You are the light of the world–don’t be hiding your talents, denying your gifts! Get in there and do your thing, and don’t be looking for rewards and payoffs! Do your work! Live your life! What more could you want?” Or words to that effect.
01/02/2017 — I have known absolutely brilliant people who were mindlessly neurotic and crazily out of touch with themselves and others.

We begin to get in touch with ourselves by sitting still–

mindlessly neurotic and crazily out of touch people have such a hard time with sitting still,

therefore, they remain neurotic and crazily out of touch.

Some people have to creep up on stillness by taking small steps.

Be quiet for a second.

Just one second.

When you get that down, try for two.

When you can work up to ten seconds,

try sitting quietly for ten seconds.

This is a start.

To help the time past quickly,

begin to scan your body,

looking for places of tension or tightness.

Our body is our guide.

You know the Uh-oh feeling?

How many times in your life have you blown right by it?

It is my place in your life to call you to pay attention

to the Uh-oh feeling.

To do that, you have to be listening to your body.

You have to be aware of your body.

You have to be mindful of your body.

Have you watched the Jon Kabat-Zinn videos on You Tube?

You can’t expect me to be of any help to you

if you won’t help yourself.

Everything waits on your becoming mindful of your body.

I’m wasting my time with you

until then.

Everybody wants the solution to their problems.

The end of their symptoms.

And they won’t listen to their body.

Because their body is trying to tell them things

they don’t want to hear.

Does that sound like anybody you know?
01/02/2017 — Some roads are better than others. We thrive in some situations and shrivel/die in others. Some environments are better for us than others. Some are right for us and others are wrong for us. Some jobs are right for us, others are wrong for us. Some decisions/choices are right for us, others are wrong for us. We live to learn right from wrong in terms of where we thrive and where we dry up and die. And roads fork in the woods all of the time. We are always being called on to read the signs, to know what we are doing. This kind of knowing isn’t a “thinking thing.” It is a “mindful thing.” We have to learn the art of living mindfully. Thinking has its place, but its place is figuring out the details of implementing what we have imagined and intuited as being what needs to happen.
01/02/2017 — A friend of mine did a good bit of sailing when he was young, and told me “I didn’t become a sailor until I realized the sea was out to get me.”

All of our dreams are out to get us. We don’t understand this and think in terms of fame and fortune, success and glory, issuing forth from the realization of our dreams. Our dreams will eat us alive.

Joseph Campbell should have tacked that on to his “Follow your bliss.” “Follow your bliss knowing that your dreams will eat you alive!”

Our dreams eating us alive is part of the trials and ordeals of dream realization. We sacrifice ourselves upon the altar of our dreams. Nobody tells us that.

A dream that doesn’t put us upon the sacrificial altar isn’t worth dreaming. A dream that cuts our heart out is a dream that dreams are all about.

That kind of dream gets us down to the question every dreamer has to answer: “Do you have what it takes?”

If we are in it for the money, or for the recognition, or for the attention, or to have something to talk about in the bars of the world; “That time when I…” we aren’t worth a real dream’s time and effort.

A real dream is looking for someone who will put everything on the line and not look back because the dream isn’t his, isn’t her, dream, it is her, it is his, life.

“This isn’t my dream, it’s my life! So cut out my heart! Eat me alive! I don’t care! I’m nothing without my dream! It is everything I have, or can imagine having!”

Now, we’re talking! That’s the spirit! That kind of dreamer is capable of living in the service of the dream–of doing whatever the dream requires–without qualm or hesitation.

A dream can come alive in the hands of a person like that. And that person will come alive in the service of the dream. And you can’t beat that with a Nobel Peace Prize and a Pulitzer Award.
01/02/2017 — Bingo. You’re on it. And you, and the rest of us, are quite alone with it, even though we are all together in the same room, or world. There is no way we can be together enough, or close enough to dispel the aloneness at the heart of Dark Reality. We have to sink down through the fear and despair to the bedrock truth of who we are and have always been, “the face that was ours before we were born.” And find our courage and our confidence in the heartfelt knowledge that we are one with the bedrock and it cannot be taken from us by anything that happens to us. We remain us through it all, at one with that which is deepest, best, and truest about us. So, we stroll up to the drooling Cyclops and spit in his ugly red eye and say, “You can save yourself a lot of trouble by stepping aside.” As we do that, we will find ourselves less alone than we thought, awash in the good company of those who know the secret at the core of life and being: We are all one at the level of the bedrock. It grounds and connects us all.

  1. 01/03/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 04 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2017
    Jesus reportedly said, “Father, forgive them, they know not what they do.”
    That doesn’t ring true.
    It sounds like something some disciple of a disciple made up and put in place.
    It’s sweet.
    When was Jesus ever sweet?
    “Go tell that fox Herod I’m on my way!”
    That has Jesus all over it.
    He cursed a fig tree for not bearing fruit out of season!
    How could not knowing what you’re doing be an acceptable excuse?
    And he told the guy working on the Sabbath,
    “If you know what you are doing, you are blessed–
    but if you don’t know, you are accursed and a transgressor of the Law!”
    To play the “I didn’t know” card
    is to be irresponsible and unaccountable.
    It is the easiest–and most often used–out
    in the entire Book of Outs.
    Just ask a traffic cop.
    “But Officer, I didn’t know what the speed limit was!”
    “Oh, well never mind then. We’ll have to post more signs.”
    A mass of Trump supporters think
    there is a difference between
    “Obamacare” and the “Affordable Health Care Act,”
    And that the Republicans can repeal Obamacare
    but the Affordable Health Care Act will remain in place.
    So, they voted for Trump and for Republicans.
    That’s not knowing what you’re doing.
    Forgive that? No way.
    There is a price to pay for being stupid.
    The problem is that we all pay it in this case. 01/03/2017 — One of the 10,000 things the Republicans don’t understand
    is that religious freedom is freedom FROM religion!
    The colonists were fleeing religious oppression and intolerance!
    Now the Republicans are creating the very thing
    the founders of the country came here to escape!
    Of course, they never got that in the version of American History
    taught in the schools they attended.
    Republicans had the teacher Billy Collins describes
    in his poem, “The History Teacher” (Googleit).
  2. 01/03/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 46 Panorama– Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    It’s like this:
    Two people are walking together along a sidewalk,
    both look at a flower growing by the curb,
    and one of them sees it and the other does not–
    and the one seeing it not only sees it,
    but sees it in its just-so-ness,
    in its such-as-it-is-ness,
    in its only-one-of-its-kind-ness,
    in its uniqueness and its individuality,
    and they walk on
    one having seen and the other having not seen.
    Or, it’s like this:
    two people go to the ocean
    and both look at it,
    one sees it and the other only looks at it,
    and the one seeing it not only sees it,
    but sees it in its just-so-ness,
    in its such-as-it-is-ness,
    and reads its mood,
    and knows its immediate past
    and its immediate future,
    and hears the music of its surf,
    and catches the sunlight dancing with the waves,
    and they walk along the beach,
    one seeing and the other not seeing.
    See?
    That’s how it is.
  3. 01/04/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    There is a saying in the south,
    “The quickest way to (or through)
    is the long way around.”
    Carl Jung would have agreed.
    He thought of “the process of individuation,”
    whereby we become One With The Self At The Center Of Ourselves,
    as one that requires us to, in his phrase, “circumambulate the Self,”
    because we cannot approach it directly,
    with logic, reason, cognition, thinking, pondering, deliberating, debating, figuring, and calculating,
    using the left hemisphere of our brains
    (You know, the way we do religion),
    but have to come at it indirectly,
    using peripheral vision,
    and instinct and intuition,
    feeling, sensing our way along–
    not with prose but with poetry,
    not with doctrine, dogma, theology and creed,
    but with song and dance and stand-up comedy,
    using the right hemisphere of our brain
    (You know, the way we would never do religion–
    because then, how would we ever get them together,
    and why would they pay the priests?).
    If you take Jung’s idea of the Self,
    and my idea of the Bedrock,
    and see that they are the same idea
    only using different words for the same reality,
    and approach the Bedrock
    singing and dancing and finding the humor in all of it,
    you will soon be One With Everything,
    with nothing to worry about
    and nothing to fear,
    and becoming more like who you are
    with every turn along the way.

01/04/2017 — What do you spend your time
worrying about,
struggling with,
stewing over,
trying to get into place
and keep there
so that things will be
finally
how you want them to be?
“If only” what?
Upon what does your peace depend?
Sit with these things.
Hold them in your awareness.
See what ALL occurs to you.
Reflection is the never-ending path
to always expanding realization.
The deeper we go, the wider it spreads–
in all directions.
Only those who take up the task laughing
have what it takes
to stay the course.
01/04/2017 — There is a fine line between
“the kind of help
that help is all about,
and the kind of help
we all could do without” (Shel Silverstein).

“What a slippery slope this is!” (Zen)

“It’s like a razor’s edge!” (Zen)

We help best
when we help one another
with each other’s life.
But.
When to step forward?
When to step back?
What is assistance?
What is interference?

When we get to
“You are the only one who can help me!”
we have gone too far.

Projection/transference,
projection/counter-transference,
dependency,
co-dependency
make for a nice dance of denial
around the fire
of True Love At Last Again.

Help hesitantly, resistantly,
is my best advice.
with mindful awareness–
not kidding yourself
about what is helpful
and what is not.

Help by being willing to be
unhelpful.
Care by not-caring.
Lead by getting out of the way.
Be the Self
you would help others become.

The disciples must become like the master
in following no master.
01/04/2017 — Know.
Do not understand.
Do not seek explanation.
Eat the apple!
Do not talk about it!
Understand?
01/04/2017 — For poets and such
the life is in the writing,
not the recognition.
Recognition is sweet, but.
It doesn’t last, and.
If it is IT
IT has to be replenished
around the clock.

Donald Trump is the consummate
Recognition Junkie.
It is an empty high, but.
A satisfying poem
is forever satisfying, even
if you’re the only one
who ever reads it.
01/04/2017 — About two years ago, I took up my version of The Way of the Hermit.
I adopted Carl Jung’s idea of a hermit as my own:
“A primitive man who trusts his unconscious.”
From early April to late September, 2016,
I spent 2 – 4 hours every day in my hammock,
and quit when the sun moved far enough south
to bathe my yard in harsh sunlight all day,
and there were no clouds for 6 weeks,
then it turned cold, but.
the silence and solitude were a wonderful gift to my soul, from my soul,
and I learned more from the silence,
by being aware of my thoughts
and reflecting on my experiences,
that anywhere else I could have been.
I talk only with family.
I don’t talk on the phone.
I don’t read newspapers, but follow the news on the internet.
I don’t watch TV.
I don’t go to movies.
I don’t meet friends for lunch or coffee.
I don’t make small talk with the neighbors.
I don’t go to sporting events.
I no longer fly.
I don’t preach or speak to groups of people.
I don’t extend or accept invitations.
I don’t host parties or overnight company.
I read, write, remember, reflect.
I walk around with a camera (and kept one in the hammock).
I work to be mindfully, compassionately, aware
of each situation as it arises.
I attend my body and my moods.
I listen to myself and my internal dialogues.
I clear the underbrush from the wooded land
near our house,
and plant ferns and wild azaleas.
I keep four bird feeders filled.
I follow “The Rule of Jim Dollar” each day.
I don’t eat from 7 PM until 11 AM (or so).
I don’t eat refined sugar.
I don’t drink alcohol.
I drink coffee and water.
I eat a normal lunch and have a bowl of cold cereal
and a spinach salad with olive oil and red wine vinegar for dinner.
I’m in bed by 11 PM.

Today I end my 72nd year.
Tomorrow I begin my 73rd year.
So far, so good.
01/04/2017 — Little kids–I’m thinking of myself here–come into the world expecting certain things.
Oxygen. Mother’s milk. Smiling faces.
Things like that.
One of the things little kids expect
is that adults will be who they say they are.
And that the world to be as they are told it is.
Lying to little kids is a bad thing.
It takes them years to get the truth figured out.
And then, they don’t know what to believe–
or how to know.
After a time of it,
what I settled on is this
You cannot trust people to be who they say they are,
or the world to be what you are told it is.
You have to trust yourself to be okay with that,
and when you are disappointed by one or the other, or both,
you have to trust yourself to deal with it
in ways that steady you,
ground you,
and establish you
upon the bedrock
of your own identity,
character,
values,
Self.
You can handle anything
from that foundation.
Why don’t they tell us THAT when we are little kids?
 

  1. 01/04/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 22 — Union County, North Carolina and Lancaster County South Carolina, looking from North to South, Twelve Mile Creek, November 19, 2016
    We collaborate with, and participate in,
    the descent to the Bedrock,
    the circumambulation of the Self,
    by taking up the practice of mindful awareness,
    and incorporating it into our lives
    in a regular way.
    We listen to our body and read its signals.
    We remember and work with our dreams.
    We notice what catches our eye,
    and look closer.
    We attend the a-ha’s, the that’s-it’s,
    the things that click with us,
    that wink at us,
    that call our name.
    White rabbits are forever crossing our path
    and looking back
    to see if we are coming.
    Go! Go! Go!
    You know,
    like that.
  2. 01/05/2017 — Goodale 2016 33 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Our vulnerability is our greatest strength.
    The chief cornerstone is the one the builders reject.
    “A man of sorrows and acquainted with grief,
    he was despised, and we esteemed him not.”
    Nothing good can come from Nazareth.
    Born in a manger, died on a cross.
    “I am the way, the truth and the life,
    no one gets to the Bedrock, to the Self, to the ‘Father’
    without doing it the way I am doing it.”
    “Like a lamb that is led to the slaughter…”
    And all we talk about is resurrection,
    victory over death,
    and the glories of heaven and life everlasting.
    Vulnerability is handed to us
    and we say, “INvulnerability!
    INvulnerability!
    Nothing less than complete and total
    INvulnerability will do!”
    We think we can get to
    “the face that was ours before we were born”
    by avoiding vulnerability
    and refusing all manifestations
    of discomfort and inconvenience.
    Dying, again and again,
    is absolutely out of the question. 01/05/2017 — Always go with luck. And, go knowing that we are NOT who we say we are! That’s the impetus back “to the face that was ours before we were born”! “We are who we always have been, and who we will be” (Carl Jung)–AND we are who we have no business being! And so, the cross is a living metaphor of who we are and what we are about–always dying, always coming to life, new life, poured over, spilling out. We aren’t playing church here–we are involved in the life long struggle to escape the chrysalis and fly.
    01/05/2017 — When we remove all
    theology, doctrine, dogma, creeds and ideology
    from religion,
    what remains is art,
    and music without lyrics
    (All hymnbooks are clandestine books of doctrine).

Art is religion without the trappings of religion.
We are artists, all,
at the level of the Bedrock, Self, within.
01/05/2017 — We have to bear the consequences
of choices made
and roads not taken.
It’s the weight of life,
I’m talking about.
01/05/2017 — Upon reflection
(Which is the way everything
comes about.
Look around you.
You cannot see anything
that was not the result of reflection,
sometimes profound and devoted reflection
over a long period of time–
grand pianos, for example,
did not just appear in finished form
out of the air,
and neither did the Bible.),

I can say I attended, and graduated from,
Seminary,
and lived out my 40.5 years as a parish minister,
in search of “the face that was mine before I was born.”

That face is the face of one gifted in the art of–
and called into the service of–
hermeneutics, from Hermes,
the Greek name for the messenger of the gods,
the God of Meaning, Interpretation, Translation,
the God whose task it was to make sense of what he heard
and to relay the sense of it to whom it was intended.

As an aside, I will say that it is to me interesting
that the Greek “Hermes” is “Mercury” in Latin.
Mercury is quicksilver, fluid, flowing, impossible to pin down,
to define, to nail in place, to make rigid, to take literally,
to freeze in motion–
unchanged, unchanging, unchangable
through all eternity–
so different from our understanding
and expectation
of the office
of Minister of Word and Sacrament,
which is to talk to the people about God,
and never tell them anything
they haven’t already heard.

Aside over, my work is to be who I have become,
which is who I have always been,
and you will probably discover the same thing
about your own work
and the nature of your own being.
Which I perceive to be a wonder of wonders,
and a miracle beyond imagining.

I never would have thought it
without reflecting on it–
without looking back over it
from the standpoint of having done it.
And now, am able to do it
with a renewed vigor and vitality.
It is who I AM!
It is what is MINE to DO!

Destiny fulfilled and unfolding!
May it be so of us all!
01/05/2017 — Rumi said,
“One glance at a true human being
and we’re in love.”
That’s because a true human being
is authentically, genuinely,
being who she, who he, is–
living out her, out his,
integrity of inward being
in full accord with outward circumstances,
exhibiting before us and all who glance
her, his way,
the face that was hers, was his,
before she, before he, was born.
Demonstrating for all to see
the Bedrock, the Self,
at the foundation of us all–
showing us who we are,
and who we might even yet become.
Falling in love with her, with him,
is evidence of our deep yearning
for ourselves.

01/05/2017 — Everything works together

to bring us forth

and make us who we are

in the time and place,

circumstances and conditions

of our living.
We either receive what is offered

and use it in the production of ourselves,

or we reject it

and abort the new life aborning.
We assist our life or obstruct it.

The events remain the same–

their impact depends upon

the quality of our response to them,

and how we fold them into,

and work to make them a part of,

the life we are living.
All of the things that can stop us,

can just as easily serve as transition points,

propelling us toward our destiny–

now with exactly what we need

to face what will meet us along the way.
-1/05/2017 — All of Jesus’ parables were first dreams.
Jesus dreamed up the parables.
If you will look at your own dreams
as parables about you and your life,
you will be doing what Jesus did.
If you want to know how I know that,
I just made it up.
If you say he didn’t dream up the parables,
I’ll want to know how you know that.
You’ll have to say you just made it up.
Everything we say about Jesus is made up.
Saying it isn’t made up is making that up.
If we are going to make up something,
why not make up something
that will help us with our life?
Treating our dreams like parables
and applying our understanding of them
to the way we live our life
will transform the way we live.
And I’m not making that up.

  1. 01/06/2017 — Congree 2016 09 — Congree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    We know when we are cold, hot, hungry, sleepy,
    and cannot explain what we know
    to anyone who asks
    beyond asking them , “Ya know?”
    What my wife means when she says she’s hot,
    and what I mean when I say I’m cold,
    are often the same thing:
    It is 65 degrees.
    “65 degrees” means different things
    to different people.
    One person’s “cold” is another person’s “hot.”
    Getting people to agree
    as to whether it is cold or hot
    is one of those “exercises in futility”
    that we step into from time to time.
    “Defining our terms so we are all know what we mean”
    is something we do
    in “community building”
    or “leadership development”
    or “mission statement creation”
    that takes playfulness out of the equation.
    Creativity, imagination, intuition, instinct, and play
    require a relaxation of the “define and explain” requirement.
    “Bang, bang, you’re dead!”
    doesn’t ask that we stop every time
    and say we know you really aren’t dead.
    Dead means you aren’t breathing
    and you are clearly breathing
    so we all agree that you aren’t dead.
    To do so would take all the fun
    out of playing Democrats and Republicans.

01/06/2017 — Practice, practice, practice
isn’t always the way to Carnegie Hall.
The art is in the work,
in doing the work well,
in performing the work
for the sake of the work,
to get it down
so that we are satisfied
with our performance
and know that we nailed it today,
and can allow nailing it today
be enough for today–
and be back at it again tomorrow.

There are moms and dads
who nail parenthood,
and get no parade,
no raises in salary,
no recognition,
no plaque in the Hall of Fame of Parenthood.
There is no Hall of Fame of Parenthood.

Yet, they get up every day
to practice and to perform
the role of mom and dad again today.
Everything depends on how well they do.
No one seems to notice or care.

Their life as mom or dad
is an art they perfect
over the full course of their life,
with no standing ovations
from the crowd at Carnegie Hall.

  1. 01/06/2017 — Lake Crandal 2016 09 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016
    Rumi’s poem, “The Guesthouse” (Googleit), waits to be realized
    in the life of each one of us,
    as we consciously, mindfully,
    welcome all the griefs, losses, and sorrows,
    all the regrets and disappointments,
    the betrayals, memories, feelings, moods, experiences
    of everything we have done and has been done to us,
    invite them in,
    for they all have a place with us,
    and our place is to accommodate ourselves to them–
    to square ourselves up with them,
    and let them be because they are,
    and have had a part in making us
    who we are, as we are.
    Reconciling ourselves to them–
    to the fact of them–
    and making our peace with the fact
    that they are a part of our life,
    a part of us,
    and living what remains to be lived
    of our life
    conscious of their place in our life,
    and how they might influence our life
    and take that influence into account
    as we determine what needs to be done
    and how we might best do it,
    is to live toward the best future we can imagine
    as “the best version of ourselves” we can be.
    Our gift to the new year.
  2. 01/07/2017 — Goodale 2016 26-C — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 7, 2016, I manufactured this reflection by flipping the original image in Photoshop and blending the flipped image with the original. I’ll post the original next to give you the before and after, or after and before.
    Put autism on the table along with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and sugar.
    What you have is cause and effect.
    Sugar is at the bottom of all our ills today.
    And the world runs on sugar.
    Sugar modifies our genetic makeup to crave more sugar.
    (I may be making all of this up–Googleit.)
    We can’t get enough sugar.
    We are all Will Ferrell in the movie “Elf”:
    “The four main food groups are:
    Candy, candy cane, candy corn and syrup.”
    Sugar is not only the new tobacco,
    it is also the new arsenic.
    It is the new nuclear waste water.
    It is toxic to the system.
    Every system.
    It multiplies its own ability to consume those who consume it.
    It is the glob that destroyed Pittsburg
    and every other burg, or berg,
    and all who live therein.
    Take yourself off all forms of refined sugar NOW–
    and those you love.
    Stevia seems to be the only acceptable substitute.
    But, don’t take my word for it. 01/07/2017 — My contradictions keep me balanced
    and sane.
    Without them in place,
    I would walk with a lilt in my stride,
    and go round and round,
    making nice circles,
    but never getting anywhere.
    The way to manage your contradictions
    is to keep an eye on them at all times–
    that would actually be to keep two eyes on them,
    because where one eye looks,
    the other looks as well.
    Holding your contradictions in your awareness
    allows you to walk two paths at the same time,
    being mindful of the other path
    while you are on the one you are on,
    and being careful to never think
    that there is only one path
    and you have found it.
    Every path has its other path.
    One path is the shadow of the other.
    To walk both paths at the same time
    is to walk upright and straght
    along the razor’s edge,
    at the top of the slopes as slippery as ice,
    dancing with our contradictions
    and laughing along the way. 01/07/2017 — I hate to be the one who tells you this, but.
    In the Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now,
    nothing falls on the minister.
    There is no minster.
    I just keep the doors open and the lights on,
    and point things out,
    like, “There is no minister.”
    That means everything falls on the people.
    And that means it is up to the people.
    The people have to be responsible for their own enlightenment.
    Which means “asking, seeking and knocking”–
    and going on “asking, seeking and knocking”
    until they wake up to their role:
    Finding their life and living it within the life they are living.
    The National Park Service has a motto:
    “You are responsible for your own safety.”
    Same thing applies here, with the addition,
    “And for finding your life and living it within the life you are living.”
    I’ll keep pointing out things like that,
    but you have to do the work. 01/07/2017 — Once we take sin off the table
    everything changes.
    Now the problem is not how to get to heaven
    and avoid hell
    when we die,
    but what to do with our life.
    And what to do with our life has nothing to do with
    getting God on our side,
    but getting ourselves on our side–
    or getting on our Self’s side.
    Integrity is the issue,
    and integrity is being true to ourselves,
    within the terms and conditions of our life–
    living aligned with ourselves within,
    and living in accord with the situation as it arises,
    offering there what is needed
    out of the gifts that our ours to give.
    So that we are one within,
    and one with the needs of the time and place of our living.
    And there is no sense of trying to force
    something to happen out of its time,
    but of smoothly assisting what needs to happen
    when and where and how it needs to happen,
    as those who are well equipped to provide
    what is needed.
    That is integrity.
    An arrow’s flight to the bulls-eye.
    We devote ourselves to living like an arrow.
    In each situation, we are the arrow,
    being true to ourselves,
    not kidding ourselves about who we are,
    grounded in our identity,
    at one with the face that was ours before we were born,
    on the way to the target of being
    who and what and how the situation needs us to be:
    aligned with ourselves,
    faithful to the situation’s need of us.
    That is all there is to it.
    But.
    If you think it’s a snap,
    take it for a spin,
    and then tell me what you think.

01/07/2017 — We know when we are in sync
and when we are out of sync–
when we are on the beam
and when we are off it.

The task is to stay on the beam!
To live at one with the Tao,
at one with the rhythm and flow of our life.

We don’t do that by thinking our way along,
looking for the advantages,
chasing profit at any price,
striving to win at all costs,
and come out ahead no matter what.

Five year plans and annual goals
cannot dance with the spirit
that is like the wind,
blowing where it will.

We have to come at our life
in a different way
than we would come at our career.
What we do to pay the bills is one thing.
What we pay the bills to do is quite another.
Having it made
in a way that kills our soul
isn’t having it made.

We cannot buy what the beam supplies
with all the pieces of silver we get
for the price of our soul.

How much do we need to live on the beam?
Find a job that pays that much,
and stay on the beam!

01/07/2017 — A short guide to mindfulness meditation:

Sit quietly in a comfortable position.
Pay attention to your breathing.
listen to your body.
Hold your breathing and your body in your awareness.
Notice when your mind moves away
from your breathing and your body,
and bring it back,
holding your breathing and your body in your awareness.
Do this for 20 minutes twice a day.
And watch the Jon Kabat-Zinn You Tube videos.

01/07/2017 — There is understanding,
and there is knowing.
The two are not the same.
We think we know something when we understand it,
and can define it and explain it,
dissect it and label all of its component parts,
then put it back together blindfolded.
We do not know it.
We only understand it.

Knowing is a different experience altogether.

Understanding and knowing live on different sides of the brain.
Understanding is a left hemisphere function,
and knowing is of the right hemisphere–
though the hemispheres are not neatly cordoned off,
and there is mutual interplay between them–
a borrowing and a lending, so to speak,
to smooth things off and make for harmony
between the spheres.

Knowing knows but it doesn’t know how it knows,
and it doesn’t care.
It can’t explain anything,
or reel off a memorized list of reasons for doing a thing,
or leaving it undone.

Knowing knows what time it is without looking at a clock
or a calendar–
or, better, perhaps, knowing knows what it is time for,
and what it is time not for.

Knowing is tuned to the rhythms of life
and of soul–
and to the movement of the tides and the stars–
and to the mood of the room,
and the need of the moment.

Understanding has its place and its work to do,
and knowing has its place and its work to do.
It is our place, and our work, to perceive when what is called for,
and put ourselves in the service of the one
whose time is at hand.

That is a knowing thing,
not an understanding one.

Understand?
01/07/2017 — I am encouraged that so many of you are comfortable
in a church that has set aside the “churchyness” of religion–
the pomp and ceremony and decorative circumstance–
for the essential practice of silence and mindfulness,
and the experience of shared community
with no hierarchy or external authority.

The ground is that which grounds us all.
The bedrock of identity, purpose and meaning
that is our center and foundation.

No one has to tell us what that is–or can–
or has any business trying!
No one can give us our business, our work, our life!
We each are equipped to know what that is,
and to do it “with all our heart, mind, soul and strength”
We know the “YES! That grips us in the presence
of what we must do.
We only have to know what we know,
and live in light of it.

The church as a “gathering of sojourners,”
comes together to remember
that we only have to know what we know
and live in light of it–
and to remind one another of it.

Life can distract us with its threats and promises,
and its bitter, crushing, experiences with grief, loss and sorrow.
We can forget who we are and what we are about,
and need the shelter of caring presence to keep the noise out,
and the darkness,
that the silence and the light might come in.

Community provides us with people who are able
to listen us to the truth of what we have to say
and need to hear.
We need to hear what we have to say!
In order to reflect on it and come to new realizations,
rearrange our response to our experience,
shift our perspective,
and change our life.

No one can tell us what we need to hear in this way
the way we can tell ourselves what needs to be heard.
Authenticity, genuineness and vulnerability
are the mix for transformation
made possible by a listening/hearing community
without a stereotype to champion and impose,
or a perspective to force on all comers.

Here, we don’t know what we are supposed to say or hear.
It is a different way of doing things.
We are free to say what needs to be said,
and to hear what needs to be heard–
in order to know what needs to be known,
and do what needs to be done.

Why is a place like this so hard to find?
01/07/2017 — My expectation is that with some time spent with
silence and mindful, compassionate awareness,
you will begin to form your own actual community
with a few friends you already know.
The virtual Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now
will become tangible in your life
as you create a community capable
of being what all of its members need
to find their life and live it
within the life they are living–
by being the one who takes this
and brings it to life in your life.
There will be an inner urgency about it
that makes it both necessary and possible.
01/07/2017 — I do so grieve the lost of standards of behavior
that has become so apparent
during this Presidential election–
and before that,
throughout the eight years
of Barack Obama’s Presidency.
Republicans have been shameless,
unblushing and indecent from the start.
Trump’s indignities and obscenities
have been but the cusp of the wave
based upon utter disregard
for the humanity of any they don’t like.
This is not a lapse of grace and decorum
that can be repaired.
With civility crumbling
before the Vandals and Huns,
I fear for civilization as we know it.

  1. 01/08/2017 — Goodale 2016 26-C — Goodale State Park, Camden, SC, November 7, 2016, Straight up without the pseudo reflection.
    Live so as to make life a lot worse without you.
    That doesn’t mean honey-coating anything.
    It means seeing things as they are
    and not allowing that to stop you
    from being who you are,
    offering what you have to give
    to the time and place of your living.
    The spirit of the times is rude, ugly and cruel,
    and we live from one enclave
    of kindness and compassion
    to the next.
    Create your own enclave of frank safety
    for those who come your way:
    “This is how things are,
    this is what can be done about it,
    and that’s that.
    We cannot do what can be done
    if we are all-curled up in a fetal position
    waiting for Mamma to take care of us.
    We have to take our courage
    where we find it
    and live out of our own core
    in meeting what must be met.”
    When we wake up and step into a nightmare,
    we would do well to remember
    and explore our nighttime dreams.
    Our dreams compensate the life we are living,
    and call forth realization, recognition,
    strength, courage and grace.
    Dreams properly interpreted
    are nightly oracles calling us to take heart
    in a “This is what is happening in your life,
    and this is what you need to do about it”
    kind of way.
    We are never as helpless as it seems.
    Don’t let your resources lie about
    unseen, unused.
    We have a life eager to be lived
    in any circumstance,
    in every condition of life.
    We should give it a chance
    to show us what we can do.

01/08/2017 — A lot of people are uncomfortable looking within.
One of them told me,
“If you clear your mind,
you will make room for thoughts
you don’t want to think!”
I asked, “Can you give me an example?”
The person didn’t want to think about it.

Living ethical lives, never mind the morality part,
or living moral lives, never mind the ethical part,
is as close to religion as some people care to be.

They seem to know that the right kind of religion
will eat you alive.
“The sea is out to get you!”
And they are not about to be eaten alive.

Religion is wasted on those
who don’t have what it takes to be religious,
that is to say,
living mindfully and trusting their unconscious.

I don’t know how to take one of those people
and make him/her religious.
Jesus didn’t know either,
and walked away,
seeking an audience
with those who could hear
what he had to say.

My plan over the course of my life
was, and continues to be,
to be the kind of person
I would like to talk to,
and see who else might gather around
to hear what I have to say.

It has worked so well for me,
I recommend it to you.
Become what you seek.
Offer what you have to give.
See where it goes.
01/08/2017 — Trump would be lost
without those to blame,
bully,
sue…

Trump is above the law,
beyond the law,
lawless,
an outlaw.

A dispassionate demagogue
who gives people
permission to be as he is
on a smaller scale.

Those of us who see that
are like Yoda and Obi-wan
under the rule of the Empire
waiting out the times.

  1. 01/08/2017 — Providence Cemetery 2016 01 Panorama Black and White — Providence Presbyterian Church, Charlotte (Matthews), North Carolina, December 11, 2016
    A tree–and all plants and animals–becomes what it is capable of being within the context and circumstances of its life.
    Human beings rarely become what they are capable of being,
    and spend their time and energy,
    rearranging, improving, transforming
    the context and circumstances of their life,
    to their own joy and satisfaction,
    and personal gain.
    This is the moral of the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden.
    It is a story we each live out in the time an place of our living–
    refusing to become who we are capable of being,
    and wrestling with conditions and particulars
    to make things more like we think they ought to be,
    never minding who and how we think we ought to be.
    We would do well to learn from the trees
    how best to go about our life.

01/08/2017 — Old people sit around grousing,
remembering better times.
Young people are busy living their life.
But.
The life they are living
won’t be around in their old age.
Live the life that goes before you,
I say.
Not the life you will leave behind.
That is a task worth your time!

01/08/2017 — The following is taken from Volume 2, Oriental Mytholory of Joseph Campbell’s 4 Volume set The Masks of God.
Campbell says, “An American sociologist said to his friend, a Shinto priest, ‘I have been to a number of Shinto shrines, and watched a number of Shinto rites. I have read quite a bit, and thought at length about it, but I don’t get the ideology. I don’t get your theology.’
The Japanese gentleman, smiling, replied, ‘We do not have ideology. We do not have theology. We dance.’
“Which is,” says Campbell, “precisely the point. Shinto is a religion, not of sermons, but of awe—which is a sentiment that may, or may not produce words, but, in either case, goes beyond them. It is not ‘a grasp of the conception of spirit,’ but a sense of its ubiquity.”
Campbell adds, “The psychology of the Japanese tends to favor the emotional rather than the rational. The Japanese take pleasure in sensing the atmosphere, so they tend to be rather easily moved by environment. There is an ancient Japanese poem which, in very free translation, says,
‘Unknown to me what resideth here:
Tears flow from a sense of unworthiness and gratitude.’
“Living Shinto is not the following of some set-down moral code, but a living in gratitude and awe amid the mystery of things. So that,
‘Unknown to me what resideth here’—what resideth anywhere, in anything of our concern—‘Tears flow’—for I am actually moved—‘from a sense of unworthiness’—as one not perfectly pure of heart—‘and gratitude.’”
This is an attitude that I recognize as a properly religious attitude—a perspective that fosters a certain perception of, and a way of being in, the world, wherever we are.

01/08/2017 — Take up the practice of living
out of your own authority.
Jesus said, “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right?”
Jesus certainly decided for himself what was right.
Not even his mother could get by
with telling him what to do.
Decide for yourself what you will do and will not do.
When, where and how.
You are in charge of your life.
Be in charge of your life.
What decisions are you unable to make?
What’s at the bottom of that?
What is preventing you from
living out of your own authority?
From deciding for yourself what is right for you?

01/09/2017 — Practice living out of your own authority
by consciously, mindfully, deciding
what you are going to do and not do.

YOU decide what to wear and how to cut your hair–
in light of everything else.

YOU decide what you will eat and avoid eating–
in light of everything else.

YOU decide what you will do and refuse to do–
in light of everything else.

YOU become completely and totally responsible for YOU–
in light of everything else.

We do not live in a vacuum on an island in a world all our own.

We have to take everything into account,
aware of the implications one thing has for another,
and living in light of the true good of the whole.

This is to live with mindful, compassionate, awareness–
on our own authority.

It will slow you down.
Force deliberation and reflection on you,
and require you to care about what you are doing.

Require you to care.

We cannot live mindfully, compassionately, aware
of everything
and not care about anything.

We are in the habit of living our lives
not noticing much,
and caring about very little.

The ground and foundation of the right kind of religion
is seeing everything
and caring about it all–
and deciding what you will do in response to it
in light of the true good of the whole
out of your own authority.

You will quickly discover that there is a reason
we don’t know anything about nearly everything,
and don’t care to.

How can we possibly care about the lion AND the antelope
without taking sides?

Taking sides is what we do best.
No! Having an opinion is what we do best!
No! Serving our agenda is what we do best!
No! Hiding from the truth of the mutual exclusiveness of it all is what we do best!

Col. Nathan R. Jessup nails us:
We can’t handle the truth.

This is where you begin the work of being religious in the right way.
SEEING!
HEARING1
UNDERSTANDING!
KNOWING!
And taking the responsibility for DOING
what you decide what needs to be done in response to it all
in light of the true good of the whole
out of your own authority–
BEING at one with all things.

This is the religious problem.
Or, the cross that is ours to bear.

“What a slippery slope this is!”
“It is like the edge of a razor!”

To be religious is to live knowingly in all times and places,
in light of the true good of the whole.

Just seeing.
Just knowing.
Just doing.
Just being–at one with the whole.
Grounded on our own authority.
Not running.
Not hiding.
Not denying.
Not kidding ourselves.
Not looking away.

Let’s get this show on the road!

01/09/2017 — The more we know about what needs to be done,
the less we are able to do.

We take to the fetal position,
rendered immobile and helpless
by the reality
of unchooseable choices
on every side.

Suck it up!

“Get in there and do your thing!”
Decide what you are going to do
out of your own authority,
and do it.

Bear the full weight of the awful responsibility,
and stop whining like a baby.

01/09/2017 — I get all my news from the tabloids–
don’t you?
I saw just yesterday that new evidence
has been found
definitely confirming what we have always known:
President Obama was not born in the USA!
His entire presidency has been a fraud,
and is in the process of being invalidated
by the world court.
No kidding.
I saw that on the news stand
at the grocery store.
And I see that we are getting
the same quality of intensive journalism
delivered to the comfort of our recliners
right here on Facebook.
The wonders of technology
are scientifically proven
to be immune to any kind of untoward manipulation,
and I saw this morning
that Bill Clinton had been nabbed with another woman
in a night club,
and there were pictures to prove it.
God is good, and oh, so awesome,
to give us the truth like this
and guide our way to the everlasting light.
Tabloids and Facebook are tools of the Lord!
Pass the word!

01/09/2017 — We grow toward living out of our own authority
by calling to mind all of the things we complain about doing.

Stand before each one,
and consider it in its allness,
in its just-so-ness
in its such-as-it-is-ness.
Hold it, considered this way, in you awareness.
Decide whether you are going to do it or not do it.
Do that with each item on your list of things you hate to do.
Stop doing the things you decide to not do.
Do the things you decide to do–
not because you have to do them,
not because you are being forced or compelled to do them–
because you have DECIDED to do them.
You have embraced and affirmed them
as things that are yours to do.
When it comes time to do them,
get up and go do them
without fanfare and no pouting.
You have said they are yours to do,
like anything else that is yours to do–
tying your shoes,
brushing your teeth,
washing your hair…
And if this is too much for you,
if you cannot bring yourself to do them
without moaning and remonstrating and gnashing your teeth,
then do it with everything that is yours to do:
“Damn it all to hell! I have to sneeze! I HATE sneezing!”
Cleaning your glasses,
Blowing your nose.
Scratching your ear.
The whole entourage.

01/09/2017 — You cannot hope to be religious
without living out of your own authority–
without deciding for yourself
what it means for you to “be religious.”

You have to assume responsibility
for your own perspective
and for the perceptions
arising from your perspective–
to be accountable for how the way you see
determines and limits what you see.

You have to find your own life and live it
within the life you are living,
and you are the authority who knows
what is your life and what is not your life.

You have to discover the face that was yours
before you were born–
and you are the authority who knows when you have done so.

You have to speak and sing and write
with your own voice–
think, reason, imagine, and create
with your own mind–
and live in an increasingly close relationship
with your own Self.

You have to know when you are on the beam
and when you are off of it–
and you are the one who says so,
and says not-so,
about all of it.

Being your own authority,
is being grounded in your own identity,
living from the foundation of the bedrock
that is the unmoving and unmovable
truth of who you are–
the source of your character,
your values,
your gifts,
and all that is YOU upon the earth–
the YOU that no one but you can be.

You are the one who knows what that is,
who says what it is,
who lives what it is.

You are the origin and the expression
of your own authority.
Everything falls into place around that.

01/09/2017 — Learning to be religious
is learning to trust yourself,
to trust your Self,
to trust your unconscious–
so called because we are not conscious of it.

Carl Jung said,
“There is within each of us another,
whom we do not know.”
It is our task to come to know the “Other” within.

The encounter with the “Other” within
is a religious experience,
an experience with the Numen,
with the Self at the center of ourselves,
with more than words can say.

This Numen within is the source
of our engagement with the Numen without,
which is one way our unconscious attempts
to wake us up to its reality.
Numinous encounters are
encounters with the unconscious,
and are calls to be conscious
of the fact that there is more to us
than meets the eye–
than can be rationally perceived.

The conscious world of physical reality
is no the only world.
Ancient peoples have always understood
the physical, visible, world
to be grounded upon the spiritual, invisible, world.

We use the word “spiritual” to signify
that which is not “physical.”
It can be sensed and “felt,”
but not touched, seen, weighed, measured or counted.
And it is not to be denied.

As conscious beings,
we live in two worlds at the same time,
and it is our place to become conscious
of that which is unconscious,
and to bring the unconscious to life
in the world of actual, tangible, reality.

We give life to the unconscious,
we incarnate the unconscious,
in art and music,
and in lives that are a blend of both worlds,
with the unconscious, spiritual world
being a veritable reality in people who
are intentionally open to,
and to collaborate with,
the unconscious, spiritual, Self within.

Learning to be religious
is learning to be open to,
and to collaborate with,
the unconscious, spiritual, Self within.

This work constitutes the full scope
of the spiritual journey.

  1. 01/09/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 19 — Twelve Mile Creek, Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, Lancaster County, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 19, 2016
    There are no throw-a-way moments.
    Everything matters.
    Living mindfully brings it all into focus.
    The present moment is the pivot point
    to 10,000 possible futures.
    How we live here and now
    influences all that follows–
    and determines more than we imagine.
    We like to think nothing we do makes any difference,
    when, in truth, everything we do makes some difference.
    And we have the potential of making a much grater difference
    simply by mindfully attending what we do and how we do it.
    We impact the way life is lived around us
    by the way we live our life.
    We carry the power of the future
    with us every day,
    thinking that we are the most powerless person
    who ever lived.
    Start living like you are the most powerful.
    Carry yourself like you care
    about every person you meet–
    about every single thing
    in every day.
    Change your world.
  2. 01/10/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 45 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    Being religious requires us to
    work out our destiny
    within the time and place–
    and relationships–
    that fate has placed us.
    (As an aside, I’ll say that
    people are always saying,
    “God did this and God did that,”
    but it is fate they are talking about.
    Fate can be great and terrible,
    yet it is always the environment
    in which we seek and serve our destiny.
    If we turn our backs on our destiny,
    nothing remains of our life
    but the fate that carries us along
    like lemmings to the sea.)
    Serving our destiny is the most
    religious experience we can aspire to.
    The numinous experiences
    with time, place and people
    that are encountered throughout our life
    are doorways to the ineffable,
    white rabbits winking at us,
    calling our name–
    and will, if we respond appropriately,
    lead us to our destiny.
    If we walk past unseeing,
    we remain in the world ruled by fate,
    a cow following cows along the path
    from the barn to the pasture back to the barn.

01/10/2017 — Not one of us is expendable,
replaceable,
unnecessary.
Each of us is a part of the whole,
and “an ever-present help in time of trouble”
to others of us
who are engaged in the work of
seeking and serving our destiny.

Not one of us sees things clearly.
We all look through the fogged up window
of our own perspective
which clouds our perceptions
and limits us to our own way of seeing–
which is never expansive enough
to see all there is to see.

We help one another with the tasks of life:
Seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing, being.
We deepen, expand, enlarge one another,
uphold and encourage one another,
provide one another with good company,
good conversation, good humor, good food and drink,
and keep each other going
through good times and bad,
serving the destiny that is ours to serve
in the time and place that fate has put us.

01/10/201 —   I am not saying, or suggesting, that
“Trump is Hitler.”
I am saying that Trump is,
like Hitler was,
“the spokesman of his times.”
And, as the spokesmen of their times,
nothing gets in their way.

They are unstoppable in their ability
to bring the spirit of the times
forth in their life.
They are speaking to people
who hear what they say as though
they (the people) are hypnotized, mesmerized,
because the words they hear
mesh so well with the words they are desperate to hear.

They cannot tolerate being told to grow up,
to wake up,
to be responsible for their own life,
and to help others find what they need
to be responsible for their own life.

They want to be babied, cuddled, cared for.
They want a wall around them
to keep them safe.
They want a protector.
They crave protection and safety.
Their chant, “Build the Wall!”
is to be understood as a plea to “Make Me Safe!”

The spirit of the times is a spirit
of fear, rage, greed and hatred,
and it is gaining followers and momentum worldwide.
Trump is a ready pawn in the hands
of his fate.
A would-be Deliverer
proudly bearing the projections
of desperate masses.

He cannot deliver anyone
anymore than Hitler could.
The people cannot be delivered from
their fears, their rage, their greed, their hatred.
They have to grow up whether they want to or not,
wake up,
stand up and be responsible for their own life
within the time and place of their living.

Fate repeats the lesson it is fated to deliver
age after age
because of the failure of the people
to take up the task
of finding and living their life–
the life that is theirs to live,
that only they, individually, can life–
and so, serve their destiny,
within the time and place
that fate has put them.

Here we go again.
another round of the same old same old.
Because people won’t hear
what they don’t want to be told.

01/10/2017 — If we were going to meet together as an actual, not virtual, Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now,
my vision of that has us doing it in two ways.

There would be a large gathering once a month
with “all of us,” or, as many who could,
coming together to uphold, encourage, sustain,
remember and remind each other
“who we are and what we are about.”

This would be a gathering of music, reflection, sharing,
and whatever else it needed to be.

Between gatherings like this,
we would meet in small groups of 3 to 6
once a week, or twice a month,
to talk about our dreams,
that is, to work on our nighttime dreams together,
to talk about our relationship with our unconscious,
and our work to put ourselves in accord
with our Self and our life
in finding and living the life that is ours to live.
And to share what we have found to be helpful
in that work.

If you can put something like this together
in the place where you live,
let us know here
what you are doing and how it is coming along.

01/10/2017 — I fast 14 hours each day,
between 7 PM and 9 AM
(more or less),
and break the fast each day
with an egg scrambled
in olive oil
and flavored with Cayenne pepper.

I follow the same procedure each day,
with outcomes remarkably different
from day to day.

Maybe the skillet isn’t the same degree of hot.
Maybe there is inconsistency
in the amount of oil, or pepper.
Maybe it is all of that,
and something else besides.

I never have the same egg experience.

The extension that begs to be recognized
is that no experience can be duplicated.
No day is like any other day.
No nothing is any other nothing ever.

Yet, we talk of the “same old same old”
because we are not alert to the differences.
Because we are sleep-walking
through our life.

Each day is a miracle.
I don’t care how you scramble it,
it won’t come out like yesterday did.

01/10/2017 — Carl Jung said,
“Our life is not made by ourselves.
The main bulk of it is brought into existence
by forces that are hidden to us.”

This is the experience of all religious people everywhere.

Apart from this experience,
religion is statutes and ordinances,
doctrines, dogmas, decrees and creeds–
of the head,
with heart left uninvited to the party.

01/10/201 — The church I would create and establish
would be “of the people, by the people, for the people.”
No hierarchy.
No top-down,
outside-in,
inorganic, artificial, inauthentic
structure.
But, organic spirituality,
genuine, authentic, grounded
in the personal experience
of individuals with the numen
of their own existence.

You cannot manufacture that.
Or order it up,
command it into existence.
You cannot MAKE disciples
of all, or any, nations.

Even “disciples” is a misnomer.
The idea is for each “disciple”
to be in full accord with herself,
with himself,
and live in full accord
with the time and place of her,
of his,
living.

So, religion comes down to:
“Know Thyself!” and
“To Thine Own Self Be True!”
with conscious knowing unconscious,
and living to incarnate the soul
within each person
in to the life that each is living.

  1. 01/10/2017 — Backyard Sunset 2017 01 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, January 9, 2017
    We have everything we need
    to live our life–
    the life that is our life to live–
    that only we can live–
    within the life we are living.
    We have everything we need
    to serve our destiny–
    to answer the question
    our life is asking of us.
    What keeps us stuck in place?
    Grousing about the same old same old?
    Refusing all invitations to dance
    with our life?

01/11/2017 — The right kind of religion
is the heart of your life.

If you don’t care enough about your life
to go to hell for it,
we can’t help you.

If you do care enough about your life
to go to hell for it,
so that you are here to live your life
no matter what,
you have found
what you have been looking for–
a place dedicated
to supporting you in your work
to find your life and live it
as it needs to be lived
in the service of your destiny.

If that means going to hell,
we’ll be with you all the way!

01/11/2017 — What keeps you going?
It better not be results.
You know Jesus?
It is said he could raise the dead, but.
He couldn’t guarantee results.
What kept him going
was the love for what was his to do
whether it worked or not.

What can you do
for the love of what you’re doing
whether it works or not?

If you don’t know,
or don’t have anything like that to do,
you have the rest of your life
to find the life that is worthy of you–
worth life itself–
and do it.

It’s called The Hero’s Journey:
Living the life that is worth your life.

It is at the ground of religion at its best.

We are here to help you find it and live it, but.
You have to be willing to seek it
with all your heart–
and results, impact and outcome
cannot be more important
than the joy
of doing what is yours to do.

01/11/2017 — Instead of thinking and talking about God,

it would be accurate and honest

to talk about “The God-idea.”
The God-idea puts God in God’s place–

the projection of the human mind/imagination.

We worship our idea of God.

We make up everything we say about God.

God exists as an extension of ourselves–

as the way it would be if consciousness were in charge.
What we call “the experience of God”

is the experience of the Numen–

the numinous reality–

at the heart of our unconscious,

which is embedded in our DNA.
We are all “servants of God,”

in that consciousness evolved

to be a partner with the unconscious

in the work to incarnate unconscious reality

in the world of physical facts.
There is nothing factual about the unconscious.

It is an amalgam of potential

with the urge to realize, actualize, know itself.

The evolutionary urge of life becoming alive

to its own reality–

of life becoming conscious of itself living–

is behind everything that we call “life.”
Every living thing strives to be itself–

strives to become what it is capable of becoming.

Human beings are life experimenting with–

playing with–

the possibilities

of consciousness becoming conscious of itself–

of the unconscious becoming conscious of itself.
The problem is that as life becomes conscious of itself,

it is also becoming conscious of its possibilities.

It doesn’t have to become itself.

It can become anything it can imagine being.

A longleaf pine no longer has to be a longleaf pine.

An alligator can aspire to be more than an alligator.

Something new is introduced to life.
Duality.

Complexity.

Contradiction.

Denial.

Ambivalence.

Morality.

Ethics.

Did I say complexity?
Consciousness doesn’t have to be the servant

of the unconscious.

It can go its own way.

Do its own thing.

Create its own world

to its own liking.

Or, so it seems.
Self-deception is what consciousness does best.

Consciousness can’t tell the difference

between the real world of facts and ice cream,

and the world of fantasy of apparent facts

and ice cream with all the taste

and none of the fat and calories of the real thing.
Consciousness doesn’t know when, or where, to stop.

“To know no limits,

to let yourself run free”

is consciousness’ idea of Really Living.

Life Without Limits!

What could be better than that?

The ultimate fantasy

is being able to do anything we want

with no consequences ever being applied—

and we have sought the elixir or immortality,

or the fruit of the Tree of Eternal Life,

with the desperation of those

who cannot bear the prospect

of a limit they cannot transcend.
Our quest for life on our terms

(consciousness’ quest for life on its terms)

put the quest of the unconscious for life on its terms

on hold for all of time.

We are not interested

in sacrificing our idea of life

for the unconscious’ idea of life.

It’s a problem.

Spiritual masters over time

have always known the solution to be

“Thy will, not mine, be done!”—

with the “Thy” being the unconscious,

and the “mine” being consciousness.

Augustine said,

“Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.”

The unconscious is life,

and holds the key to life,

“pouring over, running all over.”

But, it is a hard sell.
Consciousness thinks it knows what it is doing,

and is not willing to hand itself over

to the care and keeping of the unconscious,

on the off chance

that it would be better off

in any measurable way.
Thus, consciousness has to get to the end of its rope

before it can change its mind about what is important,

and give the unconscious permission

to take the controls

and guide their join life

on its path through the sea.
Those “tender-minded” people

who have a sense of what I’m talking about

are in position to forestall requisite drop

to the end of the rope,

by instituting in mid-life

the process of turning things over

and letting the unconscious to have the reins—

maintaining just enough oversight

to assist the unconscious with practical matters

which are beyond its experience

(Filing income tax forms, for example).

Consciousness takes care of the details,

the unconscious takes care

of the direction, tone and character

of the life we live together.
The Non-Subscribing Church of What’s Happening Now

comes into play

at the point of assisting people

negotiate the fine points of

putting themselves in accord with the Numen,

the Self, at the center of the unconscious,

and living their life on two paths at the same time.
It isn’t the only way of helping that collaboration work,

and will happily point out the other sources

of help toward that end.

In this work, there is no competition.

All are truly one in the work to be whole.
Trump is not one of us.
He doesn’t do it the way
any of us would do it.
He doesn’t do it the way
anyone we know–
or know of, know about–
would do it.
The phrase,
“We don’t do it that way,”
applies to Trump.
Who is the “we” from whom
Trump gets his idea
of the it ought to be done?
Who is the “we” Trump
plays to?
Aims to please?
I don’t think he has one.
I don’t think they exist.
Trump is an accurate depiction
of a patient
(or an inmate)
in a psychiatric ward.
No one there would do it
like any “we” we ever heard of
would do it.
They all would be saying,
“I am Jesus Christ!”
And,
“NO! NOT YOU! “–
OR YOU–
OR YOU–
I AND I ALONE Am Jesus Christ!”
There is no community
on a psychiatric ward,
just a collection of stand-alone egos
striving to impose their way
on everyone else.

  1. 01/11/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 44 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016
    What are you willing to go to hell for?
    It better be the life that is your life to live–
    the one that only you can live–
    the one you were born to live
    in being who you are
    and serving your destiny
    no matter what.
    If you aren’t living a life
    you would go to hell for,
    you are living the wrong life,
    and need to find the one that is worth your time,
    and your life.
  2. 01/11/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 23 — Walnut Creek Access, Union County, North Caroling, November 19, 2016
    Sadness is part of it.
    You wouldn’t chase away joy and laughter.
    Let sadness have its turn,
    whether it be grounded in betrayal or remorse,
    or the angst of the children leaving home
    to live their own lives,
    or your aging and its impositions
    and the cumulative weight of the years.
    Welcome everything in its time!
    When sadness comes,
    be sad.
    When grief arrives, There are good reasons for it all.
    Don’t turn away the cold callers
    looking for the warmth of your attention.
    You don’t have to serve them cookies,
    but don’t bar them from access
    to the heart of your humanity.
    They will stay longer than you would like,
    but not nearly as long as you are afraid they will.
  3. 01/12/2017 — Sunset Christmas Eve 2016 05 — Charlotte, North Carolina, December 24, 2016, an iPhone photograph
    Denial can explain away all possible realities.
    Nothing can happen
    that denial cannot disappear.
    “Delta Dawn” should be the theme song
    of the Trump administration.
    “I didn’t do it!”
    “He didn’t do it!”
    “I never said it!”
    “He never said it!”
    “I didn’t mean it!”
    “He didn’t mean it!”
    “Stop picking on me!”
    “Stop picking on him!”
    “I’m going to Make America Great Again!”
    “Isn’t he GREAT?”
    Obama wasn’t born in the USA
    and Trump is GREAT.
    Denial can do anything.
    With anything.
    Truth has no impact on denial.
    Facts don’t stand a chance.
    We have been hurled down the Rabbit Hole.
    The world is upside down.
    “No it isn’t. Everything is perfectly fine.
    Or would be if you would just shut up
    and accept the way things are
    like we all have.”

01/12/2017 — “Truth forever on the scaffold,
Wrong forever on the throne”
(James Russell Lowell).
We need a faith to believe in,
a light to last us
through the long dark night.
The test of all religion
is how it holds up
through the shaking
of the foundations,
to the crumbling of all hope.
What are you going to turn to
when there is nothing left
of what you thought was
sound, solid and valid for all time?
What can you count on,
rely on,
look to,
trust,
believe in,
to see you through?
Ain’t but one thing left
and that’s you.
We always have ourselves–
our Self at the center
of our heart and soul.
We always have the Lodestar within,
grounding us,
centering us,
orienting us,
consoling us,
comforting us,
encouraging us,
reminding us,
“Come to me all who are weak and heavy laden,
and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you,
and learn from me,
for my yoke is easy,
and my burden is light.”
What we seek without is within,
but we think it is not within,
it can’t be,
we are empty, hopeless and alone,
we know we are.
And so comes to pass the saying,
“The stone the builders reject
is the chief cornerstone.”
We are the man sitting on his ox,
looking for his ox.
The woman with her glasses on her head,
looking for her glasses.

We are what we seek, but.
We have to believe it is so to know that it is.
We have to sit quietly past all doubt,
and open ourselves to the truth of our own soul,
our own Self,
saying to us: “Come, follow me.”
We have a soul that is as old as time.
A soul that has seen everything,
and been through it all.
A soul that knows.
It only takes trusting that it is so to know that it is.
Stop! Look! Listen!
Past your fear.
Past your terror.
Past your grief.
Past your sorrow.
Past your emptiness.
Past your aloneness.
Past the suffocating agony
of the complete loss of everything.
Until your eyes adjust to the darkness
and you perceive the faint glimmer
of the light within,
and hear the soft reassurance
of the “still, small voice,”
and know you are not alone,
never have been,
never will be.
Seek the ground of knowing
the truth of your own Self,
your own soul–
the bedrock of your own life and being–
the foundation of the “I” you call “me.”
That which remains of YOU
when all else has been taken from you.
YOU are inviolable, immovable, unshakeable.
Nothing can take YOU from you.
You together with YOU
are all you need
to deal with any contingency,
face any circumstance.
What is happening is not the first time
it has ever happened.
It won’t be the last.
Yet here you are–here we all are.
Take heart in the fact that,
having lost all heart
10,000 times before this present
manifestation of the Void in our life,
here we are.
We’re still here.
You can miss the significance of it,
but you cannot deny it.
Your pain is real.
Your agony is not to be denied.
You are very much here, now.
That’s a great sign for the future!
It means there has always been a future!
And there always will be!
You have YOU!
YOU together with you
are a Swiss Army Knife
of resiliency and responses,
well capable of dealing with
whatever comes your way.
After all, you found this web site, didn’t you?
You are reading this, aren’t you?
If YOU can bring you here,
you can trust YOU to guide you
to the next step,
and to the one after that.

And, in addition to that, we are all here with you!
There is a veritable country of YOUs at your side!
You are not alone on any level!
Take heart!
Be courageous!
It’s just another trial!
Only one more ordeal!
Trials and ordeals are what we do best!
We will be amazed (again) at what we can do!
It only takes believing it
to know it is so!
01/12/2017 — We don’t get to choose our choices.
And that means,
we don’t get such a great choice.
We can die by living with integrity.
Or, we can die by living without integrity.
That’s our choice.
And “integrity” means knowing who we are
and being true to ourselves
in all matters great and small.
01/12/2017 — What you are aware of being
in most need of
is what you need from yourself,
a gift from your Self to you,
from YOU to you.
What you seek is found within.
Joseph Campbell said,
“The treasure we seek most ardently,
is found deep in the cave
we most do not want to enter”
(Or words to that effect).
Hold what you are aware of needing the most
in your awareness,
and allow it to become, of its own accord,
an image or an object,
so that it is no longer defined by a word,
but expressed as a symbol
in the image or object.
Wait for it to appear as called for in your mind.
Now that you have a visible, tangible symbol
of what you most need,
hold that in your awareness,
and ask it what it needs of you, from you.
Wait for the response to occur to you–
not as something you think up,
but as a truth that simply is.
Commune with the image or object in this way
to air out,
or to get to the bottom,
of what you need of it,
and of what it needs of you.
The image, or object, is a symbol of the Self,
of which there are an infinite number.
It concretizes the Self in your experience,
and permits you to engage the Self
in meditative communion.
Or, you can follow this procedure to imagine
other images or objects
for particular needs or concerns,
and allow them to become symbols of the Self.
This is a practice of making real the inner world
of the unconscious psyche, soul, heart, Self,
and establishing a means of exploration and communion.
And will stand you in good stead over time
as a way of deepening and expanding
your understanding of the YOU you are.

  1. 01/13/2017— Around Bass Lake 2016 20 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Sinking into our Self
    is coming forth into the world.
    Introspection is not an end
    but a beginning.
    An opening into engagement and expression
    that carries us into
    the unfolding destiny
    of our far distant future.
    We–the conscious ego-self we see in the mirror–
    span two worlds,
    the invisible, unconscious
    (so-called because we are unconscious of it)
    world of spirit and truth at the core of life itself,
    and the visible, physical
    world of normal, apparent, reality.
    We bring forth the invisible world
    within the visible world
    by becoming our Self
    within the life we are living.
    It would be like Clark Kent
    becoming Superman
    if it weren’t for the vulnerability part.
    More often than not,
    it is like Clark Kent
    becoming Jesus on the cross.
    The world is not built to be receptive
    to spirit and truth.
    The Hero’s Journey does not often
    end with parades and parties
    celebrating the coming out of the hero.
    More often than not,
    no one notices,
    or cares.
    The true legacy of Jesus
    is being ignored–
    “despised and rejected,”
    is how the Biblical prophecy puts it.
    That’s the kind of reception the hero gets.
    Yet, the hero offers exactly what is needed most.
    We all come equipped to meet some need.
    Our gifts are perfectly suited
    for the good of the whole–
    and need us to collaborate with our Self
    in bringing them forth
    in the time and place of our living.
    We begin the Hero’s Journey by looking within,
    by listening for what is being said to us,
    and seeing where it goes.

01/13/2017 — It is not about dying with the most toys
and winning.
It is not about winning.
Or losing.
The world is not divided between
winners and losers.
I is divided between
those who dance
and those who do not dance.
It is about dancing.
Period.
Those who dance, dance.
They do not win.
Those who do not dance, do not dance
They do not lose.
Those who dance know that the dance is everything.
Those who do not dance do not know that the dance is everything.
That is all.
Dancing is about being one with the music,
with the rhythm and flow of the moment,
of life here and now,
of what is happening,
and what needs to happen,
and what is to be done in response,
and doing it spontaneously
at exactly the right time
in exactly the right way.
The basketball player with the ball
sees the game open before her, before him,
and passes, or shoots,
without thinking about winning or losing,
or even making the shot.
It is not about making the shot.
It is about the dance,
about being one with the game
about being in rhythm,
in flow,
here and now.
And living that way in every moment–
living with the moment
in the moment.
No striving, not trying, not forcing, not fearing,
simply being at one with the flow
and doing what needs to be done
the way it needs to be done
when it needs to be done.
Practice that.
Practice dancing.
It will be such a good thing
for all things.
01/13/2017 — There is no accountability
for the President
or for members of Congress.
They can do, or not do, as they please,
with no consequences ever.
We need the Elder Wand.
01/13/2017 — If I had the power,
I would put this into effect:

I decree that tomorrow,
all Republican members of Congress,
the President and Vice-President Elect,
will come down with Whooping Cough
and have to be hospitalized
until I decide to lift the curse.

That would be simple an effective, don’t you think?

Of course, I will have stipulations similar to my previous post
regarding responsibility and accountability
that have to be agreed to prior to lifting the curse.

I think it will be great.

Oh, and anyone who attempts to force consequences of any kind upon me
before or after the curse is lifted
will come down with Whooping Cough
and have to go to the hospital.

It’s really very beautifully conceived, I think.

  1. 01/14/2017 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 62 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015
    We have to know when our life is good enough.
    Good enough is good enough.
    We only have to be good enough parents.
    Good enough sons and daughters.
    Good enough cooks and housekeepers…
    Knowing when our life is good enough
    is knowing when to stop striving for more,
    or something different,
    or something better…
    and begin living OUR life
    where we are,
    with what we have available to us.
    Our work is to bring us forth in the life we are living.
    If we are constantly trying to improve
    the conditions and circumstances
    in which we live,
    we will never get to LIVING. LIVING is what we are here for.
    We are here to be fully alive
    in the time and place of our living.
    If we were living as those
    who are fully alive here and now,
    what would we be doing?
    Start doing those things.
    Here.
    Now.
    Let the rest of your life
    fall into place
    around that.
    Including “good enough.”
    Good enough will take care of itself
    once you begin doing the things
    that bring you fully to life
    within the life you are living.

01/14/2017 — There is that which is
out of our hands.
Over which we have no control.

Trying to control
what cannot be controlled
is the cause of stress,
neurosis,
and physical symptoms.

Refusing to embrace
legitimate suffering
is trying to control
what cannot be controlled.

We do not grieve when grief is upon us.
We do not even allow tears of sorrow
to flow unchecked.
We “suck it up.”
Act as though nothing happened.
Go on about our business.
Pretending nothing happened.

Our business is feeling what must be felt.
Knowing what must be known.
Grieving what must be grieved.

January 20 should be a day of National Mourning and Grief.
We should spend it in anguish and agony
for what has been lost,
for what has been done.

We should not
go gently into that dark night.

01/14/2017 — If it is true
that only 29% of registered voters
voted in the Presidential election–
and I have not found a way to verify that yet–
it means Trump only had to win
one vote more than 14.5%
of the voters registered to vote in this country
to be our next President.

He cannot boast that the Majority of Americans elected him
(and that nobody cares about his tax returns
or his Russian affiliation
because “they all voted for me”).

We have stepped into darkness of soul and spirit
unlike anything in the experience
of the nation, perhaps ever–
including Pearl Harbor and the Civil War.

01/14/2017 — In the south,
and maybe everywhere–
but I’ve never been there,
and I’ve spent a lot of time
in the south,
and there there is a saying:

“They would cut off their nose
to spite their face.”

It’s what Republicans are doing
when they defund Planned Parenthood
and repeal the Affordable Care Act–
except most rank-and-file Republicans
don’t know that’s the official name
of Obamacare.

They think their affordable health care insurance
will remain in place
and the “leeches and freeloaders”
will loose theirs.

Interesting, that term “freeloader.”
They just elected the King of Freeloaders
as President of the United States.
Has never paid a penny in taxes.
Has freeloaded his way to the White House,
and won’t live there,
He’s freeloaded his way to better digs.

Doesn’t matter.
They hate President Obama so much
they would gladly
cut off their noses
to spite their face,
canceling out everything he did
and stood for
at any price.

And, as Forrest Gump would say,
“Stupid is as stupid does.”

01/14/2017 — About every day or two,
some Trump supporter
asks me to ease off the
negativity, stop it with the
harsh reality, so that
everyone can catch their
breath, and come together.

“Coming together”
sounds like everybody is moving,
coming
to meet one another in the middle
in order to work things out
to the mutual satisfaction
of all concerned.

You know,
negotiation and compromise.
Like that.

Trump has no record
of ever moving to
meet anyone in the center.

Trump’s record clearly states
that lying, cheating, stealing, threatening, bullying, demeaning, abusing, tormenting, shaming, tweeting, coercing and retribution
are his ways of getting his way
at the expense of everyone else’s way.

“Coming together” means
everybody agreeing to be happy
with whatever Trump does,
no matter what he does.

You know, like the House of Representatives did
under President Obama.

  1. 01/15/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 18 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    We carry within us
    the seeds of our own becoming.
    We bear the new life
    of our own aborning–
    to be aborted
    or born
    by the choice
    of our own choosing
    who and how we will be
    in the time and place
    of our living.
    My best advice is this:
    Do not over-think it.
    Do not “try to be” who you are.
    “Do or do not. There is no try!”
    Getting ourselves past
    “trying not to try”
    is the work of a lifetime,
    and the only work
    worthy of us.
    It is the work of
    just seeing
    just hearing
    just understanding
    just knowing
    just doing
    just being.
    In every situation there is
    what is happening
    and what needs to happen in response.
    Our place in each situation
    is to see, hear, and understand
    what is happening
    and to hold that in our awareness
    waiting to know what’s what
    on all levels.
    From that knowing,
    doing arises spontaneously
    “on its own,”
    and we find ourselves
    responding in ways
    appropriate to the occasion
    and being who the situation
    needs us to be,
    offering the gifts that are ours to give
    without trying.
    It is all as magical
    as waves coming ashore,
    or butterflies among flowers.
    They do without thinking
    what is to be done.

01/15/2017 — Trump’s Second News Conference

“Mr. President. How will you address the matter of the conflicts of interest that impinge upon your Presidency?”

“I will address them the same way I address the matter of my tax returns. I will say, ‘These matters don’t matter.’ Nobody cares. I’m the President and they elected me. And they don’t care what I do
because what I’m going to do is make them safe, build the wall, deport immigrants, Muslims, and undocumented aliens, and bring their jobs back. And that’s all they care about.

“Only you media types care about anything else, and how many of you vote? See my point? YOU don’t matter.

“I’m going to nominate to the Supreme Court and all federal judgeships judges who will do what the people who elected me want done, and that’s all that my people are really interested in.

“All people want is to be safe and have jobs so they can go about their business. They don’t care about anybody else’s business. They just want to be able to take care of their own.

“And my business isn’t their business. And it isn’t any of your business. So, I’m going to take care of business and not answer any questions about my business. And you can’t make me.

“So, NAH-NAH-NAH-NAH-NAH! YOU CAN’T MAKE ME!

“That should wrap things up rather nicely. I don’t see any point to taking more questions, since this answers all possible questions, and is all any of you need to know. And, since I don’t see a need for any more news conferences, there won’t be any more.

“Thank you for your time.”

01/15/2017 — Trump is in charge.
He holds all of the cards.
The Democratic safeguard
of Three Houses of Government–
The Executive
The Legislative
The Judicial
are all, or soon will be, in Republican hands,
there is no one to call his hand
or bring any consequences to bear
that Trump has to take into account
in choosing a direction or a course of action.

Democracy has been replaced
by a totalitarian state
run by a demagogue
who aspires to be a demigod,
and would not mind
being taken for God.

Where does that leave the rest of us?
Smack where people of totalitarian states
have always been:
grousing, complaining, groaning
and wistfully dreaming
of a better life for themselves
and their children.

Like the immigrants
we are turning away,
or whose ranks
we will be joining–
raw from the lesson
to be learned here:

Take Democracy for granted at your own peril!

01/15/2017 — Trump is our only hope.
We have to count on Trump being Trump.
Trump being Trump
will overstep limits
and appall
even Republicans.

If Trump will only appall Republicans,
his reign will be short
and his fall will be celebrated
far into the dim and distant future.

O Donald, O Donald!
Please, Please, Please
Be. Who. You. Are.

01/15/2017 — I have been reading of late
Thomas Hoover’s two books
on Japanese history:
Zen Culture and
Zen Experience–
they are both free on Kindle,
or a Kindle app for your
Mac, PC, or tablet

(I keep about five books going
at a time,
and can never remember
where to find
something I’ve recently read).

Growing out of my developing interest
in things Japan,
I recalled my 1970’s
fascination with
the Japanese musician Kitaro
(now living in California, I think),
and have been listening
to his music for several days.

I have no idea
what a “bar of music” is,
but I think Kitaro repeats
six bars in every song,
the same six bars
with some additional
synthesized sounds, bells, drums, waves, wind
for five or six minutes.

Then, the next song
with different bars
arraigned in the same way,
for something approaching 25 or 30 albums/cd’s.
It’s amazing.

You can find that to be boring,
or meditative.
I opt for meditative.
Ocean waves coming to shore
offer the same option.
Kitaro does a wonderful job
of putting the idea
of ocean waves
to music.

I hope, like the ocean,
he never quits.

01/15/2017 — I call what I do here
“Making My Peace
With The Way Things Are.”

If what you read here
helps you make your peace
with the way things are,
I think you ought to keep reading it
and sharing it with those
you think might find it helpful
in making their peace
with the way things are.

If what you read here
doesn’t help you make your peace
with the way things are,
you shouldn’t read it.

01/15/2017 — To talk about what a joke
means
is to lose the whole point
of the joke.
The same thing applies
to your life.
And to all of life
Live it.
There is the meaning.
We live the meaning
we seek,
and to seek it
is to miss it.
Too make too much
of anything
is to miss the point
of it.
Live your life.
See where it goes.
That’s that.
Just so.

01/15/2017 —Right action arises from mindful awareness
of the moment as it arises
in the time and place of our living,
but.

All monasteries have a strict Rule of the Day
regarding all that must be done,
how and when to do it
from rising in the morning
to going to bed at night.

Spontaneity, no.
Regimentation, yes.

Monastic life
is not the life of the
hermit in the hills.

No pattern suits all.
We each have our own business,
and our own method of getting it done.
We each must find our own way–
the way that was ours
before we were born.

Disciples must become like the master
in following no master.

  1. 01/15/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 27 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    Where is your sanctuary?
    I turn to my writing and my photography
    to center me in and ground me upon
    the truth of ME at the center of my soul.
    Our sanctuary is where we go to be restored
    to ourselves–to our Self within.
    It is in that identity of us with our Self–
    with who we are at the core–
    that we find what we need
    to face any present
    and any future.
    Our sanctuary is inviolable,
    sacrosanct,
    and invulnerable.
    We are safe there,
    beyond the reach of the encroaching powers.
    They may well destroy us,
    but they cannot touch us.
    And it is my firm conviction,
    that though they may kill us,
    that only makes us invisible,
    and able to work against them
    from the other side.
    Find your sanctuary
    and go there often,
    establishing unbreakable connections
    with the Self at the center of yourself.
    And be well.
  2. 01/16/2017 — Goodale 2016 28 Panorama–Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016
    Engagement is vulnerability.
    Disengagement is denial.
    Choose your poison.
    Choose your partner
    and dance mindfully aware
    of how you are dancing
    and who you are dancing with.
    Choose your cross
    and bear it well.

01/16/2017 — “The fullness of time”
is when
the peach tree blooms,
and again
when the peach ripens,
and again
when the pie is done…

Time is forever being right,
and wrong.

Any time can be the right time
for something,
but not every time.

One time is not as good as another
most of the time.

Waiting for the time to be right
is ideal waiting.
Waiting to be ready,
and for the time to be ready for you
is what waiting is all about.

Waiting for Godot
is just “killing time.”
Idle waiting.
Waiting with nothing in mind.
Waiting without anticipation,
without interest,
with no idea what you are waiting for.

That is not the way
a cat waits on a bird,
or stares at a mouse hole.
When you wait,
wait like a cat.
Or like a cook
with a pie in the oven.

01/16/2017 — To say, “God is in control,”
or “God knows what he (it is always “he” in these statements) is doing,”
is to say “Leave well-enough alone,”
“Stop asking questions,”
“Don’t rock the boat, make waves, shake the foundations.”
“Everything happens for a reason,
so keep the status quo unchallenged
and trust God to give you what is best for you.”
And, “Whatever you do,
DON’T CHANGE ANYTHING!”

God’s in control, but.
We aren’t going to change anything.
So, who is in control?
That would be us.
No one can change our minds about God,
not even God.

01/16/2017 — “God” and “God’s will”
need to be re-thought
in light of what we know
about projection
and self-deception,
and denial.

Remember how on the Winter Solstice
we would sacrifice our virgin daughters
and our first born sons
to appease the gods
and bring the sun back?
And remember how it always worked?
Self-deception is something else.
Yoke it to denial
and projection,
and nothing is safe.

“God” is always who we say “God” is.
Our idea of God IS God.
Always has been.
We need to recognize that,
assume responsibility for it,
and come up with a better idea.

Our virgin daughters
and first born sons
and their modern equivalents,
have suffered too much
for too long.

Or, to come at it another way,
people are always looking at
the universe and all there is therein,
and saying, “This couldn’t have just happened!
Things are too finely tuned!
There has to be a plan–
and a plan implies a planner,
so there must be a Divine Being
in charge of Planning Development!”

To which I ask,
“What is the greater miracle:
That everything is the result
of careful planning and execution–
or that nothing is?”

God Out There
(Or Up There–
there is no man,
there are no stairs)
has out-lived its time.

The God-of-our-experience
is as real as last night’s dream,
and as dependable as
summer lightening
and thunderstorms

The God-of-our-experience
is manifest and present in–
as it always has been and will be–
in art, music and nature.

We can no longer afford
to confuse the God-of-our-experience
with the God-of-theologies-doctrines-and-creeds.
The two have nothing in common
except those who say
they are identical.

01/16/2017 — We experience the God-of-our-experience
as the moved experiencing
the mover,
the known experiencing
the knower–
and need not,
must not,
go beyond that experience
in positing nature, motive and intent,
background, character, values, purpose and goal.

Anything beyond experiencing
the awe and wonder
of the Numen beyond words
is something we make up
in the effort to explain and understand
the experience.

Don’t go there.
Stay with the experience
without talking about it
beyond, “Wow!”

Tuck it away in your memory
under the category of
More Than Words Can Say
About More Than Meets The Eye,
and recall it as needed
to remind yourself
that you are not alone,
and are capable of
“apprehending more than
you are capable of
comprehending’ (Abraham Heschel).

Knowing that there is more to know
that can be known
puts us in the position
of being those who
ask and go on asking,
seek and go on seeking,
knock and go on knocking,
on a quest that
expands as it deepens
throughout forever,
opening us to the truth of
Heraclitus’ observation:
“Traveling on every path,
you will not find the boundaries of soul,
so deep is its measure.”

  1. 01/16/2017 — Red Maple and White Fence — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 20, 2016
    Solitude, silence, mindful awareness,
    compassion and a sense of humor
    are the ingredients
    for realization,
    revitalization
    and revolution.
    Your life
    will take on
    a life of its own.
    You will probably
    need a new set
    of friends.
    Probably,
    you should just watch TV
    and not worry about it.
  2. 01/17/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 28 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    You know how directors sometimes
    mark spots with colored chalk
    indicating where they want
    actors standing during the
    first few rehearsals
    of the Senior Play
    in high school?
    With, maybe, lines drawn on the stage
    to the next place they were to be
    when the action started? That’s how it is with your life,
    only without the chalk marks.
    We are all looking for our place.
    For the place we belong.
    Too many of us do not belong
    where we are.
    If you know what I mean.
    Too few of us have any idea
    of how to find our place–
    of how to find our life,
    and live it.

01/17/2017 — There is no fix for our complexes–
the collection of memories
that are unique to each of us,
and the associations they arouse
among emotions, images. odors, sounds, experiences, places, times and events–
transporting us back to childhood,
a previous marriage,
military service…

Then is now,
even though we know it is not
on one level,
on another level it is,
or may as well be,
for all the good the difference makes.

We never out-grow
having been where we have been–
having seen what we have seen.
Surviving what has been done to us
doesn’t mean we are done with it.
It means we are surviving it.
Still.

That will have to be good enough.
There is no making it any better.
Here’s to all of you
who are surviving it.
Still.

01/17/2017 — Our life is our work,
is our love,
is our church,
is our life–

when it is the life
that is Our life,
the one only we can live,
that is unique to us,
no matter how similar
it may appear
to 10,000 other lives.

Our life brings US forth
to meet the time and place of our living
in each situation as it arises,
as only we can meet it
with the gifts and grace that are ours
to bestow,
gifts and grace which gift and grace us
in return,
so that life begets life,
and we come alive
in the act of being alive.

The Christ births the Christ,
and Mary remains both virginal
and unnecessary
to the process of
mothering God.

01/17/2017 — Our life is our work
and brings God forth
in the time and place
of our living.
We incarnate a truth
that cannot be said,
told,
explained,
defined
by being who
the situation needs us to be,
doing what
the situation deeds done.

Raising the dead,
restoring sight to the blind,
walking on water,
are metaphors
for being what is needed
at a time,
in a place,
that are desperate
for what we have to offer.

01/17/2017 — The hardest thing to believe
and go on believing
is that our life matters
that our work has meaning
in the face of an abundance
of evidence to the contrary.

If you are ever going to believe anything,
believe that your life matters,
that your work has meaning–
and that it doesn’t matter
whether it does or not,
because you are going
to be who you are
and do what is yours to do
anyway,
never the less,
even so.

01/17/2017 — Bedrock faith
is faith
in the bedrock
of who we are
and the work that is ours to do.

Life–
true life,
spilling over,
pouring out–
leads to and flows from
being who we are,
doing what is ours to do.

Life is
integrity,
authenticity,
fidelity.
It is knowing,
being true to,
and living in ways that express,
who we are
and what we love.

Death is selling ourselves out,
not caring who we are
or what is ours to do,
being interested only in
accruing personal advantages
getting ahead,
amassing wealth,
and having it made.

Death is self-deception,
deceit
and denial
in the service
of ends unworthy of us.

We can be 98.6 and breathing
with all the vital signs in place
and no vitality to be found.

01/17/2017 — While there is nothing to disappear
our complexes
and enable us to live as though
the experiences that created them
never happened,
by being mindfully aware of them
we can sharply reduce
the impact of the past
on our present,
and limit its ability to mar our future.

Mindfulness leads the way.

If you haven’t watched the Jon Kabat-Zinn
YouTube videos
on Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction,
mindfulness is likely not yet leading your way.

Become aware of your resistance.
What is keeping it in place?
What all is there?

01/17/2017 — My hunch–correct me if I am wrong–
is that when we search it out,
we will discover that the resistance
we have to taking up the practice
of mindful awareness
is that we have put a lifetime of work
into Not Thinking About The Awful Things
that we wish had never happened
and that we hope we can disappear
by Not Thinking About them.

We have them locked in deep dungeons,
and do not want to risk
being mindful of them
and the influence they wield over us
even though we are rarely conscious of them.

Not being conscious of them is the point!
We don’t want to face them!
And we hate me for bringing them up–again!
And again!
And again!

If I’m right, you are wrong to think
you have locked anything away.
And, holding it in your awareness
is a lot safer way of dealing with it
than thinking you have sealed it off for good.

01/17/2017 — Alexis Carrel said:
“Man cannot remake himself without suffering,
for he is both the marble and the sculptor.”

And the chisel we use
in the work that is ours alone to do–
though we might not do it alone–
is mindfulness.

  1. 01/18/2017 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 05 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016
    Mindfulness has a downside.
    We cannot be aware of how things are
    and live the way we are living.
    Seeing things changes things.
    Things are the way they are
    for a reason.
    The reason is we like them that way.
    For all of our whining, moaning, complaining
    and moping about,
    we hold things firmly in place
    against all suggestions of change.
    We like refined sugar a lot
    and aren’t going to stop eating it
    by the 5-pound bags full.
    We hate to exercise
    and aren’t going to do it
    no matter how many physicians
    recommend it.
    And that doesn’t touch
    the alcohol, tobacco
    and the drawer full of meds
    we need to take to face
    this sorry, rotten life we’re living.
    If there is something about our life
    that we don’t like,
    there is something else about our life
    that is keeping in in place.
    This is called
    The Rule Of Diminishing Returns.
    The returns for changing anything
    quickly diminish in light
    of the losses that accrue
    for changing something else.
    Life is a system of trade-offs.
    We give up this to get that.
    And there are some things
    we aren’t giving up for anything.
    We like things the way they are
    no matter how much we say we don’t.

01/18/2017 — Good religion flows from
being reconnected
with the joy of life
at the heart of
doing what we love,
expressing who we are
playing
as children do.

01/18/2017 — Our life reflects
the price we pay
for living the way
we live.

How might we
change the way
we live
to better,
more accurately,
more authentically,
reflect who we are?

What are we doing
that we would not
be doing
if we were living in ways
that reflect who we are?

What are we not doing
that we would be doing
if we were living in ways
that reflect who we are?

What can we do
to reduce the dichotomy
between who we are
and what we do?

These questions,
and their answers,
are at the heart
of good religion.

We don’t learn the catechisms
and the creeds there,
or the books of the Bible
in order.

We find who we are
and what we need to do
to incarnate the core of our being
in the life we are living.

  1. 01/18/2017 — Boone Fork 2016 08 Panorama – Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Our religion is our life.
    No one can give us religion
    any more than they can give us our life.
    When we are one with our life
    we are one with God
    and all the manifestations of God
    there ever have been
    or will be.
    Finding our life and living it
    is the heart of all true religion.
    We do not find our life
    by looking for it,
    but by opening ourselves
    to that which is seeking us.
    Like the wand chooses the wizard,
    so our life chooses us.
    Our destiny needs us
    as much as we need our destiny.
    “Wait, watch,” comes the command.
    “Be still and know”
    Know what?
    Know what we know.
    “We are who we always have been,”
    said Carl Jung,
    “and who we will be.”
    It isn’t that we don’t know
    what our destiny is–
    it is that we don’t know what we know.
    We are like the woman carrying her keys
    looking for her keys.
    Like the man wearing his hat
    looking for his hat.
    In all likelihood,
    we have been doing what we are here to do
    all our life,
    wondering what we are here to do.
    It only takes a shift in focus
    to know what we know.
    Mindfulness leads the way.
    Take up the practice of mindfulness meditation
    (Google Jon Kabat-Zinn),
    and watch yourself
    watching yourself–
    looking for
    what you are failing to see.

01/18/2017 — We need to talk.
Or, I write, you read, and write back if you need to.
It’s time for The Disclaimer.

We have to find our own way.
That means deciding what is our way
and what is not.
We do that by sensing in our body
what clicks,
rings true,
strikes a cord,
stirs to life a mighty YES!
brings into being just like that in the wink of an eye
an inexplicable urge to action
even though you can make no sense of it
and would never be able to explain to anyone,
much less your mother or father,
what in the world you are thinking
and why on earth you would do anything as foolish
and as thoughtless
as that!
It is a good sign when you get that kind of response,
particularly from Mom and Dad.
It means you are on YOUR way for you
and not THEIR way for you.
Always a good idea.

Deciding what your way is not
is just like that only different.
Different in the way of turning you completely OFF
to the way that is being touted and bandied about.
Avoid it regardless of the price you are offered
for taking it,
and in spite of the threats solemnly pledged and guranteed
for not.
Do. Not. Go. That. Way.

I’m saying here Trust Your Body!
Your Body Knows!
Listen to it right now–
It’s giving you the Thumbs Up.
Whatever you are feeling in your body
will now forever be known as the
Thumbs Up Feeling.

I’m telling you to Trust Your Body
and not me.
But I know I am so right about this
that Your Body would never give you Thumbs Down
about it.

Sometimes I know when I’m right,
as in absolutely, unconditionally, indubitably and eternally.
But, not often.

And that’s my point.
You can’t trust me to know what I’m talking about.
I don’t trust myself to know what I’m talking about,
so I’m telling you:
Do Not Listen To Me!
Listen To You!
Which means, of course,
that you can’t listen to you without also listening to me,
and I don’t mind a bit if you do that,
but listen to you first.

And when you get a Thumbs Up for what you think,
and a Thumbs Down about what I’m saying,
go with you at all times and in all places.

This is critical because only you know the way that is your way,
and I cannot begin to tell you what your way is,
any more than your Mom and Dad can.
I can give you some tips,
but you have to take the ones you can use
and leave the rest behind.

My deal with you is that i will never say anything I think
I am supposed to say.
I will only say the things I think need to be said,
and I can be wrong about that.
I am saying what I see, and think, and know,
and you are taking what you find to be useful
in finding your way to the life that is yours to live
and living it as only you can
throughout the time left for living.

You decide for yourself what to keep and what to leave.
And you take up the work of putting yourself in accord
with the life that is right for you–
with the life that you are right for–
that you are a perfect fit for–
and you live that life as its liege servant,
and what you will get for your trouble
is the honor and privilege of having lived your life
as only you could live it
all your life long.
That is worth all the treasure at the bottom of the sea,
or above the ground.
Check your body again.
You’re getting another Thumbs UP here,
I just know it.

Now a word about why I’m doing this.
It’s my work.
It’s my life.
It’s what I do.
And nobody else can do it like I can do it.
I’m a Whizz at it.
And I delight in it.
And that’s what I get out of it.
So I will never bill you.
And will not accept gifts and donations.

I’m living on my pension
and my Social Security,
and I hope you will excuse a little aside here,
if the stupid Republicans
will just leave things alone
with Social Security and Medicare
I will be fine.
I can pay my bills,
and do this.
Why would they mess with peoples’ lives?
Why would they repeal The Affordable Care Act
(AKA Obamacare)
Why would they defund Plan?ned Parenthood?
Why would they unplug Social Security,
Medicare,
and Medicaid???
They are either completely stupid,
or totally heartless,
or both.
And you can tell them I said so.
I wish you would.
I wish you would call your Republican congressional leaders
and tell them not to do any of these things.
Then call them back and tell them again.
And again, and again…
until they get the message.
If you want to do some thing for me,
do that.

Thanks.
I appreciate your listening.
I’ll be back when I have something else
to say.

  1. 01/19/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 30 — Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    The Religious Problem is not about finding a God
    we can believe in,
    but about finding a life
    we can believe in.
    How many people
    are living a life
    they believe in?
    A life they have
    confidence in,
    trust in,
    hope for?
    How many believe in
    what they are doing
    with their life?
    How many look to their life
    as their abiding source
    of joy and delight?
    How many would trade their life
    for money
    without hesitation
    or regret?
    How many hope for money
    to give them a new life–
    a life finally worth living?
    How many are certain
    they can’t do anything
    with a life as sorry
    as the one they are living?
    How many live hoping one day
    for a life
    they can enjoy living,
    yet believing
    it is out of the question?
    What is to be done for people
    who have no faith
    in themselves
    and the life that is theirs to live?

01/19/2017 — When Jesus said,
“Straight is the way and narrow is the gate that leads to life,
and those who find it are few,”
He is echoing what all the spiritual gurus
have said through the ages:
Life, pouring over, spilling out,
is not automatic.

Selling our birthright for a bowl of porridge,
and our life for 30 pieces of silver
is the norm.

Isaiah’s, “Here I am, send me!”
Jesus’, “Thy will, not mine, be done!”
and the Buddha under the Bo Tree
are rare exceptions.

Everybody else seems to be thinking
in terms of entitlement and entertainment,
passing the time
by letting the good times roll.

It’s a hard sell
asking them to consider
“the straight and narrow”
as an alternative to
“smooth and easy.”

Being aware of the difference
between the life we are living
and the life that is ours to live
is too much.

We can’t possibly be asked
to pay attention to what we are doing
and to what needs us to do it.
We have 10,000 other things to consider.
And the dog has to go to the vet!
Maybe later. Or not at all.

01/19/2017 —Focus and awareness, Kid,
focus and awareness!

The ability to see the all-ness
of the situation as it unfolds
before us,
and the such-as-it-is-ness
of each individual aspect of it,
and to hold all of that
in our awareness
while we wait for the right action
to arise spontaneously
and effortlessly
in response to what is happening
and what needs to be done about it
is developed
through focus and awareness
consciously practiced
with intention and dedication
over the full course of our life.

Being in the flow today
does not carry over
into being in the flow tomorrow–
or from this moment
to the next one.

Every moment
is the first moment
we have ever attempted
to attend
with focus and awareness.

01/19/2017 — Finding a God to believe in
is just ridiculous.
God isn’t “out there” somewhere
waiting to be found,
hoping to standout from the other Gods,
going, “Here I am! Over here! Find ME!”

And we don’t go through a pile of Gods
saying, “Nope, not this one. Not this one.
Not this one…None here.
Let’s go have a look at those stacked
in the corner.”

“Believable Gods” all have qualities we
would admire in a God.
They are Made-up Gods.
Production line Gods.
Gods made to order.
With interchangeable parts
that can be put together
when the order comes in
with over-night delivery.

Any God worthy of the title
appears out of nowhere
and knocks us over.
No resume.
No list of references.
Just a full body slam
and a Tombstone Piledriver
with a Steamroller Crusher
for emphasis
and a reminder
that believability is no match
for unforgetability,
and that is the punch
The God Who Is packs.

The God Who Is
will eat our own life alive,
and hand us one fashioned
just for us,
saying, “Step into this
and let’s get going.
It’s late,
and we have things yet to do.”

The God Who Is
is the God
Carl Jung had in mind
in quoting the Oracle at Delphi:
“Invoked or not invoked,
the God is present.”
Believed or not believed
The God Who Is
is at the core of us all–
calling us to step into our life
and get going.

  1. 01/19/2017 — Around Bass Lake 2016 21 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    Carl Jung said, “The more your actual life
    becomes routine and habit,
    the less it will be satisfactory.”
    The closer our actual life
    incarnates our destiny,
    exhibiting and expressing
    the life we are born to live,
    the more it will be satisfactory.
    It is easier for us to be
    convinced of the reality
    of Satan and the demons of hell
    than to be certain
    we are here to serve our destiny.
    But, we know when we
    are on the beam
    and when we are off of it.
    We know when we are in the groove,
    in the flow,
    and when we are out of it.
    We know what clicks with us
    strikes a cord,
    rings a bell,
    and what does not.
    We know what catches our eye,
    where we belong–
    and where we have no business being.
    We know when something is right for us,
    and when it is wrong.
    Our destiny weaves its way
    through our life every day,
    hoping today is the day
    we say Yes! with all our heart,
    and take up the work
    of becoming who we are.

01/20/2017 — This the way it works:

Find the flow and stay with it–
even when that means
going against the current
of the way it is being done around you,
or of the way it is “spozed” to be done.

Find your groove and stay there,
knowing how easily a groove
can become a rut,
and a rut a grave.

Hold all of this,
and everything else,
in your awareness,
and wait to see
what needs to be done about it.

Then do it with the gifts
you have been given to work with,
and see what happens.
Holding everything in your awareness
and waiting to see
what needs to be done about it.

And doing it with the gifts
you have been given to work with,
and see what happens…

This is the way it works.

01/20/2017 — I love the pall of reality.
No kidding.
It’s great.
It reminds us all
that there are things
that matter deeply to us–
and the way things are
is interfering
with the implementation
and operation
of things that matter deeply to us.

We CARE
about the things
that are important to us–
that are important!
I love that about us.

If you cannot feel
the weight
of the pall of reality,
you should look
at your list
of things you care about.

  1. 01/21/2017 — Lake Haigler 2016 43 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 20, 2016
    The God of your experience
    is not
    the God of your theology.
    How you resolve the contradiction
    opens the way to everything that follows.
    Which one will you trust with your life?
    The choice you make tells the tale.

01/21/2017— The gurus of India were/are wrong
about duality being illusion.
The world of AAAUUUMMMM…
is the illusion.

Imagine three-year-old’s
with their fingers in their ears
and their eyes closed
saying, “I’m not listening, I’m not looking,
I’m not, I’m not, I’m not!”

When the world
becomes too much for you,
close your eyes and say,
“AAAUUUMMMMMMMM…”

Contradiction lies at the heart of reality.
Duality is how things are at the core.
The Tao, with its Yin/Yang symbol,
is on point
in recognizing the truth
of how it is with us–
and how it is to be resolved:
We walk two paths
at the same time!

The way to walk two paths
at the same time
is to be mindfully aware
of the other
while we are being
mindfully aware of the one we are on.

The truth is always
how things are
and how things also are.
Light is and Darkness is.
And that is how things are!

01/22/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 20 — Twelve-mile Creek bordering Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, Lancaster County, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 19, 2016
The way we see things
is who we are.
Nothing defines us
like our point of view.
Our perspective is
who we are,
restricting our perception
of available realities
and keeping our world
calm and stable,
smooth and easy
upon the heaving waves
of the wine dark sea–
by insisting that things
are the way we say they are,
and denying that anything
could ever be other
than we say it is.
Nothing threatens our stability
or imperils our sense of who we are
like calling into question
our sacred assumptions
and cherished beliefs
about what is real
and what is not.
There is growing up,
and there is chronic emotional dysfunction.
And the difference
is flexibility of perspective
in the face of the firmly undeniable.
01/22/2017 — The Buddha and I are talking.
He says, “Suffering is an illusion,
along with everything else.
The way to free ourselves from suffering
is to rid our mind of delusions.”

I say, “Suffering is not the problem.
The problem is the problem
we make of suffering–
going on about it,
the unfairness of it,
the why of it
(as though a really good reason
would make it just fine,
which is ridiculous.
It isn’t fine,
and it cannot be made to be fine).
Suffering is a fact.
The illusion is our idea
that suffering matters,
that it is awful
and should not exist.”

The Buddha says, “No.
Suffering and all facts are illusion.”

I say. “No. The idea
that suffering matters
is the illusion.”

Back and forth,
back and forth.

Endless argument,
talking of perception
and perspective,
going nowhere
doing nothing.

The story
of doctrinal debates
of spiritual matters,
where one person’s illusion
is another person’s fact–
and opinions
are Truth and Heresy.

  1. 01/23/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 05 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016
    We see and/or hear and/or feel
    Seeing/hearing/feeling produces knowing.
    Knowing happens first in our body,
    not in our heads.
    Knowing is not understanding.
    It is not being able to explain or define.
    Knowing is not articulation.
    The body knows more than it can articulate.
    The body knows more than can be said.
    We know what is happening
    and what needs to be done about it,
    though we cannot say what we know
    or how we know it.
    Knowing produces action.
    We pick up a hot skillet
    and we put it down.
    That is knowing producing action.
    The process works like this:
    seeing/hearing/feeling/knowing/acting
    Thinking can interfere or assist with the acting.
    Reflecting can transform response patterns.
    Contemplation/awareness can expand our field of view.
    Understanding can reevaluate and/or reinterpret experience
    and produce insight that leads to different ways
    of responding to our environment,
    of living in our environment.
    In the meantime,
    we are continuing to see/hear/feel/know/act,
    and creating experiences to consider
    and create new insight
    and change the way we live.
    Our body (or body/soul) is the organ of perception
    (Include soul with body because
    our body can perceive things
    beyond the range of our physical senses)
    Our mind is the organ of interpretation/evaluation/understanding.
    We know and think about what we know
    to transform the meaning of what we know.
    You can see why it takes sitting quietly
    on a regular basis
    to do the work that needs to be done
    in the field of action.
    We are processing a lot of information
    and are being asked
    to respond appropriately to all of it.
    Try that living at full throttle all day every day.

01/23/2017 — Oppression and discrimination
will be the hallmarks of the Trump era,
confirming or worst fears
and demolishing all hope
for human decency and compassion,
kindness and civility.
Trump has no capacity for the tender values.
Only the vicious, brutal and ruthless ones
count with him.

01/23/2017 — Trump is not being President.
Trump is playing President.
Trump is staging the Presidency.
Trump is acting the role
he wishes were his.

Trump cannot distinguish
Real from Not Real.
Trump doesn’t know Lie
because Trump doesn’t know Truth.
Trump only knows Make Believe.

Trump’s entire life is a fantasy trip.
We are being taken for a ride
through Trump World–
The World as Trump thinks it is,
and should be–
where every moment
is an “I can’t believe
that just happened”
moment.

01/23/2017 — The lesson being drummed home daily:
Not just anybody can be President of the United States.
01/23/2017 — We cannot lose
the face that was ours
before we were born–
the face that was ours
before our grandparents were born.

Our work in every situation
and circumstance
throughout our life
is to live so that face is our face
in each situation
and circumstance.

And to let everything else
fall into place around that.

  1. 01/24/2017 — Around Bass Lake 2016 21 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016
    It is amazing to me that we experience
    the same world in so many different ways.
    We look at the world
    but do not see the same world.
    We look at Donald Trump
    and at what Donald Trump is doing
    and has done,
    and we do not see the same things.
    Small children are great observers
    and terrible interpreters.
    Traits some of them never out-grow.
    Why are there so many different religions?
    No! Wait!
    Why are there so many different religions
    within Christianity?
    We call them “denominations,”
    but they are religions.
    The Pentecostal Religion
    is not the Southern Baptist Religion.
    And neither of those
    is the Roman Catholic Religion.
    Or the Mormon Religion.
    Or the Quaker Religion.
    The differences that divide us
    go on forever.
    It is astounding that we get along
    as well as we do.
    We created civilization
    to enlarge the umbrella
    beneath which larger numbers of us
    could live together in peace,
    if not in agreement
    than when it was tribe vs. tribe.
    But, there are revolutions
    and rebellions
    within civilization,
    not to mention what Europe
    did to the Americas and Africa.
    It has always been
    “Death to those who don’t see like we do!”
    Which is a crazy way to carry out
    the business of life.
    By dealing out death–
    or the threat of death,
    or the nearest thing to death–
    to those who don’t do it our way.
    Why can’t we do better than that
    after all these years?
    Given the fact that no one sees like “we” do!

01/24/2017 — White people writing/talking
about discrimination, oppression, persecution and abuse
is absurd.
White people should limit themselves
to what they know–
and listen to
LGBTQ people,
and Black people,
and Jewish people,
and Gypsy people,
and Muslim people,
and Latino people,
and Immigrant people,
and people who know
what they are talking about
talk about discrimination, oppression, persecution and abuse.
The only white people
who have a voice in the discussion
are white women–
and too many of them
belong to the ranks of the oppressors.

01/24/2017 — I have done a lot of work thinking about photography–
how to get my camera to do what I want it to do,
what filters to use,
how to get Photoshop and Lightroom to do what I want them to do
what time of day is best for which locations…
the list is long.
I have read my camera’s manual several times,
and refer to it repeatedly.
I watch instructional videos continually.
And I practice, practice, practice.
But.
No manual or video can tell me where to place my tripod.
What to do with the light available then and there.
Where to place the focus of the photograph.
What to leave in and leave out of the picture.
After you understand the mechanics of photography,
then you listen to the mystery.
And you know what is right in the moment of decision.
You don’t know how you know,
and you know that someone else
would do it differently,
but.
This is right for you, here and now.

I have an understanding with The One Who Knows
(or, maybe it’s a dozen, or a thousand, for all I know).
He/She/It/They get to show me the photo in the scene,
and I get the final say about whether or not
we take the picture.
I get to over-ride the Muse.

The Muse knows that in my 73rd year,
I’m not up for putting myself in harm’s way.
The Muse might see a barn flash by
at 8 miles an hour above the posted speed limit
on the side (either side, it doesn’t matter)
of an interstate highway,
but I’m not stopping.

And I know the Muse won’t go into a sulk
and fail to show up
when I get to a scene
with access and place to park.

I depend upon the Muse,
the Muse depends upon me.
We have our rules,
and each of us respects the rules
of the other of us.
I will do my best to serve the Muse,
will not neglect Him/Her/It/Them,
or take Him/Her/It/Them for granted.
And I won’t take undue risks
in getting a photo.

I’ll drive the car and carry the equipment
and understand how to use it,
and He/She/It/They
will show me the photographs
in the scene.

Technology and Mystery meet in me.

01/24/2017 — We are here to help those
who can be helped.
Period.
That’s it.
The catch is
that in order to be helpful,
we have to be capable
of being helpful.
One thing that means is
we have to be clear
about what is helpful and what is not.

Shel Silverstein has a poem about Helping
(Googleit)
that would be appropriate here.

Being clear about the
“kind of help that help is all about”
is being clear about a lapfull
of a lot of other things.

Being capable of being helpful
is a lifelong task.
And it has nothing to do
with telling people
how they ought to think
or what they ought to do with their life.

And as for as those who cannot be helped
are concerned,
we have to leave them
for someone else to help
if they can.
“Go on to the next town,”
said Jesus.
“Leave Those Who Know Best
to their own devises.”
Or, words to that effect.

01/24/2017 — My work is getting out of the way.
When I manage to step aside,
what needs to be done
arises of its own accord.

Thinking can serve the way,
and thinking can get in the way.
Knowing knows when
it is time to think
and when it is time to do.

We have to know what we know
in order to do
what needs to be done.

Knowing what we know
isn’t thinking
it is knowing.

We don’t think something
is too sweet
or too salty.
We know it.
Instantly.

Knowing knows instantly,
With no second-guessing,
what time it is–
what it is time for.
Thinking looks at its watch
or at its calendar.

Instead of thinking of what to do
practice knowing what to do.
If you don’t know what to do,
wait until you know.
if you have to know what to do NOW,
ask the Knower within to make the choice,
and get out of the way.
 

  1. 01/24/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 31 — Twelve Mile Creek, Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    Awareness is our only tool,
    our only weapon
    (think of it as the Elder Wand).
    Awareness is all we need
    to find what we need
    to do what needs to be done,
    to do what needs us to do it.
    Yet, we spend our time,
    our life,
    mindlessly not-seeing what we are looking at,
    not-hearing what we are listening to,
    not-being where we are,
    not-knowing what we know,
    wondering how we got here
    and what to do about it–
    never thinking the answer might be
    Be Aware Of It
    And Of Everything Else! Discounted.
    Disregarded.
    Dismissed.
    Not done.
  1. 01/25/2017 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 24 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016
    In attempting to give us a picture of ourselves,
    two guys, Joe and Harry, came up
    with the Johari Wndow in 1955.
    They said there are things about us that are visible to us
    that are visible to everyone else,
    and things that are visible to everyone else
    that are invisible to us (spinach on our teeth),
    and things that are visible to us
    that are invisible to everyone else,
    and things that are invisible to us
    and to everyone else.
    They congratulated themselves
    and left the room.
    “But, wait!” I say.
    “What about the fictions?”
    There are things others think are so about us
    that are not so.
    There are things we think others think are so about us
    that are not so.
    There are things we think are so about ourselves
    that are not so.
    There are things we pretend are so about ourselves
    that others also pretend are so that are not so.
    There are things that others pretend are so about us
    that we also pretend are so that are not so.
    So let’s get to the bottom of us all.
    What exactly is so and not so about us?
    What is infinite, eternal and unchangeable about us?
    What is dependable, absolute, real and true?
    What can you count on from me?
    What can I count on from me?
    What can we count on from you?
    All kidding aside?
    Getting to the bottom of us all
    is the world of our life.
    Particularly the part of us
    that is invisible to us and to everyone.
    What lurks there,
    evading inspection and introspection?
    Here’s a tip for you:
    We won’t find it by thinking about it.
    The deep recesses of ourselves
    is the world of misty metaphor and symbol–
    the world of dreamtime images
    and daytime flights of fantasy–
    a world we approach tangentially
    and glimpse out of the corner of our eye.
    We are always who we are
    and who we also are.
    And we live to make conscious
    the connection between the two.

01/25/2017 — There is the face that was ours before we were born,
and the face we put on before getting out of bed–
the face we see when looking in the mirror–
and there is the face we put on before leaving the house–
the face everyone sees when looking at us.

Our life’s work is getting past all of the faces
we adopt to get by,
back to our original face,
and live to exhibit that in the times and places
of our living.

01/25/2017 — Unconditional love is a complete and lasting lie.
Love sets limits and draws lines,
and demands accountability.
It is conditional from the start.
People who talk about unconditional love
as being characteristic of Jesus and God
are throwing out the entire Book of Revelation,
and the lines about “outer darkness”
and “weeping and gnashing of teeth”
from the Gospels.
Heaven itself depends upon a big fat IF–
IF you believe
IF you repent
IF you mean it…

The fallacy of unconditional love
opens the way for Alternative Facts
where life is like you want it to be,
and it doesn’t matter what people
say or do
because “it’s what is in their hearts that counts
and no one knows that but God,
and who are we to judge?”

Clueless Christians make the world safe
for Donald Trump.

  1. 01/26/2017 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 33 — Twelve Mile Creek Cascade, Union County, Waxhaw, North Carolina, November 20, 2016
    There are people who think
    they can choreograph happiness.
    They all come with a formula in mind:
    Roses, rainbows, white picket fences…
    Two kids and a dog and a house on a hill…
    A six figure income with high annual increases…
    This NOT That!!!
    And they are all quite surprised
    when the formula fails to satisfy.
    The trick with happiness
    is to forget about happiness checks
    and do your work.
    Working to be happy is not your work.
    Happiness,
    contentment,
    peace
    and satisfaction
    are by-products
    of finding your work and doing it,
    of finding your life and living it.
    If you are waiting for Mr/Ms Right
    to do the trick
    you’re standing in the wrong line.
  2. 01/26/2017 — Cane River Creole National Historical Park 2016 03 Panorama, Oakland Plantation, Natchez, Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana, January 26, 2017
    Everything begins with silence.
    If we can be quiet enough,
    we can do anything.
    In the silence,
    with our eyes closed,
    we can see and hear
    the things crying out
    to be seen and heard,
    and know what needs to be done
    about it.
    Mindfulness meditation is the door
    few walk through
    because they are to busy
    searching for the door
    to sit quietly,
    looking, listening.

01/26/2017 — The people that did not vote
gave us Trump.
Democracy works only when
we can trust one another
to do what Democracy requires.
The People have to be trustworthy.
We have to live in good faith
with one another.
When the Whole is
listening,
looking,
seeing,
hearing,
voting,
the Whole is okay.
More than okay.
The Whole is well and strong,
healthy and alive.
When the parts fail the Whole
the Whole fails the parts,
and we get
what we have
with Trump.

01/26/2017 — The Tea Party understands
how Democracy works
and what keeps Democracy from working.
Tell the people what some of the people want to hear
Lie and keep on lying–
some of the people will believe anything
(“You can fool some of the people all of the time”).
You can discourage some of the rest of the people
by lying about your opponents
and disenchanting people about the voting process
(“There are no candidates worth voting for!”).
You can make it difficult for people to vote
by reducing access to voting in a number of ways.
You can inflame your own base
by demonizing your opposition
and promising whatever it takes
to get them to the voting booth.
Increasing your voter turnout
and decreasing voter turnout generally,
means you win with a smaller percentage of votes cast.
Means you win.

01/26/2017 — Democracy requires us to
look and listen,
see and hear,
know and understand.
But.
There is a catch.
We cannot stop too soon.
We cannot stop when we think we have seen.
When we think we have heard.
When we think we know.
When we think we understand.

There is always more to see than we have seen.
More to hear than we have heard.
More to know that we know.
More to understand than we understand.

Everything we think we see, hear, know and understand
is provisional, partial, limited, lacking.
We cannot wait to act
until we see the whole picture.
We have to act knowing
that we do not see the whole picture,
or even half of it.

Compassion and humility, Kid,
compassion and humility.

  1. 01/27/2017 — Melrose Plantaton 2017 04 — Natchitoches Parish, Melrose, Louisiana, January 27, 2017
    What is your drug of choice?
    What do you drink, pop, shoot up, snort, eat, do, turn to
    to hide from what is too hard
    to face about your life?
    What is too hard to face about your life?
    How do you hide?
    What do you hide from?
    What are you denying here/now–
    about how you are hiding,
    and what you are hiding from?
    The spiritual imperative
    is that we grow up.
    Growing up is squaring up
    to the bitter truth
    of everything about us
    and our life.
    If we are not seeing everything
    as it is about us,
    we are lying to ourselves.
    If we are dismissing anything
    about us
    as being unworthy of consideration,
    much less probing, exploring, inspecting
    and understanding,
    we are lying to ourselves.
    Where might you be lying
    to yourself?
  2. 01/28/2017 — Union Pacific Lift Trestle 2017 10 — Red River, Alexandria, Louisiana, January 26, 2017
    Growing up is a spiritual imperative.
    We cannot be spiritual if we are not growing up.
    Growing up means,
    among other things,
    doing what you don’t like to do
    in a way that no one knows
    you don’t like to do it.
    Growing up is doing what needs to be done
    when it needs to be done,
    the way it needs to be done,
    for as long as it needs to be done,
    because it needs to be done–
    not because someone is making you,
    and not because you will go to hell if you don’t.
    You do not have to do it
    and you choose to do it
    out of your own freedom to not do it,
    for no other reason than it needs to be done,
    and needs you to do it.
    Not doing something
    because you are grown up
    and don’t have to do it
    is not being grow up.
    Doing something
    because you are growing up
    and don’t have to do it
    is being growing up.
    Growing up is a life-long process
    without end.
    Another term for the spiritual journey
    is growing up.
    There will always be trials and ordeals
    that we want to avoid,
    refuse,
    reject,
    dismiss,
    discard,
    disregard Growing up is walking right into them,
    bearing the pain like a man or a woman,
    and doing the work required to grow up.
    Being spiritual
    is not about what you believe,
    but about what you do–
    whether you feel like it our not,
    whether you are in the mood for it or not,
    whether you want to or not–
    just because it needs to be done,
    because it needs you to do it.
    Every day
    for the rest of your life.
  3. 01/28/2017 — Melrose Plantation 2017 07 — Natchitoches Parish, Louisiana, January 26, 2017
    The spiritual,
    the moral,
    the categorical
    imperitive
    is caring.
    We have to care.
    This is non-negotiable.
    It is compulsory,
    mandatory, We can’t not do it.
    Of course, we do, all of the time,
    but we can’t get by with it,
    there is a price to be paid.
    The price is the loss
    of the quality
    of the life we are living.
    It will never be
    what it could have been
    if we had cared about it,
    taken care of it.
    “But,” we protest,
    “I couldn’t help it!
    No one could care
    about a life as rotten
    as my life is!”
    “Wait.” Say I.
    “You misunderstand.
    Caring is not about how we feel
    about our life, or anything–
    it is about how we treet
    our life, or anything.
    “We can’t help how we feel,
    nor should we try,
    but, we can help what we do
    and how we do it,
    and that we should definitely try–
    and keep on trying–
    until we get it down.
    “Live Like You Care!
    (Whether You Do Or Not!)
    Should be a bumper sticker.
    AA has a slogan:
    ‘Fake It Until You Make It.’
    “Live like you love your life,
    like it is the most important thing ever.
    Live it like you mean it.
    Give it your best effort all the time,
    like you are an actor
    going for an Academy Award
    in every scene.
    “Live so that no one would ever know,
    or guess,
    that you hate your life–
    that you are miserable in it–
    that all you think about
    is how much you wish it were over.
    Live so they all think you love it.
    Do it the way you would do it
    if you did love it.
    “Live in relation to you life
    so that you life would never know
    how you Really Feel–
    so that your life would think
    it was the best life that ever was.
    “Care About Your Live!
    Treat it caring-ly!
    Caring is not what you feel,
    it is what you do.
    Live as one who cares
    about every single person and thing.
    “It will make all the difference.”

One Minute Monologues 036

October 22, 2016 – December 3, 2016

  1. 10/22/2016 — If everything in your little world
    has to be Just So, or else,
    your little world is a hard place to live
    for everyone in it.
    Especially you.
    Latitude and pliability will accommodate
    a wide range of life experiences,
    and position us to make fitting responses
    to whatever the day brings–
    and are another fringe benefit
    of mindful, compassionate, awareness.
  2. 10/22/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 15 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, October 16, 2016 Here’s a novel solution for dealing with bad feelings:
    Feel them.
    All the way to the bottom.
    Do not deny them, mask them, numb them, run from them, or hide.
    Welcome them.
    And sit with them for as long as they need to be felt.
    Perhaps your son or daughter died
    and grief washes over you out of nowhere,
    or is triggered by 10,000 things
    and takes your breath away.
    It was your son or daughter who died.
    His or her loss cannot be denied its rightful place in your life.
    “But it’s been 15 years, or 50!” you say.
    There is no statute of limitations on mourning,
    and the feelings have to be felt when they come upon you.
    Or there is the weight of the Unchooseable Choice.
    Hopelessness and depression, panic and terror…
    Trapped with no way out.
    Sit with the agony
    and feel it in its fullness.
    Feel. Your. Feelings.
    Weep, wail, moan, sob…
    Wait for the feeling to begin to shift.
    All feelings pass.
    You can gauge their intensity,
    and time their duration.
    Watch as the feeling wells up inside.
    Notice how it impacts your body.
    Where does your body carry most of the emotion?
    Feel it in its depth,
    and notice as it begins to diminish,
    leaving you perhaps worn out, wrung out, exhausted.
    Acknowledge the experience with a ritual
    appropriate to the occasion
    and dedicated to life lived with the reason for the feelings.
    We will live,
    and we will feel the impact of life–
    our commitment to life and to each other,
    from this time forward.
  3. 10/22/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 13 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Jeremy Taylor says (In his book, “Where People Fly and Water Runs Uphill,” used hardbacks available from Amazon for 1 cent plus $3.99 shipping, just saying)
    that living wholeheartedly in the service of anything
    will transform your life
    and ground you in your own authenticity and identity
    much better than anything else we can name.
    People who live wholeheartedly to play bridge,
    or lower their golf score
    live better
    and are likely to be healthier
    than people who have nothing
    that commands their wholehearted allegiance and commitment.
    How wholeheartedly do you live?
    It doesn’t matter what you pursue with all your heart, mind, soul and strength,
    in spite of what the theologians might tell you.
    But it matters that you pursue something that way,
    all your life long.
  4. 10/23/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 12 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Our unconscious–so called because we are not conscious of
    that aspect of ourselves–
    seems to be interested in our being true to ourselves
    within the context and circumstances of our life,
    while our conscious egos–
    that would be the self we are conscious of–
    seems to be interested in doing whatever it takes
    to succeed in and triumph over
    the context and circumstances of our life,
    to the point of denying, betraying, ignoring, repressing and rejecting ourselves
    in the service of our agenda, plans, dreams
    and idea of how our life should be lived.
    Our unconscious is calling us to be
    who we have no desire to be.
    That’s the impasse that has to be made conscious
    and worked through
    if we are to have any chance at
    living the life that is waiting for us to live it
    in the time left for living.
  5. 10/23/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 01 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016, Our dreams call us back to the center–
    to the grounding truth of the life that is ours to live–
    and the life that we are living–
    by showing us nightly
    skits, spoofs, parodies, satires, dramas, and comedies
    with the same story line:
    This Is How It Is With You Now!
    Or: Wake Up And Get Back On The Path!
    We think they are about snakes in the attic,
    or monkeys in the basement,
    or cars that won’t stop,
    or exams we aren’t prepared to take.
    They are all about us and the life we are living,
    and the life we need to live.
    It would be smart of us to heed our dreams.
    If we ignore them,
    symptoms and walls and cliffs are waiting in the wings.
    We want to begin listening
    before we start running into walls and off cliffs.
  6. 10/24/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 5/6 Panorama — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Living wholeheartedly in allegiance to the things
    most important to us
    limits the amount of time and attention we give
    to other things.
    We cannot “do it all,”
    or even half of it all.
    We have to conserve our energy and resources,
    and “spend” ourselves in the service
    of that which reflects most clearlly
    where our heart lies.
    We don’t apologize for our heart!
    We can’t be anything less than
    committed and dedicated to what we love!
    And we have no one to keep happy
    other than our own soul!
    We sell ourselves out
    when we do anything asked of us
    and go wherever the crowd we run with goes.
    Who are we?
    What does it mean to be true to ourselves?
    Where does our soul find its joy?
    What makes our little heart sing?
    Go there!
    Do that!
  7. 10/24/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 18 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Being true to ourselves
    within the context and circumstances of our life
    puts us at odds
    with what is required, expected and assumed
    in each situation as it arises–
    and at odds with what we desire or fear
    in those situations.
    We grow into the mindset of the culture
    during our childhood and adolescence,
    and live to exploit the situation
    to our advantage, gain and profit.
    We readily forsake, betray, and/or abandon
    any concern for what is true to ourselves
    in favor of doing what we need to do
    to get what we want–
    wanting things that have no affinity
    with what would ring true to our heart and soul.
    You see the problem.
    We are divided within
    and incapable of living with our best interest at heart.
    We want what we want,
    and will have it or die trying to get it.
    We will do anything but the one thing necessary
    to put ourselves in accord with ourselves
    and live as one toward the good of each situation
    and the good of the whole.
    we will not change our mind about what is important to us.
    Our mind can change, of course,
    but not by effort of the will–
    ours or someone else’s.
    That puts us in the place
    of being mindfully, compassionately, aware of what’s what,
    and seeing how it goes.
  8. 10/24/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 08 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain, Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Readiness for realization is the requirement for realization.
    Asking, seeking and knocking—
    and to go on asking, seeking and knocking—
    have been long recognized
    as reflecting the needed disposition
    for seeing, hearing and understanding.
    We do not order up revelation, insight, enlightenment.
    We recognize our paucity in these things
    and wait in the darkness for the light—
    mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of our need and of the wholeness—
    the allness—
    of our life situation,
    and looking at everything as a vehicle
    of illumination and awakening,
    asking of each thing,
    “What does this have to say to me of truth and discernment?”
    Always bearing in mind two aphorisms of Joseph Campbell:
    “Where you stumble and fall, there lies the treasure.”
    “The cave you most don’t want to enter contains the treasure you seek.”
  9. 10/25/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 08 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Everything is a symbol of transcendence and transformation.
    It only takes seeing how the thing you are looking at
    is like you and/or your life.
    Thou Art That
    in terms of our identity with the divine and sublime–
    and in terms of our identity with the profane and mundane.
    The line between transcendent and imminent
    is so thin it is non-existent,
    and hinges entirely on how we see what we look at.
    How we see what we look at
    is the key that opens the door
    to the life we live.
  10. 10/25/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 04 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 There is no immunity. No impunity. No exemption, exception or exclusion.
    Only vulnerability and pathos,
    or denial
    for as the long as the sun rises in the east
    and sets in the west.
    One of my hunches is
    that we cannot sit quietly
    because in the stillness and silence
    pathos encroaches from all sides.
    In my case,
    I am transported to my maternal grandparent’s home
    in Itta Bena, Mississippi.
    It is winter,
    I only remember cloudy days in winter there.
    The gas stoves have no pilot light,
    and are not permitted to burn through the night.
    A Folger’s 1 lb. coffee can half-filled with water
    sits on the brown vented top to hydrate the air,
    and through the glass panes of the window
    in the front bedroom,
    I watch Coots swimming in Roebuck Lake.
    Watching me watch the Coots,
    I suffer the sadness of my generation,
    knowing what we had to deal with,
    and how poorly I think we managed our affairs.
    It would be wrong for me to run from this,
    so, I treat it as a dream,
    and enter into it to speak to my child-self
    and tell him to have courage,
    and to live in good faith with himself,
    and I promise to be with him
    all the way,
    even now and on into the future
    that lies before us—
    that lies before us all.
  11. 10/26/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 30 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 With no affinity for complexity and uncertainty,
    and no patience with complications and confusion,
    we leap for solutions that are more apparent than real,
    and a bad situation quickly becomes out of hand.
    I recommend adopting “Yes and no,” as a way of managing
    all of life’s problems and options.
    Everything–every choice, every decision–
    has its upside and its downside,
    its advantages and its disadvantages,
    its pluses and its minuses.
    “Yes and no,” puts it all in perspective,
    and keeps us from thinking there could ever be
    a Final Solution
    and this might be it.
    “Do you think we ought to (fill in the blank)
    sell our house here and buy one there?”
    “Yes and no.”
    And then, carefully examine all of the yes factors
    and all of the no factors,
    remembering to include the intangible
    “How thinking about it makes me feel inside” aspects.
    “Do you want cereal for breakfast?”
    “Yes and no.”
    It’s all yes and no!
    Anything that appears to be completely yes or no
    has another side we aren’t seeing.
    Life is a mixture of yes and no.
    Stir things up!
    Keep things in solution until you can see it for what it is–
    for ALL it is!
    Do not rush to the finished line!
    When we take the time necessary to take everything into account,
    the right action arises on its own.
    All we did was poke around, examining options, asking questions.
  12. 10/26/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 03 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 All the action/adventure and westerns movies,
    and many other genres as well,
    are about the Good Guys demolishing the Bad Guys.
    Good vs Evil is a common theme in the stories we tell and read.
    The Good sees Evil for what it is
    and puts it in its place,
    which generally means Good destroys and disappears Evil forever.
    We will never see the Avengers or the Jedi Knights
    working to right social wrongs,
    to bring justice to life in human relationships,
    to establish racial and sexual equality,
    and create a global culture that values
    the contribution of all people to the good of the whole.
    We will never find them working out their own
    personal conflicts and ambivalences,
    and coming to terms with the Shadow
    within themselves,
    or seeing themselves as the enemy
    they seek to destroy again and again
    in different external manifestations.
    As the song says,
    “There ain’t no good guy,
    There ain’t no bad guy–
    There’s just me and you
    And we just disagree.”
    And we see in each other
    whom we cannot see in ourselves.
  13. 10/26/2016 — Footbridge to Rough Ridge 2016 01 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The journey we all have to make–
    as individuals, as a nation, and as a world of nations–
    is the journey from the periphery to the center,
    from the extremes to the heart of life and being.
    We do this by seeing the enemy as a friend
    who is holding up a mirror
    reflecting us as we also are
    back to ourselves to recognize and reconcile ourselves to.
    We are also what we hate.
    The Bad Guys and the Good Guys share the same body.
    We have to do the work of seeing that it is so,
    and come to terms with the fact
    that the qualities we despise in others
    are quite at home in ourselves.
    We will never live at peace with one another
    until we are at peace with ourselves.
  14. 10/27/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 30 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 There is what we care about,
    and what we ought to care about,
    and what we ought not care about.
    We step into each situation that arises
    with the option of caring about
    what we ought to care about in that situation,
    or to care about
    what we have no business caring about.
    How we play the Caring Card
    makes all the difference.
  15. 10/27/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 24 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 When it comes to decisions,
    I recommend putting everything on the table–
    and by everything,
    I mean everything that it is possible
    to be aware of pertaining to the decision–
    and contemplating the table.
    Sit quietly before the table,
    looking it over,
    taking it in,
    becoming fully aware of the contents of the table.
    Simply sit with that awareness
    until you feel in your body that you know what is there,
    then get up and walk away.
    Don’t think about the table any more.
    Be free of the table.
    Allow the part of you that you are unconscious of
    have the table and its contents.
    Ask that part of you to speak to you
    when it has something to say,
    and turn your attention to part of you that you are conscious of
    tend to other matters.
    Don’t worry about the decision–
    don’t think about the decision.
    Trust the part of you that you are unconscious of
    to work with the table
    while you take care of business on the conscious level.
    And wait for the light to come on.
  16. 10/28/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 9/10 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Jesus and the Buddha agree on what is important:
    “You better know what you are doing!”
    But, since everybody thinks they know what they are doing
    We catch Jesus and the Buddha winking at each other and laughing
    when they say
    “You better know what you are doing!”
    They mean,
    “You better know that you don’t know what you are doing!”
    Adding,
    “And do it with your eyes open,
    knowing that we do everything
    not knowing what we are doing.
    Jesus advised,
    “Ask, seek, knock,”
    Because we know we don’t know what we are doing.
    The Buddha advised,
    “Sit in quiet contemplation and wait
    until the right action arises from within.”
    Knowing that we don’t know,
    and allowing that to modulate our behavior
    in the field of action,
    saves us from the smug assurance
    that discounts all signs and signals,
    rejects all hints and suggestions,
    and refuses all invitations to reconsider any decision
    in our rush to have our way,
    like we know what way to have.
  17. 10/28/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 11 Panorama — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Jesus said, “The love of money is the root of all evil.”
    I say that the Will to Profit
    destroys everything in its path.
    We live to exploit every relationship
    and every situation
    to our advantage.
    We think turning a profit is our life’s sole goal.
    It isn’t our soul’s life goal.
    Or, if it is, our soul understands “profit”
    in ways the culture would look upon
    as an absurd waste of time.
    Our soul is a poet,
    a dancer,
    a singer,
    a child.
    Our soul is at complete odds
    with what the culture thinks is important.
    Which puts us at cross-purposes with ourselves.
    Putting ourselves in accord with our soul
    is a death-and-resurrection experience.
    People think a cross is a piece of jewelry,
    or a wall decoration,
    or a bumper sticker.
    They all think the cross is something Jesus did for us–
    not comprehending that it is something
    each of us has to do for ourselves.
    Dying to the cultural idea of what we are about
    and living to our soul’s idea of what we are about
    is Gethsemane/Golgotha and Easter Morning.
    Which is repeated continually throughout our life.
    We live between what we think is important
    and what is important.
  18. 10/29/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 17 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 If you are going to see anything,
    see what’s what.
    See what’s happening,
    and what needs to be done about it,
    and do it.
    See how things are,
    and how things also are.
    See what you look at.
    See yourself seeing.
    See what matters,
    what is important,
    what is essential,
    in the situation as a whole.
    See what you’re not seeing.
    See what else there is to see.
    See into the heart of things,
    to the bottom of things.
    And don’t quit looking
    until you see.
  19. 10/29/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 37 (Hydrangea Gardens) — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 We serve ends that are not legitimate ends,
    purposes that are not our purposes.
    We make up a life for ourselves
    and strive to make it fit.
    We live inorganically,
    inauthentically,
    out of touch with
    heart and soul,
    willing our life into being–
    the life we have created
    around our idea of how our life ought to be.
    Our Other Life calls to us
    with dreams and symptoms,
    but we heed no other,
    and damning all notions of a different way to live,
    we damn ourselves to a life without life,
    hollow people with empty eyes,
    filling the wasteland with our garbage.
  20. 10/28/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 33 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2017
    We cannot hurry things along,
    speed things up,
    make things happen
    according to our agenda
    and timetable.
    We assist the unfolding/becoming
    of things in their own time,
    in their own way,
    by being mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of the moment of our living,
    open to what is happening then and there,
    and to what needs to happen in response,
    and doing what we can do about that
    with the gifts and genius that is ours to employ
    for the good of the whole,
    and letting that be that.
    So, why have agendas and timetables?
    Even the question sidetracks us
    from attending what is happening
    and what needs to happen in response
    in the time and place of our living.
  21. 10/30/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 05 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2017
    You have what you need
    to find what you need
    to do what needs you to do it
    and dance with your life.
    Well?
  22. 10/30/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 05 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2017
    The church cannot be the church
    because it has to pay the bills.
    Just like Christians cannot be Christians
    because they have to pay the bills.
    Jesus had no bills he couldn’t pay
    out of the pittance of contributions
    he received begging in the streets.
    Jesus had no children,
    no house mortgage,
    no car notes,
    none of the things we carry with us
    through our life.
    Having to pay the bills
    cants us toward the cultural belief
    in the central importance
    of wealth, privilege, and profit.
    Financial freedom is the only kind of freedom, It locks us into a life that is lived in bondage
    to the work to pay the bills,
    and “we owe our soul to the company store.”
    We have to keep the truth of our condition
    at the forefront of our mind.
    All the talk about “Sweet Jesus,”
    comes to grief upon the fact
    of having to pay the bills,
    and the mystery at the heart of mystery
    is that we walk two paths at the same time.
    The only way to pull that off
    is by walking the path we are walking
    fully aware of the other path we are walking.
    All our life long.
  23. 10/30/2016 — Red-breasted Nuthatch 2016 01 — The Red-breasted Nuthatch returns to its winter range, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 21, 2016 — This image is a composite of 10 photographs blended together.

    We talk about God
    as though we know what the word means.
    We get into arguments about God
    as though we know what we are talking about.
    We go to war over the ways and will of God
    as though we know precisely who God is and is not.
    When, in truth,
    everything we think we know about God
    and can state with unequivocal certainty and conviction
    was made up by someone
    who didn’t know any more than we do about God.
    Everything we can say about God,
    even, “There is no God,”
    comes right out of the depths of someone’s imagination,
    perhaps our own.
    All of the doctrines of God–
    all of the theology and creeds about God–
    are the products of someone’s efforts
    to make sense of their experience
    and to articulate what they believe to be so.
    But, why believe that to be so
    and not something else instead?
    Especially in light of the fact
    that someone believes something else instead
    with as much assurance
    as we believe what we believe.
    If we are going to “take something on faith,”
    and we have no choice in the matter,
    at least let us do so remembering clearly
    that it has no more foundation
    than what anyone ever has, or ever will,
    “take on faith.”
  24. 10/30/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 10/11 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Our work is the recovery of the sacred–
    the recovery of our sense of that which has supreme value,
    and which seizes us with a claim upon us
    which cannot be denied.
    The ocean does that for some people.
    What does it for you?
    What is the vehicle of the sacred–
    of supreme value–
    in your life?
    Begin to nurture your relationship with whatever it is.
    Place yourself ritually,
    religiously,
    in its presence,
    regularly, I cannot think of a national park that does not
    stand out as sacred for me,
    or a season of the year.
    The birds I feed and photograph,
    and the flowers,
    and waterfalls,
    and Cypress Trees…
    Make the sacred your quest.
    Find what is holy for you
    and allow it to restore your soul.
  25. 10/30/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 16 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 We never outgrow some disappointments
    and betrayals.
    We live forever in their shadow’s reach–
    to be swept away when memory is triggered,
    or anniversaries come around.
    We carry the scars of old wounds,
    and walk with a limp,
    reminders of how things also are,
    to be accepted along with the rest of the landscape
    of our life,
    to be lived with,
    and through.
  26. 11/01/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 14 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 What things mean to us is what we say they mean.
    It’s how we see them,
    what we make of them.
    Our interpretation of reality
    sets reality up to mean what it means to us.
    We filter things through our experience of things.
    Through the clusters of complexes–
    the collection of thoughts, images, feelings and memories–
    that constitute the meaning the things have for us.
    Things mean what they have come to mean over time.
    We generate meaning out of our experience with reality–
    responding to today’s experience
    out of that of days long gone.
    The presence of the past colors our present,
    and where we are is haunted by where we have been.
    Sitting quietly seeing
    is the path to living here and now
    mindfully aware of the impact of then and there–
    as close to freedom as we have ever been.
  27. 11/02/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 16 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The Hero’s Journey consists
    of walking two paths at the same time.
    We are always on one path or the other.
    We walk one intently aware of the other one.
    The overriding rule of the Hero’s Journey is:
    Do Not Kid Yourself!
    Living transparent to ourselves
    brings everything to light,
    puts it all on the table,
    and requires us to live
    without pretense or denial,
    taking the whole into account
    at all times–
    living in this world in ways
    that honor that world–
    bringing the life that is ours to live
    to life within the life we are living.
    What brings you to life?
    Do that to offset the things draining you of life–
    the things you do to pay the bills
    to make life possible.
    The two paths modify and moderate each other,
    and pull us forth as the champion of each,
    bearing in our body the tension of the polarity,
    and making the two one in the life we live.
  28. 11/02/2016 — Moonshine 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, October 15, 2016 Donald Trump’s true gift to his followers
    is permission to not care about people
    they already don’t care about.
    Donald Trump says, in word and deed,
    that it is okay to not care about:
    Anyone who has had, is having, or will have an abortion,
    Women (Even the women who follow Donald Trump
    don’t care about women!),
    Black People,
    The LGBTQ population and their families and supporters,
    Latinos,
    Muslims,
    Immigrants,
    The Special Needs population and their families and supporters,
    The Poor,
    The Homeless,
    Children
    Minimum Wage Earners
    Union Members
    And anyone else Trump wants to add to the list at any time.
    Donald Trump is not a man to admire on any level.
    He is not a man who is capable of being President of the United States.
    Vote for Donald Trump at your peril
    and that of tens of thousands of innocent people.
  29. 11/03/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 09/10/11 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 If Donald Trump wins the election,
    the French should ask for their statue back.
    At the very least,
    the tablet with Emma Lazarus’ sonnet declaring:
    “Give me your tired, your poor,
    Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
    The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
    Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
    I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”
    should be shrouded in black,
    and the idea of
    “Liberty Enlightening the World”
    should become the source of grief and mourning
    for all good people of every nation forever.
    There will be no golden door—
    high thick walls of odious hatred
    will line these shores,
    and all will know
    the hope of Democracy is no more.
  30. 11/03/2016 — Fall Leaves 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 2, 2016 If we live in the service of our will,
    seeking to exploit situations to our advantage,
    and parley “this” into “that,”
    we will have a certain life.
    If we live open to the flow of the moment,
    each moment,
    one thing will lead to another,
    much like “one book opens another,”
    and we will feel like we are being guided
    by some benevolent intelligence
    through our days.
    And, we will have a different kind of life.
    We can think of the flow
    as the Tao, Maat, Dharma, or the will of God.
    Which is it really?
    I like to think of it as being guided
    by our psychic compass
    toward one life and away from others
    as we direct our boat
    on its path through the sea.
    There is that which knows more than we do,
    and to live open to it,
    in collaboration with it,
    is to have a life
    that has more life about it
    than any other life I can think of.
  31. 11/04/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 16 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 It comes down to concentration and focus,
    to aim and attention,
    because we are easily corrupted,
    led astray,
    shanghaied by the 10,000 things–
    which, in reality, are only four things:
    Panic, Greed, Rage and Duty,
    to be offset,
    countered,
    turned aside by four things:
    Concentration, Focus, Aim, and Attention.
    No life lived aimlessly and accidentally
    is worth living.
    We become who we are
    by being who we are
    in each situation as it arises
    with deliberate allegiance
    to alignment and expression.
    We get there with practice–
    sitting quietly
    in stillness and silence
    grounded in,
    and centered upon
    the importance
    of being grounded and centered
    in who we are
    and what we are about.
  32. 11/05/2016 — Boone Fork Panorama 2016 18-B — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 It matters how we live.
    It matters that we live in ways that are true to
    our sense of the best we have to offer.
    It matters that we remain loyal to
    our vision of that which is best about us,
    and incarnate that vision
    in each situation as it arises.
    It matters that we rise above
    that which is base and low,
    detestable, despicable and deplorable,
    and live in the service of
    the highest values that have ever
    stirred to life in the hearts of human beings.
    It matters that we live our best life
    when it seems as though nothing matters at all.
    Anybody can not care how they are living,
    and offer less than they are capable of,
    and say it doesn’t mater.
    It takes no effort to live like that.
    The challenge is to live like it matters
    anyway, nevertheless, even so, no matter what, just because.
    Doing it that way makes all the difference.
  33. 11/06/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 05 — Grandfather Mountain and the Linville Cove Viaduct, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 The first working concept is:
    We Walk Two Paths At The Same Time.
    The second is:
    Our Life Is Filled With A Multiplicity Of Double Paths.
    There is what we do for a living,
    and what we live to do.
    There is what is life for us
    and what is life for our spouse/partner, children/parents, etc.
    There is what we want
    and what we also want.
    There is the center of our conscious ego
    and the center of our psyche Self,
    and there is the Shadow side of both ego and Self. This could quickly get out of hand.
    But, we keep it manageable
    by being aware of the double paths we walk
    and walking them intently aware of both.
    We do not kid ourselves about the other one,
    and we do not tell ourselves
    we must get rid of the other one
    and walk only one to glory.
    There is not only one anywhere, any time.
    To think there is is to be shrouded
    in denial, pretense, wishful thinking, illusion.
    That’s the other path to thinking there is one path.
    There are two paths everywhere.
    We have to walk them both.
    At the same time.
  34. 11/06/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 07 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 Nothing is worse than reality.
    Or better.
    Our place is to square up to it
    and trust ourselves to it
    just as it is–
    for better and for worse.
    No running, no hiding, no denying.
    No hanging on past letting go to some joyful experience.
    No being dragged against our will to do what must be done.
    Reality is a bitter pill to swallow.
    And the grandest adventure ever to ask us to take a ride.
    Don’t miss it for anything.
  35. 11/07/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 06 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 We have to know what we are doing
    and be right about it.
    We are the ones who decide,
    who choose,
    who do and leave not done,
    who say what’s what,
    what gives,
    and what’s up and down.
    We live with an ear tuned to the inner world
    with an eye on what goes on there,
    but the psyche is no internal director
    with megaphone in hand
    yelling minute-by-minute instructions
    regarding when to do what, how and why.
    We familiarize ourselves with the inner world,
    get the gist of its nature and mode of operation,
    put ourselves in accord
    with our understanding of flow and direction,
    and make up our own mind
    about what we need to do
    in each situation as it arises.
    We make the calls.
    We say yes.
    We say no.
    We live out of our own authority
    in light of what we declare to be
    the center, ground and foundation of our life.
    Nobody can tell us what that is
    or what it should be.
    We alone know what is a true expression
    of who we are.
  36. 11/07/2016 — Goodale 2016 03/04 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Our life is like a Rubik’s Cube,
    only it is more like a hexagon than a cube,
    and instead of colors,
    we have to line up our
    affinities,
    aspirations,
    aptitudes,
    attitudes,
    faculties,
    proclivities,
    interests,
    inclinations,
    tendencies,
    dispositions,
    propensities,
    proficiencies,
    penchants,
    tastes,
    talents,
    flairs,
    knacks,
    gifts
    and genius–
    and synch
    that up with
    the context
    and circumstances
    of our life.
    We have to align ourselves with ourselves,
    and fit ourselves into our life.
    Every day.
  37. 11/08/2016 — Goodale 2016 08/09 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 It doesn’t matter to our inner world what
    we do with our life—
    It matters profoundly how
    we do it.
    We are to lived aligned with who we are—
    outer with inner.
    We can do that any way
    the context and circumstances of our life permits/requires.
    We can be who we are anywhere, any when.
    Except that a poet has to poet,
    a dancer has to dance,
    a singer has to sing,
    a logician has to logic,
    a scientist has to science,
    a talker has to talk
    a listener has to listen,
    all the way down the line.
    We live to bring who we are forth
    within the nature and conditions of our life.
    When we refuse/fail to do that
    The inner world—the psyche/soul within—
    begins to rumble and make itself known,
    as if to say,
    “Hey! Wake up! Put yourself in accord with the ALL of you!
    Bring us to life in your life!”
    If we refuse,
    there is hell to pay.
  38. 11/08/2016 — Congaree 2016 05 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Who, okay, whom, do you trust
    to tell you what the truth is?
    Where do you get the information
    you use to form your opinions,
    establish your positions,
    shape your perceptions,
    form your biases and prejudices,
    feed your fears?
    What is the foundation of your convictions?
    Where do you get your ideas?
    What makes you think
    that what you think is so?
    Here’s what I think:
    We have to be responsible
    for gathering our own information
    from the source.
    No hearsay evidence is allowed.
    We don’t take what anyone says is the truth
    as the truth.
    We ask probing questions of all truth-sayers:
    “How do you know that what you say is so?”
    “What makes you think that your interpretation of the facts
    is reliable?”
    “What makes you think the facts you say are factual
    are the only facts pertinent to the conclusion you have drawn?”
    “What are you leaving out of the picture you have drawn?”
    “What else is so that you are not saying is so?”
    “How is it to your personal advantage
    that I believe what you are telling me
    and do what you want me to do?”
    If you want to know the truth about anything,
    or anyone,
    go to the source,
    and make inquiries.
  39. 11/08/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 10 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 Our soul lives to be expressed in the life we are living.
    Our soul doesn’t care if we get paid for it,
    or are rewarded in any material way.
    Our reward is doing what our soul enjoys–
    being who our soul relishes being.
    That’s it.
    That’s all we get out of it.
    We get to relish, to delight in, the life we live together with soul.
    With Psyche.
    Our place is to put soul first–
    To understand that we are here to serve soul,
    not to be served by soul,
    and to live in ways that are aligned with, in accord with,
    the heart that beats at the center of ourselves.
    Our work is to life like soul likes to live.
    What do you love to do?
    Where do you come alive?
    What are the things you do best?
    How do you fit all of that into the life you are living?
  40. 11/09/2016 — Goodale 2016 23 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 This is the best I can do:
    Standing before the unfathomable
    and obscene,
    Ground yourself upon the foundation stone
    of your own deep truth,
    upon what you know to be true about you,
    upon your identity,
    upon your heart and soul
    and their eternal core
    and their high human values,
    and live out of your knowledge
    of what makes you you
    and calls you to live and to do
    according to its good pleasure,
    and hold fast to your center, ground and foundation
    by sitting quietly and remembering
    what is best and truest about you
    every day.
    That’s the first thing. The second is this:
    Know what you can get by with
    and what you cannot get by with,
    and live to be sure you are correct
    without pushing your luck
    more than necessary
    to call attention to what is wrong
    and do what is right
    in each situation as it arises
    for as long as the blight shall last.
  41. 11/09/2016 — Congaree 2016 02 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 It’s all the same to soul/psyche.
    Landscape, environment, context, conditions, circumstances…
    It’s all the place soul/psyche is expressed and comes to life
    in the life we are living.
    The nature of the life we are living
    is of little concern to soul/psyche–
    it is just the matrix, the gestalt, the backdrop
    of soul/psyche’s coming forth and dancing
    its Snoopy’s joyous dance with life.
    We are the ones weighed down by our circumstances,
    by the reality of life in the material world.
    Soul/psyche waits for us to
    square ourselves up with how things are,
    and get with the program of bringing them into our life
    by the way we live it
    wherever, whenever, however we are.
  42. 11/09/2016 — Goodale 2016 15 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 When I was, let’s say, seven years old,
    my buddy David and I walked to downtown
    Itta Bena, Mississippi
    with a plan.
    We were going to pool our money
    and buy a rope,
    bring it home and tie it to a limb
    in my grandmother’s oak tree,
    and take turns swinging like Tarzan all afternoon.
    Each of us plopped down a quarter
    on the counter of the hardware store
    and got 10 feet of quarter inch manila rope
    at 5 cents a foot.
    We were in business,
    and talked all the way home
    of the delight and wonder we would bring ourselves
    being Tarzan and Cheetah all afternoon.
    We got to the tree
    and it dawned on David that his rope
    would hang on MY grandmother’s tree,
    and wanted his half then and there.
    I’d never been so shocked and dismayed,
    and rarely so since.
    Out came his pocket knife,
    fizz when the dream.
    That was an early lesson
    on how difficult it is to get all, or most of, the people
    on the same page
    and keep them there–
    and how easy it is to talk about good faith,
    and how hard it is to keep it with one another.
  43. 11/10/2016 — Lake Crandal 2016 20 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 If it feels like oppression,
    it may as well be oppression.
    If it seems as though
    there will always be more Republicans
    who will do anything to avoid change
    and reject the rights of people who are not
    like they are,
    and for whom the center
    is more extreme than they can tolerate,
    it may as well be so,
    because that is my reality
    at this point in my shock and consternation,
    and I could do with a gathering place
    of Democrats
    for consolation and encouragement,
    and the enlargement of perspective,
    the nurturing of hope,
    the mutual care of bent reeds and flickering flames.
    There should be communities for the recovery
    of voting citizens
    suffering from lost dreams and broken hearts.
    Where do we go for anything approaching
    kindness, compassion and understanding
    when we are surrounded by Republicans?
    I’ve Googled It,
    and can find no evidence of the existence
    of a kind, compassionate, understanding Republican–
    which makes no sense at all.
    There has to be one somewhere.
    You would think.
  44. 11/10/2016 —   Goodale 2016 01 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 It is not OKAY.
    “Okay” means “That’s fine with me.”
    There are things that are not fine with me,
    and never will be.
    Things don’t have to be okay–
    particularly things that are not,
    and never will be, There is that which is not-okay,
    and always will be.
    The Hero’s Journey,
    the work of being human,
    growing up and facing our life just as it is,
    means confronting
    and dealing with
    all of the things that are not-okay,
    and never will be.
    And the way to do that
    is to not pretend that things are
    different than they are,
    but to see things as they are,
    bear the pain,
    and do what needs to be done about it.
  45. 11/11/2016 —   Lake Francis 2016 03 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 You cannot awaken those who are
    sleeping the sleep of the dead.
    Everyone thinks they are awake.
    Everyone thinks the way they see things is the way to see things.
    Everyone thinks they know what they are doing.
    Those who know know they don’t know,
    and are open to how things might be different
    from the way they think things are,
    or want them to be.
    No woman should be forced to be pregnant against her will.
    There are women who are pregnant at this moment
    who cannot carry their pregnancy to term.
    How safe are those women in your view of the world?
    Who has no place in your world view?
    Who does not belong?
    Who is not welcome?
    Who has to do it your way or die?
    Because you know best and must be pleased.
    We are entering a period in the country’s history
    where the common assumptions that held us together
    have disappeared.
    There is no longer any separation of powers.
    The executive, legislative and judicial branches
    have been taken over by Republican ideology.
    One Ring To Rule Them All.
    There is no longer any separation of church and state.
    Evangelical, right-wing, Christianity
    has sacked the state and runs the show.
    There is no safety from the rampant idiocy
    Of Those Who Know Best And Must Be Pleased.
  46. 11/11/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 14/15 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Way, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 10, 2016 I weep with grief for all that was lost
    with the election of Donald Trump.
    Let me explain.
    In controlling both the house and Senate
    and the Presidency,
    and the Supreme Court,
    the Republicans have an open door
    to reverse the gains that have been made
    in guarding rights and liberties of all people,
    and to see that none of the Favored Ones
    are inconvenienced in any way.
    Donald said, “I will drain the swamp!”
    and, “I will bring jobs back!”
    and, “I will build the wall!”
    and, “I will lower taxes (meaning on the wealthy)!”
    And the people cried, “Yea! Merrily May It Be So!”
    without inquiring, “How do you propose to do these things?”
    and, “What is your time table for doing them?”
    think, of course, that Donald has a magic stick
    and will do it all instantaneously upon inauguration.
    When you are fed up and desperate,
    you vote for the big talk
    and hope for the best,
    never minding all that hangs in the balance.
    Why care about anything
    but the chance of making life better
    for yourself?
  47. 11/11/2016 —   Congaree 2016 01 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Just as, according to the old saw,
    “The only way to get rid of temptation
    is to yield to it,”
    the only way to get rid of grief
    is by grieving.
    There is no hurrying grief along.
    It leaves in its own time.
    In its own sweet time.
    Any time we lose something that,
    or someone who,
    was like life itself,
    we have to let grief have its way with us.
    We have to feel what has been lost
    all the way, for as long as it takes.
    Even if it is inconvenient,
    and gets in the way.
    We have to consciously, mindfully, intentionally
    be with our grief,
    spending time with it, We think about the things that “make us cry.”
    We don’t change the subject in our minds,
    or “talk about happy things.”
    We assist our grief,
    encourage our grief.
    We don’t strive to be rid of it.
    We do not run from reality.
    We run to reality.
    Immerse ourselves in reality.
    Swim in it,
    become one with it,
    alive to it.
    Grieving and mourning all the while.
    As a testimony to the lasting value
    of the person, place, or thing,
    and the impact of his/her/its loss on our life.
  48. 11/12/2016 —   Goodale 2016 29 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 We are individuals
    and we are not independent.
    (Here we go again, get ready, it’s coming)–
    we walk two paths at the same time.
    Too often, we erase the individual path
    in favor of the dependent path,
    and live like the group, the community, the mass,
    but, occasionally, we erase the dependent path,
    and shun all communal responsibilities and connections
    in “doing our own thing,”
    “being true to ourselves,”
    “being who we are,” We have to be true to ourselves
    in relationship with one another (and all others).
    Some of us don’t go home for the holidays
    because we cannot be true to ourselves
    and be a part of our own family of origin.
    It’s a problem.
    It might be the only problem,
    being an individual and being a part of the wider community.
    We walk two paths at the same time
    (remember)
    by keeping both clearly in mind
    when walking either.
    It is a dialectic, a dynamic, a polarity,
    that keeps us working to be balanced,
    to be in harmony, in sync, connected and alive.
    Erasing the tension in favor of either path
    cuts us off from both paths
    and delivers us to the wasteland
    where we are neither a self, nor a community,
    just isolated and alone,
    aimless without foundation or direction.
    We have to be a self in relationship with other selves,
    even though it is the hardest thing in the world to do.
  49. 11/12/2016 —   Around Bass Lake 2016 06 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 I am always stunned and amazed
    that people can look at the same fact
    and draw such widely different conclusions.
    Two men, or two women, kissing.
    Black and white children attending the same public school.
    People of different religions,
    and of no religion,
    and races,
    and physical ability,
    and gender identification,
    and ethnic origin,
    living together with mutual respect and good will.
    Repugnant to some,
    beautiful to others.
    The right of all people to be free to make their own health care decisions.
    To equal pay for equal work.
    To affordable child care and health care.
    Essential to some.
    Unnecessary to others.
    And reprehensible and wrong-the-point-of-being-evil-to still others.
    How can we be this far apart in our apprehension and evaluation of reality?
    What is messing with our mind?
  50. 11/13/2016 —   Lake Crandal 2016 04 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Acces, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 6, 2016 When the people think they are doing good
    when they are doing abject evil,
    and call idiocy “brilliant,” “astute,” “gifted,” and “clever,”
    the world is off its foundation
    and the would be king is wearing no clothes,
    and the joke is on us all.
  51. 11/13/2016 —   Around Price Lake 2016 06-C —Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 —This is a manufactured reflection. You can check out the original by digging it out in an earlier post in October.
    We bear our own grief,
    and carry our own sorrow,
    and square up each day
    to life as it is that day.
    And it helps to do that in the company
    of those who are also doing it.
    We strengthen each other
    by being strong ourselves.
    We encourage each other
    by being courageous ourselves.
    Joseph Campbell said,
    “The influence of a vital person vitalizes.”
    Each of us is to be that person–
    vitally alive in the face of the awful truth of the day,
    anyway, never the less, even so,
    doing what can be done about what needs to be done
    every day.
    All the way.
    Freedom Road needs some determined travelers again,
    walking together on the long road to freedom
    for every man, woman and child
    of every race and variety of humankind.
    Start by seeing what you look at,
    and listening to whom you are talking–
    beyond their words to their heart and soul
    struggling to be heard and understood.
  52. 11/14/2016 —   A Walk in the Woods 01 Panorama — Fall Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 People are marching in protest against Trump.
    How many of them voted?
    I vote even though my vote doesn’t matter
    (The Electoral College cancels out
    my blue vote in a red state–
    SC voted for Barry Goldwater,
    and went blue only for fellow-southerner Jimmy Carter).
    The people who didn’t vote,
    or who threw their vote away on a 3rd party (as if) candidate,
    handed us what we have,
    thank-you very much.
    One vote added to all of the other ones
    creates the future.
    Forget the candidates as people to love or hate.
    The question is always
    “What kind of future do you want to live in?”
    Vote for the person who has the best chance
    of delivering that future–
    and do not fail, or refuse, to vote!
    We have a clear vision of Trump’s future for the U.S. and world,
    and it is very ugly.
    It is a wasteland that even hopelessness would avoid.
    How to deal with that reality
    on this side of the election
    will be a daily test of our resolve and commitment to the good.
    The Dark Side has won the day
    and turned it into the darkest night.
  53. 11/14/2016 —   Super Moonshine 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 If you aren’t aware of, or following, Dak Prescott and the Dallas Cowboys of the National Football League,
    you are missing the story of the age,
    and the symbol of the new age that is dawning before our eyes.
    Prescott is the hero the modern world had no idea it needed.
    He is focused on being who he is wherever he is, period.
    Nothing distracts him.
    He has been described by sports writers as having the presence and poise of a Zen monk.
    He doesn’t get knocked off center.
    He doesn’t lose sight of his purpose.
    He is remarkably, consistently, the same in every situation,
    regardless of the circumstances.
    Michael Lombardi, an ex-GM in the NFL, describes his leadership style as being “intolerant of everything but winning.”
    Says Lombardi, “He doesn’t allow anything to get in the way of that.”
    Now, change winning, or understand it, to be “living in the service of the good,”
    and you have exactly the prescription for what needs to happen
    in the life of each one of us.
    We need to be intolerant of everything but the service of the good in each situation as it arises.
    We cannot allow anything to get in the way of that.
    What is the greatest good you can think of?
    If it isn’t winning, what is it?
    Live possessed by, and focused on, that in every circumstance and condition of life.
    And get to know all you can about Dak Prescott.
    He is who we all need to be in our own way.
  54. 11/15/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 08 — Sumac, Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Our life consists of facts and our response to them.
    We are responsible for forming our own perspective,
    for deciding for ourselves what the facts mean that bear upon our life,
    for interpreting what happens
    and determining what to do about it.
    When we don’t know what to make of our life
    and what is happening there,
    instead of sitting quietly and waiting for clarity,
    we rush to unwarranted conclusions,
    jump to embrace some dynamic personality brimming with conviction,
    and throw our lot in with the masses chanting slogans
    and offering direction–
    anything to avoid the anxiety of not-knowing
    what things mean and what action to take.
    We don’t think things through,
    sort things out,
    get to the bottom of anything,
    wait for the muddy water to settle,
    in order to see what’s what,
    and know what might be the best of all available options.
    If someone tells us
    he is going to make America Great Again,
    that sounds fine to us,
    never mind the price to be paid,
    or how Great can be not-so-great for some,
    and absolutely devastating for others.
    We will follow anyone
    to be free of the burden
    of seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing and doing
    what needs to be done–
    based on our reflection on our experience
    and our examination of the evidence available to us.
    Which, of course, creates a situation
    in which others have
    to wait for things to settle
    so that they might have enough clarity
    to see, hear, understand, know and do
    what needs to be done
    about our failure to be responsible
    for our own perspective
    and our own response to the facts impinging upon our life.
    When we refuse to do right by our responsibilities,
    someone has to take up our slack,
    and we increase the burden other people must carry.
    When we don’t bear our own pain,
    we increase the level of pain that others must bear.
  55. 11/15/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 28 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 15, 2016 When Jesus talked about new life
    everybody thought (and still think) he was talking
    about life after our physical death,
    about “bodily resurrection”
    with heaven on the other side.
    I hate to be the one to break the news, but.
    He was talking about a shift in perspective,
    a transition to a new way of seeing.
    It was/is as radical as the difference between
    old wine skins and new ones,
    as the difference between
    darkness and light,
    and life and death.
    “Those who seek their life will lose it,
    but those who give up their life
    for my sake and the gospel’s will find it.”
    “My sake and the gospel’s”
    is the perspective that sees things as they are.
    “I am the way, the truth and the life,
    and no one comes to the Father but by me.”
    The “I” and the “me” are both the perspective,
    the way of seeing,
    that Jesus had and was.
    Jesus was the way he understood things to be,
    the way he saw things.
    That is what fueled his life, his being, in the world.
    It was his perspective, his understanding, his knowing,
    that made him the Christ–
    and that is what makes us the Christ,
    as only we can be the Christ,
    after him.
    Believing in Jesus isn’t going to transport us
    from old wine skins to new.
    “Even the demons believe–and shudder.”
    “Lord, Lord, didn’t we believe in your name,
    and do mighty works in your name…?”
    Seeing things the way Jesus did–
    seeing what is important the way Jesus saw what was important–
    is going to make all things new
    on this side of the grave.
    The other side will take care of itself.
  56. 11/16/2016 —   Fall Woods 2016 33 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 16, 2016 It helps to be clear about what is important.
    Everything settles out around that.
    Trump says he will lower our taxes.
    Sounds great to a lot of people.
    He says he will get rid of Obamacare.
    Sounds great to a lot of people.
    He doesn’t say anything about how and what then.
    No one seems to care.
    Turns out he will lower taxes by
    also getting rid of Medicare and Medicaid
    (or cut spending to them which is equivalent to axing them).
    Turns out he has nothing to offer in the place
    of the Affordable Healthcare Act.
    That Trump is some kind of clown act
    with tricks up every sleeve.
    It helps to get all the information out in front of us
    before jumping on some bandwagon
    racing down the mountain to the cliff
    and jagged rocks below.
    Be clear about the important things.
    All good things start with what matters most.
  57. 11/16/2016 —   A Walk in the Woods 2016 38 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 “Don’t go in that hole!”
    Perfect advice for this time and place.
    We make the darkness darker by extolling the awfulness
    of every aspect of gloom and despair.
    This is the way things are,
    and this is what we can do in response.
    One of those things is to refuse to go in that hole.
    Another of those things is to sit quietly in the silence,
    holding everything in awareness
    without judgment or opinion–
    simply seeing what we look at
    and acknowledging its presence
    as a part of the allness,
    as a part of the just-so-ness,
    of this moment–
    and living in this moment
    out of our own center, ground and foundation.
    Our of our own identity and character.
    Out of what is true about us
    in this situation.
    The situation doesn’t dictate to us who we will be
    or how we will live.
    We bring ourselves forth to meet the moment
    every moment,
    no matter what the moment presents to us.
    That is our challenge in every moment
    all our life long.
    Nothing changes who we are
    or how we bring ourselves to bear upon
    the time and place of our living.
  58. 11/17/2016 —   Around Bass Lake 2016 18 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Our situation too much dictates who we are in that situation.
    We are to live so as to be who we are across all situations,
    so that who we are in one
    is who we are in all–
    responding in each situation
    as who we are
    in ways that situation needs us to be.
    The situation does not govern who we are,
    or make us into someone we are not–
    into someone we will be ashamed of being.
    The situation provides us with a framework
    in which we are pulled forth
    and challenged to be
    who we are in ways we will be proud of being.
    In order for that to be the case,
    we have to step into each situation
    centered and grounded in our identity,
    looking forward to seeing how the situation
    may grow us into who we also are capable of being,
    for the good of ourselves
    and the good of the whole.
  59. 11/17/2016 —   Lake Haigler 36 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 Bringing the best we have to offer
    to bear on the situation as it arises–
    engaging the situation
    with the truest expression of who we are–
    brings authenticity and integrity to life there,
    and stirs to life the hope of the world.
    We will wonder why we waited so long.
  60. 11/18/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 18 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 Sit with whatever is happening
    until you can see it for what it is.
    Seeing things as they are
    moves us from the center of consideration,
    and keeps us from seeing things
    solely in terms of their impact on our life.
    Things do impact our life,
    and we will have to make adjustments and alterations,
    and that will be facilitated
    by our ability to see things as they are
    and make an accurate determination
    about the best response we can make
    in terms of what needs to happen in response
    for the good of the whole
    after taking everything into account.
    Dismissing/ignoring the good of the whole
    skews everything in favor of our good alone,
    disrupts the flow,
    creates discordance in the ought-to-be-ness of things,
    produces resistance,
    and yields really bad karma
    all because we took the path
    of refusing to respond appropriately to the occasion.
  61. 11/18/2016 —   November Orchard 2016 10 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016 How can there be such dramatic disagreement among
    us as to what is Good and what is Evil?
    How can some of us–
    more than a small minority–
    think that white supremacy is the greatest good?
    That racism, sexism, misogyny, xenophobia and religious discrimination
    are not only acceptable,
    but are to be applauded and embraced?
    How can Good be perceived as Evil,
    and Evil as Good?
    And how can we talk to one another
    without common agreements
    about the basis of life together?
  62. 11/19/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 24 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 If I were going to establish a totalitarian regime in the U.S.,
    I would act quickly upon assuming the office of President.
    I would shut down the internet
    and the so-called “free press,”
    which hasn’t been free in how long?
    (Are there any independent news publications left?)
    And institute emergency measures–
    which would amount to a police state–
    to “keep America safe.”
    I would dispatch my enemies
    through a series of well-placed poisonings
    (the Russian way)
    and assassinations.
    And just like that,
    my way would then be The Way.
    Of course, to justify the whole show,
    I would have to stage an attack or two
    in cities harboring the highest number of anti-me fiends,
    but that would be easily done,
    and everything would then be in place
    for ID-ing everyone,
    and putting checkpoints and border guards
    in all states.
    The talk about the wall
    would have been my little joke
    concealing what I really had in mind.
    Everyone would be amazed
    at how easily it all came about.
    You would be a fool to vote
    for someone like me for President.
  63. 11/19/2016 —   November Orchard 2016 05 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, SC, November 17, 2016 It is the role of consciousness to be conscious.
    When consciousness refuses its role—
    because it is too painful
    and asks too much of us—
    escaping into diversion, distraction, and denial,
    that of which we are not conscious
    directs our life
    and we call it fate,
    or bad luck.
  64. 11/19/2016 —   Carolina Thread Trail 2016 15 Panorama — Spanning 12-mile Creek and the state line — This suspension bridge connects Lancaster County, South Carolina and Union County, North Carolina, November 19, 2016 See what you look at.
    Look at everything.
  65. 11/20/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 02 — Waxhaw, North Carolina, Union County, November 18, 2016 The Huns, Vandals and Goths have sacked Washington
    from the inside:
    How the South finally won the Civil War.
    Once Donald fills the empty federal judgeships,
    the take-over will be complete.
    The liberals will remonstrate, castigate, moan and bewail
    to no avail.
    Liberals are good at protesting and bad at voting,
    and by the time elections roll around in four years,
    voting rights will have been restricted and erased,
    radically reducing their chances at anything more
    than mere tokenism
    in all races nationwide.
    And there goes the 200+ year experiment with democracy–
    lost through a pronounced lack of passion
    for its continuation.
    If you can take it for granted,
    it’s already gone.
    And, just like that, the white supremacists, racists, bigots
    and evangelical Christians,
    k.a the Huns, Vandals and Goths,
    win the day.
    But winning the day and governing the country
    are to different horses.
    The Ignorant Ruling Class
    (and ignorance has nothing to do with intelligence or education,
    but everything to do with insight,
    awareness, perception and perspective)
    has to be more than crafty and guileful.
    We’ll see how their take-over
    plays out over time.
  66. 11/20/2016 —   Lake Crandal 2016 08 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 If anyone is to be registered,
    it is gun owners–
    not Muslims.
    Why is that so difficult for some to see?
    How can Republicans be slick, sly and crafty,
    but not perceptive, astute and aware?
    And there is still no evidence in support
    of the contention
    that a person can be Republican and compassionate.
    Evidence consists of eye-witness accounts
    of those who are not Republican.
  67. 11/20/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 25 — Union County, North Carolina, November 20, 2016 The ground rock of democracy is the promise of
    “life, liberty and the pursuit of
    what it takes to make your little heart sing.”
    All citizens in a democracy
    are free to find and live their own lives
    in ways that do not interfere others
    finding and living their own lives.
    Your religious beliefs have to do
    with you and your life,
    not me and mine.
    Your religious beliefs cannot be
    imposed on me as restrictions on my life.
    You have to respect my right to be different
    from what your religion allows you to be.
    The constitution trumps religion
    when it comes to what rights I am allowed.
    We cannot restrict Muslims from living free
    of the imposition of Christianity upon them.
    Christianity is not the religion of state.
    There is no religion of state.
    Politicians are sworn to uphold the constitution,
    not to champion anyone’s version of the Christian religion.
    Banning the expression of Islam by its adherents
    is a disgrace and is disallowed in a democracy.
    Christians don’t get to thump their chests
    and have their way.
    They have to honor ways that make others’ little hearts sing.
  68. 11/21/2016 —   Around Price Lake 2016 07 — Grandfather Mountain, Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Somebody’s good is somebody else’s bad.
    Someone’s right is someone else’s wrong.
    Good and bad (evil),
    right and wrong,
    are not absolutes.
    God is a monster.
    So is Mother Nature.
    So is life itself.
    So are you.
    So am I.
    So let’s be done with the illusion of Moral Perfection,
    and live alive to the moment
    and what it needs of us
    in terms of being in full accord
    with what is called for there, then.
    There is no ideology!
    No recipe!
    No formula!
    For right living!
    What is right here and now,
    may well be wrong then and there.
    Everything is preparation for the next thing,
    or the thing after that–
    for what is coming,
    for what will be,
    for what is being born even now
    as we act here with something else entirely in mind.
    Donald Trump was produced by the Civil Rights Movement.
    The seeds of tomorrow’s wrong
    are planted in today’s right.
    And vice-versa.
    It is the way of things,
    and cannot be avoided,
    but must be recognized, made conscious, lived mindfully,
    by those who know their role is to offer themselves
    to the service of what is called for
    in light of all things considered
    in each situation as it arises–
    to decide for themselves what is right,
    and what justice and compassion demand,
    here and now in the time and place of their living,
    and do that thing with all their heart, and mind, and soul, and strength,
    realizing that they may be doing something entirely different
    in the next situation that comes up in response to this one.
  69. 11/21/2016 —   Grandfather Mountain 12/13 Panorama — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Everything that happens is preparation for what’s coming,
    and needs to be understood as such–
    reflected upon,
    explored, probed, mined
    for the gold,
    and understood as a gift from the gods
    to be used in preparing the way
    through the wilderness that lies ahead.
    It’s all a test
    of our ability to be present
    with what is present with us
    in seeing, hearing and understanding
    what is happening
    and what needs to happen in response
    in order to know what to do
    in being who we are
    in each situation that arises,
    that we might shine there
    as lights in the darkness
    and encouragement to one another
    along the way.
  70. 11/22/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 08 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 Trump has awakened a Great Evil,
    given it validity
    and handed it the powers of the Presidency.
    Racism, Bigotry, Hatred and Fear
    (The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse)
    now have permission from on high
    to destroy the pillars of Democracy
    and replace them with the laws of the jungle.
    The Rule of Law is now officially over–
    none of the laws in place to protect the people
    and the environment
    will remain in place or be honored–
    except as it pleases those in power.
    Separation of Powers has been
    laughed out of town,
    with Republicans in firm control
    of the legislative, executive and judicial branches of government.
    Separation of Church and State has been
    supplanted by the Religious Right’s version
    of Evangelical Christianity forming the core
    of Republican ideology.
    The takeover is complete.
    Implementation is underway.
    We all have awakened to a new world.
    The way we thought things were,
    and assumed things to be,
    is no longer how things are.
    The earth has dropped away,
    and we are in free fall as a nation,
    as a world.
    We regain our footing, our foundation,
    by developing an inner life
    and becoming reflective, introspective, mindful and aware.
    Mindfulness leads the way
    (Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube videos).
    We have to see what we look at
    and look at everything.
    We have to sit quietly and take stock every day.
    What remains in place remains in place within.
    Our heart/soul/self is untouched by context and circumstance.
    Our deepest/highest values may be invalidated without,
    but they are forever sacrosanct within.
    Our work is to recover our grounding foundation and center,
    and to live in light of what we know to be good and true–
    incarnating it in the way we go about our business
    in each situation as it arises
    throughout the dark days that lie ahead.
  71. 11/22/2016 —   Reelfoot Lake 51/52/53 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 We can be who we are in any situation,
    through all circumstances.
    We can face any event “in character,”
    respond to any condition of life exactly as we would do it.
    Nothing can happen to us
    that could rob us of our ability
    to live “out of ourselves”
    in responding to it.
    That being the case,
    you might think that we would practice the art
    of putting ourselves in accord with ourselves,
    grounding ourselves in our essential identity,
    and being true to ourselves in all times and places.
    It would certainly be time well spent.
  72. 11/22/2016 —   A Walk in the Woods 2016 40 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 I wish there were a law
    applicable to all people worldwide:
    The Individual’s Right To Self-Determination Shall Not Be Infringed.
    And that the world would assist us from birth
    in assuming the responsibility
    and growing into who we are, have been, and will be,
    all our life long.
    If I ever get three wishes,
    that’s going to be the first.
  73. 11/23/2016 —   Goodale 2016 10/11 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 We are swept along by events and circumstances
    well beyond our control.
    The forces shaping our life
    come out of nowhere
    to startle and dismay,
    surprise and delight,
    as we scurry around
    putting things in some semblance of order
    and predictability
    until the next wild wind blows up from the Void.
    We live with a mess or between messes.
    You would think we would be more comfortable
    with our role by now,
    with less in the way of shock and consternation
    at having to get up again
    and re-order our life.
  74. 11/23/2016 —   Congaree 2016 05 — Congaree National Park, Hopkins, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 In order to be who you are–
    in season and out of season,
    when it is convenient and when it is inconvenient,
    in each situation as it arises
    all your life long–
    you have to be your own sounding board.
    You have to hear what you are saying to yourself
    in all times and places.
    What are your dreams saying to you about you?
    Your slips of the tongue?
    The way you spend your money?
    The way you spend your time?
    What you like and don’t like?
    What you do and refuse to do?
    What you must do and what you can’t make yourself do?
    What are you saying to yourself about who you are
    throughout your day,
    each day?
    You have to begin listening to yourself talking to you about you.
    Taking up the practice of mindful awareness
    won’t hurt a bit,
    on any level.
  75. 11/23/2016 —   Super Moonshine 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Do your work.
    Tend your business.
    It will carry you into perceiving the all-ness of the situation
    as it unfolds before you,
    and responding to it with your particular gifts and proclivities
    in protesting what must be protested,
    affirming what cries out to be affirmed,
    and standing with those who are vulnerable, marginalized,
    at risk and without enough advocates and friends.
    Doing our work means working to enable all people
    to do their work
    free of fear, oppression, humiliation, violence and intolerance–
    “one nation under God with liberty and justice for all.”
  76. 11/24/2016 — Footbridge to Rough Ridge 2016 02 — Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The first thing is this:
    We have to know who we are
    and be right about it.
    This is the foundation.
    The second thing is not far behind:
    We have to know what our work is–
    what our business is–
    and be right about it.
    The third thing follows naturally
    from the first two:
    We have to do our work,
    tend to our business–
    through all times and places,
    situations and circumstances,
    contexts and conditions.
    Everything else takes shape
    around these three things.
    Integrity is knowing who we are
    and being right about it–
    and living in ways that are aligned with,
    incarnate and express,
    the ground and center of our being.
    This is the foundation upon which we stand,
    unmoved and unmoving,
  77. 11/25/2016 —   Lake Haigler 2016 16/17 Panorama — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 10, 2016 If people could grow up on command
    (“Grow up!” “Act your age!” “Get over it!” “Stop being such a baby!”)
    what a difference it would make.
    Growing up is not a “once and done” experience.
    There is no static state of being “grown up.”
    We are always “in process,”
    growing up all our life long
    94-year-olds have as much growing up to do
    as they had when they were 34, or 64.
    The farther we go, the more things spread out before us
    and the work expands exponentially,
    with both the rate of change required,
    and the amount of change required,
    increasing as we age.
    Simply sitting with,
    and being aware of the implications,
    of that fact alone will require us to grow up.
    Life is no place for slackers and lay-a-bouts.
  78. 11/25/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 22 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 It is all useless, pointless, hopeless, futile, absurd
    and coming to a very bad end–
    and how we live in the meantime makes all the difference.
    How we live in the meantime is the only thing that matters.
    It is what we do with sadness, sorrow, suffering, despondency, gloom and depression
    that transforms everything.
    Call it willful caring, compassionate, transcendence.
    We look the drooling Cyclops in his ugly red eye
    and say “Out of my way Pretty Boy–you are nothing to me!”
    We will ourselves to the expression, exhibition, incarnation
    of caring and compassion,
    transcending the facts of every situation,
    to live there as outlets of goodness and grace,
    anyway, never the less, even so.
    And the world is blessed by the way
    we choose to live in it.
    That’s doing it like it needs to be done.
  79. 11/25/2016 —   Reelfoot Lake 50 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 The power of the psyche
    is the power to be and to do–
    to be who we are
    and to do the things that express/incarnate who we are
    within any situation, context, circumstance, condition of life.
    We collaborate with the psyche’s coming forth in our life
    by becoming conscious of who we are
    and what is ours to do,
    which is often not at all who we want to be
    or what we wish we could be doing.
    This is the theme of the Garden of Eden
    being worked out in the day-to-day experience of our life–
    and the Garden of Gethsemane.
    Eden and Gethsemane are the same garden
    with different outcomes.
    Gethsemane is how Eden should have played out,
    in the old “Thy will not mine be done” kind of way.
    We are always in one garden or the other,
    standing before the questions
    “Who are we?”
    “What is ours to do?”
    in each time and place of our living.
    How we answer them each time, each place,
    tells the tale.
  80. 11/26/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 03 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Consciously care about what you care about.
    Know what you care about and serve it with your life,
    allowing what you care about to lead you to other things to care about.
    This is what Joseph Campbell meant with “Follow your bliss!”
    Our life is grounded in and flows from what we care about,
    from where our passion lies.
    Life IS passion for life, living, being alive.
    Passion IS life, living, being alive.
    When we allow our life to separate us from our passion for life,
    life destroys life.
    Our old life destroys our new life by refusing to allow us
    to live out of our passion for life–
    because it isn’t proper,
    it doesn’t fit,
    it won’t do.
    Our new life of passion for what we care about
    is a threat to our old life
    of following directions
    doing what we are told,
    refusing to think for ourselves
    and staying inside the lines.
    Our new life of passion for what we care about
    destroys our old life of keeping up appearances.
    We choose between lives.
    Which one will we live?
  81. 11/26/2016 — Lake Haigler 2016 49 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 Neither awareness nor ignorance
    has anything to do with intelligence or education.
    They have everything to do with perception–
    what we see or think about
    and perspective–
    how we see or think about.
    How we see what we see
    and how we think about what we think about
    determines what we do in response
    to what is seen and thought.
    Everything depends on the degree of our awareness
    and the degree of our ignorance.
    We will be ignorant of everything of which we are not aware.
    Ignorance, not awareness, elected Donald Trump.
    Ignorance always puts us in a hole
    that only awareness can lead us out of.
    The practice of mindful awareness
    is as simple as sitting quietly
    and being aware of what we are aware.
    And it is the long-term cure for what ails us,
    individually and collectively.
    So, sit quietly.
    Be aware.
  82. 11/27/2016 — November Orchard 2016 08 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 17, 2016 We don’t know what we do not know,
    but we do not know that we do not know it,
    and proceed as though we know of which we speak
    regarding everything.
    The antecedents of Christianity,
    and of Judaism,
    are traceable to Mesopotamia
    and distant lands beyond ca. 3,500 BCE—
    but, it is as though everything Jews and Christians believe
    was dictated to those who wrote the Bible
    straight from the mind and mouth of God.
    Christians are certain that Jesus’ reported virgin birth
    was the only reported virgin birth ever—
    and certainly the most factual of those
    that may have ever been believed.
    They don’t know what they don’t know,
    and simply assume that what they think they know
    is as valid as anything they do know.
    We don’t think to get beyond what we think are facts
    to the facts that are facts.
    Confusing how we think things are
    with how things actually are
    is one of the things we do best,
    and most frequently.
    We walk about in such non-existent worlds
    that it is amazing we can find our way around at all
    in this world of normal, apparent, reality.
  83. 11/28/2016 — Goodale 2016 05 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 To will and to do, to do and to be—
    willing, doing and being are one thing.
    The three are one,
    flowing from an orientation to express,
    exhibit,
    incarnate t
    he best we have to offer
    in each situation as it arises
    for the good of the situation as a whole.
    We will to do and to be who we are
    here and now,
    then and there for the good of all.
    We will the good,
    do the good,
    are the good,
    that we seek to incarnate,
    to find,
    to share and enjoy.
    Without living intentionally
    with this purpose of willing, doing and being in mind,
    we respond reactively,
    out of the mood-of-the-moment,
    to whatever comes our way.
    Will to do and to be
    what is needed.
    It is the cure
    for a multitude of ills.
  84. 11/28/2016 — Lake Francis 2016 01 — Anne Springs Close Greenway, Adventure Road Access, Fort Mill, South Carolina, November 8, 2016 A large number of people advise
    looking at the bright sunshine
    and away from the dark shadows behind you.
    I say look at everything.
    See your life as it is,
    and what is possible,
    and which possibilities are necessary and essential,
    and give yourself to the achievement of those things.
    See what is actual,
    and what needs to be done about it,
    and do it.
    Forget flighty philosophies
    and airy advice,
    and get up and do your thing
    in places it can have a positive impact
    for the good of the whole situation
    (Not just for your good,
    or the good of people like you)
    in every situation.
    Your entire life long.
  85. 11/27/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 09 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Oswald Spengler (in “The Decline of the West”) said, “What IS is something that HAS BECOME.”
    Spengler is right in that we ARE more than we have ever been, and not yet what we will be.
    And Carl Jung is right when he said, “Who we are is who we always have been, and who we will be.”
    The White Oak Tree is what every White Oak Tree is, and what only that specific White Oak Tree can be–and will become.
    There is stability and there is freedom of movement.
    We can change without losing our essential identity.
    We can be different and still be true to ourselves.
    The idea that we have to be rigid, static, immobile and inflexible
    or we are betraying ourselves and disobeying God
    is one of the thoughts that no one has any business thinking.
    Life is dynamic.
    We shift and sway, dance, fly, flip, dive and soar.
    It’s called being alive.
    Live to see how different you can be in the time left for living!
  86. 11/29/2016 — A Walk in the Woods 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, November 13, 2016 Oswald Spengler said, “Soul (Psyche, the Unconscious) is possibility. The world is actuality. And life is the process by which what is possible is actualized.” Or, words to that effect.
    Our work is to incarnate Soul–
    to express, exhibit, make real
    the Unconscious potential
    that seeks to be actualized
    in the time and place,
    context and circumstances,
    of the life we are living.
    The incarnation/expression of Soul
    is not a mass production event.
    It is the imperceptible work of each individual
    over the course of her, of his, entire life.
    We do that work
    by consciously,
    conscientiously,
    bringing ourselves forth
    to meet our life
    in each situation as it arises–
    refusing to shy away,
    or hold back,
    from doing what needs us to do it
    with the gifts that are ours to offer
    in each here-and-now
    that unfolds before us.
    Ready-Set-GO!
    Here/Now!
  87. 11/30/2016 — Boone Fork 06 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 The people you mingle with and walk, or drive, past
    everyday
    have their own agendas,
    their own aims
    and their own means of achieving them.
    They have their own ways of spending their money
    and their time.
    They are preoccupied with their own concerns.
    They have their business–
    and their life–
    and you have yours.
    We share this world,
    but we live in different worlds.
    You couldn’t go home with them
    any easier than they could go home with you.
    We all need a place to go
    where it is just us and our kind–
    like-minded people
    with whom we are safe to be ourselves.
    We all need people in our life
    who are happy to help us live our life
    without meddling in it–
    a Community of Innocence
    with nothing at stake in us
    beyond being glad to see us
    and willing to listen to us
    to the point of enabling us to say
    what we need to hear.
    We are all self-regulating
    and internally guided,
    with goals unique to us.
    We need only a small group of people
    with no interest in us
    beyond assisting us in knowing what we know
    and reflecting on what to do about it.
    Who are the people who listen you
    to knowing and reflection?
    Spend time with those people.
  88. 11/30/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 04 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Blue Ridge Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 The old adage, “Reason can’t uproot what reason didn’t plant,”
    means we cannot talk to hatred in ways that transform it
    into grace and compassion, but.
    We can certainly denounce it to its face
    and call it out when it shows itself.
    We can put hatred in its place
    and give it no reason to think it is justified, validated, excused and encouraged.
    Hatred and bigotry cannot be encouraged!
    And silence is encouraging!
    We cannot be “nice” when hatred is stirring–
    and we must not be quiet!
    Justin Normand carrying his sign at the Texas Mosque
    is the symbol a right response to despicable wrong.
    Here’s the link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/texas-man-sign-muslims_us_583edc1ae4b04fcaa4d5d6eb
    and may his tribe increase exponentially!
  89. 12/01/2016 —   Around Price Lake 2016 11 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 “Yes, but…” is the polite equivalent of “NO!”
    “Nothing but…” reduces the point that was just made
    to the infinitesimal insignificant
    and dismisses it as utterly unworthy of consideration.
    The next time someone says, “Yes, but…” to you,
    smile sweetly and say, “That’s nothing but NO!,” sweetie.
    The next time someone says, “That’s nothing but…” to you,
    smile sweetly and say, “Yes, but…” sweetie.
    After trading a few
    “Yes, but’s” and “Nothing but’s,”
    we will have found someone we cannot talk to,
    and are free to excuse ourselves permanently
    from any future conversation,
    and go in search of someone we can talk to,
    feeling incredibly unburdened and free.
  90. 12/01/2016 —   Around Bass Lake 2016 14 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Poets cannot talk to accountants,
    and need accountants to help them with financial realities they cannot conceive.
    Accountants cannot talk to poets,
    and need poets to envision a truth they cannot imagine.
    We have to know our limits,
    and how we need one another
    to deepen and expand us,
    and to help us with affairs we cannot manage on our own.
    Poets cannot damn accountants to hell
    because they aren’t poets.
    Accountants cannot damn poets to hell
    because they aren’t accountants.
    Each of us needs the rest of us
    to be who we cannot be
    and to show us a deeper, truer, truth
    than we could ever envision on our own.
    The poet is eyes, ears and understanding
    to the accountant,
    and the accountant is the same to the poet.
    Putting ourselves in accord
    with this truth about truth
    will help us put ourselves in accord with our life,
    which is the work of poets, accountants, and everyone else worldwide.
  91. 12/01/2016 —   South Carolina Bison 2016 02 B&W — Kershaw County, South Carolina, November 7, 2016 Creative life energy feeds and flows from
    the freedom of aim and purpose.
    Without aim and purpose and the freedom to realize them,
    we sit looking at the wall until we die.
    Native Americans sentenced to a reservation.
    Elephants chained to a post.
    Dogs in a cage.
    Your Aunt Susan in a nursing home.
    POW’s kept themselves vitally alive
    by planning their escape and digging tunnels.
    Without aim, purpose and freedom
    we are dead,
    or may as well be.
    To be alive,
    we have to intend something
    and serve it with our life.
    We have to will and to do in order to be.
    What are your aims and purposes?
    What is keeping you from being free
    to serve them with your life?
    What can you do to gain your freedom?
    To help others gain theirs?
  92. 12/02/2016 — Fall Leaves 2016 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, October 20, 2016 Maintaining our focus,
    living from the center of our integrity,
    remaining grounded on our foundation,
    secure in who we are
    and what we are about,
    requires regular retreats into stillness and silence
    in order to enhance mindful awareness,
    reconnect with the allness of time and place,
    and put ourselves in accord
    with reality on all levels.
    Stillness and silence
    enable fitting responses
    to events and circumstances
    in the field of action.
  93. 12/02/2016 — Carolina Thread Trail 2016 05 — Union County, North Carolina, November 18, 2016 Jesus wasn’t a Christian.
    But he was widely recognized as the Christ.
    If you’re going to be something,
    don’t settle for being a Christian.
    Be the Christ as only you can be.
    We become the Christ
    when we get out of the way
    with our ideas of how things ought to be
    (That was Adam’s mistake, and Eve’s, remember),
    and live in accord with the Self at the center of ourselves,
    who knows what’s what and what to do about it,
    who is the “Thy” in “Thy will, not mine, be done.”
    Jesus called the Self “the Father,”
    and said, “The Father and I are one.”
    That’s the spirit!
    When we live at one with the Father/Self
    at the heart of who we are,
    we are the Christ
    and can trust ourselves to do what we know to do
    in each situation as it arises
    like Jesus did,
    healing on the Sabbath
    and associating with those society considered to be Unclean.
    The church tries to steer us away
    from this kind of radical living
    with its ideology, doctrines, theology, and long list
    of behaviors approved and unapproved,
    but the Father/Self within knows what’s what and what to do about it,
    and that’s who we better throw in with and follow
    because integrity is everything when it comes to being the Christ,
    and we don’t want any outside authorities
    interfering with the signals and getting us off the path.
  94. 12/02/2016 — November Orchard 2016 02 — Springs Farms, Anne Springs Close Greenway, Lake Haigler Access, November 17, 2016 Jeremy Taylor said “Dreams are the magical mirror of folklore, reflecting clearly who we are and how things are in our life.”
    Or words to that effect.
    Dreams come to us that we might see, hear, understand, know, acknowledge, act in appropriate response, and become who we are needed to be.
    When we refuse to receive our dreams well,
    we are rejecting a “dear and glorious communion” with Psyche
    regarding our life and how we are to live it,
    and have only ourselves to thank
    when things aren’t what they could be there.
    If we don’t remember our dreams,
    or think that we don’t dream,
    we might take stock
    and examine the possibility
    that we don’t trust ourselves,
    don’t believe in ourselves,
    don’t have faith in ourselves,
    and cannot imagine an inner authority
    that knows what it is doing
    residing in US of all people.
    Could it be that we need to revisit and revise long-held convictions
    regarding our worthiness,
    and begin treating ourselves with respect and kindness
    hitherto unknown?
    That’s the first time I have ever used “hitherto” in a sentence.
    I would bet, if I still did that kind of thing, $20
    that that’s one more time than you have ever used it.
  95. 12/03/2016 —   Reelfoot Lake 2015 64 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 It helps to be aware of the flow of our life,
    and to know when we are in the flow and out of it,
    and to do the work of finding
    and maintaining our place in the flow.
    Everything has flow, even agitation, disruption and heaving chaos.
    Our place is to be aware of it
    and participate in it
    in ways that serve our balance, harmony, peace, sanity,
    and ability to respond to the conditions and circumstances
    of our life
    in ways that are appropriate to the occasion
    in each situation as it arises.
    We start by noticing the flow of our day and its impact on us,
    and what we do to enhance flow,
    and what we do to disturb or interrupt the flow.
    For instance, getting dressed has it’s flow.
    Things go more smoothly when we put our pants on
    before we put on our shoes.
    We can do shoes first but
    that’s asking for trouble.
    How often do we ask for trouble throughout our day?
    How often do we cooperate with the requirements of flow?
    Mindful awareness is a flow-enhancing practice.
    We live better just by being aware of how we are living.

One Minute Monologues 035

August 22, 2016 – October 22, 2016

  1. 08/22/2016 — Ego gets a bad rap.
    Hinduism and, to some extent, Buddhism
    Plot Ego as the Bad Guy behind the mess.
    We suffer, it is said, because of Ego.
    Ego is the source of fear and desire,
    Which are the root of the problem,
    And the cause of all suffering.
    Get Ego out of the way
    And there is only bliss and harmony forever. Who desires bliss and harmony?
    Who fears suffering?
    Who wants Ego gone?
    Who is left when Ego goes?
    Every religion has it’s problems.
    And it’s said that Buddhism is not a religion,
    But. It has its prayer flags and votive offerings,
    And it has the idea of earning merit at its core.
    Who is hearing the prayers?
    Who is pleased with the offerings?
    Who is keeping score?
    Ego is not the problem.
    Ego is a full partner with Psyche
    In living the life that is ours to live–
    In getting off of the wrong track,
    And getting on the right one.
    Ego is the protector, defender, hero, friend of Psyche.
    And only needs to wake up,
    And be about the business it is to be about,
    For all to be well with our soul.
  2. 08/22/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 20 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 Why isn’t important.
    What is the only thing that matters.
    Why something happened to you is a distraction.
    What you are going to do about it is your proper focus.
    Why you should do what is right isn’t the issue.
    What you are going to do in response to what needs you to do it
    Is the only question.
    I don’t care what your motives are.
    When the baby needs to be fed,
    Feed the baby–
    And feed the baby in such a manner
    That the baby can’t tell if you want to or not.
    Your life needs you to live it.
    Don’t worry about why.
    Decide what.
    Can your life count on you or not?
    What you do in each moment
    Says yes or no to your life in that moment.
  3. 08/23/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 07 — A composite photo combining three images of two different Nuthatches. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 When we live faithfully trusting ourselves
    to what we take to be our life,
    our life becomes increasingly apparent
    in the life we are living.
    We don’t have to know what we are doing.
    We only have to have a good faith commitment
    to putting ourselves
    in accord with the life that is ours to live.
    It’s like this:
    Mountain Goats are suited to mountains,
    and Antelope are suited to grassy plains.
    Plop Mountain Goats and Antelope down
    in the piedmont between mountains and plain,
    and they will figure it out
    without knowing what they are doing.
    We will gravitate to where we belong
    and take the shape our life requires of us
    simply by giving ourselves to the search
    in a “Me? or Not Me?” kind of way.
  4. 08/23/2016 — Mourning Dove 12 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 21, 2016 We owe it to each other
    As a sacred trust
    To remain a steadfast source strength and encouragement
    All the way to the end of our natural life.
    I’ve watched a lot of children eating ice cream.
    I have never seen one get halfway to the end,
    Look at the cone, or bowl,
    Say, “What good is this doing?
    What’s the point in this–or anything?”
    Throw it down in disgust,
    And stalk away in a disgruntled, miserable, slouch.
    Adults need to live their life
    Like children eat ice cream.
    We all are helpmates for one another.
    Robin Williams’ suicide impacted me more
    Than he ever imagined.
    Every suicide leaves its mark.
    We owe each other better
    Than quitting because it is hard
    And makes no sense.
    Ice cream makes no sense,
    And no one asks it to.
    “Do you want some ice cream?”
    “Ice cream! What kind of sense does that make?”
    Demanding that our life make sense,
    Makes about the same kind of sense
    As demanding that ice cream make sense.
    Our place is to live well
    Whether that makes any sense or not.
    It will make all the difference,
    And that needs to be enough.
  5. 08/23/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 22 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 23, 2016
    Carl Jung said, “We are who we always were, and who we will be.”
    The seed, the core, the kernel has been there from the start,
    And will be there all the way, but.
    What Carl Jung did not say,
    But is equally true,
    Is that who we are is different from any way we have been,
    And is who we have yet to be.
    There is always more to us than meets the eye.
    We live our way into our own unfolding, emerging.
    We surprise ourselves.
    Live so as to be amazed
    At who you discover yourself to be.
  6. 08/24/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 24, 2016 We cannot grow up without
    Squaring up to,
    Coming to terms
    And dealing successfully with
    The things we don’t like about our life.
    You might think we would get more help
    With this along the way.
    Did someone say “Help with this”?
    That’s strange,
    I was just thinking about that.
    The Jon Kabat-Zinn videos on You Tube
    Will provide you with all the help you need.
    Watch them all.
    Then watch them all again.
    And put them into practice in your life.
    Nothing can happen to you that you won’t be able
    To face up to and deal with.
    He calls the practice he espouses
    “Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction.”
    A better title would be
    “How To Face Up To And Deal With
    All You Don’t Like About Your Life.”
  7. 08/25/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 20 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 Evolution doesn’t know what it’s doing.
    It doesn’t have a goal in mind.
    “Goals” are our gift to the matrix,
    Along with “beauty” and “justice,”
    And all the values that have been identified
    Over the course of human existence.
    We now find ourselves with 80 +/- years
    In which to explore the experience of being alive–
    “Doing our thing” in light of the best we can imagine,
    With self-transparency and compassion
    Guiding us along the way.
    Small rafts of awareness
    Upon the heaving surface
    Of the wine-dark sea.
    We each have the opportunity
    Of being something that has never been
    And will never be again,
    Of bringing to light what can be brought to light
    Within the time and place of our living.
    It was dark before we came along.
    Why not let our light shine while we can–
    As only we can?
    And not worry about “Why?”
    Or “Where it’s all going”?
  8. 08/25/2016 — Mushroom 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, August 23, 2016 All the instruction for life we need:
    Get in there every day and do your thing–
    The thing that brings you to life,
    The thing that you are most vibrantly alive
    And immersed in the moment as you do it–
    And don’t let anything knock you off doing it.
    See what you can stir to life
    Just by being alive.
  9. 08/26/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 07 Juvenile — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 22, 2016 The only plan
    Is for us to be who we are
    Within the context and circumstances of our life.
    Beyond that,
    It’s all up in the air,
    Falling out in unique and unpredictable configurations,
    With everything moving over to make room
    For something else.
    We have to take it all in,
    Figure it all out,
    Along with how to be who we are
    In the midst of it.
    Sounds like a Hero’s Journey to me.
    All we have to know is who we are
    And how to work that into the life we live
    In response to what is being asked of us
    By the nature and conditions of the way things are.
    What do we need
    To be who we are
    Here and now
    In each situation as it arises?
    That’s the question that is ours to answer.
  10. 08/27/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 25, 2016 Occasionally, we get a mirror shot of who we are
    that wakes us up to a side of us that is real and true,
    and never-before realized and appreciated,
    understood and embraced.
    Fifteen-or-so years ago,
    I was given a faded red board with white lettering
    picked up at a flea market
    by a member of the congregation I was serving
    who knew me well.
    It was a quote from “The Wizard of Oz”:
    “Nobody Gets In To See The Wizard–
    Not Nobody, Not Nohow!”
    A perfect fit.
    No one is more reserved, reticent, private and unavailable
    for public viewing
    than I am.
    It comes from having never been accorded
    a position of security and respect
    by the adults of my childhood,
    I’m sure, but.
    It is definitely who I am and always have been,
    and always will be.
    If you miss stability, security and respect
    in the early developmental phase
    where those things are essential,
    you miss them,
    and, “Nobody Gets In To See The Wizard–
    Not Nobody, Not Nohow!”
  11. 08/27/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 09 Juvenile — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 25, 2016 We want to be the wrong kind of hero.
    Invincible, Indomitable, invulnerable, unshakeable, unsinkable, indestructible, unflappable…
    You know, like that.
    Always on top of things,
    in charge of things,
    knowing what’s what and what to do about it,
    and doing it.
    Compare that to the Suffering Servant of Isaiah:
    “He was despised and we esteemed him not…
    A man of sorrows and acquainted with grief…
    like a root out of dry ground,
    there was nothing to commend him…”
    Other images crowd in–
    The stone the builders rejected,
    A candle flickering in the wind,
    A baby born in a manger,
    An immigrant without papers,
    A refugee with no advocate,
    A homeless mother with a child in her arms…
    You know, like that.
    Vulnerable,
    at risk,
    ambivalent,
    afraid,
    uncertain,
    ..
    Yet, willing to seek the way through the darkness,
    And to step into each situation as it arises,
    Looking and listening for her, for his, best sense
    Of what is happening
    And what needs to be done in response–
    Ready to put herself, himself,
    On the line in the service of a good
    Beyond her, beyond his, own good,
    And, perhaps, beyond her, his, ability
    To explain or understand.
  12. Used in “Fate and Dynasty,” 08/28/2016 —Black-and-white Warbler 2016 17 — And Black-and-white-stripped Caterpillars, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 25, 2016 People generally live out their lives
    with no idea of what they are doing.
    Following orders.
    Doing what they are told.
    At one with the crowd from the barn
    to the pasture,
    back to the barn.
    We do not live in the grip of a vision of mythic proportions.
    We do not know who we are,
    what we are to be about.
    And, we don’t care about knowing.
    We’re just looking for a little action—
    it doesn’t matter what kind of action.
    Just looking to pass a good time.
    Party? Did someone say “Party?”
    We’re always ready to party.
    We always find what we are looking for,
    Which is never what is looking for us.
    We forsake our destiny,
    and settle for our fate,
    and wonder why our life is empty,
    and our eyes are blank.
  13. 08/29/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 24, 2016 We are here to find our life and live it.
    The process includes time spent
    in quiet reflection and realization.
    How much time in your day
    is currently spent
    sitting quietly,
    reflecting on the life you are living
    and the life that is yours to live?
    Reflecting on last night’s dreams
    and what they say about the life you are living,
    and the life that is yours to live?
    Reflecting on what you are doing,
    and what you might be doing differently,
    in addition to,
    or instead of,
    what you are doing?
    Wondering what the life you are living
    has to do with the life that is yours to live?
    Wondering what you would be doing
    if you were doing exclusively what is yours to do?
    How often do you sit quietly,
    reflecting on the questions you need to be asking
    about the life you are living
    and the life that is yours to live?
    How often do you sit quietly?
  14. Used in “Short Talks on the Hero’s Journey” 08/23/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 28, 2016 Carl Jung said, “We are who we always have been,
    and who we will be.” Jim Dollar said, “I had to be who I was
    in order to be who I am,
    and I have to be who I am,
    in order to become who I will be.” Jung and Dollar are both correct. There is continuity through all of the phases and periods of our life.
    A theme runs through every scene, every developmental stage.
    And everything goes into the production of the person we are, and become. As an increasingly older person,
    I think back on the follies,
    mistakes,
    wrong turns
    and poor decisions
    of my youth, and sigh. Here. I. Am. I got me here
    by the only means available at the time: Me.
    I am confident that the same truth applies to you.
    It took being who we were to be who we are. Who we also were
    was working to moderate,
    rein in
    and grow up who we were,
    And kept us from becoming who we might have been.
    That which is constant within us
    Works with what is actual, potential and possible
    To create who we become. The degree to which we consciously cooperate
    With our own becoming
    By mindfully putting ourselves in accord
    With the center, ground, and foundation
    Of our life and being,
    Within the conditions and circumstances
    of the life we are living,
    Constitutes the range and reach
    of the Hero’s Journey.
  15. 08/30/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 29, 2016 We live absentmindedly.
    Distracted by “the 10,000 things.”
    Lost in “the dust of the world.” To be mindful of this
    Is to be ignorant of that.
    We can only see–
    Only hear–
    Only fully attend
    One thing at a time.
    We can never hope to be fully mindful–
    And mindfully keep ourselves grounded
    In what can, and cannot, be.
    To hold everything in our awareness,
    Just as it is,
    And as it is becoming,
    And as it is ceasing to be,
    Is ridiculous.
    There is more to be aware of
    Than can ever be perceived.
    So, we hold that in our awareness,
    And go on with our life.
    We have to live with our limitations in mind,
    Mindlessly living toward mindfulness
    Is the best we can manage.
    Being mindfully aware of how mindless we are,
    And letting it be because it is,
    Is mindfulness.
  16. 08/30/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 10 Silhouette–Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 To be alive is to have a live worth living.
    A life worth living comes from knowing
    what has life for us,
    and what does not,
    and going with the life bearers.
    The things that have life for us
    are the important things,
    the life or death things.
    With them, there is life,
    without them, there is death.
    A soul dies
    when it loses its connection
    with the things that are life for it.
    We kill our soul
    when we withhold from it
    the things that bear life for it.
    What has life for you,
    lights up your soul.
    Why not go where the life is?
  17. 08/31/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 In a perfect world,
    our job would be what we do to pay the bills,
    and our work would be our life–
    what we pay the bills to do.
    In the world as it is,
    our job is often called our work,
    and we do it to pay the bills,
    but the bills we pay buy
    distractions and diversions and addictions
    which we use to take our minds
    off the job/work we have to do
    to pay the bills.
    Life doesn’t fit into the picture.
    Our work is to get life into our life
    by finding what brings us to life
    and fitting our life in around it.
    What brings us to life
    has to be central,
    and we have forgotten what that is.
    We have to be mindfully attuned
    to the search for what is central
    to our life–to our being alive–
    And bring that to life in the life we are living.
    This is called putting ourselves in accord
    with the right order of things.
  18. 09/01/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 24 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 1, 2016 Finding our life and living it–
    Aligning ourselves with it,
    Placing ourselves in accord with it,
    And living in ways that express what is life for us–
    Is the opposite extreme
    From what the culture encourages us to do,
    Which is to know what we want
    And to devise a step-by-step plan,
    Along with a timetable
    And a check list,
    For achieving it.
    Living soulfully is as counter-cultural
    And revolutionary
    As it is possible to be.
    Which means we are as on our own
    As it is possible to be.
    Not only is the culture no help,
    But, it also is set up to oppose us
    Throughout the process.
    People who think for themselves
    And listen to their heart’s guidance
    Are a threat to the economic structure
    And the political framework
    So supportive of capitalistic aims and assumptions.
    Individuals are impossible to herd
    And are a threat to the status quo on every level.
    Our work is,
    As they say,
    Cut out for us.
    Begin by sitting quietly for 20 – 30 minutes
    Once or twice a day,
    And being mindfully aware of all
    That arises in the silence.
    Let this be your practice
    For six months.
    Your life will change.
  19. 09/02/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 Some things don’t need to be fixed.
    Some solutions are worse than the problem.
    Having to have everything “just so,”
    can be “the fly in the ointment.”
    We have to know when to stop,
    and when to go.
    No book can tell us the important things.
    Sitting quietly with the problem,
    waiting to see it in its allness,
    can open doors
    we didn’t know were there—
    and can mark the doors
    that need to remain closed.
  20. 09/02/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 26 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 1, 2016 Sitting quietly,
    contemplating the things that arise in the silence,
    welcoming everything
    and honoring it with our attention,
    positions us to perceive
    perception and interpretation,
    evaluation, judgment, opinion and reaction,
    as other things that arises in the silence–
    to be welcomed and honored
    along with,
    and equal to,
    everything else.
    So that it is just us seeing things as they are–
    and seeing what to do about them,
    in response to them,
    as something else
    that arises from the silence,
    and leads us to enter the field of action
    to do what needs to be done.
    Appropriate action is the result
    of appropriate inaction.
  21. 09/03/2016 — Waiting for Godot — Brown-headed Nuthatch and Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 — A composite photograph blending two images into one Everything enjoys the freedom to become exactly what it is,
    within the terms and conditions,
    context and circumstances,
    of its life.
    Can you think of anything
    that consistently becomes less than it can be
    other than human beings?
    Everything I know of
    lives to match its potential with its reality.
    Nothing I know of
    quits before it realizes itself as completely as it is able.
    Except human beings.
    Human beings sell their birthright
    for what appears to them to be
    smooth and easy,
    warm and dry.
    Everything else is struggling for its full expression.
    Human beings are neglecting their calling,
    ignoring their gifts,
    doing as they are told.
    “Dead fish float with the current,
    live ones swim against the stream.”
  22. 09/03/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 20 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 The only motivation for seeking our life and living it
    is hitting some wall
    and realizing “This isn’t it.”
    Our life as it is has to stop working.
    Signs that it has stopped working appear
    long before the realization.
    Signs come to us as symptoms.
    Addiction, depression, physical ailments, inappropriate behavior, etc.,
    stand before us as mirrors
    showing us ourselves wrapped in denial, distraction, diversion,
    with blinders on,
    refusing to see, hear and understand
    what’s what and what we are being asked to do about it.
    The path from this point is clear
    and painful.
    Carl Jung said, “There is no coming to consciousness without pain.”
    The most painful thing is facing ourselves,
    what we have done and failed to do,
    and living from this point on
    transparent to ourselves.
    No kidding ourselves without knowing we are kidding ourselves.
    This is what makes sitting quietly so difficult.
    Flashes of who we are keep emerging from the silence.
    We are forced to take stock,
    and make amends–
    to ourselves and to all the others.
    It would be easier to go back to the bottle,
    or wherever we were hiding.
    The path to finding our life and living it is a bear,
    eating us for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
    Our motivation waivers.
    We think “Maybe not. Maybe later. Maybe some other time.”
    This is the turning point.
    Everything rides on our summonsing our courage
    to “rise and grind.”
    To do so is to continue sitting quietly,
    doing our inner work (Robert Johnson has a book with this title),
    working with our dreams
    (Anthony Stevens has a book on dreams, Private Myths: Dreams and Dreaming.
    A Jungian analyst would be great if we can find one.
    As we start on the path,
    help will come from surprising sources,
    and we will be most surprised to discover
    that it has become fun
    and we have come back to life–
    our life, the one that has been waiting all this time
    for us to live it.
  23. 09/04/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 3, 2016—A composite photograph blending five images into one. The right thing to do in a situation
    is not always the thing we want to do,
    feel like doing,
    or even are sure of it being the thing
    that most needs to be done.
    There are 10,000 excuses for not doing it.
    The Cyclops stands before us
    in every situation, grinning.
    There must be at least 10,000 variations
    of the Cyclops,
    but the one thing they all have in common
    is that they represent something
    we most certainly do not want to do.
  24. 09/05/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 4, 2016 Greed, Fear, Wrath and Hatred
    are the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse,
    and the Four Chord Opera
    sung by everyone who
    wants what they cannot have,
    don’t want what they can have,
    and won’t square up to
    how things are,
    and look for a way to do
    what can be done
    with what they have to work with
    in the time and place
    of their living.
  25. 09/06/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 27 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 4, 2016 Look around you.
    Everything you see that was made by human beings
    originated in someone’s imagination.
    Our imagination comes alive–
    for better and for worse–
    in the stillness of utter silence.
    Never mind that “utter silence” is impossible to come by.
    Quiet enough is all it takes.
    And we have to be able to separate
    the better from the worse.
    We can imagine things that will sink the boat.
    Any boat.
    If we act on them as though they are real. There are other things.
    And if we don’t act on them as though they are real
    The boat sinks as well.
    The realest things are imaginary.
    And the frightfully deadly illusions
    are also imaginary.
    We have to know which is which.
    Turning our backs on the one,
    And living in light of the other.
    It’s the Hero’s Journey,
    remember.
  26. 09/07/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 30, 2016 We get to choose our pain.
    We don’t get to avoid it.
    The choice we make, tells the tale.
    Choosing our pain
    is at the heart of every turning point
    in our life.
    At each one,
    we decide again
    between doing what is hard,
    or doing it the hard way.
    What guides us in those moments?
    Do we rise to the occasion,
    or turn away–
    run away–
    from the burden of the moment,
    and spend our time
    between then and the next such moment
    hiding, denying, trying to forget,
    that one?
    The nature of the pain we bear
    is the determining factor
    in deciding the quality of our life.
    It says who we are
    more clearly
    than anything else we do.
    Never is it more crucial
    that we choose wisely
    and consciously
    the way that stands before us,
  27. 09/08/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 7, 2016 We are here to serve our gift
    without seeking to exploit it
    to our personal gain or advantage.
    We are not here for what we can get out of it,
    but for what we can bring to life within it.
    We are here to be alive
    by being who we are
    and bringing forth what we have to give
    in each situation as it arises.
    Who we are
    is what we have to offer
    the time and place of our living.
    Finding our life
    and living it,
    is finding our gift
    and giving it.
    And if there are no takers?
    We come alive in the giving,
    not in the reception of the gift.
  28. 09/08/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 21 — This is the chunkiest hummingbird I’ve ever seen. I thought it was a young sparrow doing a poor hummingbird imitation before it perched. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 7, 2016 San Francisco 49ers QB Colin Kaepernick doesn’t understand
    that the National Anthem and the Stars and Stripes,
    are not the Republic for which they stand.
    The Republic is an idea–
    the grandest idea of all time–
    an ideal,
    which is always, and forever will be,
    leagues out in front of its realization
    in time and space.
    It is an idea that is always being
    approximated and never achieved.
    The reality is always being
    improved and perfected
    in light of the ideas upon which it is based.
    Equality comes,
    over time,
    to apply to women as well as the men
    who are “created equal.”
    And it comes to mean the right of gay people to marry,
    and the right of Transgender people
    to the gender they seem to themselves to be.
    And it surely means as well,
    the right of black people to live out their lives
    free from the racist bigotry of white supremacists–
    whether they be police officers
    or fellow citizens.
    And it means that Muslims are to be free
    from the religious persecution
    that led our forebears to establish
    the separation of church and state,
    and to look upon “freedom of religion”
    as “freedom from religion,” as well as
    “freedom to practice religion,”
    as each feels led to do.
    And it means that immigrants
    and Naturalized Citizens
    enjoy the protections
    that are the right of all people
    who inhabit this land.
    There is much to be done
    to align the Republic with the ideals
    that are its potential,
    and the people have to hold
    those who would be their leaders accountable
    for implementing the democratic standard
    of Liberty And Justice For All
    in every age and epoch
    through all generations.
  29. 09/09/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 7, 2016 Throughout my 40.5 years in the ministry,
    I was paid to talk to people about God.
    And they didn’t want me to say
    anything they hadn’t already heard.
    Which is strange,
    given the fact that Jesus
    never said anything about God
    that had already been said.
    “You have heard it said,” he said,
    “but I say unto you…”
    Jesus ate with outcasts,
    touched the untouchables,
    hobnobbed with “sinners and tax-collectors,”
    told his disciples to follow him,
    and said, “When I’m gone,
    I want you to do it better than I ever did it”
    (Or words to that effect).
    That leaves us with pushing beyond
    where anyone has ever been
    with their thinking about God and godliness.
    One-upping Jesus
    Is no walk in the park.
  30. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, aka, Growing Up, 09/10/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 23 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 8, 2016 Neither the Universe
    Nor the Hero’s Journey
    Are anything to fear.
    We have all the necessary tools and gifts
    at our disposal,
    waiting for the situation to arise
    that calls them forth
    and actualizes them
    as sources of wonder and grace
    in the time and place of our living.
    We have no idea where life
    comes from,
    or where it goes,
    or if it goes anywhere.
    Not one of all the atoms
    which make us up
    is alive.
    Cosmic dust is just dust.
    How does life get into the mix?
    One. Knows.
    And it is readily apparent
    that every living thing
    comes into this world
    knowing its business
    and how to do it.
    Everything from Humpback Whales,
    to Garden Spiders,
    to Long Leaf Pine Trees,
    to Ruby-throated Hummingbirds
    comes with a psychic blueprint
    embedded in its cellular DNA
    lying latent and waiting to be realized
    at the right time and place
    to the astonishment of onlookers
    and the individual involved alike.
  31. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, 09/12/2016 — Birds on a Limb 2016 01 Silhouette — Mourning Doves, a composite image combining five poses of the same bird, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 11, 2016 Religion calls its theories “doctrines,”
    and presents them as factual truth,
    which have to be “taken on faith.”
    That should be enough to turn all thinking people away,
    but,
    religion also tells us
    that if we believe its theories
    (that is, take them on faith),
    we will be accorded heaven’s everlasting glories when we die
    (another theory),
    and if we don’t,
    we will be punished with hell’s eternal agonies
    (another theory).
    And, then there is the one about
    blessings and merit being bestowed on believers
    both in this life and in the life to come.
    It all adds up to
    “What do you have to lose?”
    But, “What do you have to lose?”
    is not the same thing as a vision of mythic proportions
    propelling us into the service and expression
    of the life that is ours to live.
    Theories/doctrines are not necessary–
    and are profound impediments–
    to the experience of being gripped
    by an encounter with the Numen
    and claimed by a will not our own.
    This is the out-breaking of the genetic imprint
    of who we are to be
    encoded in our DNA,
    and waiting for the right conjunction of time and circumstance
    to wake up and call us forth to embrace our destiny.
    If you are going to adopt a theory,
    adopt this one.
    And explore its possibilities for your life
    like Luke Skywalker finding his way
    to Jedi knighthood.
    No heaven, no hell, just your life
    needing you to live it.
  32. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, and in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 09/12/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 10, 2016 The Psyche is divided at the core.
    Ambivalence and contradiction reside
    at the level of our heart and soul.
    We want contrary things–
    what we want, and what we ought not want,
    and what we ought to want.
    Each of us is a split personality,
    with the mission of reconciling the opposites,
    integrating the polarities,
    and exhibiting oneness, wholeness and completion
    throughout our life.
    This is the work of the Hero’s Journey,
    undertaken with mindful, compassionate, awareness,
    and the capacity to simply be with whatever is–
    without being taken over by it,
    but waiting for the right action to arise
    “in the fullness of time,”
    out of “the middle way,”
    of transcendence and harmony.
    In the meantime,
    we bear consciously the agony–the agone–
    of being afraid when we have nothing to fear,
    of having to have when there is nothing we need,
    of wanting to hide when we only need to face what is before us…
    The psychic path encoded in our DNA
    calls for us to make conscious the irrational forces
    at work within,
    in the service of the inner evolution of the species.
  33. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, 09/13/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 8, 2016 There are Psychic expectations/assumptions
    encoded in our DNA
    that are commensurate with
    our idea of the developmental stages
    of the maturation process.
    The Hero’s Journey is about
    growing up.
    Growing up is about waking up,
    and getting up,
    and stepping into the midst of the things
    we most do not want to do
    and doing there what needs to be done
    in realizing/serving/expressing
    the Psychic expectations/assumptions
    that lie at the heart
    of every individual
    of the species.
    We live to actualize latent potential–
    to incarnate the Psychic possibilities
    we carry within–
    bringing them forth,
    making them real–
    within the concrete situations
    of everyday life.
    This is the Hero’s Journey
    that awaits us all.
  34. Used in Short Talks On The Hero’s Journey, 09/03/2016 —White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 08, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 8, 2016 The Buddha said, “There is a lot that we cannot do anything about.”
    Or, words to that effect.
    We are inundated,
    besieged,
    hemmed in
    and battered by
    all of the things we cannot do anything about
    everyday from all sides. None of that can keep us from
    being who we are
    on the heaving waves
    of the wine dark sea
    of things we cannot do anything about.
    We can meet it head on as who we are.
    Jesus said, “Be who the situation needs you to be,
    and don’t worry about the outcome!”
    Or, words to that effect.
    If you can find better advice,
    take it!
  35. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 09/14/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 31, Juvenile — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 13, 2016 Everyone has a right to expect
    police and law enforcement personnel
    to be dedicated to the service
    of peace and justice on all levels,
    all the time.
    We only have to look no further
    than the oaths of office the officers take
    to be justified in our expectation.
    promising to “protect and defend the Constitution
    and laws of the United States”
    and the particular state in which they serve–
    which include protecting and defending
    “liberty and justice for all.”
    We have every right to expect
    the police to police themselves,
    and for law enforcement personnel
    to honor and abide by the laws they have sworn
    to uphold.
    What’s the problem with you
    expecting–and depending upon–me
    to do what I promise you I will do?
    Who enforces the enforcers?
    Why the breakdown?
    We only need to be who we say
    we are going to be.
    Why lie about that?
  36. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 09/14/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 17 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 13, 2016 Black Lives Matter exists as a movement
    because black lives don’t matter
    in the culture and society.
    Donald Trump’s ascendancy to this close to the throne
    has exposed the racist, bigoted, hate-filled hearts and spirits
    of much-too-large-of-a-percentage
    of the US population.
    All Lives Matter and Blue Lives Matter exist to detract
    attention from the truth
    of the need to emphasize
    that Black Lives Do Indeed Matter,
    so that business might go on as usual
    with racism ruling the day everyday.
    Trump’s unrelenting effort to normalize and legitimize
    racism and white supremacy
    is a blatant, arrogant, attack on the foundation of democracy,
    where all people are seen as equal,
    worthy of respect
    and treated with honor,
    by virtue of their citizenship in the Republic
    that is “of the people, by the people and for the people.”
    We stand together with all of our fellow citizens
    in a “one for all and all for one” kind of way.
    Black lives have to matter–
    and Hispanic lives,
    and Muslim lives–
    as much as any life matters.
    Until that is the case,
    the country fails to be who it says it is.
    And that lack of integrity
    is the ground of all our woes.
  37. 09/15/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 9, 2016 We have to do the work.
    We hate work.
    We love smooth and easy.
    We love talking,
    discussing,
    listening to lectures,
    making sure we understand,
    believing,
    Bible studies
    (How many Bible studies will it take
    before we can say, “Okay. I got it. Now what?”).
    The Bible talks about the absurdity
    of believing without doing anything about it,
    without doing the work.
    “Anybody can believe,” says the Bible,
    “But only those who hear these words
    and DO them
    have what it takes to make the journey.”
    That would be the Hero’s Journey.
    The one we are all called to take up
    and complete–
    facing down our demons,
    dealing with the dragons
    guarding the treasure,
    integrating our opposites,
    living transparent to ourselves,
    becoming who we are built to be… We stay too busy to be anything other than busy
    thinking and believing and understanding
    and getting it all down
    so we can past the test on Judgment Day.
    Studying for the test,
    we fail the test,
    which is how well we live our life–
    the life that is ours to live–
    and be who we are
    in each situation as it arises
    every day.
  38. 09/16/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 01 — Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 The psychological expectations
    embedded in our DNA
    have to compete with expectations
    on every level–
    personal, familial, social, cultural, etc.–
    for our time, attention
    and willful cooperation.
    We can be stuck in any
    state of development,
    lost forever to the path
    that bears our name.
    Our life is the haystack
    and we are the needle.
    It is our calling
    to find our calling–
    to discover who we are
    and do what is ours to do–
    in the time left for living.
    Hints and guides are everywhere.
    Help is near at hand.
    What we seek
    is well within our reach,
    yet it exceeds our grasp,
    because we don’t know
    what we are looking for,
    and think it must have to do
    with our dreams
    of fortune and glory,
    else what’s a destiny for?
  39. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, 09/17/2016 — House Finch 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 13, 2016 We give up this to get that.
    The art of the trade-off
    is the foundation of life.
    Everything comes down to,
    and revolves around,
    “Negotiation and compromise, Kid,
    negotiation and compromise.”
    We are raging opposites at the core,
    ambivalent and torn among attractive options
    at every turn.
    The degree to which we recognize,
    integrate, reconcile or transcend
    our conflicts and polarities–
    or simply bear consciously the tension
    of our contradictions–
    is the determining factor
    in the creation of our maturation, wisdom and grace.
    I have reached the place in my life
    of being generally contented with where I am.
    I don’t have to be somewhere else,
    doing something else.
    I am fine with being here, now, most of the time.
    The downside of contentment—
    or, the flip-side, we might say—
    is complacency and a pronounced lack of incentive. Inertia.
    Lethargy.
    Indolence.
    Sloth.
    Indifference.
    I am disinclined to do anything
    out of my preferred order of the day
    any day.
    It is in recognizing and wrestling with
    our opposites
    that we clarify our values,
    identify what is important,
    know who we are
    and where our foundation stone lies,
    and live centered and grounded
    in what truly matters.
    Knowing who we are
    is knowing who we also are—
    and what that means
    for how we live our life.
  40. 09/17/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 04 == Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 I get out ahead of myself
    from time to time. All the time.
    It is what I do best.
    Or among a clamoring hoard of things not to do
    that I do equally well.
    I’m here, now, wondering what to do
    about the photographs of fall.
    And then, there is the chronic anxiety
    about what’s going to happen
    and how will I ever handle it.
    You know what I mean.
    All the lines I could be standing in
    as I wait, wait, wait
    for the next shoe to fall.
    How many shoes are there?
    Always another,
    stacked up for eternities
    waiting there turn
    at me waiting.
    I wake up to that,
    and reel myself in,
    remembering the only real question:
    “What now?”
    “What needs to be done now?”
    “Nothing?”
    “Then do that.
    It is what you really do best.”
    And, I ease back into remembering my breath,
    and the moment of my breathing.
    Seeing it for what it is,
    and letting it be,
    glad that nothing is being asked of me
    here and now,
    and confident that I will rise to the occasion,
    then and there,
    when I have to do something
    that needs me to do it.
    But not rushing to imagine
    what that might be
    and prepare ahead of time
    for an event
    that isn’t actually coming my way.
  41. 09/18/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 17 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 15, 2017 We are limited,
    restricted,
    by our options
    and our choices.
    We don’t get to choose our choices,
    and that’s the bump
    that ruins the ride.
    We have to work
    with the options we have to work with.
    How many of them, really,
    will take us where we want to go?
    We don’t get to bail out
    of this life with these choices
    into some other,
    bigger, finer, better life
    with better choices.
    Coming to terms with our options,
    and making the best choices possible
    among those that are available to us,
    is the heart of the Hero’s Journey.
  42. 09/18/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 16 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 3, 2016 It’s easy to lose our focus–
    to forget who we are and what we are about–
    to think being who we are
    doing what we are about
    is natural,
    and we don’t have to think about,
    or even keep our eyes open.
    Or to think that who we are doesn’t matter,
    and what we are about isn’t important–
    and blow both off
    as absurd considerations
    that have no significance for our life.
    We have to believe in ourselves
    and our art, our gift, our genius, our specialty.
    We have to keep faith with ourselves–
    to live in good faith with ourselves–
    and do what is ours to do.
    Everything depends on it.
    That is our focus
    and our life.
    We cannot look away
    without drifting off track,
    and waking up in the Wasteland,
    wondering what happened
    and what to do about it.
    Remember the focus.
    Do the work.
    Matter. What.
  43. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 09/19/2016 — Bird on a Wire 2016 01 — Immature Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 12, 2016 Rumi said, “If you are not here with us in good faith,
    you are doing terrible damage.”
    When we live like we want to,
    not caring how our life impacts
    the lives of others,
    we do terrible damage.
    When we refuse to grow up,
    become transparent to ourselves,
    see what we are doing,
    and leaving undone–
    by refusing to do,
    failing to do,
    neglecting to do–
    we are doing terrible damage.
    We have to grow ourselves up.
    Take responsibility for ourselves–
    for our own becoming–
    for our own work to be who we
    are capable of being,
    who our life needs us to be.
    No one can do this for us.
    We have to do it for ourselves,
    on our own.
    When we fail to do it,
    we are doing terrible damage.
    The mess that is the country
    and the world
    is the direct result
    our refusal to grow up
    as individuals,
    as a nation,
    as a world.
    We are doing terrible damage.
    We begin righting the wrongs
    that are being done
    and have been done
    by living in good faith
    with ourselves
    and one another.
    The simple steps
    are the most difficult
    and the most essential.
  44. 09/19/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 12 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 12, 2016 We have to catch ourselves in the act
    of thinking in terms of Good and Evil (or Bad),
    and stop it.
    There is no Good
    that is not Evil from some perspective,
    and no Evil
    that is not Good from some perspective
    (Everything Hitler ever did
    was Good from Hitler’s point of view).
    Thinking Good and Evil (or Bad)
    keeps us from seeing things simply as they are:
    good and evil,
    good and bad,
    a mixture held in solution
    that will not settle out
    into beautiful, mutually exclusive, absolutes We expose the fact of the relative nature
    of Good and Evil (Bad)
    with statements like
    “You can’t make an omelet without breaking eggs.”
    “We had to destroy the village in order to save it.”
    “Collateral damage is the price we have to pay to win the war.”
    Yet, we continue to think, act, and live
    out of the deluded, and self-enhancing, perspective
    that We are Good and They are Evil.
    The alternative is living in good faith
    with ourselves and all others,
    mindfully, compassionately, aware of each situation
    as it arises,
    seeing what is happening and what needs to happen.
    Taking everything into account,
    and responding to the moment
    in ways that are appropriate and fitting to the occasion—
    striving neither to serve the Good
    nor to defeat/destroy the Evil (Bad),
    but to do what is right here and now in this time and place,
    regardless of its implications for us and our desires.
    To live like this
    is to be grounded in the beauty of the statement,
    “Thy will, not mine, be done”—
    with the “Thy” in that sentence
    being the good of the situation as a whole
    in every situation
    as long as there are situations.
  45. 09/20/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 03 — Nursery Photos, Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 What is the ground of your authority?
    Where do you look for direction, permission, assurance, foundation?
    Your life is centered on whose idea of how your life should be lived?
    Who sets your limits and defines your boundaries?
    Who prescribes for you who you are to be,
    and who you are to not be?
    Do you know what is good for you
    and what is bad?
    What is right for you
    and what is wrong?
    What is life for you
    and what is death to your soul?
    How do you know these things?
    Who tells you so?
    And not so?
    Whom do you consult
    to know if something is good for you or bad–
    right for you or wrong–
    life for you or death for your soul?
    What is the ground of your authority
    to determine how your life is to be lived,
    and not lived?
    Who says what is so
    and not so
    about you?
    What is to be so
    and not so
    about your life?
    Who says so?
    Not so?
  46. 09/20/2016 — Yellow-breasted Chat 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 9, 2016 If I don’t do anything more for you
    than convince you that you are not alone
    when you feel most alone
    and lost,
    without hope or purpose,
    direction or incentive,
    I will have done all you need to have done
    to give you all you need
    to find what you need
    to find your way out of the wasteland
    back to the path that is your life–
    the one that is yours yet to be lived.
    Carl Jung said, “There is within each of us
    another whom we do not know.”
    Several others actually,
    all with something to offer
    in the work to discover and express who we are.
    We have to know that,
    and know how to enter the deep communion
    with the wealth of resources we have within
    in order to orient ourselves
    and begin the adventure that waits to be lived.
  47. 09/20/2016 —
    Jesus was fond of saying, “Those with ears, let them hear!”
    This was like saying, “Listen to me!”
    Or, “Hear what I’m saying to you!”
    The Buddha “said” the same thing
    when he held up the Lotus flower
    and Mahakasyapa smiled, then laughed.
    In every group, there is the possibility
    that some will hear.
    When we speak,
    we are looking for those who can hear
    what we have to say.
    When we speak,
    we are, at that moment, a Lotus flower,
    and are looking for those who smile.
    If there are none who smile,
    we simply move on and keep talking,
    looking for those who can hear
    what we have to say.
  48. Used in Short Talks On Good And Bad Religion, 09/21/2016 — Veins 2016 04 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 We have to form our own religion
    in order to save ourselves from both
    religion and the culture–
    which would separate us from ourselves
    and our own authority for our life,
    strip us of our own life
    and make us subservient to their idea
    of our life for us.
    Good religion is the Psyche’s defense
    against the mindless fanaticism of bad religion.
    Rational reflection and moral exhortation
    can do nothing to save us,
    that is, restore us to ends worthy of us.
    Belief not grounded on the inner experience
    of the Numen
    disappears as soon as we begin reflecting on it.
    But, by reflecting on the symbols of bad religion,
    we redeem and reclaim them
    through the acquisition of new realizations and awareness.
    We always must know more than we can understand.
    When understanding supplants knowledge,
    as, for instance, in the creeds, doctrines and dogmas
    of bad religion,
    we are left with the appearance of religion
    without the substance.
    The path to the Land of Promise
    must be trod by individuals up to the task
    in each generation.
    No one can hand us an experience of the Numen.
    We open ourselves to that experience
    even as we place ourselves in its service,
    seeking what we do not know
    amid the ruins of mythological metaphors,
    in order to establish ourselves firmly
    upon the foundation of our life and being,
    and know what those who know have always known:
    More than can be asked or said, explained or understood.
  49. 09/21/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 02 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Growing up is doing what you don’t want to do
    when it needs to be done
    the way it needs to be done,
    so that no one knows you didn’t want to do it.
    Jesus called this not letting your right hand
    know what your left hand is doing.
    Jesus’ entire existence was about growing up.
    Gethsemane and Golgotha were about growing up.
    When Jesus said, “If you want to be my disciple
    don’t worry about believing any of the doctrines and creeds
    that will come along.
    Just pick up your cross every day and grow up.”
    Or, words to that effect.
    Growing up is carrying the cross we are asked to carry
    in each situation as it arises,
    as though it were the thing we most want to do.
    Never mind that it is like dying,
    that it would be easier to die.
    Growing up is about dying.
    The cross is about dying.
    The two things are one.
    There is no growing up without bearing our cross.
    There is no bearing our cross without growing up.
    Here’s the gold at the bottom of the septic tank:
    There is no life without growing up and bearing our crosses.
    No empty tomb without Golgotha.
    Growing up, bearing our crosses,
    are the threshold to life–
    to being fully alive.
    There is no living without dying
    to wanting to have life the way we want life to be.
    Growing up is saying yes to life as it is,
    and doing what needs to be done
    in each situation as it arises.
    And that opens the door to life on a different level
    than we have ever lived.
    Every situation presents us with what needs to be done
    about what is before us.
    Every situation is a mini Gethsemane, Golgotha.
    A cross waiting for us to pick it up,
    and grow up,
    by doing what is being asked of us
    the way it needs to be done.
    And we are the ones who decide what that is.
    And do it.
  50. 09/22/2016 — Waiting for Godot 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 12, 2016 Take the phrase, “Thy will be done,”
    and the phrase, “May God’s will be done,”
    and let them refer to the same entity,
    so that “Thy” and “God” are the same.
    Now, tell me who decides what God’s will is?
    Who decides what needs to be done?
    How do you know what to do?
    How do you determine what is to be done
    in any situation that may arise?
    What guides your actions?
    Your choices?
    Your decisions?
    Who decides what God’s will is?
    Whose will is being done?
    Who is the authority who says,
    “This, not that, is God’s will”?
    Are you going to tell me the Bible?
    Who decides what the Bible means by what it says?
    Who interprets the Bible?
    Are you going to tell me the traditional understanding
    of the Bible stands forever as the official
    determinant of God’s will?
    Remember when drinking alcohol was against God’s will?
    As was allowing women to speak in church
    (Never mind that women always taught Sunday School)?
    And treating black people as human beings?
    And recognizing gay people as equal to straight people
    in every way?
    Remember when drowning witches was God’s will?
    And locking away the handicapped and mentally ill?
    How is it that traditional understanding of God’s will
    could be so blatantly wrong
    through all the years it has held sway?
    Why continue to think that
    “What the Bible says is what the Bible has always said,”
    when that is so clearly not so?
    The Bible is obviously no reliable rule “to faith and practice”!
    What is?
    What tells us when the Bible is wrong and when it is right?
    How do we know?
    How do we decide?
    Who says what the Bible says is so and not so?
    What God’s will is and is not?
    How do you decide what needs to be done
    and what to do about it?
  51. 09/22/2016 — Bird on a Wire 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 19, 2016 Jesus said (Luke 12:57), “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right?”
    That’s putting the burden exactly where it belongs.
    We look to church, society, and culture to tell us what to do.
    We do not want the responsibility of deciding for ourselves.
    Deciding when to go to the toilet
    is the only decision we want to make on our own.
    Beyond that, we want somebody, anybody,
    who speaks with a tone of authority and certitude,
    to tell us what to do.
    We crave, in the words of Carl Jung,
    “That gentle and painless slipping back into the kingdom
    of childhood, into the paradise of parental care,
    into happy-go-luckiness, and irresponsibility,
    where all thinking and looking after are done from the top;
    to all questions there is an answer;
    and for all needs the necessary provision is made.”
    Deciding for ourselves what is right
    does not fit into our plans.
  52. 09/23/2016 — Northern Yellow-banded Flicker 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 17, 2016 How do you know what to do, when to do it, how to do it?
    What leads you to do what you do?
    What guides you in doing what you do?
    What do you take into account
    in determining what is to be done?
    What directs your boat
    on its path through the sea?
    Through “the heaving waves
    of the wine dark sea”?
    Carl Jung says, “We do not think of
    distrusting our motives
    or of asking ourselves
    how the inner man/woman feels
    about the things we do
    in the outside world.”
    We find our way through the morass of life
    in consultation and collaboration
    with the man, with the woman, within–
    by learning the language of the Psyche,
    and deepening, expanding, enlarging
    our awareness of our instinctive, intuitive, side.
    How long has it been
    since you sat quietly
    and listened
    to what the inner woman, the inner man,
    has to say?
  53. 09/24/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 04 — Nursery Photos, Nursery Photo, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, September 15, 2016 The work to place ourselves
    in accord with the inner woman,
    the inner man,
    and live in ways
    that incarnate, express, exhibit and bring forth
    our center, ground, foundation, core
    within the life we are living,
    is more like play than work.
    We don’t have to try–
    to strive, to struggle, to force, to compel, to conquer, to defeat, to win…
    We only have to open ourselves
    to that about us which is waiting to be enjoyed,
    and enjoy ourselves.
    Our inner woman, man, is waiting
    to dance with us.
    To laugh with us.
    To relish being us with us.
    It is so easy
    a child could do it.
  54. 09/25/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 24 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 8, 2016 Money is for paying the bills
    that enable us to do what is ours to do,
    that allow us to live the life that is ours to live,
    that cover the cost of life in this world
    connected at the level of the heart
    with the other world–
    the inner world of Psychic assumptions and expectations.
    We are to bring forth,
    to make conscious,
    to birth into realization–
    both mentally and actually,
    concretely, physically, practically–
    the Psychic assumptions and expectations
    we carry with us encoded in the DNA
    of every cell of our being.
    Why doesn’t someone tell us this early-on?
    Why do we have to live into our fifties,
    or later,
    before we figure it out on our own–
    if we figure it out at all?
    Why don’t we know what we are doing
    after all these years
    of not getting it done?
  55. 09/25/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker Silhouette 2016 21 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 18, 2016 In order to do right by the moment,
    I have to be in the moment–
    I have to be attentive to the moment,
    alert to the moment,
    aware of the moment–
    I have to be living the moment.
    I cannot be with the moment
    and not with the moment at the same time.
    When I am not with the moment,
    I am with something that is taking me away from the moment,
    asking me to attend something that is not the moment.
    It could be anxiety, fear, anger,
    or the anticipation of another moment,
    or some fragment of a memory,
    or a conversation,
    or just another person’s presence,
    that inserts itself into the moment,
    requiring me to be with something besides the moment.
    It does not take much
    to take me away.
    I assume that’s one reason
    all those old oriental masters
    lived apart,
    or established monasteries
    with their strict Rules of the Day.
    Reducing disruption
    increases focus.
    But, even then,
    we have to be self-aware enough
    to know when our awareness
    has been shanghaied
    and enslaved by some stray thought
    that ransacks fledgling focus
    just for the fun of it–
    and remember to breathe
    our way back to where we are.
  56. 09/26/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 17, 2016 What’s your focus—
    the focus of your life—
    what you mean with your life,
    what you intend by the way you live?
    Or, are you just bumping along,
    looking for a break,
    hoping nothing bad happens?
    What comprises your core,
    your center,
    your ground,
    your foundation?
    What is the essential nature
    of your identity—
    the things about you—
    the things you do—
    that are indisputably, unmistakably, YOU?
    In what ways are you serving
    the central things—
    the things that are integral to who you are—
    with your life?
  57. 09/26/2016 — Two at the Feeder 2016 01 — Red-bellied Woodpecker and Summer Tanager, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 26, 2016 There are psychic assumptions, expectations, intentions
    embedded in the DNA of all living things.
    That is how all living things are guided
    to meet their destiny.
    Live Oaks and Dogwoods
    become Live Oaks and Dogwoods,
    with roots that go down into the soil,
    and limbs and leaves and blooms and branches
    that go up and out into the air.
    Their DNA expects it,
    and expects soil and air to be there in its behalf.
    We are here to serve
    our psychic assumptions, expectations, intentions–
    and to refuse to do so is to create a backlog
    of assumptions, expectations, intentions
    that are running out of time to be realized, expressed, brought forth.
    The developmental stages are set to flower, mature and disappear
    at specific intervals along life’s way,
    and if we stop cooperating at any point,
    it produces problems for all the other points.
    We see it with people who did not have good enough parenting.
    They have a hard time getting caught up.
    Catching up requires us to enter into conscious communion
    with our psyche
    in order to better align ourselves with it,
    and cooperate with its process of our own development.
    This is no more difficult
    than paying attention to our dreams each night.
    Carl Jung held that each night’s dreams
    are a snapshot of how it is with our life at any point.
    As if to say, “This is how it is with you and your life.
    What are you going to do about it?”
    Everything hangs on how we answer the question.
  58. 09/26/2016 — Summer Tanager 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 26, 2016 We cannot allow ourselves the privilege
    of NOT voting
    because one of the candidates
    is obviously unfit for the office of President of the United States
    and incapable of anything remotely approaching
    the vision, wisdom, compassion, values and mindful awareness
    required by the office,
    and “no one in their right mind could possibly vote for him,
    so I don’t have to bother with voting for her.”
    Being “in one’s right mind”
    Is not a prerequisite for voting,
    and the voters Trump speaks for
    and gives voice to,
    will stand in long lines,
    pouring rain,
    and driving snow
    to vote for the man
    who says the things
    that ignite their rage
    and encourage their hate.
    The rest of us have to be so dedicated and determined
    in turning out,
    showing up,
    and voting for the woman.
  59. Used in Short Talks On Contradictions, etc., 09/27/2016 — Cardinal 2016 28 — The molting is over and the colors are bright, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 When we become conscious,
    we become conscious of the allness of the whole,
    and how we might work out the contradictions
    and make peace.
    One of those contradictions
    is between the life we are living
    and the life that is our life to live–
    even now, even yet.
    And, we live to find ways
    to work our life into our life.
    Our dreams help with this.
    Each night, our dreams point
    to a place in our actual life
    where our real life needs to come forth.
    If we keep a written record
    of our dreams over time,
    we see threads and themes
    being played out in our sleep,
    calling us to consciously
    “Attend this!”
    “Attend this!”
    Of course, we have to remember
    that our dreams are metaphors,
    including puns and plays-on-words,
    not to be taken literally.
    Losing your pocketbook
    has nothing to do with your pocketbook,
    but with your identity,
    your values,
    the core and foundation of your life.
    If you dream of losing your pocketbook,
    work to find the your center and ground,
    and live out of it
    in living the life you are living.
  60. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 09/28/2016 — Mushrooms 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Anthony Stevens said that dreams heighten our awareness
    of the total situation–
    making us conscious of how things are
    and how things also are,
    and placing us at the crux,
    at the fulcrum,
    at the point of doing what is ours to do,
    what no one but us can do,
    reconciling the opposites,
    integrating the polarities,
    synthesizing the contradictions,
    harmonizing the discordances
    at work in our life,
    and making peace.
  61. 09/28/2016 — Sleeping Birds 2016 01 — Immature Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Carl Jung coined the word “complex” to refer to
    a cluster of thoughts, images, feelings and memories
    that form around our life experiences.
    Our experience of our mother or father
    form our “Mother Complex,”
    and our “Father Complex.”
    So it is with every life experience we have.
    A complex is the overall idea of the experience
    the cluster of thoughts, etc. create when they come together.
    I know my mother as I experienced her.
    If you had known her,
    you, perhaps, would have known an entirely different woman.
    It may be that I unconsciously project onto other women
    my idea of my mother,
    and, hence, my expectation that they will be like her–
    or, my hope that they might be the antithesis of her,
    and treat me like I wish my mother had treated me.
    My work is to make the cluster of thoughts, etc.,
    that form my idea of my my experience with my mother conscious,
    and to expand them to take into account who else–
    who all–
    my mother was.
    And, to reconcile myself consciously with the impact
    the woman had on me,
    and to be conscious of my tendency
    to carry that impact into my relationship with other women,
    expecting them to be,
    or hoping they will not be,
    who my mother was.
    And, then do that with all of the clusters of thoughts, etc.
    that form around all of the “emotionally hot” ideas
    my experience has generated over the course of my life.
    That should keep me busy, don’t you think?
    And you, too, if you want to get a handle
    on the complexes that run your life.
  62. 09/29/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 23 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Our experience impacts our experience,
    for good or for ill.
    Our past influences, or determines,
    our experience of our present,
    and our response to it.
    We carry with us expectations and anxieties
    fostered by encounters and incidents along life’s way.
    Our life sets us up to expect our life to be
    as it has been.
    The work of consciousness is that
    of being aware of the unconscious assumptions
    that precede us
    and shape the future we step into–
    locking us into the patterns we exhibit,
    and preventing different, perhaps, more appropriate,
    ways of dealing with what we find there.
    The watch words for the journey are:
    Consciousness, consciousness, consciousness!
    Awareness, awareness, awareness!
    Waking up is seeing where we have been
    and what residual effects continue to form our perceptions,
    and dictate our decisions.
    How much time, in a week, say, do you spend reflecting on your experience–
    both past and present–
    in order to form new realizations?
    What do you do specifically intended
    to increase your level of consciousness,
    your degree of awareness,
    the extent to which you are awake
    to what is happening
    and what its antecedents are,
    and what alternatives exist to consider
    in each situation as it arises?
    What program are you following?
    What plan are you implementing?
    You are not just drifting along,
    hoping for the best,
    are you?
  63. 09/29/2016 — Bird on a Wire 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 19, 2016 Our dreams are a selection of metaphors and symbols
    brought together in story form,
    disclosing how in is in our life at the time of the dream
    to those who take the time
    to mine the metaphors and symbols for their meaning.
    Use the methods of free association with each of them in a dream:
    “What comes to mind when you think of _____?”
    Be alert to puns and plays on words.
    Continue the dream upon awakening
    via Active Imagination to see where it might go
    and what else it might have to say.
    Bringing the metaphors and symbols to life
    is to come to life ourselves.
    Anthony Stevens says that by consciously formulating dream images,
    we step into the flow of unconscious images
    and are nourished by the meanings we find there,
    but, we have to dig our own well
    in order to tap into the well-spring of living water.
  64. 09/30/2016 — Face-off at the Feeder 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 28, 2016 We can understand the process
    and familiarize ourselves with all the concepts
    and terminology, but.
    We have to work the program
    and practice the art.
    We have to sit quietly and face what finds us
    in the silence
    on a consistent and regular basis.
    We have to reflect on past and present experience.
    We have to record and meditate on our dreams.
    We have to think about our thinking,
    see ourselves seeing,
    hear ourselves listening,
    observe ourselves in action,
    until we become transparent to ourselves,
    and catch ourselves in the act of kidding ourselves
    every time we do.
    We have to know who we are
    and who we also are,
    what is important,
    what drives us,
    what our ground, center, and foundation are.
    What we mean with our life,
    what guides our boat on its path through the sea.
    Knowledge Not Understanding!
    Should be a bumper sticker.
  65. 10/01/2016 — Cardinal 2016 30 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 28, 2016 Joseph Campbell said that there are two ways of thinking about
    all religions,
    and that each religion may be thought of in both ways at any time.
    There is that which represents “what is permanent and universal in human nature,”
    and that which is unique and peculiar to a particular folk, nation or civilization at a certain place and time in history.
    He said that when the orthodox priest and preachers who emphasize the historic foundations of their religion “talk and write of God, the nations go asunder,”
    but, “When the mystics talk (no matter what the historical ground of their religion is), their words in a profound sense meet–and the nations too.”
    He said further that the historic manifestations of the Numen must shed its historical skin
    so that the names Shiva, Yahweh, Alla, Buddha and Christ
    “lose their historical force and come together as adequate pointers of a way all must go in transcending their time-bound, earth-bound faculties and limitations.”
    (From The Masks of God, Vol. 1, Primitive Mythology)
    And I say, wouldn’t that be something?
  66. 10/01/2016 — A repeat from June 2013 — Carolina Wren 2016 23 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 23, 2016 There are three primary steps involved in finding your way to the life that is yours to live, the work that is yours to do:
    1) You have to be transparent to yourself.
    2) You have to bring out your contradictions and polarities, make them apparent, experience them fully and bear the pain of integration and synthesis.
    3) You have to get out of the way.
    Being transparent to yourself is not kidding yourself, not playing games with yourself, seeing how you are and how you also are, and not trying to be better or different than you are and also are. You have to see you with compassionate eyes. This will show you some contradictions and polarities.
    You have to be thoroughly aware of your contradictions and polarities, your paradoxes and ambivalence—without rushing to resolve them, disappear them, deny/ignore them and get them out of the way. You are here to make your contraries conscious—and to bear the pain of that transaction. This is the key to growing up, awareness, enlightenment, realization, nirvana… The right kind of pain is the path to peace.
    You don’t want to pay the price of peace. You want to save yourself. You have to save yourself by not trying to save yourself—by not saving yourself. You have to get out of the way with your incessant search for solutions, and answers, and recipes, and happiness ever after. You have to not know what to do and be awash in anguish while you wait on the shift in perspective that perceives the opening.
    When the door opens, walk through. Until it opens, wait in the darkness you are sure will never end for the light you are sure is never coming. And. Get. Out. Of. The. Way.
  67. 10/02/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 25, 2016 We live to get who we are
    together with the context and circumstances
    of our life.
    We live to thrive no matter what.
    We do that,
    not by imposing our will
    on the time and place of our living,
    but by seeing, hearing, and understanding
    how what we have to offer
    can be exactly what is needed here and now.
    We are the treasure we seek.
    We have to stop thinking about
    our own wealth and privilege
    and start thinking about
    the privilege of being who we are where we are
    and the value of enjoying the wonder
    of our soul’s resplendent beauty.
  68. 10/02/2016 — Sleeping Bird 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 29, 2016 How is life—
    how is your life—
    how are you
    like a game of solitaire?
    A wilted rose?
    A walk on the beach?
    A cobblestone?
    A hot air balloon?

    Aristotle said, “The best interpreter of dreams
    is the person who can best perceive similarities.”
    And the best maker of symbols.
    When we can see ourselves mirrored
    in the things that lie about us—
    particularly those that are emotionally charged,
    that “stand out” for us—
    we gather clues,
    gain insight,
    form new realizations,
    wake up,
    come to life…
    All for the one low price
    of playful reflection.
  69. 10/02/2016 — Cardinal 2016 33 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 30, 2016 There is resonance and there is dissonance,
    attraction and repulsion,
    positive energy and negative energy.
    And we know if something
    resonates with us,
    attracts us,
    creates a high level of positive energy within us–
    and if it does not.
    Why don’t we trust ourselves to what we know,
    instead of trying to think our way
    toward what has life for us?
  70. 10/03/2016 — Mushrooms 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 27, 2016 Sit quietly, attending everything that comes up in the silence.
    Anyone can sit quietly, mindfully aware of the silence.
    Why doesn’t someone do it?
    Regularly, dependably, consistently, no matter what is going on in his/her life?
    Why don’t you do it?
    The silence is the source of imagery similar to our nighttime dreams.
    If we are swept away in a fantasy occurring in the silence,
    it is the same as a dream.
    Observe everything about it.
    See what happens.
    Meditate reflectively on it as though you would with a dream.
    See what you do in the silence in your mind.
    See what the silence does to you.
    What is your unconscious using the silence to say to you about you?
    About your life?
    About what is happening?
    About what needs to happen?
    Give your unconscious access to you frequently.
    Listen to what you have to say to you.
    Brave the silence,
    armed only with mindful, compassionate, awareness
    for what you find there.
    You will return, over time, to your center–
    to your ground and foundation–
    to yourself.
  71. 10/03/2016 — A repeat from October 2013, Molting Lasts Forever, Sigh 2016 01 — Goldfinch, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 2, 2016 Here’s my idea of 5 rules to live by:
    See what you look at.
    Know what you know.
    Throw away doctrine, theology, creeds and ideology,
    and embrace the truth of beauty in art, music, nature, good company and good food and drink.
    Wake up
    and show up
    for the life that needs you to live it with the gifts that are yours to give–
    whether you feel like it or not, whether you are in the mood for it or not, whether you want to or not, whether it is convenient or not—
    understanding that it is like this:
    You are playing the lead character in a movie about you,
    and the script calls for you to live your life
    by doing what is called for in each scene,
    in each situation that arises.
    If you were an actual actor playing the part of you,
    you wouldn’t get to say,
    “I don’t feel like it today. Maybe tomorrow. Come back in a week.
    Maybe I’ll be ready by then.”
    No, you would play your part,
    to the hilt,
    striving for an Oscar worthy performance.
    So?
    Live your life to the hilt!
    Offering what is called for in each scene,
    regardless of how you feel!
    That was a long one.
    Pick up where we left it with this:
    square up to the way things are and what needs to be done about it,
    and do it in each situation as it arises for as long as there are situations–
    without having to profit from it in any way.
    Bear consciously the pain of your contradictions
    (like the difference between the way things are
    and the way you want things to be)
    without trying to escape it
    (in diversions and distractions)
    or deny it,
    or disappear it by resolving things quickly
    with a solution that solves nothing.
    Suffer the lack of solutions
    and let the problem,
    the conflict,
    become an image for you.
    Work with the image.
    Paint it.
    Write it.
    Sculpt it.
    Draw it.
    Make it into music.
    Dance it.
    Interview it.
    Express it in ways that deepen,
    expand its reality
    and make it real.
    Then wait for the shift to happen.
    When the door opens, walk through.
    If you think that turns out to be more than five,
    think of the overage as lagniappe.
    I’m only charging you for five.
  72. 10/04/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 3, 2016 The life of the Dalai Lama would not be exciting,
    or even entertaining.
    If you followed him around for a week,
    or, heaven forbid, a month,
    you would likely be bored into numbing despair.
    Mother Teresa has been declared a saint.
    You wouldn’t want to live like she did.
    All the holy people you could name
    lived lives you wouldn’t have–
    lived lives that would stall the economy
    if a large portion of the population
    became holy as they were holy.
    Yet, Christians believe they are to
    convert the world
    and make everyone like Jesus.
    That would be the end of the world
    as we know it.
    We are selling a spirituality
    that has nothing to do with the life
    of a spiritually-attuned person.
    It’s all head-stuff that we are hawking.
    We talk theology and doctrines and creeds.
    Being faithful is believing what we are told to believe.
    It has nothing to do with trusting ourselves
    to the life we know is our life to live–
    because we know it and not because someone told us–
    and living it no matter what,
    following our own heart,
    finding our own way,
    and letting the outcome be the outcome.
  73. 10/05/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 11-C Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 When we take the whole situation into account,
    we perceive a different–
    and more fitting,
    more appropriate way of responding to it,
    than if we simply consider it
    from the standpoint of our own
    interests, desires and needs,
    and look at it as something to manipulate
    to our benefit and advantage.
    The wholeness–
    the allness–
    of the situation calls for a response from us
    that we are not normally attuned to.
    Siting, quietly reflecting on the situation
    presents options beyond our own
    narrow fears and desires,
    and points the way to that
    which obviously needs to be done–
    which we would never be aware of
    without opening ourselves
    to the wholeness of the whole.
  74. 10/05/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 54-55 Panorama — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Listen to your life!
    Stop trying to pound how you want things to be
    into place,
    and simply listen to the allness of your life.
    Listen to the whole thing.
    Without interrupting.
    Listen to all your life is saying to you,
    on every level.
    Your life will tell you everything you need to know
    about living the life that needs to be lived
    in the time left for living.
    This is not about what you can do
    to make things go your way.
    It is about what you can do
    to align yourself with what your life needs from you
    in order to be what it yet may be.
    You are not striving to have things the way you like them.
    You are striving to be what your life needs you to be
    in order for your life to be what it is capable of being.
    That might not have anything to do with your idea for your life,
    but, it will be a fitting and wondrous completion
    to the life you have lived to this point–
    and it will likely delight and amaze you in surprising ways.
    It will definitely be worth your time and trouble,
    and you wouldn’t want to miss it.
    So, listen to your life!
  75. 10/05/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 60 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Our work, in part, is to discover our personal myth.
    Our life is lived in the service of that myth.
    It rules our life unconsciously
    until we make it conscious
    and transform it in ways that allow it
    to take all we are and are called to be into account.
    We have to consciously enlarge our personal myth
    to encompass the allness—
    the wholeness—
    of the life that is our life to live,
    and live that life in conscious service to the myth
    that is now worthy of it.
    So, what’s your myth?
    The hidden beliefs and assumptions
    that shape, that form, the life you are living?
    A written record of your dreams over time
    will provide a framework for identifying your myth.
    You may catch a glimpse of it
    by completing this sentence:
    “I am the type of person who…”
    Then, you might live conscious of that statement
    over the next week or so,
    looking for things you do to bear out the truth of it,
    and for things you do that refute it completely.
    Our personal myth has to be made conscious
    in order for us to incarnate the Self at the core of our being.
    The game is on!
  76. 10/06/2016 — Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., Rose-breasted Grosbeak, immature, 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 5, 2016 When we bear our conflicts,
    our contradictions,
    bravely and consciously,
    so that this is the way things are
    and that is the way things also are,
    and they do not cancel each other out,
    even though they are entirely contrary
    and mutually exclusive,
    and one cannot possibly be true
    if the other is true,
    because two people that far apart
    cannot possibly share the same body,
    and being this way
    by definition
    excludes everything even mildly connected with
    being that way,
    yet, here we are, together, like peas in a pod,
    perfectly exemplifying the greater truth
    that contradictory thoughts, feelings, positions, actions
    are complimentary in very essential ways,
    with one supporting the other,
    allowing for the other,
    making room for the other,
    permitting the other to co-exist
    as a separate and inviolable entity
    at-one with its mate,
    its polar-opposite,
    as long as we bear,
    bravely and consciously,
    the tension corresponding to their polar repulsion,
    and enabling one to recognize the other
    in its own heart and soul,
    thus softening itself,
    humanizing itself,
    and growing itself up into the other,
    in spite of the other,
    so that the two become one
    and contrariety and complexity
    become playfully simple
    as children grow up to be childlike
    but are no longer capable of being childish,
    and know out of their experience with themselves
    the wonder of maturity and grace,
    compassion and peace,
    and are able to extend to all
    what they know to be true, and also true, and absolute truth
    by having lived themselves into the apprehension
    of that which cannot be comprehended or explained or understood,
    but which can unmistakably be known
    and must never be denied,
    serving as it does
    as the crucible of our own soul-making,
    of our own becoming,
    and is the foundation and heart
    of our very own self.
  77. 10/07/2016 — Bird on a Wire 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, September 30, 2016 Symptoms are a sign of discord
    between who we are
    and the life we are living.
    Living out of sync with ourselves
    will manifest itself
    in ways ranging from subtle to dramatic.
    Either we will know
    when things are not right
    with us and our life,
    or everyone around us will know,
    and we will be oblivious
    to what is going on.
    The things that need to be addressed
    will show up in our dreams
    and in the silence
    when we sit quietly.
    Regularly stepping out of “the action,”
    to reflect on how things are
    with us and our life—
    and with us and our body—
    will bring out the red flags
    and reveal the places
    we need to make adjustments
    to put ourselves in accord
    with the life that needs us to live it—
    which is the work that is ours to do
    in the time left for living.
  78. 10/08/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 38 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 You know what brings you to life,
    or what once did,
    and you know what takes the life right out of you,
    leaving you empty, depleted, exhausted and soulless.
    Life restores your soul.
    Not-life leaves you soulless.
    We are here to serve our soul,
    and our soul
    “is here for its own joy,”
    said Rumi.
    When we refuse the things
    that bring joy to our soul,
    we are the worst kind of people,
    and our life begins to smell like it over time. There is still time.
    It is our place to devote ourselves
    to the service and care of our soul
    throughout the time left for living.
    This means doing what brings us to life
    and not doing what drains us of life.
    It means doing what is ours to do,
    and not doing what is not ours to do.
    It means doing our work,
    tending our business,
    and refusing to be consumed
    with other matters.
    We have to know where the line lies
    between Us and Not Us,
    and honor the line.
    Why is that so hard?
    Do we not understand what is at stake?
    Do we not care that we are killing our soul?
  79. 10/08/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 07 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, October 6, 2016 I play in the kitchen,
    creating recipes out of the air with what ingredients
    we have on hand.
    I play on the computer
    creating images that make me smile,
    and writing phrases and paragraphs
    that capture ideas that come to life
    as I read and reflect
    and endeavor to explore and express
    pathways between worlds.
    I play with my camera and hammock and hiking boots
    using nature as a springboard into awareness and life.
    I play with books
    and commune with authors inaccessible,
    delighting in avenues of wonder they open up for me
    and invite me to travel.
    In what ways do you play with your life?
    How often?
  80. 10/09/2016 — Rose-breasted Grosbeak 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 5, 2016 Everybody has the potential
    of being the Christ,
    and no one pulls it off
    quite like Jesus did.
    But, don’t let that dissuade you.
    No one will pull it off
    quite like you do, either.
    We all bring our own style to the role,
    and live out the character of the Christ
    the way only we can do it.
    When we are most completely the Christ,
    we are most decidedly ourselves,
    or, our Self,
    as Carl Jung would say.
    We are being whom only we can be
    in ways that also incarnate
    the grace, tenderness, compassion
    and rock-solid authenticity
    of a person grounded in her (his)
    own personal authority–
    who takes it all into account
    and responds to it in ways that
    astound and enlighten everyone,
    including herself (himself).
    Jesus was always surprising himself.
    There was no script.
    He made everything up
    in response to the conditions
    and circumstances of his life
    as they changed moment-to-moment The Christ is not a rigid set of principles,
    no ideological idol,
    no graven image,
    but a fluid, dynamic, matrix of being
    engaged in the continual process
    of bringing itself to life
    in the time and place of its living.
    Anybody can do that
    by taking who they are in one hand
    and where they are in the other,
    and get them together
    in ways that transcend and transform each
    in every moment.
  81. 10/09/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 22 — The 2-acre Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 9, 2016 The work to be conscious of the impact and influence
    of the emotional cluster of memories, images, thoughts and feelings
    attached to significant life experiences–
    usually referred to as “complexes.”
    The father we had
    leans us in a particular direction
    when it comes to dealing with men
    (or being one),
    as does the mother we had
    when it comes to dealing with women
    (or being one).
    We do not do the work
    of consciously placing ourselves in accord
    with the complexes that shape our life
    by thinking about it
    or rationally agreeing
    that our parents (and other meaningful relationships and events)
    continue to affect our life.
    We have to be conscious of the power of their presence
    and see the result that power exerts on our life even now–
    and feel the feelings associated with the realization of their
    continued presence in our life.
    And do it again the next time they insert themselves into our life,
    and the time after that,
    and the time after that…
    We never out-grow having had parents,
    and we place ourselves in accord with that fact
    slowly, over a long stretch of time.
    The Hero’s Journey is not quickly done.
    The hero has to be in it for the long haul.
  82. 10/10/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 42 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2016 We are old enough to think for ourselves,
    to live out of our own authority,
    to be grounded on the foundation
    of our own sense of right and wrong,
    good and bad
    appropriate and inappropriate
    called for and uncalled for
    in each situation as it arises–
    to be guided by our own feel
    for what resonates with us,
    rings true,
    strikes a cord,
    stands out
    over time
    after reflection and review.
    We are old enough to speak for ourselves,
    out of our own experience
    and to evaluate what we say
    in light of our on-going experience,
    making adjustments and corrections
    that take new information into account.
    We have what we need
    to know what we need
    to do what needs us to do it. We do not live as though it is so.
    And that is where our work begins.
  83. 10/10/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 10 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, October 6, 2016 Carl Jung, with an eye on fads, trends, rages and movements, said,
    “Nothing has happened at all unless the individual changes.”
    The newest most dynamic personal transformation guru may
    cast a wide spell, but.
    How different are the people who follow their every word,
    and how long has their differentness lasted?
    I’ve lost count of the latest things in spiritual development
    that have rolled through the times of my life
    like waves on the sea, but
    there have been many.
    Nothing has changed.
    Many of the individuals involved have hopped from one Teacher
    to another,
    “feeling the power,”
    each time,
    without changing ever.
    “Personal transformation movements”
    imply change at the very least–
    measurable change over the course of our life.
    Living in accord with our own inner sense
    of what our life needs us to do,
    and not out of someone else’s recipe
    for how our life ought to be lived
    is the kind of change I would look for.
    So that we become consciously responsible
    for the choices we make and the turns we take,
    instead of closing our eyes
    and hoping for the best.
    Who is guiding my boat on its path through the sea,
    if not me in consultation and collaboration with me?
  84. 10/11/2016 — Moonshine 2016 02 B&W — Indian Land, South Carolina, October 10, 2016 Living in accord with our life–
    with the life that is ours to live–
    with the life that only we can live–
    with the life that is our destiny
    and our soul’s one true joy
    is not automatic.
    We have to think about what we are doing–
    not as in thinking about it,
    but as in reflecting on it,
    being mindfully, compassionately, aware of it,
    seeing, hearing, and understanding
    what is happening
    and what we are being asked to do
    in response to it
    in each situation as it arises,
    in order to bring forth who we are
    then and there
    as the physical incarnation
    of the gifts, art, grace, wonder
    that come with us from the womb
    and lie fallow through all the years
    of waiting for us to wake up,
    tune in and turn on
    to the truth of who we are
    and live it out
    in the time and place of our living.
  85. 10/11/2016 — Northern Yellow-banded Flickr 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 11, 2016 Joseph Campbell said, “The influence of a vital person vitalizes.”
    Carl Jung said much the same with more words:
    “Anyone who has insight into his/her own actions–and has thus found access to the unconscious–involuntarily exercises an influence on his/her environment. The deepening and broadening of his/her consciousness produce the kind of effect which the primitives call ‘mana.’ It is an unintentional influence on the unconscious of others, and its effect lasts only so long as it is not disturbed by conscious intention.”
    We influence change in others by being changed ourselves.
    People are always trying to change other people without changing themselves.
    Parents command children to change without changing one bit in relation to the children.
    Spouses do the same with spouses.
    Bosses with employees.
    The list is long.
    The moral of this story is
    “We work on ourselves. And leave others to work on themselves as they will.”
    The deeper we go into the work,
    the more the work widens, or broadens,
    and it is always as though we have just begun.
    Keeps us from thinking how great we are,
    slacking off,
    and coasting
    while we look for someone to improve.
  86. Reelfoot Lake 2015 05-2 – Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Donald Trump says he will make America great again.
    He says he will bring jobs back.
    He says he will build walls to keep us safe.
    And then he says women can never be safe,
    but we dismiss that as “bad boy talk,”
    and wink, and laugh, and look forward to being great again.
    He says he will send out of the country everyone who is not like we are.
    He doesn’t say exactly who we are.
    He assumes we know he’s talking about us when he says we.
    We do.
    He says it’s fine to bully anyone, everyone, who is not like we are,
    and we know who we are.
    He says hating people who are our enemies–
    who don’t think like we do,
    or believe like we do,
    or dress like we do–
    is not only acceptable but is also essential and explicitly required.
    The right kind of insanity
    can interpose itself upon the masses
    simply by giving voice to their
    resentment, fear, rage, hatred and greed,
    and recasting the reprehensible and appalling
    as good business practice,
    regrettably necessary under the circumstances
    and a small price to pay in order to be great again.
  87. 10/13/2016 — Goldenrod 2016 01 — Lancaster County, South Carolina, October 12, 2016 My personal myth is contained in my personal creed:
    Wake up!
    Grow up!
    Stand up!
    And live your life!
    I began this process,
    which includes the realization of the process,
    and the conscious, mindful, embrace of
    and participation in,
    the process,
    in the Mississippi delta–
    Itta Bena, Inverness, Morehead, Greenwood, Leland…
    then moved lower by moving to Louisiana.
    The eastern and southern portions of Louisiana
    are mostly protected by levy systems
    to keep the water out,
    and are an apt metaphor for the provincialism
    of the entire Ark-La-Miss.
    Growing up is hard to do
    wherever we start,
    and we all have the same thing in common: We don’t get enough variety in our early years.
    Everybody is like we are.
    And, too many of us remain there until we die.
    We build our lives building levies and walls
    to keep the truth out.
    Truth grows us up.
    Or not.
    Too many of us grow older without growing up,
    thinking, “How ’bout Not?!”
    Nothing frustrates truth
    like ignorance and stupidity–
    which have nothing to do
    with the level of our education,
    but have everything to do
    with the quality of our courage,
    curiosity and imagination.
    Our life waits for us to make a pact with it,
    agreeing at long last to
    Wake up!
    Grow up!
    Stand up!
    And live our life!
  88. Used in Short Talks On Conflict, etc. 10/13/2016 — Rountree Orchid 2016 09 — Nursery Photos, Rountree Plantation Greenhouse and Garden Center, Charlotte, NC, October 6, 2016 Add this to the long list of propositions I have submitted to you for your consideration:
    All of our dichotomies are false dichotomies.
    All of our polarities and contradictions are illusions.
    Dichotomies, polarities and contradictions
    do not stand in a posture of mutual exclusion or negation,
    but exist,
    like dance partners, tennis players, and sections in orchestras,
    to complement and compensate each other–
    to deepen, broaden, enlarge, expand and complete the other.
    We each are but parts of the whole,
    and need the others–
    all the others–
    to help us become all that we are capable of being.
    Thou Art That–
    not only in terms of transcendence and divinity,
    but also in terms of finding what is missing about us
    reflected in, and expressed by,
    all the others.
    We find ourselves in our contraries and opposites,
    and they find themselves in us.
    Walt Kelly’s observation that “We have met the enemy,
    and they are us”
    is as valid as any observation ever.
    Knowing how this is so,
    will transform how we think about,
    and treat,
    our opposition on every level.
    Our enemies are not to be hated and killed,
    but seen, heard, understood, known, honored, respected and perceived
    as mirroring for us
    aspects of ourselves
    that we reject, deny, repress and ignore–
    and we, them–
    so that we find in each other
    compensating and complimenting aspects of ourselves,
    and acknowledge the amazing
    oneness of the whole.
  89. 10/14/2016 — Cotton in the Field 2016 01 — Lancaster County, South Carolina, October 12, 2016 Carl Jung though that “Dreams are the guiding words of the soul.”
    In our dreams, we are talking to ourselves.
    The Self we are at the core is speaking
    to the self we are on the periphery.
    It is past time for the self we are on the periphery
    to attend the Self we are at the core–
    and to take up the work of integration,
    placing the life we are living on the periphery
    in accord with the life we are capable of living from the core,
    our self becoming one with our Self
    at last.
  90. 10/15/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 10 — The Two-acre Woods, Indian Land, South Carolina, October 10, 2016 — The Two-acre Woods border our house to the west, the Zen Glen and the Three-acre Woods border it to the north, which is part of the Twenty-two-acre Woods that has recently sold for development and will soon become paved streets and houses, replete with box stores and fast food chains. The hawk and I can hardly wait. Silence and reflection are essential for mindful awareness–
    and everything depends upon that.
    We don’t get past Start
    without being mindfully aware
    of who we are,
    where we are,
    when we are,
    how we are,
    why we are,
    what’s happening,
    and what needs us to do it,
    in each situation as it arises,
    all our life long.
    How much time in a day
    do you allow yourself to spend
    in silent reflection
    in the service of mindful awareness?
    You cannot give yourself a better gift,
    or one with a greater impact for good
    in the lives of everyone else.
    Well?
  91. 10/16/2016 — Reelfoot Lake 2015 09-2 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Tiptonville, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 Joseph Campbell’s four volume series, “The Masks of God,”
    should be required reading in every seminary
    and church/synagogue/monastery membership class
    in the world.
    It is the history of religion from before there were religions.
    Campbell said there are two approaches
    to what has always been called God,
    based on whether a tribe/culture was plant and farming and, hence, matriarchally based
    or hunting/gathering, patriarchally based.
    The first approach is grounded in awe and wonder.
    The second approach is grounded in atonement and sacrifice.
    The second approach won out (in the west, at least)
    because men are bigger, stronger, and meaner than women.
    And the rest is, as they say, history.
    But, the way remains open,
    to those who are interested in pursuing it,
    to living in accord with the Numen via awe and wonder.
    It only takes sitting quietly and opening our eyes,
    and our souls,
    to the presence of more than can be told or said or understood,
    but is there to be known–
    even by the smallest child.
  92. 10/17/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 01 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 In addition to being the best man he is capable of being,
    each man must also strive to be the best woman he is capable of being.
    In addition to being the best woman she is capable of being,
    each woman must also strive to be the best man she is capable of being.
    We are androgynous,
    and have to embrace that,
    and live to exhibit it in our life.
    If you can understand this,
    and apply it,
    you will be amazed at the difference for good
    it will make in the world.
  93. 10/18/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 04 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 We cannot be who we want to be
    and be who we need to be.
    We cannot be who we ought to be
    by being who we think we ought to be.
    We carry with us a blueprint
    of who we think we are–
    which is who we think we ought to be–
    and of how we think the world ought to be,
    and live in the service of our idea
    of the who and the how,
    completely out of accord
    with the actual who
    and the actual how.
    We have to put the blueprint aside,
    and stand apart from our idea
    of how things ought to be
    in order to be who we are needed to be,
    and do what needs to be done
    in each situation as it arises.
    Listening/hearing
    looking/seeing
    knowing/being
    allows the right action
    to arise spontaneously–
    like going to the toilet,
    or yawning,
    or sneezing–
    when it is called for.
    We will live alive to the time and place of our living,
    allowing what ought to be done to be done
    without imposing our ideology, theology, will or way
    on the conditions and circumstances of our life.
  94. 10/18/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 02 Panorama — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Living centered in and grounded upon
    who we are and what is important
    isn’t something we do on the side,
    like yoga or going to church.
    It is transformative and life-changing.
    Things are never what they were.
    New birth requires a completely new set
    of preferences, habits and behaviors.
    “The old has passed away,
    and, behold, the new has come.”
    Knowing what we are doing
    changes what we do.
    Mindful awareness—
    simply paying attention to the moment we are living—
    radically alters reality.
  95. 10/19/2016 — Grandfather Mountain 2016 02 — Grandfather Mountain State Park, Banner Elk, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 We have to work it out.
    Our work is to work it out–
    to make it work.
    To make sense of it.
    To find the meaning in it.
    To find what it means to us
    that this is the way things are,
    and not some other way.
    It is as though we wake up
    in a dream that we are dreaming–
    as though we are characters in our own dream–
    and have to figure it all out
    from the standpoint of what it means
    that this is the dream we are dreaming
    about ourselves,
    that this is the life we are living.
    Why this life, and not some other life?
    Why this story, and not some other story?
    We have the rest of our life
    to get to the bottom of it,
    of us.
    To get to the heart of the matter.
    To get to our heart–
    our core, center, ground and foundation,
    using the life we are living as our only clue.
  96. 10/19/2016 — Blue Ridge Fall 2016 03 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Awareness and reflection don’t take a day off.
    Seers see.
    Observers observe.
    Perceivers perceive.
    Of. The. Time.
    There is nothing to “get,” “understand,” “comprehend,”
    in order to get back to the business
    of amassing wealth,
    exploiting position,
    exercising power,
    and enjoying privilege.
    The life that needs us to live it
    needs us to be present
    with what is present with us,
    and to respond to what is needed
    with the gifts, genius, creativity, compassion and awareness
    that are ours to bestow upon each moment that arises.
    All. Of. The. Time.
    We can’t be looking for
    the benefits, boons, gains and advantages,
    AND see what is happening in the situation as a whole,
    or hear what is calling us to act
    in the service of the true good of all.
    We sacrifice self in our allegiance to Self.
  97. 10/20/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 02 – Grandfather Mountain, Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 I wonder why we cannot
    focus on living beautiful lives
    and celebrating our own dying
    the way we gather to rejoice
    in the deaths of so many leaves
    in the fall.
  98. 10/21/2016 — Around Price Lake 2016 31 — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 17, 2016 Play with your life.
    Play with each moment,
    with each situation as it arises.
    Step playfully into the seriousness which surrounds you.
    See what you can do with it
    by treating it with less seriousness
    than it thinks it deserves.
    Know when to take No for an answer,
    and when not to.
    Be aware of the normal, typical, usual, traditional ways
    of responding to particular scenarios and situations,
    and don’t respond in any of those ways.
    Be irreverent.
    Be creative.
    Be unbound to the expectations, assumptions and suppositions
    that control life on the planet,
    and risk yourself to unconventional responses
    to what appears to be asked of you.
    Take nothing for granted.
    Live to see what happens if you do this or that. Play.
    With your life.
  99. 10/21/2016 — Around Bass Lake 2016 11 — Moses H. Cone Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 Enlightenment comes with a price.
    They don’t mention that
    in all the talk about being enlightened.
    The Buddha gave up everything
    prior to sitting under the Bodhi Tree.
    Jesus was killed in the service of his understanding–
    as if to say, “See? This is how it is
    for those who would follow me.”
    His disciples put a different spin on it,
    saying, “Jesus died so you won’t have to!”
    Nothing could be farther from the truth.
    Dying is the way to the truth and the life.
    Enlightenment transforms the lives of the Enlightened Ones.
    Who wants to live like the Dalai Lama?
    Or Yoda?
    Enlightened living is a different kind of life.
    How different are you willing to be?
  100. 10/22/2016 — Boone Fork 2016 01 Panorama — Julian Price Memorial Park, Blue Ridge Parkway, Blowing Rock, North Carolina, October 16, 2016 More people would be awake
    if it weren’t so much trouble.
    If it didn’t bring up so much pain.
    If it were easier and more convenient.
    If it didn’t require so much of them.
    If they were more awake.
    Waking up is growing up,
    Standing up,
    Seeing and doing what needs to be done.
    Being awake is hard.
    Being dead is easy.
    Jesus said, “Leave the dead to bury the dead,
    but you do the work that being awake and alive require–
    every day for the rest of your life!”
    Or, words to that effect.
    You could start with watching
    the Jon Kabat-Zinn videos
    on Mindfulness on You Tube.
    And take up the practice of sitting quietly regularly.
    How hard is that?

One Minute Monologues 034

June 30, 2016 – August 21, 2016

  1. 06/30/2016 — Everything in the world of normal, apparent reality
    is a portal/threshold/doorway
    to the Other World
    of invisible, intangible, ineffable reality.
    And we think the point is
    to leave here and go there.
    The point is realization.
    If everything in this world
    is an opening to that world,
    then WE are what we seek,
    and only need to be who we are
    in order to bring that world
    into this one.
    The pilgrims on their trek to the holy sites
    are holy themselves–
    holiness seeking holiness.
    They only have to wake up
    and stop trying to escape this world,
    But transform it
    by being themselves,
    bringing that world to life
    in this world
    by simply being who they are.
  2. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 06/30/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 All true religion begins
    with an experience with the ineffable,
    with an encounter with numinous reality.
    Like falling in love.
    I fell in love with a camera.
    No kidding.
    It was sitting on a poolside table
    in a made-for-TV-movie in 1966
    Staring Robert Wagner. And I did not have anyone in my life
    to help me interpret the experience.
    We are too often lost to the experience
    with none to help us make sense of it. A religious experience
    can be with anything,
    but it cannot be with everything.
    And we cannot plan it,
    schedule it,
    organize it,
    orchestrate it,
    choreograph it,
    produce it,
    box it,
    sell it,
    mass market it… We turn a corner,
    and a piano falls out of the sky
    on our head.
    And we don’t know what to do.
    And have on one to ask. I’ve been working with the experience
    of falling in love with a camera
    for over 50 years.
    It was the organizing experience of my life.
    I went to seminary to figure it out—
    to interpret it,
    understand it.
    Hermeneutics and exegesis are about
    interpreting and understanding experience
    before they are about
    interpreting and understanding scripture.
    The latter comes out of the former. I thought I would figure out my experience
    and help people understand their own.
    I discovered people who didn’t have experiences with the Numen,
    and weren’t interested in having any.
    “Just tell us what to believe Preacher,
    And make it quick.
    I tee-off at 1:30.” No one can give you religion.
    It hides around corners in the form of falling pianos.
    or made-for-TV-movies.
    When it shocks you awake with it’s arrival,
    sit with it for a while
    seeking to interpret it in ways that honor it
    and incorporate it into your life—
    finding ways to form your life around it.
    The dance will last forever.
  3. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 07/01/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 We have an experience with the ineffable—
    an encounter with numinous reality—
    and we spend the rest of our life
    working to understand it.
    That is the essence of true religion.
    We have devolved religion
    into an assortment of opinions—
    which we call “beliefs,” and “doctrines—
    about the Numen,
    and spend our time arguing
    among the sects
    about whose collection of opinions
    is right and whose are wrong.
    The experience of the Numen
    has been supplanted by
    theories about the Numen.
    Anyone with conviction is an authority,
    and religion is widely avoided
    by everyone who recognizes
    a sham when they see one.
  4. 07/02/2016 — Goodale 2015 65 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 We have to apply the principles of hermeneutics and exegesis
    to each situation as it arises—
    so that we see what is to be seen,
    hear what is to be heard,
    understand what is to be understood,
    and know what’s what there,
    and what to do in response to it.
    Then, we only need the courage to do it
    to be at one with the Tao
    and in accord with our life
    in the moment of our living.
    Right seeing,
    Right hearing,
    Right understanding/interpretation/evaluation
    Is right knowing
    Which becomes right doing
    And equals right being
    (In that doing is being,
    and being is doing).
    When we impose
    our desires, designs, purposes and plans
    on a situation
    things are wrong from the start.
    Our agenda has to be No Agenda—
    just seeing,
    just hearing,
    just understanding,
    just knowing,
    just doing,
    just being,
    at one with the moment
    and what needs to happen there,
    in light of the interests of all that is there,
    for the good of the whole,
    in every moment.
    That’s it.
  5. 07/02/2016 — Cardinal 2016 19 — Cardinal With Blackberry, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 We keep throwing things in the path,
    blocking the way,
    damming the flow,
    jamming the silence
    with noise from every side
    on every level,
    wondering where Nirvana is,
    and which way the Land of Promise.
    There will be no movement on the Journey
    until we do something with ourselves—
    something along the lines
    of realizing who we are,
    and who we are not,
    and what we are doing
    to keep from knowing what we know
    about the life we are living
    and the life that is ours to live.
  6. 07/01/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 The life we are living
    prevents us from living
    the life that waits to be lived.
    The Hero’s Journey
    is from one way of life
    to another.
    Salvation has nothing to do
    with believing or thinking.
    It has everything to do
    with how we live our life.
    It doesn’t matter what we believe
    as long as we live in accord
    with how things are,
    and in alignment with
    the life that is ours to live—
    that only we can live—
    in the service of
    the genius and gifts
    that are ours to share, exhibit, express, incarnate.
    All of our real problems
    stem from our refusal
    to find our life and live it.
    By refusing to do what is hard,
    we do things the hard way.
  7. 07/04/2016 — Sunflower on Black 2016 01 — Sunflower courtesy of Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, South Carolina, July 3, 2016 We have to be the authority
    in charge of our own life.
    We have the final word
    regarding what we do and do not.
    We decide for ourselves what is right and not right,
    what is important and unimportant.
    Where we will set our limits,
    place our boundaries,
    draw our lines.
    We have to know what constitutes
    the ground, center and foundation
    of our life,
    and live in light of it—
    in service to it—
    all our life long.
    If we cannot say “Yes, this is so with me”
    about all of these things,
    we know the work that is ours to do.
    beginning now.
  8. 07/04/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 04, 2016 Brexit is an excellent example
    of the center being unable to hold
    against the pull of extreme positions.
    We cannot count the number of marriages
    that have dissolved
    because those married moved
    away from the center
    toward opposite extremes.
    We have to take care of the center
    by refusing extreme reactions
    to extreme actions.
    Everyone cannot abandon the center
    at the same time.
    When someone rushes to the extreme
    everyone else has to remain cool—
    in light of the truth of the old saw,
    “It takes at least two people to have a fight,
    but one person can keep a really bad argument
    from escalating into a complete nuclear meltdown.”
  9. 07/05/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 05 — Red-bellied Woodpecker With Blackberry, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 Reality is our only hope!
    We would never grow up without it!
  10. 07/05/2016 — Black Snake 2016 12 — Out of the Trees, Back on the Ground, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 Reality’s place in our life
    is to wake us up,
    grow us up,
    against our will,
    all our life long.
    We rail against it,
    run from it,
    deny it,
    and pretend it away.
    But, it doesn’t go anywhere.
    It’s always right there, grinning.
    Reality loves its job,
    and does it with a flourish
    usually reserved for bull fighters.
    That would make us the bull.
    And you know the outcome from the start.
    It would behoove us
    to change our attitude about reality,
    and see it as our able assistant
    in the work to see how things are
    and do what needs to be done about them.
    Going over to reality’s side
    shoots us past all the resistance and whining,
    and puts us in the position
    of going to meet what is coming to meet us,
    dealing with it straight up,
    taking care of business,
    and looking for more of it,
    knowing that it won’t be long
    before we hear it calling our name.
  11. 07/06/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 5, 2016 In digging for the gold,
    start with your fear, anxiety, terror, dread…
    Start with the things you avoid,
    the things you won’t look at,
    the things you refuse to consider.
    Start with the things you find things
    to occupy your time and attention
    so you won’t think about them.
    Think about those things.
    That’s where the gold is hiding.
    Joseph Campbell said,
    “The treasure you seek
    is found in the far back corner
    of the cave you most do not want to enter.”
    Walk into your fear and look around.
    Sit down with your anxiety, terror, dread…
    And listen until you hear what they have to say.
    Look until you see past them
    through them,
    to the truth they are hiding.
    and the lie the represent.
    Our fear, etc., is based on the lie
    of our incapacity to deal with the thing feared.
    At the ground level,
    we are afraid we cannot meet the demands of our life.
    We are afraid we do not have what it takes
    to be who we are,
    to do what is ours to do.
    We owe it to ourselves to find out.
    What we will discover if we look
    is that there is way more to us than meets the eye,
    more than we ever imagine.
    We have depths and abilities past all expectation,
    beyond all reason.
    Ulysses faced the Cyclops,
    and we are afraid we can’t get a job.
    The gold we seek
    is the stuff we are made of—
    the stuff we think isn’t there.
    We are killing ourselves
    by being afraid to look
    for the stuff of life within.
  12. 07/06/2016 — Sunflower Collage 2016 — Sunflowers courtesy of Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, South Carolina, July 3, 2016 Living is the lesson,
    life is the teacher.
    Everything we need to know about living
    is available by reflecting on our experience with life—
    and reflecting on our conclusions regarding our experience.
    There are no sacred conclusions.
    Everything we think about our life
    is a theory waiting to be refuted or ratified
    by additional experience.
    When was the last time you changed your mind?
    If it has been more than a week,
    you aren’t doing enough reflecting.
    You are too comfortable with old insights and conclusions.
    And, if they were handed to you by someone else,
    it could be that you aren’t reflecting at all.
    What do you think about that?
  13. 07/07/2016 — Chameleon 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 4, 2016 I see no difference between
    meditation and reflection.
    The two are one.
    The skills necessary for the Hero’s Journey,
    the Spiritual Journey,
    awakening
    and growing up
    (All of which are metaphors for the same experience)
    are:
    Observation,
    Meditation/Reflection
    Realization,
    Implementation/Execution/Application,
    Observation,
    and the repetition
    of the remaining steps in the process
    for the remainder of our life.
    No one can do this for us.
    No one can tell us what our life is asking of us,
    or when and how to do it.
    We work it all out on our own.
    Our life is our responsibility—
    met, not by thinking it out
    in a rational/logical kind of way,
    but by observing, meditating/reflecting, realizing, implementing/executing/applying, observing…
    We should be told this at the start,
    and reminded of it often,
    all along the way.
  14. 07/07/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 7, 2016 Growing up means doing what you don’t want to do
    the way it ought to be done—
    the way you would do it
    if you wanted to do it with all your heart—
    because the situation needs you to do it.
    How well you do that
    in each situation as it arises
    is an indication of your degree of maturity,
    and is the only measure
    that is worth anything.
  15. 07/01/2016 — 07/08/2016 — Sunflowers 2016 03 — Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, South Carolina, July 3, 2016 Listen to your body!
    Your body will tell you everything you need to know.
    We resist, override, overrule, discount, dismiss, disregard, ignore
    the signals from our body
    to our peril every time.
    We cannot fight a winning fight with our body.
    Why would we want to even try?
    We can negotiate with our body
    to see what we can get by with, We must not kid ourselves
    about what we are getting by with.
    When our body says stop,
    we stop.
    When our body says rest,
    we rest.
    When our body says drink,
    we drink.
    Water.
    When our body says eat,
    we eat.
    Wisely.
    When our body says no,
    we don’t.
    One of the keys to a long,
    healthy and happy life
    is being able to take “No”
    for an answer—
    particularly from our body.
    What is your body saying
    that you aren’t listening to?
  16. 07/08/2016 — House Finch 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 8, 2016 The way you can be most helpful to me
    and everyone else
    is by giving us your full attention–
    Listening, looking, seeing, hearing.
    End of story.
    Well, not quite.
    By giving us your full attention,
    you enable us to pay attention to ourselves.
    You listen us into hearing what we have to say.
    You see us into seeing ourselves.
    You reflect us back to us
    better than a full length mirror,
    and there we are.
    Guess how often we see ourselves that way.
    Think how often you see yourself that way.
    The numbers are going to match.
  17. 07/09/2016 — Goodale 2015 61 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 15, 2015 It comes down to what we like
    and what we don’t like. There is a catch we generally ignore.
    Doing what we like
    requires us to do what we don’t like.
    A lot of us fail to make that connection,
    and therein lies the root
    of most of our problems.
    It is ridiculous to think
    we can only do what we like.
    This is the orientation
    of the Terrible Two’s.
    As the old saw goes,
    “We want to have our cake
    and eat it, too.”
    We can eat it,
    but then, it’s gone
    A healthy lifestyle
    means giving up
    the decadence and self-indulgence
    of sugar, saturated fat, alcohol and sedentary living.
    So, we compromise,
    eat only two pieces of bread per week
    and call that doing the best we can.
    Doing what we want kills us,
    when we refuse to comprehend
    how often that means
    doing what we don’t want
    in the service of what we do want.
  18. 07/09/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 08 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 9, 2016 Mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness
    takes the full situation into account
    and
    takes us taking the full situation into account into account,
    so that everything is taken into account
    that can be taken into account.
    This is called being transparent to ourselves
    within a situation that is transparent to us.
    It is also called seeing into the heart of every matter.
    When we see all that can be seen
    on the level of the heart of all things,
    what needs to be done is obvious.
    When we wait for the mud to clear—
    that is, to be clear about the confusion,
    the chaos, the conflict, opposition and polarities—
    what can be done is clear,
    and what needs to be done to do it is also clear.
    Then, there is only doing it.
    For instance,
    police have to stop killing black people
    whose only crime is being black.
    And Donald Trump and his fellow Republicans
    have to stop demonizing
    Black people, gay people, women, Muslims and Latinos.
    Now, there is only getting them to do it.
    It will be easier to vote them
    out of office.
  19. 07/10/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 9, 2016 Centered, grounded, in the core
    of what is important to us,
    we are at-one with our life,
    and in sync with what we need to do with it.
    In my case,
    I am clear about what I need to do,
    and what I do not need to do.
    Things that encourage/allow
    silence, stillness and looking out the window
    (And my hammock is a wonderful window
    looking out on the woods
    and on the world),
    are things I need to spend time with.
    Things that are noisy, shallow and mindless—
    like cocktail parties, family reunions, and sporting events—
    are things I need to avoid.
    All paths look equally attractive
    to those without roots to the core
  20. 07/10/2016 — Hummingbird Collage 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 10, 2016 — I put up a Hummingbird feeder today, about ten feet from the hammock. Business was good. When you go looking for your core,
    for the foundation stone,
    for the bedrock center of what matters to you,
    go sit quietly in a natural place—
    or, lie in a hammock—
    for an hour or more,
    and return often to repeat the experience.
    This is your practice,
    sitting in the stillness of a natural place, You’re waiting for a shift to occur,
    a perceptible click felt in your body
    when you move out of one world
    into another.
    You are waiting to look forward
    to the return to stillness.
    You are waiting to miss it when you move out of it—
    to yearn for it in a way that is surprising
    and beyond understanding.
    You are discovering that silence matters to you.
    and within the silence,
    realization.
    Silence is the path to
    seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing/being.
    In the silence things occur to you
    you could never think up trying.
    Be still and quiet.
    Listen, look.
    It has always been this simple,
    From the dawn of time.
    Doing it is the difficult part.
  21. 07/11/2016 — Blue Bird 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 21, 2016 Wealth is not going to protect you.
    there is no protection.
    You are at the mercy of forces quite beyond you.
    And you are on your own.
    This is the realization
    that marks the turning point in your life.
    Life takes off from here,
    or it stops here.
    Suicide and all of the addictions
    have their source in this realization.
    Denial, distraction, diversion and despair
    have their origin in this realization.
    It is the swing point between life and death.
    All of the rites of initiation
    are about forcing this realization
    upon the initiates—
    about weeding them out early on—
    to see who has what it takes
    to be of value to the tribe,
    and who does not.
    Without the rites,
    we meet our turning points individually,
    in the haphazard delivery
    of the blows,
    trials and ordeals of our life.
    In those places,
    we have to know we are facing the Cyclops
    in one of his many manifestations
    on the road to our own Odyssey,
    which is to say to our own maturation
    and self-realization.
    We have to know
    that we have what it takes to rise to the occasion
    to any occasion,
    and claim the treasure—
    which has noting to do with wealth,
    and everything to do with the knowledge
    that we are safe with ourselves,
    and have everything we need
    to find what we need
    to do what needs to be done—
    what needs us to do it—
    and continue on the way
    on the journey
    of self-realization
    and maturation
    and the salvation of the world.
  22. 07/10/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 24, 2016 Where are you suffering
    from the betrayal of your expectations?
    How consciously are you accepting
    and bearing the pain
    of that suffering?
    It is an old psychological saw
    to say that the refusal to bear
    the pain of legitimate suffering
    is the heart of all our problems.
    It is not that we suffer consciously,
    exorcising the demon
    by naming it
    and carrying its pain in our body
    until we have come to terms with it
    and made our peace with it—
    It is our refusal, our failure, to suffer at all
    that is the problem.
    Where are you NOT suffering
    from the betrayal of your expectations?
    From the failure of your life
    to be what you hoped it would be—
    to be what you wanted it to be?
    Face up to the places
    where your life has let you down.
    And bear consciously the pain.
  23. 07/12/2016 — Feeder Photos 2016 01, 02, 03, 04 — Pay Attention Little Hummingbird (01); Uh-Oh (02); Watch Out! (03); See? TOL-JA! (04} — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 12, 2016 Our dreams are Psyche’s rendition
    of how things currently are
    with us in our life.
    They are a daily snapshot
    of what’s what—
    of where we are kidding ourselves—
    of where we have to get to work,
    squaring up to reality,
    making our peace with how it is,
    and seeking to find and ground ourselves
    in the center of our heart/soul/self
    and align ourselves with it
    in the way we live our life,
    integrating inner with outer,
    and living a life of full integrity
    throughout the time left for living.
    Listen to your dreams.
    They are our soul’s way of pointing out what is so,
    and trusting us to take it from there.
  24. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 07/12/2016 — Sunflowers 2016 01 Panorama —Draper Wildlife Management Area, York County, near Brattonsville, SC, July 3, 2016 We cannot live with integrity
    without living mindfully aware
    of our contradictions
    and polarities.
    We bear the pain
    by living consciously within the tension
    of our opposites:
    “This, too. This, too.”
    We cannot kid ourselves about who we are
    and also are,
    and how it is with us,
    and live with integrity.
    Thus, living with integrity
    is synonymous with
    living with humility,
    kindness,
    grace,
    civility,
    generosity,
    good will,
    good faith,
    compassion,
    peace
    and all of the other
    wonderful old values
    at the heart of life and being.
  25. 07/13/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee & Downy Woodpecker Panorama 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 We live in the service of archaic values—
    good faith,
    good will,
    grace,
    compassion,
    justice,
    peace,
    self-discipline
    respect for self and all others…
    The list is long
    which sets us against
    the upstart wannabe values
    of commerce and the economy:
    wealth,
    privilege,
    position,
    prestige,
    celebrity status,
    exploitation and profiteering,
    profit at any price,
    our personal good at the expense of everyone else’s
    and all other things’…
    How must Psyche feel,
    as the Mother of the Good
    of all of her children,
    with them living with only
    the good of themselves in mind?
  26. 07/13/2016 — Cypress Trees 2015 04 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 The prophets of every religion
    have a lot in common with Obi wan Kenobi and Yoda.
    They all were waiting
    for someone to hear what they had to say,
    to need what they had to offer.
    So don’t despair when it appears
    that your gifts, genius and talents
    are going to waste.
    Keep practicing your art.
    Trust your audience to appear.
    and, if it does not,
    you still have your art,
    and your life would have been paltry
    without it.
  27. 07/13/2016 — Three Sunbathing Babes 2016 01 —Mamma Cardinal and Her Two Daughters, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 8, 2016 We have to face up to our betrayed expectations,
    come to terms with them,
    make our peace with them,
    as they happen,
    otherwise, we will keep looking for our life
    to make it up to us,
    to off-set it
    in some unbelievably wondrous way—
    which becomes another betrayed expectation—
    and the downward spiral
    is a quick trip to the end of our rope.
    When our expectations are betrayed, we have to:
    Square up to it!
    Bear the pain!
    Mourn our losses!
    And let them be,
    because they are,
    and that’s that.
    We listen to our dreams,
    do our Inner Work,
    see what our life is asking of us,
    and what needs to be done
    here and now,
    do it and repeat the process
  28. 07/14/2016 — Feeder Photos 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 12, 2016 — I place about 1/2 cup of water in top of the Hummingbird feeder as a barrier to ants seeking the sweet stuff below. I let the Tufted Titmice think I do it for them.

    Your practice consists of two things:
    Do your work—
    the work that is yours to do,
    that no one but you can do
    the way you do it—
    Live to be increasingly transparent to yourself—
    attend your dreams,
    consciously transform all of your “mind-wandering” episodes
    into experiences with Active Imagination (Google the term)
    to see what they have to say about yourself
    (To say to you from your Self).
    Self-awareness is primal awareness—
    primary awareness—
    leading to every other variety of awareness there might be.
    Know your work and do it.
    Know your Self and be it.
    All there is to it.
  29. 07/14/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 14, 2016 — I don’t know how to distinguish male and female Brown Thrasher’s. I think of this one as “she.” She appears to be in a crisis, and the next photo will appear to be even more serious, but. she is, to the best of my ability to read a bird’s mind, enjoying the wonder of the morning sun after a long dark night. For several generations,
    we have been of the opinion
    that if it can’t be weighed,
    measured,
    fenced in
    or photographed,
    it isn’t real.
    The Real World is the one available to our senses.
    The invisible world is “just in our mind.”
    “It’s all in our imagination.”
    There have been times and places—
    and still are places even in these times—
    where the reverse was considered to be the way it is.
    I’m not here to argue who is right,
    so much, as to point out
    that the physical world
    can seem to be the only world,
    And the invisible/spiritual world
    can seem to be the only world. The two are one.
    There is one world,
    and aspects of it are visible
    and otherwise apparent to the senses.
    And aspects of it are invisible
    and immune to our experiments,
    but quite available to our ability
    to “apprehend more than we can comprehend”
    (Abraham Heschel).
    Every element in the physical universe
    is a threshold,
    a portal,
    a doorway,
    into the other universe,
    the invisible, intangible one.
    It only takes being open
    to all that is present in any moment,
    to know that there
    is more there than meets the eye.
    Or the ear.
    Practice making yourself accessible
    to what is accessible to you,
    to the invisible/spiritual world
    approachable through this world
    of physical reality.
    Find your holy places–
    “thin places” (Parker Palmer)–
    where the Numen winks at you
    and stirs your soul.
    Spend time in them often,
    lost in the wonder of more than words can say.
  30. 07/14/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 14, 2016 — It looks for all the world as though she had a seizure and keeled over dead. It would be more accurate to interpret this as Thrasher Ecstasy. After about twenty seconds, she moved to a more comfortable place, and loved the sun some more, as the next photo will show. You know by now
    that my highest hope for us is that we
    see what we look at.
    particularly what we look at in the mirror.
    The only strategy I’ve developed for doing that
    is to keep looking until you see.
    In other words, don’t stop too soon.
    don’t think you get it
    just to be done with it.
    Seeing is a lifelong task.
    We see with our experience,
    reflection,
    insight
    and realization–
    not with our eyes.
    Sometimes we have to get closer
    to something to see it,
    And sometimes,
    we have to get farther away.
    All of this takes time,
    so, don’t think you have
    to have it figured out
    and put away
    by a certain time,
    so that you can get on with your life.
    Seeing IS your life!
    And dancing.
    We live to dance with what we see.
  31. 07/15/2016 — Brown Thrasher 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 14, 2016 — All appearances to the contrary, this bird is relishing her moment in the sun. She lay there for about a minute before gathering herself up to meet the day. I am saddened into grief and anguish
    over all the people in Trump’s camp.
    How can anyone think
    the way he thinks is the way to think?
    How can we find common ground
    among those who think like Trump
    and those who think like me?
    How are we going to come together?
    Live in harmony?
    All those people filled with such hatred and fear…
    How they must suffer their life each day!
    How they must live with
    such hopelessness,
    rage and despair!
    To think that they pin their hopes on a man like Trump!
    As empty and as shallow as any man ever has been!
    As immature, unwilling and unable to help anyone!
    Who has he ever helped?
    When has he ever offered so much as a cup of cold water
    To those parched for thirst?
    Shelter to those freezing in a winter downpour?
    To live in a hole so dark and deep
    That Donald Trump looks like a Savior and a Bringer of Light
    Is to be of all people most to be pitied.
    They can only hate and fear forever.
    How can they ever hope
    to feel compassion, kindness, mercy, goodwill, generosity, grace, sympathy, empathy, understanding, benevolence, charity, amity, kinship and good wishes
    To all those they despise, resent, reject?
    My heart breaks for the people
    who don’t have a heart
    that can break for anyone not like themselves.
  32. 07/15/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 05 — This is the same Goldfinch blended from four separate photographs. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 15, 2016 There is my work,
    and there is not my work.
    The older I get,
    the less patience I have
    with things that are not my work.
    I may as well be in jail,
    or changing oil at some automobile dealership.
    If I’m not going to be doing my work,
    it doesn’t matter what I’m doing.
    My work is the only thing that matters.
    And, by now, you know
    that my work consist of looking out the window
    to see what I might see.
    I know that everything is the Tao
    for those with eyes to see.
    Work, not my work,
    It’s all the same thing
    for those with eyes that see.
    When I see like that,
    all will be well.
    Until then,
    I see my work
    and not my work.
    And standing in some checkout line,
    or driving through rush hour traffic
    is not lying in my hammock
    looking into the woods.
  33. 07/16/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 15, 2016 Nothing makes sense.
    Nothing follows anything.
    Our life is a non sequitur
    from start to finish,
    Yet, we take all of the events and circumstances,
    and make a coherent story of it.
    It is madness,
    with things happening for no reason
    right out of the blue,
    like a lifetime of rogue asteroids
    crashing into our planet,
    knocking us into a different trajectory,
    spinning out of anything remotely resembling control,
    and all we want is “smooth and easy.”
    But we take it all in
    and put it together
    in a way that makes it appear to be orchestrated,
    choreographed,
    designed
    and planned.
    We make sense of it all.
    That’s what we do.
    We make things make sense.
    All mythology, all religion, all of civilization,
    is our way of making sense of life–
    of OUR life.
    We tell ourselves things that make sense of our life.
    We make it all meaningful.
    It is our gift to the cosmos to make it meaningful.
    We are all weaving, composing, countless, innumerable,
    stories about our experience with life
    that make meaning out of everything, anything.
    We are beautiful that way.
  34. 07/17/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 10 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Looking out the window is full time work.
    Think of two worlds–
    the world of normal, concrete, tangible, actual, factual, physical reality,
    and the world of invisible, intangible, unconscious, spiritual reality–
    and the window looks from one world into the other.
    When the world where the one looking looks
    imposes its will and ways upon the looker,
    it is as though someone shatters his, or her, reverie
    by announcing, “Let’s all turn in our workbook to page 24
    and read aloud the second paragraph from the bottom.”
    Or it as though you are making love
    and your mother-in-law enters the room.
    Or, better, it as though you are making love
    And your husband or your wife opens the front door
    and says, “Honey! I’m home!”
    That is a dichotomy that has to be experienced
    to know the wrenching shock
    of being yanked from one world
    into the other.
    This is to say,
    that when you are aware of those
    whose work is to look out the window,
    leave them to their task,
    and hope they will see something worth reporting.
    Do not diminish their work,
    or insist that they join you in board games,
    or Badminton on some lawn.
    Their work is their life,
    and if they don’t do it, who will?
    Trust them to it,
    and wish them well
    in the task of translating the experience of that world
    into the language of this world–
    that the gap between worlds might be reduced,
    and all might be blessed by harmonies unknown.
  35. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 07/17/2016 — Do You See The KING SNAKE??? — I was dialed in on the Brown Thrasher when I noticed the King Snake gliding along behind her. So I dashed from the hammock to get a closer view, scaring the poor bird into the next county. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 You know by now that these things are crucial
    to the development of your relationship with your Self:
    The practice of Mindfulness Meditation (Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube Videos).
    The practice of paying attention to,
    recording,
    interpreting
    exploring
    your nighttime dreams and your daily flights of fantasy.
    (Anthony Stevens work “Private Myths: Dreams and Dreaming,”
    is not to be ignored here.
    And Robert A. Johnson’s “Inner Work”
    will also be helpful in a number of ways
    beyond dream interpretation).
    The practice of sitting quietly
    in the stillness,
    open to the silence.
    The practice of reflecting
    on your experience
    in the quest for new realizations.
    The practice of seeing what you look at.
    The practice of becoming transparent to yourself.
    The practice of becoming aware
    of your contradictions,
    and working to reconcile
    the ones that can be reconciled,
    integrating the ones that can be integrated,
    bearing consciously the pain of those that cannot be–
    until something shifts and you transcend
    the two mutually exclusive options
    in the service of a new way of seeing
    that transforms the field of action.
    The practice of listening to your body,
    and listening for the things you are missing in the situation,
    in order to know what you know
    and what can be known,
    so that what needs to be done
    becomes obvious,
    and you do the thing for the good of all concerned.
    So–
    how are you coming along with it?
  36. 07/18/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 16, 2016 I don’t have a warrior’s heart,
    but, I have the strength of my convictions.
    I don’t have what it takes to stand toe-to-toe
    with someone in some boxing ring,
    trying to pummel him to death, submission, or a count of ten,
    whichever comes first.
    But I could stand to-to-toe with anyone
    over what’s right in a particular situation,
    without giving ground or surrendering my position.
    In this, I am more like Socrates or Jesus
    than Alexander the Great or Genghis Khan,
    and am willing to die in the service of what I call good,
    but am unwilling to kill anyone over what they call good.
  37. 07/18/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 18, 2016 — This is a composite photo of the same Goldfinch, blending six photographs into one image. There is only one trick in the repertory of all the Old Masters:
    Hold everything in awareness
    and wait for what needs to be done about it
    to become clear and urgent,
    and do it.
    Act out of what needs to happen
    in each situation as it arises,
    and not out of what you want to happen,
    or what would be to your advantage to happen.
    The trick is to know what it is time for
    here and now,
    and do everything as it needs to be done
    in the fullness of time,
    when the time is right.
    The trick to being able to pull off the trick
    lies in knowing how to hold everything in awareness,
    and waiting.
  38. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 07/19/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 When I am lying in my hammock
    alone with the birds in the woods,
    holding everything in awareness,
    I am at peace,
    awash in perfection,
    at one with the Tao
    aligned with my life,
    in complete accord
    with the moment of my being.
    And then,
    there is the Republican National Convention
    to shatter my peace,
    and threaten every good thing
  39. 07/19/2016 — The Window 2016 July 01 Panorama — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 19, 2016 — When I look out the window from the vantage point of my hammock, this is the scene that greets my eye. Note the dead tree just to the right of center. I’ll let you know when it falls if I escape. Action arises from contemplation/meditation/reflection.
    It is not that we think of what to do and then act.
    It is that we open ourselves to the full capability of our awareness
    in the moment of our living,
    and remain there, holding everything in awareness,
    waiting for what to do occur to us,
    arising spontaneously,
    of its own accord.
    It is magical,
    a gift from the unconscious
    into consciousness
    via contemplation/awareness.
    Anything that disrupts our contemplation
    has to be encompassed by our contemplation,
    so that we now hold it, the disrupting factor, in our awareness,
    and, in time, it will occur to us what to do about that.
    Out of silence comes the cosmos.
    The creative urge to act in the field of action,
    arises in the stillness of contemplation,
    from the heart of awareness.
  40. 07/20/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 When you are enlightened
    all you see
    is things as they are.
    You see what’s what
    in each situation as it arises.
    Seeing what’s what
    puts you at “the still point of the turning world,”
    at the center of what is important
    here and Now,
    in the moment-to-moment
    flow of life and being–
    at the fulcrum of the future,
    the place of leverage,
    for turning “the way it has always been”
    into the way things need to be.
    Right action arises from right reflection
    And right realization.
    Seeing is doing.
    That is enlightenment.
  41. 07/20/2016 — Cypress Trees 2015 03 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 I think Jesus was quoting a popular proverb of his day
    when he said, “Wisdom is known by her children.”
    Sometimes, it is by her grandchildren that she is known.
    The value of our acts may be concealed for years,
    if not generations. Do not be too quick to condemn your choices and decisions.
    What appears to be a wrong move,
    may contain hidden gifts
    that work in the darkness
    like yeast in the dough
    to bring forth in you
    who you have in you to be.
    Where we have been
    enables us to be
    where we are
  42. 07/21/2016 — Cardinal 2016 13 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 13, 2016 There is the beauty of the moment,
    the goodness of things being exactly
    what they are capable of being,
    the truth of what is before us,
    in every natural setting around the world.
    Throw in culture, society, politics, money, power, position
    with personal gain on the line,
    and beauty, goodness and truth
    disappear like a dream greeting the day.
    If there is nothing in it for us,
    we aren’t interested—
    and we miss the gold,
    looking for the gold.
  43. 07/22/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 9, 2016 The search for our life
    is the search for what brings us to life,
    is the search for our heart’s true love.
    This has nothing to do with what we want.
    We want 10,000 things.
    What does wanting know?
    We are too soon bored with this and want that.
    And that, and that…
    We cannot get enough of the things
    that do not satisfy.
    We think that we love what we want,
    and want what we love.
    But we have put our heart and its love
    on the top shelf of some closet,
    or in the attic,
    or left it behind when we moved away in the seventh grade.
    And we have been living in the service
    of what we want ever since.
    It’s time for a reckoning.
    Reckonings take place,
    not by thinking about what our heart might love,
    but by sitting quietly and letting our heart speak.
    It may take a while.
    Our heart may not trust us by now,
    And will test our resolve
    to live in its service,
    so we have to stay with it—
    with the silence, waiting,
    for something to stir.
    For some whiff of an odor of a memory,
    for some flash of light to catch our eye,
    for some forgotten childhood dream, or love, or activity
    to come to mind,
    and invite us to play.
  44. 07/22/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 30, 2016 Republicans suffer from a personality disorder
    known as the Alfred E. Newman-like syndrome.
    In that, instead of asking, “What, ME worry?”
    They, to a person, declare, “What, ME be wrong?”
    Republicans cannot consider the possibility
    that they could be at fault, in error, mistaken, corrupt, dishonest, crooked, or blameworthy.
    They see themselves as they wish to be seen.
    everybody else is always wrong.
    Republicans are never wrong.
    But, don’t take my word for it.
    Peruse the archives.
    See if you can find even one occasion
    where a Republican assumed responsibility
    for things gone sour–
    where he, or she, said, “It’s my fault.
    There is no one to blame but myself.”
    And, while you are at it,
    see if anything unfavorable happened over the past eight years
    that wasn’t,
    in the eyes of all Republicans,
    President Obama’s fault.
  45. 07/23/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 20, 2016 Nothing is a greater threat
    to the stability of a relationship–
    particularly one’s relationship with oneself–
    than a perspective that refuses/fails
    to take itself into account–
    that refuses/fails
    to examine itself with the same ruthless insensitivity
    that it utilizes in brutalizing and eviscerating
    what it denounces, despises, opposes.
    Ann Coulter comes to mind.
    And the entire Republican world.
    and Evangelical Christianity,
    also known as “the religious Right,”
    where the entire Republican world
    gets its spiritual direction.
    Ideology is a blinding light,
    how can those who serve The Truth
    with hearts as pure as gold
    be wrong?
    We must do it as they would have it done!
    those who know best must be pleased–
    or they will be angry
    and vengeful,
    and make us look upon Hell
    as a sanctuary and refuge
    from their vicious, wrathful, ways.
  46. 07/23/2016 — Dragonfly 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 28, 2016 Those who see,
    see themselves staring back at them
    everywhere they look.
    For those who see,
    everything is a mirror,
    reflecting themselves to themselves,
    showing them who they are and also are,
    exposing them to the piercing gaze of themselves,
    and providing them
    with a level of self-transparency
    unavailable to those who are not
    conscious of what they are not conscious of,
    and, therefore, do not know what all they know.
    Thou Art That, and That, and That…
    infinitely and eternally,
    world without end, Amen.
  47. 07/20/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 08 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 — This photo is a composite of the same bird blended from three separate photographs. When Jesus said,
    love your enemies,
    love your neighbors,
    love yourself,
    love those who are considered to be
    the least of all
    and the most untouchable and unloveable
    in every culture throughout the world,
    in every age
    forever
    (Or words to that effect),
    he was saying
    don’t let your ideology,
    or your theology,
    or your politics,
    or your fear
    or your hatred
    or your anger
    stand between you
    and loving one another.
    He was saying,
    don’t let anything keep you
    from living together with one another
    in ways that are loving–
    in ways that enable the other
    to know without the slightest doubt
    that she, that he, is loved by you.
    He was saying,
    if you cannot do this in each situation as it arises
    all your life long,
    don’t call yourself a Christian.
    or a human being.
  48. 07/24/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 16 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 22, 2016 When Gov. Pat McCrory of North Carolina
    dismisses opposition to HB2,
    which removes LGBT protections
    and prevents new ones from being enacted,
    as “political correctness gone amok,”
    He trashes compassion,
    kindness,
    consideration,
    justice
    and equal rights for all people.
    In favor of his own bigoted,
    homophobic,
    white-straight-guys-are-the-best-kind-of-guys Compassion gone amok would be a good thing.
    We need more of that on every level of life.
    McCrory would do well to ride a horse named Compassion
    throughout his remaining term in office.
    North Carolina would burst into life,
    flowers would bloom through the fall and winter,
    and everyone would declare that
    they had not seen such a wonder in all their days.
    It isn’t likely to happen.
    but it is a signal to all of us
    to not allow the charge of “Political Correctness”
    to dissuade us from the practice of compassion
    in each situation that arises
    all our life long.
    Compassion is the highest of values,
    and the world is dying for an experience with compassion–
    for an on-going, unrelenting, experience with compassion.
    The world is dying for what we all have to offer
    in the time left for living.
    Bring compassion to life in your life
    and watch the world come alive.
  49. 07/25/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 11 — This is a composite of the same bird made by blending three photos into one — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 2, 2016 I think fear, hate, rage and greed
    lie deep within us all,
    perhaps our first instinctive response
    in the service of self-protection
    and self-interest and advancement–
    and the protection, interest and advancement
    of those we take to be Our People/Our Kind.
    We all have the innate capacity for all these things,
    waiting for the right environmental factors
    to call them forth in defense and aggression.
    Donald Trump strikes a cord
    with his rhetoric and his demeanor,
    speaking to that which resides in us all,
    sparking the reservoir of fuel for energy at the core,
    to incite, inflame and engulf–
    and carry him to victory at the polls
    in his self-proclaimed role
    as Our Only Savior–
    the Solitary One Who Understands And Can Deliver.
    It’s the only song he sings.
    every dictator wields the same power over their followers.
    Jesus and the Buddha, you will remember,
    refused all invitations to become king.
    those who savor the role are not fit to play the part.
    And it is the place of consciousness
    to recognize that
    and to hold everything in awareness–
    within and without–
    and to rise above unreflective reactivity
    in overriding the temptation to be saved and delivered,
    and do our own work
    in the service of the high values
    of compassion, kindness, grace, mercy, peace and justice
    for all people–not just our kind of people–
    in each situation as it arises
    all our life long.
  50. 07/25/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 01 — “Hmmm,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 Six things are one thing:
    Seeing, Hearing, Understanding, Knowing, Doing/Being =
    a True Human Being.
    We are six steps removed
    from True Human Being-hood,
    a Bodhisattva,
    a Buddha,
    a Christ.
    Seeing, hearing and understanding
    the present moment
    is to know what is happening
    and what needs to be done in response
    with the gifts and genius that are ours to offer.
    Action arises spontaneously to meet the need,
    resulting in being at one with the moment,
    fully alive in the time and place of our living.
    No agenda, no plans, no scheming, no exploitation, no making happen or making not happen,
    just seeing,
    hearing,
    understanding,
    knowing,
    doing/being.
    Practice the six things.
    Become the One the moment needs you to be.
  51. 07/26/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 01 — “Mind If I Join The Party?,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 This is a “Meditation on You”:
    Make an actual list of the people and things you love.
    Spend time making it,
    and add to it as needed over time.
    Consider each item,
    holding each one in your awareness
    and allowing yourself to see it as though for the first time.
    Make another actual list of the qualities/characteristics
    of each item that set it apart from all other things,
    that attract you to it,
    that give it a place in your life.
    Write these lists down.
    over the weeks or months
    That you engage in this meditation,
    you will be making conscious the values and qualities
    that are important to you.
    Your role now is to enlist yourself in the service
    of these values and qualities.
    Pledge yourself to their incarnation and expression
    in your life.
    Become their liege servant,
    swearing your allegiance
    and your life to their realization
    in ways appropriate to the occasion
    in each situation as it arises
    all your life long.
    These values and qualities guide your boat
    on its path through the sea.
    Their actualization is your reason for living,
    your purpose and your meaning.
    Living them out in your life
    is what your life is all about.
    Repeat the Meditation on You periodically
    to return to the center, ground and foundation
    of your life–
    to reorient yourself
    And to reestablish your relationship
    with the core of your life and being,
    in service to the values
    that are uniquely your own.
  52. 07/26/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 03– “This Is Awkward,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 I cannot be told what I don’t want to hear.
    That’s a problem.
    The world has to wait for me to be ready
    to hear what I need to hear
    about doing what needs to be done.
    The world has to wait for me to grow up.
    that’s the kink in the hose
    that is supposed to be watering
    the garden of life.
    We don’t have a problem
    that growing up won’t solve.
  53. 07/27/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 04– “Maybe If I Skooch Over A Bit,” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 What are our choices?
    What are the risks and implications associated with each choice?
    What is the best of our available options,
    taking everything into account?
    We don’t always take everything into account.
    Remember your first marriage?
    And, maybe, your second?
    What did you dismiss that should have been factored in?
    We tend to discount
    important stuff
    in deference to something else we have in mind.
    Seeing is revealing. We cannot see if we don’t look.
    And we won’t look
    if there is something
    we won’t let ourselves see.
    To see all is to know all,
    but there is a lot we don’t want to know–
    even though we will wish we had known it.
    Growing up is such a hard thing to do
    no one volunteers for it,
    and it has to be thrust on us
    by our refusal to do it.
  54. 07/27/2016 — Chickadee Meets Hummingbird 05– “Ahh. Out of sight, out of mind.” Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 24, 2016 As we broaden our perspective,
    we deepen our foundation.
    We can never see more
    than we can allow ourselves to see.
    Growing up enables us to face all that can be seen
    and more than meets the eye.
    No growing,
    no seeing.
    The path of the Hero’s Journey
    carries us from the declaration
    of Col. Nathan R. Jessup
    in A Few Good Men
    “You can’t handle the truth!”
    To the place of being able to face, handle and serve
    “The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth”
    in each situation as it arises
    all our life long.
  55. 07/27/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 27, 2016 Our life prepares us for the life that remains to be lived,
    IF we meet it with receptivity
    and not resistance.
    We can refuse the developmental tasks,
    turn down the invitations to grow up,
    make excuse after excuse for walking away
    from the trials and ordeals
    that would call forth our gifts
    and ground us in the confidence
    of our own authority,
    our own values,
    our own mind.
    The door to the future is ours to open.
    Our past provides us either with exactly what we need,
    or nothing we can use
    depending on the value we place on our experiences,
    and the degree to which we reflect on them
    to form new realizations.
    The stone the builders reject
    is the chief cornerstone.
    The past we despise and reject
    is our ticket to a future of amazing worth.
    It all turns on how we see what we look at.
  56. 07/28/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 There is suffering,
    and there is transcending suffering,
    rising above suffering,
    living beyond suffering–
    into hope, compassion, meaning and purpose.
    This is the scope of the Hero’s Journey.
    “He was a man of sorrows,
    acquainted with grief,
    on him was the chastisement
    that makes us whole.”
    That man is Everyman/EveryWoman.
    His/her path is the path of Everyone.
    On us all is the chastisement
    That makes us all whole,
    by bearing the pain of existence,
    the weight of time and chance
    pressing down on life and being,
    and enter the way of making
    our peace with the conditions and circumstances
    of our life—
    and living there the life that is ours to live,
    anyway, nevertheless, even so.
    Because we understand
    our trials and ordeals
    to be the matrix required
    to pull us forth—
    against our will—
    birthing us again and again
    for the work of wholeness,
    the work of being True Human Beings.
  57. 07/29/2016 — Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 17 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 If I were to stand before you,
    I would ask you what you see
    when you look at me.
    This is the quintessential exercise in awareness.
    In order to see,
    we have to see our seeing.
    In order to see our seeing
    we have to say what we are seeing.
    We do not see–
    we cannot see–
    until we say what we see.
    Saying is seeing.
    without saying what we see,
    we are stopping too soon,
    and failing to see beyond appearances.
    We are walking through the world,
    seeing nothing of the world,
    relating to the world
    out of our history with the world,
    “Seeing” what we infer and presume to be the case—
    thinking we have seen,
    then we have only “remembered,”
    without pausing to wonder what “that” has to do with this.
  58. 07/29/2016 — The Death Tree is Down — Two guys and a chain saw removed the threat to me and the Glen, and all is as it needs to be — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina July 29, 2016 I’m still interested in what you see
    when you look at me,
    only this time,
    look beyond my appearance
    into what it suggests about me.
    What do my eyes reveal about my inner nature—
    my choice of clothes?
    my facial expression?
    my body language?
    What values, qualities, characteristics are suggested
    by my manner and style?
    Use this exercise with
    people you meet on the street,
    people who ride with you on the elevator,
    who live in your neighborhood,
    who work in your building…
    This is a projective technique,
    like a Rorschach Inkblot test,
    that says more about you than the other people.
    They show you who you are.
    you see yourself reflected back to you in them.
    They are mirrors
    showing you to you in a particular point in time.
    They are doorways into a meditation,
    an introspection,
    of you.
    We see in others what we long for in ourselves,
    or what we fear might be in ourselves,
    or what we cannot face in ourselves.
    What holes are being filled by what we see in them?
    What buttons are being pushed?
    What resentments and hostilities are being loosed?
    What needs and longings are being stirred?
    How does what we say about them
    relate to what needs to be faced in ourselves?
    To what needs to be affirmed and celebrated in ourselves?
    To what needs to be embraced and exhibited in ourselves?
    In what ways do we need to become them?
    In what ways do we need to see that we are them?
    What can they show us about who we are?
  59. 07/30/2016 — Cypress Trees 2015 02 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We are back-and-forth between worlds,
    walking two paths at the same time.
    The Glen occasionally lies beneath the flight path
    of airliners on their landing approach
    to Charlotte International Airport.
    Nothing like that for disturbing the peace.
    This morning a Wren was chirping
    during and between flights.
    My attention was yanked from the Wren
    to the airliner, to the wren, to the next airliner…
    In this world, in that world, in this world…
    That is how it is between the worlds for all of us
    much–or most–of the time.
    Now we see it, now we don’t.
    Now we are with it, now we aren’t.
    Now we are in the flow, now we are out of flow.
    With the Wren, I was at one with the natural world,
    to be torn out of that world into the noisy reality
    of the other world.
    Parallel worlds in space and time.
    From at one with the way of things
    to dishevel, disruption, distraction…
    Yet,
    that, too, is the way of things.
    The rhythm of life.
    In and out,
    ebb and flow
    coming and going…
    There is no static, steady, way of being.
    Life is dynamic, in flux, transformative, always moving, ALIVE.
    The flow is always in place–
    chaos and disorder are different phases of order and harmony.
    We take it all in,
    make peace with it all,
    allow it all to be,
    allow ourselves to be at one with it all,
    holding everything in our awareness,
    we come back to the center in upheaval and calm.
  60. 07/31/2016 — The Vine Begins — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 28, 2016 The Psyche is, among other things,
    that which has always been called “God.”
    The experience of—the encounter with—
    Psyche breaking forth into our life,
    is to experience—encounter—a reality
    that can only be described as “numinous.”
    It has been thought of, and called,
    “An experience with God,”
    through the ages.
    To understand/interpret that experience/encounter
    as evidence of Psychic reality,
    is to lay aside all the theologies, dogmas, doctrines, rituals and religions,
    and to take up the life-long work
    of understanding/comprehending/applying
    the meaning of the term,
    “Thy will, not mine, be done.”
    Aligning ourselves with—living in accord with—
    the self-reflecting internal guidance system
    of the Psyche living through us
    to express, exhibit, incarnate, reveal, become
    itself in our life
    is to know the wonder of the realization
    that we cannot express Psyche
    without being ourselves.
    We bring Psyche forth in our life
    by being who we are:
    “Thou Art That.”
    “The Father And I Are One.”
    “All Is One.”
    “One is All.”
    Who would have thought it?
    Who can deny it?
    Only those to do not know the truth of
    their own experience.
  61. 07/31/2016 — Crane Fly Orchid 2016 01 Detail — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 30, 2016 If you have a problem
    and don’t know what to do,
    sit quietly with it,
    holding it—
    and your anxiety about it—
    in your awareness,
    without running from the pain
    by changing the subject
    or forcing a solution before its time.
    Simply sit quietly with the problem
    and all of its ramifications.
    And see what occurs to you.
    If, after 20 minutes or so,
    nothing has happened,
    make an appointment with the silence
    in order to return to it at a particular time and place—
    if something occurs to you
    in the meantime,
    receive it thankfully,
    and be glad.
  62. 08/01/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 14 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 28, 2016 — We have here an adult, probably the male, teaching this year’s juvenile, how to find food. The adult will fly to the young bird and feed it, as though it is in the nest, much like Anne Sullivan signed “water” in the palm of Helen Keller, until it makes the connection and can feed itself in the world it is about to enter on its own. We have to guard our own solitude,
    defend our own peace,
    be strong in the service of our own soul.
    We have to learn how to feed ourselves physically and spiritually.
    We are responsible for the life we are living–
    for living the life that is ours to live.
    “What life am I living?”
    “What future am I serving?”
    “How will I bring myself forth in the time that remains?”
  63. 08/02/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 2, 2016 Wisdom is
    seeing what you look at
    and looking at everything.
    Knowing what you know
    and knowing what you don’t know.
    Knowing what’s what
    and what needs to be done about it
    In each situation as it arises.
    And doing it.
    May we all be so wise
    all our life long!
  64. 08/03/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 1, 2016 Our place is to remember our place
    and not strive for more
    than is necessary
    to find our life
    and live it.
    In light of this
    I offer you what could be
    a daily blessing:
    May we live within our limits
    and not seek more than is appropriate
    an any situation as it arises,
    may we be content to let our life be our life,
    and allow our realizations to come upon us in their own time,
    holding everything in our awareness,
    doing what needs to be done about it,
    and letting that be that.
  65. 08/04/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 3, 2016 Irrationality has been around for millions of years
    longer than logic and reason.
    Guess what logic and reason
    don’t stand a chance against.
    In the conflict with irrationality
    logic and reason can only hold their ground
    against all logic and reason,
    bearing the pain of opposition,
    holding out in the service of transcendence–
    which itself is illogical and unreasonable–
    hoping against hope
    (Which also is illogical and unreasonable)
    for the unthinkable, unimaginable, impossible
    (Ditto)
    to happen–
    for a shift to occur beyond all expectation,
    transcending the polarities
    and making possible
    a new way of perceiving/understanding/interpreting
    the situation
    (Which is called in some circles “growing up”).
    We can only hope
    to grow beyond
    the ridiculous and absurd
    (And for the ridiculous and absurd
    To grow beyond themselves).
    We will never
    talk them into becoming
    logical, reasonable and sane.
  66. 08/04/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 4, 2016 We are responsible for knowing where our peace
    is to be found,
    and guarding it with diligence, devotion, dedication and determination.
    Where is your peace found?
    You have to know!
    No one is going to say,
    “Honey, don’t you worry.
    I’ll see to it that nothing robs you of your peace.”
    We are on our own.
    Our life is up to us.
    Our peace is ours to find, protect and serve.
  67. 08/05/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 4, 2016 Doing “the right thing”
    can, often enough, be the wrong thing to do.
    How do we know
    when to do what?
    We don’t know
    when to do what.
    Knowing what we don’t know
    is an aspect
    of knowing what we know.
    Knowing that we don’t know
    when doing “the right thing”
    may well be the wrong thing,
    slows us down
    and invites us to reflect,
    to consider the possibilities,
    to consult the Inner Guide,
    to see what our stomach,
    and other parts of our body,
    has/have to say in the matter,
    to look for the “Uh-oh Feeling.”
    To see what we know
    about what we don’t know,
    and allow what resonates with us
    to take the lead—
    Ready to back out of there
    at the first sign
    of a red flag.
    Do not automatically override
    your disinclination
    to do “the right thing.” Look.
    Listen.
    Attend.
  68. 08/05/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 2016 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 23, 2016 Mother Nature is a monster.
    All that beauty,
    all those harmonies,
    are what remains of calamity, devastation, destruction and death.
    Out of death comes life
    and back into death it goes.
    The planets and solar systems in their orbits
    are the results of collisions, explosions and implosions
    unimaginable and unsurvivable.
    Wonderful Yellowstone National Park
    rests on the top crust of an active caldera
    that has blown a number of times
    and will blow again—
    perhaps bringing on a nuclear winter,
    and another “near extinction” of life on the planet.
    God makes masterpieces
    with a sickle and a scythe.
    And we have to make our peace with that.
    However, we choose, instead, to go with denial and distraction,
    and religion becomes an accessory to the lie
    instead of an agent of accommodation and acquiescence.
    We need to be able to live in the world as it is,
    in accord with the world as it is.
    Such is the essence of integration, transcendence and harmony.
    Anything less is a mask for the emptiness
    that comes with knowing
    what we cannot allow ourselves to acknowledge.
  69. 08/05/2016 — Blue Jay 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 30, 2016 Elvis died empty and alone.
    Proving once again the old adage,
    money can’t buy you what you need.
    And drugs, alcohol and sex, sex, sex
    can’t give you what you need.
    What you need is waiting for you
    to live an authentic life
    in ways that align inner with outer,
    and exhibit true integrity of being with living.
    When we are who we are
    in life, word and deed,
    we have what we need,
    and no one can take it away from us,
    or give us anything more.
    We have it all,
    and it is apparent
    in the way we live
    day-to-day
    throughout our life.
  70. 08/06/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 We cannot grow up
    without being different
    in significant ways. How different can we be?
    we need to be different in some ways.
    We have no business being different in some ways.
    We are wasting our time trying to be different in some ways.
    Here’s the plan:
    Our task is simple.
    We have to sit with the problem
    (This applies to all problems)
    of what needs to be different about us,
    and hold in our awareness
    the matter of what needs to be different about us,
    and what can be different about us
    and what has no business being different about us—
    and see what changes arise
    out of that contemplation.
    The rest of our life is no more difficult than that.
    We see
    and we wait to see.
    We don’t DO anything.
    We SEE everything.
    The doing arises spontaneously from the seeing.
    See?
  71. 08/06/2016 — Crane Fly Orchid 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 2, 2016 The experience of the Buddha under the Bodhi Tree,
    the experience of Jesus in the wilderness,
    are easily replicated in our own experience,
    simply by sitting quietly,
    or lying in a hammock in the stillness of a natural setting.
    The silence is never silent,
    either externally or internally.
    Attend what arises in the silence,
    and what arises in response to what arises,
    and what arises in response to that…
    holding the entire train of associations in your awareness—
    seeing how this corresponds to that,
    and what that means in light of this…
    Simply attend the whole circus
    including all that arises in response to the circus in the circus,
    enlarging the circus to include everything.
    See what occurs to you as you take it all into account.
    See what insights and realizations come to mind.
    And if you feel like you are in the circus
    and not observing it,
    remember your breath.
    Inhale deeply through your nose,
    exhale slowly through your mouth,
    and bring yourself back
    to this here, this now,
    this space, this time.
    The Buddha grounded himself by touching the earth.
    Jesus grounded himself by eating and drinking.
    Carl Jung worked with stones and mortar.
    Physical reality grounds us in this world
    as we explore that world.
    Without a foundation here,
    there is only empty wandering there.
    And without exploring there,
    there is only empty wandering here.
  72. 08/07/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 16 – Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 We are each capable of all of the responses
    humans have ever made
    to situations humans have faced
    in the course of their lives.
    My wife’s peace of mind,
    and her freedom to work without anxiety
    in the flower beds,
    and that of the grandchildren
    playing croquet on the lawn
    mean more to me than
    any snake slithering through the yard.
    The snakes better take the long way around.
    Mother Nature is a monster,
    and we are her children.
    The Hero’s Journey pulls from us
    what needs to come forth
    to meet whatever situations arise.
    We cannot hold anything back
    that would be appropriate to the occasion,
    no matter how reprehensible it might be
    in other settings.
    Do not be ashamed to offer what is needed
    in the moment it is called for.
    The Dalai Lama’s bodyguards
    carry automatic weapons
    to dissuade all snakes considering
    slithering through the yard.
  73. 08/07/2016 — Cypress Trees 05 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2016 What we seek in our
    saviors,
    heroes,
    idols,
    and loves,
    is to be found only in ourselves.
    What is missing
    is what is ignored,
    dismissed,
    disregarded,
    discounted
    and despised The stone that the builders rejected.
    The pearl of great price in the costume jewelry counter.
    Like a root out of dry ground,
    he was loathed and abhorred.
    And he is also a she.
    Living within each of us,
    waiting to be recognized
    and invited to become a full partner with us
    in living the life
    that remains to be lived.
  74. 08/08/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 02, 2016 There is no substitute for
    having the right kind of people
    in our life,
    and no immunity against
    what having the wrong kind of people
    can do there.
    The right or wrong kind of people
    are like our genetic make-up,
    And more important.
    we stand helpless before
    the decree of Fate—
    and work out our destiny
    under the burden or grace
    of that initial given.
    And it is important to remember
    that we have nothing to do
    with the people who receive us
    from the womb
    and are charged with our care and tending,
    setting the trend for the karmic matrix
    of our life.
    Things would be better
    for us all
    with a better start,
    and better help,
    along the way, here we are.
    now what?
    We start with not blaming ourselves
    for what we have to work with,
    and then we get to work
    with the practice of developing
    mindful awareness
    and applying it throughout our life—
    looking until we see,
    listening until we hear,
    pondering, inquiring, reflecting,
    until we understand what’s what
    and what needs to be done about it
    in each situation as it arises.
    all our life long.
  75. 08/08/2016 — Eastern Towhee 2016 06 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 7, 2016 If you are not occasionally weighed down
    with sadness and remorse
    over various aspects
    of the way things are,
    you are in denial.
    We cannot discount, disregard, dismiss, gloss over and/or brush aside
    any part of the truth
    of the world we go to sleep in every night
    and the world we wake up to every morning
    “Because Jesus is coming soon
    And it will all be made up to us in heaven.”
    We cannot use the good to dispense with the bad.
    tragedy and elation,
    joy and sorrow,
    bliss and desolation
    do not cancel each other out.
    We bear the pain—
    we live in the tension—
    of the polarities of the experience
    of being human,
    and carry in our bodies
    the wounds of
    “All that is grave and constant” (James Joyce)
    in the lives of all people
    in every age.
    It is our birthright and our obligation
    to open ourselves fully
    to the impact of having lived—
    to know “the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth”
    of what it is to be human.
    And to say,
    as it has been said before us,
    “We have seen all there is to be seen,
    and it is good!
    and we love it so!” —
    because that, too, is true.
  76. 08/09/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 03 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 If we play our cards right,
    What???
    What’s the desired outcome
    of playing our cards right?
    We live to exploit and enhance
    our position, don’t we?
    We live with
    wealth, privilege, profit, benefit and advantage in mind,
    don’t we?
    Barring those things,
    what’s the point?
    What is a really good effort worth
    if it doesn’t win the gold?
    And what is winning the gold worth
    if it doesn’t produce
    wealth, privilege, benefit and advantage?
    Joseph Campbell said
    the central point of the Bhagavad Gita is
    “Get in there and do your thing,
    and don’t worry about the outcome!”
    Play your cards right
    for the sake of playing your cards right
    and let that be enough.
    That is the essence of every life
    lived with integrity.
    Jesus and the Buddha head the list
    of those who did it with
    all their heart
    for nothing beyond having done it
    that way.
  77. 08/09/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 11 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 9, 2016 — A composite photo combining 8 different images of the same Goldfinch.

    Donald Trump’s supporters are strongly in favor of
    sending Latino immigrants back to Mexico and beyond,
    and building a wall along the border between the US
    and the other Americas—
    and sending all Muslims,
    whether immigrants or natural-born US Citizens,
    back to their homeland
    (Never mind that this country IS THEIR HOMELAND
    by birth or adoption via naturalization).
    Let us then put the three groups together,
    Trump’s supporters, Latinos and Muslims,
    and ask, “Which group
    has no idea of what it means to be a United States Citizen?
    Which group has no understanding whatsoever
    of what it means to pledge allegiance to this Republic
    ‘with Liberty and Justice for All’?
    Which group has no grasp of the Constitution,
    of the liberties it guarantees
    and the responsibilities it requires us to accept?
    Which group has no conception of civility,
    much less of civil rights?”
    And “Why doesn’t that group pack up
    and hie out to some hinterland
    where they could hate everyone
    to their shriveled little heart’s content?”
  78. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 08/11/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 9, 2016 Start with your favorite religion
    and ask whomever gave it to you
    how they know that
    what they have been told about it is so.
    They will say something like
    “Everyone knows that it is so.”
    Or, “Everyone who knows knows that it is so—
    And this has always been so.”
    Everyone’s favorite religion
    goes back into the dim regions
    when The One Who Knew It First Knew It Is So.
    Everyone’s favorite religion—
    and all of the other ones as well—
    was/were made up long ago by someone who said,
    “I tell you, this is so!
    from that point,
    every religion is held to be the one true religion
    by those who have verified its validity for themselves
    In their own experience.
    Belief is self-validating.
    Try to talk a schizophrenic out of what they know to be so.
    “Reason cannot uproot what reason did not plant.”
    At some point, every religion has to be
    “Taken on faith.”
    It has to be believed to be so in order to be so
    in the experience of those who so believe.
    It is all made up.
    Like schizophrenia.
    The internal process of self-verification/validation
    takes over from there,
    and what we say is so is so
    because we say so.
    “Never mind what the facts are,
    We know what the TRUTH is!”
  79. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 08/11/2016 — First Leaves of Fall 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 11, 2016 — The Black Gum loves to beat the gun, and is known throughout the south as “The Show-off of the forest.” If we are going to make up something to believe,
    and we have no choice in the matter,
    if we believe there is nothing worth believing,
    we make that up.
    We make up whatever we believe.
    And since that is the case,
    I suggest believing with all our heart
    that what we do matters,
    that the life we live matters—
    and that we live as though it does
    in everything we do.
    We vote, for instance, like our vote matters.
    We respond to the other people in our life
    as though the way we respond
    makes all the difference in their life.
    We live in each moment
    as though there are no throw-away moments.
    We rise to each occasion
    as though each one is the most important occasion yet,
    and needs our full attention
    and complete participation.
    I write these notes to you
    as though they are the swing point
    from dark to light
    in your life.
    You can tell me they are not
    if you want to,
    but I’m not going to believe you.
  80. 08/12/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 11, 2016 How is your life style
    interfering with your life?
    Blocking your life?
    Preventing your life?
    Killing your life?
    If you are clueless about what I’m asking,
    here’s a different way of putting it:
    How are your symptoms
    interfering with your life?
    When our life style
    keeps us from living our life,
    our symptoms show up,
    move in,
    make themselves at home.
    And we spend our time
    dealing with our symptoms—
    time that would be spent
    living our life,
    if our life style weren’t in the way.
  81. 08/012/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 6, 2016 If you aren’t pursuing your life—
    what it means to live your life,
    to give yourself fully to the expression of who you are
    by the way you live your life—
    with complete devotion, loyalty, dedication and determination
    in the time left for living,
    you’re just passing the time,
    hoping to be entertained and comfortable,
    until you die.
    You are a spectator,
    not a participant,
    and nothing can be done for you
    in any substantive way.
    What you need can only be generated from within:
    Heart, soul, courage, spirit, the will to live…
    These things are an inside job.
    You are all up to you
    while life is yet possible
  82. 08/12/2016 — Goodale 2015 31 — Overflow, Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We are here to bring ourselves forth
    to meet our life.
    What happens to us
    will arrest our development,
    or grow us up.
    Will open us to the hidden possibilities within,
    or close us off from the gifts we carry.
    Will deepen us,
    or consign us forever to wade in the shallows.
    Will call us out,
    or lock us away.
    Will wake us up,
    or numb us out.
    You get the idea.
    We are here to live our life to the full truth
    of who we are,
    so that nothing remains unlived without
    or unknown within.
    We have the time left for living to be alive.
  83. 08/13/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 19 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 12, 2016 We seek in others
    what is to be found within.
    We see in others
    what is to be seen within.
    What repels us about others
    resides denied, ignored, within—
    to be acknowledged,
    worked with,
    in softening ourselves
    into compassionate,
    welcoming places to be.
    “Thou Art That.”
    “Become What You Seek.”
    “Recognize How You Harbor What You Despise.”
    We are all variations on a theme.
    We reflect each other to each other.
    We are here to see what we are doing
    and live so as to bring forth in the world
    the gifts and qualities that reside within
    for the good of the whole.
  84. 08/13/2016 — Cottontail 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 17, 2016 Elvis had it all and it wasn’t enough.
    He wanted to be as big as Jesus—
    and thought he was.
    He was waiting for it to become apparent
    when he died.
    Elvis is our model
    for how not to do it.
    “I’m not the King. Jesus is the King. I’m just a singer.”
    The words fall flat.
    “Just a singer with aspirations bigger than life,”
    would be more like it.
    How to contain our ambition is the question.
    How to live within ourselves—
    in accord with ourselves,
    is the other one.
    Jesus did it.
    Elvis didn’t.
    Where will we fall out on that continuum?
    The key is our degree of
    mindful awareness and self-transparency.
    Placing our attention in the service
    of those things
    would be fitting and proper
    in all times and places.
  85. 08/14/2016 — Spillway — Adams Mill Pond, Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 All the tools of the spiritual journey:
    journals, coloring books, labyrinths, singing bowls, etc.
    are for creating space for ourselves to connect with ourselves—
    a space in which to commune with ourselves.
    The focus of meditation, contemplation, reflection
    is listening within—
    listening to ourselves,
    past all of the clamoring din of
    memories, regrets, fears, anxieties, worries, plans, schemes, etc.
    to/for the central voice,
    the voice of The One Who Knows What’s What.
    We are building a relationship
    with the center, ground, core, foundation of our life—
    establishing our identity,
    finding our own authority—
    by distancing ourselves from the background noise in our life,
    and making a place for ourselves.
    Solitude and silence connect us with us,
    and form a partnership for life.
    It’s all we’ve been missing.
  86. 08/14/2016 — Reelfoot Lake HDR 15 — Reelfoot Lake State Park, Hornbeak, Tennessee, November 4, 2015 — This is a repeat, just because I like it, and why not? If we fully attended our life,
    the way we live it would be transformed completely
    over the time left for living.
    It starts with watching all of the
    Jon Kabat-Zinn You Tube videos
    and taking up the practice of mindfulness meditation,
    which asks practically nothing of us.
    What, exactly, then, is the problem?
    If you would prefer to go to a little trouble and expense,
    You could look up NHO Hammocks on Amazon,
    order their $49.95 hammock with Special Promotion Straps,
    put it up in some natural setting
    and practice your mindfulness meditation there
    as often as you can manage.
    You won’t get a better prescription
    with a better outcome
    from any of the people
    offering personal development
    and life transformation coaching
    anywhere in the known universe.
    So, what’s the problem?
  87. 08/15/2016 — Northern Flicker-yellow-banded 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 14, 2016 Tomorrow will be the 39th anniversary of Elvis’ death.
    At one point, near tears, Elvis asked his “spiritual advisor,”
    “Do you realize I’ll never know if a woman loves me or Elvis Presley?”
    His question begged the unasked question:
    “Is it more important for you to be you or to be Elvis Presley?”
    It’s the question we all live to answer:
    Is it more important to be ourselves or our image, our persona?
    Who are we trying to be?
    Who do we wish we were?
    What is Life?
    What is Death?
    Elvis’ life and death challenge us
    to ask, and answer, the questions.
  88. 08/16/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 14 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 15, 2016 There is YOU,
    and there is NOT YOU.
    We have to do plenty that is NOT YOU
    in order to pay the bills.
    We pay the bills in order to be YOU,
    where, and when, and how we can be.
    If we pay the bills in the service of thing that are NOT YOU,
    we play Double Jeopardy with our life,
    and live lost to ourselves,
    without hope in the world.
    We have to get together with ourselves,
    and do the things that are YOU,
    and be the YOU we are,
    in the time left for living.
    If not now, when?
  89. 08/17/2016 — Brown-headed Nuthatch 2016 06 — Two photos blended, using the same Goldfinch twice, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 16, 2016 Elvis missed his mother.
    An Eternal Boy needs a Perennial Mother.
    It doesn’t work that way,”
    and Eternal Boys have a hard time making it on their own.
    I think Elvis’ theme song was “Teddy Bear.”
    “I don’t want to be your tiger,
    tigers play too rough.
    I don’t want to be your lion,
    lions aren’t the kind
    you’ll love enough.
    Just want to be
    your teddy bear,
    put your arms
    around my neck
    and drag me anywhere—
    just want to be
    your teddy bear.”
    Our life requires us to grow up
    against our will.
    To find within what we seek without:
    Self-assurance, self-direction, self-correction, self-determination, self-reliance…
    The Foundation Stone, the Center, the Core, the Ground
    of our life and being
    can never be Mamma—
    can never be someone saying,
    “Come here, Honey, let me take care of that for you.”
    We are responsible for our own life–
    and that is not just earning a living
    (Elvis did that well).
    It is living to do what we live to do.
    Eternal Boys living to be loved enough,
    missed something somewhere along the way.
  90. 08/17/2016 — Katydid 2016 01 —On the way to the Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 14, 2016 Can you say no when no needs to be said
    without having to
    explain,
    defend,
    justify,
    excuse
    your position
    by having a reason
    that would make things,
    at least,
    understandable?
    Does your “No” have to be understandable,
    even to you?
  91. 08/18/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 15 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 17, 2016, A composite photograph combining seven photographs of the same bird at the bird bath/watering station. I would like to help you with your life,
    help connect you with your life,
    help you be who you are within the time and place,
    conditions and circumstances,
    of your living. Remember potty training?
    Remember the terrible twos?
    Remember kindergarten?
    Standing in line?
    Waiting your turn?
    Doing as you were/are told?
    The degree to which we are free to be who we are
    is sharply restricted by the time and place,
    conditions and circumstances,
    of our living.
    It’s one compromise after another.
    This business of being in accord with our life,
    being who we are, when and where and how things are with us,
    is completely ridiculous.
    Who can do it with any chance of success?
    enter addiction/alcoholism, suicide, severe mental illness,
    and deviant behaviors in the extreme—
    all reflecting an I Give Up And Quit perspective/orientation.
    This is the truth as clearly as it has ever been stated,
    and we need someone standing at the exit of the womb,
    giving us last minute instructions to this end
    just before we are born:
    It is all hopeless, pointless, useless and absurd—
    and comes to an inevitable and very bad end—
    and how you deal with that
    makes all the difference.
    When we step into the world,
    we enter a “terrible, horrible, no good, very bad” situation,
    and have to do what we can with it “even in Australia.”
    How well we put ourselves in accord
    with this over-arching truth
    governing all of life on the planet
    and live the best life we can live,
    in good faith with complete self-transparency,
    anyway,
    nevertheless,
    even so,
    for no reason beyond
    that’s the way we are going to do it,
    tells the tale.
  92. 08/19/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 16 — The Breakfast Club, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 18, 2016, A composite photograph combining two images of two female Goldfinches. The last church I served before retirement
    offered space for “A Gathering of Sojourners”
    for people to explore ways of deepening/expanding
    their experience of the Numen
    as they sought to find their life and live it.
    If we all had the availability of that kind of space,
    and that kind of gathering,
    we would have what we need
    to find what we need
    to do what needs to be done.
    What more would we need?
  93. 08/19/2016 — Crane Fly Orchid 2016 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 18, 2016 We all know how nice it would be to have help from on high (or anywhere)
    in dealing with the deep needs of life,
    like food, and water, and encroaching Bad Guys.
    We all need a sanctuary where we can express our fear and anguish,
    and invoke the benevolent powers to intervene in our behalf.
    Where do you go to find help with what you need?
    Carl Jung said whenever we encounter something mysterious
    we project our own assumptions onto it.
    We tell ourselves things about it that make sense to us—
    and have nothing whatsoever to do with what we experience.
    We create a religion and talk about “the man upstairs.”
    There is no man.
    There are no stairs.
    Jung also said, “In each of us there is another whom we do not know.”
    He is speaking of the Deep Self in the unconscious psyche.
    We project outward what is inward,
    and seek “out there” beyond the cosmos,
    the source of consolation and reassurance—
    that ever-present help in time of trouble—
    that dwells within.
    To access The One Who Knows within,
    we have to learn the language of soul,
    and become friends with silent reflection,
    holding in our awareness,
    the full truth of the present moment,
    and see what occurs to us,
    allowing that to draw
    us forth into the field of action.
  94. 08/20/2016 — Goldfinch 2016 18 — Just Out Of The Nest, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 19, 2016 If it isn’t a part of your field of focus,
    it is a part of your zone of distraction.
    It is about the work.
    not about the ambitions,
    the dreams,
    the plans,
    the agendas, the aspirations…
    There is the work
    and there is all that is keeping us from doing the work.
    The work is our life,
    our business,
    our reason for being.
    We can talk about “taking care of business,”
    but it has to be the right business
    we are taking care of.
    If anything is wrong about your life,
    if you are dealing with symptoms,
    worries,
    anxieties,
    the sense that things are not right,
    out of sync,
    unraveling,
    falling apart,
    disintegrating before your eyes, You are off the beam,
    chasing after that which is not IT.
    Sit quietly,
    Holding everything in your awareness,
    until something emerges
    that you know to be IT,
    and do what needs to be done about it.
    Stay focused on it.
    Live to serve it with your life,
    past all of the attractive wonders
    and beautiful possibilities
    that are not IT.
    Get IT down
    and you have it made,
    and the rest of the world
    along with you.
  95. 08/21/2016 — White-breasted Nuthatch 2016 04 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 8, 2016 The two essential things
    that you don’t have enough of in your life
    are stillness and silence.
    It takes a lot of both
    to discover and live out of
    your center, ground, and foundation
    in all conditions, contexts, and circumstances,
    in each situation as it arises
    your whole life long.
    Stillness and silence
    are the two things we most decisively avoid.
    We take sleeping aids
    to help us sleep away the nights
    and avoid facing the stillness/silence
    with all that brings to our attention.
    We cannot deal with the monsters and madness waiting there.
    The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    Jesus in the wilderness,
    could tell us a thing or two about monsters and madness,
    and about the ministering angles,
    and the helpful spirits,
    that are also present to help us face what must be faced:
    The truth of how it is with us.
    We cannot be anything until we can be quiet
    on a regular basis,
    and come to terms with all that is to be found there.
  96. 08/21/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 07 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, July 7, 2016 Two of the monsters we meet in the silence,
    when we are still and quiet,
    are called:
    That Which We Have Done Or Failed To Do, and
    That Which Happened To Us Or Failed to Happen.
    We have to face squarely
    and come to terms with
    our disappointments and betrayals,
    self-induced and perpetuated by others,
    or brought on by circumstances beyond anyone’s control.
    “This is the way it has been in my life,
    and this is the way it has not been,
    and this is what I have done in response
    up to this point,
    and this is what I need to do about it now.”
    As a Phoenix rises from its own ashes,
    so do we all—
    in living toward where we are going,
    out of where we have been.
  97. 08/21/2016 — Mourning Dove 2016 04 Silhouette — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, August 21, 2016 We have to make our peace with our past
    and with our present—
    in a “Here We Are, Now What?” kind of way.
    Regardless of what our past has been,
    and no matter what our present is,
    they have gotten us here, now.
    What now, is the question.
    Where we are going is more important
    than where we have been,
    or where we are.
    What we have learned to this point in our life
    will be invaluable in the next phase—
    the one beginning now.
    As we step into our future,
    three tools will provide us with
    all we need to find our life and live it:
    Mindfulness,
    Compassion,
    and Courage.
    Those three things will enable us
    to live transparent to ourselves
    and keep good faith with ourselves
    and all sentient beings.
    Everything will fall into place around this.

One Minute Monologues 033

May 15, 2016 – June 29, 2016

  1. 05/15/2016 — No one can tell you what your business is.
    No one can tell you what is meaningful to you.
    No one can tell you what is important to you.
    No one can tell you what makes your heart sing.
    No one can tell you what you love.
    No one can tell you where your life is to be found. Why do you listen to everyone on the planet
    Except yourself?
    Why do you allow just anyone
    To lead you away from what
    Is central,
    Foundational,
    Essential and primary
    To you?
    To give you boxes of smoke
    And bags of sawdust
    As substitutes
    For the grounding core of your life and being?
    Whose. Side. Are. You. On?
  2. 05/16/2016 —Great Solomon’s Seal 2016 02 Panorama — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 The test is always the same
    For the heroes of every generation:
    Do you have what it takes
    To do what is hard?
    It is never any more difficult
    Than doing what is hard.
    Odysseus leads the way:
    “I will endure through suffering hardship,
    And when the heaving sea
    Has shaken my raft to pieces,
    Then I will swim!”
    Suffering the hardship
    Of our trials and ordeals
    Is the nature of the Hero’s Journey,
    And the only thing required of those
    Who seek the treasure hard to find.
  3. 05/16/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 13 B&W — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You have to make some decisions
    When it comes to the Spiritual Quest,
    The Hero’s Journey.
    One is “Whose life is it?”
    If you are trying to get some invisible help
    With achieving your goals, aims, desires, purposes,
    That’s one thing.
    If you are trying to assist some invisible intention
    By aligning yourself with its goals, aims, desires, purposes,
    That’s another thing.
    You cannot blend the two things.
    What do you think
    “Thy will, not mine, be done”
    Means?
    But don’t get Christian (Or Jewish) theology and doctrine
    Mixed up in this.
    It’s just you and your life.
    That would be you and your relationship with your life.
    Think in terms of your life’s will for your life
    And your will for your life.
    How does your life want to be lived?
    How does your life want you to live it?
    How far is the life you are living
    From the life that wants to be lived?
    Sit quietly and contemplate these things
    And see what occurs to you.
    You aren’t trying to think something up.
    You are watching your mind
    To see what comes along.
    Take up the practice of watching your mind
    To see what occurs to you.
  4. 05/17/2016 —Goodale 2015 53 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Your routine has to allow enough quiet time
    For you to seek the solace of silence,
    Become mindfully aware
    Of your life and your place in it,
    And watch/listen for what occurs to you
    Spontaneously
    On its own,
    Out of the heaving sea
    Of your context and circumstances,
    Surprising you with its
    Simplicity and relevance,
    And suggesting possibilities
    You would never think up
    Using only the left side of your brain.
  5. 05/17/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 14 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You can’t just go sit down somewhere
    When the mood strikes you
    And be quiet for 10 minutes
    And think you have done something.
    You have to cultivate a culture of silence
    So that it forms the source and ground
    Of your life—
    So that your life depends on the quietness
    As much as on food and water.
    Soul food is silence.
    But it takes regular,
    Recurring,
    Returns to silence—
    It takes immersions in silence—
    To get past “being quiet”
    And enter into The Great Quietness From Which All Things Come.
    It takes the practice of silence
    To come alive in the silence
    And know it as the origin of life and being.
  6. 05/17/2016 —Blurred Leaves 2016 01 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 The Big Surprise about retirement and aging
    Is the ease with which things I am not interested in
    Deplete and exhaust me.
    My doctor asks me at each year’s physical exam,
    “How’s your energy level.”
    Each year, I tell him,
    “I have plenty for the things I like to do.”
    Walking around the block is a pain and a chore.
    Walking in search of an owl is a joy.
    I used to be able to kid myself.
    My body no longer plays the game.
  7. 05/18/2016 —Hatteras Sunrise 2003 — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, NC, October 2003 Every photograph is a dance with synchronicity.
    I get up to take a sunrise at the beach and meet this.
    I go to the restroom at McDowell and the owl flies by.
    Each photo is the intersection of me with time and place,
    And stands as a reminder
    Of the sacredness of all our times and places.
    Every one of them.
    The ones we miss on our way to somewhere else.
    The ones we don’t have time for
    Because we have to be in some other place.
    This sunrise would slow down even the most pressed traveler,
    But the closer we look everywhere
    The more there is to see.
    Time is sacred.
    Place is holy.
    It only takes looking
    To see it is so.
  8. 05/18/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 08 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 If you are going to know anything,
    Know where to draw the line.
    That is knowing that establishes your identity.
    It is your rock and your foundation,
    Your stabilizing force and your guiding light.
    When you know where to draw the line,
    You know all you need to know
    To know what you need to know.
    It grounds you in all your inquiring and exploring.
    Secures you in all your wondering and imagining.
    You can go anywhere when you know where to draw the line.
    Scale any heights.
    Span any chasm.
    Plumb any depth.
    You have it made when you know where to draw the line,
    And are never without the confidence
    Of your own sense of what is right for you,
    And what is wrong.
  9. 05/19/2016 — Four Daisies 2016 01 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 17, 2015 The people who decry “political correctness”
    Brandish hatred.
    I ask you:
    Is it better to display
    Respect, kindness, compassion, civility, courtesy, understanding and benevolent, positive, regard
    For one another,
    Or to deepen divides, instill fear, and spawn hatred and distrust?
    You tell me the kind of person
    You want to be your Governor
    And your President.
  10. 05/19/2016 —Christmas Fern 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You know what your life is,
    And what it is not.
    You may not think you know what it is,
    But you know that you know what it is not.
    You also know what it is—
    It just isn’t what you think it should be.
    You are looking for some bigger, finer life.
    Some life that will take you somewhere,
    Some life you could ride to fame and fortune and glory everlasting.
    My life is looking out the window,
    And getting to the bottom of things.
    Does that give you an idea of the kind of life you are looking for?
    My life is also seeing how things could work,
    Making connections
    Interpreting things properly.
    These are the things I’m good at,
    And things I enjoy doing.
    But they won’t pay the mortgage.
    The life that is our life to live won’t likely pay the bills.
    We will have to do something else for that.
    But, we always have to keep our eye on our real life,
    And give it our full attention on a regular basis.
    You know what I’m talking about.
    You just have to know what you know.
    Once you get you out of the way,
    There it is.
  11. 05/20/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 16 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 We size things up
    And do what needs to be done about them
    The way only we can do it.
    Lao Tzu finally said, “The hell with it,”
    And walked off to live alone in the forest.
    Yoda holed-up on Dagobah.
    Sometimes, you have to walk away and wait it out.
    There are no scripts to follow,
    No equations to compute to know when to do what.
    WE size things up
    And WE decide what needs to be done about them
    The way only WE can do it.
    It’s all on us.
    We have to live our life the way we think it needs to be lived
    In each situation as it arises.
    It begins with seeing what we look at.
    And looking at everything.
  12. 05/20/2016 —Pitcher Plants 2016 05 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 We are being who we are
    When we see what we look at,
    When we hear what we listen to,
    When we taste what we taste,
    When we smell what we smell,
    When we touch what we touch,
    When we think what we think,
    When we know what we know,
    When we feel what we feel,
    When we love what we love,
    When we honor what is important to us,
    When we live in accord
    With what is deepest, truest and best about us,
    When we are grounded on the foundation
    Of our own experience
    And trust ourselves to have what we need
    To find what we need
    To be who we are
    In the context and circumstances of our life.
  13. 05/20/2016 —Goodale 2016 03 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 In the silence—
    That would be,
    Not just any silence,
    But the right kind of silence—
    We become “the still point of the turning world.”
    And we see all that can be seen,
    And know the things that can be known
    Exactly as they are.
    And that seeing,
    That knowing,
    Becomes for us as a guiding light
    Directing us
    To what needs us to do it
    In each situation as it arises.
    This is the power of the still point.
    Our place is to carry the stillness
    With us when we leave the silence,
    As a blessing and a grace
    Upon the situations that,
    And the people who,
    Come our way.
    It is not for our merit or advantage
    That we serve the stillness.
    There is nothing to exploit,
    no gain to seek.
    It is enough to be still
    And to see, and know, and do
    As a blessing and a grace.
  14. 05/21/2016 —Goodale 2015 54 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Life is lived between what we can do
    And what we cannot do—
    Between what we will do
    And what we will not do.
    It is lived best
    When we do not kid ourselves
    About which is which.
  15. 05/21/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 17 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 A Vision Quest is a search for our essential identity—
    The shape is to assume—
    How we are to mold ourselves
    In accordance with the dictates of heart and soul.
    A Sumo wrestler requires a different regimen
    Than a harpist.
    How might we bring out the we we are built to be?
    Our interests, proclivities, gifts and abilities
    Lend themselves to a particular mode of expression.
    How do we give form to our content?
    The answer is not to be thought,
    But to be seen, heard, felt.
    We do not know we are in love
    By thinking about it.
    We do not get to our heart/soul through our head
    But through our body!
    Listen to your body!
    It will show you the way!
    Our Vision Quest
    Is to see what our body has to say.
  16. 05/22/2016 —Pamlico Sound Sunset — Cape Hatteras National Seashore, Ocracoke Island, Outer Banks, NC, October, 2012 There is grief and mourning, joy and gladness, but.
    There is very little drama in the natural world.
    Things happen there for good and for ill,
    And no matter what, life finds a way.
    Grounded in our own life,
    In our own particular way of being in the world,
    We will find a way.
    We are as resilient and as resourceful
    As any life-form ever in the history of life-forms.
    Once we step aside from the drama—
    The OMG’s and the Why Me’s and the When Will It Be My Turn—
    And take a reckoning of what has happened
    And what needs to be done about it,
    We will find ourselves doing what it takes
    To deal with the deal
    And make the best of the situation
    Like the servants of life that we are.
  17. 05/22/2016 —Two Daisies 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 17, 2015 We have to live in the stillness
    Long enough and frequently enough
    To be able to live out of the stillness
    When we are not in it.
    The stillness has to become one with us,
    So that it defines us
    And we learn from it—
    And exhibit it in all of our interactions
    With the world of
    Normal, apparent, reality.
    We become the source of the world’s stillness
    By the way we live in the world. We also have to hold the world at a distance
    In order to keep the noise
    Of the 10,000 things from drowning the silent stillness
    At the core of our being.
    We have to begin noting the things and the people
    Who rob us of our stillness,
    Recognize them as being toxic to our soul,
    And find ways to limit our time in their presence—
    And compensate ourselves
    With double doses of silence
    Whenever we cannot avoid them.
    We have to live in the stillness
    To be able to live out of it,
    And living out of it transforms the world.
  18. 05/25/2016 —Four Seasons Creek 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 21, 2016 The work of becoming human
    Is the work of becoming the best individual
    We are capable of being.
    Best and worst are competing within
    For the control of our life.
    As conscious egos,
    We have to make the peace,
    Heal the breach,
    Reconcile the differences,
    Integrate the polarities
    Restore wholeness
    And live as One.
    The best individual we are capable of being
    Is a compromise and a collaboration
    Of the best and the worst of our innate potential.
    We work it out
    In each situation as it arises—
    Never being quite as good,
    Or as bad,
    As we could be,
    But always being who we are and also are.
  19. Used in Short Talks On Contradictions, etc., 05/23/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 2016 34 — Shady Hollow Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 21, 2016 The work of becoming whole
    Is the work of consciousness,
    The work of mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness,
    The work of seeing (what we look at),
    Hearing (what is being said, verbally and non-verbally),
    And understanding (what’s what on all levels).
    It is the work of bearing the realization of our contradictions,
    Living within the tension of our conflicts,
    Transcending our polarities,
    And knowing what we know.
    It is the work of being transparent to ourselves,
    And accomplished in the art of integrity/integration.
    That’s wholeness for you.
  20. 05/23/2016 —Christmas Fern 2016 02 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 There is nothing new in the field of human experience.
    We’ve seen it all before.
    Bungee jumping may be a new way to be stupid,
    But being stupid has been around forever.
    There are new ways to work
    But working is nothing new.
    Free love and open marriage and gay marriage
    Are new, geologically speaking,
    But the problems of living together
    Are as old as sex itself.
    There are no new experiences.
    Why are we still walking into walls and off cliffs?
    Why haven’t we figured out war?
    Why do we keep responding
    To the same old experiences
    In the same old ways?
    Why is it so easy to be stupid,
    After all these years?
  21. 05/23/2016 —Honeysuckle 2016 02 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 5, 2016 There is no ideology.
    No theology.
    No doctrine.
    No creed.
    Nothing to deliver you
    Or save you
    From the struggle of squaring up to yourself
    And to the truth of your own experience.
    What we are seeking is “the treasure hard to find,”
    Namely, the inner confidence, assurance, certainty, foundation
    That we have what it takes
    To enter any situation,
    To face any circumstance or condition of life,
    And be who we are
    Without any chance of losing our connection
    With the core, the center, the ground, the foundation
    Of our own individual identity.
    We are seeking ourselves!
    We are seeking to know who we are
    With such clarity and conviction
    That it will never be taken from us
    By anything that comes our way.
    There is no ideology.
    No theology.
    No doctrine.
    No creed.
    That can hand you yourself.
    You have to find your way to you on your own.
    Here is a hint for you:
    Compassion is the way.
    Stillness and silence are the path.
    Sit quietly,
    See what comes up.
    Work with it.
    Dialogue with it.
    Write it out.
    Paint it out.
    Put it to music.
    Dance it out.
    Do not run away.
    You are seeking yourself
    And yourself is seeking you.
    So, what’s the problem?
  22. 05/24/2016 —Ebony Spleenwort Fern 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 7, 2016 We are seeking a Mythic Vision,
    Hoping to be swept up on a Mythic Journey,
    Where we lose all sense of caution
    And simply have to do the thing that needs us to do it.
    Falling in love is the closest thing in our experience
    To what we are after.
    Ever tried to fall in love?
    We are not in charge of the process, but.
    We can block it easily
    By not being attuned to the life we are living—
    By being distracted by the bright colors
    And Siren songs
    Of the lives that are not it.
    The Buddha waited under the Bo Tree
    Through all of the empty dreams.
    Jesus wandered through the deserted places,
    Past the glimmering promises of surrogate bliss.
    Stillness filters out the noise
    So that we might hear the whisper of truth
    Calling our name.
    Believe in the silence,
    And in the reality of that which knows your name.
  23. 05/24/2016 — I Should Apologize For The Soft Focus On The House Finch 2016 05 — Charlotte, NC, May 22, 2016 Stop being so rational, logical, left-brain driven!
    Lean toward those autonomous,
    Spontaneous,
    Urgent calls for action,
    Rising up from within.
    Naps are autonomous.
    Sleep is autonomous.
    Dreams are autonomous.
    You can’t order any of them up,
    Or schedule them in advance.
    Slips of the tongue.
    “Being in the mood” for a particular restaurant,
    Or menu item.
    Forgetting where you put the keys,
    Or remembering.
    Our right hemisphere
    Is well-suited for leading us along the path of its choosing.
    Trust yourself to its direction.
    Believe in its guidance.
    Don’t have to know what you are doing.
    Numinous seizures have been out of vogue for too long.
  24. 05/25/2016 —Goodale 2015 55 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 There are three things that keep us off the path,
    Three dragons that block the way
    To the treasure hard to find:
    Greed, Fear and Lethargy.
    Greed is wanting to exploit everything,
    Even the path, the way,
    In the service of our own ends.
    “What am I going to get out of it,
    What’s in it for me,
    And when will it start paying off?”
    Fear is the 10,000 What Ifs
    That have to be explained again and again
    And never can be satisfied.
    Lethargy is “Maybe I’ll get started tomorrow.”
    That’s a lot to overcome
    Just to be who you are.
    The alternative is oblivion.
    Which doesn’t sound all that bad
    With three very real dragons
    Standing in the path.
  25. 05/25/2016 —McDowell Barred Owl 09 Detail — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We act as though our will
    Is the only one at work in a situation,
    Or, at least, the most important one.
    The truth is a bit different.
    Everything in the situation has a will for the situation,
    Has a stake in the situation.
    To work in the service of our will for the situation
    Is to miss the mark
    (To “sin” according to the Biblical understanding of the term).
    The higher calling is
    To seek the good of the situation as a whole—
    To ask not what the situation can do for us,
    But what we can do for the situation,
    Using the gifts that we have to give
    In the service of the good of the whole.
    We step into the situation
    Centered and grounded in our identity—
    Who we are and what we have to offer—
    And look for ways to bring ourselves forth
    In doing what needs to be done there.
    We know who we are and who we are not.
    What we can do and what we cannot do.
    Enter the situation with that knowledge in mind,
    And live to be who you are—
    Not to get what you want.
  26. 05/26/2016 —Broad-winged Hawk 2016 01 — I crack myself up sometimes. And, besides that, this may not actually be a Broad-winged Hawk. Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 What is your problem?
    You know the one I mean.
    I mean THE PROBLEM.
    The one that came immediately to mind.
    That problem.
    Well, that problem is not the problem.
    The problem is how you feel about that problem.
    That problem would not be the problem it is
    If you felt differently about it.
    Carl Jung said,
    “The greatest and most important problems of life are all fundamentally insoluble. They can never be solved but only outgrown.”
    When we outgrow something,
    We feel differently about it.
    Feeling differently about something
    Changes everything.
    If you can’t do anything about your problems,
    Do something about the way you feel about them.
  27. 05/27/2016 —I don’t know if this is a Broad-winged Hawk, but. I’ll bet someone knows. If you can ID it for me, you’ll get three wishes. Who knows, maybe one will come true. #2 Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 Where does your deepest loyalty lie?
    To whom, or what, do you owe your all?
    Who, or what, do you serve above all else?
    Who, or what, will you not forsake or neglect ever in the slightest way?
    What matters most to you?
    How would other people, looking at your life,
    Know that it is so,
    Without you saying a word?
    I look out the window a lot.
    And I don’t answer the phone. That puts me at the center of my life.
    I recommend that you find your way
    To the center of yours.
  28. 05/27/2016 —Broad-winged Hawk 06 Sequence — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 Every situation can be improved
    With grace and compassion.
    Consciousness without grace and compassion
    Is Hell.
    Those who are conscious without grace and compassion
    Are the incarnation of Satan
    In the world of space and time.
    Our work is to become who we are
    In the time and place of our living
    (That would be in each situation as it arises)
    As agents of grace and compassion.
    We are to do our work
    Graciously, with compassion.
    Mindfulness leads the way
    With grace and compassion.
    Get living with grace and compassion down,
    And the world will be a better place.
  29. 05/27/2016 —Barn and Shed 02 — Lancaster County, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 There is a price to be paid.
    We can do what is hard,
    Or we can do it the hard way.
    This is the message of all rites of initiation.
    There are no shortcuts.
    We have to complete the tasks
    Associated with each stage of development
    In order to advance on to the next stage.
    Carl Jung thought that the purpose of our life
    Is to “individuate,”
    That is to say, “grow up” into the unique individual we are.
    We cannot become the unique individual we are
    Without growing up.
    Anthony Stevens says we have to “earn the right”
    To individuate “by discharging our biological (sexual, bonding, child rearing)
    And socioeconomic (professional, property-holding, money-making) obligations.”
    Too many people think they can avoid adulthood
    And progress smoothly from one grand party to the next,
    Living forever as an Eternal Youth,
    With no obligations, commitments, duties and responsibilities
    They can’t escape.
    All they need is a surfboard and the next wave (or their equivalents). All must submit to the rites of passage.
    The Life Unlived is the Life Unlived
    However we choose to not live it.
    And the price we pay for not living it
    Is the Burden Of The Blown Opportunity
    To carry through all eternity.
  30. 05/28/2016 —Queen Anne’s Lace 2016 01 B&W Panorama — Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, May 26, 2016 We have to be the center of our life,
    Our life has to be central to us.
    We have to collaborate with our life,
    To put ourselves in accord with our life,
    To live the life that is ours to live,
    To dance with our life all the way to the grave.
    We live to be one with our life.
    Everything else has to fall into place
    Around this.
  31. 05/28/2016 —Scarab Beetle 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 The Dung Beetle was considered sacred in Ancient Egypt,
    And a metaphor for “the treasure hard to find.”
    Who would think of looking there, of all places?
    Yet, there we are.
    We cannot deny that the Dung Beetle
    Has found treasure
    Where we would never seek it,
    And it stands for us as a reminder
    To notice when we are dismissing something,
    And reconsider.
  32. 05/28/2016 — The Scarab Beetle Encounter: Holiness Is A Very Personal Designation The Scarab Beetle photo will be a series, and is for me a miracle of serendipitous grace and the surprising presence of the Numen at work in my life. I knew Dung Beetles well in my childhood and youth in the Deep South. They would be about, doing their work, in the dust of hot, humid, summer days. Children played outside then and made regular encounters with the denizens of the natural world. One of our regular pastimes was to rake the lake. Five, or maybe seven, of us would pack together and roam through each day. A ready source of entertainment was to take a garden rake and walk along the shoreline of Roebuck Lake (In Itta Bena, Mississippi), thrusting the rake as far into the lake as short arms could manage, letting it sink to the bottom, and then hauling it up onto the shore, as we walked backwards up the bank, with our catch. We were always astounded at what came up. Mussels and crawfish, minnows and sunfish, turtles and tadpoles, snakes and eels, leeches and catfish… We would dip into the aquarium and explore our find with wonder at the world beneath the surface. I’m still amazed at the world beneath the surface, and remain fascinated at all things I am unconscious of— still raking the lake, poking around in unknown depths. Depths which rise up from time to time and drop at my feet things like a Scarab Beetle. After I left the wilds of my early years and entered my civilized phase of development, Scarab Beetles became a museum piece in my distant memory. Then I began to read Joseph Campbell and Carl Jung, and discovered the sacred nature of the beetle and its ball of dung, which is pushes backward with its long rear legs on each side of the ball, rolling it along as haphazard as a butterfly on the wing, to wherever it is going. “I’ll be damned,” I thought, “You never know holiness when it rolls right by.” And I began to look for the things, to reward then with respect and attention appropriate to the occasion. I took up photography, hoping to photograph one as it went diligently about its business. Never saw another one, until this morning. I was in the back yard watering flowers and plants when I noticed a fine specimen of a mushroom glistening in my recently applied wetness, and thought what a fine photo it would make. I put down the hose and fetched my camera. As I moved in to get the mushroom’s portrait, I saw the Scarab Beetle doing its thing. There on the forest floor at the edge of my backyard. My jaw surely dropped. I don’t remember it, but dropping jaws always mark the advent of a serendipitous engagement with numinous reality breaking into our life. The very chance of it all! The mushroom and my response to it, getting the camera, for the very moment that the beetle’s path crossed my own! Grace upon Grace, Benevolence beyond measure! I watched the beetle at work, taking photos all along, for maybe ten minutes, until it reached the shade of the forest’s trees. I took my camera back into the house and returned to wish the beetle well. I was gone two minutes max. I’d watched the beetle make its way for ten. I knew about how far it would have gone in two. The beetle was nowhere to be found. I scoured the area carefully. No beetle. Where had it come from? Where was it going? How did it disappear? Now you see it, now you don’t. The Numen at work in our life.
  33. 05/29/2016 — Cardinal 2016 01 — Food for the Babies, Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 We think safety, security, stability and peace
    Depend upon a weapon, or weapons,
    Of indomitable, destructive, ability.
    “One ring to rule them all.”
    “The Elder Wand.”
    “The Bomb.”
    We think in terms of domination and dominion.
    We think power is the source of peace,
    And that it is conveyed to the one
    Who wields the magic sword.
    This is at the heart of all action-adventure stories/movies
    Ever written, told, or made,
    So, it must be true.
    It takes power, or leverage,
    To impose our will upon others
    Or to keep them from imposing their will upon us.
    Our way has to be forced,
    You know,
    Compelled, Coerced, Made.
    And thus, the difference
    Between Our Way and The Way
    Is the difference
    That makes
    All the difference
    In the world.
  34. 05/30/2016 — Scarab Beetle Poster 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 There is the “I” and there is the “We.”
    Though it isn’t that simple because every “I” is an amalgamation
    Of “we’s” beyond counting—
    Partial “I’s,” “I” wannabe’s.
    Each “I” is a bundle of multiple personalities
    Striving for “I-hood.”
    The “I’s” and the “We’s” have to find ways
    Of working it out on every level.
    The complexities and agonies involved here
    Do not get enough press,
    And certainly do not get enough R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
    “We” have to allow, and provide for,
    Living room for every “I.”
    And every “I” has to honor the needs and claims of each “We.”
    Among other things,
    This means “We” all have to slow down,
    And give the “I’s” that “We” are
    And that “They” are
    Some hallowed space of “Their” own.
    And the “I’s” have to put themselves in accord
    With the reality of each “We.”
    Doing this work
    Requires a place for silent reflection
    For all “I’s” and every “We.”
    There is much room-making to be done.
  35. 05/30/2016 —Last Light Revisited — Edisto Beach State Park, Edisto Island, South Carolina, November 18, 2013 There is the peace that comes with denial,
    And the peace that comes with Clarity.
    Clarity is synonymous with knowing—
    Not with knowing facts or fantasies mistaken for facts,
    But with knowing what’s what
    And what’s to be done about it.
    Sometimes, there is nothing to be done about it,
    And being clear about that,
    Knowing that,
    Still brings peace.
    Peace is the peace of settling into
    Who we are,
    Where we are,
    When we are,
    How we are,
    That we are,
    This is the way things are,
    And that’s that.
    Of course, you can know these things
    And still have no peace
    Because you hate it
    And are saying, “NO! NO! NO!”
    About it all.
    At that point,
    There is one more thing to be clear about:
    You will never have peace
    Because you cannot accept the truth
    Of the way things are.
    You have to opt for denial
    To be at peace with your life.
  36. 05/30/2016 — Cardinal 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 Mithrandir, also known as Gandalf, said to Lady Galadriel (in “The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey”):
    “Saruman believes that it is only great power
    That can hold evil in check, but that is not
    What I have found.
    “I have found that it is the small things…
    “Everyday deeds of ordinary folk
    That keeps the darkness at bay.
    “Simple acts of kindness and love.”
  37. 05/31/2016 —Carolina Wren 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 Believe in your genius— your YOU!
    Believe in the work that is yours to do!
    Believe in the path that has your name on it!
    Believe in what resonates with you!
    Live transparent to yourself!
    Live in good faith with yourself and with others!
    Trust yourself to your sense of what needs to be done—
    Of what the situation is calling for—
    And say the things that cry out to be said,
    Ask the questions that beg to be asked,
    Do the things that need to be done—
    That need you to do them!
    Do not try to figure things out,
    Or have to know what you are doing,
    Or think you must be able to defend, justify, explain, excuse
    What you are up to, or about!
    Do not try to exploit any situation to your advantage!
    No path can do more than wake us up
    And call us forth—
    Think of doing your work,
    Living mindfully, compassionately, non-judgmentally—
    In each situation as it arises—
    Not of finding the best path
    And trading up!
    Be content with being who you are
    Doing what is yours to do.
  38. 06/01/2016 —Female Black-and-white Warbler 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 31, 2016 We think independence means autonomy,
    Means Free Will,
    Means doing it our way,
    Means “Being Captain of our own ship,”
    “Master of our own destiny,”
    And like that.
    We have to re-think independence.
    On the one hand, I don’t want anyone telling me what to do.
    And, on the other hand, I don’t know what to do.
    SOMEBODY needs to be telling me what to do!
    This is the essential, unresolvable, conflict.
    We transcend, transform, it when we realize
    That we tell ourselves what to do
    And that “we” are both conscious and unconscious,
    Both left-brained and right-brained,
    And that in order to know what to do,
    I have to listen to all of ME.
    We can’t just go flying off in charge of our life.
    We have to sit quietly with what to do here and now,
    In each situation as it arises,
    And see how it unfolds,
    Without imposing demands and restrictions
    And working to effect our agenda no matter what.
    Our agenda is to figure out what OUR agenda needs to be
    For each of the times and places of our living.
    “Hello Silence, my old friend/I’ve come to talk to you again…”
  39. 06/01/2016 —Carolina Wren 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 1, 2016 Think of the people you love.
    Take your time with this.
    Make a list of all of the qualities, characteristics and character traits
    That you love about each person on the list.
    Make it your practice
    To consciously bring all the qualities, characteristics and character traits
    To life in your life.
    Live to incarnate each person you love—
    To BE each person you love—f
    The way only you can be—
    By bringing the qualities, etc., that you love to life in your life.
    This is SO the way to love someone!
    Be who you love.
    Should be a bumper sticker.
  40. 06/02/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 What are we about?
    What are we after?
    Where is IT for you?
    How often do you go there?
    How long do you stay?
    We have to know what we are striving for,
    And when we have it in hand.
    Then what?
    When do you stop
    And simply be at one with your life
    In the time and place of your living?
    It’s like this:
    There is the way things are,
    And there is the way things need to be.
    And there is what can be done about the discrepancy,
    And that’s that.
    What is keeping you from being at peace with this?
  41. 06/02/2016 — Broad-winged Hawk 2016 07 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 26, 2016 I told one of my Twitter buds today that I’ve never been able to argue anyone out of their perspective.
    And, no one has ever been able to argue me out of mine. We should all stop trying— not that this statement will sway anyone of the opposite perspective. But.
    Our perspectives are sacred territory, And the Old Testament law applies: “Thou shalt not remove thy neighbor’s landmark!” We have to honor the way other people see things, Even as we point out that the way they see things is not the way we see things. We have to be clear about the differences among us, and let them stand. And work to find common ground with people who are far removed from where we are. We have to work to make friends and stop working to make enemies. Hajib’s have their place! And gun control has its place! And all the things that divide us cannot make us enemies! And we are not here to change anyone’s perspective, but to work with everyone toward a future we all can live in together. Trump is doing his best to erect diving walls within this country, not just between this country and Mexico! We cannot allow him to polarize the world. We resist polarization by refusing to slam the door on anyone, but keep all doors open, as we look for things we can agree on, and honor one another with respect and compassion even as we disagree on important matters.
  42. 06/02/2016 —Black Snake Hiding 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 31, 2016 We know about silence by being silent;
    About stillness by being still;
    About mindfulness by being mindful;
    About compassion by being compassionate;
    About all of the values and qualities
    That humans have always esteemed
    By incarnating them in the life we are living.
    What’s with all the talking about the things
    We can only know by doing?
  43. 06/03/2016 —Cardinal 2016 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 30, 2016 Everything waits for us to recover our work
    And do it.
    Don’t know what your work is?
    Yes you do!
    You just don’t know what you know!
    Sit quietly until it dawns on you.
    Wait in stillness until it slips up on you.
    Look at all you are dismissing
    As “obviously NOT it.”
    Poke around in your reject pile.
    Stop wanting your work to pay off handsomely
    With some extravagant lifestyle
    Too much of which has the world exactly where it is,
    And the abandonment of which
    Is so essential to the reclamation of a planet
    That can feed our souls—
    And experience how doing your work
    Is all your soul will ever need.
    Oh, and pass the word!
  44. 06/03/2016 —Downy Woodpecker 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 3, 2016 People have too much of one or more of these three characteristics:
    They are greedy and/or fearful and/or lazy.
    The propensity for one or more of these traits
    Works against us all our life long
    Because
    The Way requires us to be
    Benevolent AND courageous AND willing to do the work
    That is called for
    In each situation as it arises.
    We just want to let Mamma or Daddy
    (Or Money, which is a surrogate of both)
    Take care of us,
    And make our way smooth
    And our path easy.
    Nothing can happen
    Until we forsake ourselves
    And pledge our allegiance and loyalty
    To our Self.
    But, why would we do that?
  45. 06/04/2016 —Carolina Wren 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 2, 2016 “We have to have guns because someone will kill us and our family if we don’t!”
    That’s the NRA’s only talking point.
    Guns will keep people from killing us.
    We have to protect ourselves and our families from those who would harm us.
    Those who would harm us could be anywhere, might be anyone.
    Anyone who isn’t like us could be out to get us.
    We have to get rid of everyone who is not like us.
    Build walls. Kick them out of the country. Send them back where they came from.
    Look around! THEY are everywhere!
    Extremes beget extremes and soon there is no center.
    When the center fails to hold, we are left with fragmentation, disintegration, and the loss of a grounding vision. What to do? What to do?
    How do we get THEM ALL to wake up to what THEY are doing and return to the center?
    WE have to return to the center ourselves!
    WE have to refuse the inclination to move to the extreme opposite of THEM.
    WE have to DO nothing.
    But.
    It has to be the right kind of nothing.
    It has to be the “nothing” of silent reflection and realization—
    Silent META-reflection.
    Silent META-realization.
    Sit quietly. Begin the practice. Today.
  46. 06/04/2016 —Can You Name This Bird? Someone? Anyone? — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 3, 2016 How can we make THEM as WE are?
    And, if we cannot make THEM as WE are,
    How can we shun them, expel them, ostracize them, deport them, disappear them
    So that they pose no threat to US and OUR way of life?
    This seems to be the way business has been done through the ages.
    Except that it was easier in earlier ages.
    Then, we burned them at the stake, strung them up, fed them to the lions, tarred and feathered them and ran them out of town on a rail.
    We could get by with it then,
    But now we are all civilized and supposed to be polite, except that we aren’t actually.
    Donald Trump exposes us for who we are,
    And through him we see how little has changed over time.
    We still hate THEM, though THEY might be Trump and his legions and not the THEM THEY want us to hate.
    We cannot get along with THOSE who are not as WE are.
    That’s where we have to get to work.
    We all have to live together on this planet.
    We cannot build walls or ship anyone off— there is no place to put THEM!
    WE have to live with THEM,
    And THEY with US!
    We have to make it work by making room for everyone.
    We might start by reading Rumi’s “The Guest House,”
    And beginning with ourselves.
  47. 06/05/2016 —Damselflies 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 4, 2016 Meta-perception is perception that takes itself into account,
    And, more than that, every other perception as well.
    Meta-perception is seeing that sees seeing,
    And knows what’s what,
    Around the table, across the board.
    That is the kind of seeing that puts things in their place,
    Restores harmony,
    Lives from the center
    And saves the world.
    When meta-perception is combined with
    Meta-reflection
    And meta-realization
    We have a situation in which
    What needs to happen happens
    In each situation that arises
    For as long as there are situations to arise.
    We cannot think that we see, hear, and understand
    Until we reach the place
    Of meta-perception, meta-reflection and meta-realization.
    Don’t stop too soon,
    Thinking you know something.
    Know everything.
    That’s knowing that knows!
  48. 06/05/2016 — Black Snake 2016 03 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 5, 2016 — I estimated this snake to be in the 8-foot range, and while Black Snakes are not poisonous, no snake is harmless— in that their bites carry a strong possibility of infection which can lead to a number of undesirable outcomes. So I carry a garden hoe with me to the hammock to have something to put between me and the snakes that roam the woods. This one went its way and I went mine, but the next one may be in a bad mood. We have to spend time with ourselves,
    Seeing ourselves,
    Understanding ourselves,
    Knowing ourselves,
    Enjoying ourselves.
    I like my own company as well as I like anyone’s.
    And, if I cannot be good company with myself,
    I cannot be good company with anyone.
    The people who make the best company
    Are the people who like themselves a lot.
    That makes it easy for other people to like them as well.
    Liking ourselves comes from knowing ourselves,
    Which comes from spending time with ourselves.
    The next time you are alone for an extended period,
    Notice what is going on with in—
    Your thoughts, your moods, your memories, where your mind wanders…
    Simply observe yourself being alone with yourself,
    And see what occurs to you.
  49. 06/06/2016 —Goodale 2015 57 Panorama B&W — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Your life will ask things of you.
    How you respond tells the tale.
    Not one of the heroes on any of the journey’s ever made
    Outlined the nature of their journey,
    Laid out the steps in sequential fashion,
    Rehearsed what would be required of them by each one,
    Put the plan in place,
    And carefully followed the map they had devised
    From start to finish.
    There is no formula for success on the Hero’s Journey.
    You start by doing what needs to be done
    The way it needs to be done,
    When it needs to be done,
    For no other reason that because it needs to be done–
    And needs you to do it–
    Like changing the baby’s diaper, say,
    Or washing the dishes,
    And, like that, one thing leads to another
    And you find yourself alone with you at the end,
    Preeminently proud of what you have done
    And who you have become
    By way of doing what you did the way you did it–
    The way only you could do it.
  50. 06/06/2016 —Cardinal 2016 11 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 5, 2016 We have witnessed the erosion of democracy in our lifetime.
    Wealth and power like ignoring reality,
    And do not care what their arrogance and greed
    Mean for those who provide the means of their wealth and power.
    “Give them bread and circuses,
    Or let them eat cake!”
    Is another way of saying, “To hell with them!”
    An economy that takes justice, equality, compassion and kindness to heart
    Is essential for the good of humankind, but.
    What is good for humankind
    Is anathema to wealth and power.
    If we could get everyone to the table,
    We might have a chance, but.
    The top 1% is not talking,
    And is not interested in what the rest of us say.
    That leaves us with having to make democracy work.
    We cannot give up on the greatest idea the world has ever had.
    Democracy is the hope of free people
    And free people are the hope of the world.
    What this means for me and you is that we have to vote.
    And we have to vote for the candidate
    Who stands as the best advocate for the true good of the entire commonwealth.
    Everything depends on it.
  51. 06/07/2016 —Downy Woodpecker 2016 06 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 7, 2016 We have to sit quietly on a regular basis
    To remember who we are and what we are about–
    To find the center and live out of it–
    To regain our perspective
    And put ourselves in accord with our life.
    This is called “making an adjustment.”
    I came home for lunch one day
    and found the carpenter my wife and I had hired
    (to replace a section fascia board behind our gutter)
    sitting atop his ladder.
    “What’s the trouble?” I asked.
    He replied, “I’m adjusting myself to what has to be done.”
    He had run into unexpected rotting,
    and the job had become more involved
    than he had anticipated.
    Ain’t that the way it is, though?
    We have to adjust ourselves
    to our lives from time to time.
    Sitting quietly helps
    with all the things
    that need to be done in a day.
  52. 06/08/2016 —Mushroom 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 28, 2016 Your life matters!
    How you live it makes all the difference!
    If you are going to believe anything, believe these two things!
    Self-gratification can carry you only so far.
    It is the first thing to go
    When things stop being fun,
    Toughen up,
    Become impossible.
    “Impossible” has infinite layers.
    We think this is impossible,
    But just wait for that,
    And that, and that, and that…
    Try telling yourself it’s all about the good times then.
    See how far that gets you.
    It comes down to this:
    Do you have what it takes to grind it out?
    To be tougher than the toughest situation?
    To tell the really impossible situations,
    “It’s impossible to make me quit,
    But don’t take my word for it–
    I want to show you what I’m made of”?
    If you are going to believe anything,
    Believe in your life–
    And live like you believe in what you are doing!
    Live like you mean it!
  53. 06/08/2016 —Chameleon 2016 02 — The Tree Dragon Dines, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 7, 2016 Listen to me when I say don’t listen to me–listen to YOU!
    I don’t know how you need to be you.
    Only you know how you need to be you.
    Sit quietly.
    Listen to you.
    Look at your life.
    How does it need to be changed
    to better express YOU?
    How are YOU being dismissed
    by the life you are living?
    What are the things that are YOU
    That you never do?
    How would YOU run things
    if you put YOU in charge of your life?
    What do YOU have to say to you?
    Explore these questions sitting quietly.
    See what stirs within.
    What occurs to you?
  54. 06/08/2016 —Downy Woodpecker 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 4, 2016 We only need enough money for the basics–
    And each of us is responsible
    for determining that list for ourselves.
    Beyond that, there is only being who we are,
    where we are,
    when we are,
    how we are
    and why we are–
    All of which we are also
    responsible for figuring out for ourselves.
    So, we have two areas of responsibility:
    Getting the money angle squared away,
    And getting the what we need money for–
    The what we pay the bills to do–
    Angle squared away.
    Once those two things are in place,
    It is only a matter of doing what is ours to do
    In each situation as it arises
    Throughout the time left for living.
  55. 06/09/2016 —Cardinal 2016 08 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 1, 2016 How much money does it take
    To be who we are?
    We can be who we are with none whatsoever.
    Money just allows us to increase
    Our means of self-expression,
    Furthers our avenues for self-realization,
    Enlarges our field of experience,
    Expands our possibilities for reflection and realization, If we are not interested
    in discovering and being who we are,
    Money is of no use at all
    In the work of self-development,
    And is only used then
    To distract and entertain us until we die.
    We are only asked to find our life and live it,
    And be who we are,
    Offering what is ours to give,
    In the service of what needs to be done–
    What needs us to do it as only we can do it–
    In each situation as it arises.
    Why does this receive such little press?
  56. 06/10/2016 —Cottontail 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 8, 2016 Call it “The Social Contract”–one of many.
    We have to provide ourselves with the means of living our life.
    We have to be able to pay for the life we are living.
    This is not easy
    And it is not often fun.
    “Wining or losing, it’s still a grind.”
    We make it harder by wanting what we cannot afford.
    There are people who want to live in New York, for instance,
    Who cannot afford to live in New York,
    Who move to New York,
    Believing in magic.
    There are millions of people
    without the means of supporting themselves
    in the life they are living.
    And millions more rushing to join them.
    Sea levels are rising.
    That means inhabitable areas
    along all cost lines
    are going to disappear.
    People are still moving to Miami and New Orleans.
    Global warming is making life
    less livable in large portions of the planet.
    War and poverty are making refugees
    beyond counting or tracking
    Who will never be able
    to support themselves.
    Catastrophe looms
    While we move to New York, Miami, New Orleans…
    Looking for the life we want to live.
    It’s going to be difficult enough
    finding a life we can afford to live,
    And that’s the life we better be seeking–
    Along with how to live it,
    At one with who we are,
    Serving the genius that is ours to serve,
    Offering the gifts that are ours to give.
  57. 06/10/2016 — Tufted Titmouse 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 7, 2016 Return to the center.
    That would be your center.
    The center of you.
    The center of what is most important to/about you.
    That would be your identity.
    The unshifting ground that makes you you.
    The unchanging and unchangeable essence
    That everyone knows to be Y-O-U.
    What is that?
    I look out the window a lot–
    Trying to see what is to be seen.
    Trying to see what it is
    and what it means
    and what’s at the bottom of it
    and how it all fits together.
    Trying to make sense of it,
    interpret it,
    say what it means
    and what the implications are f
    or every single thing.
    That is who I am and what I do.
    Hermes/Mercury.
    The Messenger of the Gods.
    Hermeneutics is so what I am about.
    When I return to the center,
    I look out the window,
    And am grounded in the essence of me.
    Find your center.
    Return there often.
    Know what it means to be you.
    Live out of your center.
    Do what you do.
    And you will be just fine.
    No matter what.
  58. 06/11/2016 — Guard Toad 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 10, 2016 — Every Glen has a Guard Toad or two to keep the interlopers away.

    Reality is an assortment of facts
    that make things what they are
    And keep things
    from being what they are not. Each fact comes bundled
    with its own field of additional facts–
    A fact that keeps reality
    from being all cut and dried.
    Reality is a very dynamic,
    fluid,
    living,
    moving,
    changing experience.
    A fact cannot be divorced
    from its meaning,
    Its impact,
    Its implications.
    A fact is meaningless
    apart from the experience of said fact,
    And, a meaningless fact
    is the same as no fact at all.
    So, reality consists of four elements:
    The What (What is happening?)
    The So What? (What does it mean for me personally
    and for life generally?)
    The Now What? (What am I to do about it?)
    And the What Next? (What implications does the fact and my response to it
    have for my personal future,
    and the future of life on the planet?)
    In order to be grounded in reality,
    We have to be aware of reality’s impact
    in each of these areas in our life.
    Or, we could deny all of this,
    Live oblivious to all facts at odds
    with the way we want things to be,
    And let the good times roll.
  59. 06/11/2016 — Goodale 2015 58 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015
    Jesus was who he was.
    The Buddha was who he was.
    Jesus was the Buddha.
    The Buddha was Jesus.
    Elizabeth Warren is who she is.
    Elizabeth Warren is Jesus and the Buddha.
    When you are being who you are,
    And when I am being who I am,
    We are Elizabeth Warren, Jesus and the Buddha.
    When you understand this
    And apply it in your life
    In each situation that arises,
    That’s it.
    There is nothing more to understand or to do.
    Integrity is at the heart of life and being.
    But it has to be who you ARE,
    And not who you wish you were,
    Or who you think you ought to be.
    We have to live from the center
    In doing the work of integration,
    Which is the work of integrity,
    Inner with outer
    For all to see.
  60. 06/11/2016 — Black Snake 2016 08 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 11, 2016 There is no reward.
    There is no punishment.
    There is no merit to be earned,
    No damnation to be avoided.
    There is only this life that is asking us to live it
    In ways that are commensurate with its urge
    For mindfulness, self-realization and self-expression.
    To the extent that we do that,
    There is peace and joy aplenty.
    To the extent that we do not do that,
    There is hostility, animosity and opposition on every side.
    Good karma is being at one with our life,
    Bad karma is being at odds with our life.
    Anyone who tells you something else
    Is selling something.
  61. 06/11/2016 — Lake Crawford 2015 14 — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 15, 2015 What hunger drives your boat on its path through the sea?
    What, or who, are you seeking to appease
    (Or escape)
    With the way you live your life?
    What ghosts will not give you any rest?
    Don’t think up an answer.
    Simply sit quietly with the questions,
    Reflecting, wondering, curious,
    And see what occurs to you.
    Let seeing what occurs to you
    Become your way of finding your way.
    Don’t have to know what you are doing,
    Or be able to defend, excuse, justify or explain
    The logic and reasons behind your choices.
    Live from a deeper place than your left hemisphere.
    Call your right hemisphere to life–
    Or the older reptilian brain,
    With its bent for instinct.
    Ponder your questions or your choices
    And see what occurs to you.
  62. 06/12/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 10 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 9, 2016 – Used in Short Talks On Good Religion and Bad Religion The massacre at the Orlando Gay bar
    Is yet another mindless agony
    Perpetrated by the mindless,
    Hypnotic, trance-inducing, repetition
    Of who is evil and who is not,
    And what must be done to those who are.
    Mindlessness kills mindlessly–
    Making the foundation of all good religion
    The mantra:
    “Wake Up! Wake Up! Wake Up!”
    And the reminder:
    “If you think you are awake, you are not!”
  63. 06/12/2016 — Box Turtle 2016 01 — The Tortoise of the Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 When we find ourselves resisting our life,
    And not wanting to go where it is taking us,
    That is a sign that we are about to miss a turn.
    We cannot will our life along its natural course
    To its chosen destination.
    All the problems of humanity
    Can be traced to forcing our way upon The Way,
    Wresting command and control away from the internal guides,
    And refusing to align ourselves—and live in accord—with
    The life that wants us to live it—
    The life that is our life to live,
    That no one but us can live.
    All of the rites of initiation
    Are about forcing the initiates to do
    What they do not want to do.
    Now, there are none to force us to do
    What we do not want to do.
    We alone say what we do and do not.
    No one ever grew up doing what he, what she,
    Wanted to do.
  64. 06/13/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2015 The work of a true human being
    Is the work of being true to ourselves,
    The work of becoming who only we can be—
    Of being the individual we are (and also are).
    It is the work of being conscious of who we are (and also are),
    It is the work of living so as to align our life
    With the identity we know to be our own.
    We live to incarnate the truth
    Of our own character, nature and being—
    To express who we are (and also are)
    Within the context and circumstances of our life.
    This requires us to know
    What we are doing,
    What we are thinking,
    What we are feeling,
    What we are fearing,
    What we are desiring,
    What we are seeing,
    Hearing,
    Tasting,
    Smelling,
    Touching,
    Sensing, As well as what is happening,
    And what needs to happen in response or instead,
    And what we might do about it
    With the genius and gifts that are ours to give
    In each situation as it arises,
    All our life long.
    The work of a true human being
    requires us to be transparent to ourselves,
    And to take up the task of the full integration
    Of inner with outer,
    And of being with doing,
    Which is integrity
    In the deepest sense of the word.
    We are to live so that our life
    Is integral with the truth
    Of our heart and our soul,
    For the good of all sentient beings everywhere.
    May it be forever so!
  65. 06/13/2016 — Tufted Titmouse 2016 08 — Pecking Order, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 Terrorism triumphs when it can ignite fear into rage and hatred.
    Hatred begets hatred. Extremes beget extremes.
    Possessed by rage and hatred, we lose all sense of The Good.
    We don’t care about anything but the destruction of what we despise.
    There is no cure for rage and hatred,
    And its viciousness consumes all things.
    However, it can be circumvented
    By mindful awareness
    That perceives and holds all things in non-judgmental compassion,
    And waits to see what needs to be done.
    When we contain something in mindful awareness,
    We prevent it from contaminating and infecting everything else.
  66. 06/13/2016 — Tufted Titmouse 2016 07 — Opening a Sunflower Seed, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 What persona do you identify with?
    Military personnel have a persona
    (Or way of “being in the world”).
    Lawyers do, MD’s do, Ministers do…
    What business, professional, or social group
    Do you identify with?
    Who are “your kind of people”?
    Be clear about who you belong with.
    Now, be clear about this:
    What positions, opinions, views, beliefs, values and behaviors
    Do you hold/do that are at a variance from
    Those of your primary persona?
    Where do you stand apart from “your people”?
    Where are you YOU and not THEM?
  67. 06/14/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 11 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 — Don’t miss any turns!
    The Path is always twisting and turning,
    And asking things of us
    That we don’t want to do.
    We have to complete the tasks appropriate
    To each stage of development.
    We cannot freeze time
    And remain as we were at 27, or 17, forever.
    If we miss a turn,
    we cannot go back and pick it up,
    And will always walk with a limp
    Because of it.
    The skills and lessons commensurate with each age
    Are age specific, and, when missed,
    Create problems for us in each succeeding age.
    Commit yourself to the tasks of each stage of development,
    No matter how distasteful they are,
    Or how easily you could avoid them.
    DON’T MISS ANY TURNS!
    The work of growing up
    Requires discipline and surrender
    In a “Thy will, not mine, be done” kind of way.
  68. 06/14/2016 — Cardinal 2016 19 Detail — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 14, 2016 We have to dig for the gold!
    Digging is the work of reflection and inquiry.
    The gold is realization.
    For example,
    When we catch ourselves in the act of being defensive,
    It is because an insecurity has been aroused.
    We have to dig around
    And see what we can uncover–
    And what occurs to us.
    If you take up the practice of looking,
    You will be amazed at what you see.
    In any situation,
    There is what you see,
    And what you don’t see about what you see,
    And what you don’t see.
    Look at everything
    Until you see what all there is to see.
    That is digging for the gold!
  69. 06/15/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 13 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 14, 2016 Our life is uniquely designed to grow us up
    Because life depends upon our being grown up.
    We are life’s great hope.
    We are the carriers of consciousness,
    And are the culmination of millions of years
    Of evolutionary development
    With life working out its plan
    For making the world safe for life.
    Are. It.
    The joke appears to be on life.
    We are not cooperating with the plan.
    We deal in death, not life.
    We kill all that we hate,
    And we hate all that is not like we are.
    Growing up means making room
    For all that is not like we are.
    Growing up means having compassion
    For all living things.
    The most mature people you have ever known
    Were the most loving and kind.
    The most immature were the most malicious, vicious, ruthless and evil.
    Life has a lot riding on our realizing what we are doing,
    Waking up, growing up, standing up to ourselves
    And being what life needs us to be.
    Never has the question been more important:
    Whose side are we on?
  70. 06/15/2016 — Black Snake 2016 07 Detail — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 11, 2016 We are always growing up.
    That is the only kind of growth there is.
    Personal growth?
    Spiritual growth?
    They are nothing if they aren’t euphemisms for growing up.
    The Hero’s Journey and the Spiritual Journey
    Follow the same path–
    The path to maturity, wisdom (which is actually knowing) and grace.
    Maturity, Knowing and Grace are all that is worth our time and effort.
    (And, Knowing is not to be confused with knowledge.
    You can answer all of the Jeopardy questions
    And still not know anything worth knowing.)
    Some of us are more mature than others in some areas,
    And less mature than others in other areas.
    Our life is always asking us to grow up
    In areas where we are behaving like we’re still in The Terrible Two’s.
  71. 06/16/2016 — Goodale 2015 59 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 I wish I could impose my will on each situation as it arises—
    And prevent others from imposing their will on me.
    Don’t you?
    This is the real value of weapons and money.
    They aid us in imposing our will
    And keeping the will of others from being imposed upon us.
    If money and weapons didn’t do that,
    They would be useless,
    And we would never wish we had The Elder Wand,
    Or that we would win the lottery.
    Discovering the proper place of our will in our life
    And willing it there
    Is the foundation of the Hero’s Journey.
    Too much will.
    And we are the Dumb Bad Guys With Power
    In every generation since the beginning.
    Too little will,
    And we are the people with no life,
    No motivation,
    No ambition,
    No prospects,
    And no future
    Since the same point in time.
    The right mix of will with acquiescence
    And we take our place
    With those who found the secret of living well
    In every age.
  72. 06/16/2016 — Canopy 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 Every situation can be transformed by seeing things for what they are.
    “Seeing” is short for seeing, hearing and understanding.
    I say “seeing,”
    But I mean “seeing, hearing and understanding.”
    We cannot see a situation without hearing and understanding.
    Seeing, hearing and understanding are the tools of transformation,
    Changing everything they apprehend by the power of realization.
    The practice of looking until we see,
    Listening until we hear,
    And inquiring–by asking the questions that beg to be asked–
    Until we understand,
    Will shake the foundations
    And restructure reality
  73. 06/17/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 4, 2016 The solution to every one of your problems
    Is to hold each one in your awareness,
    And see what occurs to you.
    Then, hold that in your awareness
    And see what occurs to you.
    As you carry out this process
    Of mindful awareness with each of your problems,
    What needs to happen in each case
    Will become apparent
    And you will know what you need to do.
    Having the courage to do it
    Is another problem.
    And, you know what to do with problems.
  74. 06/17/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee 05 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 Our vulnerability keeps us awake nights,
    Or wakes us up with nightmares about snakes
    And monsters
    We cannot escape or destroy.
    That’s vulnerability for you.
    It’s as though our dreamer is throwing it in our face,
    Laughing,
    Taunting us,
    Asking, “What are you going to do about your vulnerability?”
    It is a question we do not otherwise consider.
    We deny our vulnerability,
    Run from it,
    Hide in the ten thousand diversions/distractions,
    And pretend it is not so.
    It is so.
    We have to confess it,
    Face it,
    Square ourselves up with it,
    Come to terms with it,
    Make our peace with it,
    And live our life out in its shadow.
    It is never going away.
    Our place is to let that be so,
    Because it is.
    And to go on about our business
    Anyway, nevertheless, even so.
    We have to be as vulnerable as we are.
    Embracing our vulnerability
    Puts us in possession of the weapons/tools of survival
    In every circumstance in every age:
    Seeing, hearing and understanding.
    That would be,
    Right seeing, right hearing and right understanding.
    In possession of those,
    We are not merely vulnerable and at the mercy of forces beyond us,
    We are also in charge of our ability to make the right response
    To whatever comes knocking on our door,
    Inviting us to dance.
    So, the Cyclops better mean it
    If he wants us to step with him onto the floor—
    Because we are going to the mat with him!
  75. 06/18/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 14 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 Realization comes to those
    Who wait in the right way.
    Looking, listening, seeing, hearing,
    Asking, searching, seeking,
    Grasping, understanding, knowing.
    We want The Answer Now!
    We should be looking for
    The Way,
    The Process,
    The Manner Of Responding
    At The Opportune Moment
    When The Time Is Right.
    We want to get rid of our problems
    So that we might get on with our life.
    Our life is asking us
    To become proficient
    In seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing, being.
    We think it is about getting things lined up
    Like we like them.
    It is about getting ourselves in accord with our life,
    Aligned with what needs to happen
    In each situation as it arises
    For the good of the moment.
    Who do we need to be NOW?
    Not in order to get our way,
    But in order to be who we need to be!
    When we are who our life needs us to be,
    Everything falls into place around that.
  76. 06/18/2016 — Cottontail 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 15, 2016 Putting ourselves in accord with our life
    Is an on-going task of life.
    There is no “once-and-done” here.
    Each stage of development–
    And each turn in the path within the stages–
    Require us to adjust ourselves
    To what has to be done
    With the situation as it is,
    Here and now.
    And so the necessity
    Of starting each day with silence,
    And working places for silence within each day,
    As a way of making room for recovery, reflection and realization.
    We get through the trials and ordeals of the path
    By seeing, hearing and understanding
    What is being asked of us,
    How that impacts us,
    And how we need to respond.
    The right kind of stillness
    Provides us with what we need
    To step forward and face the moment,
    And, like Power Milk Biscuits, “gives shy persons the strength
    To get up and do what needs to be done.”
  77. 06/19/2016 — Lake Crawford 2015 15 — Kings Mountain State Park, Blacksburg, South Carolina, December 12, 2015 We want what we do not have
    And anything goes to get it,
    All our life long,
    Because there is always something else
    Calling us on.
    Or, we despair of ever having it
    And turn to one of the 10,000 addictions
    To take our mind off all
    That exceeds our grasp,
    Becoming mired in resentment, hopelessness,
    Helplessness and rage–
    Sometimes turned inward,
    Sometimes outward–
    With nowhere to turn
    And no consolation for the life we did not get to live.
    Either way, we miss the path
    To the treasure hard to find,
    Because we know what we want
    And live in its service,
    Unable to wake up
    And lay it aside.
  78. 06/19/2016 — Hummingbird 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 Two months ago, lightening struck a 125 foot tall White Oak tree standing about 70 feet from our house, on the north side. All its heavy branches are on the south side of the tree. My hammock runs north and south directly between the tree and the house. It took the tree about two weeks to completely die. The lightening bolt hit about 1/3rd the way down from the top and stripped bark in a zig-zag strip to the ground. Everything along that track died instantly. It took the crown a while to follow. I don’t have any idea how long a dead tree can stand before it falls, but I think about it every day, lying in the hammock, rehearsing my escape route should today be the day. The tree has become for me as a slave riding in the back of a Roman Emperor’s chariot, whispering, “You, too, will die.” The dead tree is a reminder that “I, too, will die,” and it poses a threat to the Zen Glen and our house even if I am nowhere around when it comes down. That would be “like dying,” in that it would significantly interfere with my enjoyment of the portion of my life that the Glen and the house represent.
    The tree is Death. And I get it. And I work to make my peace with it, and prepare for it, by opening myself to the reality, and mentally “letting go” before anything is gone. Every day I look at the tree looming above me (it’s about 20 feet from my hammock), and nod in its direction, acknowledging the truth of what it stands for. And rehearse my escape route should today be the day.
  79. 06/20/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 16 — Soaking Up Some Rays 1, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 — I’ve watched Barred Owls stretch out in the sun and lie there for a while. Here it is with a Wren. Humans have no corner on “sun bathing.” Weird, erratic, off-the-wall behavior
    Stems from frustration or panic
    At the end of our rope.
    Mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness
    Holds all of that in awareness
    And waits
    To see.
    Seeing the path
    To what needs to be done
    In the present moment
    Opens the way
    To doing what needs to be done–
    Which is rarely weird, erratic, off-the-wall behavior.
    We begin to live better
    The instant we begin to see.
  80. 06/20/2016 — Bluebird 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 03, 2016 Seeing things changes things.
    Or, the corollary,
    Nothing changes things like seeing things.
    Leading to the conclusion:
    Seeing is discouraged to prevent change.
    Seeing is certainly discouraged.
    Nothing about any culture that has ever been,
    Or will be,
    Encourages seeing throughout the culture.
    “Shut up, sit down, stay in your place, do what you are told,
    Don’t think for yourselves,
    And don’t ask any questions!”
    Is the instruction the people are always given from on high.
    Or, as George Bush so nicely summarized it following 9/11,
    “Go shopping!”
    The intentional practice of mindful meditation
    In the service of developing and deepening
    Mindful (compassionate, non-judgmental) awareness
    Of our life as it is lived
    Moment to moment,
    Is as counter-cultural,
    And as revolutionary,
    As it gets.
    Join the revolution!
    Teach yourself to see what’s what
    In each situation as it arises!
  81. 06/21/2016 — Chameleon 2016 03 — Calling All Babes, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 Life cannot sustain itself indefinitely,
    And so there is death.
    Our contract with life calls us to realize this
    As basic, fundamental, foundational to the nature of things,
    And live all-out until it becomes impossible to go on–
    To not quit before our time.
    Life is a mess across the board.
    Every living thing has to bear the pain
    Of the compromises required to be alive.
    Every living thing not human
    Seems to take that in stride
    And get on with the game.
    Humans have invented denial,
    Which itself is a compromise. The refusal to live without dying
    Makes a travesty of both life and death,
    And we die without having lived.
  82. 06/21/2016 — Black-capped Chickadee 09 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 18, 2016 “Own it, and don’t let it show,”
    Could be a motto for emergency room personnel.
    Everything comes through the doors.
    You can’t respond the way you feel to any of it.
    You have to respond in ways appropriate to the occasion.
    Every occasion.
    The time and place of our living determine/limit
    The expression of our response
    To the events and circumstances of our life.
    If we don’t understand and practice this simple rule,
    We are clueless about compassion and grace,
    And give the world who we are in the raw
    All the time,
    Requiring the world to receive us with compassion and grace.
  83. 06/22/2016 — Red-bellied Woodpecker 03 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 12, 2016 The life we opt for
    Is the life the culture hands us
    And tells us is just right for us.
    The culture hands us our life
    In a number of ways:
    Movies, TV shows, Advertisements, Newspapers, Popular Opinion, and Availability.
    We grow up learning what is good and what is not good
    Based on what we see and hear around us.
    Looking within
    And listening to the silence
    Never comes to our attention.
    Native Americans went on Vision Quests.
    We go to college.
    It could be the same thing.
    It isn’t.
    We wake up if we are lucky in mid-life
    Realizing that no one knows what they are doing,
    Especially us,
    And take up the work–
    That should have been handed to us from the start–
    Of discovering who we are
    And what we are about,
    In order to find our life and live it
    In the time left for living.
    Hoping it isn’t too late.
  84. 06/22/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 14, 2016 What do you do that makes you smile:
    While you are doing it?
    After you have done it?
    Looking at the results of doing it?
    How many of those things are in your life?
    What can you do to increase their number—
    And the amount of time you spend doing them?
  85. 06/22/2016 — June Bug and Blackberry 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 The Numinous reality that has always been called “God,”
    Is experienced everywhere people are being themselves
    (Which includes making art and music)
    And where nature is being itself.
    The experience of God is right there,
    That close,
    All of the time.
    If the Numen is not experienced,
    It is because we are closed off
    From the experience of our experience,
    Sleepwalking through life,
    Dead to the world
    Though we be 98.6 and ambulatory.
    The God isn’t dead–
    WE are.
    The answer to the question of when life begins
    Isn’t at conception,
    Or at birth,
    But when we wake up,
    At whatever age,
    And experience our experience,
    And know what we know,
    And be who we are.
    Eyes that see,
    See Numinous reality
    Through June Bugs and Blackberries,
    And everywhere else they look.
  86. 06/23/2016 —Bluebird with Blackberry 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 19, 2016 When we see, hear and understand
    The situation as it unfolds before us,
    We lay aside our interests and agenda
    In order to see what the situation means
    Beyond what it means for us.
    What is going on here?
    What is happening?
    What is at the bottom of how things are?
    What is motivating the situation to be what it is?
    What is at the heart of the matter?
    To look until we see,
    To listen until we hear,
    To reflect until we realize the essence of what is before us,
    Is to exegete the situation
    And interpret it correctly.
    Nothing transforms a scene
    Like right interpretation.
    Once we correctly interpret ourselves to ourselves,
    We become transparent to ourselves,
    And everything changes instantly.
    Once we interpret another person to himself, to herself,
    He, she, becomes transparent to himself, to herself,
    And that entirely alters the drift of his, of her, life in that moment,
    And makes all the difference.
  87. 06/23/2016 — Black Snake 2016 10 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 — I watched, and photographed, this 8-ft (My guess) Black Snake slithering through the treetops above the hammock in search of lizards, birds, bird nests with baby birds or bird eggs, or anything smaller than it is for about 15 minutes, until it climbed out of sight in the canopy. I went into the house for another cup of coffee, and coming back, found it out of the trees and crossing the woods road just to the north of my hammock. I live in a zoo.

    Reality will correct our interpretation of reality—
    IF we remain open to the possibility of being wrong!
    Here’s the thing:
    Explanations of the facts
    Are generally as close
    as we get to interpretation of the facts.
    Interpretation of the facts is what science does.
    Explanation of the facts is what politics and religion do.
    Once a fact is interpreted by science,
    Science looks for ways
    to deepen, enlarge, expand the interpretation,
    Or revise the interpretation,
    Or rule it out as a valid way of looking at the fact.
    Once a fact is explained by politics and/or religion,
    No more thinking about the fact is allowed.
    The explanation becomes dogma.
    Is enshrined, worshiped, revered and adored
    As eternal and unchangeable forever and ever, Amen.
    And people are excommunicated,
    shunned,
    chastised,
    persecuted,
    discriminated against
    and killed
    Because they fail to honor
    the Hallowed Explanation of the fact.
    And no contrary fact
    can alter the explanation of the fact so explained.
    The rule is simple and to the point:
    All explanations of the facts
    can be embellished to take contradictory facts into account.
    So the fossil record and continental drift do not negate
    The explanation known as Intelligent Design
    Offered as the political/religious counter to
    The explanation know as evolution,
    But are declared to be “tests of the faith of the faithful,”
    And not proof of the error of their ways.
    Reality cannot correct those whose explanation of reality
    Cannot be questioned.
    But it can certainly correct everyone else.
  88. 06/24/2016 — Brown Thrush 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 22, 2016 The deepest and most horrific divide
    Through all existence
    Is between those who see that they do not see,
    And those who do not see that they do not see;
    Between those who can hear that they do not hear,
    And those who cannot hear that they do not hear;
    Between those who understand that they do not understand,
    And those who do not understand that they do not understand;
    Between those who know that they do not know,
    And those who do not know that they do not know.
    We can only be as awake as we can be
    In the time and place of our living,
    And live to be increasingly awake
    In the times and places yet to be lived–
    By asking the questions that beg to be asked,
    And saying the things that cry out to be said,
    And doing the things that need to be done
    In each situation as it arises.
  89. 06/24/2016 — Cardinal 2016 22 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 22, 2016 Silence is with us always,
    To the end of time.
    Receiving the situation as it arises
    In our awareness,
    And reflecting on it
    In the silence,
    Is the path to action
    In the field of action.
    Is the way of knowing what to do
    With the resources available to us
    In the service of what needs to be done.
    At the end of our rope,
    With our backs to the wall
    And nowhere to turn,
    Hold everything in awareness
    And listen in the silence
    For what stirs there,
    Hoping for a chance to save the day.
  90. 06/25/2016 — Goodale 2015 63 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2-15
    Everybody is dying to be heard.
    Dying because being heard is the key to life.
    We are able to overhear ourselves being heard,
    And know ourselves for the first time.
    This is the gift of psychotherapy.
    We are listened to on a level that reveals us to us.
    Being heard is being interpreted is being understood.
    In the process of talking,
    We clarify what we are saying
    To those who listen to us beyond the words
    To the essence of what is being said.
    It is the clarification that enables us to say what we need to hear.
    Who listens to you deeply enough
    To ground you in who you are?
    To uncover what is of primary importance to you?
    To show you yourself?
    If you don’t have anyone like that in your life,
    You better meet some new people,
    Or find a therapist
    Who can hear what you have to say.
  91. 06/25/2016 — Squirrel with Blackberry 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 21, 2016 The woods are just so.
    That’s what I like best about them.
    No pretense.
    No ambition.
    No games or agendas.
    Every single denizen of the forest is just what it is.
    Everything there is going about its business
    Exactly as it is built to go about its business.
    It is being who it is.
    Straight up.
    Even when its game is deception,
    As with Chameleons and certain insects,
    They don’t attempt to hide the fact that they are hiding.
    It’s who they are,
    And all the rest know it,
    And fold them into the family,
    Like the best families do,
    Without shaming them,
    Humiliating them,
    Or trying to convert them.
    I like that.
    Everything in the woods has a place,
    And is pleased to take its place
    Without trying to occupy some other better finer place.
    I wish more places in my experience were just so like that.
    We begin the work to make that happen
    By being just so ourselves wherever we are,
    Whatever the consequences.
    That’s asking too much in some places,
    But not every place.
  92. 06/26/2016 —Ruby-throated Hummingbird 2016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 20, 2016 When you can allow things to take their course,
    Allow things to take their course.
    You have to interfere with the course of things
    When they are out of the range
    Of tolerable and acceptable.
    I water our plants and lawn as necessary
    Because letting things take their course
    Would result in dead plants and grass.
    Farmers irrigate their crops,
    Police disrupt bank robberies and home invasions.
    We have to say “NO!” to some things,
    And each of us has our own list
    Of things in that category.
    The idea is to shorten our list
    Of things we say “NO!” to,
    And lengthen our list
    Of things we say “YES!” to.
    Upon examination and reflection,
    We will discover that we
    Have been saying “NO!”
    To the wrong things
    All our life–
    And “YES!” to the wrong things
    As well.
    Once we get our YES and NO in place,
    Our world will rock.
  93. 06/26/2016 — Pink Cone Flower 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, June 26, 2016 What is being offered to me?
    What is being asked of me?
    What am I realizing?
    What am I ignoring?
    What am I receiving?
    What am I rejecting?
    We need to know these things
    In each situation as it arises.
  94. 06/27/2016 — Carolina Wren 2016 20 — Airing Out, What birds do when it’s 95 degrees F, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 26, 2016 Let hope use its legs!
    And its arms,
    And its eyes,
    And its ears,
    And its …
    We cannot just sit back and hope.
    Though we may sit in the silence
    And wait for something to occur to us,
    Or wait for the propitious time
    To act in the service of hope
    In the field of action.
    People who say they have hope,
    Or tell us to,
    Without acting in the service of hope
    Are being ridiculous.
  95. 06/27/2016 — Cardinal 2016 23 — Airing Out, What birds do when it’s 95 degrees F. Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 26, 2016 Our unconscious is setting things up
    In our 20’s, 30’s, 40’s and 50’s
    For life in our 60’s, 70’s, 80’s and 90’s.
    It takes the experience of the first half of life
    To serve as the foundation for the second half.
    It takes reflection on the life we have lived
    To generate the realizations
    Necessary to transform the life we are living.
    In the second half of life,
    We throw out all of the things we have heard that are not so,
    And ground ourselves in the things we know to be so
    In living toward the things we know nothing about
    As explorers of worlds unknown and unknowable
    Except through the experience of personal encounter
    With That Which Cannot Be Said.
  96. 06/27/2016 — Downy Woodpecker 2016 12 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 13, 2016 Our unconscious
    Is always at work
    In every situation
    To grow us up
    Against our will.
  97. 06/28/2016 — Black-and-white Warbler 3016 02 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 17, 2016 When Jesus said of the people of Jerusalem,
    “How often I would have gathered you
    as a hen gathers her chicks,
    but you would not,”
    That is the Unconscious speaking to consciousness.
    Consciousness hides itself in a fog of not getting it,
    While the Unconscious does
    everything possible to break through
    And wake up those walking in their sleep
    But they would not.
    We prefer the dream we make up about our life
    To the reality that waits for us to live it.
    Everything real waits for us
    to open ourselves to the reality of the Unconscious
    And collaborate with it
    in living the life that is ours to live,
    So that the two become as one,
    And the world is transformed
    By the presence of True Human Beings
    Making their way through it.
  98. 06/28/2016 — Black Snake 2016 11 — At Home In The Branches Or On The Ground, Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 Who do you say God is?
    And don’t repeat what
    someone else told you, even Jesus.
    That’s hearsay,
    and you don’t know it to be so—
    You only know
    that someone told you it was so.
    Who do you say God is
    out of your own personal experience with God?
    Who do you KNOW God to be
    because you have experienced it for yourself?
    And no one can talk you out of it,
    Or shame you out of it,
    Or take it away from you in any way ever?
    Let’s get back to Jesus.
    Jesus said, “Who do YOU say that I am?”
    And, “Why don’t you decide for yourselves what is right?”
    That’s what I’m saying.
    Who do you say God is?
    Why don’t you decide for yourself what is right?
  99. 06/29/2016 — Whitetail Doe 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 28, 2016 Our life is designed to grow us up.
    We cannot wake up without growing up.
    Growing up is the purpose and goal
    Of the Hero’s Journey,
    Of the Spiritual Journey,
    Of all our journeys,
    Of all our life.
    We cannot be the same person at the end of our life
    That we were at the beginning,
    Or in our 30’s, or 40’s, or 50’s, or 60’s…
    Growing up is becoming who Jesus was–
    As only we can be Jesus.
    Growing up is becoming who the Buddha was–
    As only we can be the Buddha.
    Growing up is becoming who all of the True Human Beings have been–
    As only we can be the True Human Being.
    We are on a path to maturity,
    wisdom (And another term for wisdom is knowing–
    knowing what’s what
    and what to do about it,
    and doing it),
    and grace.
    So stop thinking it’s about getting your way
    And having what you want.
    Thinking that way is to be stuck in the Terrible Two’s forever.
  100. 06/20/2016 — Snakeskin 2016 01 — Zen Glen, Indian Land, South Carolina, June 23, 2016 Carl Jung thought
    there were three levels to the Unconscious/Psyche/Soul:
    The level of the Personal Unconscious,
    the reservoir of personal histories of experiences
    and encounters,
    circumstances,
    responses, etc.
    The level of the Collective Unconscious,
    the library of the impact of cultural,
    social,
    religious,
    and political events and experiences
    of humanity upon humanity.
    And, what he called “The Self,”
    the ideal image each of us
    is called to strive for
    and approximate,
    reflect
    and express,
    through our life.
    “The Self” is what we call “Buddha mind,”
    or “The mind of Christ.”
    It is who the Buddha and the Christ
    lived out in their own life.
    I think of Jung’s “Self” as Lao Tzu’s “Tao.”
    I see the Tao at the center of ourselves,
    unconscious to us because we are not conscious of it,
    yet always accessible to those
    with eyes to see,
    ears to hear,
    and hearts to understand
    what’s what and what to do about it.
    Aligned with the Tao,
    we are at one with ourselves
    and in harmony with each other—
    and do naturally,
    spontaneously,
    what truly ought to be done,
    what needs to be done,
    in each situation as it arises.
    When the Tao is honored
    with mindful awareness,
    things fall into place,
    and people are at peace
    with themselves and one another.
    And all are Buddha,
    all are Christ.

One Minute Monologues 032

March 26, 2016 – May 15, 2016

  1. 03/26/2016 — Why should I care?
    Why should I do the right thing?
    Why should I help, you or anyone?
    Why should I work in the service
    Of the good of the situation as a whole?
    Particularly when it is an inconvenience to me—
    Or, worse, puts me in a bind, personally,
    Or creates a hardship for me to deal with?
    Tell me why I should!
    It doesn’t matter why!
    “Why?” is another manifestation of the Cyclops
    Standing in the way,
    Another distraction.
    Another excuse.
    We deal with it,
    Not by being clear about the advantages,
    The gains,
    The benefits,
    The profit,
    And what is in it for us,
    But by standing up ourselves,
    Striding forward,
    And doing the thing that needs us to do it—
    Without bothering with “Why?”
  2. 03/26/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 10 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 The right to self-determination shall not be infringed.
    The responsibility for self-determination shall not be avoided.
    The help needed for self-determination shall always be at hand.
    If I had three wishes, they would be these.
    The world would fly completely to pieces.
  3. 03/27/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 01 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Lao Tzu said, “Do your work and let nature take its course.”
    He’s saying, “No pushing, no pulling,
    No making happen, no keeping from happening,
    No forcing, no controlling,
    No manipulating, no conning,
    No scheming, no conniving,
    No blocking, no discriminating,
    No lying, no cheating,
    No subterfuge, no extortion,
    No gerrymandering, no jury rigging,
    No nepotism, no favoritism,
    Just do your work.”
    It’s that simple.
  4. 03/27/2016 — Dogwood 2016 04 —
    Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 27, 2016 Rainer Maria Rilke, in “Letters to a Young Poet,”
    Says, “A good marriage
    is one in which
    each partner appoints the other
    to be the guardian of his, of her, solitude.”
    Solitude is the fertile soil of life,
    “The wellspring of living water,”
    The matrix of all things holy.
    We have to guard our own solitude
    Against the unwarranted intrusions
    Of those who would crash our life.
    Predators abound,
    Circling ’round and ’round
    To feed upon our time and attention,
    Viewing us as little more than entertaining relief
    From a “world that is too much with (them) late and soon.”
    The solution to their situation
    Is to bear the pain of their own solitude,
    And wait for it to open into
    Reflection,
    realization,
    insight,
    understanding,
    compassion,
    grace,
    justice
    and peace.
    All things flow from listening to the sound of silence
    Until we hear the music,
    And dance with our life
    Through the time left for living.
  5. 03/28/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 01 Detail 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We swim in unimaginable depths.
    We splash around on the surface of our life
    And make light conversation
    About celebrities and weather and the price of gasoline,
    While the deep regions groan and ache for recognition
    And acknowledgement,
    Waiting to show us a thing or two
    About Mystery
    And Wonder
    And the boundless capabilities of our Soul.
  6. 03/28/2016 — Cherry Blossom Panorama 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 25, 2016 Self-determination
    Self-direction
    Self-examination
    Self-reflection
    Self-correction
    Are all ongoing requirements for
    Self-realization,
    Or self-actualization.
    We cannot put our life on autopilot or cruise control
    And live without a thought as to how we are living.
    We have to take stock on a regular basis.
    Who are we?
    What are we about?
    What do we intend with our life?
    What are we living toward?
    What does our life say about what is important?
    Is that what we say is important?
    How important is what we think is important?
    How is what we think is important reflected in our life?
    How is what we think is important denied by our life?
    What is directing our boat on its path through the sea?
  7. 03/29/2016 — McDowell Poster 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Jesus said, “Who do YOU say that I am?”
    And, “Why don’t YOU decide for yourselves what is right?”
    You could look it up.
    The first thing Christians do
    is abdicate all responsibility in the matter.
    Any matter.
    They hide behind “the Bible says.”
    If you ask them, “How do you know that what the Bible says is so?”
    They will say, “I take it on faith.”
    If you ask them what makes them think they should take it on faith,
    They will say they will go to hell if they don’t.
    If you ask them how they know they will go to hell if they don’t,
    They will tell you they take it on faith.
    They have no responsibility beyond
    believing what they are told to believe (“on faith”),
    And doing what they are told to do (“on faith”).
    Asking them to decide for themselves what is right
    Gets you nowhere.
    But, that is exactly what the rest of us are stuck with having to do.
    Decide for ourselves what is right.
    And evaluate our decisions in light of what happens next.
    And then decide for ourselves what is right
    in response to whatever happens.
    And so on, ad infinitum.
    We take it on faith
    That we have what it takes
    To know what needs to be done and do it,
    Or to figure it out
    Over time.
    THAT is called “Living on faith”!
  8. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 03/30/2016 — McDowell Poster 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 All religion is true religion
    To its adherents,
    And nonsense to everyone else.
    All religion speaks, or spoke, to someone,
    And has nothing to say to everyone else.
    The ground, core, foundation, source, meaning and hope
    Of every religion—
    Of ALL religion—
    Is the search for the ground,
    core,
    foundation,
    source,
    meaning
    and hope
    Of ourselves and our life.
    We all,
    From the very beginning,
    Wake up (more or less),
    And discover that here we are,
    And immediately wonder
    “What does it mean that we are here?”
    “Now what?”
    Where would we be without religion
    And the culture
    (And where do those two things begin and end,
    Merge and part company?)
    To nurture and guide us?
    Our quest is the common quest of our species.
    We have to make sense of being here, now.
    What shall we make of it?
    What do we make of it?
    There is your religion for you.
    And your culture.
    Wherever you turn for help with the
    “What does it mean that we are here now what?”
    Questions
    Is your way of seeking the
    Ground, core, foundation, source, meaning and hope
    Of your life.
  9. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 03/30/2016 — Bloodroot 2016 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We have to find our own religion
    And respect everyone else’s.
    Religion is that collection
    Of symbols, rites and rituals
    That constellates for us
    The ground, center, foundation and source
    Of meaning,
    purpose,
    direction,
    vitality,
    zeal,
    enthusiasm,
    hope,
    resilience,
    loyalty,
    allegiance,
    faithfulness,
    dedication,
    determination,
    resolve,
    courage,
    character
    and all the high values —
    And serves for us as an avenue of lifelong
    Reflection and realization.
    It is not a compendium of beliefs.
    It is the heart of life and being
    Beating in rhythm with our heart,
    Connecting us with all hearts
    In the service of life and being.
    No one can hand anyone
    The religion at the heart of life and being.
    We all have to find it for ourselves.
    What are the symbols, rites and rituals
    That connect you with the ground of meaning?
  10. 03/31/2016 — McDowell Poster 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Each age must find its own meanings,
    Against the resistance and opposition of the previous age.
    There is a saying, “God doesn’t have any grandchildren.”
    The God of the Fathers and Mothers
    cannot be passed on to the children.
    None of the meanings of the Fathers and Mothers
    can be passed on to the children.
    The children must find their own.
    Because the context will have changed.
    “It’s a new world Goldie.”
    The theology and doctrines of the Fathers and Mothers
    Must be replaced,
    Or renounced altogether,
    By the children,
    Who find new meanings to the old questions—
    New ways of living in light of the perennial questions—
    And answer new questions raised
    by new contexts and new situations.
    The answers of the parents are of no help to the children.
    But the tools of the parents are the same eternally:
    Imagination,
    curiosity,
    creativity,
    courage,
    good faith with oneself and with others,
    being transparent to oneself,
    mindfulness,
    compassion,
    awareness The parents must teach the children
    to use the tools of survival in any age
    In every age.
    And woe be to the age
    When the parents don’t know
    how to use the tools themselves!
  11. 03/31/2016 — Goodale 2015 43 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 There is a life beyond the life we are living
    Waiting for us to live it—
    To align ourselves with it,
    To place ourselves in accord with it,
    To plight our troth to it,
    To pledge our loyalty to it,
    To honor it above all other claims
    And serve it with all our heart.
    When we place ourselves in our life’s service,
    There will be tests of will and spirit.
    Trials and ordeals pull us forth and show us who we are
    And the mettle of which we are made.
    And, said Joseph Campbell,
    Doors will open where we think there are no doors,
    And helping hands will come to our aid
    Where we think there is no one to offer a hand.
    Our destiny is waiting.
    And everything waits along with it
    To see whether we will do what is ours to do
    Or wile away the hours running errands,
    Doing chores,
    And watching old movies.
  12. 04/01/2016 — Wisteria 2016 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, March 26, 2016 Begin to ask people,
    “What do you pay the bills to do?”
    If they say,
    “To live,”
    Ask them,
    “What do you live to do?”
    If they say, “Pay the bills,”
    You are talking to someone
    Who pays the bills to pay the bills,
    And wanders aimlessly
    In a wasteland of the soul,
    Between obligations and escapes,
    Looking forward to nothing
    Beyond the next entertaining pastime.
    Is it life,
    Or an escape from life?
    How can we tell the difference?
  13. 04/02/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 02 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 Propitious coincidence has always been seen
    As evidence of the favor of the gods.
    How else could it be understood?
    Nothing like THIS could “just happen”!
    What are the chances?
    It is impossible to think that THIS is
    Nothing but coincidence!
    It is too much exactly what we needed to happen
    Exactly when we needed it to happen!
    The universe, the angels, the gods, The God…
    All theology is derived from an astounding encounter
    With chance.
    “Grace” and “luck” are interchangeable terms.
    Lao Tzu discovered eons ago
    That if you want to improve your chances
    Of being graced by an astounding encounter with chance,
    Throw in with the Tao,
    That is, step into the flow of your life,
    And place yourself in accord
    With the way things are and need to be
    In each situation as it arises.
    Living like that will sensitize you to the abiding presence
    Of reality beneath, behind, beyond apparent reality.
    You will live “transparent to transcendence,”
    And embody,
    As you experience,
    The Numinous Mystery at the heart of life.
    See if you can simply live it
    Without trying to master it—
    Or, worse by far,
    Explain it.
  14. 04/02/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 04 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 It’s all perspective.
    All the way down.
    Or up.
    Depending on how you look at it.
    Everything is sacred from one standpoint.
    Nothing is from another.
    Comedians make fun of,
    Have fun with,
    Everything
    Except the things they take seriously.
    Robin Williams made jokes about it all
    But depression.
    You don’t laugh about,
    Or at, That’s some serious stuff.
    The people who make fun of the Prophet
    And, trough him, all Muslims everywhere,
    Don’t make fun of their own religion
    (Which is making fun of everyone else’s).
    What is sacred
    Is what we take,
    And treat,
    Seriously.
    But, not everyone treats it seriously.
    So.
    What is SERIOUS!!! ?
  15. 04/02/2016 — McDowell Cascade 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 31, 2016 If you are going to start anywhere, start here:
    “Reasonable minds can look at the same facts
    and make different interpretations,
    draw different conclusions,
    and come to different decisions
    about what to do in response to the fact-set.” Now—
    Stop it with the who is right and who is wrong,
    Who is good and who is bad.
    Who is going to heaven and who is going to hell.
    And put your complete focus
    On living your life,
    Working your work,
    And doing what you think needs to be done
    About the fact-set
    As you see it—
    And trust other people to do the same things
    Out of their own perspective and point of view.
  16. 04/03/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 04 Detail 03 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 EB White said, “I revise a great deal.
    I know when something is right
    because bells begin ringing and lights flash.” The ringing bells and flashing lights
    Are what Native Americans were looking for on their Vision Quests.
    We know when something is right for us,
    and when it is wrong—
    IF
    We take the time to know what we know. The path that is right for us can feel wrong.
    The path that is wrong for us can feel right.
    We have to take our time with our paths
    To know what we know
    Past what we feel and think, fear, and desire. The Buddha said, “You aren’t seeking to be on the path.
    You are seeking to BE the path.”
    Or words to that effect.
    We have to take the time required
    To know who we are,
    And who we are not,
    And who we need to be.
    That’s our Vision Quest.
  17. 04/04/2016 — Banded Watersnake — Glencaren Garden, Rock Hill, South Carolina, April 3, 2016 It is always a matter
    Of sitting down with the situation
    And coming to terms with how things are there,
    And what can be done about it
    And doing it
    With the gifts that are at our disposal
    In the service of the good of the situation as a whole. Like Jesus,
    We all come “not to be served,
    But to serve,”
    And give our life
    For the true good of the whole.
    For this purpose we were born,
    And to this end
    We are to live all our days long. We bring forth our destiny
    By living in service to the situation
    One situation at a time.
    What is your present situation?
    Sit down with it.
    Get to the bottom of it.
    Do what needs to be done about it
    With the gifts that are yours to use
    In blessing the situation with your presence.
    It is never any more difficult than that.
  18. 04/04/2016 — Yellow Flame Azalea 01 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 3, 2016 We are here to serve our destiny.
    Forget about our destiny
    being something we dream up for ourselves,
    Or that we might love to do,
    Like some Hollywood script writer might imagine it
    With a “rags to riches” kind of plot line. We don’t get to choose our destiny,
    And we wouldn’t likely pick it out of a Destiny Bin,
    All cute and cuddly and begging to have us for its owner.
    Our destiny is our destiny, but
    We belong to it.
    We serve it
    As liege servants
    Serve their master,
    While it drags us all over the place
    And keeps finding the weirdest things
    For us to do.
    Our place is to sense what is being asked of us
    And comply—
    Trusting ourselves to the unfolding of things,
    as those who are just along for the ride.
  19. 04/05/2016 — Dogwood 2016 05 Panorama — Andrew Jackson State Park, Lancaster County, South Carolina, March 31, 2016 Men are uniquely, psychically, configured
    to show women who they are capable of being,
    And likewise with women and men.
    We bring out the best and the worst in each other,
    And the more intimate the relationship,
    The more we impact the other for better, or worse. The magic works whether we are aware of it or not, but.
    For us to get it,
    We have to see/know what is going on
    And participate as full partners in the joint production of each other. As it is, we generally only have eyes for our agenda,
    And try to position the other to get what we want
    Without understanding that it is the place of the other
    In our life
    To show us who we are, and also are. We say to the other,
    “YOU make me so _____ !”
    Without seeing that the _____ ! is what we produce
    Out of our own makeup
    In response to the other’s behavior.
    The _____! is who we are capable of being
    In certain circumstances.
    That is important information
    to those who are intent on
    becoming themselves in relation to the other,
    thanks to the other. Put another man, or woman,
    In our place
    And their reaction would likely be different.
    It is not automatic that X results in Y.
    We are being shown who we are, and also are.
    What we do with that information
    Has everything to do with who we become. What we do with who we are, and also are,
    Is who we ARE.
    Wake up.
    Open your eyes.
    Get to work.
    In the service of your own becoming.
    Becoming who we ARE is our only valid agenda.
  20. 04/05/2016 — Goodale 2015 44 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We grow each other up—
    To the extent that we can grow up—
    All along the way.
    No hermit ever matured one fraction
    Beyond entering the woods or the cave.
    There are no solitary spiritual masters.
    Yet the capacity for solitude is
    A quality of all masters.
    We seek it out in order
    To reflect on the impact of the others.
    Yet, without their impact
    Reflection quickly becomes a circle
    Winding itself ever closer
    Until our thoughts become a rut
    Becoming a grave.
    New experiences feed new reflections
    And produce new realizations.
    Of course, we have to be worth talking to.
    Entire congregations have been known
    To repeat the old thoughts
    Down the rut
    To the grave.
  21. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 04/06/2016 — McDowell Great Blue Herron 01 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 06, 2016 I don’t know what to do about
    the idiocy of certain state governments.
    I do know that idiocy
    can take over if the electorate sleeps.
    I do know the electorate has been asleep,
    Or worse—absent without leave—
    For sometime now.
    Complacency set in.
    Or boredom.
    Or resignation.
    Less than 45% of registered voters
    vote in any given election.
    A majority is one vote more than half of 45%.
    I could win an election with 22% of the vote.
    The Tea Party Republicans rarely carry more than a 35%
    Approval rating anywhere.
    That leads me to believe that nationwide
    Tea Party Republicans weigh in
    at no more than 35% of those eligible to vote.
    But they would need only 22% of the vote to win.
    And they, by God, show up on election day—
    EVERY election day.
    Now let’s wonder why idiocy has taken over.
    Where is the missing 55% of the electorate?
    We can lay the responsibility for idiocy at their door.
    Let them wade through it on their way to work every day.
    Oh, and let’s thank them with a
    Big Juicy Wet One Right On The Kisser.
    And tell them “Thanks a lot,
    Chump, for not showing up.”
  22. 04/06/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 08 — Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 Lemme ‘splane…
    Our life is fluid, dynamic, alive.
    Our life has a life of its own.
    Our life isn’t an extension of our will, our wants, our wishes.
    Our life is a thing apart from us,
    Beyond us,
    Out there,
    Calling us to catch up
    And live it while there is still time left for living.
    Our life is not ours to decide what to do with.
    Our life is ours to listen to,
    To sense,
    To intuit,
    To imagine,
    To align ourselves with
    Get out of the way
    And allow it to live itself through us.
    It is,
    To borrow a Biblical image,
    The potter, we are the clay.
    The worse thing, therefore,
    After ignoring the right order of things
    And thinking we are the boss of our life,
    Is to think that we are to live one
    Frozen, rigid, standardized, unchanging, unchangeable,
    Always the same life forever.
    Who we have been
    Is not who we will be.
    We are always and forever
    Becoming who we are.
    I don’t care how old we are,
    We have only just begun.
    So, put your dancing shoes on, Baby,
    And step onto the floor.
    Your life has a step or two to show you,
    With more outlandish ones on the way!
  23. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 04/07/2016 — Rue Anemone 2016 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 26, 2016 Democracy hinges on two things:
    The electorate must vote
    The citizens must obey the laws.
    When members of congress
    And state governors and legislatures
    Refuse to be law-abiding,
    Dismiss, discount, disregard, flaunt or ignore
    Laws guarding the constitutional rights of all citizens,
    They place themselves outside the law,
    And become outlaws.
    Thugs, gangs, hoodlums, goons and villains.
    Each one took an oath of office,
    Promising, among other things,
    To uphold and obey the Constitution of the United States.
    At the very least,
    They deserve to be dispelled from office.
    I would prefer to see them arrested and jailed
    For treason and sedition.
    Until that happens,
    The electorate has to rise to the occasion
    And vote them out of office—
    And vote into office those
    Who will keep the law they swear to uphold.
    When neither those who govern
    Nor the electorate do their jobs
    Democracy becomes a sham and a shame.
  24. 04/08/2016 — Banded Watersnake 02 Detail — Glencaren Garden, Rock Hill, South Carolina, April 3, 2016 A “Philosophy of Life” is what we tell ourselves to keep going.
    The three most popular philosophies of life
    Are some variation, or combination, of
    Resignation, Hopelessness and Denial.
    “There is a reason for everything
    And it will all be made up to us one day.”
    “Don’t ask any questions,
    Just keep your nose to the grindstone
    And do what you’re told—
    And it will all work out in the end.”
    “Eat, drink and be merry,
    For death is on the way.
    In the meantime,
    Let’s pass a good time!”
    “Just take it one day, or one step, at a time,
    And hope for the best!”
    “Money! Wealth! Privilege! Fame! Renown!
    The more we have,
    The happier we will be!”
    Most of the people we know,
    Or might have known,
    Are stumbling around
    In a culturally, or religiously, or self-imposed fog,
    With no sense of purpose or direction,
    Living aimless, meaningless, lives,
    Hanging out and going through the motions of being alive
    Until they die.
    What about you?
    Why are you here?
    What keeps you going?
  25. 04/08/2016 — Bleeding Heart 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 7, 2016 The truth is that things are not the way they ought to be,
    And they are certainly not the way we wish they were,
    Or want them to be.
    Squaring ourselves up with that truth
    And embracing it, in an “Okay, I got it, now what?” kind of way
    Is the truth that sets us free to respond to any calamity,
    Catastrophe,
    Context
    In the confidence that we have what it takes
    To face it and deal with it, again and again forever—
    In the manner of Odysseus who said,
    “I will stay with it and endure suffering hardship/
    And once the heaving sea has shaken my raft to pieces,
    Then I will swim.”
    That is the Foundation Stone.
    Grounded upon that
    We are safe knowing that we do not have to be safe
    To be safe.
    The freedom of being free from fear and desire,
    And thus able to be who we are,
    Where we are,
    When we are,
    Why we are,
    How we are
    “At the still point of the turning world.”
  26. 04/09/2016 — Trumpet Vine Panorama 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 It is important that we know who our heroes are,
    And consciously live to incarnate
    the qualities we admire in them,
    Bringing them forth,
    Making them real,
    As only we can,
    In the life we are living.
    Our heroes are who we are yet-to-be,
    Inspiring us toward the “I” within
    That needs to be intentionally birthed
    Within the situations that call for her,
    For his,
    Qualities and characteristics.
    And we are both male and female,
    Living to be the best woman,
    And the best man,
    We are capable of being.
    Dolly Parton is the woman I would love to be,
    And George Clooney is the man.
    On a fictional level,
    Hester Prynne and Mary Poppins are the women,
    And Atticus Finch and Tevya are the men.
    I can’t imagine being a better woman than those women,
    Or a better man that those men.
    And they all help me toward
    The best woman, and the best man,
    I am capable of being
    In each situation as it arises.
  27. 04/09/2016 — Atamasco Lily B&W — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 We build a life out of our experience
    And our interpretation, understanding, of our experience.
    If no new experiences come along
    Our interpretation of our experience will work for us
    Over long stretches of time.
    Things will be as we say they are,
    And our experience will validate it.
    The sacrifice of our first born sons
    Will cause the sun to come back to us
    Every winter solstice,
    And we will keep sacrificing our first born sons
    Until some invading army
    Lays waste to our land
    And tells us we are stupid to think
    Our god was in charge of the sun,
    When their god is clearly the superior god.
    New experience
    And new ways of understanding experience
    Change our world.
    They are the only things that do.
    Our world is the way it is
    Because of the way we experience it
    And understand it.
    How do we see things differently?
    What have you changed your mind about lately?
    When was your most recent realization?
    How are we avoiding new experiences
    And refusing to interpret old experiences in new ways?
    What are the things we say about the way things are
    That we won’t stop saying?
  28. 04/10/2016 — There’s An Eagle In There I Swear — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 We structure reality
    (The facts that define and limit our existence)
    To conform to our interpretation of our experience of reality.
    Something happens,
    Or fails to happen,
    And we have to explain it,
    Understand it,
    In order to keep it happening
    Or keep it from happening
    Or make it happen
    Or not happen
    And have things work in our favor.
    “Learning from our experience”
    Is taking what happens
    And figuring out what we can do
    To keep it happening,
    Or to make it not happen.
    Superstition and religion—
    And where does that line lie?—
    Work to help us get things like we want them to be.
    How we live in relation to the facts that govern our life
    Governs our life.
    We are always doing this
    And never doing that
    So that this or that will happen or not happen.
    How would we live
    If we weren’t positioning, posturing, maneuvering ourselves
    To enjoy some favorable advantage?
    How would we live
    If we were only concerned with living our life,
    And not with getting something out of it?
  29. 04/10/2016 — Goodale 2015 45 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 It takes too much to make us happy.
    We are saturated with bliss.
    Most of us can have a hot shower any time we want one.
    None of the kings and queens of antiquity could dream
    Of the things we take so for granted we never notice
    In our bathroom.
    Then, there is the kitchen.
    And we have the gall to be discontent.
    We cast about waiting for the next new piece of technological plastic WOW
    On its way to the landfill by way of us,
    Because we are so bored with our life
    And need something to entertain us
    To take our minds off how bored we are.
    Poor us.
    I recommend we sit down with our life
    And listen to it.
    Ask it what it needs from us in order to come forth
    In us and through us.
    I’m serious.
    We have a destiny that is dying in the delivery room
    Because we are all about what is going to make us happy now.
    No, now.
    No, now…
    And won’t cooperate with our own birthing
    In the time left for living.
    Go stand in a hot shower and ask your life what it needs of you
    In order to come to life in you.
    And do it.
  30. 04/11/2016 — White Fence, Red Barn — Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 We are formed, shaped, by our innate tendencies
    In concert with our context
    And how we interpret it.
    We cannot change our tendencies
    Or our context,
    Though we can influence both
    By the way we interpret, understand, explain, make sense of,
    What is happening and how we are responding to it.
    We have to perceive our perceptions.
    We cannot allow ourselves to get by with “just reacting.”
    We have to see how we are reacting—
    How “that” in our environment
    Means “this” in our response to our environment,
    And what we are saying/thinking/feeling about “that”
    To make “this” what it is.
    Nothing is automatic.
    A father’s anger
    Can have a different impact
    All his children.
    Poverty can mean one thing to one person
    And another thing to someone else.
    What does “that” mean to us?
    Why does “that” mean what it does and not something else?
    We have to work with our meanings
    To change the impact of our context
    And transform our life.
  31. 04/12/2016 — Catesby’s Trillium 2016 01 — Chestnut trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 Finding
    And living out of—
    Aligned with—
    The center of what is central
    To you
    Puts you on
    The path that is YOUR path
    That no one can give you
    Or take away from you.
    Consider your life.
    How much of what goes on there
    Is geared to helping you
    Find
    And live out of—
    Aligned with—
    The center of what is central
    To you?
    How much of what goes on there
    Is geared to distracting you
    From that work
    And replacing it
    With what someone else thinks
    Should be central to you?
    Whose side are you on?
  32. 04/12/2016 — Bloodroot 2016 05 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 28, 2016 If all of our symbols have to be explained to us,
    We don’t have a living symbol to our name.
    Symbols cannot be told to anyone,
    Handed to anyone,
    Defined, spelled out, made plain…
    The value of a symbol is that
    There is more to it than words can say,
    And we have to do the work of imagining,
    Intuiting,
    Articulating
    What it is about the symbol(s) in question
    That sets it, set them, apart
    And make them alive for us.
    What are the objects and images
    That have the power of attraction
    For you?
    A campfire, perhaps, or even gas logs in a fire place?
    The ocean?
    Storm clouds?
    Pay attention to the things that stand apart for you.
    Reflect on them.
    See what comes to mind.
    We are surrounded by
    “Symbols of Transformation” (Carl Jung)
    Calling us to see what they have to show us,
    Hear what they have to say to us.
    Their meaning is with us,
    Waiting to be discovered.
    The treasure hard to find.
  33. 04/13/2016 — Japanese Maple in the Sun — Glencairn Garden, Rock Hill, South Carolina, April 10, 2016 We are the meaning we seek.
    We think it is out there, over there,
    Beyond the mountains, across the sea.
    We carry the treasure with us
    Looking for the treasure.
    We are the man on his ox
    Looking for his ox,
    The woman holding her car keys
    Looking for her car keys.
    We live searching for meaning
    Without knowing who wants to know.
    Who are you?
    What is yours to do?
    What lies at the core,
    At the center,
    At the foundation
    Of YOU?
    Get to the bottom
    Of YOU,
    And there it is.
    The treasure hard to find.
    Wondering what took so long.
  34. 04/13/2016 — Wood Sorrel 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 People have been doing rain dances
    for as long as there have been people.
    And when we become civilized
    to the point of being self-conscious dancing for rain,
    we pray for it instead.
    The primary focus of the species
    is controlling the natural world.
    Never mind the rhythms of nature.
    Ignore the Biblical observation
    “To everything there is a season,
    and a time for everything under heaven.”
    We want it to rain NOW!
    Our crops and our lives depend on it!
    When you depend on things you can’t control,
    you trick yourself into believing
    you can control it if you find the magic dance,
    or the magic prayer,
    or the magic whatever.
    We influence the heavens, the gods, the God.
    That is the foundational doctrine
    in every book of doctrines.
    What we do determines
    what the heavens,
    the gods,
    the God
    does to us, or for us.
    That is the belief behind all of the beliefs.
    If we believe correctly,
    the heavens, the gods, the God
    are/is ours to command,
    And will rush to do our bidding
    With rain for a bountiful harvest,
    Pearly gates,
    And streets of resplendent gold.
    Not a bad story line
    For those helpless and at the mercy
    Of the 10,000 things.
  35. 04/14/2016 — Blue Star 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 It starts with this:
    If you were to live your life
    without pursuing the advantage—
    Any advantage—
    How would you live it? Actually, it starts before there.
    It starts with your vulnerability—
    With your impotence.
    With your Helplessness,
    Hopelessness,
    Desperate for the advantage—
    Any advantage.
    It starts with your agony,
    With your pain.
    With the recognition of your aloneness,
    And your loneliness.
    With your realization
    That you are responsible for you
    With too few resources
    And no prospects of ever having enough.
    It starts with your back to the wall
    Standing on the brink.
    It starts with your fear
    And your grief—
    Your loss of all hope,
    And your sorrow.
    It starts with your feeling the ache
    Of your lostness
    In the pit of your stomach
    And in the marrow of your bones.
    It starts with the truth
    Of who and how you are.
    If you can face that truth,
    It is in the strength—
    The crazy, ludicrous, absurd strength—
    Of another truth,
    That even so,
    It is up to you,
    And you are enough,
    Just as you are,
    Because you are more than you appear to be.
    There is more to you than meets the eye.
    You have all you need—
    In spite of what you think, or feel—
    And it only takes trusting that it is so
    To know that it is so.
    At that point,
    You are ready to begin.
  36. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 04/14/2016 — Watersnake Love — Glencairn Garden, Rock Hill, SC, April 3, 2016 Begin with your contradictions,
    Your polarities,
    Your ambivalence,
    Your conflicts.
    It is said that “truth is found between the hands.”
    On the one hand, what?
    On the other hand, what?
    Where are you strung out between mutually exclusive
    And equally compelling
    Options?
    Where does your Doctor Jekyll stumble over your Mr. Hyde?
    Sit down with them
    And don’t get up
    Until you have explored each
    To the very bottom of his/your little heart.
    You have to get to the bottom of you
    As exhibited in your contradictions.
    You keep canceling yourself out.
    Shooting yourself in the foot.
    Blocking yourself at every turn.
    Stop! Look! Listen!
    Listen! Listen! Listen!
    The time you spend in self-exploration
    And self-reflection
    Is an investment in your future.
    You are trying to tell you
    What you need to hear.
    Listen! Listen! Listen!
  37. 04/15/2016 — Spring Beauty 2016 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester, South Carolina, April 9, 2016 We have become a culture of diversion and distraction.
    We live to be entertained.
    We have nothing compelling to do.
    We fill up our time
    With anything available
    To take our minds off the emptiness of our lives.
    We seek the comforts and advantages,
    But why?
    What purpose does it serve?
    What purpose do WE serve?
    What is OUR purpose?
    What do we MEAN by our life?
    What do we MEAN to say, to do, with our life?
    What do we INTEND with the life we are living?
    Everybody is on the way to somewhere else.
    Everybody wants to be someone else.
    Actors want to be singers.
    Singers want to be actors.
    Who is at peace with who, and where, they are?
    Who can stand being alone with themselves
    In a culture of rampant discontent?
  38. 04/15/2016 — May Apple 01 Panorama — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 What would it take to wake up Johnny Manziel and turn his life around?
    Somebody? Anybody?
    If you could answer that question
    with a sure-fire, never-fail, answer, solution, recipe
    You could name your price.
    Parents and siblings,
    Spouses and partners,
    Bosses, co-workers and friends
    Would stand in line to buy your book and hear you lecture.
    Rehab programs don’t come
    with absolute, rock-solid-sure, guaranteed formulas
    for doing what needs to be done
    For Johnny Manziel and a teeming multitude of others like him—
    All with people who love them
    shaking their heads wondering how it can happen.
    Yet, it happens all the time.
    And sometimes it unhappens.
    Sometimes, people wake up and turn their life around.
    12-step programs are filled with people who are working the program.
    And with people who are not.
    What’s the difference?
    Ask them and they will tell you it comes down to one thing.
    Call it grace, or good luck.
    It comes down to the same thing.
    We are lucky that grace is at work in the world,
    And graced by good luck every time we stumble into it.
    We strive to keep people like Johnny Manziel alive long enough
    To be lucky to be blessed with the grace of resurrection and new life
    While there is still time left to be lived.
    It happens often enough to keep us hoping it will happen this time every time.
    It’s that hard-headed hope that keeps us going
    In the work that has to be done
    In the lives of so many:
    “The work of our hands, establish Thou it!”
    Indeed, by all means, “Establish Thou it!”
  39. 04/16/2016 — Buttercup 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 11, 2016 We live to discover and express who we are.
    We are here to develop and convey our individuality.
    Integrity, identity, definition, distinction characterize the nature of our work.
    The cost of doing business
    Is the price we pay for being who we are.
    There is a catch.
    We also have to stay in touch.
    We have to be who we are
    In relationship with those who are being who they are.
    We cannot be who we are alone,
    In a cave,
    In a hut in the woods.
    We have to be who we are in community—
    In a diverse community of people
    Who may, or may not, be supportive of our work
    To discover and express who we are.
    We have to develop our social skills
    While we are developing our sense of direction
    And our feel for what our life is asking of us.
    This is called walking two paths at the same time.
    We do that by being aware of “the other path” at all times.
    “The other path” keeps us alert
    To the nuances and subtleties of the path we are currently negotiating.
    We cannot ignore “that path,”
    For the sake of this one. “What a slippery slope this is!”
    “Like the edge of a razor!”
    Anyone can define herself, himself, on a deserted island.
    It doesn’t count until you can be yourself at home
    Around a Thanksgiving table,
    Without anyone withdrawing, sulking, or slamming doors.
  40. 04/16/2016 — Wisteria 2016 02 — Glencairn Garden, Rock Hill, SC, April 3, 2016 It comes down to this:
    See what is happening in each situation as it arises.
    Know what it means
    And what needs to be done about it.
    Do what can be done about it
    With the gifts that are yours to serve
    And the resources available to you.
    And let that be that.
    It is never more complicated, complex or difficult than this.
  41. 04/17/2016 — Goodale 2015 46 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 At the bottom,
    We all are crazy.
    We want what we cannot have,
    What we have no business having,
    And are driven by mad desires
    For things we cannot use
    And have no interest in.
    Make sense of that
    If you can. Don’t waste your time
    Trying to make sense of it.
    Laugh,
    And say to yourself,
    “Ain’t that just the way it is though!”
    And turn your attention
    To the other path—
    The path we also walk,
    The path with our name on it,
    The path that is pulling us forth
    Against our will,
    Bringing us out
    Like a bird from an egg
    To fly of all things.
    And we want to remain egg bound forever.
    Crazy to the core.
    Wanting to live
    And to remain dead.
    Walking two paths at the same time.
    Not knowing which is life,
    And which is death.
    Thinking death is life,
    And life is death.
    Stupid crazy
    All the way to the bottom.
    Laugh and walk two paths,
    Knowingly,
    Mindfully.
    Holy laughter rights the boat,
    As much as it can be righted,
    And sails us on
    To the land of promise,
    On the far side
    Of the heaving seas
    Tossing about in our own soul.
  42. 04/18/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 05 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Making our peace with our circumstances
    Could mean resigning ourselves to the way things are
    And allowing them to remain so,
    Unchallenged and undisturbed.
    And it could mean taking up the causes
    That need to be taken up
    No matter how absurd, ridiculous, foolish and hopeless it is—
    Because that is what our circumstances require.
    Making our peace with our circumstances
    Could mean taking no for an answer every time.
    And it could mean seeing no as someone else’s idea
    That things should remain as they are,
    And saying no to no in the service of your own
    Interpretation of what needs to happen in response to the way things are,
    Understanding that saying yes to no,
    And saying no to no,
    Constitute the dynamics of life on every level,
    And knowing when to say yes to no,
    And when to say no to no,
    Is the essence of wisdom
    And the nature of the circumstances
    With which we must make our peace.
    If you would like to help in the work of saying no to no
    Look up Rancho Feliz Charitable Foundation on the internet
    And send them some cash encouragement
    In their efforts in behalf of the Mexican poor
    On both sides of the border.
    It is a cause that calls us beyond
    How things are
    To how things ought to be—
    As a way of making our peace
    With the circumstances that need us.
  43. 04/18/2016 — Flame Azalea 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 5, 2016 The Tao is the way of life,
    The current of life,
    The flow of life.
    It is how life works.
    To place ourselves in accord with the Tao
    Is to place ourselves in accord with the way life works.
    It is to acquiesce to the way things are, to how things are. This is not a culturally imposed order.
    “The way things are”
    Has been used to justify and keep in place
    Every injustice and discriminatory practice through out the ages.
    When Jesus said,
    “In as much as you have done injustice
    to the least of my brothers and sisters,
    you have done it unto me—
    And in as much as you have not done justice
    to the least of my brothers and sisters,
    you have not done it unto me,”
    He was talking about the poor and outcast in Israel,
    And about the Samaritans and Syrians and Phoneticians,
    And all those who would have been unwelcome
    In the Temple and synagogues of his day.
    Who would you think “the least of my brothers and sisters”
    Might be today?
    Who is more least than the LGBT community?
    To deny them basic human rights
    Because “that’s the way things are,”
    Is to ignore the fact that the way things actually are
    Is for a certain percentage of the population
    To be LGBT in every country in every age.
    LGBT is a fact that everybody else
    Needs to be putting themselves in accord with.
    To be out of accord with that fact
    Is to be out of accord with Tao,
    And you do not want to be out of accord with Tao.
    Tao does not like it when people are out of accord with Tao.
    And when Tao is not happy, nobody is happy.
    Just ask Lao Tzu.
  44. 04/19/2016 — Dwarf Crested Iris 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 13,, 2016 Being on our own side
    Means doing what is hard,
    Straight up
    And bearing the pain
    Because it is important
    That the thing be done,
    And it is important
    For you to do it,
    And you know it
    Without knowing why
    Or being able to explain it
    To anyone’s satisfaction.
    It means living your life
    The way you know it needs to be lived
    In spite of what anyone else thinks—
    In spite of what everyone else thinks.
    It means knowing that YOU
    Are the Foundation Stone
    Of your own life.
    What you say goes
    Where you are concerned.
    You say what your business is
    And what it is not.
    You say what you need to do
    And what you do not need to do.
    You consult with yourself
    Before making any decision,
    Taking any action,
    And decide for yourself what you will do.
    It means you are sovereign over your own life.
    It means you seek no one’s permission or approval
    For thinking what you think,
    Feeling what you feel,
    Knowing what you know,
    And doing what you do.
    If someone else has the keys to your life,
    Take them back.
    Be you.
  45. 04/19/2016 — Creekside Trail 2016 01 Panorama — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 Our authority is grounded in our identity.
    When we KNOW who we are
    And what we will do,
    And not do,
    Because our doing,
    And not doing,
    Express, exhibit, reflect
    Who we are,
    We are the authority
    Who is solely responsible for
    Determining the direction and flow
    Of the life we live.
    WE are the ones who say so
    About all matters pertaining to us and our life.
    Our yes is YES!
    Our no is NO!
    Because WE say so!
    There can be no ambivalence or equivocation
    About what we LOVE.
    The hammock and I are one—
    I don’t care what you or anyone thinks about hammocks.
    I know what I think,
    And cannot be moved.
    That is the way it is with us
    Across the board
    When we know what is true for us.
    When we know who we are
    And who we are not.
  46. 04/19/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 09 – Charlotte, North Carolina, March 3, 2016 There are Christians–
    Not just a few–
    Who take it on faith that God is a fact
    And that the Bible is the literal Word of God,
    And that all of Christian doctrine and theology are also facts,
    And who deride and denounce evolution
    Because it is just “a theory,”
    Unproven and unproveable. Why take it on faith that God, the Bible, the Doctrines and the theology are all facts,
    And not something else instead?
    If you are going to take it on faith that God, etc., are facts,
    Why not take it on faith that evolution is a fact?
    Why take one set of facts on faith and reject the others?
    And how, exactly, is taking something on faith–
    Anything–
    Different from making up something about the thing
    And saying we are taking it on faith
    That what we just made up
    Is a fact?
    How is taking something on faith different
    From pretending that we are not pretending?
    How is it different from kidding ourselves
    About kidding ourselves?
  47. 04/20/2016 — Perfoliate Bellwort 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 What we need
    Is a place where we can hear ourselves think.
    Silence or a sounding board—
    Both work equally well,
    And work best in concert with the other.
    A good therapist is a sounding board,
    And the work we do in the silence between sessions
    Makes all the difference.
    Silence is for reflecting and forming new realizations.
    A sounding board is for articulating our finds
    And making necessary adjustments
    In our procedures and conclusions.
    We develop our spiritual side
    (That would be our apprehension of
    The unconscious reality
    That is the ground and source
    Of life and being)
    Only with the proper mix of
    Silence and sounding boards.
    How much of either do you have in your life?
  48. 04/20/2016 — House Finch 2016 01 — Male House Finch, Charlotte, NC, April 20, 2016 The religions of the world
    Are killing the world.
    Religious wars (And what war is not religious on some level?)
    Have no goal in mind
    Beyond the eradication
    Of all those not like us,
    Which is, of course, ridiculous,
    But when has religion ever been rational?
    So here we are.
    Now what?
  49. 04/20/2016 — Goodale 2015 45/46 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Be driven by your interests,
    Not by your fears or desires.
    Give yourself to what your love,
    Regardless of the price.
    Live to serve what is meaningful and important to you.
    Let what calls your name
    Direct your path
    And led you into the company
    Of what else calls your name.
    You will not regret it.
  50. 04/20/2016 — House Finch 02 — Female, Charlotte, North Carolina, April 20, 2016 There is an intelligence at work in our life,
    And our role is to place ourselves in accord with it,
    And dance together throughout our days.
    Two things prevent this from happening. 1) Calling the intelligence “God.”
    As soon as the word “God” is even thought,
    In comes instantly,
    “The Father Almighty Creator of Heaven and Earth
    And Jesus Christ His (sic) only Son Our Lord
    Who Was Conceived by the Holy Spirit,
    Born of the Virgin Mary,
    Was Crucified, Dead and Buried…
    And, like that, the intelligence is crowded out
    by the doctrines and dogmas,
    the confessions and creeds,
    the decrees and encyclicals
    and the entire weight of Christendom.
    The intelligence is lost amid all the brouhaha and that’s that.
    “Doing God’s will” replaces
    “Placing ourselves in accord
    with the intelligence at work in our life.”
    And all is lost. 2) Thinking we can
    put the intelligence to work in our behalf.
    The instant we form the concept
    “intelligence at work in our life,”
    We leap to how to enlist it in our service,
    And work it to our advantage.
    “Give to Gain” is a popular idea.
    “The Prayer of Jabez,”
    and “The Power of Attraction” were others. We can milk an oyster shell.
    We kill every good thing
    by trying to get it to plow our fields
    and pave our way.
    If we cannot exploit something,
    it is of no use to us,
    and we have no interest in it. With these two “Do Not Go There’s” guarding our thoughts,
    Let’s start over:
    ,
    There is an intelligence at work in our life
    And our role is to place ourselves in accord with it,
    And dance together throughout our days. The intelligence at work in our life
    Is with us to bring us forth in our life
    So that we might know what we are capable of
    And assist the intelligence
    In its work to bring life forth all around us
    For the good of all living things. We are here to live our life—
    the life that is truly our life to live—
    and what we get out of it
    is living our life.
  51. 04/22/2016 — McDowell Woods 01 — Four Season Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 Putting ourselves in accord
    With the intelligence at work in our life
    Is a matter of seeing,
    hearing,
    understanding,
    knowing,
    doing/being. It is a matter of getting ourselves out of the way
    And being mindfully, compassionately, non-judgmentally
    Aware of each situation as it arises—
    Knowing all that can be known about it
    And what is going on
    Within us and around us. The practice of mindfulness
    (Check out Jon Kabat-Zinn’s You Tube Videos)
    Is the foundation
    Of seeing, hearing, understanding, knowing, doing/being,
    And the doorway to
    A future worth having
    For all living things.
  52. 04/22/2016 — Catesby’s Trillium 2016 02 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 There are our options and our choices.
    That is all we have to work with.
    Our life is the result of the interplay of options and choices.
    That being the case, you might think we would be more conscious
    Of each—
    That we would take the time to wake up,
    realize,
    reflect on,
    explore,
    examine,
    imagine,
    intuit,
    inspect,
    consider
    What is happening and what needs to be done about it
    In each situation as it arises,
    Rather than react without thinking
    To the things that come our way. The intelligence at work in our life
    Needs some intelligence to work with
    For things to be as good as they can be.
    Our life is waiting for us to live mindfully,
    And we are acting like that is asking too much.
  53. 04/22/2016 — Campbell’s Nursery 2016 13 — Charlotte, NC, March 3, 2016 The intelligence at work in our life
    Goes by different names, among them:
    Grace,
    Synchronicity,
    Chance,
    Luck,
    Magic,
    Mystery,
    Tao,
    Way,
    .. The intelligence at work in our life
    Is the thread leading from the beginning to here, now, and beyond.
    The wonder is the way all the disparate parts—
    The wrong turns,
    False starts,
    Dead ends,
    Wins and losses,
    Triumphs and defeats,
    Glory and shame,
    All came together
    As though some
    Invisible hand were writing the script,
    Directing the performance,
    Producing us,
    Often against our will,
    And generally without our cooperation.
  54. 04/23/2016 — Azalea Blossoms 2016 02 — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 1, 2016 Our art is our life.
    We are all learning to be artists.
    Our particular mode, or modality, or way of doing art
    Lies dormant and innate within,
    Waiting to be discovered and expressed.
    Our art will lead us to it
    If we wait,
    Playfully, respectfully, confidently, securely
    In the silence,
    Wondering what we are doing there
    And why it’s taking so long.
    The waiting is one of the tests. There are tests all along the way.
    Do we have what it takes is always the question.
    We need to gather in small groups
    As seekers seeking
    To be encouraged and sustained
    By the presence of those who are like us
    With more questions than answers,
    And more need of faith than faith. Faith in ourselves.
    Faith in the journey, in the quest, in the search, the seeking.
    Faith in the art—OUR art.
    Faith in the silence.
    The silence is awful,
    And filled with the grace and wonder of being.
    We meet the monsters in the silence. Dread.
    Anxiety.
    Guilt.
    Shame.
    Depression…
    The minute we are quiet,
    There IT is.
    Paranoia.
    Delusions,
    obsessions,
    compulsions,
    impulses…
    And desire.
    Fantasies,
    and a different variety of
    Delusions,
    obsessions,
    compulsions,
    impulses… It’s no wonder we avoid silence,
    And turn up the volume on our life
    In order to stay sane.
    But it isn’t sanity, it’s denial.
    Silence is truth in waiting.
    It all settles out in the silence,
    And there is clarity,
    Enlightenment.
    Realization.
    Life. Ask the Buddha.
    He waited past the monsters
    And found the treasure.
    As with the Buddha,
    So with us all.
    Silence is the threshold, the doorway,
    To our art.
    We are led all the way,
    Waiting, listening, looking,
    Alive at last.
    If we live that long.
  55. 04/23/2016 — Squaw Root 2016 01 — Canal Trail, Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 I would like it if we could talk things over,
    Being mindfully present with one another.
    All others.
    Understanding with compassion how things are
    From the other’s point of view.
    And caring about the other’s well-being
    As much as we care about our own.
    If some genie ever gives me three wishes,
    That’s the first one.
  56. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/24/2016 — Yellow Wood Sorrel 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 Any time we make an approach to truth—
    the truth of our experience, of the way things are—
    THE way to truth,
    we block the way to truth.
    There is no sacrosanct formula,
    doctrine, There is only seeing how things are now
    and what needs to be done about them,
    in response to them. Any path that becomes THE path
    becomes a worn path,
    becomes a rut,
    becomes a narrow way of thinking,
    perceiving,
    experiencing,
    and cuts us off from the fullness of our experience,
    and keeps us from seeing
    how things are and also are
    in the moment-to-moment encounter
    with each situation as it arises. The work is always to see—
    and respond appropriately to—
    how things are now,
    no now,
    no now…
    No religion can help us with that work.
    We are on our own there.
    Mindfulness is our responsibility
    In every instant of our life.
    We are always getting to the bottom of things
    And deciding how to respond
    in ways that are fitting to the occasion
    in every occasion.
    The work of a true human being
    is spontaneously being
    what the situation calls for
    out of the gifts that are ours
    to give in each situation as it arises.
  57. 04/24/2016 — Jack In The Pulpit 2016 01 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, April 23, 2016 One of the leading causes of depression
    Is living an inauthentic life.
    That is a life that is not you.
    That doesn’t have enough room in it for you.
    That doesn’t have enough places
    for your soul to breathe. If there is space in your life
    for your soul to come to life,
    Depression will not likely be
    one of your chief problems. How much soul-space is there in your life?
    How much of Y-O-U shines through
    each day in the life you live?
    If you were to give your soul
    what it needs tomorrow,
    What would it be? What are the chances of you doing that,
    If not tomorrow, one day this week?
    This month?
    Too many of us are owned
    by too many things
    That are not things our soul enjoys.
    We have to work our soul
    back into our life.
    We have to give our soul
    room to breathe.
    We have to bring ourselves to life in our life. That is your mission—
    Bringing your soul, yourself,
    to life in your life.
    How can you begin to do that
    in what is left of today?
    Tomorrow? The rest of your life will be lighter,
    and brighter, and more fun
    When you devote some time
    to playing with your soul,
    And doing what your soul loves.
    Live to close the gap between
    you and authenticity.
    Your soul told me to say that.
  58. 04/25/2016 — Bluet 2016 02 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 Two leading causes of depression
    are hopelessness and futility,
    The realization that nothing we do matters.
    Rational minds can look at the same set of facts
    And make different interpretations,
    Draw different conclusions. Here’s the deal with hopelessness and futility:
    We look at them and say “Nothing we do matters!”
    As though it matters that nothing we do matters.
    But if that matters, then it is possible
    that something else matters,
    Like getting the dog to the Vet
    And changing the baby’s diapers, Here is the grounding realization:
    “It is all hopeless, pointless, useless, futile, absurd,
    And coming to a very bad, inevitable, end—
    AND how we live in the meantime makes all the difference!”
    A cup of cool water to a dying person
    Is not absurd.
    It is the essence of kindness and compassion. To spit on the dying person and turn away,
    Refusing to offer the cup of cool water,
    And ourselves as a caring, consoling presence
    At the time of death,
    Would the the height of obscenity, cruelty and inhumanity. The humane thing—
    The human thing—
    Is to live in the worst life can do
    As lights in the darkness,
    As agents of love,
    kindness,
    gentleness,
    graciousness,
    generosity,
    beauty,
    decency,
    benevolence,
    mercy,
    warmth
    and oneness-of-being
    With those who suffer too much
    the absence of those things,
    And sets us apart from the inhumane and the inhuman. So it comes down to this:
    How will we live in this present situation?
    Will we be a source of light and life,
    Or a source of darkness and death?
    It is our call to make in every situation,
    And our choice makes all the difference.

04/25/2016 — Canal Trail 2016 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016

Here is my poem, “The Jailer,” from my book, “I Call This Poetry”:

Saying “YES!” to the way things are,
And working with them
To see what we can do with them
In the time left for living,
Transforms everything,
And opens us to possibilities
We never knew existed.

This is the “transcendent function” (Carl Jung)
Of imagination coming to life in our life,
And the power of Perspective Shifts
To move mountains
And to create doorways
In the walls
Boxing us in.

We all are magicians in this way.
We all are the magic wand we wish we had.

Waiting for the jailer to let us out,
We become the jailer keeping us in,
Holding the key,
Wishing we had a key.

  1. 04/25/2016 — Hammock Selfie — The point not to be missed here is that my feet are above the level of my heart. As we age, it is a good idea to give our heart a break,
    and use gravity to help with circulation.
    Poor circulation can result in swelling in ankles and knees,
    painful joints and difficulties with balance and walking.
    Hammocks to the rescue! There is not a more comfortable and relaxing way
    to keep one’s feet higher than the level of one’s heart—
    and it remains one of the unsold features of hammock life. Plop down,
    lean back,
    and let gravity do the work
    of reducing swelling and easing pain.
    And if you don’t have a problem
    with swelling and pain,
    a preventive program of hammock lying
    will keep you happy for long years
    into the far distant future. Nobody is paying me to say these things.
  2. 04/25/2016 — Goodale 2015 47 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 The only thing wrong with us
    Is that we lack the courage of our convictions.
    What ARE our convictions?
    We have opinions.
    A few preferences.
    We believe in the importance
    of having the advantages,
    But we will surrender
    just about everything
    in order to have them. We want to be where we are better off,
    And that could be anywhere,
    So we have to keep our options open
    And be ready to change course with the wind,
    The tide,
    The current,
    The flow… We have to go sit down somewhere
    And wait for clarity about what is important.
    We have to know where we stand
    And stand there,
    Grounded on the Foundation Stone
    Of our own identity:
    Who we are and what matters to us.
    And live out of that “still point of the turning world”
    For the rest of time
    And on through all eternity.
  3. 04/26/2016 — Atamasco Lily 01 — Landsford Canal State Park, Chester County, South Carolina, April 8, 2016 Silence is wasted on people
    who lack the capacity for self-reflection.
    Who never question anything.
    Examine anything.
    Work to get to the bottom of anything.
    Leave everything exactly as it is.
    Think what they assume is so is so.
    Do what they are told.
    Think what has always been thought.
    Repeat what has always been said.
    Keep things exactly as they have always been.
    Never making waves,
    Or rocking boats,
    Or turning over any apple carts.
    Or taking full responsibility for their own life,
    And living it.
  4. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/26/2016 — Bloodroot 2016 04 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 28, 2016 There is an intelligence at work in our life,
    Which we sense by realizing that we
    Know more than we know we know,
    And then it’s gone in trying to know more than we can know. We flirt with the limits along the edge of consciousness,
    Intuition and instinct feel but do not say,
    And we are left with knowing there is more than we know. The test is whether we will put ourselves in its service,
    In the service of that which we do not know. Good religion says the service itself is life.
    Bad religion sees the service as a way of bartering
    For a better life—
    Either in this world or the world to come,
    Or both.
    Give to get or to gain is the essence of bad religion. Good religion says
    Live to give yourself in the service of what, you do not know,
    And let that be that.
    There is an intelligence at work in our life.
    How we choose to live in relationship with it
    Tells the tale.
  5. 04/27/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 05 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 When we know that we don’t know
    Even a slight percentage
    Of all there is to know,
    And open ourselves to possibilities
    Beyond imagining—
    Not to exploit the unknown,
    But to serve it—
    Strange things happen. Sheldon Kopp said,
    “Some things can be experienced,
    But not understood.
    And some things can be understood,
    But not explained.” We live in a swirling universe
    Of psychic reality
    Waiting to be experienced, but not understood,
    Understood, but not explained—
    Needing our collaboration
    To transform the universe of physical reality. But we don’t have any use
    For anything we can’t use
    To our perceived advantage.
    And that is the kink in the hose.
  6. 04/27/2016 — The Outing — An old fave from the Bog Garden Collection, Greensboro, NC, March 17, 2014 I am amazed at how easily I am knocked off center. Distractions abound,
    From within and without,
    And I am looping through countless scenarios
    Before I catch myself in the act of wandering
    Through another wilderness of my own making,
    And bring myself back to the center. I assume that as it is with me,
    So it is with you,
    And I find this propensity of ours
    For aimlessly wandering far from the Foundation Stone
    To be the primary purpose for meditation. Meditation seats us at the center
    (Or, if your Zazen cushion is a hammock,
    Lays us at the center),
    And reminds us where we come from
    And where we belong. My hammock is my anchor,
    My touchstone
    Connecting me to the source, the heart, the ground of me.
    I am at one with me in the hammock.
    There is nothing there to take me away from me.
    There, even when my thoughts stray,
    They always have something to say to me about me.
    Noting that, I remember it
    When I am not hammock sitting/lying,
    And see what the wandering mind
    Has to say to me about me
    In my present here and now,
    And am grounded there
    In the moment of my drifting away. A meditative practice is the path to the center and ground
    Of our being,
    And makes the way back
    An enlightening journey with our companion Self.
  7. 04/28/2016 — Fleabane Daisy 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 17, 2016 Jesus in the wilderness,
    The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    Carl Jung at Bollingen,
    Me in my hammock,
    You wherever you are
    when you are quiet and alone and aware… We have to knowingly, mindfully, with non-judgmental compassion
    Face the truth of our life,
    The truth of who we are and how it is, and also is, with us. We have to know who we are
    Past all the diversions and distractions
    and titillating,
    interesting,
    tempting,
    attractive,
    fearsome We have to know what is important to us,
    What matters most to us,
    What is central to us—
    Not because we like it,
    or desire it,
    But because it is central to us. We have to know what grounds us,
    Supports us, establishes us,
    And is our Bedrock.
    What is it that is immovable and unchangeable about us?
    What is the eternal and everlasting truth of who we are? I look out the window a lot.
    What am I doing when I look out the window?
    I am being who I am.
    Living with integrity is living in ways which honor who I am—
    Which express, exhibit and serve who I am. Jesus in the wilderness,
    The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    Carl Jung at Bollingen,
    Me in my hammock,
    You wherever you are when you are quiet and alone and aware. Finding ourselves,
    Knowing ourselves,
    Being ourselves.
    Nobody can do it for us.
    It is ours to do alone.
    Know what your hammock is.
    Go there often.
  8. 04/28/2016 — Phlox 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 21, 2016 I hold it to be entirely likely
    that the intelligence at work in our life
    Is the full component of knowledge we don’t know we know—
    and the knowledge we do not know,
    and will never know.
    We call the body of knowledge we are unconscious of
    “The Unconscious.”
    Another term for it is “Psyche,” or “Soul.”
    We live in at least two worlds—two different realities—simultaneously,
    Aware, to some extent, of one,
    Oblivious to the presence of the other. The other will not be ignored,
    And keeps breaking into our conscious life
    With insights,
    revelation,
    enlightenment,
    “holy nudges,”
    brainstorms…
    All credited to the gods and the muses,
    All belonging to the psychic world of unconscious reality. Our work is to know what we know.
    But.
    We want to get ahead,
    Sock it away,
    Retire early
    And enjoy our accumulated wealth and boundless privilege
    Until we die. We live at crosspurposes with ourselves.
    And pay the price.
  9. 04/29/2016 — Solomon’s Seal 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 How long can you sit quietly—
    Not reading,
    not listening to music,
    not watching TV,
    not doing anything but sitting quietly? Work to extend the duration
    and increase the frequency.
    And devote yourself to the task
    Of becoming mindfully,
    non-judgmentally,
    compassionately aware
    Of what goes on in the silence—
    Of thoughts and feelings, moods and memories… Become interested in what happens in the silence,
    Letting things come and go as they will,
    Observing it all without judgment or opinion,
    Watching patterns develop,
    Seeing themes being played out,
    Curious and interested about it all.
  10. 04/29/2016 — Cedar Tree 2016 01 Panorama — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 Silence is the source of all things.
    Reflection on our life experience
    leads to new realizations.
    We cannot just experience silence—
    We have to reflect on our experience of silence.
    In silence. Out of that reflection,
    Introspection,
    Examination,
    Imagination,
    Contemplation,
    Exploration
    Comes all we need to meet our life straight up,
    And gather more experience
    To take with us
    Back into the silence.
  11. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/29/2016 — Goodale 2015 49 — Goodale Sate Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 Good religion is absolutely essential
    in the work to be who we are.
    Good religion speaks
    the language of Psyche, of Soul,
    And is a treasure trove of “symbols of transformation”
    (Carl Jung). Good religion grows us up
    Through all of the stages of development,
    Helping us to recognize the signs along the way,
    And reminding us that the primary requirement
    Of the Hero’s Journey
    Is to see it through,
    To not quit too soon,
    To press on,
    To persevere,
    Whispering to us the words of the Greek poet Homer
    Spoken from the lips of Odysseus:
    “I will stay with it and endure through suffering hardship
    And once the heaving sea has shaken my raft to pieces,
    Then I will swim.” Good religion is the servant of Psyche/Soul,
    And is, to us, “a very present help in time of trouble.”
    The trouble is
    Good religion is hard to find.
  12. 04/30/2016 — Great Solomon’s Seal 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 We are born into a family and into a culture
    That tells us who we are,
    And who we are to be,
    And how we are to live our life. Growing up means growing up into
    Our own idea of who we are,
    And who we are to be,
    And how we are to live our life. We cannot do it—
    Grow up—
    Without mindful awareness
    (Which implies compassion
    And non-judgmental acceptance)
    Of ourselves,
    Our context and circumstances. It starts with seeing how things are
    On all levels—
    And we cannot see what we cannot accept
    As being the way it is.
    “This is the way things are,
    And this is what needs to be done about it,
    And this is what I can do
    With the gifts and resources at my disposal.” Then it is only a matter
    Of doing our work
    And letting things fall into place,
    However they will,
    Around that.
  13. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 04/30/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 06 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Good religion is religion without theology and doctrine. Good religion is Zen without the Buddhist or Taoist trappings. Good religion is our experience of this here, this now,
    And our sense of what is happening,
    And what needs to happen,
    And what needs to be done about it
    With the gifts and resources at our disposal,
    And our ability to know what we know
    On all levels,
    Which implies living transparent to ourselves
    And open to possibilities we cannot imagine,
    Trusting ourselves to ourselves,
    And allowing the path to open before us
    As we start walking. Good religion helps us interpret our experience
    In light of the shared experiences
    Of the species
    Through the symbols, parables and metaphors
    That have been doorways to transcendence
    Through the ages
    And connect us with truth
    At the core of who we are,
    Enabling us to live out of—
    And grounded upon—
    The Foundation Stone
    Of our essential identity,
    And be at-one with ourselves
    In each situation as it arises
    Throughout our life.
  14. 05/01/2016 — Pitcher Plants 2016 01 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, April 30, 2016 The price of being alive
    Is the work of articulation. Saying is seeing.
    We cannot see what we do not say. Our world expands
    As our vocabulary increases.
    Unless we say the same old same old forever,
    but who needs a larger vocabulary
    to say the same old things? The struggle to say what we see,
    And what it means
    Is the work of being human.
    And the work is never done. We want to be finished with it,
    And sit by the sea
    Drinking beer.
    So, we nail down our meanings
    And refuse to let them evolve,
    Shift,
    Change…
    And, like that,
    We die,
    by the sea,
    with a beer in hand. We hate it when our meanings become obsolete
    And new meanings try to replace them.
    WE WANT TO KEEP THINGS AS THEY ARE FOREVER!!!
    No gay marriages!
    No transgender rights!
    No nothing that isn’t like it was in the Good Old Days
    When everything was exactly what it was supposed to be! We haven’t allowed a new idea about God
    Into the Book of Christian Doctrine
    In 2,000 years.
    The wind that blows where it will
    Becomes “infinite, eternal, and unchangeable,”
    And that’s all we need to say about that. In the work to say better what has been said,
    We see more than has been seen
    And begin to say things that have never been said.
    New realizations lead to new reflections
    lead to new experiences lead to new realizations…
    And nothing is as it was,
    And who knows where it will go. That is the Hero’s Journey—
    The great adventure of being alive!
    If we are up for it,
  15. 05/02/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 06 Detail 02 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We live out of the silence. We know what to do when we do nothing
    But sit with what is before us
    And wait for the action to happen through us
    In response to what needs us to do it. We don’t think anything up.
    We consider all that is to be considered—
    We see the full context of our present situation—
    And wait quietly
    To see what we will do. This is trusting ourselves to
    More than we know we know. You will likely never hear anything about it
    Other than here,
    So maybe you should read this again.
  16. 05/02/2016 — Foam Flower 2016 02 — Creekside Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 No one can tell us what is right for us.
    We have to figure that out for ourselves.
    We have to know what is good for us,
    Important to us,
    Meaningful to us—
    And live in ways which serve
    What is right,
    What is good,
    What is important,
    What is meaningful,
    To us
    All our life long. Sounds easy enough, Fooling ourselves is what we do best.
    No! Tricking ourselves is what we do best.
    No! Kidding ourselves is what we do best.
    No! Telling ourselves what we want to hear is what we do best.
    No! Shooting ourselves in the foot is what we do best.
    No! Being our own worst enemy is what we do best.
    And so,
    We have to take up the life-long work
    Of being transparent to ourselves,
    So that we know what we know
    And live with both eyes on us at all times.
    Because conning ourselves is what we do best.
  17. 05/04/2016 — Wild Parsnip 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 If you cannot be vulnerable
    You will never be safe. Safety is the untouchable place of refuge
    Amid the din of ravenous threats
    And dreadful possibilities. It is the confidence of one who knows
    That she, that he, stands grounded in the center
    Of who she, of who he, is
    And cannot be moved by the worst that can happen. “I am fine and will be fine no matter what.”
    The worst that I can imagine
    Would be Auschwitz,
    Knowing full well what’s what
    And what your chances are.
    Live that out in your mind,
    Your last ten days or two weeks,
    Walking in the line to the ovens
    Or packed into the truck that will take you to the ovens. Direct that scene as though it were a movie.
    How would you have you walk that final 3/4 mile?
    What would you exude by your demeanor?
    How would play your role?
    I would have me do it with the attitude of, “You can kill me in the most horrendous possible way,
    But you can’t touch a hair on my head.”
    My role is to live my life from this vantage point
    Throughout what remains of it to be lived.
  18. 05/03/2016 — Goodale 2015 50 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 The Hero’s Journey
    Consists of squaring up with the divisions within,
    Reconciling our opposites,
    Integrating our polarities
    Making peace
    Becoming whole. We are at war with ourselves,
    And want nothing to do with the life that is ours to live,
    Preferring instead
    Any of the lives we wish we were living. Begin there
    With the work to reconcile,
    Integrate,
    Make peace,
    Become whole.
  19. 05/03/2016 — One of my faves from my Roan Mountain Flickr Album: “Golden Ragwort Panorama” We like to think we are the Captains of Our Ship
    And the Masters of our Destiny,
    And love to say,
    “It’s MY life and I can do what I want to with it!” The unrelenting truth is that
    We have to get out of the way
    And let our life live us. Living well
    Is mastering the art
    Of allowing our life
    To direct our living. Sound like something a bull would leave behind?
    Keep living.
    It will make more sense in 10 years,
    And, you will be a firm believer in 25.
  20. 05/04/2016 — Catesby’s Trillium 2016 03 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 My hammock hangs on the edge of the Deep Woods
    (“Deep” is metaphorical, not actual, literal,
    And is as true as any fact has ever been),
    And, in my hammock, I realize that in the Deep Woods
    Yesterday is the same as tomorrow. The Deep Woods is/are as timeless as all eternity.
    It is never anything other than Now in the Deep Woods
    Now it is sunny, Now it is dark, Now it is raining…
    No plans exist in the Deep Woods
    No disappointment, fear, depression, excitement, anticipation, etc.
    Ever come to life there. Life just IS there,
    And then, it IS NOT.
    The Deep Woods know(s),
    But it (they) does (do) not know
    That it (etc.) knows.
    Yet, it (etc.) responds appropriately to what it (etc.) knows,
    And lives in full accord with what needs to happen
    In each situation that arises,
    Without interfering with that,
    Or imposing its (etc.) on it,
    Or wrestling with the way things are in the moment. Consciousness imposes a complexity upon things
    That did not exist before consciousness.
    Consciousness implies the possibility
    Of bringing into effect our ideas for the world upon the world. Wisdom knows when to step in and when to step back.
    Consciousness without wisdom
    Is not an improvement on the way of things in the Deep Woods.
  21. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 05/04/2016 — Chestnut Trail 2016 01 — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 Everybody’s religion is so because they say it is so.
    Everybody’s religion is grounded upon what they say is so.
    It is so because we say it is. Taking something, anything, “on faith” is saying
    It is so because we say it is so,
    We believe it to be so,
    We are sure it is so.
    We either affirm what someone else tells us is so,
    Saying it is so for us, too,
    Or we make it up for ourselves.
    Either way, it is so ultimately because we say so.
    We are the authority behind our own faith.
    We believe what we believe
    Because we believe it is true,
    And therefore worth believing. The validity of all religion is self-evident to its adherents.
    They believe it because they think it is so.
    Because they KNOW it is so.
    Because their experience has confirmed them in their beliefs.
    Religion is true because we say it is true.
    False religion is always someone else’s religion.
    Religious wars are differences of opinion
    About things that cannot be verified by independent observers.
  22. 05/05/2016 — Eastern Sweetshrub 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 13, 2016 When we “marry” ourselves
    And devote ourselves to the life-long task
    Of becoming who we are—
    Of being one with our soul(mate)—
    We “forsake all others,”
    And “plight Thee our troth”
    to our Self.
    We do not keep company
    With who, and what, we are not. The Dalai Lama does not go to movies
    NASCAR events or football games,
    And he doesn’t eat pizza, hamburgers or hotdogs,
    Attend cocktail parties or hangout in bars.
    He is NOT, and does NOT, a lot of things.
    He is completely who he is.
    Jesus was that way. They were not in any sense “Renaissance men.”
    They did not pretend to do all things well.
    They did what mattered to them,
    Was important and meaningful to them,
    And let the rest go. Letting things go can be as difficult
    As devoting ourselves to the things that are essential to us,
    And as important.
    We are known by what we do
    And by what we do not. How much of what you do today
    Will be YOU
    And how much will be NOT YOU?
    How much of the NOT YOU can you get by with not doing?
  23. Used in Short Talks On Contradiction, etc., 05/06/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 07 Detail — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 The path is actually two, or more, paths.
    The way is two, or more, ways.
    We are always walking two paths at the same time,
    Taking two ways at once.
    Contradiction is characteristic of every path, each way.
    This is true AND the opposite is also true.
    I want to be the best father in all the world
    AND
    I don’t want to be a father at all. Compassion is the way, the path
    AND
    The Dalai Lama, the voice of compassion world-wide,
    Has bodyguards who carry automatic weapons.
    This is walking two paths at the same time. What we say and do is incompatible
    With what we also say and do.
    We cannot say YES to some aspect of ourselves
    Without saying NO to other aspects of ourselves
    And we cannot say YES to one aspect of ourselves
    Without saying NO to other aspects of ourselves
    Who would compassion have us ignore, dismiss, disregard?
    Who is served well by the good we call good?
    Who suffers from the good we call good?
    All of those fine advantages we seek for ourselves and others
    Are detrimental to a large number of living things.
    Pluses are counter-balanced by minuses.
    This cancels out that.
    What do we do? Walk two paths, follow two ways, at once.
    We walk this path with that one always in mind—
    Aware of the contradictions
    Transparent to ourselves,
    Bearing the pain of our excesses and deficiencies,
    And the realization of the implications our actions
    Have for all sentient beings.
    As we do what needs us to do it
    In each situation as it arises
    Anyway, nevertheless, even so.
  24. 05/07/2016 — Shagbark Hickory 2016 01 Panorama — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 24, 2016 When your life frustrates your ideas for your life,
    How do you respond?
    All suffering has its origin
    In the discrepancy between how things are
    And how we want them to be. Our “NO!” meets life’s “YES!”
    And we suffer the impact of that collision.
    No “NO!” no suffering.
    Saying “YES!” to life
    Is the end of suffering
    And the beginning of LIFE. What do you think
    “Thy will, not mine, be done” means?
    It means that we place ourselves in accord
    With the facts, the givens, the context and circumstances
    Of the way things are,
    And see what is being asked of us
    In terms of what needs to happen here and now
    In light of the truth of our situation. Our life is always asking things of us.
    Each situation as it arises needs a particular response from us
    In order for things to be as good as they can be
    In that situation.
    Our response determines the quality of life then and there.
    Why hold anything back?
    Pouting, whining, moaning, moping, remonstrating, floundering…? Why not give ourselves wholeheartedly
    To the situation
    And do all that can be done there
    With the gifts and resources that are ours to share
    For the good of the situation?
    We can make every situation that arises
    Better or worse
    By the quality of our response to it.
    Why go for worse?
  25. 05/07/2016 — Stream Still Life 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 I recommend living one situation at a time.
    What is needed here, now?
    What is happening?
    What is called for?
    What is being asked of me?
    Offered to me?
    How am I being asked
    to accommodate myself to the situation?
    How am I being challenged
    to place myself in accord with what is going on?
    How am I uniquely suited to rise to this occasion?
    How might I step forth to meet what I find here? Stepping mindfully, compassionately and non-judgmentally
    Into each situation as it arises,
    Curious about what will happen
    And how we will respond
    Keeps us alert and responsive to what is needed,
    And to what gifts and resources we have
    That might match up with the need. This approach transforms the humdrum same old same old every day
    Into the field of action and adventure,
    Where we are pulled forth to become who we are.
    We will look forward to tomorrow
    Each time we go to bed.
  26. 05/08/2016 — Goodale 2015 51 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We have all we need
    To do what needs us to do it
    In each situation as it arises. So, what’s with the whining,
    moaning,
    complaining
    and casting ourselves about?
    What’s with the protesting and the remonstration? Stand yourself up and go do the thing!
    We spend a good portion of our life—
    The only life we have to live—
    In a posture of “Not No Way! Not No How!”
    Before a world of things
    That clearly need to be done,
    And clearly need us to do them. We will reduce the corporate level of pain in the world
    Caused by the spillover of our own pain
    Into the lives of others,
    Simply by shouldering our own personal pain.
    Stand up and do the thing!
    And do it well—exactly as it needs to be done! We size up the situation
    And do what needs to be done in response to it.
    And if that is hard,
    That is all it is.
    It is only hard,
    And we have done what is hard before,
    And will do it again. It’s called “Growing Up.”
    Refusing to do it keeps things as they are forever.
    Doing it changes everything.
    It all depends upon our growing up
    In each situation as it arises.
    Starting with the next one.
  27. 05/08/2016 — Wild Geranium 2015 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 28, 2016 Everything we do shows us
    who we are at that point in our life,
    and asks us:
    “Is this who you intend to be?
    Is this what you have in mind?
    Is this the you you want to bring forth in your life?” We form and shape our identity over the course of our life
    By reflecting on our actions
    And modifying them,
    transforming them,
    adjusting
    and altering them
    To better express the “Me”
    That is the “Me”
    We would be proud to be. We grow into who we are
    By being mindfully (compassionately, non-judgmentally) aware
    Of what our actions say about us,
    And making the changes necessary
    To align and integrate our life
    With the deepest, truest, values
    Of the person living it.
  28. 05/08/2016 — Cross Vine 2016 03 Panorama — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 We have to know what our business is
    And what it isn’t.
    Knowing what our business is (and isn’t)
    Is central to our identity.
    Our business is who we are,
    And we are what it is,
    So that we cannot separate who we are
    From what we do (and don’t do).
    Our business and our identity are one,
    And together they form the ground,
    The foundation,
    Of our life. I have my business,
    And you have yours,
    And when we are offering each other
    “The kind of help that help is all about” (Shel Silverstein),
    We are helping each other
    Tend our respective business.
    And when we are offering each other
    “The kind of help that we all could do without” (Shel Silverstein),
    We are interfering with each other’s business
    And not minding our own.
  29. 05/09/2016 — Deer’s Tongue 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 The Great Knowing is the origin of everything.
    Nothing exists apart from it,
    But everything that is distant from it
    Thinks there is nothing to it,
    Yet, it is the source of all that is
    And will be. The Great Knowing is called many things,
    But it is no sooner called “God”
    Than those who call it that
    Begin to put a human face on it
    And think of it in human terms,
    And distance themselves
    from the source that is the Great Knowing. David, the shepherd,
    at one with the Great Knowing,
    Killed Goliath.
    David, the king, distanced from the Great Knowing,
    Was taken with Bathsheba. Jesus, at one with the Great Knowing,
    Led people to encounters with it.
    His disciples, distanced from the Great Knowing,
    Led people astray. Everything depends upon
    its being in accord with the Great Knowing.
    But, as luck would have it,
    We are, more often than not,
    estranged from the Great Knowing
    And it is to us as the Great Unknown.
    Moving from Unknown to Knowing
    Is the task of life.
    How is it coming along?
  30. 05/09/2016 — Four Seasons Trail Panorama 2016 01 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 31, 2016 The Great Knowing knows
    What it is time for when.
    Our place is to know what the Great Knowing knows
    By placing ourselves in accord with it
    And waiting, watching, looking, listening
    Until we see, hear and understand. All of the ancient peoples knew this
    And lived aligned with the fullness of time,
    doing what was called for
    when it was called for. What is it time for in each situation as it arises?
    What is being called for?
    What is crying out to be seen, acknowledged, said, asked, done?
    Those who live in accord with the Great Knowing
    Do things without knowing why,
    And the things that are done
    are exactly what needs to be done. How do they know?
    They are at one with the Great Knowing.
    How do we achieve oneness with the Great Knowing?
    Cultivate humility and compassion.
    Know that you don’t know 1% of all there is to know.
    Sit quietly regularly,
    Waiting, watching, looking, listening. When you are not sitting,
    Develop your ability to be mindfully aware
    of the time and place of your living.
    Recognize urgencies arising on their own,
    Calling you to comply,
    Inspiring you to action.
    Live looking forward
    To what you will find yourself doing.
  31. 05/10/2016 — Chickweed 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 We spend too much time
    Seeking consolation and compensation,
    And too little time
    Seeking what is being asked of us,
    And doing what needs us to do it. Recovery is preparation.
    Nothing is going to be made up to us.
    Our losses are our losses.
    We have to grieve what is to be grieved,
    Mourn what is to be mourned,
    And get ready for the next round. Life isn’t waiting for us to feel like doing it.
    Isn’t standing around until we give it the signal.
    We have to pick ourselves up
    And put ourselves in accord with the here and now
    Of each situation as it arises.
    Shake it off.
    Stand tall.
    It is already now
  32. 05/10/2016 — Zen Glen 04 — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 10, 2016 Why be anywhere else?
    The sin of hubris is living beyond ourselves,
    Over-reaching ourselves,
    Not knowing when or where to stop.
    This is my stopping place:
    No public appearances.
    No speaking engagements.
    No social activities.
    No civic responsibilities.
    No business transactions.
    No TV. Get the idea?
    Retirement is a hammock for Zazen
    And reflection,
    A camera for exercise as I look for a photograph,
    And a computer to connect with the world. I’ve created my own monastic order
    With my own Rules of the Day.
    It’s easier to pull off when you are retired,
    But anyone could carve out a space for themselves
    In a week, or in a month.
    It all starts with making room for yourself in your life.
  33. Used in Short Talks on Good and Bad Religion — 05/11/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 07 Detail B — McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, March 24, 2016 At the heart level,
    Practitioners of Zen,
    Buddhism and Taoism
    know the same thing:
    What’s what.
    The further we get away from what’s what
    Into the why, and how, and when, and where, and who—
    That is to say,
    The further we get away from the raw experience
    Of the situation as it arises,
    And what is happening there,
    And what needs to happen in response,
    In light of the true good of the situation as a whole,
    Out of the gifts and resources available to us individually,
    Regardless of the implications for us personally—
    And the further we get into doctrine, theology and ideology—
    The further we get from the level of our heart and bones and stomach,
    The further we get into head stuff, mental stuff, rational, logical stuff,
    And the more we become automatons,
    robots,
    androids,
    a face in the crowd,
    a member of the masses,
    lost to our Self,
    with no idea of who we are
    and what matters most
    in any situation as it arises. Bad religion alienates us from ourselves
    And makes us a digital reproduction of everyone else
    Standing as one,
    Reciting the creeds of the bad religion.
  34. 05/11/2016 — Foam Flower 2016 03 — Four Seasons Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, April 16, 2016 What is truest for you?
    Not in terms of what your head knows,
    Or thinks it knows,
    But in terms of what your heart
    And hands
    And body
    Know? What are you built for?
    Where do you belong?
    What is the nature of the drift of your soul.
    What are you inclined toward?
    Away from?
    Where do you have no business being?
    What do you know that you don’t know that you know?
    What do you know that you know you know and dismiss,
    Discount,
    Ignore,
    Reject?
    The work of resurrection,
    Of salvation,
    Of deliverance,
    Is the work of knowing these things. The work of the Hero’s Journey,
    The Spiritual Path,
    The way back to Eden,
    Is the work of healing the division within,
    Recognizing our alienation from ourselves—
    From our Self—
    And living to close the breach,
    And live aligned with heart/soul/Self,
    In collaboration with,
    In full accord with,
    The foundational truth
    At the ground of our being:
    Who we are and are to be
    In the time left for living.
  35. 05/11/2016 — Zen Glen 2016 02 Panorama — Indian Land, South Carolina, May 10, 2016 In my hammock in the glen
    Comes true the word
    Wendell Berry speaks
    In “The Peace of Wild Things”: “If your heart is fearful,
    Or your spirit crushed,
    And your hope is at a low ebb,
    Seek out some natural corner
    And sit there
    Until the stillness
    Drowns out the depressing
    din of civilization,
    And you rest there,
    Finally,
    In the gift freely given
    To those who come seeking,
    Desperately needing solace,
    Revitalization,
    And the courage to go on.”
  36. 05/12/2016 — Goodale 2015 52 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, November 11, 2015 We need to step back more often.
    From the things that drive us,
    Like fear and desire. Fear and desire are problems
    Only when they consume us. At a safe working distance,
    They inform us—
    Warn us of our ever-present tendency
    To “leave the way, get off the path”
    And wander amid the things
    That pretend to matter,
    But only lead us further away
    From the things that do. Fear and desire remind us
    To recommit ourselves
    In the service of what matters most,
    And remain faithful to the cause
    Of being grounded and centered
    In the work of living aligned with that
    Which is integral to us—
    No matter what version of the Cyclops or Sirens
    Stands before us at the moment.
  37. 05/12/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 11 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 You can’t give yourself to the 10,000 things
    And have anything left for the important things
    When they come along. How do you know what is important?
    Spend large amounts of time
    Paying attention to yourself. You know what is meaningful and important.
    You only have to know what you know—
    And refuse to be swept along in the crowd
    That is going everywhere,
    Doing everything. Say “No.”
    Even to yourself.
    So that you can say “Yes,” to yourself
    When “Yes” needs to be said.
  38. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 05/13/2016 — Pitcher Plants 2016 04 Panorama — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, April 30, 2016 Bigotry is unacceptable.
    Discrimination/oppression has no place among us.
    Inequality,
    favoritism,
    injustice,
    cruelty,
    brutality,
    ..
    No, No, No, NO! Political INcorrectness has become acceptable
    To a growing percentage of high ranking public officials,
    Encouraging the unranked masses
    To flaunt their contempt of laws protecting the rights of all people
    And declare,
    “If a law threatens my religious liberty, I don’t have to obey it.” This is anarchy,
    And beyond appalling. The declaration,
    “Your religious liberty ends where my constitutional rights begin,”
    Needs to be affirmed and reaffirmed by every elected official
    In every state in the United States. Every official taking office
    takes an oath promising to uphold
    and obey the laws of the land.
    And too many of them
    are making laws which void laws
    They hold to be distasteful—
    Because the laws in question protect the rights of people
    The legislators do not like. The trend will continue and grow stronger
    As long as people who could vote
    for office seekers of a different mind-set refuse to vote.
    The people elect the people who abuse the people—
    Often by failing to vote at all. By not voting, we contribute to the creation
    Of an environment of incivility and inhumanity. If you don’t vote, I’m talking to you.
  39. Used in Short Talks On Politics, 05/14/2016 — Southern Wood Fern 2016 01 — Chestnut Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 05, 2016 Hatred and fear feed off each other
    And consume the world. Traveling the blue highways seeking photographs,
    I drive past a number of rural homes
    With Confederate flags flying
    And Trump for President signs standing
    In their front yards. The combination is not surprising,
    But it is chilling. Trump can stir hatred and fear
    To milk them for votes,
    But he cannot contain them,
    Or even channel them. No reliable,
    responsible,
    stable
    and sane person
    Can act in any way
    to encourage hatred and fear.
    “Just making a suggestion,”
    “Just thinking out loud,”
    “Just saying what people are thinking,”
    “Just kidding”
    Are just providing
    the spark for the conflagration.
    A leader’s primary responsibility,
    In politics and in business,
    Is to create a climate of safety
    and respect for all people.
    Demonizing “them,”
    Or just making “them”
    bear the brunt of our jokes and disdain,
    Puts “them” at risk
    And encourages distrust,
    And incites violence.
    We cannot do it,
    Or allow it to be done
    Without calling it out
    And demanding that it stop at once
    And never be repeated.
  40. 05/14/2016 — McDowell Barred Owl 2016 12 — Cove Trail, McDowell Nature Center & Preserve, Chestnut Trail, Mecklenburg County Parks & Recreation, Charlotte, NC, May 12, 2016 Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.”
    A man asked, “But who exactly is my neighbor?”
    Jesus told those gathered the Parable of the Good Samaritan,
    And asked “Who, of all those who walked by, was the neighbor
    To the man in the ditch?”
    They said, “The one who showed mercy to him.”
    Jesus said, “That’s it. YOU are the neighbor!
    You go be neighbors to everyone who needs a neighbor.” So what is this national trend toward
    Treating those who need a neighbor—
    The LGBT population,
    Minorities,
    Immigrants,
    Latinos,
    Muslims,

    As though they don’t need a neighbor?
    The people in position to help them
    Certainly aren’t going to be one! What’s with all this spitting on Jesus?
    By people who say they love Jesus?
  41. 05/15/2016 — Pitcher Plants 2016 07 — Goodale State Park, Camden, South Carolina, May 13, 2016 If you can be quiet enough,
    You can hear everything
    You need to hear
    To know what needs to be done
    In each situation
    As it arises. Silence is the solution
    To every problem
    You have
    Or will have. There is a catch.
    It must be the right kind of silence.
    Spending our life
    Seeking the silence
    In the right kind of way
    Is not a waste of time.
    It is the way time
    Is meant to be spent.
    A lot of listening,
    A little doing.
    The less we do
    In the right kind of way,
    The more we get done. Over the course of a life
    Lived this way,
    We transform the world.

One Minute Monologues 030

12/17/2015 – 01/27/2016

  1. 12/17/2015 — Lao Tzu called it “the Tao.”
    Carl Jung called it “Synchronicity.”
    I call it “Grace.”
    Call it what you will,
    It is an experience of an encounter
    With more than words can say.
    That means more than can be explained:
    ”The Tao that can be told
    is not the eternal Tao”—
    and reflects a Reality
    directing,
    influencing,
    upholding,
    grounding,
    guiding,
    supporting,
    encouraging,
    enabling
    our life,
    and all of life,
    inviting us to trust ourselves to it
    relax ourselves in it,
    and allow it to carry us into an unfolding wonder
    beyond belief and denial. What is beyond belief and denial?
  2. 12/17/2015
    We know too easily, too quickly,
    What is good and what is bad,
    What is right and what is wrong,
    What is preferred and what is disdained.
    Who is the Devil,
    and who is the Christ.
    We draw our lines
    and peer out at them,
    as though they are the enemy,
    the infidel,
    And we are the Chosen People Of God. Lao Tzu said, “All others are clear and bright,
    I alone am cloudy and confused.”
    Something is to be said for seeing
    the validity of all sides,
    of understanding the value of opposites,
    and being able to stand
    in the tension between extremes,
    integrate polarities,
    reconcile divisions,
    and befriend both meaning and meaninglessness,
    sense and nonsense,
    laughing and dancing with all of life. To live at the center
    is to join the extremes
    so that all become one in our heart.
  3. 12/18/2015
    Rumi said, “One glimpse of a true human being,
    and we are in love.”
    We carry within a sense of the ideal we are to be—
    The ideal everything—
    woman,
    man,
    husband,
    wife,
    mother,
    ..
    everything.
    And, when we see it in someone else,
    we are in love.
    We are powerfully attracted to the ideal,
    to that which we are yet to be,
    in all those who reflect it. Even though, we are projecting it onto them
    we cannot project it onto just anyone.
    Only certain people are capable of reflecting
    our projections back to us,
    enabling us to see in them,
    who we are asked to be,
    so that they become carriers of the ideal us. When we fail to understand
    what is happening,
    we think they are ideal,
    when they are only carrying/reflecting
    the ideal we are capable of being.
    When we think it is about them,
    and not about us,
    we confuse the roles
    and try to possess them
    instead of allowing them to serve as the model
    of our own becoming. We worship them,
    idolize them,
    adore them,
    love them
    all the while misinterpreting the symbol
    they represent,
    and fail to develop in ourselves
    the qualities lying latent within us
    that call to us from the other.
  4. 12/18/2015
    The work of being a True Human Being
    is the work of authenticity,
    integrity,
    genuineness,
    wholeness,
    oneness
    and completion. It is the work of being who we are,
    which is who we ought to be—
    not in some moral sense,
    but in the practical sense
    of being exactly who we are capable of being
    in responding appropriately to each situation as it arises. It is the work of being exactly
    what the situation calls for
    and exactly who we are,
    by bringing ourselves
    and our gifts
    forth to meet our life,
    regardless of the implications
    for us personally. We do not exploit our gifts for our own good.
    We are burdened by the gifts we carry
    for the good of the situation—
    for the good of the whole—
    the whole world.
    ”We come not to be served, but to serve,
    And to give our life in the service of freeing others
    to live in the service of their own gifts.” One True Human Being
    sparks the ignition of others,
    starting fires of True Human Being-hood
    throughout the species,
    transforming the world.
  5. 12/18/2015
    A meaningful life is a life lived
    with integrity and authenticity.
    Integrity is living in ways that are integral
    with the center—the core—of what is important to us.
    When we live aligned with that center,
    our life is meaningful. When our life is meaningless, aimless and empty,
    it is because we have lost connection
    with the center of what is important to us,
    and are living out of accord
    with the life that is truly our life to live.
    We are living inauthentically,
    cut off from what is deepest, best and truest about us.
    We have forgotten who we are,
    and what our business is. When we do not know what we mean with our life,
    our life is meaningless.
    To live with meaning and purpose,
    we have to find our way back to our heart,
    remember what is of central importance to us,
    and live in ways that reflect our connection
    with what means the most to us.
  6. 12/19/2015
    The art of letting things happen
    requires us to be open at all times
    to what needs to happen—
    to what is trying to happen—
    and to allow that to take precedent over
    what we want to happen. It is the art of stepping back,
    of standing aside,
    of acquiescing to,
    and living in the service of,
    the shape of things to come,
    regardless of the implications
    that might have for us personally. It is living in a
    “Thy will, not mine, be done”
    kind of way—
    as a servant of grace
    at work in our life.
  7. 12/19/2015
    Grace is a gift of perception
    that allows us to see the good in all things.
    The source of anger and frustration in our life
    can also be the source of compassion, forgiveness, acceptance and love—
    can also be the source of creativity, good humor, patience and resiliency—
    can also be the source of our growing up, awakening, enlightenment and peace—
    can be what is needed to deepen, expand and enlarge us. No one ever became a True Human Being
    with everything going his, or her, way.
    Grace may go our way,
    or transcend our way,
    transform our way,
    enabling us to see the good
    in a multitude of ways.
  8. 12/20/2015
    We do it for the love of the game.
    If you don’t love the game,
    you are playing the wrong game.
    You have to get in THE game!
    Not knowing what game we are playing
    is the easiest thing—
    thinking we are playing one game,
    when we are actually playing another,
    is not knowing what game we are playing. What game are you playing?
    That’s the question all the gurus and masters ask us.
    Jesus came asking it.
    The Buddha asked it.
    Rumi asked it.
    The Prophet asked it.
    Gandhi asked it. All of them were into playing the right game.
    Too many play a different game.
    Call it “the getting ahead game.”
    buying, spending, amassing, consuming,
    in the service of wealth and privilege,
    fortune and glory.
    Others play “the survival game.”
    just getting by
    desperate and consumed, themselves, by desperation
    in an “eat or be eaten” world,
    to be hated,
    or borne with resignation and hopelessness
    until death takes them away. The gurus and masters rejected wealth
    and were poor without hating it.
    They played a different game—
    and they did it for the love of the game,
    whether or not things went their way
    (And they never go anyone’s way for long). Call it, Being Alive.
    Be Alive in the time and place of your living
    regardless of your context and circumstances.
    Do it for the love of that game.
  9. 12/20/2015
    Our work generally consists of two things: 1) Putting ourselves in accord with
    (Coming to terms with,
    Making our peace with,
    Being in right relationship with):
    The context, nature and circumstances
    Of the “here and now”
    (The Umwelt)
    Of our living conditions. 2) Aligning ourselves with who we are
    so that the life we live reflects
    our own nature and qualities,
    gifts, passions and interests,
    and is a transparent expression
    of the truth of the person who is living it—
    in each situation as it arises. That’s it.
    What do you need to do The Two Things?
    Answering that question
    Is The Third Thing. Your mission is to spend the rest of your life
    in the service of these three things.
  10. 12/20/2015
    We are responsible for the response
    we make to the experience of being alive.
    We can talk about the poor quality
    of our parenting and upbringing,
    and wail about the lack
    of opportunities and possibilities,
    and write ourselves excuse after excuse
    for being unable to do anything
    with this sorry old life,
    and shirk all responsibility for doing anything
    with the miserable hand
    we were dealt
    and the shoddy lot that befell us, We are responsible for that response.
    Other people have done more with less.
    Where does that leave us?
    With squaring ourselves up with ourselves,
    looking our life in the eye,
    living transparent to ourselves
    from this point on,
    and doing what can yet be done
    with the life that waits for us
    to get out of bed in the morning,
    just as it is,
    every day that we get out of bed.
  11. 12/21/2015
    If you are going to judge people,
    extend to them the grace
    of looking at them with the unbiased eye
    of an actual judge,
    and not an audience. Too many people look without seeing,
    listen without hearing,
    and talk without saying anything. Too many people live as unconscious
    extensions of the culture,
    with an opinion about everything
    and knowledge of nothing. See what you look at.
    hear what you listen to
    and what you are saying.
    know whereof you speak
    before you say anything.
  12. 12/21/2015
    Become what you seek.
    Be what you need.
    This is all there is to it.
  13. 12/22/2015
    We have everything we need
    to live transparent to ourselves,
    aligned with ourselves,
    at one with ourselves,
    integrated with ourselves,
    true to ourselves,
    and so be True Human Beings
    within the context and circumstances of our life,
    in each situation as it arises,
    all our life long. All it takes is getting out of the way,
    knowing what we know,
    and understanding that we are
    just along for the ride.
  14. 12/22/2015
    We cannot be true to ourselves
    without contradicting ourselves.
    Being true to ourselves
    requires us to “live a lie.”
    The lie is a necessary aspect of the truth. For example (You’ve heard it before):
    the Dalai Lama’s bodyguards carry automatic weapons.
    You can’t be more contradictory than that.
    We all have to be at least that contradictory.
    There has to be more to each of us than meets the eye—
    even our own eye!
    We cannot hide that from ourselves,
    lie to ourselves,
    pretend to ourselves that we are
    only who we say we are. Living transparent to ourselves
    allows us to be necessarily antithetical
    in the one life we have to live
    and always open to the possibility
    of surprising ourselves
    with something we never saw coming.
  15. 12/22/2015
    The way things are is not the way
    we have been told that they would be.
    This is the primary realization
    leading the way to all the ones that follow.
    How we follow it is crucial to our development.
    The way things are is not the way
    we have been told that they would be—
    ..
    What? Where do we go from here?
    Everything hangs on our answer to:
    “Now what?”
    Here, we are at the swing point
    to a number of possible futures.
    How we answer the question
    leads us further away from, or ever closer to,
    the Self at the center of the “I.”
    Everything hangs on what we say. ”What a slippery slope this is!”
  16. 12/22/2015
    You can’t pare it down.
    There are no shortcuts.
    Our whole life is our practice.
    We live to be transparent to ourselves,
    reading our nighttime dreams,
    and our daytime flights of fantasy,
    reflecting on our drifts of mood and mind,
    for insight into the ways
    and workings of our inner world,
    in order to relate that world to our life
    In the outer world of normal, apparent, reality. We bridge the worlds!
    Connect the worlds!
    Harmonize the worlds!
    So that inner and outer are one world—
    forming,
    expressing,
    shaping,
    impacting,
    bringing forth,
    making real
    our life
    and who we are,
    that we might be fully,
    consciously,
    alive in the life we are living. We cannot do that on the side,
    in our spare time,
    while we tend the important matters
    with the full focus of our complete attention.
    Our life is the only thing that matters.
    We live to bring ourselves to life
    in the time left for living.
  17.  12/22/2015
    Good religion doesn’t kill anyone.
    Doesn’t hate anyone.
    Doesn’t condemn anyone.
    Doesn’t focus on converting anyone.
    Doesn’t spend its time talking about anyone.
    Doesn’t care who is saved and who isn’t.
    Isn’t obsessed with sin and sinners.
    Isn’t interested in proving it is the only religion.
    Has no time for debates or discussions about theology, doctrine and dogma.
    Thinks it is enough to know what your own business is and mind it, tend it, do it, and let that be enough.
  18. 12/23/2015
    Our inner world has a stake
    in the life we are living in the outer world—
    seeking expression,
    realization,
    actualization,
    in the life we are living. Soul isn’t interested in spectating,
    and strives to make itself real—
    vital, not virtual—
    in the way we go about living
    in the world of normal, apparent, reality. How soulfully do we live?
    How much playing time do we grant Soul each day?
    How seriously to we take Soul’s need for self-expression?
    When is the last time we listened to Soul?
    Invited Soul’s guidance through the daily maze? Soul is sometimes called Psyche,
    and sometimes called the Unconscious
    because we are unconscious of Soul’s, Psyche’s,
    reality, nature, aims and ways. Yet, Soul speaks to us in our nighttime dreams,
    and our daytime flights of fantasy—
    through our symptoms,
    intuition,
    instincts
    and sensations. We are all psychic,
    as Psyche’s children should be,
    and have only to learn the language of Soul,
    and align ourselves with Soul’s leanings,
    to enter the partnership that seeks our participation,
    transforming and revitalizing what’s left to be lived.
  19. 12/25/2015
    Listen to your body.
    Your body will tell you how it is with you.
    Move away from people who make you uncomfortable.
    This is Fortune Cookie wisdom. You wouldn’t eat a rancid Fortune Cookie.
    Why do you stay in the company of a rancid personality?
    Your body tells you, “Don’t eat this cookie!”
    ”Don’t stay in the proximity of this person!”
    Why would you override your body’s instruction?
    Why would you allow social convention to overrule
    your body’s wisdom?
    You have to be the champion of your own cause!
    The hero of your own princess-held-hostage!
    To The Rescue! On Guard! To Arms! To Arms!
    Do not eat the rancid cookie!
  20. 12/25/2015
    We are in charge of our own salvation.
    Salvation is restoration.
    We are responsible for restoring ourselves
    to ends worthy of us—
    to a life that is worthy of us.
    We are responsible for finding our way
    to the life that is our life to live—
    that only WE can live. We cannot be satisfied with a life anyone could live.
    Our life cannot be like that of one cow following another
    from the barn to the pasture back to the barn.
    Our life has to be uniquely our own,
    reflecting and expressing who we are
    and what means the most to us. We are charged with bringing ourselves forth,
    and gifting US to the world.
    We save ourselves by restoring ourselves to our life
    and living at-one with who we are
    in the deepest sense of the word
    in the time left for living. We start by listening to our dreams and fantasies,
    our symptoms,
    interests,
    instinct
    and intuition.
    We already know what we need to know.
    We only need to know what we know,
    and have the courage to live it into being.
  21. 12/26/2015
    We ground ourselves,
    express ourselves,
    define ourselves,
    give shape and form to ourselves,
    through the work of our hands and body
    in the outer world of normal, apparent, reality. If we are lost,
    blown about,
    confused,
    uncertain,
    fear dissolution
    and disintegration—
    dis-integration—
    on the inside,
    it is important that we work with stones,
    or dig in the earth (the ground),
    or rearrange the furniture in our house
    with a specific design in mind,
    in order to settle the unsettled nature of our inner world. We bring ourselves into focus—
    integrate the disparate aspects of our Psyche—
    calm ourselves
    and restore our souls,
    by physically moving things into place
    In the outer world. We live ourselves into place
    by consciously applying the metaphor,
    Thou Art That,
    to our life in specific ways,
    so that Inner reflects Outer,
    and we become still by being busy
    with the work of our hands and body,
    arranging things “in here”
    by arranging things “out there.”
  22. 12/26/2015
    We participate as full partners
    in our own reclamation,
    restoration, And hell is not something
    that happens when we die,
    but what happens in our life
    when we refuse the invitation
    to collaborate in the work
    of becoming who we are. We cooperate with ourselves—
    with our Self at the center of the “I” —
    when we seek the Self at the center of the “I,”
    and move from the known to the unknown,
    from what we are conscious of about ourselves
    to what we are unconscious of about ourselves. We enter a new world—
    the world of inner reality—
    and find there amazing resources—
    not to use as we will in the service of the “I”—
    but to equip
    and enable our work,
    our life,
    in the service of the Self
    at the center of the “I.” We have to give up our idea of our life
    in order to find and live our LIFE.
    And that’s the catch that keeps things as they are.
    We cannot live without dying to all we think of as life.
    You see the problem.
    This is what it means to bear our own cross.
    Crucifixion and resurrection in real time everyday.
  23. 12/26/2015
    We are afraid of pain.
    The pain of loneliness,
    lostness,
    aimlessness,
    emptiness,
    isolation,
    .. Our life consists of denying the pain,
    running from the pain,
    hiding from the pain,
    escaping the pain.
    We have to bear the pain.
    We have to face it,
    feel it,
    acknowledge it,
    honor it,
    and wait it out. Waiting the pain out
    is the key to reconciling
    ourselves to it,
    transcending it,
    and putting it in its place. It will always be with us, but.
    In waiting it out,
    we know it isn’t the final word.
    Something shifts,
    stirs,
    comes to life—
    or will if we are waiting out the pain
    and not nurturing, nourishing it forever,
    refusing to let it go. If that’s our story, we cannot be helped, but
    if we are waiting it out,
    a shift will occur,
    a light flickers,
    something catches our eye,
    hope and courage ignite,
    and before you know it,
    we are coming back to life. Amazing.
    Grace in the darkness,
    birthing us again.
    And again.
  24. 12/27/2015
    We are a lazy lot,
    and have a lot of inertia to overcome
    in taking up the work
    of the spiritual journey. My friend Ogi was talking about his friends in AA
    when he said, “All we ever wanted was smooth and easy,”
    but he could have been talking about all of us,
    and all of our ancestors and progeny. “Smooth and easy” about raps it up.
    We like the idea of the spiritual journey,
    but the word “practice” puts us off.
    We don’t what to have to actually DO anything to be spiritual.
    Taking up the practice of mindful meditation
    is asking too much. We hear about “tools for the Journey,”
    and we have an immediate affinity
    with the guy who said,
    ”Just tell us what to believe, Preacher,
    and don’t meddle with our lives!” Smooth and Easy
    Are the Scylla and Charybdis of the Journey,
    and keep us from ever making the trip.
  25. 12/27/2015
    What needs to happen, here, now, next?
    That is our question to answer in each here, now, of our life. We answer it in light of our present situation,
    and in light of all that has happened up to this point,
    and in light of what needs to happen from this point on. We answer it in light of what has been done to us,
    and in light of what we have done in response.
    In light of what we have done,
    and in light of what has been done in response.
    In light of our values,
    and the character we live to express in,
    even as it is shaped by,
    the circumstances in which we live. Taking all of this,
    and the context and circumstances
    into account,
    what needs to happen, here, now, next? It helps me to be still
    and quiet for a while,
    and see what occurs to me.
    I recommend that procedure
    to all who have the luxury
    of time and silence.
  26. 12/28/2015
    What would have helped me
    Would have been some early, middle, and late
    Lessons in mindfulness. Or, just living with mindful people. Being with people who were
    seeing,
    hearing,
    understanding,
    asking,
    seeking,
    probing,
    .. Who weren’t afraid to ask questions.
    Who were reading, and writing, poetry.
    Who were creative and imaginative.
    Who were self-reflective,
    and capable of examining everything they saw,
    and heard,
    and felt,
    and thought—
    In light of everything else they saw,
    and heard,
    and felt,
    and thought. Who believed more in the value of hypotheses
    than in the value of rules.
    Who knew the importance of music beyond hymns.
    Who danced and laughed,
    and indulged regularly in joy for no reason. I would have been a lot better off
    with a different set of people in my life,
    Maybe, you know what I mean.
  27. 12/28/2015
    The problem is time. We don’t realize how precious it is early enough.
    Whave to be intensely aware of each moment,
    And how we might use it
    to bring forth the life that is ours to bring forth—
    giving birth to new ideas,
    new realizations,
    new thoughts,
    concepts,
    kindnesses,
    generosities,
    .. How to make the most of each day
    includes being quiet,
    still,
    and mindful
    in order to see
    what needs us to do it each day—
    and to take our time with doing it,
    so that we do it
    the way it needs to be done. There is no time to lose.
    What needs to be done
    cannot be hurried.
    It is like yeast in the dough,
    and seeds in the earth,
    and six eggs hatching under a sitting hen.
  28. 12/29/2015
    We spend our life
    trying to get together
    with ourselves.
    It would help to know
    that from the start.
    And be given tips and suggestions
    for how we might go about it. We are told nothing about the things that matter.
    They leave it up to us
    to figure it out on our own
    over time.
    Over long stretches of time. It starts out with our not knowing
    what’s wrong with us.
    It’s like we are never quite satisfied,
    no matter how much we have.
    It’s like we are looking for something,
    we don’t know what.
    But we think it might be
    found in the eyes of strangers,
    0r on the other side of the sea.
    Somewhere far away
    and difficult to get to.
    All we know is we are dissatisfied
    and troubled by a nagging sense
    that there is something more.
    Something we are unconscious of
    is trying to become conscious. Our Self is seeking us!
    Whispering our name.
    Winking at us in a multitude of ways.
    Appearing as a mirage in the desert,
    a ghost in the night.
    Flirting with us, What we seek is as near as our next breath,
    But it may as well be in a deep cave
    in a high mountain
    on the backside of Tibet,
    for all the good being close does. We were separated at birth
    from our antenatal best friend,
    and almost remember what we lost—
    almost know how good life would be
    with him, with her, to collaborate with,
    enjoying the wonder of Two being One
    for the rest of our life.
  29. 12/29/2015
    Our Other Self is always
    trying to get our attention.
    Dreams,
    fantasies,
    walk-a-bouts,
    symptoms,
    moods,
    urges,
    instinctive feelings,
    intuitive inclinations,
    strange occurrences,
    memories
    inexplicable coincidences,
    things that occur to us out of nowhere,
    things we find ourselves doing without intending to,
    saying without meaning to… All are visitations from our invisible Other—
    Invitations to sit down,
    open up,
    and be fully available
    to that which is always present with us,
    yet unknown to us. How can this be?
    How can we not know our Other Self?
    How can we be as old as we are
    and know as little as we do
    about the world within? We were enlisted to bring that world
    with us when we came forth from the womb,
    and to bring it to life
    in the world of space and time. But there were none to help us
    remember our mission
    reconnect with our purpose,
    and live the life that was prepared for us
    before we were born—
    the life that only we can live—
    and can still live yet,
    if we only realize the irrepressible truth
    of the Inner Other
    as one who is full available
    to that which has been
    forever present with us,
    and say something on the order of,
    “Help me help you
    become as real as I am
    in the time we have left to live.” And mean it.
  30. 12/30/2015
    Kobe Brant, in talking about his team,
    the Los Angeles Lakers, said,
    “You aren’t going to make a cat bark.
    And yelling at it isn’t going to help.
    At some point, you just have to sit back
    and enjoy what can be enjoyed about the ride”
    (Or words to that effect). We think our Other Self can be taught to bark,
    and agree to sign on with it
    with the understanding—
    all on our part—
    that our Other Self will do things our way. Thinking this way gives us “The Prayer of Jabez”
    and “The Law of Attraction,”
    wherein if we do things a certain way,
    we’ll get a barking cat,
    and everything will be just rosy. Jesus put it this way:
    “Those who seek to save their life
    will lose it, and those who lose their life
    in the service of that which is greater than they are
    will gain it” (Or words to that effect). Our Other Side will eat our old life—
    and the life of our happy fantasies—alive.
    When we sign on with our Other Side,
    we get the life that only we can live,
    packed down,
    spilling over,
    pouring out, We have to give up our idea of life
    in order to come to life
    and be fully, wholly, alive. Always.
    Always.
    The trade off.
    If you can square up with that,
    you have it made.
    And can sit back and enjoy
    all that is to be enjoyed
    about the ride.
    And, it will be quite a ride. But the cat won’t be barking.
  31. 12/30/2015
    Our Other Self possesses
    full working knowledge
    of the blueprint that is ours
    to bring forth in our life. We each have a life that is as unique to us
    as our fingerprints or the patterns of our irises.
    There is no one like us,
    present,
    past
    or future.
    What do we mean,
    trying to fit in,
    belong,
    by looking like them
    and doing it like they would do it?
    The idea is to be who we are,
    living the life that is our life to live,
    serving the good of ourselves
    and the good of humankind.
    By being true to ourselves,
    we bring forth what is most needed
    in service to the whole.
    The individual realizing herself,
    realizing himself,
    as a true human being
    is the hope of the world.
    And our Other Self has in hand
    the template that is ours
    to effect and implement.
    It is our place to get together
    with our Other Self,
    enter into full collaboration with our Other Self,
    and live the life that is
    our joint life to live
    in the time left for living. You might say our sole responsibility
    is to our soul throughout what remains of our life.
  32. 12/30/2015
    Inside and outside compliment each other,
    dance with one another,
    become one with the other. We take this as confirmation
    of being on the beam,
    in the zone,
    at one with the flow of our life. If an opportunity arises
    without sparking our
    interest and enthusiasm,
    let it go. If what we are interested in
    and enthusiastic about
    finds nothing but
    locked doors and dead ends,
    don’t keep insisting on being a rock star,
    or the next Michael Jordan. Read the outer signs and the inner signals.
    Seek resonance and ratification.
    Just because something invites you
    doesn’t make it inviting.
    Just because you want something
    doesn’t mean it’s right for you. But when outer clicks with inner,
    Smile to yourself,
    And see where it goes.
  33. 12/30/2015
    To live in conscious relationship
    with the present moment
    is to be aware of whatever is happening now.
    Our awareness contains everything
    we are capable of being aware of.
    It is all here, now.
    Thoughts,
    sights,
    sounds,
    sensations,
    memories,
    moods,
    ..
    It is all contained in awareness.
    Receive it well,
    without evaluation
    or opinion.
    See how long you can be aware
    of being aware of the moment
    that is eternally now.
  34. 12/31/2015
    We cannot rest in the full awareness of the moment
    and be embroiled in the moment.
    We cannot be alive to the moment
    and be directed by the moment,
    controlled by the moment.
    We are not the moment.
    We live in the moment,
    choosing in the moment of our living
    how best that is to be done. Some ways of living are better than others.
    Some ways of living are much worse than others.
    Living as those who are owned by the moment
    forfeits the option of seeing what is happening,
    knowing what is needed,
    and responding in ways
    that take the allness of the moment
    into account. Seeing things as they are
    eschews shortcuts,
    avoids rote responses,
    examines assumptions,
    rushes neither to judgment
    nor to solution,
    listens carefully to what
    is being said
    and not being said,
    recognizes that what is on the line
    in any situation
    may not be what appears
    to be on the line—
    and responds to what is on the line.
  35. 12/31/2015
    Everything relating to our growth and development
    as individuals and True Human Beings
    is grounded upon,
    and flows from,
    our living out of,
    our own personal authority. We have to live the life
    we say is worth living.
    We have to live in the service
    of what we declare to be of value.
    We have to express,
    exhibit,
    incarnate who we know ourselves to be.
    We have to make our own calls
    regarding what we say yes to
    and no to. All of this hinges
    upon our achieving
    the right kind of compassionate
    working distance
    with the other people in our life.
    It’s important that they matter to us,
    but not so much that they stand in our way.
    A life worthy of us
    comes down to our ability
    to work out the ratios,
    and know where to draw the lines
    separating who we are
    from who others would have us be.
  36. 12/31/2015
    If we could live
    without ignoring
    any aspect of our experience,
    so that each situation
    were transparent to us,
    and we were transparent to ourselves,
    we would be able
    to live there with superhuman powers
    of comprehension and integrity,
    seeing and doing what needed to be done
    in the service of the highest/deepest values
    and the good of the entire world. Mindfulness leads the way.
    If you are going to practice anything,
    be anything,
    practice mindfulness,
    be mindful—
    compassionately present,
    attentive to and aware of,
    without evaluation or opinion,
    what is present with you
    in each situation as it arises—
    doing so will transform your life and the world.
  37. 12/31/2015
    We cannot live with integrity without living mindfully.
    We cannot live mindfully without living with integrity.
    Integrity is the alignment of inner with outer,
    so that we are who we are.
    Integrity is the essential characteristic of God:
    ”Tell them ‘I Am Who I Am’ sent you!”
    When we are mindful enough to know who we are,
    we have no excuse for failing to be who we are.
    How can we face ourselves in living contrary to ourselves,
    against ourselves?
    Our fundamental responsibility is to be who we are
    in each situation as it arises
    for the good of the situation—
    in an “I came not to be served, but to serve”
    kind of way.
  38. 12/31/2015
    It is our place—
    the place of individuals
    becoming/being themselves—
    to raise the level of authenticity,
    genuineness
    and integrity in the world. We live these things into being.
    We raise the level of authenticity by being authentic.
    We raise the level of genuineness by being genuine.
    We raise the level of integrity by being integrated—
    by living in ways that are integral with that which
    is deepest, best and truest about us,
    in ways that are at one with our Best Self,
    which would be our Other Self,
    the Inner Self we also are. We raise the level of authenticity,
    genuineness
    and integrity
    by being mindfully,
    compassionately,
    aware
    of how things are with us and about us,
    and how they also are—
    without evaluation or opinion. Just knowing how things are (and also are),
    changes how things are (and also are).
    Knowing what we are dismissing,
    discounting,
    overlooking,
    ignoring,
    changes our relationship with those things,
    and enables us to know better what we are doing.
    Knowing better what we are doing
    is all that is necessary
    to change what we are doing
    in ways that are beneficial
    to ourselves and others,
    and the world will be better off for it.
  39. 01/01/2016
    There is no plan.
    Life unfolds according to its own purpose,
    in its own time.
    Your life,
    my life,
    are not yours and mine
    to do with as we please
    at a time
    in a manner
    that is pleasing to us. We wait for the propitious time,
    the fullness of time,
    when the time is right,
    and our life unfolds before us
    and the way opens to us
    and it is as though
    this is the moment we have been waiting for,
    all that time we were
    wondering what we were doing
    and what we are here for. We are all caterpillars
    waiting to fly.
    Do you think when caterpillars
    have their conventions,
    seminars,
    and weekend retreats,
    anybody ever talks of flying?
    We are all caterpillars
    waiting to fly.
  40. 01/01/2016
    I see my place in your life
    as being that of putting you
    in touch with your life—
    in touch with the idea
    that you have a life—
    not the one you are living,
    the one that is yours to live. I’m here to goad you into considering
    what you are doing
    and how you feel about
    what you are doing.
    How do you feel about the life you are living?
    How well does it fit you?
    Is there any sense of being out of place somehow,
    of this being not quite it, somehow? I’m here to nag you into squaring up with
    how it is with you,
    and into wondering how it
    might be even yet.
    I’m here to throw questions at you
    until one strikes a cord, hits home,
    and you look at what you are doing,
    and what you might do in addition,
    or instead. I’m here to deepen,
    expand,
    enlarge
    your awareness of you
    and your possibilities for life—
    your awareness of what is struggling
    to come to life in your life,
    and how you might be alive
    in the life you are living. I trust you’re getting your money’s worth.
  41. 01/01/2016
    In each situation,
    there exist possibilities f
    or the unique,
    the creative,
    the novel,
    the unimagined,
    the unheard of,
    the outlandish,
    the surreal,
    the new,
    the heretical,
    the blasphemous… All available for consideration and implementation
    for those with eyes that see,
    ears that hear, and hearts that are courageous
    and capable of doing what cries out to be done. Jesus said, “Those of you with eyes,
    dare to open them!
    And see what is before you!
    Those of you with ears, dare to unstop them!
    And hear what is begging for your attention!”
    (Or, words to that effect.) What needs to be seen is waiting to be seen.
    What needs to be heard is waiting to be heard.
    What is keeping the seeing from happening?
    The hearing from being done?
  42. 01/02/2015
    We can’t say, “Give God the Glory!” when things go our way
    Without understanding the importance of saying,
    “Give God the Glory” when things do not go our way.
    What does having our way have to do with praising
    What is sometimes called “God”? God,
    the Tao,
    Grace,
    is the source of all things great and small,
    good and bad.
    It is all Grace to eyes that see.
    Everything is a step on the way to being who we are.
    What do we need to be who we are?
    We already have it!
    It came with us from the womb!
    Under what conditions
    would it be impossible to be who we are? All theology is bad theology.
    All theologians are bad theologians.
    We cannot talk about what we know
    in terms of what we don’t know.
    All theology is hearsay. All theology is heresy—
    and the rock solid truth—
    in that it exposes the absurdity
    Of saying, “This is absolute and final truth!”
    about what we don’t know. Darkness is necessary for seeing the light.
    Too much light is as bad for seeing
    As too little light.
    Too much light is as darkness. Darkness and light are one thing, not two.
    Move to the center.
    Avoid the extremes.
    Live from the heart and let things take their course.
  43. 01/02/2016
    The hardest things are remembering who we are
    and what we are about—
    staying on track,
    living aligned with our life,
    in sync with our Other Self,
    at one with who we are and also are
    in each situation as it arises,
    keeping our balance,
    maintaining our focus,
    remaining grounded in what is important,
    centered in the heart of what matters most. The Buddha under the Bo Tree,
    the Christ in the Garden of Gethsemane,
    stayed true to themselves
    and are models for all regarding how to do it.
    But the way is straight and the gate is narrow,
    and what a slippery slope it traverses!
    Thus the necessity of the practice,
    and the helping community,
    and the connection with our Other Self,
    all along The Way.
  44. 01/03/2016We change our relationship with our experience
    by being mindfully, compassionately, aware of it,
    without evaluation or opinion. When we change our relationship with our experience,
    we change its impact on us.
    when we change the impact our experience has on us,
    we reshape our life. Being compassionately mindful of our experience,
    transcends evaluation, opinion,
    and the emotional reaction that accompanies them,
    softens the impact of our experience,
    and enables us to be emotionally balanced in our relationship to it. Jon Kabat-Zinn says,
    “Mindfulness is moment-to-moment
    non-judgmental awareness,
    cultivated by paying attention
    to what is happening now.” Mindfulness simply requires us to see what is happening,
    internally and externally,
    as it is happening,
    without evaluation or opinion. As we take up the practice of mindfulness,
    we transform our life
    and our Umwelt (Our lived environment as we experience it),
    and restructure the world—
    merely by being aware of it. Nothing alters things like being mindful of them
    moment-to-moment. Give it a spin.
    Simply sit,
    paying attention to the moment.
    Bring everything
    into your awareness,
    and let your experience
    be your experience.
    Remain there for as long
    as you are able.
    And return as often
    as you can.
  45. 01/03/2016
    Lets say you are a woman and I am a man,
    and we fall in love with each other.
    Or one of us falls in love with the other. The experience of falling in love
    is not far from the experience of idolization,
    wherein we idolize the other as The Perfect One,
    all imperfections being unrecognized,
    overlooked,
    discounted,
    dismissed,
    disregarded,
    denied, This does not mean we
    are well-suited for each other,
    and should marry,
    have many children
    and live happily ever after. And it does not matter
    if you actually possess the qualities
    and characteristics
    I ascribe to you
    (or you to me).
    You may not be courageous and kind at all,
    but the meanest coward who ever cut and ran.
    It is how I see you that causes me
    to fall in love with you
    (And it is who you turn out to be
    that causes me to divorce you, sometime later).
    Being in love is not related to reality in any way.
    The experience of being in love
    is no predictor of the viability
    of the relationship.
    Maybe, maybe not. The experience of being in love
    is an indicator that the other
    has stirred within us our unrealized
    unrecognized,
    overlooked,
    discounted,
    dismissed,
    disregarded,
    denied,
    ignored
    potential for being The Perfect One
    we see exemplified in the other. We project what we do not recognize
    as needing to be developed within ourselves
    onto the other.
    The other stands before us as a mirror,
    reflecting back to us our own projections
    onto him, onto her,
    and we see in the other what is missing,
    but available to be realized,
    exhibited,
    expressed,
    incarnated,
    within us. You are the woman I need to become.
    I am the man you need to be.
    I need to become like you in ways
    I see you being you,
    and you need to become like me
    in ways you see me being me.
    My work is to become the woman
    I see you as being,
    exemplifying.
    Your work is to become the man
    you see me as being,
    exemplifying.
    My woman needs to be like you.
    Your man needs to be like me.
    I must spend my life working
    to bring you to life in me.
    You must spend your life working
    to bring me to life in you. In this way,
    we “marry” the other,
    plight “thee” our troth
    through sickness and health,
    wealth and poverty,
    good times and bad,
    ’til death do us part if then. Developing my feminine side,
    developing your masculine side,
    is the androgynous work of soul
    wherein the two
    sides of our personality,
    male and female,
    become one
    whole,
    complete,
    integrated,
    balanced
    symmetrical,
    human being. It has nothing to do
    with merging two individuals
    into the same person
    (As if!).
    The merger is not an outer,
    actual,
    physical fact,
    but an inner,
    vital,
    spiritual
    reality—
    which we pursue as a conscious work of soul
    over the full course of our life,
    whether we marry
    each other in real time,
    or not.
  46. 01/04/2016
    We live in a culture that places
    a high premium on being happy.
    “I just want to be happy”
    is the mantra of the day, every day.
    We generally think of being happy as an add on.
    It is something that comes
    with having something we don’t have,
    or doing something we aren’t doing. I propose that we think
    of being happy as a take away.
    Getting rid of all the things
    that are standing between us and being happy. Asking, “What would it take to make you happy?”
    Generally gets a response
    on the order of,
    “More money and time to travel and do the things I enjoy.” Asking, “What can you do right now
    to begin doing things you enjoy?”
    Generally gets a response
    on the order of, “I would have to get away.”
    We are living lives we have to escape
    in order to be happy.
    This is weird.
    Why would we do that? Instead of asking, “What would it take to make me happy?”
    Ask, “What is standing between me and happiness?”
    It will come down to duties,
    obligations,
    responsibilities,
    drains on your time
    and attention. Start shucking them.
    Pare them down to the absolute minimum.
    Say “No” throughout your life.
    It will be like going on a holiday
    without leaving home.
    And if you can’t do that,
    if you can’t reduce your current level of duties, etc.,
    Look at what is standing in your way,
    keeping you from doing it.
    And work with that.
  47. 01/04/2016
    Much of what is wrong with us
    can be transformed or transcended
    By living with mindfulness
    (which implies compassion
    and complete absence of evaluation)
    in a collaborative relationship with our Other Self
    throughout what remains of our life. That being the case,
    One would think
    we would be quick to become proficient
    In living mindfully in that kind of relationship. Nothing is more important
    For our own personal future,
    Or that of the world.
  48. 05/17/2018
    If there is nothing
    you would go to hell for,
    you aren’t invested in this life.
    You’re just hanging out,
    waiting to go to heaven when you die.You don’t have anything
    worth living for,
    worth doing with your life.
    Your life is just in your way,
    delaying heaven and all the glories
    of forever everlasting. You are wasting this life
    waiting for that one.
    The person who buried
    his talent
    missed the point
    and lost everything. Heaven is for people
    who are right
    about what is worth
    going to hell for.
  49. 01/05/2016 —
    In a 2007 talk at Google,
    Jon Kabat-Zinn likened formal mindfulness meditation practice
    (The Body Scan, for instance, or 45 minutes of Breath Counting)
    to training wheels on a bicycle.
    We practice formally to get our body
    trained to do the work without
    our having to think about it. The idea is to ride the bicycle without thinking about it.
    Mindfulness meditation is
    how we live our life,
    not what we stop living for 20 or 45 minutes to do.
    It is being mindfully
    (Paying attention on purpose to the present moment),
    compassionately,
    aware,
    without evaluation
    or opinion,
    throughout our day
    (And paying attention to our dreams at night). Then, he takes the bicycle analogy a step further.
    Bicycles can be ridden in races,
    on pavement,
    off pavement through potholes
    and over tree roots in the woods,
    fast or slow,
    by small children
    and octogenarians,
    commuting to work and school,
    around the block,
    in the park,
    for daily exercise,
    or the simple pleasure of taking a ride. There are as many reasons and ways
    to ride a bicycle as there are bicycle riders.
    And, so it is with mindfulness meditation.
    There is no right way to do it.
    We ride our own bike.
    We live our own life.
    We meditate the way we meditate.
    If it is right for us, it is right.
    We all find our own path,
    and walk it.
    Find our own work,
    and do it. Alan Watts once asked Joseph Campbell,
    “Joe, what form does your yoga take?”
    Campbell replied,
    “I underline passages.”
    There you are.
    What form does your meditation take? It doesn’t matter.
    What matters is that you do it.
  50. 01/05/2016
    Our personal authority is grounded
    in our ability to say, “NO!
    To ourselves. We cannot say, “NO!” to anyone else
    until we can say, “NO!” to ourselves.
    Where do you rein yourself in?
    Where do you draw the line?
    Impose restrictions, set limits?
    What do you refuse to permit,
    disallow? Self-discipline and self-restraint
    are the heart of self-directed living.
    Where are we violating our own curfews?
    Ignoring our own boundaries? When are we going
    to start taking “No”
    from ourselves
    for an answer?
  51. 01/05/2016
    Let other people strive to have more,
    and to be somewhere else.
    Live to be where you are,
    enjoying what you have.
    Relish your life,
    and the experience of being alive. No matter where we are
    or what we have,
    it could be better in 10,000 ways—
    and worse.
    But, here we are,
    with a moment inviting us to be who we are—
    which is all we can ever be, Why not here, now?
  52. 01/06/2016
    “Thy will, not mine, be done,”
    sets us on a very unpredictable course. Do we mean it, is the question.
    Do we trust ourselves to this extent
    to our Other Self,
    To The Invisible Other—
    unknown but intuited and experienced
    as numinous and real? Are we willing to put ourselves in the hands
    of another whom we do not know? Who guides our boat on its path through the sea?
    It is one thing to hand over control
    at the end of our rope,
    when our backs are too the wall,
    and our front is to the Void,
    when we have run out of options,
    and have no choice but to throw ourselves
    upon the good graces of the unknown
    and hope for the best, but. To hand ourselves over in the thick
    of The Pretty Good Life,
    when things are going relatively well,
    and we have hopes of better things to come,
    right around the corner,
    any day now,
    and we are still awash in the glow of life as we like it—
    why would we do that? Why would we hand over
    something that is working well,
    or almost working well,
    for what could easily turn out to be
    the complete loss of everything
    we value and dream of? Who would say, “Thy will, not mine, be done”
    when things are going well enough,
    and nothing much is too bad wrong?
  53. 01/06/2016
    Jesus walked through crowds
    of those who were sound asleep,
    dreaming they were awake,
    and said, “Wake up!
    Come to your senses!
    See what you are doing!” And they replied,
    “Wake up, yourself, Sonny Boy!
    You’re headed down a rough road
    toward an end you won’t like!” That’s the way it always is
    in the confrontation between
    those who are awake
    and those who are asleep,
    dreaming they are awake. No one can wake anyone up.
    We live ourselves awake,
    if we wake up at all.
    Reality eventually wakes up
    those who can be awakened.
    Yet, reality can always be interpreted
    In ways that take the alarm clock into account,
    and allow the dream to continue.
    Dreaming we are awake, while sound asleep. Jesus left the dead to bury the dead.
    It’s the only option.
    The catch is, they killed him.
    Being awake is no sanctuary.
    Nothing trumps stupidity.
  54. 01/07/2016
    Happiness is getting out of the way. We think happiness is getting our way.
    Happiness is getting out of our way.
    Once we get out of our way,
    the Way opens before us,
    and things are right with us,
    until we come up with a better idea,
    and leave The Way
    in order to pursue our way.
  55. 01/08/2016
    Where do you go for comfort and solace—
    To calm yourself and restore your connection with soul? Drugs, sex and alcohol are popular attempts
    at the comfort and solace part of the equation, but.
    the backlash WHAM-O! impact takes them off the table
    and exposes them as the fraud they are. Exercise, though, is good.
    A long walk is about all the exercise I’m good for these days.
    And the right kind of music.
    I have a friend who says he can’t quiet down and be calm
    unless he’s playing his electric guitar.
    Another friend feels the same way about her drumming. Time immersed in nature does it for a lot of people.
    I like to sit by a lake and watch the ducks flying in and out.
    Or drive through the mountains.
    Sunrises and sunsets,
    Storms and clouds… It’s important to know what works for you,
    and go there, do that, as often as necessary,
    as a way of offsetting the draining effect
    of “the world (that) is too much with us, late and soon.” Where do you go for comfort and solace—
    To calm yourself and restore your connection with soul?
  56. 01/08/2016
    Our seeing is influenced by our emotions.
    So is our thinking.
    What we fear, want, don’t want, love, hate, desire, despise, etc.
    determines how we see
    and what we think about it.
    Feeling dictates seeing and thinking. We don’t know what we are looking at
    if it is so novel we have no feelings about it.
    We don’t know what to think about it
    if we don’t know how we feel about it. Feelings instruct our living,
    guide our behavior.
    If we are going to see and think,
    we have to learn to see what we are feeling,
    and think about it. We have to see how strongly we are influenced
    by how we feel about things,
    and think about it.
    We have to reflect on the place of feeling
    that we are unconscious of,
    and work to become conscious of it. Otherwise, we will be at the mercy of those
    who inflame our fears
    and teach us to hate all that is novel and strange.
  57. 01/08/2016
    When Alabama Chief Justice Roy Moore says, in effect,
    “If we don’t like a law,
    we shouldn’t have to obey it
    or enforce it,
    or have it forced on us,”
    And when Texas Governor Greg Abbott says, in effect,
    “If we don’t like a law,
    we shouldn’t have to obey it
    or enforce it,
    or have it forced on us,”
    And when a mob of Oregon ranchers
    takes over the office building
    of a national wildlife refuge
    and says, in effect, “if we don’t like a law,
    we shouldn’t have to obey it
    or enforce it, or
    have it forced on us,”
    They are committing treason,
    and pushing the country toward anarchy. If you vote for a Republican,
    you are voting for someone
    who would have no problem
    committing treason
    and joining in the push toward anarchy. The hope of the world
    is for every US citizen
    to register to vote,
    and vote in every election,
    no matter how small,
    and never vote for a Republican. That is our only hedge
    against treason and anarchy.
    Surely, you can see that.
  58.  01/09/2016 —
    Reality is contradiction. No one ever says “Welcome to the Real World”
    when things are running smoothly
    and going our way. The Real World is a world of conflict,
    opposition,
    negation,
    limits,
    boundaries,
    barriers,
    polarities,
    wars,
    walls
    and edges. Carl Jung said,
    “There is no coming to consciousness without pain.”
    We don’t wake up
    until required to do so
    by circumstances that won’t take
    our “NO!” for an answer,
    and impose their own “NO!” on us. Contradiction is a reality that requires recognition,
    that calls for reflection.
    Reflection enables realization.
    Realization is revelation,
    enlightenment,
    understanding,
    comprehension,
    transcendence,
    transformation, Rites of passage are
    encounters with contradiction,
    and serve as points of reflection
    and realization
    through all stages of development,
    leading to a new way
    of being in the world—
    the Real World—
    where other contradictions await
    along the path of the eternal process
    of becoming conscious,
    and growing up
    some more,
    again.
  59. 01/09/2016
    We are responsible for the world
    we create by our response to it.
    I’m not saying you are responsible
    for your husband’s abuse (Or, your wife’s).
    I’m saying you are responsible
    for the world you create
    by the way you respond to your husband’s (wife’s) abuse. There is the abuse,
    and there is the response to the abuse.
    And the response creates the world
    that opens up
    in response to the response. The response is the fulcrum,
    the turning point,
    the change element. If you want to change things,
    change the way you respond to things. You know your typical response pattern.
    When “this” happens,
    “that” always happens in response. Imagine ways you might change your response pattern.
    What keeps you locked in the same behavior?
    What would it take for you to be able to respond differently?
    You have to work all of this out in you mind
    before you effect it in your life. Imagine and rehearse, Kid, Imagine and rehearse.
    Play out scenarios in your imagination.
    Learn by imagining,
    by pretending.
    Put things in place there
    before trying it out in real time. If you can be different in your mind—
    and live with compassion
    and acceptance for yourself there—
    the transition from imagination
    to actual will be a natural flow. And working with a good therapist will help.
    All a part of being responsible for—
    and conscious of—
    the world we are creating
    by our response to it.
  60. 01/10/2016 —
    Being fully alive means living in ways
    that allow you to know
    what no one can tell you. Always doing what “Momma says,”
    or following the black footprints laid out
    by some self-help book,
    or doing what Oprah tells you to do,
    is going to put you in the thick of those
    who do not know their own mind,
    or trust themselves ever to do anything right. Those who know things worth knowing
    listen to themselves,
    follow their own heart,
    live out of their own authority,
    see with their own eyes,
    hear with their own ears,
    work out for themselves what it all means,
    decide for themselves what matters most,
    live in light of what is life for them,
    know how to raise the level
    of their own esprit de la vie,
    and do what they love doing. But, don’t listen to me tell you what to do.
    Listen to you.
  61. 01/10/2016
    Everything is a vehicle of revelation,
    recognized and received,
    or ignored,
    overlooked,
    discounted, It’s like this, she said,
    bending down,
    pointing to a daffodil
    growing from a crack
    in the pavement.
    “You can look at this flower
    and see it,
    Or not.” Eyes that see, see—
    the flower,
    the white rabbit,
    the universe in a grain of sand… Eyes that don’t see miss everything.
    Seeing what we look at,
    and looking at all of it,
    is the primary practice.
  62. 01/10/2016
    Blair Walsh missed a chip shot field goal
    in the waning moments
    of the Minnesota Vikings’
    wild-card play-off game
    with the Seattle Seahawks,
    and the Seahawks won the game 10 – 9. It was a resounding failure
    with everything on the line,
    viewed by football fans across the nation.
    He will never outlive the shame
    of his inability to do his job and win the game. He has only one remaining alternative.
    He has to forgive himself.
    Simple as that.
    He missed the field goal from point blank range.
    He can’t miss the follow up: FORGIVENESS!
    Surely, he won’t miss that!
    They won’t allow him to miss that, will they? We are all always missing it.
    The obvious choice goes unchosen
    by those who prefer a life of remorse,
    shame and sorrow.
    You know who I’m talking about now, don’t you?
    You look at him, you at look her,
    in the mirror every day, don’t you?
    You have to forgive yourself! Don’t delay it one minute more!
    “You Are Forgiven!”
    Say it!
    Mean it!
    And let it go.
    It. Go. I don’t care how big it was.
    It’s gone.
    It’s over.
    It’s kaput.
    So.
    Let.
    It.
    Be.
    Gone.
    Because. It. Is. You will never get better advice.
    Why not take it?
    Bigger screw-ups are possible
    for all of us in the future.
    Self-forgiveness now,
    for the ones in the past,
    is practice.
  63. 01/11/2016
    Members of the Christian Church
    are always wanting everybody
    to “Put Jesus first!”
    and to “Make Jesus the center of your life!”
    and to “Do What Jesus Would do!”
    Conveniently refusing to ask,
    “Who would Jesus kill because they were black?”
    Or, “Who would Jesus turn away because they were immigrants?”
    Or, “Who would Jesus chastise,
    ostracize,
    rebuke,
    humiliate,
    shame
    and hate
    because they were LGBTQ?” And, conveniently ignoring the blatant,
    impossible to overlook,
    fact that Jesus lived out of accord
    with every social convention
    and Book of Order of his day. To ask Jesus how he would do anything
    would be to beg the reply,
    “Not the way they say it ought to be done, Kid.
    Not the way they say it ought to be done!” Leaving us exactly where Jesus was,
    and would have us be in each situation
    that comes along—
    deciding what needs to be done
    and doing it because it needs to be done,
    then and there,
    without regard for any other consideration. Jesus raised the dead sometimes,
    and other times,
    he left the dead to bury the dead.
    Jesus forgave a guilty woman
    and cursed an innocent fig tree.
    Jesus fulfilled the law commanding,
    “Be perfect as God is perfect,”
    by breaking every law defining
    what that would be. To do it the way Jesus would do it,
    we have to do it the way
    WE would do it without worrying
    about what anybody,
    even Jesus,
    might think. With Jesus like that at the center of our life,
    even the Buddha
    and the Prophet
    are Jesus,
    not to mention Moses
    and Abraham. And the “Us vs THEM” craze
    is carried away as nothing more
    than dust in the wind
    of the Spirit that blows where it will—
    because we are all one
    with Jesus and each other
    in the situation that is unfolding
    before us right now,
    presenting us with an opportunity
    to do there
    what needs to be done
    as only we can do it.
  64. 01/11/2016
    Our life is our practice.
    We cannot live in ways
    that are at odds with our life
    and be alive on any level
    more vital and vibrant
    than being 98.6 and breathing. Vital signs have nothing to do with vitality.
    We can be alive on a level that has nothing to do with LIFE. Our LIFE is that which experiences
    and expresses
    vitality,
    meaning,
    joy,
    enthusiasm
    and connection
    with the heart of Life and Being. Our LIFE requires us
    to take up the practice of being alive—
    of finding our LIFE and living it—
    Throughout each day. We have consciously seek out
    what has life for us,
    live in ways that connect us
    with the things that have life for us,
    and work things
    that have life for us
    into the life we are living. The aim and goal is for
    the life that we are living
    to revolve around,
    flow to and from,
    the things that have life for us. Our life is our practice,
    And our practice
    is being alive in the life we are living. Where would you place yourself
    on a Vitality Scale,
    With 1 being mostly dead
    and 10 being vibrantly,
    fully,
    alive? What can you do
    in the next 24 hours
    to begin moving up the scale?
  65. 01/12/2016
    If Mozart could have lectured about,
    and demonstrated,
    his art so that anybody
    with the proper amount
    of determination
    and time spent at the task
    could have composed as Mozart composed… Would it have been right for Mozart
    to duplicate himself a thousand times over? Would it have been right for the Duplicates
    to forego their own particular gifts and life
    for the sake of being another Mozart? What have all those Elvis impersonators given up,
    in their lifelong longing to be The King? All this, of course, is about Jesus,
    and how wrong it is to forsake ourselves
    for the sake of doing it like Jesus would do it. Jesus did it like Jesus would do it.
    It’s been done.
    Duplicates of Jesus are not Jesus.
    Anymore than Elvis impersonators are Elvis. If we are going to do it like Jesus did it,
    we are going to have to do it like we would do it.
    Exactly like we would do it,
    down to the most minute detail. We have to be who we are
    whether we want to be or not.
    It would not be right to be anyone else.
  66. 01/12/2016
    The word at the center of all practice is: Compromise is the path to the Land of Promise.
    Compromise is the nature of the journey.
    We all walk two—or many more—paths at the same time.
    How well we do that tells the tale. The Dalai Lama preaches non-violence and compassion
    and has armed body guards.
    Compromise is the path between conflicts, polarities.
    We have to make our compromises conscious,
    or live a lie. When we live fully,
    authentically,
    honestly,
    we live transparent to ourselves,
    and consciously maintain the tension
    of the opposing contradictions,
    bearing in our body
    the pain of the “cross” of opposites. The easy way to do it is to renounce
    our ties with the world
    and the world’s claim upon us,
    and move into a monastery,
    or, better, into a cave in the Himalayas,
    and tell people how to structure a life of holiness
    in the world we left behind. If it can be done,
    we should stay there and do it:
    spouse,
    kids,
    pets,
    mortgages,
    car payments,
    jobs,
    income tax,
    “the full catastrophe!” Give me a Bodhisattva who has done it that way,
    And stop talking
    of those who drift down from their retreat
    to deliver a Sutra when they feel like it
    as though holiness can exist apart from
    the hell of continual compromise! Tevya remains a master apart from “the masters”!
    and, he is fictional—
    yet, the model of how to do it.
  67. 01/12/2016
    We have to have the freedom
    to find our own life and live it.
    Our spirit demands it.
    Our circumstances disfavor it.
    There you are.
    The stage is set.
    We step onto it and play our part—
    The one assigned to us by our circumstances,
    and the one required of us by our spirit. The Army has a term for it:
    “Defect in place!”
    We don’t have to go AWOL,
    or mount armed resistance,
    to have an active life in the underground movement
    of soul coming forth in our life. We only have to bear the pain
    of the conflict consciously,
    as we pay lip service to the one
    while living in unwavering allegiance to the other— Making sure we put the right one in its proper place in our life.
  68. 01/12/2016
    I hate disturbances in the flow of life. Intrusion.
    Inconsideration.
    Insensitivity.
    Refusal to cooperate.
    Sabotage.
    Destruction.
    Mayhem.
    The Abomination of Desolation… And I have no idea of how to guarantee
    the good faith participation of everyone in life
    for the mutual benefit of all living things.
    And, therein lies my problem. We have to do our work,
    and trust our neighbors to do theirs.
    We all need better neighbors.
    I wonder where that neighborhood
    is to be found.
  69. 01/13/2016
    We spend a lot of time getting things in place.
    If someone asks us what we are doing with our life,
    we can say simply, “I’m getting things in place.”
    If they say, “Well, it doesn’t seem like much is happening,”
    we can say, “That’s the way it is when you’re getting things in place.” It is important, though,
    that we are actually getting things in place.
    We can’t just be waiting for things to fall into place.
    For magic to happen,
    for some Prince Charming to drive up,
    or some Sleeping Beauty to plop down in our path. In order to be getting things in place,
    we have to believe in what we are doing.
    If someone asks us what we believe in,
    we have to say we believe in what we are doing.
    And if they ask us what we are doing,
    we say, “I’m getting things in place,”
    and mean it.
  70. 01/13/2016
    Give your hands what they want to do—
    what they love to do—
    and get out of the way. Your body knows what to do.
    Listen to your body
    and get out of the way. We are always dismissing our hands,
    and not giving them what they want to do.
    We are always dismissing our feet,
    and not going where they want to go. Our hands know.
    Our feet know.
    Our place is to get out of the way
    and know what our hands and feet know. We think our heads know it all.
    We think our intellect is the center of knowing.
    Our intellect is for putting the pieces together.
    It has no idea what the pieces are.
    We have to listen to know.
    We have to feel to know.
    We have to sense to know.
    And trust what our senses tell us. To do that we have to get out of the way.
    When we get out of the way,
    there is The Way,
    with our name on it,
    wondering what took so long.
  71. 01/13/2016
    The place of our intellect
    (the predominant function of our left hemisphere)
    Would be that of discernment,
    discretion,
    observation,
    reflection,
    realization,
    judgment,
    evaluation,
    processing,
    and deciding. The place of instinct and intuition—
    Of feeling and sensing
    (the predominant functions of our right hemisphere)
    is to grasp the allness of the situation,
    and tell the left hemisphere what needs doing
    so the left hemisphere
    can figure out the best way to do it. Neither commands
    or directs the other,
    and neither can
    ignore or dismiss the other.
    Both work together
    for the good of the whole. We have to know what all we know
    and what to do about it, with it,
    so as to serve the common good—
    and live in the best interests
    of all living things.
  72. 01/13/2016
    We could take medication—
    Illegal, prescription
    or over the counter—
    and/or, drink alcohol straight from the bottle,
    to enable us to live our life,
    (or bear it), We could change our life.
    The great difficulty involved
    in making the choice to change
    suggests to me
    that we don’t think change is possible,
    or that we like the idea of change,
    but don’t have what it takes
    to see change through. The burden of change is great,
    and the life that change
    would result in is not attractive.
    Thus, we don’t opt for change. We need a different way of thinking about life,
    assessing life,
    understanding life.
    Life is not automatic.
    When does life begin?
    Not at conception.
    Not at birth.
    Not at a six figure income.
    Not, Not, Not… Life begins when we wake up to life beyond—
    and quite other than—
    our idea of life.
    We have to change our idea of life
    and, open ourselves to the experience
    of life in a way
    that would make any sacrifice
    in order to live it.
  73. 01/14/2016
    Our Program for our Life
    quickly becomes a Pogrom
    when one hemisphere (usually the left)
    overrides the other hemisphere (usually the right). When we have a reason for everything we do,
    and a schedule for doing it,
    and we can’t fit in a minute
    of unstructured,
    unscheduled, time—
    or bear the idea of being off schedule,
    or having nothing to do—
    we are saying
    “Damn the shoreline!
    FULL SPEED AHEAD!” Who is bearing the pain
    of our refusal
    to feel the pain
    of our life?
    Who is the symptom carrier in our family? Who is the sickly one,
    the one who is forcing us off schedule,
    into waiting rooms
    without end?
    It could be the dog. What are we saying to ourselves—
    what is being said to us—
    that we aren’t heeding? We have to notice.
    Every time we dismiss,
    discount,
    overlook,
    ignore
    anything in our life.
    And bear the pain
    of knowing.
  74. 01/14/2016
    The Hero’s Journey
    to the Land of Promise,
    Resurrection,
    New Life,
    Enlightenment
    and Peace,
    Or wherever it is
    you think we’re going
    to be when we get there—
    winds through the heart of Gethsemane
    and across the face of Golgotha,
    For each one of us,
    time after time,
    across all times and places,
    throughout our life.
    It only takes living
    to know it is so.
  75. 01/14/2016
    We get to what has always been called God
    through our symptoms and our dreams. Both symptoms and dreams
    are means the invisible world uses
    to get our attention
    and connect us with our life.
    Our life flows from,
    and leads to,
    the Numen that has always been called God. If we want to know God,
    we have to live our way there—
    by aligning ourselves with the life that is ours to live,
    that only we can live—
    and bringing it to life within the life we are living. No theology,
    no doctrine,
    no dogma,
    no talk, talk, talk… Just finding our life and living it.
    And, like that, there’s God,
    laughing because it’s taken us so long to get it.
  76. 01/15/2016If you are going to worship anything,
    worship your life. Worship the invisible, intangible, connections
    between your heart—
    the heart of who you are,
    the center of your life and being—
    and the visible,
    tangible,
    actual,
    real,
    physical
    expressions,
    or ways of incarnating
    you in the world of time and space. You are a poem.
    You live your life
    and write the poem for all to see. You bring you forth
    in the way you live.
    Your life is a work of art
    through which you become
    realized in the medium
    of material reality
    by the way you consciously
    align yourself inner with outer. You bring the Numen—
    the unspeakable,
    unsayable truth
    of you at the core of you—
    to life in your life,
    and create the miracle
    of you in time and place. You worship life
    by being/doing/exhibiting
    the life you are.
  77. 01/15/2016If you are as vulnerable
    as the rest of us are,
    you will do anything
    to be able to exercise control
    over something.
    And we all need
    to recognize
    how much we need
    to be in charge,
    because we are not
    over any of the things
    that matter. We have to come to terms with—
    make our peace with—
    our vulnerability. We have to be as vulnerable as we are.
    which is totally,
    absolutely,
    unconditionally,
    eternally No power.
    No control.
    Over any of the important things. We are always as though
    we just stepped out of the womb.
    We have to make our peace with that,
    be at home with it,
    work with it. Because that is where we are.
    However, we fight against
    the very idea of Terminal Vulnerability
    all the way to the grave. We live out our life in denial,
    At war with the very idea
    that we should be vulnerable. Being fully alive begins
    with our being as vulnerable as we are—
    and working with it
    to be who we are,
    where we are,
    how we are, How we do that is
    the full scope
    of the Hero’s Journey. Coming to terms with our vulnerability
    is the essence
    of that trip. Mindfulness leads the way.
  78. 01/15/2016
    We cannot be as vulnerable as we are
    without living out of a collaborative relationship
    with the force emanating
    from the center of ourselves. Inner alignment is the key
    to handling all outer threats
    to our peace and well-being. The Buddha, seated under the Bo Tree,
    was grounded within,
    at one with himself,
    unmoved by all that would unseat him—
    and that remained so throughout his life. Finding our center is the same thing
    as finding our life.
    Our life flows from our center,
    our center expresses itself in our life. Our vulnerability requires us to seek our center,
    which enables us to live our life
    in the face of all that would engulf us. Find the bedrock,
    the foundation stone.
    Live from there.
  79. 01/16/2016
    A National Parks Service motto says,
    “Your safety is your responsibility.” We create the world we live in
    by the way we live in it.
    The key is to live in it consciously—
    mindfully, compassionately, aware
    of who we are
    and what we are doing
    and what its implications are. We have to live transparent to ourselves
    in an opaque and shape-shifting world. People will not be who they say they are.
    We will be blindsided in 10,000 ways.
    We have to live so as to not blindside ourselves.
    It’s hard enough with the lack of cooperation
    from our circumstances.
    We cannot refuse,
    or fail,
    to cooperate with ourselves. We have to be able to count on ourselves
    by living in a good faith relationship with ourselves.
    The closer we are truthfully,
    knowingly,
    aligned within,
    the better goes our life
    on the heaving waves
    of the wine dark sea.
  80. 01/16/2016
    Do things that are unheard of!
    Live in ways no one would expect!
    Be YOU in exceptionally creative,
    unique
    and beautiful ways! Invent yourself anew in each situation
    that cries out for what you have to offer! Why disappear into the usual fare?
    Why hold anything back? Spend yourself completely each day,
    And fall into bed
    dreaming of ways
    to do it again tomorrow.
  81. 01/17/2016
    Rise!
    Shine!
    Live to bring forth in each day—
    in each moment of the day—
    in each situation as it arises—
    the wonder, amazement and joy
    that babies and toddlers,
    puppies, kittens and colts
    bring forth simply by being who they are. We don’t have to TRY to be something special!
    we only have to get out of the way
    and be who we are,
    without being underly or overly concerned
    about what anyone is thinking,
    or what it might look like
    on our cumulative record,
    or how something else
    might spot us more of an advantage,
    or enable us to better exploit the circumstances
    for our immediate good and lasting benefit. Just live your life as only you can!
    Find what is to be enjoyed and enjoy it!
    Find what is to be loved and love it!
    Find what is to be mourned and mourn it!
    Find what is to be suffered and suffer it!
    Be what is needed in each here and now of your living!
    And let the outcome be the outcome!
  82. 01/17/2016 —
    It takes stillness,
    silence
    and solitude
    to achieve the level
    of awareness
    required to reflect
    on our experience
    to the point of acquiring
    new realizations. We have to see what we look at
    from all sides,
    and enter the dance
    of holding all things
    in our awareness
    without evaluation
    or opinion. We cannot do that amid
    distractions
    and interruptions. People have their best ideas in the shower.
    There is a reason for that.
    Showers are generally
    the quietest,
    stillest
    and most solitary
    time of the day. We also have revelations in our sleep
    for the same reason. We increase our chances
    for reflection
    and realization
    by working time
    for quiet,
    focused,
    attention
    into our day. If you don’t think you
    have anything to reflect on,
    just be quiet
    and still
    for twenty minutes,
    here and there. Watch what happens
    without disruption
    or interference.
    Follow the thread of associations
    and see where it goes. If it helps to write it out,
    write it out.
  83. 01/18/2016
    We can have too many responsibilities
    to be responsible for anything.
    To have fewer responsibilities
    is to be more responsible. Taking refuge in many responsibilities
    is to avoid the work,
    pain
    and suffering
    that characterize our service
    to our primary responsibility: We are to bring
    our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    to life in our life. Our life revolves around
    incarnating our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    within the circumstances
    and context of our life. We live in allegiance to—
    in honor of—
    our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    in all that we do. We live devoted
    to the experience of
    the Numen within
    and to its expression in our life. This is our work,
    our practice.
    Everything else falls
    into place around this
    core responsibility,
    R\revolves around it,
    flows from it. In order to carry out our responsibility
    to our Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    we have to arrange
    our life to take it into account. We have to attend Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self
    throughout each day.
    We have to dance with
    Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    play with Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    discern Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self,
    be Heart/Soul/Psyche/Self—
    in our coming out
    and our going in
    from this day forward

01/19/2016 —

Theology and doctrine
have taken us as far as they can.

Explaining things that defy explanation,
making things literal
that can only remain forever metaphorical,
giving answers
without allowing them
to raise more questions,
saying again and again
what cannot be said at all,
telling us to “have faith”
through all of its internal contradictions
(Never mind the external ones
it doesn’t begin to address!)
past all of its impasses
beyond all of its obstructions

(“Faith in what?” we say
“Faith in what we tell you
Even though it makes no sense.
That’s what faith is, you know,
Believing things that make no sense!”)

bringing true the old prophesy:
“They have healed
the wound of my people lightly,
Saying, ‘Peace, peace,’
where there is no peace,”
making all things shallow,
insipid,
inane,
killing the souls they pretend to save.

Their only talking point is this:

“Without us,
there is only the empty wasteland
and the Void!”

And this:

“You will be sorry if you do not
heed our warning,
and believe what we tell you—
especially that part about the 10%!!!”

It is well past time
that we lay them to rest,
And take our chances
on the truth of our own experience.

We will discover—
If we seek the way
seekers have sought
through the ages—
the empty wasteland
is filled with the presence
of what has always been called God,
and the Void is nothing more
than the absence
of what we have been told was
lasting truth of greatest value.

And we will find there
wonderful silence
were we can hear at last
the beating of our own heart,
and see the light
that shines in the darkness,
and know the birthplace
of life and peace.

  1. 01/19/2016 —
    Retirement invites
    reflection,
    rumination,
    realization,
    sitting quietly,
    working things out,
    Making connections,
    seeing how things fit,
    being amazed. We all find our own way
    to wherever we will be
    when we get there. No one can hand us a map,
    a tour guide,
    an itinerary with check points
    and time and distance calculations
    for us to gauge how well we are doing. The first half of life is spent
    figuring out what to do to pay the bills.
    The second half of life is spent
    figuring out what we pay the bills to do. We sit quietly,
    and reflect on what we
    have done with our life,
    and imagine what we might yet
    do in the time left for living.
  2. 01/20/2016
    We all are numinous at the core.
    We all carry the Mystery—
    the Numen— There is more to us than meets the eye,
    any eye,
    even our own.
    There is more to us,
    each of us,
    than can be said. Not one of us has ever had a motive
    that we fully understood.
    We don’t know why we like what we like,
    and don’t like what we don’t like,
    or want what we want,
    or do what we do. We are lost to ourselves.
    cast away from ourselves,
    exclude ourselves from our company,
    ban ourselves,
    shun ourselves,
    ostracize ourselves,
    because nothing good can come from us,
    or be found anywhere near us,
    we have to get away from ourselves
    to have a chance. And we know it.
    Healing begins
    when we recognize our place
    in our own displacement,
    and turn to ourselves
    to be reconciled
    and take up the work
    of becoming whole.
  3. 01/20/2016
    Black people have always recognized,
    faced,
    and lived with the fact
    of domestic terrorism
    in the shape of white supremacy
    that is now crossing racial lines
    to take a more political form—
    supported by the deafening silence
    of Republican Party candidates
    for the presidency,
    and by elected Republican Party
    members of congress
    and state legislatures nationwide. The torching of the Lamborghini
    owned by the Baton Rouge contractor
    hired to remove 4 Confederate statues
    from New Orleans
    (who has since backed out of the contract)
    cries out to be denounced and redressed. Republican leaders across the country
    have to be unequivocal and relentless
    in their opposition
    to the kind of atmosphere
    that cultivates the expression
    of hatred,
    racism,
    extremism
    and white supremacy. Their failure to do that
    exemplifies who they are
    at the level of their hearts—
    and who they will be. Therefore, right-thinking people
    of voting age in the United States
    must register to vote,
    vote in every election,
    small and large,
    and NOT vote for a Republican
    or a member of the Tea Party
    running as an independent
    in any of those elections. Voting is our only tool
    in creating a future
    characterized by civility
    and its concern for the common good
    of all people—
    which is how a democracy founded
    “of the people, by the people, for the people”
    should be. Register to vote. And don’t vote for a Republican.
    In all elections,
    great and small.
  4.  01/21/2016
    We live to make the connections between worlds.
    We live in this world as envoys, as incarnations,
    of the Numen at the center—
    at the heart—
    of us all. We live in this world
    as though we are a world a part—
    as though we are from another world,—
    as “strangers in a strange land.” And carry the cross
    of contradiction, separation,
    estrangement. Uniting worlds
    by exposing incompatibilities
    and dichotomies—
    bringing, not peace,
    but a sword. Creating divisions.
    bearing the pain.
    healing wounds
    that make us whole,
    and unite us
    with the source of all
    at the center of ourselves.
  5.  01/21/2016
    The spiritual path is not the way to what we want.
    There is no deal:
    We give to God, God gives to us.
    Thinking there is such a deal
    is the fundamental problem
    at the foundation of all bad religion. Give to Get.
    The basis of every bad religion ever.
    What can we do to make God happy
    so God will give us
    that land flowing with milk and honey,
    where everyone lives out their life
    and lives in good faith with everyone else? Baruch held out his hand
    and asked for favors for being faithful,
    and got his life as war booty. That’s as much as any of us get.
    We have to square up with that
    before stepping onto the spiritual path.
    It is not the way to our idea
    of having it made. The way that is the way
    is the way of being who we are needed to be
    by the context and circumstances of our life—
    in each situation as it arises—
    with nothing in it for us
    beyond the satisfaction of a job well done. Why do it?
    We get our life as a prize of war.
    If that doesn’t interest you,
    you don’t understand what it means to be alive. There is only one way to find out.
    Be who you are needed to be
    in the here and now of your living,
    and step onto the path.
  6. 01/22/2016
    Where do you go to be vulnerable and safe? We cannot be transparent to ourselves
    without being vulnerable and safe.
    The proper ratio
    of vulnerability and safety
    is essential to wholeness, health and life. We can be too much on guard
    for our own good.
    We have to be able to relax,
    be known
    and be safe,
    in order to experience
    and explore our life. All knowing flows from,
    and leads to,
    free and open inquiry
    in an atmosphere of safety and vulnerability. Where do you go to be vulnerable and safe?
    To experience both safety and vulnerability?
    To be free?
  7. 01/22/2016
    It is about getting—
    and keeping—
    our ratios right.
    We live on a continuum,
    between poles,
    in every aspect of life. There is too close
    and too distant,
    Caring too much
    and not caring enough,
    Too many calories,
    not enough.
    Too much exercise,
    not enough. Like that.
    Around the clock.
    Throughout our life.
    All our life long. We live to live from the center,
    away from the extremes—
    Except when an extreme
    is necessary to counteract,
    counterbalance,
    the opposite extreme. We are thermostats, of sorts,
    keeping all facets of our life
    within a normal distribution curve. It helps, I think,
    check me out on this
    in your own experience,
    (Balancing me with you)
    To take up this work—
    the fundamental work of being human—
    of maintaining right ratios across our life
    consciously. To do it with awareness.
    With compassionate mindfulness.
    To know what we are doing.
    And do it without hesitation
    or loss of balance,
    because that is what humans do.
    We live from the center,
    between extremes,
    grounded in the heart of all matters,
    for the good of the whole.
  8. 01/23/2016
    Living in accord with the Tao
    is putting ourselves
    in the service
    of the Self
    at the center of ourselves
    and all things. It is being clear about who
    we are
    and who we need to be,
    and what is happening,
    and what needs to be done about it,
    in each situation as it arises— getting out of the way with our
    wishes,
    hopes,
    fears
    and desires,
    and assisting what needs to happen
    as a blessing and a grace
    (which may, or may not,
    be seen and recognized as such
    by anyone there,
    including ourselves). Jesus was crucified.
    Lao Tzu lived in exile.
    Don’t be looking
    for peeled grapes
    on satin pillows
    as a reward
    for living in accord with the Tao. Let your alignment with the Center
    be reward enough,
    be all the reward you need.
  9. 01/24/2016
    The Bundy Gang
    is the latest in a long line
    of outlaws in the Old West,
    and their ilk is not limited
    to a geographical location. Terrorists and thugs
    hide out under white sheets
    in the Deep South,
    and call themselves War Lords
    and the Islamic State
    in the Middle East,
    Boko Haram in Nigeria,
    Are referred to as the Cosa Nostra
    in Italy and beyond,
    and the Drug Cartel in Central America. It’s the same Do It My Way Or Die theme
    everywhere you go.
    The backwash of civilization.
    Thugism in the form of the Goths,
    Vandals
    Huns
    and Genghis Kann
    is always at the gates,
    and behind the scenes,
    working to tear up what is being laid down
    and destroy what is being achieved and created. Maybe we could talk to them.
    Ask them to reconsider.
    Reform their ways.
    Be nice.
    Or give everybody a gun. We never get far enough away from
    the Shootout at the OK Corral,
    and sow seeds of discord and discontent
    with every advancement
    and improvement imagined
    and implemented. There is always something to not like,
    and someone to not like it
    and devise ways to blow it up.
    The dance dances on
    all through the eons of time
    to music we can’t hear or resist.
  10. 01/24/2016
    After the physical needs
    of food, clothing and shelter are met,
    comes along the spiritual (because it is “of the spirit,”
    “of the heart”)
    need for meaning. Here’s one for you:
    Money is not meaningful. Here’s another one for you:
    More money is not more meaningful. “What is money for?”
    is the question.
    “How is money to be spent
    in the service of meaning?” Where are you going to find meaning? Here’s a hint for you:
    What have been the most
    meaningful experiences of your life?
    The Top 10 meaningful experiences? That should provide you
    with all the direction
    you need in your search for meaning. But, in case, you are still wallowing in confusion,
    here’s another hint for you:
    Where are you most creative in your life?
    Where does your imagination come most into play?
    When is the last time you did something creative, imaginative? If you want to find meaning in your life,
    you have to live in ways that are meaningful,
    you have to do things that are meaningful—
    the things that make your heart sing
    and your little feet dance. Often.
  11. 01/25/2016 —
    No one can tell us what is meaningful,
    or where meaning is to be found. Meaning is personal to the core.
    Something is meaningful if it is meaningful to US. We can appreciate the fact that it is meaningful to others,
    but our relationship to it will never be what it is for them—
    unless and until it becomes for us as it is for them. The search meaning is the search
    for what is meaningful for, to, us.
    A meaningful life is one lived in close association
    with what has meaning in life for us. It is our place to be aware
    of where meaning is found
    and to be devoted
    to what has meaning for us. We cannot allow ourselves
    to be stripped of life’s meaning
    by the ridicule of those
    who are not moved by what moves us. We have to guard
    what is meaningful when we find it,
    and develop our relationship with it,
    whether or not anyone shares our interest. Alan Watts once asked Joseph Campbell,
    “Joe, what form does your yoga take?”
    Campbell replied, “I underline passages.”
    Remain loyal to what has meaning for you.
    It will take you to interesting places,
    and you will live an interesting life.
    Of interest, that is, to you,
    and you are the one that counts the most
    when it comes to living your life.
  12.  01/25/2016
    We have to rethink everything
    we have been told and led to assume.
    The cultural orientations toward
    wealth,
    privilege,
    exploitation,
    profiteering,
    entertainment,
    consumption,
    and an ever-increasing standard of living
    are fictions that cannot sustain life. Religion’s affiliation with,
    and support of,
    the cultural fictions disqualifies it
    as “the voice of God,”
    and leaves us in the position
    of finding our own way
    through all that is false
    to the treasure hard to find—
    which is the trustworthy
    foundation,
    source,
    and legitimate goal of our life. Our search is the quest for life,
    for that which is worth our life,
    and provides life to all who find,
    and align themselves with,
    the Way of Life. To find our way there,
    we have to rethink everything
    we have been told
    and led to assume. Our problem is knowing
    what to make of our experience.
    Things are not always what they seem to be.
    How do we know what to think? Our understanding depends
    upon the quality of our interpretation,
    which is influenced by 10,000 things.
    We must understand that our understanding is
    hypothetical,
    conditional,
    incomplete,
    awaiting further clarity. Wait and see.
    Time will tell.
    Do not rush to judgment. Listen.
    Act
    and evaluate the outcome.
    Test your hypotheses.
    Adjust your interpretation
    to take the evidence into account.
    Allow reflection upon experience
    to create new realizations.
    Allow reality to adjust your
    interpretation/understanding of reality.
    Live your way to the truth
    of how things are and also are.
    One step at a time.
  13. 01/26/2016
    We have to rethink everything,
    And we don’t want to rethink anything.
    We want to be told what to think, and do.
    And, therein lies the problem. Each of us has to do the work of growing up
    And becoming who we are.
    None of us is interested in the task.
    The Way of Life winds through
    Eden,
    Gethsemane
    and Golgotha
    before arriving at the Empty Tomb—
    and none of those way-stops is literal,
    but all of them are real,
    and waiting. We want a shortcut to Glory Land,
    and seek out leaders who will take us there,
    ignoring the fact that it is a life-long journey,
    and we find our own way—
    taking cues from the ones who have gone before,
    understanding what they mean when they say,
    “There is nothing to know
    that has not always been known!
    There is only doing
    what has always been done!”
  14.  01/26/2016
    We live to be transparent to ourselves—
    To know who we are,
    and who we also are,
    and how it is with us on every level. Being transparent
    to our contradictions and polarities
    could immobilize us, but.
    Being transparent to our paralysis
    enables us to transcend our impotence,
    see what needs to be done,
    and do it. Being transparent to transcendence—
    To that which transcends us
    and to our ability to transcend ourselves,
    our context,
    our circumstances,
    our chances,
    and all that would inhibit us,
    and render us incapable of acting—
    allows us to live in accord with,
    aligned with,
    the Self at the center of ourselves,
    and to assist in the production
    of unimaginable wonders. All because we took up the work
    of knowing who we are,
    and who we also are,
    and how it is with us, on every level.
  15. 01/26/2016
    We stumble our way along all along the way,
    bumping into strange guides,
    tripping over false assumptions,
    falling into deep pits
    of squirming inferences,
    crashing into one dead end after another,
    taking wrong turns
    that take us exactly where we need to be,
    ignoring all warning signs,
    yet heeding bad advice,
    losing our way
    to be saved again and again
    by grace and good luck
    (And where does that line lie?),
    wishing there were a
    more expedient and cost-effective way—
    like maybe a pill to swallow,
    or a short book to read,
    wondering why it takes
    not knowing what we are doing
    to know what we are doing
    when we say we don’t know what we are doing,
    and be fine with that,
    with just listening,
    just looking,
    just waiting to see,
    not knowing what
    we are looking for,
    waiting on.
  16. 01/27/2016
    There is a difference between wanting to be a photographer
    and having to be one,
    between wishing you could take pretty pictures,
    and being unable to leave one untaken. The dance dances us,
    the song sings us,
    the music won’t leave us alone.
    A lot of people have cameras
    and don’t know how to use them
    in order to make the most of them.
    They have no idea what
    the buttons,
    knobs
    and settings are for,
    and have never read the manual,
    and don’t intend to. They have a camera,
    but they are not a photographer. A lot of people drive through scenes,
    past photographs,
    every day,
    without seeing what they are missing. They think photographs
    reside somewhere else,
    like the Grand Canyon,
    and hope to go there one day,
    and maybe they do. They drive up to the view points and take a picture,
    and post them online,
    but they never saw the scene,
    and they don’t see the picture. A lot of people want to be a cowboy,
    And buy the hat,
    and the jeans,
    and maybe the boots,
    and the spurs,
    but they don’t have even one cow,
    and have never been bucked off of a horse,
    and never will be. Anybody can be a photographer,
    just like anybody can be a cowboy.
    Or a stand-up bass player.